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Tuesday, August 7, 2012, 9:48pm

We are just continuing on...

This Friday, Katey has her yearly Long Term Survivors check up. It is hard to even fathom all that she has been through to see her today. What an incredible journey it has been~

Since last year's update, Katey has finished a wonderful first year of high school. She managed almost all A's while keeping up with color guard and a year on the POMs/Dance team. We did get to sneak away on a caribbean cruise for spring break so that Katey could enjoy SCUBA her newest passion!

This summer began with a bang as she spent 2 weeks away with her cancer kids camp family. Next came Dance camp where her Varsity team took 1st place in competition! That was quickly followed by a full week of band camp. She will again be a Color guard for the Marching Band this year!

There is just another 3 weeks of summer left to enjoy swimming, sleepovers, and hanging out with friends and then she starts her sophmore year.

The start of the school year also marks changes to our family dynamics as we send off our eldest to the University of Minnesota...Just another chapter in our family's life...

Within the flurry that is our lives, we know that we live stronger, rooted deeply in Faith that no matter what is around the corner that He has us in the palm of His strong hands. We pray you feel Him with you in whatever journey you may be in as well...

We keep you all in our thoughts and prayers always--our strong courageous kids, young adults, sweet angels, and their incredible families we've met along the way...

God's LovePeace-n-Hugs to you all! <3

Tuesday, January 4, 2011 10:24 PM CST

Happy New Year everyone!

Hope you've all enjoyed a Joyous Christmas! It's unbelievable how time flies...here we are coming up to the 8th year anniversary of when Katey was diagnosed. She just went upstairs for the night. A regular ball of energy, so full of life and promise...I would've never guessed this to be our future that day January 24, 2003, yet here we are today.

Katey is enjoying 8th grade and looking to finish this last semester of Middle School strong :) She has had a few bouts with the common cold, no doubt from school, but thankfully no other illness. This first semester has gone by so quick.

We did manage to go for a quick family trip to NYC. In 4 days we did a lot of sightseeing and touring and then finished with the Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade to cheer on the performance of our son Jon (trumpet) and the Northstar Marching Band! It was a whirlwind but what a fantastic time we all had :)

Katey enjoys whirlwind-type activity. She has been busy with POMs practices, performances, competitions, sleepovers, and fun times with her gal pals. She has also been enjoying her ski club and is scheduled for another trip this Thursday. She most recently enjoyed skiing and other great activities at One Step at a Time Winter camp for cancer kids. She so loves her special group of friends but is also quick to befriend any 'new kids,' they are one big family there!

Gosh we have so very much to be grateful for, so many blessings and it can be this way...unfortunately this has not been everyone's path. My heart bleeds to hear of a new diagnosis or to know there are so many parents whose child has gone ahead on their heavenly journey...We will Never forget them...May 2011 be THE Year for a Forever Cure~

Hug your kids and loved ones tight and never forget to let them know how very much you love them...

God's Peace and Blessings to you all, Katey and family

Wednesday, August 18, 2010 6:08 PM CDT

Its been so long since we've updated that I've forgotten the password!

I'm pleased to say Kate is doing very well and is now 13yo--an official teenager! In July she had her "Next Steps" Oncology check up. Now 7 years post treatment and all is well :)

Its been a very busy summer. Kate had a week fom the end of school before she left for camp. She enjoyed a week at OSAAT (One Step at a Time Oncology camp) and is now officially licensed to Scuba dive! She is headed for a diver's reunion in IL the end of this month.

After camp, Her POM/Dance Team performed in the 4th of July parade. Just a week later, she was out of town again but this time with the rest of us!

On July 8th, we flew to Seattle and enjoyed a few days in the area before heading off on our 7day cruise to Alaska! We all had such a fabulous time :) Best of all, Dad finally fulfilled a promise he made to Katey (after her wonderful 2004 Make a Wish trip) that we would go on another cruise again. Its hard to find the words to describe all we saw and experienced so for now we will just share pictures :)

A few days after our return, Katey was off to UDA Dance Camp. Her Dance team was awesome and took 1st place for Middle School Routine! Katey also received 4 gold ribbons for 'drill-downs' and all Blue ribbons for her 3 performances. All of this was during severe storms and the worst flooding the area had ever seen. To top it off, the dorms they were staying at busted a steam pipe and our girls weren't allowed back to their rooms until midnight. I was pretty proud of the way the girls managed so very well through all the adversity. The team was invited to Orlando to perform at the Capitol One Bowl for pre-game and to compete at UDA dance Nationals. We'll see...

Since Dance camp, Katey has been spending lots of time with her friends just hangin out, having sleepovers, bouncing on the trampoline, and swimming lots!

There is just shy of 2 weeks left before school starts for our young lady. She is chasing down the summer but looking forward to her last year of Middle School as an 8th grader.

I can't count our blessings enough. All I know is that each and every day is a blessing~~~Hug all your kids and loved ones and spend the time to let them know how very much you care.

Peace, Love, and Prayers to all our Angel friends families, we will never forget you or your beautiful child, and Love to all who remain cancer free, living life to the full, giving hope, and continuing to pray with us.

September is childhood cancer awareness month, please pray with me for The Cure so that no other little ones and their families would ever have to walk this path again...

Saturday, November 21, 2009 7:45 AM CST

***Happy Thanksgiving to all our friends and family***

I can't believe the Holidays are around the corner...I hope you all are able to count your many blessings in whatever trials and hardships there may be...

Things have been fast-paced here as usual. The things I fear seem to be what Katey enjoys :) She is loving Middle School--even more friends, new experiences, new independances, and lovin her POMs Dance Family. She has adjusted well and is maintaining all As and Bs even with all her extra curriculars, including her electronic life. She has a cellphone in one pocket and her ipod touch in the other--its all about texting and facebooking :)

The boys have been busy as well. Jon just completed a wonderful season of Cross Country. The boys and girls Varsity teams made it to state so he cheered on his friends. Jon's HS Marching Band won the State AAAA Marching Band title for the 3rd year. They will be performing for the Macy's Day Thanksgiving Parade next year!

Sam is in Middle School with Kate. He finished another great season of football and is looking forward to HS next year. He is enjoying wrestling now and thankfully I can stomach that a little easier.

The weather has been fairly mild the past several weeks and we still haven't seen a layer of snow--not that I'm complaining. Katey managed to get us to buy into letting her join the ski club and the equipment that goes with it (early christmas present!) She loved skiing so much that week in February at Park City, Utah that she has been so excited for the snow to fly!

Katey did see snow in the Grand Canyon in late October during the Dude Ranch trip. She just loves her OSAAT cancer kids family. She has already signed up for the upcoming Winter Camp and is hoping she'll be able to go back to Utah in February.

This weekend is our city's holiday parade. Jon will be marching with the band and Katey's POM/Dance team will be performing--Thanks Tony and Cherie for lending us your convertible to pipe their music!

Busy days ahead, but so much to be grateful for. Seems there is less and less time for more and more things to do esp now that I am working full-time. I'm officially done with orientation this week. Still so very many blessings...

I pray you are able to enjoy your many blessings, hug each other tight, amidst all the trials and hardships. We were there once but even then the best thing we did was to search out our blessings, they were always there, and HE WILL ALWAYS BE THERE no matter what...

God Bless each and every one of you, Peace for the Holidays~

Thursday, July 30, 2009 11:45 AM CDT

Hello all,

Its been a while since our last update. Katey has had her 6th year post treatment checks and all is well, Thank God!!!

A lot has happened since our last update. Katey turned 12yo on May 15th and celebrated with her gal pals at our sleepover :> Why do they call them sleepovers if no one ever sleeps?!? The girls all had a blast!

The end of May brought her Studio dance recitals. Thats a whole lot of frenzied activity with final practices, rehearsals, and then 22 dances in 3 shows for the weekend. As usual, Katey thrives on this, the shows were fabulous!

June brought Katey and her dad's last campout and their graduation ceremony from the Indian Princess program. Sorry to say Mom missed it since we had a family wedding the same time. The following week was the 6th grade swim party at Country Springs Waterpark and then the grad ceremony the following day. It was bittersweet as the kids are all excited to move forward to Middle school but sad to leave the shelter of SV with their beloved principal Mr. Bissett at the helm. Rest in peace, Mr. B we love you!!!

The end of June the weather was very nice and there was plenty of swimming and there were car washes, too. Car washes were fundraisers for Butler Middle School POMs. Oh yeah, Katey tried out and is now part of the POM/Dance team! A wonderful group of gals and fabulous coaching, too. They worked very hard on their routine practicing 3days, 2hours a night since school let out.

July 4th, we had family bday picnic celebrations and enjoyed fireworks, too. The next day was the start of 2weeks at OSAAT (One Step At A Time) cancer kids camp!
As always, camp is a highlight for Katey. This year she qualified for the 3.8 mile swim across Geneva Lake and back but they didn't have enough boats, maybe next year!

After camp, she was home just 4 days hangin with friends then gone again to UDA Camp for POMs. Funny that she would stay at the same dormitory I was in for college! The 3n/4d was a whole lot of dancing with new routines and performances. We came back to watch Thurs and Sat nights, and then Sunday morning for final performances and awards. Their school was only 1 of 2 middle schools out of a couple dozen high school teams. They took home 2 trophies including a 1st place for their home routine! Katey also got 3 blues and a drill down ribbon for individual performances :> They've been invited to perform in Ohio and Florida for UDA. We're not sure yet if any of this will happen unless we find a 'money tree' somewhere!

Since coming back from her second camp this summer, there's been sleepovers with friends and today she is at the beach for a party. There hasn't been too much swimming in our pool and today it is cool and rainy out. Still there is much to be greatful for...we wait out the rain, the sunshine is not ever far behind...The Son always shines!

PeaceLove-n-Blessings to each and every one of you in what ever circumstances you are in--You are all in our prayers~

Thursday, April 2, 2009 10:00 AM CDT

Hello All!

Its April and with the new season I thought I'd better update. In a nutshell, all is well!

Katey is lovin 6th grade in this her last year at her elementary school...we are so grateful with this milestone since we started this whole journey together when Katey was in Kindergarten!

Since our last update Katey has been LivingStrong and keeping us very busy :> In October, she went on a Dude Ranch Trip with OSAAT Cancer Kids to Arizona. She loved having her first horseback riding trips in the beautiful desert. She also enjoyed the side adventures and fantastic friends she met along the way. You couldn't even keep her quiet about her experiences for a long time after she returned. This was her first trip/flight away for a full week without us. We are so proud of her independance when she is with her OSAAT Family :>

We enjoyed the Holiday season and headstrong into 2009. Katey received a call again from her OSAAT Family just after the new year. This time to join them in Park City, Utah for a weeklong ski trip! Well, Katey has never gone skiing ever and here they were going to the mountains! The last week in February was almost too hard to wait for Katey, she was so excited :> Short story here is that as a 1st time skier, she was doing so well that her trainer had her up on the diamond run (difficult terrain for experts) by the 4th morning! Katey's words, "I LOVE SKIING A KAGILLION!!!" Just our NO FEAR girl busy conquering another mountain! Since she's been back she has been begging to go skiing but no one in our family does. She is already planning to join the ski club in middle school with encouragement from the guys in school who ski so she can get her fix, hehe!

Since her return, there have been many more trips for us chauffering parents. In early March, we joined other dance moms and daughters in Illinois for the Tremaine Dance Convention and Competition. Katey absolutely thrives on frantic activity and wild schedules and really enjoys being with friends. It was a wonderful weekend together.

This past weekend we put the chauffering into overdrive. Katey was in a dance competition just outside of Madison (75 minutes away) on Friday night, Saturday afternoon, and Sunday evening--3 3hr roundtrips! In between, we were quick enough to return Saturday afternoon to catch a last individual swim--the 50yrd freestyle for the Annual Optimist Swim Competition. She swam it in 33.14 seconds, almost 5 seconds faster than second place! Thank goodness she was wearing her swimsuit under her dance outfit as she literally had to jump right in. She was also able to anchor the final event--100yd relay to pull them ahead and take 2nd overall. The best news is that for the first time, her school won the swim trophy narrowly beating the 2nd place school in a field of 15! We were so happy to finally bring the trophy home for our dear Mr. Bissett. He has been such awesome support throughout Kate's journey as Principal of SV and now he is extremely ill in his own battle with cancer. We are praying for you Mr. B! (Update***Our Dear Mr. Bissett grew his angel wings on July 7th. You were Heaven sent to all of us, thank you for blessing our lives, rest in peace, till we see you again...)

This weekend there will be more chauffering as there are studio dance pictures Saturday and another competition Sunday. Next week in school there is the Medievil Faire and then Easter and spring break!

It has been another cold winter that is now trailing off into spring and New Life...We have so much to be grateful for...

It has been 6 years since we started this journey. We celebrate Katey's 12th bday midMay then there will be her 8 dances for the recital. She finishes school midJune and then heads for 2weeks OSAAT summer camp early July. She visits the Next Steps Clinic when she returns and will hopefully celebrate 6 years OT and NED!

We keep all of you our family and friends we've met along the way in our thoughts and prayers. We pray for those with various illnesses/diseases to remain in remission/NED, for those fighting through their illness/ cancer, and especially for all our angel friends and their loved ones---Peace to all, It is the Promise of New Life through Jesus' sacrifice that we celebrate Easter! We look forward to what this life holds and look ahead to the next~

Hug and Kiss your kids and NEVER forget to tell them how very much you love them...

PEACE and Have a Blessed Easter!

Thursday, August 21, 2008 1:36 PM CDT

Oh gosh, its incredible how fast time flies and how much we can pack into it. I wrote a quick update for her Bday but haven't really updated since late January of this year.

In a nutshell, our lives have been busy. Katey has had awesome dance performances and competitions in Chicago and Milwaukee, Indian Princess Father/Daughter dances and weekend campouts. Then there was my surgery with complications that resulted in a 2 month detour in healing. Katey was a wonderful lil nurse helper throughout. There was still plenty of school fun with her talent show solo dance to Miracles Happen (they really do!,) multiple field trips, parties, and sleepovers as she completed 5th grade--all A's and B's, too! She had a fabulous Bday celebration with a cookout/campfire/sleepover with her gal pals. Then there was the Dance recital--6 dances in each of the first 2 shows, and 7 dances for the 3rd and final show. WTG Katey!!!

Headstrong into summer with swim parties, sleepovers, and get-togethers with friends. Then always a highlight of summer--The OneStepAt a Time Cancer kids camp the 2nd week of July. Again a fabulous time and again a vow of silence for what goes on at camp that she has shared with me...I can however share some pictures!

The end of July we took a family road trip to South Dakota. The kids were great for our 5day whirlwind vacation through Mt. Rushmore, Custer State Park and buffalo sightseeing, The Badlands, and the numerous beautiful stops along the way. Ahhh, refreshing and tiring all at once!

Early August began her brothers' busy times--Jonathan starting with Marching Band in his freshman year in HS and Sam for 7th grade Football.

Katey, my husband, and I were also invited to witness the Wedding day of her fav dance teacher! She spent the whole night dancing away and enjoying this very special celebration. Congratulations to Ms. Kelly and Mr. D!!!

Currently we are in the back-to-school preps--Shopping and picking up school supplies. This week has been busy with registrations, orientations, open houses, etc, as we prepare to be a 3 school family. Katey in 6th grade, her last year of elementary, Sam in 7th gr at the middle school, and Jonathan in 9th at the HS!

Kate's a bit tired today as she just got back from a sleepover. She also enjoyed a full day yesterday at Noah's Ark Waterpark with her friend and her family :> Survived it all except for a cut toe, hehe!

School starts the day after Labor Day so we are packing in as much fun as possible in the next week and a half :>

These have been some very busy days, but all is well with Katey. We have so much to be grateful for...She has received the All-clear from The NextSteps Clinic and is now 5yrs off treatment--Thank God!

As the cooler nights turn to cooler days, we are grateful for yet another year together but are saddened with the thought of those we miss. We pray for all of you in whatever struggles you may have that you would find The Peace that heals from within from the The One that Loves us most~

Love and Blessings to you all!!!

Thursday, May 15, 2008 12:00 PM CDT

HAPPY 11TH BIRTHDAY KATEY!!!!!!!!!!!

Katey was an awesome surprise :> Almost the whole pregnancy, we figured we'd be having a 3rd boy, and regularly referred to the baby as "Charlie." Then several weeks before the planned c-section, I had a dream. In the dream there was a shadow figure walking hand-in-hand with a skirted toddler. Then there was the sweetest little voice that asked "Mommy?" and then my unmistakeable voice "Yes Kate?"

It woke me up immediately and of course I woke my husband all excited. I told him about the dream and that I was now convinced that we were going to have a girl and that we had to name her "Kate!" And so it was that at exactly noon on this day 11 yrs ago that we were blessed to have our little girl Katey :>

Its been an incredible 11yrs--We've been so thrilled to be chosen by God to be her family. We've enjoyed the sweet and happy baby she was, the unstoppable active child who climbed EVERYTHING without fear and always with a smile. Then the young child, friendly to all, starting school, only to take a detour into the world of childhood cancer. There were times then of fear, but never from her. She just did what she was supposed to and still managed to find time to make more friends even in clinic while she was sick. She was our inspiration, always living full throughout and finding time to enjoy life even as a bald, weaker, sicker version of herself. Still she persevered and in it we found a whole community of others suffering and needing prayers. We needed to rely on each other and most especially God to get through the days. Now here we are, 5years later...We've lost many many dear friends and yet we have much hope and much trust that The One who loved us first Loves us most and has so much in store for all of us, not just in this world, but beyond...Trust Him!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY SWEET GIRL, We are so very proud and blessed to be a part of your Healing Journey~

With LotsaLove,
Mom, Dad, and your big brothers Jonathan and Sam

Monday, January 14, 2008 11:55 PM CST

Happy 2008 Everyone!

I thought I'd pop on and give an update. Its been a while--just busy with fun stuff. We've been home just one week from vacation--We sure had great fun over the New Years Holiday :>

We enjoyed Christmas with both sides of the family and then left early the 27th to head for Florida. We drove the first 13hours and stayed overnite in Georgia. The following morning, our hotel room was pitch black from a power outage! Thankfully it didn't last long--the kids were still able to make their yummy Belgian waffles and we were just a few hours behind schedule :>

After late check out, we went to visit with hubby Robert's Aunt Marge. It was a wonderful visit and so great to see her doing so well :> We drove through the Stone Mountain area on the way out. It was much too foggy to enjoy any scenery so I guess we'll just have to make it back some day!

We drove the last 8 hrs and arrived in Orlando by 10pm. There were many snafus at check in but finally we were in bed after midnight, PHEW!

Saturday morning was mid70s and gorgeous so we went poolside to relax. We also got moved to a new room with a fantastic view :> In the afternoon, we headed to Disney's MGM studios and LOVED it! Favorites were The Holiday Lights, The Tower of Terror, The Indiana Jones Stunt Show, and the Awesome Fantasmic Show at the end of the night. Yes, we're definitely not in 'Sconsin anymore! We got back late and were able to welcome my brother and his family to the start of their vacation :>

Sunday morning, we headed to Busch Gardens in Tampa Bay. It was too crowded there so we went right back to Orlando and into The Magic Kingdom. It was crowded there too but we sure had a lot of fun anyway. We rode Space Mountain and Big Thunder Mountain coasters several times each, enjoyed the SpectroMagic Parade, The Castle Holiday Shows, and the castle was amazing at night completely covered in color changing holiday lights. We also watched the "Wishes" fireworks and then a full rehearsal of "The Countdown to the New Year" fireworks at midnight. The whole park was lit up with fireworks everywhere, another fantastic day!!!

On Monday, December 31st (New Years Eve) we headed into Epcot. We enjoyed walking through The Living Seas, and The Land before heading into the different countries. It was great being there since we got to celebrate New Years every time a corresponding country entered 2008 :> Even in the drizzley rain it was a party atmosphere--of course we did have plastic NewYears Tophats on that were handed out earlier along with silly horns to blow. There was even special entertainment in each country. We were having so much fun that we ended up getting an 8x10 rug in Morrocco--Yes, definitely an impulse-buy but a great deal with free shipping! (We've received it already and it is *Perfect* in our living room!) We also went on quite a few rides and really enjoyed TestTrack. We met up with my brother and his family and enjoyed the early fireworks show on the lagoon. We had another few hours of fun and then it was time for the big countdown to midnight. It was an incredible laser light show with corresponding music, the different country buildings lit up, and the most awesome Fireworks--What a Fantastic start to a Happy 2008!!!

New Years Day we headed off early (yup only a few hours sleep--so much to see and do!) The Animal Kingdom was a wonderfully peaceful reprive. The park never got crowded so we enjoyed the Kali River Rapids (lots), the African Safari ride, the Festival of the Lion King Show, Nemo, the parade, and our favorite the Mt. Everest coaster ride so many many times! We also enjoyed some tasty food at Yak and Yetis :> We stayed til close and then went back to enjoy some Jacuzzi time :> We were all exhausted but having "the time of our lives" with the kids ready for more!

Wednesday Jan. 2nd, we went to Busch Gardens and this time it was not crowded at all but it was very cold--30F with wind chill to 10F! Needless to say, Dad and the kids enjoyed some bonechillin coaster rides on the Sheikra, Gwazi, Montu, and Kumba. I opted out and watched the Critter Show and had Kate join me to watch the cool Katumba Show. Kate and I also spent some time on the Cheetah Chase coaster. The park closed at 6pm so we were back early to enjoy a yummy spaghetti dinner courtesy of our 'Sconsin Family in their condo. Dad couldn't join because by then he had an upset stomach. Louie, Joan, Tetyana, and Yvonne sure cooked up a storm and they even served up some awesome 'international' desserts for us to enjoy--another fantastic day in this New Year :>

Thursday, January 3rd started out very early for us, and very cold, even colder than the day before! We headed out by 4:30am to drive the almost 2hrs to Crystal River Springs. We arrived early for our 6:30 appointment at "Birds Underwater" for our *Swim with the Manatees!* The kids weren't so crazy about the whole thing at first with the record-breaking freeze and strong winds--BRRR!!! We put our wetsuits, hoods, and full snorkel gear on anyway.

The captain had a bit of a rough time getting out since the boat was mired in mud. He told us that the 'tide had gone out' and that this was the worst he'd seen it in 20 yrs. There wasn't much open water for him to navigate in but finally he was able to maneuver the pontoon to the springs, and boy was it ever a chilly ride!

By the sanctuaries, we got our first look at the awesome (and huge!) manatee in the water. I snapped off a few pix from the boat--silly me, I forgot to bring an underwater camera so these would have to do. The kids were excited and got in the water pretty quick. Me? I was shivering and not just from the cold either! With my whole family in the water, I finally took the plunge. What a welcome thing--it felt like bathwater compared to the air! Kate and I swam together to start. We both got scared by a very large Gar fish, and then all of a sudden a very friendly manatee was swimming next to us!!!

We spent the next hour enjoying their silly antics, swimming up to us, staring at us, wanting a scratch, 'blowing kisses', and one even hooked my arm with its flipper and gave me a little ride :> It was an incredible experience and I would highly recommend it for everyone--the kids really thought it was the coolest :> Kate and I were last to get back on the boat, we didn't want to leave...

The pontoon got stuck on the way back and we didn't dock until after 11am. Of course we had to pick up the video footage of our swim and some souveniers to commemorate such an incredible experience!

We stopped in for lunch at a local restaurant and had fabulous seafood before heading back to the condo to wash up and rest. Later in the afternoon, we walked around Downtown Disney and then enjoyed dinner at The Olive Garden along with my brother and his family as a final celebration.

Jan4, Friday morning we weren't moving too fast and didn't get things packed up to check out until noon. Too fun a vacation but it was time to head back. Also Sam started in with the stomach bug and got 'sick' before we even left and I had an upset stomach. It made for an interesting drive since Jonathan joined in by evening. Thank goodness for the handy bucket and lid we had with us. We drove until late and again stayed in Georgia.

Jan5th, we checked out of our hotel with everyone feeling much better. We stopped in Kentucky and toured Mammoth Caves. I was there as a child with my family so it was fun to go there now with my own--it felt just as huge then as it does now, and just as incredible :>

We made it back by 10pm and even had time to pick up our dog Mitzi from my sisters--Thanx Sis for dog sitting!

When we got home, we heard funny noises. Robert went to investigate and found part of our basement flooded--a combination of a frozen water line, and a leaking water heater. Thankfully, we were home to cut off the water before more of the basement could get flooded.

Sunday we went to church and then home again to put our things away and get a little rest. Thankfully we had washed a majority of our clothes before we left Florida so we didn't have to turn the water on.

Monday, the kids were back to school, we were back to work, and our water heater was replaced :> Back to our normal routines and everyone feeling better except for a mild cold for me and Katey.

We are back into a very busy routine with lots more ahead. It is late and I've got work in the morning--not too much time to recuperate from vacation I guess! Praying for you all~

G'nite and Peace!

Here is the link to Our Florida Vacation!

Tuesday, November 27, 2007 11:27 PM CST

Katey says: hi love to all and a mery Chirstmas!

Hello all,

The past several months have gone by in a flash. We've been so very busy this fall. Katey has been well except for a few days of fever, headaches, and vomiting--That was several weeks ago. We've all had the flu shot so we should stay healthy for the rest of winter--wishful thinking (!)

Katey is really enjoying 5th grade, her classmates, and her teacher. She has had several fun field trips and class parties, presented her health report on Childhood Cancer which led to many questions and a lengthy class discussion, was one of 2 kids teamed up to represent the school at the annual Pumpkin carving contest (Kate and Nathan took 5th place out of 14 teams and brought home a nice check for the Art dept,) enjoyed the school Sock Hop, and just recently, her pillow art project was chosen to be displayed at the city art gallery. To top it off, we had Parent Teacher Conferences with nothing but great comments, and she has "straight A's!"

Besides school, she's been busy going to sleepovers, birthday parties, dance classes, Indian Princess monthly meetings and the weekend campout in early November--All the fun 'tween stuff :>

The rest of the family has also been busy. My husband and I celebrated our 14th anniversary, Sam finished an awesome football season and then celebrated his 12th Bday, and Jonathan has played in several band concerts. We attended the “Celebrate Life” annual party for cancer kids and their families held by CHOW and then The ACS Christmas Fantasy House for a kids party and tour (we even won 2 of the raffle baskets!)

The other weekend, we celebrated my niece's son Maddox's Christening :> It was fun having all the family together before Thanksgiving. On Thanksgiving day it was just us relaxing at home. My brother Tony and his wife Cherie stopped by later in the evening for a visit and brought some tasty pies :> Truly we appreciate how blessed we are to be where we are now as a family and that Kate and Sam's health is good overall.

This past weekend we saw The Nutcracker Ballet. It was wonderful to be invited to IL to see Katey’s friend Yumelia, former principal ballerina of the Milwaukee Ballet. She now dances for Ballet Florida but was appearring as guest artist for the role of the Sugar Plum Fairy. Its been over 2 years since we’ve seen her so you can imagine how excited Katey was to see her again :> I think you can tell that in the pictures! It was a truly unforgettable evening—The full moon, The Nutcracker Ballet at the beautiful Coronado Theater, such incredible dancing, and the most fantastic reunion with our favoritest ballerina ever! Yumelia was sweet as always. She even gave Katey a lil ballerina ornament along with her flowers from the curtain call! Katey has been all smiles…

We have so very much to be Thankful for, so very many blessings. Today was my bday. Hubby had to leave this am for a business trip in Dallas but will be back by Thursday evening. Tonite, we went out to eat and were joined by Tony and Cherie. I just have to smile and look around. In this world there is so much going on--I choose to keep my eyes focused on the good in this world. Sometimes I have to dig really deep to find it, sometimes not so much. Lately I haven't had to dig very much at all~

This Holiday Season, I pray that whatever troubles, worries, or health issues you may be facing that you'd still be able to look beyond and see the good that is there--FOREVER there--promised for each and every one of us! All we have to do is to accept that most important gift of God's Love presented to us through the Christ child~We keep you all in our prayers

Peace and Love to you this Christmas~

Prayers please for 2 local families-both taking the same road of incredible struggle/heartbreak with yet a second child...
www.caringbridge.org/wi/zachsam and www.caringbridge.org/visit/isabellaloppnow

Monday, September 10, 2007 9:39 PM CDT

Hello Everyone!

All of August sure flew by for us. We were busy with the kids and all their activities—Katey with her dance classes, sleepovers, and playdates, and her brothers with their tennis lessons, baseball games, practices, and the start of Football season. The kids also enjoyed lots of pool time until the mosquito population got out of hand the end of the month. We also celebrated hubby’s Bday and I’ve recuperated from minor surgery. All in all, we are doing well. Fast forward into September :>

The first day of school was last Tuesday (day after Labor Day.) Katey is in Mrs Mraz’s 5th grade class—perfect! We really liked having her as Sam’s teacher. Now Sam is in 6th grade and Jonathan in 8th grade :> Katey is enjoying school and being back with all her friends but disappointed that most of them are not in her class. Good thing they have lunch and recess together, LOL! She is already busy with her first health report. She picked Childhood Cancer to report on all on her own—pretty surprising since she doesn’t talk about it to her friends. Its quite fitting since September is Childhood Cancer Awareness month. So far, Katey is learning more about what she has been through and why in a clinical/ more technical way--It should be quite the eye opening learning experience.

It is wonderful that Katey is now 4years 3months OT and doing so well. Katey had the honor of walking the Survivors lap and helping to carry the banner for the Waukesha Relay for Life last month. It is heartbreaking however that every day more kids are being diagnosed with Cancer. Statistics show that there are about 46 kids diagnosed EVERY DAY and that 1 out of every 330 kids WILL have childhood cancer. Odds are better now for survival but the treatments are grueling and there is no guarantee that it won’t come back. In our Wilms kids community there have been several relapses in the past month. One is a wilms warrior from our own city. We’ve been praying very hard for Hollyn and her family. And just a few weeks ago we’ve had to say goodbye to Angel Maggie…now there is only Kate and her friend Colin from a group of 5 kids that were in treatment at the same time that either the kids played or us moms talked…Childhood Cancer Awareness is needed to help fund the research to find the cure so no other kids, their families, and their friends would ever have to suffer again. Please take a minute to go to www.CureSearch.Org for more information.

Faithfully praying for all our survivors to remain NED, our young warriors in the midst of battle, many who are fighting yet again, and for our angel friends’ families…

Love and God's Blessings to you all~

Sunday, July 29, 2007 3:09 PM CDT

Well, our little camper has been home for a week and all is wonderful :>

She had a fantastic 2 weeks at One Step at a Time camp, made lots of new friends and had a few stories she chose to share with me. Unfortunately she is holding me to secrecy on the ones she told me about. I guess this year, "what happens at camp stays at camp!" I did get a glimpse of camp from a few pictures sent by our friend Shelly (from the Jeffrey Schwebel Foundation Golfing Event *see our previous journal entry* oh and here is a link for our pictures from that event--better late than never!) Shelly stopped in for a visit the last week of camp. Here is a link to her pictures as well as a few others from OSAAT 2007 . Katey is already excited to go back for her 4th year next year :>

Last Saturday, right after we picked Katey up from camp, we were on the go again. We drove 3 hours to join the fun at the USSA Fishing event. We all enjoyed another super day with fantastic weather. There was archery, a shooting range, and a variety of water activities going on all day. We didn't get a chance to do the fishing this year tho. Here is a link for our pictures of USSA 2007 and below is a silly YouTube of Katey on a 'wild bucket ride!'


We drove home later in the evening instead of camping out. Our dog Mitzi was sooo excited to see Katey again, and Katey was glad to be home sweet home as well :>

Last week has been busy with some construction in our backyard. We finally had the deck for our pool put in, minus the railing. It will be completed as soon as we get in our missing parts. The kids are having a blast, enjoying the new platform :>

Last week also, Katey and her brother Jonathan had an eye check up for the first time. No glasses needed yet for either one of them!

Things are busy as ever. Last week, Sam's baseball team had 4 games, and this week will be their last two. They did have a wonderful end of season picnic celebration yesterday on another perfect day. Football season starts right after baseball so we won't even get a break.

Its unbelievable how fast this summer has gone. The school supply sales are on and there is only 1 month left before school starts. I just know its going to go quickly. Katey still has 2 more weeks of summer dance and then she has a quick break before the fall sessions. So far so good, she is lovin the tap and lyrical classes she has added this summer--tappin away wherever/whenever, sheesh!

This weekend we had fantastic news of the newest member of our clan. My neice Monica and her hubby Bao just gave birth to their son Maddox! I just know Makyla is gonna be an awesome big sis :> Congratulations guys, we'll see you real soon!

Enjoy the rest of the summer everyone, Praying for each of you all always, esp. for Matthew and Maggie, and all of our Angel friends' families...

***Celebrating Angel Diego's sweet birth 7 years ago today, Heaven rejoice, Peace and Love to his family...

Sunday, July 8, 2007 11:13 PM CDT

Summer has been so busy that its been hard to find time to update. Several weeks ago I had written one but lost it in cyberspace--Back to the drawing board!

The end of May finished quickly with loads of dance practices for Katey, Band events for the boys, Baseball games for Sam, and a Girl Scout camping weekend for Katey. She loved being outdoors, roasting 'smores, staying up late, and then sleeping in a tent with her friends. They had a costume party with the Neverland theme the last night and Katey won 1st place with her Tinkerbell costume :>

June started with a bang with the Recital. There were 4 shows this year--Fri night, Sat matinee and night, and Sun matinee. Kate was in 5 dances for both matinees, and 6 dances both evenings with Father/Daughter dances. Countless hours of practice, 2 days of dress rehearsals, 13 hours of performances with quick costume changes, and 4 late nights in a row made for a very tired but exhilirated young gal--this mom was just in sheer exhaustion but oh what a show! Unbelievable that last year's could be topped but it sure was!

Monday the kids were back in school, Tuesday, Kate and friends danced at the Talent show :> Wednesday was the last school field trip, and more baseball games in the evening. Friday, the last day of school, was 'Game day.' I helped out in the fun and then parents joined with their kids for a Hot dog lunch. The kids were a bit sad about missing their friends and their fantastic teachers. The kids all did well this school year. Jonathan straight As, and both Sam and Katey had mostly A's and a couple B's. We are sooo proud!

The next Tuesday, June 12th, I took Katey in for her oncology check up. She also had a chest x-ray, kidney functions lab tests, and a urinalysis. Katey is now 4 years post-treatment and still NED!!! From now on she'll only need to be seen yearly at the "Next Steps Clinic." Her check ups will be focused on health maintenance and watching for late side effects of treatment. Every day, every year away from diagnosis is such a blessing!

Thursday, the 14th, we took advantage of a picture perfect day. We drove to the Dells for a full day of fun and celebration. We took a duck boat tour in the morning, had a fantastic BBQ lunch (courtesy of Uncle Tony and Auntie Cherie :>), enjoyed loads of splish splashin fun all afternoon, had a tasty dinner at the Cracker Barrel, and then minigolfed the rest of the evening away before driving home. It sure was an action-packed day :>

Father's day weekend was busy with Sam's baseball tournament. I don't think Dad minded too much. He loves watching Sam play and enjoys being an unofficial coach :> The boys did pretty well but didn't quite make the final round.

The following week, Our first born Jonathan turned 13yo! Incredible to see our family evolving--I'm really starting to feel OLD! Happy Bday to our Teenager!!!

On Saturday, Dad and the boys went out to dinner and then saw the movie Shrek at the new Majestic Theaters. Katey and I headed a different direction.

Katey was invited back to talk at the Jeffrey Schwebel Memorial Golf Outing to benefit OSAAT camp. It was an incredibly beautiful day that turned into an awesome evening. Sooo many wonderful people with big hearts raising money for cancer kids camp. It was incredible to witness sooo many generous donors! It sure was a great honor to be involved--we are so greatful!

The last weeks of June were filled with Theater classes for Jonathan, basketball camp and more baseball practices/games for Sam, and Girl scout day camp for Katey (or should I just say "Tinkerbell" the name her friends gave her :>) She loved every minute. Tuesday of girlscout camp was "Me and my guy day" with her dad. Loads of fun that day and she had the honor of ending the day carrying the flag for the closing ceremonies.

July snuck up on us quickly. On the 4th, Katey walked with our local ACS/RFL committee as a survivor in the Waukesha Parade. She enjoyed seeing alot of her friends along the way. I came along to toss candy and hike back with her to where we parked, LOL!

In the afternoon, We celebrated our neice Monica's 30th Bday picnicing and boating at the lake. Katey loved playing with all the little ones and being out on the water. She loved riding the bow of the boat and getting splashed. She 'tried' tubing, went swimming, and really enjoyed Jet skiing. Loved it so much that we even went back for more the next day :> We also enjoyed the awesome fireworks display in the area.

The rest of the week was spent getting ready for The Big Event--OSAAT Camp! Saturday afternoon, she was sooo excited to see her old friends and her counselor buddies. The place is like a second home to her she is so comfortable there.

Today we were back for the "Celebrate the Children" event so the kids could sing for us, share some stories, and thank all the wonderful volunteers and donors for making camp possible. After the traditional pork chop lunch, we walked down to the dock to eyeball where Katey swam last year for the Lake challenge. It sure was interesting to see the 1.8mile distance she swam to cross the lake. Sooo incredible, I wish I had been there to see it all happen. We are sooo incredibly proud! Here is a link to the webcam at the dock!

We stopped by the bunkhouse to get Kate's things organized and then we left her to enjoy her friends and all the activities. No tears from her, just smiles...I sure miss her the 2 weeks she's at camp, we all do. Our dog Mitzi misses her alot. She's been sniffing around and has been in her bedroom several times, poor thing can't figure out where she is. She'll be home soon enough with plenty of summer left.

I'll try and update again after she gets back from camp. Enjoy these warm sunny days!

Thinking and praying for all our friends and their families, but especially for our angel friends' families~

Peace and Love, The Olsens

Tuesday, May 15, 2007 12:00 PM CDT

KATEY TURNED 10YRS OLD AT NOON TODAY!!!

Be sure to sign her guestbook and wish her a Most Wonderful Birthday, she would really love that!

We couldn't be prouder of our little Wilms Warrior/Survivor--4 1/2 years of extra love, hugs, and kisses after diagnosis is what we were blessed with and we continue to pray for more~

We have all been so very busy. Spring Break was the 2nd week of April. We did some mall shopping and visited with Jodie from the Libby Lu store and...Katey finally got her ears pierced!!! Dad really wanted her to wait til she was older but he finally let her. Katey was scared and excited but such a trooper. She can't stop admiring her 'prettier' ears!

On Thursday of springbreak we were joking at lunch about taking off somewhere. Well, by 5pm we had reservations and were headed up to Minneapolis! We had a great time on our 2 night getaway. We enjoyed all the fun rides and the super shopping at the Mall of America :>

The next weekend, we had to be in Sheboygan for Sam's Baseball tournament. We stayed at The Blue Harbor Waterpark Resort, just across the street from the Triple Play indoor facility. In between games the kids enjoyed the waterpark. The Firebirds made it to the final round Sunday, but fell short that last game. Second place was good, We sure are proud of our boys!

The end of April, Kate was asked if her picture and story could be used for a new fundraising campaign for OSAAT (One Step at a Time Cancer Kids Camp.) Katey LOVES camp and was more than willing. We were also given tickets to attend a private day at Six Flags Great America from one of the awesome sponsors! It was a wondeful treat since the weather was picture perfect plus we all enjoyed the fantastic rides with very little waiting.

The first weekend in May was the Indian Princess campout. Katey and her dad always have such great times there. Her soda bottle sailboat came in 1st, impressive except for the fact that hers was the only entry for 4th graders, hehe! Another great weekend for dad and Katey :>

More busy days ahead with extra dance practices for the upcoming Recital June 1st-3rd. Then Tuesday following the recital, Katey and some friends will be dancing for the school's talent show. School finishes up that Friday and then it will be sweet summertime!

For tonite, our family will be celebrating our very special 10year old. Kate has dance class until 6:30pm and then we will be going to Texas Roadhouse, her request, for a late dinner. She is such a hearty steak girl!

Better wrap it up here and get a few goodies ready :>

Hugs-n-Love to you all!

Monday, April 2, 2007 8:23PM CDT

HI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I just can't believe March zippin by and gone so fast! Between all the after school events, sports, and other extracurriculars, we've been busy busy. We did manage to throw in a couple out-of-town overnights, one esp so Katey could visit her friend Rachel for her BDay. Katey hasn't seen her for a year since she moved to Illinois. They loved being with each other again :>

This past weekend was very busy, a *real winner* literally. Saturday morning was the Annual Waukesha Swim meet where some 12 area schools (about 450 3rd-6th graders) compete in a number of swim events. The kids were awesome! Sam our 5th grader took 1st place in Breaststroke and 2nd place for Backstroke! He also anchored the 5th/6th school relay team and they took 5th place.

Katey competed in the 3rd/4th grade events. It was *INCREDIBLE* watching her win her heats and she just kept going. Awesome to see her take 1st place (out of 80 girls)for the 25yd freestyle in 17.46 seconds! She also took 2nd place in backstroke--everyone sez she was a full foot ahead but had to take another armswing to get to the wall and ended up banging her head--LOL! She's fine and happy with 2nd. She also anchored relay and they took 3rd :>

Kate and I had to leave the swim meet early to get to The Showstoppers Dance Competition over an hour away. We got there just in time to set up before their troop's performance. Kate just ran on pure adrenalin, their dance troop was awesome! They ended the day with a Gold for their hiphop and Silver for their lyrical dance. Katey picked up the trophy and spoke to the emcee for the awards ceremony.

We left pretty quick after awards with the area under a tornado warning. It sure was a wild ride being chased by the worst weather system all the way home. We were so glad to finally get home shortly before midnight. I guess the day ended just the way it started--wet and wild but very exciting :>

Our kids are doing so well--Jonathan is off to a great start with his track season, Sam continues with all his sports in winning style and with perseverance (even with his Crohns,) and Katey...having come so far and accomplishing so much. She's so strong and such a fighter...She already makes us proud just the way she is, she never gives up on anything and definitely loves a challenge :>

Easter is coming and the warmer weather is here--New Life is Everywhere, Fresh Life--What an awesome reminder of what Jesus has done for us...We pray for you all to remember that in this life there are many highs and lows but only *Highs* when we get to Heaven!

Peace and Blessings to all this Easter with Special prayers to those struggling with illnesses and other troubles but esp for the hearts of our angel friends' families...

God's Warmest Love to you all~

Monday, February 26, 2007 1:17 PM CST

Wow I can't believe this cold and snowy month is almost over! We are hoping March brings nicer weather :>

The weekend before last, Katey and I traveled to Chicago with her friend Dani and her mom. We were there so the girls could attend the Tremaine Dance Convention and also to Compete their Company Troop's HipHop number. Thank goodness my awesome nephew let us stay at his place, chauffered us back and forth, and even took us out for a taste of All Star Chicago-style Pizza! Thanx Louis (aka Alby!!!) The girls did well with their all day dancing Saturday and Sunday. Their dance took 2nd place Saturday night :>

The past week was a short 3day school week. We attended Parent Teacher Conferences and are so proud of all 3 kids :> They each got great comments from their teachers and are all doing well, all A's with some B's for each!

Thursday morning, Jonathan and Katey had great checkups with the dentist and Sam had scans and labs to monitor his meds for Crohns. As a treat, we left shortly after and headed for the Wilderness Hotel and Waterpark in the Dells for a short stay. We all had a fantastic time going on all the waterides, taking on the waves, and just plain ole relaxing, too. It was nice enjoying such an awesome indoor waterpark and going out for some tasty eats, too :>

We came home to snow blizzard warnings and when all was said and done, we received just over a foot of snow and freezing rain/sleet. The kids went on to spend a lot of time playing in the snow Sunday and only came in when their coats, hats, snowpants, and gloves got too wet, LOL.

Today, Katey has some stuffiness and sneezing--Probably worn out from all the activities inside and outside the past few weeks. She did make it to school this morning after her cold medicine kicked :>

More this coming week with Girl Scout cookie delivery and then the weekend Indian Princess Father/Daughter Ball Dance! Whoa, still gotta get her corsage ready and help her pick out a dress!

Have a good week everyone, keeping you all in our prayers--all our friends fighting relapse treatments/side effects--Jessy, Matthew, Steven, Maggie, Meghan, our friends in treatment, those fighting to remain cancer-free, and esp for our angel friends' families...Mark just recently won his victory in Heaven, please keep his parents in your prayers for the hard days ahead...

Love to you all, The Olsens

Thursday, February 8, 2007 3:17 PM CST

BRRRRRRRRR ITS COLD OUT!!!

Its been awhile since our last update. We've been busy in the middle of this cold snap that everyone seems to be dealing with--extreme cold, ice storms, and snowstorms. Our family has had a stubborn virus the past few weeks but aside from all the coughing, sneezing, and stuffy heads, we are okay.

This past weekend with outside temps below zero and bone-chilling winds we were actually swimming! We were fortunate to attend The CCFA(Crohns/Colitis Foundation of America)Annual Conference Saturday at a Dells Hotel. Our son Sam (11yo) was recently diagnosed with Crohns, a life-long progressive autoimmune disorder of his GI tract. My husband and I learned a lot and the kids had fun in their own groups and activities. We are greatful for yet another community that can show us the way in this new journey. Its been a long 3 months of scans, labs, and tests to get to this point. Sam is getting good at managing things including all his meds--he is currently on prednisone, 6MP, and twice a day Prilosec. So far so good.

The kids had school Monday, probably the coldest day of the year at -5F with wind chills in the -30s. The rest of the world seemed to be off school. School was cancelled the following day so the kids and I did enjoy a free day at home :>

Last night was the School music concert for 3rd/4th graders. Katey had special roles as an announcer and danced in 2 of the songs--Sooo cute! We stopped in for treats at Culvers after so the kids could have more fun hangin with their friends :>

The end of January, Katey and her dad were at the Indian Princess Weekend Campout and had a great time--cold, but loads of fun :> Her snow snake placed first this year!

The following weekend was the Winter Showcase for the dance studio. Kate and her friends Dani and Lizzie were a fantastic dancing trio :> It was soooo cute to see what the girls have been working so hard on! The YouTube of the trio is above if you'd like to see :> Katey did most of the choreography--quite the feat for a 9yo! Katey also danced 2 other times--for her Ballet class and her Company Troop.

The busy-ness hasn't let up. Tomorrow night, Katey has a friend coming for a sleepover (usually no sleep involved!) Sunday she has a Bday party to go to and also has practice for the upcoming Tremaine Dance Convention/Competition--Feb 17-18th in Chicago. It should be a great time!

Well, the song "Unwritten" by Natasha Bedingsfield was just on. Katey loves this song--It reminds her of Cancer Kids camp from last summer. They played this song a lot. A quote from the lyrics "Live your life with arms wide open--Today is where your book begins, The rest is still unwritten..."
Definitely we live our lives with arms wide open and know we are Blessed--not just in this life but for the next...We pray for all of you to know it too--

JESUS LOVES US SOOOOO VERY MUCH--HAPPY VALENTINES DAY!!!

Monday, January 8, 2007 11:27 PM CST

WOW, 2006 sure finished with the same kind of fast-paced activity that it started with. Christmas break was busy with all sorts of events, get togethers, parties, and even some fun family times--so many awesome opportunities to visit with friends and family and to catch up with others we don't get to see. We had a Blessed Christmas, a great time to reflect on a healthy and NED (no evidence of disease) year for Katey.

Now its 2007, time for a New Year--also A New Look for Katey! She has been thinking about this a long time and we've had many discussions. Dad was totally against it and I had my reservations but it is finally done. I gave Katey her First haircut post-treatment! It brought back a flood of memories to take that first snip. Katey had her very first haircut, just a trim, about 2 months before her diagnosis. Her hair at 5yrs 5mo old was down to her waist. Little did we know that just 3 months later we would have to give her a second cut--out of necessity. It was a cold reality that her hair was falling out so fast that we had to cut it to manage it. Now here we are coming up on the 4th anniversary of her diagnosis (Jan 25) with a refreshed outlook to go with her new look :> See the pix in the photo album of her before and after. I didn't intend to cut off as much as I did but you'll see she still has plenty, thank goodness!

Katey is just beaming! She says it is so much easier for her to brush it out and she loves to swish her hair around :> She had her friends over for dance practice tonite and they saw her hair for the first time. She is so happy that everyone likes her new look, even her school friends! Dad I think is still taking some time to get used to it.

The girls had a great dance practice. Katey, Lizzie, and Dani have been working hard since getting the thumbs up at their audition mid-December. Katey did most of the choreography and their steps are now complete. They've got their outfits picked out and now they are just working on fine-tuneing but boy do they look adorable already :> They will perform for their studios' Holiday Showcase Jan 27th. There are scheduled classes (2 of which Katey will be in) that will be performing but their dance trio is the only student choreographed dance. Last year Katey choreographed her own solo (see the YouTube above!) We are sooo proud!

Anyway, I've rambled on long enough and I've got work in the morning. We keep you all in our daily thoughts and prayers ALWAYS~

PeaceLove-n-LoadsaHugs for the New Year!

Tuesday, December 12, 2006 10:24 AM CST

WONDERFUL NEWS!
We've received confirmation that Katey's Chest Xray from Dec 5th is CLEAR!!! Her Onc check up with Suzie went very well :> Next check won't be for another six months and she will only need labs to check kidney functions and chest xrays to rule out any recurrence.

It was good to see the wonderful staff of the 8east clinic. Most especially it was good to see Maggie and her mom. Maggie is an incredible Ewings Sarcoma Warrior diagnosed months before Katey. She continues to fight the beast with the true strength and grace of a young lady in the midst of a battle--We are praying hard for you Maggie along with so many other young fighters and their families.

December is off to a fast start. This year in particular our family has had the unique opportunity to volunteer at our church's Bethlehem Marketplace . This 10 day event is only put on every 3 years. The last time it was held, Katey was just shy of 6months post treatment with very little hair. This time, she is 3 1/2 years off-treatment and has waist length hair! It has been a trick to get her hair coverings on for her costumes. We've volunteered the past 4 days in various parts of the marketplace--The Produce Stand selling 'juicy grapes' for a shekel, The Leather Shop selling 'the finest leather bracelets', and also as Foreigners 'gossiping' by the well :> Katey and her friend have also enjoyed being 'students' in the Scribe School at The Temple. We've enjoyed seeing many of our friends and family come through the Marketplace. Katey loves the roll-playing and dressing the part. She and the boys want to volunteer some more but I'm not sure we'll have any more opportunities to do so. It just really makes me smile to see where she is today...

With Christmas fast approaching, I see that our home and laundry have been severly neglected. Our house is not decorated and the little bit of christmas shopping we do has not been finished. I have to pause and remember once again that Christmas is sooo much bigger--That it is about the Best Present of all--The Gift of Salvation and Eternity through the Christ Child! What an Awesome Truth! No matter what troubles we may have on this earth, there are still so very many blessings around us--we just have to look. Best of all, we can have a Very Bright Future--Eternity is FREE for all who will receive it! (John 3:16)

We think and pray for each of you this Christmas Season to be able to pause and remember. We pray for you to feel how very much Our Lord LOVED us to send His only son, the Christ child, to fulfill a Promise for OUR Eternity! There is No Greater Gift...

God's Peace, Love, and Blessings to you all this Christmas and on through the New Year~



***A visit to the Past--This is sooo last-year *literally* but I just figured out how to do this***

Katey's Dance Solo to "Promise"--The 2005 Holiday Showcase
(Turn off the music from the above Zeocast first to listen to this YouTube :>)

Katey and friends have a dance trio in the upcoming Holiday Showcase Jan 27th--I should be able to upload that dance here soon :>

Wednesday, November 22, 2006 10:12 AM CST

Hi Everyone,

It sure has been a long time since our last update, just busy keeping up with all the activities of our busy household I guess.

October came and went quickly. Oldest brother Jonathan finished a wonderful season of cross country and brother Sam finished off his first season of Tackle football with being awarded the most "Defensive Shticks"--YIKES! He also turned 11yo on the 11th. We celebrated his Golden Bday at the Country Springs Waterpark with his favorite sports pals/best buds :>

For Katey, October was busy going to sleepovers, birthday parties, the Indian Princess pumpkin carving event, and her dance studio sleepover.

The end of October, the kids had a few days off. We did some sightseeing in the area by going to Holy Hill and Cabella's one day and then to the new Discovery World the next day. The kids really enjoyed the minitrips and we will definitely have to go back and check out more of the supercool Discovery World!

At the end of the month, Katey went trick or treating with friends as a GB cheerleader--a mighty cute one at that! My boys have decided they are too old to go trick or treating but of course they are never too old for candy! They've been working on Katey to get some of her 'stash' and also managed to get into our leftover goods.

November started off with a bang as well. The school had the 50s Sock Hop on the 3rd. It's always so well attended and so much fun to see all the kids dressed up as the "Happy Days" crew. The kids had such a blast hanging out with all their friends :>

On Sunday the 4th, we had the pleasure of attending a special event for CancerKids and their families at the ACS Christmas Fantasy house. It was incredible to see this beautiful 24,000 sq ft home all decorated for the Holidays. Katey and the boys had their own special kids party and then toured the house. Katey esp enjoyed walking down the grand staircase and of course being with some of her favorite friends from the 8E clinic. I enjoyed seeing some of our friends as well :>

The last few weeks, the kids were busy completing statewide WKCE school testing and now Parent teacher conferences are done, too. Jonathan had all A's and one B. Sam and Katey both had A's and B's and their teachers all had wonderful things to say about each of them :> We are sooo proud of the kids!

