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Tanja <loyallamb@cogeco.ca>
Canada - Tuesday, July 17, 2007 3:25 PM CDT

Hi Ivy. Thanks for posting on Jacob's site. I didn't expect to hear from you so soon. I can't imagine how difficult this month is for you and your family. You are all in our prayers.
Christine Bradley <cmbradley6@yahoo.com>
mansfield, ohio richland - Sunday, July 15, 2007 10:09 PM CDT

Hi Ivy,Monte,Josh,Dane and Autumn
Been thinking of you.
July has its memories of Pop's, Jerry's, Judy's,and Lukes birthdays and fond memories of time we had with them.
We just had two precious young boys in area lost to brain tumors.
Enjoyed reading in Guidepost this month article on Sona Mehring of Eagan Minn.who started caringbridge.
Love and prayers to all. Aunt Pat
Pat Wilson <pattycake13@hotmail.com>
Roanoke, VA USA - Thursday, July 12, 2007 0:23 AM CDT

Sweet Lukie,

You have been on my mind the entire last week!! Oh how I miss you!!!
Cathy Wiggins <Mommy2Dev@msn.com>
Fort Worth, TX - Tuesday, July 10, 2007 9:36 PM CDT

Ivy,
I am so sorry for not writing but my computer took a nose dive and by the grace of God I found your site again. I was thinking about "Super Lukie" and all of you on his birthday.
His picture still stands front and center by my computer.
Best of luck with your nursing school.

Linda <linda.nascar@insightbb.com>
Lafayette, in U.S.A. - Monday, July 9, 2007 7:15 PM CDT

Jimmy Joe Hi Ivy, thinking of you all today and especially sweet sweet Luke. Love, Lin, Jim, Angel Lori, Mike, Amy n Jimmy-Joe~*
Lin <jimmyk1@bellsouth.net>
BocaRaton, Fl. USofA - Monday, July 9, 2007 11:33 AM CDT

HAPPY, HAPPY 7TH BIRTHDAY LUKE !!!

Oh how I wish that things would have been different but how can I wish you back from such a "Heavenly" place. You are in my thoughts today and always. Soon the day will come when we all will be together again. Missing you and loving you, Barb
Barb <babogner@earthlink.net>
Mansfield, OHIO USA - Monday, July 9, 2007 7:27 AM CDT

Thinking of you all today...

Happy Birthday in Heaven, my sweet Luke, we love you.
Tracey and clan xoxox HAB <traceyhewison@shaw.ca>
Calgary, - Sunday, July 8, 2007 11:29 PM CDT

Oh what can I say as the tears blur my vision. Happy Birthday Luke!
I wanted to stop by the grave but Leslie did not. I understand being four months pregant a child's grave is not what you wish to think about.
I can still feel Luke in my arms the last time I held him. It was July 30th 2003 the day before God's hand greeted him.
Ivy was getting a snack so I held Luke. Ivy told me he was not speaking much so do not be surprised if he just stared at me. His eyes were closed then all of a sudden I heard his voice: "knock, knock" Whose there? I asked. Luke then just smiled at me.
I could have said goodbye to him but as the Bon Jovi song went "never say goodbye" It was not goodbye more of a "see ya later".
When my time comes I will look Luke up. I am sure he has learned some new knock, knock jokes.
Luke you are missed and never will be forgotten. Happy birthday. I love you.
John Finley <fin73@yahoo.com>
Lucas, Ohio Richland - Sunday, July 8, 2007 6:59 PM CDT

Happy Birthday Luke!
Keep watching over yor family!

God Bless!
kathleen <saphirekay@aol.com>
Newark, DE - Sunday, July 8, 2007 6:22 PM CDT

Sorry it's been so long since I've written. I always look forward to reading your updates and think of you often.

Sending you love, and praying for strength and courage for you as you travel through this leg of your journey

Nan xx
Nan Lofas
Portland, OR USA - Sunday, July 8, 2007 10:51 AM CDT

~And can it be that in a world so full and busy, the loss of one weak creature makes a void in any heart, so wide and deep that nothing but the width and depth of eternity can fill it up! ~Charles Dickens

Holding you close in prayer on the eve of Luke's birthday. We know our grief never really goes away. It simply resurfaces unexpectedly with renewed strength tearing us apart with memories. Ahhh, but it is these same memories that hold us together. Our Lord works in such mysterious ways. How well He blends the bitter cup of sadness with the sweetness of expectant joy! Receive warm, knowing hugs from one who knows both your pain and your comfort.

In His Love,
Yolanda Rogers
http://www.galatians5.com

Mom to Anna <weloveanna@earthlink.net>
Alt Spgs, FL USA - Saturday, July 7, 2007 11:26 AM CDT

Ivy,

So sorry to not have been in touch, I think you know my computer crashed, I still have not bought a new one but hope to next week :-) I will be getting a Mac laptop and am excited to try a new way of doing things!
I am so excited and happy to hear all your news...you will be a WONDERFUL nurse! I keep you and Monte in my prayers that all will work out for you for the very best.
I have been thinking of Lukie lots this week, I know his birthday is coming...Happy Birthday, sweetie, you are so missed! Today I said to him in my head, where are my butterflies Lukie?? I know he'll send me some very soon :) We'll catch up soon, know that you are in my thoughts and prayers, as are Monte, Joscelyn, Dane and Autumn too....especially Jossy and Monte, because I know they feel the loss of Luke so strongly too. Happy Birthday to your Mom in Heaven also,
much love,
Tracey xoxo <traceyhewison@shaw.ca>
Calgary, - Thursday, July 5, 2007 11:56 PM CDT

Hi you don't know me but I followed Luke's story in the local papers and thought of you and your family when my son was diagnosed in March with a brain tumor. I was a nursing student before he was diagnosed. I think it is amazing how you have kept this site going. You will all be in my prayers since I find myself praying a lot.
christine bradley <cmbradley6@yahoo.com>
mansfield, ohio richland - Thursday, July 5, 2007 8:07 PM CDT

Hello Ivy,

Your latest journal entry hit home really hard. Forgive me for saying that I am jealous about your going to nursing school. I have been playing around with that idea but with my age (soon to be 47) combined with how much debt we would incur in order for me to go to school it's very overwhelming. We could never afford child care on top of schooling and the loss of my current income. I always wanted to be a nurse...always. Not sure why I ended up with another degree. (I know--where there's a will there's a way but for our situation it might be financial suicide.)

But now I pray for your schooling and I know you will be the best of the best in nursing!

Praying for you as you grieve Lukie and your mother. It's true our hearts remain with bloody gaps regarding our children. Losing a child is like a famine...as long as the absence of food (child) remains...the hunger never fades.

God bless,
Monica
Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Thursday, July 5, 2007 5:15 PM CDT

Been thinking about Luke lately. It's that time of year again. Wish you the best.
Crystal Perry <perrycj@cvn75.navy.mil>
Norfolk, VA USA - Saturday, June 30, 2007 1:25 PM CDT

Hi Ivy, I think of your family often. I am so sorry to hear that things are rough for you and Monte. I will be praying harder for you. I visit Luke's web page often just am guilty of not taking the time to sign his guestbook. We need to get together soon and have a fun day. Love you all, Barb
P. S. As July nears I think of Luke often, I can't even begin to imagine how you must feel. Time does not take away the pain of losing our boy. Luke will always hold a very special place in my heart. Love you, Super Lukie
Barb <babogner@earthlink.net>
Mansfield, Ohio USA - Thursday, June 21, 2007 6:38 PM CDT

Hey chicky,
You know I think of you guys often and that you are in my prayers. I'm sorry you are having a bit of a rough patch but glad you are keeping busy. Keep the faith!

love ya! <Deirdre40@frontiernet.net>
- Sunday, June 17, 2007 12:19 AM CDT

Hi guys! My how time has already flown by since Dane broke his arm. Well Dane, I have joined you in your cast world. Actually, mine is a removable (thank goodness!) splint that I have to wear the next 6 weeks for tendonitis in my left hand. I don't know how I'd function if it were a cast that couldn't come off to do some things around the house. And at least I am still able to work with it on. Thinking of and praying for all of you , but especially Ivy and Monte. You have been down a rough road and I can't imagine how that must take a toll on a marriage. Praying God will keep you on track. Sending lots of hugs your way.
Beth L <beanieb@earthlink.net>
Mansfield, OH USA - Saturday, June 16, 2007 12:17 AM CDT

Love the fishing photo of Lukie on the front page Ivy, I don't think I had ever seen that particular one before, precious! I have emailed you to catch up. Hope the kids are having so much fun on that great play structure!!
love Tracey xoxo HAB <traceyhewison@shaw.ca>
Calgary, - Friday, June 15, 2007 1:38 PM CDT

Dear Ivy, I don't sign very often but I am a regular visitor to Luke's site. Luke's was my first Caringbridge site and he and your family are very special to me. I have learned so much from Caringbridge families in the last four years. Your latest journal entry really touched me. Joscelyn has always had a special place in my heart. She always seemed so much older than she was because of her relationship with Luke and everything that she experienced with his illness and ultimately losing him. The pictures of Joscelyn and Luke that you have shared on the website are just beautiful. They looked so wonderful together. Maybe you could make Joscelyn an album of pictures of the two of them together. Or maybe you could work on it together and talk about the memories. I am sure there would be tears but maybe also laughter and a lot of good memories. I will definately keep Joscelyn (and all of you) in my prayers. She is a darling little girl and you are a wonderful, remarkable family. Love, Celeste
Celeste <starrystarrynight25@yahoo.com>
Moultonborough, NH USA - Friday, June 15, 2007 9:38 AM CDT

Dear Ivy,

I hope Dane's arm heals quickly and completely!! Hopefully he can still be very active even with the cast. Hope you and your father are doing OK.

God bless,
Monica
Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Friday, June 1, 2007 6:32 PM CDT

wow monte! going to feed the whole family with that! hahahahaaa....love you guys..Drita
Drita Scherer <tzmanianalbanian@embarqmail.com>
Bellville, Ohio USA - Wednesday, May 30, 2007 6:30 AM CDT

The play area is wonderful and I do not doubt it was hard work. Many years ago my husband and I started to put together one of those metal swing sets from Sears. It had one main pole across the top and 4 legs. It was way simpler than yours but do you believe that the one main pole was shipped as 2 smaller poles and WE PUT THEM TOGETHER WRONG! So after the sorting, and resorting of all of those parts, gathering all the tools, putting children down for naps...we had to put everything in the garage and wait for Sears to send us replacement poles? Oh, once we got them together we couldn't get them apart.
We eventually got the swing set together but what a way to start!
Prayers to you and yours,

Barbara
Tampa, FL - Wednesday, May 23, 2007 2:54 PM CDT

Thank you Ivy for sharing. You are a special person. May God Bless You Always. Thinking of you!
Linda <aws@ecr.net>
Butler, Oh USA - Monday, May 21, 2007 10:55 AM CDT

HAPPY BELATED bIRTHDAY TO YOU BOSS, YOUR LIKE A FRIEND TO US AND NOT A BOSS WE LOVE WORKING WITH YOU... THRU THICK AND THEN WE BEEN AND YOU BEEN WORKING RIGHT ALONG WITH US IT A PLEASURE WORKING FOR YA DONT LET THIS GIVE YOU BIG HEAD!!!! Hee hee hee got to be Mick yes your right... Glad you all enjoy the boat ride and everything sounds great fishing relaxing and enjoying each others love for one another as a family... Kids loved it probaby... Take care and your in our prays each and everyone of you tell both parent and parents we said hello bye bye...........
chuckmick <chuckmick2002@yahoo.com>
Mansfield, 0h Richland - Saturday, May 19, 2007 3:30 PM CDT

Dear Ivy,

Thank you, AGAIN, for pointing to Gabbie's site. It made me cry but I suppose we who bury children way too early cry easily...I know I do. I fully understand what you mean about needing to laugh so you don't cry. A few months ago I reread a book that I knew would make me laugh and sure enough my children and husband thought I had gone crazy.

Glad the pontoon ride went well! Summer is almost here.

God bless you and thank you for being my friend!!

Gabrielle's yet haunted but ever hopeful Mama
Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Thursday, May 17, 2007 6:04 PM CDT

Jimmy watching Peter Pan with GREAT intent. :0) Hi Ivy, Lin here. As you know...Your updates and pictures of Luke touch me so deeply. I remember when a lot of the pictures were taken and you had them up when-ever there was an update and ...you still do. They are so precious and remind us all of just how precious and sweet Luke was and still is.....Hang in there and know I am thinking of you and can say I have had my moments when I have felt like what you described in this update. Its all those thoughts and feelings....wondering where it all ends up. But keep in focus to the BIG picture. God's watching and leading the way for us. Much love and Happy Birthday Monte~* Love ya, Lin, Jim, and kids.~* Jimmy Joe
Lin <jimmyk1@bellsouth.net>
Boca Raton, Fl. UsofA - Thursday, May 17, 2007 8:08 AM CDT

Hoping you had a peaceful Mother's Day. The weather couldn't have been more perfect. I hope Monte waited on you hand and foot today!
Beth L <beanieb@earthlink.net>
Mansfield, OH USA - Sunday, May 13, 2007 9:14 PM CDT

I'm sending love, wishes for a happy birthday to Monte and, for you, Ivy, a very happy Mother's day. Know that I'm always close by. Much love, Nan xx
Nan Lofas
Portland, OR USA - Saturday, May 12, 2007 11:41 PM CDT

Dear Ivy,

Happy Birthday to Monte! Hope the pontoon ride is fun and under sunny weather.

Oh Ivy, we share so many things. I too struggle with the sadness and get overwhelmed with so many of the details of life. It seems that what would have been little problems if Gabrielle were still here are mountains in her absence. I too am much blessed but the strain of the absence of a child is always pushing...pushing...and pushing some more.

I will pray that God fill you with His grace and mercy and surround you once again with Hope Eternal. Praying for your father, too.

What could be more painful than for a dying child to beg a parent for something (Luke's pic line) and for the parent to have to say no.

Love,
Monica
Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Saturday, May 12, 2007 9:49 AM CDT

Hi Monte, HAPPY BIRTHDAY! Hope your special day is "GREAT".
Enjoy, eat lots and lots of ice cream and birthday cake. You don't even have to share your cake, Hey It's YOUR birthday.
Love you, Barb

Dear Ivy, Just stopping by to wish you a very "HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY". I hope that you get to do something special.
Maybe Monte will take you out to eat. Enjoy your kids.
Love you, Barb
Barb <babogner@earthlink.net>
Mansfield, Ohio USA - Friday, May 11, 2007 8:48 AM CDT

Just stopping by to sing to Monte-
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR MONTE,
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!!!

Hoping you have a wonderful birthday. Yours is one I will always remember as today is also my husband's birthday. As a matter of fact, I can smell his chocolate cake baking as I type. I bet you too, will have yummy cake. Here's to you for a great day!
Beth L <beanieb@earthlink.net>
Mansfield, OH USA - Friday, May 11, 2007 8:42 AM CDT

Dear Ivy,

I see Esther's dad signed just below me--I only know him by a few e-mails we exchanged but I do get to their site once in a while. Another faithful family!

I thought of you this weekend because you had pointed me to Anna Jane's site. They did not get very good news at all but I've added her to my nightly prayers. Made me very sad but God is in control.

Hope everyone is will at your house. Love the picture of Jocelyn, Dane, and Autumn but also know that Lukie's absence is ever powerful.

God bless you!
Monica
Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Sunday, May 6, 2007 9:30 PM CDT

Hi Ivy and Family,
Thank you for visiting Esther's page. I was shocked when reading your post. Mansfield!? As a current student in seminary, I drive 2~3 times from Dayton to Ashland weekly. Usually, I take exit on Route 30 in Mansfield!
Many thanks to your words. I am so thankful to God because He always puts inspiring people around us. I also appreciate CaringBridge for contributing such a place to let parents like us to share and support one another. I must say that you have four of the most precious babies in the world. I sometimes pray in the car during the long driving. Next time, when I see the sign of Mansfield, I know I have one more family to pray for ^_^
Benjamin, Paulina, Erin (Forever Family with ~Esther~) <Mercy2Live@yahoo.com>
Fairborn, OH US - Friday, May 4, 2007 10:06 AM CDT

Dear Ivy,

I had not stopped by your page for a few weeks, and I am glad I did, to see all the wonderful new and old photos! (you know how I LOVE photos of the kids!) You know I am so proud of you for doing these workout sessions with Chris and for supporting me in my own efforts...I hope these have had the same 'mood uplifting'effects on you that they have had on me! :-) And no, parents never really get to rest, ha ha! (but it gets easier physically once they are all over 8 yrs old!)
Have a wonderful week,

love Tracey xoxo HAB <traceyhewison@shaw.ca>
Calgary , - Tuesday, May 1, 2007 2:49 PM CDT

Dear Ivy,

Thanks for the note in your journal about Gabbie's site! I'm very touched. I had to finally comment on "going home" because I cannot tell you how many times I've seen our choice, and yours, misconstrued as giving up. As if we would EVER give up on our much loved children.

I hope you come to enjoy the YMCA--sometimes I despise having to exercise but it's easier for me to exercise than to give up food. But when we die and our Savior resurrects us we will not have to worry a bit about exercising!

Thanks so much for sharing your journey and your faith. Thanking St. Lukie for his courage in the midst of his awful pain and suffering. We can only imagine what God has planned for Him in his eternal role.

