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Dear Dave's family
Thinking of you as you remember Dave on his Angel day
may you have a peaceful day full of love and memories of much happier times
May you feel Dave's Angel kisses sent from heaven
with Love always Jacob's Mum

Jacob 17th June 1991-16th June 2005

Dear ^i^ Dave's family
Thank you so much for visiting my Jacob's page and for remembering his angel and Birthday
the messages mean more to me than you will ever know
love always Jacob's Mum

Jacob 17th June 1991-16th June 2005
Loving tribute page

Keeping you in my thoughts during the Holiday season and in my prayer's always.

Dear Dave's family
thinking of you all as Dave's 2nd Angel day approaches
I know for you the 2nd year has been as hard as the first
you are all in my thoughts
Dave, Fly high in heaven happy healthy and free
with Love always jacob's mum

Thank you so much for taking the time to remember Our Aussie Angel Jacob’s
Birthday and Angel day
You will never know how much it has meant to us
With Love always Jacob’s family

Michelle,

Oh Thank you for sharing your Amazing Love for Dave............thank you for sharing the person he was

to each of you and how he lives on in the hearts that love him, miss him and know that they will one day

see him again..............the song playing Homesick says it so well

In Christ, there are no goodbye
And in Christ, there is no end
So I'll hold onto Jesus with all that I have
To see you again
To see you again

"Hold on to Jesus with All that you have to see Dave again"

The video of A Year Without Dave - In Pictures...........PRICELESS....

I pray for you and your beautiful family and see Dave in each of you........

May God continue to give you strength for each day and each step you take.

Dave's Love Lives on in you and your Beautiful Family,

Love & Hug's from California,

Kris

Danny

Thinking about you...

Dear Michelle
Thank you for visiting our Jacob's page and for leaving a message..as the months go by the messages mean more and more to us ..knowing that Jake isn't forgotten ..
I have just finished reading your diary entry on missing Dave
how true those words are it's the little things you miss
My Jake was a talker too I'm sure he could have talked the leg of an iron pot;-) he would come out with the deepest of thoughts at times ..
My Jake was also a "hugger" the type of hug that melted into you and you felt sooooo loved ...
I know you will never stop missing Dave and I'm sure he knows how loved he is still
with Love always Jacob's Mum

I feel bad that I haven't been by your page in awhile.Lots going on here.But that does not mean that I don't think of you for I always do.I do stop by your page to see and read the updates just haven't had time to sign your guestbook.

HAD TO STOP BY AND LET YOU KNOW THAT I'M THINKING OF YOU.

Here's hoping something fabulous happens to your incredible family in 2007. Thinking of you ALWAYS.


Deanne and Mike
www.caringbridge.org/md/mikem

MERRY CHRISTMAS


Love From Our Home To Your's

God Bless you

Love,

Kris and Family

Danny

YOUR ALWAYS ON MY MIND TAKE CARE .

Remembering Our Solider's Past & Present

Today and always keeping you in my prayers!

God Bless you,

Kris

Remembering along with you YOUR DAVE.............

Love & Prayer's to you

KEEPING YOU IN MY THOUGHTS AND IN MY PRAYER'S ALWAYS.

Wow! What an amazing site! He does have love in those eyes! Hugs and oodles of prayers!

Love

Keeping you in my thougths and in my prayer's always.

Shelley~
I was saying my morning prayer's and checking on some of the CB families I pray for and found Dave's CB page...............Today ~
When my eyes read December 28, 1962 - August 23, 2005 I just knew I had to read this journal. I have been sitting here watching the beautiful video of his life, your life and I had to write and Thank you for sharing this Man of God and your beautiful family with anyone who should be so fortunate to find this CB site. AMAZING story of FAITH, HOPE, & LOVE.
May you continue to find peace in knowing you will one day be back in Dave's arms.
Until then God is holding you. I will be praying for you and your children as you continue Strong. Sending Love, thought's & prayer's from California...........
Hug's,
Kris

"And we know that all things work together for good
to them that love God, to them, who are the called
according to his purpose"

Romans 8:28

Hosted by Sparkle Tags
hailee and i are just stopping by to say we are thinking of you.
http://www.caringbridge.org/az/hailee

www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph

I will definetly come to the new site.I will miss you all if I don't.Keeping you in my thoughts and in prayer's always.

Sending prayers to you and all the other families!

Hi all just coming by to say hello. Please know that I think of you all often. Have a wonderful weekend.



www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph

www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph

The Prayer Bears
Hailee
Praying that you have a wonderful mothersday…
You are always in our thoughts and prayers.

Michelle, sending you lots and lots of prayers...

Hello!
I saw your site at the Bennett's page! What an incredible journey you have been on! I may be able send my cartridges your way too. I don't use many, but I know they all add up!
I want to wish you Happy Mother's Day!!

Many hugs and prayers,
Patty and Jesse MPS IIIA

Lysosomal Storage Diseases Support Forum

Hi Michelle,
Thanks so much for continuing to stop by katelyn's page and signing the guestbook. I really do appreciate your entries and love to read them As you know then I am back to work and trying to adjust. unfortunately it cuts into my CB time....UGH
Take care,
Love Deb xoxox

Happy Mothers day
Dear Dave's family
Thank you for visiting our Jacob's page and for your message
this will be my first Mothers day without him...
my son Jonathon also plays catcher ;-) Jake played centre feild and shortstop ;-) Good luck with this season
Iam sure your Dad is there watching every game ;-)
with Love Jacob's mum

LETTING YOU KNOW THAT YOUR THOUGHT OF ON MOTHER'S DAY.KEEPING YOU IN MY THOUGHTS AND IN MY PRAYER'S ALWAYS.

Just wanted to wish you a happy Mothersday, one that is going to be full of loving memories of your precious husband along with your beautiful kids. Love, hugs, prayers and kisses.....
ps.

Hi there,
I came by before, but did not sign the guestbook. I saw a couple of Angels "cloud surfing" today and immediately thought about you and your family, how happy was I when I saw your message in Katelyn Laforet's guestbook, because I couldn't remember where I had clicked on your link before. Well this time I am not leaving without letting you know that you are thought of and prayed for by us.
All our love, hugs, prayers and kisses....
ps. Those little reminders that seems so painful right now, will turn into beautiful memories with time.

Thinking of you and hoping you are doing well.

Michelle,
Ive check on here everyday to see how your doing. Thank you for continuing to check on Kevin. Your words to him are always so encouraging.
We think of you everyday!


Love and hugs from Minnesota!!

Hi Meyer Family.... So sorry that we have not been around in awhile we had computer problems and we just got it back. I hope that you all had a wonderful Easter. I will check in again real soon for an update.

www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph

Look who's on skates!!

Thought I'd stop by and see how spring break went. I hope you have a very good weekend.

Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers,

We hope you have a great Easter! Sorry I've been out of the loop lately! My kids had spring break this past week and were all sick - luckily they recovered to hunt for eggs this morning! :) You're in my thoughts and prayers. Take care!

Hopping by to wish you a Happy Easter from Angel Katelyn's Family

Keeping you in my thoughts and in my prayer's always.

Keeping you in my thoughts and in my prayer's always.

Michelle, the song is perfect... your wedding song, i love it...
How are you doing? so sorry i havent been on in ahwile.. bad friend....
praying that all is well ....
The Prayer Bears
Hailee

THE PRAYER BEARS

I want to thank you for your friendship and for looking in on us. Youve helped us more than you know. Thank you for sharing everything that you do with us and everyone that stops by here. Youve touched many hearts.

Love and hugs to you- Kevin and Kari

The Prayer Bears
Hailee

Michelle, i am so sorry i havent been by in awhile, thank you for putting a prayer alert for hailee up.... things are just so rough right now i barely have time to sit at my computer, all i want to do is cry...
How are you guys holding up?

Dear Dave's family
Thank you for visting Jacob's web page
Your diary entry is so true..it's the little things that can make you cry..our son Ryan has started to play soccer again after loosing Jake..I have to hold my breath the whole time we are there so as not to sit there crying wishing That Jake was also there running with his brother
Thinking of you
with Love Jacob's mum
PS I think the kids wearing Dave's shirt's is beautiful
Jacob's Mum www.caringbridge.org/me/jacob Jacob's Page
Brisbane, Queensland Australia - Friday, February 24, 2006 2:59 PM CST

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Hi Michelle,
Stopping by, as usual, but writing this time, thinking about you all. Hope today has many blessings for you. Prayers and hugs to you and the kids!!!
Michelle Gentges <gentges6@aol.com>
Jacksonville, FL USA! - Friday, February 24, 2006 9:34 AM CST

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Michelle, thinking of you on another difficult day. It is wonderful all the support you have. God is watching over you.
Might be a bit selfish of me to ask but no better way to get many prayers at one time. Asking for prayers for a very special friend who had biopsies today.
Kathie
Walla Walla , Wa. - Thursday, February 23, 2006 11:13 PM CST

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You always bring tears to my eyes!!!! I can not even imagine what you are feeling inside. I want you to know that I so deeply appreciate all the extra prayers that you said for my Joseph. We love you and thank god everyday that we have you in our lives


www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph
Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net>
- Thursday, February 23, 2006 10:18 PM CST

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Many prayers for you and your family. What a difficult day...another to add to the collection.

I haven't been able to hear the song...if you feel comfortable emailing me the file I'll upload it to our account and send you the HTML for it. We have a really high bandwidth...anyway...just email it to me if you wish.

I forgot to mention when I left the message about the printer cartridges that I dropped a pic of Hadley in the package for you. Not framed or anything...It's just a snapshot of her in Hawaii...swimming in the pool at night...preety cute...but, I'm biased. =)

Thank you for continuing to share your journey, your pain, your everything with all of us. We must let these things be heard if there is ever going to be a change...a CURE. You are so courageous...even...or maybe ESPECIALLY...in your most 'broken' moments. Not that that's any consolation to you. We love you.

With Love and HOPE
Hadley's Mama
http://www.caringbridge.org/ca/hadleyfox
Angela <HadleysMama@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, February 23, 2006 7:00 PM CST

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May God's love surround you from the beginning to the end of this day and may you feel Dave's spirit as you struggle on.
Sue
Walla Walla, WA - Thursday, February 23, 2006 3:46 PM CST

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Michelle.

I have been with you through Caringbridge and my friend Deanne Messinger in Michigan. I've been here before, read and prayed for you and with you. I have been where you are. Tomorrow (24th) will be 21 months for me. I visited here the other day to check in on you and saw the picture of your bed. I could only smile. That could have been the exact picture of my bed a year (or less) ago. I just wanted to let you know that I was out here thinking of you and praying for you today. Remember God’s love – He is with you. It does get better, I promise. Don’t worry about the bed; it will be made up when it’s time…

Polly A. Mix <ptmix@comcast.net>
Wyoming, MI USA - Thursday, February 23, 2006 12:40 AM CST

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Thinking of you...
Love, Kevin and Kari
Kevin and Kari Kevin Terry <kkterry@netins.net>
Truman, MN USA - Thursday, February 23, 2006 10:50 AM CST

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Chelle:

I have a good friend who lost her husband more than 5 years ago to a massive heart attack -- no warning!! She calls those contact lens solution moments "ambushes." I think they are like Pearl Harbor must have been: totally unexpected and totally devastating.

Last week, we cleaned out Rob's closet, getting ready to put the house on the market. My friend Peg was helping me. She handed me Rob's trading jacket from the Kansas City Board of Trade without realizing what it was. It was just the way it had been the last time he took it off on June 30, 2004. There were three pens in the top left pocket, papers with his handwriting on them in the lower right pocket, and the badge with his name on it clipped to the right lapel. I wanted to look at the papers, see what he had written, but I couldn't. I also couldn't see through my tears, those hot, sudden tears that come with an ambush. That jacket had been in his closet, just like that, since before we started the stem cell transplant. But for me, it was if he had just taken it off and walked out of the room for a moment. And I wanted him to walk back into the room and put it on -- right then!!

I know that today, the 23rd, is 6 months since Dave died. I know how hard it is -- and how unreal -- that he can really have been gone from your lives for that long already. And how it also feels like it has been forever since you saw him and touched him and kissed him good-bye.

This is the long, hard road we are traveling now. For all that I am SO glad to know you, I am just that sorry that we are companions on this journey for the same reasons.

Claudia
- Thursday, February 23, 2006 0:32 AM CST

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Always checking in.
"Your" song is beautiful, a voice of an angel.
Keep on keeping on...
Becky Betts <bobeck@charter.net>
Walla Walla, Wa USA - Thursday, February 23, 2006 0:15 AM CST

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ChelleBelle,

The new pic, the music, the entry today.....it hurts us all too dear friend...it hurts in my gut. A beautiful couple with so much hope......but, scroll down......the beautiful children....the product of that hope.....now, your hope.....thank heaven's for the children.....life goes on...with Dave there in each of them......
Sending much love to you today and always,
Cathy B.
w/o Lou dx inoperable gbm 10/04
cathy beres
chicago, IL - Wednesday, February 22, 2006 9:58 PM CST

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Shelley,
I think I said a few months ago I would sign in every time I read Dave's website. I haven't been able to...unlike you, I have a hard time putting into words the emotions I feel. I sit, I read, I cry. Or, I sit, I read, I laugh. There is one constant that I can always count on when visiting....truthful emotions. Thank you for sharing with all of us. You are helping many of us to get through our pain or our daily lives and may not even know it. So tonight, I sign in, to tell you "Thank You" from my heart for sharing. You are helping me in ways you don't even realize. I love you!!
Melissa Johnson <curtisandmel@bendcable.com>
- Wednesday, February 22, 2006 9:32 PM CST

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Hi Michelle,
I read your update with tears on my cheeks.
Please know that you and the kids are in my thoughts and prayers daily.
Thank you so much for the sweet words in Kari's guestbook. They really brought a smile to my face.
Praying hard for your family,
Lisa and Kari
Kari's Page
<Lisa@iamtheshoe.com>
Langely AFB, VA - Wednesday, February 22, 2006 3:44 PM CST

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Grief hurts so bad but we are so lucky to have God to rely on. I am so sorry for your grief and so glad that prayer doesn't heal but helps to strengthen our human bodies. Many prayers for you and your family.
Sue
- Wednesday, February 22, 2006 3:23 PM CST

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Big, Big Hugs Meyer Family...you are doing hard, hard work...work that noone should have to do.

We love you all...

Kenny...mailed off two cartridges this am...Finally! =)

With Love and HOPE
Angela
www.caringbidge.org/ca/hadleyfox
Angela <HadleysMama@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, February 22, 2006 2:35 PM CST

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Lots of loves, hugs, and tears headed your way from our house today. I know the hole in my heart is not even remotely close to size of yours, but maybe it helps a little to know that no matter how measurable the hole is, it is still there and it still hurts every day right along with you. So many times I have wished that I could be there and have fought the guilt I feel over the path life has taken us on...I told Stac the other day that we have almost been gone from Walla Walla as many years as we were there now and I wonder how that can be when so many of my best memories are there and it only seems like yesterday. You are right, time is relentless and it feels like a millstone when you want it to fly and like a steam roller when you wish it would slow down. WE LOVE YOU GUYS!

Love,
Will and Stacy
The Mouat Family <mouatw@hotmail.com>
Falcon, CO 80831 - Wednesday, February 22, 2006 9:46 AM CST

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Just stopped by to hear Dave singing.........sigh......

Love to you dear friend,

Cathy with the spots in the carpet
w/o Lou dx inoperable gbm 10/04
cathy Beres
chicago, IL - Wednesday, February 22, 2006 1:18 AM CST

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Great news about the book!!
It's late but wanted to stop by and leave you a short note to say hello. Hope you are well!
HUGS
Angel Katelyn's mom, Debbie < miraclegirl101@hotmail.com >
Wheatley, Ontario, - Monday, February 20, 2006 0:39 AM CST

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That is just awesome that Zachs picture/poem of Daves guitar will go in a book! We think of you often and check in on you everyday. I have a few more ink cartridges for Kenny. I'll be sending those off later in the week. One step closer to finding a cure right?!

Love, Kevin and Kari
Kevin and Kari Terry www.caringbridge.org/mn/kevinterry <kkterry@netins.net>
Truman, MN USA - Sunday, February 19, 2006 8:08 AM CST

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Michelle you are such wonderful suport for so many families. This is your gift. You know the right things to say and have such wonderful things to write. You may wonder what your doing day to day but you will never know how much your helping so many people. I have learned so much from you about life and how to be there for others. Good luck with the games this weekend, your kids could never have a better mother. You are a blessing to many. God Bless You.
Kathie
Walla Walla, Wa, - Saturday, February 18, 2006 1:50 AM CST

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Way to go Kenny and Team Meyer with the cartridges! I'll send more soon! Have a blessed weekend! (~.~)
Lynn Rios <sweetestleaf@aol.com>
Springfield, MO usa - Friday, February 17, 2006 10:21 PM CST

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All I can say today is.....

TGIF!!!!!!

have a good weekend Meyers Clan!!!

love you all,
Cathyb.
w/o Lou dx inoperable gbm 10/04
Cathy Beres
chicago, IL - Friday, February 17, 2006 10:55 AM CST

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Hello Meyers Thank you for all tne extra prayers!!! We can deffinetly use them right now. I know that my Joseph will do just fine. I just hate knowing that now he is having Kidney problems. Your prayers are greatly appreciated. Thanks you



www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph
Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net>
- Thursday, February 16, 2006 11:33 PM CST

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Just wanted you to know I was here tonight...checking in on you all. =)

I'm impressed with your reading list. I can't remember the last time I read something that wasn't related to BT's, Autism, or epilepsy. Actually I do...when Hadley is in the hospital I usualy read a lot through the night (since I can't sleep)...I used to lOVE reading. *sigh*. So, today I bought James Patterson's new book. I'm a sucker for his women's murder club books. =/ How very intelectual of me....LOL. Anyway, I started reading it this evening...I've promised myself that no matter what I'll finish it. It m akes a lot better reading material than OR reports, MRI reports, etc that I've already read a million times. even after all these times reading it It still doesnt' make sense. Technically yes, it does. But, I'm looking for it to make sense in my heart. It never does. Whenever I feel sad and robbed I think of you, your kids, your love for Dave and for Kyle...I see you living, never forgetting, always loving...but living. I thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing your journey with all of us.

Sorry to make this so long.

Good luck this weekend to the B-Ball team!!!

www.caringbridge.org/ca/hadleyfox
Angela <HadleysMama@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, February 16, 2006 10:46 PM CST

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Hi Michelle and Family:

It has been awhile since I have written. I stop by often to check on the lastest news and events. What exciting things that are going on. Thank you for stopping by Drew's site and signing his guestbook. It means so much to him and me. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

www.caringbridge.org/va/drewb
Gina (Drew-B-Bear's Mom) <OneAngelsMommy@aol.com>
VA - Thursday, February 16, 2006 8:34 PM CST

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Hi Chelle ... would love to get the author information from you. Olivia has done some pretty touching tributes to her father. She's been in an art therpy class since Fred was diagnosed.

Good Luck this weekend ... Hope all is well and the wristbands are making a hit out of Kenny at school. I have a few more if you need them.


Cheri Schappert
Same Place, Different Time - Thursday, February 16, 2006 8:27 PM CST

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Hello, Michelle,
Days and days have passed since I've written, but it isn't because I've not been "out there." I take a peek each day and sometimes really don't know what to comment because what I might say seems so, so....hmmmmm.....so insignificant when compared to the emotion expressed in your journal entries. But, I do want you to know that I DO remember that you are in the midst of a struggle right now and that I know each day is very difficult for you. You bring to me such awareness of the fragility of life and of those living life. Your many friends on the CaringBridge network count themselves privileged to consider you a friend. Thank you for all you do so compassionately for others in this world we share.
Wendye Bren <bren@brenski.net>
Walla Walla, WA - Thursday, February 16, 2006 6:53 PM CST

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I didn't see it the first time around, but I went back in your journal history and found that guitar drawing. That's awesome, the perfect thing for that book.

When Steven was first diagnosed, he wrote some stuff about his experience in his journal, but since he hasn't seemed interested in writing or drawing about it.

Rather, he seems focused on recovery and putting that part of his life behind him.

Wishing you a great weekend.
Kathleen, mom to Steven and aunt to angel Kyra
San Diego, CA USA - Thursday, February 16, 2006 3:01 PM CST

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I haven't "written" you in the guest book for a while, but continue to follow your journey and pray for all of you. I loved the picture that Zach did and am excited to hear that it will be published in that book. It was quite a tribute to his father. I also loved the story of the rose. Dave was right.....that rose will never die and will always remind you of his love for roses. Enjoy today, because we never know what tomorrow will bring.
Ginny Streeter <ginny@bendradio.com>
Bend, OR - Thursday, February 16, 2006 10:52 AM CST

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Wow, it is impressive so many cartridges to help such a great cause. Kenny it is super that your drawing will be published. My brother just published a children's book "Birhday Snow" and dedicated it to my father who passed away in May 05 and it is way COOL. Many prayers to the whole Meyer Family and those families that love and support you.
Sue
Walla Walla , WA - Thursday, February 16, 2006 8:08 AM CST

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I found your site through our friend Collin's site and will check up on you to see how you're doing "neighbor". :)

Susan & Michael <mjorski@comcast.net>
Kent, WA - Wednesday, February 15, 2006 2:50 PM CST

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Hey Michelle,

Thanks for the Valentine on Taylor's guestbook. I check in a lot, but don't always write. I hope you keep journaling and writing whatever comes to mind on any given day.

