Jasmine’s Story

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2021 has been a year of growing my faith and making me rely on Jesus more and more. I have learned to truly live out Matthew 6:34 which says: “Therefore do not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.”2021


 Recap so far:
January: covid (very mild case) and dislocated shoulder
May: my father passed away; handling all His affairs as his executor. 
June: funeral for dad June 2; 
June 5 end up in hospital for an 8cm ruptured ovarian cyst; spend weekend in Hospital; follow up appointments for cyst. 
July: cyst grows back to 8cm; doctor recommends blood work to rule out cancer.
August: Blood work comes back low risk for cancer. Schedule surgery for August 19 for laparoscopic cystectomy remove cyst. 
August 19: surgery; doc gets in and find a 20+cm cyst. Removes cyst and decides (Thank you Lord for giving my doctor that wisdom) to send to pathology just in case. Comes back cancerous. Calls in OBGYN oncologist. Remove ovaries, Fallopian tubes, cervix and uterus as well as surrounding tissue areas that had cancer on them. Notice a section on my colon that is cancerous to the point that I should not have really been able to go to the bathroom. Colorectal doctor removes part of colon and sews my intestines back together. Spent about 8 hours in surgery instead of 1.5 hours. 

As of today, (August sometime when original update was posted) I am still in the hospital and will be here until my bowels start to work. Recovery is looking like 4-8 weeks from the surgery. We are waiting on pathology reports to let us if it’s colon cancer or ovarian cancer or both. Then we will decide how to move forward. We appreciate all of you that are already praying on our family’s behalf. We can feel your prayers. The Lord has been so good to orchestrate so many things. 

Because my doctor thought it was going to be a simple laparoscopic out patient procedure, so they allowed the surgery. They are beginning to stop all elective surgeries which includes cancer surgeries. If they had known I would be inpatient, they would not have done the surgery. God led my doctor to send that first sample to pathology and I’m so grateful she did. She went back and looked at my CT scan from June and it showed no cancer, so it grew really fast. I am seeing that as encouraging that maybe they got out all the cancer, but we won’t know till the pathology comes back. 

Please keep my family in your prayers. We are looking at a very different life than what we were living last week. Thank you to all of you that are already praying, bringing food and taking care of our girls. We are all still processing all that has happened. I’ve had great peace through all of this and I know my God is good, trustworthy, loving and, probably most comforting, He is sovereign over all. He has chosen this trial for me and I pray that I will glorify Him through it. “Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God. For as we share abundantly in Christ’s sufferings, so through Christ we share abundantly in comfort too.” ‭‭2 Corinthians‬ ‭1:3-5‬ ‭ESV‬‬

Newest Update

Journal entry by Jasmine Avery

Many have asked for an update so I thought I would share where we are now. 

My surgery was May 15 and I spent 10 days in the hospital. I’ve been home since May 25. This surgery was so much easier on me physically than my first surgery and my recovery was way easier than we thought it was going to be. Surgery was successful in terms of they removed all cancer they could find. 

Since coming home, my incision hasn’t been healing correctly.  As of last week, the top finally began to heal, but the underneath side has a “cave.”  I finally got into the wound clinic on the 29th (a 3 week wait) and their recommendation is a wound vac. Their recommendation was to open it back up so it’s big enough to see what’s going on at the base and so we could get a wound vac in. I thought it would be a scheduled surgery, but when I saw my surgeon on Friday, she went ahead and opened my incision back up in the office. It was unexpected, but a blessing so I didn’t have to wait for surgery. Sadly, it takes a couple days to get the wound vac approved and things didn’t happens Friday that were supposed to in order to get that ball rolling, so now we are dealing with an open wound in my abdomen. I’m also in a little bit more pain than I was understandably.  I go to the wound clinic Tuesday and will hopefully be able to get the wound vac process moving. I hope to have the wound vac by the end of this week. I never thought I would want another wound vac, but I’m ready to get this wound healed. 

Please pray that I could get the wound vac sooner rather than later and that insurance would approve quickly. Pray that we would be able to keep the wound open and infection free. Pray for my heart. I’m discouraged and weary of this journey. But I know that God is good and that He is growing my faith through this journey. Clinging to God’s promises each day. 

“So we do not lose heart. Though our outer self is wasting away, our inner self is being renewed day by day. For this light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison, as we look not to the things that are seen but to the things that are unseen. For the things that are seen are transient, but the things that are unseen are eternal.”
‭‭2 Corinthians‬ ‭4‬:‭16‬-‭18‬ ‭ESV‬‬

 

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