Journal entry by Amy Hernandez —
Hello All, this is Jake. Today, Amy and I are sitting here at her treatment. We were making fun of each other on the way here because on these days when I am with her, we do not talk very much. I am assuming because we see each other every day and sometimes we just do not have much to talk about. The way I look at it is that is a true sign of love when you can sit in silence and not feel one ounce of being uncomfortable, plus just being with her works just fine for me. I appreciate her friends that have gone and continue to go with Amy to treatment. I know she has a way better time with them, more laughs for sure haha.
I just realized as I was proofreading that it will be six months tomorrow. It has been a journey so far and will continue to be one. Along the way we have been extremely blessed and thankful for all the support from hundreds of people. It always amazes me when people tell us they are praying on a daily basis for our family. This past Sunday we were invited to a church service. We are big fans of the pastor and the kids were involved in a few VBS's when they were younger. We sat down before the service and a woman approached us. Amy knew who she was and I recalled seeing her years ago at VBS. She proceeded to tell us that she prays for Amy and our family on a daily basis. I became emotional and it brought a tear to my eye (it doesn't take much these days haha), a person I had not seen in years and barely knew was praying for us everyday. The service was great and we stayed after and prayed with a couple who has taken the same journey that Amy and I are currently. A heavy day for sure but God's blessing were present from so many angles.
When this diagnosis first happened we were told it will be a rollercoaster. That is definitely an understatement. We spend every other Tuesday at treatment and Amy is down for about 3-4 days. We are so blessed to see her bounce back and recovery and be as active as ever for the next 10 days. She has been so strong. Now I would like to clear something up about that word, strong. We tend to associate the word strong with how much someone can bench press, how far they can hit a baseball, or just simply staring adversity in the face and not flinching. Well, I am going to have to disagree. Strong is allowing yourself to not be ok sometimes. Strong is allowing yourself to cry a little bit. Strong is opening up and talking to others about your situation. Strong is accepting that every other Tuesday sucks and the next few days I will be feeling crummy, but after that I am going to continue to live, recover, and heal. That is my wife, she is STRONG in so many ways. Amy continues to be Amy. Making sure the kids are all set for prom and Disneyland. Getting gifts for so many people because of a birthday or as a thank you for doing something for us. You know Amy, always thinking of others.
Next Wednesday, May 8th we are going up to UCSF. I believe Amy mentioned this in her last entry, but I figure I mention it again. While the treatment is working and shrinking things up, we would like to see things move a little faster. With the recommendation on Amy's oncologist and others at Stanford, we are going to meet with a specialist at UCSF and discuss the installation of an HAI pump. The purpose of this pump will be to focus on the liver. The chemo would be administered through a port and go directly to the liver. This would also give Amy a break on the chemo that travels throughout her body. We are excited and hopeful about this new opportunity and thankful for such amazing doctors in this area.
As I conclude I would like to request a few prayers. Prayers for an encouraging doctors visit on the 8th that will allow Amy to receive treatment that will continue her healing process. Prayers for the current treatment to continue to kill cancer cells, shrink tumors, and protect all organs. Prayers for limited side effects and quick recovery from treatment. Prayers for Hailey and Braden and for the armor or God to protect them during this time. Prayers for God to take away all anxiousness, burdens, and worries from our family. Prayers for everyone involved in this journey. Prayers for all of you who are living your everyday lives and dealing with every day things, remember, everyone has something.
Just in case you all did not know, I love my wife more than words can explain. Knowing we are not alone in this journey has helped tremendously. The strength of God and Amy's army has lifted us up and allowed us to continue to move forward in this chapter. Thank you to all of you for your kind messages, texts, phone calls, cards, and simply hanging out with us whether its at our house, your house, or a nice dinner out. I truly appreciate you all!!
Take care,
Jake
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