This past weekend, Katey and her dance company performed their first competition of the season. They performed a Dance Remix and won 1st place for Youth Hip Hop! The girls all did such a fantastic job and were really sharp out there, WTG!

The following day, Studio One Dance Company was in the Waukesha Parade. The girls had so much fun being together again and celebrating some more :> I don't know where they get the energy--too much adrenalin left from the day before I guess!

Today the kids are off school for the Thanksgiving Holiday. They've already been on the computer with Club Penguin and then played Risk and Monopoly together. Now they are begging to have some more computer time so I'd better close for now.

Katey's next chest xray and onc check is coming up Dec. 5th. Please just say a little prayer that all is well and that she is still NED. She has been feeling strong, healthy, and doing well. We are surely blessed and are confident that all will be well no matter what news we receive.

Sorry its been a long while since Ive stopped in to visit or sign CB sites. Just know we keep you all in our prayers for continued remission/NED, for incredible strength for those in the midst of battle, and for all of our angel friends' families~

Happy Thanksgiving Everyone--May Our Good Lord Be with you all! Count ALL your blessings big and small and never forget to tell all your loved ones how much you really care~

Thursday, October 5, 2006 09:44 AM CDT

Wow, into the fall season already—time marches on…

September was a busy month for us getting used to the fall routine. Big brother Jonathan has been busy in Middle School and has been involved in Cross Country. He runs daily—either for after-school practice or for the cross country meets, about 2 to 3 a week. Sam has been busy with 5th grade homework and MWF 2 hour football practices and every Saturday games. He is doing well as a starter in offense and defense. Katey has been busy with schoolwork, her 3 dance classes including Company Troop, Girl’s club at church, Jr. Girl Scouts, and her Indian Princess troop. Top that off with the occasional sleep over and special events and we have quite the hectic chauffeuring lifestyle. No complaints here, we’re just happy the kids can enjoy themselves.

This past Thursday night, Kate was again privileged to be a Make-A-Wish child rep at our local Coldstone Creamery for the National MAW Fundraiser. She was busy scooping and mixing form 5:30-8pm. A tired little cookie since earlier we were at Jonathan’s cross country which was right after school and then we had a scant 15 minutes to eat dinner before being at Coldstone. I think Katey thrives on all the activity :>

This past weekend, Robert and Katey enjoyed the Indian Princess Fall Campout. They had a great time with the other dad/daughters doing archery, going geo-caching, taking hayrides, going for fun hikes in the woods, making smores, running around the cabin with their friends, and of course staying up too late.

They were home on Sunday for just 2 hours before going out again. This time we headed out for the annual Celebrate Life Party that Childrens Hospital puts on for all the CC (childhood cancer) survivors and their families. It was great to catch up with everyone since we only go to clinic every 6 months for follow ups, the kids enjoyed all sorts of activities with their friends. It has all been such an eye-opening experience and so hard to think of all the kids/families that we no longer see…

We are busy but doing well. Katey has her next oncology check up in December. Please say a prayer that all continues to go well for Katey along with all others currently NED (no evidence of disease,) those with various complications from their treatment like our Aussie friend Steven (www.caringbridge.org/ak/steven,) those in the midst of battle with their illness, so many with relapses, and especially for all our Angel friends’ families. Little Jonathan (www.caringbridge.org/cb/inputSiteName.do?method=search&siteName=jonthewildman) just recently went home to Jesus, cured of his Wilms for Eternity but leaving his family with incredible heartache…We think and pray for all of you constantly—praying that a Cure would be found soon so that no other kids and families would ever have to suffer again…

Hug your kids and loved ones tight, count all your blessings, big and small, and never forget to tell your loved ones how much you really care~

Peace Love Strength and Blessings to you all, The Olsens

Saturday, September 2, 2006 11:39 AM CDT

Gosh I can't believe summertime is over and the kids are back to school! Katey is in a split class--she's a 4th grader in a 3/4 class with Mr. Soens :> She enjoyed her 1st day back and thought Mr. Soens was funny and nice :> Sam is in 5th grade with Mrs. Mraz along with most of his sports buds--He's gonna have a great year! Jonathan is a 7th grader at Middle School(!) this year. He had a great first day, too, and is glad to have friends in every class.

The end of July we had a fun fishing weekend with USSA. The kids loved fishing with Pro Bass Fisherman in the morning and then enjoyed a full day of fun and activities that lasted late into the evening :> Here is a photo gallery of some of the fun and shenanigans at the USSA Trip--Fishing Pictures and Beach Fun! We have LoadsaGreat memories for sure :> Thanx to all our old and new friends, and all the fantastic people and volunteers who made the weekend so fun and interesting!

This past month, Kate has also been busy helping with Make a Wish. Kate talked at 2 lunches, one for Midwest Airlines and another for Robert W Baird. Then Kate's Dance Company got to perform on stage for the Aug 26th Walk and Run. She loved cheering and dancing for the walkers/runners on this beautiful day :>

The beginning of August was the transition for the boys sports events. Sam and Jonathan's baseball teams both finished undefeated. It was fun celebrating with the teams :> Now its tackle football season for Sam with busy practice and every Saturday game schedules. Kate is really bummed that we'll have to miss out on our Hozhoni cancer kids family camp next weekend :( We'll be rooting for Sam and his Northstar team for sure tho!

This August, my hubby's company celebrated its 100th anniversary with a free day at the WI State Fair. The kids loved being at the fair--They enjoyed rides on the Midway, yummy prime rib sandwiches, creampuffs, and corn on the cob all for free :> Katey ran into a balloon artist and asked if he could make her a monkey. Well, over 15 minutes and over 2 dozen balloons later you can see the results in the photo album :>

Sunday August 13th, Robert's company also had an open house as part of its 100th Anniversary celebration. It was fun touring the facility and we even got to see the giant poster that Robert, our superstar was on, LOL! It was also Robert's Bday so later in the eve we celebrated at the Texas Roadhouse. He was pretty clear that no one could spill the beans about his Bday and that he would NOT be riding the saddle at the restaurant, oh well... It was fun anyways--HAPPY BDAY to an awesome hubby and daddy!!!

Kate's dance schedule was pretty busy for August with her Studio company. Also, she's been doing HipHop dance practice on Tuesday nites for our church. They will be dancing for all 4 worship services today and tomorrow :>

Gosh, fast forward into September and all is well. Katey did have a stomach bug that lasted all day Monday, Aug. 28th. Thankfully, she was back to her usual self by the next day. She finished off the last few days of summer having fun--either on the computer playing Club penguin and Tropix or busy playing outside.

Enjoy the Labor Day Weekend Everyone, we keep you all in our prayers!

Love, The Olsens

Monday, July 24, 2006 11:42 PM CDT

Our little camper is Home Sweet Home!!!

It was sooo great to get her back on Saturday. Hubby and I went early to pick her up, had a quick visit with some of the counselors, kids, and family friends before racing out to get our son Sam to his baseball game. Sam had his first game as pitcher and did awesome in his 2 innings. None of the kids connected with any of the balls he threw for a no-hitter! He only walked 3 kids :>

Back to our little camper... She had a FANTASTIC 2 weeks at camp :> It was a great ride home with her telling us about all the fun she had. She even read her daily journal out loud for us :> She enjoyed the 'flour fights,' trip to the waterpark, tent camping, the 'snipe hunts,' The Big Dance Nights, Boat day, the Cougars BaseBall game, the fireworks show, the soccer lessons, hiphop dance day, the "Find your Counselor" hunt, the 70's Haunted House, the arts-n-crafts, all the silly games and songs, and spending time being with all her old and new friends :>

Katey esp enjoyed swimming at the lake. She passed her swim test the first week and was allowed to go off the far dock and didn't have to wear a lifejacket for Boat day.

Our Water-baby didn't stop there. On the second week, we got a message from the Camp Director asking us to call right away to "give consent" for something. We thought maybe she broke her arm or needed stitches--that made us so nervous! Turns out she had tried out for and qualified to swim ACROSS Geneva Lake! She swam 10 laps and had the best time and now needed consent to go for the 1.8 mile swim! We found out later that the reason she tried for it was because Jake, one of the counselors, encouraged Katey to go for it after she beat him in a swim race :>

Wednesday morning, the 11 qualifying kids were woken up at 4:00am(!!!) and taken to the Abbey resort for a light breakfast. They were then tethered to the boats in pairs. Katey was launched for her swim just after 6:00am(!)

By 10am that day, we got the call...Katey had COMPLETED The Swim ACROSS Lake Geneva!!! We found out later from the counselors who dubbed her "little fish," that she had the best swim time at 1 hour 27 minutes for the 1.8 miles!!!!!!!!!!! All the campers were at the dock yelling and cheering as she got close. She said she was sooo glad to finish and was thinking to herself "I am NEVER going to do this again!" Funny girl, we told her to just relish it and not think ahead. We just couldn't believe how she tackled this personal challenge--I can't even comprehend it! I certainly didn't know she had it in her to 'Go the Distance!' I spent most of the day with tears--So proud of all she's been through and all she continues to succeed in...

Katey misses camp and her friends but is glad to be home. She is enjoying her new "Island Jungle" room. She was so surprised that she screamed, squeaked, and was speechless, when she first walked into her newly remodeled room :> She sez it is the coolest room ever! It was a lot of work but so worth it to see how much she loves her new room!

Sunday morning we woke up early from the "swoosh" sound of hot air balloons overhead. They went up from the County Fair nearby. We dressed quickly and followed them to their landing. It was sooo cool to see them up close :>

Later on Sunday, we all enjoyed a private swim event at the local waterpark for Katey's girl scout troop. The kids all had a lot of fun even if it did end up being cooler out by the early evening--it was only about 68F by the time we left.

Today was a lazy day, we did things around the house and then decided our dog Mitzi could use a first haircut. Katey helped out a lot. Our dog really looks cute from far away but when you get closer its obvious she's got a home-cut! Katey also spent some time at a friend's for a playdate and this evening we watched a movie in her room :>

Its late again as usual, the only time I can get in to update. There are more fun activities ahead this week. In the morning we will be headed out to the Midwest Airlines Corporate Offices. They are having a special lunch and Make-a-Wish asked Katey to help rally for the upcoming Walk and Run. Katey enjoys helping out when it comes to MAW! Also this weekend we will be headed for a Fishing Event with USSA :>

We have so much to be thankful for... Katey is incredible--so vibrant, strong, and healthy, but also kind and caring... We are sooo blessed! We pray always for all our friends we've met along the way to remain in remission or NED. Still there are many who are just starting their journey or are struggling so much right now. We esp keep the dear families of all our angel friends in our prayers...Please join us in keeping all these warriors and their families in your prayers...

God'sPeaceLoveHope-n-Strength to you all!

Click here to see some pictures from *One Step at a Time Camp 2006!*


August 2, 2006
***SIGH***Another WilmsWarrior takes flight--Angel Diego, you are now pain-free, care-free in paradise, gone from this earth tho your sweet brown eyes will never ever be forgotten...Please send your PeaceLoveStrength-n-Prayers to the Santiago Family for their unimaginable heartache...

Thursday, July 13, 2006 11:54 AM CDT

HI All!

Its now a month into summer break and there has been so much going on. The great news is that Kate’s abdominal US came back clear! Its official, 3 years off treatment--All is well and Katey is enjoying summer :>

Summer has been a whirlwind with lots of outdoor activities. The boys are busy with baseball practices and their respective teams' winning streaks. Katey has enjoyed watching the games--when she's not hangin out with the other players' sisters that is!

June 22nd was Jonathan's 12th Bday :> We celebrated by going to the Dells and staying overnight at the Wintergreen Hotel. It was fun to reminisce as this was the first indoor waterpark hotel we had ever taken the kids--the boys only 3 and 4, and Katey only a toddler! I had also stayed there for the ‘Angel on My Shoulder’ Caregivers retreat. It was fun to see our now bigger kids enjoying the fun. I kept getting flashbacks of when they were wee ones and had to count our blessings for how they've all grown.

We stopped in to visit with Uncle Tony and Auntie Cherie earlier in the day. They were staying at a riverside cabin. The kids enjoyed taking turns getting a ride on the canoe down river. Later we returned to B & H Trout Fishing where we had taken Katey just before she finished treatment in 2003. Just like last time, she was the first to catch the largest of the kids' fish and again within the first minute, LOL!

The next day we used the passes that Jonathan had won earlier in the year for the Kalahari Hotel waterpark. We had an awesome time both at the inside and outside waterparks on this beautiful day. By the time we got home we were all exhausted but what a great two-day, one-night getaway!

The following day June 24th, Katey was at a special golf fundraiser for OneStep at a Time Camp. Like the typical energizer bunny, she was there from 12:30 until 8:30 that night. Her and Damien (a former OneStep camper, now counselor!) talked and thanked all the golfers. They raised $30,000 for camp that day, YEAY! Special thanks for the hard work and vision of the Jeffrey Schwebel Family Foundation and all the volunteers for raising so much money for OneStep camp!

The last week in June, Katey had Girl Scouts Day Camp. I was a helper the first day and enjoyed watching the girls show off their new canoeing skills :> At the end of the day, Katey played a funny little drum for the closing ceremonies. Her dad joined her on Friday for "Me and My Guy Day." They sure had a great time together. Neat thing was that their troop had the honor of doing the flag ceremony at the open and close of camp with Katey as announcer :>

On Saturday July 1st, Katey and I met Alex Scott and Family at the Zoo. Alex is a fellow WilmsKid--He and Katey have matching belly scars on the right side :> Katey had fun with Alex, Stephanie, and Carson and it was so great to meet Jeff and Jen! Here are some of the *pictures from the zoo!* Its got me geared up to work on a possible weekend get-together with our WilmsFamilies and CB friends at a WaterPark Hotel, maybe in Feb. It'd be great if this works out!

The third of July we were at my niece Monica and her family's new waterfront condo to celebrate her birthday. That night we also got a unique view of Milwaukee's "Big Bang" Fireworks from the rooftop, verrry cool! On the Fourth of July we saw the Waukesha County Fireworks. Katey loves watching fireworks showering from all around :>

The next day we spent all day boating. Katey loved swimming in the lake and esp the wild ride on the Jetski with her Uncle Tony! Later, it was our turn to ride and I let her get some driving in--she thought that was pretty cool! The following day we were back with our dog Mitzi for some more fun :>

This past Saturday, we drove to Lake Geneva for moving-in day at OneStep camp. It was great to see so many of our friends and how great the kids looked. It was heartbreaking however to hear from mom Cindy that her daughter Maggie had just relapsed again 2 days before camp...Special Prayers please for Maggie and her family, esp for Maggie to have a fantastic time at camp with renewed energy to fight off the beast yet again...

On Sunday we were back for a special family celebration and opening ceremonies for camp. Katey was asked to come up and talk again along with her friend Damien. She actually got a little shy coming up to talk this time, silly girl! I guess it was different being in front of all her little camp friends!

This week I've been busy working on a make-over for Katey's room while she is away. There sure is a lot of sorting and organizing to do--I can't believe how much stuff this child has collected! Anyway, we are painting tomorrow and I have to narrow down what theme to use for her room. She loves dolphins and monkeys, go figure! I think I'm going with an Island Jungle theme, kinda like in the movie "Madagascar."

This Saturday, we are stopping in at camp for a quick visit and to change out Kate's clothes. We've been missing our little camper-girl so it will be good to see her and stock up on some more hugs-n-kisses to last us another week.

We'll update again after camp. Please keep the prayers up for all those in remission, those fighting the beast and other illnesses, and for all of our angel friends' families...

PeaceLoveHugs-n-GodsBlessings to you all, The Olsens

Thursday, June 15, 2006 10:44 AM CDT

WOW, I can't believe how time flies! We have been so busy the past month! Since the last update, Kate did a beautiful job dancing a solo in her school's talent show. She modified the dance she had made up from the Holiday Showcase to fit the stage. Her brothers gave her an A for her dancing and even Cory was inspired to dance with her after the show *see pix in the photo album.*

The boys are off to a fast start with baseball season. Katey was supposed to play also but the scheduled games conflict with her Dance Company Troop's Summer Choreography/Practice times.

Kate had a bout with stomache flu Friday, June 2nd. She had stomach pain and vomiting from 2am until 1pm. She ended up missing school but she didn't want to miss opening night of her Dance Recital. She skipped the final rehearsal but managed to feel better that eve (with a little help from some leftover nausea meds--shhhh!) She went on to dance all 5 of her dances that night, 4 on the Saturday matinee, and her 5 dances on the final show. Did I mention her and her dad even kept in the final twisting-toss in their Father/daughter dance Friday and Saturday nights? Oh, and that she had to have a large bowl of Pasta with creamy Alfredo sauce at 11pm after her first recital because she was STARVING??? Thats our crazy girl! She did such a fantastic job at recital! Here is the link to some photos from The Recital.

Our oldest Jonathan had his 6th grade graduation on June 7th--definitely bittersweet. He says he is happy about summer but very sad to be leaving to move on to Middle School. He got all A's on his report card--oops except for the B in Art class, LOL! He will be in High level Math and English for the upcoming school year. His Birthday is on the 22nd and then he will be 12 years old! We are sooo proud of our Junior High Guy! Gosh, Where does the time fly???

The last day of school was June 8th. Katey and her brother Sam both had field days. They enjoyed all the fun especially since it was a beautiful day. Katey and Jonathan both were very sad and teary-eyed coming off the bus. Not Sam! He's excited for summer break esp since he sees all his friends all summer long through sports! He is into the swing of things with baseball already. Sam's grades this year--5As and 3Bs :> Katey had a great report card also--all P's (proficient) and A's (advanced!) We are sooo proud of the kids :>

MORE GREAT NEWS! Tuesday, Katey went in for her onc check up. She also had chest xrays and kidney function labs, and a UA--all is well! That makes 3 years off treatment and still NED! She will have one final abdominal ultrasound on July 3rd and then we will be done with those. She will only need to be seen every 6 months for Onc follow-ups, WOOHOOOO!!!

While we were at clinic, we saw Melissa, her fav clinic nurse. She was telling us about how Katey was her first patient 3 1/2 years ago! That really put a smile on our faces to know we are at this point :> We also saw Sheila our SW. She is working on a Fundraiser for OneStep camp and will be calling us to have Katey at the Golf Fundraiser on the 24th. Katey loved camp last year and is more than happy to help out to raise money for camp. As it is, she is sooo excited to go again July 8th-22nd :>

Busy weekend ahead with baseball games, a family get together on Friday, and then Dad and the boys head out Saturday morn with the Boys Club from church for canoeing and a camp out. Katey and I will have a "girly Saturday" then Dad and the boys return early Sunday afternoon for us to celebrate Fathers Day.
HAPPY FATHERS DAY to all you dads out there!

Thanx for stopping in and celebrating our good news with us! Please keep all other kids in your prayers--some we pray to remain NED, others to be able to battle through their illnesses and their fights with the cancer beast, and especially for all our angel friends' families...

PeaceLoveBlessings-n-Hope, The Olsens

Here is a link to some of our pictures from the end of May to mid June Enjoy!

May 15, 2006 --HAPPY 9TH BIRTHDAY KATEY!!!

Thank you for being such a special blessing in our lives. The 9 things we love about you: You are kind, loving, caring, friendly, sweet, creative, thoughtful, smiley, and always adorable!
WE LOVE YOU!!!

Friday, May 12, 2006 9:49 AM CDT

Its kinda nice that our updates are getting farther and farther apart. Its a sign of us being so busy with all other activities. Its incredible that its May already! We are quickly heading into the end of the school year with a frenzie of activity...AND Katey's 9th Birthday is coming May 15th, the Monday after Mother's Day!

The 2nd-3rd week in April, Kate was sick with a severe cold with barky cough and fevers and missed a lot of school. She was finally well enough to attend the last day before Spring Break. Easter was nice, we have lots of family in the area that we see all the time so this time after church, we went home to celebrate and reflect on Jesus conquering death by being RISEN!!!

During Spring Break, we took a quick getaway for 2days/1nite to the Chicago area. We enjoyed the Field Museum, Shedds aquarium, the John Hancock Tower/observation deck, and the Museum of Science and Industry. It was a whirlwind of activity along with lots of traffic and a one nite stay at a scary motel. Overall, The kids enjoyed it and so did we. There is so much more to see and do in the area, some other day...

The day after we got back we went to our first Doodle Romp. It's an organized doggy playdate for all doodle dogs (crosses between goldens/poodles and labs/poodles.) Kate and I went with our dog Mitzi, she had a blast! Kate ran into a boy that goes to our church and had fun playing with him. The day after that we got our pup spayed, she has finally recuperated.

Kate has been busy at the dance studio 3-4 days out of the week getting ready for the Big Recital June 2nd & 3rd. Katey will be in 4 dance numbers every performance and will also dance the Father/daughter dance on Saturday nite. They are working hard on that right now :>

The past few weeks have been crazy. Tae Kwon Do has already fallen victim to our hectic schedule. Next up is Mother's Day so Happy Mother's Day to all you incredible Mothers out there!

Thanks again for keeping up with us, Katey's next onc check up is June 13th--checkup, labs, and Xray. If all is well, she will be 3 years OT! As always, we pray for all the friends we've met along the way fighting childhood cancer and various illnesses, those in remission, our angel friends' families, and those who are in the thick of fighting, some are fighting yet again like our friend Ben with his 3rd relapse of Wilms. We keep you all in our thoughts and prayers always. Please say a prayer for all these little heroes and if you have a spare minute, wish our own special warrior a wonderful 9th Birthday :>

HugsLove-n-Peace, The Olsens

Monday, April 3, 2006 3:03 PM CDT

Hi All,

The past month was busy with all 3 kids. Kate has had meetings with the Indian Princesses and a fun tour of the Wales Fire Dept with her Girl Scout troop. March 16th was the 3rd/4th grade Music Program for Katey and Sam. Katey was sooo excited that she was picked to have a solo piece on one of the songs! She did well and so did her brother Sam :> Sam had his last basketball game which helped ease our busy schedule some initially. Jonathan has been busy with before and after school programs (Future Problem Solvers and Stock Market Group.) Then the kids started a 1 month free trial of Tae Kwon Do. They love it but with our crazy schedule they can only go to one class/week so I'm pretty sure we won't be staying with it.

This past Friday, Katey presented her Biography report on Mrs. Fields (The Cookie Lady.) She worked hard on her report and really enjoyed it. I think the class liked the part where she passed out Mrs. Fields nibbler cookies!

Saturday, April 1st, started off with a Bang (or should I say 'whistle?') All 3 kids competed at the citywide (15 schools) swim meet. They each were allowed 2 events and then the relay. It was Katey's 1st year of eligibiliy as a 3rd grader and she loved it! We are sooo proud of all 3 kids! The 3rd and 4th graders competed against each other in the morning and then the 5th and 6th graders went head to head in the afternoon.

Katey took 2nd overall with the Backcrawl, 4th in the 25yd freestyle, and 5th in the 100yd relay as their anchor! Sam took 1st with Backcrawl, 2nd with Breaststroke, and their relay team took 2nd! Jonathan took 6th in the Backcrawl, and 7th in the breaststroke. He also anchored the 5th/6th relay but they didn't get to place. I was bummed that I didn't get to cheer Jonathan on since right after 3rd/4th grade awards Katey and I had to leave.

We grabbed a quick lunch, Katey showered and dressed in 20 minutes and then we were out the door and headed for the Showstoppers Dance Competition 90 minutes away. By the end of it all, Katey's troop, dancing to "Under The Sea," swam away with the 1st place Gold Trophy as well as the Overall Trophy!!! I couldn't believe the energy--Katey had completed her full day of competition with swim and dance and still had energy to dance/spin/leap across the stage after the awards :> We were finally headed home at 9pm and thankful for a safe ride home with Auntie Cherie at the helm :>

Today has been a day to play catch up with everything that wasn't done this weekend. Our pup Mitzi is under the weather with the runs so we've been having to deal with that as well as some other health issues for myself. Katey? She's phenomenal--strong and feelin good! Every day, every minute, a Blessing!

We are glad that it is springtime and we are really looking forward to some warmer weather. Spring break is around the corner and then Easter! We always love Easter :> Its a time to reflect on Jesus' beautiful gift of Eternal Springtime for anyone who would like it! I can't think of anything more incredible!

Thank you for stopping by! Please spend a few minutes praying for all who are affected with illness and disease, just beginning their journey with cancer, in the midst of their struggle, those having to fight again, those waiting for their cure, and for our angel friends and their families. We think and pray for you all often~

Easter Blessings to you all, LiveLifeFULL!!!

***April 4, 2006 update: I'm so sad tonite--Please say extra prayers for our Wilms friends who've had recent recurrences and are having to battle yet again--Brave warriors Ben, Brooke, and Tess we are praying for you!***

***Peace and Love to an incredible young lady and her family, Angel Brooke forever cancer free, you will never be forgotten***

Thursday, March 9, 2006 10:20 AM CST

Hello all,

The kids were off school the last Thursday and Friday of Feb. On Thursday, Katey and her best friend Rachel were able to get in one last play date before she moved to IL. We started with an early lunch at McD's and then headed out to the ice skating rink. It was Kate's 2nd time but it was Rachel, my boys, and friend Cory's 1st time. They all had a great time :> We headed back to the house after so the girls could spend time scrapbooking. They had a good time going through all their photos. Rachel didn't have to get picked up until later in the evening so the girls had more fun playing dress up and even put on their own fashion show :> It was good the girls got in one last play date--10hours and they enjoyed every minute!

The following morning we went to Kate's onc check up. It was a quick one and all is well--She won't have to be seen again until June. Kate was sad that Rachel couldn't be with her at Mayfair Mall afterwards since her family had already left for IL. The Mall just wasn't the same but Katey cheered up when she got to visit with her friends at Libby Lu :>

This past weekend was very busy. On Friday, after school, Kate had extra dance practice. We had a quick dinner then off to Young Author's nite at School. The kids had fun seeing all their friends and getting special attention for being young authors. We were home at 8:30pm and then dad and the boys were off to the Boys Club Lock-in at the Y by 10pm that night.

Saturday morning was Sam's BB game and Kate's swim class followed by more dance practice. We had a late lunch and then just a few hours to get Kate ready for the evening's Indian Princess Father/Daughter Dinner Dance. She loved getting dolled up for a fun night with Dad. She even had a homemade wrist corsage--good thing it turned out since we forgot to order one ahead of time! Robert and Kate had a wonderful evening :>

Sunday morning we had to be at the dance competition by 8am. We were 20minutes out when Kate realized she forgot parts of her outfit at home. Dad had to drop us off at the competition and race the hour to get home and back. He got back just minutes before the girls performed--thank goodness! The girls did fantastic for their first dance competition. They had to compete in the older 9-11yo category even tho only one of the girls was 9yo and the rest were younger. Sadly the girls didn't place. Kate cried. I should have had a talk with her before about "not winning" but being 'winners' for trying--Another of life's lessons, I guess. Their second competition will be on April 1st in Madison, an hour away. Kate is looking forward to trying again.

We got home at 2pm just as the big snowstorm was coming. We had a late lunch, a little rest, and then it was time to sort girl scout cookies for delivery--That pretty much took up the rest of the crazy weekend.

Alot of emotions have run through us this past several weeks. So busy, so much to look forward to, so sad about Rachel moving, so happy that Kate is still NED! Then with our greater Cancer Kids community--excited about the introduction of the Childhood Cancer Bill to Senate (Wyatt's family has been instrumental in this) and then the Reed's Glorious Mexico Vacation through the help of earth angels just last week, and now to Celebrate their son Kyle's 5 short years here on earth. Its got to be such incredible heartache for his family yet we all are so happy for Kyle that he has received his cure--Cancer-free, Pain-free, and in Paradise! Stop in their incredible website--you will notice an awesome picture of their family at sunset in Mexico...but just as sure as there is a peaceful sunset, there comes the bright and brilliant SONrise! Kourageous Kyle is already there~
CelebrateLife, The Reeds do!

HugsLovePeace-n-Blessings to you all~

Wednesday, February 15, 2006 11:48 PM CST

Happy Belated Valentines Day to you all!

We've had a busy but nice Valentine's Day and hope you have as well. Katey enjoyed a Friendship Party at school yesterday and had fun opening up all her Valentines, including some *special* ones, LOL! Afterschool, she had a Brownie Meeting. This time I joined her to give a short little talk. Her troop picked the Phillipines for the upcoming International Fair. It was fun to be able to share a bit about my birthplace to help them get ready for the fair next Wednesday!

Next, Kate and I headed out to her Ballet class and then raced home to enjoy a quick dinner and some family time. It was awesome that Robert had already cooked up steaks on the grill and had it ready for us, YUM! 25 minutes later, we were off to Kate's Jazz class. When we finally returned home, Dad and Sam were already gone to swim class. We finally all got back home together just before 9pm--Whew! That's our usual crazy Tuesdays lately with a little extra fun thrown in!

Kate was scheduled for an Onc visit on Valentine's Day but she had so much going on already that we rescheduled for Friday the 24th. This visit is going to just a check up--no labs, scans, CXRs or ultrasounds! The protocol is a lot easier now that she's 2yr 9mo OT. Thankfully, she has been feeling well (for the most part.)

Its been a mild winter and Kate's been busy with her dance classes, a dance performance at the Nursing Home, girl scouts and the big cookie sale, sleepovers, birthday parties, swim class, and all her other groups. The big event in January was the Girl Scout sleepover at the Petitt Center Olympic Ice Arena. Kate and I had a great time even tho it wasn't without its problems. Turns out that the stomach flu was making its rounds at the school and by Friday, several GS already had it and couldn't come to the event. It got worse. More girls got sick during and had to go home early.

Kate and her friends did really well and had a great time :> Kate took to the ice for the very first time and just skated away. She absolutely *LOVES* it and is already begging for skates! They were out on the ice again before midnight until 12:30am! They even stayed up talking and playing until 2:30am. By 6am, We were woken up by men(!?!) walking through our room. Turns out the Olympic time trials(!) for the Speed Skaters was that very morning and our room was the only way to the coaches balcony. It was definitley an interesting way to wake up, LOL! It was cool to eat breakfast and watch the speed skaters zip around the track--there are several who are vying for medals (even gold!) for the upcoming Olympics :>

We packed up and were ready to head out when we got a call from Robert that we no longer had to hurry to get to Sam's Basketball game. Turns out he was up at 2am with our own sick Sam :( When Robert called to tell the coach, he was told that most of the players on both teams were sick and the game was cancelled.

Kate was feeling good and still energetic after the long night so we went ahead with Kate's swim class. She did have a nice nap in the afternoon after we ran some errands :>

By Sunday night, Robert and Kate were both sick and then Jonathan followed several days later. I was the only one spared. It wasn't all a total loss. We had just gotten a large screen TV and actually had time to 'get acquainted' with it :> It's been a fun Christmas/Valentine's present for all of us!

We've had some other misfortunes this past few weeks. I had a fender bender when I backed into someone zipping through the parking lot at work, our washer broke down, and then Sunday, the furnace went out! That day, we just figured it was God's funny way of trying to get us to church on time. We left our cold house early, had some breakfast, and then went to church. The kids thought it was great that we were early instead of the usual few minutes late, LOL! The rest of the day we camped out in the family room with our fireplace going and enjoyed the big screen TV. Esp fun cuz we could watch the Olympics and root on some of those speed skaters we saw at the Ice Arena :> The kids also had fun making smores! The furnace is back on now and hopefully we won't have anymore problems.

The next few weeks are busy again as Kate has her very first dance competition. Their company troop is kicking it into overdrive with extra practices. Tomorrow is spring picture day and then afterschool is the swim meeting to kick off the swim team. Friday Kate will be on a sleepover, then swim class Sat morning followed by Sam's BB game.

Next week is the International Fair and then the kids will be off school the 23rd and 24th. Kate's got her check-up on the 24th and will be accompainied by her best friend Rachel. Rachel is moving to Illinois and they are getting packed up on Thursday and Friday so the girls want to spend as much time as possible together and of course after her onc check up we are headed for the mall!

As busy and fun as things have been, we can't help but think of our CB friends. Some are in remission, others are in treatment and having a hard time, still others have had to make the tough decision to stop treatment and enjoy life together. We also have angel friends whose families are having to go on without them. Please keep them in your thoughts and prayers as well. Many of their websites have been left in our guestbook. Please stop in and give them a word of encouragement or just pray for these children and families. Please join us in praying for a Cure for Cancer and for other illnesses. Its just so hard to see so many suffer...

Hug each other tight and never forget to tell your loved ones how very much you care~

Our HugsLovePeace-n-Blessings to you all!

Thursday, January 12, 2006 7:50 PM CST

Hi all,

Its unbelievable that we are already 12 days into the New Year! We've had a busy but blessed Christmas and New Years with family and friends :> There were many parties and playdates throughout the holidays and now the kids are back into the full swing of things in school.

There were 2 strange things about the weather this holiday--no snow and no sun! About 18 days ago it got cloudy and warmer out, all the snow melted, and then we've just had fog and cloudy weather--very strange for Wisconsin! The sun peaked out for less than an hour the other day and then finally made a good appearance today :>

No snow meant that the kids didn't get to play outside in any white stuff through the holiday break. Katey and her dad had their Indian Princess Winter Campout last weekend but the snow was also a no show. They had a fantastic time with other activities anyway :>

Last weekend was also the school's sledding party that was turned into a board game party. The Winter JanBoree Festival is on the 20th. Hopefully there will be snow by then.

Today was so nice out that it actually hit the 50s--That's just unheard of for January in Wisconsin! It was fun to run around and play with our dog Mitzi outside. When the kids got home from school, she got all excited and ran around outside with them :> We have had Mitzi for almost 3 months and she has been a great addition to our household. We all love her to pieces!

Jan 25th will be the 3rd anniversary of when our whole world changed. In some respects it has been the worst thing, in other ways it has changed us all for the better. Little things just aren't important anymore. What really matters is that we have each other to enjoy for now and when we are done here we will have Forever!

There are many of you out there both old and new friends and we are greatful for all the support and love poured on us as we travelled this road. As we get farther and farther out from treatment, our life normalizes. Even the little aches, fevers, illnesses, and complaints that Kate had that would routinely bring the fear of relapse is easing. Feb 14th, Valentine's Day, will be her next scheduled onc check up. There is no fear, whatever will be will be, and we will deal with it then. We just are not the same people, we are better. We still have many CB friends having a rough time right now and we wrap them all in prayer for the Miracle of healing here on this earth. Still, in the end, His Love does conquer all! There will be Eternity to look forward to and No cancer, disease, or illness will ever take that away from us!

Have a Blessed New Year, Hug each other tight, Never forget to say I Love You and know that it was because He first Loved Us!

Hugs-n-Peace, The Olsens


Jan 30 update: One of our first friends at clinic, Patrick, has become one of Heavens newest angels...We are all heartbroken yet he left us all with wonderful memories of a boy who truly knew how to LiveStrong...
Patrick, Miracle Boy and True Warrior--we will miss you always but will remember you strongly in all things nature...Our LoveHugs-n-Prayers to all The Goods...Peace Patrick, you did it your way~

Thursday, December 8, 2005 7:09 PM CST

Hi All!

I can't believe its December already with Christmas fast approaching! Its been a long while since our last update and so much has gone on. Our Family has been busy with so many unique opportunities and fun events.

Since the last update, we've enjoyed Halloween and Thanksgiving. Our family had fun at the school fun nite in November--The 50s Sock Hop and then this month the Tropical Island Party just last Friday. Katey loves dressing up for these fun events and had a great time hangin out with her friends.

Towards the end of November our family was asked to walk along in the Milwaukee Holiday Parade with Make-A-Wish. We had fun walking with a fellow clinic family--Michael is doing very well and its just great to celebrate our kids being awesome survivors! It was a cool morning with beautiful blue skies, really quite nice out which made walking a little bit nicer :> We walked about 4 miles by the time we were done and back to where our van was parked. Pretty tired at the end of it. We had a quick lunch and then a short 40 minutes at home before heading out for Kate's Holiday Dance Showcase.

Kate was in 3 out of 21 dance numbers. One was with her Ballet troup, another with her Company troup, and then she had a Solo! She did so wonderfully after such a busy morning with the Parade and all. She had 3 outfit changes and not much time between numbers. For her Solo, she danced to "Promise" from the WDW Millenium Celebration. She was FANTASTIC! We will try to get the video on here for you to see :> She was very nervous since it was her first solo ever and with her own choreography, too. It really helped that she was able to practice her dance after school in the gym. We didn't have the space at home for her to practice all her leaps and spins. It was so incredible to see her dance...it just made us smile to know how much she has accomplished :> Later, We were with family for our bible study--it was a very long and wonderful day, but sooo very much to be greatful for!

The following day we walked at another parade--this time for the one in Waukesha. Kate was supposed to walk with her Indian Princess troop, her Brownie troop, and also her Dance Studio. She decided to go with her Dance Studio so another long walk but she enjoyed it. Both parades were televised and Kate was bummed that she wasn't on the Milw Parade clip but her brothers were. She did make it onto the Waukesha Parade clip so she was happy about that, LOL!

The Tuesday before Thanksgiving, Kate had an Oncology checkup and a CXR and all is well, still NED (No Evidence of Disease!) Her next checkup won't be until Valentine's Day :> At our checkup we ran across Sheila, our SW, and she introduced us to a new Wilms Family. It was hard to see yet another child going through this--Kate was 5 1/2yo and in Kindergarten when she was diagnosed just like Haleen. Her family was so nice and we were glad to meet them but wish it was under different circumstances. Its just so hard to know that more kids, more families, are being affected every day...

We know its been awhile since we've been able to visit so many of our CaringBridge friends. Just know that we think and pray for you all always. It snowed again today. Such a pretty white sparkly and fluffy snow and we are reminded of our very special CB Wilms friend Brooke and her family...She became one of God's newest angels this morning...Please keep her incredible family in your prayers~

Thanks for stopping by and checking on Katey and our family. Please leave a quick message if you have a minute, it always lifts our spirits to know you've stopped by :>

HugsLovePeace-n-Prayers, The Olsens

Monday, October 24, 2005 11:17 PM CDT

Hello all,

Sorry its been soo long since we've updated. The past month has been a total whirlwind of activity, thankfully all good and just a sign of trying to keep up with all this family does these days.

The kids have been busy with school, field trips, and all manner of outside activities. Katey has been busy with brownie mtgs and a field trip to the farm with her troop, Girl's club at church, Indian Princess meetings (we just hosted last Sunday,) and her dance classes. This past Saturday she auditioned for their Studio's upcoming Holiday Showcase. She danced to her own music and choreography and now she'll have a Solo! Exciting and nerve wracking all at the same time! This coming weekend, her Dance Performance Company will be performing for the American Heart Association walk at Miller Park. The girls in her company have worked very hard and are looking forward to it :>

Big Brother Jonathan is enjoying 6th grade. He just finished a stint with cross country and finished well in the all city run. He also just finished a season of flag football. Last game was Saturday and he did very well again, many sacks, and broke loose for a long run that was close to a TD :>

Brother Sam is now in the 4th grade and just turned 10yo October 11th! He's been busy with flag football, too. Dad was Coach this year and they had a great season with only one loss. His last game was also this past Saturday. In the middle of a cold drizzly day he managed to get in the endzone for 2 touchdowns and 1 conversion :> The other team was putting 3 kids on him so he didn't get as many sacks but still got in the backfield to mess things up. His team was fantastic this year :>

This past month has brought some other big events to our family. We attended the Celebrate Life Party held by Children's Hospital for all its Oncology patients. We enjoyed seeing our old friends and we also got to meet Haley (fellow Wilm's Warrior) and her awesome family :> We also ended up finally replacing Robert's 13year old car for a new one. We love riding in the new car as a family. Our other car didn't have space for all of us to ride together. Last Monday we sold the Mitsubishi but not without a lot of tears from Katey. That same evening, we drove out to Kewaskum, an hour away, and ended up coming home with a new puppy! That's right, we sold the Mitsubishi, took some of the money and bought a puppy! She is our first puppy ever and the kids adore her already! Robert insisted we name her Mitzi in honor of the car we just sold, sooo Mitzi it is :> She is a "Doodle dog" specifically a Golden Doodle--a cross between a golden retriever and a standard poodle. We have had her one week and I can't imagine her not being part of this family!

We'll be putting up new pix soon :> Its late already and I've got a busy morning with Robert out of town on business so I'll call it a night. Sorry we've been so scarce visiting with our CB friends. Just know we think and pray for you all always~

HugsLove-n-Peace, The Olsens




********Our CB friend Brooke is really having a tough time right now and could really use your love-n-prayers. Visit her and her awesome family at www.caringbridge.org/ne/brooke WE LOVE YOU GUYS!!!***********

Monday, September 19, 2005 11:27 PM CDT

Katey had her head MRI on Friday. Before she went in the big room alone, she had a tear in her eye, hugged me tightly and then bravely got up on the table. She did it all without any sedation. She layed completely still like she was told. She was done within 40minutes, then they let us leave. That made me feel better because they would never let us leave if they had seen anything. Kate told me on the way out that she was feeling scared before the MRI but then she talked to Jesus about it. After that, she said she felt fine because He was there with her! Out of the mouth of babes...I was sooo very proud of my little girl!

We went to Mayfair and had lunch, stopped off at the Build a Bear and Katey made a new friend she named "Misty Lou." We were also able to stop in and visit with a super friend at Libby Lu before heading home.

The weekend was busy, esp with Jonathan and Sam's first football games which were one right after the other. The rest of the weekend we just did a few household duties and then Sam had his best friend Cory over for a sleepover. Cory is a real good friend to Sam and is also very good to Kate. They all get along so well :> They even went to Erik's house to join him and his friend David for a little bonfire. Katey joined along too and had a great time running around at night with the boys. They all had their flashlights playing cops and robbers :> When they got back they ended up watching "The Pacifier" and munching on popcorn. It was close to midnight before the kids headed for bed. I didn't mind. I guess I was just relishing a fun evening letting the kids be kids, they are such a blessing~

I called early this morning to remind clinic to call with results of the MRI now that the weekend was over and we made it without worrying ourselves sick. I did feel peaceful about everything knowing that whatever the results, we would be fine and just Trust in God to see us through.

I got the call just after noontime that the results were indeed fine and that there were no new concerns! It was a relief to hear. At the same time, I couldn't help but feel so sad about all our other friends going through relapse treatments. It seemed such a small victory amidst all that this beast can do in and around us. I just wish all our friends would've received the same news with their child.

I'm going to go to sleep just a little easier tonite knowing that for the time being my child appears safe. I pray you are all enjoying your days and nights, cherishing all that is good, counting your blessings, and stepping over any problems in your way. God bless you all and thank you for thinking of us and for the many prayers for Katey.

HugsPeace-n-Love, The Olsens




Wednesday, September 14, 2005 11:17 PM CDT

Hello Everyone,

Time sure flies, its been a very busy month since our last update.

We went on a wonderful family vacation mid-August. We drove to Sandusky OH and stayed a couple nights to break up the long ride to Niagara Falls. There we really enjoyed the WaterPark, an African Safari, The Kelley Island Ferry, sightseeing at Put-in-Bay in a Golf cart, and took in the rides at CedarPoint Theme Park :> It was really a fun place to be and we could have easily stayed another night to enjoy more of the area.

On the third night, We drove the rest of the way to Niagara Falls. We stayed 4 nights on the Canadian side and really enjoyed the awesome sights. The first day we went on the White Water Walk by the Whirlpools, rode the Aerocar across the Gorge, and took the sidewalk tour of Niagara Falls.

The second day we went on a Tour behind the Falls, rode the Maid of the Mist Boat to the base of the falls, and rode the Incline Railway. The kids enjoyed the "supersoaker" rides the best :>

The third day we went on the American side of the Falls. There we watched the IMAX movie about the Falls and its history, rode the trolley to sightsee all around Niagara Park, toured the area by the Maid of the Mist ride, and went on the Cave of the Winds tour. We really got soaked there, what an awesome experience! That night was a Full Moon but a little cloudy out. It was still an incredible experience to see the Falls lit up at night. The kids loved chasing each other around in the dark until Kate banged her great toe into a rock and skinned it up good. We enjoyed our last night looking at the pretty sights by day until late in the night.

The following morning we packed for the ride home but not before stopping at the Butterfly Museum and enjoying all the beautiful fliers :> We left the area at 2pm and made it back home by 2am. It took us 12 hours with 3 generous stops for meals, stretching, tossing the football around, and for Kate, lots of hoolahooping, her newest craze :>

This was our first Vacation 'driving' more than 3 hours away and the kids said it wasn't bad at all! They are already looking forward to doing it again for our next family vacation. That won't be for awhile of course :>

A few days after vacation, Katey was busy in our room doing 'something.' When she brought us up, we saw that she had transformed our room into a Safari with all her stuffed animals! We had to go on 'Safari' to find where all the animals were hiding :> I guess our African Safari on our Vacation left her with quite an impression, wish I would've remembered to take a picture.

School started September 1st and we ran busy right to the last day with sleepovers, movie nights, and more swimming with friends. Katey loves her teacher Mrs Marcks as she was big brother Jonathan's awesome teacher in 3rd grade. She has a lot of her Kindergarten friends in the class and also a lot of new kids so quite a nice mix. Sam is in a split 3rd/4th grade class, and Jonathan is glad to have some of his good friends in 6th grade with him. Thankfully the kids seem to be off to a great start.

This past weekend we went to Hozhoni Camp for Cancer kids and their families. We all had a fantastic time and the weather was incredible at this picture perfect place. It was especially great to see our old friends and to meet some new ones, too. We also finally got to meet with Ben and his family (Wilmskid/caringbridge friends!) Ben looked even more fantastic in real life and Hannah is a cutey. Thanks for coming up to meet with us Michelle and Dave, wish we had more time together!

The kids all enjoyed going fishing and frog hunting and stayed up late the last night to watch a movie with their friends. They didn't go to bed til shortly before midnight. Good thing this is only once a year. We are looking forward to next year already!

Last night we got hit with a strong storm with powerful winds that came out of nowhere. Our big tree in the back yard really took a hit and lost several 5" diameter limbs. Luckily we didn't loose power but much of the area did. We were really taken by surprise and it caused such a mess of our yard. I can't even begin to imagine the devastation in the area hit by the hurricanes. Its so incredibly awful. We pray that recovery goes much smoother and calmer and that all would get the help they need right now.

Katey had a follow-up oncology check-up and lab work just before school started. Her creat levels are still elevated but nothing too horrible. We did discuss how Katey has had multiple headaches for the past month and had never had them before. We were able to reschedule an MRI of her head for this Friday, Sept 16th. Its amazing how nerve wracking this all is. Most of me feels it will all be okay but it sure is hard to keep the other part of me calm. Please say a little prayer that all is well.

Please also say a prayer for all our friends in the heat of battle with this cancer beast and for all others suffering other illnesses and devastations. I'm hoping to post good news of Kate's MRI soon. Just know that even if we haven't been able to stop in to visit, we still think of and pray for you all daily. Hug your kids and loved ones tight and never forget to tell them how much you really care!

Love-n-Hugs, The Olsens

Wednesday, September 14, 2005 11:17 PM CDT

Hello Everyone,

Time sure flies, its been a very busy month since our last update.

We went on a wonderful family vacation mid-August. We drove to Sandusky OH and stayed a couple nights to break up the long ride to Niagara Falls. There we really enjoyed the WaterPark, an African Safari, The Kelley Island Ferry, sightseeing at Put-in-Bay in a Golf cart, and took in the rides at CedarPoint Theme Park :> It was really a fun place to be and we could have easily stayed another night to enjoy more of the area.

On the third night, We drove the rest of the way to Niagara Falls. We stayed 4 nights on the Canadian side and really enjoyed the awesome sights. The first day we went on the White Water Walk by the Whirlpools, rode the Aerocar across the Gorge, and took the sidewalk tour of Niagara Falls.

The second day we went on a Tour behind the Falls, rode the Maid of the Mist Boat to the base of the falls, and rode the Incline Railway. The kids enjoyed the "supersoaker" rides the best :>

The third day we went on the American side of the Falls. There we watched the IMAX movie about the Falls and its history, rode the trolley to sightsee all around Niagara Park, toured the area by the Maid of the Mist ride, and went on the Cave of the Winds tour. We really got soaked there, what an awesome experience! That night was a Full Moon but a little cloudy out. It was still an incredible experience to see the Falls lit up at night. The kids loved chasing each other around in the dark until Kate banged her great toe into a rock and skinned it up good. We enjoyed our last night looking at the pretty sights by day until late in the night.

The following morning we packed for the ride home but not before stopping at the Butterfly Museum and enjoying all the beautiful fliers :> We left the area at 2pm and made it back home by 2am. It took us 12 hours with 3 generous stops for meals, stretching, tossing the football around, and for Kate, lots of hoolahooping, her newest craze :>

This was our first Vacation 'driving' more than 3 hours away and the kids said it wasn't bad at all! They are already looking forward to doing it again for our next family vacation. That won't be for awhile of course :>

A few days after vacation, Katey was busy in our room doing 'something.' When she brought us up, we saw that she had transformed our room into a Safari with all her stuffed animals! We had to go on 'Safari' to find where all the animals were hiding :> I guess our African Safari on our Vacation left her with quite an impression, wish I would've remembered to take a picture.

School started September 1st and we ran busy right to the last day with sleepovers, movie nights, and more swimming with friends. Katey loves her teacher Mrs Marcks as she was big brother Jonathan's awesome teacher in 3rd grade. She has a lot of her Kindergarten friends in the class and also a lot of new kids so quite a nice mix. Sam is in a split 3rd/4th grade class, and Jonathan is glad to have some of his good friends in 6th grade with him. Thankfully the kids seem to be off to a great start.

This past weekend we went to Hozhoni Camp for Cancer kids and their families. We all had a fantastic time and the weather was incredible at this picture perfect place. It was especially great to see our old friends and to meet some new ones, too. We also finally got to meet with Ben and his family (Wilmskid/caringbridge friends!) Ben looked even more fantastic in real life and Hannah is a cutey. Thanks for coming up to meet with us Michelle and Dave, wish we had more time together!

The kids all enjoyed going fishing and frog hunting and stayed up late the last night to watch a movie with their friends. They didn't go to bed til shortly before midnight. Good thing this is only once a year. We are looking forward to next year already!

Last night we got hit with a strong storm with powerful winds that came out of nowhere. Our big tree in the back yard really took a hit and lost several 5" diameter limbs. Luckily we didn't loose power but much of the area did. We were really taken by surprise and it caused such a mess of our yard. I can't even begin to imagine the devastation in the area hit by the hurricanes. Its so incredibly awful. We pray that recovery goes much smoother and calmer and that all would get the help they need right now.

Katey had a follow-up oncology check-up and lab work just before school started. Her creat levels are still elevated but nothing too horrible. We did discuss how Katey has had multiple headaches for the past month and had never had them before. We were able to reschedule an MRI of her head for this Friday, Sept 16th. Its amazing how nerve wracking this all is. Most of me feels it will all be okay but it sure is hard to keep the other part of me calm. Please say a little prayer that all is well.

Please also say a prayer for all our friends in the heat of battle with this cancer beast and for all others suffering other illnesses and devastations. I'm hoping to post good news of Kate's MRI soon. Just know that even if we haven't been able to stop in to visit, we still think of and pray for you all daily. Hug your kids and loved ones tight and never forget to tell them how much you really care!

Love-n-Hugs, The Olsens

Friday, August 12, 2005 11:23 PM CDT

Hello Everyone,

Its unbelievable that summer days are winding down. We've been busy with loads of playdates, swimming in the backyard with friends, baseball practices and games for both Jonathan and Sam, and of course lots of Coldstone Creamery treats :>

Last weekend was one of the busiest. We started last Friday with Jonathan's last baseball game of the season. He hit safely at every at bat except for a couple walks in his kid-pitch park and rec team. We didn't get to see the rest of the game because we had to head to the opening ceremony of the Relay for Life. Thank goodness our friends didn't mind driving Jonathan out to us after the game.

This year we joined the AllState team that my sis-in-law, Cherie, organized. The theme was Shining Stars so Katey and I made some yellow stars with friends' pictures to honor or remember some of our warrior friends. It was an incredible night and again Katey walked the survivor lap and held the banner. We stayed late and took part in all the fun. Katey even won a pair of goldfish she named Frankie and Louise. By 11pm, we headed for home to get rested for a busy Saturday. I made it back to walk from 1:30-3:30am. It wasn't as bad as I thought it would be. It was good to spend time praying over all the friends we've meet along the way, and later, I had good company to keep me going. Robert went back to walk from 5:30-6:30am and witnessed the lift off of the hot air balloons from mid field. By 8:15am, Katey and I were back to visit with our team. My brother Louie was DJing so we visited with him, too. We only stayed half an hour as we had to head out to see Sam's last baseball game.

Sam had a wonderful season. The final 2 games he hit homeruns to finish with 3 homers, 3 triples, and multiple doubles and singles. He sure loved to play and his team was awesome!

Right after the game we headed south of Milwaukee to help with the Windy City Poker Run. We were there from 11am until 2pm to help out with this Make-a-Wish fundraiser. We all got to see the 70 beautiful speedboats and the 25 awesome Lamborghinis that took part in this event. It was a lunch stop so the boats all docked and the cars parked where we could all get a good look. Katey even got to sit in my favorite purple lamborghini. The kids enjoyed helping to pass out the poker cards along with another Wish Family's kids. It was fun to run into Beth and John again along with their kids Richard and Michael (also treated at CHOW/ 8E clinic.) The kids loved playing together and soaking in the cool rides. Click Here to see some pictures from that day :>

Afterwards, we went over to their house and the kids played some more. Thanks for all the fun Beth and John! They also gave us some tickets they had received from MAW to go see the Packers! The boys sure loved that!