Can that puppy be any cuter? can you read a more diverse selection of books? The answer has to be no to both questions. Have mercy....if I was reading all those books and cleaning up puppy poop, there would be issues.

Thinking of you and wishing you whatever you need right now.....
Taylor's Mom, Patsy www2.caringbridge.org/mi/taylor <pvan35@hotmail.com>
Scotts, Mi USA - Wednesday, February 15, 2006 2:36 PM CST

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Michelle,
I came to your site through our good little buddy Gage's site. The song is beautiful!

Take Care,
Candy Sweeney, www.caringbridge.org/mi/jonathan, www.carepages.com , name: jonryan78
Jackson, MI - Wednesday, February 15, 2006 11:44 AM CST

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Got to work this morning and found I didn't need to hurry. Hope sleepyhead caught her ride with Lisa; she always seems to make it in the nick of time and it never flusters her. Unflappable Kate.

It's a beautiful morning, clear and crisp and bright, but COLD. One of those days you're glad to live in Walla Walla and REALLY glad that you're inside looking out.

Hope your day lives up to the sunny promise of this lovely winter morning.
Debra Wright <kevndeb@charter.net>
Walla Walla, WA 99362 - Wednesday, February 15, 2006 10:35 AM CST

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Happy Valentine's Day. Belated.

Our family is doing all that stuff late this year.

As for putting up video on your site, take a look at http://castpost.com.

Your dog is adorable. The rose is beautiful.

And as for Dave, it sounds like you are starting to feel him.

God bless,
Kathleen, mom to Steven and aunt to angel Kyra
San Diego, CA USA - Wednesday, February 15, 2006 9:53 AM CST

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thinking of you Robyn
www.caringbridge.org/visit/nicole


RW
Petawawa, Ontario (Canada), - Wednesday, February 15, 2006 4:59 AM CST

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Love to you dear friend, on this day, and always.....love and hugs........

Cathy b.
W/o Lou dx inoperable gbm 10/04
cathy beres
chicago, IL - Wednesday, February 15, 2006 1:46 AM CST

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Thinking of you...wishing I could fix you...hoping for this hug to make it's way to you.

Deanne <deannemessinger@sbcglobal.net>
jenison, mi usa - Tuesday, February 14, 2006 11:22 PM CST

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LOVE ALWAYS BRENDA MY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA/CANADA, - Tuesday, February 14, 2006 9:42 PM CST

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Michelle
By now you have "survived" another important day. The crystal rose is beautiful and a life time memory. It taught me a lesson -- when my spouse sends me flowers I will never again say to myself how expensive he should not have. I will just be glad he is still here to do that for me. Thank you for that reminder. You continue to survive and we continue to pray for your strength.
Sue
WALLA WALLA, WA - Tuesday, February 14, 2006 9:29 PM CST

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Wow, what a beautiful gift from Dave. A never ending rose-that is something that can be cherished forever.

I love what you said in your journal~~'grief is hard work, and there really isn't room for a lot else some days'. Today I went to meet with my boss about returning to work. He was asking me why I was so apprehensive, try to explain that to someone who has no idea right? How things have changed in the last 3 yrs since I was there. How my priorities have changed, how if feels after sitting in a hospital room for 15 months. I wish I would came to your page last night like planned & had read your journal before meeting with him.

Take care, you are in my thoughts,



Angel Katelyn's mom, Debbie < miraclegirl101@hotmail.com >
Wheatley, Ontario, - Tuesday, February 14, 2006 3:56 PM CST

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Hi Michelle and family. Wanted you to remember God loves you today and always. Your love is shown in so many ways, just wanted to send some from Minnesota and know that I feel blessed by getting to hear your story and life. We have been touched by you and the Terry's. God's Love and Peace today and always.
Connie Eckberg <eckbergs@prairie.lakes.com>
Gaylord, MN USA - Tuesday, February 14, 2006 3:21 PM CST

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Hello Dear Ones,
Just want to let you know that the Mouat hearts are reaching out to the Meyer hearts today...and every day really. I still find myself wishing I could have a magic wand to make everything ok or have that magic word to say, but I can't ever seem to find it - I know there isn't one, but I guess I won't let myself admit it. What you share is so meaningful because it really does speak volumes for the process that grief is. I don't mean to be a damper or anything, but I am still working through parts of the grief (mostly due to the fact that I tried to bury vice dealing with it) of my brother's death more than 20 years ago now. I also think those little Dave stories and anecdotes not only keep his memory alive, but really do point to who he was. I can think of so many little things, symbolic things he used to do on a daily basis and it makes me smile even though it hurts to think about it you know? I have to laugh when I think of all the times I was struggling with my mood or attitude that Dave would come over playing his guitar and making me sing myself into a better mood...I remember carrying around a bottle of Malox in my back pocket during softball practice when the 2000 crew were sophomores - it wasn't them (in case they are reading this...though they will remember that)I just had a lot of stuff going on at the time. Dave would not leave me alone. He just kept bringing that guitar in, even stopping class for a song break, and doing other things like leaving me a Coke on my desk. He always knew what I needed. We should all be so in tune huh?
We love you guys!!


Will and Stacy <mouatw@hotmail.com>
Falcon, CO - Tuesday, February 14, 2006 11:08 AM CST

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Just stopping by to wish you a Happy Valentines Day!!


Love, Kevin and Kari
Kevin and Kari T. www.caringbridge.org/mn/kevinterry <kkterry@netins.net>
Truman, MN USA - Tuesday, February 14, 2006 10:25 AM CST

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www.caringbridge.org/ca/hadleyfox
Angela <HadleysMama@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, February 14, 2006 0:00 AM CST

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Good Evening Michelle and family. Hope your day has not been as damp as the weather. Been thinking alot about you. So glad you have the beautiful Rose. That was so thoughful of Dave. I am sure tomorrow will be a tough day, just know your very special to awhole lot of people near and far. You have helped us learn more about living than I ever thought possible. I hope tomorrow is full of surprises for you. Good Night and God Bless You.
Kathie
Walla Walla, Wa. - Monday, February 13, 2006 11:14 PM CST

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Good Evening Michelle and family. Hope your day has not been as damp as the weather. Been thinking alot about you. So glad you have the beautiful Rose. That was so thoughful of Dave. I am sure tomorrow will be a tough day just know your very special to awhole lot of people near and far. You have helped us learn more about living than I ever thought possible. I hope tomorrow is full of surpises for you. Good Night and God Bless You.
Kathie
Walla Walla, Wa. - Monday, February 13, 2006 11:12 PM CST

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Red roses were her favorites,
her name was also Rose.
And every year her husband sent them,
tied with pretty bows.

The year he died,
the roses were delivered to her door.
The card said, "Be my Valentine",
like all the years before.

Each year he sent her roses,
and the note would always say,
"I love you even more this year,
than last year on this day.
My love for you will always grow,
with every passing year."

She knew this was the last time
that the roses would appear.
She thought, he ordered roses
in advance before this day.
Her loving husband did not know,
that he would pass away.

He always liked to do things early,
way before the time.
Then, if he got too busy,
everything would work out fine.
She trimmed the stems,
and placed them in a very special vase.
Then, sat the vase beside the portrait
of his smiling face.

She would sit for hours,
in her husband's favorite chair.
While staring at his picture,
and the roses sitting there.

A year went by,
and it was hard to live without her mate.
With loneliness and solitude,
that had become her fate.
Then, the very hour,
as on Valentines before,
The doorbell rang,
and there were roses,
sitting by her door.

She brought the roses in,
and then just looked at them in shock.
Then, went to get the telephone,
to call the florist shop.

The owner answered, and she asked him,
if he would explain,
Why would someone do this to her,
causing her such pain?

"I know your husband passed away,
more than a year ago,"
The owner said, "I knew you'd call,
and you would want to know.

The flowers you received today,
were paid for in advance.
Your husband always planned ahead,
he left nothing to chance.

There is a standing order,
that I have on file down here,
And he has paid, well in advance,
you'll get them every year.

There also is another thing,
that I think you should know,
He wrote a special little card...
he did this years ago.
Then should ever I find out
that he's no longer here,
That's the card...that should be sent,
to you the following year."

She thanked him and hung up the phone,
her tears now flowing hard.
Her fingers shaking,
as she slowly reached to get the card.
Inside the card, she saw that he had written her a note.
Then, as she stared in total silence,
this is what he wrote...

"Hello my love,
I know it's been a year since I've been gone,
I hope it hasn't been too hard for you to overcome.
I know it must be lonely,
and the pain is very real.
For if it was the other way,
I know how I would feel.
The love we shared made everything
so beautiful in life.

I loved you more than words can say,
you were the perfect wife.
You were my friend and lover,
you fulfilled my every need.
I know it's only been a year,
but please try not to grieve.

I want you to be happy,
even when you shed your tears.
That is why the roses
will be sent to you for years.

When you get these roses,
think of all the happiness,
That we had together,
and how both of us were blessed.
I have always loved you
and I know I always will.
But, my love, you must go on,
you have some living still.

Please...try to find happiness,
while living out your days.
I know it is not easy,
but I hope you find some ways.

The roses will come every year,
and they will only stop,
When your door's not answered,
when the florist stops to knock.
He will come five times that day,
in case you have gone out.
But after his last visit,
he will know without a doubt,
To take the roses to the place,
where I've instructed him,
And place the roses where we are,
together once again."
Author Unknown



What a love you and Dave had. Im so sorry tomorrow will be another "first" for you. I saw this poem and thought of your Dave with the rose he gave you. I hope its not too upsetting but wanted to share it with you.(sorry its so long)

Love and hugs to you!!
Kari


Kevin and Kari www.caringbridge.org/mn/kevinterry <kkterry@netins.net>
Truman, MN USA - Monday, February 13, 2006 1:29 PM CST

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ChelleBelle,

"And now here is my secret, a very simple secret: It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye." ... "It is the time you have wasted for your rose that makes your rose so important....you become responsible, forever, for what you have tamed. You are responsible for your rose...."
"I am responsible for my rose," the little prince repeated, so that he would be sure to remember.

--The Little Prince, Antoine de Saint Exupery

Dave, your prince, forever......

Cathy B.
w/o Lou dx inoperable gbm 10/04
(My prince forever)
Cathy Beres
Chicago, IL - Sunday, February 12, 2006 11:19 PM CST

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Dave and I have a bit in common ... there is only one week or so between the day Dave was born and the day I was born and a rose is only as beautiful as its smell ... smart man that Dave Meyer, very smart. It's not just a rose that you can tell by it's scent, for me it's also my husband. I sleep with his old tshirt that I have yet to launder just so that I can feel him. It's funny ... as soon as I take in the scent from this shirt, I feel safe, secure and loved .. I remember what our love was all about. Fred is still with me physically, but emotionally he's gone ... my point ... even though he is here ... I no longer "feel" him either ... I guess no one wins in our situation ... I'm just glad I kept the shirt.
Cheri Schappert
Loomis, CA United States - Sunday, February 12, 2006 8:53 PM CST

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Michelle,

This may sound odd, but I always think of Dave on Valentine's Day.

I remember (with hind sight) Dave acting a little goofy (yes Goofy) after a Currents gig. Little did I know, but Dave was trying to get Erik to agree to a gig, and Erik told Dave he couldn't because we were going to Portland. I thought we were going down to see Erik's parents, but we were really going down so he could pick up my engagement ring. Along with Erik's parents, Dave was the only person who knew that on Valentine's Day, Erik was going to ask me to marry him.

When Erik told me afterwards that Dave was the only friend that knew, I thought of the "goofy" smile he had given me that night of the gig.

Dave loved LOVE! Just as he loved so many things; with all his heart! Just like he loved you; with all his heart!

I love you too!
Evy Haroldson <evy.haroldson@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA - Sunday, February 12, 2006 7:47 PM CST

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The beautiful rose is perfect for the two of you. It will last forever. From here it smells like love. Glad that puppy Duke is there to make you put down a book sometimes! :) Love you all.
Adrienne <ancaec@hotmaill.com>
Nampa, - Sunday, February 12, 2006 3:47 PM CST

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I don't know, Angela....just don't stop signing!! Hugs, Michelle

Michelle Meyer <meyer1986@charter.net>
Walla Walla, WA US - Sunday, February 12, 2006 2:35 PM CST

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http://www.GlitterMaker.com/ - Glitter Graphics

http://www.caringbridge.org/ca/hadleyfox


Not sure why my entries always mix up with other people's??? This is the only GB it happens in?!? LOL...
Angela <hadleysmama@yahoo.com>
California..., BUT...Oregon bound (pending 'Orders') Homei is where the CG sends us...BUT...our hearts are always in the PNW.... - Sunday, February 12, 2006 1:39 PM CST

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Alicia, John, Ciara, Hunter & ^^Angel^^ Tommy BENNETT CHILDREN'S JOURNAL <mps3mom@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, February 11, 2006 8:41 PM CST

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http://www.GlitterMaker.com/ - Glitter Graphics

www.caringbridge.org/ca/hadleyfox
Angela <HadleysMama@yahoo.com>
Alameda , Ca USA - Friday, February 10, 2006 11:29 PM CST

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Chelle:

With Cathy, I, too, offer to join my hands with yours -- and hers. I think it would be hard to walk far holding hands in a circle -- but not so hard to stand!!

Standing with you forever,

Claudia
- Friday, February 10, 2006 7:51 AM CST

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ChelleBelle,

Hoping you had a better day today.....one step forward, two steps back....that is how it goes.....someday, the steps will all be forward....until then, we hold your hand ... no matter which direction , we are going there with you.....as you hold our hands too.
love u,
Cathy b.
w/o Lou dx inoperable gbm 10/04
cathy beres <cberes1@aol.com>
chicago, IL - Thursday, February 9, 2006 10:43 PM CST

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Dear Dave's family
Thank you for visiting our jacob's web page and for your message
I'm so sorry for your loss your Dave sounds like and amazing strong person
I hope he will get to meet My jacob in heaven they both have amazing spirits ..I know you miss him as much as we miss our jake
with love Jacob's mum

Deanne www.caringbridge.org/me/jacob Our Aussie Angel Jake
Brisbane, Queensland Australia - Thursday, February 9, 2006 0:00 AM CST

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Michelle,

Thinking about you, remembering last year (trying to find the pizza place - making the kids walk at my speed the entire length of Broadway - you and Dave having to give us a ride back to our car), taking Erik for walks now and thinking Dave would have liked our pace.

How can a year be so short and so very long?

Love you,

Evy
Evy Haroldson <evy.haroldson@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA - Tuesday, February 7, 2006 10:02 PM CST

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Six months ago today, I watched the light and the life leave my Rob's eyes. Since that time, I have wondered what I am going to do with myself. Tonight, I had a phone interview as part of purchasing long-term care insurance, so that I can try to save our children the worry of taking care of me the way I took care of Rob.

And I laughed at the questions about my health during the past two years. I kept saying, "Well, I used to walk regularly [fill in the blank for other types of health-related questions], but for the last 18 months..." And I still do not have the answer to the question about what to do with me.

I have thought a lot today about your entry on January 23rd, and realize that these dates trigger so many feelings that seem unaddressable. I said to my friend Carol today that I feel unintegrated ... like none of the parts fit together in my life any more.

And for today, that is where I am. I am grateful for your presence in my life, Chelle, but, for tonight, I really wish there had never been a reason for us to know each other.

I think you know exactly what I mean....

Claudia
- Tuesday, February 7, 2006 9:55 PM CST

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Fred was in that same halo ... in that same MRI machine last July ... my heart aches for you and for I
Cheri
Loomis, - Tuesday, February 7, 2006 6:45 PM CST

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It was just about a year ago today....you sharing all that the doctors had told you, me praying with all my heart that the outcome would be different, but knowing that your lives would never be the same. Looking at the pictures of Dave today...certainly missing him with you, but also surprised at my feelings of anger...he should STILL be here! Hurting for you...wondering how you navigate through the pain, hurt, love, anger of each day...wondering, but also watching you simply doing it....
Lisa <mbraddock@charter.net>
Walla Walla , Wa - Tuesday, February 7, 2006 5:21 PM CST

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Michelle, You are always in my thoughts. Every time I come to your site and read you Entries It always touches my heart. Thank you for sharing your life with me.



www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph
Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net>
- Monday, February 6, 2006 11:10 PM CST

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Just checking in to see how you are doing. I loved the basketball pics! Kayla is going to be going out for basketball (and cheerleading too-its just elementary right now) but Im excited about that! I think shes going to enjoy it. I got your package today-thank you!! Im excited to listen to it!

Many hugs from Minnesota!!
Love, Kevin and Kari
Kevin and Kari Terry www.caringbridge.org/mn/kevinterry <kkterry@netins.net>
Truman, MN USA - Monday, February 6, 2006 10:23 PM CST

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Michelle, Thank you for the lovely note you left on my mom's site. You, Dave and your family are an inspiration to us. He was taken way too early. Heartfelt prayers and thanks are being sent your way.
Marta Gerrity <martagerrity@yahoo.com>
Temecula, CA 92592 - Sunday, February 5, 2006 9:48 PM CST

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LOVE ALWAYS BRENDA MY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Sunday, February 5, 2006 0:47 AM CST

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Hey Meyer family---
Hope you survived the WIND last night! Gusts up to 58 mph.
Whew. I felt like Dorothy in the wizard of oz.
Hope you are having a great weekend.
Now that AAU is done you can catch up on sleep!
See you next week.
Love Ya

Sara Huxoll <swatdog273@charter.net>
WALLA WALLA, - Saturday, February 4, 2006 8:09 PM CST

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Oh Michelle, what a POWERFUL statement.

"Here we all are,
It has been a long year,
full of heartache,
fear and pain.
But also joy,
peace,
and most of all, love."

I believe it was Diane Phillips that wrote in your guestbook several months ago: "A broken heart doesn't have to be an empty heart." It is true......No wonder
Dave picked you to be his wife and the mother of his children!

I love you Chelle,
Dee




Dee <hew@charter.net>
Walla Walla, - Saturday, February 4, 2006 1:49 PM CST

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Ah, these anniversaries...

I guess we will rewalk all those days this year, won't we?
Wishing the outcome could be different,
Glad we did not know THEN what we know NOW,
Missing those warriors of ours,
Glad they are not suffering any more,
Wishing WE were not.

Sharing this journey with you, my dear friend. Always,

Claudia
- Saturday, February 4, 2006 1:20 PM CST

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Dearest ChelleBelle,

What matters most still remains....

"the greatest of these is love"..........

Love to you dear friend, always,
Cathy B.
w/o Lou dx inoperable gbm 10/04
cathy beres
chicago, IL - Saturday, February 4, 2006 11:04 AM CST

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Hi, just wanted to stop by the page and see how you are doing. I love the pics of the basketball game. That video clip is so cool, even I could load it quickly with dial up! lol I need that for our page.
Take care,


Angel Katelyn's mom, Debbie <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com>
Wheatley, Ontario, - Thursday, February 2, 2006 11:59 PM CST

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What an awesome, inspiring father/husband.coach and teacher. I found Dave's site through Drew's. So glad I came by and read up on this very brave champion. What a legacy he has left and what fantastic children you both have. You are all in my prayers. God Bless. Kathy Cummings-mom to David Fitting...fighting glioblastoma
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@adelphia.net>
boynton beach, fl usa - Thursday, February 2, 2006 10:38 AM CST

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Michelle, thought I should sign after many many times of checking in without. Glad you had a great weekend it sounded like alot of fun. Don't forget to take care of yourself also. Sounds like you need some well deserved sleep. Take a bit of time for you Michelle. We might need to call, was it Cheri or Cathy who got you to make up your bed with sheets? Your doing a great job. But everyone needs you healthy and rested. Good Night and God Bless You.
Kathie
Walla Walla, Wa. - Thursday, February 2, 2006 0:20 AM CST

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Well...we know Dave would have LOVED this weekend. But I am sure he is the wind beneath Zach's new found wings...way to hustle, Zach! We are the Warriors...the mighty, mighty Warriors!
P.S. Question for Sara H....just what is the name of this wonderful cream?
Lisa <mbraddock@charter.net>
Walla Walla , Wa - Wednesday, February 1, 2006 10:56 PM CST

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I knew something BIG had happened in the basketball world when the fuchia background was gone and had been replaced by basketballs! CONGRATULATIONS on the great game and glad you all had a good time in Clarkston!
Wendye Bren <bren@brenski.net>
Walla Walla, WA - Wednesday, February 1, 2006 9:20 AM CST

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Way to go Zach and team!!! Awesome news! Did I tell ya I played basketball in HS and then started a season on College? I was on scholarship but, tore my hand up during preseason. BUMMER! I probably haven't mentioned that I'm 6' 1" either huh...yup...I'm a pretty tall chick...LOL... Anyway...WAY TO GO! =) Sounds like a great trip!

Hadley's Mama
www.caringbridge.org/ca/hadleyfox
Angela <foxfamilyfive@sbcglobal.net>
alameda, ca usa - Tuesday, January 31, 2006 4:40 PM CST

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Just stopping by to say hello and to check in. I never knew (but should have guessed) that Zach was so multi-talented! What a great kid! Sending you warm thoughts as always.
Jodi (Webster) Dumont <jodidumont@msn.com>
Tacoma, WA - Monday, January 30, 2006 11:50 PM CST

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Always thinking of you all!!!!!

www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph
Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net>
- Monday, January 30, 2006 10:52 PM CST

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hey meyers,
I had a fun time watching Duke! He is so adorable! Roxy the mini. shnauzer had a great time with duke! all they did the whole time was--- eat,play,sleep ect. and some!! but he had a fun time he was delighted to see his mom again!!
McKenzie
McKenzie <machuxoll@charter.net>
WALLA WALLA, WA - Monday, January 30, 2006 10:27 PM CST

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Hi guys,
I LOVE the guitar Zach!!!
We are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.
HUGS,
Lisa, Kari, and Lukas too

Kari's Page
<Lisa@iamtheshoe.com>
Langely AFB, VA - Monday, January 30, 2006 6:50 PM CST

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Hi Chelle,

Hope you and the family are having a blast in Clarkston. The only thing I remember about Clarkston is that it is next to Lewiston and we could drink there at 19 ... but I never followed the rules ... we started way too young. I remember the highway not being good either ... I hope you all have a safe journey home.