God bless and love,
Monica & family
Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Wednesday, April 25, 2007 1:30 PM CDT

Hi, I have finally had a moment to sit and look at your site. I wish I knew what to say, but my wife has always been better at this kinda thing. I just wanted to let you know that you all will be in my prayers from now on. Thank you for your support of us and Olivia. Andy (Olibelle's dad).
Andrew Shroades <abbakas83179@cox.net>
Roanoke, VA USA - Tuesday, April 24, 2007 9:51 PM CDT

Yes Ivy the weather can put us in a funk, I get down Christmas until spring love to get outside and dig in the dirt.My seeding are just standing still they dont like it either.
Dont be in a hurry to cut short the many who will come to the Lord.
A brother killed his brother, can it get any worst than that? Thanks to a loving God and his son we have hope. Mankind really needs that.
Love and prayers A.Pat

Aunt Pat <pattycake13@hotmail.com>
Roanoke , VA USA - Sunday, April 22, 2007 10:02 PM CDT

Ivy,
You are such a positive inspiration to so many people. God uses you every single day for His glory. You are loved, dear girl!!
Annie Weirich <nkbbmom@brightchoice.net>
- Tuesday, April 17, 2007 9:22 PM CDT

Hi Ivy I wanted to pop by and see how you were all doing. I felt a sadness when I read your entry....I had visited Lori's gravesite for Easter and went out with that positive outlook, that I was just going to spruce things up. Well, I got there and I cried a lot. I went alone and I think "that" plus the Easter things saddened me. She liked glitter and Bunnies and all. I wont say I understand your feelings because its so different for everyone, as we all know too well. But yes, I felt that feeling you were talking about. AND we have SUNSHINE all year here in Fla. too. I wanted to think of another reason why I was so sad..... But I stood there thinking of all the suffering and just looked up and said out loud I know you are watching God, and Jesus and Lori and I know when Jesus does come it will be amazing. Till then I will try to do my best down here. Laugh a little more for people so they will be happy. Make smiles out of frowns and spread the beauty that was Lori. Just keep spreading and spreading and spreading her joy around. Even after all these yrs. its hard somedays but you remember those good times and I know you do. My heart melted when I saw the pic of you guys holding Luke after the MRI. I remember when that was taken. You stay well and Know we are thinking of you and staying on the straight and narrow so we can all get to heaven one day! Love ya, Your cyber bud Lin and Crew. ~*Jimmy Joe

Lin <jimmyk1@bellsouth.net>
Boca Raton, Fl USofA - Sunday, April 15, 2007 10:44 AM CDT

Hello Monty & Ivy, I just wanted to stop by and see how the Irvin family is doing. I think about all of you all the time. I am so glad to see everything is going great for all of of you. Benjamin is doing great also. He did by the way get DX with Walking Phen. (SP?) 2 months ago and it is now back again. Talk about hearing a scarey thing from the doctor. She said since it got better 2 months ago and now it is back again we need to do an X-Ray to rule out anything. Wow talk about a sudden heart stopper. The -Ray came back clear, Praise GOD. Other than that he is doing great. He has to take growth hormones every night and Synthroid. Radiation really messed up his Endrocronology. Since starting Growth hormones last April he has grown 2.5 inches. May 5th. he will be 4 years post chemo. He is doing great.

Well Ivy you take care and I hope everything continues to be good for you and your family. I can't wait to hopefully see you again maybe at a Kids-N-Kamp function or something.

Take Care!!!!!!!!
Love Jeff

GOD Bless Your Family
Jeff Thomas <jat366@yahoo.com>
Pickerington, Oh The Awesome United States - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 4:52 PM CDT

I saw the pictures of your angel as a result of reading your message to Kole Keller's family. My prayer is that God's promise of eternal life will keep you uplifted.
Lani Jensen (friend of the Kellers) <ljensen930@aol.com>
Huron, OH USA - Tuesday, April 10, 2007 10:45 PM CDT

I saw the pictures of your angel as a result of reading your message to Kole Keller's family. My prayer is that God's promise of eternal life will keep you uplifted.
Lani Jensen (friend of the Kellers)
Huron, OH USA - Tuesday, April 10, 2007 10:44 PM CDT

Happy Easter- or as my mom said to day it's "Merry" Easter since it's snowing!! Hope you're enjoying food and family. Hugs to all of you!
Beth L <beanieb@earthlink.net>
Mansfield, OH USA - Sunday, April 8, 2007 4:15 PM CDT

Hello Ervin family!! It was so nice to see you the other day in the dental office. It's always a pleasure...your kids are the cutest!! (even though dane wasn't too excited about being there! :) You look fabulous as well!! You're in my thoughts.

Misty Argo, RDH <misty7435@hotmail.com>
Shelby, OH - Saturday, April 7, 2007 5:53 PM CDT

Your little one was a blessing from God. May he always remain in your hearts and minds. For God is taking very good care of him now. (Kole Keller's Grandma)
Nancy Keller <kelnan43449@yahoo.com>
Oak Harbor, OH USA - Friday, April 6, 2007 10:22 AM CDT

Hello! Love all the pics here!!! Just stopping by to let you know you were on my mind and in my heart! Hope you are getting some nice Spring days around your parts....have had some lovely ones here. I love seeing the buds on the trees, the greening of the grass and hearing the chatter of the birds! The season of renewal and growth...beautiful! Hope you are having a Happy Spring and sending sending you wishes for a blessed Easter!
Love, Eileen
Eileen
- Thursday, March 29, 2007 6:30 PM CDT

Love Ya Think of all often. I really enjoyed the zillion of Pics.Thanks for sending. Monty's certainly is one shining example in more ways than one!!! Pray all well.
Aunt Pat <pattycake13@hotmail.com>
Roanoke, Va USA - Sunday, March 25, 2007 8:46 PM CDT

Jimmy Joe Great job with the shaving of Monte's head!! :0)What an awesome cause. I was sorry to hear you all got sick. Hang in there Spring has sprung?? No?? Sending warm hugs from the South. Love, Lin, Jim n Kiddo's~*
Lin <jimmyk1@bellsouth.net>
Boca Raton, Fl. USofA - Friday, March 23, 2007 10:13 AM CDT

Your beloved Luke was absolutely beautiful. I am certain his precious soul still is. The photo of Luke and Daddy broke my heart, because I wish I could freeze that moment and Luke could be here with you again. So brilliant, so bright, so beautiful and so happy and loved and yet there was so little time left.

Joscelyn has grown from a cute little girl into such a lovely young lady.

The life of Luke touched my heart.
Rita B <thegr8bolli@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, March 20, 2007 9:31 PM CDT

Hi Everyone!

Hope you are all feeling much better now. Congrats to Monte for beating his personal goal...and bravely shaving his head for the children! Ivy, you have inspired me to get out the Easter things...if I can just figure out where they are all hiding in the basement.....:-) Love the photo of Lukey and Daddy, and Lukey and Joscelyn, that is a new one for me, they were so tiny and adorable...and of course, they still are, along with Dane and Autumn, beautiful children!
Sending you hugs and tulip wishes,

Tracey xoxo HAB <traceyhewison@shaw.ca>
Calgary , - Tuesday, March 20, 2007 2:15 PM CDT

Hello to the Ervins from....Niagara Falls, Canada!! Yeppers, you read that right. We fled the country on Friday. I thought of you today as we went into the superhero building, so I thought while I was in the lobby I'd stop in and say "hi". It's very foggy here today- so much for our "fallsview" room! We can't see a darn thing through the fog. Last night was beautiful though. Have a great weekend.
Beth L <beanieb@earthlink.net>
currently- Niagara Falls, Ontario Canada - Saturday, March 10, 2007 9:17 PM CST

Ivy,

Thanks for posting the song again - I know it is a very special gift as was Luke. Thank You for sharing and "giving to the Lord"

Ok Ok is Monte getting nervous or are you - count down to the head shaving day!!!

Kathleen

Kathleen <saphirekay@comcast.net>
Newark, DE - Tuesday, March 6, 2007 6:50 PM CST

Wonderful journal entry. We wish SO badly we could be there for the big shaving but we will never get down there in time. Wish Monte good luck and that is just about the sweetest picture of Luke I've ever seen!!

with love, <Deirdre40@frontiernet.net>
- Monday, February 26, 2007 8:02 AM CST

Happy Valentines Day from our hearts to yours!!

Always in our thougths prayers and hearts...
~*~Samantha's Story~*~
...because growing up is hard enough without cancer!!

karen n sammi <mpbowler1@oal.com>
- Tuesday, February 13, 2007 2:05 PM CST

Hey Ivy, I am so glad to see everybody is doing well up there in Mansfield country. Life over this way is uugghhh. Benjamin is still involved with Kids-n-Kamp and all those other groups. I have tried to send you a couple emails but I keep getting it back. Something about spam. I think about you guys a lot, I am so glad everybody is doing so well. I just wish I could say the same on my part. Benjamin is doing great. May 5 well be 4 years since his last chemo, praise GOD!!! He is such a trooper. He just tackles each thing one at a time. He had to have surgey back in early December and he got through it with flying colors. He has made some comments to me to worries me. I often wander if children have preminissions (sp). Some of his questions he ask me really worries me. Other than that he is doing real well. I wish I could see you guys again, I can't even remember the last time we talked. Hmmm maybe next I running through Mansfield I should pull over to a pay phone and look up your number. Well Ivy you take care, I am so glad everything is going so well for you. I need some prayer in my life right now. I check Lukie's page all the time, I am so glad you have the page still up and running.

I will try and send another email soon I hope I can get it through. Like I said it keeps saying something about spam. My email is jat366@yahoo.com.

Happy Valentines Day............
Jeff Thomas <jat366@yahoo.com>
Reynoldsburg, Oh USA - Monday, February 12, 2007 12:28 AM CST

Your journal about what you said about Luke was so touching. Thank you for sharing it w/the caringbridge community also. God Bless.
Karen Patterson <Anchormom@comcast.net>
New Castle , DE - Tuesday, January 30, 2007 7:59 PM CST

Hello Ivy,

All I can do is cry. What an incredible story. "Intolerable pain..." Yes, we are given pain that is intolerable. I know many think that God will never give us more than we can handle means we can handle any pain and all pain is tolerable. But that is not what it means it all. God gives some of us intolerable and unbelievable pain but He will never give us something to one of His children that would make us turn from Him and turn to Satan.

But we are given pain beyond description. Thank you for sharing. I too remember walking out to the hearse that came for Gabbie. I remember when they lifted her little body from her crib that I then noticed she had been lying in a pool of blood. It is impossible for a mother to wrap her mind around such things.

As always, I'm so sorry for all your pain but we do keep on in the blessed Hope of Jesus Christ.

God bless,
Monica
Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Monday, January 29, 2007 5:59 PM CST

Hi Ivy-n-Fam.~* I came to Luke's site this morning and read your entry. I thought it was so beautiful, sad, and at the same time really made me think about Jesus and God again and about their promise that a devine Heaven does exist. I remembered your beautiful journaling of Lukes life and his passing.......I thought how I wanted to come back to the guestbook page and leave a message when I had time from the kids to sit and think.........The day got away from me and I realized I hadnt left a message, I hurried to Jimmy's web site to grab your link and saw you had left a message in Jimmy's guestbook. I thought, she couldnt have know I was on Luke's site because there was no message left by me nor was there any way you couldnt known I visited. Then I thought devine intervention once again. :0) God letting us know that he does give us each other for love and support and we are always thinking of each other even in our busiest times. Caring bridge has really brought us all together in this unity.... we find each other and a little piece of Heaven so we can have hope. If anyone from the caring bridge organization reads this...:0) Thank you. And thank You Ivy for always be YOU!!You give me strength on my down days..... Love, Lin, Jim, Angel Lori, Mike, Amy n Jimmy-Joe~*
Jimmy Joe

Lin <jimmyk1@bellsouth.net>
Boca Raton, Fl. USofA - Saturday, January 27, 2007 6:10 PM CST

Ivy,
As before I am writing this through tears even though I know the story with Lukie.
Sorry I haven't kept in better touch but my life is kinda crazy right now..but please know my thoughts and prayers are always with you.
Linda <linda.nascar@insightbb.com>
Lafayette, In U.S.A. - Saturday, January 27, 2007 2:43 PM CST

Im in tears as I sit here and read.........

I love yall!
Cathy Wiggins <Mommy2Dev@msn.com>
Fort Worth, TX USA - Saturday, January 27, 2007 1:18 AM CST

(((((((( BLESS YOUR HEART, GIRL! ))))))))
Right now, sitting here weeping.. it IS emotionally draining to remember these precious, painful memories. Thanks be to God that the rawness of grief does not last a lifetime, though grief itself DOES last a lifetime - until we join our loved ones and Jesus, never to be parted again. It would be utterly UNBEARABLE if that rawness overwhelmed the hope of heaven. But it does NOT! That hope is sure, and it sustains us through the pain of this life.. knowing what is ahead is beautiful beyond all human comprehension, as surely God has promised!

Sometimes days go by... sometimes weeks, between our communications. But I hope you know that your family is so dear to my heart, and hardly a day goes by that I don't think of you friend.. and pray for our Lord to sustain you on the journey.

I look forward to an eternity to be friends in heaven!
Kiss those beautiful babies for me! And keep a gentle hug and kiss for you as well - I send it with tender affection!
Love and Hugs,

A LEGACY OF HOPE! Cancer Support & Encouragement
Lynn <lynn@legacyofhope.org>
Panama City, FL USA - Friday, January 26, 2007 9:00 AM CST

AMEN!!!.....and beautifully written. You are amazing to me Ivy, I know you know that I feel that way about you and even though you've told me other things, I STILL consider you amazing! God bless!!

with love, <Deirdre40@frontiernet.net>
- Thursday, January 25, 2007 8:20 AM CST

I am more of the follower of your site than a writer - but thought I should write tonight. I only started following your story the last few weeks you had Luke here to hold. (and I can't believe that was in 2003)

Thank you for sharing your story, your honesty, your grief, your faith, and most of all your love for Luke and your family. Do you think you could put the link to the song that was sung at the service back for awhile on the site (it does bring tears but it was very special)

My prayers are with you and all families that have lost someone to cancer and those still fighting the fight!
Kathleen <saphirekay@aol.com>
Newark, DE - Wednesday, January 24, 2007 9:17 PM CST

I couldn't see the video and I went and looked at your photo page! Jocelyn is beeeaaautiful! Love the new do! Reminds me of my baby, she was about the same age and got a flip do like hers. How fun! That Autumn is a cutie! Take care "toy" family!

with love, <Deirdre40@frontienet.net>
- Friday, January 19, 2007 8:15 AM CST

Dear Ivy, Dear All,
Thank you so much for posting new photos of your treasures. Josc, you look fabolous in your new hairstyle. Miss Autumn is just delicious and Dane has such a very handsome and cheeky little face. Super Lukie's photo is priceless, what a precious cheeky expression. What a special boy.
As for the Christmas tree, I agree with Dane. I'd never want to see it being boxed away. Especially because most of our tree's decorations are hand-made by the children and each of them is such a precious memory. They love to do the tree up and see those little crafts all over again and reminiscing past times, spent making decorations and crafts together.
Ivy, it must have been very hard for you all to spend yet another Christmas without your precious Lukie, who I am sure celebrated it from the best 'seat' of all, directly on our Saviour's lap. Grand'ma is surely taking very good care of him until you can meet again. I know you must miss her very much. Holidays are occasions to celebrate and be grateful for our treasures but they are often painful reminders of empty seats around our table. May the God of Love help you all and comfort you all each and every day, and may this year bring your hearts Faith, serenity, unity and love.
HUGS to all and a very special one to Grand'pa.
Sabrina <morini@agriflex.it>
Italy - Tuesday, January 16, 2007 6:26 AM CST

Der Nan, I have not found anything recent on this site. Just wondering about Johan. I have received recent e-mail from your mother and I enjoyed the photos of Gerry. Just sent them some photos of us in their sailboat on the China Seas in the 80's. Hope they enjoy the memories. It sounds as tho Gerry is holding his own and gradually making progress since the accident. Love, Christine Purves
Christine Purves <cpurves@wcoil.com>
Bluffton, OH USA - Sunday, January 7, 2007 2:45 PM CST

Once again you amaze me miss Ivy. What a wonderful person you are. You have to know that. I can't imagine the pain you must feel though each and every holiday yet you found a way to reach out to others. You're awesome. I will be praying for that family and hope to be back on your silly jokes list soon!

with love, <Deirdre40@frontiernet.net>
- Saturday, January 6, 2007 12:29 AM CST

may peace and happiness find you in the new year.
http://www.caringbridge.org/ny/sammip/
sammi and karen <mpbowelr1@oal.com>
- Friday, December 29, 2006 11:47 AM CST

Merry CHRISTmas Saint Luke and family, A child was born and love filled every heart . . . may the wonderful story of CHRISTmas remain in your heart all year through. Love you all, Barb
Barb <babogner@earthlink.net>
Mansfield, OHIO USA - Monday, December 25, 2006 8:51 AM CST

HAPPY BIRTHDAY IVY !!!! I hope that your special day is great from start to finish filled with everything you like. Lots of gifts, lots of ice cream and lots of birthday cake!!!! May this birthday bring you life's real gifts . . . good health, friendship and love. HAPPY BIRTHDAY! Love you, Barb
Barb <babogner@earthlink.net>
Mansfield, OHIO USA - Friday, December 22, 2006 8:44 AM CST

HAPPY BIRTHDAY IVY!! I won't make you "listen" to me "sing"! Hope you have a fantastic day, even though it's dreary, and raining. It would be a great day to do nothing but snuggle with your kids. I think the dog and I wil do that for a while! Wishing you all a very Merry Christmas!
Beth L <beanieb@earthlink.net>
Mansfield, OH USA - Friday, December 22, 2006 8:36 AM CST

Hello Ivy,

Stopping by to wish all of your family a very Merry Christmas and shedding tears with you that children are missing.

We are doing "Santa," I know you'll sigh, but I also got the kids a "magical Santa key" and along with it a note where Santa himself declares his own need for the Savior, Jesus. So we are doing Santa but bringing him to our own lowly status of needing a perfect Savior found only in Jesus.

Remembering Lukie and his suffering before his death. As we are vessels that will contain God's Glory in heaven,and as suffering stretches us as vessels, Lukie is up in heaven and he reflects much of God's Glory!

God bless you for our friendship,
Monica
Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Friday, December 15, 2006 6:09 PM CST

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR JOSCELYN,
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!

I can't believe how fast you're growing up! Hoping you have the best day today. Eat lots of cake and ice cream for me and make a wish upon those candles. Sending lots of hugs to the birthday girl!
Beth L <beanieb@earthlink.net>
Mansfield, OH USA - Sunday, December 3, 2006 9:41 AM CST

Hi Ivy, I love the pictures of sweet Luke from Christmas past. His sweet face makes me smile. So much love in those eyes and so much courage for one so young. I am sure he and Lori are jumping the clouds this Christmas and keeping our Lord very busy!!Much love to all this Christmas. Lin, Jim, Angel Lori, Mike, Amy n Jimmy-Joe~*Jimmy Joe
Lin <jimmyk1@bellsouth.net>
Boca Raton, Fl. USofA - Sunday, December 3, 2006 7:11 AM CST

Just stopping by to wish you a Happy Thanksgiving. Have a wonderful weekend.
Beth L <beanieb@earthlink.net>
Mansfield, OH USA - Thursday, November 23, 2006 8:15 AM CST

...tearing up while reading your latest journal entry. It has also taken me quite a while to thank God for the thorns. I never imagined a child's life could bring such beauty and such ultimate pain all at once.