We got home for a short break and then we dropped Sam off at his friend's birthday party. The rest of the day we just relaxed. We also called it an early nite :>

This past week we managed to sneak in some more pool time before all the rains. We also spent a great deal of time shopping for 'back to school' stuff. The kids will go back on Sept 1st but not without a last minute getaway!

Tomorrow morning is Robert's Birthday. Happy Bday Honey, we love you! We will celebrate by heading out to Sandusky OH! We'll be staying just a couple nights to enjoy Cedar Point rollercoasters, play at the Waterpark, and sightsee at some of the area nature preserves and islands. Then later on Monday the 15th we drive up to Niagra Falls for a 5 night stay. Can't wait to show the area to the kids!

The sad part is that we will be missing several events while we are gone. On Saturday, Katey was supposed to perform at Half Time with her Dance Team at a college game that's going to be televised. Then on Tuesday, Children's Hosp asked us to take part in a Hyundai Tour of Hope. The kids would've gotten a chance to put their handprints on a white car and this too was going to be televised. On Wednesday is Rainbow day camp for cancer kids and their sibs. The kids have always enjoyed that. Next weekend, Katey also misses out on the joint Girl Scouts/ Boy Scouts clean up the school day. Jonathan misses out on a friend's surprise birthday sleepover, too. So much fun, soo little time...

Well, I've written too much again and I still have some last minute packing to do! We pray for all our friends and our angel friend's families all the time. Please take a minute to do the same. We think and pray for you all often even if we haven't been able to stop in and visit in awhile. Take care all, enjoy the last days of summer, the start of school, and Labor Day, too. Hug your kids and loved ones tight, don't be stingy with the I LOVE YOUs and never waste the moment...

Love, The Olsens

Monday, July 25, 2005 1:37 PM CDT

Hi Everyone!

Well we survived the 2 weeks without our little camper around. Kate had an awesome adventure at OneStep Camp. They were spoiled rotten the whole time, had loads of fun indoors and outdoors, collected a gazillion new stuffed animals, toys, candy, and best of all, met a lot of new fantastic friends :>

She loved the Boating days, swimming on the beach, the campfires, the "flour wars", her top bunk bed, arts and crafts, Dance nite, and all the silly antics of the crazy counselors--many are childhood cancer survivors themselves! Kate was sooo excited that she won the gumball guessing game and the limbo rock contest. Their nickname for her was little fashionista, LOL!

Needless to say it was hard for Katey to say good bye to all her friends and the counselors, but they all promised each other they'd be back next year and for the full 2 weeks to boot :> Thanks to all the awesome volunteers and donors of this special camp--OneStep Camp ROCKS!!!

Katey wanted to take us to all the cool places around camp. Funny girl, the boys were complaining how long a walk it was to all the places she wanted to show us. She was a good little tour guide, but I admit, it was a very long walk! Here is a slide show of *Pictures from OneStep camp*

We decided to check out the Lake Geneva area afterwards. Walked around by the pier and the beach area and took a cruise boat tour of the area mansions on the lake--some of the 'homes' Kate saw she was convinced should be hers someday, LOL! Oh well, guess she likes to think BIG!

We also ate lunch at the Popeyes Restaurant. It was a pleasant surprise to see one of her favorite counselors Frank there and to find out that it was a tradition for the OneStep counselors to eat there after camp closed up for the year :> Before heading home we walked through the Parish Festival and then stopped by a creek. Kate enjoyed walking down to it and was fascinated by the crawfish, the little fish, and the water skippers.

It was good we left when we did because we were chased by crazy weather the rest of the way home and then there were tornado warnings in the area we drove through just a half hour before! The rest of the day we spent going through all her camp 'stuff' and doing laundry detail.

On Sunday, we had a bit of a scare. We arrived at church and Kate complained that she had a sharp headache to her left temple. I got her some medicine right away and tried to wait it out with her. She was hurting soo bad that she started whimpering and rolling around. We finally headed home and let her rest for a bit. It took over an hour for the severe headache to go away. There were no other problems until 2 hours later and then she threw up without warning. AFter that, she said she felt so much better. Still no fever or return of the headache. We kept her diet lite the rest of the day and even made it to Bible Study in the evening.

Today, she has been feeling well, no complaints of anything and eating and drinking well. Thank God it was just a bug of some sort. Its hard knowing what can happen to a child who's had to battle off cancer--the fear will be there for another 3 years or so but in the meantime, we trust in God to see us through.

We have soo many friends who are in the midst of Wilms relapse, other cancers, and other illnesses having a hard time right now. Please pray for our friends and please say a little prayers for the families of our angel friends. Hug and Hold your loved ones tight, Never waste a moment...

Love, The Olsens

Please pray for our dear friend Chris (fellow dolphin lover) and her family as she received her angel wings August 6th (Saturday). Heaven rejoice, tears on earth...you will never be forgotten...

Sunday, July 10, 2005 10:43 PM CDT

Hello all,

I can't believe its almost mid July! What a busy summer its been, June just flew by! Here is a slideshow of some of the things we've done this past month: Kate's Dance Recital June 2005 and June 2005 fun :> Kate is doing well and enjoying all there is to do this summer.

The first part of Father's day weekend, Dad and the boys were out on a canoeing/camping trip. They were on a special trip with our church's Boys Club. Kate and I got in some girly time--stayed up late making our own chocolates, baking cookies, watching MaryKate and Ashley movies, and had our own sleepover in the Family room :> We even went to the Asian Moon Festival by the Lakefront on Saturday.

On Father's Day, Dad and the Boys came home early. We were asked by The Make a Wish Foundation to be a representative family at a unique fundraising event. Maggiano's Little Italy Restaurant by Mayfair Mall and their chain of restaurants holds a month-long fundraising for MAW. It all culminates to the last day/final events with golf-putting, special desserts, etc, on Father's Day. Robert's interview was on the 10pm news along with a clip of the kids putting :> It sure was a wonderful treat for Father's Day to enjoy their fantastic menu. The Manager and Chef even came out to visit with us. They took the kids on a fun behind the scenes look/tour of the kitchen. They thought that was pretty cool :> After dinner, we joined up with extended family and celebrated all our cool fathers! Thanks for being such an awesome Dad and Husband, Robert!

The following week, our kids spent morning at our church's summer programs. Kate and her best friend Rachel really enjoyed Discovery Days. They spent lots of time playing games outside and getting splashin wet--Absolutely perfect weather all week, too :>

The last Saturday in June, we went Strawberry Picking. It was pretty fun but I guess we got carried away with all the awesome berries--We picked over 50 lbs! Needless to say, we've been making lots of goodies--strawberry jam, strawberry/rhubarb jam, muffins, pies, and of course chocolate covered strawberries! Kate really enjoyed dipping the strawberries esp since she discovered that chocolate covered fingers are pretty tasty, too :>

On that Sunday, we went to the Spring Creek Festival after church and enjoyed all the fun activities. Kate esp enjoyed her first rock wall climb and the giant slide :> It was a great day for fun and games.

The end of June into July 1st, Katey was at girl scout camp. Again the weather was fantastic all week. She had sooo much fun! Robert joined the fun on Friday for "Me and My Guy" day :>

Later that same evening, was quite the treat. Our family clan came out to the airport to welcome back my nephew. Louie was stationed in Iraq for 6 months and this was his first time back in Wisconsin. We really wanted to have a grand homecoming for our marine so we made signs, waved flags, and wore shirts with his picture on it. Boy was he ever surprised! We are all so very proud and glad to have him back, esp since he was injured twice. One of his injuries was shrapnel that tore into his neck and lodged right next to his carotid artery. His angels certainly were on hand that day or he would've quickly bled to death. Our local NBC news was there to catch it all and led off the evening news with Louie's story. They included clips of our airport meeting and even a quick spot interview they did with me, Yikes! We celebrated some more at dinner. Katey enjoyed hangin' with her Cuz once again :>

The 4th of July, we were all together again for my niece, Monica's Bday! It was so special to have her brother, Louie, here to celebrate with her. We got a look at Louie's uniform along with his 2 purple hearts and bronze star he received on his tour of duty. It sure was an eye-opener to hear his stories and see the videos and pictures he and others had put together. Our freedom does not come cheap. We have even more appreciation for those who are serving and have served this country.

Later in the evening we watched the beautiful fireworks. Couldn't help but think of Angel Haley with all the flashes of red, white, and blues around. We had a wonderful viewing spot but no doubt our Angel friends had the best seats of all.

This past week we've spent our mornings on 3-4 mile bike rides, our afternoons on loads of swimming, and our evenings keeping up with Jonathan and Sam's baseball practices and games. We even managed to sneak in a day at Summerfest :>

Yesterday afternoon, we drove Katey out to One Step at a Time Camp for Cancer kids. We helped her get settled in and right away she made friends. We hung around a bit just to make sure she was fine. When we went to say good bye, she all of a sudden got teary-eyed and clingy. Her friends reassured her and we finally pryed ourselves away. I just know she'll be fine and have a great time. Sure do miss my little girl, tho :( She's only been away from the both of us for one sleepover. The weather is going to be nice all week and the area is in such a beautiful place--right on Lake Geveva. She is going to have such a fantastic time. We will be stopping in on the weekend for a quick visit and to drop off clothes for her 2nd week at camp.

I'll update again after we get our little camper home. Until then please say a little prayer for all the brave warriors out there, all those in the midst of battle, those having relapse struggles, all those in remission waiting for their cure, and for all the families of all our Angel friends. Hug your loved ones tight and never forget to tell them how much you love them, Never waste a moment...

Love you all, The Olsens

***There are new pictures in the photo album, go have a look and please don't forget to sign the guestbook, we love to hear from you all!***

Tuesday, June 14, 2005 11:51 PM CDT

YEAYYYY!!!! We were blessed to receive the call from our NP late this afternoon that Kate's Chest and abdominal scans were ALL-CLEAR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Labs and urine testing were good, too--BUN was 21, a little high, but having Kate drink more will help that along. Its such an incredible thing to know we are now 2 years post-treatment and all is well! Kate is such a blessing to us, what awesome news we've gotten!

I asked her tonite what she would like for dinner to celebrate and after all our running around today, all she could think of was burgers, so burgers it was, LOL! Robert is out of town for the next few days so we'll have to wait til the weekend to celebrate properly. Boy, was dad ever glad to get the good news!

The past week has been incredibly busy. Thursday nite was Kate's Rehearsal for the Dance Recital. Kate went to bed late as we didn't even get home til 10:00pm.

Friday was the last day of school. The kids all had a great time with field games in the morning. Kinda hot and humid out but we did okay. Robert and I were parent helpers and helped the kids have fun and keep cool enough. We stayed for the all-school hot dog lunch then left early to watch the Navy Blue Angels for a special practice. It was fun for our family to enjoy watching these incredible pilots and their precise maneuvering. At one point we were watching two planes coming together and were so unaware of the other plane coming in fast behind us. There was such a surprisingly loud rush that Kate literally fell off the seat she was standing on! Afterwards, we had a 'meet and greet' with the pilots. They even snapped a picture of the pilots with all the Make-a-Wish kids :> Then it was back on the road for the 1 1/2 hour ride back to get Kate ready for the first Recital.

Friday Nite's Recital was fun. It was interesting being a backstage mom and feeling all the energy and excitement in the air. The show was over 3 hours long, but Kate and her friends kept very busy and had loads of fun. Kate was very happy to be able to perform for some of our own VIPs in the audience :> It was a very late night, finally to sleep at 11pm. It was a long, but incredible day!

Saturday, we were at the new Coldstone Creamery to help at the Grand Opening and MAW Fundraising event. Katey helped scoop some ice cream and talked to people. Of course she also got to make her own 'creation' and is now addicted to these cool tasty treats. Funny thing is that I entered Kate's and my name in for a special raffle for free ice cream creations for a year and guess who won??? Yep, we got the call today :> Katey said, "WOW, I've never won anything before!!!" She's already dreamin about all the different 'creations' she's going to have :>

By midafternoon, we were headed for Kate's 2nd recital at 3pm. We made it in plenty of time for her next set of dances. By 5pm we were racing home for a quick dinner, then back for the Saturday evening, 3rd and final recital show. This time it was fun to be in the audience to watch. It was all so beautiful! What a pleasure it was to watch our little girl at all 3 of her dances at the the recital :> After the show, we snapped loads of pictures with her favorite dancing buddies :> On the way home, Kate begged for a return to Coldstone Creamery for an icy treat, sooo at 10:30 at night, we were back. It was neat to run into quite a few of her fellow dancers from the recital there, too :> It was close to midnight before we all called it a night.

Sunday was fairly relaxed. We went to late service at our church and then spent the afternoon outside. The kids had fun swimming in our backyard pool with their friend.

On Monday we were off to The Dells for the day with Uncle Tony and Auntie Cherie. We were rained out in the morning but shortly after lunch, the beautiful weather was back and we spent the afternoon enjoying the waterpark. Kate made friends with another girl who had the same swimsuit on--We called them the swimsuit twins :> For dinner we headed out to the Cracker Barrel to help Tony celebrate his Bday. Later, we headed off to the Timberlodge Adventure Park. Robert and Sam enjoyed riding the rollercoaster--14 times! Kate, Jonathan, and I enjoyed the bumper boats. We also played a round of mini golf. We left the area late and got home shortly after midnight.

This morning we were out the door early for Katey's checkup, scans, labs, and urine testing. Kate took her 'drink' like a champion. It was the first time she's ever tried the contrast in Grape soda and it worked like a charm--She said she could barely taste it! They drew the labs then left her accessed for the scans. By the time it was time to inject the dye, the access wasn't working :( Kate just kind of whimpered with her 2nd IV poke but held still and was a real trooper. The rest of the day was easy. We got to say hi to some of Katey's big friends at clinic--Melissa, her fav nurse, and Sheila, our awesome SW. Kate even got to talk to another little gal who will be going to One Step Camp for the first time this year also.

We finally made it to Mayfair Mall's food court at 1pm for a late lunch with friends. Kate was so hungry from the starvation for scans that she ended up eating her whole Arby's kids meal and some of my lunch, too! Its really no wonder that Kate is now 4ft 3inches tall and weighs 65lbs! We headed off to LibbyLu after lunch. Kate and Camille had a great time getting all 'girly!' It was great to see Jodie there especially :>

We came home for a short break then it was off to Sam's Baseball 'picture day' and game. We dropped him off with the coach then ran off for Kate's audition for next season's Dance Performance Company. She said she thinks she did well. We should hear back soon whether she made it or not. I hope she is not disappointed if she doesn't make it, its a very elite group. She really loved being a part of it this year so I know she's really hoping to be a part of it all again.
***Update Thursday--Just got word that Katey has made the Dance Company again! YIPPEEE for the extra sweet things in life!

Well, we've had another incredibly busy week but we surely are counting our blessings! Today, receiving the all-clear scans was the best news of all :> Kate's check ups now go to every 3 months with scans, ultrasounds, and chest x-rays being less frequent.

We are celebrating wonderful news but at the same time we have friends who are having such a difficult time. Please keep our friends Haley, Brooke, Matthew, Jessy, Mark, Chris, and Benjamin in your prayers. Thanks for stopping by and please sign the guestbook :>
Also, if you have an extra minute, go see this incredible videoclip TheSurvivorMovie

Peace, Love, Hugs, and Blessings to you all! The Olsens

***Happy Fathers Day to all the Awesome Dads out there!!!***

***Update June 21st (Tuesday morning): Heaven gains a beautiful angel...A final message from Haley "Good night to all and Thank you for the prayers, Love Haley." Haley, you will never ever be forgotten...

Wednesday, June 8, 2005 0:34 AM CDT

Hello all,

We raced right out of May and into June! The month started with cool rainy weather, then there were a series of fantastic days, and now we have the hot muggy stuff with rain on and off.

The past several weeks have been very busy. Kate and her Dad were at a weekend campout for Indian Princess and had a great time. Just me and the boys at home. We were doing fine til Sam hit himself with the bat while practicing his hitting with the Hit-a-Way. Got a nice little cut and a shiner from it. Oh well, I guess its just the start of summer injuries here in our household.

Kate made it home after a weekend of outdoor activities at the campout without a single injury. In the afternoon, she decided to jump rope on an old tree stump in our back yard. Didn't even tell me anything was wrong until she couldn't keep the toilet paper wraps on her bleeding thighs! Turns out she shaved the skin right off both of the backs of her thighs when she fell off the stump. She tried to 'fix it' by wrapping toilet paper on. It was all a big bloody mess. Thank goodness it only took 5 days to heal and she's almost good as new except for a few scar lines.

The next weekend brother Sam was injured again when he jumped onto a golf tee that was wrong side up. Good thing his tetanus was up to date--He's all healed up already.

Memorial Day Weekend was very nice here. Just spent time relaxing at home with our family until Monday. Then we went for a custard run and then down to the beach :> It was fun to watch the Pewaukee Ski Team doing special performances for Memorial Day to honor all the wonderful men and women who have served this country.

We have also been busy with lots of dance practices for the upcoming recital this weekend and practices for the boys respective baseball teams. Today Sam had his first practice game and even scored an infield Home Run :> There have also been lots of field trips and special days to wrap up the school year.

Friday will be the last day of school. Robert and I will be helping out in the morning for fun and games. We will stay for the all school hotdog lunch then we are leaving school early for a MAW event. We will drive out to Janesville to watch the Navy Blue Angels practice and then have a 'Meet and Greet' with the pilots. We figured that was worth missing the last half day of school :>

We have to be back in town the same evening for the Friday nite Ballet Recital. Saturday afternoon and Saturday evening she has repeat performances. In between, Katey will be at the Grand Opening of the ColdStone Creamery just a mile away and will be a guest scooper once again. She loves being a WISH kid representative for MAW (Make-a-Wish.) Boy oh boy, Katey just thrives on all the activity but I'm sure she'll be so wiped out by Sunday!

We are gluttons for punishment so we may take a day trip to The Dells on Monday. The next morning, Tuesday June 14th, Katey will have her scans, labs, and checkup and we are praying for the all clear for this 2 year post treatment checkup.

Its been so busy, we apologize that we haven't been able to sign in with all our CB friends. Just know we are praying for each and every one of you. Please say a special prayer for our friends Haley, Brooke, Jessy, Matthew, Mark, and Benjamin. Thanks so much for stopping by, please sign the guestbook--it always cheers us to know that friends care~

Peace, Love, and Hugs to all of you! The Olsens

Monday, May 16, 2005 10:12 AM CDT

WOW, I just can't believe our little Katey is now 8years old!!! Its just such wonderful news to celebrate after what she has battled through in her short life. Every day, Every year is a Miracle, Just like the day she was born :>

My husband and I were fully ready for a 3rd boy but then 2 weeks before Kate's birth I had a dream. In the dream, I was walking with a little toddler girl. She called me Mommy and I said 'Yes Kate?' Thats all I remember cuz it jolted me awake. I told my husband that we were going to have a little girl and we needed to call her Kate! Imagine his surprise, We had been calling the baby 'Charlie' all along, and our girl name (if we were lucky) was going to be Rachel, LOL! Yes, we were so blessed the day she entered our lives. We wouldn't trade her for the world no matter what we have all been through together or what may lie ahead. Every day is an adventure!

Its been an emotional past couple of weeks with Mothers Day last weekend and then this weekend with Kate's Bday--all wonderful emotions! Kate attended to every detail for Mother's day--woke me with a kiss, a backrub, and my morning brew she made all herself. She did it carefully without dad's help and as she pointed out, no spills from the coffee grinder to clean up either! She had everything ready for my shower and even picked out my clothes. She did not want me to raise a finger. It went on like that all day :> Its incredible to celebrate motherhood and life with my husband, our two boys, and our little sweet girly!

Yesterday for her Bday it was her turn to be special! She was so excited to open her presents. Her favorites were her 20inch 6speed bike and her Bratz scooter. Can you tell she loves to be "on the move?" Her brothers even made her some cards and got her some candybars, LOL! Ah yes, they know how much of a sweet tooth she is :> She loved her breakfast of choc chip waffles with strawberries we shaped into a heart. We went to church and after she collected more Bday Hugs :> At lunch she had her favorite potstickers and then we sang her Happy Birthday and lit her cake at the stroke of noon--the exact time she was born! Of course the cake was chocolate with whipped creamcheese icing and had a dolphin on top :>

Shortly after lunch, we headed downtown for the last Milw. Ballet performance of the season. It was so sweet of Yumelia (her Principal Ballerina friend)to get us tickets. Katey enjoyed watching all the dancers. After, we went backstage to visit with Yumelia. The sad thing is we found out that our friend is moving to Florida :( Katey went with Yumelia to her dressing room and she gave Katey a sweet little present and notecards to keep in touch with her. Yumelia has been such a wonderful friend to Katey, we are surely going to miss her...

We got back home just in time to make Katey's dinner but she did have to cancel out of her Indian Princess Meeting tonite. More time for us! She got to play outside while I made her request--Grilled tenderloin steaks, macaroni and cheese, and asparagus with mom's hollandaise sauce, LOL! Her request is kinda like Kate in a nutshell. Loves to get all fancy but can run around and be down to earth and simple the next :> Dinner was topped of with some more Bday cake and then later we had some Moose Tracks ice cream with choc oreo cones. Ah yes, Always the sweet tooth!

Today Kate is at school, only 3 more weeks left before school is out and her Dance Recital! Things have been busy with extra practices lately and of course all the wrap up with school field trips, special days, etc. Today Katey brought in fruit snacks for a class treat :> Now you understand why she had 3 cavities filled and needed sealants last week! That's our sweet baby!

We've got so much going on so we may not be able to journal until after her next clinic date June 14th when she gets all her tests, scans, checkup done to get us to 2 years post treatment! Sorry if I've been scarce on visiting all of you wonderful people out in cyberland, you are all in my thoughts and in our prayers always! Please would you all take a minute to say special prayers for our friends who are fighting relapses, having difficult times right now, waiting to hear word that they are still in remission, and for all the families of our angel friends. Please esp say a prayer for another incredible warrior, Mandi, in her homegoing. Please pray for her family in the hard day's ahead...

Hug your kids and loved ones tight--NEVER waste a moment!

Love, The Olsens

***Have a look at the new pix in the photo album and Pls take a minute to sign the guestbook and wish Katey a wonderful 8th birthday!!!***

Thursday, May 5, 2005 1:10 PM CDT

Wow, time flies...I can't believe its already May! At least the weather is cooperating today--Bright blue skies, a warm sunshiny day, and temps to mid 60's, aaahhh :>

We've been so busy since the last posting with all 3 kids and their various activities. Since then we've hosted an Indian Princess meeting here at home. The next one will be on the 15th of this month which also happens to be Kate's 8th Bday!!! I can not believe my baby is turning 8! They sure do grow up fast! Plans are up in the air as to what we are doing yet, Kate is thinking she might want to postpone her party with friends til mid summer so they can have a backyard pool party. She really loved that last year!

Kate had a quick onc check up on April 19th. Picked her up early so we could go for lunch. We ended up watching her brother Sam do his outdoor 3/4 mile run for the presidential fitness awards before leaving school. It was exciting to see him come from behind to win and to also post a great time :> We ate at the Mall and had time to stop in and say Hello to her friend Jodie at the Libby Lu. Katey even had time for a very quick hairdo :> Now that her hair is growing back long, it sure is fun to get different 'dos.' It was a quick check up at the oncs and then back to school for the rest of the day. Her big check up will be June 14th for the whole gamout of testing, scans, labs, etc. It will also be her marker for 2years post treatment, can't wait to get there!

Kate was busy the very next night (Wed.) for the Spring Music Concert. She even played a special homemade instrument :> We stopped in at Culvers after to hang out with some of her friends.

Thursday the 21st was Kid's Club at Church. The boys had their annual Bike Rodeo and Sam took 1st place for all the 3rd graders, WTG Sam! The girls had crazy hair day, LOL!

That weekend was also very busy. We had Kate's picture sessions at the ballet studio for the upcoming recital. Of course it was at the same time as the Citywide Swim Meet for the 16 elementary schools in the area. We were lucky to catch part of Sam's swims and all of Jonathan's later in the day. Sam took 2nd in Backstroke, 3rd in breaststroke, and their team took 8th in relay for 3rd-4th grade. Jonathan placed 8th in backstroke and 7th in relays for the 5th-6th graders. After the swim meet we made our way to my niece's daughter Makyla's 1st Bday Party! It was a busy day and that was even without the Pinewood Derby races and the Girls Club CampOut that we skipped on!

By Monday nite the 25th, we were at the Coldstone Creamery National Birthday Party for MakeAWish. Katey was asked to be a Wish Child at the Brookfield location. It was great to see some old and new friends there, as well as some family, too. Katey guest-scooped all night from 5-8pm. She loved making all sorts of icecream and other tasty treats. We also met 2 other special kids and their families that were there, too. Katey had a great time!

Tuesday, the 26th Katey was with her Brownie troop at a Touch of Glaze. She painted a bowl with a picture of, what else? A dolphin of course! She had to miss her scheduled ballet class but she's got the routine down pretty well for the upcoming recital.

Thursday, the 28th, was the last night for Kids Club at Church. The boys had awards nite and Katey had carnival nite. We are so proud of our kids and how well they have come along!

Last Friday, the 29th, the boys were at separate sleepovers and then Saturday, the 30th, Katey went on her first-ever sleepover at her friend Erin's Bday Party. Also on Saturday we had a great time at Auntie Cherie's 4oth Bday Surprise Party! Anyway the kids spent Sunday lounging around catching up on the sleep they didn't get on their sleepovers, lol!

Fast Forward to May! Our schedule is full of Field trips for all 3 kids, lots of Birthday parties (hopefully Katey's also!), and lots of added dance practice times. The Dance recital is June 11-12th, on both nights and a matinee time on Saturday. Katey will be at all 3 since she's in the Performance Company. She will also be in the Father/Daughter dance and her Ballet performance will be on Friday and Saturday nite.

It has been such a crazy time this past month! Looking back however to 2 years ago, I can't help but be greatful for our many blessings. Katey is doing well and we are eagerly awaiting the 2year OT marker. Still our hearts are heavy knowing there are so many others just newly diagnosed and others who are having terrible struggles right now...Please take a minute to say a special prayer for all these incredible kids affected by cancer, other illnesses, those who are currently in remission, and please remember all our angel friends and their families.
Hug and Kiss all those you love and NEVER waste a moment~

A VERY HAPPY MOTHERS DAY TO ALL YOU SPECIAL MOMS OUT THERE!!!

Blessings to you all, The Olsens

Monday, April 11, 2005 11:44 AM CDT

Hello All,

Okay, sorry everyone for being so behind on updates. We returned home from springbreak in Florida last Monday and played catch up with everything and now full forward into our usual set of activities.

Our vacation was a blast and the weather was fantastic for 99f the time, totally unbelievable!

We attended Easter Sunday service at our church at 8am. It was the best possible way to start. How awesome is Our God to lift us up way above our life circumstances to help us travel gracefully through this life and then to provide us Eternity through Jesus Christ! We have so many things to be thankful for!

We arrived into Orlando at 7pm so we only had time for picking up our car and getting registered at our 2 bed unit. We also picked up some groceries/breakfast items for the week and called it a night. Dreaming of all the fun this week would hold for our family!

Monday March 28th--We headed out to Tampa to visit Busch Gardens. What an absolutely beautiful park to just walk around and admire everything! The kids esp liked the aviary walkthru. We had a funny looking bird walk around following us and the kids got to pet it. It tried to follow us out but we made sure it stayed in. Still not sure what it was, LOL!

We did go on the Stanley Falls Flume waterride, that last 'dip' sure was a soaker! We also enjoyed the Rhino Rally Safari Ride. Kate's big brother Jonathan even got to be the Navigator and sat in front with the driver :> What a fun ride! We also hopped on the train for a ride around the Serengeti Plains. Then we went to watch a very energetic show called "Katonga!" Later, Jonathan, Katey, and I went to the arcades area to ride bumper cars etc so Dad and Sam, 'The Hardy boys,' could ride the Gwazi rollercoaster. They enjoyed it so much! We walked by it again later and noticed there was no line. This time, the boys coaxed Katey and I into riding it, too. The pictures during the coaster ride showed Kate with a flat emotionless face. She told us later "When I'm a little scared, I don't talk, don't move, and don't breathe!" YIKES!!! Well, once was enough, that was the last coaster Katey and I rode! We got back late from lots of construction traffic and finally called it a nite at 11pm.

Tuesday March 29th--We drove east to Daytona and went to the Speedway. Robert enjoyed all the interactives, displays, and everything racing. He even got to be part of the pit crew and changed out a tire, hehe. We also took a tram tour on the actual speedway and got pictures at the famed Victory Lane. This place was pretty cool esp for Race car fans like my hubby! Afterwards we stopped at the Angell and Phelps Chocolate Factory for a quick tour and got to sample all sorts of goodies. We esp liked the chocolate covered potato chips, YUMMM! We headed off to Daytona Beach next where Spring Break was in full swing for college kids. Our kids thought it was a hoot to drive on the beach with our rental car. We found a fairly quiet area with less commotion to stop at and let the kids enjoy the rest of the afternoon. The skies were a beautiful blue and the water an incredible turquoise. The kids loved digging in the sand, playing at the edge of the water, and picking up shells. We just won't mention too much about all the reports of SHARKs along the Florida coastline lately! We got back late and called it a nite around 10pm.

Wednesday March 30th--We headed for SeaWorld. Our first stop was the Dolphin Cove and StingRay Lagoon. Another beautiful park, we enjoyed all there is to see and all the animals, too. Again the 'Hardy Boys' were off to conquer Kraken, the coaster, and rode it multiple times while Jonathan, Katey, and I watched them and strolled the park. We left early so we could get cleaned up and meet our friends who were also in Orlando. We went to the Disney Marketplace which was very alive and busy with all sorts of dancing, music, and people. We met with our friends at the Rainforest Cafe and had dinner late. YUMMY food but very loud and busy tonite. We enjoyed our visit with our friends.

Thursday March 31st--We returned to Busch Gardens to finish up where we left off. This time we headed right first and toured the "Myombe Wildlife" and the "Edge of Africa" Reserves, very cool! We also went to 'Egypt' so the 'Hardy Boys' could try the Montu coaster. They enjoyed it so much, esp since there was no line. They rode and rode and rode. We watched them for a bit. Katey also had fun playing at the Sand dig and made a new friend. Thats our Katey, loves to meet new people, boy, girl, young, or old, makes no difference to her! We watched a couple shows today, one was the Moroccan Roll and then to the Wild Wings of Africa where Katey was picked as a volunteer. She wore a cowboy hat and had a large bird land on her head. She also helped with several demonstrations with the birds. She really thought that was a hoot! We also braved the Congo River Rapids where Jonathan got the super soaking :> Afterwards, the kids just kicked off some steam at Lory's landing, a funland for kids. The kids loved walking all the rope bridges, climbing the tree houses, jumping in the bounce house, and basically letting loose. Robert and I enjoyed the fact that the kids were having a great time and that they were all healthy--we are sooo blessed! Later, the Hardy Boys were off to tackle more nite coastering so we went to see the Haunted House show. It was another late night. We got back at 10pm.

Friday, April 1st--Our day at Discovery Cove! We started bright and early and were there by 8:20 for a 9am start but then so were a lot of other people! Thankfully things moved along quickly for getting us checked in. In no time we were in our wetsuits and swim vests and in the coral cove! This cove was full of incredibly beautiful schools of fish that swam within inches. Our wetsuits were very buoyant so the kids really enjoyed snorkeling and loved floating all over to watch the schools of fish and try to chase them down. Next we went into the Stingray pond and again there were schools of stingray swimming next to us and bumping into us, what an awesome experience! The stingray came in all sizes up to a giant 6 footer! The kids really enjoyed this pool, too, and we went back and forth several times between these 2 pools. At 11:30 we were headed for our special interaction with the dolphins. We had the inservice and then a pair of trainers took our family along with 2 others to meet our dolphin. Katey loved all the time we got to spend meeting Akai, our dolphin. We learned some cool things about him, petted him, fed him, and then did commands for him. Towards the end, we each had a ride with him, too. Katey went last because the trainer said they remember who was last best, LOL! After her ride, the dolphin came back with a buoy for her that said "To Katey Olsen, our brave little survivor! You are so special and We Love You Very Much!" It was the highlight, and such a wonderful thing for Discovery Cove to do for her. We had contacted them earlier because we wanted to do a little something special for her but the wonderful folks at Discovery Cove decided to do something for her without charge! They also gave her some gifts to remember her trip :> She received an "I swam with the Dolphins" tshirt, a water camera, and a free photo to remember her swim :> She said later that it was even more fun than she thought it would be! We enjoyed a fantastic lunch and were off for some more fun in Paradise! We all enjoyed the lazy river which took us to an aviary after going under the waterfalls. There was also lots of 'buried treasure' to see underwater in the river. Katey and I enjoyed holding hands and floating down river on our backs :> The weather couldn't be more gorgeous and the skies were such an intense blue, what an incredible experience! We spent more time in the coral cove with all the cool fish and went by the underwater viewing window for the shark and barracuda pools by the sunken ships. Very wild to see. I just think its the coolest thing for the kids to go snorkeling and enjoy it all without the threat of sharks turning us into midday snacks. Later we also went in the caves and Katey enjoyed dancing and spinning in the water and just soaked in all the fun. We played in the warm lagoon til the very end when they told us it was time to go. Katey just kept saying how she wanted to keep rewinding the day so she could do it all over again :> Me too Katey...

We got back to the condo and washed up and dressed for the Luau dinner at SeaWorld. Such a beautiful day, now a gorgeous night. The Luau show was amazing and so was the food. There were 2 families that sat with us, one from Wales, and the other from Chicago. Kate made friends with Morgan, the 7yo from Chicago. They went on stage together to join in the Hula dancing. We took lots of pictures and afterwards they watched the fireworks/laser light spectacular at the waterfront together. It was an absolutely perfect finish to an incredible day!!!

Saturday, April 2--We headed to Cocoa Beach and got stuck on the Toll road because of a bad accident. A definite inconvenience but at least we were all safe and uninvolved. We were exited from the toll road and rerouted after 2 hours. We finally got to the beach 4 hours later. The weather was perfect but we only had 2 hours to enjoy the rest of the day. The kids loved playing in the waves close to shore. Sam however went out farther to jump the waves and body surf. His first time doing this and he was hooked! Several times we had to call him in to come closer to shore. Thank God there were no 'Big Fish with sharp teeth' around! The kids also had fun playing in the sand and collecting shells. We stopped at the Ron Jon shop before heading out. We were hoping to have time to meet up with our friends Courtney and her family back in Orlando but by the time we got back it was late and we had DayLight Savings to contend with :( We all called it a nite by 9pm.

Sunday, April 3--Off to our required Timeshare Presentation! We were all ready with our David Spade repertoire of NOs but in the end we figured out that it wasn't such a bad deal for our family. So now we truly are timeshare owners, LOL! We fully plan on taking total advantage of all our benefits for friends and family so if any of you are planning on any vacations and are tired of the single hotel room with 2 beds, come email me! That done, we stopped in again at Sea World for some more fun. We rode the Sky Tower and walked around before going to our Dinner with Shamu. The food and esp the desserts were great! Then we were right up close for the special performance. Very cool! We also met a nice couple from England who shared our table. After the dinner we headed for the Penguin exhibit and the Shamu tank then on to the "Shamu rocks America" show. What a fantastic night show! It was another beautiful night in Orlando. The kids were off to bed by 9pm. Me on the other hand had some wash to do and some packing for our trip home the next day.

Monday, April 4--Off to a special breakfast for new timeshare owners! It was fun for Katey and all of us to be picked up with a limo and taken to breakfast. We were treated like royalty! Afterwards, we were dropped off by the limo to complete our packing and to leave the Leisure Resorts. Its truly amazing how much more we had to pack! We stopped into the Disney Marketplace so Jonathan could see LegoLand and for Katey and I to see the Disney Store. Afterwards, we went back to SeaWorld for a few more hours of fun before setting off to the airport. We got there in plenty of time to turn in our rental car and eat dinner before our flight out. We got to the security checkpoint about an hour to flight time. Incredibly our carry-on was pulled over and searched and re-searched to the tune of 25 minutes before they found my mini swiss knife. I had forgotten it was even in there and it had been there for who knows how many years! This bag has been on numerous carry on trips and has never once been pulled. Very frustrating but we know they were just doing their job. Anyway, by the time we got to our terminal they were boarding and we missed our chance to be bumped. They had already taken 18 people off the plane :( Darn, we were packed for a bump, too. So unfortunately, the whole mini swiss knife thing cost us $1500 in future flight vouchers *sigh* guess it just wasn't meant to be. We were back to the cold lands of Wisconsin by late evening. Tony and Cherie were kind enough to pick us up from the airport. We were exhausted from all the activity of the past week but our minds were full of all the fun and blessings we've had!

The kids were back to school on Tuesday morning while I did catch up with the laundry. I was even back working Tuesday evening then followed up with Wed and Thurs nights, too. This past Friday was the school's spring carnival and the kids had a great time being with their friends and playing carnival games in the school's transformed gym. Katey picked a stuffed frog with long velcro arms and legs as a prize from the dart game. Froggy is her newest and bestest friend :>

The weather has really been quite nice since we got back. Katey has been going to school with shorts/skirts, sandals, and light jacket. Once Katey wears sandals, she hates to go back to socks and shoes so good thing the weather has been great. Saturday nite Katey and her Dad were at the YMCA for an Indian Princess fun nite/sleepover but without the sleepover. They didn't get home til after midnight. Katey really wanted to stay the night. At least she was able to finish watching the movie "The Incredibles." The whole weekend the weather was awesome so we've spent a lot of time outdoors. Katey loves her swing set and going way up high on "space missions!"

Today, she is in school and they just started Terra Nova Placement testing. It will be going on for the next couple weeks. We rescheduled her onc follow up so it wouldn't interfere. She is scheduled now for April 19th. She looks good and is feeling well so we pray that all is okay.

I apologize for not being able to visit all of our friends' CB sites. I'm hoping that I'll have a chance to visit you all before the end of the month. Always we pray for all of you but esp for Haley, Mark, Jessy, and Patrick. Stay Strong! Thanks for stopping by and checking on us, please leave us a note if you've stopped in, we love hearing from all of you :>
***CONGRATS for making it through this lengthy entry!***

Love and Peace, The Olsens :>


***UPDATE from Patrick's mom Roxanne***

WILLIAM "PATRICK" JAYE COZAD EARNED HIS WINGS TO HEAVEN TODAY.........APRIL 13, 2005 @ 7:05pm.

***Please offer your love and support to yet another hurting family...
PATRICK The Great!, We will never forget you!

Thursday, March 24, 2005 10:58 PM CST

Hi Everyone,

I can’t believe its already the end of March and spring is here! You couldn’t tell from our 30F temps. The temps are still below average here in Wisconsin. Today it actually got to 47F, finally a step in the right direction. It would be great if it continues to get warmer out, but I won’t hold my breath!

Katey has been doing well and keeping very busy. She continues to amaze us with her swimming at the YMCA. She and her brother Sam are both moving on to the Flying Fish level. She swims smoothly, is quick in the water, and is able to swim 4 continuous laps :> That’s my little fishy (or is it mermaid?) Both Sam and Jonathan are fast swimmers on the swim team this year. Katey will have to wait til next year as a 3rd grader before she can join.

She is also doing well in her Ballet and Performance Dance Teams. She's been working hard getting ready for the recital in June. The Performance Team will be dancing in all 3 recital times. The Performance Team is made up of a variety of ages 6years to Senior in High School. Their dance is pretty complicated since they come and go at different times and even weave together, all during the one dance. Hard to explain, but the choreography is great! Their song?—“I Need a Hero” from the Disney Movie Hercules :>

On Friday the 11th, Katey had a Brownie Mtg at the PetCo. She loved getting to know about the different pets. Its just a good thing she didn’t come home with any extra critter friends! Later in the evening, Katey, Dad, and the boys attended the Girl Scout International Festival. Mom was out of town for a Women’s Breakaway with church. Dad did so well with all the chauffering duties for the weekend which also included Dance Practice for Kate, her best friend Rachel’s Bday Party, and Sam’s last Basketball game on Saturday. They even got to church on Sunday! Kate had a nice weekend with her Daddy and her brothers altho she did mention that Daddy didn’t quite know how to fix her hair!

That same weekend, I had my hair done by someone else since I won a make-over! It was so much fun getting all pampered :> My hair is much shorter now with cool highlights and I’ve got a really cute outfit to wear this weekend :>

This past week, we’ve been busy getting ready for our trip to Florida. Katey is sooo excited (so are the rest of us!) Tonite tho, we attended Maunday Thursday service and on Good Friday we will go see the Play that my brother and his wife will be in at their church. Easter Sunday we'll be going to early service then getting the 1pm flight out of town. We haven’t gotten around to greeting everyone or to signing many guestbooks lately but just know we think of you all often and wish you a Very Blessed Easter in Celebration of our Lord’s Loving Sacrifice for our Eternity~

Please keep our friends Haley, Mark, and Jessy in your prayers as well as all others in treatment, in remission, or fighting again. Please also say a prayer for those suffering through other illnesses and pray for the families of those who have lost loved ones. Life is precious, go hug your loved ones tight and tell them how very much you love them…NEVER EVER waste a moment…and NEVER ONCE forget that we have a Father in Heaven who LOVES us more than we can imagine~ John 3:16

Peace and Blessings, The Olsens

Sunday, March 6, 2005 10:58 PM CST

Hi all,

I can't believe its been so long since our last update. We are just busy keeping up with the kids and their crazy schedules. Since our last update, Katey has been having friends over to play or going to their house to play. We have had family parties and Kate has been to 2 friends' birthday parties. There have been several school events--Music concerts, Parent/Teacher Conferences, and Young Authors Nite just this past Friday. Throw that in with the weekly activities like ballet, swimming class, girl's club, Indian Princess events, Brownie troop meetings, and girlscout cookie delivery, along with our 2 other boys' schedules and we haven't got much time for anything else!

The kids were off school the last Thursday and Friday in February. I thought we'd finally have time to catch up around the house, but those days were just as busy! Thursday morning we had dentist appointments for the kids and myself, then after, Kate was off to Libby Lu for a friend's Bday Party. She had a great time getting all dolled up as a pop star and then having lunch at the mall. At night she had Girl's club at church. When we picked her up later, she burst into tears! Turns out this night was their own "Oscar Nite" when the girls get all dressed up to receive their club awards and their families cheer them on. Katey cried because the other girls had their moms, dads, and siblings there and she had noone, not to mention she wasn't dressed up! BIG OOOOPPS! Last week Katey missed club to go to Sam's music concert and no one told us ahead of time that this was a special nite :( It took us a while to calm her down. Luckily she still had her hair fancy from earlier in the day. Anyway, the next night we made up for it by going out to eat at Kurt's Steak House. It was a tasty treat for all of us.

This past weekend was just as busy. Saturday morning, Kate had to ride with a friend to her Performance Team Dance Practice since it was the same time as Sam's Basketball Game. This game is the last one I'll see since I'm going to be away next weekend. After Dance Practice, I took her out to her friend, Daren's Bday party at the Hilton Waterpark. She had a great time :> Afterwards, we stopped in to the flower shop to pick up Kate's wrist corsage for the Indian Princess Father/Daughter Dinner Dance. She loved getting all dressed up and having a special nite with her Daddy last night :>

Today was a lighter schedule. We went to church in the morning, got some groceries, then the kids enjoyed some warm weather outside for a change. It got up to the mid50s F today! The kids rode their bikes and roller bladed. In the afternoon, Robert drove Kate to her friend Jess' house to play. The weather can be so funny sometimes. Just last week the kids were outside building snowmen. Today they all toppled over! The warm weather certainly gave us some spring fever!

Its not much longer till we find warm weather. We will be taking a trip to Florida for Spring Break the end of March. We'll get to use the flight vouchers we got last year when we were bumped on our flight home from Katey's MAW trip. We'll be staying at a Time-share property (2bdr/2bath/LR/Kitchen) for only $40/night in Orlando. Not bad except we will have to listen to "The Time Share Talk." We will go mainly to see Discovery Cove and swim with the Dolphins on April Fools Day :> Its kinda pricey but Discovery Cove is an all day adventure and with our tickets, we'll be able to visit Sea World and Busch Gardens as often as we want during our week there. We aren't scheduling anything else so we can be free to visit the beaches or go wherever the wind takes us. Katey is so excited that she'll get to swim with the Dolphins. This was the part of her MAW that she didn't get to do last year. We are all looking forward to Spring Break :>

Thanks for stopping by and visiting with us. Don't forget to leave a note in the guestbook if you've been by, it always cheers us to know so many are taking this journey with us and praying for Katey to stay strong and in remission. Also, please say a prayer for all the other brave fighters in various stages of their battle against cancer, those currently in remission, those suffering through various illnesses, and for the families of all the Sweet Angels who have gone before us. Please especially pray for our wilms warrior friends who are having such a difficult time right now, Haley and Mark. Thank you all for your faithful prayers! Hug your loved ones tight and NEVER waste a moment~

God's Special Blessings to all of you, The Olsens

Wednesday, February 16, 2005 7:14 PM CST

HI EVERYONE!!! A BELATED TO YOU ALL :>

On Monday, I helped out in Kate's class for their Valentine/Friendship party. The kids are all so sweet in her 1st/2nd grade class. They gave each other valentines and treats, played some games, made some heart frames, and us moms passed out drinks and cupcakes. Kate received a valentine that had "I love you!" written on it, LOL! Mrs Burns also has 2 of Kate's valentines because they are signed "Anonymous." Boy, kids can be soo funny!

For our Valentine's Day Dinner, we made Spiced Chicken and pineapple pie. Afterwards we popped in a movie and watched "Shark Tales" for the first time--what a cute movie! Our family enjoyed having a nice relaxing evening together :>

The next morning I took Katey in to Children's for her 20 month post-treatment testing. It was a busy day with her chest x-rays, cat scans of her chest/belly/pelvis, Blood tests for kidney functions (BUN/Creat,) urine testing(urinalysis for macro and micro), and onc check-up. We started at 9am and finally got to leave just before 1pm. Its been a while since we've had to stick around for that long, we're so used to the quicker visits. Anyway, we got the call yesterday afternoon that the CTs were ***ALL CLEAR!!!*** Actually, they did mention there was a little atelectasis in her lung bases but that its probably because of her cold. Kidney functions were just fine (BUN 13 and Creat 0.5) and so were her urine tests! Thank God she continues in REMISSION!!!

There was a funny thing that happened with our visit yesterday. I used to tell Katey of a time when she was a newborn in the Nursery. A nurse said to another nurse "This little baby is sooo cute, I want to take her home with me!" It just so happened that the nurse was Tammy, a nurse I worked with in the NICU in Milwaukee and so was the nurse Donna that made the comment! I hadn't seen either nurse for 7 years! Tammy told Donna "Well guess what? You know her mom!" After she told her who I was, she ran down the hall and burst into my room yelling my name. She scared me half to death! It had been so long since I'd seen them and then to run into them both at a Waukesha Hospital was quite a coincidence. Well fast forward to this year. Just last week, Katey asked me to tell this story again out of the blue. Its been years since I had mentioned anything about it. Then yesterday, we were waiting for the nurse to start Kate's IV for the CT scan and in walks Donna! It was great seeing her again (another 7 years later!) I said "Kate remember the story of the nurse who saw you in the nursery and wanted to take you home?" Donna laughed and said "Hey, That was me!" Kate now has a face to go with the story, LOL!

Katey took almost 45 minutes to drink the contrast and then she spit some up at the end. She absolutely hates the stuff and was gagging with every gulp. She sat still for the IV and blood work and also did wonderfully for the scans! The rest of the day was easy.

We left clinic right after her check up. Its not the same there lately. None of her little friends were there but she was able to hug her favorite nurse, Melissa :> We went to Mayfair Mall for lunch and ran into Kate's Make-a-Wish volunteer! Actually he was halfway down the escalator and heading out. We were halfway up when Kate spotted him and called out to him. He was so shocked that he ran down the escalator and ran up to us.It was fun to chat with him for a few minutes before he had to get going.

I couldn't believe how much Kate ate! I guess she was pretty hungry since she hadn't eaten all day for the scans. She even had some of my steak sub, too! After lunch we took a little trip to the Build-a-Bear. I had promised her a new friend this time if she did well with all the testing. Well, she was exceptional, so now she has the Nikki II bear she named "Kissy!"

I finally got her back to school with only 45minutes left for the day. After school she had her brownie meeting, then I picked her up to take her to ballet. After ballet, we had 30minutes for dinner then she was off to swim class! Whew, what a busy day. She was in bed and sleeping soundly with her new friend Kissy by 9pm :>

Today was much quieter. The only after school event was swim class for the boys. The rest of the evening was relaxed and now they are getting ready for bed.

Thank you so much for all the awesome guestbook entries and prayers for clear scans. We are so greatful for our good news, but at the same time, our hearts just ache for all those in various stages of treatment and remission, for those fighting difficult relapse protocols, and for the families of Heaven's newest angels...

Peace, Love, and Blessings to all of you, The Olsens

Thursday, February 10, 2005 4:17 PM CST

Hello Everyone,

I just put in an update and it disappeared into the thin cyber-air, AAAHHH!!! I'll give it another go, a little shorter since the kids are home and need attention.

Kate is doing okay even though her cough and congestion is still hanging around--2 weeks now. She has been like the energizer bunny and won't let this virus stop her. She's pretty wiped out by early evening tho. The rest of the family has had the same general symptoms so thankfully its probably just a "normal" virus. Katey has a check-up coming next week Tuesday, the 15th. She will be having a chest and belly catscan, labwork for kidney functions, and a checkup. I'm just a little concerned with her cough and congestion hangin on but sure glad the fever and headaches are gone!

Last Friday was the Spaghetti Dinner and Auction at the kids' school. We tried for a few items but didn't win. Katey was disappointed that she didn't win Principal for the Day. She and Mr. Bissett have had an ongoing tease and she was hoping to Boss him around for the day, LOL! Maybe next time! They had a great time hangin out with their friends.

Last Sunday we got together to celebrate the February Bdays. Happy Bday to Katey's Auntie Annabelle, Auntie Joan, Uncle Louie, and Cara, too! It was fun seeing everybody but we had to really try and keep the creepy crud to ourselves. We didn't spend much time with the twins who are now 4months old. Katey has a set of matching white bears with little red pouches she calls "Her twins." I was under strict orders today not to let her twins, Val and Tina, sleep in too late while she was at school. They came down with me for early lunch, esp since they have tasty choc. hearts in their pouches, YUM, but don't tell Katey!

On Tuesday, Katey's Brownie troop had a field trip to the Machine Shed Restaurant and I helped drive. It was fun for the girls. They learned some cooking safety and made their own Famous Apple Dumplings. They also had some for us to sample. Tasty perk for Mom,too--YUMMY!

Last night Katey wanted to be the Dinner chef. She made me laugh cuz she wanted to do everything. She marinated the tenderloin steaks, then cooked them up herself with very little help from me--and only when she asked! She also made the garlic mashed potatoes (instant of course with just a bit of garlic), the buttered mushrooms, and even snapped the asparagus spears before microwaving them :> Anyway, it'll be hard to top last nights tasty treats. Don't even know what we should have for dinner yet, LOL!

Thanks for stopping by and don't forget to sign the guestbook. It always cheers us to hear from you all! Please say a little prayer for Katey's checkup and scans next week. Please also say a little prayer for all the brave little warriors out there in various stages of treatment or remission, esp for those in difficult relapse protocols, and for the families of Heaven's newest angels...

Sweet Valentine's Day Wishes to all of you. Hug your kids and loved ones tight and NEVER waste a moment!

Blessings, The Olsens :>

Saturday, February 5, 2005 11:42 PM CST

***Another beautiful Wilms Child is making her way home to Heaven...Please lend your prayers and messages of peace to an incredible family with unshakeable Faith in Jesus' Love for their daughter, Star Nuckolls...truly a bright and shining Star of Texas...

UPDATE: FEB 7 at 6:30am, STAR flew Home to Jesus and is Shining brightly in the Heavens Above...Pls Pray for His Peace and Comfort for her family...



Friday, January 28, 2005 8:02 PM CST


Hello Everyone,

Its been 2 years now since Kate was diagnosed with Wilms and we were racing off into this new world of being a Childhood Cancer Family. It seems only yesterday but in other aspects it seems a distant memory. Katey was brave through all of it and for that we are proud. It was particularly interesting that we were again at my sons' sailboat races for Boys Club this past weekend just as we did 2 years ago. We have so much to be thankful for!

Its the 3rd day in a row that Katey has been out of school sick. She has a bad cough, body aches, a really sore red throat, Fevers in the 103 range, and upset tummy. We took her in to visit the Pediatrician who did a rapid flu and quick strep tests which were both negative. We then went to Childrens to do a quick chest xray to rule out pneumonia or relapse. Thank God her xrays were normal! I wasn't so much worried as I was looking for confirmation that there was nothing wrong. Her brothers Jonathan and Sam were sick the beginning of the week and Dad followed shortly after. Katey woke up Wednesday morning with the same horrible hacking cough. I've gotten it myself now. Needless to say, we have had a lot of time laying around snuggling and downing an assortment of cold medicines this week. Even so, I see we are healthier than we were 2 years ago!

