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I am praying for you and your family. I know that no words can heal your broken heart. But by the grace of God, He will strengthen you all. Hold on to God's hand.
Michelle Tucker
Decatur, il. united states - Sunday, August 10, 2014 2:43 AM CDT
hi my name is helengilmore iam from templetexas my grandson is 5years old we find out that he has rhabdomyosaroma.it wasin his left forarm.iam so sorryfor your lost.
helengilmore <hgilmore85@yahoo.com>
temple, tx bell - Wednesday, July 16, 2014 3:38 PM CDT
Merry Christmas To All!
Dear Pam,
Jason was remembered at Holy Eucharist on Christmas Eve and on Christmas morning. I hope this note finds you and all of your family well.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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O God, you make us glad by the yearly festival of the birth of your only Son Jesus Christ: Grant that we, who joyfully receive him as our Redeemer, may with sure confidence behold him when he comes to be our Judge; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, December 25, 2013 7:53 PM CST
JUDY JONES, HUSBAND IN ST THOMAS HOSPITAL ON CHURCH STREET IN NASHVILLE, TN.
BOB DUDLEY SMITH <BSMITH1868@BELLSOUTH.NET>
NASHVILLE, , TN. UNIDTED STATES OF AMERICA - Tuesday, August 20, 2013 7:33 PM CDT
WE are many miles apart but gone through the same we lost our dear son Christopher to alveolar rhab. We are also funding reserach into this evil illnesss in Uk please take a look www.chrislucastrust.com Lynn xx
Lynn Lucas <lynn_lucas@hotmail.com>
Tyne and Wear, UK - Wednesday, May 8, 2013 1:49 PM CDT
I know what your son has been through. I am 16 and im going through rhabdomyosarcoma with my shiny bald head :D This is my second time going through chemo but they have tried a new chemo that only 50 people have tried and its working! But another tumor has grown and this one is in my brain. But that one will be removed with radiation or surgery! I give my hope to anyone who can find a cure to this horrible cancer that has caused me and other so much pain. Plus im scared of needles...
ashley smith <ms.drachen@yahoo.com>
salisbury, NC - Saturday, January 26, 2013 11:38 AM CST
Hi my name is Mayra and I know what you went through.My husband is 28 yrs old and was diagnosed with Alveolar Rhabdomyosarcoma at the age of 26 on July 2010. Its been a tough two years and he is on hospice now. Thank you for your story it has really helped me. GODBLESS
MAYRA RANGEL <pilingrino19@yahoo.com>
CORRIGAN, TX POLK - Sunday, November 4, 2012 10:20 PM CST
I just read your story, and I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Deborah J. Austin <djaustin06@yahoo.com>
Washington, Pa. USA - Monday, October 8, 2012 5:00 PM CDT
Merry Christmas To All Of Jason's Friends And Family!
God bless you all.
Grace, peace, love, and joy,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, December 25, 2011 1:03 AM CST
Dear Pam,
I want you to know that I continue to think of Jason and of your family. This has been a very busy year for our family, so I am not writing in CaringBridge books very much, but I do hope you are well. Feel free to send an email at any time.
God bless you all.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (One Of My Favorites):
O God, the protector of all who trust in you, without whom nothing is strong, nothing is holy: Increase and multiply upon us your mercy; that, with you as our ruler and guide, we may so pass through things temporal, that we lose not the things eternal; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, July 24, 2011 6:07 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
God bless you and all mothers on Mothering Sunday. This celebration started in Europe years ago. On Mid-Lent Sunday, the apprentices were sent home to spend some time with their mothers. The master's wife would prepare a Simnel Cake for each lad to take to his mother. Those boys too far away to go home would visit their local cathedral, The Mother Church of the region, to pray for their mothers. Twice a year, this day and the third Sunday in Lent, the clergy wear rose vestments. Yesterday, a beautiful rose stole and chasuble were blessed, at St. George's, for this purpose. It brought joy to many hearts. May reading this gladden your heart, and may thoughts of your handsome son, Jason, be sweet.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Gracious Father, whose blessed Son Jesus Christ came down from heaven to be the true bread which gives life to the world: Evermore give us this bread, that he may live in us, and we in him; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 3, 2011 10:46 AM CDT
Happy New Year To All!
Dear Pam,
May this new year of 2011 be a time of deep peace, quiet joy, and many blessings.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your handsome son, Jason David Archer.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (The Eighth Day of Christmas, Feast of the Holy Name of Jesus):
Eternal Father, who gave to your incarnate Son the holy name of
Jesus to be the sign of our salvation: Plant in every heart, we
pray, the love of him who is the Savior of the world, our Lord
Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy
Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
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New Year's Prayer
Oh Thou, who art ever the same,
Grant us so to pass through
the new year with faithful hearts,
that we may be able in all things
to please Thy loving eyes. Amen.
~Mozarabic, 700 A.D.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, January 1, 2011 5:25 PM CST
Dear Pam,
I have been thinking of Jason, while at church, during Advent and now during Christmas. He and other CaringBridge children were in my thoughts as I gazed at The Jesus and the Children stained glass window this past Sunday.
God bless Jason's sweet spirit, and God bless you.
Today we have marked The Feast of St. Stephen the martyr. Below is the collect and one of the songs often used on this day. I could not find a midi link for the tune, but perhaps you know it. If so, please sing it with me. If not, please read the words.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For St. Stephen's Day:
We give you thanks, O Lord of glory, for the example of the first martyr Stephen, who looked up to heaven and prayed for his persecutors to your Son Jesus Christ, who stands at your right hand; where he lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
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When Stephen, full of power and grace,
Went forth throughout the land,
He bore no shield before his face,
No weapon in his hand;
But only in his heart a flame
And on his lips a sword
Wherewith he smote and overcame
The foemen of the Lord.
When Stephen preached against the laws
And by those laws was tried,
He had no friend to plead his cause,
No spokesman at his side;
But only in his heart a flame
And in his eyes a light
Wherewith God's daybreak to proclaim
And rend the veils of night.
When Stephen, young and doomed to die,
Fell crushed beneath the stones,
He had no curse nor vengeful cry
For those who broke his bones;
But only in his heart a flame
And on his lips a prayer
That God, in sweet forgiveness' name
Should understand and spare.
Let me, O Lord, thy cause defend,
A knight without a sword;
No shield I ask, no faithful friend,
No vengeance, no reward;
But only in my heart a flame
And in my soul a dream,
So that the stones of earthly shame
A jewelled crown may seem.
Lyrics: Jan Struther (1901-1953)
Music: Salvation, melody from Kentucky Harmony, 1816
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, December 27, 2010 9:21 PM CST
MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL!
Dear Pam and Family,
You and Jason were remembered in Holy Eucharist on Christmas Eve. May God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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A Christmas Prayer
by Robert Louis Stevenson
Loving Father,
Help us remember the birth of Jesus,
that we may share in the song of the angels,
the gladness of the shepherds,
and worship of the wise men.
Close the door of hate
and open the door of love all over the world.
Let kindness come with every gift
and good desires with every greeting.
Deliver us from evil by the blessing
which Christ brings,
and teach us to be merry with clear hearts.
May the Christmas morning
make us happy to be thy children,
and Christmas evening bring us to our beds
with grateful thoughts,
forgiving and forgiven,
for Jesus' sake.
Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, December 25, 2010 1:13 AM CST
Blessings To All On All Saint's Sunday!
Dear Pam, David, and Family,
Jason was remembered in Holy Eucharist Saturday afternoon and Sunday morning. Both were services honoring all of God's Saints. When you have time, perhaps you can sing one of the hymns we used. I will place it beneath my signature.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Ye watchers and ye holy ones,
bright seraphs, cherubim, and thrones,
raise the glad strain,
Alleluia!
Cry out, dominions, princedoms, powers,
virtues, archangels, angels' choirs,
Refrain:
Alleluia! alleluia! alleluia!
Alleluia! alleluia!
O higher than the cherubim,
more glorious than the seraphim,
lead their praises,
Alleluia!
Thou bearer of the eternal Word,
most gracious, magnify the Lord, Refrain
Respond, ye souls in endless rest,
ye patriarchs and prophets blest,
Alleluia!
Ye holy twelve, ye martyrs strong,
all saints triumphant, raise the song, Refrain
O friends, in gladness let us sing,
supernal anthems echoing,
Alleluia!
To God the Father, God the Son,
and God the Spirit, Three in One, Refrain
Words: John Athelstan Laurie Riley (1858-1945), 1906
Music: Lasst uns erfreuen (Geistliche Catholische Kirchengeäng, Cologne, 1623)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/y/y023.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, November 7, 2010 11:45 PM CST
Dear Pam,
We had an Order of St. Luke Healing Mission, at St. George's, this weekend. While I was there, I remembered Jason in Holy Eucharist.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
From The Prayer Card Of The Mission:
In the name of God
and trusting in His might alone,
receive Christ's healing touch
to make you whole.
May Christ bring you wholeness
of body, mind, and spirit,
deliver you from every evil,
and give you His peace.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, October 16, 2010 11:28 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
May God also bless all those, who perished serving others on 9/11/01, and may God bless your handsome son, Jason, and all others who lost their lives to Rhabdomyosarcoma.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Mychal's Prayer:
Lord, take me where You want me to go;
Let me meet who You want me to meet;
Tell me what You want me to say, and
Keep me out of Your way.
~Written by Franciscan Friar, Mychal F. Judge, killed by debris at age 68, World Trade Center, 11th September 2001. At one time, Father Mychal served at Siena College, here in upstate New York.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, September 11, 2010 1:55 PM CDT
Praying for u guys....So sorry for your loss...My son is 6 years old and is fighting Alveolar Rhabdomysarcoma...I came across this while looking to see if any research is being done for this terrible monster. Hugs to u and your family.
Stacy Craig <crusher7776@yahoo.com>
Ferndale, CA usa - Friday, September 3, 2010 8:17 PM CDT
hi
laurie Johnsen
- Saturday, August 28, 2010 12:42 AM CDT
miss you Jason.
Trevor <trevor.utk@gmail.com>
Nashville, TN US - Wednesday, August 25, 2010 9:24 PM CDT
Summer Blessings To All!
Dear Pam,
I am thinking of you and of Jason on the first day of summer. I believe he would be glad to have the freedom of these warm days to do outdoor activities. May thoughts of a well and happy Jason fill your hearts with peace and joy.
I am sorry I was unable to write here yesterday. I hope David had a good Father's Day.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Sharing A Summer Solstice Poem:
The heavens bespeak the glory of God.
The firmament ablaze, a text of his works.
Dawn whispers to sunset
Dark to dark the word passes; glory glory.
All in all a great silence,
no tongue's clamor-
yet the web of the world trembles
conscious, as of great winds passing.
The bridegroom's tent is raised,
a cry goes up: He comes! a radiant sun
rejoicing, presiding, his wedding day.
From end to end of the universe his progress.
No creature, no least being but catches fire from him.
Daniel Berrigan (born May 9, 1921)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 21, 2010 11:12 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
On another Friday, I am thinking of you and of Jason. I remembered him at church on Wednesday. May God bless you both.
Today's saint is associated with the area of my childhood, Otsego County, New York. In a twelve year period, it is said that Daniel Nash preached to many Indians, baptized about 500 people, and founded at least twelve churches. He is commemorated here, in the Albany Diocese, as an example of the missionary zeal, which should be a part of the life of each Christian.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Collect for the Commemoration of Daniel Nash, Missionary June 4 1837:
O God, you called your servant Daniel Nash to the hills and valleys of a new frontier to preach the Gospel and build your Church. Grant that your Church in this and every generation may be filled with zeal for the Gospel of your Son Jesus Christ, and a willingness to serve all people in His Name; this we ask through Him who, with You and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns now and forever. Amen
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, June 4, 2010 11:13 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I am pausing, here, at my keyboard, to pray for Jason's brother, Justin, as today is the day when many remember Justin, the Martyr. May you and Justin be blessed today and always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Justin Martyr, Philosopher, Apologist, And Martyr, 1 June 167:
Almighty and everlasting God, who found your martyr Justin wandering from teacher to teacher, seeking the true God, and revealed to him the sublime wisdom of your eternal Word: Grant that all who seek you, or a deeper knowledge of you, may find and be found by you; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, June 1, 2010 10:09 AM CDT
Happy Memorial Day To All!
Dear Pam,
I am thinking about you, and of handsome Jason, on this day, when we remember those who have died in service to our country, and when many of us also decorate the graves of our family members. I did remember Jason at church this weekend, as I always do.
I hope you are doing well. God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Prayers For Use At Memorial Day:
O Judge of the nations, we remember before you with grateful hearts the men and women of our country who in the day of decision ventured much for the liberties we now enjoy. Grant that we may not rest until all the people of this land share the benefits of true freedom and gladly accept its disciplines. This we ask in the Name of Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 839
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 31, 2010 5:07 PM CDT
Blessings To All On The Feast Of Pentecost!
Dear Pam,
Jason was remembered in Holy Eucharist this morning. Pentecost has always been one of our favorite holy days, as we love the red colored clothing that many people wear and the red altar clothes. It is also a festival not generally spoiled by commercialism, although a very young Andrew once suggested marketing "Pentecost Pizza."
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet son, Jason David Archer.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
The Collect:
O God, who on this day taught the hearts of your faithful people by sending to them the light of your Holy Spirit: Grant us by the same Spirit to have a right judgment in all things, and evermore to rejoice in his holy comfort; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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Hail this joyful day's return,
hail the Pentecostal morn,
morn when our ascended Lord
on his Church his Spirit poured! Alleluia!
Like to clove tongues of flame
on the twelve the Spirit came--
tongues, that earth may hear their call,
fire, that love may burn in all. Alleluia!
Lord, to you your people bend;
unto us your Spirit send;
blessings of this sacred day
grant us, dearest Lord, we pray. Alleluia!
You who did our forebears guide,
with their children still abide;
grant us pardon, grant us peace,
till our earthly wanderings cease. Alleluia!
Words: Attributed to Hilary of Poitiers (fourth century);
trans. Robert Campbell (1814-1868), alt.
Music: Sonne der Gerechtigkeit, Beata nobis gaudia
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/h/h036.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 23, 2010 5:24 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
As the school year winds down, I am thinking of Jason and of several other students, whose guest books I have signed over the years. I continue to remember Jason beneath the altar at St. George's and at other times of Eucharist.
I hope you, David, Justin, Joshua, and Jenny are all well. God bless you always, and of course, God bless sweet Jason and all of his companions in heaven.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Alcuin, Deacon, Scholar, And Abbot Of Tours, 20 May 804:
Almighty God, who in a rude and barbarous age raised up your deacon Alcuin to rekindle the light of learning: Illumine our minds, we pray, that amid the uncertainties and confusions of our own time we may show forth your eternal truth, through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, May 20, 2010 12:21 AM CDT
Happy Mother's Day To All!
Dear Pam,
I thought of you and of Jason at Eucharist yesterday and today. You are indeed a special mother, and I know that Jason was, and is, blessed in having you as his mom.
Please let me know when there are specific things I can pray about for you and for your family.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Few Quotes On Motherhood:
The heart of a mother is a deep abyss at the bottom of which you will always find forgiveness.
~Honore' de Balzac (1799-1850)
A mother is the truest friend we have, when trials, heavy and sudden, fall upon us; when adversity takes the place of prosperity; when friends who rejoice with us in our sunshine, desert us when troubles thicken around us, still will she cling to us, and endeavor by her kind precepts and counsels to dissipate the clouds of darkness, and cause peace to return to our hearts.
~Washington Irving (1783-1859)
My mother was the most beautiful woman I ever saw. All I am I owe to my mother. I attribute all my success in life to the moral, intellectual and physical education I received from her.
~George Washington (1732-1799)
Motherhood from the outset demands the total gift of self.
~Author Unknown
If I am Thy child, O God, it is because Thou gavest me such a mother.
~St. Augustine (354-430) speaking of his mother, St. Monnica whose feast day is May 4.
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 9, 2010 3:24 PM CDT
Blessings On Easter Morning!
"Welcome, happy morning!"
age to age shall say:
hell today is vanquished,
heaven is won today!
Lo! the dead is living,
God for evermore!
Him their true Creator,
all his works adore!
Refrain:
"Welcome, happy morning!" age to age shall say.
Earth her joy confesses,
clothing her for spring,
all fresh gifts return
with her returning King:
bloom in every meadow,
leaves on every bough,
speak his sorrow ended,
hail his triumph now.
Months in due succession,
days of lengthening light,
hours and passing moments
praise thee in their flight.
Brightness of the morning,
sky and fields and sea,
Vanquisher of darkness,
bring their praise to thee.
Maker and Redeemer,
life and health of all,
thou from heaven beholding
human nature's fall,
of the Father's Godhead
true and only Son,
mankind to deliver,
manhood didst put on.
Thou, of life the Author,
death didst undergo,
tread the path of darkness,
saving strength to show;
come then, true and faithful,
now fulfill thy word,
'tis thine own third morning!
rise, O buried Lord!
Loose the souls long prisoned,
bound with Satan's chain;
all that now is fallen
raise to life again;
show thy face in brightness,
bid the nations see;
bring again our daylight:
day returns with thee!
Words: Fortunatus, (ca. 535-600);
trans. John Ellerton (1826-1893), 1868
Music: Fortunatus (Arthur Seymour Sullivan, 1872)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/w/w189.html
Jason will be remembered in Eucharist.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 4, 2010 1:16 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I have been thinking of you, of your family, and of Jason on this day of holy waiting. May God bless you all.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God, Creator of heaven and earth: Grant that, as the crucified body of your dear Son was laid in the tomb and rested on this holy Sabbath, so we may await with him the coming of the third day, and rise with him to newness of life; who now lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 3, 2010 8:30 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
I am sorry I have not been able to return to this book earlier, but I have been thinking of you and of Jason often during this Holy Week.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Good Friday:
Almighty God, we pray you graciously to behold this your family, for whom our Lord Jesus Christ was willing to be betrayed, and given into the hands of sinners, and to suffer death upon the cross; who now lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, April 2, 2010 10:31 PM CDT
Palm Sunday Greetings To All!
Dear Pam,
Today, in my mind's eye, I have seen my son, as a toddler, sitting on cathedral steps next to piles of Palms to be distributed to the worshippers. This reminded me of taking him, as an elementary school boy, to greenhouses on Palm Sunday afternoons to view the displays and to have a cup of punch. I am sure you have many memories of Jason and his three sibs on this day. May they bring you peace and comfort this week.
Jason was remembered in Eucharist on both Saturday and Sunday. He will be in my prayers often during Holy Week.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For The Sunday Of The Passion:
Almighty and everliving God, in your tender love for the human race you sent your Son our Savior Jesus Christ to take upon him our nature, and to suffer death upon the cross, giving us the example of his great humility: Mercifully grant that we may walk in the way of his suffering, and also share in his resurrection; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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Traditional Palm Sunday Processional Hymn:
Refrain:
All glory, laud, and honor
to thee, Redeemer, King!
to whom the lips of children
made sweet hosannas ring.
Thou art the King of Israel,
thou David's royal Son,
who in the Lord's Name comest,
the King and Blessed One. Refrain
The company of angels
are praising thee on high;
and mortal men and all things
created make reply. Refrain
The people of the Hebrews
with palms before thee went;
our praise and prayer and anthems
before thee we present. Refrain
To thee before thy passion
they sang their hymns of praise;
to thee, now high exalted,
our melody we raise. Refrain
Thou didst accept their praises;
accept the prayers we bring,
who in all good delightest,
thou good and gracious King. Refrain
Words: Theodulph of Orleans (ca. 750-821), ca. 820
Trans. John Mason Neale (1818-1866), 1854,
as altered in Hymns Ancient and Modern
Music: St. Theodulph (Valet will ich dir geben),
(Melchior Teschner, 1584-1635, arranged William Henry Monk, 1823-1889)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/a/a108.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 28, 2010 6:13 PM CDT
God's Blessings To All On The First Day Of Spring!
Dear Pam,
I am thinking of you with encouragement and love as we bid good-bye to a long winter and welcome in the spring. I hope you are feeling well and encouraged today. Having daylight until about 7:30 each night has made me think of all of those nights, a few years ago, when we rushed out to the Little League fields. I am sure you have similar happy memories of spring nights with Jason as he did spring activities. May those memories be sweet and full of hope for the future in God's eternal kingdom.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
March 20
Vernal Equinox
Everywhere is the green of new growth,
The amazing sight of the renewal of the earth.
We watch the grass once again emerging from the ground.
We notice the bright green atop the dark green on the pines,
the fir, the hemlock, the spruce, the cedar.
The alder is already in leaf.
The old plum trees still blossom, leaf, and give forth fruit.
The locust is late as always.
Everywhere and always the song of birds...bees
raiding the orchard, raccoon prowling at
nightfall, the earthworm tunneling the garden,
chickens and rabbits pecking and nibbling, the
goats tugging to reach new delights...all are the
ubiquitous energies of life.
O Lord,
May we today be touched by grace, fascinated and
moved by this your creation, energized by the
power of new growth at work in your world.
May we move beyond viewing this life only through a
frame, but
touch it and be touched by it,
know it and be known by it,
love it and be loved by it.
May our bodies, our minds, and our spirits, learn a new
rhythm paced by the rhythmic pulse of the
whole created order.
May spring come to us, be in us, and recreate life in us.
