After sharing my story a few weeks ago, a friend came up and shared about the Japanese art of fixing broken pottery.  Rather than repairing the broken pottery with adhesive, the Japanese use a special sap to connect the crack and then dust it with gold, silver or platinum.  The “scar” becomes a beautiful seam and a one-of-a-kind work of art.  

As I was preparing for that time to share, I asked Ben what he thought was most impactful about my story.  He said, “ Mom, that you don’t cover the scar, and that you don’t get bothered when people stare at you or ask about your scar.”  

Once we allow the wound from the scar to heal, it allows for a unique way to connect with others.  

On the one-year anniversary from surgery, I was able to say thank you to the nursing leaders at UHealth/Bascom Palmer.  This was an emotional talk as they were so key in helping me heal from the scars.  https://youtu.be/quto_7MWHus

At times, the scars bring laughter.  Ben thought the attached magnet was very fitting for me.

At times, the scars bring hope.  Last week, I was able to talk with another mom who just had her eye removed and is starting radiation shortly.  We talked about her fears and questions and what would be next on her journey.

Our next set of appointments is July 1 for a PET Scan, MRI and appointment with the ENT.

Right now, I'm working on the section of the book from 10 years ago when I was going through the first set of surgeries in Miami.  If you have any memories from that timeframe, please send my way.

Thank you for encouraging me on this journey & to use my scars.