Until the sweet Savior brings us home, praying.

Love,
Monica
Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Tuesday, November 21, 2006 1:03 PM CST

Hi Ivy,
Sorry it's been awhile since I have checked in but have things going in the family that had to be dealt with. All the same...I was thinking about you and your wonderful family.
I wouldn't be concerned about Autumn either. Our youngest didn't start walking until she was nearly 2 and she hasn't stopped since!!:-)
Take care and hope all of your days are good ones.

Love, Linda
Linda <linda.nascar@insightbb.com>
Lafayette, In U.S.A. - Sunday, November 12, 2006 1:24 PM CST

Hi Ivy, I love all the pictures. The one of Luke And Jos at the top. I remember when you posted that. It did my heart good to see it again, I think someone mentioned the surealness of it all. That is so true, you know I love reading the scriptures too. They are so powerful. I think Autumn is so cute with that little pony tail going on. :0) I also enjoyed seeing you and hubby pictured on the web site. Congrats and many more yrs. together. :0) You know you are always in our thoughts and prayers. Wish you could bag up a little bit of that snow and send it to us down here in Fla. I dont think we'll ever see snow..............It did snow once back in the late 70's I believe. Everyone went nuts but I hear it melted as quickly as it hit the ground. Oh well.........Take care . Love, Your Florida friends. Lin, Jim, Angel Lori, Mike, Amy n Jimmy-Joe~*Jimmy Joe
Lin <jimmyk1@bellsouth.net>
Boca Raton, Fl. USofA - Saturday, November 11, 2006 8:05 PM CST

Dear Friends,
Our family reviewed your website in great length. It's a beautiful dedication to such blessed childen of God. We are so sorry for the loss of your dear, sweet child, Luke. We too lost a son, 12 years ago this year. Although, the pain is still so very great, we know he is in a very special place. So much better than what we could ever offer him, here on earth. He's now with God, away from such pain and suffering. Just know that of all the people in the world that could have shared a life with such a 'special angel' as Luke, God chose YOU. Your 'mission' in life was and still continues to be a very important one. God bless you for your work. May you find happiness in your hearts and peace in your minds always. Much love, always to you and yours.
Rick and Theresa Dettmer - Vom Haus Dettmer <shepherd@loganet.net>
Missouri Valley , IA USA - Friday, November 10, 2006 11:26 AM CST

Yes...look how cute you two are!!! I like it when I see pictures of the parents and maybe should get brave enough to put one up of John and me some day.

I also liked the new picture of Lukie at the top--you have some really good pictures of him and they are almost surreal which only is more surreal knowing he is in heaven with Jesus.

Thinking of you and praying for your family. Hope your dad is doing OK without your mother.

God bless,
Monica
Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Thursday, November 2, 2006 7:03 PM CST

Look how cute you two are!! ...and happy Birthday to Autumn Rose!
I wanted you to know I related to your post. My husband and I are in a very trying time with our marriage and I truly believe that I'm getting through it due to the grace of God. I gave it up to him and it's the smartest move i ever made so thank you for the reminder sweet Ivy!
Love ya! <Deirdre40@frontiernet.net>
- Tuesday, October 24, 2006 2:15 PM CDT

Hi! Happy Birthday to Autumn. Im sorry Im a little late. Bet the year went by fast!! Here's a pic of Jimmy in his halloween costume. ARG! A wonderful Pirate. We believe in modeling them a week or so early. I look stunning in my Gilligan costume and Big Daddy-O Jim is The Skipper. lol. Do we know how to have fun or what?? lol. Enjoy the day. Love, Lin, Jim n Kiddo's.~*Jimmy Joe
Lin <jimmyk1@bellsouth.net>
Boca Raton, Fl. USofA - Sunday, October 22, 2006 2:54 PM CDT

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MISS AUTUMN ROSE, I can't believe that you are ONE YEAR OLD today. It seems like only yesterday that I visited you and Mommy in the hospital. I hope your day was filled with fun from morning till night and that you got some birthday cake to eat. Love you, Barb
Barb <babogner@earthlink.net>
Mansfield, OHIO USA - Wednesday, October 18, 2006 8:01 PM CDT

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MISS AUTUMN,
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!
Hopefully Mommy will sing your birthday greetings to you like she did Dane. I can't belive you are a year old already! You are just as cute today as the day you were born. Wow- a year ago your Mommy was getting extra bananas to help her labor along :-) (sorry Monte- I will never forget!!) Hope you have the best 1st birthday a girl could have. Enjoy your week.
Beth L <beanieb@earthlink.net>
Mansfield, OH USA - Tuesday, October 17, 2006 11:47 PM CDT

Mr.Dane, here I am exactly one month late with your birthday wishes!! Happy Birthday, little man...it goes to show how insanely, sadly busy my life has become when I can't remember my special little friends birthdays! I hope it was wonderful..by the look on your face, I would say it was!!
Ivy, love your fall photos, what a neat corn husk horse! Oh, how I would love to see the swinging photos of you and Monte, hee hee! I hope you are all having fun gearing up for Hallowe'en and can't wait to see all the great photos! Have a wonderful weekend at the farm! Ours will be filled with hockey, hockey and oh, did I mention, hockey? LOL
love,
Tracey xoxo HAB <traceyhewison@shaw.ca>
Calgary , - Friday, October 13, 2006 12:02 AM CDT

Hi Ivy, the kids look great and Happy Birthday to little Dane~* What a sweetie pie. I'll pay 20 bucks to see the pics of you and hubby swinging on the vine. :0) You know me, I love wild n crazy. lol. Love, Lin, Jim n Kiddo's.~*Jimmy Joe
Lin <jimmyk1@bellsouth.net>
Boca Raton, Fl. USofA - Monday, October 9, 2006 12:00 AM CDT

What beautiful children you have! Every one of them! They all have their individual looks but I think Dane looks like his big brother, Luke in his third birthday picture. Love to you and your precious family, Celeste
Celeste <starrystarrynight25@yahoo.com>
Moultonborough, NH USA - Monday, October 9, 2006 8:31 AM CDT

I hope your family will . . .
Cheri T <faith_in_valley@yahoo.com>
GA - Saturday, October 7, 2006 0:44 AM CDT

Keeping your family in my prayers
Kristina Glidewell <Kristina_1409@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, September 27, 2006 11:47 AM CDT

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY Mr. DANE,
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!

Wow- I can't believe you are 3 today.
Sounds like everyone enjoyed the summer- that went way too fast. Ivy, what a beautiful sunset. Luke, Grandma and Jesus must've been very busy painting that masterpiece for you. Thinking of you often....
Beth L <beanieb@earthlink.net>
Mansfield, OH USA - Wednesday, September 13, 2006 7:52 AM CDT

Hi Ivy! We think of you all so often still, and I check back in on Luke's page all the time. The pictures are great - I can't believe how grown up the kids are getting!! Hope you're all doing well!
Love, Anne Jones (Benjamin's mommy) <bjones001@insight.rr.com>
Pickerington, OH - Sunday, September 10, 2006 3:50 PM CDT

Hello Ivy,

I was getting worried about the lack of updates. Thanks for sharing the story about the last sunset even though it was so sad. All these stories about our departed children are so very sad. On a brighter note, we probably won't have sunsets in heaven but know that it will be far more beautiful than we could ever imagine!!

By the way, I never did crawl and I am fine--or at least think I am fine!

Always praying,
Monica

Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Wednesday, September 6, 2006 4:53 PM CDT

Sent you an email Ivy, so great to see the update! You look fantastic and so do the kids :-)
hugs,
Tracey xoxo HAB <traceyhewison@shaw.ca>
Calgary , - Wednesday, September 6, 2006 1:36 PM CDT

Hi Ivy and family,

Nan here, signing in to give you a hello and hug. Send news -I miss hearing from you! As always, you're all in our thoughts and prayers.

Love,

Nan xx
www.caringbridge.org/visit/johanlofas

Nan & family xxx <lofas1@comcast.net>
Portland, OR - Saturday, September 2, 2006 11:35 PM CDT

Hi to the Irvin Family. My daughter is exactly 4 days older than Luke. She is my only girl with 3 big brothers. When I read everything that you were all going through, it made me hug Mackenzie a little tighter everytime. And Luke, I knew your Grandma Judy the last 3 years of her life here in earth. She always smiled when she talked about you and she was SO proud fo your sisters and brother. I know the 2 of you are together in Heaven and knowing Judy, she hasn't stopped smiling since she saw you again. God Bless!
Aimee Jerger <BZMOM91939500@yahoo.com>
Mansfield, Ohio Richland - Wednesday, August 30, 2006 8:54 PM CDT

Hi Ivy and family~* Stopping by to say Hello and to let you know we were thinking about you all and especially Lukie.~* The pictures are so precious and capture the true essence of Luke. May God continue to hold you all close to his heart...........Love, Lin, Jim, Angel Lori, Mike, Amy n Jimmy-Joe~*Jimmy Joe

Lin <jimmyk1@bellsouth.net>
Boca Raton, Fl. UsofA - Friday, August 11, 2006 7:18 AM CDT

Carissimi Ivy and Monte, Joscelyn, Dane and Autumn,
my heart aches at the realisation that it's been 3 years since your Super Lukie left this Earth and was healed to start his neverending life in Heaven. Thank you for keeping sharing your hearts, souls and precious family with us all. I will never forget Luke. I know he is in perfect symbiosis with God but I also dare to imagine how much you must miss him. Tons of hugs from this side of the ocean.
sabrina <morini@agriflex.it>
Italy - Friday, August 4, 2006 6:52 AM CDT

I didn't "stop by" yesterday because it was too painful for me to write about a "precious angel" who is gone but is so alive in my heart.Even though we have never met you are all like family to me. May God Bless You All.

Linda <Linda.nascar@verizon.net>
Lafayette, In U.S.A. - Tuesday, August 1, 2006 4:34 PM CDT

I didn't stop by yesterday but you know I was thinking of Saint Luke and his wonderful family! Love you Ivy.
Deirdre <Deirdre40@frontiernet.net>
- Tuesday, August 1, 2006 2:13 PM CDT

Super Lukie how missed you are. I wish we would have had the chance to meet the sweet little boy who has been on our minds and in our hearts for the past three years. You have left your footprints on many hearts. You are never forgotten.
Mommy, Daddy, Joscelyn, Dane and Autumn- I know how much your hearts are aching today and everyday. Luke has touched me in a way I can't even describe. I'm glad to have met his wonderful family, even though we never had a chance to know him. You have been on my mind all day and it was when I saw the newspaper that I realized I had not been by to let you know I was thinking of you.
Beth L <beanieb@earthlink.net>
Mansfield, OH USA - Monday, July 31, 2006 10:52 PM CDT

Dearest Angel Luke, When I woke up this morning my first thought was of you sweet baby Lukie. How much we miss you! It seems like forever but then it only seems like a day since you were here with us. I cannot wish you back, we know where you are and how very happy you are. We wait for the day when we will see you again. I LOVE that photo of you and Joseclyn that Mommy put on your web page, how precious it is. You may be be gone from us but you are not forgotten. I will always love you sweet baby boy. Till we meet again, Sending you many hugs and much love today and always, give Grammy a hug for me, Barb
Barb <babogner@earthlink.net>
Mansfield, OIHIO USA - Monday, July 31, 2006 6:46 AM CDT

"The time has come to say goodbye.
I'll always be with you, so please don't cry.
I'll see you again when we both have wings.
And then we'll do all sorts of things.
Until that day, please don't ask, "Why?"
Just think of me as a BUTTERFLY."

It is now July 31st where I am and I just was going through all the sweet children's CB pages and checking up on everyone, when I found the above little poem...of course, you know it has meaning for me....and yes, the butterflies are back!
I don't have any other words right now, everything seems so inadequate on such a solemn day. I miss Luke, I miss seeing his photos and hearing about his adventures...I wonder what he would be like now, how he would have changed and grown...I KNOW he would have been the BEST brother ever and I am sure that he is watching over Jossy, Dane and Autumn at this very moment, of that there is no doubt. (and Mommy and Daddy too) I hope you find some comfort in knowing that so many people care, so many share the pain of missing Lukie's earthly presence and so many keep you all in their thoughts and prayers. More than you can know.
Love Tracey xo
Tracey xoxo HAB <traceyhewison@shaw.ca>
Calgary , - Monday, July 31, 2006 2:03 AM CDT

We're sending our love, and prayers for strength and peace as you remember Super Luke and mourn the earthly loss of him, as well as celebrate his life. Know that we'll be with you tomorrow, thinking of you all.

Love, hugs and kisses,

Nan, Lars, Johan ( www.caringbridge.org/visit/johanlofas ), Finn and Ava xxxxxxooooooooo

Love,

Nan and family
www.caringbridge.org/visit/johanlofas
Nan Lofas <lofas1@comcast.net>
Portland, OR 97225 - Sunday, July 30, 2006 9:43 PM CDT

sorry to hear about your little boy. it is hard to lose someone that close to you. I can not tell you i know what you are going through but it has to be rough. just think you will see him again one day when we all get called home.
Rebecca <hot_6908@yahoo.com>
Pomeroy, OH USA - Saturday, July 29, 2006 5:13 PM CDT

Lukies Precious Family I'm thinking of you constantly as we lead up to 3 years. The Lord is our strength and foundation fully rely on him.
Melissa
Wylie, TX - Saturday, July 29, 2006 11:45 AM CDT

I haven't signed in a very long time!! I check on you and your family all the time. my thoughts and prayers are with as you near the end of the month!! Love to all, Melissa(a friend in Virginia Beach)
Melissa Wasinger <mgwas6@cox.net>
Virginia Beach, VA USA - Saturday, July 29, 2006 9:22 AM CDT

Ivy and Monte,

I am thinking of you very much as we lead up to the anniversary of Luke's flight to Heaven. I can't believe it is almost three years. I was very touched to see the photo of Lukie and Joscelyn, and also the one of Monte and Luke holding hands. You know we will never, ever forget Luke.
Love Tracey xoxo HAB <traceyhewison@shaw.ca>
Calgary , - Saturday, July 29, 2006 3:02 AM CDT

Dear Ivy & family,

Praying extra hard during these anniversary days. Our temporal lives truly are but a drop in the bucket compared to eternity and some day the Good LORD shall call you home also....to spend eternity with Him and with Lukie.

I pray many blessings for your family on this difficult journey. I pray that Lukie's story bring Glory to God and that God continue to use that story to bring others home.

Thinking of you,
The Paquette's: Monica, John, Aubrey, Saint Gabrielle, and Noah
Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Friday, July 28, 2006 4:34 PM CDT

Thank you for Sharing Luke with us~* You are very right that he is not gone nor forgotten. When ever I think of Whats waiting for us all on the other side, I see him and his sweet smile. I know God's promise and I think of that and thank him daily knowing that there is a place for us all.~* Much love today and always. Your Florida friends. Lin, Jim, Angel Lori, Mike, Amy n Jimmy-Joe~*Jimmy Joe

Lin <jimmyk1@bellsouth.net>
Boca Raton, Fl. USofA - Monday, July 17, 2006 10:01 AM CDT

Ivy and Monte, Joscelyn, Dane, Autumn,

I am so very sorry that I am late signing in for Luke's birthday, but please do know that I have been thinking so much of Luke these last few weeks. I know this is such a difficult time for you as you miss your sweet Luke's presence here on Earth. I am oh so grateful for the gift that is Luke's soul and that I was led to 'know' of such a very special boy and his wonderful family. I love you guys! It is one of my most fervent wishes, that while I was not blessed to meet Luke while he was here with us, that I will one day meet him in Heaven! I can't wait to scoop him up and give him the biggest, tightest squeeze!
Love and hugs, keeping you all in my prayers,
Tracey xoxo HAB <traceyhewison@shaw.ca>
Calgary , - Tuesday, July 11, 2006 3:31 AM CDT

YES INDEED!!!!!!
(((THANK YOU LORD))) that Luke LIVED!! And that he CONTINUES to LIVE - alive and well in Your glad city! HASTE the day when we too, will be with him there, and rejoice to be with You! AMEN and Amen!

Sending you a BIG HUG, Ivy! I'm a terrible guestbook signer but you are never far from my thoughts. I think of you daily - we'll always be friends, and one day.. face to face! I hope you have a good week, dear friend!
Love and Hugs,

A LEGACY OF HOPE! Cancer Support & Encouragement
Lynn <lynn@legacyofhope.org>
Panama City, FL USA - Monday, July 10, 2006 11:26 AM CDT

Happy Birthday Luke! Ivy, it's good to hear from you. We love you too!
Kasey Gunde <topgund@aol.com>
Mount Holly, NC US - Saturday, July 8, 2006 11:19 PM CDT

Happy 6th Birthday to my Super Lukie!!
Hi Ivy and Family,
As always stopping in to let you know you are never far from my thoughts...especially today.
My favorite uncle's birthday is also today. He left us 3 years ago but it seems like only yesterday. I miss him so.
All I can say is Thank God for memories.
Love and Prayers to All.
Linda <Linda.nascar@verizon.net>
Lafayette, In U.S.A. - Saturday, July 8, 2006 5:41 PM CDT

My sweet Super Lukie!!

Not a day goes by that I don't think of you! You etched your little self into my heart forever!

Happy 6th Birthday sweetheart!!

Monte and Ivy - thinking of you both and sending up prayers with loads of hugs and all my love!
Cathy Wiggins <Mommy2Dev@msn.com>
Fort Worth, TX USA - Saturday, July 8, 2006 5:28 PM CDT

Happy Birthday Super Luke! I can only imagine how hard this day is for Mommy & Daddy, as I know they are missing you terribly. You are our super-hero Lukie.
Thinking of you all as you celebrate Luke's life.
Beth L <beanieb@earthlink.net>
Mansfield, OH USA - Saturday, July 8, 2006 10:36 AM CDT

Rough month for you Ervins to be sure. Take care and know I think about you every day. Maybe we'll get to see you in a couple weeks!

Happy Birthday Lukie!!

with love, <Deirdre40@frontiernet.net>
- Saturday, July 8, 2006 9:23 AM CDT

Ivy and family,

We have been thinking about you a lot this week.