May we forge a new friendship with the natural
world and discover a new affinity with beauty,
with life, and with the Cosmic Christ in whom
all things were created in heaven and on earth,
visible or invisible, whether thrones or
dominions or principalities or authorities...for
all things were created through him and for him.
In his name.
Amen.
~Chinook Psalter
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 20, 2010 12:11 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
Following a long line of greeting mothers on Mid-Lent Sunday (Mothering Sunday), I salute you today. Perhaps you will have a taste of Simnel Cake or Mothering Sunday Buns. May thoughts of your handsome son, Jason, be sweet today.
I am pausing to pray for you, as I did earlier at Eucharist. God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Gracious Father, whose blessed Son Jesus Christ came down from heaven to be the true bread which gives life to the world: Evermore give us this bread, that he may live in us, and we in him; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 14, 2010 10:30 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
In the last few weeks, I have had the delightful opportunity to attend seven storytelling events. One that was especially enjoyable was shared with Andrew, at Cafe Lena, in Saratoga Springs. The featured teller was a Vermont gentleman named Tom Weakley, who is a humorist, and who is also among our family's favorite tellers. The latest, on March 7, was a Story Sunday, at the Glen Sanders Mansion, in Scotia, featuring The Storycrafters. Jason would probably have liked the Celtic harp playing, as the tellers, a husband and wife from Philmont, NY, told and sang stories from Ireland and Scotland.
I have been remembering Jason in my prayers during many Lenten services. I hope you and David are doing well.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For The Saturday In The Third Week Of Lent:
O God, you know us to be set in the midst of so many and great dangers, that by reason of the frailty of our nature we cannot always stand upright: Grant us such strength and protection as may support us in all dangers, and carry us through all temptations; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 13, 2010 0:04 AM CST
Dear Pam,
I have just paused, here, at my keyboard, to pray for you and for your family. May you have a good weekend.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For The Friday In The First Week Of Lent:
Lord Christ, our eternal Redeemer, grant us such fellowship in your sufferings, that filled with your Holy Spirit, we may subdue the flesh to the spirit, and the spirit to you, and at the last attain to the glory of your resurrection; who live and reign with the Father and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, February 26, 2010 12:53 AM CST
Dear Pam,
As you know, I seldom miss Eucharist on a major holy day, but I did today, due to about twelve inches of heavy, wet, new snow. Even so, I thought of your handsome son. May God bless Jason David Archer and all of the company of heaven.
I hope you are safe and well.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, who in the place of Judas chose your faithful servant Matthias to be numbered among the Twelve: Grant that your Church, being delivered from false apostles, may always be guided and governed by faithful and true pastors; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, February 24, 2010 9:27 PM CST
Blessed Lent To All!
Dear Pam,
I have thought of you and sweet Jason several times today. I hope all is well with you.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
We sang this hymn at St. George's tonight. It is my favorite Lenten hymn. Perhaps you can sing it with me some time this week.
Lord, who throughout these forty days
for us didst fast and pray,
teach us with thee to mourn our sins,
and close by thee to stay.
As thou with Satan didst contend
and didst the victory win,
O give us strength in thee to fight,
in thee to conquer sin.
As thou didst hunger bear and thirst,
so teach us, gracious Lord,
to die to self, and chiefly live
by thy most holy word.
And through these days of penitence,
and through thy Passiontide,
yea, evermore, in life and death,
Jesus! with us abide.
Abide with us, that so, this life
of suffering over-past,
an Easter of unending joy
we may attain at last!
Words: Claudia F. Hernaman, 1873
Music: St. Flavian, Melody From Day's Psalter, 1562
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/l/l511.html
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The Collect For Ash Wednesday:
Almighty and everlasting God, you hate nothing you have made and forgive the sins of all who are penitent: Create and make in us new and contrite hearts, that we, worthily lamenting our sins and acknowledging our wretchedness, may obtain of you, the God of all mercy, perfect remission and forgiveness; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, February 17, 2010 11:51 PM CST
Happy Valentine's Day Archer Family!
Dear Pam,
I am not signing guest books nearly as often as I once did, but I want to say "Hello!" to you on this day when love and friendship are in many people's thoughts. Of course, most central in our lives, as Christians, is the love of God as revealed in his Son, Jesus Christ. How thankful you and David and Jason's supporters are that Jason knew that love!
I had an opportunity to view a "Valentine" movie and eat some pizza at church last night. The movie was called "Fireproof." It was made about two years ago, and it seems to be popular at various churches this February. The teens were having a baby-sitting night, to raise money for their mission trip, so the parish hall was also filled with pizza boxes. I had a delicious slice of veggie pizza, and later, when we ran out of that type, I had a slice of all meat. I am sure Jason would have found some pizza to his liking and a cup of milk or a glass of soda, as well.
I will add the collect for Valentine's Day that is most familiar to me and some quotes about love below.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
We must begin with love, continue with love, and end with love.
~St. Francis de Sales
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Love is a fruit in season at all times and within the reach of every hand.
~Mother Teresa of Calcutta
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A Christian should always remember that the value of his good works is not based on their number and excellence, but on the love of God which prompts him to do these things.
~St.John of the Cross
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There is no creature made that can understand how much and how sweetly and how tenderly our Maker loves us.
~Julian of Norwich
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In the evening of our life, we shall be judged by love, namely, by the sincerity of our love for God, for our neighbor, for our soul.
~St. John of the Cross
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The Collect For Valentine's Day:
Almighty and everlasting God, who kindled the flame of your love in the heart of your holy martyr Valentine: Grant to us, your humble servants, a like faith and power of love, that we who rejoice in his triumph may profit by his example; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, February 14, 2010 1:20 PM CST
Glad Epiphany To All!
Dear Pam,
Jason was remembered in Holy Eucharist earlier today. Certainly he had courage similar to that of the magi.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God, by the leading of a star you manifested your only Son to the peoples of the earth: Lead us, who know you now by faith, to your presence, where we may see your glory face to face; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 214
An Epiphany Hymn:
As with gladness men of old
did the guiding star behold;
as with joy they hailed its light,
leading onward, beaming bright;
so, most gracious Lord, may we
evermore be led to thee.
As with joyful steps they sped
to that lowly manger-bed;
there to bend the knee before
him whom heaven and earth adore;
so may we with willing feet
ever seek the mercy seat.
As they offered gifts most rare
at that manger rude and bare;
so may we with holy joy,
pure and free from sin's alloy,
all our costliest treasures bring,
Christ! to thee, our heavenly King.
Holy Jesus! every day
keep us in the narrow way;
and, when earthly things are past,
bring our ransomed souls at last
where they need no star to guide,
where no clouds thy glory hide.
In the heavenly country bright,
need they no created light;
thou its light, its joy, its crown,
thou its sun which goes not down;
there for ever may we sing
alleluias to our King.
Words: William Chatterton Dix (1837-1898), 1860
Music: Dix (Conrad Kocher, 1786-1872, arranged William Henry Monk, 1823-1889)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/a/a371.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, January 6, 2010 9:17 PM CST
Happy New Year To All!
Dear Pam,
I want you to know that I am thinking of you today. I hope you had a good holiday meal, and I hope you take comfort, as you think of the Holy Name of Jesus, in remembering the naming of sweet Jason. May 2010 be a time of deep peace, quiet joy, and many blessings for you.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your handsome son, Jason David Archer.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (The Eighth Day of Christmas, Feast of the Holy Name of Jesus):
Eternal Father, who gave to your incarnate Son the holy name of
Jesus to be the sign of our salvation: Plant in every heart, we
pray, the love of him who is the Savior of the world, our Lord
Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy
Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, January 1, 2010 8:51 PM CST
Blessings To All On New Year's Eve!
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, December 31, 2009 4:44 PM CST
Dear Pam,
Today we celebrate the Feast of the Holy Innocents. Let us pray for a cure for childhood cancer, of all varieties, so holy innocents of today will stop dying from this terrible scourge. Below is the collect of the day and a hymn.
God bless you always, and God bless Jason, and those with Jason, in God's heavenly country.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
We remember today, O God, the slaughter of the holy innocents of Bethlehem by King Herod. Receive, we pray, into the arms of your mercy all innocent victims; and by your great might frustrate the designs of evil tyrants and establish your rule of justice, love, and peace; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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By all your saints still striving, for all your saints at rest,
Your holy Name, O Jesus. for evermore be blessed.
You rose, our King victorious, that they might wear the crown
And ever shine in splendor reflected from your throne.
Praise for your infant marytrs, whom your mysterious love
Called early from life's conflicts to share your peace above.
O Rachel, cease your weeping; they're free from pain and cares.
Lord, grant us crowns as brilliant and lives as pure as theirs.
Then let us praise the Father and worship God the Son
And sing to God the Spirit, eternal Three in One,
Till all the ransomed number who stand before the throne
Ascribe all power and glory and praise to God alone.
Words: Horatio Bolton Nelson (1823-1913); ver. Hymnal, 1982
Music: King's Lynn, English melody; adapt. Ralph Vaughan Williams (1872-1958)
or Nyland, Finnish folk melody; adapt. David Evans (1874-1948)
Hear Nyland at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/b/b209a.html
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, December 29, 2009 4:00 PM CST
Dear Pam,
When I read at St. George's yesterday, and when I attended both Eucharist and Christmas Lessons and Carols today, Jason was in my thoughts and prayers. I also prayed for you and for other loved ones of Jason. May God bless you all.
I hope you have been enjoying this Christmas Weekend and will enjoy the remaining days of Christmas. May this season of blessing give you hope for a joyous reunion with Jason and for many other good things to come.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, you have poured upon us the new light of your incarnate Word: Grant that this light, enkindled in our hearts, may shine forth in our lives; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
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A Christmas Affirmation
by John Killinger
I believe that Christmas is more than a time for parties and ornaments; it is a time for remembering Christ and the incarnation of God’s love in human flesh. I believe there are gifts more important than the ones under the Christmas tree, such as the things we teach our children, the way we share ourselves with friends, and the industry with which we set about reshaping the world in our time. I believe that the finest carols are often sung by the poorest voices, from hearts made warm by the wonder of the season. I believe in the angel’s message that we should not be afraid – that the Child of Bethlehem is able to overcome all anxieties and insecurities. I believe in prayer and quietness as ways of appropriating Christmas – that if I wait in silence I will experience the presence of the One born in the stable, for Jesus lives today as surely as he lived then. I believe in going away from Christmas as the Magi went – another way. I want to be different when these days are past – more centered, more thoughtful, more caring. And I believe God will help me. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, December 27, 2009 4:48 PM CST
Christmas Eve Blessings To All!
Dear Pam,
I just want to remind you that you are in my prayers tonight.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Tonight's Collect:
O God, you have caused this holy night to shine with the brightness of the true Light: Grant that we, who have known the mystery of that Light on earth, may also enjoy him perfectly in heaven; where with you and the Holy Spirit he lives and reigns, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, December 24, 2009 4:01 PM CST
Dear Pam,
I am sorry I missed signing Jason's book on his birthday last week. God was there with you, no matter how you felt that day. The name often used for his only-begotten Son, Jesus, whose birth we celebrate tonight and tomorrow, Emmanuel, means just that, "God with us."
I am pausing, here, at my keyboard, to remember your handsome son and to pray for you, David, and all of the family.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
LORD JESUS, as we contemplate your en-flesh-ment,
so that you could be like us in all ways but sin:
give us hearts filled with faith and gratitude,
that in this Christ-Mass we make experience Your redeeming love.
Amen.
~A Prayer By Daniel William Herzog
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, December 24, 2009 10:54 AM CST
Dear Pam,
what a handsome boy your Jason is! I'm sorry you are missing him so. Rhabdo also stole my daughter Nina.
Thinking of you today as you remember Jason,
Another Mom from "Angel on my Shoulder"
www.caringbridge.org/visit/ninahermes
Stephanie <skt@ttranslations.com>
Yorktown, VA - Wednesday, December 16, 2009 4:51 PM CST
Happy birthday Jason!
Tell Mamie and Jesus I love them.
www.caringbridge.org/al/mamieadams
Mamie's Daddy
Huntsville, AL USA - Tuesday, December 15, 2009 10:56 PM CST
Blessings To All On The First Sunday In Advent!
Dear Pam,
Jason has been remembered, in Holy Eucharist, on Saturday and Sunday. May God always bless his sweet spirit.
In addition to lighting the first violet Advent candle this morning, we sang five Advent hymns, at St. George's. One was new to me. I will add the words and tune link below below.
I am thinking of you, and of all of Jason's loved ones, during these days of hope and preparation. God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Bless'd be the God of Israel who comes to set us free
and raises up new hope for us: a branch of David's tree.
So have the prophets long declared that with a mighty arm
God would turn back our enemies and all who wish us harm.
With promised mercy will God still the covenant recall,
the oath once sworn to Abraham, from foes to save us all;
that we might worship without fear and offer lives of praise,
in holiness and righteousness to serve God all our days.
My child, as prophet of the Lord you will prepare the way,
to tell God's people they are saved from sin's eternal sway.
Then shall God's mercy from on high shine forth and never cease
to drive away the gloom of death and lead us into peace.
Words: Carl P. Daw, Jr. b. 1944
Music: Forest Green, an old English folk tune, arranged by Ralph Vaughan Williams (1872-1958)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/i/i127.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, November 29, 2009 12:00 AM CST
Happy Thanksgiving To All!
Dear Pam,
I have been thinking of you today. You have given me, and many others, a gift in sharing your beautiful son with us. Jason is always a part of my heart.
Below is my favorite Thanksgiving Prayer and today's collect. If you have some time, please pray them with me.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet son, Jason David Archer.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Litany of Thanksgiving:
Let us give thanks to God our Father for all his gifts so freely bestowed upon us.
For the beauty and wonder of creation, in earth and sky and sea,
R: We thank you, Lord.
For all that is gracious in the lives of men and women, revealing the image of Christ,
R: We thank you, Lord.
For our daily food and drink, our homes and families, and our friends,
R: We thank you, Lord.
For minds to think, and hearts to love, and hands to serve,
R: We thank you, Lord.
For health and strength to work, and leisure to rest and play,
R: We thank you, Lord.
For the brave and courageous, who are patient in suffering and faithful in adversity,
R: We thank you, Lord.
For all valiant seekers after truth, liberty, and justice,
R: We thank you, Lord.
For the communion of saints, in all times and places,
R: We thank you, Lord.
Above all, we give you thanks for the great mercies and promises given to us in Christ Jesus our Lord:
R: To him be praise and glory, with you, O Father, and the Holy Spirit, now and for ever. Amen.
The Book of Common Prayer, Page 837
The Collect For Thanksgiving Day:
Almighty and gracious Father, we give you thanks for the fruits of the earth in their season and for the labors of those who harvest them. Make us, we pray, faithful stewards of your great bounty, for the provision of our necessities and the relief of all who are in need, to the glory of your Name; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 246
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, November 26, 2009 9:51 PM CST
Dear Pam,
Yesterday, I had a long, personal note to you all ready to post, when I had a problem with my server. I had not saved any of it, and I did not have time to redo it, so it is gone. Right now, I cannot remember any of the things I had written, and perhaps that is for the best.
I did remember Jason, in Holy Eucharist, this morning. Father Henry gave a teaching on the Cross, as today's saint, James Huntington, was always concerned with the Cross. Huntington founded the Order of the Holy Cross in the 1880s. I have been to their monastery, in West Park, New York, many times over the years, and have on occasion stayed overnight there. One of the engravings there says, "The Cross is the Tree of Life." I will leave a favorite saying of Huntington and the collect below.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Holiness is the brightness of divine love, and love is never idle; it must accomplish great things.
~James Otis Sargent Huntington (1854-1935)
The Collect For James Otis Sargent Huntington, Founder
25 November 1884: (This is his profession date. He died on June 28, 1935.)
O loving God, by whose grace your servant James Huntington gathered a community dedicated to love and discipline and devotion to the holy Cross of our Savior Jesus Christ: Send your blessing upon all who proclaim Christ crucified, and move the hearts of many to look upon him and be saved; who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, November 25, 2009 5:13 PM CST
Dear Pam,
On Richie Shannon's third anniversary, I am thinking of dear Jason and of Richie. May God bless both of them, and also may God bless all of their loved ones, friends, and fans.
I am pausing, here, at my keyboard, to pray for you, David, and Jason's siblings.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
I believe in Christianity as I believe that the sun has risen: not only because I see it, but because by it I see everything else.
C.S. Lewis (1898-1963)
C. S. Lewis, Scholar And Spiritual Writer, 22 November 1963 (Transferred Because The 22nd Fell On A Sunday This Year):
Almighty God, whose servant C.S.Lewis received of your grace singular gifts of insight in understanding the truth in Christ Jesus, and of eloquence and clarity in presenting that truth to his readers: Raise up in our day faithful interpreters of your Word, that we, being set free from all error and unbelief, may come to the knowledge that makes us wise unto salvation: through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, November 23, 2009 4:52 PM CST
Dear Pam,
I have been meaning to write a note to you for the last few days. This has been a busy time, here in southern Saratoga County, but I do continue to remember your dear Jason, in Holy Eucharist.
Right now, I am pausing, here at my keyboard, to pray for each member of your family, by name. I am praying especially for Joshua.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For The Consecration of Samuel Seabury, Bishop
(Bestowal Of The American Episcopate), 14 November 1784:
We give you thanks, O Lord our God, for your goodness in bestowing upon this Church the gift of the episcopate, which we celebrate in this remembrance of the consecration of Samuel Seabury; and we pray that, joined together in unity with our bishops, and nourished by your holy Sacraments, we may proclaim the Gospel of redemption with apostolic zeal; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
The consecration papers for Samuel Seabury are in the Cathedral of All Saints, here, in Albany.
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, November 14, 2009 1:51 AM CST
Pam, I look at the photos of your most wonderful young man and son, Jason. Our boy Alastair was 18, nearly 19 when he passed away last December. The heartbreak is compounded by us glimpsing what fine men our boys were to become and yearning to see them progress, make mistakes and above all forge their place on this physical plane.
Alastair is survived by his twin sister Alice, his elder sister Helen, and my wife Judith and I. There's never a single minute goes by without me feeling every atom of my son's existence and his spirit.
I trust you have a measure of peace, such that any of us can achieve. I am sorry that Jason's brother is struggling - but he'll make good once he allows his brother's spirit inside to guide him
Archie
father to Alastair, dx parameningeal ARMS Nov 06, relapsed April and Nov 08, became rhabdo angel Dec 08, forever 18
Archie Wilson <wilson5@unwired.com.au>
Sydney, NSW Australia - Friday, November 13, 2009 3:12 AM CST
I find myself thinking of Jason today and so many other Rhabdo angels, including mine. It's weird that now it's been so long.
I hope you are all doing well. Know we think of Jason and you all often. He will always be in our hearts.
Lynn
Elizabeth, forever8, forever my princess
www.carepages.com/elizabethslegacy
Lynn Doxey <pickwicknt@optonline.net>
- Wednesday, November 11, 2009 4:24 PM CST
Josh Abide
Sheila Haynes <shaynes1503@yahoo.com>
Merigold, ms usa - Tuesday, November 10, 2009 8:54 PM CST
Collect For The Day of All Souls, 2 November:
Father of all, we pray to you for those we love, but see no longer: Grant them your peace; let light perpetual shine upon them; and in your loving wisdom and almighty power, work in them the good purpose of your perfect will; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
Dear Pam,
I apologize from not signing Jason's guest book on the recent twin feasts of All Saints' Day and All Souls' Day. I was thinking of Jason, and of you and David, and I did remember Jason in Holy Eucharist.
Yesterday, while I was the lay reader at St. George's, I also remembered Jason.
God bless you always, and God bless your sweet son, Jason David Archer.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect:
O God, whose blessed Son came into the world that he might destroy the works of the devil and make us children of God and heirs of eternal life: Grant that, having this hope, we may purify ourselves as he is pure; that, when he comes again with power and great glory, we may be made like him in his eternal and glorious kingdom; where he lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, November 8, 2009 1:30 PM CST
Dear Pam,
Although I am not signing guest books as often as I did, I am still remembering sweet Jason, in Holy Eucharist. May God bless his gentle spirit.
God bless you, David, and all of Jason's siblings and other loved ones.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For The Feast Of James of Jerusalem, Bishop and Martyr (New Testament):
Lord Jesus Christ, who set your brother James on the throne of your church in Jerusalem: Grant that as he continually interceded for the sins of your people, and worked to reconcile in one body both Jew and Gentile; so your Church may give itself continually to prayer and to the reconciliation of all who are at variance and enmity, and may ever be an effectual witness for the salvation of all mankind. Grant this, O Son of Man, who are on the right hand of the Father, in the unity of the Spirit, now and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, October 23, 2009 8:09 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
As we start the autumn season, I am thinking of you and remembering Jason. I hope all is going well for you, David, and the family, and I hope you can enjoy the color and bounty of the season.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The summer yields to the autumn winds blowing
While the cool burns the leaves golden red
We harvest fields we planted once knowing
Grains of truth would soon come to a head.
Mystery Healer, I feel your hand above my brow
Into your love I bow.
Again dreams seeming hard to remember
Alluring sleep ever taking its toll
Love redeems like the snows of December
Pure and deep as the infinite soul.
Mystery Healer, I feel your hand above my brow
Into your love I bow.
To meadowlands of the soul's flowering
We return from the roots we have sprung
To understand love we know is empowering
Though we learn from the truth where love hung.
Mystery Healer, I feel your hand above my brow
Into your love I bow.