Its been downright cold here the past few days and everything is white with the fresh 8 inches of snow we got just last week. We did spend some time sledding last weekend and the kids even tried some snowboarding on their sleds, YIKES! Jonathan did a picture perfect cartwheel wipeout that luckily didn't amount to anything. Sure glad his angels were on hand! They also made igloo condos in the snowbank and Katey made a nice snowman. Not much time in the snow now that they are sick. We have made good use of the fireplace and snuggle time tho!

We are so greatful we don't have any other worries for now. Please pray for all the other kids in their various stages of treatment and other illnesses, but esp for our friend Haley who is headed out to St. Judes for further treatment.

We haven't gotten around to visiting all of our CB friends, but just know you are all always in our thoughts and prayers. Stay strong and keep up the fight, praying that 2005 is the year of The Cure!

God's blessings to you all, The Olsens

***We just added new pictures in the photo album :> ***

Tuesday, January 11, 2005 8:09 PM CST

Hello Everyone,

I can't believe how time flies. It seems only yesterday that it was the Holidays and 2004. Fast forward to today I guess. I'm going to try and update again. Unfortunately I had just written one and lost it in cyberspace, aaargh!!!

Christmas and New Years was wonderful for our family. We received news that proved Katey was in her *18th month* of remission! We celebrated with all our family in the area and counted our many blessings. Katey stayed strong and healthy the whole time. We are so blessed that everyone in our family is well and strong--spiritually as well as physically!

We also managed a getaway for a full day to the Kalahari Indoor Waterpark. We were so glad to have Katey's Uncle Tony (my brother) along with us this time. The last time we were here in August 2004, Uncle Tony was in the ICU after complications from an appendectomy. We didn't even know until after we got home. This time we were blessed that he is strong and healthy and able to enjoy the waterpark with us! Katey pretty much monopolized him tho. She made him ride with her most of the time. I lost count how many times they were on her favorite ride, The Master Blaster water roller coaster. She also rode the other raft rides and enjoyed the lazy river and tide pool. We couldn't get her to try the Pro Bowl (others call it the Toilet Bowl.) Its a ride were you body slide down into a large bowl and swing around until you plunge into another pool below. It kinda reminds me of when I was a kid and would get flung into the pool. You never quite know which way you are going in, LOL! She did try the Flow Rider Wave for boogie boarding. Too bad she was a bit too light for it. She ended up surfing the wave right off the ride and then got pushed back for a massive Wipe-out! Thank goodness it is heavily padded and that the only thing hurt was her pride. It was the first and last time she ever tried it. After logging in a long day of water activities we ate out at our favorite restaurant, The Cracker Barrel. We were all pretty wiped out by the end of dinner. Thanks for driving us all home safe, Tony!!!

The next day was New Years Eve. Our family was supposed to go to a party but after a full day at work for me and a headache for dad we decided to stay home. Katey helped me make a nice dinner and then we watched one of the kids' favorite movies--Big Fat Liar. We stayed up long enough to watch the ball drop in NYC then called it a night. Goodbye 2004! We had many blessings for the year and pray that 2005 is yet another :>

The kids were back to school Monday the 3rd and into the swim of things. Thats to say they've started back with swim classes. Katey and her brother Sam are in the 'Fish' level and Jonathan is a 'Shark' at the YMCA. They love being back in the pool again :>

On the evening of the 5th, we had a snowstorm come through and by the morning there was 8+ inches of fresh snow on the ground. They didn't even cancel school! The kids have enjoyed all the snow tho since there really hasn't been much this winter--very odd for Wisconsin!

On Friday evening, Sam and I joined in on the school sledding party and had a great time. I actually picked up a pair of snowbibs and went down sledding for the first time in 20years, LOL! Jonathan was with his friend Brady at his house for sledding and a sleepover.

As for Katey, she was out enjoying the snow too but with her daddy for the Indian Princess Campout Friday nite. They both enjoyed a fun time with the tribe, ate a lot of junk food, laughed and stayed up way too late. The next morning they were out playing in the snow all day. They had made an igloo, went sledding, and had the snow snake competition. Katey's snow snake came in 1st place this year :> They came home Saturday evening just in time for Katey to take a quick shower, eat a light dinner, then she was off again this time with her Brownie Troop for a sleep in at Discovery World. She had a great time with all her friends and all the activities and stayed up way too late for the second night in a row! She was home in the morning and managed to stay awake the whole time for Sunday School. She was asleep 5 minutes into the ride home, tho! She took a nap until 3:30 then was awake and ready to go again. I can't keep up with this girl!

Anyway 2005 has started off with a bang here, crazy busy as usual but we are so glad to be doing 'normal' stuff. We are just so blessed! At the same time there are so many other sick kids and so many hurting families. Please join us in continuing in prayer for all these kids and their families. We are praying that 2005 will be the year they find a *CURE!*

Please sign the guestbook if you've been by, it always cheers us up to hear from you all :> Count your many blessings, Hug your kids and loved ones tight and NEVER waste a moment of 2005!

Love to you all, Grace, Katey, and the rest of the O's

Wednesday, December 22, 2004 11:55 AM CST

Merry Christmas Everyone and Happy New Year!

We received awesome news yesterday that Katey's Abdominal ultrasound remains CLEAR and that she is now 18 months post-treatment and still in remission!

We had a bit of a scare last week when she complained of a bad headache, didn't want to eat, and had flushed cheeks. I gave her medicine and it helped and she went to bed but at 3am she woke up sobbing that her head really hurt and she had a low grade temperature! We gave her medicine again and she finally got better and fell asleep around 5am. We kept her home from school in the morning. Whatever it was didn't come back so after lunch she went to school and did fine. This week she's got a bit of the sniffles so it may have been a sinus headache. In any case, I'm just glad we didn't have to call the Onc clinic. I would have if it continued.

Last Sunday eve, she was feeling fine so we were able to attend the Nutcracker Ballet. Yumelia, principal dancer at the Milw. Ballet, offered us 3 tickets to see her dance again! We all had such a fantastic time :> The Nutcracker was really beautiful and Katey loved every minute esp to watch her friend Yumelia dance! We met with her backstage afterwards. Katey had fun talking with her and also playing on stage, meeting the "new guy" at the ballet, and checking out all the cool props :> It was a long night, but an awesome night, and we tucked in one tired little gal with a smile on her face!

The weather has been absolutely chilling, in the single digits for the past week or so and the next few days will be no exception. "Though the weather outside is frightful" we've continued with our crazy schedule. This afternoon, I'll be helping out in Kate's class for their Holiday party. Tonight our family will be at the Milw. Bucks basketball game. We received free tickets at the clinic yesterday :> The boys are really looking forward to going. It will be fun to root on the home team!

Christmas is just a few days away and we are trying to get things "wrapped up." We are having family over for Christmas day and then on the 26th we are getting together with the Crisostomo side of the family.

Just want to wish you all a Very Blessed Christmas celebrating the most important birthday of all~ Our Lord Jesus Christ! Amazing that it is His Birthday yet WE get all the presents, and we've already received The Best Present of All--Eternity with Him! Thank God for the knowledge that all the new angels in heaven this year are beautiful and well. Please pray for all the families who have lost loved ones this year...We love you all and pray for God's hand of Peace and Promise to ease the aches in your hearts this Christmas and into the New Year~

Blessings to you all this Christmas with Love to last for the New Year, The Olsens

Friday, December 10, 2004 3:49 PM CST

Hello all,

How time flies when things are so busy esp with Christmas only 2 weeks away! It has been harder and harder to get on the computer to put in updates or to visit all of our caringbridge friends, just know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers constantly.

We are all enjoying many festivities around this holiday season. Last Friday was the school's Family Fun Night themed as Hawaiian Nite. Katey loved reviving her Island Princess costume and taking part in all the fun events. She even joined in the Limbo contest and actually WON the Limbo crown :> Guess all her efforts for backbends in Gymnastics helped her out, LOL!

Last weekend, She was with the girls and Dads of her Indian Princess Tribe ringing bells for the Salvation Army. They enjoyed a pizza dinner afterwards. On Sunday we went out to get our christmas tree. Katey liked being a guard to her favorite tree while we checked out a few others. Eventually we did get 'Her' tree, it is a beautiful one. We'll be busy this weekend setting it up in the house :>

Katey's dad got our home decked out in lights this past weekend. Katey loves all the outdoor lights as well as the Christmas Village in our house. She loves to see all the sparkling pretty lights and is excited about Christmas coming. We also started our tradition of reading The Advent Book. The kids enjoy taking their turns reading each new day's page :>

The next few weeks are busy with holiday parties for Katey's Brownie troup, the Indian Princess Party, and also for her Dance Performance Troup. On the 21st, Katey will have an abdominal ultrasound and check up at the oncology clinic. If all goes well, we will be at the 18 month remission mark! We are praying that we will be able to update again with good news.

Katey has been well and feeling strong, not even a single cold, cough, or fever to speak of so we have much to be thankful for. At the same time we are heartbroken to hear of so many Wilms kids having grown their angel wings in the past few weeks--Josh, Hailey, Lauren, and Laura. Please say a prayer for their families as they painfully try to move ahead through this holiday season. Please also say a prayer for all the other kids in various stages of their illnesses and fighting to remain in remission. Please especially say a prayer for the kids having a tough time with their relapses right now--Haley, Matthew, and Jessy. We think and pray for you all often.

Please take a minute to sign the guestbook to let us know you've been to visit. It always cheers us to know we have so many thinking of us and joining us in prayer.

Hug your kids and loved ones tight and Never waste a moment...

Blessings to you all, The Olsens

P.S. Katey is again the featured cancer kid for November on the 2005 MACC fund Cute Kids calendar. You can order one thru The MACC Fund, click on Shop for Hope, and then click on the Cute Kids Calendar :> ALL of the proceeds from the sale of this calendar goes directly towards research for fighting childhood cancer. Another great organization helping to find a Cure for this beast called cancer...

Monday, December 2, 2004 9:10 AM CST

***Heartbreaking Update from the Brestels: Another brave boy gains his angel wings and another family grieves yet again...We will all miss you Josh, now pain-free and in the arms of Jesus Forever. Our love and prayers go out to Steve, Diane and Family...


Monday, November 22, 2004 2:28 PM CST

Hello Everyone,

Sorry its been so long between updates. We've just been busy doing 'normal' stuff. Katey has been doing wonderfully, not even a cold this month! She's been so full of energy and participating in absolutely everything possible. She has enjoyed lots of fun school activities like the Sock Hop Night, Pajama Day, and a field trip to the planetarium :> She's really enjoying school and being with her friends. Last week we had Parent Teacher Conferences for Katey and her brothers Jonathan and Sam. We are sooo proud to hear how well they are all doing! What a huge blessing that they have such great teachers and the best school! Katey hasn't missed any school, not even for her follow ups since the last one was scheduled on a day off school. Her follow ups are only every other month now so her next check and abdominal ultrasound won't be till December 21st. Nothing seems to stop her lately! Kate's 9yo brother Sam did have an ultrasound and abdominal xrays for some belly pain and firmness in his belly. Thankfully things were clear for him and any signs of Wilms have been ruled out, Whew!

Katey has been working hard in her gymnastics and dance classes. Since making it onto the Performance Dance Team, she's had several practices and enjoyed dancing her way through the Waukesha Holiday Parade on behalf of their studio :> I will post new pictures soon of them doing their 'kicks' for Studio One :> She was also supposed to walk with her Indian Princess Tribe and her Brownie Troop. Too bad we couldn't clone her to be in 3 different groups at the parade--she certainly had the energy for it!

I can't believe Thanksgiving is already around the corner! We have so much to be greatful for this year--Greatful for Katey (and the rest of our family's) good health and for the many fine organizations that help families like ours in so many ways! My husband and I were able to attend a fundraiser for Angel on My Shoulder, an awesome organization, and finally met the founder Lolly Rose. She asked if we could come be guests at their fundraiser in the summer, unfortunately, it is being held the same weekend as Katey's dance recital. We were also at the Things Remembered Store as the MAW family for the National Make a Wish Fundraiser day. What a priviledge to help in some small way and to meet such wonderful people!

We are also greatful for the many wonderful friends we've met on this journey--many of you in our CaringBridge community we consider family :> Thank you from the bottom of our hearts for all the support and sweet messages that have helped us to get to this point in our journey. Yes, we are so greatful, yet at the same time our hearts are saddened by news from our other CaringBridge friends, children whom we've come to care for that have gone on to become angels and those who are in the midst of fighting relapses right now--Haley, Josh, Matthew, Jessy, and Abby. Please pray for them and their families, also for the many new families just starting out in their journeys, those in various stages of treatment, and for those like Katey who are currently off-treatment for continued remission.

We wish you all a wonderful and safe Thanksgiving reflecting on all your many blessings big and small,

The Olsens

Sunday, October 31, 2004 12:12 AM CST

Hello Everyone,

I can't believe we are at the end of October already, time sure flies! In the past few weeks we've hosted 2 parties for Sam's 9th birthday--one for family and one for friends, gone to my Aunt's 90th Bday, and gone to The Enders' Family 10th Annual Halloween Costume Party. Katey dressed up as an Island Princess and luckily the weather cooperated. The Enders always do such a wonderful job at the annual party. Katey has been friends with Mark since Kindergarten and big brother Jonathan has been friends with Scott since 2nd grade :> Katey won the 'pin the eye on the monster' and got a bag of goodies!

Katey was able to wear her Island Princess costume again for dance class this past week. She told me about needing her costume just minutes before we had to leave for class. Good thing we had her costume all together. Oh by the way, Katey made it into the Performance Dance Team she auditioned for several weeks ago! I tried my best to talk her out of it but she really wanted to try. Now we've got another thing to try to fit into our already crazy shedule!

Thursday Oct 28th was Katey's oncology check up. It was great running into Melissa, our fav clinic nurse, and also Sheila, our Social Worker. Sheila asked us to stop in and say hello to a new family in clinic. We enjoyed visiting with Jill and her sweet daughter. Katey and Amanda got along well and worked on a picture while her mother and I chatted. It brought back so many memories of the start of our journey and I wished we would have met under different circumstances. We will certainly be praying for treatment to go well for Amanda.

Katey's checkup included lab work for BUN/Creat, Urine testing, and a repeat CXR to follow up from last month's xrays. We got word Friday afternoon that Katey had no protiens in her urine this time, that her lab work just shows she still needs to drink more than she is, and that her xrays are now CLEAR!!! Thank God Katey remains in remission!!!

Thursday nite, My husband and I accompanied Katey as guests of the Milwaukee Ballet for the Opening night of "The Hunchback." Katey was so happy to be able to see her friend Yumelia, the principal dancer, Michael and Jane Pink, The Artistic Director and his wife, and also several of the other dancers. Katey really enjoyed the ballet :>

On Friday, Katey was in costume again for a special luncheon we were asked to attend. The luncheon was to celebrate the fund raising efforts of Bergstrom Dealers for Make-a-Wish. They raised over $65,000 for Wisconsin's MAW Foundation! Katey and I spoke to thank everyone for all their hard work and for providing MAW kids and their families such wonderful memories!

Right after the luncheon, we had to take Katey out to her friend Jess's Bday skating party. Katey did well skating considering she hasn't really done it in a while and she was using her brother's inline skates since she had outgrown hers :> Happy 8th Bday Jess!

Today we just stayed close to home. I had megapiles of laundry to do and Robert and the kids were working to get megapiles of leaves raked up from the yard. It was a very 'blustery' day so it wasn't very easy to do. Tonite, Robert started the fireplace for the first time. Tonite we also decided to make the kids cook their own dinner--roasting weanies in the fireplace, that is! We also roasted marshmallows over the fire and made 'Smores for dessert, yum! We finished off the night watching the Disney movie Hunchback--It was such a nice relaxing nite at home for once~

We'll, its late again as usual. I'm sure glad I've got that extra hour of sleep tonite with the Daylight savings time change. Sorry if I haven't quite gotten around to visiting all of you in our CaringBridge community. Just know we think of and pray for you all often. Please join me in praying for the many sick kids out there who are having a difficult time right now, those who are in various stages of treatment, those who are off-treatment and praying for continued remission, and for the families of our angel friends...Please especially pray for Hailey and Connor's families--blessed be Heaven's newest angels...

Hug your kids and loved ones tight, never waste a moment...

God's blessings to you all, The Olsens

***We've placed new pictures in the photo album***

Wednesday, October 27, 2004 9:02 AM CDT

***Heaven receives another beautiful angel girl...Be free Angel Hailey~~No more hospitals, no more pokes, no more yucky medicine, only cheers and fun with the other angels...You'll be in our hearts forever***

Please keep Theresa and Family in your thoughts and prayers during this difficult time of heartache...


Thursday, October 14,2004 9:22PMCDT


Hello Everyone,

Sorry its been a while but our 'hamster-wheel' lifestyle just keeps spinning right along! The weather has been excellent for fall in this area. The temps get to mid 60s F in the daytime but really cools off down to the 40s F at night. Crisp fall weather that's for sure! The trees have turned brilliant colors in our area, all shades of reds, oranges, and yellows. Leaves are already starting to fall and the kids are eagerly awaiting the Big Leaf Pile to jump in :>

Our last update we mentioned that Katey was a bit under the weather. Her cough got progressively worse, with awful spasms even at night. We called the onc clinic and they had us go see the pediatrician but requested that a CXR be ordered and done at Children's so they could eval it right away. Luckily Sept 27 was early release day for the kids so I didn't have to take them out of school for the appointment. After seeing the Peds MD, we drove on out to Childrens for Katey's xray. In fairly quick order we got the news that there were NO tumors but there was some "fluffiness." Katey had to take antibiotics for 5 days. She no longer has signs of the possible Whooping Cough that hit this area. Imagine that, even with her complete immunizations she got it, but so did many other children. We are just greatful there were no other concerns. Katey's next onc appt is Oct 28th. She is scheduled also for labs and CXRay. They may skip the xray since she just had one, unless they want to follow up on it. We'll see.

Since then Katey has been busy enjoying many fall activities including Farm Night at School (She brought in a large pumpkin she and her dad grew :>), a Farm Field trip with her class, and a Brownie's field trip to the Swinging W Ranch. I was able to join Katey for the Funtastic Ranch trip. The troop caravaned in at 6:30 pm just in time to roast weenies and make 'smores over the campfire. After, we hopped on board for a late night hayride in the dark. They used at least 4 tractors pulling hay wagons and set them loose on about 6 acres of rolling hillside. It was really creepy but then really cool to be out in the dark. We couldn't even use camera flash or flashlights! The tractors would only flash their lights like lightning bugs when they noticed another tractor in the area. Then they would charge each other to get the hay wagons alongside of each other for some good ol' hay fights! We started with whole bales of hay to sit on in the wagon, but after 45 minutes out there, there was barely enough to cover the floor, we all looked like scarecrows after! Oh, the other cool thing is that this is a working ranch, so at night, the horses run free on the range. That was one of the neatest things--to see whole dozens of horses running in packs around us. We stopped once and the horses came over to be fed hay. Katey ended up with a little love-nibble from a horsey she was feeding! We're gonna have to go back there again sometime with the boys :>

Last Saturday, Katey was in a PomPom clinic at the local high school. She learned a routine she is eager to perform at Halftime during the High school football game tomorrow night. We'll also sit in to watch a bit of the game. Its supposed to be a very chilly night, hopefully not as cold as they are predicting.

This weekend we are busy with the boy's respective football games but also because Sam turned 9yo and we will be celebrating this weekend with Family on Saturday, and his friends on Sunday. Happy 9th Birthday to our Sam!!! This weekend also, Katey was invited to audition for her dance studios' Performance and Travel Troop. Katey is eager and willing, we shall see I guess.

We are so greatful that Katey is well and strong and able to do the things she enjoys. Unfortunately there are many of our CaringBridge friends who are still fighting and some are having a very hard time right now. We just found out that Mansi has earned her angel wings...Please say a prayer for all the little fighters out there and also for the families who have lost their little ones...Its all so hard to even think about...Yet God is STILL Good...As 11 yo Matthew, wise beyond his years has said, "Either God will take the CANCER away from me, or He'll take ME away from the Cancer, Either way is Good." Hug your kids and loved ones tight...never waste a moment...

We also got word that there has been some more heavy fighting in Iraq. Our nephew is a Marine stationed somewhere in Fallujah right now where there has been so much fighting. Please pray for peace to come over the area as the people there have already lost so much and we have lost many fine men and women...

Praying for much Peace to all who are sick and suffering all over this world,
The Olsens

Thursday, September 23, 2004 3:35 PM CDT

Hi Everyone, Happy Autumn!

Its really unbelievable we are already in autumn, esp in our area...the weather has been nothing short of fantastic the past 3 weeks! Today we again have blue skies, mild breezes, and temps to the low 80's. Our pool is even warm enough for a dip but we've only been in a few times since we've been so busy with after school and weekend activities, go figure!

Our family had a great time at Hozhoni camp Sept 10-12 :> The camp is put on by the ACS for cancer kids and their families. This was our second year attending the weekend festivities at the beautiful Lions Camp near Stevens Point. It was especially fun because we knew several families attending this year from our onc clinic. We even ended up sharing the Pioneers Cabin with Katey's favorite clinic friend and his family. We all enjoyed the many activities, esp the family free time on Saturday. Katey loved riding and driving the pontoon boat, frogging at the lake, going for a tractor ride tour of camp, and just relaxing :> She also had a great time at the Hozhoni Boogie Saturday night! She sure loved getting out there to dance and was also very happy to see so many familiar faces from last year :> We certainly hope to attend again next year!



Sunday afternoon on the way home, we stopped in to visit with the kids' Great Aunt Margie. It was fun to see her and catch up esp since she'll be moving back out to Georgia in October. We're certainly going to miss her.

It was such a busy weekend and we couldn't possibly do it all. It was also the same weekend as the Sussex MAW picnic (Saturday) and the Celebrate Life party (Sunday) for all the Onc clinic kids and their families. We were there last year to celebrate. This year we have been busy having a 'healthy' summer and very proud of our little survivor :>

Last weekend we were busy watching each of the boys in their first games of flag football. We enjoyed watching the boys doing so well, they sure made us proud! Katey only watched a little since she had such a severe headache and a cough in the morning. That sure made me worry, but then her headache finally went away. She still has a bad cough--probably just a normal virus. If she doesn't feel better by Monday, I'll take her in to be seen.

This week Tuesday, Katey's ballet classes started again, she loves to dance :> On Wednesday, she had gymnastics. The class was working on swinging off the lower bar of the uneven bars with their feet and hands on the bar. The teacher told Katey it was too easy for her and had her try something different. She had Katey put her hands on the low bar, spring up then balance on top of it so she could spring up to the highbar. She hopped up and balanced on the low bar her first try but missed the grab on the high bar. The second time she hopped up, balanced on the low bar, and sprung up on the high bar and swung perfectly, all without any help! She did it several more times before the end of the session. Katey couldn't stop talking about how much she loved swinging from the top bar! That's our crazy girl, good thing her docs aren't around to see her doing that! They would make her get her 'turtle shell' abdominal protector on for sure.

Tonite is farm nite for K-2 at Summit View School. Katey's dad and I are going to the festivities with Katey. The boys will be at Boys club at church. Katey will miss her first night at Girls Club and Robert and I will miss out on our Neighborhood bible study. It should be a fun time, We hear there will be square dancing, too :>

Tomorrow, Friday afternoon, Katey and her dad will be going to the Indian Princess Campout. Dad will be returning for a short time Saturday for the boys' football games then heading back. Thankfully there are many friends for her to be with while dad is gone. Saturday is also mine and Robert's 11th Anniversary. We will have to celebrate on Sunday night when he and Katey return from camp. Saturday is also Al's run/walk for Children's Hospital. Katey was supposed to be a "Children's Champion" with special recognition and a Champions breakfast this year. Too bad we weren't able to go with everything going on this weekend. Our clinic friends Colin and his family are walking this year. He is almost finished with treatment for relapsed ALL :> If you would like, you can sponsor them to help raise even more money for Children's Hospital. Click here to sponsor TEAM COLIN . Way to go Colin and Family!!!

Please continue to pray for all the kids with various illnesses and cancers in all stages of treatment and remission out there, we think and pray for you all often. LiveStrong and Enjoy your weekend!

Love and God's blessings, The Olsens

Wednesday, September 8, 2004 3:15 PM CDT

Hello Everyone,

Wow, I can't believe we are in September already, time sure flies! Its already been several weeks since the last update, but I'll try to just list some highlights. On August 24th, My brother Edgar and his wife Annabelle delivered a set of twins after a bout with preeclampsia. The twins were born at 33 weeks. Alana was 4# 8oz and Aaron was 4# 5oz. They have both progressed fairly well and are finally home after spending their first 2 weeks in the hospital. They are just adorable little sweeties, we are so happy that mom and the twins are now doing well. We are so blessed!

The following day, we talked at the "Things Remembered" store managers meeting to kick off their fund raising year for MAW. Katey actually talked a lot this time, LOL! They gave her a beautiful crystal Wish ornament and also a bag full of goodies for her and for each of her brothers. After the meeting, we drove out to visit with the twins at St. Joe's hospital. Katey was disappointed she wasn't able to see her new cousins since kids aren't allowed to visit in the Neonatal ICU. The twins were so small yet so perfect. Such precious little ones, What an awesome blessing!

The Make a Wish Walk and run was on Aug 28th. The day started cool and drizzly but it didn't last long and the cooler weather was perfect for a 5K walk. The TV interview went well and we had several people at the walk say they saw us earlier on TV. Other people have said they've seen our family on TV since then--too bad we never got to see it, LOL! Katey was also up on the stage for the start of the run/walk and then again afterwards to help with the prize drawings. It was a fun walk with great support from our team, Katey's Kruisers--We raised just over $1000 for MAW :>

Later that evening we were at Cathy, Tim, and Justin's home (fellow 'Katey's Kruisers') for a Murder Mystery Dinner. It was loads of fun and they really did a fantastic job making everything look really authentic. My brother Tony and his wife Cherie (my sis-in-law who was also a Katey's Kruiser) was also there. My brother Tony wasn't feeling too well by the end of the evening and we figured he was having an appendicitis attack. Tony and Cherie were in the ER shortly after midnight and went in for a routine appendectomy by 8am.

We spoke to them several times that morning, before and after surgery. We didn't visit tho since Tony was still feeling tired and wanted to rest after surgery. He also wanted us to continue on our scheduled one night stay at the Kalahari WaterPark Resort in the Dells. He told us he was fine and would be discharged later in the evening so we went ahead with our plans.

We were at Kalahari by 1:30pm and were able to take advantage of the indoor waterpark right away. The kids loved doing all the water slides, glides, rides, the fast and slow rivers, and the tide pool. Their favorite was the Master Blaster water coaster! It was a great getaway, we swam and played until 4pm the following day. All of us were waterlogged but had a fantastic time! We got back in town just before 8pm and tried to reach Tony to see if it was okay to visit but we couldn't reach anyone. Shortly after, I got a call from Cherie, Tony's wife. It turns out that Tony had some complications. He had to be rushed back for emergency surgery for a severe bleed and ended up in the ICU! It was horrible to find out all this had gone on while we were gone enjoying ourselves! Tony spent 4 nights in the ICU. Quite a shock to hear what my brother had gone through while we were away, esp since I work in an ICU! I finally got to see him for myself the next day and was very glad to hear he had turned the corner.

For the next few days, we were driving out to 2 different (distant) hospitals to visit the twins and their mom, and then Tony. The blessings for our family is that Annabelle was at the hospital inpatient for increasing blood pressure the weekend before and was just going to be discharged home when labs showed severe preeclampsia. She was able to have an emergency c-section to help her and the babies. Same with my brother Tony. Papers were already completed for him to be discharged that evening when he had trouble. Thank God they were in the hospital, the only way they could have gotten help fast enough! What incredible blessings! We are so greatful that everyone is home were they all belong and are doing well!

August 30th was Katey's onc appointment. She had a check up, BUN/Creat, and a urine dipstick. The BUN/Creat is again showing a high norm and the dipstick was showing trace protiens and blood. Her urine was sent for a urinalysis which confirms trace protiens and blood. She will have a repeat urinalysis this week to follow up. The results may prove nothing more than that Katey has an abnormal norm, or a urine infection, or damage to her remaining kidney...all we can do is wait and see, We trust everything will be okay regardless.

The next day, Sept 1st was the start of school for the kids. Katey has a 1st/2nd grade split class with Mrs. Burns. I wasn't sure how that was going to turn out but she is enjoying school and likes her teacher. Sam and Jonathan both seem to have great teachers also. Jonathan is in a split class 5th/6th grade himself and seems to enjoy the challenge of being a 5th grader in the split class. Summit View has been a fantastic Elementary school. We are looking forward to a great year!

Labor Day weekend we stayed close to home. I worked the weekend so we didn't plan to go anywhere. Katey had one of her best friends Rachel over for some swimming on Saturday and Sunday. Also, we had a get together with family on Sunday to celebrate our family's many blessings over the past several weeks.

Hurricane Frances bore down on Florida, our thoughts and prayers are with all those who were in its dangerous path. We were especially concerned over our friends, Kathy, Courtney, and family. 10yr old Courtney is also a Wilms survivor and we have kept in touch through email for over a year now. We finally met them when we were in Orlando in April for Katey's MAW trip. We are praying they did well, I haven't received an update yet.

Tonite the kids start back in gymnastics :> This Friday we will be headed out for Hozhoni Camp, a weekend for cancer kids and their family. We had a great time last year and this year Katey's favorite clinic friend and his family is going, too! We are all looking forward to having loads of fun as a family this weekend.

We pray you are all doing as well as can be. Please pray for all the other kids who are sick and suffering, and in various stages of illness or remission. There are just way too many... We haven't been able to visit all of our internet friends lately, just know you are all always in our thoughts and prayers. Please sign the guestbook if you've made it this far, it always makes us smile to know we have good friends and friendly strangers thinking of us :>

Love and Blessings to you all, The Olsens

***UPDATE Sept 9***

Katey had her repeat urinalysis and it came back normal except for a few WBCs. Yippee!!!


*THERE ARE NEW PICTURES IN THE PHOTO ALBUM!*

Monday, August 23, 2004 2:31 PM CDT

Hi Everyone,

Here we are in the waning days of summer vacation! I can't believe we haven't gone anywhere farther than an hour away from home, yet this was our busiest summer ever (in a good way.)

We had our ACS Relay for Life event here in Waukesha. We were there for the touching opening ceremonies. Katey walked the "Survivor's lap" unaccompanied by family this time. It was incredible to see our little survivor so dwarfed by the RFL Banner she was helping to hold up. That's just the way this journey has been. Cancer dwarfed our little girl, yet there she is healthy today, and walking proud :> She walked right alongside the mayor of Waukesha, a survivor herself. After the first lap, the rest of us joined in and we looked at all the luminaries surrounding the track oval. Cancer has touched and cut short too many lives...Katey made a luminary with the names of all our cancer friends, including all our little angel friends. I couldn't help thinking of all the families left behind by so many little ones. We stayed a while longer to walk/run some more laps and to play some games and take part in the raffle. We couldn't stay, we had a wedding to be at the next morning.

Katey really enjoyed being Jay and Cara's flower girl. She handled standing for almost an hour up on the platform with the bridesmaids. We did notice a couple of stiffled yawns, and one really big one that got out towards the end, LOL! Guess she should've gotten to sleep earlier after the RFL! Actually, she didn't do too bad for someone who doesn't stand still much! The wedding was beautiful and we wish Jay and Cara many blessings for a faithful and loving future together :> We had some time after the church reception before we got together at the park for some more informal festivities. It was a load of fun to watch all the kids racing around and playing. We brought Jonathan's monster rocket and launched it multiple times. The kids also enjoyed the older playground equipment, the kind we played in as kids, esp the metal carousel :> The catered food was awesome and we stayed way too late dancing, ah well, it is summertime!

The following day was Katey's Belated 7th Bday Swim Party. Perfect weather for an absolutely gorgeous day! The kids all had a great time and Katey was so happy to see her friends again, some she hasn't seen since school was out. The partial deck that Robert built on one side of the pool worked out great :> Auntie Joan came and dropped off a beautiful mermaid cake she made for Katey's party, how special was that! It was an incredible day and just fun seeing Katey having a great time with her super friends :>



Friday Aug 13th, was Robert's Bday. Happy Birthday to an awesome Husband and Daddy! Robert took the day off so we could celebrate at the Wisconsin State Fair. It was fun seeing all the cool sites. The kids rode the giant slide with their Bday Daddy, munched on grilled sweet corn, pork sandwiches, and the famous State Fair cream puffs. We even went to see the new birthing barn. We got there just in time to see them deliver a piglet. The caretaker delivered the baby not 2 feet away from us and Katey crinkled up her nose when he held the new baby still dripping right in front of us! Pretty much an interesting thing to see. Sam was a little bug-eyed about it all. We left for home shortly before dinner time. It was a long but fun-filled day at the fair.

This past week it has been kind of cool out, but the kids still managed to play outside a lot. They also were able to go to Rainbow Camp on Tuesday and Friday all day. The kids all had a great time. Katey LOVES to see her Favorite friends, Big and small :> The kids taught Robert and I a game they played at camp called "GaGa." We really look silly when we are playing it outside, sure gets our hearts a pumpin, all that running :>

This past week Katey had a trip to the dentist to have a stubborn baby tooth pulled and a minor cavity filled. Sure didn't slow her down at all tho!

This weekend the weather was perfect but because of the cooler days before, we couldn't jump into the pool. So, Sunday afternoon, we decided to drive out to Pleasant Prairie. We stopped in to see Robert's Uncle Bob. We had a nice visit and then drove out to the Jelly Belly Factory nearby. The kids enjoyed the train tour but most especially they liked sampling the different jelly bean flavors--Katey even tried grass and soap flavors. They had bugger and vomit flavors too *YUCK* but no takers. Katey's favorites? The mango and pineapple! Of course we ended up buying a whole lot of jelly beans and some belly flops (seconds)too :>

We've been busy with the Make a Wish Foundation here in Wisconsin. Several weeks ago, we did a radio interview at KISS FM to help promote the upcoming Walk and Run. The 15 minute interview aired this past Sunday :> This weekend, Katey was also featured in a promotional article in the "This Week!" newspaper--Waukesha Edition. On Wednesday, we will be talking at a "Things Remembered" Store managers meeting to kick off their national fundraising efforts for MAW. To top it off, we have formed a team for Saturday's "Walk and Run for Wishes" called "Katey's Kruisers" (after all they sent us on the most wonderful cruise ever!) Our family will also be on a live TV interview with Fox6 just before the start of the "Walk and Run" at 8:25am. We have been so blessed by the MAW organization, we are happy to help out any way we can so that MAW can continue granting wishes for all the special kids.

Next week Tuesday is Katey's oncology check up. She seems to be doing very well, just occassional leg cramps and some clumsiness. Probably nothing to be concerned about. School starts the next morning--September 1st. We'll be getting the class list this Thursday and looking forward to another great school year for the kids :>

Okay, so I've written too much again. Thanks to all of you who still stop in to see us and sign the guestbook. It really helps to know we are not alone in this journey. Please continue to pray for Katey and all the little ones out there in various stages in their fight against cancer and other illnesses. We think of you and pray for you all, too. Stay strong!

Love and God's blessings, The Olsens


***More new pictures in the photo album!***

Friday, August 6, 2004 10:14 AM CDT

Hi All,

We've been on our hamster wheel again, so sorry if its been a while since the last update. Katey has been well and having a fun summer :>

We've had some very busy weekends. Katey's cousin Jay is getting married this upcoming weekend to Cara. Katey is the flowergirl :> We had their wedding shower 2 weekends ago and last night we had the Rehearsal and Dinner. Smart move on their part, it gives them today to just relax! No surprise, these two have always made the most practical and wisest choices for their future together. We are so excited for their Christian union this Saturday!

The weekdays have been busy with loads of splish splashin in our backyard pool with friends since the weather has been cooperating :> We have also been involved with several Make a Wish events. Last Thursday nite was the Coldstone Creamery nationwide MAW Birthday Celebration with free yummy ice cream cake from 5-8pm :> MAW asked us to be a Wish Family at the Brookfield site. Katey was a guest scooper behind the counter most of the nite. After almost 3 hours of scooping, she complained of her legs being sore from standing on the stool, LOL! Thanks Coldstone Creamery for your Nationwide Fundraising efforts for MAW!!!

Last Sunday was Wisconsin MAW's 20th Birthday Celebration/Tailgate Party at the Brewer's Miller Park Stadium. We all had a great time with the carnival type atmosphere, clowns, mascot appearances, dance party, raffle, and games. It was great to run into some of our clinic friends and their families :>

Katey was especially happy to run into her friend Abby--also 7yrs old, she was diagnosed Wilms StII FH and finished treatment last fall. The girls laughed and giggled and played alot, even had fun in the Bounce House. Unfortunately her Wilms has just returned with a golf ball size lung tumor they found on her routine every other month chest xrays. She had just had surgery the previous week to remove the tumor and have her port put back in. Of course we found out after all the rough housing in the bounce house(!) She also has a suspicious area on the bones of her spine that were biopsied. Its so hard to live the life we all do with the worry of relapse. Just PLEASE pray for Abby and her family as they fight again...

The Brewers were losing the first half of the game, came back to rally ahead by 3 runs, the Pirates tied it up in the 9th, and then the Brewers came back to win! We are praying that all of you out there with relapses and difficulties rally back to win! In the past couple of weeks, several from our internet Wilms community have relapsed. Mansi and Haley with tumors to the brain, and Tess with relapse to the lungs also...We are praying for you and your families, Stay strong!

Please pray for all kids out there battling various illnesses and cancers, there are way too many...kids should not have to live this kind of life...Katey's friend and former classmate Stephanie had major Heart surgery yesterday. Thankfully her surgery was very successful and she is doing well. She may even get to move out of ICU today! Praise God!

We have another busy weekend ahead. Tonite is the ACS Relay for Life, Saturday is the Wedding, and Sunday we are having a swim party with Katey's friends to celebrate her Birthday. Oh well, better late than never, as Katey sez..."Mom a promise is a promise!"

Have a great weekend everyone, We think of you all and pray for you all often. Thanks for the guestbook signings, it helps to know there are great friends out there in this fight to remain cancer free~

LotsaLove, Hugs, and Prayers to you all, The Olsens

***There are new Pictures in the Photo Album!***

Thursday, July 22, 2004 11:48 PM CDT

Hi Everyone,

Thought I'd put in an update since its been awhile. Summer sure is flying by, esp now that we do have 'summer' weather. We've had lots of hot and muggy days with occassional cool rainy/stormy days. Tonite, its pretty cool out but earlier it was very hot and muggy.

The weekend before last was busy with family parties--an engagement party and a Baby baptism/Dedication. Then the boys returned after a fantastic weekend at Camp Angel. The rest of last week was busy with VBS (Vacation Bible School) every night. They all had a blast and really enjoyed having their friends with them :>

This past weekend we were supposed to be gone camping but that was derailed by storms Friday nite, and well, it just didn't make sense to pack up all our stuff and food, pitch a tent, and then take it down and pack it all up again in the morning. Instead, on Saturday, we ended up putting in a reel that helps with getting the cover off of our pool. Its been such a hassle having to move the cover when its just me and the kids home for the day. Now its a breeze! We've been able to just jump in whenever this past week. Katey loves tiptoeing around the pool since she's not quite tall enough to stand flat, or she cruises around on her dolphin float. Thankfully, Katey is also a very good swimmer. Well, I gotta admit that even tho its a lot of work (continuously) it sure is nice having a pool :>

Today our MAW organization, asked us to come to the Badger Mutual Insurance Company's Walk & Run for Wishes Kick-off party. Badger Mutual is one of the biggest supporters of Wisconsin's MAW organization and yearly they have a large group volunteering and participating in the Walk & Run for Wishes. We had a pizza lunch and tasty cake to celebrate the 20th Anniversary of MAW in Wisconsin. Then Katey got up to talk to the employees about her Wish trip. She got a little shy but did well anyway thanks to Renee and Patti from MAW. Vince Condella, the Weather Man from Fox 6 TV was there also. He is a big media spokesperson for the MAW organization. He taped segments of today's lunch and aired it tonite after the 6pm and 9pm weather forecasts! Katey giggled when she saw herself on TV, she thought it was all pretty neat :>

This past week we also received the Walk & Run for Wishes poster that Katey is in...this is from the photo shoot we did by the lake on a very cold day. Click on the link and the first pix you see is Katey holding hands with a little guy while walking away...you really can't tell its her unless you know her back, LOL! Next week Thursday we were asked to be at another MAW Fundraiser that is being held nationally by the Coldstone Creamery. We will be at the Brookfield location (Calhoun and North) from 5-9pm for those of you who are local :>

Boy, the summer sure is flying by! The kids have enjoyed bits of fun around our crazy schedule taking dips in our pool, playing motocross, playing with Bratz dolls, spinning on the tire swing, catching fireflies, and swinging hard :> Katey likes to "blast off to the moon" as she calls it--Dad hates it cuz she swings really hard, closes her eyes then leans way back and just holds on tight :> I remember doing the exact same thing as a kid so I had to give it a try again tonite, LOL! It was fun getting the lift off of the swing on the downturn, just like I remember it :>

We sure have a whole new perspective now that Katey is one year post chemo and still in remission. We count our blessings everyday! But Please, Continue praying for all our brave little fighters in their various stages of their illnesses. There are just way too many...

We hope and pray that you are all able to enjoy the remaining days of summer and that you all spend a little time just being a kid again...Enjoy all the special moments, Hug each other tight, and never forget to tell your kids and loved ones how much you care...

Now go enjoy the weekend and God's many blessings!

Friday, July 9, 2004 11:31 PM CDT

Hi all,

July has sure been busy around here and still, anytime the kids have a minute to sit they say "I'm soooo bored!" Sheesh, what's a parent to do?!?

Our pool was finally put in last Friday. A crew of 6 had it up in 2 hours and by the 3rd hour it was filled with water. Katey had gone to see Spiderman II with her friend Rachel and her family. She thought it was pretty neat to see the pool all done when she got home. Dad and the boys have been working hard moving the mounds of dirt in our yard from the pool excavation. Now we'll need to put up a deck, too. So much work still needs to be done! We've been waiting for the water to warm up enough so we can all give the pool a try. Nights have been cool and some days, too. You'd think it was Autumn around here! First all the rain now the cool weather. We are all hoping for a little bit of summer weather soon.

The 3rd of July was the Independance Day parade here. Katey wore her recital outfit and danced in the parade for her Dance Studio. She had fun tossing out candy to the little ones and managed to twirl and dance most of the 2 mile route :> She also had fun spending time with her friends. Too bad we had to walk back 2 miles to where we parked afterwards. Katey was sooo pooped out that we just stayed home the rest of the day and relaxed.

We had a very nice 4th of July with extended family. We also had a great surprise--My nephew Louie was in town on leave from the Marines! It was so great to see him and hear some of the things he has seen and done. He will be headed out to Iraq soon. It just makes it so very clear what our servicemen and women have sacrificed for our freedoms--what a true Independance Day experience! We capped off the night with the fantastic fireworks that went on for over 30 minutes. It was all quite impressive and we had a great spot to see it all. Katey sat on the roof of the van and soaked it all in. The kids all got to bed late, good thing we were able to sleep-in the next morning :>

On Tuesday July 6th, Katey had an oncology clinic appointment. She had an abdominal ultrasound and chest xray. Then on to lab. Katey is so brave. She just stays so still through everything. The lab lady was commenting on how good she was just as she was removing the needle. Then I realized that she hadn't drawn enough blood for all the tests ordered. It turns out that they didn't have the complete set of orders in lab. Good thing I had a copy of our original orders from clinic. Katey had to be stuck again in the other arm but she took it all in stride. At the clinic, Katey visited with Ms. Edie, the playroom volunteer and Melissa, her favorite clinic nurse :> Last year, we took a picture of Melissa hugging Katey after her final dose of chemo. This time, the picture is of Melissa hugging Katey one year post-treatment! Her check up went well, weight is still 53# but she's grown over 1 1/2" since last month! We were glad to hear that all her blood counts were in normal ranges. Her kidney function tests remain a bit on the high side so they'll continue checking on it. By Wednesday afternoon we received the call that the Ultrasound and Xrays show NO evidence of Cancer, YEAY FOR CONTINUING REMISSION!!! One year down, only 4 more to go :> Katey will have check ups every other month now with less frequent xrays and ultrasounds, YAHOOO!!!

At clinic they had a film crew that was shooting for a PBS TV documentary. Clinic had called several days earlier to see if it was okay for us to be interviewed. The interview wasn't as nerve racking as I thought it would be, actually it was kinda fun! We aren't sure when it will be on, but they did say they would send us a tape of the final show they'll be airing. We may be in there for a blip, for a few minutes, or not at all. Anyway it was fun to do. There were 5 Childrens hospitals in the nation that were being filmed for the documentary, so who knows how much or if at all we make it to the final cuts. I don't think this will lead to Hollywood for us, LOL!

This week we have had a lot of cool and cloudy days, with only a few pockets of decent weather. Last evening after supper the kids were so antsy that even tho it was a bit cool they were out riding their scooters and bikes. Katey even had her rollerblades on for a bit. Then Dad got the crazy idea to set up a Motocross with the dirt left over from the pool excavation. Each of the kids wiped out several times only to get up and ride again. People in the neighborhood probably think we're totally nuts--I even think we're nuts! We spent time videotaping the shenanigans and snapped some pix. Sometimes its just fun to do crazy things and just enjoy the moment. The kids all thought it was the greatest :>

Today, Katey and I took her brothers to the bus for Camp Angel. They will be gone for a weekend of fun :> The boys went to winter camp and really enjoyed it. Can't wait to hear all they've been up to when we pick them up Sunday afternoon. Katey was saying tonite that she misses her brothers TOO much and that it is too quiet in the house. She got a bit sentimental, silly girl!

After we dropped the boys off, we visited with another family from the clinic whose other sons were on the bus, too. Michael and Katey ran around the park and ride lot. We also ran into another lady that I met when we were at Angel Care Retreat. What a small world!

Afterwards, we went to Perkins to meet up with clinic friends for breakfast. Colin and Katey have known each other since Katey first started treatment. It was so fun to get together without any time or treatment constraints and outside of clinic :> It was great just chating with Jan (Colin's mom) and little Emma (Colin's little sis.) The kids got along great and we decided to go for some Mini golf after breakfast. It was fun just watching the kids having a great time and as Jan says, "the kids look so good and normal, no one would believe what they had been through." We also spent some time at Foxbrook Lake. The kids got good and messy digging around in the sand and swishing their feet in the water. The water was still a little too cool for a swim altho there were a few hardy kids in the water. We had to cut our fun short since there was a storm brewing. It sure was a lot of fun, we'll be making plans to get together soon and next time we'll have our little campers with--Colin's sister Kelly and Katey's brothers, too :>

We pray that all of you are doing well and ready to enjoy the weekend. Please pray for the many kids out there in various stages of their fight with cancer and other illnesses. Especially say a prayer for our friend from clinic Patrick who recently moved to Seattle. They found out 2 days after their move that he has relapsed again. We are all shocked to hear this. He is over a year out from the most successful BMT for relapsed ALL. Lots of prayers for him and his special family, please.

Hug your kids tight, tell them you love them, and never forget to enjoy the simplest (and craziest) moments...


***We've put new pictures in the Photo Album :> ***

Tuesday, June 29, 2004 11:37 PM CDT

Hello all,

Happy 4th of July weekend to you all!!!
Boy, the days sure are flying by this summer. Its been a couple weeks since our last update and things haven't slowed up one bit around here.

Last week, Katey was at Girl Scout Camp all day everyday. She had a great time riding the bus with all her friends and doing all the fun activities at camp even tho it rained and was only 60F most of the week. She has a touch of a cold, but not too bad. Katey found an old bee hive and the troop was eager to "capture the African flag" but got beat out by a troop who made a mud hut, ah well. She enjoyed all the fun and made many new friends :>

Last week June 22nd was our oldest Jonathan's Birthday. 10 years old, unbelievable! How do they get from baby to 10?!? Seems like only yesterday when he was born. Jonathan decided he wanted a hermit crab also for his birthday so now "Speedy" has joined HemitCrab Village. We also celebrated by going out to eat at Pfudruckers for some tasty giant burgers and then went out to see Shrek II. What a funny movie! We all had a great night together, Happy 10th Bday to our Jonathan!

This week, Katey started a 5-week summer course for reading that runs M-Th 8:30-10:00am. She's still a little behind in her skills from missing so much school the past couple years but she's doing much better. Her favorites to read are her Dr. Seuss books :> She wasn't too happy about summer class at first, being at a different school with different kids and at summer, but she was better about it the second day. Hopefully she'll be able to catch up with her skills.

Yesterday, we went to Summerfest by the Lakefront for Children's Fest day. It was very crowded, lots of kids around. We enjoyed some kid shows, esp Mad Science--Movie Making. Katey was picked to be a volunteer on stage and got to help with sound effects :> After, they put it all together in a movie form, Funny! We also had some tasty treats. My favorite, the fried eggplant with Marinara sauce, and then there was our current craving--gelato, an italian ice cream, and of course some cotton candy :> We headed back home for dinner, it was a beautiful day out.

Today, we spent some of the morning at the YWCA for the open swim time. Our YWCA ran across some financial trouble and will be closing tomorrow. Our kids have been going there for swimming, sports, and dance for almost a decade. It's so sad to see it closing :( We may try to stop in one final time in the morning for a last swim.

This afternoon we went to Cushing Park with Shaunna and her Mom to play, the kids love getting together and it was a beautiful warm and sunny day. We came home later to find that the excavators had dug the area out for our above ground pool. Boy, what a large hole, and what a mess! I have to have vision at this point for the final look because I just can't see it right now, YIKES! I'm just hoping they get our pool up soon so I don't have to look at the big hole in our yard.

Katey's next oncology check up will be Tuesday July 6th. She will have lab work, a chest xray, and an abdominal ultrasound done also. She will be one year post-treatment and we're praying that she is still in remission.

Please also say a prayer for all our kids battling various illnesses in all stages. I'm heartbroken to say that our clinic friend Caitlyn grew her angelwings last Wednesday. My friend Jan (Colin's mom and clinic friend) and I were able to make the trip out to Illinois to see Sharon, Rich, Jim, and Sara, and to say good-bye to our sweet Caitlyn...This is all so hard to see yet another family having such pain...Please pray that a cure would be found soon...Hug your kids tight and NEVER forget to tell them how much you love them...

Tuesday, June 29, 2004 11:37 PM CDT

Hello all,

Boy, the days sure are flying by this summer. Its been a couple weeks since our last update and things haven't slowed up one bit around here.

Last week, Katey was at Girl Scout Camp all day everyday. She had a great time riding the bus with all her friends and doing all the fun activities at camp even tho it rained and was only 60F most of the week. She has a touch of a cold, but not too bad. Katey found an old bee hive and the troop was eager to "capture the African flag" but got beat out by a troop who made a mud hut, ah well. She enjoyed all the fun and made many new friends :>

Last week June 22nd was our oldest Jonathan's Birthday. 10 years old, unbelievable! How do they get from baby to 10?!? Seems like only yesterday when he was born. Jonathan decided he wanted a hermit crab also for his birthday so now "Speedy" has joined HemitCrab Village. We also celebrated by going out to eat at Pfudruckers for some tasty giant burgers and then went out to see Shrek II. What a funny movie! We all had a great night together, Happy 10th Bday to our Jonathan!

This week, Katey started a 5-week summer course for reading that runs M-Th 8:30-10:00am. She's still a little behind in her skills from missing so much school the past couple years but she's doing much better. Her favorites to read are her Dr. Seuss books :> She wasn't too happy about summer class at first, being at a different school with different kids and at summer, but she was better about it the second day. Hopefully she'll be able to catch up with her skills.

Today, we spent some of the morning at the YWCA for the open swim time. Our YWCA ran across some financial trouble and will be closing tomorrow. Our kids have been going there for swimming, sports, and dance for almost a decade. It's so sad to see it closing :( We may try to stop in one final time in the morning for a last swim.

This afternoon we went to Cushing Park with Shaunna and her Mom to play, the kids love getting together and it was a beautiful warm and sunny day. We came home later to find that the excavators had dug the area out for our above ground pool. Boy, what a large hole, and what a mess! I have to have vision at this point for the final look because I just can't see it right now, YIKES! I'm just hoping they get our pool up soon so I don't have to look at the big hole in our yard.

Katey's next oncology check up will be Tuesday July 6th. She will have lab work, a chest xray, and an abdominal ultrasound done also. She will be one year post-treatment and we're praying that she is still in remission.

Please also say a prayer for all our kids battling various illnesses in all stages. I'm heartbroken to say that our clinic friend Caitlyn grew her angelwings last Wednesday. My friend Jan (Colin's mom and clinic friend) and I were able to make the trip out to Illinois to see Sharon, Rich, Jim, and Sara, and to say good-bye to our sweet Caitlyn...This is all so hard to see yet another family having such pain...Please pray that a cure would be found soon...Hug your kids tight and NEVER forget to tell them how much you love them...

Tuesday, June 15, 2004 3:04 PM CDT

Hi All,

Sorry its been a while since I last updated. With all 3 kids home for the summer, its hard to find time to get on the computer! I'm starting to get withdrawal symptoms from not being able to visit with all our internet friends as often. I'll try harder to keep up with you all but just know that you are all in our hearts and prayers all the time.

