Laurie’s Story

Site created on December 11, 2019

Hello and thank you for caring enough to visit this site.  We have set up this site as an easier way to keep our friends and family updated. As you likely know it has been quite a year for our family. For those that don't already know, I will tell you my story. 


I began having abdominal pain back in August of 2018. After an abdominal ultrasound I was told it was likely IBS and to work on stress management and diet. The pain resolved and recurred intermittently for months. It began increasing over the winter despite diet and stress management. On 12/31/18 I saw the doctor who centime for a CT scan suspecting diverticulitis. When the radiologist read the scan I was told to go directly to the ER as I had diverticulitis that had abscessed and my bowel had perforated. I was told that I likely needed surgery. Upon arriving at the ER the surgeon told me that I did, in fact, have diverticulitis etc but that the perforation was not severe enough to warrant surgery. They kept me in the hospital for 3 nights on IV antibiotics and bowel rest. My pain improved and I was sent home with oral antibiotics. The pain resumed after a few days at home. On 1/12/19 Glenn brought me to the ER at 1:30 am in extraordinary pain. It had been pretty awful for several days at that point. It was at this visit that the surgeons began to wonder if this was not actually diverticulitis. A blood test determined that this was likely cancer. Emergency surgery was performed on 1/13/19 to remove a 7.5 cm tumor along with 11.5 inches of my colon. They also placed a colostomy. I spent 8 nights in the hospital. After meeting with both a local oncologist and one at Duke, I chose to receive treatment at Duke. I then had 4 rounds over 3 months of chemo follow by surgery to reverse the colostomy. I was then determined to be in remission. YAY! All was going well until my 3 month checkup when some bloodwork came up as questionable. It was suggested that we watch and wait. At my 6 month visit a CT scan revealed possible tumors on my pelvis and ovary. A PET scan was ordered showing that the spots on my ovary were likely cysts, but the spot on my pelvis is cancer and there is a concerning spot on my lung. Here we go. Stage 4. Back to cancer treatment. The oncology team at Duke met and determined that surgery needs to come first. They plan to remove the tumor from my pelvis and both ovaries. The lung is currently on hold. Surgery is tentatively scheduled for Christmas Eve. Merry Christmas :) I began having pain in my tailbone, so my surgeon is asking for an MRI to make certain that we haven't missed anything before fully clearing me for surgery. The medical treatment (chemo/radiation) will be determined by surgical findings and tumor testing.  This is where we sit today. I will go for the MRI this evening and meet with my surgeon tomorrow. 


I plan to update this site frequently with any news so feel free to check back. Thanks again for caring. Our friends and family have been such a blessing throughout this year. We can't tell you enough how much we appreciate you.

Newest Update

Journal entry by Laurie Koshers

It’s been a crazy few weeks. I’ll try to keep this update short. Last update was when I started maintenance chemo. That’s been going fine. I’m definitely loving not having to go all the way to Durham for my infusions. 


A few weeks back I was looking on Colontown (my cancer support group…good group/bad name :)). I saw there was a ‘Doc Talk’ later that day about surgical options for peritoneal metastasis. I rarely listen to these talks but I thought I would check this one out. From the first few sentences I was floored. It was as if this doc was talking specifically about me, about my cancer. And he was talking about the type of surgery that I was told by my surgeon at Duke would not be an option for me. The next morning I called his office at Yale to see about scheduling a second opinion. Everything fell into place with an ease that seemed quite odd. Referral, records, scheduling, flights all organized with relative ease. Last week Glenn and I traveled all over the place. We saw Dr Turaga at Yale, had scans and labs at Duke and met with my medical oncologist and surgeon at Duke. We loved the doc at Yale. He was so positive and encouraging, but Connecticut is far. And it turns out that my surgeon at Duke is now agreeable to doing the same surgery he was offering. So here we go…..on May 14 I will have cytoreductive surgery with HIPEC at Duke. They will open my abdomen and cut out all the cancer they can see before filling my belly with hot chemo and sloshing it around for about 90 min. It’s going to be a doozy. If all goes well I should be in the hospital for about a week. Recovery should take around 6-8 weeks. If all goes well the only cancer left will be be in my lungs after surgery. My lung Mets are currently stable. To be clear, it’s not expected to be curative, but could buy me some time. Possibly even some time off chemo. So that’s it….wish me luck 🤞

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