~Chris Van Cleave (American musician and songwriter)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, September 23, 2009 4:39 PM CDT
Dear Pam and David,
Email just brought me the news of baby boys born to families in our parish. One child's Christian name is Brennan Patrick, and the other's name is Tate David. For you, all such events remind you of the birth of your own dear Jason David and of his three siblings. May those memories bring you joy and peace today.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Jason, Justin, Joshua, and Jenny.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect: For Ninian of Galloway, Bishop, Missionary to Scotland, 16 September 430:
O God, who by the preaching of your blessed servant and bishop Ninian caused the light of the Gospel to shine in the land of Britain: Grant, we pray, that, having his life and labors in remembrance, we may show our thankfulness by following the example of his zeal and patience; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, September 16, 2009 11:21 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
On the anniversary of the 9/11 attack, I am thinking of you, of Jason, and of those brave souls that perished in New York City, in Pennsylvania, and at the Pentagon. Among those individuals are two somewhat connected to me. One was a classmate in high school, whose wife was also a classmate, and the other was a priest, who at one time served at Siena College, a few miles from our home. (A prayer of that priest is below.) May God bless your hero, Jason David Archer, and may God also bless all those, who perished serving others on 9/11/01.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Mychal's Prayer:
Lord, take me where You want me to go;
Let me meet who You want me to meet;
Tell me what You want me to say, and
Keep me out of Your way.
~Written by Franciscan Friar, Mychal F. Judge, killed by debris at age 68, World Trade Center, 11th September 2001
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, September 11, 2009 11:20 AM CDT
Happy Labor Day To All!
Dear Pam,
Andrew and I had a busy day today, so we decided to slip into Pizza Hut for the buffet lunch. As always, it was good. Today, they seemed to have an especially appealing selection of items for making a tossed salad, but we also had some pizza, pasta, and bread sticks.
I hope you have had some time to relax during this long weekend.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Jason.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Labor Day
Almighty God, you have so linked our lives one with another that all we do affects, for good or ill, all other lives: So guide us in the work we do, that we may do it not for self alone, but for the common good; and, as we seek a proper return for our own labor, make us mindful of the rightful aspirations of other workers, and arouse our concern for those who are out of work; though Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 825
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, September 7, 2009 4:42 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
I am thinking of you, and of Jason, on a beautiful early September day. I will be holding you both in my prayers, as I serve as lay reader at Eucharist.
Since today is Mother Teresa's twelfth anniversary, I will leave as quote from her below.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Prayer enlarges the heart until it is capable of containing God’s gift of Himself.
~Mother Teresa (1910-1997)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, September 5, 2009 12:03 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
Today I wish you, David, and the whole family, a good Labor Day Weekend. When my boys were little, if the weather was good, we always had an outdoor outing at this time just before our New York schools open. One thing they enjoyed doing was packing a picnic and going to the canal to watch the boats pass through the locks. Sometimes the care taker would invite us to come into the building and watch him work up close. I am sure a young man as intelligent as Jason would have enjoyed seeing the locks raise and lower the boats, questioning the care taker, and waving to the people aboard.
May your faith and your memories of Labor Day Weekends spent with Jason comfort and sustain you.
Below is a Labor Day prayer, which I like. Perhaps you can pray it with me this weekend.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Prayer For Labor Day:
On this weekend, when we rest from our usual labors, loving Father, we pray for all who shoulder the tasks of human labor—in the marketplace, in factories and offices, in the professions, and in family living.
We thank you, Lord, for the gift and opportunity of work; may our efforts always be pure of heart, for the good of others and the glory of your name.
We lift up to you all who long for just employment and those who work to defend the rights and needs of workers everywhere.
May those of us who are now retired always remember that we still make a valuable contribution to our Church and our world by our prayers and deeds of charity.
May our working and our resting all give praise to you until the day we share together in eternal rest with all our departed in your Kingdom as you live and reign Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, one God, forever and ever. Amen.
~As Shared By The Archdiocese Of Detroit (Roman Catholic)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, September 4, 2009 12:03 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I send you warm greetings on the first day of a new month. We have a beautiful day here, and I hope you are having a good day as well.
Jason is remembered in Holy Eucharist, and I am praying for you, for David, and for all of your family.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God of unsearchable wisdom and infinite mercy, who chose a captive warrior, David Oakerhater, to be your servant, and sent him to be a missionary to his own people and to exercise the office of a deacon among them: Liberate us, who commemorate him today, from bondage to self, and empower us for service to you and to the neighbors you have given us; through Jesus Christ, the captain of our salvation; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, September 1, 2009 2:46 PM CDT
Dear Archer Family,
I also apologize for not getting here to sign Jason's guest book on the 25th. Certainly you are all in my thoughts and prayers as you recall the events of four years ago.
May God bless your sweet son, who truly is at peace with his Lord and Savior and with the whole company of heaven. And may you all know the power and comfort of His love deeply today.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, August 27, 2009 9:59 AM CDT
Dear Archer's,
I am sorry I didn't get the chance to write yesterday but want you to know that thoughts of Jason filled my mind and heart on the 4th anniversary of his entrance into Heaven. Although I do not sign in here often I do think of Jason and all of you often.
God Bless,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Wednesday, August 26, 2009 9:04 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
I was about to write in Jason's book yesterday, when something else entered my mind. I did that and a few other things and left the computer thinking to myself that I had signed your son's book. Later, at Saturday afternoon Eucharist, I realized that I may not have done as I had planned. In looking here this morning, it appears that I did not write the things I wished to say to you a morning ago. The following is about what I would have said and the collect for August 15.
On a day when some think of the special relationship between a parent and a child, I am thinking of both you and David and of good parents you were, and are, to sweet Jason. Justin, Joshua, and Jenny are also blessed in having you. May you consciously think of the holy family of Nazareth and strive to emulate them in your own life today, and as you do, may you find comfort, joy, and peace.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God, who chose the blessed Virgin Mary to be the mother of your incarnate Son: Grant that we, who have been redeemed by his blood, may share with her the glory of your eternal kingdom; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Jason was remembered in Holy Eucharist yesterday, as he is so very often.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, August 16, 2009 7:33 AM CDT
Place your mind before the mirror of eternity! Place your soul in the brilliance of glory! And transform your entire being into the image of the Godhead Itself through contemplation.
~St. Clare Of Assisi (1194-1253)
Dear Pam,
I am thinking of you on a hot summer day. I believe the old terminology "dog days of summer" would well apply. If Jason were here, perhaps he would be at the lake.
Perhaps your family will visit a favorite ice cream stand today, or later in the week. I do not know if Jason was a fan, but most young guys are. We may go down to De Voe's later, as the flavor of the week is one of my favorites, lemon.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet son, Jason David Archer.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For St. Clare Of Assisi (Clare Offreduccio), 11 August 1253:
O God, whose blessed Son became poor that we through his poverty might be rich: Deliver us from an inordinate love of this world, that we, inspired by the devotion of your servant Clare, may serve you with singleness of heart, and attain to the riches of the age to come; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, August 11, 2009 4:27 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
I am thinking about you, remembering sweet Jason, and thinking of all of Jason's siblings. I hope all is going well.
I am not spending quite as much time on the computer, so I am not signing guest books as much. However, please feel free to contact me at any time.
It is good to see Katie's note here. I wish her all the best.
I have been humming a hymn we often sing on the Transfiguration, which is today, so I will leave it and the collect below.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
O God, who on the holy mount revealed to chosen witnesses your well-beloved Son, wonderfully transfigured, in raiment white and glistening: Mercifully grant that we, being delivered from the disquietude of this world, may by faith behold the King in his beauty; who with you, O Father, and you, O Holy Spirit, lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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Christ upon the mountain peak
stands alone in glory blazing;
let us, if we dare to speak,
with the saints and angels praise him.
Alleluia!
Trembling at his feet we saw
Moses and Elijah speaking.
All the prophets and the Law
shout through them their joyful greeting.
Alleluia!
Swift the cloud of glory came.
God proclaiming in its thunder
Jesus as his Son by name!
Nations cry aloud in wonder!
Alleluia!
This is God's beloved Son!
Law and prophets before him;
first and last and only One,
let creation now adore him!
Alleluia!
Words: Brian A. Wren (born 1936)
Music: Mowsley, Cyril Vincent Taylor (born 1907)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/c/c109.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, August 6, 2009 3:38 PM CDT
I've come here many times, but never written. I just wanted to say you all are constantly in my thoughts and prayers. I hope you all are having a fun, relaxing summer. I can hardly believe Josh has graduated and Jenny's a teenager! :)
Please keep in touch. Love to you all.
Katie
Katie (Aldridge) Mills <kealdrid@samford.edu>
Birmingham, AL - Saturday, July 11, 2009 7:38 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
I am sorry to not have wished you and your family a very Happy Fourth of July Weekend. We have had a lot of severe weather here, in southern Saratoga County for the past twelve to fourteen days, so I have not used the computer very much. I hope you, David, Justin, Joshua, and Jenny are all well and enjoying a good summer.
I continue to remember Jason in Eucharist.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Friday's:
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, July 10, 2009 9:37 AM CDT
Pam,
I still think about your family often; I'm glad to hear that Josh and Jenny are doing well. Everytime I think of Jason, I can't help but thank God that I was blessed with his friendship. Every single time, that is the reaction I have. He's an amazing person, the best I've met yet.
Thank you for opening up your house and your family for myself as well as all of Jason's other friends. We spent all our free time over there and wouldn't have changed that for anything.
I hope to see you soon, it's been far too long. I hate how life makes people busy and separates them.
I'll continue to keep your family in my prayers
Josh Sewell
Murfreesboro, TN - Monday, June 29, 2009 4:48 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
Jason was remembered Wednesday morning, in Holy Eucharist.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Wednesday (The Nativity Of John The Baptist):
Almighty God, by whose providence your servant John the Baptist was wonderfully born, and sent to prepare the way of your Son our Savior by preaching repentance: Make us so to follow his teaching and holy life, that we may truly repent according to his preaching; and, following his example, constantly speak the truth, boldly rebuke vice, and patiently suffer for the truth's sake; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, June 24, 2009 11:39 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
I am thinking of you and of Jason on a beautiful early summer morning. I hope you and your family are well.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Sharing A Summer Prayer:
May the openness that Summer brings be a gift to us-
To open the windows of our lives to other people,
To open our homes to share the hospitality of table and church.
Open our minds to revel in the beauty of nature-
The smell of newly mown grass
The morning dew on the rosebud
The scent of honeysuckle on the evening air
The open spaces offering relaxation and a change of pace.
Open our hearts to your love and may your Spirit rest with
each one of us.
~Rosemary Wass
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, June 23, 2009 9:59 AM CDT
Dear Pam and David,
I have come here tonight to let you know that I am thinking of you both on another Father's Day Weekend, with Jason in heaven. I know it cannot be any easier for you, and I am so sorry that there is not something more that I can say, or do, to help.
I am sure that David is a very good husband and father. May you both be blessed in all four of your children today and always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Some Favorite Quotes On Fatherhood:
My father gave me the greatest gift anyone could give another person, he believed in me.
~Jim Valvano
It is not flesh and blood but the heart which makes us fathers and sons.
~Johann Schiller
I don't care how poor a man is; if he has family, he's rich.
~M*A*S*H, Colonel Potter
I cannot think of any need in childhood as strong as the need for a father's protection.
~Sigmund Freud
Fathers are angels sent from heaven.
~Unknown
Father! - to God himself we cannot give a holier name.
~William Wordsworth
Sometimes the poorest man leaves his children the richest inheritance.
~Ruth E. Renkel
My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.
~Clarence Kelland
The greatest gift I ever had
Came from God; I call him Dad!
~Author Unknown
Again, God bless you. I am praying for you tonight.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, June 20, 2009 9:46 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
This is a special date in our family life. I know you have many special anniversaries as well, and I pray that you remember some of those good times with a happy heart today.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, June 19, 2009 5:36 PM CDT
Anyone can carry his burden, however hard, until nightfall. Anyone can do his work, however hard, for one day. Anyone can live sweetly, patiently, lovingly, purely till the sun goes down. And this is all that life really means.
~Robert Louis Stevenson, Scottish novelist, poet, essayist, and travel writer (1850-1894)
Dear Pam,
I saw this quote in a magazine, while waiting in an office earlier today. I thought you would like it.
I hope you and your family are doing well.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Collect For The Commemoration Of Joseph Butler, Bishop Of Durham, Theologian, 16 June 1752:
O God, who by your Holy Spirit give to some the word of wisdom, to others the word of knowledge, and to others the word of faith: We praise your Name for the gifts of grace manifested in your servant Joseph Butler, and we pray that your Church may never be destitute of such gifts; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, June 16, 2009 5:26 PM CDT
You say grace before meals. All right. But I say grace before the concert and the opera, and grace before the play and pantomime, and grace before I open a book, and grace before sketching, painting, swimming, fencing, boxing, walking, playing, dancing and grace before I dip the pen in the ink.
~Gilbert Keith Chesterton, writer (1874-1936)
Dear Pam,
Yesterday, while receiving Communion, my position along the altar rail faced the Jesus and the Children stained glass window. As I gazed upon the figure of Jesus surrounded by children, I remembered Jason, and I prayed for you. I hope, and all of Jason's loved ones, you are safe, well, and content.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your handsome son, Jason David Archer.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For The Commemoration Of G.K. Chesterton, 12 June 1936:
Almighty God, who gave to your servant Gilbert the gift of a Ready tongue and pen, and endued him with zeal to use them in your service: Mercifully grant to each of us, that we may well and truly answer anyone who asks of us a reason for the hope that is in us; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
P.S. I apologize for using the wrong names in Jason's book in my last entry. As you know, I also sign Connor Hunley's guest book regularly. In fact, I learned of Jason through Connor's mother, Rhonda. I knew I was in Jason's book, but I must have had a senior moment.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, June 12, 2009 11:35 AM CDT
Dear Rhonda,
Once again, I am thinking of sweet Connor and of you. God bless you both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
Today's Collect:
Pour out on us, O Lord, that same Spirit by which your deacon Ephrem rejoiced to proclaim in sacred song the mysteries of faith; and so gladden our hearts that we, like him, may be devoted to you alone; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, June 10, 2009 5:04 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
The birds have been singing in Clifton Park all day today, although it has rained a bit at times. Yesterday was a gorgeous day, and I attended an Ultraya picnic at night, at St. George's. It was just warm enough, but not too hot or humid, and the company and food were both wonderful. Let us give thanks for perfect days like that.
Today is St. Columba's Day. I always associate this day with the hymn, "Be Thou My Vision." I will leave a copy of the words I know best below.
God bless you always, and God bless the memory of your sweet Jason.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
Today's Collect (For Columba, Abbot of Iona and Missionary
9 June 597):
O God, who by the preaching of your blessed servant Columba caused the light of the Gospel to shine in Scotland: Grant, we pray, that, having his life and labors in remembrance, we may show our thankfulness to you by following the example of his zeal and patience; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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Be thou my vision, O Lord of my heart;
all else be nought to me, save that thou art-
thou my best thought,- by day or by night,
waking or sleeping, thy presence my light.
Be thou my wisdom, and thou my true word;
I ever with thee and thou with me, Lord;
thou my great Father; thine own may I be;
thou in my dwelling, and I one with thee.
High King of heaven, when victory is won,
may I reach heaven's joys, bright heaven's Sun!
Heart of my own heart, - whatever befall,
still be my vision, O Ruler of all.
Lyrics: Irish, ca 700; versified Mary Elizabeth Byrne (1880-1931); tr. Eleanor H. Hull (1860-1935), alt.
Music: Slane, Irish ballad melody; adapt. The Church Hymnary, 1927
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/b/b021.html
This is hymn number 488, in The Hymnal 1982.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, June 9, 2009 4:28 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
As Joshua completes his senior year, I am remembering his oldest brother, Jason, and I am thinking of all of you dear Archers. May God bless you all.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (For Boniface, Bishop, Missionary, And Martyr, 5 June 754):
Almighty God, who called your faithful servant Boniface to be a
witness and martyr in the lands of Germany and Friesland, and
by his labor and suffering raised up a people for your own
possession: Pour forth your Holy Spirit upon your Church in
every land, that by the service and sacrifice of many your holy
Name may be glorified and your kingdom enlarged; through Jesus
Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy
Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, June 5, 2009 6:03 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
I am pausing, here at my keyboard, to pray for Jason's brother, Justin, as on this day, many are remembering Justin the Martyr. My oldest son chose the name "Justin," as his Confirmation name, as he was Confirmed in early June, thought his saint interesting, and had a close friend so named. May your precious Justin be blessed this week in ways beyond his imagination.
God bless you always. You are in my prayers today as mother to both Jason and Justin and also as mother to Joshua and Jenny.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Here is a good sized piece of the first part of James Kiefer's biography of Justin Martyr, who died on 1 June 167, and the collect of the day.
While at Ephesus, Justin was impressed by the steadfastness of the Christian martyrs, and by the personality of an aged Christian man whom he met by chance while walking on the seashore. This man spoke to him about Jesus as the fulfilment of the promises made through the Jewish prophets. Justin was overwhelmed. "Straightway a flame was kindled in my soul," he writes, "and a love of the prophets and those who are friends of Christ possessed me." Justin became a Christian, but he continued to wear the cloak that was the characteristic uniform of the professional teacher of philosophy. His position was that pagan philosophy, especially Platonism, is not simply wrong, but is a partial grasp of the truth, and serves as "a schoolmaster to bring us to Christ." He engaged in debates and disputations with non-Christians of all varieties, pagans, Jews, and heretics. He opened a school of Christian philosophy and accepted students, first at Ephesus and then later at Rome. There he engaged the Cynic philosopher Crescens in debate, and soon after was arrested on the charge of practicing an anauthorized religion. (It is suggested that Crescens lost the debate and denounced Justin to the authorities out of spite.) He was tried before the Roman prefect Rusticus, refused to renounce Christianity, and was put to death by beheading along with six of his students, one of them a woman. A record of the trial, probably authentic, is preserved, known as The Acts of Justin the Martyr.
Collect:
Almighty and everlasting God, who found your martyr Justin Wandering from teacher to teacher, seeking the true God, and revealed to him the sublime wisdom of your eternal Word: Grant that all who seek you, or a deeper knowledge of you, may find and be found by you; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, June 2, 2009 8:59 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
Because May 31 fell on a Sunday this year, the church is remembering the Visitation of the Virgin Mary today. In many ways, all of us who are mothers, share in Mary's motherhood of the Holy Child. So, may we too, be blessed, as the collect says, in keeping God's word.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Father in heaven, by whose grace the virgin mother of your incarnate Son was blessed in bearing him, but still more blessed in keeping your word: Grant us who honor the exaltation of her lowliness to follow the example of her devotion to your will; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 1, 2009 12:14 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
On a windy Pentecost afternoon, I am thinking of you and remembering Jason. I read the lessons at one of our services, including a long lesson from Acts 2, with many difficult names identifying groups of ancient peoples.
I hope you are well and that you have had a good weekend.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Here's one of my favorite Pentecost hymns. Perhaps you can sing some of it today.
Refrain: Hail thee, festival day!
Blest day that art hallowed forever;
day wherein God from heaven,
shone on the world with his grace.
Lo! in the likeness of fire,
on them that await his appearing,
he whom the Lord foretold,
suddenly, swiftly, descends. Refrain
Forth from the Father he comes
with his sevenfold mystical dowry,
pouring on human souls
infinite riches of God. Refrain
Hark! in a hundred tongues
Christ's own, his chosen Apostles,
preach to a hundred tribes
Christ and his wonderful works. Refrain
Praise to the Spirit of life,
all praise to the Fount of our being,
light that dost lighten all,
life that in all dost abide. Refrain
God, who art giver of all
good gifts and lover of concord,
pour thy balm on our souls,
order our ways in thy peace. Refrain
God Almighty, who fillest
the heaven, the earth and the ocean,
guard us from harm without,
cleanse us from evil within. Refrain
Kindle our lips with his live bright coal
from the hands of the Seraph;
shine in our minds with thy light;
burn in our hearts with thy love. Refrain
Words: Venantius Fortunatus (530-609);
trans. Gabriel Gillett, 1906
Music: Salve, festa dies
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/h/h031.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 31, 2009 5:34 PM CDT
Happy Memorial Day To All Of Jason's Family, Friends, And Supporters!
Dear Pam,
I am thinking of you on a clear, pleasant Memorial Day afternoon. I hope you have had adequate time to remember, reflect, and pray during this long weekend.
Jason has been remembered in Holy Eucharist.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your handsome son, Jason David Archer.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Prayer For Our Country
Almighty God, who hast given us this good land for our heritage: We humbly beseech thee that we may always prove ourselves a people mindful of thy favor and glad to do thy will. Bless our land with honorable industry, sound learning, and pure manners. Save us from violence, discord, and confusion; from pride and arrogance, and from every evil way. Defend our liberties, and fashion into one united people the multitudes brought hither out of many kindreds and tongues. Endue with the spirit of wisdom those to whom in thy Name we entrust the authority of government, that there may be justice and peace at home, and that, through obedience to thy law, we may show forth thy praise among the nations of the earth In the time of prosperity, fill our hearts with thankfulness, and in the day of trouble, suffer not our trust in thee to fail; all which we ask through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 820
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 25, 2009 5:11 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
Thursday was the Feast of the Ascension. While I was waiting for the service to start, I was praying some of the Ascension hymns. I will leave you one I found tonight that I have never used before and one of the collects.