Since the last update we've been very busy. June 4th-6th was occuppied by Tony (my brother) and Cherie's wedding rehearsal, wedding, and gift-opening. It was a whirlwind time of fun being able to see these two make it official in a Hawaiian themed wedding. We were all able to spend time visiting with old friends and with family members that came into town :> Katey was fantastic as the flower girl, flanked by a pair of mini flower girls (not quite 3yr olds.) She was a pro at being Camille and Alyssa's friend and lead :> Katey's brothers Jonathan and Sam were the ring bearer and coin bearer respectively. I also stood up as a bridesmaid. Surprisingly, I didn't look nearly as scarey as I thought I would, LOL! Katey had an incredible amount of energy all weekend and was up til very late every night. Still, she managed to spend lots of time dancing the night away for the wedding. Then Sunday we all attended the brunch for gift opening. Afterwards, Katey went to her friend Samantha's Bday party. In the evening, some out of town friends stopped by to say Goodbye and Katey had another chance to play with Camille before her family returned to California :> Tony and Cherie are off to Hawaii soon for their Honeymoon. My husband Robert and I were there for our honeymoon over 10 years ago, too *sigh* wish we could've gone with...

The kids' last day of school was Thursday the 10th. Robert and I joined the kids for all-morning fun and festivities. Our kids all had fantastic teachers and had excellent friends so it was sad to see the year come to an end. Katey was saddened to find out one of her favorite Kindergarten friends she still plays with will be moving :( We'll miss you Karlie and Family! The rest of the day, the kids were back in their classrooms just having some more fun with each other. This evening was Katey's rehearsal for the Dance Recital. She enjoyed watching the other numbers she wouldn't be able to watch otherwise. She also spent some time hanging out with Shaunna--She is an old friend of both Sam and Katey :> The nighttime brought us a sad ending as we discovered the accidental death of one of Katey's beloved hermit crabs--Sandy :(

The first day of summer vacation was Fri June 11th. Jonathan and Kate's friend, Audrey, came over to play and then we went to the pet store. Katey now has a new very lively pet, it is a hermit crab she named Bluey for the blue water drop pattern on its shell. It made Katey feel a little better to have 3 hermits again. The evening brought Katey's Dance Recital. It was great having gramma, grampa, Uncle Art, and Auntie Hope there with us. We also had special guests join us--Larry, our friend and MAW granter, and friends from the Milwaukee Ballet Company, Yumelia (Principal dancer,) and Rolando(Director of Milw Ballet II and former principal dancer of the Milw Ballet Co.) Fortunately we were there early enough and quick enough to get the front row so when Katey came out for her dance, she saw us all right away. She smiled and performed it all beautifully as did her whole group of 10 girls :) The very last number of the night was the Father/Daughter dance. It was great to see this cute dance number that the dads and daughters perform together--Katey and her daddy danced it very well, everyone loved it! At the end of the night, Katey received a little ballerina shoes trophy for having had perfect attendance for the year! Back by the dressing rooms, Yumelia gave Katey a bouquet of beautiful flowers. She was tickled pink that Yumelia had brought her flowers after her performance since Katey has done the same for Yumelia :> She also received flowers from Gramma and Grampa and a beautiful feather rose from Larry. It was a fantastic night!

Saturday the 12th was another busy day since Katey and Sam attended Shaunna's birthday swim party. It was the first opening day of the pool and it was perfect weather for swimming. The kids had a great time and Katey said she went down the tall twirly slide 20 times! For the evening we were at Bible Study at Art and Hope's. After, we had a "June birthdays" family celebration for 5 members of our extended family which includes Katey's brother Jonathan--10yrs on June 22nd! It was fun to get together again and wish all a Happy Birthday!

Sunday the 13th, after church was Sam's Baseball team pix and first game. Dad, Robert, had to leave for Nashville for a business conference and won't be back til Wednesday nite. The kids and I had to attend the first game on our own. The first two games had been rained out. Today they were determined to play a game even tho it had rained in the morning. Sam's team lost but we were so proud that Sam was 2 for 2 at bat :> For the evening we stayed in and watched Freaky Friday, what a funny movie :>

Yesterday the 14th was yet another heavy rain morning. The pool excavation has been delayed yet again. The way it looks right now, we won't have the pool up until July sometime. Oh well, there's always the beaches and area pools :> We went to the library this day and signed all 3 kids up for the reading program.

Today the 15th, the 3 kids decided to cooperate with each other and built a makeshift tent in our already cluttered family room *sigh* Oh well, at least they are quiet and having fun together, what a concept! They are spending a lot of time reading for their summer library program. We were supposed to go strawberry picking but with all the rain, the strawberries won't be ready for another week or so. I had better close for now since the 'natives' are starting to get restless! Only one more night til Robert gets home, Thank God! We all miss him so much already!

Thanks for stopping by to check on Katey and our family. Please continue to pray for all our friends who are battling serious health issues right now. Our friend LaKota has 2 angel siblings--one who had Wilms. She was diagnosed with ALL with gene defect and poor chemo tolerance. Then she had to have brain surgery for venous malformation. Recently, she was also diagnosed with Wilms and had a nephrectomy. Then ALL converted to AML and now she has had a cord blood transplant. Then there is our friend from clinic, Caitlyn diagnosed with JMML in Feb 2002. She has had 2 BMT and now her JMML has converted to AML. Both of these precious friends of ours and their families are very fragile right now and could really use your prayers. Please also remember to pray for all the little ones in various stages of their fight against their illnesses. Hug your kids and NEVER forget to tell them how much you love them!

Blessings to you all, Grace

Thursday, June 3, 2004 11:29 PM CDT

Good Morning All!

Thought I'd better sneak in an update now, another busy weekend ahead with Katey being a flower girl in her Uncle Tony's wedding to 'Auntie Cherie!' We are so happy to see these two making it official :> We absolutely love Tony and Cherie together and so happy she'll be in our family forever!

Things have been very busy as usual. Since the last update, Katey and her brothers performed in their gymnastics exhibition event and they all did very well :> Katey's favorites: the uneven bars and the balance beam--She did great! We will be taking a break from gymnastics for the summer and resuming in the Fall. Katey will be in level 3, Jonathan in level 4, and Sam in level 3. It will be nice not to have so much summer chauffering going on.

The Friday before Memorial Day, the kids were off of school for the Holiday weekend. We went in to do the WKLH Miracle Marathon radiothon to raise funds for Children's Hospital. They ask a couple dozen families to share about their experiences with Children's Hospital. We did it last year also and this year Katey was not shy at all and talked a lot more--We spent about 15 minutes on the air talking about Katey's story and giving an update. We were supposed to be on the air at 1:15pm but were delayed until 1:45pm so hopefully those of you in the area were still able to catch us. At last count they had raised over $1.4 million dollars!!! Praise God! We have been so blessed to have Children's for Katey's treatments, we were more than happy to help out :>

After the Miracle Marathon, we stopped in at Mayfair Mall and visited with Jodie from Libby Lu. Jodie is always so sweet to Katey and gave her a quick Diva hairdo while the boys and I were at Build-a-bear. We were asked to come out to see the Milwaukee Ballet so now she is all prettied up and ready to go--Wow!

The Ballet was fantastic! We met with Michelle and Kimmy before the show and they took us on a backstage tour. We ran into many of Katey's friends--Michael Pink (Artistic Director,) Yumelia Garcia (Principal Dancer,) and many of the other dancers. We sat in the front row of the Orchestra Pit. Its incredible to see everything so up close. The dancers are all so graceful and athletic! It was a fantastic time and the boys even enjoyed it. We stopped backstage to visit afterwards and Yumelia took Katey to visit with her in her dressing room. Katey was sad to hear that Paul Thrussell (Principal Dancer) was leaving to move to Florida--She got a big wet kiss (yuck she said--with a giggle!) from him and he said he'll be back!

The Memorial Day Weekend was quiet, Lots of rain around here so that put a halt on a lot of our outdoor plans. We did manage to drop a pine tree in our yard in prep of putting up our pool. We'll be able to get a lot more sun for the pool now--ahhh summertime, summertime, We can't wait! We spent the rest of the weekend getting things cleaned up from the pine tree and prepping the ground for the pool. This is going to be quite the project! Katey and Jonathan did go over to Audrey's house for a little bit and we watched a Movie at night and made microwave buttery kettle corn :>

Tuesday June 1st Katey had a checkup at the clinic. Everything is going well and she will get her next ultrasound, chest x ray and labwork done July 6th. Till then we just get to hang out and Katey is feeling great and doing well! We did run into Colin and his mom Jan and also talked to India and her mom. We couldn't visit long since we had to get back home for Katey's brothers after school. We are so blessed to have such a wonderful facility for Katey's treatments and so blessed to have met so many wonderful caring friends throughout this journey. Thank you so much for praying for our Katey. Please continue to pray for all our brave children in various stages of fighting their illnesses and health problems. Please sign the guestbook if you've stopped by, we love to hear from you!

God's blessings to you all!!!--Love-n-Hugs, The Olsens

Monday, May 24, 2004 4:59 PM CDT

Hi Everyone!

Thought I'd better get an update in before we get much farther into this month! My how time flies! I am looking forward to summer and hopefully a less hectic schedule.

Katey's Birthday weekend was great :> She left with her dad for their Spring Indian Princess Camp out at Camp Whitcomb on Friday night. On Saturday (May 15, Katey's Bday!) they were busy with all their games and programs. Katey and her dad's sailboat (made of water bottles and duct tape) took 2nd place in the sailboat races! It didn't topple over on the lake like last years boat did :> After dinner, the boys and I took a drive out to the camp with chocolate Bday cake for Katey and her tribe. It was so great to see her, my now 7year old! 7 -year olds sure do give powerful hugs! Our boys are good friends with some of the other girls so they all had fun running around and chasing each other until Jonathan wiped out on the gravel and gouged his face bloody. We cleaned him up and had to head home after a quick walking tour and a final birhtday hug-n-kiss :> Thankfully, Jonathan's cuts are all healed now.

Dad and Katey returned on Sunday before lunch. We had family over to celebrate Kate's Bday for dinner. It was fun for everyone to get together and she got way too much stuff, again! One of her favorite presents was her 3 hermit crabs--Hermie, Sandy, and Cruiser. They are pretty funny and remind her of the little hermit crabs they found on Castaway Cay, Bahamas on her MAW trip. Boy, that seemed so long ago...She loved all the things she got, and she even received some goodies from her wish granter Larry :> We are all looking forward to her 7th year not being as eventful as her 5th year.

This past Wednesday, I joined Katey's class for a field trip downtown to watch a play called "Miss Nelson is missing" it was a pretty cool play and Kate really enjoyed it. Funny being back on a crowded school bus, did I forget to say noisy?!? Reminds me of my school days, LOL!

This past Saturday, Jane and Jess came by to pick Katey up to hang out for a bit. Kate met Jane and Jess at Rainbow Camp last year where they were counselors. They have been great with keeping in touch and just recently did a fundraiser at their high school for cancer research :> The girls picked Katey up and took her down to Mayfair Mall. They got her a new little Build a Bear friend in a little pink tutu. Katey hasn't let it out of her sight much. They also took her for ice cream and then they watched Shrek II. Katey had such a fantastic time with these two wonderful ladies, they are so sweet!!! Thanks so much Jess and Jane!

After she got back from her fun mall trip, she joined me at her Auntie Cherie's Wedding Shower. Auntie Cherie was just saying she needed Kate to help open presents, then there she was! We had fun and stayed out a little late. Katey and I didn't get home til 10:30pm, way past bedtime for all little girls, oh well. Katey was having so much fun and was dancing to all the music they played. We have more fun to look forward to, Katey will be the flower girl for her Uncle Tony and Auntie Cherie's wedding on June 5th :>

Yesterday was a quiet day and we didn't have to run out anywhere so we picked up the movie Cheaper by the Dozen to watch at home. We were enjoying the movie and some nice buttery kettle korn when we heard the faint sound of the tornado sirens! We all had to run down to the basement and the kids were pretty rattled. The skies were horrible and there were 2 tornado touchdowns in the state. Thankfully there were no injuries. We have been stuck under a terrible weather system the past week with strong thunderstorms daily. There is much flooding in the neighboring areas. Our home is on a hill but we have noticed the sump pump running quite a bit--hopefully there will be no flooding here. More rain and Thunderstorms are forcasted for the next few days.

This Friday May 28th, Kate and I will be interviewed for the Children's Miracle Marathon Network. We will be on at 1:15 for those of you in the area on WKLH (96.5FM.) We did the same thing last year and they were able to raise $1.2 million! We are hoping it does as well again this year to help support Children's Hospital and all their programs.

Please say a prayer for all our brave little fighters in various stages of their illnesses. Hug you kids tight and tell them how much you love them. Have a safe and Happy Memorial Day Weekend!

God's Blessings to you all, Grace

Saturday, May 15, 2004 10:19 PM CDT

HAPPY 7TH BIRTHDAY TO OUR SWEET PRINCESS!!!

We love you so much, dolly! We thank God that he blessed us with you this day at noon 7 years ago. We were so in awe of your sweet perfection then and now today, even more so! Your caring and friendly personality has always been apparent no matter what was going on. We are so proud of all you have been through :> You kept your smile even through all the roughest times and never let your sickness get the best of you. Love You FOREVER Sweetie!!!

Your Mommy Daddy and brothers Sam and Jonathan :>

Tuesday, May 7, 2004 10:32 PM CDT

Hello Everyone,

Just a quick update to say we are all well. We have been busy, busy, busy! Katey has had a fast-paced life filled with Brownie troop meetings, skate parties, Gymnastics, Swimming, Ballet practice for her upcoming recital in June, Indian Princess meetings/craft nights (last weekend we hosted at our house,)and Birthday parties--Erin's last week and Tyler's yesterday. Whew, I can't keep up with this child!!!

School will be done in a month and they are busy trying to earn their presidential fitness awards. Katey was all excited that she beat the fastest boy in her class for the quarter mile! Everyone in class was trying so hard to keep up with Katey and Chase that the whole class ended up timing in under 2 minutes for the run (LOL!) She loves to run and the boys can't seem to catch her--What a Good Thing ;>

May 2nd Sunday, Katey was by the Lakefront for a photoshoot for the Make a Wish organization. Her picture will be on the upcoming "Walk for Wishes" poster. Funny thing is that the poster is formatted to include 3 pictures--Kate's will be the one of her and a little guy holding hands as they walk away. So IF you know what Katey's back looks like, you'll know its her! HaHa!

This past Tuesday May 4th Katey had a check up, lab work, and xrays. Everything checked out CLEAR!!! A great day at the clinic since we also ran into our friends Jan and Colin. Katey sure loves to hang out with Colin :> After clinic, we went for lunch at Mayfair Mall and visited with some of our friends. We stopped in at Libby Lu and Katey really enjoyed getting jazzed up by the girls there. She loves getting "she she la la" as they call it :> Too bad our camera is still in the shop.

Katey will be turning 7 on May 15th! She will be on a camp-out that weekend with her Daddy at Indian Princess, but we will stop in to visit with birthday cake Saturday afternoon and then Sunday, we will have a Birthday party with our family when she gets home. Her friends party is still in the works and may be in mid June since she wants a pool party.

All that aside, we have another busy week coming up. This weekend we want to wish all you wonderful Moms out there an Awesome Mothers Day in celebration of your gifts from God. Special love and prayers to all the moms of our sweet Angel friends. Peace to all of your Mommy hearts~

Love, The Olsens

Tuesday, May 4, 2004 3:49PM CDT

***UPDATE FROM MASON'S SITE***

Tuesday, May 4, 2004 10:45 AM CDT

With my heart heavy, I have bad news. My baby boy has passed away. Mason passed 5:14 pm May 3, 2003.
Plz keep us in your prayers.
Christie, Bill, Sonia

***Mase-man was a very brave and courageous boy who did all he could to fight off his cancer...Please please pray for awesome mom Christie, dad Bill, and sis Sonia for the deep pain they are experiencing...Peace to you Mase-man...

Thursday, April 22, 2004 1:40 PM CDT

Hello All,

WE HAD A *MARVELOUSLY MAGICAL AND BLESSED* TRIP!!!

I apologize for not updating sooner. We returned Monday Nite around 10pm (11 nights later :>) and had just monster piles of laundry, lots of phone calls, and other details to catch up on. Besides, I've got so much to tell I don't even know where to start! I'll try and pare it down some but I'll warn you now that this will be kinda lengthy. We had such a great time on Katey's Make-A-Wish trip and the extra days we stayed afterwards :>

We started our adventure on April 8th at the wee hours of 4:30 AM! The kids were so geared up that they actually woke themeselves up by 3AM without us waking them! Actually Katey woke up at 2AM but I sent her back to bed...who could sleep with all the excitement in the air?!? I stayed up to finish packing and visiting some of our wonderful internet friends' websites :> The kids were so excited to see the long black limo pull up at the end of the driveway. They jumped in long before we were even ready and played with all the buttons inside. At the airport, we ate breakfast and were ready for our 7AM flight. At the NW terminal, the agent bumped all 5 of us up to 1st class seating!!! The kids couldn't believe it, they really thought that was cool! Katey loved being by the window and looking out. As we rose up over the cloud base she said, "Oh wow! We're on top of the world!" Yes Katey, that's how we all feel!

We got into Orlando at 10:30AM, and in quick order we had met the Disney Cruise Reps and were shuttled to Port Orleans Riverside in WDW where we had beautiful adjoining rooms. We'll be here for 3 nights. We ate a quick lunch and were off to see Disney's Animal Kingdom. We went to watch the afternoon parade and were able to stand in the reserved section because of Kate's MAW button. It was a great parade and lots of the characters stopped to interact with us :> I just got teary-eyed with all the excitement. Couldn't help thinking of how different things were just one year ago. It was great to see our little girl so strong and healthy, smiling and with all that hair again. I must say she looked awfully cute, We are so proud of Katey--and our 2 boys! I just couldn't keep count of all our many blessings!

After the parade, we enjoyed the Kilamanjaro Safari and the Its Tough to be a Bug show at the Tree of Life. The coolest thing was that we never stood in line for the rides or shows because of Katey's MAW button! It rained for a short while which was great since we were by the Mombasa Marketplace, awesome souveniering! Katey picked up her stuffed Tiger from here and loved playing all the different african musical instruments. We walked around and enjoyed the beautiful grounds before we ate tasty ribs and BBQ at the Flame Tree for dinner. We were back in our resort by 8:30pm and called it a nite, We were all wiped out from an incredibly long and busy first day!

Friday, April 9th--Magic Kingdom! I won't even list all the rides we went on and all the shows we saw, Just know we went on all but a few :> Katey had been so excited that she was getting tall enough for most all the rides. She was 53 Lbs and almost 48 inches at her last check up. But then she changed her mind and said she wasn't brave enough. I reminded her of all she has been through and that she is one of the bravest, most courageous little girls I know, all our little cancer fighters are! Still she decided not to brave the 'Mountain' rides (Big Thunder, Splash, and Space!) We managed to pack in everything else since we didn't have to wait in lines and they brought her to the front of the line for all signings from the characters and princesses :> We also viewed the afternoon and night parades from Reserved sections and watched the night fireworks. What an incredible day, We finally called it a night at 11pm when we got back.

Saturday, April 10th--Epcot! There were many character signings here, lots of them gave Katey Special attention. Then we were off to "Leave a Legacy." This was part of the resort package deal so we were able to do this without paying extra. We had a picture made of the boys and then one of Katey and me :> They told us that the metal engraved pictures should be up on the marble walls in about 3 months and we would be notified where we would be able to find them in the future. It was definitely a cool thing to do! Katey felt braver this day and we did all the rides including the brand new Mission:Space and Test Track, she loved them! We enjoyed walking all the different countries represented and took all the boat rides in Mexico, Norway, and across the lagoon :> We loved Innoventions and also Living Seas. We capped of the day by having a picnic dinner in Norway with a clear view of the lagoon and ready for the Illuminations Fireworks. We enjoyed some silly time as a family, and then we had the best viewing for the awesome fireworks! Katey asked for and got Mickey and Minnie stuffed dolls. Who could say no after such an awesome time? What a great way to finish our last night at WDW! We were all asleep by midnight!

April 11th, Sunday--Happy Easter everyone, Celebrate the Risen Christ! We were off to an early start since bags had to be ready for pick up at 8am. We went back to Animal Kingdom for the morning. We saw the awesome Festival of the Lion King and had more character signings with Mickey and Minnie. We also did the Kali River Rapids waterride. It took us awhile to convince Kate to try it, she finally did but she wasn't happy about it! Our 'Little Mermaid' said she didn't want to get all wet (LOL!) Luckily we didn't get soaked and she was all smiles after, really enjoyed it! We finished up with the DinoLand rides and she road them numerous times before we had to leave at noon for the shuttle to the cruise boat.

We arrived on board the Disney Wonder by 3pm. What an awesome sight to see! The kids were thrilled to walk the gangway into the Grand Atrium. Our family was warmly greeted and announced as we came in. The crew were all clapping, we felt like we were in First class! We didn't know it would be like this the whole cruise! We couldn't believe we would be here for 4 glorious nights! We went to our adjoining cabins and were surprised to find a Captain Mickey Mouse doll there waiting on Katey's bed, compliments of the Disney Wonder Crew! We enjoyed a very tasty late lunch and then went exploring. The neat part was everywhere we turned, there were smiling crew members, food and drink, ice cream, and treats whenever you wanted them! Its so cool to get what you want and never pay! I never needed my wallet, just my key card for souveniers :> The kids enjoyed plenty of swim time in the Mickey Mouse pool on the Top Deck. Later in the evening, the pool was covered and there was a deck party going on with the bands playing as we left port, so cool! It was neat to see 2700 passengers just dancing and partying (and 900 of them were kids!) We had an awesome dinner experience with our own personal servers. They went with us every night to the different dinner restaurants we rotated to :> They were wonderful and got to know us all well. The kids loved all the special attention. At 8:30pm we went to the Stage show. It was Broadway-like in production--Incredible! When we got back to our cabins, the beds were turned down and there were towels shaped to look like bunnies with chocolate mint eyes on our beds :> Every day, our Room Attendant Roger made cool towel animals for our family to enjoy. We had elephants, swans, and monkeys, too! The only thing we missed this day was corporate worship for Easter. We do know that we were indeed *Celebrating* knowing how God has helped us through our rough times with Katey's battle. We have no guarrantees with this life, but we are greatful that we have Eternity to look forward to. Jesus saw to it for Us! We felt the warm breezes and the gentle sways of the boat that evening. Wonderfully, no one got seasick and we were softly rocked to sleep around 11pm.

Monday, April 12--We were ported in Nassau, Bahamas. We took our family off the boat to look around. This was the day Katey was supposed to 'Swim with the Dolphins.' Unfortunately, we found out the day before that the dolphins were sick and that Katey wouldn't be able to do that part of her "Wish"...she was very disappointed but fortunately knew enough not to dwell on it. We came back onboard for lunch and just stayed. The kids were able to spend some time in their respective kids' clubs before dinner and Robert and I just walked around and enjoyed ourselves. The evenings were always busy together as a family since we had 6pm dinner seating and the shows at 8:30pm. At dinner we met a sweet couple and their little girl Megan from England--We shared the same dinner table and seating time with them for the rest of the cruise. That night at 10pm, we joined in on the energetic Tropical deck party with the band SeaBreeze. It was fun to see so many kids and families dancing and having a great time to some really great tunes :> We stayed for about an hour and had to pry Katey back to the cabin for the night!

April 13, Tuesday--We ported in Castaway Cay, Disney's exclusive Tropical Island. The day started off cloudy and rainy and proceeded to stay that way all morning. It didn't matter much to the kids, they had a great time playing in the gentle rain. They made sandcastles and moats with a friend. There were plenty of loungers and giant umbrellas, so Robert and I just relaxed underneath them and watched the kids enjoying themselves. It was neat to see that the kids weren't afraid of a little rain and it wasn't going to spoil their fun. It was a good lesson for us adults. It reminded us that no matter how 'rainy' life was that we had a choice to look beyond it and have some fun anyway. We can choose to anchor ourselves on the one and only true promise of Eternity instead of dwelling on our current life problems. We had a wonderful BBQ lunch served on the island and by the time we were done, the sun and blue skies were back and the rain and clouds were gone! It put a smile on my face, we were on a tropical island that was clouded over and now we see how truly beautiful it was...it was always there! We did a little snorkeling and went for several dips in the cool water. The sky and water were in such incredible hues of blue! The kids spent lots of time playing in the sand with their friend. They found little hermit crabs and at one point had 6 of them! They dedicated their sand castle village for the enjoyment and protection of their little beloved Hermits. There were those nasty sea gullies around, ya know! By mid-afternoon it was getting quite breezy and we headed back to the boat. We had to get all cleaned up for a special get-together courtesy of the Crew for all 12 MAW families at 4:30pm. We got to meet with "Captain Mickey" and he signed the top of Kate's Captain Mick :> We took lots of pix and chatted with another family from Pittsburgh, who's daughter Olivia was on her MAW trip, too. The girls became fast friends, giggling and running around playing together :> It was so cool to see them having so much fun! We headed off to our dinner afterwards. Katey and Megan (the little gal sharing our dinner table) had a great time together, too. Our families sat together for the 8:30 show. After the show we walked around and noticed that the winds had really picked up and there was some pretty good wave action going on. It was also much cooler out(some wind chill?!?) I couldn't help but think of our internet friend Savannah and her family. It was not even a month ago that they were on this same cruise boat. Thinking of you always dear angel Savannah, we feel your sweet presence here. Some of the crew even remembered you and your family~ We called it a night by 10:30pm.

Wednesday, April 14th--Our day at sea. After breakfast, we walked around the boat and went on a Bridge tour. It was neat to see all the navigational stuff. After lunch, the kids went to their kids clubs. Katey met with her friend Olivia from the MAW party and had fun playing with her again. By 4:30pm, we were back at the theater to watch 300 kids from kids clubs perform for all the parents :> It was definitely rockin' to see what the kids had learned and how much fun they were having! That night we had another perfect dinner and watched the final show with Megan and her dad. After, we headed back to the cabins to get our suitcases packed and outside our cabins by 11pm so our bags could be portered for us for tomorrow's departure. The boat was really rocking tonight with high winds. I went on deck at midnight to see the mighty waves crashing on the side of the boat. It reminded me how God is a strong and safe boat for us to be on when the waves are crashing in all around us. Thank you God for your unfailing love and protection~

Thursday, April 15th--Disembarkment day. We had breakfast seating at 6:45am. Our sad and final morning, we said good-bye to our friends from England. We walked around the ship one final time and took more pictures. Katey was crying, she did not want her journey and MAW trip to come to an end. Rebecca and Monica (guest services) were so wonderful to oversea our family during Katey's MAW trip. They never failed to provide all the special touches and the warm notes and treats in our cabins at night...no wonder Katey never wanted it to end, neither did we. She knew this was a once in a lifetime trip that we could not have afforded, it was so very special...Monica noticed Katey crying and ran over to hand her a little rainbow candy stick with a little pluto on top. She managed to have a smile and we reminded her that at the show last night that we should believe in our dreams. Kate's daddy promised her we would go on a cruise again someday...It was very hard to walk down the gangway one final time at 8:45am. We were all sad, almost had to pry my hands off the railing, too...

We took the cruise shuttle back to the airport and picked up our Rental Car. Katey's MAW trip was done, but forever in our hearts for the most awesome time ever...Thank you to all the MAW donors and volunteers for all the incredible memories!

After we got our car, we drove out to Give Kids the World Village for a day tour. Robert our volunteer guide showed us around the nifty grounds. As we were headed for the ice cream parlor, someone across the way called out our names. It was my internet friend Kathy and her daughter Courtney who was treated for Wilms too! It was wonderful to see each other and give each other real hugs instead of cyber hugs. Kathy kept her daughter from school so we could met! It was incredible to finally put faces to names. Kathy was wonderfully warm and caring and her daughter was so sweet and kind--no wonder we got along so well on email! After lunch, the kids all played minigolf on the dinosaur course. They laughed and giggled and got silly together. Katey just loved being around Courtney! Courtney is in 4th grade and was so sweet to let our little 1st grader hang around her :> We were so happy to hear that everything continues to go well for Courtney. She completed treatment in November of last year :> God has truly blessed us in this journey, I could never have imagined something so wonderful to come out of something so horrible for our family! By mid afternoon Kathy and Courtney had to leave to catch up with their other kids after school. We left for our hotel room and spent the rest of the afternoon swimming and lounging around the pool. It was an absolutely beautiful warm day. We drove out for dinner and called it a night by 10pm.

Friday, April 16th we were at Universals Islands of Adventure. Last year March 1st we were here on a rainy day. We spent a good portion of the morning lining up for a Pteradon Sky ride that Katey really wanted to get on. Well, by 1pm, shortly before it was Katey's turn, she spiked a temp and had to be rushed out of the park to the Sand Lake Hospital. Her ANC was really low. We flew out for home the next morning and then Kate was hospitalized. This year, she is strong and healthy. I had contacted Universal about what had happened and Judy from Community Relations granted us a return day and had tickets for us at the gate that were good for both parks *and* She also provided us with VIP passes so we could go on all the rides without waiting in lines! I couldn't believe our blessings and the kind people we've encountered along the way. Katey was finally able to get on the elusive Pteradon sky glide ride! She totally loved it, rode it several times and the Unicorn coaster, too! We spent time at Seuss Landing also and took a 'one-year later' similar picture of the kids with funny blue hair and Kate wearing the Dr. Seuss hat :> We had a great time at the Universal Islands of Adventures and then on we went to Universal Studios. There we joined in a show based on Nickelodeon's slime time live show--the kids love Nickelodeon! Katey even got to take part in the games :> We also went on the Jimmy Neutron ride, and the Shrek 4-D ride, too. Later we went on the Back to the Future ride. We all had loads of fun :> We saw parts of the fireworks before heading out. We were beat!

Back at our hotel room, there were phone messages for us! Our friend Kathy (Courtney's mom who we met with the day before) tracked us down. She was speaking to someone at her church about Katey missing out on her "Swim with the dolphins." The pastor's wife had her get in touch with their music director who was friends with a trainer at SeaWorld where we were planning to go in the morning! It was an incredible connection, Mike the trainer who was friends with the Music Director gave us 3 complimentary tickets for SeaWorld, a parking pass, and 3 tickets for the SkyRide! Then wonderfully, the Cornerstone Church blessed us again to cover 2 more tickets to SeaWorld! As if that wasn't enough, Mike arranged for us to meet him before the 10am dolphin show to go backstage! Sweet dreams, sweet blessings, Thank you God for another wonderful day!

Saturday, April 17th--Off to SeaWorld with a handful of blessings :> The Guest Relations who gave us tickets to Universal yesterday told Katey to wear her MAW button and also asked us to wear it into SeaWorld today! We met with the trainer Mike who took us backstage and gave us a wonderful tour of behind the scenes. We met with the Macaw trainer and the kids got to handle the big birds, they also went to see the rare black false killer whales. SeaWorld of Florida is the only facility in the World that has them! The kids got to do commands with them and to touch them :> We watched the show afterwards, it was fantastic! Later, we stopped by the dolphin cove to feed the dolphins. We were able to go in the reserved area and the trainer whistled a dolphin over to shelf himself so the kids could touch him! Kate was elated! We went back several more times so Katey could enjoy being close to the dolphins. After lunch we went to the Shamu show. Mike the trainer had arranged for us to meet with Amy the Shamu trainer after the show. The show was great and afterwards, Amy took us backstage to see, touch, and feed the killer whales! Katey was beaming from ear to ear, We just felt like we were dreaming all day! We saw and did everything we could possibly do. We visited the Shark encounter tank, fed and touched the manta rays, watched the sea lion and otter show, and enjoyed an abundance of beautiful scenery, awesome weather, and cool animals :> It couldn't have gotten any better than this...

Sunday, April 18th--We had a late check-out so the kids could enjoy a little more swimming. We headed off to Downtown Disney for lunch and a little shopping. We were back at the airport to turn in our rental car at 4:30pm for our 6:30pm flight home. At the terminal, the flight was overbooked. They gave us each a voucher for a future flight, meal vouchers, overnight kits, and 2 adjoining rooms at the Hyatt. Well, the kids would miss class on Monday and Robert would need another day off work but now we have future travel tickets! Luckily, what I couldn't fit in our checked bags were night clothes and swimsuits, but not much else. We putzed around the airport for a little bit then watched a movie in our room. We were all asleep by 10:30pm.

Monday, April 19th we swam in the hotel pool and had late check out. Ate lunch and then wandered in the airport shops for a few hours til our flight. Again the flight was overbooked and this time they were offering double flight coupons! Very tempting, but we decided it was time to get back. The flight left 30 minutes behind schedule since they were still processing people to surrender their seats so we could get home. We were last on the plane when they finally got things squared away. At Mitchell Airport, The Limo driver was already waiting for us. Our bags had arrived the day before and were set aside. In quick order we were in the Limo heading back to home and reality. The driver was kind enough to let us have a quick stop to see my brother Tony and his fiancee Cherie before heading home. The kids loved showing off "their Limo!" We reached home by 10pm, and the kids were showered and in bed by 10:30pm.

***END OF OUR MARVELOUS ADVENTURE***

Tuesday, April 20th--Well, we are back to reality and our daily grind. The kids were at school and I was busy unpacking, sorting, and washing. Robert had the morning off to chaperone Katey's outdoor nature field trip. Quite chilly for us folk returning from Tropical lands. There were gusty winds and it never got warmer than mid 40's, Kate was chilled and glad to get back to the school for lunch. I had to attend class from 6-10pm for ACLS, a professional recertification class for ICU nurses.

Wednesday, April 21st--Kids in school, Robert at work, me at the Bible Study at church, usual Wednesday stuff. I made dinner for the first time since we left on our trip. Then off to the kids' final swim class of the season. Each of the kids will be staying in their current levels, Kate in level 4, Sam in level 4y, and Jonathan in level 6. Just a few more things to master, but all 3 are doing very well. Katey learned the side stroke and breast stroke tonite after doing 4 lengths of the pool in front crawl, back crawl, and back stroke! She's a regular fish :>

Thursday, April 22nd--Today! Kids are in school and I've spent all morning writing an update. I'll apologize now for such a long entry. I should give out prizes if you've gotten this far! The kids have early release day and should be home just after 2pm.

We have so many wonderful blessings and I stand in awe of how different things are now, one year later. We know we are anchored in so much Hope for the future, if not for this life, then for the next. We have been so blessed by you our many friends and family! Please leave us a note if you have stopped by, it always encourages us :>

Again I ask for special prayers for all our little warriors in various stages of their fight against cancer and other diseases. Especially pray for our little friends Josh, Mason, Lakota, Shiri , Christopher, Caitlyn, and their families. Hug and kiss your kids and loved ones, Never waste a moment...

Love, Hugs, and Blessings to you all, Grace


***There are new pictures in the photo album!***

Wednesday, April 7, 2004 8:38 AM CDT

Good Morning Everyone!

WE LEAVE THE HOUSE FOR KATEY'S MAW (MAKE A WISH) TRIP TOMORROW MORNING AT 4 AM!!!! We are so excited!!! Not finished packing yet tho, we've been so crazy busy around here!

Last week Thursday, I was downtown Milwaukee to do a taped video promotional interview for Angel On My Shoulder. It wasn't too scary and I was glad to do it for the wonderfully energetic Lolly Rose, founder of this multi-level cancer support organization :>

On Friday, we had the kids' elementary school Carnival Nite, they had such a blast playing all the games and running around with their friends :> We came back with way too many sugary prizes and two very tired parents!

On Saturday, Katey had her ballet recital pictures done and we had to somehow put her hair up into a bun??? Well, we managed to get a little pike's peak up there for the first time and Katey won't let me do her hair any other way now. She used to wear her hair like this but only the genie pony was lots longer (LOL!) It really does look kinda cute :>

Saturday Nite was the big 20th Anniversary of the MAW foundation of WI and we were invited along for the festivities. Katey presented an award and also had 2 speaking parts. The second time up she was supposed to talk about her upcoming trip and then thank all the wonderful donors, but she got a little 'shy!' She still spoke, but her 1-5 minute talk became 1 minute--she said as she was standing on the stage that "all the people got really up close and I got a little scared!" No matter, lots of people came by afterwards to say Hi and talk to her and tell her she did well :> It was a fantastice fun-filled night at the Ballroom of the Hyatt Regency, Kate said she felt like a Princess there! They were able to raise money for about 30 more kids' wishes that night--lots of high rollers with very big hearts were definitely in attendance, Thank you all so very much for what you do!

We were pretty tired Sunday morning since we didn't get home til midnight (day light savings time!) and got up to go to 9am church service, too. Just afer lunch we were on the go again for Katey's Indian Princess Pine Wood Derby races. Her little purple dolphin/princess car consistently won 2nd-3rd on each heat but didn't place. The kids had lots of fun being with all their friends :>

On Tuesday morning, I took Katey in for her follow up ultrasound ("jelly on the belly") and check up at the clinic. We didn't run into any of her little friends, but we did see lots of her Big people friends who work at Children's. They called her a "Star" for her role at the MAW Fundraiser since some of them were there--she just smiled :> We don't have results back from the ultrasound yet, hopefully by later today.

Well, need to close for now, I'm already late for Bible Study this morning! Wish you all a Very Blessed Easter in celebration of our Saviour the Risen Christ! Please pray for all our brave little soldiers and don't forget to hug your kids and tell them how much you love them!

Blessings and Peace to you all, Grace

***UPDATE: WE GOT THE ALL-CLEAR ON THE ULTRASOUND OF KATEY'S BELLY, Now we can all relax, whew...FLORIDA here come the Olsens!!!***

Sunday, March 28, 2004 6:51 PM CST

***UPDATE FROM SAVANNAH'S SITE written by her dad Lance***

Saturday, March 27, 2004 8:42 PM CST

It is with a heavy heart that I write this update.

Savannah passed away at 7:20 P.M. this evening.

Amy and I were both holding her hands, she passed peacefully.

She fought the good fight until the end.

Tears and Pain.

Lance and family.



Our love and prayers go out to the Olson Family, Heaven has gained such a beautiful angel. We will miss you soooo very much our Sweet Savannah...we will NEVER forget your strength, courage, will-power, and determination. This world was never good enough for one as lovely as you...We Love you Amy, Lance, and Jazzy. May God's Peace be with you all~









Friday March 26, 2004 9:51 AM CST

Happy Friday Everyone!

We are looking forward to a nice weekend here. Its quiet so its a good time to put in a quick update. Its been a few weeks and everything here is going well. On our last entry, I mentioned that Katey had a stomache bug that was gone. Well, it came back to bother us again and again with Katey having bouts of diarrhea and vomiting off and on for 2 weeks! Of course I started to worry again that there was something more wrong. Then as Kate started to feel better again, our oldest Jonathan had vomiting too--Thankfully! I can't believe we think that way now. We are 'Thankful' that one of our other kids got sick, too--its Only a stomach bug thing!

Jonathan was sick all day Thursday, stayed home from school Friday. Friday night he had his first meal beyond crackers and soda. On Saturday morning he said he felt well enough to go to the city wide Swim Meet for grades 3-6. For those who don't know Jonathan, he is a slim jim, so not much fat layer to work off when he's sick. He was pretty weak, but he wanted to try anyway. Jonathan ended up ribboning in both events he tried--6th place overall for backstroke AND 3rd place overall for breaststroke! We were so proud to see him waving his ribbons from the block! His school placed 6th out of 17 schools represented. Way to go Jonathan!

This past week everyone in our family has been healthy and the weather has been so mild. It was great to have the break. We even reached the low 60s the past 2 days. Today started off warm but it's going to dip down into the 40s again by this afternoon plus its grey and overcast out.

We do have warmer weather to look forward to soon. If not here in Wisconsin, well then in less that 2 weeks when we go for Katey's Make a Wish! We met with Katey's MAW granter Larry on Wednesday so we could get all the paperwork and tickets for the trip. We will be leaving by Limo at 4am Thursday April 8th :> Its a bit early for all of us but at least it will get us to Florida by 10:30am so we'll still have time to get out and see the WDW parks that day. We'll be there til Easter Sunday then we go on to the Disney cruise!!! We are all so excited, a huge thanks to the Make a Wish Organization for all they do to make kids dreams come true!

The MAW organization here in Wisconsin is celebrating its 20th Birthday with a big Host Night party on April 3rd. They've asked our family to come join the festivities and for Katey to speak about her upcoming trip. She says she's a little nervous! I can't believe it, all she does is talk about her trip and tell anyone who'll listen :> I'm sure she'll be fine!

Katey's next onc clinic checkup is Tuesday morning, April 6th. She'll also get her Abdominal ultrasound done. It would be good to get a little piece of mind before our trip, we'll be leaving 2 days later!

Thanks for stopping in to visit us and please sign the guestbook. Also click on the guestmap button just above this journal entry to add your spot on Katey's map. She loves to hear from all of you and really thinks the map is neat :>

Please pray for our friends who are having a particularly tough time right now--Savannah in her ongoing fight with Wilms relapse, Caitlyn with her fight against JMML, and Lakota(ALL) for her recent relapse into AML. Please keep all our precious children in their various stages with various cancers in your thoughts and prayers. Hug your kids and tell them you love them and Thank God for another day. Never waste a moment...

God's love and blessings to you all, The Olsens

Monday, March 8, 2004 10:22 AM CST

Hello All,

Thought I'd put in a quick update here. Its Monday morning and the house is quiet, Its messy, but quiet! The kids are all in school, Robert is at work, and I am not. I've been sick lately so what better thing to do than be on the computer! Altho I know they are just delay tactics for getting my home in order. Oh well, that's next I guess :>

Katey and her dad had a great time at the Indian Princess Ball. Its neat that daughters can have such a special dress up time with their Daddys :> Some girls even had corsages and one dad even wore a tux! Kate had lotsafun dancing with her dad and playing with her friends, too!

This past Friday was Young Author's Nite. Our kids, Katey, Sam, and Jonathan, were able to publish and illustrate their own books. It gave us a chance to see their work and for the kids to do some other fun activities. Unfortunately, we had to miss out on the Girl Scouts International Carnival since it was at the same time.

We have spent enough time with Girl Scout activities this past few weeks with GS cookie sorting, delivering, and of course sampling...we've already 'sampled' our way through 10 of our boxes--only a few more to go! Katey and her dad are tied for the fastest at opening/sampling the cookies that we purchased. Sure doesn't last around here!

Last week Tuesday, we had a follow up at the clinic along with chest xrays and labs. Thank God everything checks out clear! The stomach bug thing was gone by the time of Katey's appt so we didn't even have to worry about that. Her next check up will be April 6th. She will also have an abdominal ultrasound. It would be good to get the "All clear" before we leave for Katey's MAW trip which is two days later, April 8th. We will be going to Disney World for 3n/4d then on to the Disney Cruise for 4n/4d. Only ONE MONTH to go!!! Katey talks about it all the time now :>

Her favorite thing to do lately is to watch Mary Kate and Ashley Olsen movies, esp Holiday in the Sun. The movie was filmed in the Bahamas. We will port in the Bahamas for a day so she's really excited to do some of the things she has seen in the movie :> She's had her head in the clouds with thoughts of dolphins, swimming, WDW, lots of sun, and her first cruise :> We can't wait!!!

Thanks for stopping in to visit us and please sign the guestbook. Also click on the guestmap button just above this journal entry to add your spot on Katey's map. She loves to hear from all of you and really thinks the map is neat :>

Please pray for our friends who are having a particularly tough time right now--Savannah in her ongoing fight with Wilms relapse, Caitlyn with her fight against JMML, and Lakota(ALL) for her recent relapse into AML. Please keep all our precious children in their various stages with various cancers in your thoughts and prayers. Hug your kids and tell them you love them, Never waste a Day...

God's love and blessings to you all, The Olsens

Thursday, February 26, 2004 10:42 AM CST

Hello Everyone,

Busy as usual! Sorry we are so bad with updates. Katey had her music program at school last week Wednesday. It was fun to see the kids doing their program. We had actually won(!) an auction that included front row seats for this 1st and 2nd grade music concert, front row parking, and a pizza from Rosati's to boot :> We figured that the $34 we spent was worth it since we had Katey in 1st grade and Sam in 2nd grade to watch :> The kids had fun running around with their friends afterwards, too.

This past weekend we saw a lot of our friends and family at two different parties. Saturday night was Katey's cousin Monica's surprise Baby Shower. They live in Virginia so we haven't seen them in a long time. It was great to really see them and celebrate their upcoming first born :> On Sunday after church we had another party to attend for Katey's Auntie Joan's 50th Birthday Surprise :> We sure had a lot of fun but boy did we ever crash when we got home. We spent Sunday evening at home and just took it real easy (real lazy, same thing!) :>

Yesterday AFternoon, Katey had a Dental Field trip that she had signed me up for so off we went. Katey got to help floss the teeth on the giant 4 foot mouth!

Today and Tomorrow the kids have off for parent/teacher conferences. We'll be going in for Katey, Sam, and Jonathan's conferences this afternoon. It should be good since all 3 kids got great reportcards again.

Last night Katey had a little upset stomache and the runs. Of course the first thing on my mind was "What if the big C is back?!?" I just have to trust Him that, no matter what, we would be able to handle it through Him. Later in the eve, I found a note from school that a stomache virus is going around at the kid's school! That made me feel so much better (can you beleive it? I'm glad that its probably just a virus!) Bad thing is that we had to cancel out on Katey's playdate today. So far this morning she hasn't had anymore problems. Actually she has been pretty darn hungry! We are hoping she will be okay tomorrow since Dad is also taking the day off and we might be visiting the Milwaukee Ballet Company at practice for the day. We might also be tourists in Milwaukee for the day :>

This Saturday night is the Indian Princess Father/Daughter dinner dance, Katey and her dad are looking forward to it :> Next Tuesday, March 2nd will be Katey's check up. She will also be having an xray and labs done. If the stomach thing isn't gone by then, I'll bring it up but I'm feeling fairly confident that this won't be a problem. Please keep all the Little Soldiers who are battling to fight various cancers and diseases in your prayers. Please esp pray for our friend Savannah with Wilms relapse and Caitlyn with her ongoing fight against JMML.

Thanks for stopping in to check on us and for signing Katey's guestbook! Oh, we also started a guestmap! So if you have an extra minute, place a pin in your area! Just click on the guestmap button just above this journal :> Katey's been bugging me to do this. She'd love to see where you are all from--just a nifty little geography lesson I guess :>

God's Love and Blessings to you all, The Olsens

A Special Request: Please add extra prayers for our friend Lakota in treatment for ALL who has just relapsed with AML. This family has already lost 2 children, the oldest child Cody with Wilms who relapsed with AML, too. Hugs to wonderful mom Debbie. Lots of special prayers to all the special kids and their families who are taking this horrible journey. Hug your kids today and tell them how much you love them...

Monday, February 16, 2004 3:01 PM CST

Hello Everyone,

Its been a few weeks since we have updated, we are all doing well. Katey had a follow up appointment 2 weeks ago and checked out fine. Her next follow up appt with chest xray and labs will be March 2nd.

Katey and her dad had a great time at the Indian Princess weekend campout. I've added new pictures to show some of the fun things they did :>

It has been very cold and snowy here in our neck of the woods, but as the saying goes "if you can't beat em, join em!" The kids have really enjoyed lots of sledding and snow fun. I can't remember this much snow being around for the past 4 years, its really been fun for them :>

Last Friday, I helped out in Katey's class for her Valentine's Party. The kids were so excited and were so full of energy. They really enjoyed all the treats and fun that Valentines (or Friendship Day as they call it)brought. Kate also had another treat. She had hot lunch for the first time in months and happened to be the "Lucky Tray Day" winner. They only do this once every other month so you can guess she was pretty excited about winning this giant cookie treat and all the extra attention :> Hope you all have had a wonderful Valentine's weekend!

We pray that you are all doing well. Please sign the guestbook if you've stopped to visit. Katey always enjoys new messages :> I just want to ask for your prayers on some special caringbridge friends of ours, Savannah and Brock who are both having a particularly rough time fighting their Wilms relapses. Please also pray for our friend Caitlyn...no words can describe the uncertainty they are all going through right now in their fight against a rare and difficult form of leukemia called JMML... Please pray for their special families too and all the brave little ones fighting cancer. Remember to Hug your kids and tell them How much you love them...

Love and Blessings to you all, Grace and the rest of the Olsens

***UPDATE from Brock's site***

Monday, February 16, 2004 8:59 PM CST

Brock passed away peacefully at 3:30 p.m. today. No words now, just numb.......will update more later.

Much Love, Hugs, and Peace to the Barnards...Fly free Superman...

Friday, January 30, 2004 10:56 PM CST

Hi Everyone,

We have been so busy here in the Olsen Household the last couple of weeks. Thought I'd better update to let everyone know we are doing well.

Last Sunday marked the One year Anniversary of Katey being diagnosed with cancer. The incredible thing was that at church our pastor was talking about Abraham and Isaac. Abraham was asked by God to sacrifice his beloved son and with a heavy heart he set out to do so. At the last second just before he took his own son's life, he heard a voice say "Stop" and a ram was provided for the sacrifice instead. It was incredible because exactly one year before I was told that Katey had cancer and I remember the exact same heartache and asking "Why God, Why Katey?" I still trusted Him to help us in this rocky road. God has always been in the driver's seat but I am a bit of a backseat driver. I saw Him taking us off-roading and I didn't like it. Even asked him to take the other road that looked less bumpy but I stayed buckled up. Little did I know that He took us off-roading to show us that there is still beauty to be seen in the road less traveled, things we never would have seen otherwise. We have met so many wonderful families living through cancer through the clinic we go to, the internet, and through all the wonderful organizations that help support families suffering through cancer. He also provided us with wonderful family and friends, and even friendly strangers to help us get to where we are now. God is so wise and has helped us thus far to see what is really important...He provided us the Lamb who was sacrificed -instead- to secure our futures. Life on earth is no picnic at times. He didn't promise us Heaven on earth...He DID promise us Heaven through Jesus! I am just so glad He chose us as Katey's parents, regardless of what has happened in our lives. He granted us such a blessing to give us Katey :> Please pray that He would let her stay here on earth with us so we could enjoy her sweet little soul for longer. Please pray that she would continue to stay in remission...

Last weekend also, Jonathan and Sam were at Camp Angel. This is a camp for kids with family members affected by Cancer. It was put on by the Angel on my Shoulder Organization. They had so much fun and did all sorts of (literally!) cool new things like snow bowling, ice fishing, snowshoeing, and even some dog sledding! It was also the first time they were away without either one of us there. They had so much fun, they forgot to miss us! We were glad to see them Sunday afternoon after their long bus ride in bad weather. They had so much to tell us, Thanks to the Angel on my Shoulder Organization!

Katey is doing well. She will have her next follow up appointment at the clinic on Monday. Its so incredible to us that one year ago we were introduced to a whole new world we were never fully aware of. Katey has gotten back into the swing of things with her gymnastics, swimming, and ballet and is doing so well, What a Blessing! Katey has just a bit of a stuffy nose but no cough for the past few days. Its gotta be this darn ***FRIGID*** weather we've had for the past 10 days or so. Currently, we have about 10 inches of snow on the ground and it is only 3F with a windchill of -30F, BRRRRRR!!!!

Katey and her dad left this evening for the Indian Princess Father/Daughter Camp-out Weekend. They will be staying at a Cabin with other Indian Princesses and dads from their tribe. Robert said they might come home late tonite if it is too cold in the cabin, then they would head back for activities in the morning. I guess we'll wait and see.

Our family is doing well but there are so many other families struggling in their fight against cancer and others fighting to stay in remission. Please say a little prayer for all our brave little soldiers. Be sure and hug your kids and tell them How much you love them...

Blessings to you all, Grace and the rest of the O's

Friday, January 30, 2004 10:56 PM CST

Hi Everyone,

We have been so busy here in the Olsen Household the last couple of weeks. Thought I'd better update to let everyone know we are doing well.

Last Sunday marked the One year Anniversary of Katey being diagnosed with cancer. The incredible thing was that at church our pastor was talking about Abraham and Isaac. Abraham was asked by God to sacrifice his beloved son and with a heavy heart he set out to do so. At the last second just before he took his own son's life, he heard a voice say "Stop" and a ram was provided for the sacrifice instead. It was incredible because exactly one year before I was told that Katey had cancer and I remember the exact same heartache and asking "Why God, Why Katey?" I still trusted Him to help us in this rocky road. God has always been in the driver's seat but I am a bit of a backseat driver. I saw Him taking us off-roading and I didn't like it. Even asked him to take the other road that looked less bumpy but I stayed buckled up. Little did I know that He took us off-roading to show us that there is still beauty to be seen in the road less traveled, things we never would have seen otherwise. We have met so many wonderful families living through cancer through the clinic we go to, the internet, and through all the wonderful organizations that help support families suffering through cancer. He also provided us with wonderful family and friends, and even friendly strangers to help us get to where we are now. God is so wise and has helped us thus far to see what is really important...He provided us the Lamb who was sacrificed -instead- to secure our futures. Life on earth is no picnic at times. He didn't promise us Heaven on earth...He DID promise us Heaven through Jesus! I am just so glad He chose us as Katey's parents, regardless of what has happened in our lives. He granted us such a blessing to give us Katey :> Please pray that He would let her stay here on earth with us so we could enjoy her sweet little soul for longer. Please pray that she would continue to stay in remission...