Today, I took Johan, Finn and Ava out to Sauvie Island to pick berries(Sauvie is a beautiful little island tucked between the Columbia and Willamette Rivers, just a stone's throw from Portland.) As my friend Heather and I were talking while our kids were picking and eating, I said, "Tomorrow is Luke's birthday" "It is?", she replied. "How is Ivy and her family?" "Fine", I said. "But this is a very hard time for them right now. This is the month of both Luke's birth and his death." "Oh. That must be so hard", she replied. And we both fell silent for a few minutes as we reflected on all that.

And, to think, neither Heather nor I have ever had the privilege of meeting any of you in person.

That's how much Luke's journey has impacted us all. He has taught us so much about embracing life, seizing joy and happiness, being brave, toughing it out, holding on, and finally, letting go. My friends and I marvel at this journey that you all have taken, and continue to take. We laugh and cry with you. We send our love, prayers and hugs to Joscelyn, Dane and Autumn, with extra hugs for Joscelyn for being such a brave, wonderful big sister during a very difficult and stressful time.

Ivy, as we look towards another possible hurdle in Johan's brain-tumor journey, I know I have more strength and ability to face this cancer monster because of your friendship, support and understanding. You are walking in front of me holding up light and helping me find my way.

Happy, happy birthday Luke Gabriel Ervin! Your birth and life have been a blessing to us all.

Love,

Nan, Lars, Johan, Finn and Ava xxoo <lofas1@comcast.net>
Portland, OR - Friday, July 7, 2006 7:22 PM CDT

We miss them all the time. We miss them forever. We know from experience however, how, incredible as it is to believe, some days the pain can be even deeper and keener. I pray that our Lord will hold you extra close and that you might know His comfort and peace in a very special way as you celebrate the remembrance of Luke's birth and unforgettable life with you this side of Heaven and as his Homegoing anniversary approaches.

In His Love,
Yolanda Rogers
http://www.galatians5.com

Mom to Anna
Alt Springs, FL USA - Friday, July 7, 2006 5:37 PM CDT

I am a long time visitor to Luke's site. In fact Luke's was my first Caringbridge site and since coming here for the first time nearly three years ago, I have become very familiar with the Caringbridge world. The Caringbridge community, as sad as it is that it even has to exist, is also a world of courage, hope, faith and incredible love as people from near and far support sick children and their families through the worst (and sometimes the best) of times. Over the last few years, I have developed deep friendships with Caringbridge families. I have learned to pray in a whole new way. I have listened and learned. I have learned what living really is. And I have learned what dying really is too. I have rejoiced with the good times and cried and cried over the losses. It all started with Luke's site. I got here accidentally (of course, there are no accidents!) : ) and was immediately drawn in by Luke's story and the incredble pictures of your family. I have watched Joscelyn grow so much. It was always hard to believe that she was as young as she was when Luke was sick because she seemed so grown up. And Dane and Autumn are a joy to watch too. But Luke.....he was truly a treasure. I know that tomorrow is his birthday and I wanted you to know how much of an impact Luke, his story and your site have meant to me. Thank you for sharing so much of yourselves and your family with people that you don't even know. You have truly touched and changed my life. Love to you on Luke's birthday and every day. Celeste
Celeste <starrystarrynight25@yahoo.com>
Moultonborough, NH USA - Friday, July 7, 2006 10:43 AM CDT

Ivy, I was thinking about you. I hope your doing ok. We have not heard from you in a long time. You are in my thoughts and prayers this month. Miss you!
Kasey Gunde <topgund@aol.com>
Mount Holly, NC US - Wednesday, July 5, 2006 11:55 AM CDT

Just poppin' in to look at the cuties!!!

All my Love!!!

BTW - Im watching the special on PBS right at this moment!
Cathy Wiggins <Mommy2Dev@msn.com>
Fort Worth, TX - Wednesday, June 21, 2006 8:29 PM CDT

Happy Father's Day Monte! Hope all is well at the Ervin household. It's been a while since a post. Have a great week.
Beth L <beanieb@earthlink.net>
Mansfield, OH USA - Sunday, June 18, 2006 1:33 PM CDT

Hi Ivy,

I can't tell you how much your support means to me as we wend our way though this next phase of Johan's brain-tumor journey. I was thinking about your most recent email to me and wanted to share some thoughts with you (as well as with other friends and loved ones who might be reading this.)

I know you miss Luke every minute of every day and I know it gets even harder as you move closer both to the day of his birth and the day of his death. I wish there was something I could do to take away some of your suffering and sadness. While it may be small comfort, know that I (and I'm sure many, many others) think of him often, and never forget the journey that you and your family have been through. We will meet and stand with you wherever you are and however you are feeling. We know that your lives will never be the same and that you will carry the loss of Luke with you always. Hopefully, our presence will help lighten your load a little.

I'm here if you need anything - a shoulder to cry on, someone to laugh with, to muse with, pray with.

Love to you and your family,

Nan and family xxoo
Nan Lofas <lofas1@comcast.net>
Portland, OR USA - Wednesday, June 14, 2006 10:44 PM CDT

Hi All,
Hope all is going well.
Think of you often.
Thanks so much for the pictures on the site.
The falls look magnificent...along with the kids. Oh yea, Monte too....
Linda <Linda.nascar@verizon.net>
Lafayette, Indiana U.S.A. - Sunday, June 4, 2006 6:01 PM CDT

Hello Friend!

Yes.. do I ever know about the hectic life!! It's been BUSY around here too.. but I am always thinking of you.. remembering you in my heart and prayers. What wonderful pictures! Thanks so much for always including me in the album sharing - I LOOOVE looking at family photos and watching everyone grow!! And the vacation photos are really neat -I'll probably never see the falls in person and you got some GREAT shots, so in a way, I've now been there! : )

You all have a wonderful summer and I'll be visiting regularly! (in between kids' baseball and softball!) : /

Sigh.. it's a mom's life! LOL!
Love and hugs!

A LEGACY OF HOPE! Cancer Support & Encouragement
Lynn <lynn@legacyofhope.org>
Panama City, FL USA - Friday, May 19, 2006 10:29 PM CDT

Just checking in to say "Hey"
Have a great week.
Linda <Linda.nascar@verizon.net>
Lafayette, In U.S.A. - Monday, May 15, 2006 5:19 PM CDT

Ivy- Just stopping by to wish you a Happy Mother's Day.
Beth L. <beanieb@neo.rr.com>
Mansfield, OH USA - Sunday, May 14, 2006 3:19 PM CDT

Happy Mother's Day, Ivy!!

(and belated birthday greetings for Monte!)

Love Tracey xoxo <traceyhewison@shaw.ca>
Calgary, - Sunday, May 14, 2006 1:44 PM CDT

MR.MONTE,

HAPPY BIRTHDAY.
EAT LOTS OF CAKE FOR ME, OK!!!
Linda <Linda.nascar@verizon.net>
Lafayette, In U.S.A. - Thursday, May 11, 2006 7:01 PM CDT

Well, here it is again- your birthday, and I want you to remember one thing...go ahead, just try to remember one thing!! hehe
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU,
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR MONTE (and my husband, Jason),
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!!
I should have made you a cake. My husband has been on this "low carb kick", so I didn't make him one for fear of getting in trouble! But you would've loved it. Hope you have an awesome day. I know there will be yummy things for dinner tonight. Have a great birthday.
Beth L <beanieb@neo.rr.com>
Mansfield, OH USA - Thursday, May 11, 2006 1:08 PM CDT

Dear Monte,
HAPPY BIRTHDAY! Remember it's "YOUR DAY". I wouldn't share my birthday cake with anyone or my ice cream. Remember it's "HAPPY PRESENTS DAY". And when you open the last present ask "is that all?". Remember it's "YOUR DAY".
But knowing the nice guy that your are you probably will let the family share your cake and ice cream. May your birthday bring you life's real gifts . . . good health, friendship and love. HAPPY BIRTHDAY! Love you, Barb
Barb <babogner@earthlink.net>
Mansfield, OHIO USA - Thursday, May 11, 2006 9:00 AM CDT

It sounds like a much needed break for you all. I love the picture of the kids, they are beautiful and growing so fast.

Thinking of you and your family everyday,
Kim Beccard
Omaha, NE - Monday, May 8, 2006 10:40 PM CDT

Thank you for inviting me to Luke's web page. I see that the falls were as beautiful as ever! I am glad you had nice weather for your mini vacation:) Take care and God Bless you...
Holly Holmes <holmes1103@earthlink.net>
Lexington, OH USA - Friday, May 5, 2006 9:32 AM CDT

Ivy & gang- So glad to hear you had a wonderful time. Looks like the weather must've been warm- I see t-shirts! Now you know why I love it there so much. Especially when you stand at the Horseshoe falls- right at the edge, and watch it roll over the falls, it is just mesmerizing- almost makes you want to jump-LOL! Glad you had fun and made some new memories with the kids. Sorry about the scary characters Dane! And the bill for the bead too! Have a great week.
Beth L <beanieb@neo.rr.com>
Mansfield, OH USA - Friday, May 5, 2006 8:16 AM CDT

God Bless you Ivy, I'm thinking of you
Kasey Gunde <topgund@aol.com>
Mount Holly, NC US` - Wednesday, May 3, 2006 9:52 PM CDT

Hi,Ivy,
What a rotten day here in Indiana.
Spring..I don't think so.
God Bless and Love to All,
Linda
Linda <Linda.nascar@verizon.net>
Lafayette, In U.S.A. - Sunday, April 30, 2006 4:47 PM CDT

Hi Ivy,
Just checking in to let you know I'm thinking about you all.
Hope all is going good for you....NO more sickness!!!

Linda <Linda.nascar@verizon.net>
Lafayette, In U.S.A. - Monday, April 24, 2006 5:31 PM CDT

Ivy,
Happy Easter to you all. For some reason, Easter is the holiday that always reminds me the most of Luke. So precious all decked out in his Easter suit :-) Yes, your Mama was beautiful....seeing that photo, I can now see the incredible resemblance with Joscelyn. I had not noticed that before, but now I see it. I am so sorry, I have been so busy with life, the kids, HAB, that I did not realize how long it had been since we had been in touch. I did not understand that you struggled so. I understand, Ivy, I really do, I was there after Quinn was born, not a fun place to be. I am glad you are seeing the light more these days, and making the necessary changes in your life to keep you from that overwhelmed feeling. Thank God for Monte, your friends and your family. I look forward very much to seeing your Easter photos of the children this year. We are leaving tomorrow for a holiday in BC, we need this break, we are very tired from a long winter. I hope you will be refreshed from your upcoming holiday also. Spring is slowly coming to Calgary, there is even a teeny bit of green peeking between the blades of brown grass...I am eager to see what life is coming to my garden upon our return! I think maybe South is the way to go, the Falls could be chilly at this time of year..did you know, when I was 3, I lived in Niagara Falls? (the town, not the Falls, LOL!)
Happy Easter, many wonderful memories of our precious Lukey.
love Tracey xo
Tracey and family xoxo HAB <traceyhewison@shaw.ca>
Calgary, - Thursday, April 13, 2006 9:26 PM CDT

Hello Ivy,

Glad to hear you are all finally well...that was a lot of illness to put up with.

Personally, I agree with Monte and think the Niagra Falls might be too chilly but that is because in my mind "vacation" means "balmy and warm." In fact, we made reservations just last weekend for our summer vacation and we are going to Myrtle Beach, South Carolina. We are staying in a nice condo with low rates in late August.

Hope you are also feeling a little less blue.

God bless and love,
Monica
Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Friday, April 7, 2006 7:03 PM CDT

Being from upstate NY I have to suggest the falls! It will still be chilly BUT there is plenty of fun indoor stuff to do too. Fun places to eat, beautiful falls, a butterfly conservatory, way cool!

We won't be coming out to Ohio for spring break after all so we'll catch you this summer I hope!

with love, <Deirdre40@frontiernet.net>
- Thursday, April 6, 2006 7:10 AM CDT

Just read the latest post... so glad to hear that your sweeties are starting to feel better! Strep is definitely a nasty illness!

Being from Kentucky I have always loved both Mammoth Caves and Natural Bridge... they are truly beautiful places to visit and enjoy with your family. I've gone so many times in my life and I never get tired of hiking the trails and seeing the sights. So I recommend those :O)
Rachel K. <Storm844@aol.com>
Lexington, Ky USA - Wednesday, April 5, 2006 9:26 PM CDT

Hi All,
Just read your latest post and was so glad to hear that you all are doing better:-)
My sister, her son and I just returned from a trip to Wichita KS to visit my daughter and what fun we had. If you ever have the chance to visit the zoo in Wichita. Do it. It is outstanding. It's on over 235 acres and it is quite amazing.
God Bless.
Linda
Linda <Linda.nascar@verizon.net>
Lafayette, Indiana U.S.A. - Saturday, April 1, 2006 6:42 PM CST

Dear Monte, Ivy, Joscelyn, St. Luke, Mr. Dane and Miss Autumn, Sorry to hear that you have been feeling under the weather. Poor little Dane, get well soon baby. And Miss Autumn being sick also. I feel so bad for all of you right now if SPRING would ever get here maybe everyone would get better. I will be praying for all of you. Love you all and miss you, Barb
P.S. When the weather gets nice we will have to go somewhere together. I just got a new keyboard and I am having trouble typing.
Barb <babogner@earthlink.net>
Mansfield, OHIO USA - Friday, March 24, 2006 8:33 AM CST

"Suffering was not a way of life for Job; it was a valley he passed through. The Scripture says we may have to 'walk through the valley of the shadow of death' (Psalm 23:4) but it doesn't say we have to build our homes there."
AMEN!!! I will pray extra hard for you! I am so sorry you are going through such a hard time!
jessica
new virginia, ia usa - Wednesday, March 22, 2006 4:35 PM CST

AMEN!!
Praying for poor Dane!

with love, <Deirdre40@frontiernet.net>
- Tuesday, March 21, 2006 5:40 PM CST

THIS IS TO MR. DANE.....GET WELL SOON!!!!
IVY...THIS IS TO YOU.....PLEASE TAKE CARE AND KNOW YOU ARE SURROUNDED BY LOVE AND PRAYERS.
Linda <Linda.nascar@verizon.net>
Lafayette, In U.S.A. - Tuesday, March 21, 2006 3:27 PM CST

Ivy, I wrote mt e-mail address wrong...its EAShaferxyz@aol.com
Beth Shafer <EAShaferxyz@aol.com>
- Monday, March 20, 2006 2:04 PM CST

Hi Ivy sure has been a long time since Ive seen or talked to you. But I wanted to let you know that I still visit this website at least 2x a month. You are always in my thoughts. I really do admire all your strength and wisdom. Glad to hear you are diong better. Take care, Love Always, Beth Shafer
Beth Shafer <EAShsferxyz@aol.com>
Mansfielld, oh - Monday, March 20, 2006 1:55 PM CST

Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Ruth <BLUEEYED_FEMALE@MSN.COM>
Hinton, WV US - Thursday, March 16, 2006 1:20 PM CST

I don't pity you, I admire you! You know that I do!
A friend sent me this and I'm passing it around:
This is God. Today I will be handling All of your problems for you. I do
Not need your help. So, have a nice day.

I love you.

with love, <Deirdre40@frontiernet.net>
- Wednesday, March 15, 2006 7:06 AM CST

Dear Ivy,

I don't pity you...I just understand even though our situations are a little different. I will always pray for you.

Love,
Monica
Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Wednesday, March 8, 2006 4:27 PM CST

Hi Ivy,
Just checking in to let you know you are in my thoughts and prayers. Hope the days are seeming a little brighter for both you and your dad.
God Bless All

Linda <Linda.nascar@verizon.net>
Lafayette, In U.S.A. - Sunday, February 26, 2006 1:32 PM CST

Hello Ivy and family,

You are in my prayers every night and I am still praying for your father. I'm so sorry for all that has happened. But we know that now the souls of both Lukie and your mother are praising God and beholding Him at this very moment.

Praise to our ever loving and ever perfect Father in Heaven!

God bless and love,
Monica
Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Saturday, February 18, 2006 10:44 AM CST

Hello! My name is Jennifer Tidwell! i found your name on the hugs and hope web site! I hope you have a very good day!
Jennifer Tidwell <tiredofbullshyt2002@yahoo.co.uk>
Lake Charles, La usa - Friday, February 17, 2006 12:04 AM CST

Hi Monte, Ivy, Joscelyn, Angel Luke, Mr. Dane and Princess Autumn, Just stopping by to wish you all a "Happy Valentine's Day". Hey Joscelyn, did you have a party at school today with Valentines and goodies to eat? Do you have a special little boyfriend? I bet you do. Much love and many hugs, Barb
Barb <babogner@earthlink.net>
Mansfield, OHIO USA - Tuesday, February 14, 2006 6:02 PM CST

Ivy,
All I can say is WOW. Reading your latest journal felt like someone was putting into words exactly what I felt when my mom passed away. We (dad, myself, brother and sister)were by her hospital bed, holding her, talking to her, soaking in every single last moments we had with her.. everything you described is everything I felt. Just wanted you to know that I'm thinking of your family always.. I know I don't write in often but I can assure you I check in regularly... Autumn is just so precious :) I can't believe how big Joscelyn and Dane are now... I still remember when we welcomed Dane into this world. Now there's Autumn.. time flies. Hope you are all hanging in there and taking each day as it comes... lots of love from Down Under!

