Judi’s Story

Site created on June 15, 2021

Hello all-

Here is a post I never thought I’d have to make.

A lot of you know that I had a left knee replacement and was having problems with my right side (hip) pain. It’s typical to have problems on the opposite side after so many years of limping and walking oddly, or so everyone said.  

The pain got progressively worse and I finally couldn’t stand it anymore so on June 9th we came to the UW Emergency room at The American Center here in Madison.  They did an MRI of my back, and on it, they could see a “mass” on my right hip. Suddenly there were more MRI’s, X-rays, and CT scans.  Four and a half years ago I had stage 1A endometrial cancer, so everyone doubted it was that. 1A is practically pre-cancer. 

They kept me because the pain was so bad. I was needing big time narcotics to control it. We did a biopsy on Friday June 11th and the results came back yesterday: “metastatic endometrioid endometrial carcinoma.”  Damn it. 

I’m still at The American Center while we wait for a bed to open up at the UW hospital “downtown” where the Carbone Cancer Treatment Center is. I’m expecting more tests and a PET scan to see where else it may have spread.  Hopefully this is it. The tumor is huge, wrapping around and it has deteriorated the pelvis bone some. Radiation has been mentioned and going straight to chemotherapy has been mentioned. We’ll see what they do once I meet my ‘cancer team.’  Thank goodness Madison is small enough that my GP is a personal friend of one of the top docs, and she is having them take my case, and advocating on getting me ASAP.  I feel fortunate to be at UW, a top-performing cancer center. If there’s a bright side, that’s it. 

As you can imagine this has thrown Katy and me for quite the loop. We’re still wrapping our heads around it all. Right now, due to COVID, only Katy is permitted as my only visitor. I know many of you want to reach out to me, and see me and communicate with me.  But I ask that you please respect our need to gather all our energy and direct it to fighting this. I will absolutely accept your prayers, we'll-wishes and whatever you have to throw at this.  I love you all, and know you’re sending good energy our way.  But right now Katy and I will be a tight team, and we  would appreciate you using this site for our communication. 

With moving back from New York coming up, and Katy’s recent diagnosis, we may reaching out to you for help, whether it’s a meal, coming by to cheer us up, or something like mowing the lawn, we will be asking for help and we hope you can. 

This was not in our retirement plans. Nope! We had a summer of lakes, travel and fun scheduled.  Dang!  There's not a lot more to say at this time, except a string of swear words!!  I'm not sure that covers it.  

We will be posting updates here to the Caring Bridge site to help keep everyone up to date with my progress.  

Thank you for your thoughts, prayers and healing energy. It’s all welcome. 

Judi

Newest Update

Journal entry by Judi Trampf

Another quarter went by, with great news from here!  I had my quarterly CT scan today, and the results are in, no metastasis (cancer spread) anywhere. (Whew)  Great news for me.  Things remain stable! 

I saw my doctors yesterday, and I do have some weird raised bumpy rings around my mouth now.  At the last visit the doctor attributed it to, “pumping me full of weird cancer drugs and not knowing all the side effects.”  Not exactly comforting.  

So this visit, the study doc and coordinator, who we both adore, came in to see what was happening.  She thinks it’s likely some sort of autoimmune response from my thyroid caused by the immunotherapy drugs I’m getting.  Then she laughed and said, “or like Dr. Spencer said, we’re pumping your full of weird cancer drugs and this could be a side effect.”  We all agreed it’s not a major issue - it’s just slowing my career as a lipstick model.  But my doctor decided to hold off on the intravenous immunotherapy drugs for a month to see if anything changes, and more importantly, so I could get a consult with a dermatologist who specializes in cancer side effects.

Oddly enough, one of those kinds of doctors happens to work in town, and I got a call to schedule with them while I was still sitting in the waiting room at the cancer center. That’s service!  So I see them next week.  As the study doc said, we need to document if is a side effect and at least figure out what these things are.  Then together we’ll go on and decide if you want to keep taking the immunotherapy drugs. I told her since my lipstick modeling wasn’t going anywhere, I’d likely keep up with the study drugs, even if they spread more.  

The doctor also said she’s glad that Katy and I accepted her invitation to tour the Gynecological Oncology Research Laboratories at their open house next month.  They are inviting some of the patients who are involved in studies to hear about the advances that are happening and learn more about the work they are doing.  She also said she really wants their people who do stories about successful research to contact Katy and me, because she can’t believe how well I’m doing with the treatment, and basically, that I’m still around.  Yay me!  

She was really interested to hear what we’ve been doing lately and what plans we have in the upcoming few months. She also said that she does ask other doctors to come in and see me, not just her. She said she wants all of the doctors to keep their enthusiasm for their research, and to realize just how much it’s helping some patients.  Like me. 😊

I’m so fortunate to be living near a cancer research center and to have the amazing health care I’ve been getting.  I still have trouble walking, but it seems like a small thing when compared to everything I have still been getting out and doing.  It’s always humbling when I wipe out (like in the State Park Office when my foot hit the edge of the rug…just right  or wrong and I hit their door…scaring the daylights out of them and me saying, “it’s fine, it’s fine - it happens from time to time, I just fall over!”), and a good reminder to just be thankful for all I have, and all I can continue do.  

We’re looking forward to traveling to Nashville to see Katy’s family in this spring,  celebrating my Mom’s 95th birthday and participating in the Madison Art Walk in May.   

Lots to do, and here’s hoping this regime of drugs is the thing that keeps this cancer in check.  It’s also humbling to know people in Gilda’s Club, and women who have my type of cancer, who are not getting the treatment I am and who are passing away.  It gives us a great deal of perspective, and keeps us grateful for every day.  Every. Single. Day.

Stay grateful for your days too.  It’s just a better way to live!
We’ll chat again next quarter! 

As always, thanks for your support, care and good wishes. 
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