Last weekend also, Jonathan and Sam were at Camp Angel. This is a camp for kids with family members affected by Cancer. It was put on by the Angel on my Shoulder Organization. They had so much fun and did all sorts of (literally!) cool new things like snow bowling, ice fishing, snowshoeing, and even some dog sledding! It was also the first time they were away without either one of us there. They had so much fun, they forgot to miss us! We were glad to see them Sunday afternoon after their long bus ride in bad weather. They had so much to tell us, Thanks to the Angel on my Shoulder Organization!

Katey is doing well. She will have her next follow up appointment at the clinic on Monday. Its so incredible to us that one year ago we were introduced to a whole new world we were never fully aware of. Katey has gotten back into the swing of things with her gymnastics, swimming, and ballet and is doing so well, What a Blessing! Katey has just a bit of a stuffy nose but no cough for the past few days. Its gotta be this darn ***FRIGID*** weather we've had for the past 10 days or so. Currently, we have about 10 inches of snow on the ground and it is only 3F with a windchill of -30F, BRRRRRR!!!!

Katey and her dad left this evening for the Indian Princess Father/Daughter Camp-out Weekend. They will be staying at a Cabin with other Indian Princesses and dads from their tribe. Robert said they might come home late tonite if it is too cold in the cabin, then they would head back for activities in the morning. I guess we'll wait and see.

Our family is doing well but there are so many other families struggling in their fight against cancer and others fighting to stay in remission. Please say a little prayer for all our brave little soldiers. Be sure and hug your kids and tell them How much you love them...

Blessings to you all, Grace and the rest of the O's

Friday, January 16, 2004 10:03 AM CST

Hi all!

We are all doing well and just thought we'd put in a quick update. Kate has been feeling well and enjoying school. She even had a dental appointment yesterday and had no cavities (well she has one 'watch' area, not too bad!) Her hair is really coming in and we actually have to comb it now :> The other day she was in her swim class and she noticed hair floating around her and realized it was all hers(!) and she had to swipe it out of her eyes when she got out of the water! Its kinda neat to celebrate the little things :>

Last weekend, Kate had 2 birthday parties to go to, unfortunately she had to miss Mikayla's party since they were at the same time. She was crying thinking she would hurt someones feelings...*Sigh* can't believe we have to address how you won't be able to do everything all the time and have to go with your first party invite...She did have a great time at Dayne's party, a friend from Kindergarten class. His party was at Salto gymnastics. It was the first time, since last year when she was diagnosed and had surgery, that she actually jumped into her gymnastics suit and got on the floor! She really had a great time and had boundless energy. It was neat to see her on the go again. She will be starting back to gymanstics on Monday and taking a regular class instead of the Team pre-competitive class she was in. It should be good for her to get back into the swing of things.

Kate her brothers and their dad went out and enjoyed some nightime sledding at the Family Fun Nite at school last Friday. My excuse was that I had to work (You see, tropical people like myself don't do too well below 40F! Glad to be at work that eve :>) The kids saw many of their friends and had a great time being out and playing at nightime :> They got home shortly after I did and even tho they were all red cheeked, they were bundled to the gills, good job Dad! They were so excited and had so much to tell me about their evening sledding :>

It remains pretty cold here in Wisconsin, only 10F, not so much snow tho. This weekend is the Waukesha Jamboree-outdoor festival. We'll see if we muster the energy to do some of the events seeing that its not going to be any warmer this weekend. We pray you are all doing well and enjoying time with family this weekend. Please pray for our friends Savannah and Brock who are having a particularly hard time fighting their wilms relapse right now. Take care all of you and hug your kids~

Love to you all, The Olsens

Tuesday, January 6, 2004 10:56 PM CST

Hello Everyone!

I mentioned to Katey that I needed to put in an update on this website and she decided that she could take care of it and simply write "Hello, I am doing just fine, How are you and your children? Internet me sometime and leave a message! Love, Katey" Short and sweet just like Katey :> Mommy tends to be a little more wordy I guess!

We had a very nice celebration on Christmas. We spent the morning alone with the kids and read the book "Ordinary Baby Extraordinary Gift" by Gloria Gaither before opening presents just to get everyone in the right perspective. Santa did stop in at our house however and left small presents for each child. Our kids also received a few more presents from Mommy and Daddy. It was very nice not to be buried in too many toys and things this Christmas. There were more to come with the visit of Auntie Pat and Auntie Sue early in the afternoon and then again with the rest of the family at my brother Art and his wife Hope's home. We all enjoyed getting together with everyone and enjoyed way too many tasty eats. It was wonderful to be able to celebrate family, life, and many gifts...but most of all, the gift of the birth of our Saviour!

The past few weeks we also spent visiting with friends. We got together with family friends of ours to eat dinner out at Pfudruckers and to view Holiday lights and decorations at Candy Cane Lane. This is a neighborhood that really likes to 'light up' for the holidays to raise money for the MACC fund for Childhood cancer research. Katey got together with her friend Jesselyn over Christmas break several times,too.

For New Years Eve we made a special dinner for ourselves and then went out to tour the Christmas lights display at the Country Inn. The kids really enjoyed all the animation while driving in our van. Afterwards, we put on a movie and cuddled on the couch. We all stayed up a little after the movie so we could catch the New Years Eve ball drop in NYC. They also aired different celebrations throughout the country so it was really fun to see :> It was a great time to reflect on the past year. 2003, the year everything changed for our family...we had to add new scary words to our vocabulary that we never ever wanted to...We learned that sad things happen to good people, but that kids have incredible reserve, strength, and bravery when faced with illness. We learned to appreciate simpler things and to cherish our family and friends even more. We learned that strangers can become family when you struggle to get through a diagnosis like cancer. In the face of reality and what life brings we have come to rely heavily on the one thing we can rely on--God's Promise of Eternity. It has been such an incredible year...We have learned so much, we have changed so much. We are looking forward to a great 2004 but always remembering how we were held up and guided through a very difficult past year.

The kids returned to school on Monday. Today, Kate had a check-up at the Oncology clinic, along with lab work to check kidney functions, an ultrasound of the belly, and a chest x-ray. The check-up and lab work were all fine. We don't have results yet of the x-ray or the ultrasound. We should have it by tomorrow. It was great to run into Caitlyn and her mom Sharon, and Colin and his mom Jan. Kate and Colin spent time playing video games and we stayed to eat lunch in the cafeteria with them. It was really great to catch up with our friends. After we left the hospital, we made a quick trip to the Libby Lu at Mayfair Mall so Katey could visit her friends and spend her gift certificate. She enjoyed getting glitzed up, purchased a few goodies, and then headed back to school. Katey had ballet class and swim class this afternoon and did very well. Its really incredible to see how much energy she has to do these back to back classes especially for a long and busy day like today.

Anyway, wordy again as usual. But just as Katey sez, she is doing well. We hope and pray you all are, too. We pray for all our friends every nite, Kate even corrects me if I happen to miss a name :> Happy 2004 Everyone! We appreciate each and every one of you who stop in to visit us. Please don't forget to sign the guestbook, it always cheers us to read the messages. Kate even "internets up" to check for new messages and to view her friend's websites!

Love and God's Many Blessings to you all this New Year, The Olsens

***UPDATE***

Katey's BUN and creat are on the high end of normal but still okay, and her x-rays and ultrasounds came back all clear--YEAYYY!!! Thanks for all the prayers everyone! Love-n-Hugs to you all!

Tuesday, December 23, 2003 11:56 PM CST

Hello Everyone,

We have had a very busy weekend. On Saturday, Kate went with her Brownie troop to visit the Waukesha Museum. In the evening we all went out to eat then on to see the Nutcracker Ballet. We were surprised and joined by Kate's Wish Granter Larry. We had great seats, only ten rows from the front so we could see very well. The Ballet was fantastic! I couldn't believe that even the boys enjoyed it :> The orchestra music, the costumes, the sets, and the incredible ballet dancers were such a treat. After the ballet, we were able to visit backstage with Kate's friend Yumelia (Principal Dancer) and Michael Pink, the Artistic Director. It was so sweet that Yumelia was waiting for her and even had a little Christmas present for Kate in her dressing room. We had a wonderful night. Kate was also very happy to see her Wish granter and visit with him again. He even had some goodies for the kids. Thanks so much Larry!

On Sunday, we toured our church's Bethlehem Marketplace. It was a truly wonderful experience. Our church puts on this massive production only every other year so we were glad to have made it again. Eight years ago, my husband and I played Joseph and Mary, along with our then 1 month old, Sam, as baby Jesus :> It was fun to do and really helped us get a feel of how it may have been the glorius night Jesus was born!

Today was the kids last day of school for the year. I helped out for Katey's Christmas party. It is always so fun to join the class and see all the kids :> The snow finally started coming down in big giant snowflakes today by the time classes ended. We are getting a White Christmas after all. There's only been a trace of snow around here lately. This evening, we made cut-out molasses cookies like we do every year. The kids really enjoy helping. By the time we were done tho we had three flour-dusted little bakers and a messy kitchen! Silly kids. We will be frosting cookies tomorrow, YUM!

Bob's sisters will be coming down to visit on Christmas day and then we will all head to my brother, Art, and sis-in-law's home for Christmas with my side of the family. Kate has a bit of a cough but is otherwise feeling well, Praise God! We are headed for Christmas not very ready with the house and needing to wrap presents and pick up a few last minute items. We are however ready for Christmas in our hearts!

Please remember to pray for our friends whose children have recently earned their angel wings-Martine and Cameron. Please pray for their families for the incredible saddness they must be feeling. I would also like to ask you all to pray for Savannah and Brock and their families as they face a difficult time in their battle against their cancer. We are praying for you all to have a Blessed Christmas, appreciating time spent with friends and family, and in celebration of the best present of all, the baby Jesus!

Tuesday, December 16, 2003 11:09 PM CST

Hello Friends,

I meant to put in a quick update this morning to tell you all that we are doing well, busy with all the hustle and bustle of getting ready for Christmas. Instead I busied myself with getting a newsletter and getting Christmas cards and packages readied to go. On our kitchen table sits a card Katey had made and a little craft weave she had made earlier for one of our special internet friends. Cameron is a very special 3 1/2 year old with a very special family who loves him very much. We have learned so much from them and have felt close to them even tho we have never met and are thousands of miles away. As Wilms families we learn to link arms in fighting this cancer beast together. Together we can support and care for each other. Jeanie and Cameron are very special friends to us. Jeanie and Cameron have been through so much and yet are so wise to know to spend their time doing important things like playing hide and go seek late at night, cherishing their time together, and appreciating the very beauty of the nature that is all around them. I should have remembered to do that instead today. Tonight I was incredibly shaken and saddened to read an email from Jeanie that simply said:

My Little Cam is now My Little Angel. He received his angel wings early this morning. Love Jeanie

Our sweet little Cameron, Play free in the Heavens, Much Love and Peace to an incredible mother Jeanie...Cameron we love you and will remember you always~

Monday, December 8, 2003 11:40 PM CST

Hello Everyone!

I can't believe its one week into December and only 16 more days til Christmas! Everything here has been so busy. I've only done a little shopping and haven't gotten Christmas cards out yet. It's really hard to believe how fast we are drawing to the holidays. There is no snow outside altho we possibly will get some in our area in the next few days. Today was in the 40's, very unusual for Wisconsin.

Thanksgiving was very nice for us. My brother Art and his family were great for hosting this year. A nice break for us since we usually host a casual Thanksgiving for 30+ family in the area. We were able to relax and enjoy, plus it was my birthday :> It was especially nice to see our out of town nephews :>

Last Tuesday, Kate had her monthly follow up appointment at the clinic. No more labs since the port is out and its been 5 months since end of treatment. Her labs have been great so they will only check kidney functions once in a while. Dr. Camitta was very adamant to explain to us that Kate should be wearing an abdominal protector. I reminded him that we have seen the Uroligist and that he said to avoid contact sports and activities that may potentially cause injury to her belly. Other than those parameters, the Urologist said it was unnecessary to wear a protector or to be overly concerned with injury since it rarely happens. Still Dr. Camitta warned us about the consequences of injury being the need for dialysis, a kidney transplant, or worse. As if we didn't have enough to think about...he said he was going to write it in the chart that we had this discussion. Its probably more to cover themselves but of course it makes us a bit more concerned. We'll wait and see how much more active she gets.

After her appointment, we stopped at Mayfair to visit with our fairy friends at the Libby Lu. They put a long hair attachment on her and glitzed her up again. She looked like a diva and with attitude, too. She had fun swishing long hair around again :> We also met up with our Make a Wish granter for lunch. Larry has been so wonderful to us and so sweet to Kate. It was fun to catch up with him and also talk about our upcoming MAW in April, it seems a million years away! Kate made it back for the last couple hours of school with her long diva hair. I couldn't get her to take it off and it didn't help that the school office said she could wear it. Some of the kids thought she grew hair really fast, tee hee!

The past weekend was very busy. Friday nite was the school's Hawaiian nite. We wore hawaiian shirts and the kids made leis and grass skirts. There was tropical punch and cookies for treats and tropical themed games. The kids especially liked hanging out with all their friends.

Saturday nite Kate and her dad were at the Pick n Save bell ringing for the Salvation army with her Indian princess tribe. They went for pizza after and didn't get home til late. The boys were allowed to invite one friend each to come over to our house for pizza and a movie. It was their treat for being so good when Kate had to be at the hospital at 6am for her port removal. It was fun to just have the boys around :> Kate had a great time with her friends and her dad, too.

Sunday, Kate had to be at church an hour early. I followed with the boys just before 9 am and just barely made it in to see Kate and the rest of the first graders performing their songs :> It was so cute to see all of them up there. We were so proud and of course I was reminiscing about all she's been through this year. As she was leaving she turned and caught my eye, we flashed each other the I Love You sign :> Oh she makes her mama proud!

Sunday afternoon, Kate and I attended the Nutcracker Tea Party courtesy of our friends from the Milwaukee Ballet. Kate and I enjoyed watching mini-performances of The Nutcracker. Then the kids were off for dance lessons with the Ballet dancers. Kate latched on to Susan, one of her ballet dancer friends. The adults stayed behind to enjoy some wonderful treats and I got to catch up with our Milwaukee Ballet friends. The kids came back to have some more treats and to make some crafts. Kate mostly enjoyed some more dancing and had some yummy treats. She really liked talking to her adult friends, too. Thanks to the Pinks, Michelle, Kimmy, and Susan G. for such a fantastic afternoon!

Tonight we all kinda laid low. Kate's dad took the boys to their gymnastics class and Katey helped me with dinner. After dinner we decorated our Christmas tree as a family. It was very nice to just know that our kids were having so much fun and being so silly. We had the christmas music playing and just spent the evening talking about the different ornaments. Laughed at some of them--what were we thinking when we got those ?!? We snapped off a bunch of pictures, too. We so appreciate all our kids and are proud of all of them. We are especially proud of what we have all been through as a family and how well Kate is doing. Kate asked to come back downstairs one last time tonight and read her book by the christmas tree. I started to explain there would be many more nights to enjoy the christmas tree when she chimed in "Oh mom, but its just so beautiful and sparkly, can't I please have just one more peak?" I couldn't resist that so we did end up sneeking back downstairs. She read her book to me, we said our prayers, and then she was off to bed.

We have so many wonderful blessings through this journey and its wonderful to know that all continues to go well. At the same time we still continue to pray for our long list of friends with Wilms and other cancers. There are just way too many children and their families battling through cancer and other life threatening conditions. Please think and pray for them this Holiday season. There are many ways to support the organizations that so generously try to help kids and their families going through various illnesses. In our area, we have the MACC Fund(Buy a calendar or the MACC star ornament), Angel on my Shoulder , The Grace Foundation, SuperSIBs, Make a Wish Organization, Heartworks Photography, and American Cancer Society. Any of these organizations would benefit greatly from any donations you may be able to give. You can even make a donation in honor of someone special!

Take care and God's blessings to you all, Grace and the rest of the Olsens

Monday, December 8, 2003 11:40 PM CST

Hello Everyone!

I can't believe its one week into December and only 16 more days til Christmas! Everything here has been so busy. I've only done a little shopping and haven't gotten Christmas cards out yet. It's really hard to believe how fast we are drawing to the holidays. There is no snow outside altho we possibly will get some in our area in the next few days. Today was in the 40's, very unusual for Wisconsin.

Thanksgiving was very nice for us. My brother Art and his family were great for hosting this year. A nice break for us since we usually host a casual Thanksgiving for 30+ family in the area. We were able to relax and enjoy, plus it was my birthday :> It was especially nice to see our out of town nephews :>

Last Tuesday, Kate had her monthly follow up appointment at the clinic. No more labs since the port is out and its been 5 months since end of treatment. Her labs have been great so they will only check kidney functions once in a while. Dr. Camitta was very adamant to explain to us that Kate should be wearing an abdominal protector. I reminded him that we have seen the Uroligist and that he said to avoid contact sports and activities that may potentially cause injury to her belly. Other than those parameters, the Urologist said it was unnecessary to wear a protector or to be overly concerned with injury since it rarely happens. Still Dr. Camitta warned us about the consequences of injury being the need for dialysis, a kidney transplant, or worse. As if we didn't have enough to think about...he said he was going to write it in the chart that we had this discussion. Its probably more to cover themselves but of course it makes us a bit more concerned. We'll wait and see how much more active she gets.

After her appointment, we stopped at Mayfair to visit with our fairy friends at the Libby Lu. They put a long hair attachment on her and glitzed her up again. She looked like a diva and with attitude, too. She had fun swishing long hair around again :> We also met up with our Make a Wish granter for lunch. Larry has been so wonderful to us and so sweet to Kate. It was fun to catch up with him and also talk about our upcoming MAW in April, it seems a million years away! Kate made it back for the last couple hours of school with her long diva hair. I couldn't get her to take it off and it didn't help that the school office said she could wear it. Some of the kids thought she grew hair really fast, tee hee!

The past weekend was very busy. Friday nite was the school's Hawaiian nite. We wore hawaiian shirts and the kids made leis and grass skirts. There was tropical punch and cookies for treats and tropical themed games. The kids especially liked hanging out with all their friends.

Saturday nite Kate and her dad were at the Pick n Save bell ringing for the Salvation army with her Indian princess tribe. They went for pizza after and didn't get home til late. The boys were allowed to invite one friend each to come over to our house for pizza and a movie. It was their treat for being so good when Kate had to be at the hospital at 6am for her port removal. It was fun to just have the boys around :> Kate had a great time with her friends and her dad, too.

Sunday, Kate had to be at church an hour early. I followed with the boys just before 9 am and just barely made it in to see Kate and the rest of the first graders performing their songs :> It was so cute to see all of them up there. We were so proud and of course I was reminiscing about all she's been through this year. As she was leaving she turned and caught my eye, we flashed each other the I Love You sign :> Oh she makes her mama proud!

Sunday afternoon, Kate and I attended the Nutcracker Tea Party courtesy of our friends from the Milwaukee Ballet. Kate and I enjoyed watching mini-performances of The Nutcracker. Then the kids were off for dance lessons with the Ballet dancers. Kate latched on to Susan, one of her ballet dancer friends. The adults stayed behind to enjoy some wonderful treats and I got to catch up with our Milwaukee Ballet friends. The kids came back to have some more treats and to make some crafts. Kate mostly enjoyed some more dancing and had some yummy treats. She really liked talking to her adult friends, too. Thanks to the Pinks, Michelle, Kimmy, and Susan G. for such a fantastic afternoon!

Tonight we all kinda laid low. Kate's dad took the boys to their gymnastics class and Katey helped me with dinner. After dinner we decorated our Christmas tree as a family. It was very nice to just know that our kids were having so much fun and being so silly. We had the christmas music playing and just spent the evening talking about the different ornaments. Laughed at some of them--what were we thinking when we got those ?!? We snapped off a bunch of pictures, too. We so appreciate all our kids and are proud of all of them. We are especially proud of what we have all been through as a family and how well Kate is doing. Kate asked to come back downstairs one last time tonight and read her book by the christmas tree. I started to explain there would be many more nights to enjoy the christmas tree when she chimed in "Oh mom, but its just so beautiful and sparkly, can't I please have just one more peak?" I couldn't resist that so we did end up sneeking back downstairs. She read her book to me, we said our prayers, and then she was off to bed.

We have so many wonderful blessings through this journey and its wonderful to know that all continues to go well. At the same time we still continue to pray for our long list of friends with Wilms and other cancers. There are just way too many children and their families battling through cancer and other life threatening conditions. Please think and pray for them this Holiday season. There are many ways to support the organizations that so generously try to help kids and their families going through various illnesses. In our area, we have the MACC Fund(Buy a calendar or the MACC star ornament), Angel on my Shoulder , The Grace Foundation, SuperSIBs, Make a Wish Organization, and ACS. Any of these organizations would benefit greatly from any donations you may be able to give. You can even make a donation in honor of someone special!

Take care and God's blessings to you all, Grace and the rest of the Olsens

Wednesday, November 26, 2003 11:49 PM CST

Hi all!

Day Surgery called us yesterday afternoon to get most of our paperwork in order for Kate's port removal today. They threw us a curve ball when they moved up our surgery time to 7:30am instead of 11am without notifying us sooner. That meant an arrival time of 6am for prep! Thankfully, we were able to get there okay, altho a little groggy from the early wake up. Katey's brothers were really good about having to spend all morning sitting around at the hospital with us instead of the prearranged playdates for the day at their friends' homes. I just couldn't see dropping them off at their friends at 5:30am.

Katey received "happy juice" liquid versed before surgery and started acting like a drunk shortly after. It was comical to see her sitting in her bed getting wobbly and slurring her words, eyes at half mast with a grin on her face. She was a bit scared so it helped to get the medicine. Also her anesthesiologist was funny and very entertaining, a regular "Dr. Bag of Tricks." Katey really started to relax and so did we. I just had some hard memories of her first surgery to remove her kidney, the tumor, and placement of her port. Kate was sobbing so pitifully that first time as she was wheeled down the hall away from us. What a completely different experience this time. There was so much to be thankful for and so much to look forward to :>

The surgeon spoke to us afterwards to let us know that everything went well. He did mention that there was a LARGE clot on the end of the line! Thank God we had it removed before it caused anymore problems (possibly a stroke or lung embolism, YIKES!!!) It truly was God's timing that we were taking care of this now! Dr. Cohen was so kind and explained everything to us. He also took the time to use the original incision so there wouldn't be more scarring. He did have to really fish for the port tho since it had migrated down a bit from its original spot on her low right rib cage (I guess its placement was unusual but they placed it there originally so it wouldn't be so noticeable on Kate.) The surgeon also used dermabond, a kind of skin 'super glue' to close her 1 inch wound! The nurses said that was really unusual. So Fantastic, she needed no stitches, no staples, and had no dressings or bandages to fuss with! She was even able to shower tonite!

Her recovery went well, just a little nausea and just a mild ache to the site. We asked about keeping the medport for show and tell, but it is against their policy. Dr. Cohen was kind enough to come to the floor to show it to us before he started his next surgery. It was interesting to see what it really looked like. Kate said bye bye to it before it went away to pathology.

Kate begged to go to Mayfair Mall after we were discharged. She just loves to visit her 2 favorite stores after procedures. We stopped in to say hi to the fairies at Libby Lu. It was great to see Julie, she is always so sweet to Katey. We also stopped in at Build a Bear before heading home for lunch.

Katey has been doing well this evening. Its like nothing was ever done. She has just taken a single advil for achiness and is back to being her sweet funny playful self :>

Happy Thanksgiving Everyone! May you all reflect on your many blessings, enjoy great food, and have fun times with your family and friends! Thanks to all of you for your prayers, kind words, and support to get us to this point in our journey...You have all been such a *BLESSING* to all of us!

Love, The Olsens

Such sad and shocking news from one of our internet wilms family friends we pray for...please pray for their family, this is just so hard, no family should ever have to go through this...

***UPDATE from Martine's Website written by her mum Marianne***

29.11.03 time:05.07

Martine is no longer figthing.She felt asleep this morning, and is now an angel in heaven. We miss you so...


Peace little Martine, Prayers and much love to your family...

Monday, November 24, 2003 11:37 PM CST

Hello Everyone!

Things are going well here in the Olsen Household. Thankfully, no one has been sick. The boys had their flu shots this past Thursday. Now our whole family has been immunized just as they recommend. They recommend flu shots for all families with members who may be immunosuppressed (such as those currently in treatment or finished with chemo.) The boys were so skittish with their shots. I had to remind them that Kate has had big belly surgery and dozens of needle pokes in her arm and medport. They couldn't really say much after that, knowing what their little sis has battled through.

Friday after school, Kate was at her friend Mark's Birthday party. Mark was a classmate from Kindergarten she is still friends with. Kate had fun painting a cute little clay house at the Pottery shop. Afterwards they all went to his house for pizza and a movie. We picked Katey up later in the evening since she wouldn't be able to stay for the rest of the party, a sleepover (being the only girl and all :>) She had such a great time and the boys were all so nice to her. On Sunday, we stopped by the pottery shop to pick up her little clay house magnet after it was fired and glazed, its sooo cute!

On Sunday, Katey put on her Packers cheerleading dress complete with pom poms. She kinda did a combo cheer/dance everytime the Packers scored or made a great play which was quite a few times really. It was fun to see her dancing and having a great time. Ah yes, another Packer fan in the making :>

After the Packer game we were supposed to go to the Waukesha Christmas parade. Katey was still trying to decide whether to walk with her Indian Princess Tribe or to walk with her Brownie troop. Unfortunately, the cold, windy, rainy weather didn't let up so we had to skip the parade all together. We didn't want to take the chance of having Katey sick since she is scheduled for her medport removal on Wednesday Nov 26 (the day before Thanksgiving.) Katey's just a little scared but is looking forward to getting her port taken out. We still have our little flashes of fear everytime Kate complains of a tummy ache or complains of a headache or when her arms and legs hurt once in a while. We are ready to move on however and trust that no matter what happens next we are assured that she does have the promise of a Future.

We have sooo much to be thankful for...We have wonderful family and friends who have helped us to get to where we are in this journey. We have our sweet innocent daughter to remind us to celebrate the beauty of life. Then we have our Faith and Hope through Him for all of our Futures beyond~ We pray for all of you, our friends and family, everyday. We pray for all those, young and old, who are battling various cancers and other life threatening illnesses or are fighting to remain in remission. We pray that you all have a Wonderful Thanksgiving in celebration of All that is Good~

PEACE and God's Blessings to you all--The Olsens

Friday, November 14, 2003 7:34 AM CST

Good morning everyone!

Highly unusual, I am up early! Usually its only my husband wandering around at this time. He has already gone to work and the kids are still in bed, but not for long. I’ve been behind with updates so I’ll try and do this quickly before the troops get up.

Last weekend was wonderful. I attended a retreat for cancer caregivers with my friend Jan (Colin’s mom.) We drove up Thursday nite for the Friday and Saturday sessions. Through it all, we were renewed and refreshed, and we met LOTS of terrific people. Thanks to the Angel on My Shoulder Organization for putting on this retreat. It definitely made for an uplifting and bonding experience!

Thursday nite before the retreat, we had parent teacher conferences for all 3 kids. It was great to talk to the teachers. We are so proud of the kids, they are all doing so wonderfully and really enjoying their classes and their teachers!

After Jan and I left, Robert (my husband) took the boys to their Boy’s club meeting and then on to Bible Study with Kate. Jan and I didn't return until Saturday afternoon and I must say, Robert did a nice job with the kids while I was gone. Katey had a skating birthday party for her good friend Jesselyn on Friday afternoon and Jonathan had to be at a B-day party Saturday. All I did was get the presents wrapped and the cards ready to go. Dad and the kids even had home movie nite on Friday. They watched Finding Nemo and even had microwave popcorn :> I must say everything ran well. Thanks Honey!

Saturday evening, Katey and I were supposed to be at a fundraiser for The Grace Foundation but I messed up our timing. Kate was very disappointed that she didn’t get to dress up and go esp since they were going to be using her Zeocast slideshow (on this webpage) as part of their presentation. This group of ladies provide hats for women, big and small, with hair loss from cancer. They lined Katey’s hat for the Ballet recital and provided her with a couple other hats. Hopefully the Fundraiser was a huge success.

Sunday was the last day of our missions festival at our church. We ran into both Angie and Jim who used to watch our kids for Neighborhood Bible Study. Angie has been out of the country doing her own missions the past couple years and just recently returned from Northern Ireland. This sister and brother team took care of our kids when Kate was a baby! They are all grown up now, we are so proud of them!

Sunday nite, Katey was with her Dad for the Indian Princess Meeting. They sure enjoy that time together with their own group :>

This week, the 2004 MACC fund Cute Kids Calendar came out. Kate is the featured child with cancer for the month of November. The picture is a 1” x 1” of her in a full body shot so its kinda hard to see it is actually her. Her story is written next to her. Still she was pretty proud to be featured in this calendar that raises money for chilhood cancer research :>

This weekend I also found out that Kate’s picture could also be found on the Heartworks Photography website. They are the ones who took pix of the kids last month at Children’s Hospital. Colin’s cowboy picture was there also. TOO FUN!!!

Kate had her Brownie troop meeting yesterday and found out they will be walking in the local Christmas Parade. Problem is that she's supposed to be walking with her Indian Princess tribe with her Dad for the same parade. Oh what to do…This will be only a few days before she is scheduled for her medport removal Nov 26th. This time we plan on trying to keep her healthy enough to actually have it done. Wisconsin weather is getting pretty chilly now. Temps down to 17 F last night and brisk winds. We’ll have to wait and see if she will take part in the parade at all.

We pray that all of you our friends and family are doing well. We think of and pray for all our friends we have met along the way who are fighting cancer right now in various stages, through remission, and until their cure. There are others whose kids and other family members have been lost to us. The cure for Wilm’s is not for 5 years, so we have a ways to go. There are just so many afflicted with cancer and other life threatening illnesses. We do have faith in our Future and we pray that you all have that same Peace as well.

Love and God’s blessings to you all, Grace and the rest of the Olsens

Thursday, November 6, 2003 6:50 PM CST

Hello Everyone,

Just a quick update. We had a nice long weekend last week as the kids were off of school Thursday and Friday. Kate's medport removal surgery was cancelled since she had a cold. Of course she was much better on the day she would have had surgery, go figure! She was able to join in her Brownie Troop's Nature Walk on Thursday. It was really balmy and sunny out that day, probably the best day in the past couple weeks, just perfect for walking in the woods :> The rest of the weekend was rainy all the way into Tuesday.

Trick or Treating was a bit cool out and drizzly but the kids did fine. Katey went as a little black kitty and wore lots of extra layers underneath. They were only out for an hour and got way too much candy so we had them quit. There is way too much sugar loading going on around here. Maybe I'll have to take the advice of another Wilm's Mom and have the kids trade their candy for other treats--not the sweet kind! Thanks for the great idea, Carla!

On Tuesday, Kate had a check-up, labs, and Chest x-ray at the onc clinic. They drew labs off her port and flushed it since she isn't scheduled for port removal until Nov 26th, the day before Thanksgiving. Lab counts all came back great and we got results yesterday that her CXR was clear! YIPPEEE!!! They also recommended that we all get a flu shot to protect Kate, Kate went and got hers right away before we left clinic. They warned us NOT to get the Flumist(Nasal spray) since it is given as a live virus which can cause problems with kids who have weaker immune systems. Robert and I have already received ours. The boys are scheduled to have theirs at the Pediatricians in 2 weeks. Try to get out there and get your flu shots, take one on the arm for your kids' sakes :>

My friend Jan (Colin's Mom) and I will be leaving shortly (in about 10 minutes!) for a retreat for Caregivers. We will be gone 2 nights. I will write more about it after we get back. We are thinking and praying for you all!

LotsaHugs always, Grace (and the rest of the Olsens!)

Tuesday, October 28, 2003 12:06 AM CST

Hello Everyone,

Just a quick update...things are going okay in the Olsen Household. Kate has just been a little under the weather this past week with a cough and stuffy nose. Mom and Dad have had the same along with some kind of stomach bug. This morning, Sam seemed to have come down with the cough and stuffy nose too. We are scheduled to have Kate's medport removed on Thursday the 30th at 1:15. I'm going to give the docs a call to let them know she has a cold and to see if her chest x-rays due on Nov 4 could be done sooner in light of her cold and plans for port removal. We'll see what they say, we may have to postpone port removal until she is feeling better.

The past weekend was great! We went to the Enders Family Halloween Party and had a great time. The Enders have held the Family friendly Halloween Party for 9 years, but this was the first year we have ever attended. Kate has been friends with their son Mark since Kindergarten, and Jonathan is friends with Scott. Kate went as the Tooth Fairy, Jonathan as a Police Officer, and Sam as his favorite football player Amman Green. The kids all had a great time with various games, yard treasure hunt, mummy wrap game, pin the eye on the monster, treasure hunt in the haystack, a ghost pinata, and a not so scary haunted trail at night :> Kate took a mighty whack at the pinata and caused a major crack. The next child to hit it took it down the rest of the way :> We all had a great time, the kids loved running around with their friends!

Trick or treating is on Friday the 31st in our area. Depending on if and how Kate is doing we may or may not take her out. Their Dad will take the boys around the neighborhood. Kate may just stay with Mom to greet Trick or Treaters.

We will update again soon. We pray that you are all well and that you have a safe and fun Halloween weekend~

God's Blessings to you all, The Olsens

***UPDATE 10/29/2003***

Well, I checked in with the surgeon today and the decision is to postpone Kate's medport removal. We are rescheduled for Nov 26th. The kids have the next 2 days off of school, we have a whole new set of plans now that Kate will not have her surgery tomorrow. Have a Safe and Happy Halloween!

Sunday, October 19, 2003 11:39 PM CDT

Hello Everyone,

Kate has been doing so well, just a little sniffle and some congestion this past week. Nothing to stop her from enjoying lots of activities tho. Last weekend she was at a cabin with her Dad for the Indian Princess Camp out. They had great weather and enjoyed lots of outdoor fun all weekend long. She and her Dad came home a little tired but with smiles on their faces :> Last Saturday was also Kate's brother Sam's Bday, he turned 8yo. I can't believe how fast they grow, it was only yesterday that he was a baby! Happy Bday Sam!

This past Wednesday we stopped in to visit with Michelle at the Milwaukee Ballet. We came to pick up a little surprise that Jayne Pink (The Milw Ballet Artistic Director's wife) had for Katey. She gave us a Tutu that was made for her when she danced for the London Ballet in "Don Quixote." Kate loved wearing it and dancing around :> She also enjoyed visiting with friendly faces at the Milw Ballet.

Last Thursday, Our Bible Study group threw a little celebration for Kate. They even had a yummy chocolate heart-shaped cake decorated for her with "Thank you Jesus for Katey" on it. She was all smiles and giggles :> We are so blessed to have such caring people around us and that Kate continues to do well!

This weekend the weather has been very nice, 60's and sunny. Fantastic for Wisconsin at this time of year. Saturday was Sam's flag football game. Kate was an awesome cheerleader--Sam scored 2 touchdowns and almost had a 3rd when he ran the punt back. It was an exciting game!

Today after church we drove 80 minutes up to Oshkosh to help with Kate's Auntie Pat and Auntie Sue's big move. Kate was very helpful in putting videos and knick knacks back up on the shelves of the entertainment center at the new apartment. It was a busy day. On our drive back home, we were able to see the beautiful sunset and catch some more of the colorful fall scenery :>

Tomorrow the temps are supposed to get to the 80's. Unbelievable for this time of year...Its so wonderful to get just a bit of Indian Summer when the leaves are at their colorful best, its all so beautiful! It just helps us to appreciate God's creation. And we are reminded how truly blessed we are to have so many wonderful friends and family who have supported us and prayed for us to get to where we are now. Thanks from the bottom of our hearts!

Please continue to pray for all kids and their families suffering cancer and other illnesses or fighting to stay in remission. Also we have many friends who are in constant need of platelets and blood transfusions. Please, please consider donating blood if you are able...it means so very much to those who need it...

God's many blessings to you all, The Olsens

Wednesday, October 8, 2003 10:48 PM CDT

Hello Everyone!

Kate had a clinic visit Tuesday morning for her monthly check up, Pentamidine breathing treatment, labwork, and also an ultrasound of her belly. Katey did so well with all the tests and treatments, and even did fine with her 2 lab pokes. Kate was (can I say it?) happy to be at clinic and see so many familiar faces. Everyone is always so nice. She got to see Stephanie, Child Life Specialist, Sheila our SW, Melissa our favorite nurse, and her good friend Colin. It was fun to catch up with Colin and his mom Jan. The neat thing was that there was a very special company at the Hospital that day called Heartworks Photography. They are dedicated to taking pictures of kids in the hospital. Katey and Colin enjoyed having their individual photos taken and then even had one taken together. Its so neat to see the kids laughing and having a good time even with all they have to go through. Katey always seems to have a great time when Colin is around :>

We finally made it out of the hospital before lunch. Kate pleaded to stop by and visit friends in the Mall at her favorite stores Libby Lu and Build a Bear. We had a great visit with the 'fairies' at Libby Lu. The ladies there are always so sweet to Katey :>

Kate returned to school to find out that there was a power outage(!) and that the lights had been out all day. Good thing the school has lots of windows. The kids actually enjoyed their classes in natural lighting with no extra frills. They never cancelled classes and everyone finished the day like normal.

It was a long day but Kate did make it to her ballet and swim classes after school. It is so impressive to see how well she is doing. What a blessing to see her strength and agility coming back :>

The BEST news of the day was waiting for us on the answering machine. Susan (our NP) called to let us know all labs were fine and that the Ultrasound was negative!!! YEAY, no evidence of recurring cancer!!!! She also added that because Katey's absolute lymphocytic count was recovering so well that we could stop the monthly breathing treatments! She then gave us the go-ahead for port removal!!! We've already scheduled Katey's surgery for Oct 30th. Katey didn't want to wait any longer :>

We have had wonderful weather here in Wisconsin the past few days, quite a treat considering last week we were in the 30's. Kate has been spending lots of time playing outside and was even able to break out her favorite skirts/shorts again. This coming Friday Night, Katey and her Dad will be going to the Indian Princess Camp Out. There are lots of great outdoor activities planned for all the Father/Daughter pairs :> We are praying the weather holds out, at least until the weekend is done.

It has been such an incredible relief for us to know we are at this point in Kate's Journey. Kate is so looking forward to getting rid of her 'button.' Even as we celebrate our milestones and successes, we can't help but pray over all the other families and their children who continue on with the fight. Please continue to pray for all the kids and their families who are currently battling cancer and other life-threatening illnesses/diseases or are fighting to stay in remission of their cancer. There are just way too many suffering...

Take care all of you and God Bless, The Olsens

Wednesday, October 1, 2003 5:49 PM CDT

Hello Everyone,

I can't believe it is October already! Maybe I should--the temp this morning was a 'balmy' 30F! Full steam ahead into the fall season I guess.

On Thursday last week we were special guests for the Milwaukee Ballet's Opening Night of Romeo and Juliet! Thanks to Larry, Michelle, and Melanie for putting this fabulous night together for us :> We had a fantastic backstage tour before the Performance and then moved on into the marvelous box seats to watch the ballet. The Ballet was awesome, very lively and energetic :> Michael Pink did an incredible job directing this beautiful performance! Katey stayed awake the whole time, not bad for a 6yo, considering she was at school all day prior! After the Performance, they had Katey bring the roses to Yumelia Garcia "Juliet" for the curtain call! Yumelia and Paul Thrussell "Romeo" even had Katey join them in a curtsy to the audience! Afterwards, Yumelia was sweet to take Katey up to see her dressing room along with her family from Venezuela :> We met Katey a little later at the After Performance Party with the Ballet Company and its patrons. We met so many wonderful gracious people including Jayne, Michael Pink's wife. Katey had so much fun that she was wide-eyed and smiling until we headed for home. What an unbelievable night, Kate was thrilled to be at the Ballet with such fantastic people all around her :> We arrived home just before midnight, Thanks Unka Tones and Auntie Cherie for watching the boys!

Kate actually made it to school on time Friday morning and lasted all day. She rested a little after school then we went out for a tasty Fish Fry at the Chancery :>

Saturday morning we watched Sam's 'always entertaining' Flag Football game. We ended up talking with a family that lives only a few houses down the street from us. It was neat to hear that their son Joey had had a bone marrow transplant for Leukemia and is still in remission :> He is on Sam's football team and doing very well, what a blessing :>

Soon after the game we headed out to Six Flags Great America for a special event called the Chrysler Park N Ride. Owners of Chrysler vehicles were given free tickets and even a parking pass for the day. We all had a great time with the rides, Katey even rode her share of Roller Coasters!

Our family is getting back into the swing of things. Katey has been busy with swimming, ballet, the Brownies, Indian Princesses, and school in general. Life seems to be normalizing. At the same time, just in the past week, we heard of 2 families from the Wilms listserver we belong to who have relapsed (cancer has returned)--Martine and Mansi. Two other caringbridge Wilm's families we keep up with have this week relapsed also--Mason and Brock...This is all so heartbreaking to know there are families out there having to fight again. Katey will be having a check up, labwork, and an ultrasound of her belly on Tuesday, Oct 7. Please pray that everything would go well. Please, Please pray for all the children and their families that are battling cancer, beginning the fight yet again, and others who are fighting to stay in remission...there are just way too many...

Take care and God bless, The Olsens

Monday, September 22, 2003 11:13 PM CDT

Hello Everyone,

Its been over a week since our last update, things have been very busy here at the Olsens. Last weekend we attended the Celebrate Life Day for childhood cancer survivors and their families put on by Childrens Hospital! It was a pleasant surprise to meet Jess and Jane, 2 wonderful counselors that Katey met at Camp Rainbow :> It was great also to see our clinic friends outside of the hospital setting. Katey enjoyed seeing Colin and Patrick and finally got to meet Abby, another child with Wilms. Katey and Abby had such a great time playing together :> It was really nice to see everyone, including hospital staff, just having fun and being silly!

This past week Katey started her ballet and swim classes. It's so good to be able to see Katey back in her classes, she so loves ballet and swimming! Katey really surprised us with her swimming. She actually swam the length of the pool doing the backstroke and half way with freestyle. I had no clue she could do that, she never had before! Guess she has watched enough of her brothers' swim classes!

This past Thursday, our Make a Wish granter Larry along with Michelle from the Milwaukee Ballet arranged a very special afternoon for us. We were able to visit the Milwaukee Ballet Company as they rehearsed for the upcoming "Romeo and Juliet!" It was great for Katey to be able to see the costume room and even tried on 'Clara's party dress' from the Nutcracker. She also spent some time in the dance studio with Rollo and Susan (instructors and dancers at the Ballet School.) Katey had such a great time dancing with them :> We also made our way down to the Rehearsal floor and met the wonderful people of the Milwaukee Ballet Company. Everyone we met was so warm and genuine, so down to earth, and so incredibly exquisite and professional in their dance! Yumelia Garcia (Principal dancer) spent so much time just playing and chating with Katey, she just loved it! She even got to sit up front during the rehearsal, right next to Michael Pink, The Artistic Director! Katey just had no idea who she was with and just played and chatted with them all, and they were so wonderful to her! And as if that wasn't enough, they gave Katey a goody bag of mementos from the Ballet Company including signed point shoes and a poster that was signed by the dancers! It was such an incredible time meeting so many wonderful people, just unbelievable! Katey and I have Box Seats(!)courtesy of Melanie (a friend of Larry) for opening nite of "Romeo and Juliet" this Thursday! Michelle from The Ballet Company then offered us another ticket for Robert :> It should be a wonderful and magical nite for all of us. My Husband Robert and I will also be celebrating our 10th anniversary the same night, I can't believe its been 10 years already!

This past weekend was really busy also. On Saturday, we watched Sam's first Flag football game. It was really fun to watch all the 1st and 2nd grade boys out there on the playing field. Sam takes his football kinda seriously so he came up with some pretty awesome plays. It was fun to watch :> After the game we went to the Apple Festival and had a great time munching apple treats and going on the guided nature tours. The kids also enjoyed some games and we of course picked up a couple bags of apples. Things were going great until a bee decided to pay Katey a visit--on her neck, just under her chin :( The first aid booth worker had to use a suction device to pull the stinger out of her neck. Tsk, a nasty bee sting and now she's sporting a little 'hickey' mark from the suction, too. We headed for home and gave her a little benedryl to help with the neck swelling. She is doing just fine and her hickey is startin' to fade!

Yesterday, we had a very nice visit with Unka Tones and Auntie Cherie :> We had lunch and then made our way to the Elegant Farmer (A fancy form of the Farmer's Market.) We enjoyed cut apple treats with warm caramel and sprinkles and some tasty pies courtesy of Unka Tones (my not-so-little 'baby' brother!) It was such a gorgeous day out...what a great way to spend the last few days of summer!

Katey is doing well at school and adjusting to her new class pretty well. There are less and less kids asking why her hair is so short. She was getting uncomfortable with the frequent stares and questions. Her hair is coming in nicely, too. What a blessing!

Katey's next appointment is on October 7th. That day she will get a check up, lab work, a Pentamidine breathing treatment, and also get an ultrasound of her belly. If all is clear, we will be scheduling her port removal!

Thank you all for your continued prayers, support, and friendship. Please sign the guestbook, we love to hear from all of you! Please continue to pray for all children out there who are sick and suffering from cancer and other illnesses, there are way too many...We pray you all have a great week, Enjoy the Fall Season!

With God's many blessings, The Olsens

Friday, September 12, 2003 11:33PM CDT

Hello Everyone,

Its been another great week. Katey is doing well and looking so healthy, her hair is really coming in nicely. Her brothers have had the sniffles the past few weeks but not Katey! She continues to be cold-free :>

Last Friday night began our incredible weekend at Hozhoni. This is a camp for kids with cancer and their families. The Lions camp where it was held was such a beautiful facility, clean cabins in a north woods setting by a pretty little lake. We even saw a pretty fawn just outside our cabin! The skies were so incredible at night, there were so many stars! We had a great time at the campfire making smores and enjoyed stories and singing. Katey made friends with some wonderful volunteers, esp Anna and Cindy :> Later that first night, we attended a Parent's Social while the kids had their own activities. The boys were with their age group playing a riotous evening of flashlight tag and Katey had games with Ms. Cindy. The following morning was filled with more fun with various activities, crafts, and games. There was even Sunshine the clown in residence all weekend who never seemed to tire of making balloon animals and providing little goodies to all the kids. It was fun that sometimes we were all together as a family then other times the wives and husbands and the kids were at their own workshops and activities. The late afternoon we had free time to enjoy together again. We went for tractor rides, had fun doing archery, and also took the pontoon boat out around the lake. We even took turns driving it! Saturday evening was the big dance, The Hozhoni Boogie, and then the Campfire activities where we laughed at the funny skits and songs put on by the many volunteers. There was lots of audience participation and Katey was even part of it! We were up late again that night. The following morning was the closing ceremonies and the slide show of the weekend's activities. There was hardly a dry eye, thank goodness for extra tissues! The weekend went so quickly. We met so many wonderful families and incredible volunteers. We are already looking forward to returning next year!

Tuesday afternoon, Katey had her monthly checkup, labwork, and pentamidine breathing treatment. Everything went well and labs were just fine. We were also able to have a quick visit with Zech and his mom Jennifer and also Colin and his mom Jan. Its always so wonderful running into our clinic friends :> Katey and Colin had a great time laughing it up with video games.

On Thursday, Katey had another appointment, this time with the Urologist. It was great to hear that the enlargement and slight deviation in Katey's remaining kidney (a mild duplication)posed no real increased threat for injury. He also told us that Kate would NOT need to wear any kind of flank protector and could still do gymnastics! Kate pumped her arm at this comment and said "Oh Yes!" She was so excited and I was so pleased she wouldn't need to wear the bulky contraption for her belly :> Afterwards we stopped in to get her 'every other month' chest x-ray done. It was hard and scary waiting for results. I happened to catch a quick glance of the x-rays and noticed a white spot on both films! We were on edge waiting and praying until we finally got word more than 26 hours later that the x-rays were clear! Thank God Katey remains cancer free.

This Sunday we will be attending "Celebrate Life Day" at the park. Childrens Hospital is planning this special day in recognition of all their patients, past and present, who have fought cancer. It should be an incredible experience, they are even having a medal ceremony to honor the kids.

We keep in touch with so many families whose kids are battling cancer. Unfortunately, there are too many who have relapsed :( Please keep all kids who are suffering in mind as it is Childhood Cancer Awareness month. Please pray for a cure so no other families would have to suffer this path. Please pray for the many children and their families who are battling right now to be cancer-free~ There are just way too many...

Our Love and God's Blessings to you all, The Olsens

Thursday, September 4, 2003 11:32 PM CDT

Hello Everyone!

We have had another very busy week. Its great to be able to go anywhere we want with less worries about fevers or any fears about being too far from Childrens Hospital. We are so blessed to know that Kate is so full of energy, laughter, fun, and life! We are so greatful for every day!

Last Friday, we went to Cave of the Mounds to see Wisconsin's own Caverns. It was quite the sight to be able to enter into the beauty that was hidden underneath. The kids really thought it was cool! We also stopped in to see several state parks and climbed 2 viewing towers (one of our family's newest passions, and they are free too ;>). The sights from so high up are incredible! Afterwards, We headed to Madison. Kate was so surprised when she walked into the Capitol Building. She thought it looked like a castle inside! She pretended that she was a princess so she could sashay around the marble floors and down the winding staircases :> We stayed and ate dinner out on State Street before heading for home. It was a fun, but long, day trip.

This Tuesday was the first day of school. Kate and her brothers were so eager they were at the bus stop 15 minutes early! The kids have all had such a great few days of school. Kate has some super friends in her class from last year but has also made some new friends :> She said everyone is so nice! Today they had their first field trip. Kate really enjoyed The Planetarium. She thought it was cool when the lights went down so softly and then all the bright stars popped out :>

Friday, right after school, we are leaving for Hozhoni Weekend. This is the American Cancer Society camp for Childhood cancer patients and their families. There will be families from all over Wisconsin and some others from neighboring states. We are all looking forward to camp, but not sure what to expect. Again they are forecasting no rain and warm weather. Our area is experiencing a drought but we really won't mind if the rain holds out for another weekend.

September is Childhood Cancer Awareness month. Please wear gold ribbons in support. We are so blessed that Kate has completed treatment. We pray that this is permanent. Kate has her checkup and bloodwork next Tuesday Sept 9th and a first visit with the urologist and a chest xray on Thursday Sept 11th. Thank you for keeping Kate and our family in your prayers. Please, please pray for all the many other children out there with childhood cancer. There are just way too many having to battle this beast :(

God's many blessings to you all, The Olsens

Thursday, August 28, 2003 11:21 PM CDT

Hello Everyone,

Hope all of you are doing well! We have just 4 more days left before school starts for the kids. We have been very busy making the most of the days left :>

We met with the Make a Wish volunteers last week Wednesday. Larry and Michael went out of their way to make Kate and her brothers feel so special. Kate received a set of cute Panda bears from them that we've named Wish and Star. She also had a smaller Panda at home she has renamed Dreams. Now every night, the Panda family 'sing' to Kate the WDW jingle "When you 'Wish' upon a 'Star'...your 'Dreams' come true!" Problem is she just wants to hear it again and again :> We are hoping to be able to do the Disney trip for Spring Break but possibly not until school lets out next summer. We are so greatful for this opportunity and for all the wonderful volunteers who help kids like Kate fulfill their dreams!

Last Friday Kate was in to see the Oral Surgeon to have her extra tooth (Mesiodens) removed. She received a little nitrous oxide/ laughing gas, then a little shot to numb things up a bit and out came the tooth :> It was wonderful that it came out so easily with such a large and deep root. The Tooth Fairy left her a Disney Princesses watch for being such a brave little girl!

Earlier this week we were able to see the class listings for the upcoming school year and were pleased to see that Kate got Mrs. Brooks. She was big brother Jonathan's former teacher and she was just so wonderful. We also found out that several of Kate's best girlfriends from Kindergarten will be with her again for 1st grade :> It feels good to know that Kate will get a good start to the year!

Today, we made our way to the clinic to take care of some paperwork. We had to get a medical release for Kate and our family to be able to go to Hozohni Weekend. This camp is for cancer kids and their families Sept 5 to 7th. It's coming up soon! We also picked up a prescription for a left flank protector, a kind of shield to protect her remaining kidney. Kate's remaining kidney is enlarged and also a duplication kidney so they thought it best for her to wear a protective device seeing how active she is. She isn't thrilled about all this, hopefully it won't be so cumbersome for her. We will also be seeing a urologist Sept 11th to check the remaining kidney's function.

While we were at Childrens clinic we ran into Stephanie and her boys :> Her son Patrick is doing so well only 4 months from BMT (Bone Marrow Transplant) from an unrelated donor :> He looked so handsome with a nice crop of blond hair going. Kate and Patrick haven't seen each other for quite some time and they both have some hair now :> It was great to just marvel at how strong and resilient our kids really are, we couldn't be prouder!

In the morning we are sneaking away to go to Cave of the Mounds, Wisconsin's own caverns. This should be a pretty neat thing for the kids. We will also stop by Madison (the state capital) on the way back for some sightseeing.

Currently, our area is inundated with travelers from all over the country and the world(!) to celebrate the 100th Anniversary of Harley Davidson motorcycles. Its really amazing to see (and hear)all the cycles. They started arriving Monday and have been pouring in ever since. They say there will be about 300,000 here for the weekend festivities and about 100,000 HD cycles! We have talked to many of the riders out and about, they are a very friendly lot :> The kids think its neat to talk to people from so many different places. They also enjoy picking out the many different state license plates and international flags out there. They also enjoy seeing all the different styles of cycles and riders. This is all so new to them and they are loving it :>

The kids will be starting school Tuesday, Sept 2nd. I'm not sure if I'm happy or sad about that, The kids however are all excited to go back to school and see their friends. We pray you all have a Safe and Happy Labor Day Holiday!