~*~*Girlie's Page*~*~

Love & hugs,
XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO
Janice <janiceliew1981@yahoo.com>
Melbourne, Australia - Tuesday, February 7, 2006 4:42 PM CST

Ivy, You are just one terrific strong person. To go through what you have and to be able to share your thoughts like you do is simply amazing. You are to be admired. What a wonderful mother, daughter and wife you are. God is SO in you. God Bless you and your family.
Karen Hughett <kuggylee@yahoo.com>
Butler, OH 44822 - Monday, February 6, 2006 7:07 PM CST

It was so good to log on and see you had posted something.Was getting concerned, but at the same time understood.Thanks so much for sharing your pictures.
What a "lady" you are.
Linda <Linda.nascar@verizon.net>
Lafayette, In U.S.A. - Monday, February 6, 2006 2:24 PM CST

I feel a little guilty for not e-mailing more now that I know you had such a rough time of it. Yes your mom's wedding picture is beautiful and so is the last picture you posted of her. I know Luke has to be on your mind almost constantly and even more so when you encounter death again. Luke and his grandma are together now, no pain, no suffering, no tears just pure, complete, absolute, happiness and peace!

with love and prayers <Deirdre40@frontiernet.net>
- Sunday, February 5, 2006 2:29 PM CST

God's blessings to you. As a nurse I do not see how anyone can go through what you went through with your son. It is only in God's loving comfort that we make it day to day.
Robin <jaxper1958@yahoo.com>
Mansfield, Oh USA - Saturday, February 4, 2006 12:16 AM CST

Jimmy Joe
Hi! I enjoyed seeing all the latest pics. Thank you so much for sharing. Im so sick with this upper resp. flu bug, I cant find a comfortable spot in the house. I went online and got your email with the pictures and just sat here enjoying the pictures and little comments under each one. Much love to all. Stay warm. I love those cuddle days too, but when Im sick the kids avoid me like the plague. :0( sniff. lol. Love, Lin, Jim, Angel Lori, Mike, Amy n Jimmy-Joe~*
Lin <jimmyk1@bellsouth.net>
Boca Raton, Fl. USofA - Tuesday, January 31, 2006 12:09 AM CST

Hi Ivy,
It was good to see an update from you today. I cannot imagine how difficult it is to go on without your Mom, and we'll keep all of you and especially your Dad in our thoughts and prayers. I am very much looking forward to hearing how Christmas went for the children. I loved all the new photos, Autumn is absolutely adorable and Dane is getting so big. Jossy is of course, so very grown up and such a special girl. I hope I get to meet you all one day in the future.And Luke as well :-)
Love and hugs,
Tracey and family xoxo HAB <traceyhewison@shaw.ca>
Calgary , - Thursday, January 26, 2006 11:19 AM CST

Ivy,
Just checkin' as usual to let you know I'm thinking about you all.
Hope are all well.

Linda
Linda Tracy <Linda.nascar@verizon.net>
Lafayette, In U.S.A. - Monday, January 16, 2006 2:01 PM CST

Cara Ivy,
I was 'off-line' for a while and I have just learnt of your mum's passing. I wanted to present you with my deepest condolences. I know you'll find great comfort knowing that God now has a very lovingly helping hand in taking care of your sweet Super-Lukie. I, too, wonder the radious look on her face when she would have held Lukie again. I am relieved knowing she's no longer suffering and finally in the Light, but I do also know how much you are missing her. My heart goes to you all as you walk through yet another pain. Hugs to your whole family, both on Earth and in Heaven. A special hug to your Dad. LOL

Sabrina <morini@agriflex.it>
Italy - Monday, January 16, 2006 6:58 AM CST

Ivy,
I bet your Mom and "Lukie" are having the times of their life. So glad to hear your dad is doing ok. He too is in our prayers.
Bless you All,
Linda
Linda <Linda.nascar@verizon.net>
Lafayette, In U.S.A. - Wednesday, January 11, 2006 7:47 PM CST

Ivy,

I came across you page and I just wanted ro say how sorry Iam about your Mom. I lost my Mom on November 27th she had a stroke well actually 2 and 2 heart attacks she was only 46.

Ashlee

www.caringbridge.org/canada/ashlee
Ashlee Dagenais <mwccamper@yahoo.ca>
north bay, ON canada - Thursday, January 5, 2006 5:16 PM CST

Ivy,

I just learned today that the Lord called your Mother home. My heart aches for the pain I know you are revisiting.

The Lord is always faithful, lean on him for comfort.

In my prayers,

Melissa <mehartley7@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, January 4, 2006 2:31 PM CST

I was so sorry to hear your mum passed away,

all my love

Viks from Post Pals and HAB
viks <viks@postpals.co.uk>
- Sunday, January 1, 2006 3:29 PM CST

WHO YOUD BE TODAY
Sunny days seem to hurt the most
Wear the pain like a heavy coat
I feel you everywhere I go
See yur smile,I see your face
I hear you laughing in the rain
Still can't believe your gone...

It ain't fair you died to young
Like a story that had just begin
But death tore the pages all away
God knows how I miss you
All the hell that I've been through
Just knowing, no one could take your place
Sometimes I wonder, who you'd be today ...

Would you see the world
Would you chase your dreams
Settle down with a family
I wonder what would you name your babies
Someday's the sky's so blue
I feel like I can talk to you
And I know it might sound crazy....

Today, today, today,
Today, today, today ....

Sunny days seem to hurt the most
I wear the pain like a heavy coat
The only thing that gives me hope
Is I know, I'll see you again someday....

Someday, someday....

This is a country western song and I think about Little Luke everytime I hear it... It's put out by Kenny Chensney

Mr. & Mrs. Charles Steward <chuckmick2002@yahoo.com>
Mansfield, Ohio Richland - Sunday, January 1, 2006 11:00 AM CST

So sorry for your loss.
Cindy Wright
Tennessee, - Friday, December 30, 2005 3:08 PM CST

Dear Ivy and Family,

We were so saddened to hear of the loss of your Mom, but we know that she was very, very tired. I loved the wording in her obituary that she "loved being a mother, but enjoyed being a grandmother more." How true that is for me, also! And to think that she is now in the presence of a cherished grandson, Luke! Praying for comfort for your family, love, Kathy and family
Kathy Welch <abbysmamaa@yahoo.com>
Lexington, Ohio - Friday, December 30, 2005 12:12 AM CST

Dear Ivy,

I'm so very, very sorry. This must be so hard and is so soon after losing precious Lukie. I'm worried about your father and will keep him in my prayers when I pray for your family.

Hold on to your faith and His faithful promises.

Love,
Monica & family
Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Friday, December 30, 2005 10:03 AM CST

Sweet Ivy and family,

In my thoughts and in my mind you are with me all the time.
Bless you all and please let your Dad know that he too is our prayers.
Linda

Linda <Linda.nascar@verizon.net>
Lafayette, In U.S.A. - Thursday, December 29, 2005 3:58 PM CST

Dear Ivy, I am so sad to hear of the loss of your sweet mother but we all know where she is and oh how happy she must be to be with little Luke. Someday we will all join them and be together again. I will keep your Dad and the whole family in my prayers. Thinking of all of you in your time of need. Much love, Barb
Barb <babogner@earthlink.net>
Mansfield, OHIO USA - Thursday, December 29, 2005 6:47 AM CST

Dear Ivy,
I'm so sorry that you lost your mother today. I know that she will be sorely missed even with the knowledge that she is now painfree & with your precious son. Your family remains in my prayers. May God bless you all.
Rhonda Chesney <getnonnie@yahoo.com>
Kinderhook, IL - Wednesday, December 28, 2005 11:28 PM CST

Dear Ivy, Monte and family,

I have just checked my emails Ivy, and saw the two from you. I am so very sorry to hear of the loss of your sweet Mom but am happy that she suffers no longer, has won the battle and taken her place at Lukey's side in Heaven. You
all remain in our thoughts and prayers, we are so sorry for your loss. I know you will miss your Mom very much, she looked like a very special lady. I will email you more when we get home,
hugs, love and peace,

Tracey, Steve, Quinn, Callum and extended family xoxo HAB <traceyhewison@shaw.ca>
Panorama, BC, - Wednesday, December 28, 2005 8:56 PM CST

Dear Ervin Family you are all in our prayers and your dad and brother and anyone else in your family prayers are going your way sorry to hear your mother passed but a good thing no longer in pain gone to see St. Luke... If there's something we can do just let us know love hugs and prayers
chuckmick2002
chuckmick <chuckmick2002@yahoo.com>
Mansfield, Ohio Richland - Wednesday, December 28, 2005 6:35 PM CST

I have been checking your web site almost daily. I am so sorry to hear about your mom Ivy! May you hold close at this time! My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Love, Lin, Jim n kids~
Lin <jimmyk1@bellsouth.net>
Boca raton, Fl USofA - Wednesday, December 28, 2005 6:12 PM CST

IVY AND FAMILY,
ON THIS DAY AFTER CHRISTMAS I WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT YOU WERE ALL IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS YESTERDAY. ALSO HOPE THAT YOUR DEAR MOM IS DOING OK.
GOD BLESS ALL.
Linda <Linda.nascar@verizon.net>
Lafayette, Indiana U.S.A. - Monday, December 26, 2005 5:03 PM CST

MERRY CHRISTMAS ERVINS! Just wanted to let you know you're in my thoughts today.
Beth L <beanieb@neo.rr.com>
Mansfield, OH USA - Sunday, December 25, 2005 8:28 PM CST

Ivy, keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers on this special day.
Warm hugs,
Tracey and family xoxo HAB <traceyhewison@shaw.ca>
Calgary, - Sunday, December 25, 2005 1:09 PM CST

My Dear Angel Luke, You are the first peron I thought about this morning after wishing Jesus a "Happy Birthday". I know that you are safe in the arms of Jesus and ever so happy but we still miss you and wish you were here with us. Give Jesus a "BIG" birthday hug from me. Love you forever and forever, Barb
Barb <babogner@earthlink.net>
Mansfield, OHIO USA - Sunday, December 25, 2005 6:39 AM CST

IVY,
JUST READ YOUR UPDATE.
GOD BLESS YOU ALL...
Linda <Linda.nascar@verizon.net>
Lafayette, In U.S.A. - Friday, December 23, 2005 3:28 PM CST

Ivy, I am so sorry I missed your birthday, I was so sure I would not forget but with shopping all day and dashing about, I did :( So, belated Birthday greetings to you, my friend. I know this is not a time of celebration for you and I have been keeping you all close in my thoughts and prayers, especially your Mom. Praying for her peace and for strength for your whole family. God Bless....
love Tracey xo
Tracey and family xoxo HAB <traceyhewison@shaw.ca>
Calgary, Ab, Canada, - Friday, December 23, 2005 10:39 AM CST

Hi Ivy, A little birdie flew by and whispered in my ear "Ivy's having a Birthday today".
HAPPY BIRTHDAY to a wonderful friend, wife, mother and daughter. Hope your special day is "Great". I love the picture of your Mom and Autumn, that is just to precious.
To you and your entire family - "MERRY CHRISTMAS & HAPPY NEW YEAR!" Thinking of you tonight Angel Luke. Hugs, Barb
Barb <babogner@earthlink.net>
Mansfield, OHIO USA - Thursday, December 22, 2005 6:55 PM CST

Happy Birthday Ivy!
What a beautiful picture of your mom and Autumn. I am thinking of you especially often these past few days. Praying your mom will soon find the relief she so much desires. It has to be extremely hard with the holidays approaching. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.
Beth L. <beanieb@neo.rr.com>
Mansfield, OH USA - Thursday, December 22, 2005 9:01 AM CST

Dear Ivy, Monte and Family~* Our prayers to you all. Know that we are thinking of you here in Florida. Much love, Lin, Jim, Angel Lori, Mike, Amy & Jimmy-Joe~*
Lin <jimmyk1@bellsouth.net>
Boca Raton, Fl. UsofA - Thursday, December 22, 2005 6:34 AM CST

Keeping the vigil of prayer... keeping the faith with you... keeping HOPE in our hearts. The things of this world are passing away, but the man/woman who does the will of God will abide forever. Yes, Amen. May the Lord reassure, comfort and accompany your mama as the finish line draws near... urging her to come, to cross that finish line, to win her race... and then to rest, to dine at the Father's table. May He give you "Spirit eyes" to see that which is unseen, but is eternal.

It's hard :"( SO hard, even for we who are HIS. My prayers are for you all, and my love to you as well. May the Lord give each one of you, the strength to press on.

Loving you in Jesus,

A LEGACY OF HOPE! Cancer Support & Encouragement

Lynn <lynn@legacyofhope.org>
Panama City, FL USA - Wednesday, December 21, 2005 9:20 PM CST

Hello Ivy and family,

I just don't know what to say other than that I am very, very sorry and will say extra prayers for strength for your family...especially your father. I'm sitting here at work just about ready to burst into to tears as you have been such a great friend and I cannot bear to watch more suffering in your family.

God is always good and from what I've heard your mother has been faithful and He will keep His promise.

Praying for you...with tears.

God bless,
Monica
Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Wednesday, December 21, 2005 5:46 PM CST

Dear Ivy,
This is my first time to your web site. Your son is a beautiful angel. I am so sorry for your loss.
I found you through Hugs and Hope...I wanted to let you know that you and your mom ( and family) will be in my thoughts.
Sending caring thoughts your way
Lauren..in memory of my Christopher http://www.thechristopherrainbowproject.org
Plymouth, MI - Wednesday, December 21, 2005 4:17 PM CST

Wow! Your son has passed, and still you update. Thank-You! You are going through such a time, and you still help others. The updates are helpful, people to pray for! Your site is helpful, the links are great! Your courage. Going through such a tough time in your lives, and still trying to spread gods word to others. You are amazing! May god bless, protect, and heal!! You and your family will definetly be in my prayers. Best wishes to your mom.
"Keep your eye on the sky"
Jessica
New Virginia, IA USA - Tuesday, December 20, 2005 4:38 PM CST

Hello Sweet Friend,
What a precious photo of your mom with Autumn! Your mom looks like she is such a sweetheart! There is a precious peace on her face, despite the very difficult circumstances of life... a sweetness there on that face, despite the sorrows life has dealt her precious family. She looks like a gentle, strong woman! God bless her! I can see where you girls get your striking good looks too! She's a very pretty lady and you and Joscelyn favor her so much! I pray the Lord will be merciful and tender to this dear woman.
What a cute photo of Dane and Autumn snoozing together!! : ) BONDING.. hehehe!

Christmas Blessings to the Ervin family! May the Lord bring comfort and peace.

Big Hugs

A LEGACY OF HOPE! Cancer Support & Encouragement

Lynn <lynn@legacyofhope.org>
Panama City, FL USA - Sunday, December 18, 2005 10:23 PM CST

Ivy,

Just want to let you know, your Mom remains firmly in my thoughts and prayers, as do you all at this very difficult time. I wish with all my heart that the doctor's have your Mom's pain under control and she can have her Peace.
You are right, the photo of Dane and Autumn is so, so precious. Also, thank you for sharing the photo of Luke, Daddy and Joscelyn, I can never see enough photo's of Lukey being happy :)
Joscelyn, I am so sorry I missed your birthday, sweetie, I think I forgot that you and Mommy share December birthdays :) I can't believe you are a big girl of seven now, time flies past us. I hope it was a very special birthday for the best big sissy ever! Big hugs and kisses,
love Tracey xo
Tracey xoxo HAB <traceyhewison@shaw.ca>
Calgary, - Sunday, December 18, 2005 3:16 PM CST

Hi Tracey gave me a link to your webpage via hugabug, im sorry to hear your mum is in so much pain, im thinking of you all. lots of love viks
viks <viks@postpals.co.uk>
- Friday, December 16, 2005 6:33 AM CST

Dear Ivy,
sending you lots of hugs at this very difficult time. Your mom's been soooo very brave and strong throughout the last few years especially; your parents always had a special place in my heart. My heart goes out to you all, to your father and to your children. I hope your Mom will heal soon, she's born such a great deal of suffering both physical and emotional, she's been such a tower of strength for you all and a source of comfort and faith for your precious children. I will pray for her to find the will to fight once again and for her pain to greately reduce (none would be better). Tons of hugs to you all. Never forgetting Super-Lukie.
p.s. Joscelyn, I am sorry I missed your birthday.
Sabrina <morini@agriflex.it>
Italy - Friday, December 16, 2005 3:28 AM CST

Oh- Holy -moly, Mom is right!! Happy SEVENTH birthday Joscelyn. She even corrected me once before about your age!! When you get to be my age you hope someone will forget a year :-) I can't believe you are growing up so fast. Hope you had a great day!
Beth L <beanieb@neo.rr.com>
Mansfield, OH USA - Saturday, December 3, 2005 11:11 PM CST

HAPPY BIRTHDAY JOSCELYN, Are you "SEVEN" now? I think that Beth is one year late. I hope that you had a "Great" day. I hope that all your birthday wishes come true. Love you, Barb
Barb <babogner@earthlink.net>
Mansfield, OHIO USA - Saturday, December 3, 2005 6:53 PM CST

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR JOSCELYN,
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!
Happy 6th Birthday, Joscelyn! I hope you have the best birthday ever. I bet Dane will be helping you blow out your candles. Eat some cake and ice cream for me. Sending you lots of love and birthday hugs!

Beth L <beanieb@neo.rr.com>
Mansfield, OH USA - Saturday, December 3, 2005 8:16 AM CST

Sometimes when we are in contact personally, I forget to leave a message when I've been here. I just wanted to send a big hug and say that I am sorry your mom is having such a struggle against this cancer. May the Lord give her his comfort and peace through these trying times. I pray she can be kept comfortable, for I know that bone cancer can cause great pain. I'm glad she was able to spend Thanksgiving Day with you! :")

Dane... snicker... believe it or not - sisters are AWESOME!
: )
Take care friend! See you again soon!
Love and Hugs,

A LEGACY OF HOPE! Cancer Support & Encouragement

Lynn <lynn@legacyofhope.org>
Panama City, FL USA - Thursday, December 1, 2005 12:59 AM CST

Dear Ervins- Just stopping by to wish you a Happy Thanksgiving. I know you have alot to be thankful for this year with the arrival of Miss Autumn. I also know you're hearts are still heavy missing Luke on this day (just as every other). I hope your mom is feeling well enough to enjoy this Holiday with you. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Have a great day- and play in the snow!!
Beth L <beanie@neo.rr.com>
Mansfield, OH USA - Thursday, November 24, 2005 12:05 AM CST

Happy Thanksgiving to you all - thinking of you today! Our prayers are with your Mom and your whole family. Take care!
Love, Anne Jones (Benjamin's mommy) <brianj663@aol.com>
Pickerington, OH - Wednesday, November 23, 2005 6:21 PM CST

Ivy, you are the best! You are an inspiration and I really hope to meet you one day! Praying for your mom and praying you have a nice holiday season. I know it must be difficult but you are so amazing and I know will make the VERY best of it.

with love, <Deirdre40@frontiernet.net>
- Tuesday, November 22, 2005 6:54 AM CST

Always brings a tear to eyes. Thinking of you and sending love and prayers
Aunt Pat
Roanoke, VA USA - Friday, November 11, 2005 6:35 PM CST

Ivy, she is just so GORGEOUS!
I hope you are all doing well and you especially are managing to get some sleep as you can (pretty much impossible with new baby and Dane, I am guessing!) I know Luke is smiling down on you all....
love and hugs,
Tracey xoxo HAB <traceyhewison@shaw.ca>
Calgary, - Sunday, November 6, 2005 0:51 AM CST

First of all Congratulations on the birth of a beautiful and healthy baby girl. Autumn looks just perfect!