Kenny, I have several cartridges to send your way and LOTS of grey wristbands coming soon ... I have had some come from as far away as New Jersey from Fred's cousin, and a few from one of our neighbors. You are an amazing young man.

Kate, if Olivia hasn't answered you, try to remember, she's only 7 and hasn't quite got the internet bite yet. I read your note ... Thank You from the bottom of my heart, thank you for reaching out to my little one. I hope someday you will meet her. I think the two of you would become fast friends. If you like horses ... we have three, AND a potbellied pig AND chickens AND some other adorable dogs for Duke to play with ... You and your family are welcome anytime! (Chelle, that's a big, huge hint .... summer is coming)
Cheri <cschappert@msn.com>
www.caringbridge.org/ca/fredschappert, - Saturday, January 28, 2006 9:58 PM CST

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somehow my entries seem to mix up wth other people's....huh?!?

Great poetry Zach. I LOVE It!!!

Hadley's Mama
www.caringbridge.org/ca/hadleyfox
Angela Fox <FoxFamilyFive@sbcglobal.net>
- Saturday, January 28, 2006 12:36 AM CST

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Great poeetry Zach. I seem to remember doing that in a writing class in a poetry section?!? Right? =) Love it!!! Great Job!!!


www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph
Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net>
- Thursday, January 26, 2006 10:20 PM CST

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Canute wanted me to change that to 100,000 hits. Seeing as he has a 102 fever, he is claiming hallucinations.

Good thing I'm already set up as a hospital.

Wish we could have been at the COH in person - we were there in heart.

Evy
evy.haroldson@comcast.net <evy.haroldson@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA - Thursday, January 26, 2006 10:11 AM CST

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LOVE that tshirt, can I get one?????????

Sounds like an incredible night and tribute to an incredible man.

Love to you all,
Cathy B.
w/o Lou dx inoperable gbm 10/04
from the 58th floor in Chicago.....
cathy beres
chicago, IL - Thursday, January 26, 2006 1:52 AM CST

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Wow! How did Kathy come up with that many?!!! We're over here printing like crazy waiting to release our ONE cartridge for Kenny! Can't wait for our BBall marathon...where are we going to eat THIS weekend?! :)
Lisa <mbraddock@charter.net>
Walla Walla , Wa - Thursday, January 26, 2006 1:45 AM CST

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Gaynell and I are thrilled that we will be getting Cancer Sucks Club buttons. Please tell us how to order more for other family members and friends. Hope you are having a good night...and wish you were here!!

Love, Claudia
- Thursday, January 26, 2006 1:00 AM CST

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LOVE ALWAYS BRENDA MY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Thursday, January 26, 2006 0:55 AM CST

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In 1995, I was one of the student commissioners for the Conspiracy of Hope. It was a wonderful experience and I am SO happy to see that the event has continued. The shirts are wonderful and I can't think of a better person to honor than Dave!
Allison
Seattle, WA USA - Wednesday, January 25, 2006 6:10 PM CST

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I thought that i should note that dave's site has gotten one million hits and more. GO HAWKS!!!
Canute Haroldson <cjbh@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA USA - Wednesday, January 25, 2006 5:50 PM CST

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Michelle, as you know God works in mysterious ways. Such a short time we got to visit and our boys' pics bring me here to your family's website, me not knowing about Dave and you not knowing that I lost my little sister to brain cancer recently as well. I am happy for our Zach(s)budding relationship and ours. Hugs to you***Tawni. P.S. the pic of Zach and Ryan helping Zach...priceless
Tawnia Sumerlin-Jones <tawnia24@hotmail.com>
Walla Walla, Wa. - Wednesday, January 25, 2006 12:49 AM CST

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Meyer Family, love the fushia. We will be saving all the cartridges here at CPPC for you.You are in our thoughts & prayers every day. Czyhold Family
Judy Czyhold <jczyhold@hscis.net>
Walla Walla, WA USA - Wednesday, January 25, 2006 11:48 AM CST

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I knew things were happening on the website when I got a first glimpse of the fuchia! Thanks for all the updates on events in the Meyer Family, the pictures, and always for your efforts for others. I thought I felt the ground trembling during the Seahawk game and now I know where all the thumping/jumping/shaking was coming from: The Meyer Household a gametime! Those shirts are a wonderful tribute to Dave and the COH. Allison was a "host" at one of the first Conspiracies; I'll be sure to have her take a look at the shirts; she'll admire them, too!
Wendye Bren <bren@brenski.net>
Walla Walla, WA - Wednesday, January 25, 2006 10:48 AM CST

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Michelle,

I'm glad that when we have to focus on something else, we can come here and see what we missed, and feel like we were there!

I love you,

Evy
Evy Haroldson <evy.haroldson@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA - Wednesday, January 25, 2006 7:58 AM CST

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Hi,got your cb site from Katelyns. i hope things are well with you and your family.
take care. you're in our thoughts.
Robyn mom to Nicole type CDG unknown
www.caringbridge.org/visit/nicole
RW
petawawa, on canada - Wednesday, January 25, 2006 7:20 AM CST

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Just checking in to see how your fam is doing, looks like your a bit of a shutterbug like me. Got your link off A n g e l~K a t e l y n s site.

Karen <tkspenner@shaw.ca>
Victoria, B.C Canada - Wednesday, January 25, 2006 2:36 AM CST

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Hello, Just thought I would come back and say hello. Hope you are doing well. The COH sounds pretty neat, Dave must have been a special man!
Angel Katelyn's mom, Debbie <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com>
Ontario, Canada, - Wednesday, January 25, 2006 1:51 AM CST

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Signing our own guestbook....weird.
But let me know if, like Monica, you can't see the words. I think I was updating things when she was on the site, so that might have been it. I also have the background fuschia and the words lime green to match the COH shirts, so that might be a problem for some computers...anyway, let me know, and we'll go with basic black if it's a problem! :-)
Michelle <meyer1986@charter.net>
Walla Walla - the best town on Earth, WA US - Wednesday, January 25, 2006 1:06 AM CST

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chelle
noone can read the words tonight
monica
MONICA <mjcviolin@hotmail.com>
walla walla, wa - Wednesday, January 25, 2006 0:55 AM CST

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Michelle
HOW AMAZING WAS TONIGHTS PROGRAM? WOW! YOU GUYS ALL LOOKED GREAT. I THINK YOU SHOULD BE VERY PROUD. MAYBE ILLSEE U TOMOROW NIGHT. IT WAS SAD THE SLIDESHOW
PRAYERS FO RU AND UR FAMILY
LOVE MONICA
MONICA <mjcviolin@hotmail.com>
WALLA WALLA , WA - Wednesday, January 25, 2006 0:12 AM CST

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Michelle,
Thinking of you often, missing Walla Walla bunches and wishing I could be there to go out and have lunch with you so that we could talk. Glad to know you have friends there to lean on (one of God's important gifts)!

Donna Wierman <mdjkwierman@hotmail.com>
Woodinville, WA U.S.A. - Tuesday, January 24, 2006 11:55 PM CST

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Wish I knew words to help. My husband, Lee, is still doing well. Chemo (Temodar) is tough, but he handles it well. But it's hard, such a hard road for the one who loves the BT patient. Through the journey, I've gained so much strength just from reading your journal and "listening" to how you handle things. I keep thinking about joining one of the brain tumor lists so I could "talk" to someone about stuff, but haven't had the courage. But you help more than you know. I just wish that there was something to help you through the grief.
One verse that helps me on bad days is Psalms 57:1. One of many good ones. Take care. Glad your friend came over to be with you.
Lynn Baines <lbaines193@charter.net>
Rockmart, Ga - Tuesday, January 24, 2006 11:14 PM CST

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Chelle,

I lov you hon!!! Guess what...the "hadleyolioma" is STABLE! STABLE! STABLE! Praise God!!!

Just wanted to let you know...especially after reading last night's post!!!

Hadley's Mama
Angela <FoxFamilyFive@sbcglobal.net>
Cloud Nine, State of bliss USA - Tuesday, January 24, 2006 7:08 PM CST

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Michelle:
I haven't signed your guestbook since I sent my condolences, however, I often read your website and am encouraged by it since I struggle everyday with the death of my father on May 5, 05 from Bone Cancer. I read your link because my mother also struggles through the loss of her beloved spouse of 53 years and I have learned from you how to better understand her daily struggles and how to encourage her to keep on going when she doesn't want to. You are a tremendous encouragement to so many you don't even know about. I am glad to see that you take the time to be sad, to miss and to struggle as well -- it must be very difficult. That great big "hole" that is missing in your life. I think it is great that you have a "friend" that would come to the rescue at midnight. So Michelle don't be sorry for these types of entries because they still help all of us out hear reading, learning, loving and praying for you and your loved ones.
With Love and Admiration

Sue Clark <clarkfamily@gohighspeed.com>
Walla Walla, WA - Tuesday, January 24, 2006 12:54 AM CST

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After all these years and all these entries, I'm still amazed and deeply touched every time I read the website or talk with you. Your courage, honesty, strength in weakness, and love for Dave and others always shines through. You give us all courage and strength knowing that you keep standing tall even when it seems impossible to stand it at all. I love you and your family so much and feel blessed and honored to be a part of it.

Keep on keeping on. All our love,
Mindy

P.S. Tell Kate all she needs to do to figure out when to get back to Bluewood is check her schedule and Zach's too with her Uncle Bob. He loved his time with both of them.
Mindy Meyer <bmeyer@bmi.net>
College Place, WA USA - Tuesday, January 24, 2006 10:48 AM CST

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Michelle, youre entry was very touching. Claudia is right though. Yes, we dont want to be where you are. The hurt, the pain, the loneliness, the sorrow. But you, my friend, are so encouraging to all of us. You are "standing it" the best you can, you are our strength. You give us hope that if the day ever comes that we too can "stand it".
Love ya!

I wish I was there to bring you coffee at midnight!!
Kevin and Kari Terry www.caringbridge.org/mn/kevinterry <kkterry@netins.net>
Truman, MN USA - Tuesday, January 24, 2006 9:13 AM CST

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Chelle:

Of course you are "living their worst fear....their nightmare....[You] live in the place they never want to go." That is true, for me as well. I see it in the faces of the other BMT families: they are ashamed that they do not want to BE me and that they are GLAD their loved ones are still alive -- and they are afraid, on some primitive level, that if they get too close to me, that MY BAD LUCK WILL RUB OFF, that the nightmare I am living might come to live in their lives as well.

BUT...in some way, I also give them hope. I am still alive, without Rob. I am still standing, most days, and I am still able to give hope, support, and enCOURAGEment to them. And they know, in their secret hearts, because they saw me with Rob and they know how entwined we were with each other, that they, too, can go on alone if they have to.

So we are each the secret dread and the secret hope, rolled into one sad, lonely person who is still standing ... and standing it ... most of the time. We have to learn to allow ourselves to be human, too, Chelle Belle, to need, to reach out [or to be too sad to reach out], to lean. You and I do not have to always BE strong, just because we ARE strong.

And if we are living someone's worst fear, we are also their best hope, that they can also get through the nightmare and survive the place they never want to go.

They/we are lucky to have you, to have your caring, your perceptive wisdom, your strength AND your frailty. God is there for you, and so is our love, whether you can feel it or not. Thank you for letting us know you need us too. It makes you more real than ever, Velveteen Rabbit!

Get some sleep tonight, my dear friend, and dream of Dave and Kyle and hold them close. I wish I could be there with you. I still think you should come to Texas and have a sleep-over with Gaynell and me.

Love always,

Claudia
- Tuesday, January 24, 2006 3:24 AM CST

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Just wanted to stop by and say hello to you. I love the poem you put on the page. It really does explain things..........
Angel Katelyn's mom, Debbie <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com>
Ontario, Canada, - Tuesday, January 24, 2006 2:06 AM CST

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Dear ChelleBelle and Team Meyer friends,

Thank you for your prayers. Thank you for being there for our friend, Chelle and the kids. Thank you for being the people I know you are. I am going to visit Walla Walla someday......but only if Shelly will have a bonfire for me in her backyard, and you are all there, and Cheri too.....thank you all. We are still figuring things out in the hospital, but knowing you are all there....makes it better.
with love,
Cathy B.
w/o Lou dx inoperable gbm 10/04
From the 58th floor in chicago
cathy beres
chicago, IL - Tuesday, January 24, 2006 1:37 AM CST

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You continue to inspire me my friend. Miss you! Hope to see you soon. Love,
Alex
Walla Walla, WA 99362 - Monday, January 23, 2006 9:46 PM CST

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P.S. It's me again... Stacy. I just realized that on my last entry I only signed my first name. Though I realize you know who I am I thought others might be thinking "Stacy who? Why didn't she put her last name?" Answer: Because I'm getting old and have 4 boys and a husband that keep my mind too occupied to think straight most of the time :)

Also, if you are wondering why I said we live in Falcon, CO this time and not Peyton,CO it's not because we moved. We actually do live in Falcon but because the town is so small there is not post office so they combine the Falcon and Peyton zip codes, because Peyton has a post office. I just figured that out... which only took me 4 months of living here to do, since no one I asked seem to know, except the "old timers".

And for those of you wondering "where in the world is Falcon, CO"....it is about 8 miles east of Colorado Springs, CO.

I'm off again. I hope you enjoy a warm smile in your heart tonight as you read another Dave story.

Love,
Stacy Mouat <mouatw@ hotmail.com>
Falcon, CO USA - Monday, January 23, 2006 9:00 PM CST

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HI Michelle,
I'm sorry I don't post messages that often. We still have dial up on our home computer and most of the time it takes so long to download anything other than your homepage that my computer can't find the server. Will is fortunate to have high speed internet at work and can access all parts of your site with ease, and therefore able to post more listings for both of us. Tonight I kept hitting refresh and FINALLY got through. I try to check your site at least twice a week, though usually more, but in reading back over the history tonight I noticed that there were a couple of postings I had missed, and like I said, my computer wouldn't cooperate to let me access them in the past. Anyways, that got me thinking about a Dave story that I'm not sure you ever heard. I bet Dave told you about it but it always comes to my mind when I think of Dave so I thought I would share it with you now, since I finally got to the posting page!

Back in the spring of 1999 or 2000 (trying to remember if our Kyle had been born yet, I'm thinking not, which would have made it 1999). Will was coaching varsity softball and Dave stopped by the field to see how the game was going (I can't remember at this moment if they were winning or losing but I bet if Will were home he could tell me by exactly how much they won or lost by ~ did Dave have that skill when it came to sports? I guess that is beside the point :). Dave and I were talking. He said that you were teaching a class at the college that night but it was an Uncle Bob dinner night and they were ordering pizza, so if Will, the boys and I wanted to stop by after the game for dinner we were more than welcome. I told him I would ask Will when the game was over, and probably depending on if they won or lost would determine if we would make it over (I'm not sure about Dave but Will was never really hunger after a loss, or in the mood to visit as he was too busy stewing over what they could have done different). Dave assured me there would be plenty of leftovers either way. Anyways, after the game Will said yeah, lets stop by for a bit. Well, by the time we got there it was pretty late, like 8 PM or a little after as I recall and we were all starving. We walked in to a surprised Dave who said he didn't think we would be coming by and that all but one piece of pizza had been eaten! Will proceeded to eat that while I gave Dave a bad time about what kind of a host invites over guests then eats all the food (jokingly of course). I think Dave felt really bad about it. We didn't stay too long because we still had to feed the kids, and like I said we were all very hungry. Anyways, the next home softball game I looked over midway to see Dave walking up to me with a plate full of homemade, BBQ hamburgers. Dave said it was another Uncle Bob dinner night and they were BBQing hamburgers, and that he wanted to make sure he gave us that dinner he promised. I was really taken off- guard by his wonderful act, pleasantly surprised too as those games used to go kind of long and at that time with no concession stands to ease the hunger. I have to tell you too, those were the BEST hamburgers I think I have ever tasted! I asked him what the secret ingredient was in them and he said lemon pepper. I have tried to make them just like that on several different occasions but they never turn out like his. Every time I use that seasoning to this day I think of Dave and those great hamburgers. What a sweetheart of a man!!!

We continue to pray for you Michelle, Kenny, Zach, and Kaitlin. Your enduring spirits are really encouraging! How you make the most out of life, to love and enjoy one another, is such a lesson to everyone who is blessed to have your web address and take the time to read it! God bless you all this coming year as you continue to experience many more firsts without Dave. Our hearts are with you and we long for the day to see you all in person and give you hugs.

With love,
Stacy <mouatw@hotmail.com>
Falcon, CO USA - Monday, January 23, 2006 8:48 PM CST

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I agree with Angela, Michelle! You could sell Dave's CD...It warms my heart with many great memories of Dave when I hear his voice singing. And I ALWAYS think of Dave when I hear the Ritz commercial "I'll stop the world and melt with you". Alison is just sure it is Dave in the commercial!
Lisa <mbraddock@charter.net>
Walla Walla , Wa - Monday, January 23, 2006 7:28 PM CST

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Hello, came through your website through a friend of ours whos 4 yr daughter has ALL. I was the 100,000 person to visit....Our thoughts and prayers are with you from Syracuse New York
Melissa and Tom <tomtpfox@aol.com>
Syracuse, NY USA - Monday, January 23, 2006 2:22 PM CST

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Wow!! I guess Im the 100,000 visitor to your site!! Just checking in to see how your doing. Just wondering if "Team Meyer" would please say a prayer for Kevin...hes so weak today and has just gone downhill since yesterday. We need all the prayers we can get!!
Love,Kevin and Kari
Kevin and Kari Terry www.caringbridge.org/mn/kevinterry <kkterry@hotmail.com>
Truman, MN USA - Monday, January 23, 2006 2:22 PM CST

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Cathy and Lou and their family are in my prayers...she's such a sweet and encouraging lady. I wonder if there is anything we can do to help brighten a day for her?!?

oh...and I was 99,698...does it count if I sit and refresh the page 302 times...LOL!!! You know you should sell some eof those Dave Meyer CD's...I know I would buy one...maybe to go into the kids education fund? Or a vacation fund for your family...or a 'replace the things Duke chewed' fund...LOL...

Love ya'll
Hadley's Mama
Angela <FoxFamilyFive@sbcglobal.net>
Alameda, Ca USA - Monday, January 23, 2006 1:44 PM CST

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How is the puppy??
sending prayers for your friends....
We are planning a trip to WA hopefully this summer, i am excited....
love you guys.
Melissa
http://www.caringbridge.org/az/hailee
melissa <angels4hailee@Cox.net>
cavecreek, az usa - Monday, January 23, 2006 1:04 PM CST

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Michelle,
I almost forgot...Way to so Seahawks!!!!! Do you think Kenny might wear a Seahaws jersey now?
Kirsten
Kirsten Pribilsky <thepribs@msn.com>
- Monday, January 23, 2006 1:23 AM CST

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Hi Meyer family,
Happy Belated Birthday Kate! We enjoyed the skating pictures and it made me a bit homesick. I was great to see pictures of Jacie, Avery and Katie...I used to see all of them on a daily basis. I also believe Kate will never forget how much Dave loves her and she has that wonderful U-B picture as reinforcement. The look of joy and delight on his face is memorable. That would be a good posting if it would fit! I agree with Deb on the need for no housing "issues" this year...you are due for a break. We check in daily, pray daily, and think of you at every turn.

Love, Kirsten and family
Kirsten Pribilsky <thepribs@msn.com>
West Linn, Or - Monday, January 23, 2006 1:21 AM CST

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Michelle,
I check on you guys often and pray that you are "making"it. I loved the entry on Kate's 10th birthday...the pictures were so wonderful too. I too was filled with emotion after your last entry....all the hope you had just one year ago. Like you said in your entry about Kate's birth......how much things can change in a year. I am in awe of you and I am very proud to call you my friend. You are taking what life has given with you and carrying it with grace and dignity. Keep up the good work. God is with you and a bunch of us on earth are too.
Ginny Streeter <ginny@bendradio.com>
Bend, OR - Sunday, January 22, 2006 9:23 PM CST

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Your last website update was so emotion-filled, Michelle, from cute Duke's smiling face to greet us and then down through where Dave and you were one year ago at this time plus also the long list of those who have succumbed (not without a heroic fight)in 2005 to brain cancer's ravages. Hurray for Duke's joy and (bleep) for the all the rest of the stuff (except for the reports on the birthday for Katelyn, Kenny's venture for the Musella Foundation, the beginning of Zack's guitar lessons and the good memories you hold even from the bad experiences). I know that "good" comes from each of life's experiences, but at what cost? Guess we aren't the ones to know exactly how all of this goes. One keeps pluggin' along and doing what one can to help those in need. Which is something I want to super-commend you on: You are a brilliant "light" in the darkness that so many are now experiencing: Cathy "on the 58th floor in Chicago," Hadley Bug and her family, Kevin and Kari....I know there are many more that you guide and support with your expertise and love. I hope that the selfless giving that you offer others allows room for the help and love of others to flow in and support YOU so you can continue your valuable efforts to others--kind of like the gentle ebb and flow of the tide, in and out, bathing EVERYONE in the healing waters. Well, this is just "me" writing this morning from just a few blocks away. Wondering if Duke has discovered the mystery of a little peanut butter or a doggie treat in that Kong! Take care.
Wendye <bren@brenski.net>
Walla Walla, - Sunday, January 22, 2006 2:42 PM CST

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99,599...Rats...or as Liam says "Rathhhhsss" (I love kids speech impediments)...LOL...