LotsaHugs to you all, The Olsens

Monday, August 18, 2003 11:29 PM CDT

Hello Everyone!

My how time flies as we head towards the end of summer! Since the last update, we have managed to enjoy a full day at the Wisconsin State Fair and have lots of tasty creampuffs and we also took that last minute road trip that was still "in the works."

We ended up taking a road trip to Green Bay. We rode north Manitowac to see the Lake Michigan shoreline and the Rawley Lighthouse. It was a great place to stretch, halfway to Green Bay, and the sights were incredible! We stayed in Green Bay and became part of the group of "railbirds" every morning. That's the term they use for people who watch the Packers training camp through the chain link fences :> The boys are all die-hard Packers fans ;> They really enjoyed watching the practices and even got some cool autographs afterwards on our football and yearbook. We also took a day trip up to Door County. We saw 3 different state parks, 3 different lighthouses, and climbed 2-75 foot viewing towers. It's so incredible to see God's nature, I couldn't believe the beauty of it all! While in Door County we did the signature things like enjoying a fish boil dinner with cherry pie for dessert. The kids really enjoyed it :> We packed so much into our 3 day, 2 night vacation and logged ~600 miles total. We also stopped into Appleton on our way home to visit with The Lorrigs. The kids all enjoyed playing together. They had a great time swimming in the pool and playing tag. We were also treated to a very nice cook out, Thanks to all the Lorrigs!

The following day was Robert's Bday! Last week, Kate made her dad 'a shirt' out of paper that she designed and decorated herself, she even cut out the neck section and made sleeves for it. She was so proud to present it to him :> She also drew a cute picture of herself with her Daddy enjoying a sunny day with what else but a lighthouse in the background! Happy birthday to a Wonderful Husband and Daddy!!! We Love You Lots!!!

On Thursday, We were off early for Kate's appointment at the clinic. We were there by 8am for a check-up, lab work, and for her monthly breathing treatment. Susan, Our Onc NP, and Kathy, our nurse, did a great job getting us finished by 8:45, just in time for Kate and the boys to catch the bus to Rainbow Camp. This is a 'just-for-the-day' camp for cancer kids and their sibs. They all had a great time playing games, doing crafts, rock wall climbing, and swimming. It was especially nice for Kate and the boys to see Colin (a friend from the clinic) and his sis Kelly there. They enjoyed spending time with them :> It was also great to catch up with Colin's mom, Jan, and some of the other Moms while we waited for the bus to return in the afternoon. All in all a very busy but fun day for the kids. Kate's lab work came back just fine,too, what a bonus!

This Wednesday, we will be meeting with the Make a Wish Volunteer to talk about Kate's Wish. What an incredible thing this is! They told us about this early on during treatment and it helped Kate to have something to look forward to. She has been going back and forth between a Disney Cruise, a swim with the Dolphins, or a trip to her favorite vacation spot-Disney World. Hopefully the visit with the Make a Wish people will help her to figure it all out :> She's so excited and really looking forward to it. The other day I found Kate and her brother Sam busy packing for the trip! Too bad I had to tell them it was going to be a while before we go ;>

On Friday, Kate will have oral surgery to remove an extra tooth growing between her 2 front teeth. Please pray that all goes well. Poor thing has had such a rough year but has been such a trooper through it all.

Please also continue to pray for all kids who have had to battle cancer, some of the kids are even having to go another round with this beast...Please pray for a cure and for all of you who are able, please help in raising money for the American Cancer Society. Thanks again for all your prayers and support, thanks also for all the great guestbook entries, they mean so much to us!

Enjoy the remaining days of summer! Take care and God bless you all, The Olsens

***We've added new pictures in the photo album :>***

Wednesday, August 6, 2003 9:24 PM CDT

Hello friends!

I can't believe how fast summer is going by! There are just over 3 weeks to go before school starts. We have been busy trying to enjoy many of the events going on yet this summer and trying to plan maybe one more quick getaway, its still in the works :>

This past week, our family went to the EAA (Experimental Aircraft Association.) There were literally thousands of planes, small and large to see! We had rain in the early afternoon so we put on our handy rain ponchos and set about seeing everything. We also had lots of time in the gift shops, really not such a good idea. Its amazing the things you find when you've got extra time to browse. We are now the proud owners of an airplane-shaped cookie cutter, shirts for dad and the boys, a stuffed moose (Katey's find!), and two display planes for the boys' rooms :> The skies turned blue just in time for the incredible airshow and plane acrobatics, Kate enjoyed that the most. We all had a great time, Thanks Gramma Glory for the tickets!!!

On Friday, we attended the Relay for Life at the Waukesha West High School track. It turned out to be a beautiful day and evening. Kate was wide-eyed soaking everything in and really enjoyed all the extra attention for being a cancer survivor. They asked our family to hold the banner for the Survivors Lap and Kate was all smiles as she led the approximately 40 survivors around the track for the first time. It was wonderful to see all the walkers raising money for cancer research, we saw at least 20 campsites set out around the track. The Teams are all dedicated to at least one member walking the track from 6pm until 10am the following morning. We stayed fairly late and enjoyed walking around the track several times. It was especially neat to walk the track after all the luminaries were lit. These are lights bought "In Honor of" or "In Memory of" someone affected by Cancer. It was an incredible and touching sight, all those luminaries lining the complete track, each only a foot apart. That's an awful lot of lights. Its really a humbling thought to know that each of the lights do represent a person...We bought one to honor Kate, she's been such a trooper throughout her treatments and she has come so far since that awful day in January. Kate was so proud of her luminary that she went back for it the next morning to keep it as a memento. Overall, the Relay for Life was a Huge Success and lots of money was raised for research. Please pray that a cure is found soon...

Last night, Dad and the kids were out late again. This time for National Night Out, an evening event to celebrate a Night out against Crime. They had a great time with all the special games and treats. They also enjoyed up close views of Fire trucks, Police cars, and also The Flight for Life rescue helicopter. Kate (our little drama queen) said that the helicopter blades were spinning so hard she had to hold on to a pole so she wouldn't be blown away, tee hee! Her brother Jonathan just caught her balloon as it tried to escape, nice save! The kids also ran into lots of their friends. Kate said it was nice to see Jess, Mikayla, and Mario all from her old Kindergarten class :> It was a very nice night for the kids to enjoy. Mom on the other hand was at work trying to help pay off bills, no fun for Mom!

This morning we had friends over to visit, the kids enjoyed playing together. They especially enjoyed the sandbox and got good and messy. Mom enjoyed visiting with her friend Chris :>

Kate has an appointment for a check-up, labs, medport flush, and breathing treatment next week. Until then, we are going to keep packing in as much fun as we can all the way until the start of the school year. We hope you are all doing well and are enjoying the last weeks of summer as well. Please pray for all those affected by cancer and for cancer research. This has all been an incredible journey, yet what a blessing to feel all the support and prayers from all our friends and families. Thanks also for all the uplifting guestbook entries, they mean so much to us! We appreciate each and every one of you!

God's Love and Peace, The Olsens

P.S. We've posted some new pictures :>

Wednesday, July 30, 2003 11:00 PM CDT

Hello all,

Things continue to be very busy here in the Olsen household with lots of appointment-free(!), summertime fun :> Kate and her brothers had loads of fun last week swimming, playing with friends, and more bike riding. The kids also attended a summer bible study program that was held at Fox River Christian Church for 5 nights. They all invited friends to come along and had loads of lively fun :>

Last Friday afternoon, we went to Pewaukee High School to take part in Kate's very first survivor lap at the Relay for Life. Unfortunately, we were told the wrong start time and nothing was going on except setup. Kate and her brothers did a quick courtesy lap just for fun since we couldn't come back later. Actually right afterwards we had to get back home to finish packing for our camping trip that evening :>

This was only our second time camping, the first was last year with our family friends the Ritters. This year we had 8 families together, thats 32 people :> It was so fun to watch all the kids playing together and racing through the paths that joined our camp sites :> Its really true what they say about camping food just tasting so much better. I think it had a lot to do with the company and the great outdoors, tho :> We stayed up late every nite for roasting marshmallows, making smores, and other tasty treats and just hanging out :> In the daytime, we went on a guided nature walk on the prairie--loads off fun until we accidently disturbed a yellow jacket bees nest and 4 of our group were stung, including Kate's big brother Jonathan. Benedryl, ice, and cortisone ointment helped quite a bit. Jonathan and the others did okay except for the soreness of some heavy duty swelling. All in all, everyone had a fabulous time. We came home with quite a bit of the 'outdoors' on us, and lots of dirty laundry. We eventually got everyone and everything cleaned up and put away. We'll certainly be back for more next year!

Today Sam (Kate's other brother) had some friends over. It was great to have Cory and Erik here, they all played so well together. We all went for a bike ride, played kickball, splashed around in the pool and played computer games. They all had a great time, and Mom's just a bit tired out. Thankfully, the rain held off til after the kids left. Tonite we have had severe thundershowers and heavy downpours. We had 3 inches of rain in an hour! More of the same is forecasted for the rest of the week :(

Tomorrow (Thursday) we will be driving up to Oshkosh to the EAA (Experimental Aircraft Association) Fly-In. Friday is Waukesha's Relay for Life. Hopefully there will be enough of a break in the rainy weather to enjoy these outdoor events.

We pray you are all doing well! Love and Hugs, The Olsens :>

P.S.-We haven't done very well keeping up the photo album. I finally put in new ones, and will put up photos of camping soon :>

Saturday, July 19, 2003 12:45 AM CDT

Hello everyone,

We have had another great week at the Olsens :> Lots of time spent swimming with friends here at home and also at friends homes. Kate has also spent alot of time on her bike. She finally got the hang of riding a two-wheeler last weekend and can't seem to stay off her bike. Bye bye training wheels! Needless to say, Bob and I have had to dust off our bikes to join her for numerous bike rides around the neighborhood along with the boys. Oh well, at least its great excercise, and its so nice to see Kate getting her balance back!

Kate had her Pentamidine breathing treatment at the Childrens clinic and did well. I found out that she will still need to do it every month until 6 months post chemo. Her next follow up will be in one month along with another breathing treatment. They say we will need to be seen every month for the first year with scans every 3 months, and then seen every other month for the second year. We are just greatful to be at this point.

We did have a talk with Susan (Kate's Onc NP) about all sorts of stuff. Kate's remaining kidney is a twin kidney and is quite enlarged because of the extra work its having to do. Because of it, its a bit floppier and occupying a larger portion of her abdomen. We will have to be very careful not to cause injury to her fragile remaining kidney. Susan said we may need to have Kate wear a protective cover over her belly. Needless to say, I think Gymnastics is now out of the picture. She was just advanced to pre-TEAM (competitive) gymnastics when this all happened. Its sad because she really was quite good at it and LOVED it :( Oh well, there are more important things to deal with.

This morning Kate woke up to a very unusual wooshing sound and yelling. She looked out her window to find a large yellow hot air balloon dangerously close to the top of our pine tree(!) with the people in the basket yelling frantically to each other! By the time Kate got me, the balloon had cleared the pine tree and was heading up and away from our house. What a curious site! It turns out that this morning around 6:30am they had a Hot Air Balloon Launch at the Waukesha County Fairgrounds only two miles away. We all raced outside to watch other balloons float by. At one point we counted 17 of them :> Bob was at work so the kids and I jumped in the minivan to 'chase' the hot air balloons. Near the airport, the AOL balloon went just over our heads and we saw the people in the basket waving and shouting HI to us :> We spent the next hour following the balloons and finally went back home around 8am.

We were at the county fair on Wednesday and the kids really enjoyed it, esp since all rides were only a dollar. Kate has gotten really fond of the Ferris Wheel and had a nice sunset ride with Dad. I had to stay behind with her not-so-brave brother. We all had a great time.

I hope this update finds you all well. We pray constantly for all our Wilms cancer family friends we have met on the internet and for others dealing with childhood cancer. We pray that a cure is found soon so that others would not have to take this journey. As I type, I am saddened to hear of another family losing the battle against Wilms. Please, please pray for Hunter and his family. Their website is: http://www.watermarkaussies.com/hunter.html

Blessings to you all, The Olsens


***Update From Hunters Website on 7/21/03:

Hunter's faith that God would heal him was so incredibly strong... this morning at 9:15am his faith was realized when Hunter received his "Ultimate Cure" and returned home. His passing was so peaceful and he was surrounded by his family in his home. Hunter's incredible spirit simply loved life too much to leave without a fight, and his body - so strong despite the poisons with which he fought his foe - was never frail and had reserves we never imagined~

PEACE Hunter, Our Love and Prayers to Mom Betsy and sis Mariah...

Friday, July 11, 2003 1:05 AM CDT

Hello Everyone!

Kate had her first post-chemo follow-up tests on Tuesday. We were at Childrens by 9 am and she started right away with tests. First we had "bear pictures" (chest x-rays), next was "jelly on the belly" (Abdominal ultrasound). Then it was time for the ever detested contrast drink to prepare for the "kitty cat scans" (CT scans.) We made our way back to the clinic and got checked in. Its always nicer to go to clinic to hang out while Kate drinks down the yucky contrast. As it was, it took over an hour to coach her into drinking all of it and then there is another hour of waiting before the scans can be done.

It was very nice to find out that Tricia the playroom arts and crafts volunteer was there today :> Kate really likes her a lot and enjoys all the different crafts. We also had a chance to catch up with other clinic friends :>

Kate had her medport accessed for labs and for the scans, and then she had her check-up. Susan (Our NP) laid out the roadmap for follow-up tests, scans, etc for roughly the next couple years. I didn't realize that we would still need to be seen every month for a year and then every other month for the second year! Well, I guess I would feel better keeping a closer eye on Kate for now. There really isn't a protocol for follow-ups so Childrens Hospital made their own.

We finally finished just after 1pm. Kate was starving, not having had anything to eat or drink (beyond the nasty contrast) since yesterday for dinner! We made our way to Mayfair Mall and had a great lunch :> Afterwards, we had to check out our favorite stores. The ladies at the Libby Lu store are phenomenal. They always remember Kate's name and greet her and make her feel so special. Julie even bought her a little something, Thanks, Julie! We also stopped in at Build-a-Bear. Its fun to watch all the goings on with the 'birth' of new bears and buddies. Our last stop was at the Sharper Image. We love all the fun gadgets and gizmos at this store and even got to try out some really fantastic massage chairs, what a treat! We finally got out of Mayfair Mall just before rush hour, Wheeww!

By Wednesday Evening we got the wonderful call that all CT scans, ultrasounds, x-rays, and labs where all just fine :> !!! WHAT A RELIEF, THANK GOD!!! Kate's next appointment is next Wednesday for a Pentamidine breathing treatment.

Kate is feeling good and is quite active! On Thursday she joined her brother Sam and his friend Erik at the park and then joined them for some swimming at Erik's. Its so wonderful to see her on the go. I smile to think of her little "fuzzy head" bopping around. She is really starting to grow some nice soft stuff on her head! I guess I like it cuz it reminds me that we are done with chemo and that she can grow hair again. I kiss her fuzzy head every chance I get :>

Hope this update finds you all doing well. Please pray for all kids with childhood cancer with a special prayer for those fighting relapses of their cancer. Please pray that a cure would be found so no others have to travel this scary road. I am including a link that was sent to me for a petition to make a Childhood Cancer Stamp, please stop in and sign the petition. It would be great to collect the necessary 10,000 signatures and increase awareness for such a worthy cause. The link is: http://www.thepetitionsite.com/takeaction/928701473
Pass it on!

Blessings to you all, The Olsens

Sunday, July 6, 2003 5:39 PM CDT

Hello everyone!

I can't believe how fast this past week and holiday weekend have gone! We are all doing fine. Kate had labs done locally on Tuesday. Hgb was at 11.5, Plt at 385, WBC at 4.07, with an ANC of 2035, Its so wonderful that her counts have done so nicely :>

We have been spending a lot of time in the backyard and outdoors lately. Kate and her brothers have had lots of fun swimmimg this past week with friends. We have had great weather for the most part with warm, sunny, sometimes hot and humid weather. Today we have scattered thunderstorms with severe weather warnings, not too much time spent outdoors today!

Last Monday we spent the day at Summerfest (A large music festival at the lakefront) with family friends of ours for Kids Day. The kids all had a great time :> Kate even got up to dance on the bleachers at the Disney Radio Show!

This weekend we had family in town from Texas (My brother Bernie, his wife Liz, and their kids Kyle and Megan) and from Virginia (My niece Monica and her husband Bao.) It was so wonderful to have everyone here. Kate enjoyed seeing everyone and really enjoyed playing with her cousin Megan :>

We spent the 4th of July at my brother Arthur and his family's home for a cookout and to celebrate Birthdays for Megan, Liz, and Monica (The 4th of July baby!) Later we went out to see the fireworks at the Waukesha Expo. Kate sat on the roof of our minivan to see the show. It was very nice and quite a long show lasting half an hour. I'm constantly amazed at the new fireworks. This year they had some cool ones that looked like a lawn sprinkler swooshing through the sky with brilliant colors and another the kids thought looked like spinning popcorn shrimp :> We made it back to my brothers for sparklers and more snacks, a very long, fun day!

We hope you are all well and have enjoyed this past 4th of July Holiday. We had a chance to talk about what America has meant to our family. We are transplants from the Philippines. My Mom and Dad had the foresight to try life here. We came across in 2 waves. First my Dad and 3 of the kids flew to Seattle, then my Mom and the rest of the 4 kids (including myself) followed, half a year later in 1968, after my Dad got established. It was a true culture shock and very trying at first. At times my Mom wanted to head back, but we ended up staying. The result was a family with about 30 members which makes for very large family gatherings. We are so thankful to be here, The Land of the Free and Home of the Brave and Very Proud to be American!

This coming Tuesday, Kate will have her first post treatment CXRs, ultrasounds, and CT scans. She will also have labs and a complete check up. Please pray that all would go well, I always get just a little nervous when its time for her scans and ultrasounds. We have been in contact with several families who are fighting the recurrance of the Wilms cancer, so its always just a little scary. Please please please pray for our friends, Savannah, Courtney, Mason, and their families. We do know that through Faith we have made it and through Faith we will handle whatever is next for our family. I will update again sometime mid week with the results of Kate's tests. Thanks in advance for all your prayers and for all the guestbook entries, we do enjoy reading them!

Love and Peace to you all, Grace and Katey

P.S.--Finally we have added new pictures!

Saturday, June 28, 2003 11:18 PM CDT

Hello Everyone!

Things continue to go well in the Olsen Household. We have had another busy week and thankfully, Kate continues to stay well! Kate was at our church every morning for Discovery Days (Summer Bible program) this past week. She really enjoyed all the fun esp since she had her friend Jess with her :>

Tuesday afternoon, Kate had her labwork drawn locally. She does so well with her armpokes. Labs were just fine with Hgb at 11.1, Plt at 232, and ANC of 2963! Yahoo, one less thing to worry about!

Wednesday afternoon, our wonderful neighbor and friend, Marcia, took all three kids to see the movie "Finding Nemo." She even took the kids for ice cream afterwards and spoiled them some more. They all had such a great time, Now I want to see the movie, too!

Thursday evening, Kate joined Jess and Mikayla at Jess' house to watch "Air Bud." Kate sure loves to be with her friends from Kindergarten. I sure hope a lot of her former classmates are with her in 1st grade. Kinda crazy to be thinking about 1st grade already. Its just that Kate's Kindergarten class was just so perfect. She really misses everyone and hopefully we will be able to have them over for a swim sometime soon.

This week, the weather was mostly hot and muggy so Kate and her brothers spent almost every afternoon splashing around in our backyard pool. What a great way to cool down and I didn't have to worry about them or have to take them anywhere :>

Tomorrow nite we are having family over to help celebrate Jonathan's 9th Birthday. Needless to say, we have spent most of today cleaning and getting things readied. A huge undertaking to say the least for our home which is mostly in very lived in conditions! Anyway, Its always nice to have a party since its a chance to get the house picked up. Robert even shampooed our carpets today to remove some of the more visual signs of a home with kids :>

We hope you all have a great rest of the weekend. Please, Please pray for our web friends Savannah, Courtney, Mason and their families. They are battling the recurrence of cancer after completing treatment for Wilms. Its so hard to see kids having to fight off cancer again. Please also pray for Cancer Research, that they would be able to unlock the mysteries of cancer soon so that no others would have to go through any of this.

Kate will have labs done locally on Tuesday. I will update again next weekend. Thanks for stopping by to check on us and please don't forget to leave a message in the guestbook. Kate loves to get messages!

God's blessings to you all, Grace

Saturday, June 21, 2003 11:59 PM CDT

Hello everyone,

YEAYYY, we are happy to report that Kate had her last chemo dose on Tuesday! Her lab work was great with an ANC of 5037, Hgb of 11.6, and Plt at 494! We are very happy to be finished with Chemo but at the same time just a little nervous about the fact that Kate is no longer receiving any medicine to keep the cancer away. We know that worrying doesn't serve any purpose so we try to brush away the fears and try to enjoy life as we have it :>

Kate started having an upset stomach and was vomiting by midnite on Tuesday. She always has such a hard time with her actinomycin dosing. We kept meals small and light and started her on her medicine regimen of alternating Hydroxizine and Zofran every 3 hours. She only spit up one more time the next day. Now she is in the clear and has been eating and drinking well since :> We certainly won't be missing this chemo drug!

Things have been going well the past few days. Kate was asked to participate in another fund raiser. This time for the MACC Funds Cute Kids Calendar for 2004. The MACC (Midwest Athletes against Childhood Cancer) Fund was founded over 25 years ago and holds several annual events and fundraisers to benefit Pediatric Cancer Research. They have helped raise over 19 million--Way to go, A Huge Thanks to the MACC Fund! Kate was glad to help out in this cause so dear to us and so many friends we have met along the way. She had her photoshoot on Friday. She will be one of the featured MACC kids of the month and there will be a short story about Kate included with her picture. She really enjoyed the photoshoot as the photographer was a lot of fun, she didn't even want to leave and we had been there an hour already! Thanks also to Mortensen Photography and The Lang Company for putting out this calendar with all of the proceeds going to the MACC Fund. Can't wait to see the pictures :>

We have had incredible weather this past week and Kate and her brothers have enjoyed a lot of time outside. They even jumped into our large blow up pool this afternoon for a quick swim, quick because the water was still a little too cool! Anyway, they enjoyed splashing around a bit :>

Tonite we went to a Surprise Engagement party for my brother and his fiancee'(Unka Tony and Auntie Cherie to the kids.) The Hawaiian theme party was a lot of fun, everyone was dressed in Hawaiian shirts/outfits, and all the decorations were fantastic and very festive. Tony and Cherie were taken completely by surprise. Even the kids didn't spill the beans when we were with them last weekend. Kate made friends with the little girl next door and they both joined in on the hoola hoop and limbo contests. It sure was a lot of fun and we didn't get the kids home and in bed until after 10pm. Hopefully they won't be too worn out for church tomorrow.

Kate's oldest brother Jonathan turns 9 tomorrow! I can't beleive we have been a family for 9 years! Even with all the trials and tribulations, I would not trade it for the world. I am blessed with a wonderful husband and 3 great kids. Happy Birthday Jonathan, We love you!

Kate will have labs drawn locally again for the next two Tuesdays. The off treatment CT and US is scheduled for July 7th. Thanks everyone for all the thoughts and prayers and for all the encouraging messages in the guestbook.

Please pray for our friend Savannah and her family, also for our other friends Mason and Courtney who are currently continuing the fight with recurrences. There are just too many children and their families having to fight cancer. Please pray that a cure would be found soon so no one else would ever have to suffer this path...

Peace and God's many blessings to all of you, The Olsens

Saturday, June 14, 2003 10:56 PM CDT

Hi all,

I've been a little delinquent keeping this site updated, thankfully things are going very well! We have had a very busy and fun week and Kate continues to stay well :>

Monday was the Kindergarten class field trip to the zoo. I was able to come along and we all enjoyed seeing the animals and also the giant fish. We enjoyed the sea lion show and also rode low and high tech rides--a camel (the low tech 'high' ride) and the virtual reality ride to "Swim with the dolphins" (the high tech 'low' ride!) Kate really enjoyed hanging out with her friends for the day outside of the school setting and it was also a great weather day :>

Kate had labs done locally and they were all fine with an ANC of 2195, Plt 485, and a Hgb of 10.5. The lab tech was so impressed with how Kate sits and just watches her arm poke with a smile that they gave her a cute little teddy bear. She promptly visited me at work to proudly show it off since I was in for a rare work day. Dad and the boys actually seem to enjoy taking Kate for her labwork afterschool (for the second week in a row!) I am in awe of how healthy Kate has been and she's even starting to grow back her hair :>

Thursday was the last day of school. Lots of mixed emotions that day since we had 'Field Days' at school. That's when the kids have a morning of fun and games and then cap it off with a picnic lunch. The weather was perfect for all the outdoor activities. It finally started sinking in later in the day for the kids that this was the last day of school, lots of kids were teary-eyed :( Kate has had such a wonderful and caring class and teacher that I am sad to see it end, we have been so blessed!

Thursday evening, we headed out to Wisconsin Dells for a couple days of R&R along with Unka Tones and Auntie Cherie. On Friday, we spent most of the day at the waterparks. Kate loved riding the stingray with her dad. They must have taken the ride at least a couple dozen times. She is certainly one tough thrill rider! We also enjoyed the day because it was Unka Tones B-day! That's right, it was also 'Friday the 13th' and just shy of a full moon,too :> Unka Tones and Auntie Cherie are such a fun and wacky couple, we all had a blast!

Saturday (today) we went fishing at the Trout farm with the kids. They have been begging us to take them. Kate's dad baited her hook first and we were all busy getting set up when all of a sudden we saw Kate, looking like a pro, flinging her rather large fish, a 15 incher, onto the ground all by herself, all within 15 seconds of dropping her line in! No one was ready with the net, I was still getting the camera and camcorder readied when it happened. It was fun to see Kate beaming after she landed her very first fish ever and all by herself! Kate was very patient to just watch for the next hour until both brothers had finally gotten their fish. We fished one more for a total of 4 fish. Kate's was the first and the largest catch of the day :> The kids enjoyed it so much we are bound to do it again. We joined up with Unka Tones and Auntie Cherie again for lunch and some more fun at the waterpark. We left the dells and got home by 7pm. We had a very tasty dinner tonite of grilled fresh fish, YUM YUM!

Thanks again for all your wonderful prayers and messages of encouragement, it means so much to us! Kate is scheduled to have her last treatment of Chemotherapy (Actinomycin and Vincristine) on Tuesday! I can hardly believe it! Thank you all for being so supportive to all of us. Thanks especially to Leigh, Michelle, and Heidi for dinners this past week, it meant so much to us! I feel so incredibly blessed that Kate (and the rest of our family, myself included) are in relatively good health. Please please continue to pray for all other kids battling cancer and other illnesses, there are way too many families having to go through so much.

I will try to post new pictures again soon. Take care all of you!--Love, The Olsens

***HAPPY FATHERS DAY to all you Wonderful Dads out there!***


UPDATE: We just found out that one of our Wilms family friends has just had a recurrence of this cancer. PLEASE pray for Sweet Savannah and her family as they battle Wilms for the third time...
www.caringbridge.org/il/savannah

Saturday, June 7, 2003 0:40 AM CDT

Hello everyone,

Just a quick update to let you know all is well! We have had a very busy past week...Last Friday was the Bday party for Kate's friend Samantha at Chuck E Cheese. Last Saturday she was at the Indian Princess Campout, went fishing for the first time (no catch to show for it tho), shot a bow and arrow, and also found a rare Morel Mushroom! It was a cold and rainy day but she managed to have a fantastic time. Amazing she never did catch a cold!

On Tuesday, after school, Kate had her labwork drawn locally. Her WBCs were at 7.5 with ANC at a hefty 4750, Plt at 281! Overall, she tolerated her chemo last week fairly well with just a bit of nausea and only one emesis 2 days later. What a blessing!

Friday nite was Kate's ballet recital! It was great to have Gramma, Grampa, Unka Tones, and Auntie Cherie there to cheer her on along with Dad and the boys. Mom spent her time in the back with the dancers as a stage mom. Mom and Kate were able to enjoy some of the other dances during dress rehearsel Thursday Nite. It was a great nite and everyone had a great time. Mom was even allowed backstage to watch Kate's dances. Dad and Kate were wonderful in their Father/Daughter dance to "Thank Heaven for Little Girls." It was sweet to see them both up there along with the other 4 daddy/daughter pairs. They have been practicing so hard for the past 2 months :> Kate was also wonderful in her dance to "Love makes the world go round." We were so proud and it really warms my heart to see how well she did in spite of everything.

All week long she has been in school and gone about doing everything she would like and hasn't gotten sick! We pray that this continues. Tomorrow she is off to another Bday party, this time for her friend Alexis.

Thanks to Dell, Ann-Marie, Sara, and Kristin for meals for our family the past few weeks. Thanks also for all your prayers for Kate and our behalf and for the encouraging messages in our guestbook. Please continue to pray for all sick and suffering children. Also please pray that a cure would be found soon so that no other families would ever have to watch loved ones struggle through battling cancer...

God's many blessings to you all, The Olsens

Wednesday, May 28, 2003 11:35 PM CDT

Hello All!

Kate had her clinic appointment yesterday and I'm happy to report that her Chest xrays, ultrasounds, and Cat scans were all okay!!!! Labs were fine,too. ANC 2538, Hgb 11.2, Plt 491. BUN and Creat are just slightly elevated. THANK YOU EVERYONE for all your prayers and concern! That means there will be only ONE chemotherapy treatment left to do, then we will be off treatment! I can hardly believe it! It seems an eternity ago when we had to start down this path, and then again it seems like only yesterday.

For the next 2 weeks we will be having weekly follow-up blood tests here at the local lab. Then, barring any illness, we will return to Childrens for Kate to complete her very last dose of Vincristine and Actinomycin June 17th! Life without chemo is around the corner for us!

Kate has done very well this time around with her chemo. We started her anti-nausea meds the same evening and she slept through the night, never complained of an upset stomache. Better yet, we had no surprises to clean up! Must have been Murphy's Law in reverse. We were so ready for a mess and had a pretty good setup for it that we ended up not needing it!

Today, I kept Kate home for the morning since she was feeling a little off and tired. I made sure she was able to drink and eat okay then brought her to school after lunch. No problems at school either! The alternating Zofran and Hydroxizine every 3 hours really does the trick for Kate :>

We have had a truly fantastic past few days with wonderful warm weather for this Memorial Day weekend. Friday, I took the kids for a short visit of the zoo. We didn't get going until early afternoon so we didn't have as much time to spend as we would have liked. Still, we were able to see the Sea Lion show and ride the train and see the monkeys and apes. The kids really enjoyed themselves and mom got a little workout out of it :> The rest of the Memorial Day weekend we stayed around the house trying to catch up with house duties and outdoor needs. It was just nice to be home and the kids enjoyed spending a lot of time outdoors. We also did lots and lots of grilling, one of the best things about having warm weather really!

Last evening (soon after we got back from clinic) we were at the school's talent show. It was so much fun to watch all the kids in a wide variety of different acts. The kids were fantastic, and we were especially proud of Jonathan and his friends for doing their Magic Act :> It was a long day for us so it was good to finally get home for the nite.

We have had so many wonderful blessings of such supportive family and friends, we could not have come out of this as well without all of you! Thanks especially to my friends Maggie and Michele for the wonderful meals you've made for us, and to Traci for the Brewers game tickets for Dad and the boys, they were so very much appreciated!

We are starting to see the light at the end of the tunnel! Yesterday at clinic we were able to rejoice in how well other kids are doing, especially Colin and Patrick! At the same time, we are saddened to hear that a little girl we met on the HOT unit is not doing so well. Please, please continue to pray for all the children who are suffering and fighting hard against their illnesses, there are just way too many kids and their families having to go through so very much...

Take care and God's blessings to all of you, The Olsens

Thursday, May 22, 2003 11:35 PM CDT

Hello everyone!

We had the radio interview yesterday and it wasn't as scary as I thought it would be :> Dave and Carole were really nice and very easy to talk to. Incredible how they can be so giving of their time to raise $$$ for Childrens Hospital, they still have one full day left to go in their 60 hour stint. One interesting thing is that Cara (see guestbook entry) found out that Katey and I actually have pix on the WKLH.com website under Miracle Marathon Photo Album, Pretty funny! The first is a closeup and only good for scaring(!) people, the second is with Dave and Carole and is a pretty neat little keepsake :> Oh the trials of being a celeb! Seriously, its wonderful that WKLH would be so incredible to raise money for such a worthy cause...unfortunately we know. We are getting closer to being done but at the same time others are just being newly diagnosed with sooo many heartwrenching problems with cancer and other illnesses and diseases :( If only no child ever had to suffer ever again...

We had labs drawn on Wednesday at Childrens before the interview. Kate's counts were just fine :> ANC 1295, Hgb 10.7, and platelets at 451! She is feeling good, what a blessing!

Today, I took Kate to the dentist. We have noticed that her 2 front teeth were gapping more and more. It turns out she has what is called a mesiodens (sp?) or an extra tooth. They took xrays of her teeth and determined that she will need oral surgery to remove it. We need to wait until after chemo is completed to avoid infection problems but soon enough for the extra tooth not to distort the spacing for her adult teeth. Poor Kate, another surgery in the works I guess :(

This evening, Jonathan and Sam had their Gymnastics Exhibition. Kate cried when she found out we were all going to Salto. After asking further, I found out the reason she didn't want to go there was because it was too hard for her to be there knowing she couldn't do Gymnastics and she just wanted to be back in it so badly! We talked about how she could join again maybe in the fall after she completes her treatment and has her medport in her right side removed. She was kinda leary at first but then after getting to see and talk to Teacher Andrea, she felt more comfortable. She even jumped around, swung on the bars, and did some tumbling off to the side. I know she wasn't supposed to, but I was just so proud of her that she was finally able to come back. We were at Salto for 2 hours, its the first time Kate has really set foot there since her surgery! Jonathan and Sam did so very well with their routines :> We are blessed by such cool kids!

Tomorrow, the kids have the day off from school. I haven't decided whether to tackle them for the day at the zoo, a park, the library, or just to stay home and clean (not a friendly word around here!) Maybe a combination of the above would be good. Dad unfortunately has to work so can't join us for any shenanigans. We'll just have to see what kind of trouble we can brew up :>

We have new pictures in the photo album from Kate's birthday parties! (Just for you Barb ;>) Be sure to take a peek! It sure was wild! Silly mom didn't take a large group picture with everyone at McD's that could be posted here, Oops! I might try rotating other pix in just so everyone can be on at some point :>

Next Tuesday, May 27, will be Kate's next clinic appointment. She will be receiving both Actinomycin and Vincristine along with the usual antinausea regimen of IV fluids and IV medicine. She will also have labwork, and a repeat ultrasound and catscan. Please pray for all to go well and that all the tests come back normal.

Thanks again for all your prayers, Be sure and sign the guestbook before you leave, we love to get messages!

HAVE A HAPPY AND SAFE MEMORIAL DAY WEEKEND!!!


Love and hugs, The Olsens :>


***We've just added a photo album of Bday Pix, click on the link below
http://www.snapfish.com/share/p=733251053892214935/l=14780735

Monday, May 19, 2003 10:43 PM CDT

Hello Everyone!

Thank you for all the fun Birthday greetings and messages for Kate! We are so proud to say that our little 6 yo Kate has been doing wonderfully :> Robert and I survived the McDonalds Playland party with 24 kids Thursday. Our ears have finally stopped ringing, no matter really since Kate and her friends all had such a great time! I will post the pictures soon :>

On Sunday, We had 26 family over to Celebrate Kate's Birthday. It was fun getting together with everyone. Kate was full of energy and even put on her recital outfit and danced for everyone! It was great to just watch her and marvel at how well she is doing despite all she has been through. She refused to wear her hat for most of the day, much the same as she did with her party with friends. It is incredible for me to see how comfortable she is with herself!

Today she was in school again and doing well. She hasn't had even a hint of fever or illness. I believe we have made it through this past Actinomycin dosing without an inpatient stay, the first time since that very first dose. We've also been out of the hospital almost 5 weeks now--what a blessing!

On Wednesday morning at 10:15, Kate and I will be interviewed by Radio Personalities, Dave and Carol. Each year WKLH--96.5 FM does a fund raiser for Children's Hospital called the Miracle Marathon. They do interviews with families who have been or are being treated at Children's Hospital. For all of you in the Milwaukee area, be sure to tune in and put in your pledges! I am just a wee bit skitish about the whole thing but at least its not TV!

Kate only has labwork this week which she'll have done at Children's prior to the radio interview. Her next Chemo treatment will be next Tuesday, May 27th, just after Memorial Day. She will receive Vincristine and Actinomycin. She will also be having her repeat Ultrasounds and Catscans along with other lab tests. I'm already a bit nervous about all the tests. Please pray that all of Kate's tests come back normal.

Thank you one and all for the wonderful things you've done, said, written, and prayed for our sweet little princess Kate to help her feel so good about herself and to help her have such a fantastic birthday celebration :> We are so blessed to have so many wonderful family and friends!

Love to all, The Olsens

Wednesday, May 14, 2003 10:59 PM CDT

Hello all!

We've had another great past week! Kate did well after her Actinomycin/Vincristine dosing last Tuesday. Very minimal aches and pains and she only threw up once at 3am the next morning. Her stomach was still upset for the next 2 days but we were able to keep it under control with continous medicines. I think the next time we get Actino, we'll keep meals light for that day, too, even if she is hungry. Otherwise we just end up seeing quite a colorful (but not so pretty) display of all of it later. Kate felt well enough by Thursday afternoon to get back to school and has been okay since :)

We have had crazy springtime weather here in Wisconsin. We've had everything from fantastic warm sunny days to dreary cold, windy and rainy weather. Mothers Day was unfortunately full of the dreary weather stuff. We did however have a very nice day visiting with relatives and celebrating my mother's birthday earlier in the day. We were home for dinner and feasted on prime rib, I think Kate ate half of it, well maybe not quite, but she did eat well :) The best part of the day was just being able to revell in the memory of how I became a Mother. Each of our 3 kids are so special in so many ways. Motherhood, even with all its trials, is still such a blessing...I wouldn't trade it for the world :>

Yesterday, I brought Kate to Children's for scheduled labwork and her Pentamidine breathing treatment. It was the first time since receiving her port that she had blood drawn from her arm. She was a trooper and held still even while the phlebotomist dug around to find her vein--Yikes! Her ANC was fantastic at 3840 and Hgb was 11.0. Funny that her platelets were down to 278 for the first time, she's usually in the 500's.

After labs, we headed up to the clinic for Kate's breathing treatment. She cried and fussed when we first started. She hates the taste of it and always asks to stop so she can have a drink, but that just makes it take longer than the usual 20 minutes. Now we give her a sour apple Jolly Rancher to help fight off the strong taste. It's getting a little better, she'll only have 2 more of these every 4 weeks then she'll be done!

We ended up at Mayfair Mall for a leisurely lunch afterwards. We took so long that we ended up having to play hookey the rest of the day and shopping--Shucks!!! Kate had fun at the Libby Lu where they know her well and like to spoil her. We also made a stop at the Build a Bear and picked up a cute Hawaiian hula skirt outfit for her Aimee bear. We had loads of fun with our "Girly day." We got home in time to meet the boys when they got off the bus. Kate was tired but made it to ballet class and enjoyed herself.

Tonite, was the Kindergarten and 1st grade Music concert at the school. Kate and Sam were both in it and it was great to watch them! Ms. Andrea, Kate's Gymnastics coach surprised us by coming to watch also. Ms. Andrea is a cancer survivor herself and is always such a great support and cheerleader. It was a great nite!

Tomorrow, Thursday, May 15th is a very special day for us since our little princess Kate will turn 6 years old! Kate is having her birthday party with 24 kids right after school. I didn't want to tackle that many kids at our home so I'm copping out for a McDonald's Playland party. Kate's looking forward to seeing all her friends there. We will post pictures of her party soon :) It's been quite a ride these past few months but I have to smile to know we are getting closer to being finished...The nice thing is that Kate is still the same sweet, friendly, and outgoing child she always was through all of this. It's great how she can go through so much and do it so well. I am so proud of her!

Thanks again to all of you for your many prayers on Kate's and our behalf and a great big "Thanks" to Shelly and Karen for meals this past week. We are so thankful for all our supportive family and friends!

We'll post again soon, hopefully with birthday pictures, too :> Be sure to wish Kate a Happy 6th Birthday in her guestbook, she'd love to her from all of you!

Love, The Olsens

Tuesday, May 6, 2003 9:12 PM CDT

Hello All,

Sorry its been awhile since our last update but as they say...no news is good news! Last week proved to be a great week for Kate. She went to school all day every day since we had a free week (appointment-free, lab-free, and chemo-free :>) Kate had a chance to be a regular kid and played outside when it was warm and had absolutely no signs of any colds or illnesses--What a praise!

Kate was in school again on Monday but today we were at clinic all day. We started in the morning with labs which showed an ANC of 2795 and Hgb of 10.5! She had her exam and was given the go-ahead for her Actinomycin dose along with her increased dosing of Vincristine. She also received 2 hours IV fluid pre-hydration, IV doses of Zofran, Hydroxizine, and Dexamethasone, and then another hour of IV fluids after the Actinomycin and Vincristine doses were given, all to help with the severe side effects of nausea and vomiting caused by actinomycin.

Throughout the long day, Kate was happy to see and spend time with Tricia, the playroom arts and crafts volunteer. Just a little bit later, Stephanie, the Child Life Specialist was there, and brought along a large bag full of stuffed animals donated by GE. Kate adopted a sweet little pink ballerina bear :> Kate had so much fun, she absolutely loves to do arts and crafts and really adores these 2 marvelous women, what a bonus!

Mom was also glad to catch up with some of the other super kids (Colin and Patrick--great to see you guys doing sooo well!) and to chat with some of the moms (esp Jan!) It's so uplifting to hear such great news when the kids are doing so well, we really feed off of that! Overall, it was a great day at the clinic and Kate and I were finally able to head out by 3pm.

After clinic, we met with Carolyn, the lady who makes hats for The Grace Foundation, a non-profit organization that supplies hats to kids and adults with hair loss. Kate picked out a cute baby pink fleece hat. Carolyn is also helping us by making a hat to match Kate's Ballet outfit for her recital in June. Its so wonderful that there are people who volunteer their time and energy to make others feel (and look) so much better!

We made it to Kate's ballet class just a little late, and she jumped right in. She just loves to dance and really enjoys being with Ms. Kelly and all the other little dancers :> Only one month left before Recital!

This evening, Kate was tired early and was complaining of jaw and leg pains (side effects of vincristine) and a little bit of upset tummy (side effect of actinomycin.) She went to bed early after a dose of codeine for pain and Hydroxizine for the nausea. She won't have classes tomorrow since her teacher will be busy with kindergarten orientation for the kids starting in the fall. Great timing, really, since I'll be able to keep a close eye on Kate this first 24-48 hours after actinomycin. It's usually when she has the most problems with upset stomache. I do have my full arsenal of Zofran and hydroxizine tablets at the ready!

The house is so quiet since everyone has had such a busy day. Sam was at his friend Nick's house this evening. Mary, thanks for having him over, he still hasn't stopped talking about how much fun he had! Jonathan had his friend, Brady, over to play and to practice magic tricks they intend to do for the talent show(!) For those of you who don't know Jonathan very well, this is quite a stretch for him! He doesn't much like to have any attention drawn to him and is pretty shy about being in front of people. The tryouts are tomorrow!

We are so thankful that Kate has been happy and healthy the past 3 weeks since her last inpatient admission. Kate even mentioned the other day that it has been a long time since she has been in the hospital--We pray it stays that way! Kate will turn 6 next Thursday and is having a party with her classmates and friends right after school. Please pray that she will stay healthy to enjoy her birthday celebrations next week.

A huge thanks to Tracy, Michelle, Cindi, Suzanne, and Karen for meals for our family the past week and a half. Also to my mom and dad for the ham, and for my cool bro Tony and his fiancee Cherie for lunch on Saturday. Also an incredible thank you to my former coworkers from St. Mary's (Traci, Kathy, Rose, and Jenny) for frozen meals for us to use when we need it. We have been so blessed to have you all praying and supporting us in so many ways, we can never thank you all enough...

With Praise and Gratitude for Good Health and Great friends and family, The Olsens :>

Sunday, April 27, 2003 10:29 PM CDT

Hi All,

We hope this update finds you all doing well. It was Spring Break for the kids this week but we didn't go out of town because of Kate's unpredictable health. It turned out to be a fantastic week with Kate staying well--praise God!

We stayed home and indoors for Monday and Tuesday to prevent problems of Kate getting any illnesses and Robert cranked out 11 hours at work every day for 3 days just in case we would have to go in. By Wednesday with no signs of getting sick or worsening cold, we finally ventured out. We went with Kathey and her girls to Lake Nagawicka where we went for a walk by the lake. The kids tried their hand at skipping rocks (actually more like throwing rocks!) It was such a beautiful day to walk the boardwalk path alongside the lake with the blue skies and water and slightly crisp air. Afterwards, we went to Fort Cushing playground and let the kids run around some more :> After dinner was the kids swim classes and I let Kate go. She had a lot of fun, it sure is nice to see her back into the swing of things!

On Friday, Kate had an appointment for labs and exam at the clinic. Her labs were great with an ANC of 2150 (Yahoo!) and her Hgb up at 8.8, all other labs were good as well :> For Dinner, we got together with Kathey, Dantar, and their kids and headed to Serb Hall for fish. We've always heard about it but have never been there. Overall, the food was pretty good and we had a really nice time with friends. Its nice since our kids like being with their kids so they have a good time, too :>

Saturday was an incredibly nice day. Kate and I dressed up to go to a Tea Party at Fox River Christian Church, the church where my brother Art and his wife Hope are active members. It was great to hear the speaker talk about all the troubles in her life which included pediatric cancer for her child and later a battle with cancer herself. She was a very confident, warm, engaging, and open person. At one point she even removed her wig to show off her head and donned a hat--Kate stared with interest at that point :> Most importantly, she shared how she has been held up by her faith. I can't even begin to imagine how we could battle anything such as cancer alone without any faith or hope for the future.

The rest of the day was beautiful as well and we spent all afternoon outside. Robert and I even played kickball in our front yard with all the kids which included several neighborhood kids. It was great fun and I'm hoping we burned off quite a few calories. Problem is, I'm not as young as I used to be so I'm feeling quite a few aches and pains today!

Today was another gorgeous day with plenty of warm sunshine and blue skies. After church we were doing our typical weekend cleaning and laundry (that we've neglected until today) when we got a call that Robert's Uncle Bob was coming for a visit. It was very nice to catch up with Uncle Bob. The kids even enjoyed his visit since he's got such a nice way of making each child feel special. Thanks Uncle Bob!

We spent a little more time soaking in the great weather outside with the kids, then Robert grilled up some tasty BBQ chicken for dinner--YUM! After dinner, the kids were busy working with Dad on their science projects while I continued on with the piles and piles of laundry, yippee...

We had such a great week and Kate stayed amazingly healthy and no longer has a cough! Thanks so much for your continued prayers and support. An especially huge Thanks to the Indian Princess organization for presenting our family with the proceeds from local YMCA events, we are so incredibly blessed by the kindness and thoughtfulness! Thanks also to Holly and Rick for the delicious dinner Thursday nite :>

We Thank God that we are surrounded by such a warm and caring community of friends and family in a time such as this. I am happy to report that Kate will have a week off with no scheduled chemo or labwork this week. She will have her next chemo treatment the following Tuesday May 6 to get back on her usual Clinic day. We are looking forward to a normal week free of scheduled appointments and treatments--Yeay! I will update again next weekend barring illnesses. Kate is really looking forward to being in school Monday, first time in about 3 weeks!

Thanks again to all of you for your prayers. Thanks also to all of you who sign Kate's guestbook, it is so encouraging for us to read those messages! We all pray you have a nice week!

With much love and gratitude, The Olsens

Monday, April 21, 2003 3:57 PM CDT

Hi all!

Friday proved to be a great day of Chemo. They have now instituted several new policies in the clinic: they now place ID wristbands for all the kids in clinic, all meds are checked by the nurse to the wrist band prior to being given, and now the NP discusses all lab results with the parents before any lab dependant chemo is given. It is very nice to see they have taken great strides to prevent future mistakes. Kate tolerated her Vincristine dose well. Kate and I had time to eat lunch before picking up Jonathan and Sam from Sibling Day. The boys had lots of fun, spoiled to death really, and got a lot of things that Kate was jealous about. It was also great to run into some parents and kids I've gotten to know in clinic and the HOT Unit. The Boys are already asking about Sibling Day for next year...YIKES!

Friday labs were great with an ANC of 2215 and Hgb of 8.9! We decided earlier that if her ANC was great, we'd be able to go to a Fish Fry. It was fun to eat out and then afterwards, we went to Good Friday Service. A very solemn way to end the day, reflecting on Christ's sacrifices for our sake.

On Easter Sunday we were able to go to church but already Kate was feeling a little 'off' with complaints of arm and hand pains and then later a little nausea. She was also feeling worn and tired. Temps were also on the rise. We did make it thru all of Service which was our first blessing of the day. We made it to my brother Art's for Easter lunch for a second blessing. It was great to visit with Art, his wife Hope, and son Jay--not to mention Hope being a fabulous cook :> We all had a fantastic feast and great conversation reflecting on the Risen Christ.

By 3:30, Kate's temp was 101.8 and we were off to Children's ER. After 2 1/2 hours, we were shocked, but pleased, to hear that Kate's ANC was at 4401! This week is typically the week when Kate has had her past admissions, about 1 1/2 to 2 weeks post Actino dosing. We are not sure how else Kate will be affected by the 'too soon' dosing of Actino. Anyway, we were able to get home for a late dinner. Later we had a visit from my brother Tony and his Fiancee Cherie who came bearing treats for the kids.

We have had so many blessings and are so thankful that we were granted more time at home for now...every day helps especially with the kids home on spring break. It would be a real problem otherwise to find someone to watch the kids while Robert is at work if I was staying with Kate inpatient.

Today, Kate seems to be feeling better. She's got a bit of a runny nose and cough but is otherwise eating and drinking well with minimal coaxing. Low grade temps to 99 today but no fever! Our next scheduled appointment is Friday, please pray we will make it through the week without any admissions and that Kate would feel relatively well despite the cold symptoms.

We pray you have all had a Wonderful Easter in recognition of Him
Who gave us a way to New Life!--The Olsens

Thursday, April 17, 2003 8:27 PM CDT

Hi All!

Sorry to be delayed in saying we made it home yesterday. I guess I was just savoring the day at home :> Kate's ANC was 378 yesterday, Hgb at 8.3, and no fevers! We made it back home for a late lunch.

Today we layed low, colored, played, and watched a Mary-Kate and Ashley video. It didn't make sense to send her to school today and take a chance at getting sick again esp since today is the last day of school before spring break. This just gives her a little more time to recuperate and hopefully get stronger. It would be nice if Kate is able to stay healthy for Easter.

Friday morning, Kate has to be at the Onc clinic for lab work and Chemo (Vincristine.) Kate's brothers Jonathan and Sam are coming along since they will be taking part in Sibling Day--a special fun day set up just for brothers and sisters of those with cancer. It should be a lot of fun for them :> They both have had to give up a lot of their free time after school to visit us at the Hospital, and they have also served as shuttle for paperwork and info from school for Kate. It's great that they could have a day just for them :>

Thank you for your continued prayers and support for Kate and our family. Thanks to Missy, Jennie, and Marcy for dinners this week. Thanks also to our neighbors Al and Marcia for having the boys over for breakfast Wednesday so that Robert could get to work early to make up lost time. It's so wonderful that you have all helped us in this way, we so appreciate each and every one of you!

Please pray that Kate continues to do well at home with no fevers and that Kate would have good blood counts tomorrow. Please also continue to pray for all children who are sick and suffering. We all hope you have a Blessed Easter in remembrance of the Risen Christ!

With Love, The Olsens

Tuesday, April 15, 2003 10:33 PM CDT

Hello all,

We are still currently inpatient at Childrens. Kate's ANC was at a low of 126 on Sunday, then slightly better at 152 on Monday. Unfortunately, today the ANC is back down to 126 so we weren't able to go home. Kate's Hgb was 8.5 on admission and is drifting down again and is currently at 8.1. Hopefully her blood counts will improve in the next few days.

Last night in her sleep, Kate had an occassional strong coughing spasm. Today the coughing continues and seems to be more frequent. The Dr mentioned possibly getting a repeat CXR if the coughs continue. Temps have been much improved, Temp max was 99.6 today. Hopefully that won't get worse with her coughing.

Overall, Kate is feeling much better and back to being the energizer bunny. Yesterday and Today, they capped off her IV for a few hours in the afternoon so she has been able to go outside and experience the unusually warm weather we've been having, up to the 80s! My friend June stopped in to visit and we had fun being able to enjoy the outdoors with her yesterday. Today we went outside and sat out on a grassy patch for just a short time. We had to head back in because it got just a little too stuffy out.

Kate was a bit dissappointed that she was missing her class field trip today to the Milwaukee Museum and the butterfly exhibit. Thankfully, her teacher Miss Lukesh promised to take lots of pictures so she wouldn't feel like she was missing too much.