I remembered Jason, there, in the beauty of holiness, and I prayed for you.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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A hymn of glory let us sing,
new hymns throughout the world shall ring;
by a new way none ever trod
Christ takes his place--the throne of God!
You are a present joy, O Lord;
you will be ever our reward;
and great the light in you we see
to guide us to eternity.
O risen Christ, ascended Lord,
all praise to you let earth accord,
who are, while endless ages run,
with Father and with Spirit, One.
Words: The Venerable Bede (673-735);
trans. verses 1-2: Elizabeth Rundles Charles (1828-1896)
verse 3: Benjamin Webb (1819-1885).
as altered in The Hymnal 1982
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/a/a019.html
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An Ascension Collect:
Almighty God, whose blessed Son our Savior Jesus Christ ascended far above all heavens that he might fill all things: Mercifully give us faith to perceive that, according to his promise, he abides with his Church on earth, even to the end of the ages; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
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Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, May 22, 2009 0:37 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I am thinking of you, and remembering Jason, on a cool, spring morning. The hint of new life is in the air. May we be open, grateful, and expectant.
I am leaving you a short poem I like very much.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
On Waking
By John O'Donohue, Irish Mystic (1954-2008)
I give thanks for arriving
Safely in a new dawn,
For the gift of eyes
To see the world,
The gift of mind
To feel at home
In my life.
The waves of possibility
Breaking on the shore of dawn,
The harvest of the past
That awaits my hunger,
And all the furtherings
This new day will bring.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 18, 2009 7:14 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I thought I signed Jason's guest book last weekend and wished you a Happy Mother's Day. I wonder what happened to that. I hope you enjoyed your family that day.
Early one night this week, Andrew took me to Albany, to see thousands of tulips, in Washington Park. They were gorgeous. I hope you, too, are experiencing beauty in your life this week.
As always, I am remembering handsome Jason, with a smile in my heart.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God, whose blessed Son became poor that we through his poverty might be rich: Deliver us from an inordinate love of this world, that we, inspired by the devotion of your servant Pachomius, may serve you with singleness of heart, and attain to the riches of the age to come; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, May 14, 2009 10:37 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I am thinking of you and of Jason on a pretty spring day. We have a beautiful pink tree in our yard, which brings great joy. I have also been watching the birds. I hope you, too, have some cheerful signs of new life to enjoy.
May God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Spring Blessing
The blessing of the signs of spring be yours today:
The new life visible in the fields be a sign of new life in you,
The birds building nests be a sign of belief in the future for you,
The tiny flowers on grassy bands be a sign of the small but
significant things in your life.
May the blessing of God,
Sower of seed,
Nurturer of hope and
Gardener of harmony,
Stay with you today and always.
~Rosemary Wass
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, May 5, 2009 11:24 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I have remembered Jason, in Eucharist for Good Shepherd Sunday. May God bless you today, as you remember your son.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God, whose Son Jesus is the good shepherd of your people: Grant that when we hear his voice we may know him who calls us each by name, and follow where he leads; who, with you and the Holy Spirit, lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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The King of love my shepherd is,
whose goodness faileth never;
I nothing lack if I am his,
and he is mine for ever.
Where streams of living water flow,
my ransomed soul he leadeth,
and where the verdant pastures grow,
with food celestial feedeth.
Perverse and foolish oft I strayed,
but yet in love He sought me,
and on his shoulder gently laid,
and home, rejoicing, brought me.
In death's dark vale I fear no ill
with thee, dear Lord, beside me;
thy rod and staff my comfort still,
thy cross before to guide me.
Thou spread'st a table in my sight;
thy unction grace bestoweth;
and O what transport of delight
from thy pure chalice floweth!
And so through all the length of days
thy goodness faileth never:
Good Shepherd, may I sing thy praise
within thy house for ever.
Words: Henry Williams Baker (1821-1877), 1868
Music: St. Columba, Irish melody
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/t/t199b.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 3, 2009 3:38 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
Today is a beautiful day. I am sure it is similar to many days that Jason and Katie spent at the lake. I don't know if Jason golfed, but my golfer may go out later today, or tomorrow. I hope he can, as it was a very long winter.
I hope you, David, and all of Jason's loved ones are well and enjoying this joyous Eastertide.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (Feast Of St. Mark, A Red Letter Day):
Almighty God, who by the hand of Mark the evangelist have given To your Church the Gospel of Jesus Christ the Son of God: We thank you for this witness, and pray that we may be firmly grounded in its truth; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 25, 2009 3:18 PM CDT
Blessings To All On St. George's Day!
Dear Pam,
I am thinking of you and of your family on a very windy April afternoon. Jason was remembered in Eucharist yesterday, and I am praying for you.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, who gave to your servant George boldness to confess the Name of our Savior Jesus Christ before the rulers of this world, and courage to die for this faith: Grant that we may always be ready to give a reason for the hope that is in us, and to suffer gladly for the sake of our Lord Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
God bless us all, when we exercise courage over ourselves, in times of difficulty, and courage in faith, to witness to the Name of Jesus.
Pam, how wonderful that Jason had that courage.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, April 23, 2009 4:33 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
Once again, I am looking at Jason's website, as I do almost every day. May God bless his sweet spirit.
Since this is Poetry Month, I am trying to read at least one poem every day. Today, I have read several by John Donne, who was an attorney and a priest. From 1621 until his death in 1631, Donne served as Dean of St. Paul's Cathedral, in London. I will leave what is probably his best known poem beneath my signature.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Death, Be Not Proud (Holy Sonnet 10)
Death, be not proud, though some have called thee
Mighty and dreadful, for thou are not so;
For those whom thou think'st thou dost overthrow
Die not, poor Death, nor yet canst thou kill me.
From rest and sleep, which but thy pictures be,
Much pleasure; then from thee much more must flow,
And soonest our best men with thee do go,
Rest of their bones, and soul's delivery.
Thou'art slave to fate, chance, kings, and desperate men,
And dost with poison, war, and sickness dwell,
And poppy'or charms can make us sleep as well
And better than thy stroke; why swell'st thou then?
One short sleep past, we wake eternally,
And death shall be no more; Death, thou shalt die.
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Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 18, 2009 1:01 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
As always, I am thinking of you and of Jason. Although it has been very cold here this week, it has been sunny, and I know the kids are glad to be on vacation. If Jason were here with me, we would have gone to a movie, or two, and also gone to a new (to me) nature museum in the Albany Pine Bush. We also could have flown kites at the Clifton Commons, gone roller skating, or attended a concert. I am sure you are thinking of all you could have done with Jason this week and missing him very much.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your handsome, loving son.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (Friday In Easter Week):
Almighty Father, who gave your only Son to die for our sins and to rise for our justification: Give us grace so to put away the leaven of malice and wickedness, that we may always serve you in pureness of living and truth; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 224
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, April 17, 2009 11:33 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
Jason was remembered in Holy Eucharist this morning. I also prayed for you.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God, whose blessed Son made himself known to his disciples in the breaking of bread: Open the eyes of our faith, that we may behold him in all his redeeming work; who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 223
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, April 15, 2009 4:44 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
As we continue Easter Week, I am thinking of you and remembering sweet Jason. I hope you enjoyed a great Easter dinner, after attending an uplifting service.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
O God, who by the glorious resurrection of your Son Jesus Christ destroyed death and brought life and immortality to light: Grant that we, who have been raised with him, may abide in his presence and rejoice in the hope of eternal glory; through Jesus Christ our Lord, to whom, with you and the Holy Spirit, be dominion and praise for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 223
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, April 14, 2009 5:07 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I am thinking of you on Easter Monday and remembering Jason.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Grant, we pray, Almighty God, that we who celebrate with awe the Paschal feast may be found worthy to attain to everlasting joys; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, April 13, 2009 3:07 PM CDT
Easter Joy And Blessings To All!
Dear Pam,
Jason has been remembered in Easter Eucharist.
I hope you are having a good day. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
God bless you always, and God bless all of Jason's friends and loved ones.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, who through your only-begotten Son Jesus Christ overcame death and opened to us the gate of everlasting life: Grant that we, who celebrate with joy the day of the Lord's resurrection, may be raised from the death of sin by your life-giving Spirit; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
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Jesus Christ is risen today, Alleluia!
our triumphant holy day, Alleluia!
who did once upon the cross, Alleluia!
suffer to redeem our loss. Alleluia!
Hymns of praise then let us sing, Alleluia!
unto Christ, our heavenly King, Alleluia!
who endured the cross and grave, Alleluia!
sinners to redeem and save. Alleluia!
But the pains which he endured, Alleluia!
our salvation have procured, Alleluia!
now above the sky he's King, Alleluia!
where the angels ever sing. Alleluia!
Sing we to our God above, Alleluia!
praise eternal as his love, Alleluia!
praise him, all ye heavenly host, Alleluia!
Father, Son, and Holy Ghost. Alleluia!
Words: Compleat Psalmodist, 1749
Stanza 4, Charles Wesley (1707-1788)
Music: Easter Hymn, from Lyra Davidica, 11708; adapt. The Compleat Psalmodist, 1749
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/j/j038.html
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Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 12, 2009 12:55 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I am thinking of you, and of all of Jason's family, on this day of holy resting.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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O Sorrow Deep!
O sorrow deep! Who would not weep
with heartfelt pain and sighing!
God the Father's only Son
in the tomb is lying.
The Paschal Lamb, like Isaac's ram,
in blood was offered for us,
pouring out the life that he
might to life restore us.
Blest shall they be eternally
who ponder in their weeping
that the glorious Prince of Life
should in death be sleeping.
O Jesus blest, my help and rest,
who tears I pray thee, hear me:
now, and even unto death,
dearest Lord, be near me.
Words: St. 1, Friedrich von Spee (1591-1635); tr. Charles Winfred Douglas (1867-1944). Sts. 2-3, James Waring McCrady (b. 1938). St. 4, Johann Rist (1607-1667); tr. Charles Winfred Douglas (1867-1944)
Music: O Traurigkeit
The Hymnal 1982, #173
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/o/o594.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 11, 2009 11:30 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
This has been a very busy week. For years, I have tried to attend Eucharist daily during Holy Week. However, that, in itself, takes time, as sometimes I cannot be free to attend when services are scheduled in my own parish, so I drive to another place. Yesterday, I attended Eucharist, Stations of the Cross, and Tenebrae, and I thought of Jason and of you, as I went about my day. I will continue to remember you, as this Holy Week continues to unfold.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (Maundy Thursday):
Almighty Father, whose dear Son, on the night before he suffered, instituted the Sacrament of his Body and Blood: Mercifully grant that we may receive it thankfully in remembrance of Jesus Christ our Lord, who in these holy mysteries gives us a pledge of eternal life; and who now lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, April 9, 2009 11:33 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I continue to think about your son during this most holy week. God bless Jason, and God bless you, David, and Jason's siblings.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For The Wednesday In Holy Week:
Lord God, whose blessed Son our Savior gave his body to be whipped and his face to be spit upon: Give us grace to accept joyfully the sufferings of the present time, confident of the glory that shall be revealed; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 220
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, April 8, 2009 3:55 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
Jason was remembered this morning in Holy Eucharist, as he will be remembered throughout this Holy Week. May God bless Jason's sweet spirit.
As I am thinking about you, Pam, I cannot help but think of the value of music in the life of faith. One of my favorite saints, Augustine of Hippo, said, "He who sings prays twice." Think about it.
You mentioned not hearing Jason's music often on the radio. Can you make up a tape of some of his favorite pieces to listen to in your car, or in your room?
Beneath my signature, I am leaving a hymn, which speaks of music. Perhaps you will sing it with me today.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
The Collect For The Monday In Holy Week, The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 220
If this looks familiar, it is, as we also use this collect every Friday. (It also appears in the Prayer Book, on page 99, as part of Morning Prayer.)
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When in our music God is glorified,
and adoration leaves no room for pride,
it is as though the whole creation cried
Alleluia!
How often, making music, we have found
a new dimension in the world of sound,
as worship moved us to a more profound
Alleluia!
So has the Church, in liturgy and song,
in faith and love, through centuries of wrong,
borne witness to the truth in every tongue,
Alleluia!
And did not Jesus sing a psalm that night
when utmost evil strove against the Light?
Then let us sing, for whom he won the fight,
Alleluia!
Let every instrument be tuned for praise!
Let all rejoice who have a voice to raise!
And may God give us faith to sing always
Alleluia! Amen.
Words: Fred Pratt Green (b.1903)
Music: Engelberg, Charles Villiers Stanford (1852-1924)
Here it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/w/w301.html
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, April 6, 2009 1:05 PM CDT
~Palm Sunday Blessings To All!
Dear Pam,
As Andrew and I enjoyed spinach omelets on a cold Palm Sunday, I thought of my CaringBridge friends. Jason will be remembered in many services this week.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For The Sunday Of The Passion (Palm Sunday):
Almighty and everliving God, in your tender love for the human race you sent your Son our Savior Jesus Christ to take upon him our nature, and to suffer death upon the cross, giving us the example of his great humility: Mercifully grant that we may walk in the way of his suffering, and also share in his resurrection; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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Traditional Palm Sunday Processional Hymn:
Refrain:
All glory, laud, and honor
to thee, Redeemer, King!
to whom the lips of children
made sweet hosannas ring.
Thou art the King of Israel,
thou David's royal Son,
who in the Lord's Name comest,
the King and Blessed One. Refrain
The company of angels
are praising thee on high;
and mortal men and all things
created make reply. Refrain
The people of the Hebrews
with palms before thee went;
our praise and prayer and anthems
before thee we present. Refrain
To thee before thy passion
they sang their hymns of praise;
to thee, now high exalted,
our melody we raise. Refrain
Thou didst accept their praises;
accept the prayers we bring,
who in all good delightest,
thou good and gracious King. Refrain
Words: Theodulph of Orleans (ca. 750-821), ca. 820
Trans. John Mason Neale (1818-1866), 1854,
as altered in Hymns Ancient and Modern
Music: St. Theodulph (Valet will ich dir geben),
(Melchior Teschner, 1584-1635, arranged William Henry Monk, 1823-1889)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/a/a108.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 5, 2009 4:12 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
I just want you to know that I am thinking of you and of sweet Jason. I appreciate the update on the home page, and the new color and border look great.
Yesterday I had errands to do in the Oneonta area. It was shocking to learn of the shootings in Binghamton, which is only an hour from my hometown. Immediately, I began praying for all the people involved, and I prayed as the news unfolded throughout the day and the evening. My thoughts also included people I know who now live in Binghamton, churches I know in Binghamton, and memories of many happy days I have spent shopping and attending cultural events in Binghamton. Much of the world now knows Binghamton as a place of violence, but I know it as a good place. As you read this, pause and pray.
Congratulations to Jenny on becoming fourteen. Please do not worry that she has forgotten Jason. When I was about eight, I knew two little girls, who died of leukemia. I have not forgotten either one of them, and they were merely acquaintances (the baby sister of a classmate and the daughter of my father's friend). Jenny will remember her brother, and even if she does not appear to be connected to him during her teenage years, she is deeply connected.
Be of good cheer. Christ has overcome the world.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, by the hand of Moses your servant you led your people out of slavery, and made them free at last; Grant that your Church, following the example of your prophet Martin Luther King, may resist oppression in the name of your love, and may secure for all your children the blessed liberty of the Gospel of Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 4, 2009 9:49 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I am thinking of you, and of sweet Jason, on a cold late March day. I hope you, David, and Jason's siblings are well.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (Monday in the Fourth Week of Lent):
O Lord our God, in your Holy Sacraments you have given us a foretaste of the good things of your kingdom: Direct us, we pray, in the way that leads to eternal life, that we may come to appear before you in that place of light where you dwell forever with your saints; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, March 23, 2009 11:05 AM CDT
Dear Archer Family,
I am continuing to think of you. I am often here, visiting Jason's book, when I do not sign, or cannot think of anything to say.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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God in All
He inspires all.
He gives life to all.
He dominates all.
He supports all.
He lights the light of the sun.
He furnishes the light of the night.
He has made springs in dry land.
He is the God of heaven and earth,
of sea and rivers
of sun, moon, and stars,
of the lofty mountain and the lowly valley,
the God above heaven,
and in heaven,
and under heaven.
~St. Patrick, in The Wisdom of the Celts, Compiled by David Adam
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, March 17, 2009 10:28 AM CDT
Happy St. Patrick's Day To All!
Dear Pam,
It has been a while since I have visited Jason's website. In general, I am not signing guest books as often as I once did, but you know, I will never forget Jason. He touched me, as he touched many others.
I think it is wonderful that you have had two blood drives to honor Jason and that so much blood has been collected. Indeed, many lives have been saved, and the quality of other lives have been improved because of your dedication and generosity. I know Jason is proud of you, David, and his church family for all the work involved and for the fruit produced by those efforts.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, who in your providence chose your servant Patrick to be the apostle of the Irish people, to bring those who were wandering in darkness and error to the true light and knowledge of you: Grant us so to walk in that light, that we may come at last to the light of everlasting life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, March 16, 2009 11:30 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
Thank you so much for sharing your son’s life with us. I am so sorry you had to endure such a loss. I am honored to dedicate a day to him for our Transformation. My husband is doing this with me, and we will dedicate tomorrow, Monday, February 9, 2009 in Honor of your son Jason.
With love and light,
Kateri
Kateri
Black River, NY USA - Sunday, February 8, 2009 10:53 PM CST
Dear Pam,
I was just looking at Jason's years. It does not seem possibly that it has been almost three and a half years since his departure. You will never be the same, but I hope that you, David, and Jason's siblings are experiencing the deep peace that is from God, in Christ, in each life. If you have not read Madeleine L'Engle, I recommend her work to you.
Today's collect speaks of "pure and steadfast faith." That is what Jason had. It was a gift, and many who knew Jason, and many who knew about him, are so glad that Jason accepted the gift of faith, lived it, and shared it.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Today's Collect:
Almighty and everlasting God, you choose those whom the world deems powerless to put the powerful to shame: Grant us so to cherish the memory of your youthful martyr Agnes, that we may share her pure and steadfast faith in you; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, January 21, 2009 12:19 AM CST
Dear Pam,
For a couple of days, I have been thinking about a prayer of St. Ambrose. I will leave it here, so it can help you, and Jason's friends, too.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet son, Jason David Archer.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Lord Jesus Christ, you are for me medicine when I am sick; you are my strength when I need help; you are my life when I fear death; you are the way when I long for heaven; you are light when all is dark; you are my food when I need nourishment.
~St. Ambrose of Milan (c.337-397)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, January 15, 2009 2:32 PM CST
In trying to cope with the loss of my son who died 9 months ago of colon rectal cancer I came across your beautiful website.
My Andrew never made it to his 24th birthday.
I hope I have the strength to get through this...your tribute to you son is wonderful
Leslie <lllevine24@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, January 11, 2009 3:36 PM CST
Glad Epiphany To All!
Dear Pam,
On this holy day, I am thinking of you, and of sweet Jason. We are having nasty weather, and I am not feeling my best, so I did not get out to Eucharist tonight. I am contenting myself singing some of my favorite Epiphany hymns. I will include the John Mason Neale hymn that not many people know, but which is probably my favorite. Tony Barrand and John Roberts, who study and perform traditional music, are the ones that introduced it to me. It is on a couple of their Nowell Sing We Clear albums and also on a Pint and Dale recording.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Over the Hill and Over the Dale
by John Mason Neale
Over the hill and over the dale
Came three kings together
Caring naught for snow and hail
Cold and wind and weather
Now on Persia’s sandy plane
Now where Tigris swells with rain
They their camels tether
Now through Syrian lands they go
Now through Moab faint and slow
Now o’r Edam’s heather.
Over the hill and over the dale
Each king bears a present
Wise men go a child to hale
Monarchs seek a peasant
And in front a star proceeds
Over rocks and rivers leads
Shines with beams incessant
Therefore onward, onward still
Ford the stream and climb the hill
Love makes all things pleasant.
He is God ye go to meet
Therefore incense proffer
He is king ye go to greet
Gold is in your coffer
Also man he comes to share
Every woe that man can bear
Tempter, railer, scoffer
Therefore now against the day
In the grave when him they lay
Myrrh ye also offer.
Over the hill and over the dale,
Riding east together
Caring naught for snow and hail,
Naught for wind and weather
Warned by God from Herod’s door,
Each king turns for home once more
Hearts and footsteps lighter,
Now behind them shines the star
Which they followed from afar,
Shining ever brighter.
Remember, each time we encounter the living Christ, we continue with hearts and footsteps lighter.
Today's Collect:
O God, by the leading of a star you manifested your only Son to the peoples of the earth: Lead us, who know you now by faith, to your presence, where we may see your glory face to face; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, January 6, 2009 7:10 PM CST
I just finished reading your son's story here on caringbridge~ He seemed like a very fine young man and I'm so sorry for your loss~
Garnette Hampton
Santa Rosa, CA USA - Friday, January 2, 2009 11:38 PM CST
Happy New Year To All!