Just wanted to check in on you all. I so wish that I could make it up to the concert. Hadley would love it too...The girl LOVES to shake her boom boom!!! =)

On a possitive note...we're fairly certain that we are being trnsfered back to Portland this summer! YIPEE...we're still waiting for 'orders' but it's prety much a done deal. =) YAY!!! It would be so nice to be able to come to one of your events and finally meet you and your awesome kids. Is the concert a yearly thing?

Love to all...
Hadley's Mama
Angela Fox <FoxFamilyFive@sbcglobal.net>
Alameda, Ca USA - Sunday, January 22, 2006 2:07 PM CST

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Shelley,
Looking at Kate's birthday pictures brings back memories. HAPPY BIRTHDAY Kate!(know I am way late here and I am sorry) All Dave could talk about was how he was sure it was a girl, and tease me a lot about how he wouldn't have to drive 100 MPH from Kennewick to make it there for her birth (as I had to do with Christian a few months before). I can't believe how fast they grow! He was full of advice and even offered me a book or two on how Stac and I could have a girl our next time as you all had done. Well, it didn't work as we had two more boys after Ryan and Christian (though I will admit I didn't follow his advice that closely). :o)
As always we are thinking of you all, even moreso tomorrow. That list Chelle, that just breaks my heart. On the 18th of Jan we passed 23 years since my brother Randy joined Jesus. It seems like forever and yet only yesterday...guess the history guy in me can never seem to get away from dates, especially those that are so significant.
Love you all,

Will and Stacy

PS to Lisa Braddock...thanks so much for the encouragement (push) you gave me to call last August I will never forget...it has meant so much.
The Mouat family <mouatw@hotmail.com>
Peyton, CO - Sunday, January 22, 2006 12:01 AM CST

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First, I am sorry for your loss. From your journals, I can tell that Dave was an amazing man with so much love for his family.
Second, I am the daughter of Danette Johnson, she is involved with one (or many) of the BT lists that you also frequent. Thank you for doing what you do. I never realized the feeling until being faced with the reality that some one I love has a beast in his head and the looks that are given because of the lack of knowledge. I am sure that this is coming out as a jumbled mess, so please forgive me for that. I just want to let you know that I appreciate you getting it out there and making it known that something needs to be done.
Thank you again, and I'll be keeping you close in thought.

caringbridge.org/visit/billyjohnson
April Larkin <alarkin@vzavenue.net>
Seaside, CA - Sunday, January 22, 2006 11:58 AM CST

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Shelley:
The list ...
It is too long, too awful, too many losses, too many families, too many good-byes. And the dread in too many hearts -- like yours when Dave did not know what to do with the cell phone, and mine when I saw that the paramedics did not think they would get Rob to the Emergency Room alive, and Cathy's when she did not get an e-mail about the MRI and ....
We have to go on raising awareness and fighting for a cure...or better yet, a cause, for cancer, especially for brain tumors.
Too many lives cut short ... too much pain and loss ... too many broken hearts ...

Claudia Williams [member of Team Meyer, Texas branch!!] <ckwms@verizon.net>
- Sunday, January 22, 2006 6:08 AM CST

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Hi, I have been visiting your site for almost a year now. I have silenty watched your family, and have been so touched by each one of you - by your love, your strength and your faith. My dad has been fighting a brain tumor since 2001. He also has a daughter named Kate who is 12 and 4 boys! He's been through 2 brain surgeries and Gamma Knife and now they tell us that he may have "enhancement." My heart is broken. We just got the bad news last week. We are still waiting on hearing from the doctors in Phoenix. I had him on the phone, and in tears I read the "Crap Sandwich" story. My dad is the greatest man I have ever known and I can't imagine life without him. I want you to know that you have given me so much comfort when no one else understands and I really hope you keep this website going. I check it daily.
Jenny <jennyrad@hotmail.com>
ND USA - Saturday, January 21, 2006 9:36 PM CST

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Hey there Meyer clan, hope you're doing well. Zach, great to hear you started playing guitar, maybe we can get a head start on the band, hmm? Hope Kenny does well in the Special Olympics. GO KENNY!
I finally know how it feels to have a family member go through surgery, and it's scary. You guys have my prayers for every name on the webpage. Love you.
Canute Haroldson <cjbh@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA USA - Saturday, January 21, 2006 9:14 PM CST

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Praying for all, thinking about eveyone, everyday. My soul has been touched, thank you
Lynn R. <sweetestleaf@aol.com>
Springfield, MO - Saturday, January 21, 2006 7:07 PM CST

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Wow, that list of people who died from brain cancer in 2005 is a little stunning. And that's just from one online group. It's hard to think of all the families who have been going through the pain you've experienced in 2005. Here's hoping that 2006 is a year that will bring healing and whatever peace you can find. And new plumbing! And NO MORE household disasters, please.

Love you guys, --Deb
Debra Wright <kevndeb@charter.net>
Walla Walla, - Saturday, January 21, 2006 7:04 PM CST

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That list is WAY too long. I have checked your site many times and never signed. When I saw that list, it just shattered the thoughts of how many people it touches. Crazy...just praying and doing what I can.
Heather
Chicago, Il USA - Saturday, January 21, 2006 4:23 PM CST

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Well Michelle I have to tell you that here it is 9:32 P.M. and I have been feeling guilty all evening that we did not make it to the concert tonight. Seemed no one got home in time from work and were in the middle of dinner when it started. I started reading Rob's site here and came back to check in on you and was reading back entry's when I realized the concert is not till next week. Maybe with a week head start I might make it on time. That also explains why there has not been an entry about how great the concert was. I know it will be if it is something Dave was behind. Good Night for now, hope you have a nice weekend.
Kathie
Walla Walla, Wa. - Thursday, January 19, 2006 11:39 PM CST

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Happy Belated Birthday..... You always have such great pictures on here. Please know That I check in on you all often and I am always praying for you. Take care



www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph
Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net>
- Thursday, January 19, 2006 9:43 PM CST

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Michelle,
Okay....I think I may not have lived up to my "promise". I have visited your site everyday, and not signed in. The last entry, Kate's birthday, was so great. The picture of both of you takes my breath away. She is so beautiful, and as she grows older, I know she will remind me of you more and more. I love you, cherish my time with you growing up, and feel blessed that you share so much of yourself today. I still feel connected and I really do cherish and look up to you....still!!
Love you, Melissa <curtisandmel@bendcable.com>
Bend, OR - Thursday, January 19, 2006 9:34 PM CST

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Hi everyone,
Happy belated birthday Kate. I hope it was a day that you will always remember. I'm sure your dad sent some very special love for his Earth Angel.
Michelle, thank you for signing Kari's guestbook. Sorry that it has taken me so long to write back. Between my silly internet connection being a royal pain and the everyday life of a mom with 5 kids, I just did not get much time on my computer.
I just wanted you to know that my sister graduated from UPS and I grew up 4 blocks from there. I lived on Madison street. One street down from Proctor. Do you know where that is? I really feel a connection to you just from knowing the same area. I will look you up next time that I am in the state. If you don't mind!
One of Kari's doctors said that she has some of the tell tale signs of autism. We did the check-list and she was borderline. Does Washington have good services for special kids. When my husband retires from the Air Force, we may move back there. Any thoughts or info would be good. Only if you have the time or the energy. I can not imagine how much of a struggle every day must be for you and the kids. Please know that we are keeping your family in our thoughts and prayers.
I did not mean to hog your guestbook. Sorry!
HUGS,
Lisa and Kari
Kari's Page
<Lisa@iamtheshoe.com>
Langley AFB, VA - Thursday, January 19, 2006 7:59 PM CST

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Hi Michelle. I check on you all the time. Wished we lived closer together...I'd love to have coffee together! Thanks for the help you give so many of us GBM caregivers. Hugs from the "snowless" Michigan. (Is that even a word?)

Deanne
Deanne Messinger <deannemessinger@sbcglobal.net>
Jenison, MI USA - Thursday, January 19, 2006 12:08 AM CST

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Hi! I hope everything is going well! I can't believe Kate is 10! Wow!! I love to see Kenny at school everyday, he makes everyday shine. He makes everyday a good day. He is always so polite! I hope school is going well for Kenny, Zach and kate! I hope your doing well!! In my thoughts often!
Vanessa Person <rodeogirl2006@hotmail.com>
walla walla, WA - Thursday, January 19, 2006 0:13 AM CST

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Hi! I hopr everything is going well! I can't believe Kate is 10! Wow!! I love to see Kenny at school everyday, he makes everyday shine. He makes everyday a good day. He is always so polite! I hope school is going well for Kenny, Zach and kate! I hope your doing well!! In my thoughts often!
Vanessa Person <rodeogirl2006@hotmail.com>
walla walla, WA - Thursday, January 19, 2006 0:13 AM CST

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She will and she does. She's surrounded by you, her brothers, family, and friends (not to mention all those pictures) that will always remind her of how she truly was and is her daddy's little girl.

Thanks for the continual sharing of your lives --you so inspire me and others. Lots of love, hugs and kisses,
Mindy
Mindy Meyer <bmeyer@bmi.net>
College Place, WA USA - Tuesday, January 17, 2006 10:09 AM CST

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ChelleBelle,

What a darling pic of you and Kate! Do you know I have a black jacket with a fur trimmed hood, it looks like yours.....how weird is that?
Your daughter is beautiful, just like you...like mother, like daughter. She is so lucky to have you for a mother......hugs to you all.
CAthy B.
w/o Lou dx inoperable gbm 10/04
cathy beres
chicago, IL - Tuesday, January 17, 2006 1:39 AM CST

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Happy Birthday ice skating, dancing, smiling, sweet, adorable KATE!!!

Hope you had a fun day. You will always always be your daddy's little girl.......that never ever changes no matter what. And thank heavens you have those two older brothers, they will be fighting the boys off someday!

love to you , your mom, brothers and DUKE of course!!!
Cathy B.
w/o Lou dx inoperable gbm 10/04
cathy beres
chicago, IL - Tuesday, January 17, 2006 1:37 AM CST

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Happy Birthday Kate!!

We are wishing you a very special birthday week. With all our love
Peter, Cheryl, Austen, Peyton and Ethan Wiederspan <wiederspanpc@qwest.net>
Puyallup, wa - Tuesday, January 17, 2006 0:06 AM CST

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Happy Happy birthday Kate!!! You are such a gorgeous girl through and through!!!

Keegan's birthday is on Wednesday...he's turning 4 though...but I'm sure he'll try and convince you to be his girlfriend anyway!!! =)

Hope you had an awesome day!!!
With Love and HOPE
Hadley's Mama

Angela Fox <foxfamilyfive@sbcglobal.net>
Alameda, Ca USA - Monday, January 16, 2006 10:31 PM CST

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Kate,

We all are wishing you a wonderful birthday. Ten is a special number, and you are a special lady!

Lots of love,

Evy, Erik, Canute, Sonja and Echo
Evy Haroldson <evy.haroldson@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA - Monday, January 16, 2006 9:39 PM CST

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Happy, Happy Birthday to Kate! There is truly something special about little girls. We had to wait for grandkids to get our girls, but oh boy, do we love them. For the last 5 years, almost every picture we have of Rob was of him with Rachel. Don't ever forget, Kate, that you are still your daddy's girl!!!

Always,

Claudia Williams
- Monday, January 16, 2006 8:18 PM CST

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Michelle & Kids:
I'm sure the holidays were especially hard for you. I think about Dave often, and I can only imagine how much you must miss him. Thank you so much for your journal, it is wonderful to be able to keep up with you all. It is obvious there is a lot of love in your hearts. Take care, God Bless.
Mike Lucarelli <michael.lucarelli@microsoft.com>
Sammamish, WA USA - Monday, January 16, 2006 6:24 AM CST

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Hi Meyer Family.... I have to say that I am so greatful that you actually added a link on your page for my little Joseph. We can use all the extra prayers. Thank you so much. I think that you all are an amazing family. I always like coming to your site and seeing all the kids with such great big smiles. I have to say that the new dog is just so cute it ALMOST makes me want to go out and get one. Joseph and I thank you all from the bottom of our hearts. I will continue to pray for all of you. We are sending big hugs your way. Take care



www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph
Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net>
- Sunday, January 15, 2006 11:10 PM CST

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Hi Chelle ... just checking in to say hello to all. What kind of dog is Duke? He is so adorable. I think we should have a puppy play date with Duke, Digger & Shiela ... Kate's birthday is soon? Happy Day Kate!
Cheri
- Sunday, January 15, 2006 9:59 PM CST

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Hi Chelle.......in response to your entry to Claudia
Williams, you certainly don't OWE" me a breve. I recently ordered some coffee pods from Gevalia that I plan on passing on to you. Afraid I will have to pass on the half and half for awhile......or I guess I could buy the next larger size in jeans! I NEVER could stand to "feel" my clothes. Let's just say I will drink my coffee black and I will pretend it's my preference. I will call you soon for a coffee date.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO KATE tomorrow! Hope the Longview cousins are having a good time in Walla Walla......also from Lisa's entry, sounds like your parents are here with their new motor home! I didn't get a chance to see your huge Christmas tree before you took it down; but I do plan on seeing Duke while he is in that adorable but sometimes exasperating puppy stage. I love his eyes......just how big is he going to get? Talk to you soon.
Love and hugs, Dee


Dee <hew@charter.net>
- Sunday, January 15, 2006 6:49 PM CST

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The Prayer Bears
Hailee

we just wanted to come by and say hi...
and digger wanted to check out the puppy... he agrees awful cute....

melissa <angels4hailee@Cox.net>
cavecreek, az usa - Sunday, January 15, 2006 4:04 PM CST

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Thanks for mentioning the concert. My son who sang with Chamber singers just a fewwwwwwwwww years ago and I plan to attend. The music program at Wa-Hi was such a special part of our family during his high school years. Red Lobster in Kennewick will save cartridges for Kenny.
Kathie
Walla Walla, Wa. - Saturday, January 14, 2006 9:16 PM CST

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Okay.. if I'd known there would be more than one winner I would've sent my guess in but since I saw Kari T. had the same guess I didn't. BUMMER! :-)

Anyway I love your puppy - he is so cute. Hope you all are enjoying your weekend. We have a four day weekend here - YEA!!!!!

Hugs and prayers.

Michelle Gentges <gentges6@aol.com>
Jacksonville, FL USA! - Saturday, January 14, 2006 12:14 AM CST

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Hello Meyer Family .. Kenny, I have cartridge I will send you AND I have a proposal for you as well. I have LOTS of the gray wristbands that say THINK ABOUT IT on them left ... we have already covered our cost on them, so if you want, I will send you the balance of what I have and you can sell them for whatever price you want to put on them. The only catch is you have to send the money on to Al Musella ... It's okay if you don't want to. Just let me know and I will be happy to mail the ink jet cartidges and the wristbands to you, or just the ink cartidges.

Good Job and WE ARE SO PROUD OF YOU!

Now, I also have to tell you that little Duke is a doll. I happen to think our Shiela is the cutest ever, but Mr. Duke comes in a close second!



Isn't she adorable .... she just has to meet Duke!

Love to all ...


Cheri
- Friday, January 13, 2006 11:23 PM CST

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Hello Meyer family, I fed my dad donuts and ice cream for dinner ... AND .. he ate it all! Is that just weird? He ate it all!

Hi Kate, I like your picture with the puppy. He is CUTE! Why does your Mom have so many boys? (LOL) Kate, please email me at OSchappert@msn.com. I will write you back soon.
Olivia Schappert
- Friday, January 13, 2006 11:14 PM CST

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Many birthday blessings upon Kaitlin this weekend! Say hello to Grandpa and Grandma...I just saw their "home on wheels" pull up! Yowsa! See you next week!
Lisa <mbraddock@charter.net>
Walla Walla , Wa - Friday, January 13, 2006 4:37 PM CST

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Woo Hoo... I knew I was a pack rat/procrastinator for a GOOD reason. I have some Dell ink cartridges for ya Kenny. They send recycling bags when you order new ones...but I never remember to take them to the post office. =) I'll send them to you instead for sure! What a great thing you are doing! You should add a ticker to the page stating how much money you've raised etc!!!

Just wanted you to know I was here checking in on ya'll. I'll drop those cartridges in the mail to you soon, if I can still find them in the mess I like to call a desk, that is. Ha ha...

WIth Love and HOPE

Hadley's Mama


That's REALLY weird...for some reason that last GB message merged with someone else's...LOL
Angela Fox <FoxFamilyFive@sbcglobal.net>
Alameda, ca USA - Friday, January 13, 2006 1:39 PM CST

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Woo Hoo... I knew I was a pack rat/procrastinator for a GOOD reason. I have some Dell ink cartridges for ya Kenny. They send recycling bags when you order new ones...but I never remember to take them to the post office. =) I'll send them to you instead for sure! What a great thing you are doing! You should add a ticker to the page stating how much money you've raised etc!!!

Just wanted you to know I was here checking in on ya'll. I'll drop those cartridges in the mail to you soon, if I can still find them in the mess I like to call a desk, that is. Ha ha...

WIth Love and HOPE
~Bridge of Dreams ~
~The Prayer Bears Website~
Ones Who Care


~Simply Joanne~

Joanne <joanne173@gmail.com>
Singapore, Singapore - Friday, January 13, 2006 10:29 AM CST

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I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE the puppy, how adorable! I have 2 golden retriever's and I don't know what I would do with out them!
Just wanted to let you know I came back to your page to check in. Keep strong.
Angel Katelyn's mom, Debbie <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com>
Ontario, Canada, - Thursday, January 12, 2006 11:12 PM CST

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Dear Michelle,
Stefan and Kevin guess "Duke" is due to Duke University...the "Blue Devils". (I think they may be on to something!) If that isn't the answer it may be "The Dukes of Hazard" (You do have teenage boys at home!) By the way, my kids are pining away for a dog now! Their allergies are a bummer. We all enjoyed the pictures...a little glimpse of Walla Walla!
Love, K
Kirsten <thepribs@msn.com>
West Linn, Or - Thursday, January 12, 2006 10:59 PM CST

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Hi Michelle, Kenny,Zach and Kate
the new puppy is so cute, looks like a sweet snugglebug for u all.
saw u yesterday at wahi picking up kenny, i like the new ride, :)
very styling
iam guessing the duke name has somthing to do w/ duke university
oh as for the tatto, the one on my ankle didnt hurt at all, i was sooo nervous when i went in, thought i would pass out, it was a little annoying towards the back of my leg, but didnt hurt at all, iam ready for my next one, what they say is true, they are addiciting
Well meyer famliy just wanted to check in and say hi, talk to u all soon
Hugz to u all
Kelli Knudson <kelli1@charter.net>
walla walla, wa - Thursday, January 12, 2006 10:10 PM CST

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Good evening Michelle, how long is Kenny going to be collecting? Is this on going? I love the idea. Will be picking ones up at CC and have put word out to others off campus and out of town. Lets see how many we can get for Kenny. We could make this a challenge. Seems there are people all around the world reading this site. We all use printers ect.
Kathie
Walla Walla, Wa. - Thursday, January 12, 2006 9:42 PM CST

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Duke for the Blue Devils? Cause Duke backwards is ekud!
That's how you felt about GROUT!!!
How about Duke Jameson? Duke Jameson-Chase Meyer.
He looks quite comfortable in those pictures. Where is the picture of him sleeping with you Chelle???
Looking forward to the weekend.
Give Duke a pat on the head and rub his belly for us.
Love Ya
Sara
Sara <swatdog273@charter.net>
Walla Walla, - Thursday, January 12, 2006 9:00 PM CST

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KENNY
I THINK UR PUPPY GOT HIS NAME AFTER DUKE UNIVERITY FOR PEOPLE WITH CANCER> EMAIL ME BACK IF IM RIGHT
MONICA
monica <mjcviolin@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, January 12, 2006 8:41 PM CST

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I am just also noting that dog spelled backwards is god. So you have a little bit of god at home right?

Canute
Canute Haroldson <cjbh@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA King county - Thursday, January 12, 2006 6:54 PM CST

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I saw the adorable picture of your puppy on Taylor's website, and decided to check out your website. I was Taylor"s Radiation Therapist. I started reading your families story, and I just couldn't stop. I will keep you and your children in my thoughts and prayers-you are truly an inspiration!!!
Sue <jsjte49071@msn.com>
MI - Thursday, January 12, 2006 5:45 PM CST

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OK, here's my next guess: Duke for John Wayne?? As for the J, how about Jolly or Joker, for Dave's good sense of humor? [Well, it's not as bad as Taurus...] Love the contest idea, but not as much as the puppy!! What a great addition to the family. So where's the picture of him cuddling with you, Chelle?

