Dominic’s Story

Site created on December 18, 2018

Early Saturday morning on 12/15, Dominic experienced severe abdominal pain and was admitted to Cambridge Hospital. He was quickly diagnosed with pancreatitis and they began treatment. His condition deteriorated throughout the weekend and on Monday morning he was airlifted to Abbott Northwestern Hospital in Minneapolis. By this time, Dominic was growing sicker by the minute. There, we learned there are three kinds of pancreatitis and Dominic had the worst kind, which can be life-threatening. 


His doctors were very open about his treatment plan and even discussed worst case scenario treatment options. By 4:30 yesterday afternoon, we had exhausted those options. The doctors then told me that Dominic was the sickest patient in the hospital. Despite being on a ventilator, and in an induced coma, Dominic's heart was racing a mile a minute. His doctor's told us that something had to give. His heart was running a race and sprinting full out, but the finish line was nowhere in sight.


Around 9:00 Monday night, the doctor in charge told me that it was highly unlikely Dominic would make it through the night. He had gone septic, was running a high fever and his heart was running out of steam. He asked me to prepare myself and to call our family and friends. Those were hard calls to make. A Chaplain was called in and we prayed over Dominic. I couldn't believe what was happening, almost 6 months to the day since his sister, Gina, had left us. As unfair as it seemed, I hung onto my faith and did my best to remain positive. 


There was one last drug they wanted to try. The problem was it that it normally raises the heart rate, so they were loathe to try it. With absolutely nothing to lose, they got another IV going. I won't say it happened immediately, but Dominic slowly began to stabilize. His heart rate and blood pressure were steadily dropping and his temperature was returning to normal. And while he is a long way from being out of the woods, he has amazed his doctors and nurses. At the time of this writing, Dominic is still fighting and his doctors are cautiously optimistic about his chances to make a full recovery. If everything goes according to plan, we can expect him to be out of the ICU in a few weeks and out of the hospital sometime later in February. Thanks for dropping by and I hope you'll leave him a note. Thank you.        
    

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Journal entry by Nick Antinozzi

I want to thank all of you who have followed Dominic’s journey on this page. I took comfort in writing the updates after visiting with his team, and reading your responses touched my heart. Over those 39 days, I learned more about the medical profession, critical illness, and all of the machines and coinciding numbers than any regular guy should know. I did my best to share what I could, not knowing why I felt compelled to do so, just knowing it made me feel better. And it helped knowing how many people were praying for Dominic to recover, many of whom he never met. My son had impeccable manners, I can assure you that had he survived, he would have written everyone to thank you for supporting him during his illness. As his dad, that responsibility falls on me. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Yesterday, I was lost, it felt wrong not to be racing down to the hospital. It feels wrong to shut off the ringer on my phone at night. It feels wrong to write about Dominic in the past tense. I want to scream and shake my fist at the sky, but know it wouldn’t do me any good. Over the past seven months, I have shed many tears, and have gleaned a drop of hard-earned knowledge with each one. I pray you never learn what I mean by that. Holding Dominic as he slipped away was the most beautiful, horrific experience of my life. I miss him so damn much. For those of you who wish to honor our family with your presence, Dominic’ Visitation will be at Strike Funeral Home in Cambridge, Mn, on Friday 2/1 from 4:00 - 8:00. Dominic’s memorial service will be the following day at Our Savior’s Lutheran Church in East Bethel. I also set up a Go Fund Me page in Dominic’s name to help absorb the costs. Once again, thank you all so much for all of your prayers and kind words. You’ll never know how much they meant to me. My sister, Theresa, and I have a favorite quote that I’d like to share with you. I’m sure many of you are familiar with it. It goes something like this: “In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends.” ~ Martin Luther King, Jr. I wanted to share that because I know from experience how quiet it gets after the dust settles. Thanks again and bless you all. 
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