Dear Pam,
Today, as we look upon the holy event of the naming of our Lord, Jesus Christ, may you be blessed in thinking of the birth and naming of your son, Jason David Archer. Perhaps someday, you will write to me about those events. I would love to hear about them.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Eternal Father, who gave to your incarnate Son the holy name of
Jesus to be the sign of our salvation: Plant in every heart, we
pray, the love of him who is the Savior of the world, our Lord
Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy
Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, January 1, 2009 3:39 PM CST
Dear Pam,
I am thinking of you, David, and all of sweet Jason's family, on New Year's Eve.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, December 31, 2008 8:47 PM CST
Dear Pam,
I hope you, David, and the children are having a joyous Christmas weekend. Perhaps, in a few days, you can send an email and let me know how you all are and how you have been celebrating the Nativity.
Today is the Feast of St. Stephen the Protomartyr. Stephen was on my list of boys' names. I have known many fine people named for this deacon and martyr.
God bless you, and of course, God bless your sweet son, Jason.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
We give you thanks, O Lord of glory, for the example of the first martyr Stephen, who looked up to heaven and prayed for his persecutors to your Son Jesus Christ, who stands at your right hand; where he lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
Perhaps you can take a minute to sing this hymn with me.
By all your saints still striving, for all your saints at rest,
Your holy Name, O Jesus. for evermore be blessed.
You rose, our King victorious, that they might wear the crown
And ever shine in splendor reflected from your throne.
All praise, O Lord, for Stephen who, martyred saw you stand
To help in times of torment, to plead at God's right hand.
Like you, our suffering Savior, his enemies he blessed,
With "Lord, receive my spirit," his faith, in death, confessed.
Then let us praise the Father and worship God the Son
And sing to God the Spirit, eternal Three in One,
Till all the ransomed number who stand before the throne
Ascribe all power and glory and praise to God alone.
Words: Horatio Bolton Nelson (1823-1913); ver. Hymnal, 1982
Music: King's Lynn, English melody; adapt. Ralph Vaughan Williams (1872-1958)
or Nyland, Finnish folk melody; adapt. David Evans (1874-1948)
Hear Nyland at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/b/b209a.html
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, December 26, 2008 11:11 AM CST
Merry Christmas! We just wanted to let you know we were thinking about Jason and your family today. Praying your Chistmas was blessed!
The Garcia Family,
Frank, Renee, Kassidy, Kameron, Kennedy & Keeghan
http://www.myspecialks.com
http://www.carepages.com/carepages/kennedygarcia
Renee Garcia <CAmommy2KJ@aol.com>
Clarksville, TN - Thursday, December 25, 2008 8:42 PM CST
A Christmas Prayer
by Robert Louis Stevenson
Loving Father,
Help us remember the birth of Jesus,
that we may share in the song of the angels,
the gladness of the shepherds,
and worship of the wise men.
Close the door of hate
and open the door of love all over the world.
Let kindness come with every gift
and good desires with every greeting.
Deliver us from evil by the blessing
which Christ brings,
and teach us to be merry with clear hearts.
May the Christmas morning
make us happy to be thy children,
and Christmas evening bring us to our beds
with grateful thoughts,
forgiving and forgiven,
for Jesus' sake.
Amen.
God bless you dear Archer family. I am thinking of you tonight.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, December 24, 2008 3:23 PM CST
Christmas Blessings To All!
Dear Pam,
May your worship tonight, or tomorrow, be filled with joy and praise. I am thinking of you, and of sweet Jason, at this holy time of the year.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
LORD JESUS, as we contemplate your en-flesh-ment,
so that you could be like us in all ways but sin:
give us hearts filled with faith and gratitude,
that in this Christ-Mass we make experience Your redeeming love.
Amen.
~A Prayer By Daniel William Herzog
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, December 24, 2008 9:47 AM CST
Dear Pam,
Today was another blustery December day. We have fresh snow, but, due to the wind, I did not see, or hear, any children playing outside, after school.
We marked the Feast of St. Thomas, the Apostle, today. (It is normally celebrated on December 21, and is often the day of winter ordinations, but it was transferred, due to Sunday, which is always a Feast of Our Lord.) I will leave the collect and a hymn below.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless sweet Jason.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty and everliving God, who strengthened your apostle Thomas With sure and certain faith in your Son's resurrection: Grant us so perfectly and without doubt to believe in Jesus Christ, our Lord and our God, that our faith may never be found wanting in your sight; through him who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
By all your saints still striving, for all your saints at rest,
Your holy Name, O Jesus. for evermore be blessed.
You rose, our King victorious, that they might wear the crown
And ever shine in splendor reflected from your throne.
All praise, O Lord, for Thomas whose short-lived doubtings prove
Your perfect two-fold nature, the depth of your true love.
To all who live with questions a steadfast faith afford;
And grant us grace to know you, made flesh, yet God and Lord.
Then let us praise the Father and worship God the Son
And sing to God the Spirit, eternal Three in One,
Till all the ransomed number who stand before the throne
Ascribe all power and glory and praise to God alone.
Words: Horatio Bolton Nelson (1823-1913); ver. Hymnal, 1982
Music: King's Lynn, English melody; adapt. Ralph Vaughan Williams (1872-1958)
or Nyland, Finnish folk melody; adapt. David Evans (1874-1948)
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, December 22, 2008 11:30 PM CST
Dear Pam and David,
I apologize for not leaving a note, here, in Jason's guest book, on his birthday, on December 16. We had a severe ice storm, with long power outages, here in Northeasten New York and in most of New England, starting on December 11. We did not get ours back until December 14, but Andrew was out a couple of more days, at both of his work campuses. (And we did better than many others.)
We are having a snowstorm, as I write, and we had a big one on Friday. We are expecting more on Christmas Eve and on St. Stephen's Day.
A dear young man in our family shares Jason's birthday. Erik, called Rick, in the family, is married, and he and his wife have a precious little girl and another child on the way. They go to church and honor God in their home and in their life situations, as I know Jason would have.
I hope you are well, safe, and content. I also hope Jason's blood drive was a huge success.
God bless you both, and God bless all of your family.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (one of my favorites):
Purify our conscience, Almighty God, by your daily visitation, that your Son Jesus Christ, at his coming, may find in us a mansion prepared for himself; who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, December 21, 2008 3:51 PM CST
hi henry and helen just wodering how helen was doing im having trouble getting into the email
maria guererro <haileyholt@hotmail.com>
sandy, ut usa - Friday, December 19, 2008 2:08 PM CST
David and Pam - I'm retyping what I already wrote... I have just 'relived' my son's experience in your words and journal. I can only say that like your son Jason, my son Ken died as a strong believer and is in heaven with family that has gone on before and waiting for the rest of us.
It has been 10 years for us and while the wound has healed, the scar remains. Take heart my friends - God IS faithful to his promises... the wound will heal - especially as you continue to touch the lives of others who are experiencing what you (and we) did.
I refuse to say "I know how you feel" because I don't. I know how _I_ feel and I know you hurt... because I do. But thanks for encouraging me - even now, after 10 years.
Bill Smith (my personal aka)
Laguna Niguel, CA USA - Friday, December 12, 2008 11:58 AM CST
Dear Pam,
During this cold week of lighting the "love" candle in our Advent wreaths, I am thinking of you and your son, who was full of God's love.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
People, Look East
Text By Eleanor Farjeon
People, look East. The time is near
Of the crowning of the year.
Make your house fair as you are able,
Trim the hearth and set the table.
People, look East and sing today:
Love, the guest, is on the way.
Furrows, be glad. Though earth is bare,
One more seed is planted there:
Give up your strength the seed to nourish,
That in course the flower may flourish.
People, look East and sing today:
Love, the rose, is on the way.
Birds, though you long have ceased to build,
Guard the nest that must be filled.
Even the hour when wings are frozen
God for fledging time has chosen.
People, look East and sing today:
Love, the bird, is on the way.
Stars, keep the watch. When night is dim
One more light the bowl shall brim,
Shining beyond the frosty weather,
Bright as sun and moon together.
People, look East and sing today:
Love, the star, is on the way.
Angels, announce with shouts of mirth
Christ who brings new life to earth.
Set every peak and valley humming
With the word, the Lord is coming.
People, look East and sing today:
Love, the Lord, is on the way.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, December 9, 2008 8:29 AM CST
Pam,
I hope the blood drive collects hundreds of units of the gift of life. And may the upcoming holiday season bring you the blessings you have surely earned.
Sincerely,
Sara Coulson
Troy (near St. Louis, MO), IL - Tuesday, December 2, 2008 10:56 AM CST
Happy Thanksgiving, To All!
Dear Pam and David,
I am thinking of you, and of all of Jason's other loved ones, on this great feast day. God bless you all.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Now thank we all our God,
with heart and hands and voices,
who wondrous things hath done,
in whom his world rejoices;
who from our mother's arms
hath blessed us on our way
with countless gifts of love,
and still is ours today.
O may this bounteous God
through all our life be near us,
with ever-joyful hearts
and blessèd peace to cheer us;
and keep us in his grace,
and guide us when perplexed,
and free us from all ills
in this world and the next.
All praise and thanks to God
the Father now be given,
the Son, and Holy Ghost,
supreme in highest heaven,
the one eternal God,
whom earth and heaven adore;
for thus it was, is now,
and shall be evermore.
Words: Martin Rinkart (1586-1649), 1636
trans. Catherine Winkworth (1827-1878), 1858
Music: Nun danket alle Gott (later form of melody by Johann Crüger, 1598-1662)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/n/n139.html
Gratefully. Thankfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, November 27, 2008 11:33 AM CST
Dear Pam,
This week, two saints named Andrew are celebrated. One is Andrew Dung-Lac, a Vietnamese martyr, and the other is St. Andrew the Apostle, for whom my son was named. As we go through this week of thanks giving, let us name to God all those who have gone on before us, including those saints with a capital letter, who have become our friends, and those saints, including Jason, that we have known and loved on earth.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet son, Jason David Archer.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, November 25, 2008 5:27 PM CST
Still checking in, every now and then. God bless!
Cindy Wright
Tennessee, - Tuesday, November 25, 2008 10:14 AM CST
Dear Pam and David,
I was glad to see that you have updated Jason's journal. I also like the holly border you have given to Jason's homepage. I do think of many CaringBridge kids often, and I think of their parents and other family members, as well. I remember Jason beneath the Jesus and the Children window, in Eucharist.
I have not been signing books as often as I once did, but I will never forget Jason and the good life he lived, as your son, and as a wonderful Christian young man. I wish I had something to say about why Jason had to leave you so soon, but I do not. Sometimes my own failures, problems, and shortcomings are all too real. Thankfully, we have a blessed hope, in Christ, and someday, all shall be well.
I was glad to read that Katie has married. I am sure she will always remember Jason fondly, and maybe someday, she and her husband will be telling little ones of their own about good friends from their past, with Jason being one of the most dear.
My thoughts and prayers are with you tonight.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Here is a thought from my files that seems important to share tonight.
The pilgrims made seven times more graves than huts. Nevertheless, they set aside a day of thanksgiving.
~H. W. Westermayer
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, November 24, 2008 9:48 PM CST
Dear Pam,
I am thinking of you, David, and all of your family, even though I am not signing guest books as much as I once did. Jason was remembered in All Saints services on Saturday and on Sunday. May God bless his sweet spirit.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Remember your servant, Jason, O Lord, according to the favor which you bear to your people; and grant that, increasing in knowledge and love of you, he may go from strength to strength in the life of perfect service in your heavenly kingdom; through Jesus Christ our Lord.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, November 6, 2008 8:47 PM CST
Hi Pam!
Lisa Lowrey, Kambryn's mom, and I have set up a Vanderbilt Children's Hemonc Forum for our families, past and present, to get together and chat. Our hope is that we can have a place for families going through active treatment to get to know each other... families whose kids are done with treatment can talk about what's next and families with angels to connect for friendship and support. We also hope to start raising awareness for Childhood Cancer here in Middle Tennessee as well as help the families going through active treatment. Basically this is one solid place to connect and hopefully help find a cure for this horrible cancer that has drawn our families together. Check it out and let us know what you think. If you have any ideas or questions we would love to hear them! Also, please feel free to pass this info along to other Vanderbilt families... I know I have missed several, so the more we get the word out the better the forum will be! We hope to see you over there!
Vanderbilt Hemonc Heroes!
Renee & Kennedy
www.carepages.com/carepages/kennedygarcia
www.myspecialks.com
Renee Garcia <CAmommy2KJ@aol.com>
Clarksville, TN - Saturday, October 25, 2008 3:15 PM CDT
Thinking of you and your family. God Bless, Love, Ellen
http://www.caringbridge.org/ma/seanhanson
Ellen Hanson <ehanson89@aol.com>
Cape Cod, Ma United States - Saturday, October 18, 2008 5:35 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
On Friday afternoon, I hope you are at the beginning of a good weekend. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Lord Jesus Christ, you stretched out your arms of love on
the hard wood of the cross that everyone might come within
the reach of your saving embrace: So clothe us in your Spirit
that we, reaching forth our hands in love, may bring those
who do not know you to the knowledge and love of you; for
the honor of your Name. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 101
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, October 3, 2008 2:06 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
Earlier this week, many people of faith marked the anniversary of the death of Henri Nouwen. I will leave you one of my favorite Nouwen quotes.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Real prayer penetrates to the marrow of the soul and leaves nothing untouched. The prayer of the heart is prayer that does not allow us to limit our relationship with God to interesting words or pious emotion...In our hearts we come to see ourselves as sinners embraced by the mercy of God. Thus the prayer of the heart is the prayer of truth.
~Henri J.M. Nouwen (1932-1996)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, September 24, 2008 11:12 AM CDT
Hello! Im a grandma to a 1 year old who was diagnosed with rhabdo when she was 4 months old. in fact we just got back from scans,mri and chemo.Somehow i came across your story.Tell Jason he may never discover the reason "why" him,but I beleive these kids go threw what they do for some unforseen reason.Tell him I dont know him,but hes special.Stay courageous and strong . Peace and love to you all.
Lisa Hendershot <thewoods2000@hotmail.com>
Mn. us - Tuesday, September 23, 2008 4:50 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
Jason has been remembered in Holy Eucharist once again. I always think of Jason, when I am in church, and I always pray for you. This time, I also made the focus of my prayer, throughout the service, be for the special intention you shared with me by recent email. It takes courage to share as you did, and I appreciate the confidence that you placed in me. I only wish we lived closer, so I could be a personal prayer partner with you during these challenges.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (One Of My Favorites):
Grant us, Lord, not to be anxious about earthly things, but to love things heavenly; and even now, while we are placed among things that are passing away, to hold fast to those that shall endure; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, September 21, 2008 2:26 PM CDT
The soul is healed by being with children.
~Fyodor Dostoyevsky, novelist (1821-1881)
Dear Pam,
The thought above was in my email today. I know you will never stop missing Jason, but I hope you are enjoying his siblings, and other children, and letting their laughter and enthusiasm heal you.
God bless you and David. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For The Feast Of Ninian Of Galloway,
Bishop, Missionary To Scotland, 16 September 430:
O God, who by the preaching of your blessed servant and bishop Ninian caused the light of the Gospel to shine in the land of Britain: Grant, we pray, that, having his life and labors in remembrance, we may show our thankfulness by following the example of his zeal and patience; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, September 16, 2008 12:09 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
On Patriot's Day, I have been thinking of a man from my hometown, who lost his life, at the World Trade Center, and of the CaringBridge children and youth, whose guest books I sign. May God bless them all, and may God comfort their friends and families.
One of my friends sent me a Patriot's Day card. On it she included a prayer from The Book of Common Prayer, which I will include here. In the prayer, the word "catholic" refers to the whole of Christ's Church.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
O God, whose days are without end, and whose mercies cannot be numbered: Make us, we pray, deeply aware of the shortness and uncertainty of human life; and let your Holy Spirit lead us in holiness and righteousness all our days; that, when we shall have served you in our generation, we may be gathered to our ancestors, having the testimony of a good conscience, in the communion of the Catholic Church, in the confidence of a certain faith, in the comfort of a religious and holy hope, in favor with you, our God, and in perfect charity with the world. All this we ask through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 504
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, September 11, 2008 11:58 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
My thoughts are with you on another Friday morning. May we all, "walking in the way of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and peace," today and every day.
Since today is Mother Teresa's eleventh anniversary, I will leave her daily prayer below.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Dear Jesus, help me to spread Thy fragrance everywhere I go. Flood my soul with Thy spirit and love. Penetrate and possess my whole being so utterly that all my life may only be a radiance of Thine.
~Mother Teresa's Daily Prayer, by Cardinal Newman
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, September 5, 2008 12:38 AM CDT
Happy Labor Day Weekend, Archer Family!
Dear Pam,
This is just a short note to let you know that I am thinking of you, and of Jason, during this holiday period.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, August 29, 2008 11:06 AM CDT
Of this I am certain, that no one has ever died who was not destined to die some time. Now the end of life puts the longest life on a par with the shortest... And of what consequence is it what kind of death puts an end to life, since he who has died once is not forced to go through the same ordeal a second time? They, then, who are destined to die, need not be careful to inquire what death they are to die, but into what place death will usher them.
~St. Augustine of Hippo (354-430)
Feast Day: August 28
Dear Pam,
I hope these words, from St. Augustine of Hippo, will be comforting and strengthening to you today, as you think of Jason, and others, who have gone before you. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Lord God, the light of the minds that know you, the life of the souls that love you, and the strength of the hearts that serve you: Help us, following the example of your servant Augustine of Hippo, so to know you that we may truly love you, and so to love you that we may fully serve you, whom to serve is perfect freedom; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, August 28, 2008 11:12 AM CDT
Dear Pam, David, and All,
I have thought of you, and of Jason, many times on this bittersweet anniversary. God bless you all.
If there is anything I can do for you, please let me know.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
O God, whose beloved Son took children into his arms and blessed them: Give us grace to entrust Jason to your never-failing care and love, and bring us all to your heavenly kingdom; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, page 494
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, August 25, 2008 11:24 PM CDT
Dear Archer Family,
My thoughts are of you today on the 3rd anniversary of your precious son entering God's loving arms. Know you are daily in our prayers.
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Monday, August 25, 2008 9:55 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
Blessings to you on a beautiful Sunday afternoon. I am thinking of you, Jason, and all of your loved ones.
I have lit a candle for Jason, for his third year anniversary, at Barbara Crafton's Geranium Farm.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Grant, O merciful God, that your Church, being gathered together in unity by your Holy Spirit, may show forth your power among all peoples, to the glory of your Name; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 232
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, August 24, 2008 2:35 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
Our cousin, Jennifer's oldest boy, Liam, is six today. It does not seem possible. Where does all the time go?
I hope you are doing well. You, and all of your loved ones, are in my thoughts and prayers.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Saturday, August 23, 2008 9:18 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
I am thinking abut you today and remembering sweet Jason. May God bless you and all of your family.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Collect For Fridays:
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, August 22, 2008 2:06 PM CDT
Dear Pam and David,
I am thinking of you, and of your family, as Jason's third anniversary approaches. May the peace and hope of Christ be with you all.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, who gave your servant Blaise Pascal a great intellect, that he might explore the mysteries of your creation, and who kindled in his heart a love for you and a devotion to your service: Mercifully give us your servants, according to our various callings, gifts of excellence in body, mind, and will, and the grace to use them diligently and to your glory, through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, August 21, 2008 1:52 PM CDT
May the Lord show his wonderful mercy and love and send me to somebody who I can help that find Jesus and teach the bibles wonderful the world and pray and comfort and heal,thanks adn bless and hope,pray,keijo sweden
keijo <keijo.leppioja@hotmail.com>
sweden - Wednesday, August 20, 2008 6:07 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I just wanted to say a quick "Hello!" to you and to remind you that I am praying for you and for all of your family. God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, who called your servant Helena to an earthly throne so that she might advance your heavenly kingdom, and filled her with zeal for your Church and love for your people; Grant to us your people that we may be fruitful in good works, and steadfast in our faith in you, and finally by your mercy may attain everlasting life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, August 19, 2008 3:09 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
On a day when many think of mothers, in honor of St. Mary, I am thinking of you, of Jason, and of Jason's grandmothers. May God bless you all.
I have just studied the picture of Jason and Katie, taken at the cottage, three years ago. It is hard to believe that we will be marking his third anniversary in ten days.
I hope you are having a safe and happy summer. Please let me know how you are doing, when you can.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Collect For The Feast Of St. Mary:
O God, who have taken to yourself the blessed Virgin Mary, mother of your incarnate Son: Grant that we, who have been redeemed by his blood, may share with her the glory of your eternal kingdom; through your Son Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Also see the second verse below, a tribute to the mother of our Lord.
Ye watchers and ye holy ones,
bright seraphs, cherubim, and thrones,
raise the glad strain,
Alleluia!
Cry out, dominions, princedoms, powers,
virtues, archangels, angels' choirs,
Refrain:
Alleluia! alleluia! alleluia!
Alleluia! alleluia!
O higher than the cherubim,
more glorious than the seraphim,
lead their praises,
Alleluia!
Thou bearer of the eternal Word,
most gracious, magnify the Lord, Refrain
Respond, ye souls in endless rest,
ye patriarchs and prophets blest,
Alleluia,
alleluia!
Ye holy twelve, ye martyrs strong,
all saints triumphant, raise the song, Refrain
O friends, in gladness let us sing,
supernal anthems echoing,
Alleluia,
alleluia!
To God the Father, God the Son,
and God the Spirit, Three in One, Refrain
Words: Athelstan Riley (1858-1945), 1906
Music: Lasst uns erfreuen (Geistliche Catholische Kirchengeäng, Cologne, 1623)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/y/y023.html
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, August 15, 2008 3:42 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
I am not signing guest books as much as I once did, but I am sorry to realize that it has been over a month since I have signed dear Jason's book. We are busy with several summer projects, but we are well. I hope you are in health, too. When you can, please update Jason's site, or send me an email.