Am working on empty cartridges for Kenny, too. Love and hugs to all, as ever,

Claudia
- Thursday, January 12, 2006 3:05 PM CST

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I don't think I've ever seen such a cute puppy !!!! soooooo cute!!!! enjoy enjoy. Wish I were Kate and Duke was snuggling in my hair.........

love to you all,
Cathy B.
w/o Lou dx inoperable gbm 10/04
cathy beres
chicago, IL - Thursday, January 12, 2006 2:42 AM CST

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Michelle we need to get the word out to WWCC to save the ink cartridges for Kenny, not sure what they do with them but we will sure find out. Such a good idea to raise funds. Sure do enjoy all the positives here on your site. Makes me feel good about people.
Kathie
Walla Walla, Wa - Wednesday, January 11, 2006 9:55 PM CST

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Just checking in to see how your doing. I love Kennys idea for the project. I have a few ink cartridges that are just about empty I will be sending to him.
I love the pictures of Duke...and would love to know how he got his name!!(my guess wouldve been "dukes" of hazzard, "duke" university) lol
Love, Kari
Kevin and Kari Terry www.caringbridge.org/mn/kevinterry <kkterry@netins.net>
Truman, MN USA - Wednesday, January 11, 2006 9:18 PM CST

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Ohhhh! I can't wait till I see Duke again! He is such a cutie-pie. (Just to say, I love Duke's soft, brown, adorable eyes!!!)
Megan Wright <kevndeb@charter.net>
Walla Walla, WA USA - Wednesday, January 11, 2006 9:05 PM CST

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Just stoppin by to say hi to Duke.....how's the Meyer's clan doin and how's that crazy lady ...???!!!

Love from Chicago
Cathy B.
w/o Lou dx inoperable gbm 10/04
cathy beres
chicago, IL - Wednesday, January 11, 2006 1:05 AM CST

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Welll...Chelle . . . i heard the big news from Hannah, through Kate, that a puppy has arrived. After having Nugget this summer, how could you not want a puppy? As you know, my puppies, now 7 and almost 3, are part of my world and part of the permanent odors in my home. Having just steam cleaned carpets and a couch in their main living quarters, I can say that they are worth it. I love every stinky, silly hair on both of them. Good Luck with that puppy stuff though. I remember feeling like I had a newborn for about 3 weeks.
LOOKING FORWARD TO SPENDING MORE TIME WITH YOU DURING AAU SEASON. XXOOO Terri Hamps
Terri Hampson <hampslaw@qwest.net>
- Tuesday, January 10, 2006 10:58 PM CST

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OK, Chelle Belle, I think we all want to hear the story of how that little pup acquired the name Duke. Was it for the Duke of Earl [I know...that dates me!!] or the Dukes of Hazzard or put up your dukes or what?? Enquiring minds want to know!! So, 'fess up.... I guess I am glad -- and so should he be -- that you did not name the puppy "Lonely Street" or "Heartbreak Hotel."

Love to you and yours today and always. I have been wondering if Dave and Rob have met up in Heaven as you and I have found each other here on earth. Poor Dave -- unless ALL angels can sing -- Rob could not carry a tune in a bucket, but he loved music. Maybe he can be a "roadie" for Dave like he sometimes was for our son King. Don't you wish we could know what they are doing now? Do you think it might make these days hurt less?

As ever, your friend and comrade,

Claudia
- Tuesday, January 10, 2006 10:21 PM CST

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I could tell the real story about them "just looking", Kate had the idea of 3 puppies! One for each of them! Michelle looked a bit panicked!!! I had that idea too, but they came, looked, narrowed it down to two puppies, and then about 3 hours later came with Kenny and made the CHOICE!!! We Love you Chelle for taking Duke! Now the others are looking for good families.
Anyone??
Hope he hasn't chewed too much of Kate's precious hair!
Love and hugs--
and a lick or two!
Sara Huxoll & family <swatdog273@charter.net>
Walla Walla, - Tuesday, January 10, 2006 6:11 PM CST

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I can just see the next headline in the Union Bulletin: "Meyer Family Goes To The Dawgs"....oops "Dogs!" Welcome Duke, welcome to a loving family. I'm taking care of a "senior" dog, my little nearly fourteen-year-old mini-schnauzer, Gretel. I've fond memories of my eight-year-old son, Austin, racing home from school on his bike the day we brought puppy Gretel home to Walla Walla. Austin (now 22) was home recently and our "old girl" is still very special to him. So, Duke will hold a very special place in your children's hearts from the first day forward. I've got a "dog chewie" called a "Kong" (you put a treat/peanut butter inside)that I'll bring by as Gretel wasn't too interested in it (one new trick that we couldn't teach an old dog). Those little puppy teeth are going to need things to chew on!

Wendye Bren <bren@brenski.net>
Walla Walla, WA - Tuesday, January 10, 2006 12:19 AM CST

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Hi Michelle,

It's nice to meet you and your family. Thanks for visiting us. I read a lot of your journal and need to tell you that you write beautifully. I feel like I know Dave and even bigger than that I like him. It's not bigger because obviously he was well-liked by everyone, it's bigger because of the way you write about him that makes someone who's never met him feel that way. I hope that makes some sort of sense.

I love the quote you found in the movie, "if you cain't fix it, you gotta stand it". It is the truth and you just gotta find your own way to "stand it".

Gotta tell you that I think it's cool I can now say, "yeah, I know some people from Walla Walla". Sending you warmest wishes from cold, but not so snowy Michigan....
Taylor's Mom, Patsy www2.caringbridge.org/mi/taylor <pvan35@hotmail.com>
Scotts, Mi USA - Tuesday, January 10, 2006 9:25 AM CST

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Michelle,

Is "just looking" at a puppy an oxymoron?

Duke looks like a smart pup! Canute doesn't know how you could pick just one - he would be just like our friends that wound up with two Golden/Newfoundland puppies so they wouldn't be lonely. They ate the molding off the walls!!!!

Duke, however, seems quite refined (and partial to Kate's hair). My advice is Natures Miracle, and when you're having a tough day, just put your hand on Duke's belly after he eats - nothing beats a full puppy belly and nothing beats a dog!

We love you,

Evy and the gang
Evy Haroldson <evy.haroldson@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA - Monday, January 9, 2006 10:14 PM CST

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Welcome Duke! He is one luck dog to belong to your family. I've never gone "just to look" either - I guess we're suckers for puppy breath! If you need any newspapers just let me know!


Laurie Withers <witherslm@hotmail.com>
- Monday, January 9, 2006 2:50 PM CST

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Chelle...I just read your entry sharing Kyle's journey. Thank you for sharing with us. That had to be so hard...to open up those emotions to the whole world...and to have Kyle and Dave's Birthdays so close together. My heart just breaks for you. I know I hate to hear it when people say stuff like "you're so strong....I don't know how you do it." What choiice do I have...this is my life. But please know that I have the best intentions when I say YOU ARE AMAZING! I am always in awe of you and your journey and the love you find along the way. I remember the first time I signed y our guestbook. Dave wasn't doing well...and you had said that Dave had made a habit of praying for everyone that signed the guestbook...you mentioned tah you and your family and friends had continued that habit...I signed for that very reason. I felt so lost...I didn't even know what to pray for anymore. I'd not only lost hope for a cure for my 'baby'...I didn't even remember what HOPE felt like anymore. I just felt like if anyone knew exactly what to pray for it would be you and your friendss and family...of course, God already knows what we need...but, it was comforting none the less. I was amazed that in such a terrifying time in your lives you were praying for those who were there to support you. AMAZING! Anyhow...Thank you for sharing your journey with us. I learn from every entry!

With Love and HOPE
Angela
Miss Hadley Bug's Mama



PS...the tattoo really didn't hurt nearly as bad as I thought it would! It wasn't bad at all! =)
Angela <FoxFamilyFive@sbcglobal.net>
Alameda, Ca USA - Monday, January 9, 2006 11:39 AM CST

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Hi Chelle, I have been checking on you for a while. I don't know why I haven't written before. Thanks for signing Taylor's guest book. You know how much it means.

I have to tell you, I read your journal and I love your attitude and your guts and determination. Your husband must be very proud of you and your kids.

Nothing but the best in 2006! Take Care.
Taylor's Aunt Peggy www2.caringbridge.org/mi/taylor <peglap@hotmail.com>
Scotts, MI USA - Monday, January 9, 2006 11:17 AM CST

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Saying no to a face like that is as impossible as "just going to look at puppies." You don't just look. You love. Duke is clueless at the moment, but someday soon he'll realize he landed in the most wonderful home possible...if someone could just do something about those dang cats.

Diane Phillips <brainhospice@earthlink.net>
Rockledge, FL - Monday, January 9, 2006 9:26 AM CST

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ChelleBelle,

I wish I knew how to scan in pics because then you could see my HUGE HUGE GRIN......LOVE DUKE!!! A PUPPY...PERFECT!!! Just what the dr. ordered. SOOOOO cute, sooooooo loveable.......soooooo fun......i'm sooooo happy for you all, and especially for DUKE!! Have fun you crazy girl.
Cathy B.
w/o Lou dx inoperable gbm 10/04
cathy beres
chic, IL - Monday, January 9, 2006 0:06 AM CST

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www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph
Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net>
- Sunday, January 8, 2006 11:11 PM CST

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Here's to wet puppy kisses, a wagging tail, learning new tricks and an abudance to smiles and laughter to your home. Welcome Duke!
Laurie Klicker <mikeklicker@bmi.net>
Walla Walla , WA - Sunday, January 8, 2006 10:29 PM CST

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Hi Michelle,
I found Dave's site about a month ago, and I'm just now signing.
I am from Tacoma Washington and when I read your site, it remimds me of home. We are an Air Force family living in Virginia at the moment.
Through your site, I feel that I know you a bit. Dave must have been a great guy. Such love for his wife and kids. I can't imagine what you and your kids must be going through, but I say a little prayer for you all every day.
My brother-in-law is a high school basketball coach at Foss in Tacoma and my husband coaches high school scoccer, so I know how much those kids must miss Dave. But I'm sure you miss him much more.
Please, if you get the chance, visit my daughter's site. We'd love to hear from you.
HUGS,
Lisa and Kari

Kari's Page
<Lisa@iamtheshoe.com>
Langley AFB, VA - Sunday, January 8, 2006 9:27 PM CST

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I love the pictures of Duke! He is so cute! I wonder if he has any idea what a wonderful family he just adopted?? Hmmmm... And I agree that pets are a wonderful way to show AND receive love. Our 102 pound lab is the best dog in the world, next to your Duke of course! Have fun with him. Here's to a great week for you.
Michelle Gentges <gentges6@aol.com>
Jacksonville, FL USA! - Sunday, January 8, 2006 9:03 PM CST

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Glad to see Duke already made the website! I was thinking of you last night, hoping he wasn't keeping you all awake missing his siblings. Megan would like to move in to your house too, along with Alison. Jake, of course, has always wanted to move in to your house, puppy or no. What a lucky little pup Duke is, to get to move in! He'll be a wonderful new family member. Thanks for letting us meet him last night. :)

--Deb
Debra Wright <kevndeb@charter.net>
Walla Walla, - Sunday, January 8, 2006 2:16 PM CST

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Hey Duke, Digger says Hi.... Bow Wow.....

Hailee and i think your new addition is beautiful, much better than a tatoo.. enjoy him..

loved all the pictures..
Melissa
http://www.caringbridge.org/az/hailee
melissa <angels4hailee@Cox.net>
caveCreek, az usa - Sunday, January 8, 2006 1:56 PM CST

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Welcome to the neighborhood, Duke! Yes, Michelle, I would say you are bordering on crazy...but I've been there, too. How can you resist a puppy? We got Carmel when Alison was 6 months old...now that was crazy! We all think Duke is adorable...and of course,now Alison wants to come and live at your house. Is there room for a puppy AND a nine year old girl?
Lisa, Mike, Andrew and Alison <mbraddock@charter.net>
Walla Walla , Wa - Sunday, January 8, 2006 12:27 AM CST

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I am glad you have Duke! The kids think his name is funny.
At least it's not WAZZU! Or was that an option? We are so happy for you! Just like Cheri said they teach us to love-they don't know right from wrong they just want your hug,
your pat on the head,
your snuggle at the end of a "Dog-Day"
and even if they potty on the floor---well, they can't ask to use the bathroom!
I thank you for taking him. I know he will have a WONDERFUL, crazy, fun-loving HOME!
And as far as the tattoo? Kevin has 9 and the only one that hurt was under his arm that wrapped around his arm and that hurts a little! Not much. I'd go with you!! I'd even get one with you!


Sara <swatdog273@charter.net>
- Sunday, January 8, 2006 11:16 AM CST

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Puppies are God's way of reminding us that he loves us. I should know ... since October we've added two to our household. The latest one was a gift to Olivia. She pours her heart and soul into the care of both her Daddy and her puppy. I belive puppies teach us to love unconditionally ... without expectations ... without fear ... a puppy, your puppy ... does he know how lucky he is to be a Meyer?

Now, about that tattoo ... truly, it didn't even hurt ....
Cheri
- Sunday, January 8, 2006 10:59 AM CST

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I absolutely cannot show the puppy pics to the boys or it will touch off a war :o) He is so cute! Even Stacy couldn't resist that cute face, but we will have to wait awhile yet, as our lifestyle is not condusive to puppies right now. Seems like I say it all the time, but it remains true; we think of you all so much and our hearts are ever reaching out over the miles. We love you!

Love,

The Mouats
Will and Stacy <mouatw@hotmail.com>
Peyton, CO - Sunday, January 8, 2006 10:16 AM CST

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I love the puppy...I want one! LOL I hope this year is filled with many good memories for you! I stop by here everyday checking in on you to see how you are doing. Thank you for sharing all that you do with all of us. Love and hugs from Minnesota...Kari
Kevin and Kari Terry www.caringbridge.org/mn/kevinterry <kkterry@netins.net>
Truman, MN USA - Sunday, January 8, 2006 8:58 AM CST

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Love the pictures...love the puppy...waiting to see the tattoo!! In which three counties are you the craziest woman? I'd say Duke is one lucky dog, to have people drawing numbers out of a hat to cuddle up with him. Good for you all!! Love and hugs and prayers right back attcha...

Claudia
- Sunday, January 8, 2006 3:33 AM CST

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I'm glad you left the picture of Kyle at the top of the page. I wasn't ready NOT to see it. I can't imagine what it was like, NOT having that baby in your arms....your own baby, your own arms, your own heart. Unbearable, that loss.

And now Dave. It is a comfort to know that they are together in Heaven. I am glad that Rob is with John and his friends Pete and Phil and with my mother and with the aunt who loved him so dearly ... glad for him and for them, that is, but NOT for ME.

NOT for YOU. NOT TODAY.

Love and hugs, today and every day,

Claudia
- Saturday, January 7, 2006 10:14 AM CST

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Kyle, what a stunningly beautiful baby. And your wonderful husband Dave...

Michelle, you are blessed, really and truly.

And I'm just so sorry for your loss, holding you close in prayer this evening.
Kathleen, mom to Steven and aunt to angel Kyra <kbell@san.rr.com>
San Diego, CA USA - Saturday, January 7, 2006 0:40 AM CST

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What an outstanding entry. Thank you so much for allowing me to become a friend. You are an amazing women. I wish that I had half of your strenghth. Thank you.



www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph
Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net>
- Thursday, January 5, 2006 11:13 PM CST

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Thank you for sharing Kyle with those of us who are just getting to know you and your family through CB.

Continued prayers for your family as you deal with the losses.

Hugs,
Connie Frisby-Griffin <cdlfg@adelphia.net>
Colorado Springs, CO - Thursday, January 5, 2006 2:48 PM CST

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I sat on my bed this morning looking at Fred in his hospital bed and Olivia in ours .... I can't imagine losing both of them ... I simply can't. I still can't even belive I am losing him. Because you are my friend ... it makes understanding all my feeling so much easier ... but I still can not imagine ....
Cheri <CSchappert@msn.com>
- Thursday, January 5, 2006 11:02 AM CST

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stopping by today to check on you and the children.....
Carol Burgess <my2farmboys@peoplepc.com>
Conway, NC USA - Thursday, January 5, 2006 10:15 AM CST

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Michelle: I will always remember Johnnie Dennis calling Ron early in the morning to inform him about Kyle's death. Thank you for sharing your story. As mentioned in an earlier post, I think people probably wanted to talk to you more about it but were afraid to. I don't think any of us can imagine what you have been through but yet you describe it so vividly that your feelings and emotions literally leap off the page! Thank you for helping us to have a deeper understanding. You have a great gift! Kyle is a beautiful boy and I hope he and Dave are loving hanging out together.
Beth Higgins <rbhiggins@charter.net>
Walla Walla , WA - Wednesday, January 4, 2006 3:37 PM CST

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I just found your site today. I have spent the last 3 hours reading all of your journals from beginning to now.I have smiled, laughed and cried. I feel like I have missed out on meeting one of the best men on earth. (not that North Carolina is that close to you for me to run into him). You have the most wonderful, loving and strongest marriages I have ever heard of. Through your journals I feel as if I am getting to know Dave as well as you and the children. He was definately an Angel on earth and now an Angel in heaven. I know day to day is a learning experience now. How to get by and get the most out of what you have been dealt. I think you are doing a great job of being true to yourself, your children and to Dave's memory. There is no right or wrong way to grieve, as long as you do. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I will definately be back to check on all of you and to hear more about the wonderful life of Dave. All of my love,
Carol Burgess <my2farmboys@peoplepc.com>
Conway, NC USA - Wednesday, January 4, 2006 1:29 PM CST

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Thinking of you today. Have been since about 4am for some reason. And Cheri.
Blessings to you and the kids.
Michelle Gentges <gentges6@aol.com>
Jacksonville, FL USA! - Wednesday, January 4, 2006 9:52 AM CST

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Dear Michelle,
I remember talking about Kyle's death with you years ago but never in detail. I was afraid to go there, to ask you to go through it again. I was afraid that your experience might somehow become my experience. I know that doesn't make any sense but we had so much in common, and I was afraid. Thank you for sharing your story and your pain. Thank you for reminding us that time does not heal all wounds and it does not remove LOVE either!
Kirsten
Kirsten Pribilsky <thepribs@msn.com>
- Wednesday, January 4, 2006 0:31 AM CST

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What a beautiful baby boy! I'm comforted to know father and son are together again. I check in frequently and think of you so often. Thank you for sharing your heartfelt experiences and teaching us all how to live and love.
You're amazing.
Becky Betts <bobeck@charter.net>
Walla Walla, WA - Wednesday, January 4, 2006 0:00 AM CST

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Michelle,
Oh what pain you have had to endure. You have been forced to become such a strong woman. Thank you for knowing how to put that pain in words so that the rest of us can get an inkling of how it is. This site has also taught us how important support of family and friends is to the process you are going through (before and after death).

Take care my friend,
Donna
Donna Wierman <mdjkwierman@hotmail.com>
Woodinville, WA USA - Tuesday, January 3, 2006 10:46 PM CST

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Mahalo, Michelle (and you know why I say that)for again sharing so succinctly of your experiences, your happiness and also your sadness. We all learn so much about life through your journal entries and gain nothing but more admiration for and understanding of you each time we peek in to this special world we share here at Caringbridge. I didn't know Kyle, of course, but do want you to know his shared story will be a part of the memory of so many. And, your Dave......I know he is missed as much and even more than the special husband, father, friend and son he was.
Wendye Bren <bren@brenski.net>
Walla Walla, WA - Tuesday, January 3, 2006 7:18 PM CST

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THE most precious journal entry I think
I have ever read. What a special tribute
to a special son. Happy Birthday Mommy.
angela conklin a friend through your entries <conoil@yahoo.com>
graham, nc - Tuesday, January 3, 2006 6:28 PM CST

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Many tears here too. Kyle was beautiful. The picture of the three of you and the picture of Dave holding Kyle. I did not realize it before when I saw the picture but it must of been for the first time- with the nurse in the background and it looks like your knee in the picture. A picture is worth a thousand words. I remember the first time we really got to know you and Dave at Prime Time Camp and you told Ron and I about Kyle and the sadness we felt- still feel.
What a beautiful boy. 17.
Thank you Dave though Michelle "Love is not a feeling. It's a decision." Really needed to hear that today. I'm going to have a plaque made of that and put it up in my home.
God Bless you Michelle. Thank you for sharing what is on your heart. Sherri
Sherri Huwe <srhuwe@hotmail.com>
Dayton, Wa. - Tuesday, January 3, 2006 3:17 PM CST

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Wow, your friends and family are awesome. Reading your journal and their entries in the guest book... What a group you have! Dave is surely smiling down proudly.
Taylor's Aunt Peggy www2.caringbridge.org/mi/taylor <peglap@hotmail.com>
Scotts, MI USA - Tuesday, January 3, 2006 12:54 AM CST

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Michelle,
First, thank you so much for stopping by our page and signing our guestbook. I'm glad you did because I loved to visit yours. My heart breaks for you and I cannot imagine the unbearable pain you are in right now losing your husband. There must be some relief knowing Dave and Kyle are together but on the other hand.....
I love the way you descibed losing Kyle 'losing a child is on par with being in a concentration camp'. That pretty much sums it up in the best words you can use to descibe it. I would love to add that to my page one day if you wouldn't mind, for those people who do not understand but always want to know.
As I was reading your journal I found I could actually relate to a large part of it, the part about leaving the hospital and going home, starting new, wanting to be sure we take the steps towards each other. You must of had alot of love for each other because many people are torn apart after losing a child. That is also my goal, taking steps toward each other instead of away.
Many people seem to think it is going to get easier for us but view it like you, something will always be missing.
Take care and I will be back.
Angel Katelyn's mom, Debbie <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com>
Ontario, Canada, - Tuesday, January 3, 2006 12:02 AM CST

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Michelle,
Thanks for your note tonight in the journal. What a special day the 2nd of January is. Kyle's birth was such a huge joy in our lives. The first among us to be held, hugged, passed, bounced, flown, swaddled. And after three weeks of bliss the crashing down was as sudden and life changing as the lift. Kyle's passing was the first to impact me and I felt that I had no skills to rely on, nothing in life, college or work had prepared me for that loss and I couldn't imagine how I would ever feel happiness again. And yet, today I can smile with my memories of those great weeks with him and that time in our lives. I can smile thinking of so many late pinochle nights and the six sweet additions to our families that came after. I can smile at the thought of Kyle and Dave together again. And I can finally smile at the thought of the time when we join them as well. Amen, come Lord Jesus.
Peter Wiederspan <wiederspanpc@qwest.net>
Puyallup, Wa - Monday, January 2, 2006 11:41 PM CST

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Oh Michelle. The loss is still so clear to us. Your last lines break me as most of your last lines do. We miss them so. It's been a hard Christmas season because we keep looking for Dave --the Santa hat, the smile on his face, the joy in his eyes and those hugs. The 27th was so strange to not have him with us --the first true holiday we hadn't celebrated with him. There's definitely a Dave hole and Kyle hole (even though I never officially met him --I always feel like I knew him) in our hearts.