It has been a long time since I have visited your site. I remember Luke so fondly. I had lost your website information and found it in some old files today. I can not believe how much Joscelyn has grown...and Dane looks so much like Luke. I think I have not visited your site since shortly after Dane was born. I am glad I have found it again. Hugs, Donna Minshew

Donna Minshew <minshews@mchsi.com>
Tifton, GA - Wednesday, November 2, 2005 3:10 PM CST

Monte & Ivy, it's been such a pleasure getting to know you over the past two months. Your family has grown very dear to my heart and it's nice to finally see a picture of Luke to make the "family photo" in my mind complete. Thanks for blessing me with getting to know you all!!!!
Mark Felty <mfelty@mihomes.com>
Columbus, OH - Wednesday, November 2, 2005 7:44 AM CST

HAPPY HALLOWEEN JOSCELYN, ANGEL LUKIE, DANE AND AUTUMN,

A Halloween "Hi" . . .
'cause I love you,
that's why!

Have a "Great" day and I hope that you do something fun.
Love you, Barb
Barb <babogner@earthlink.net>
Mansfield, OHIO USA - Monday, October 31, 2005 1:20 PM CST

Congratulations on your newest addition. She is beautiful!

This is my first time to Lukie's site. I'm so sorry for your loss. I love the quote on your page about each life being rare and precious - that's beautiful.
Jenn Hartley <ronjenn696@prodigy.net>
Bensalem, PA USA - Friday, October 28, 2005 6:32 AM CDT

Autumn is a beautiful baby, I bet the children are thrilled...I can't believe how much Dane resembles Luke!0
Deanna
OH - Thursday, October 27, 2005 2:16 PM CDT

Ivy and Monte,

Congratulations!!! Welcome baby Autumn Rose!!! You are so very blessed by this littlest new one. But I know that Luke will always be missed so very much...it is just something that will never change.

God bless,
Monica
Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Wednesday, October 26, 2005 5:57 PM CDT

I am so happy for you guys! She is a doll! Congrad! God Bless you all!
Kasey Gunde <topgund@aol.com>
Mount Holly, NC Us - Wednesday, October 26, 2005 5:40 AM CDT

Ivy,
The picture of Lukie looking up while you were in church was heart wrecking....your comment below...Priceless!!!
I know in his own special way he is sending love and kisses down to his new sister.
Enjoy your new little one.
Linda <Linda.nascar@verizon.net>
Lafayette, In U.S.A. - Tuesday, October 25, 2005 4:05 PM CDT

Hi Ervins!
Congratulations on your beautiful baby girl, Autumn!! We're so excited and thrilled for you all! Enjoy all of the sweet moments that a baby brings.
Love, Anne Jones <brianj663@aol.com>
Pickerington, OH - Tuesday, October 25, 2005 10:19 AM CDT

Congratulations on baby Autumn! I wanted to wait to sign so I didn't steal any thunder. She's beautiful, and I'm so happy to see you've been blessed with another wonderful little one!
Krista
Columbus, OH USA - Tuesday, October 25, 2005 9:20 AM CDT

Dear Ivy and Monte, Joscelyn and Dane,
What a beautiful girl Autumn Rose is, absolutely adorable. The golden locks, the rosey cheecks, the little nose, WOW, absolutely beautiful. Another treasured little gift has landed in your arms and I wish to send you my most heartfelt congratulations. Thank you so much for sharing her. I could not congratulate you any earlier for I was home sick last week. Wishing you guys all the best and wishing Josc and Dane wonderful times with their brand new sister. Hugs to ALL your children, on Earth and in Heaven (Super-Lukie, you must be a very proud big brother!)
Sabrina <morini@agriflex.it>
Italy - Monday, October 24, 2005 9:52 AM CDT

Congratulations!! How beautiful she is! So thankful that everything went well. Love, Kathy and family
Kathy Welch <abbysmamaa@yahoo.com>
Lexington, Ohio - Saturday, October 22, 2005 5:10 AM CDT

Guess its safe to say congrats on the guestbook. I didnt want to be the first one since the journal wasnt updated yet for everyone to see. :0) Thanks for the pic of the baby she is beautiful. God's blessings always. Lin, Jim & Fam.~*Jimmy Joe

Lin <jimmyk1@bellsouth.net>
Boca Raton, Fl. USofA - Friday, October 21, 2005 11:46 AM CDT

Wanted to say glad things went well with you and the new baby, I spent alittle time with Dane today... While his dad was doing alittle work related job today before he went to get Ivy and baby from hospital.. He is one fine little guy well behaved, but one thing I guess I brought out the best of the little guy, how? He messed his pants hee hee hee... He helped me work in our unit case of heat in there and no heat next door where his dad was....
Take care sending alot of hugs and love and prays your way... chuckmick2002
chuckmick <chuckmick2002@yahoo.com>
Mansfield, oh Richland - Thursday, October 20, 2005 6:43 PM CDT

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!
SURE WISH I WAS CLOSER:-)
ENJOY YOUR NEW ADDITION AND GOD BLESS ALL.
Linda <Linda.nascar@verizon.net>
Lafayette, In U.S.A. - Thursday, October 20, 2005 6:26 PM CDT

Dear Ivy, it was so nice to see you yesterday. You and Monte are always in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs to Joseclyn, Angel Luke and Dane. Love you, Barb
Barb <babogner@earthlink.net>
Mansfield, OHIO USA - Wednesday, October 19, 2005 8:45 AM CDT

So glad Monte's surgery went well. I have a cyst like that on my left backside of my wrist. It comes and goes, but I know it'll have to gooooooo one of these days. Glad to hear it was a breeze for him. maybe I wont be so scared when I have to finally go in for mine. Hugs to all and hope baby Autumn arrives soon. Love, Lin, Jim, Angel Lori, Mike, Amy & Jimmy-Joe~* Jimmy Joe

Lin <jimmyk1@bellsouth.net>
Boca Raton, Fl. USofA - Friday, October 14, 2005 0:23 AM CDT

Dear Ivy,

Just want to say thank you...and praying that Autumn Rose arrives soon!!

God bless,
Monica
Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Thursday, October 13, 2005 2:03 PM CDT

Dear All,
I am very pleased to read that Monte's surgery went fine.
Thinking of you as you wait any time for Baby Autumn Rose's "landing" in this world. In Bocca Al Lupo. Hugs to ALL your children.
Sabrina <morini@agriflex.it>
Italy - Thursday, October 13, 2005 4:15 AM CDT

HI IVY,
CAN'T WAIT TO HEAR WHEN AUTUMN ROSE MAKES HER "DEBUTE"
THINK ABOUT YOU ALL OFTEN AND ALWAYS KNOW YOU ARE IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS.
Linda Tracy <Linda.nascar@verizon.net>
Lafayette, Indiana U.S.A. - Wednesday, October 12, 2005 5:58 PM CDT

Hi Ivy and Monte, I love that picture of the two of you. Monte, I hope that your surgery went well and soon you will be able to change all those baby diapers. HeeHee!
Can't wait till Autumn Rose arrives. You have a beautiful family. Always remembering "Angel Lukie". Love you, Barb
Barb <babogner@earthlink.net>
Mansfield, OHIO USA - Monday, October 10, 2005 8:28 AM CDT

Hope your doing good! I know how you feel about ready to have that baby girl! I am due with a baby girl Nov 15th, also. God Bless you!
Kasey Gunde <topgund@aol.com>
Mount Holly, NC US - Saturday, October 8, 2005 5:16 PM CDT

Wow! talk about HAIR!! Are you sure that wasn't the 80s?
I can't get over Luke's picture 36 days before he won his battle. He looks so healthy! Cancer must turn on you like a freight train.

I will pray Autumn comes soon! My b-day is the 9th so I'll pray extra on that day : P
Take care guys
love <deirdre40@frontiernet.net>
- Thursday, October 6, 2005 8:25 AM CDT

Hello Ivy,

Thank you for the phone call! And I love the picture of you and Monte...what a great idea. I don't think we even have an engagement photo.

Thinking of you...praying for you.

God bless,
Gabrielle's Mama
Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Tuesday, October 4, 2005 6:38 PM CDT

Sending you guys a great big kiss~~** What can I say about the hair?? I am guilty of the same style back then. lol. It did look great didnt it? I do remember the high maintenance, though. Would never have time for it now. Now onto Monte!!! He has it all over Jessie from Full House. lol. I think Monte's "mullet" was way cooler. lol. You 2 crack me up. Your the greatest!! Thank you for always sharing and I love your scriptures that you leave on sweet Luke's site, they keep us thinking about the real picture. I am always in awe of your family and am honored to be your cyber friend. Much love, Lin, Jim, Angel Lori, Mike, Amy & Jimmy-Joe~* Jimmy Joe

Lin <jimmyk1@bellsouth.net>
Boca Raton, Fl. USofA - Sunday, October 2, 2005 7:42 AM CDT

Wow! Nine years and (almost) four kids later and you guys still look great!! I'm glad you're getting down to the last few weeks until Miss Autumn is born; it won't be too many more until Miss Natalie makes her appearance! :) Holly just keeps growing and growing; she would appreciate it greatly if Natalie doesn't get TOO big. Praying for both of you to have safe deliveries and happy, healthy little girls. Love, Kathy
Kathy Welch <abbysmamaa@yahoo.com>
Lexington, Ohio - Saturday, October 1, 2005 3:52 PM CDT

Ivy-
THAT HAIR!!!!!!!!!!! ;)
Love it!
Holly <berryfalls@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, October 1, 2005 0:17 AM CDT

Happy (belated) Anniversary to you! Wow- what a beautiful picture of you guys. I hope Monte does well with his surgery Friday. My sister's mother-in-law had one of those cysts removed. Can't wait to meet Miss Autumn- you better not deliver when I'm off!! Have a great weekend.
Beth L <beanieb@neo.rr.com>
Mansfield, OH USA - Friday, September 30, 2005 10:36 PM CDT

*~*~*~*~HAPPY ANNIVERSARY~*~*~*~*
I loved the engagement photo!!! Sheesh, I KNOW all about not fitting into "those clothes" prior to pregnancy....yep, still trying to lose all that "baby weight" I gained....oh wait - he's 11!!!!!!!!!!! Can't use THAT excuse anymore, can I! LOL LOL!!!!!! Share that reduction plan with ME, will ya??? And anyway....you look GREAT in the photo with Dane....you don't look like you've gained a whole lot....you look W-O-N-D-E-R-F-U-L! :)
Love, Eileen
www.caringbridge.org/il/ej
EJ's Caring Place
- Friday, September 30, 2005 7:56 PM CDT

Ivy and Monte,
Just wanted to wish you a Happy Anniversary tomorrow and let you know I will be thinking about you.
Love to All(Mom included)

Linda <Linda.nascar@verizon.net>
Lafayette, In U.S.A. - Tuesday, September 27, 2005 8:39 PM CDT

SENDING LOVE AND PRAYERS YOUR WAY.

CARINGBRIDGE.ORG/WV/FREDAFOX
RUTH <BLUEEYED_FEMALE@MSN.COM>
HINTON, WV - Saturday, September 24, 2005 4:47 PM CDT

I am so very sorry I missed Dane's 2nd Birthday, so I will (apologetically) only now wish him BUON COMPLEANNO !
I am so very happy to know that your pregnancy is going along fine although I understand it is getting to that point where you just can't wait for the baby to be out. A very very big hug to grandma; she really is an 'iron lady', so much she's been through, so much she has to still endure. I really hope your brother's supplements will soon get her physically stronger. How are they doing in their new house ? Have they got used to it ?
Joscelyn is more beautiful by the day; my son just started his second grade this year and he's so enthousiastic. Never liked kindergarden much but we are so blessed with him so happy in elementary school. Melissa just started her second year in kindergarden and it's taken us days and tons of tears and desperation to get her through that door. I do hope she'll get used to it soon.
We had a very strange weather this year; Summer came so very suddenly and in fact also left us very suddenly. Today is the first sunny warmish day in a while and we feel very blessed. Actually, I'm still going around in summer sandals ! The leaves are slowly turning into their beautiful Autumn look, and we keep collecting conkers, not to play as they do in UK, but to fill huge baskets around the house, thus bringin Autumn (my favourite season) into our home. Who knows, it might actually be a Sunny Autumn, what a gift that woul dbe !
Thank you for keeping generously sharing your Faith, your Family, your heart. A very big hug to all your children, on Earth, 2 be, and in Heaven. Super Lukie must be VERY proud of you all. I will never forget your Lukie, never. LOL
Sabrina <morini@agriflex.it>
Italy - Thursday, September 22, 2005 3:51 AM CDT

Ivy you look absoleutly wonderful in the birthday picture with Dane. And Joscelyn you did wonderful with the birthday picture.

Love and blessings to each of you.
Melissa
Wylie, TX - Wednesday, September 21, 2005 10:07 AM CDT

Hi All,
Have tried several times to call...but to no avail.
Thanks so much for sharing the pictures.
Stay happy:-)
Take Care.
Linda <Linda.nascar@verizon.net>
Lafayette, In U.S.A. - Monday, September 19, 2005 8:11 PM CDT

Wishing Mr. Dane a VERY HAPPY, HAPPY BIRTHDAY tomorrow!!!!
Love you all!
Eileen
www.caringbridge.org/il/ej
EJ's Caring Place
- Monday, September 12, 2005 7:12 PM CDT

Dear Ivy,
I am so sorry to read about your mum. I send her tight hugs, and I wish her so much to feel better soon. I can imagine the turmoil of feelings that struck all of you at their move from the house where your precious son spent his last days on earth and started his journey to Heaven. My heart is with you always my friends. Sending you tons of hugs from this side of the ocean. Your children are so lovely ! LOL
Sabrina <morini@agriflex.it>
Italy - Monday, September 5, 2005 6:28 AM CDT

Ivy,
Thinking about you as always.
My Angel's Trumpets finally bloomed and I was so happy:-)
If I can will send you a picture.
Hope all are well.
Take Care.
Linda <Linda.nascar@verizon.net>
Lafayette, In U.S.A. - Sunday, August 28, 2005 2:23 PM CDT

Thinking of you always. Sending you all tons of hugs from Italy. +++ LOL +++
Sabrina <morini@agriflex.it>
Italy - Thursday, August 25, 2005 5:04 AM CDT

Hi Ivy, just a short note to tell you we are thinking about you and the entire family~* Much love to all. Lin, Jim, Mike, Amy & Jimmy-Joe~*
Lin <jimmyk1@bellsouth.net>
Boca Raton, Fl. USofA - Tuesday, August 16, 2005 7:10 AM CDT

Ivy,
I woke up in the trailer this morning and thought of Lukie, then I realized, I had missed that awful date. We left town that day and it was craziness,(more on that later). Your entry breaks my heart, but of course, I do know you will never, ever get over losing Luke.
Many butterflies have been to visit and I laughed the other day, as I wondered if any had been sent by Lukie...he still manages to bring so many smiles!
I'll email you when we are back, but know you are all in my thoughts and prayers,
love
Tracey xo <traceyhewison@shaw.ca>
Calgary , - Wednesday, August 10, 2005 5:10 PM CDT

I just wanted you to know I have been thinking of you and Lukie during this time. Hope all is well!! Love, Melissa
Melissa Wasinger <mgwas6@cox.net>
Virginia Beach, VA USA - Wednesday, August 10, 2005 9:31 AM CDT

Dear Ivy and Monte,

I am sorry I wasn't by here on the 31st but we were on vacation. I agree with every single emotion and thought you mention in this journal and also fully agree with the difficulty we have in putting it in words. There are no words.

We hope and pray you made it through that anniversary date as best as one can. It is truly heartwrenching to know that we will never see our beautiful babies in this life.

I love the new pictures of Lukie...even though they also bring me much sadness. Such a special boy he is!!

Thinking of you and praying for you.

Love,
Monica & John Paquette
Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Sunday, August 7, 2005 9:24 PM CDT

A hug to you Ivy and love to all the Ervins. Still think about Lukie every day. Johan asks about him now - "the boy who had the same tumor I have" - and tells me he's sure Luke is happy. He also says that when he goes to heaven, they'll have a lot to talk about and fun playing together.
Nan & family xxx <lofas1@comcast.net>
Portland, OR USA - Friday, August 5, 2005 9:16 PM CDT

Ivy,

Please know that your family is in our prayers. Thank you for the continued messages. We hope to see your family at Rejoice Richland County Saturday. I rejoice at how God has used Luke to unite Christians in Mansfield and around the globe. Your messages are proof that the Spirit lives in us!
The Harrimans <razordawg@earthlink.net>
Mansfield, OH USA - Thursday, August 4, 2005 12:21 AM CDT

Tears, hugs and prayers from this side of the ocean.

Sabrina <morini@agriflex.it>
Forl�, FC Italy - Thursday, August 4, 2005 6:37 AM CDT

Your words still continue to amaze me and I am still soooo inspired by them. My tears I had while reading this entry were for the loss of your luke, and my most worse fear of what may happen to my Zack. My fears laying ever so dorment, waiting for what good that has happend to become bad. You are such a strong women with what you have gone through. I cannot imagine what that day feels like. cancer is such an evil disease that rips apart families and takes our loved ones. I am glad that you have God in your life, and know that his back carries our fears,and our burdens and he is so much stronger then we are, bringing us hope and joy even in our most darkened day. I get joy just to think that you will see him one day, the Luke you had before cancer, the Luke that was only on loan for such a short time, and I tear to think about the day you'll have when you reunite. What a day worth waiting for. You will always be in my heart and my prayers. You are amazing.
Jennifer and Zachary
bremerton, wa - Wednesday, August 3, 2005 2:31 AM CDT

Ivy,
I'm so sorry, in the midst of trying to get us together and all the other summertime stuff, I missed "the date". You are such an amazing woman with a disposition I can only see here and in our e-mails but it's always so positive and upbeat. I'm glad you can show your sad melancholic side. I'm SO sorry you have one though. that picture of Luke rips my heart out and I can't imagine what it is for you. That was a beautiful note you wrote you wonderful mom. take care.

love you, <Deirdre40@frontiernet.net>
- Monday, August 1, 2005 5:56 PM CDT

I have been coming to this site almost daily for the last two and a half years but have never written. Today I felt the need to let you know that, especially today, I pray that God holds you in His arms and gives you the strength and peace that only He can give. I love knowing about your family and you are such an inspiration to me. God bless you all!
Debbie Hufford <drh274@aol.com>
Gatesville, TX United Stated - Sunday, July 31, 2005 9:47 PM CDT

Thinking of you and your family on this day. God Bless you all.
Kasey Gunde <topgund@aol.com>
Mount Holly, NC US - Sunday, July 31, 2005 6:19 PM CDT

Today especially I pray for your strength. May God always look down and give his blessings and may you find them even in the smallest of examples.
Karen Patterson <Anchormom@comcast.net>
New Castle, DE - Sunday, July 31, 2005 6:12 PM CDT

Found your website through Zack L.'s - found it today...seems like a God thing. I am praying for your family. There are no words to offer other than that.
Kim Jordan <kimboj41@gmail.com>
McKinney, TX - Sunday, July 31, 2005 11:10 AM CDT

Ivy & Monte- Thinking of you today on Luke's 2nd birthday in Heaven. Your letter to Lukie just breaks my heart. It is as if no time has passed, yet it has been an eternity. You are another day closer to being with him again. I love to see past photos of Luke. Wow- does Dane ever look like his brother. I wish I would have had the chance to know your precious little boy. He has made an impact on the lives of others, even though his time on Earth was way too short. Through Luke, I have "met" so many other Caring Bridge families going through what none of you and your children should ever have to face. Praying for peace for you all.
Beth Leppo <beanieb@neo.rr.com>
Mansfield, OH USA - Sunday, July 31, 2005 8:55 AM CDT

Aaaaack! I do this all the time! My right hand kept typing what my left hand was supposed to type! And I'm left-handed too!
I DO know it's Ervin... NOT Irvin! I tend to type the opposite keys when I get going too fast! Left brain/right brain conflict?? Forgive me for the mis-typing in my post to you below.