At present, three of my friends are battling breast cancer, and two of my friends are struggling with other forms of cancer. One of the women is one of my dearest and longest friends. As you know, much prayer and energy goes into to helping in whatever way one can.
I will be reading in church this weekend. While there, I will remember Jason beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Jason.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For This Weekend:
Grant to us, Lord, we pray, the spirit to think and do always those things that are right, that we, who cannot exist without you, may by you be enabled to live according to your will; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, August 9, 2008 11:48 AM CDT
Happy Fourth Of July To All!
Dear Pam,
I am thinking of you, of Jason, and of all of Jason's family, fans and supporters, on this Independence Day. May God bless you all.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
The Collect For Independence Day:
Lord God Almighty, in whose Name the founders of this country won liberty for themselves and for us, and lit the torch of freedom for nations then unborn: Grant that we and all the people of this land may have grace to maintain our liberties in righteousness and peace; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 242
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, July 4, 2008 4:49 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
How the time from Friday to Friday passes! Once again, I am praying for you and remembering Jason on the day when many pray William Reed Huntington's prayer. I hope all is well with you and with all of Jason's loved ones.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Collect For Fridays:
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, June 27, 2008 6:44 AM CDT
I got to your site after seeing a post on rhabdokids about a prevalence of rhabdos in Middle Tennessee. We live in Nashville (right near VUMC) and our son was diagnosed with embryonal RMS of the orbit in March. I know of another family at my daughter's preschool who lost a child to RMS but don't know the details.
Beautiful picture of your son on the website, I'm sorry for your loss. Martha Brinson
Martha Brinson <martha@sjri.com>
Nashville, TN USA - Friday, June 20, 2008 1:37 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
We have had quite a weather day, here, in upstate New York, today. Colonie, about a fifteen minute drive away, had golf ball sized hail. Other areas had nickel and penny sized hail stones. There was a tornado down near Poughkeepsie. We are safe and sound. Our power did not even flicker, but it sure rained hard. I hope you are safe, well, and comfortable.
I hope David had a good Father's Day yesterday. Justin, Joshua, and Jenny have many blessings in both of their parents, as did Jason.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet son, Jason.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Almighty God, we entrust all who are dear to us to your never-failing care and love, for this life and the life to come, knowing that you are doing for them better things than we can desire or pray for, through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 831
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 16, 2008 9:52 PM CDT
Happy Flag Day, Archer Family!
Dear Pam,
I am thinking of you, and of sweet Jason, this morning. I will remember him in Eucharist this weekend.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, June 14, 2008 8:05 AM CDT
I am writing to let you know I am praying for your family.
A family friend (13) was diagnosed with rhabdo just this week, and I was doing searches online to find more info. I am so sorry for your loss. But I thank you for sharing your story. I hope more time and money will be dedicated to researching this, so more lives will be saved. Thank you again, and God bless you and your family.
JoAnn <mamalac@yahoo.com>
Longmont, CO USA - Friday, June 13, 2008 9:35 PM CDT
Faith means believing the unbelievable. Hope means hoping when everything seems hopeless.
~Gilbert Keith Chesterton (1874-1936)
Dear Pam,
I hope you are having a good week. I also hope all of Jason's family, and other loved ones, are doing well. When you can, please let Jason's fans know how everyone is.
Today's saint is Gilbert Keith Chesterton. I have read him, at times, over the years, but still don't really know or understand him. I will leave the collect beneath my signature.
God bless you always, and God bless sweet Jason.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Almighty God, who gave to your servant Gilbert the gift of a ready tongue and pen, and endued him with zeal to use them in your service: Mercifully grant to each of us, that we may well and truly answer anyone who asks of us a reason for the hope that is in us; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, June 12, 2008 8:33 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
Jason was remembered in Holy Eucharist over the weekend and on Wednesday morning. I was the lay reader for one of those services.
Our power has been off briefly twice today and once last night. I guess this may be connected to the thunderstorms we have had off and on. I hope you have not had even minor interruptions and that you are safe, well, and content. I would love to see an update here on your son's page.
As always, Jason is in my heart.
God bless you always, and God bless all of Jason's loved ones, friends, and supporters.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Almighty God, who called your faithful servant Boniface to be a
witness and martyr in the lands of Germany and Friesland, and
by his labor and suffering raised up a people for your own
possession: Pour forth your Holy Spirit upon your Church in
every land, that by the service and sacrifice of many your holy
Name may be glorified and your kingdom enlarged; through Jesus
Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy
Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, June 5, 2008 9:46 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
Jason was remembered, in Eucharist, this weekend. May God bless his sweet spirit.
I have been thinking about you, David, and Jason's siblings. I hope all is going well.
Some will celebrate the Feast of Justin Martyr today, and some will celebrate the Feast of the Martyrs of Lyons, but since you have a Justin, I will add the collect for Justin. May we all be found in Jesus.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Justin Martyr (June 1, Transferred To June 2, This Year):
Almighty and everlasting God, who found your martyr Justin wandering from teacher to teacher, seeking the true God, and revealed to him the sublime wisdom of your eternal Word: Grant that all who seek you, or a deeper knowledge of you, may find and be found by you; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 2, 2008 11:29 AM CDT
Happy Memorial Day, Archer Family!
Dear Pam,
Jason was remembered in Holy Eucharist yesterday, and I am thinking of you all.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
O Judge of the nations, we remember before you with grateful hearts the men and women of our country who in the day of decision ventured much for the liberties we now enjoy. Grant that we may not rest until all the people of this land share the benefits of true freedom and gladly accept its disciplines. This we ask in the Name of Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 840
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 26, 2008 1:57 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
I am thinking of all of you, and of sweet Jason, during this weekend of remembering both our military dead and our departed loved ones. May God bless those who mourn and those who, like Jason, rejoice in eternal life.
When you can, let me know how you are.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Grant, O Lord, that the course of this world may be peaceably governed by your providence; and that your Church may joyfully serve you in confidence and serenity; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 25, 2008 2:16 AM CDT
Blessed Trinity Sunday To All!
Dear Pam,
Jason has been remembered throughout the weekend, as he always is. May God bless both you and your handsome son.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty and everlasting God, you have given to us your servants grace, by the confession of a true faith, to acknowledge the glory of the eternal Trinity, and in the power of your divine Majesty to worship the Unity: Keep us steadfast in this faith and worship, and bring us at last to see you in your one and eternal glory, O Father; who with the Son and the Holy Spirit live and reign, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 18, 2008 2:34 PM CDT
Hello, Pam:
Just had to stop by on this Mother's Day and let you know you're in my thoughts. I'm so sorry Jason is not here to share in this special day with you, as well as any other day for that matter.
My prayers are with you and David--your whole family--but especially today, for YOU. You, nor Jason, are forgotten.
With love from not so far away,
Kriste
My Big Brother - Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USA - Sunday, May 11, 2008 5:37 PM CDT
Greetings To All On The Feast Of Pentecost!
Dear Pam,
Jason is in my thoughts today, as we celebrate the birthday of the church. It is not often that this great feast of the Holy Spirit also falls on Mother's Day. Here in the Capital District, of New York, is it also the Albany Tulip Fest, in honor of our Dutch heritage. What a busy day for folks involved in all!
God bless you always, and of course, God bless sweet Jason.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect:
O God, who on this day taught the hearts of your faithful people by sending to them the light of your Holy Spirit: Grant us by the same Spirit to have a right judgment in all things, and evermore to rejoice in his holy comfort; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Sunday, May 11, 2008 8:27 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I know this is a bittersweet time for you. You are in my thoughts and prayers this Mother's Day Weekend.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, May 10, 2008 8:40 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
Jason was remembered in Holy Eucharist this afternoon. A beautiful young boy was baptized. I have known Sean's dad and grandparents for a long time. It is always special to observe a baptism and to renew my own baptismal covenant during such a service. I wonder how many times that would be, if I could count them all.
When the Eucharist was over, I stayed in church, a while, as I almost always do, to pray for you, and also to pray for other parents, whose children are in heaven. At that time, I also prayed for David, Justin, Joshua, and Jenny.
As I started signing CaringBridge guest books tonight, I noticed that one mother has posted a whole series of pictures of her children playing ball, on her family blog, connected to her son's guest book. We had one large blue ball, that we used in the pool, which was almost too big for an adult to catch, as well as pails of golf balls, Nerf balls, basketballs, bouncy balls, tennis balls, four square balls, footballs, and many other kinds. I do not know much about Jason's sports, but I know he was a paintball player. It is also likely that you have a garage full of balls.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For The Seventh Sunday In Easter:
O God, the King of glory, you have exalted your only Son Jesus Christ with great triumph to your kingdom in heaven: Do not leave us comfortless, but send us your Holy Spirit to strengthen us, and exalt us to that place where our Savior Christ has gone before; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, May 3, 2008 11:19 PM CDT
DEAR PAM MAY THE LORD DIRECT YOU IN SALVATION DIGNITY UNITY HONOUR BE BOLD OF GR8 COURAGE MAY HE ANOINT YA IN HIS PRESENCE AND SURROUND YA WITH PEACE COMFORT STRENGTH HELP JOY GLORY AND KEEP YOU REJOICING WITH THE HYMNS
liane davies <www.rhianjones@hotmail.com>
tredegar, SW UK - Friday, May 2, 2008 6:04 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
Please excuse the error I made in Jason's guest book greeting yesterday. It is a sunny day, here, in southern Saratoga County, and I hope you are having a good day, too.
I would like to ask you, and all of Jason's friends, to pray for Samuel, a ten and a half year old boy, from Clifton Park, who is a patient at Children's Hospital, in Philadelphia. Sam's grandmother, Gert, is a storyteller, a good friend of mine, and the founder of our faith based story circle. I have been praying for Sam, since when he was in the womb, as testing revealed that he had half a heart. Sam, who had surgery on his heart, the day he was born, is in Philadelphia for testing and to have a pacemaker replaced. Thank you.
Today's saint is Catherine of Sienna, a reformer and spiritual teacher, who died on this date in 1380. Our Daughters of the King, at St. George's, is St. Catherine of Sienna Chapter, in her honor. I will leave the collect beneath my signature.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet son, Jason David Archer.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
Everlasting God, who so kindled the flame of holy love in the Heart of blessed Catherine of Siena, as she meditated on the passion of your Son our Savior, that she devoted her life to the poor and the sick, and to the peace and unity of the Church: Grant that we also may share in the mystery of Christ's death, and rejoice in the revelation of His Glory, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, April 29, 2008 2:11 PM CDT
Dear Jason,
I thought of Jason several times today, including while having ice cream, at Friendly's, with Andrew. He had a peanut butter topping on vanilla/peanut butter ice cream, and I had blueberry topping on black raspberry. Of course, since Andrew likes blueberries, he leaned over and took a few spoons of my treat, which was more than OK with me. I wonder if Jason would have liked either of these sundaes, or if perhaps a banana split, pie a la mode, or a hot fudge on chocolate, would have been more to his liking. I certainly wish Jason could be here, to go out for ice cream, pizza, or some other treat, with his mom.
I hope you have had a good weekend. God bless you always, and, of course, God bless sweet Jason.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (One Of My Favorites):
O God, you have prepared for those who love you such good things as surpass our understanding: Pour into our hearts such love towards you, that we, loving you in all things and above all things, may obtain your promises, which exceed all that we can desire; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 225
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 27, 2008 11:16 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
Today is St. Mark's Day, and Father Bill is away, so there was not a Eucharist, at St. George's. It seems funny to me to not be attending a Red Letter Day service, but I will be remembering Jason in the beauty of holiness, over the weekend.
I hope you are well and anticipating a good weekend.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, by the hand of Mark the evangelist you have given to your Church the Gospel of Jesus Christ the Son of God: We thank you for this witness, and pray that we may be firmly grounded in its truth; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Since I could not receive today, I have been singing. Perhaps you will join me in this hymn that mentions St. Mark.
By all your saints still striving,
for all your saints at rest,
your holy Name, O Jesus
for evermore be blessed.
You rose, our King victorious,
that we might wear the crown
and ever shine in splendor
reflected from your throne.
For Mark, O Lord we praise you,
the weak by grace made strong:
his witness in his Gospel
becomes victorious song.
May we, in all our weakness,
receive your power divine,
and all, as faithful branches
grow strong in you, the Vine.
Then let us praise the Father
and worship God the Son
and sing to God the Spirit,
eternal Three in One,
till all the ransomed number
who stand before the throne
ascribe all power and glory
and praise to God alone.
Words: Horatio Bolton Nelson (1823-1913); ver. Hymnal 1982
Music: King's Lynn, English melody; adapt. Ralph Vaughan Williams (1872-1958)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/b/b209.html
The Hymnal 1982, #231
Music: Nyland, Finnish folk melody; adapt. David Evans (1874-1948)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/b/b209.html
The Hymnal 1982, #232
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, April 25, 2008 2:43 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
The news, in our area, has been sad this week. A 21 year old man, missing from Albany, since December, was pulled out of the Hudson, on Tuesday. Another area man, age 38, fell into the Hudson, while repairing a pier, in Troy, on Wednesday, and also died. Today, there was a massive fire in Johnstown, which destroyed five factory buildings and damaged about a dozen homes. I sure hope the news has been happier in your area.
As always, I am thinking of Jason and praying for you.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
An Easter Collect:
Hear our prayers, O Lord, and, as we confess that Christ, the Savior of the world, lives with you in glory, grant that, as he himself has promised, we may perceive him present among us also, to the end of the ages; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, April 24, 2008 6:43 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
I am thinking about you and Jason on another Friday. May God bless you both.
Andrew has been sick this week and has been a little grumpy. This reminds me of how good Jason always was.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Collect For Fridays:
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, April 18, 2008 10:04 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
Once again, I am at my keyboard thinking of sweet Jason. May God bless him always.
I hope you are having a good spring and that you and your family are doing well. Please let me know, if there is anything I can do to help.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For The Commemoration Of Damien The Leper, 15 April 1889:
Almighty Father, we praise your name for those who, following in the footsteps of your beloved Son, have preached the good news of salvation to the despised and rejected of the earth, not counting the cost to themselves; and we pray that your love for us may enkindle in our hearts an answering love for you and our neighbors, and that your grace may give us wisdom to see the opportunities you give us to serve you, and the courage to grasp them; that in all things we may be made conformable unto the image of the same your Son our Savior Jesus Christ, who now lives and reigns with you in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, April 15, 2008 12:40 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
It is another wet weekend, here in southern Saratoga County, so I am planning to watch a baseball game on TV. My boys always have enjoyed watching baseball, and both were Little League players. I wonder if Jason liked baseball, as well. I know he loved paint ball.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Jason.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
An Easter Collect:
O Lord, the life of the faithful, the glory of the saints, and the delight of those who trust in you: Hear our supplications, and quench, we pray, the thirst of those who long for your promises; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 12, 2008 12:41 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
This is a short note to remind you that I am thinking of you, and of Jason, today. God bless you both.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Do not let your Church close its eyes, O Lord, to the plight of the poor and neglected, the homeless and the destitute, the old and the sick, the lonely and those who have no one to care for them. Give us the vision and compassion with which you so richly endowed your servant William Augustus Muhlenberg, that we may labor tirelessly to heal those who are broken in body or spirit, and to turn their sorrow into joy; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
May your sorrow turn into joy today, knowing that Jason lives with our merciful Lord.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, April 8, 2008 1:23 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
I am thinking of sweet Jason today, and I have paused, here, at my keyboard, to pray for you. A few minutes ago, I received a "Cancer Candle," which I sent along in honor of family members and friends, who have died from this terrible disease. Jason was one of those, in my thoughts, as I did so. He has also been remembered in Eucharist, once again.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
An Easter Collect:
O Lord, the life of the faithful, the glory of the saints, and the delight of those who trust in you: Hear our supplications, and quench, we pray, the thirst of those who long for your promises; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY USA - Sunday, April 6, 2008 1:59 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
We had another wintery mess last night, so people are beginning to ask, "Will spring ever come?" Of course it will, but how comforting to know that Jason is in a land, where the weather is always pleasant and good things are in abundance. May God bless his sweet spirit, and may God bless you.
I hope you are all well. Perhaps you can update, or email, soon to let me know.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For April 2:
Teach thy Church, O Lord, we pray, to value and support pioneering and courageous missionaries, whom you call, as you called your servant James Lloyd Breck, to preach and teach, and plant your Church in new regions; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, April 2, 2008 10:29 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I am thinking about you on April Fool's Day. I do not know if Jason was a jokester, but there is something about his eyes that says he may have been. May memories of his sweetness and his sense of humor bring you quiet comfort today.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, April 1, 2008 12:43 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I attended a Renovare Conference, at St. George's, on Saturday. During the conference, especially in the Eucharist, I thought of Jason. May God always bless him.
I hope you, David, and the family, are well. God bless you all.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty and everlasting God, who in the Paschal mystery established the new covenant of reconciliation: Grant that all who have been reborn into the fellowship of Christ's Body may show forth in their lives what they profess by their faith; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 30, 2008 11:55 PM CDT
Happy Easter Archer Family!
Jason was remembered at the Easter Vigil, at St. George's. He is always in my thoughts and prayers.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Jason.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, who through your only begotten Son Jesus Christ overcame death and opened to us the gate of everlasting life: Grant that we, who celebrate with joy the day of the Lord's resurrection, may be raised from the death of sin by your life-giving Spirit; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 23, 2008 12:40 AM CDT
Dear Pam, David, and Children,
I am thinking of you this morning, knowing that your connection with this day is strong, because of the suffering you have known with Jason's illness. May God bless you all.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Good Friday:
Almighty God, we pray you graciously to behold this your family (the assembled church), for whom our Lord Jesus Christ was willing to be betrayed, and given into the hands of sinners, and to suffer death upon the cross; who now lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, March 21, 2008 9:34 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
May the spiritual messages of this Holy Week provide assurance for you, in every way.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Jason.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Wednesday In Holy Week:
Lord God, whose blessed Son our Savior gave his body to be whipped and his face to be spit upon: Give us grace to accept joyfully the sufferings of the present time, confident of the glory that shall be revealed; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, March 19, 2008 10:54 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I have been thinking of you today. This was always an exciting day, when my boys were young, and I am sure you have many memories of Jason, from this holy day. May those memories be sweet, as you rest tonight, and as you go about your week, and may God always bless you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Here is the song that we sing, year after year, to begin the Palm Procession. If you have time, perhaps you can sing it, too.
Refrain:
All glory, laud, and honor
to thee, Redeemer, King!
to whom the lips of children
made sweet hosannas ring.
Thou art the King of Israel,
thou David's royal Son,
who in the Lord's Name comest,
the King and Blessed One. Refrain
The company of angels
are praising thee on high;
and mortal men and all things
created make reply. Refrain
The people of the Hebrews
with palms before thee went;
our praise and prayer and anthems
before thee we present. Refrain
To thee before thy passion
they sang their hymns of praise;
to thee, now high exalted,
our melody we raise. Refrain
Thou didst accept their praises;
accept the prayers we bring,
who in all good delightest,
thou good and gracious King. Refrain
Words: Theodulph of Orleans (ca. 750-821), ca. 820
Trans. John Mason Neale (1818-1866), 1854,
as altered in Hymns Ancient and Modern
Music: St. Theodulph (Valet will ich dir geben),
(Melchior Teschner, 1584-1635, arranged William Henry Monk, 1823-1889)
Hear It At http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/a/a108.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 16, 2008 4:59 PM CDT
Jason, I was thinking about you today.. and your family. And how I cried when you died, even though I only knew you through this website. But in some weird way, our lives were connected through this disease and I just wanted you to know.. the world misses you. Hope you're resting easy.
Leah Nelson <scorchingtundra@msn.com>
Raynham, MA US - Saturday, March 15, 2008 9:29 PM CDT
~Palm Sunday Blessings To You All!
Dear Pam and Family,
We had the reading of the Passion, at Saturday afternoon Eucharist today, and it will be done again, tomorrow, at all of the services. It is always such a solemn, reverent occasion.
My thoughts are with you tonight, and I will remember Jason, and think of you all throughout Holy Week.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For The Sunday Of The Passion (Palm Sunday):
Almighty and everliving God, in your tender love for the human race you sent your Son our Savior Jesus Christ to take upon him our nature, and to suffer death upon the cross, giving us the example of his great humility: Mercifully grant that we may walk in the way of his suffering, and also share in his resurrection; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 15, 2008 8:25 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
I hope you and your family are staying warm during what has been an especially long winter. We are having a very cold night here after a lot of snow on Tuesday and into Wednesday.
I am thinking of Jason tonight, as I often do. May God bless his sweet spirit, and may God bless you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For February 27:
Our God and King, who called your servant George Herbert from the pursuit of worldly honors to be a pastor of souls, a poet, and a priest in your temple: Give us grace, we pray, joyfully to perform the tasks you give us to do, knowing that nothing is menial or common that is done for your sake; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, February 28, 2008 0:22 AM CST
Dear Pam,
I am not signing CaringBridge guest books as much as I once did, but I am continuing to think of Jason, and of all of the other children and young adults, whose books I have signed. Jason was remembered in Holy Eucharist, at St. George's, this weekend. May God bless Jason's sweet spirit, and may God bless you and David.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For The Second Sunday in Lent:
O God, whose glory it is always to have mercy: Be gracious to all who have gone astray from your ways, and bring them again with penitent hearts and steadfast faith to embrace and hold fast the unchangeable truth of your Word, Jesus Christ your Son; who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 218
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, February 24, 2008 12:57 AM CST
I was just checking in on you and wondering how you are doing. I think of you , it is so hard when we don't have our sweet children to hold.
www.caringbridge.org/fl/suryan
Laurie <casadewhippets@yahoo.com>
Kekaha, Hi - Saturday, February 23, 2008 10:11 PM CST
Happy Valentine's Day, Pam And Family!