We love you all so,
Mindy
Mindy Meyer <bmeyer@bmi.net>
College Place, WA USA - Monday, January 2, 2006 3:08 PM CST

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Happy Birthday Kyle!
I love that name. He would be tall, handsome, and an amazing person. Just like the rest of your family!
Glad you had a nice time in Kelso with your family and then again here with Daves.
Take Care
We love You

The Huxoll's <swatdog273@charter.net>
Walla Walla, - Monday, January 2, 2006 2:44 PM CST

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Michelle,

I have that photo of Kyle in a little heart frame. It's hard to believe 17 have passed, as I remember so vividly Erik's phone call.

I also remember the first time my sister saw you after Kyle died. I think she said something like "some day you'll know why you had to go through this". When Kenny was diagnosed, and then later, when Dave's tumor was discovered ... I thought she was right. I thought that the strength you and Dave gained, when many young marriages would have failed, somehow allowed you to continue.

While it may be true that you and Dave found the strength to get through (not past) loosing Kyle, the "reason" part just falls away. There is no "reason" - multiple definitions here - for loosing Kyle, or for loosing Dave. It's what is, what has happened, but there is no "reason".

I love you,

Evy
Evy Haroldson <evy.haroldson@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA - Monday, January 2, 2006 10:10 AM CST

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I am so very sorry for the loss of your husband and son. The only thing we can hold on to is our faith during the loss of our love ones. With our faith we have the hope of being reunited with our loved ones for eternity.

God Bless,
Linda, Pat and Angel Ryan ( www.caringbridge.org/mi/ryanc) <padwik@yahoo.com>
Fenton, MI USA - Monday, January 2, 2006 7:41 AM CST

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Sharing your tears...I can't even begin to comprehend your pain.
I remember Dave's facination with your "baby tummy". Do you remember when we went to "The Bridges of Madison County" at the drive-in? You were about 4-5 months pregnant with Katelyn...and Dave spent the whole evening kissing, rubbing, talking to your tummy. He was so in love with you...and you were so blessed to have him in your life.
I also remember running into Dave at Albertson's and he asked me if I was pregnant..."No, Dave" I replied "I am NOT pregnant!" Then I quickly sucked in my stomach muscles...just sure that my relaxed tummy was giving him the wrong idea! But after reading your story I am sure that Dave must have been on the look out for growing tummys. He was a special man...a wonderful daddy...and we are all missing him with you.
Lisa <mbraddock@charter.net>
Walla Walla , Wa - Monday, January 2, 2006 4:40 AM CST

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Happy New years...
Loved all the christmas photos thanks for sharing...
I love what you wrote about
Dave and his birthday and missing him.... Sending you lots of hugs..
Hailee is feeling better today... Yeah..
love Melissa and hailee
http://www.caringbridge.org/az/hailee
melissa <angels4hailee@Cox.net>
caveCreek, az usa - Sunday, January 1, 2006 6:01 PM CST

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Happy Stand It New Year Meyers clan.......here's hoping we move beyond standing, to rising above it...I think you already have.....continuing to show us all how it's done.......blessings to you in 2006.
With love,
Cathy b.
w/o Lou dx inoperable gbm 10/04
cathy beres
chicago, IL - Sunday, January 1, 2006 4:56 PM CST

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Happy New Year Meyer family ... Let's pray for a year that is completely unremarkable ... quiet ... peaceful ... I am sure you understand.
Cheri Schappert
Loomis, CA United States - Sunday, January 1, 2006 0:33 AM CST

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Meyer Family,
Wishing you peace, health, and a safe New Year. I know your Dad is looking down on all of you and smiling. You make him proud. Keep on keeping on, and keep on "standing it"....he would want this and even more....would want you to smile and enjoy your life as he enjoyed his. You all are his light to carry on....here and now.
Melissa Johnson <curtisandmel@bendcable.com>
- Sunday, January 1, 2006 0:20 AM CST

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Wishing you peace, health and happiness throughout the new year. We love you!
Cindy, Mike, Amy & Joey <thelorangs@charter.net>
Walla Walla, WA - Saturday, December 31, 2005 10:26 PM CST

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Alicia, John, Ciara, Hunter & ^^Angel^^ Tommy BENNETT CHILDREN'S JOURNAL <mps3mom@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, December 31, 2005 1:10 AM CST

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Hi Meyer Family,
Think of you and your kids often. Haven't visited your site in several months but I often think of Dave and know he no longer suffers. Thank you for sharing all of your pictures...it was a shock for me to see Bob with Katie. I still imagine him as a "young" teacher and coach at Wa-hi. The pictures of Dave as a coach were great to see also. Your children are beautiful!! Good to see you are all so strong and surrounded by family and friends. God be with you, now and always.
Laura Lundahl (Wa-hi '83) <aburton47@msn.com>
Westminster, CO - Friday, December 30, 2005 12:17 AM CST

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I am sure that this is such a hard time for you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I pray that you all have a safe and wonderful New Year.



www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph
Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net>
- Friday, December 30, 2005 0:13 AM CST

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Happy Birthday Dave!! I know you are the brightest star in the sky! Thanks for watching over Shell and the kids to
make sure they travelled home safely. The weather couldn't be better. Said an extra prayer for you all yesterday. Hope you are all well.
Take care see ya soon.
Love Ya
Sara
Sara Huxoll <swatdog273@charter.net>
Walla Walla, Washington - Thursday, December 29, 2005 10:21 PM CST

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Michelle, thinking of you often. I know there was a huge celebration in Heaven yesterday for Dave. I know he is proud of you and your beautiful children. You are getting through one day at a time, one minute at a time, and you're all doing it with amazing grace.

For Will: I remember your rule about bring enough food for you, and I remember you throwing erasers at the chalkboard too. Your block was the highlight of my day freshman year, and both of you remain my 2 favorites. I love your stories as much as Michelle's, you both need to write for a living!!
Take care, and God Bless!

Jennifer McHenry(Hanes) <jennmchenry@verizon.net>
Winfield, WV 25213 - Thursday, December 29, 2005 2:00 PM CST

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I'm thinking that standing it is really what it is all about...and doing what you already are: enjoying the kids and friends and family who are standing it right alongside you.

I hope the New Year brings much more than stable transportation to the Meyer family, but I have to say the new Suburban [hmm...what can I rhyme with that? Keith Urban, maybe?? oh, the possibilities...] looks just right.

And, being vertically challenged myself, I want to know about these CHEATING SHOES!!

Love always,

Claudia
- Thursday, December 29, 2005 11:29 AM CST

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You guys seem like you are holding up! I have been thinking about you so much through the holidays and everything. You all seem to be staying very busy and I love the new ride! Hope all is well and I love you guys all so much...and im your favorite babysitter ;) Shelly, like always your amazing and I hope I can be like you someday!
Cassi Hunter <hommiec@hotmail.com>
College Place, WA - Thursday, December 29, 2005 3:58 AM CST

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Hi Michelle, I have been thinking of you all week, today especially. Glad you made it home okay. Talk to you soon.
Peggy Cox <billandpeg@charter.net>
walla walla, WA - Thursday, December 29, 2005 2:04 AM CST

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Oh, one more thing...Are you going to get a tatoo too?! :)
Kirsten Pribilsky <thepribs@msn.com>
- Thursday, December 29, 2005 1:05 AM CST

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Dear Michelle,
Thank you, thank you, for posting pictures of you! How I have missed not seeing YOU! I like the "standing it" quote. When Tanner and Ethan were babies Kathleen Lucas-Roberts came over and gave me some extremely helpful advice. She told me that however tough my day if I just kept telling my self, "Minute by minute I WILL get through this day", I WOULD get through the day! I know that our situations are miles apart but the combination is, "Standing it minute by minute until we get through this day". Hooray for the new vehicle...Dave would be so pleased and I know the kids are! Thank you again for sharing your thoughts with all of us...you do it better than anyone I know.
Kirsten


Kirsten Pribilsky <thepribs@msn.com>
- Thursday, December 29, 2005 0:59 AM CST

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Hoping perhaps you find some peace in knowing there is a big birthday celebration going on in heaven today.....love the pics......you're more than standing , you are rising above it.....strong.......God bless you dear Meyers clan...today and always.
Cathy B.
w/o Lou dx inoperable gbm 10/04
cathy beres
chicago, IL - Wednesday, December 28, 2005 11:34 PM CST

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Another tough day ~ thinking of you all with much love! What was that saying..."God spent a little more time on you" ~ we all know that was sure true for David! Birthday memories to you all ~ Love, Dan and Debi
Debi Spjut <debi.spjut@adelphia.net>
Kelso, Wa USA - Wednesday, December 28, 2005 10:48 PM CST

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I imagine Dave enjoying a HUGE birthday celebration in Heaven today.
Jodi Dumont <jodidumont@msn.com>
Tacoma, Wa - Wednesday, December 28, 2005 6:17 PM CST

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Hey Michelle and Meyer Family:
Have been to Dave's site many times. It brings me peace. It makes me realize I'm not alone. I love the pictures of the family at Christmas. I can feel the warmth and the love you all have. Thank you for continuing the fight with those of us still making our way. We wish you a healthy and joyous New Year.
Leslie K & Bob Goodykoontz <dakotasleslie@hotmail.com>
Wake Forest, NC - Wednesday, December 28, 2005 11:46 AM CST

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...made two posts so I wouldn't take too much room...

Kenny, Zach, Kate

Often times it hurts to remember things or to talk about your Dad. Sometimes it is easier to ignore the past and thereby ignore the pain. But to give into the urge to ignore it will not ease the hurt, it only makes memories fade...and sometimes that kind of loss is far worse, especially as the years go by...I know a little something about that. So we share and we cry because that is what keeps the memories alive. I've wanted to share this with you for awhile, but somehow getting the words right and trying to find the right time has kept me from it until today.

Your Dad and I used to go every year with our Freshmen to Mt View Cemetery. A local history lesson really (and I think one of the most memorable for those kids), but it also centered around a deeper life lesson. We used to point out the markers which carried the popular epitaph from the end of the 1800s "Gone but not forgotten." Some of them were gleaming white and showed little sign of the years that had passed since they were laid there. Others were moss covered, broken and worn. We used to wonder together whether those lives that were marked by those worn stones had indeed been forgotten and how sad that was.

Well, the lesson usually ended with me telling the story of my great-grandfather who passed away when I was barely 4 (all I really remember of him is that his house smelled like old people). I will condense the story here, but would like to share it all with you someday...it will suffice here to say that he made such a difference, an unbelievable difference in the life of my father that while I didn't really know him in person(and my boys certainly never knew him) I know him intimately because he lives in my Dad. My boys will know him because he lives on in me. Not in a wierd way. Not just in stories or memory. But in the way that his character, his life, and his heart (all grounded in Christ) marked the lives he touched so deeply, so profoundly that they can't help but reflect some of that light on the lives they touch. Does that make sense?

I sit here with tears in my eyes (trying very hard not to let them spill over around my tough military colleagues), as I think about your Dad. His life was a life like my great-grandfather's. Keep more than the memories and stories alive, and someday your children will become intimately familiar with their grandfather. This is a heritage, a legacy. One that my words can't remotely describe, but if guarded well will ensure that even 100 years from now, your Dad will never be forgotten.

We love you all!

Love,

The Mouats

Diamond Rio (One More Day)
One More Day

Last night I had a crazy dream
A wish was granted just for me it could be for anything
I didn't ask for money or a mansion in Malibu
I simply wished for one more day with you

One more day
One more time
One more sunset maybe I'd be satisfied
But then again, I know what it would do
It'd leave me wishin' still for one more day with you

First thing I'd do is pray for time to crawl
I'd unplug the telephone, keep the TV off
I'd hold you every second and say a million "I love you"s
That's what I'd do with one more day with you

One more day
One more time
One more sunset maybe I'd be satisfied
But then again, I know what it would do
It'd leave me wishin' still for one more day with you.

Will and Stacy <mouatw@hotmail.com>
Peyton, CO - Wednesday, December 28, 2005 11:33 AM CST

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I don't think this is necessarily a Dave birthday story, but I know it happened around that time frame...holiday wierdness...I used to have a rule that if you wanted to eat or drink in my classroom you had to have enough for me (unlike your Kindergarten teacher's rule about having enough for everyone). So if you had a Coke, I wanted my own un-opened Coke (this was actually meant to discourage bringing in stuff to class which usually worked). Well, one time, Teresa Wong went to lunch with some of her friends/classmates at her parent's restaurant and brought me back an entire to go lunch. When Dave came sauntering in from next door right before class started, he just about fell onto the floor. He couldn't believe it. Of course I shared some with him.
We always had a cool portable arrangement where he had a mini-fridge for our lunch stuff and I had a microwave...we rarely ate in the staffroom, not becasue we didn't like our colleagues, but the kids always seemed to want to hang out, and we'd sing a little and play around with songs. I know this seems like a ramble, but I want to share some of my fond memories not just for you, but so I'll hang onto them.

Love

Will
Will and Stacy Mouat <mouatw@hotmail.com>
Peyton, CO - Wednesday, December 28, 2005 11:20 AM CST

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Dear Michelle,

I hope you had a safe and happy trip. I haven't been to your site before but I have read your posts and your emails to me from The Brain Trust site.

Michael laid down his sword on 12/14/05, and this Christmas has been very difficult.

You are an inspiration to me and you and your family are in my prayers.
Donna
Donna Metcalf <courtreporter99@yahoo.com>
Taunton, MA USA - Monday, December 26, 2005 11:40 PM CST

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Michelle,

We've been thinking of you tonight. Erik was playing the guitar. He was trying to play "Knew You Too Well", but the guitar was always Dave's part. Erik was trying to figure out how Dave played the song. That song was Erik's words, and Dave's music. We know the words ...

Love you and miss you,

Evy
Evy Haroldson <evy.haroldson@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA - Monday, December 26, 2005 10:00 PM CST

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Dearest ChelleBelle and family,

Wishing you peace....and hoping there is joy somehow, somewhere at this time. Holding you close in my heart....hope you are enjoying your trip......
love to you all,
Cathy B.
w/o Lou dx inoperable gbm 10/04
cathy beres
chicago, IL - Monday, December 26, 2005 2:35 PM CST

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Spent a lot of time thinking of you all the last couple days and holding you close in our prayers. The past few years, especially since we have been away, I have always tried to send Dave something for his birthday - almost always a CD of music that reminded me of him or that I knew he would enjoy. God has been teaching me the last nine years (albiet slowly due to my sometimes dense nature) to count the days, to make the days count. I hope you felt God's love in your Christmas. Really appreciate the verse Shelley (John 3:16), I have often looked at my boys and thought, "God, how could you love me that much, I don't know if I could possibly love anyone that much." As we head into a new year, and you head into even more uncharted territory, remember how much you are loved. Some days, some roads, some memories are all your own Meyer family, but so many others are shared by so many of us who love you. God Bless.
All our love,

The Mouat Family
Will and Stacy Mouat <mouatw@hotmail.com>
Peyton, CO - Monday, December 26, 2005 7:56 AM CST

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Thinking of you all today. Hoping you are touched with the joy and peace of the season.
Jodi Dumont <jodidumont@msn.com>
Tacoma, WA - Sunday, December 25, 2005 11:51 PM CST

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Merry Xmas Meyer's...It was nice to see your pics. THe recital pics are great. What a beautiful girl!

Loce the aquarium pics...we took hadley there when she was just a few days old. Odd, I know...but for some reason from the time she was born I was in such a rush to share everything with her. I LOVED going there while pregnant with her. Those seals cracked me up...I wanted her to see it. We went back several times before we moved away. Can't wait to take them all back now! =)

Glad you are home safely...hope you had a day full of love!

Miss Hadley's Mama
Angela <FoxFamilyFive@sbcglobal.net>
Alameda , Ca USA - Sunday, December 25, 2005 10:25 PM CST

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We just wanted to wish you and the kids a very "Merry Christmas!" We thought of all of you often today.

Love, Kevin and Kari
Kevin and Kari T. www.caringbridge.org/mn/kevinterry <kkterry@netins.net>
Truman, MN USA - Sunday, December 25, 2005 9:18 PM CST

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Many prayers for you today....on Wednesday...always! Have a safe return home. I can't wait for the girls day out!
Lisa <mbraddock@charter.net>
Walla Walla , Wa - Sunday, December 25, 2005 2:26 AM CST

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Michelle, Kenny (notice no extra "e"), Zach and Kate,

We wish we could give a Christmas hug to each of you.

What a journey the past nine years have been. I remember getting the phone call from Mark nine years ago. I remember last January, waiting for a house full of people, and then just waiting to hear that you had made it to the pass, and then hearing Dave was going to be admitted that night.

It feels wrong to wish we were back in that overstuffed waiting room at UW, but that's where I'd love to be.

Please know that our hearts are with you, as you gather together for yet another group of firsts.

We love you,
Evy
Evy Haroldson <evy.haroldson@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA - Saturday, December 24, 2005 5:30 PM CST

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Hi Michele
I feel very close to God while looking at the vast ocean. God Loves you!

Vicki Ruley
Walla Walla, WA USA - Saturday, December 24, 2005 1:23 AM CST

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Merry Christmas Meyers gang!

Thinking of you and sending many hugs.....search the skies for that special star that twinkles oh so bright......Dave is watching over you, each and every night.....blessings to you, and love,
Cathy B.
w/o Lou dx inoperable gbm 10/04
Cathy Beres
chicago, IL - Friday, December 23, 2005 9:16 PM CST

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Thinking of you guys! Hey---we went to Pizza Gallery for dinner last night with friends and I couldn't help staring at one of the chefs in the open kitchen. He looked just like Dave, at least based on the many pictures I've seen of him! I kept looking over and, yup, he kept looking like Dave. That was really nice. : ) I really like the color combo that Kenny picked out. The red jumps out and is Christmassy and the black looks good with the stars twinkling on the side. Very "silent night meets Christmas morning." All the best from our sunny corner. Merry Christmas. Rich blessings to your special hearts.

Diane Phillips <brainhospice@earthlink.net>
Rockledge, FL - Friday, December 23, 2005 9:07 PM CST

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wishing you and your family a merry christmas
congrats on the new car... thats what i need to do....

Http://www.caringbridge.org/az/hailee
melissa <angels4hailee@Cox.net>
caveCreek, az usa - Friday, December 23, 2005 7:41 PM CST

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Hey Meyer clan!
Just wanted to let you know how much you are loved! What a blessing with the Suburban! We want to wish you all the best this Christmas and say once again that we wish we could be there in person to give you more than e-hugs. May God continue to bless you all.

All our love,
The Mouat clan
The Mouats <mouatw@hotmail.com>
Peyton, CO - Friday, December 23, 2005 5:07 PM CST

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Hi Michelle - I hope you're having a great time away. I'm happy to hear about your new ride. I love the suburbans! As a mother of four kids, they seem to be the best as far as the room goes, I'm just not sure I could park one!! Praying for a safe and wonderful time for your family!

Michelle Gentges <gentges6@aol.com>
Jacksonville, FL USA! - Friday, December 23, 2005 10:01 AM CST

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Seems odd that you're not around for me to complain to about Christmas bulletins! Hope you're having a relaxing and joyous time away. I love walking on the beach in winter... take in some salt spray for me. --Deb
Debra Wright <kevndeb@charter.net>
Walla Walla, - Friday, December 23, 2005 0:42 AM CST

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Hey Meyer Family ... hope your trip away helps renew your spirit. Good news about the Suburban (AND the extended warranty). Write when you get back. Still want Kate to meet (so to speak) Olivia.
Cheri
- Friday, December 23, 2005 0:36 AM CST

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Hi Michelle. Here's a big giant hug...from me to you. I love the twinkle stars on the website. What an adorable picture of you and Dave. This time of year must be tough for you to say the least. Thinking of you...and praying for your family...

Deanne
www.caringbridge.org/md/mikem

deanne <deannemessinger@sbcglobal.net>
Jenison, MI USA - Thursday, December 22, 2005 2:42 PM CST

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Hey yall...Hope you have/had a great time in Seaside!!! We lived in Oregon when we were first married and Hadley and Keegan were born. I was born in California but went to Jr High/HS/College in Portland. My husband is in the Coast Guard and we were stationed on the CG Cutter Alert in Astoria. We spent a LOT of time in Seaside. Hadley was just barely big enough to ride the bumper cars when we moved away. She LOVED them. We also enjoyed the Salt Water Taffy and other candy stores. Although the Willy Wonka song playing constantly always kind of creeped me out. Ha ha. Hope you had a splendid time!!!