We made a lot of projects today. We colored and decorated some heart pins and colored some wooden bunny and baby chick forms. We even made and decorated a very silly body tracing of Kate that is now in the glass walkway to the HOT unit! It was really fun doing artsy stuff with Kate today.

There was some other consolation to not being discharged earlier today. Today was Pampering Nite! Kate and I both received manicures and massages! What a great time! Apparently these ladies from the Institute of Beauty and Wellness here in Milwaukee have been coming to the HOT unit once a month to spoil the patients, parents, and staff. We even had some tasty treats! Kate handed out the pins we had made earlier as a token of Thanks to all the Ladies that came to pamper us.

Kate had such a busy day that she didn't complain about getting washed up earlier than usual. She's been sleeping since 8:30. She looks so sweet and peaceful in her sleep. I am so thankful that she is doing well overall.

Thanks again for all your continued prayers. Please pray for Kate's blood counts to improve, for no fevers, and for her to quickly get over this current cold. Please please also pray for all other children and their families here on the HOT unit and elsewhere who are suffering and dealing with life-threatening illnesses. There are just too many children and parents here going thru so much...

Love, PEACE, and Blessings to you all!--Grace and Katey

Sunday, April 13, 2003 2:20 PM CDT

Hi All,
Sorry to say we didn't make it through the weekend before being admitted :( Saturday morning we were able to get Kate's ballet class recital pictures taken. We were also able to watch Jonathan in his first ever swim meet against other 3rd-4th grade boys throughout Waukesha. He did very well and we are sooo proud of him. He even took second in his heat for the breaststroke! We were home before 2pm and Kate was starting to feel run down already. Temps were 99.4-100s, then all of a sudden shot up to 102.5 at 6:30pm, so off we were to Childrens Hospital again.

Kate's CXR showed wetness in her lungs (hmmm possibly from the excess fluids she received on Friday.) Her blood counts weren't even back yet when the Onc Dr went ahead and admitted her. They started IV fluids and Cefepime Abx after pretreating with benedryl. Shortly after, we got results back that her ANC was down to 180. Her ANC Friday was only 301 when she was mistakenly given her actinomycin dose. Kids are admitted with ANCs below 500 with temps greater than 101.5. Just like the NP warned us Friday eve, when they discovered the mistake, Kate was really going to bottom out her ANC fairly quickly and end up admitted with fevers.

This morning, Kate's ANC is down again to 126. Two good things, however, her temps are better and her Hgb is improved at 8.7! Bad news is she woke up with vomiting/dry heaves and a severe rash! The Drs decided that giving benedryl before IV Cefepime Abx was no longer a workable option for her since this time she still came down with a rash. Now Kate is on IV Clindamycin and IV Tobramycin :( Hopefully she'll handle this with minimal side effects.

She has had little appetite today and spent most of the morning and early afternoon sleeping. Probably due to the zofran and zyrtec medicines they had given earlier for the nausea and rash. Hopefully, she'll wake up feeling better.

This afternoon is the Indian Princess Pine wood derby races and Kate's brother Sam has volunteered to race Kate's car for her (sweet boy to do this amidst all the girls!) Dad and the boys will be by later this afternoon to visit.

Please pray that Kate's rashes and nausea would resolve and that her ANC (infection fighting capacity) would start to improve against odds. We are so thankful for all the prayers on Kate's and our behalf. We know Jesus to be in charge of Kate. We also know that He is the one holding us up to have the energy (and patience)to continue on. We will update again soon.

PEACE and God's Blessings to you all, Grace and Kate

Friday, April 11, 2003 11:34 PM CDT

Hi All,

Just updating on how Kate has been the past few days. I did keep Kate home on Tuesday but I let her go to ballet class in the afternoon. On Wednesday and Thursday she was able to go to school :> Thursday nite we all enjoyed watching Jonathan and the rest of the boys from Boys club launch the rockets they had made. Kate really enjoyed watching the rockets shoot way up high!

This morning, Kate and I were at clinic by 9:30 for her Actinomycin and Vincristine chemo infusions. They accessed her port, drew her labwork, and started her IV fluids. Kate receives 2 hours of IV fluids before and 1 hour after Actino dosing at a rate of 200cc/hr for a total of 600cc of IV fluids. We brought lunch with us since it would be a long day. Aunt Chris, thanx for the snowball (siopao)sandwiches, Kate loved them!

Shortly after lunch, Kate was given her IV doses of Zofran, Vistaril, and steroids all to help with the nausea Kate gets with Actino. A side effect of the nausea medicine is sleepiness and Kate was taking a nap shortly after, I decided to do the same since there was too much waiting left to do.

They say there was a problem with Pharmacy getting Kate's chemo and it didn't come for a very long time. By the time it arrived and was given, it was discovered that Kate had received a 1,000 cc bag of IV fluids (5 hours of prehydration) instead of the 600cc ordered. Fluid overload was a definite concern with a child Kate's size, with that volume of fluid in 5 hours, and with only one kidney to handle it all! Both the nurse and the Nurse Practitioner listened to her lungs to make sure they weren't wet and fluid filled. Thankfully she handled it okay. I finally received a copy of the lab work that I like to keep for my records. The Nurse Practitioner (NP) said that her ANC (Absolute Neutrophil Count)was just fine so I didn't pay much attention to it, but did notice that the Hgb was a little better at 8.2 (up from 7.9 Monday.) Kate was given a gift certificate for the gift shop for all the waiting and problems we encountered today. Kate picked out a little "Get well soon" bear on our way out, it was just after 4pm.

We heard it was a beautiful day today, in the 60's. By the time we got home there was a cool wind but we opted to spend a little time outside to enjoy the sunshine and blue skies. Unka Eggs and Auntie Banana had picked up some Chinese food for us the other nite so we had extra time to relax and not worry about dinner. Thanks, we all enjoyed it very much!

At around 7 pm, we received a phone call from the Nurse Practitioner. She told us there was another mistake! She was looking at the wrong numbers earlier when she gave the OK to have Kate receive Actino. Unfortunately Kate's ANC was only 301 and DID NOT meet the minimum criteria of an ANC of 1,000 prior to receiving Actino! This means that Kate is now in a high likelihood of getting a fever and landing back in the hospital! We were told to watch her carefully for fevers. With Kate's ANC being so low to begin and now pressed further by her Actino dose today, in all likelihood, she will have a very quick and severe drop of her ANC (infection fighting capacity.)

We are now scheduled to have labs rechecked in clinic again Monday morning. Dr. Warwick will then be discussing what we will need to do next to fix this problem. They are talking about the possibility of Kate needing G-CSF (this is growth stimulating factor for Neutrophils)and is given as a shot once a day until her ANC is better, usually a week or more. Poor Kate, she has been such a trooper and now she may need shots that shouldn't have been needed!

Saturday morning is when Kate's ballet class is scheduled to have their group picture taken for the dance recital. Saturday morning is also Kate's big brother Jonathan's first Swim Meet. Sunday is the day of the Pine wood derby race for Indian Princesses. Kate and her dad have been working hard on their car. We are praying that Kate makes it through the weekend without getting sick. She missed so much last weekend while in the hospital. She missed the school's Spring Carnival on Friday, Karlie's Birthday Party, and an Indian Princess get together.

Please pray that Kate's bone marrow continues to work well (instead) to produce the white and red blood cells she desperately needs right now. She would be so dissappointed to miss out on this weekend if she gets sick again. I am hoping that the warmer weather will help, there are just way too many bugs and viruses out there this season...

Thanks to all of you who stop in to check on Kate and leave encouraging messages. Thanks also to Julie, Lisa, and Gramma and Grampa for providing such wonderful meals for our family this week. Thank you all for your kindness and prayers on Kate's and our behalf. You have all been a blessing to us on this somewhat bumpy journey.

God's Blessing and PEACE to you all--The Olsens

Monday, April 7, 2003 10:24 PM CDT

Hi All,

WE ARE HOME! We were in for 4 days for this admission with low ANC, low Hgb, and fevers. Essentially, Kate hasn't had temps greater than 101.0 since Sat. but continues to have low grade temps to 100.8. ANC continued to drop until Sunday when it came up just a little to 190. Today'S ANC was 441! Hgb was 8.0 on admission Thursday and continued to trend down to 7.8(!) over the weekend. Today it was up a hair to 7.9. Generally they transfuse if Hgb is 8.0 or less but they kept stating how good she looked and recommended that we hold off on transfusions unless she gets symptomatic.

I mentioned how Kate had a pretty nasty rash to her arms, legs and face (with swelling) that we noticed Friday AM. It turns out she was reacting to the Cefepime Antibiotic she was receiving IV. The Drs decided to try giving benedryl to suppress the allergic reaction prior to each dose of IV Cefepime. They wanted to keep her on Cefepime because of the broadrange spectrum of bacteria it can handle without going to a stronger more potent antibiotic that potentially has strong side effects. The benedryl did the trick and her rash had pretty much resolved by the weekend. She did however spend a good amount of time napping the first day. She seemed to tolerate the sleep inducing effect of benedryl better by the weekend.

The Drs were going to let us go home Sunday late afternoon stating that "she looked good" however her low grade temps were still there, her ANC hadn't gone up by much (175 to 190) and her Hgb, they called stable at 7.8. None of the factors were really any good so they let us stay another nite to see what labwork would show this morning. I felt better with the improved ANC and at least the Hgb was no longer on a downward trend today.

Kate did well the whole time, as low as her Hgb was, you'd think she would be pretty sluggish, NOT Kate, tho. I figure she must be the Energizer Bunny and I just haven't found her spare battery pack yet!

Well, It sure was a messy drive to get home after our area received anywhere from 2-5 inches. It came down pretty steady most of the day and we ended up with about 4.5 inches her in Waukesha. This is supposed to be APRIL!!!

We have been blessed once again to have made it through another admission, everything went fairly okay and we had a shorter stay. Thanks to Tom and Chris for the tasty Chili and to Barb and family for the delicious BBQ! We sure kept the microwave busy! Thanks also for your continued prayers and messages. It is so uplifting to know so many are praying!

It's great to be home and be able to sleep in our own beds tonite. I will keep Kate home from school for one more day of rest. Hopefully, her blood counts will be even better before she tries to tackle school and all the various bugs and viruses out there. She really does have a lot of energy but I don't want to rush things since a temp of 101.3 may land us right back in the hospital. Today she still had temps to 100.6. If her temps are gone by Wednesday, we might try school, its a wait and see thing. I feel bad for Kate cuz she LOVES Kindergarten a lot and really misses it.

Kate's next Chemo treatment for Actinomycin and Vincristine has been rescheduled for Friday. The Drs were pretty confident that Kate wouldn't reach the prerequisite ANC of 1,000 to receive Actino by tomorrow's originally scheduled visit. It's probably best for her to recuperate a little more anyway.

Please continue to pray for Kate's blood counts to improve and fevers to resolve so she can continue her chemo regimen by Friday. Please also continue to pray for all others who are sick and suffering...I am so Thankful that the end of the Iraqi War seems to be in sight. I pray it is all over soon with positive outcomes. We will update again at the end of the week.

God's many blessings to you all!--Grace

Friday, April 4, 2003 8:54 AM CST

Good Morning All,

I'm sooo not used to morning updates but since I've been awake for the past few hours I might as well get updating. Kate was feeling a little off Thursday, a little whiney for no apparent reason, when she woke up in the morning. She did go to school but by 9:30 we had received a call from the Health room that Kate wasn't feeling well, so I picked her up. She complained of a little upset tummy. She gets that a lot when she's constipated because of her Vincristine chemo doses so I didn't really think anything of it. She stayed home the rest of the morning and headed back to school after lunch. Her energy level was a little low but I also knew that her Hgb/Hct counts have been low so her lack of energy wasn't so surprising.

After school, Kate took a little nap and when she woke up, she had a fever of 102.2! The nurse from the oncology clinic told us to come in to the ER for blood cultures and repeat blood counts and warned us that Kate may have to be admitted. With her ANC(Absolute Neutrophil Count/ the body's ability to fight off infections) at a hefty 1406 from Tuesday's clinic visit, I didn't think there would be any problem. Unfortunately, at Children's ER her ANC had dropped to 320--an ANC below 500 with temps over 101.5 is grounds for admission.

So, here we are again for at least a two day stay on the H.O.T. Unit at Childrens Hospital. Kate will be here for IV fluids and IV antibiotics, and to wait for blood culture results, for improved blood counts and for fevers to stay away.

It has been exactly one month since her last admission. Today's ANC is down again to 220. Her Hgb/Hct is now down to 8.0/23.5. This is her lowest yet, hopefully they'll decide against a blood transfusion for now.

Kate started off chipper this morning and ate a good breakfast, now she's complaining of itching and has what looks like the beginnings of a rash. She is allergic to bactrim and she is currently receiving Cefepime. I hope she's not allergic to that one now, too.

Please pray that Kate's ANC and Hgb/Hct counts start to climb, that her temps would stay down, and that her itching would be resolved. She already wants to go home!

A great big THANKS! to Leigh for dinner and to Dell for the early delivery yesterday. As always, God's timing is perfect! We were able to heat up the dinner and quickly eat before we headed out to Children's ER by 5pm. We would not have had a chance to eat dinner otherwise!

We'll just have to wait and see what the day holds for Kate. We will try to update again soon! God's Blessings to you all!--Grace and Kate

Wednesday, April 2, 2003 11:12 PM CST

Hello Everyone!

We have had a nice uneventful past few days since our last update, Thank goodness! Last Friday, Summit View Elementary School had Crazy Hair Day but Kate's Kindergarten class decided to have Crazy Hat Day instead :> Kate enjoyed having her classmates don on their own hats to make her feel more comfortable. Her classmates have been so fantastic to her and really help her to just have fun and be normal again...she really feels good at school! I actually ended up going to work that day, I'm really starting to feel more confident that she won't get sick and need me to take her home. Ms. Lukesh, Kate's teacher, took some pix of Crazy Hat Day, I'm hoping to borrow some of the photos to post soon :>

We had our clinic appointment Tuesday morning. I think it was the quickest yet--just over 1 hour in clinic, WOW, I wish it was like that all the time! Today was just a normal day with check ups, labwork, and a dose of Vincristine. Her labs showed platelet count 595, ANC 1406, and Hgb/Hct still very low at 8.2/23.6. Overall, labs were pretty good considering it was just 2 weeks ago that she had her Actinomycin dose. We've learned that the actino makes the most impact on her ability to fight infections (ANC) about 1 1/2 to 2 weeks out. Since that last dose 2 weeks ago, Kate has had no fever nor a severe reduction in her ANC, which they like to keep above 500. We are so blessed that her body seems to be adjusting well to her chemo regimen. She has had little to no pain from her Vincristine doses either, and is currently not displaying any of the neuromuscular dysfunctions that they sometimes see occuring. Except for a lingering occassional cough and some congestion, Kate has been relatively heathy the past week!

Kate has been able to attend school everyday except for Tuesday morning when we were at clinic. She also attended her ballet class Tuesday afternoon, and tonite she joined her swim class. It is so wonderful seeing her get back to her usual routines. It really helps her to get her strength back to go to her ballet and swim classes.

Our next clinic appointment is set for next Tuesday AM for a long day--it will be for her two chemo doses, the Vincristine and also the Actinomycin again. We will again be in for pre and post IV hydration with multiple IV meds to help ward off the nausea so prevalent with Actino dosing. We are praying that things go as smoothly as last time.

Thank you to Sara for the wonderful eggrolls, what a great(!) treat, and to Tracy for yummy stuffed shells! We are so greatful everytime we think of how blessed we are to have such a caring community supporting us. Thank you also all for all your prayers and messages in our guestbook, its so fun to be able to hear from all of you!

Please continue to pray for Kate's continued 'health' and for all other children suffering with illnesses and disease. Also please continue to pray for the safety of our troops and pray for the families that have lost loved ones...Wars are so horrific, lets all pray for a quick and just end to this one...

With God's Love and Peace thru Him, The Olsens

Thursday, March 27, 2003 11:44 PM CST

Hello all,

Just wanted to update on the past few days. Kate had her clinic appt set for Tuesday morning. As we were getting ready, we discovered that Sam wasn't even up yet and had a fever to boot! Dad had to come home from work so we could get going to the clinic. Thank goodness Gramma and Grampa were able to come over to be with Sam so that Dad could head back to work. We arrived at the clinic just a little late. Edie the volunteer was in the playroom so Kate settled in to do some art projects while waiting for the day's treatment and bloodwork. I was talking to Jan, one of the Moms at clinic that day, when Margaret the Nurse Practitioner came over to discuss last Thursday's ultrasound results. She had already told me that the ultrasound was fine on Thursday so it was a wonder why she still wanted to discuss it. She then told me that the radiologist had some concerns about the area where Kate's right kidney had been removed. Kate would need a catscan so they could get a better look. She also told me not to worry but couldn't tell me more about what they were seeing, why they were concerned, or what it could possibly be. Better to wait and talk about it after the catscan she said. The catscan was already scheduled for 10:30 and Kate needed to drink the Koolaid and contrast fairly quickly. I didn't know what to think, I felt the blood run out of my body and I felt as scared and numb as when they first told me about Kate...

We got our room right after and the Nurse Practitioner and her intern came in for Kate's checkup. Kate was a trooper and drank her 'juice' with only a little coaxing. We were downstairs for the catscan by 10:30 only to find out we had another 30 minute wait. We went back up to the clinic to wait by Edie in the playroom. Kate ended up getting her port accessed, labs drawn, and Vincristine given while we were upstairs. Then we went back downstairs for the catscan. Kate was very good about lying perfectly still on the catscan table while all the pictures were taken, I was pretty proud of her. It was very hard being down there and getting flashbacks of when Kate had her very first catscan.

We were back upstairs shortly after noon. The only thing left to do was to wait for the scan results. Latoya the Social Worker came by to 'chat' and helped us pass the time and helped me to get my mind off of worrying. Just before 1pm Margaret finally came to talk to us. She said that this time the radiologist found NOTHING of concern! That was definitely the best news! She mentioned that they were concerned that the ultrasound was showing inflammed lymph nodes that could signal a problem. We left the clinic fairly quickly, I didn't want them to change their mind. The next appt won't be til next Tuesday. Thank you God, for the great results, now I can breathe again!

It was much too late for Kate to make it back to school for the afternoon, so we headed out to Mayfair Mall instead. We had lunch, and stopped in at Build a Bear and Kate picked up a little outfit for her bear friend Aimee Lyn--she earned it today. We got home and thanked Gramma and Grampa for keeping an eye on Sam who was feeling a lot better and no longer had a fever! Kate had just enough energy after a little rest so we headed off to her ballet class for the first time in 6 weeks! She did well overall and it was nice to catch up with the other Moms.

Wednesday, Kate was feeling well and went to school all day except for a lunchtime break at home. After school, she was able to stop by and play with her classmate Mario. Kate even made it to swim class and then we got to see Monica (Kate's cousin) who was in town for business from Virginia :>

Today, Kate still felt well and attended school all day and even stayed for lunch! She had just a little leg pain this afternoon that we gave her tylenol for. She did well the rest of the evening.

We are so greatful that the catscan turned out normal, and that Gramma and Grampa were able to watch Sam, that Sam is feeling better, and that Kate essentially has had minimal pain from this last chemo treatment. A great big thanks to Kelli for the lasagna dinner and Gramma and Grampa for the shrimp dish, They were delicious! Thanks also for your continued prayers, support, and wonderful messages in the guestbook, it means so much to us!

Please continue to pray for our troops and our leaders in this war, pray for a quick and just resolution. Please also continue to pray for Kate and all other children who suffer illnesses and disease, there are just way too many...

God's Loving Peace and Mercy to all, The Olsens

Sunday, March 23, 2003 10:55 PM CST

Hello everyone!

Sorry its taken me so long to update. Thursday, Kate still had a lingering cough but the fevers were finally gone so we were able to keep our clinic appt. It was a very busy day and everything went like clockwork. We arrived at 9am and soon after, Kate had her height, weight, blood pressure, heart rate, and temperature check, then immediately after, they accessed her medport and drew labwork to check her blood counts, liver functions, kidney functions, and electrolytes. Her labs showed hemoglobin/hematocrit still low at 8.8/26.1, platelets good at 475, ANC good at 3363, BUN sl high at 15, and Creat sl high at 0.6. All other results were okay, including a Urine test we sent later :>

After labs were drawn, we were off to ultrasound. A short 10min wait later, we had Kate's first repeat abdominal ultrasound. The tests came back normal, no new problem areas, YEAY! As a point of interest only, the tech noted that since Kate's left kidney now works twice as hard, it has become enlarged and it is now apparent that her left kidney is actually a twin kidney(!)She further explained that this is a fairly common condition that people are normally never aware of but since we were checking and the kidney was working harder and now enlarged, that it was obvious where the essentially siamese twin kidney joins together. Apparently this neither causes a problem or improves anything, it just is there. Interesting...

We got back to the clinic and I quickly fed Kate breakfast since she wasn't allowed to eat or drink anything until after the ultrasound. She was voracious! No sooner had she finished eating when we got our room. The nurse hooked up Kate's IV hydration to run over 2 hours. Margaret the NP then came in to do Kate's check up. Within minutes of Margaret leaving, the respiratory therapist was there to administer Kate's first Pentamidine breathing treatment to prevent a severe respiratory infection that immunosuppressed patients are prone to get. The breathing treatment consists of a 20 minute aerosol of nasty tasting medicine. Kate tried her best to breathe the 'yucky' stuff in and out thru a mouthpiece while pinching her nose. Since she's a swimmer, she did more holding of her breath rather than breathing while she was pinching her nose! We ended up switching her to a mask and she kind of whimpered and cried until the treatment was done. We wouldn't have needed this if Kate hadn't gotten such a severe allergic rash to the bactrim pills that are the standard antibiotic regimen. Good thing she will only need this treatment every 4 weeks. Another interesting thing is that the respiratory therapist seemed awfully familiar...it was Andy W.! We both worked at St. Marys Hospital back in the late 80s! What a small world, it was fun catching up with each other :>

We stayed in the room for the rest of her IV fluids and ate lunch (yes, Kate was hungry again!) After the 2 hours of IV fluids were finished, Kate received a steroid and IV Zofran to help with severe nausea. She then received her Actinomycin chemo and then her Vincristine chemo. They decided to run another hour of IV fluids after the chemo meds. We also worked out a medication plan for home to give continous alternating zofran and hydroxyzine for the next few days. We were hoping to avoid a return to the clinic like we've experienced the past 2 times she received actino due to several days of nausea and vomiting.

We were packed and ready to leave the clinic by 2:30pm, a very busy but smooth running day. All treatments completed and all tests and labs essentially okay! Thank you for all your prayers, we are so blessed! The only frustrating thing was that I found out that Kate's influenza culture we did on Monday was positive. The doc had stated he would call me back if it was positive so we could start tamiflu medication to help her with the flu symptoms. Problem was no one called so I assumed it was negative. Next time I'll call to check myself. Poor Kate, she had such a rough week, feeling achy and feverish, she's finally starting to feel better.

We stopped at the pharmacy to pick up some meds and then headed out to Mayfair Mall. I promised Kate earlier that if we got out early enough and if she did well with her clinic day that I would let her make a friend at the Build-a-bear that she has been begging me for. We made a Nikki's Bear which was named after a young girl who had cancer. The sale of this bear also donates money towards childhood cancer research. Kate really enjoyed making her friend who she named Aimee Lyn Olsen. There were so many clothes and accessories to get, it was hard for me to get Kate out of the store without any other major purchases. I did however have to fold and say we may pick up a few clothes and accessories every so often if she continues to have great days at the clinic.

Friday morning Kate felt a little queasy and spit up a little even after I had started her nausea med regimen almost 2 hours before. She ate a little later in the morning and then ate a pretty decent lunch and still did okay so she was finally able to go to school in the afternoon. She was so glad to finally make it back and really enjoyed being with all her classmates :>

Saturday Kate continued with her med regimen and was able to attend Miranda's Birthday party for lunch and did pretty well. A quick nap in the afternoon and she was ready to go again. Dad and Kate attended the Indian Princess Event at the YMCA. She enjoyed the swim time, fun games, and watching Monster's Inc along with her tribe and others. It was a long day...Dad and Kate returned home at 11:30pm opting not to attempt the overnight stay like the others were doing. Mom and the boys were also out. We went to Uncle Eggs house to watch Spiderman on his large HDTV and got home only a half hour before Dad and Kate. Needless to stay we were all pretty tired...

Today, Sam had a bad cough and Kate was still sound asleep so I stayed home and only Dad and Jonathan made it to 9:00 mass. Kate finally woke at 9:30 and was able to eat a little breakfast without any problems. It was such a warm and sunny day, Kate was able to play kickball, ride her bike, and swing on the swingset.

In the afternoon we headed out to Uncle Louie and Auntie Joan's to see Sarah Ann who was in town from North Carolina for a wedding. Our favorite hairdresser, she even found time to trim up Kate's HipHat hair to a manageable length. It was great to see her and to get an update on my Nephew Louis (her husband) who is a Marine currently stationed in North Carolina. These days with the Iraqi war has given me such a pit in my stomache. Please pray for a quick resolution of this war and pray for safety for our troops. Please pray also for the POWs, I can't even begin to imagine what they are going thru...

Please pray also that Kate will feel good (manageable nausea and pain) so she can go to school tomorrow. She is going to be "The Big Cheese." A label for the featured classmate of the week. She will get to be the line leader, teacher's helper, and will be interviewed by her classmates. She has been looking forward to this all school year! Also, Kate lost her very first tooth tonite and she's praying that the tooth fairy will find her :>

Kate's next clinic appt is set for Tuesday morning. It should be just a morning visit and not all day. She should feel good enough to go back to school for the afternoon. I'll try to post an update after Kate's appt.

Thank you all for your kindness, prayers, and also for all of your messages in the guestbook. We are so blessed by all of you! Please continue to pray for all other children who are suffering, there are just too many...

God's Blessings and PEACE for All Through Him, The Olsens

Tuesday, March 18, 2003 10:48 PM CST

Hello all,

Today was supposed to be Kate's clinic day but we weren't there today, we had to visit the clinic yesterday. I was called by the school nurse Monday just before noon because Kate had a fever of 102 and by the time she was at clinic she had gone to 103. Kate had her medport accessed for blood cultures and blood counts then had IV fluids for a few hours. She also had to have a chest x-ray and throat and nose cultures which she was more upset about than the the needle they placed into her skin to access her medport. So far they haven't had any positive cultures and Kate may just have a cold or flu virus. Fortunately after 4 hours at the clinic we were allowed to go home instead of being admitted since her ANC was very good at 5700. We have been rescheduled for Thursday morning for her chemo of actinomycin and vincristine, her abdominal ultrasound to check for any new problem areas, and her first pentamidine breathing treatment for preventive therapy to ward of infections. It will be an all day clinic visit.

Today was an interesting day for other reasons. Our son Sam was hobbling around yesterday eve and complaining of a sore foot after sliding into base while playing kickball at school. Dad checked his ankle and found nothing wrong, but this morning it was still hurting and he could barely walk. I found that it was the outer part of his foot that was swollen and purple so I had to keep him home from school, too. We saw the pediatrician who sent us out to Waukesha Memorial Hospital for an xray of Sam's foot. Thankfully they found no fractures and we went home to rest his foot. He was feeling much better already by this evening.

Today Kate is feeling a little better but still having temps to 101. She has a pretty nasty cough and a sore throat so she wasn't able to go to dance class this afternoon...we will have to try again next week. She won't be able to go to school or go to her swim class tomorrow either. Kate has spent her time playing computer games and drawing pictures with her new art kit (Thanks Mark!!!) Miss Lukesh her Kindergarten teacher sent home some papers and worksheets for Kate to do this evening and she really enjoyed them. She also made herself some paper puppets and put on a puppet show for mom :>

Our prayer request would be for Kate to feel better soon to get back to school and rejoin her normal after-school activities. We also request prayers that Thursday's clinic visit would go smoothly and uneventfully, that all tests would be normal, and that the treatments would cause little to no side effects. Please continue to pray for all other sick children also.

Thanks to all of you for all your kindness, support, prayers, and all the messages on the guestbook, she really enjoys hearing the messages. Thanks to Karen for dinner--YUM! A belated thanks to Jamie, Mario, Chase, along with Mark for the treats, stuffed pals, and the art kit--You guys are super classmates! Hopefully, Kate will be able to rejoin you all again on Friday :>

PEACE and God's Blessings to all, The Olsens

Sunday, March 16, 2003 11:37 PM CST

Hello all,

Kate has really had a great past few days! The weather has been fantastic, in the 60s for the past two days and this being Wisconsin and all. Kate has been able to go in the backyard and swing, romp around in the yard with her brothers and friends (even if it did bring in a lot of mud for mom to clean up), climb the trees, and ride her bike around with dad! It was great to have a taste of the warm weather to come, a truly fun weekend :>

Kate was able to attend school at least a half day or more everyday this past week. She has really enjoyed being back to school and has really adjusted well to her hair loss. She likes wearing her hats and apparently has no qualms about whiping it off whenever she feels like it, certainly not very shy about her hair loss anymore! She received her Hip Hat (hair replacement with hat) on Thursday. She has spent only a week wearing hats but she already prefers them to wearing the HipHat hair. She did wear it to church today but removed it right after church in favor of wearing just the hat.

Kate also rejoined her swim class on Wednesday! We had purchased a swim cap made of swimsuit material the day before while out at Mayfair Mall and it worked very well for her :> She's pretty rusty at the Level 2 swim class she is in, but she enjoyed it and I'd certainly give her an A for effort!

Kate spent quite a bit of time dancing around at home this week too. We are hoping she would feel comfortable enough to rejoin her ballet class this coming Tuesday afternoon. Last week, she had such a bad rash and was still a little self conscious about her hair loss that she didn't even want to attend the ballet class. Kate absolutely loves to dance, it's what she loves most...

This week she has also spent a lot of time trying to work on some of her gymnastics--she had just started Mighty Mites which is the preTEAM (beginning training for competitive gymnastics)at Salto in January when we found out about her cancer. We are hoping she can return to her level of gymnastics in the summer or fall after her medport is removed. In the meantime, she's like a little monkey, and we mostly find her upside down or jumping around! It sure is nice for us to see her trying to get back into her normal routines...

Kate felt really good this week and really didn't have much pain from the vincristine dose she received last Tuesday (Praise God!) Her rash is also gone now. She will no longer be taking antibiotic pills as an infection prevention regimen. She will however be taking a Pentamidine breathing treatment once a month to help ward off infections. She will receive her first dose on Tuesday as part of her all day clinic visit. Tuesday she will also receive both chemo drugs, actinomycin and vincristine, have multiple labs including liver function tests, prehydration with IV fluids for 3+ hours since Actinomycin causes severe nausea and vomiting, and she will also have a repeat ultrasound of her belly to make sure there are no new problem areas.

Our prayer requests would be for Kate to continue to make it to school as often as possible, for her return to ballet and swimming classes, and for a good clinic visit with minimal resulting side effects from the combination chemo infusions, an uneventful first breathing treatment of pentamidine, and for all her labs and ultrasound to be normal. Please also continue to pray for the trials of all sick children, there are sooo many...

We want to thank you all for your continued thoughts and prayers we feel lifting us. Thanks especially to Michele, Kristin, and Dell for the meals they provided our family this week, we can never thank you all enough for your kindness...Thank you also to all of you who check in on us and sign the guestbook, those messages are so precious to Kate (and ourselves also!) We will try and post another update with new pictures after Tuesday's clinic visit. Hope you all have a great week and a Happy St.Patty's Day!

With PEACE and God's blessings to you all, The Olsens

Tuesday, March 11, 2003 11:52PM CST

Hello Everyone,

Just wanted to post an update of the past few days...

Sunday, Kate was doing very well and we all went to church. She enjoyed being back at Sunday School and being with her friends :> At lunchtime, my brother Edgar "Eggs" and his wife Annabelle "Banana" stopped by with a major 'buffet' of chinese food. Kate ate well for a change, and of course the rest of us had to also, to help encourage her to eat (at least that's the story I'm sticking to!) For dessert, Eggs and Banana informed us that they would set us up with a new computer system with some spare parts they had and we only had to pick up a few items! Our old computer would then be used by the kids, COOL! Shortly after, we were all off to Best Buy to pick up some items...didn't think we would be getting a new computer anytime soon but here we go!

My MOPs mentor Judy and her husband Jon stopped by and dropped off goodies and dinner that she and my friend Chris had prepared. (Boy we sure ate well today!) Judy also was sweet to give Kate a matching hat and purse. She paraded around the house like Miss America while carrying some flowers :> We all had a Super Sunday!

Monday Kate was preparing to go to school when she complained of itching. I looked and noticed that she had a fine red rash throughout her body! She didn't complain and I hadn't noticed anything the night before. A call to the clinic concluded that this was probably a reaction to her bactrim antibiotic. I gave her some triaminic since we didn't have any benedryl. Kate went on to school and I went on to my morning MOPs (Mothers of Preschoolers) meeting.

Later as I was preparing to have lunch with my MOPs friends I received a call from the school nurse. Nothing wrong she said...just that Kate wanted to come home for lunch. I couldn't get anything out of Kate as far as what was bothering her...it was the first time she had seen her classmates in about 3 weeks and she had to wear a hat due to severe hair loss, I was pretty sure that was what was bothering her...I picked Kate up and the minute we got in the van she complained how ITCHY she was feeling and how embarrased and afraid she was that she might have chicken pox! Poor girl was afraid to tell and suffered silently until she couldn't do it anymore...I had to remind her again that the clinic felt the rash was because of the medicine she had taken. We stopped to pick up some benedryl and itch cream. When we got home, I noticed how beefy red her rash was, extending from her ears,cheeks, and neck all the way down to her feet and including her arms and hands! A call to the clinic reinforced we were doing the right thing. It is sooo hard to see her so uncomfortable, what a blessing when she finally did feel comfortable enough to take a nap. She never did make it back to school for the afternoon. Later, my good friend Traci stopped by and surprised us with meals and a really cute hat for Kate. We ate well that night with Kate feeling so much better. Later, Eggs and Banana came and assembled the new computer. Just like that it was done and now I have the pleasure of working on it (and figuring it out!)

Today Kate's rash was much improved, just some blotchy redness left behind and not so itchy. Kate went to school in the morning. I picked her up at lunchtime for our 12:30 clinic visit. As always, She was a trooper and let them do all they needed to do without complaint. Labs were good today, WBC 6.4 (now out of the danger zone for succeptibility to infections) Hgb/Hct still low at 8.8/25.7 and platelets up to 524. Today, they accessed (put the needle in) her medport, gave her a dose of vincristine and deaccessed the medport, had a checkup with the nurse practitioner, managed to eat some lunch, and work on a little craft project all in just over 2 hours! One of our quickest appointments yet!

We had already made arrangements for our boys to go to their friends houses after school, Jonathan to Audrey's and Sam to Shaunna's so we wouldn't have to rush back--A million thanks to moms Wendy and Kathey for giving us the precious gift of time! We ended up at Mayfair Mall for some Girl fun :> We checked out some hats, did a little shopping and had fun playing at Kate's favorite store, the Libby Lu. The salesgirls at Libby Lu were so fun! They fussed over Kate, even painting her nails a rainbow of colors and placing some face glitter on her! We picked up a purple fairy ring for her hat that had long trails of ribbon behind it...Kate said she felt like she had long hair again :> She also adopted a glamorous little stuffed pink bear. We also stopped in at Build-a-Bear and watched a troop of girl scouts making their little stuffed friends. I almost wasn't able to extract Kate from the store! Kate was all smiles tonite after hanging out at the mall, something we haven't done together in about a year. It was definitely a pick me up for the both of us,we'll definitely have to do it more often!

We ate well again tonite since my friend Michele dropped off a very nice dinner for us. We are so blessed by sooo many caring and supportive family and friends...Thank you all so much, it would be so difficult for us to do this without you.

I am closing now since it is very late (as usual, I am, after all, a confirmed nite owl.) Our prayer requests would be for minimal pain side effects from today's chemo dose; a complete resolution of Kate's rash; for Kate to remain relatively healthy and fever free; and for smooth readjustment to school with minimal blows to her body image. Also please please continue to pray for all other sick and suffering children, there are just so many...

With PEACE and Blessings to all of you, The Olsens

Saturday, March 8, 2003 11:34 PM CST

Yeay! We are finally HOME!

It's curious how much 'stuff' we collected after just 6 days in the hospital. Having been living out of luggage basically for the past 2 weeks, we were packing again but this time with a destination of HOME! :>

On Friday, Kate's ANC was up just a little bit to 165 and no fevers past 101.5. Dr. Warwick said we could go home later that afternoon. Pretty exciting until she mentioned the part about needing to be readmitted right away again if Kate has any temps over 101.5. Seeing as how she was in the 100s several times yet that day, we opted not to take the chance at going home only to be readmitted again.

It all worked well as we stayed one more night. Her ANC this morning was up to 289! Temps were no higher than 99. Finally we were homebound! We were given a script for an antibiotic regimen to be given on a cycle of every Fri, Sat, Sun twice a day for prophylaxis (preventive medicine) because of her low counts. This will help her ward off infections. We also received a prescription for codiene tabs as needed for pain--esp needed for a few days after her VCR (Vincristine) doses. As we were getting ready to go, my husband called to say he noticed that Kate had a birthday party marked on the calender for 11:30 today. The doctors did say to let Kate get back to her normal activities as long as she felt up to it, including school and whatever else, and to remember to always be diligent with handwashing and to stay away from obviously sick people or we would land right back at the hospital.

We got home shortly before 11am. Kate really wanted to go to the party, so we hurriedly got ourselves ready and I took her to the party! I stayed for a little bit to make sure she was okay. She was so excited to see some of her friends and to spend some time with Stephanie at her party that she literally pushed me out the door saying "go home mom, I'm fine!" So after a quick review of the need to wash hands before eating,etc, I left! By the time we picked her up at 3pm she was aglow and mentioned what a great time she had. She even mentioned that she had her hat off(!) for a long time after someone asked why she was wearing it. She said no one said anything about her being almost bald especially since the last time they saw her (almost 3 weeks ago), she still had her very long hair. I guess the kids have an easier time with it. Overall, this will help her when she tries to make it back to school on Monday as some of the kids have now seen her new look.

The snow was really coming down today and we already had a couple inches (on top of the several inches there from the past few days) by the time it was time to pick Kate up. Robert offered to drive and we all decided to go along. Kate's brother Jonathan had been at a Lock-in (stay up all night party) at the YMCA last nite and came home at 7am and slept for a bit but obviously needed more as he fell asleep shortly after getting in the van. Kate had a busy day so she followed suit, then Sam shortly after. Robert mentioned that this was the first time we were all riding together as a family again :> The snow falling and all the whiteness was so pretty and relaxing that I fell asleep, too! Good thing Robert didn't join in on the 'sleep-in' at least not while driving! We got home and we all continued our naps and then so did dad. We weren't really awake again until around 6pm.

I actually made dinner tonite. Kate got all bundled up and played outside for a short time with dad while they waited for dinner. It was pretty nice to see how excited she was to play in all the snow! Kate ate okay, still not much of an appetite, hopefully that will improve, she's lost so much weight already. Unfortunately, the weight she lost I apparently picked up--1 full week of 'vacation eating' topped of with 1 week of sitting around the hospital with nothing to do. YIKES!

Kate had a great time horsing around (literally) with her brothers this eve, for some reason they had her riding around on their backs! Then off they went on several rounds of chase. The house is a mess and there's lots of laundry to do, lots to catch up on as far as phone calls and mail, but it was just so great to see the kids just having a ball playing together, The house will have to wait another day.

Well, I better close now since we will be going to church in the morning. It is sooo wonderful to be home again, I am sure I will sleep well tonite knowing all our kids are home and tucked into their little beds. I know that really sounds Norman Rockwellish but its been so long since we've all been Home together. I am so thankful that Kate is doing better. We made it through our first Inpatient hospitalization and hopefully we won't have any more--now I understand what they meant when they said they hoped to give Kate most of her chemo in the clinic. I never understood that, where else was she supposed to go? I never did ask--now I know, just a sign of being a newbie at this I guess.

Our prayer request is for Kate to stay healthy and out of the hospital and to continue her chemo treatments with little (manageable) side effects only. Her next clinic visit is for Vincristine on Tuesday. We also request that you would pray that she and others around her continue to adjust well to her new look (hair loss) especially as she tries to go back to school on Monday and return to her normal activities. Our final prayer request is for Kate to start to regain her appetite to stay healthier. Please also continue to pray for all other sick children. We saw (and heard) so much suffering when we were on the HOT unit, I am constantly praying for them all...

Thanks again for your kind thoughts, words, and prayers. We love to receive messages, so visit often and please sign the guestbook :> Kate enjoys hearing all the messages and it's a real pick-me-up for all of us, also. We will try to post new pictures soon (I still have to figure out how to make them smaller than the ones we have currently.) Take Good Care and I'll update again soon...

Blessings to you all--The Olsens :>

Thursday, March 6, 2003 5:52 PM CST

Hello,

I thought I'd just send a quick update of the past few days. Kate remains in the H.O.T. unit for continued fevers and low ANC counts. Yesterday, she also had a one time episode of vomiting while dad and the boys were here visiting. She was asleep for the night by 6:30. A regular Rip Van Winkle since she slept for the most part until 7:30am the following morning--13 hours except for a potty break, toothbrushing and tylenol for a fever at 11:30pm. Kate's temps have been all over, from 99.0 to 102.0 the past two days regardless of whether or not she has had tylenol, they assure me that this does happen even tho there is no identifiable source of infection, and that once her counts are better she'll loose the fevers.

The other thing they are watching is her ANC (an indicator of her capability to fight infections herself). She was admitted with an ANC of 0.0, Tues. she was at 50, but yesterday her ANC was back to 0.0. Today her ANC was 143! Praie God! She is also eating/drinking fair with a bit of badgering since nothing tastes or smells good to her.

They will let us go home tomorrow if she meets 2 parameters: fever-free for 24 hours which would be noon tomorrow and if her morning labs show her ANC is on the rise. Her Hct/Hgb is down to 8.9/25.9 today, but Kate won't receive any transfusions unless they are 8.0 or less.

Our prayer request continues to be for the fevers to resolve and that her blood counts improve tomorrow so that we can go home! Also, please continue to pray for the other children here on the HOT unit that they would be comfortable and get well soon.

A huge Thank You to Mary Ann and Jan for their kind words at a time when Kate and I needed them most, to Karen for the 'ray of sunshine' she brought to us by presenting Kate with the cutest little hat and fun videos, and to Leigh for your friendship and caring and for feeding my family tonite, and for my mom and dad who brought yummy treats--there are countless others who we have yet to thank who are helping us in this journey. Just know that we appreciate all you've done on our and Kate's behalf, we so appreciate all the many blessings and prayers sent our way, we can never thank you all enough...

With much gratitude, The Olsens

Tuesday, March 4, 2003 10:05 PM CST

Hi all,

I took Kate into the clinic for her follow up appt on the fevers she had Saturday while in FL and we never went home. Her lab work showed WBC 2.2, Hgb/Hct 9.5/27.3, Segs 1, NO Bands, and an ANC 0.0. We are now Inpatient (for the first time) on the H.O.T. (Hematology, Oncology, Transplant) Unit under 'protective custody' since Kate has virtually no infection fighting army. She is also receiving IV antibiotics for continued temps up to hi 102s. She also received her scheduled dose of Vincristine that she would have received in clinic today. She's pretty bored since she feels okay but is not allowed to be outside of her room to reduce the chances of her picking up an infection. So far, all cultures are negative and altho they have not yet identified a source of the fevers, We are thankful that Kate does not have an infection of the more worrisome areas.

Today's labwork was showing some improvement: WBC 2.5, Hgb/Hct 9.2/27.0, Segs 2, still no Bands, but now an ANC of 50. Kate will have daily labwork to watch for continued improvement of her counts and if she has no fevers for 24 hours, we may be able to go home. Right now, the Dr sez we'll be here at least til Thursday.

We are doing well over all. Kate has quite a lot of energy and has enjoyed joking around with the staff. Her dad and brothers were in to visit this evening and she had fun just playing with them. The only other thing is that her hairstyle is changing some more. Her wedge haircut has done an incredible amount of thinning today and there are now many bare sections especially to the top of her head. Overall, she is still doing okay with the hair loss considering she has had clumps of hair fall off and she has spent a considerable amount of time removing hair from her clothing and bedding today. They did give us the option of using the shaver today to reduce the hassles/mess of severe hair loss...I don't think we are quite ready to deal with that yet but it is just a matter of time now. We do however know that Kate's hair loss will be temporary and that her hair will grow back when treatments are done.

Its getting late now so I better close. Our prayer requests are for the fevers to end and for her counts to improve so that we may be able to get home before the weekend, and
that Kate would be okay with her continued hair loss esp since the next time her classmates see her she may not have any hair left. We are also requesting prayer for the other children here on the HOT unit that they would feel more comfortable and are able to have good nights and rest periods and that they begin to heal and feel better soon,too.

A special "Thank You" to Becki for a delicious meal tonite, Dell for your tireless efforts, Doug for the always timely and uplifting visits, Arn and Norma for being our prayer chain warriors,and for Tony, Cherie, and Annabelle for making it possible for me to continue these updates even while in the Hospital with Kate, and to the countless others for your continued support and prayers. We are so blessed by each and every one of you!

With thanks for His many blessings, Grace

Monday, March 3, 2003 10:29 AM CST

Hello everyone,

We arrived back in Wisconsin last night. After a busy vacation, its nice to be back home and take care of Kate the way we need to. We spent the last 8 days in weather ranging from very beautiful sunny weather in the 80's to heavy rain/thunderstorms in the high 60's. The flight in to Florida was very bumpy due to several thunderstorms and bad weather but we did arrive safe into Treasure Island. The next morning we took our first walk out on to the very large beachfront--we had to walk about 5 minutes of beach to get to the waterfront. The gulf was beautiful and Kate was very excited to go shelling, there were quite a few nice shells since bad weather churns things up a bit and the morning following a storm is best for shelling. We didn't stay long because the wind was brisk and made it feel like only the 50's out. It was neat to take pictures of how excited the kids were to see their first beach and play tag with the waves, and of course how excited they were to find treasures of pretty shells, definitely not in Wisconsin anymore!

We overall had a fantastic time, spent a lot of time just hanging out on different beaches from Clearwater to the North to beaches in Sanibel and Captiva to the South. Yes, we did log quite a few miles! In between, we managed to get to St. Pete's Pier and ride a hovercraft (pretty cool!) out onto Tampa bay to Pinella's Point,go to Busch Gardens, Tampa where we all got wet on the River Rapids Ride (Mom and Kate got soaked--we had to buy Kate a little dress to wear,) got on the "Little Toot" tugboat for a cruise on the harbour for dolphin watching (we only saw glimpses and Kate missed it entirely and was pretty upset but the next night she did finally see her first 'wild' dolphins at sunset on a beach in Captiva :>), Then on to Kennedy Space Center on the East Coast (really interesting, the kids liked this), and spent a little time at Universal Studios Islands of Adventure.

Kate managed to go swimming for the first time since her surgery on SuperBowl Sunday and also finally received her big haircut. We had Kate wearing her hair in a ponytail or braid in the event her hair would start falling out. On Tuesday the hair falling from the top of her head tangled with the hair in her braid so badly that we ended up cutting her hair in the hotel room, (it doesn't look too bad, like a bit of a wedge cut actually.) On Thursday, we got to meet the inventor of HipHats (in Tampa!). Christine was sooo cool and helped us to get a good match of Kate's hair and to check out the different hats they had. After that meeting, Kate was feeling much better about her hair loss. She should be receiving her hat with hair (wig alternative) within the next few weeks.

Our last full day in Florida we spent in Universal and were managing to have some fun despite the on again, off again rainshowers when Kate started to feel sleepy. We checked her temp and it was 103.5! The people at Universal did a fine job of paddy wagonning us out of the theme park back to the car so we could go to the ER as Dr. Casper (one of the docs at Childrens/WI) requested us to do. At the Sand Lake Regional Center, they accessed Kate's port and drew lab work and blood cultures, did a CXR and a urine test. Tylenol did little for her fever as she remained in the hi 102-103s for the next 4 hours. They weren't able to identify any areas of infection except for heavy phlegm in the back of her throat. Prior to that, Kate showed no signs of cold of any sort and the highest temp she had the whole trip was 99's. Kate's blood counts came in very low however, WBC 2.6, Segs 7, and NO identifiable bands so her ANC is only 182 :( We tried to catch an earlier flight home but as usual Northworst Airlines would only allow a change if we paid an extra $500 (even with a medical emergency!) They gave Kate a gram of IV Rocephin and we started giving her liquid antibiotic doses the following morning. We had to keep giving tylenol and advil round the clock but her fevers were still to 103.5 until 6pm Sunday. Thand God we finally made it back to Wisconsin last evening and got home around 8:30. She slept well and took her antibiotic and now we are off to see the doctor at the clinic. They plan on doing more labwork and then deciding if she will have to stay (inpatient) or be able to go home...I'll send an update after our appointment, We are headed out now...Thanks for all the prayers, please continue to pray that she will feel better soon and that her counts begin to improve...

Love to all, Grace and Kate

Saturday, February 22, 2003 1:59 PM CST

Hi everyone!
Just want to say YEAY! We are on our way!!! Kate is full of energy and has been able to eat and drink okay with no complaints of pain at all :> We are at Mitchell airport and will be boarding soon! I'll email again soon. Thank you for all your prayers :> --Grace!

Friday, February 21, 2003 1:32 PM CST

Well, we'll give this a go to keep everyone updated. Kate has now had her 2nd dose of Actinomycin and her 3rd dose of Vincristine on Tuesday, the first time she received both chemotherapy medications on the same day. We started off early in the day and finally made it to the 8 East infusion clinic at Children's by 9:30. Kate had a severe rash at her medport site the last time she was accessed. We think it was from the tegaderm window they placed over the emla cream to numb the skin over her port. This morning she refused any emla cream. Instead, she sat perfectly still and watched while they inserted the needle into her medport (Central IV access port that was placed under her skin.) What a trooper, and with this only being her 3rd time being accessed! Since she was getting Actinomycin she was given 3+ hours of IV fluids to compensate for the nasty side effect of severe nausea and vomiting that it would cause later. She did well that day, having spent the long day hanging out with Colin and his mother who were also there for chemo that day. Stephanie, the Child Life Specialist was also there with her usual fun toys and crafts to help the kids have a little fun while waiting out the day. The kids also enjoyed riding their IV poles while we Moms pulled them along to head for lunch at the deli, it was a nice break from the floor and great to talk to others going thru chemo. We finally finished by mid afternoon and headed home. We had just a short rest before Jonathan and Sam were home from school. Kate was very full of energy all day, and finally at bedtime I gave her some liquid zofran to combat the Nausea and liquid codeine that would help with the side effects we've seen from the Vincristine. No matter however since Kate was awake and crying by 4 am Wednesday complaining that she hurt all over and had severe leg cramps. Shortly after, she started vomiting. It went pretty much that way all day Wednesday with pain and vomiting and Kate developing a severe aversion to her liquid Zofran and Codeine. Every time we gave it to her she would throw it all up first then retake it and it would work but not for long. She wasn't able to keep down what little she did eat and drink so we ended up back at Childrens on Thursday afternoon for a half liter of IV fluids over a couple hours. They also changed her nausea medicine. She swallowed a pill for the first time and did fantastic--she really likes to show off her new skill! She also let them access her medport (again!) without emla! Just as a reference, the first time she was accessed, she screamed so loud it popped everyone's eardrums on the 8th floor! She definitely looked and felt better after the IV fluids and the new nausea medicine in pill form. She finally ate and drank a little bit for dinner and slept very well during the nite. Kate decided she wanted to see her friends at school today (Friday.)So after getting the boys off to school on the bus and Kate having some breakfast, Kate made it to school just a little bit late. Within an hour however, I got a call that she wasn't feeling well. I picked her up and brought her home. Shortly after, she did vomit again so I gave her the Vistaril (nausea medicine). We did have to cancel our lunch plans (at McDonalds of course) with Kate's good friend from her old ballet class, Christen, and her mother Lori. She is resting now with occassional spurts of energy. She has alternated between dancing, to doing some gymnastics, to whimpering and laying back down on the couch with her nest of favorite blankets. I'm still not packed for Florida tomorrow, I guess it will be a late night. As I type, Kate's temperature has climbed to 99.0. We are still not sure if we will make it to the beaches of Florida but we are sure going to give it a try. Our prayer request would be for Kate to feel better and for all of us to enjoy being away on vacation, to stay away from any illnesses, and for Kate (and ourselves) to be okay with the fact that Kate is now starting to loose some of her hair. We have many praises this week: We are thankful that Kate is able to get her port accessed without any tears and that she has learned to swallow pills, we are thankful for the other mothers and children we met this week who are going thru the same things, it sure helps to hear from others especially with us being the newbies in town, and most especially again that meals were delivered on the days we needed them most. Thanks to Tracey for the meal on Sunday we had been out at the portrait studio that day for Kate's Ballet Pictures. It would have been hard to get a dinner ready. Thanks to Suzanne for dinner on Tuesday right after our long day of Chemo, and to Heidi for the hot meal that was ready for us shortly after our return from Childrens for rehydration. As always, we are blessed with meals when we needed them. Thank you also for all the continued prayers and acts and words of kindness on Kate's and our behalf, we feel blessed to be surrounded by God's people who care...Take care and God's blessings to you all!--Grace :>

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