I am thinking of you all.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty and everlasting God, who kindled the flame of your love in the heart of your holy martyr Valentine: Grant to us, your humble servants, a like faith and power of love, that we who rejoice in his triumph may profit by his example; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, February 14, 2008 11:27 AM CST
Dear Pam,
Although I am not signing guest books a lot now, I continue to think of Jason. He was remembered in Holy Eucharist, this past weekend, and on Ash Wednesday. In Eucharist, heaven and earth meet, so it is an especially appropriate and strong time to remember special people like Jason. (If you would like to know more about this, please send me an email.)
I have just clicked on the link, here, in Jason's book, to visit Karin's website. It was my first time there, and I left a note for her. I also visited the tribute to her friend, Justin.
God bless you always, and God bless David, and all of your family.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Lent has begun! May this holy season bring you much joy, peace, and most of all, a deep openness to God's great love for you.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, February 8, 2008 2:08 AM CST
Hi Pam,
I haven't signed here for a while, I'm sorry. I am happy to see that you are still updating, though it was hard to read your update; the one where you mention how Jason's friends are doing and how you are wondering what he would be doing now. Though difficult to read, I appreciate your honesty and how you truly share what life is like for you.
I wonder about things like that with my own young adult friends who passed away. They were young, too.. 20, 22, 23. It is all so difficult.
Know I still think of Jason and YOU too. Praying for you all!
Karin's Caringbridge Site
Vancouver, BC, Canada - Sunday, January 20, 2008 2:38 AM CST
Dear Pam,
I will be remembering Jason, in Holy Eucharist, later this weekend. You and he are often in my thoughts and prayers.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
O Great Spirit, whose breath gives life to the world and whose voice is heard in soft breeze, we need your strength and wisdom. May we walk in beauty. May our eyes ever behold the red and purple sunset. Make us wise so that we may understand what you have taught us. Help us learn the lessons you have hidden in every leaf and rock. Make us always ready to come to you with clean hands and straight eyes, so when life fades, as the fading sunset, our spirits may come to you without shame.
~From A Native American Prayer (Today's Peace Thought)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, January 19, 2008 1:39 PM CST
Dear Pam,
I have been here quite a few times this month, but I have not known what to say. I just want you to know that I continue to enjoy viewing Jason's picture on the home page. He certainly had beautiful eyes and a wonderful grin.
May God bless you and your family.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Collect For Fridays:
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, January 18, 2008 12:39 AM CST
Dear Pam,
As we draw near to the end of the Christmas season, let us remember that Christmas is really an everyday feast.
Work of Christmas Begins
By Howard Thurman (adapted)
"When the song of the angels is stilled,
when the star in the sky is gone,
when the kings and princes are home,
when the shepherds are back with the flocks,
then the work of Christmas begins:
to find the lost,
to heal those broken in spirit,
to feed the hungry,
to release the oppressed,
to rebuild the nations,
to bring peace among all peoples,
to make a little music with the heart…
And to radiate the Light of Christ,
every day, in every way, in all that we do and in all that we say.
Then the work of Christmas begins.
The message of the Feast of Epiphany announces to all people, everywhere:
Rise up in splendor…your light has come,
The Glory of the Lord shines upon you!
Let the work of Christmas begin, and let it begin with you."
My thoughts and prayers are with you, and I am remembering sweet Jason.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, January 4, 2008 12:46 AM CST
Dear Pam,
As this new year begins, I am remembering sweet Jason and thinking of you all. May 2008 be a year of grace, hope, peace, and blessings for all.
Beneath my signature is the end of a long prayer by Deacon J, from Barbara C. Crafton's Geranium Farm website. You can read it all by visiting the website and going to the section "More or Less Church."
I hope you have a good day.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
During this upcoming year tune my heart
to seek Your truth,
to listen for Your voice,
to learn Your ways and incorporate them in my life,
to speak Your love,
to remain faithful regardless of setbacks
one day at a time, one person at a time, one heart at a time.
Like your servant Francis, make me an instrument of Your peace
in and to this broken world. Amen.
By K.L. Joanna Depue, Known As Deacon J
From Barbara Crafton's Geranium Farm
January 2, 2008
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, January 2, 2008 7:32 AM CST
Dear Pam,
Jason was remembered, in Holy Eucharist, this morning, on the Feast of St. Stephen. Perhaps you have sung Good King Wenceslas with your children. The king and his page, in the song, were celebrating this feast.
Good King Wenceslas looked out, on the Feast of Stephen,
When the snow lay round about, deep and crisp and even;
Brightly shone the moon that night, tho' the frost was cruel,
When a poor man came in sight, gath'ring winter fuel.
"Hither, page, and stand by me, if thou know'st it, telling,
Yonder peasant, who is he? Where and what his dwelling?"
"Sire, he lives a good league hence, underneath the mountain;
Right against the forest fence, by Saint Agnes' fountain."
"Bring me flesh, and bring me wine, bring me pine logs hither:
Thou and I will see him dine, when we bear them thither."
Page and monarch, forth they went, forth they went together;
Through the rude wind's wild lament and the bitter weather.
"Sire, the night is darker now, and the winds blow stronger;
Fails my heart, I know not how, I can go no longer."
"Mark my footsteps, my good page. Treadst thou in them boldly:
Thou shalt find the winter's rage freeze thy blood less coldly."
In his master's steps he trod, where the snow lay dinted;
Heat was in the very sod which the saint had printed.
Therefore, Christian men, be sure, wealth or rank possessing,
Ye who now will bless the poor, shall yourselves find blessing.
~John Mason Neale (1818-1866)
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Jason.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
We give you thanks, O Lord of glory, for the example of the first martyr Stephen, who looked up to heaven and prayed for his persecutors to your Son Jesus Christ, who stands at your right hand: where he lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, December 26, 2007 5:04 PM CST
Dear Pam and David,
Jason was remembered, in Holy Eucharist, last night and this morning. I have thought of Jason many times both days, and I have thought of you, and of all of Jason's other loved ones. May it be well with you all on this Christmas night.
Below is a copy of the well-known Christmas prayer by the author, Robert Louis Stevenson. Please pray it with me tonight.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your beloved son, Jason David Archer.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Christmas Prayer
Loving Father,
Help us remember the birth of Jesus,
that we may share in the song of the angels,
the gladness of the shepherds,
and worship of the wise men.
Close the door of hate
and open the door of love all over the world.
Let kindness come with every gift
and good desires with every greeting.
Deliver us from evil by the blessing
which Christ brings,
and teach us to be merry with clear hearts.
May the Christmas morning
make us happy to be thy children,
and Christmas evening bring us to our beds
with grateful thoughts,
forgiving and forgiven,
for Jesus' sake. Amen.
~Robert Louis Stevenson (1850-1894)
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, December 25, 2007 7:43 PM CST
Dear Archer Family,
Early this morning, I spotted a bright red cardinal, in the tree, near my bathroom window. I had to smile, watching him. He made me think of Jason and of other CaringBridge young adults. May God bless his sweet spirit, and may God bless both of you and all of Jason's many other loved ones. Each one of you was named to God at late Eucharist last night.
Grace, peace, love, and all good, on Christmas morning.
~Colette
Almighty God, you have given your only-begotten Son to take our nature upon him, and to be born [this day] of a pure virgin: Grant that we, who have been born again and made your children by adoption and grace, may daily be renewed by your Holy Spirit; through our Lord Jesus Christ, to whom with you and the same Spirit be honor and glory, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 213
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, December 25, 2007 8:34 AM CST
Eternal God, in the stillness of this night, you sent your almighty Word to pierce the world's darkness with the light of salvation: Give to the earth the peace which we long for and fill our hearts with the joy of heaven through our Saviour, Jesus Christ. Amen.
~Common Worship, The Church of England, Quoted in The Anglican Cycle of Prayer
Merry Christmas to all!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, December 25, 2007 1:40 AM CST
Christ will come soon, will not delay. The Holy One will make the darkest places bright.
~a Monastic liturgy
Dear Pam,
I am thinking of you, and remembering Jason, this Christmas Eve. He will truly be a part of my prayers, when Andrew and I kneel, in prayer, later, at St. George's.
God bless you, David, and all of your family always, and, of course, God bless Jason.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
O God, you have caused this holy night to shine with the brightness of the true Light: Grant that we, who have known the mystery of that Light on earth, may also enjoy him perfectly in heaven; where with you and the Holy Spirit he lives and reigns, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 212
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, December 24, 2007 3:53 PM CST
Seventh and Final O Antiphon, December 23:
O come, O come, Emmanuel,
and ransom captive Israel,
that mourns in lonely exile here
until the Son of God appear.
Rejoice! Rejoice!
Emmanuel shall come to thee, O Israel.
Dear Pam,
Today is the last day leading to Christmas. May our thoughts and our preparation honor the Christ Child.
I am sorry I have not been here, writing to you more often. It has been a busy time for us. However, I do remember Jason regularly, in Holy Eucharist, and I hold you in thoughts and prayers.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Purify our conscience, Almighty God, by your daily visitation, that your Son Jesus Christ, at his coming, may find in us a mansion prepared for himself; who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Other O Antiphons:
Sixth O Antiphon, December 22:
O come, Desire of nations,
Bind in one the hearts of all mankind;
Bid thou our sad divisions cease,
And be thyself our King of Peace.
Rejoice! Rejoice!
Emmanuel shall come to thee, O Israel.
Fifth O Antiphon, December 21:
O come, thou Dayspring from on high,
And cheer us by thy drawing nigh;
Disperse the gloomy clouds of night,
And death's dark shawows put to flight.
Rejoice! Rejoice!
Emmanuel shall come to thee, O Israel.
Fourth O Antiphon, December 20:
O come, thou Key of David, come,
and open wide our heavenly home;
make safe the way that leads on high,
and close the path to misery.
Rejoice! Rejoice!
Emmanuel shall come to thee, O Israel.
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, December 23, 2007 11:10 AM CST
Dear Pam,
I am sorry I was not here, to wish you and your family peace on Jason's 22nd birthday. It hardly seems possible that Jason would be 22.
I was very glad to read that the blood drive, in honor of Jason, was so successful. Say, I wonder if next year you should put announcements on the bulletins of other churches in your area a couple of weeks before the drive. I don't know how churches in your area are about that, but St. George's is always eager to help with good community efforts.
Today is Andrew's arrival anniversary. He has been in his forever family for 21 years. He is such an incredible gift to me. I will think of Jason and of you, his dear mother, when we are celebrating tonight.
God bless you always, and God bless the spirit of your wonderful son, Jason David Archer.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
We use O Antiphons each year, beginning on December 17, in a countdown to Christmas. This is an ancient custom, older, I believe, than the hymn we use. Today's antiphon hymn verse is below.
Third O Antiphon: December 19:
O come thou branch of Jesse's tree,
Free them from Satan's tyranny
That trust thy mighty power to save,
And give them victory over the grave.
Rejoice! Rejoice!
Emmanuel shall come to thee, O Israel.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, December 19, 2007 1:04 PM CST
Happy birthday, Jason.
There's not much we can do in this life that is a better tribute than to give blood. I pray that lots of lives will be saved by the blood collected today in your memory. Mamie's second annual blood drive will be the Saturday closest to her birthday this spring.
We imagine you and Mamie helping prepare for Jesus's birthday in His presence. Of course, down here we don't know what day His real birthday is. He gave blood, too. That's why we can all be together again.
www.caringbridge.org/al/mamieadams
Mamie's Daddy <george.f.adams@us.army.mil>
Huntsville, AL USA - Sunday, December 16, 2007 0:36 AM CST
Special tears, special hugs and special prayers on the eve of Jason's 22nd birthday. May you continue to know our Lord's comfort, joy and peace in a very special way.
Yolanda, Mom to Anna <weloveanna@embarqmail.com>
- Saturday, December 15, 2007 7:54 PM CST
As Jason's birthday approaches, I will keep Jason, and all of your family, deep in my heart. He will be celebrating amongst all our brave angels, who have taught us more about life and love than we ever could have imagined.
With shared hearts and hugs,
Beth Anne (Angel On My Shoulder)
Our Kyle 2/10/88 to 12/7/92
http://www.rememberingkyle.memory-of.com
Beth Anne <momsfourboys@yahoo.com>
Merrill, WI USA - Friday, December 14, 2007 8:58 AM CST
Dear Pam,
I want to wish you and your family a very Happy St. Nicholas Day. I also want you to know that I am thinking of Jason ten days before his birthday. I know that he is safe with God.
Beneath my signature, I will add a collect for the day.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Almighty God, who in your love gave to your servant Nicholas of Myra a perpetual name for deeds of kindness on land and sea: Grant, we pray, that your Church may never cease to work for the happiness of children, the safety of sailors, the relief of the poor, and the help of those tossed by tempests of doubt or grief; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, December 6, 2007 12:18 AM CST
Dear Pam,
Last night, I was surprised to receive a telephone call from an old friend, who now lives in Colorado. We talked for quite a time. I always think of her on her December birthday and on the days leading up to it. It just occurred to me, when I was here, late last night, that she and Jason share the December 16 date. I will now associate him with her, as I reflect on my friendship with her and pray for her on her birthday. We also have a young man in our family, who celebrates on December 16. How good it seems to me to have three special people to think about on that day so close to the Feast of the Nativity!
As you enjoy lights and candles this Advent season, may the hope that is in Christ reign deep within giving you peace and quiet joy.
God bless you, David, Justin, Joshua, Jenny, and all of your family.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (For 1 Advent, The Beginning Of The Church Year):
Almighty God, give us grace to cast away the works of darkness, and put on the armor of light, now in the time of this mortal life in which your Son Jesus Christ came to visit us in great humility; that in the last day, when he shall come again in his glorious majesty to judge both the living and the dead, we may rise to the life immortal; through him who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 211
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, December 2, 2007 11:42 AM CST
Dear Pam and David,
As we begin the Advent season, I am thinking of all of you. This weekend, we light the first candle, the one that stands for hope. As we do this, either actually, or in imagination, may you hope deeply in our Lord Jesus Christ, who is the reason for this season.
God bless you all.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (December 1):
Lord God, make us so reflect your perfect love; that, with your Deacon Nicholas Ferrar and his household, we may rule ourselves according to your Word, and serve you with our whole heart; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, December 1, 2007 11:28 PM CST
Dear Pam,
Thinking of you and wishing you peace in the upcoming difficult weeks of Jason's birthday and the Christmas season.
Sincerely,
sara coulson <scoulson@sonnenschein.com>
- Tuesday, November 27, 2007 9:44 AM CST
Dear Archer Family,
We are back from Thanksgiving Eucharist and preparing for dinner. I just want to let you know that Jason was remembered in the beauty of holiness and that I prayed for you.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A General Thanksgiving, The Book of Common Prayer, Page 836
Accept, O Lord, our thanks and praise for all that you have done for us. We thank you for the splendor of the whole creation, for the beauty of this world, for the wonder of life, and for the mystery of love.
We thank you for the blessing of family and friends, and for the loving care which surrounds us on every side.
We thank you for setting us at tasks which demand our best efforts, and for leading us to accomplishments which satisfy and delight us.
We thank you also for those disappointments and failures that lead us to acknowledge our dependence on you alone.
Above all, we thank you for you Son, Jesus Christ; for the truth of his Word and the example of his life; for his steadfast obedience, by which he overcame temptation; for his dying, through which he overcame death; and for his rising to life again, in which we are raised to the life of your kingdom.
Grant us the gift of your Spirit, that we may know him and make him known; and through him, at all times and in all places, may give thanks to you in all things. Amen.
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, November 22, 2007 1:04 PM CST
Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend. Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.
~Melody Beattie
Dear Archer Family,
I just want to say, "Happy Thanksgiving!" to the five of you. May you enjoy everything about this holiday weekend, with grateful hearts.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, November 22, 2007 3:52 AM CST
Dear Archer Family,
Over the past few days, Jason has been remembered in several celebrations of the Eucharist. May God always bless him.
I hope your are having a good Veteran's Day Weekend. May God bless you good, and may God bless all those in your family who are serving, or who have served, in our military.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Almighty God, we comment to your gracious care and keeping all the men and women of our armed forces at home and abroad. Defend them day by day with your heavenly grace; strengthen them in their trials and temptations; give them a sense of your abiding presence wherever they may be; through Jesus Christ, our merciful and righteous Judge. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 823
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, November 12, 2007 6:04 AM CST
Dear Pam and David,
I have remembered Jason several times this past week, in Holy Eucharist, especially on Thursday, which was the Feast of All Saints, and today, when our bishop came for Confirmation. We had beautiful music, with All Saints themes this afternoon, which I believe Jason would have loved.
God bless you both and also God bless all of Jason's siblings.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, November 3, 2007 11:18 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
I just want you to know that I continue to think of Jason, often remembering him, beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window, and also often remembering him, in the chapel of All Angels, both at St. George's. May God bless Jason's sweet spirit.
I was last at church, on Monday, where I thought of Jason, during a service for the Feast of St. Simon and St. Jude, apostles.
God bless you, David, and all of your beautiful family.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Feast Of St. Simon and St. Jude, Apostles:
O God, we thank you for the glorious company of the apostles, And especially on this day for Simon and Jude; and we pray that, as they were faithful and zealous in their mission, so we may with ardent devotion make known the love and mercy of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 11:35 PM CDT
Dear Pam and David,
On a day when the church celebrates healing, I am thinking of Jason, knowing he is with the healed, in heaven. His courage, zest for life, and love, are active in God's eternal kingdom.
God bless you both, and God bless all of Jason's many loved ones, friends, and supporters.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
An Appropriate Hymn:
By all your saints still striving,
for all your saints at rest,
your holy Name, O Jesus
for evermore be blessed.
You rose, our King victorious,
that we might wear the crown
and ever shine in splendor
reflected from your throne.
For Luke, beloved physician,
all praise, whose Gospel shows
the healer of the nations,
the one who shares our woes.
Your wine and oil, O Savior,
upon our spirits pour,
and with true balm of Gilead
anoint us evermore.
Then let us praise the Father
and worship God the Son
and sing to God the Spirit,
eternal Three in One,
till all the ransomed number
who stand before the throne
ascribe all power and glory
and praise to God alone.
Words: Horatio Bolton Nelson (1823-1913); ver. Hymnal 1982
Music: King's Lynn, English melody; adapt. Ralph Vaughan Williams (1872-1958)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/b/b209.html
The Hymnal 1982, #231
Music: Nyland, Finnish folk melody; adapt. David Evans (1874-1948)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/b/b209.html
The Hymnal 1982, #232
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The Collect:
Almighty God, who inspired your servant Luke the physician to Declare in the Gospel the love and healing power of your Son: Graciously continue in your Church the same love and power to heal, to the praise and glory of your Name; through your Son Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, October 18, 2007 1:09 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
First of all, I would like to say that I have been here, on Jason's website, several times, during the last two weeks, but I have not signed. I guess we can all feel like we have nothing to say, at times. I probably should strive to come up with something, as I know that both, kind words about Jason, and encouragement, mean a lot to you.
The last few days have been rather difficult for me. Earlier tonight, I thought of a scripture and a collect, which cheered me. I am leaving them, here, for you, in hopes that they will do you some good.
God bless you always, God bless David, and God bless all of your family. Also, of course, God bless Jason's sweet spirit.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Finally, brethren, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is gracious, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.
~Philippians 4:8
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Grant us, Lord, not to be anxious about earthly things, but to love things heavenly; and even now, while we are placed among things that are passing away, to hold fast to those that shall endure; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 234
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, October 11, 2007 2:53 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I am remembering Jason and thinking of you, and of your family, on a lovely early autumn day. May God bless you all.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, September 28, 2007 1:13 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
I am sorry for the mistake of leaving Cheyenne's name and the pronoun, she," in Jason's book. I was signing several books, and I was more tired than I realized. I did remember Jason, at Eucharist last night, and I remembered Cheyenne, Connor, Richie, Ian, Jacob, Mike, Jeffery, Jeffery, Penelope, and others, as well.
God bless you, David, and all of your family.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
We thank you, heavenly Father, for the witness of your apostle and evangelist Matthew to the Gospel of your Son our Savior; and we pray that, after his example, we may with ready wills and hearts obey the calling of our Lord to follow him; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, September 21, 2007 4:21 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
Cheyenne was remembered on Thursday night, at Eucharist, at St. George's, and she will be remembered the weekend, as well. May God bless his sweet spirit.
Today's saint is Matthew, the Apostle. I am leaving a hymn that mentions Matthew and which makes me think of all of the saints, including your handsome son.
God bless you, and God bless all of Jason's loved ones.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
By all your saints still striving,
for all your saints at rest,
your holy Name, O Jesus
for evermore be blessed.
You rose, our King victorious,
that they might wear the crown
and ever shine in splendor
reflected from your throne.
We praise you, Lord, for Matthew,
whose gospel words declare
that, that worldly gain forsaking,
your path of life we share.