Congrats on the Suburban. We are supposed to be transffered back to either Portland or Seattle next summer...we're hoping to trade in our Saturn Relay for a Suburban before the nasty weather hits next winter. We'll see. I may be sick...but I've always wanted a Suburban. They're so nice. =) Not to mention all that ROOM! =)

I'll have you in my thoughts and prayers this christmas...may you have a peaceful day filled with love and support. =)

With Love and HOPE
Angela
Hadley's Mama
Angela Fox <FoxFamilyFive@sbcglobal.net>
Home is Where the Coast Guard Sends Us!!! , Ca USA - Thursday, December 22, 2005 12:38 AM CST

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Michelle,

This is one of my favorite poems:

I MUST go down to the seas again, to the lonely sea and the sky,
And all I ask is a tall ship and a star to steer her by,
And the wheel's kick and the wind's song and the white sail's shaking,
And a gray mist on the sea's face, and a gray dawn breaking.

I must go down to the seas again, for the call of the running tide
Is a wild call and a clear call that may not be denied;
And all I ask is a windy day with the white clouds flying,
And the flung spray and the blown spume, and the sea-gulls crying.

I must go down to the seas again, to the vagrant gypsy life,
To the gull's way and the whale's way, where the wind's like a whetted knife;
And all I ask is a merry yarn from a laughing fellow-rover,
And quiet sleep and a sweet dream when the long trick's over.

I've always loved the sea. Have a wonderful time with the kids.

Love, Evy
Evy Haroldson <evy.haroldson@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA - Thursday, December 22, 2005 11:16 AM CST

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Hey Shell, just remember the sales tax is a write off for the taxes this year!! One nice thing about getting a new rig! Hope it carried you all well to Seaside. I bet it seems like driving a 18 wheeler! It will give new meaning to parallel parking! It probably has 15 cup holders, and lots of nooks and crannies! And the new care smell! Gotta love it!
Take care and drive safe!

Sara Huxoll <swatdog273@charter.net>
Walla Walla, Washington - Thursday, December 22, 2005 0:06 AM CST

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You are always in my thoughts and prayers. We are going to be so busy the rest of the week but wanted to come by and wish you all a Very Merry Christmas.



www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph
Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net>
- Wednesday, December 21, 2005 10:57 PM CST

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Dear chelle, kenny, zach and katylnn
i hope u all have a merry xmas, it was great to see u the other day at the store Michelle , u looked great, just know that u all our in our thoughts and prayers as u travel to seaside, should be fun in your new car.
i do have to admit iam one that comes here once or twice a day to check up on u all and not write anything, i always feel like iam might say somthing stupid, or not know the right thing to say, but i will start signing in just to say hi if nothing else.
the ss sounded like such fun for u and the kids
well time to say bye for now, have a great holiday and see u after the new year
hugz to u and the kids
Kelli Knudson <kelli1@charter.net>
walla walla , wa - Wednesday, December 21, 2005 6:20 PM CST

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Today, my thoughts and prayers are with you as you journey in your new Suburban to the coast and to time with each other, friends and family to celebrate this Christmas.

Love to you each and all,

Claudia Williams
- Wednesday, December 21, 2005 11:08 AM CST

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ChelleBelle,

Seaside....sounds divine.......I hope it is a good time for you all.....I'll be thinking of you ...... sending love and hugs.....
Cathy B.
w/o Lou dx inoperable gbm 10/04
ps. don't forget Kates dancing pics, need to see those!! :-)
Cathy beres
chicago, IL - Wednesday, December 21, 2005 10:06 AM CST

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Hi Michelle and family! Just wanted to wish you fun, happiness and relaxation on your trip!! We hope you all have a wonderful Christmas!! Were keeping you close in thought. Have a wonderful trip!! We'll be looking forward to your updates when you get back!

Love and hugs...Kevin and Kari
Kevin and Kari T. <kkterry@netins.net>
Truman, MN USA - Tuesday, December 20, 2005 10:25 PM CST

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Michelle and Kids,
I am so glad that you have had so much to look forward to through this difficult Christmas. Many people are looking out for you. The Secret Santa adventure sounds like so much fun. Enjoy this season and enjoy all of your memories.....they are what keep Dave and Kyle alive.
Ginny Streeter <ginny@bendradio.com>
Bend, OR - Tuesday, December 20, 2005 6:25 PM CST

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Hi Michelle and kids!
Just wanted to wish you all a very Merry Christmas! I can hardly wait to see your new "Burb". So glad that situation worked out for you. See you next year!
Laurie Withers <witherslm@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, December 20, 2005 3:19 PM CST

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Have a great Christmas with your family! God Bless all of you, and your new Suburban! :-)
Jennifer McHenry(Hanes)
Winfield, WV 25213 - Tuesday, December 20, 2005 2:51 PM CST

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Hi Mom!
I like what you've done to the site. I especially like the pictures.But I love the song better than anything else!!I am really excited for our trip!Love Ya!Bye.
Kate <smackyrumble@hotmail.com>
Walla Walla, WA US - Tuesday, December 20, 2005 1:47 PM CST

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Not sure when you leaving but have a Merry Christmas and a safe trip. I will sure miss the updates but look forward to hearing about the trip (and the Suburban) when you get home. God Bless You.
Kathie
Walla Walla, Wa, - Monday, December 19, 2005 10:04 PM CST

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Hi Meyer family:
Hope you have a safe trip to the coast. And a wonderful Christmas with your family. Did the secret santa bring you a Suburban? Was that in the driveway with a big red bow on top?? That is great! Thinking of you always.
Got the gifts done and will be by after Christmas to deliver them.
Love ya!
Drive Carefully--
Sara and family
Sara Huxoll & family <swatdog273@charter.net>
Walla Walla, Washington - Monday, December 19, 2005 4:08 PM CST

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Michelle and kids: Great to see you at Braddock's! Congratulations on your new Suburban. Hope your trip is wonderful and that you enjoy time with your family. We love reading your journal entries! Merry Christmas!
Beth Higgins <rbhiggins@charter.net>
Walla Walla, WA - Monday, December 19, 2005 12:22 AM CST

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I am very drunk, and I accidently came across this page from myspace and I miss him so much, god damn it is so hard.
I'm sorry I'm help.
I loved him so.
so sad.

allison biddle <lucky2217@hotmail.com>
walla walla, wa usa - Monday, December 19, 2005 8:33 AM CST

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Life is good! It was a blast having the whole gang over tonight. Just so you know...YOU were the inspiration for that little gathering. It did my heart good to have such great people in my house. Thanks for being the catalyst for our connection to so many wonderful people. Travel safe tomorrow...we'll be keeping you in our prayers this week.
P.S. Mike said..."Michelle looked so happy...you could see the car tension had been lifted from her shoulders."
Lisa <mbraddock@charter.net>
Walla Walla , Wa - Monday, December 19, 2005 1:30 AM CST

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Thinking about all of you....as always!!
Melissa Johnson <curtisandmel@bendcable.com>
Bend, OR - Monday, December 19, 2005 0:06 AM CST

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We were at the dance recital last night. The gypsy with red hair was so beautiful, don't you think? And so graceful, yet spunky at the same time!
Laurie Klic ker <mikeklicker@bmi.net>
Walla Walla, WA - Sunday, December 18, 2005 5:14 PM CST

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Just seeing what's up at the Meyer household ...
Cheri
- Sunday, December 18, 2005 0:20 AM CST

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Glad to know how the concert was and how you all are. Your Secret Santa is a wonder!! A bird on your Christmas tree is supposed to bring luck in the new year, according to legend, and of course, red is the right color! I think you may not need luck, since you have all these wonderful friends and family, but maybe the Toyota will need it...

Speaking of which, did it get fixed yet? Just checking in, as always. I do not seem to be able to stay away. Love,

Claudia
- Saturday, December 17, 2005 7:14 PM CST

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Michelle, today is my daughter Becca's birthday and I wanted to share a wonderful memory. She was a student of Mr. Mouat, and was being tutored by Mrs Mouat for math. That day we were meeting in his room after school. Dave came by and he learned it was Becca's birthday so the two of them sang her a song. It has been a cherished memory that we always talk about on her birthday. It's memories like that that we all treasure about Dave. Know that you are in our thoughts always. The Czyhold Family
Judy Czyhold <jczyhold@hscis.net>
Walla Walla, WA USA - Saturday, December 17, 2005 12:47 AM CST

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What a clever Secret Santa you have! I hope SS won't remain anonymous. I was wishing I could have been in on the lunch the other day. I was probably sitting in a traffic jam somewhere in Portland or rushing Stefan to the Orthodontist to fix another broken bracket (oops, there's another one!) No joke, Stefan just walked in with ANOTHER broken bracket...that is a total of 7 in one month! Oh well...

Kate, I wish I was in town to see your performance!

Kirsten
Kirsten Pribilsky <thepribs@msn.com>
- Saturday, December 17, 2005 0:16 AM CST

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Hi Michelle,
Just checking in to see how the concert went and to send some thanks to Tim from another member of the brain tumor community.
www.caringbridge.org/tx/jpcollins
Renee Collins <johnrenee@houston.rr.com>
Katy, TX USA - Friday, December 16, 2005 6:46 PM CST

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Tim Johnson is a kid after my own heart! I love this story ... but more than the story, I love the person who inspired it ... Dave Meyer. Thinking of you tonight ... and hoping the concert was really LOUD ... just like you like your music!! (right Chelle)
Cheri
- Friday, December 16, 2005 1:36 AM CST

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Hi there...just wanted to drop by and tell you THANK YOU for all the thoughts and prayers. Your sweet friends have been droppping by and leaving such encouraging notes in our guestbook. THANK YOU!

We are in a scarey place right now...I am oddly at peace...it has to be all the prayers for us. Thank You.

With Love and HOPE
Hadley's Mama
Miss Hadley's Page
Angela Fox <FoxFamilyFive@sbcglobal.net>
Alameda, Ca USA - Friday, December 16, 2005 1:04 AM CST

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Michelle, Kenny, Zach, & Kate,

Just so you know you guys didn't miss too much by leaving early from tonight's concert. Gosling finished up their last song as Kate came running back in to get her "forgotten" coat. So glad to see you guys there, the night turned out alright! Kids had a rockin' good time.
Teri Johnson <tandt@bmi.net>
Walla Walla, WA USA - Friday, December 16, 2005 0:52 AM CST

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It is such a good thing to come to your website and read the stories. Today I needed a good laugh and when I read the Michelin story, it didn't let me down!
Donna Wierman <mdjkwierman@hotmail.com>
Woodinville, WA USA - Thursday, December 15, 2005 11:03 PM CST

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I know where you are tonight. I hope the band(s) really rock and you, Kenny, Zack and Kate are having a wonderful time. I know how much you will wish Dave were there with you to hear, but I'll bet he is listening from Heaven.

Claudia
- Thursday, December 15, 2005 8:24 PM CST

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I so wish I could be there to see the concert tonight! I will be thinking of you. I can't wait to see what you write about it. (You should write books!! :-) )
Take care!
Jennifer McHenry (Hanes) <jennmchenry@verizon.net>
Winfield, WV 25213 - Thursday, December 15, 2005 1:42 PM CST

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Mentor has always been one of my favorite words, but you know how anal I am, so I looked it up and Merriam-Webster Online defines the noun as "a trusted counselor or guide." How appropriate a testimonial to Dave's profound influence on the lives of those he loved -- especially you, Michelle, and his children -- as well as those he taught, including the student who gave him the "ugly" Christmas ornament.

By the way, speaking of Dave's character, do you know that the word looked up most often at that site in 2005 is INTEGRITY? How perfect is that?

Thinking of all of you as Christmas fast approaches...and we need an update on the activities of the SS!!

Claudia
- Thursday, December 15, 2005 12:27 AM CST

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I clicked on from the amazing Jacob, and sooo glad I did! I am praying for peace and comfort for you all, especially for Christmas. I know it will be so hard, just know how many peolpe love you all. What an amazing man!! I get most of my strength from verses people post on the site and God of course. And yes, Dave has lifted my spirits with the wisdom he had shared. Not to mention his wonderful wife, YOU! You should be so proud. God Bless each and everyone of you. And Know your Angel Dave is looking down on you all carrying you through:)
Hoping and Believing
Mel, mommy to Gage NeuroblastomaIV refractory disease
carepages.com
"gagescarepage100"
Melanie Bryce <magb@diamondcs.net>
Saginaw, Mi - Thursday, December 15, 2005 9:40 AM CST

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Michelle,
I'm guilty...guilty of reading and not signing the guest book. So, I promise to sign in just to say "hello". I love your last entry about the Richard Rohr book. I bought it for Curtis a couple of years ago. It helped him through a "rough" spot in life. It also started his journey to Him........I think about all of you every day and read your site almost daily. Thank you for writing. I think it makes the rest of us know it is "normal" to feel...feel the good, feel the bad, and know that there is a bigger "plan" for all of us. Love to you and your wonderful children.
Melissa Johnson <curtisandmel@bendcable.com>
Bend, OR - Wednesday, December 14, 2005 10:50 PM CST

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Oops... "cancer sucks" button, not bracelet.
Don't go special-ordering a bracelet due to my typo, Martha.
Deb
Walla Walla, - Wednesday, December 14, 2005 9:19 PM CST

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Hey Chelle - I'm so sorry for being late this morning! Nothing like someone who not only is running too late to take Kate to school, but also leaves you two more kids in the morning. Good thing we're friends. :) By way of explanation, I was trying to wrap a couple gifts for my nieces so I could get them to the post office today. Didn't happen; late anyway. Sheesh.

You've been writing like crazy the last week... I have so many reactions to everything you write, so I will summarize: 1) I'm glad you want people to sign the guestbook. Sometimes I think I should just call, but then I get busy and don't get around to it; then I haven't written OR called! It makes sense that you feel like you're in a fish bowl if we read but don't post.
2) I think you're the best mom ever, mountaineering or not. Anyway, I have great confidence that if you slid off the road you could always fix whatever broke with a hairpin and chewing gum.
3) I too want to know if that gift in the great pic of you and Dave caught on fire.
4) Is it possible that it's only been 3 months and 3 weeks since Dave joined Kyle? It feels like a lifetime ago.
5) I plan to copy and paste Dave's Manifesto somewhere where I'll see it often.
6) Please, please get me a "cancer sucks" bracelet!
7) Lunch was great the other day. Thanks, Karen, for suggesting it, and Alex for coming late rather than deciding not to come at all when it was hard to get away from work!

Love you, --Deb
Debra Wright <kevndeb@charter.net>
Walla Walla, - Wednesday, December 14, 2005 9:14 PM CST

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Thinking of you...it is cold and windy here and I am in the mood for hot chocolate with lots of marshmallows and a visit with a friend. So I send you lots of love and wonder what the Secret Santa is going to leave for you today.

I just saw this on TinyPic.com and thought you ought to have it. The tiny print says, "You better watch out!"

BTW - Your journal yesterday inspired mine for today!! Love from Texas,

Claudia
- Wednesday, December 14, 2005 2:23 PM CST

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I'm having a moment of wishing I could talk to Dave right now. I also read "It's not about the bike" and I didn't like it either. Well, parts of it were OK. While it was not about the bike, it was all about Lance. What he did .... me, me, me. I found it incredibly sad to be given so many gifts, to be so near death and be given a second chance, and to not give any acknowledgement to God in his life or really to anyone else, either. As we know, Dave was not that way. His life would be a much better book.
Laurie Klicker <mikeklicker@bmi.net>
Walla Walla, WA - Wednesday, December 14, 2005 12:15 AM CST

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Michelle - I have just found your CB page today. I wish I found it sooner. My Dad passed away in October after a fight with a GBM. My prayers go out to your family as you go through this first holiday season without your loved one. I will stop by often.

caringbridge.org/visit/billyjohnson
April Larkin <alarkin@vzavenue.net>
Seaside, CA - Wednesday, December 14, 2005 12:03 AM CST

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Michelle I think and pray for you and your family often. I hope that you all are finding the strength to make it through the holidays with out Dave. Thank you for always signing Joseph's guestbook it means so much to us. Take care



www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph
Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net>
- Wednesday, December 14, 2005 0:01 AM CST

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Michelle,
Keep posting Daves songs! They're great!!! I love to hear his voice. I also thought the Christmas ornament story is awesome. I can just picture you moving it to the back of the tree, only to wake up to it staring you in the face in the morning. Probably moved at very unexpected times. Sneaky!!
Sandy Meliah <bmeliah@charter.net>
Walla Walla, WA - Tuesday, December 13, 2005 3:52 PM CST

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Well, now you have really started something. Thank you for reminding me of the many warm memories and funny events that were so much a part of the 40 years Rob and I were together for Christmas.

Michelle, ma belle, I don't know how I would be getting through Christmas with so much joy if it were not for you, your wonderful Kenny, Zach and Kate, your amazing Walla Walla team, and the Secret Santa. Whoever the Santa is, I hope he/she [they?] has some idea of how much good these gifts are doing for ALL of us!



Claudia Williams [member of Team Meyer, Texas branch!!]
- Tuesday, December 13, 2005 11:14 AM CST

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LOVE, LOVE, LOVE the latest Dave story!
Kirsten <thepribs@msn.com>
- Tuesday, December 13, 2005 0:18 AM CST

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Okay, it is weird to sign your own guestbook, but here goes...what makes this story even funnier is that Dave DID love the Michelin man, too! Because if you say my name, Michelle Lynn, really fast, you get Michelin...yet another Dave nickname.

I'm laughing so hard I have tears rolling down my face. Thanks for that one, Lisa!

Now I'm gonna have to get some kind of tire ornament. Think they sell those at Les Schwab??
Michelle <meyer1986@charter.net>
Walla Walla, WA US - Monday, December 12, 2005 10:47 PM CST

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O.K...now I am REALLY laughing! Tonight, as I took Kate to dance we started talking about our favorite ornaments. She told me about the special ornament they get each year. I guessed that she probably had a dance ornament...Zach probably had a football ornament...and Kenny had to have atleast one Tigger ornament! She then told me that her favorite ornament was the cute beavers stringing christmas lights. When I asked her what her Dad's favorite ornament was she told me (get this!)...it was the "Michelin Man" ornament!!! I thought about that one for a LOOOONG time...."Geee, did Dave have some obscure facination with tires?" "Had he always secretly hoped to work at LesSchwab?" "Was there some religious symbolism/connection to the MICHELIN man??" Whew! Now I know...the MCILLVAIGH MAN!!! Darn...now I have to let go of my crazy notion that Dave had a hidden attraction to tires!!
Lisa <mbraddock@charter.net>
Walla Walla , Wa - Monday, December 12, 2005 10:35 PM CST

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Michelle,
Missing wonderful Walla Walla and wishing I could be that Secret Santa! I've got lots of good memories of my friends at WWCC to get me by though. Sending my hugs... and hoping you're taking good care of yourself.
Donna Wierman <mdjkwierman@hotmail.com>
Woodinville, WA USA - Monday, December 12, 2005 6:47 PM CST

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I really don't know who your Secret Santa is...and it's bugging ME almost as much as YOU! I see cars come and go...people I know come and go...but I still haven't figured it out!! However, I love the idea of you thinking...thinking...thinking...trying to solve this mystery. Have fun with it...and I'll keep my eyes and ears out, too!
Lisa <mbraddock@charter.net>
Walla Walla , Wa - Monday, December 12, 2005 4:19 PM CST

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Dear Michelle:
I keep planning to send a real card, but every time I check in and read your entries, I am so moved and humbled and inspired by you and your amazing family that I can't write a thing. I can't tell you how eloquent you are in really expressing all your emotions, and how empowering that is to me. Your strength, your ability to tackle your emotions head-on and not shy away from them is completely awe-inspiring. I wish my words could bring you comfort rather than vice-versa. I am so very sorry for the loss of your beloved Dave. I hope your many wonderful memories of such great shared joys bring you comfort. I pray peace will be with you, Kenny, Zack & Kate and all your family. I hope you do take comfort in knowing you have loved so well. Thank you for sharing your journey with all of us.
Barbara Sidwell <tallack4@yahoo.coom>
Logan, UT USA - Monday, December 12, 2005 3:36 PM CST

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Just popping in to see how youre doing and to let you know were thinking of you! The secret santa thing is great!! It was very nice talking to you on the phone the other night!
Hugs from Minnesota!!
Love, Kari


Kevin and Kari T. Kevin Terry <kkterry@netins.net>
Truman, MN USA - Monday, December 12, 2005 12:33 AM CST

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Just a little note to let you guys know we are thinking of you and holding you close in our hearts.

All our love,

The Mouat crew
Will and Stacy Mouat <mouatw@hotmail.com>
Peyton, CO - Monday, December 12, 2005 11:10 AM CST

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Good Night Michelle. Just stopped in before bed,sounds like you have a great big smile on your face as your writting tonight. Your secret Santa is sure bringing some nice things. Maybe we should start leaving our addresses on line. Hope you have a great week. God Bless You.
Kathie
Walla Walla, Wa. - Monday, December 12, 2005 1:26 AM CST

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Michelle, I found your site through Jacob Duckworth's page. I've read all your words of encouragement and strength to Jacob and his family-you are amazing. I pray that if I am ever faced with a chronic or terminal illness in any of my family members- I handle it with as much grace. Thank you for sharing your journey. I vote that you are the great Mom to go up the mountain...
Christine Ross <christine.sells.homes@earthlink.net>
Lithia, Fl US - Sunday, December 11, 2005 9:41 PM CST

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Tell Zack Bens B-day is 3/16 too.
Please tell about the letters and Kenny.
It is so fun to try to guess of the secret Santa. How fun. You have so many that care so much about you and the kids.Thinking of all of you as I head to church. Oh, tell Kate that Etta had a hairball so huge one time it took the hair stylist an hour to get it out- ouch!. Take care, Sherri
Sherri Huwe <srhuwe@hotmail.com>
dayton / college Place, WA. - Sunday, December 11, 2005 12:25 AM CST

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Secret Santa huh .... Judging from the number of people who post from your area, gosh, it could be just about anyone. Whoever it is gets a big huge cyber hug from me. I love thoughtful people ... especially when they are kind to someone I care about ... so way to go SS, keep up the good work!