Nite nite friends.. may God give peaceful rest to you.
Love and hugs
Lynn

Lynn <lynn@legacyofhope.org>
Panama City, FL USA - Sunday, July 31, 2005 0:09 AM CDT

Day by day Lord, gird up your people with strength, and wrap us in the blanket of your comfort, cause us to persevere with steadfast faith and continuing hope that shines brightly and banishes this present darkness. Lord, I pray you would soothe the pain in these precious hearts of my friends, the Irvins. Help them to bear, and to endure this which is temporary.. to press on toward that which is eternal - a better day in that glad city when it will be HELLO forever - and never a goodbye will be spoken again. Thank you for the heart of this dear friend.. SUPER IVY! :") I know she doesn't think so.. and maybe doesn't feel it..but she is more than a conqueror through Him who loves us - even Jesus! One more thing Lord, could you please plant a kiss on the face of Saint Luke, affectionately known as SUPER LUKIE! Just tell him it is a kiss FILLED WITH LOVE! I was blest to have met him on these journal pages.. I cried the day he left, my heart broken at the incredible suffering he endured here.. I miss him still.. and I smile at the thought of seeing him strong and well when I get to heaven. Haste the day, dear Lord! AMEN and Amen!
------------
Dear Ivy.. sending you lotsa love and hugs!! Keep the faith, precious!

God Bless!
Love and hugs,

I CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHO GIVES ME STRENGTH!

A LEGACY OF HOPE! Cancer Support & Encouragement

Lynn <lynn@legacyofhope.org>
Panama City, FL USA - Saturday, July 30, 2005 11:49 PM CDT

Your letter to Lukie pulled at my heart!! I have been checking on your site for 2 1/2 years. When Super Lukie went to live with God - I cried and cried. I had only known him through your site but it was like he was closer than that. I have 3 kids and I can't even imagine losing one of them. My heart and prayers are with you now and forever. Lukie touched so many lives and so many people are better for knowing him or just even knowing of him. You are so strong for enduring this pain that no one should ever have to deal with. You have gone on with your lives - making more lives and taking such good care of the other kids that so need you!! You are wonderful people! I think of you often and will continue to!! Praying for you to get thru tomorrow as best you can - Stay strong and keep being the amazing people that you are!! Your love shows through all of the sadness!!

Stacey Burgin <burgin5@insightbb.com>
Cherry, IL USA - Saturday, July 30, 2005 8:11 AM CDT

Ivy and family:
Thinking of you as the anniversary of Luke's passing is upon you. Words are still so hard to "come"...I know there is nothing I can say that TRULY helps...just know I am here, thinking of you and always here for you. You know how much Luke and you and your family have touched my heart...you all FOREVER have a piece of it that is all yours alone. :) Blessings, Eileen
www.caringbridge.org/il/ej
EJ's Caring Place
- Saturday, July 30, 2005 2:47 AM CDT

From On Mom to another mom whom know how your heart break and it feel to forever miss you sweet Angel......
What a sweet and couragus boy..
With Gods Love and Peace
www.caringbridge.org/tn/kayla
www.caringbridge.org/tn/mimmie

April, Shane, "Angel " Mikayla, Mimmie, Hunter , Noah and Zach <babymsmom04@yahoo.com>
TN - Friday, July 29, 2005 10:30 PM CDT

Ivy,
I just finished reading your letter to Lukie.
How beautiful and yet so heart wrenching. I don't know what to say but hang in there. Will write again. Right now I can't see so good to type.
God Bless You All.
Linda <Linda.nascar@verizon.net>
Lafayette, In U.S.A. - Friday, July 29, 2005 1:32 PM CDT

My heart is full after reading your letter. There are no words to say but that I share your sorrow. It will never leave you---but each day will become a bit easier to bear. God sends us angels---sometimes we get to keep them and others they are here for just a brief time, and leave their love behind to comfort us.There is always a reason. May the Good Lord bless you all and keep you safe in the Palm of His hands.May he bring you comfort and peace in the knowledge that this precious child no longer suffers and is safe in the arms of his Saviour.

Joanne <JSM4289@aol.com>
Rockledge, Fl USA - Friday, July 29, 2005 11:02 AM CDT

I found your web site through other cancer families. We lost our 11 year old son on April 21, 2005 after a 14 month battle with Ewing's Sarcoma. You have put into words so many of the feelings and emotions that we have, and that no one else can understand, except those that have watched their child pass from this earth. I know in time that we will learn to go on living, but the pain of losing our son Kevin will remain with us always. Thankyou for sharing your feelings.
Lisa
Lisa Willis <kewillis@verizon.net>
Strasburg, Ohio United States - Thursday, July 28, 2005 11:20 PM CDT

Hi Ivy, once again sending you all warrm hugs from Florida. Your update says it all. For myself, it is the daily reminders, like you said about the green bucket...the things that pop up that are the hardest. May you find peace today to just....rest & not be weary. Love to you and Monty & the kids~* Love, Lin, Jim, Lori-in heaven, Mike, Amy & Jimmy-Joe~* http://www.caringbridge.org/fl/jimmyjoe/
Lin <jimmyk1@bellsouth.net>
Boca Raton, Fl. UsofA - Wednesday, July 27, 2005 6:45 AM CDT

Always,always remembering Luke Gabriel.....and keeping his family very much in our hearts and prayers. With love, Kathy and family
Kathy Welch <abbysmamaa@yahoo.com>
Lexington, Ohio - Tuesday, July 26, 2005 11:02 AM CDT

Hi, Tracey H. sent me over to meet you. I'm so glad she did! Luke is one cutie pie! I'm sorry I missed the chance to say a prayer for him on his birthday, but I can assure you I will definately keep your family in our prayers now. Sending you hugs from Canada,
Tracy Eckhardt and Christopher <teckhardt@sympatico.ca>
Kitchener, ON Canada - Monday, July 25, 2005 11:40 PM CDT

Dear Ivy and Monte,
I just wanted you to know that your sweet Super-Luke is always in my heart and so are you all. Your jewels do shine inside out ! I cannot imagine how strongly and deeply you must miss your sweet boy Luke, especially in this month where you celebrate both his earth and Heaven birthday. I will ask everybody to pray for you all, especially in this period. My warmest ongoing wishes for your pregnancy, for it to be smooth and uneventful and for Autumn to 'land' safely into this world.
I am in true awe at your Grace that keeps shining through every word you write. Thank you once more for sharing your family and Faith with us all. May God keep you all in his embrace. Happy (late) birthday sweet Angle Luke. Hugs.
Sabrina <morini@agriflex.it>
Forl�, FC Italy - Thursday, July 21, 2005 6:05 AM CDT

Dear Ivy and Monte,

Hope the 8th went as well as any anniversary can with regard to a departed child. Yes, Lukie is completely surrounded by the Father's love and glory. I don't think we would ever bring them back, even if we could, but we certainly WANT them back.

I love the new pics of your beautiful children.

Thinking of you and praying for you.

Love,
Monica
Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Tuesday, July 12, 2005 5:58 PM CDT

Happy Birthday in Heaven, sweet Lukie.(one day late) Love and miss you forever, think of you always.
Did you meet my Nana when she flew up to Heaven on the day before your birthday? I am sure she was so happy to be back with Granddad, it has been 18 years since they have been apart, I am so comforted to know they are now together again :-)
Love and kissies,
Tracey xoxo HAB <traceyhewison@shaw.ca>
Calgary , - Sunday, July 10, 2005 2:12 AM CDT

Hey just a few words to let you all know that it is a pleasure to know you and all the kids even going to meet the new baby girl Autumn.... Watch out Darn two sisters now buddy... Could they be daddy's little drywall wallers someday? HEE Hee Hee.... Sending our love and prays with all of you and tell your parents hello for us there really nice and sweet people Ivy....
chuckmick <chuckmick2002@yahoo.com>
Mansfield, Ohio Richland - Saturday, July 9, 2005 7:22 PM CDT

Signing on to say Happy Birthday Luke in Heaven!! Hearts, hugs and prayers to all. Love, Lin, Jim, Mike, Amy & Jimmy-Joe~*
Lin <jimmyk1@bellsouth.net>
Boca Raton, Fl. USofA - Saturday, July 9, 2005 10:46 AM CDT

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MY "SUPER ANGEL"
YOU ARE NEVER A MINUTE AWAY FROM MY THOUGHTS...
LOVE YOU LTTLE GUY.
Linda <Linda.nascar@verizon.net>
Lafayette, In U.S.A. - Friday, July 8, 2005 10:01 PM CDT

HAPPY "5TH" BIRTHDAY ANGEL LUKIE, Thinking of all of you today and hoping that this special day has brought some joy to all of you. Lukie is home and happy! We are the ones left here to suffer. We love you Angel Luke and will never, never forget you. You are special to Jesus and you are special to me. Hugs, Barb
Barb <babogner@earthlink.net>
Mansfield, OHIO USA - Friday, July 8, 2005 6:09 PM CDT

I didn't want today to go by without stopping by on this very special day....Luke's Earthly birthday. I wanted you to know you were on my heart...I know this will NEVER get easier. You already know how special Luke, you and your family are to me, but have to tell you again.....so, so very BLESSED that God allowed our paths in life to cross.
Thinking of you and hoping the certainty that you have in your heart of knowing Luke is at his real "home" will wrap itself completely around you and bring you comfort.
Love, Eileen
www.caringbridge.org/il/ej
EJ's Caring Place
- Friday, July 8, 2005 5:40 PM CDT

Happy Birthday Luke! To those of us still remaining on earth, today we will look to the heavens with you in our thoughts and the strength of Christ in our heart.

Mom and Dad, Satan is working overtime today to sneak in and bring you down. Keep your eyes on our Lord and Saviour for he is our salvation and strength.

Special prayers for you especially today.
Melissa and Justin
- Friday, July 8, 2005 3:24 PM CDT

Happy Birthday sweet Lukie! I know how much your Mommy and Daddy are missing you today (and everyday). Have a wonderful birthday with Jesus! Lots of love and hugs to all of you!
Beth L. <beanieb@neo.rr.com>
Mansfield, OH USA - Friday, July 8, 2005 12:25 AM CDT

Thinking of you each and eveyday forever!!!

Happy 5th birthday in heaven sweet boy!!!

All my love forever!!
Cathy Wiggins
Fort Worth, Tx USA - Friday, July 8, 2005 10:35 AM CDT

HEY IVY!!! I SENT THE FOLLOWING EMAIL (ALONG WITH PHOTO ALMBUM PICS) TO YOUR ADDRESS LISTED BELOW AND IT KEEPS COMING BACK TO ME SAYING "UNKNOWN ADDRESS"...SO I THOUGHT THAT I WOULD SEND IT TO YOU THIS WAY IN HOPES THAT YOU'LL EMAIL ME WITH YOUR NEW EMAIL ADDRESS.

HOPE TO HEAR FROM YOU SOON,
STACY

From : "THEDAWSONS4"
To : ivymeadows@earthlink.net
Subject : HELLO!!!
Date : Fri, 8 Jul 2005 07:57:24 -0700 (PDT)

HI IVY!!!

I JUST WANTED TO SAY HELLO AND LET YOU KNOW THAT WE WERE THINKING OF LUKE
TODAY.

IT SEEMS LIKE FOREVER SINCE I SAW YOU LAST YET TIME SEEMS TO FLY BY SO
QUICKLY. I CAN'T BELIEVE THAT IT'S ALMOST TIME FOR YOUR BABY GIRL TO BE
BORN. WOW!!! I KEEP TELLING DORIS THAT WE SHOULD GET TOGETHER AT HER HOUSE
AND SWIM WITH YOU GUYS BUT DAYS TURN INTO WEEKS AND NOW WEEKS HAVE TURNED
INTO MONTHS AND ALAS.... AS WE GOT ON LUKE'S WEBSITE TODAY (IT'S BEEN
ALMOST A YEAR SINCE I VISITED IT LAST) KIERSTEN SAW THE PICTURE OF JOSCELYN
AND GAVE ME A GROWL AND SAID "I HAVEN'T SEEN HER IN A LONG TIME MOM". I
TOOK THAT AS A CUE TO EMAIL YOU AND SEE IF WE COULD GET TOGETHER FOR A
PLAYDATE SOMETIME. I KNOW THAT YOU ARE PROBABLY BUSY GETTING READY FOR BABY
AUTUMN BUT IF YOU HAVE SOME FREE TIME LET ME KNOW. WE ARE ACTUALLY GOING OUT
OF TOWN TOMORROW FOR A WEEK OF VACTATION IN TENNESSEE BUT AS SOON AS I GET
BACK I WILL GET A HOLD OF YOU AND MAYBE WE CAN PLAN SOMETHING. THE KIDS
LOVE TO PLAY AT GRAMMY'S AND I'M SURE THAT SHE WOULD LOVE TO SEE YOU TOO!

I HOPE THAT ALL IS WELL WITH ALL OF YOU! NOW THAT I'M BACK TO BEING ON THE
COMPUTER AGAIN I WOULD LOVE TO GET SOME PICS FROM YOU! I HAVE YOUR EMAIL
ADDRESS NOW SO I'LL SEND YOU SOME OF OUR ALBUMS TOO!

TAKE CARE!!!

LOVE,
STACY

THE DAWSONS <THEDAWSONS4@neo.rr.com>
LEXINGTON , OHIO USA - Friday, July 8, 2005 9:39 AM CDT

JUST WANTED YOU TO KNOW THAT WE WERE THINKING OF LUKE TODAY!

MUCH LOVE,
ROB, STACY, KIERSTEN AND ABBEY

THE DAWSONS <THEDAWSONS4@neo.rr.com>
LEXINGTON, OH USA - Friday, July 8, 2005 9:18 AM CDT

Thinking of you , I am very touched by your sons Legacy and feel that you have done a fantastic job in his tribute , icried so much reading it
the 4th of July photo is beautiful , he surely is an Angel in God s Garden , thinking of you from Australia
Sammy Joe
and family
Maria Liistro <sammyjo2@bigpond.com.au>
Craigieburn , Melbourne, Vic Australia - Wednesday, July 6, 2005 7:48 PM CDT

Dear Ivy,

I just wanted to tell you that the picture of Lukie in the 4th of July hat has brought a lump to my throat and tears to my eyes. Something about bald heads and their so very innocent faces. Thinking of you as you face both the birthday and death anniversary month.

God bless,
Monica
Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Wednesday, July 6, 2005 6:47 PM CDT

Hi Ivy,
I'm sure this week can not be easy for you. So many people are thinking about you and your family and remembering your sweet little Luke. Many prayers are being said for you.
Love, Laura <lsk_100@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, July 6, 2005 12:10 AM CDT

Hi Ervin family~* Checking in on you all and wanting to wish you all a happy n safe 4th of July~* God's Blessings today and always, Lin, Jim, Mike, Amy & Jimmy-Joe~* http://www.caring bridgeorg/fl/jimmyjoe/
Lin <jimmyk1@bellsouth.net>
Boca Raton, Fl. USofA - Monday, July 4, 2005 11:47 AM CDT

Happy 4th of July! My daughter also had very long hair and in April we got it cut (10 inches) and she donated it to Locks of Love. It was a wonderful thing and she was so proud of herself (she's 8). She loves her "new look" and I must admit its easier to manage. Luke looks so patriotic in that photo. Dane is also such a little cutie. I wish you all the best with the remaining months of your pregnancy and look forward to news of Autumn's arrival. Have a wonderful summer!!!
Karen Patterson <Anchormom@comcast.net>
New Castle, DE - Sunday, July 3, 2005 11:08 AM CDT

Just stopping by to let you know you were in our thoughts. Happy 4th & God Bless, Love Erin (Chase's Mommy)
href=http://www.caringbridge.org/nj/chase

Erin (Chase's Mommy_
NJ - Friday, July 1, 2005 4:47 PM CDT

hello dear friends. so so sorry we have not been able to sign in lately..computer problems. hope your doing well today. may your memories be sweet and your tomorrows bright.