Now, about Kate's rat's nest ... just WHO is the brat here Michelle ... I'd run away from you too if you put the camera on me after several days in bed! :o)

Love to you all ...
Cheri <cSchappert@msn.com>
- Sunday, December 11, 2005 5:08 AM CST

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ChelleBelle,

If I lived in Walla Walla, I would most definitely be your Secret Santa!!!

And, you're the BME....Best Mom Ever for driving up that mountain.

Love to you today and always,
Cathy B.
w/o Lou dx inoperable gbm 10/04
From the 58th floor where it is still snowing and blowing
cathyberes
chicago, IL - Sunday, December 11, 2005 1:47 AM CST

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Michelle,
My first thought was...,"It has to be Alex". But, I don't know if she is a "scrapper". And if it is Alex, then Quinn is in on it too...look out! As to the other vote...of course, you are a GREAT Mom!!!!!
Kirsten <thepribs@msn.com>
- Sunday, December 11, 2005 1:41 AM CST

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Michelle - We are so proud of you. This entry is to tell you and everyone who reads this site how very very much we appreciate all the love, prayers, support, stories, poems, etc. that have been sent for you & Dave & family over the last couple of years. It is a journey that you have shared with all of us and each of you has contributed more than you know. As Michelle's parents it gives us much comfort to know that Michelle has such support and love when we aren't there in person. She knows that we are all there in spirit, missing Dave along with them and wishing that our presence could ease the pain and adjustment. You can all see what a great job she is doing (even if she doesn't think so) and after all the things that have happened, she still can pull humor out of many situations. Our love & thanks to each of you and especially to you - Michelle - Mom & Dad
Carol Bierly Bond <carolbo@pacifier.com>
Ocean Park, WA USA - Saturday, December 10, 2005 9:21 PM CST

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Michelle,

After reading your latest entry, my heart grew "three sizes that day".

Love you, love (that should read LOVE) your kids,

Evy
Evy Haroldson <evy.haroldson@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA - Saturday, December 10, 2005 10:12 AM CST

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ChelleBelle,

As I told Cheri......didn't all of us former cheerleaders who's names begin with C have that same 80s hair?? And of course we are still hotties!!!!!
Gotta love that Secret Santa......and Zach.......and you.....
Cathy B.
w/o Lou dx inoperable gbm 10/04
From the 58th floor in snowy, cold Chicago
cathy beres <cberes1@aol.com>
chicago, IL - Saturday, December 10, 2005 1:40 AM CST

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OK, your dad deserves better, but here are my hokey song lyrics, sung to Beethoven's "Ode to Joy":
[wish I had a good thesaurus]
Sing the Hallelujah Chorus,
Father's love is reigning o'er us,
Next time maybe buy a Taurus...
Let Toyota fix the van.
(Please, no e-mails or guest book entries about how bad this is, OK??) I'm just full of joy and good spirits, of the non-alcoholic kind, tonight!!

Merry Christmas to all and to all a good night, from

Claudia Williams [member of Team Meyer, Texas branch!!]
- Friday, December 9, 2005 11:03 PM CST

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I mean Jodi Dumont... not Jodi Dumong... oops... no edit button...
Jodi again <jodidumont@msn.com>
- Friday, December 9, 2005 8:28 PM CST

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Just checking in and am so glad to see some things go your way this week. Hope your van gets fixed! And, what a great Secret Santa! Isn't it great how a well timed gift can just brighten your whole day.
Jodi Dumong <jodidumont@msn.com>
Tacoma, WA - Friday, December 9, 2005 8:27 PM CST

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Just checking in and am so glad to see some things go your way this week. Hope your van gets fixed! And, what a great Secret Santa! Isn't it great how a well timed gift can just brighten your whole day.
Jodi Dumong <jodidumont@msn.com>
Tacoma, WA - Friday, December 9, 2005 8:27 PM CST

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Hi Michelle,
I check on you daily here on CT and I am also one who doesn't want to say anything "wrong" so I don't always write, and we've had lots of stress here so not always in the best mind. I need this site - it gives me lots of encouragement!!! I guess a simple HI would be better than nothing though, eh? I also loved the Christmas picture. Loved the hair - I could always do BIG hair! And yes, I agree, the paper looked to be on top of the candle. I wondered as well, if anything exciting happened after that! I hate car trouble and I despise having to go buy a car, its just NO fun. I hope there is someone with some contacts that can help you out. Take care of you in the cold weather! UGH. It's only supposed to be around 62 today - BBRRRRRR ... okay - had to add that for you cold weather people!!!!
Many thoughts and prayers of/for you all today. I do have a request if I may be so bold to ask... I really need prayer for our oldest son and I. I am struggling in my "parenting skills" when dealing with a 16 year old prodigal with an attitude. So... just please send some extra prayers up if you can.
Thanks so much and consider yourself hugged!
Michelle Gentges <gentges6@aol.com>
Jacksonville, FL USA! - Friday, December 9, 2005 12:25 AM CST

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Had a day off today and was playing around with the guitar...Dave always played the guitar, I still play around with it (It still has the strings on it that he gave me almost 10 years ago if that tells you anything) :o)
I was trying to pick out the tune while remembering the words of the first song we wrote together at about this time of year so thought I would post them for you. Just some background on the song...first Dave and I were on a country kick then as you can see by some of the verbiage :o) Second this is not a made up story. My brother's last Christmas with us he made "work coupons" for everyone else in the family (basically like a "One free night of doing the dishes" type things) because he spent all his money to get me (the little brother) an Atari baseball game that I really wanted very badly (for those who can't remember Atari have an "older" person explain). Anyway, we also found out that we had been selected for make-a-wish and while my brother really wanted to go to Hawaii, he chose Disneyworld in Orlando because his demanding little brother wanted it so bad. We left the second week of January and he passed away the night we came home...Jan 18, 1983. He was a senior in high school and I was a 6th grader. So, my brother Randy really lived this message out and so did the other true brother God gave me in this life, Dave Meyer.
We love you guys so much!

Love,
Will and Stacy

The Gift
By Dave Meyer and Will Mouat (MoMey Music as we called it)

I remember as a boy the things that shaped my life
My parents' love and the Lord above
and all the years of joy and strife

I remember Christmas Eve back in 1982
My only brother saved his dimes
Just to help ole Saint Nick come through

'Cause I was longing for a toy that only he could bring
So my brother gave up all he had
Just to see my young heart sing

and he said,

It's not about the getting, it's just about the gift
There ain't that much to leave behind
After all the years you live
Now I can't stay forever, but when I'm finished with my part
The only thing I can leave behind...
Are the pieces of my heart

Now the years have come and they have gone
And they've taken him home
But I never will forget those words
That were whispered long ago.

And now that I am getting older
With children of my own
Those words keep burning stronger
As I watch my young ones grow

We seem to always chase the wind
While we forget just why we live
But do not forget the ones you love
And all that they are dreaming of

It's not about the getting, it's just about the gift
There ain't that much to leave behind
After all the years you live
Now I can't stay forever, but when I'm finished with my part
The only thing I can leave behind...
Are the pieces of my heart

What is it that you really stood for?
When your life is finally through
Who'll remember you?

the Mouat's <mouatw@hotmail.com>
Peyton, CO - Friday, December 9, 2005 11:37 AM CST

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Oh My Gosh!!! Secret Santa? Maybe, a Secret Elf? That is wonderful! And what a nice surprise! Hope Kate is feeling better. Our stomach virus lasted about 18 hours. Yuck! I think I'd talk to Toyota too! They should be able to do something! Smart thinking Cheri!
Have a great weekend! Things here should be better since they are feeling better. I wonder what is next? 3 french hens?? Did you want chickens? Better build a coop!
Love Ya
Sara and girls

Sara Huxoll & family <khuxoll@charter.net>
Walla Walla, - Friday, December 9, 2005 10:31 AM CST

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I knew that you must have shook the tree (so to speak) because many friends from Walla Walla (or Team Meyer) signed in to say hello to us today. I came to your site to see what was going on ... okay, can't believe Toyota ... tell them your story. If ever there was a time to ask for sympathy from someone, now is it ... if Toyota doesn't want to budge, maybe a little bird could call one of those news stations that love to "do good" during the holidays .. I'm sure they would love to take Toyota on ... whatever it takes Michelle, do it! Not out of self pity, but because you are right, you are a good person ... one of the best I know ... and every once in awhile good people deserve a bit of sympathy ... even if it does sting. I think of you constantly and wish that yours was the house next to mine so that we could share coffee, wine and hugs ... Love you heaps ...

P.S. About the Christmas photo I had the same hair back then ... Weren't we just hotties!!!
Cheri
- Thursday, December 8, 2005 10:48 PM CST

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Ok Im one of those guilty ones too that checks your site...lets see...about 10 times a day!! I keep checking back on updates on how your doing.(Like your going to update 10 times a day huh?! lol) Sometimes Im not sure what to say so I dont write. I feel the same way on Kevins site sometimes too...its just so nice to see those entries that are made. It can sure made a bad day go better! We think of you often. Ill be sure to sign more on here...even if its just to say HI! Hugs from the COLD and snowy Midwest!!
Kevin and Kari T. www.caringbridge.org/mn/kevinterry <kkterry@netins.net>
Truman, MN USA - Thursday, December 8, 2005 10:07 PM CST

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ChelleBelle,
DON'T tell me you are/were a brunette......it looks that way in the pic...??!! Love that pic.....sigh.....Dave even looks cute in a santa hat...and YOU, so GLAMOROUS!!! How's the killer Christmas tree holding up?
Love,
Cathy B.
w/o Lou dx inoperable gbm 10/04
From way up on the 58th floor.....
cathy beres
chicago, IL - Thursday, December 8, 2005 9:55 PM CST

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Michelle, I too am guilty of checking the site every day and not leaving a message, please know that all of us are praying for you and the other families on your site. Thank you for sharing your lives with us. Love, the Czyholds
Judy Czyhold <jczyhold@hscis.net>
Walla Walla, WA - Thursday, December 8, 2005 9:12 PM CST

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Oh the guilt...count me in too. Sometimes it's just hard to know what you could possibly say that would be helpful at a time like this, but thankyou for telling us what you need. I am sooo sorry to hear about your van. If you do decide to trade it in and want to get a Dodge product, I can get you an employee discount. Please e-mail me if you are interested. I want you to know that I think about all you so much and send prayers often. You and Dave look so in love in your Christmas picture. If I had a direct line to God, I'd have a thing or two to say about the crap sandwiches being served up over there. You handle it with amazing grace and humor and that is a gift.
Blessings to you and your children.
Tammy Toon Cardoza <tcardoza63@yahoo.com>
Welches, Or USA - Thursday, December 8, 2005 8:56 PM CST

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Michelle,
Confession time. I too, am one of those people who look and don't sign in. I always figured if you don't have anything good to say... don't say anything at all. Unfortunately, this is no help to you. My fear is saying the wrong thing, when I meant something totally different. I always have such good intensions though. Forgive me!
Donna Wierman <mdjkwierman@hotmail.com>
Woodinville, WA USA - Thursday, December 8, 2005 8:06 PM CST

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First things first. Okay, on your picture of you and Dave- I want to know what happened after the picture was taken cause it looks like the present or the wrapper is on the candle.
Second, my step mother always said things happen in threes. I do not know if it is true but..... 1. Ron had a flat tire on his car-Tues. I was suppose to get the spare in Walla Walla and forgot. 2. So Ron borrowed Rons dads pickup and proceeded to back up on the crunchy snow and ice and scraped the whole intire side of the truck on a pole, didn't hear it because of the crunch of the ice and snow (Ron's dad is so maticulus of his things) 3. Found out the same day Ron's dad had lung cancer. Sometimes..........
As far as the vans name I know what ya mean- the kids named our dog boy one because when we went to pick out the dog they wanted a boy one, not a girl one. I am so sorry about the van, dang.... dang...... dang. Sherri
Sherri Huwe <srhuwe@hotmail.com>
College Place/ Dayton, wa. - Thursday, December 8, 2005 6:27 PM CST

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I am new to your site and wanted to thank you for sharing your family with those in CB land. I am so sorry for the loss of your husband and dad. I read some of the more recent journal history and it sounds like you have a great relationship and are really supporting each other through this loss. I'm guessing the holiday season is going to be so difficult so keep talking like you already are.

I'm a military wife and we always say that if it can go wrong, it will when the spouse is gone. I agree with a couple of letters that a 2000 vehicle with 65,000 miles shouldn't have to be junked. I'm sure there are many folks out there VERY ready to help you with this one.

You will be in my prayers.

Hugs,
Connie F-G <cdlfg@adelphia.net>
Colorado Springs, CO - Thursday, December 8, 2005 6:00 PM CST

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Hey Meyers,

There's a psychologist who works in my office - one of his favorite sayings is "just because you're paranoid doesn't mean they're not out to get you." You've probably heard it before - you said something similar in your entry, but it does seem appropriate at this time...

I just had to let you know I'm out here in caringbridge land - checking your site at least a couple times a week - thinking of you every day. I often suffer from "not sure what to say so I wont say anything" syndrome - but I KNOW that's a LAME way to go and I'll try to sign more often when I stop by.

I was glad to see you liked the picture I sent - it really was great of all of you.
Jodi Dumont <jodidumont@msn.com>
Tacoma, WA 98403 - Thursday, December 8, 2005 4:08 PM CST

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Hi Michelle, This message will be on an entirely different note than your "van" story. I've written many, many times & never sent the messages. Long story short, my husband's death was the result of a "successful" kidney transplant leaving his 9 and 12 year old sons with a mother who acted crazily more often than not. I understand about unmade beds, oversized trees and yes, cars(vans) that seem to self-destruct. I also understand the message you sent before Thanksgiving of "I'm not grateful. I'm not." I got a call this past Thanksgiving morning telling me my oldest brother had suffered a ruptured aneurysm. I didn't get there in time to say "good-bye". It is a 6 hr. drive to where he lived. We left in a haze of fog & inversion but drove out of it to witness a sky so blue it appeared painted! Then I realized I truly was grateful afterall. The following is a letter shared with me at my brother's service. I send it on to you & all those who are grieving this season. It is sent with love, special thoughts & many prayers.


A Letter to Family and Friends
"Thank you for not expecting too much from me this holiday season. It will be our first Christmas without our loved one and I have all I can do coping with the 'spirit' of the holiday on the radio, tv., and in stores. We do not feel that joyous, and trying to even pretend this Christmas is going to be like any of the last ones will be impossible. We are missing our loved one.
Please allow me to talk about my loved one when I feel the need. Don't be uncomfortable with my tears, my anger, my fears. My heart is breaking. The tears are a way of releasing my sadness.
I plan to do something special in memory of our loved one. Please recognize my need to do this in order to keep our memories alive. My fear is not that I'll forget, but that you will.
Please don't criticize me if I do something you don't think is "normal". I'm a different person now and it may take a very long time before this different person reaches an acceptance of this or any death.
As I survive the stages of grief, and I will survive, I will need patience and support...especially during this holiday season and other "special" days throughout the year.
Thank you for not expecting too much from me this holiday season. With love, One who is Bereaved"
I don't presume this to solve anything. Just thought I would share with you as our household struggles AGAIN with the waves that come crashing over us in this grieving process.
Love, prayers and understanding....

Karen N. <KindKar@aol.com>
Eagle, Id. USA - Thursday, December 8, 2005 3:18 PM CST

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I am glad to see that there are ideas and information abounding here about the Toyota. I am up for a boycott if you think that will help. But the lawyer kicking booty really appeals the most!!

I, too, grinned to see the picture of the two of you at Christmas. I even like the hair...

Love and luck and all good things coming your way, from

Claudia K Williams
- Thursday, December 8, 2005 2:33 PM CST

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Okay, count me in as one of the people who check daily and hardly ever leave a message. I'm sorry! I do think of you daily, and say a prayer for all of you. Michelle, you're doing such a great job! I wish I could help you on the car thing. I myself have a new camery....well I've had lots of trouble with mine too...the air conditionair went out on mine, and has now gone out for the 2nd time, and it's 2 years old. And my warranty is up too. I'm boycotting Toyotas now!
((hugs)) to all of you!
Jennifer McHenry (Hanes)
Winfield, WV 25213 - Thursday, December 8, 2005 11:39 AM CST

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You are too funny. Even in your frustration and anger you are funny. I love the picture of you and Dave....you looked so young and that looks like an 80's hairstyle? Keep up the good fight.....we're here with you.
Ginny Streeter <ginny@bendradio.com>
Bend, OR - Thursday, December 8, 2005 11:12 AM CST

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Michelle, Check your cc e-mail. I gave you some ideas there on the van. The Toyota Sienna thing has happened to thousands and many have gotten new engines replaced by Toyota. They do still put blame on owners, but with a little pushing they are willing to fix the problem, too. AND, we do have a few good lawyers out there who I know would be happy to help!
Cheryl Bloom
- Thursday, December 8, 2005 11:05 AM CST

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Guilty, guilty, guilty. I'm one of "THOSE" people who haven't signed in. What kind of twisted car story is this? 5,000 over AND you paid it off on Monday? There has to be someone out there that can help with this situation. Michelle and family, you have been in my prayers for a long time. Please know there are lots more slackers out there that are sending prayers your way and you don't even know it.
Love, Laurie
Laurie Withers <witherslm@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, December 8, 2005 10:45 AM CST

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Shel, you and Kenny and Zach and Kate are so loved; we're not ashamed to pray fervently for some automotive relief! I once had a watch that, the day after its warranty expired, fell apart into a hundred pieces, kind of exploded off my wrist spontaneously, as if it had a little detonator on a timer.

I was finally able to fix the audio glitch in the memorial service DVD and have been making and packaging DVDs for those who ordered them. I had to send for more cases, but they should be arriving soon. Out of habit, I always scan through each DVD to make sure it plays, and each time I do, I find myself swimming in different memories...

Take care. Let us know if there's anything we can do.

Jeffrey, Patrice, Wiley & Sadie.
Jeffrey Townsend <jtownsend@fancylogo.com>
Walla Walla, - Thursday, December 8, 2005 10:32 AM CST

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Hi, Michelle,
I'm here as I am every day, but I guess that by the time I've "clicked" around on your website, the time factor kicks in and I have to get busy doing stuff here at home and in the Walla Walla world. So, I apologize for not writing for a while. I see that there have been 83,985 hits on your website over its history, so there HAVE been a lot of people checking up on you since it was created! I wish I had some pull at Toyota; don't understand as they're supposed to be good cars. I hope your wide web here in Walla Walla (and around the world) might snare someone who has some car ideas or pull with Toyota. So, just wanted you to know that I think of you all very often and that will I will be stopping by with a goodie from my kitchen in the next couple of days. Thanks for the reminder to let you know I'm out here in Caringbridge Land!
WWWendye <bren@brenski.net>
- Thursday, December 8, 2005 9:50 AM CST

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Ok I admit it - I check on your family daily and never leave a message!!! My mother died of cancer when I was nine I am now 34, I wish we would of had caringbridge back then, but that was way before we had computers. Good luck with your van.
jeni
rockford, il - Thursday, December 8, 2005 9:43 AM CST

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Ok I admit it - I check on your family daily and never leave a message!!! My mother dies of cancer when I was none now I am 34, I wish we would of had caringbridge back then, but that was in the olden days!! Good luck with your van.
jeni
rockford, il - Thursday, December 8, 2005 9:42 AM CST

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Michelle,

It's nice to know that when you do a web search on Toyota Sienna, and find the problem listed as "Toyota Sludge", and also find that it has happened to thousands of people, that Toyota puts the "cause" back on the owner. (Is that a run on sentence?)

If you decide to trade in the van, then of course - all those people with a similar problem were just a bunch of 'whiners'!

Love you,
Evy Haroldson <evy.haroldson@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA - Thursday, December 8, 2005 8:16 AM CST

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Well add about 10 visits of the list to me. Seems I can't stay away. As you can tell middle of the night is even a time to check in on you. I pray something will go right with this car deal for you. Well back to bed here.
Kathie
Walla Walla, Wa. - Thursday, December 8, 2005 6:08 AM CST

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Isn't someone out there on Team Meyer an attorney with big boots (or b---s) who can go "negotiate" with the auto dealer for a more liberal interpretation of this warranty?? Isn't any part of it still in effect?? DAMN, girl, it is time something went your way and not the way of the plumbing...

Trying to think of something to do to help. Sending more tea bags for a warm "cuppa" somehow just doesn't cut it!! Hugs and love to you all, except for the van ---


Claudia Williams [member of Team Meyer, Texas branch!!]
- Wednesday, December 7, 2005 11:33 PM CST

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Do they have a clause for caring Christmas trees that are HUGE? Maybe if you show them the pictures they will revamp the warranty?? :-)Sorry...to hear about the car...that whole auto industry is tricky.
Heather
Chicago, IL USA? - Wednesday, December 7, 2005 7:03 PM CST

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