Always in our thoughts hearts and prayers!!
~*~Samantha�s Story~*~

Because growing up is hard enough without cancer!!

karen n sammi <mpbowler1@aol.com>
- Tuesday, June 28, 2005 8:50 AM CDT

Jimmy Joe Hi E family~~checking in on all of you again today! Hope there is sunshine in your forecast and a lot of happy days ahead. We're getting a bit of rain each day, but hopefully we'll see blue skies again. Much love, Lin, Jim n Kids~
Lin <jimmyk1@bellsouth.net>
Boca Raton, Fl. USofA - Sunday, June 26, 2005 11:52 AM CDT

I'm sorry I haven't been by to visit much.. I do check in on you often though!! A GIRL! CONGRATS!!! ohhhh and Dane is getting so big.. jeeze.. it seems like he was just born.. what a cute little tooshie!!! :)He looks like his brother.
Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers!
love~
Jennifer Parenti <parentijennifer@hotmail.com>
Orford, NH USA - Friday, June 24, 2005 12:59 AM CDT

Autumn Rose, how beautiful. Yes, God is good. I needed to hear some good news and then logged onto your site tonight while Jimmy was watching Barney~*. Im so happy for all of you and I am sure Luke is watching as the "final touches" are being put on new baby sister!! Much love to all. Lin, Jim, (Lori-in heaven~) Mike 18, Amy15, Jimmy13, Jimmy Joe's web site address http://www.caringbridge.org/fl/jimmyjoe/
Lin <jimmyk1@bellsouth.net>
Boca Raton, Fl USofA - Wednesday, June 22, 2005 9:18 PM CDT

What joyous news! About your coming daughter AND your mom! And the name is beautiful; Autumn is my favorite time of year. I will keep all of you in my prayers, love, Kathy
Kathy Welch <abbysmamaa@yahoo.com>
Lexington, Ohio - Tuesday, June 21, 2005 11:17 PM CDT

CONGRATULATIONS AND THANKS SO MUCH FOR SHARING YOUR JOY WITH ME. WHAT A BEAUTIFUL NAME. MONTE HAS GOOD TASTE.
STAY WELL AND HAPPY.
Linda <Linda.nascar@verizon.net>
Lafayette, In U.S.A. - Tuesday, June 21, 2005 9:25 PM CDT

Happy Father's Day Monte! Hope you are all enjoying the beautiful weather. I think spring is here! I'll take this over the really hot weather a week ago. But anything warmer than the week of the ice storm is welcome! Hope Mr. Dane's arm is healing. How are you feeling Ivy? And as mom said- give those two beautiful kiddos of yours a big hug for me!
Beth L. <beanieb@neo.rr.com>
Mansfield, OH USA - Sunday, June 19, 2005 10:14 PM CDT

Hi Monte, Just stopping by to wish you a happy Father's Day. Hope your day is filled with fun and food. Hi Ivy, Sorry I have so bad about signing guestbooks lately. You are always in my thoughts and prayers. I am anxious to see what Baby #4 is. Have a wonderful week and give Joscelyn and Mr. Dane a "Big Hug" from me. Always remembering "Angel Luke" to special to ever be forgotten. Love you, Barb
Barb <babogner@earthlink.net>
Mansfield, OHIO USA - Sunday, June 19, 2005 3:10 PM CDT

Hello Ivy,

I was starting to worry...that was a long break you took! Sorry about little Dane's arm injury and I will pray it heals fully and quickly.

Otherwise, I'm thinking about you and the heavy cross you and Monte must carry. Thanking the good LORD that He is always right next to us to help us carry such crosses.

God bless,
Monica
Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Tuesday, June 14, 2005 6:18 PM CDT

Hi Ivy,
It was soooooooo good to check today and find you BACK again.Sorry to hear about your troubles with tarpal tunnel.
I too know the pain. I have it in my right wrist.
The pictures are adorable too. Hope you don't mind, but I printed a copy of the last one off. What a little ham Mr. Dane is. Also, thanks for sharing your picture albums. Much appreciated.
Take care and hope your weekend is a good one.
God Bless All,
Linda
Linda <Linda.nascar@verizon.net>
Lafayette, In U.S.A. - Friday, June 10, 2005 3:48 PM CDT

Dear Ivy,
thank you so much for sharing such very special photos with us all. I am glad to read that your pregnancy is getting along fine. I myself suffered a great deal for years with the carpal tunnel. Funny enough, it would stop hurting during pregnancy, odd, eh ? I got surgery on both hands when I was 33, and it's been fine ever since. I wish you all the very best and warm wishes for the upcoming scan. Very warm Italian hugs to all your children, both on earth and in heaven. LOL p.s. your new pet is really cute !
Sabrina <morini@agriflex.it>
Forl�, FC Italy - Friday, June 10, 2005 8:48 AM CDT

Sooooo happy to see an update...and as ALWAYS, I love, love, LOVE all the photos here!! Too cute with Dane on his head! And what a beauty Joscelyn is....very nice shot amoung the flowers...I would love it there myself. :) And of course Luke's picture at the top.....how he still takes my breath away whenever I see that smile! And the puppy!!!!!!!!!!! Aawwwwwwww....how sweet! She's a cutie! Bet the kids just ADORE her. Well, just wanted to touch base with you and let you know you were on my heart.
Love, Eileen
www.caringbridge.org/il/ej
EJ's Caring Place
- Thursday, June 9, 2005 9:12 PM CDT

Ivy,
That is so incredible what you all have been able to do with 'Luke's Place/s'! Amazing!
For the first time, I am really seeing Lukey in Dane..he is growing up so fast, wasn't he just a baby?? He and Josc look adorable all dressed up for Mother's Day. I know you were missing Lukey so very much on that special day. I hope it comforts you to know how much you were in our thoughts and prayers that day.
Love,
Tracey xo HAB <traceyhewison@shaw.ca>
Calgary, - Tuesday, June 7, 2005 11:05 PM CDT

Jimmy Joe Hi Ivy & family~* Just popping in to say Hi and that we were thinking of you all down here in S. Fla. Love, Lin, Jim, Lori..in Heaven, Mike, Amy & Jimmy-Joe
Lin <jimmyk1@bellsouth.net>
Boca Raton, Fl. USofA - Monday, June 6, 2005 8:33 AM CDT

Hi Ivy,
It's been awhile since I last wrote... just here to let you guys know I'm thinking of your family and of Angel Luke... stay strong!!

~*~*Girlie's Page*~*~

Love always,
XOXOXOXOXOXOXO
Janice <janiceliew1981@yahoo.com>
Melbourne, Australia - Monday, June 6, 2005 7:41 AM CDT

Hello Dear Friends: Hoping you have a happy, relaxing Memorial Day weekend. Kyle's last day of school is the first of June...we are so ready! He will be skipping the 5th grade next year and was promoted to 6th! He's very excited and proud...as am I. But, of course, Mommy here is a bit nervouse about the 'social' aspect of it. But, I have Faith all will be fine. He is very ready and willing to "take this on" and I trust he knows what he is and isn't ready for. So, I say "go for it----reach for the sky!" Hoping you are having a good day---how's the pregnancy going? Think of you all...every day.
Blessings,
Eileen
www.caringbridge.org/il/ej
EJ's Caring Place
- Sunday, May 29, 2005 1:21 AM CDT

I know you liked this pic of Jimmy so Im putting it in your guestbook. I hope thats ok. We did get the real hot tub and it is beautiful. God is really good and he guided a group of people who worked hard to have the tub donated from a spa store. Stop by and see pics, of the REAL tub, lol. Love you all, Lin~* http://www.caringbridge.org/fl/jimmyjoe/
Lin <jimmyk1@bellsouth.net>
Boca raton, fl usa - Tuesday, May 24, 2005 8:44 PM CDT

Hi Ivy and Family~* Just stopping in to say Hi and let you all know we think about you everyday. Your in our thoughts and in our prayers. Much love, Lin & Kids~*
Lin <jimmyk1@bellsouth.net>
Boca Raton, Fl. UsofA - Thursday, May 19, 2005 6:37 AM CDT

Thank you for the prayers, encouragement and support...they are so needed and so appreciated. What a blessing to know you! The pictures are so BEAUTIFUL...my how quickly the kids are growing!!!! How gorgeous Joscelyn is and Dane looks so much like Luke!!! What beautiful children all three are. And I cannot wait to see baby Ervin #4. :) Take good care.
Love, Eileen
www.caringbridge.org/il/ej
EJ's Caring Place
- Sunday, May 15, 2005 7:46 PM CDT

Hello Ivy,

I'm praying for you nightly! Hope the pregnancy is going well and that you are not too tired. I know you continue to miss Lukie ever so much.

God bless,
Monica
Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Friday, May 13, 2005 6:16 PM CDT

Hi! I had the priveledge of meeting you at our friends wedding renewel.....Shari and Mike Fox. I don't know if you remember me. You have been such a an inspiration to Shari. The Lord has certainly worked through you to reach out to Shari. Shari's a special person and I want to thank you for all that you've done and are still doing in leading her to our wonderful Savior. I've heard so many wonderful things about you through Shari. God bless you as I know you are reaching so many other's. It is so obvious that you have Jesus in your heart. Your a special person Ivy. God bless and be with you allways.
Tammy Wiest <tugtup@aol.com>
Morganton, NC Burke - Friday, May 13, 2005 6:50 AM CDT

HI IVY,
JUST CHECKIN' IN TO SAY "HEY" AND LET YOU KNOW I'M THINKING ABOUT YOU ALL.
HOPE LIFE IS TREATING YOU WELL AND YOU ARE DOING OK.
GOD BLESS.
Linda <Linda.nascar@verizon.net>
Lafayette, Indiana U.S.A. - Thursday, May 12, 2005 3:14 PM CDT

Hi Monte, "HAPPY BIRTHDAY" May life's best gift be yours today and always. "May GOD grant you a day filled with happiness, a year filled with joy." Isaiah 55:12
Eat lots of ice cream and birthday cake today (and don't share it with anyone). Today is "YOUR" day! Barb
Barb <babogner@earthlink.net>
Mansfield, OHIO USA - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 11:28 AM CDT

Dear Ivy,
I thought of you on Mother's Day. What a very special Mother you truly are.
Hugs.
Sabrina <morini@agriflex.it>
Forl�, FC Italy - Monday, May 9, 2005 5:46 AM CDT

Love, Eileen
www.caringbridge.org/il/ej
EJ's Caring Place
- Monday, May 9, 2005 0:47 AM CDT

Happy Mother's Day Ivy, thinking of you today.
love Tracey xo
Tracey xo <traceyhewison@shaw.ca>
Calgary , - Sunday, May 8, 2005 9:25 PM CDT

{{{{{GOD BLESS YOU, DEAR IVY }}}}}}
Thank you so much for your gift of friendship. You are such a dear one to me.. such a sweet blessing.. and a joy and encouragement on this journey home! One day we will meet - of this, I am confident! And I look forward to that day!

Keep the faith, pilgrim!
Love and hugs,

I CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHO GIVES ME STRENGTH!

A LEGACY OF HOPE! Cancer Support & Encouragement

Lynn <lynn@legacyofhope.org>
Panama City, FL USA - Sunday, May 8, 2005 11:26 AM CDT

Ivy- just stopping by to wish you a Happy Mother's Day. Hope you're having a great weekend. I think maybe spring has FINALLY arrived!!
Beth L. <beanieb@neo.rr.com>
Mansfield, OH USA - Sunday, May 8, 2005 10:24 AM CDT

Ivy-

I hope your days are growing brighter. Thanks for always supporting me, and know that I am here for you. Have a peace and love-filled Mothers Day.

Love,

Kelly, Samuel J's mama , http://www.caringbridge.org/pa/samuelj <kellyjnsn@msn.com>
Pittsburgh, PA - Thursday, May 5, 2005 1:05 PM CDT

Carissima Ivy,
I cannot imagine what it must feel to re-live those terrible dx moments. Thank you for keeping sharing your family, your hearts, your FAITH. I will NEVER forget your beautiful Super-Lukie, you have no idea how often I think of him and of you guys.
A very big hug to you all from Italy.
I received this extract from "The Purpose Driven Life" : when I read it I immediately thought of your strong, rocky and inspiring Faith and of your sharing "Heaven's party" with your son Luke.

Today I am stepping across the line. I'm tired of waffling and I'm finished with wavering, I've made my choice, the verdict is in, and my decision is irrevocable. I'm going God's way. There's no turning back now!

I will live the rest of my life serving God's purposes with God's people on God's planet for God's glory. I will use my life to celebrate his presence, cultivate his character, participate in his family, demonstrate his love, and communicate his word.

Since my past has been forgiven, and I have a purpose for living, and a home awaiting in heaven, I refuse to waste any more time or energy on shallow living, petty thinking, trivial talking, thoughtless doing, useless regretting, hurtful resenting, or faithless worrying. Instead I will magnify God, grow to maturity, serve in ministry, and fulfill my mission in the membership of his family.

Because this life is preparation for the next, I will value worship over wealth, "we" over "me," character over comfort, service over status, and people over possessions, position, and pleasures. I know what matters most and I'll give it all I've got. I'll do the best I can with what I have for Jesus Christ today.

I won't be captivated by culture, manipulated by critics, motivated by praise, frustrated by problems, debilitated by temptation, or intimidated by the devil. I'll keep running my race with my eyes on the goal, not the sidelines or those running by me. When times get tough, and I get tired, I won't back up, back off, back down, back out or backslide. I'll just keep moving forward by God's grace. I'm Spirit-led, purpose-driven and mission-focused so I cannot be bought, I will not be compromised, and I shall not quit until I finish the race.

I'm a trophy of God's amazing grace so I will be gracious to everyone, grateful for everyday, and generous with everything that God entrusts to me.

To my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, I say: However, Whenever, Wherever, and Whatever you ask me to do, my answer in advance is yes! Wherever you lead and whatever the cost, I'm ready. Anytime. Anywhere. Anyway. Whatever it takes Lord; Whatever it takes! I want to be used by you in such a way, that on that final day I'll hear you say, "Well done, thou good and faithful one. Come on in, and let the eternal party begin!"

Sabrina <morini@agriflex.it>
Forl�, FC Italy - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 3:54 AM CDT

So glad to hear you are in a better "place" emotionally. I pray daily for that fog to lift. :)
Love, Eileen
www.caringbridge.org/il/ej
EJ's Caring Place
- Tuesday, May 3, 2005 5:41 PM CDT

Hello Ivy,

I just sent you an e-mail but because I'm at work I just realized you might kick it out as spam. Just wanted to thank you for sharing the diagnosis story and to tell you that I just sent you something via snail mail with a very similar comment on sustaining faith!

Thinking of you and praying for you.

Love,
Monica
Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Friday, April 29, 2005 3:56 PM CDT

Ivy,
I'm glad you're feeling better and thank you for sharing the story of Luke. Of COURSE HE cares and so do alot of us! Catch ya on the internet chicky!

with love, <deirdre40@frontiernet.net>
- Wednesday, April 27, 2005 3:36 PM CDT

Ivy, Wish I could be there to just tell you myself how much I care. I am so sorry you are feeling so down...I know it goes in waves...all part of the process. Just when you think you are doing "ok"....it HITS, and HITS extremely hard! I think I've expressed before that I've suffered depression in my life too...not due to the loss of a child, yet it was very dibillitating. So, I DO understand how awful it feels to be in that "pit". I pray for you, daily. I know you know all of this, but sure doesn't hurt to hear it again...just want you to know I care, am ALWAYS available to listen..I am only an email away. Thanks for sharing your life's journey, thank you for sharing Lukie...I will never forget the day I saw that precious face! Thanks to Hugs and Hope, he stole my heart! And I am richly blessed to have formed a friendship with you thanks to this wonderful technology of the internet! :) God bless you and Monte...Joscelyn, Dane and BABY number 4!
Love, Eileen
www.caringbridge.org/il/ej
EJ's Caring Place
- Tuesday, April 26, 2005 7:32 PM CDT

I sent you some jokes today not realizing how down in the dumps you've been. I'm so sorry. I know how bad depression is and I don't even have all the outside stuff to deal with that you do. I'll pray with you and you and I both know it'll get better and we need to hand it over to God. I can't imagine how you must be feeling but know I'm in there with ya chicky!

with love, <Deirdre40@frontiernet.net>
- Monday, April 25, 2005 4:02 PM CDT

Hi Ervin family...
Just wanted to drop a note saying that i'm thinking of you guys and praying for you!
Krista (Angel Holly's friend)
Columbus, OH US - Friday, April 22, 2005 8:07 PM CDT

The feelings you describe are truly from your heart and soul. I want you to know We are including you into our bedtime prayers. During those hard times, Peace must find a way in and grant you just that, some peace when it becomes so hard to bear! Our loving thoughts and prayers to all of you. Lin, Jim, Lori (in heaven), Mike, Amy & Jimmy
Lin <jimmyk1@bellsouth.net>
Boca Raton, Fl. USofA - Friday, April 22, 2005 7:15 PM CDT

Dear Ivy,

I am thinking of you and weeping with you.

Love,
Monica
Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Thursday, April 21, 2005 6:19 PM CDT

Dear Ivy and Monte,
Just checking in to see how all of you are doing. Hope all is well with you! Thank you both so much for all of your love, support and prayers for Benjamin - that meant so much to us! Thinking of you all!
Love, Anne Jones (Benjamin's mommy) <brianj663@aol.com>
Pickerington, OH - Friday, April 15, 2005 9:04 PM CDT

Dear Ivy,

Just wanted you to know I still pray for you and Monte every night and that I ask God to continue to make you bold for the faith!!

Wish we lived close enough to get together and just talk.

God bless,
Monica
Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Wednesday, April 13, 2005 8:43 AM CDT

You are always in my thoughts and prayers. Luke smiles at me every morning from my fridge door. His little smiling face all dress up in his blue outfit. Although he was only in my life for a short time he will never be forgotten.
Ivy, you and the family are in my thoughts even though I don't often post - have just been busy with family...Love Joan Mc
Joan McClement <joan.mcclement@sympatico.ca>
Mississauga, ON Canada - Friday, April 8, 2005 10:17 AM CDT

Dana Sanford

~*~Friends of Allie/Raise Awareness~*~ <Aunty.Dana@Gmail.com>
Spring Arbor, MI - Wednesday, April 6, 2005 0:50 AM CDT

Hi Ervin Family~* Thank you once again for sharing the adorable pictures with us! I didnt know Dane had sooo many teeth. WOW!! Few more to go and he'll be eating steak, I bet!? :0) Tell Jos, I love her new coat!! Thats my fav. color blue!! Also, I hope you receive our CD soon. E me and let me know what you think of it. Much peace, Lin & Family~*
Lin <jimmyk1@bellsouth.net>
Boca Raton, Fl. USofA - Monday, April 4, 2005 10:36 AM CDT

Thinking of you and your family often! God Bless.
Kasey Gunde <topgund@aol.com>
Mount Holly, NC US - Sunday, April 3, 2005 9:14 PM CDT

PLEASANTLY calm and quiet....those are wonderful times! Thanks for sharing the sonogram photo! Ooooohhhhh, new life! How precious! Are you going to find out if it's a girl or boy? Or want to be surprised?? Boy/girl...no matter...is just a BLESSING which ever God has chosen for you! Take good care.
Love, Eileen
www.caringbridge.org/il/ej
EJ's Caring Place
- Sunday, April 3, 2005 11:23 AM CDT

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