From all unrighteous mammon,
O raise our eyes anew,
that we, whate'er our station
may rise and follow you.
Then let us praise the Father
and worship God the Son
and sing to God the Spirit,
eternal Three in One,
till all the ransomed number
who stand before the throne
ascribe all power and glory
and praise to God alone.
Lyrics: Horatio Bolton Nelson (1823-1913)
Tune: Nyland, Finnish folk melody
Here it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/b/b209a.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, September 21, 2007 2:34 AM CDT
My great desire and dear hope that encouraed you in Christ that be strong and ful of the Holy Spirit and joy ,for this will be possible to all who will believe today,win too the lost to Jesus and pray for blessed revival soon,thanks and bless and joy.keijo sweden
keijo <keijoleppioja@hotmail.com>
sweden - Tuesday, September 18, 2007 1:32 PM CDT
Dear Pam and David,
I saw Pam's kind note in Connor's guest book. I have heard that it is often difficult to keep a marriage together, after the death of a child, so I have prayed for you as a couple, and for others, as couples, after the deaths of their children. I know, that since each person grieves differently, that it cannot be easy. It must be especially hard for those, like Connor's parents, who do not have other children, to keep them occupied, and to motivate them to stay together. May God continue to be with you both, as individuals, and as a couple, and may God bless the memories of Jason, Connor, and of all the other CaringBridge children, who have died at such tender ages.
May God also bless all of the families who lost loved ones six years ago today.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Almighty God, we entrust all who are dear to us to your never-failing care and love, for this life and the life to come, knowing that you are doing for them better things than we can desire or pray for, through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 831
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, September 11, 2007 3:33 PM CDT
Dear Pam and David,
Today is the tenth anniversary of the passing of Mother Teresa. Recent information in the news, taken from her letters, indicates that she struggled for years, as many do, with spiritual dryness. Please let the knowledge that the great ones of faith struggle with problems, doubts, and dryness, help you, as you struggle with missing Jason.
I have just paused, here, at my keyboard, to pray for both of you, and to remember sweet Jason.
Please update, when you can. I enjoy hearing about you and your family.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
I don't know what God is doing. He knows. We do not understand, but of one thing I'm sure, He doesn't make a mistake.
~Mother Teresa (August 27, 1910 - September 5, 1997)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, September 5, 2007 10:26 AM CDT
Happy Labor Day, Archer Family!
I have just had an email from my cousin, Jennifer, who has two little boys. Liam, a new age five, called it "Pregnancy Day," so they have had a discussion of the various meanings of "labor" this morning, before heading out to the parade.
I hope, that what ever plans you have for today, you have a positive day, full of good memories of Jason and of the hope of heaven.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Labor Day:
Almighty God, you have so linked our lives one with another that all we do affects, for good or ill, all other lives: So guide us in the work we do, that we may do it not for self alone, but for the common good; and, as we seek a proper return for our own labor, make us mindful of the rightful aspirations of other workers, and arouse our concern for those who are out of work; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, September 3, 2007 10:04 AM CDT
Pam, David and family:
Just a note to let you know that your family and Jason are never far from my thoughts. Although we've never met, I feel a special kinship with those from this area who are missing someone they love due to some form of cancer. There are way too many of us.
Take gentle care of yourselves, and know that your family is loved and cared about during these difficult days. (My mom is a grieving mother like you.)
Sending hugs your way,
Kriste Lanius
My Big Brother - Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USA - Sunday, September 2, 2007 10:45 PM CDT
Hey Pam...
I've been thinking of you a lot lately. I wanted you to know that I still continue to keep you and your precious family close in my thoughts and prayers. I think of Jason often with fondness. He was such a fine young man; it was an honor and privilege to know him. I'm thrilled that he and Josh had such a special friendship. I know Josh really misses Jason and forever keeps his picture by his bed. My love to you and your family...hopefully we'll see you again soon!
Markel Sewell <corion3@yahoo.com>
Gallatin, TN USA - Saturday, September 1, 2007 6:38 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
I am sure this has been a bittersweet week for you. I just want you to know that I remembered Jason in Eucharist tonight, at St. George's, and I also prayed for you, there in the nave.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
I feel a strong immortal hope, which bears my mournful spirit up beneath its mountain load; redeemed from death, and grief, and pain, I soon shall find my child again within the arms of God.
~Charles Wesley, Anglican priest and great hymn writer
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, August 30, 2007 8:55 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
As Kathy and Dave have said, we supporters of Jason, certainly miss him. May God always bless his sweet spirit.
Today's saint is Augustine of Hippo, a great scholar, teacher, and writer, of the church. For folks like you and me, Pam, one of the lessons of Augustine is his mother, Monnica, who prayed for him, for many years. Let us not grow weary in praying for our children. I will pause, here, at my keyboard, to name Justin, Joshua, Jenny, and my boys, to the Lord, our God.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Feast Of St. Augustine Of Hippo (August 28):
O Lord God, the light of the minds that know you, the Life of the souls that love you, and the strength of the hearts that serve you: Help us, following the example of your servant Augustine of Hippo, so to know you that we may truly love you, and so to love you that we may fully serve you, whom to serve is perfect freedom; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, August 28, 2007 11:32 PM CDT
Dear Pam and family,
I am sorry I didn't write on the 25th, Jason's 2 year anniversary into the arms of God. I was out of town and did not have computer access at my sister's cottage. You and your family were in my thoughts and continue daily to be in my prayers.
We miss Jason.
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, August 26, 2007 8:22 PM CDT
Hi, Jason!
It's been two years since you joined my little girl. One might think that was too obvious for me to tell you, but two years in Heaven may seem like such a short time that you hadn't noticed.
Mamie got there four months before you, very short indeed on the scale of eternity, but I'll bet she was waiting to tell you about the exciting things she had already discovered. Probably some folks your own "Earth age" had some things to show you as well, but they may have had to wait their turn.
I suspect all of you will still be finding new and wonderful things when we join you.
www.caringbridge.org/al/mamieadams
Mamie's Daddy <george.f.adams@us.army.mil>
Huntsville, AL USA - Saturday, August 25, 2007 10:17 PM CDT
Hey Mrs. Archer,
I just wanted to let you know that I miss Jason. He was a great friend. I hope you and your family are doing well. Thanks for everything.
Trevor
Knoxville, TN 37916 - Saturday, August 25, 2007 1:23 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
Jason was remembered, in Holy Eucharist, on Thursday night. May God bless his sweet spirit.
It is very hot and humid here today, as it was yesterday. I hope you are cool, comfortable, and at peace.
God bless you, David, and all.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God, who called your servant Louis of France to an earthly Throne that he might advance your heavenly kingdom, and gave him zeal for your Church and love for your people: Mercifully grant that we who commemorate him this day may be fruitful in good works, and attain to the glorious crown of your saints; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, August 25, 2007 8:52 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I missed Eucharist this morning, as my watch battery is low, and I was running about 40 minutes late, and did not realize it, in time to attend. However, today is the Feast of the Virgin Mary, the mother of Jesus, and it seems a very appropriate day to think about and to greet the mother of Jason. I hope you are well and you know that your sweet son is thought about and missed.
Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for the day. I am praying for you, David, and all of Jason's loved ones, here, at my keyboard, even if I could not do it at church this morning.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
O God, who chose the blessed Virgin Mary to be the mother of Your incarnate Son: Grant that we, who have been redeemed by his blood, may share with her the glory of your eternal kingdom; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, August 15, 2007 11:23 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I just want you to know that I am thinking of you, and of your family, again, this weekend. I remembered Jason, at Holy Eucharist, yesterday, as I do, week by week, month by month. I also remember Richie Shannon and people from your area, such as Connor Hunley, Kevin Martin, Justin Rhodes, Tracy Lanius, and Karen Rossi. Do you ever hear from the Hunley or Rhodes families? If you do, will you let them know I am thinking of them, and will you let me know how they are? I do not have email, or a phone number, for the Rhodes family, since they closed down Justin's site. I should have saved their information, but I didn't.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Here is today's collect:
Grant to us, Lord, we pray, the spirit to think and do always those things that are right, that we, who cannot exist without you, may by you be enabled to live according to your will; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 232
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, August 12, 2007 10:09 PM CDT
This is a beautiful tribute to Jason! How my heart aches for those of you left to mourn. Thank you for sharing him and his life with us. God bless you all until you can be together again.
Karen <ktzv@rogers.com>
Toronto, ON Canada - Sunday, August 5, 2007 3:16 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I have been here several times in recent weeks, but I have not been leaving messages. It was a very hot, humid July, and I was not on the computer as often as I sometimes am. Additionally, when I was here, I either had nothing to say, or was too tired to say anything clearly.
I did remember Jason, during Holy Eucharist, this afternoon, and I always think of him, when I am beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window. I also think of several others, from your area, including Connor Hunley, Kevin Martin, Justin Rhodes, and Tracy Lanius. Despite your sadness and pain, and that of the other families mentioned, they are with God, and they are at peace. We can be sure of that, as Jesus spoke of the mansions he was preparing. They will be seen again.
In the sure and certain hope and with my love,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, August 4, 2007 11:39 PM CDT
Pam, it was wonderful to run into you last week. I have thought about you so many times and I have no excuse for not calling you. I read some of your postings and agree that the pain never goes away, never gets better but somehow we have to live through it. So many people judge us and expect us to follow some kind of "grieving guidelines". THERE IS NO SUCH THING and the grief NEVER ends, never goes away and we NEVER "Get over it!!!" NEVER EVER EVER!!! We have to live because of the rest of our family - especially the kids. We bear most of the pain for them so that they can have some kind of a normal life. Our life as we knew it will never be normal again. There is a HUGE missing piece.
Those that have never experienced it should never judge us as to how we live and how we grieve!
I just wanted to let you know that I think of you often and especially this coming month knowing it is Jason's heavenly birthday.
Linda Matin Crocker <themartin7@bellsouth.net>
Hendersonville, TN - Tuesday, July 31, 2007 12:57 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I saw your entry in Richie Shannon's guest book. I am glad you saw Linda Martin, and I hope she is doing well and enjoying her children and her new husband. May God bless all of you Archers and all the Martins.
Beneath my signature, I will also add today's collect and the collect for Fridays. Please pray them with me.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (William Reed Huntington):
O Lord our God, we thank you for instilling in the heart of Your servant William Reed Huntington a fervent love for your Church and its mission in the world; and we pray that, with unflagging faith in your promises, we may make known to all peoples your blessed gift of eternal life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
The Collect For Fridays:
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, July 27, 2007 12:41 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I am thinking of you, David, and all of Jason's family again tonight. I hope you are all doing well.
I will leave you today's collect. One of my boys took the name of this apostle as his confirmation name.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O gracious God, we remember before you today your servant and Apostle James, first among the Twelve to suffer martyrdom for the Name of Jesus Christ; and we pray that you will pour out upon the leaders of your Church that spirit of self-denying service by which alone they may have true authority among your people; through the same Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, July 25, 2007 11:47 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
I am thinking of you, of Jason, and of all of your family. I hope you are well and having a good summer.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, July 24, 2007 2:58 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I just want you to know that I continue to remember Jason, whenever I am at church, and at various other times. May God bless his sweet spirit, and may God bless you, David, and all of your family.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, July 15, 2007 12:46 AM CDT
Happy Fourth Of July, Archer Family!
Dear Pam,
I have been visiting several sites, including some you have suggested, today. We are having windy, rainy weather, so it is unlikely that the large display, at the Empire State Plaza, in Albany, will happen tonight. The raindate is tomorrow.
I hope you and your loved ones are well, although I know that every holiday is bittersweet with Jason gone.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, July 4, 2007 5:20 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
Jason was remembered in Eucharist, at St. George's, on both Saturday and today. May God bless his sweet spirit.
I hope you, David, Justin, Joshua, and Jenny are all well.
Beneath my signature, I will place the collect for this weekend.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
O Lord, make us have perpetual love and reverence for your holy Name, for you never fail to help and govern those whom you have set upon the sure foundation of your lovingkindness; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 230
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, June 24, 2007 11:40 PM CDT
Thinking of you in a special way tonight, David. There are way too many father's missing their children on this special day, on every day. I'm so sorry you are counted among them.
Jason led a spectacular, although short life. May we all strive to do as well with the time we are given.
Jason is not forgotten, and neither are you or Pam, or your family.
Love is sent your way,
Kriste
My Big Brother - Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USA - Sunday, June 17, 2007 9:22 PM CDT
Dear Pam and David,
I just want to let you know that I am thinking of you both on this day of celebration of fatherhood. May God bring you some joy and a lot of peace this day.
Beneath my signature, I will leave a quote, which may make you smile.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless the memory of Jason David Archer.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Spread the diaper in the position of the diamond with you at bat. Then fold second base down to home and set the baby on the pitcher's mound. Put first base and third together, bring up home plate and pin the three together. Of course, in case of rain, you gotta call the game and start all over again.
~Jimmy Piersal, on how to diaper a baby, 1968
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, June 17, 2007 4:04 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
It is a lovely spring day here. I hope that in some way you are enjoying it.
Today is the Feast of the Visitation (of the expectant Mary to Elizabeth). Beneath my signature, I will add the collect. It is one of my favorites.
God bless you always, and God bless Jason's sweet spirit.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Father in heaven, by your grace the virgin mother of your incarnate Son was blessed in bearing him, but still more blessed in keeping your word: Grant us who honor the exaltation of her lowliness to follow the example of her devotion to your will; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 240-241
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, May 31, 2007 12:11 AM CDT
Blessings On Memorial Day!
Dear Pam,
I am thinking of you, David, and all of your family, on this day, when we remember our beloved departed. May God grant Jason the light of his presence, and may you and David know God's peace and blessing.
In the sure and certain hope, and with my love,
~Colette
O God, whose beloved Son took children into his arms and blessed them: Give us grace to entrust Jason to your never-failing care and love, and bring us all to your heavenly kingdom; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, page 494
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 28, 2007 10:13 AM CDT
Blessings Archer Family, On The Feast Of Pentecost!
Dear Pam,
I have remembered Jason, beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window, again this weekend. I continue to think of him, each time I am in our nave. I also think of Connor, Penelope, Richie, Michael, and several others. May God bless their sweet spirits, and many God bring comfort and peace to their parents, grandparents, siblings, and friends.
Beneath my signature, is the collect for the day.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Almighty God, on this day you opened the way of eternal life to every race and nation by the promised gift of your Holy Spirit: Shed abroad this gift throughout the world by the preaching of the Gospel, that it may reach to the ends of the earth; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 227
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 27, 2007 5:35 PM CDT
I visited Jason's site today first but was impressed by it.
May JAson live a pieceful life from here on. I also found the site information with other news.
Thanks
Ammar Ansari <dransari@hotmail.com>
Richmond, VA - Monday, May 21, 2007 7:39 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I remembered Jason, Penelope, Connor, Richie, and several other young people, at Holy Eucharist, this morning. I also remembered some adults from your area, whose guest books I have signed, including Kevin, Karen, and Tracy. May God bless all of their sweet spirits, and may God comfort and sustain all that mourn.
Beneath my signature I will add the collect for today.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Today, Ascension Sunday:
O God, the King of glory, you have exalted your only Son Jesus Christ with great triumph to your kingdom in heaven: Do not leave us comfortless, but send us your Holy Spirit to strengthen us, and exalt us to that place where our Savior Christ has gone before; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 226
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 20, 2007 9:51 PM CDT
Dear Pam and All,
It has been a very rainy day today. I did not attend afternoon Eucharist, as it would have been very difficult getting in and out of the car, in such a downpour, and as I am not feeling 100%. I do hope to attend tomorrow morning.
Last weekend, I remembered all mothers, whose children have passed into heaven, beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window. May God comfort, support, and sustain you always.
Today's saint is one of my favorites, an Archbishop of Canterbury, who entered heaven in 988. I will leave one of the two collects of the day beneath my signature.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless sweet Jason.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
O God of truth and beauty, who richly endowed your bishop Dunstan with skill in music and the working of metals, and with gifts of administration and reforming zeal: Teach us, we pray, to see in you the source of all our talents, and move us to offer them for the adornment of worship and the advancement of true religion; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, May 19, 2007 10:34 PM CDT
Hey Mr. and Mrs. Archer,
I was just thinking about Jason. Sometimes he just pops into my head, and all I can do is smile and think man, I should be so lucky to have known someone like that. It's no secret he got it from you.
Walter Andrews
Nashville, TN usa - Thursday, May 17, 2007 2:47 PM CDT
Thinking of you in a special way this weekend, Pam. Loving and caring thoughts are being sent your way from the north side of the county.
Lots of prayers, big hugs,
Kriste
My Big Brother - Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USA - Saturday, May 12, 2007 9:25 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
I want you to know, that I remembered Jason, at Holy Eucharist, this weekend, as I always do. May God bless his sweet spirit.
Perhaps someday you will update Jason's journal, or send me an email, to let me know how you and your family are.
If I can help in any way, from this distance, please let me know.
Our Daughters of the King chapter, at St. George's, is named for St. Catherine of Sienna, who died on April 29, 909. I am including the collect beneath my signature.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
Everlasting God, who so kindled the flame of holy love in the heart of blessed Catherine of Siena, as she meditated on the passion of your Son our Savior, that she devoted her life to the poor and the sick, and to the peace and unity of the Church: Grant that we also may share in the mystery of Christ's death, and rejoice in the revelation of His Glory, who lives and reigns with the and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
These are the lessons for St. Catherine's Day. The Psalm passages are among my all time favorites. Maybe someday you can let me know which Scriptures Jason especially liked.
Psalm 36:5-10 or 16:5-11
1 John 1:5--2:2
Luke 12:22-24,29-31
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, April 30, 2007 3:30 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I am thinking of you, David, and all of your family. I will be remembering Jason, in Eucharist, this weekend, at St. George's. May God bless his sweet spirit, and may your memories of Jason be peaceful and good.
Beneath my signature, I will add a familiar prayer I have used a lot during this troubling and sad week.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Prayer Attributed To St. Francis:
Lord, make us instruments of your peace. Where there is hatred, let us sow love; where there is injury, pardon; where there is discord, union; where there is doubt, faith; where there is despair, hope; where there is darkness, light; where there is sadness, joy. Grant that we may not so much seek to be consoled as to console; to be understood as to understand; to be loved as to love. For it is in giving that we receive; it is in pardoning that we are pardoned; and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 833
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 21, 2007 3:52 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I am continuing to remember Jason and to think of you and your family. God bless you all.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, April 17, 2007 3:07 AM CDT
Dear Pam and Family,
I have been thinking of you all this week, as another handsome young man, Michael Billington, 22, joined Jason in heaven. I thought of both Jason and Mike, at Eucharist, Saturday afternoon, at St. George's. I thought of a lot of other wonderful fellows, as well, including Connor Hunley, Ian Davideit, Jeffery Sample, Jeffrey Newbauer, Justin Rhodes, Richie Shannon, and Jacob Duckworth. May God bless all of their sweet spirits, and may God comfort and soothe all those who grieve.
Here is a prayer I often think of when I think of youth who have died.
Almighty God, we entrust all who are dear to us to your never-failing care and love, for this life and the life to come, knowing that you are doing for them better things than we can desire or pray for, through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 831
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 15, 2007 0:15 AM CDT
I had "misplaced" your link for awhile. I was so glad to find it, and find you still posting.
The blood drive is a great idea to honor Jason.
I, for one, will never forget him, or his brave fight.
cheryl and Angel Haley <bandcvincent@aol.com>
- Monday, April 9, 2007 3:35 PM CDT
Blessings On Easter Morning!
"Welcome, happy morning!"
age to age shall say:
hell today is vanquished,
heaven is won today!
Lo! the dead is living,
God for evermore!
Him their true Creator,
all his works adore!
Refrain:
"Welcome, happy morning!" age to age shall say.
Earth her joy confesses,
clothing her for spring,
all fresh gifts return
with her returning King:
bloom in every meadow,
leaves on every bough,
speak his sorrow ended,
hail his triumph now.
Months in due succession,
days of lengthening light,
hours and passing moments
praise thee in their flight.
Brightness of the morning,
sky and fields and sea,
Vanquisher of darkness,
bring their praise to thee.
Maker and Redeemer,
life and health of all,
thou from heaven beholding
human nature's fall,
of the Father's Godhead
true and only Son,
mankind to deliver,
manhood didst put on.
Thou, of life the Author,
death didst undergo,
tread the path of darkness,
saving strength to show;
come then, true and faithful,
now fulfill thy word,
'tis thine own third morning!
rise, O buried Lord!
Loose the souls long prisoned,
bound with Satan's chain;
all that now is fallen
raise to life again;
show thy face in brightness,
bid the nations see;
bring again our daylight:
day returns with thee!
Words: Fortunatus, (ca. 535-600);
trans. John Ellerton (1826-1893), 1868
Music: Fortunatus (Arthur Seymour Sullivan, 1872)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/w/w189.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 8, 2007 1:02 AM CDT
Dear Pam and David,
On this day of holy waiting, may you, and your sweet Jason, be blessed. May today lead to a Holy and Joyous Easter and be a foretaste of the wonderful Day of Resurrection to come.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
O God of unchangeable power and eternal light: Look favorably on your whole Church, that wonderful and sacred mystery; by the effectual working of your providence, carry out in tranquility the plan of salvation; let the whole world see and know that things which were cast down are being raised up, and things which had grown old are being made new, and that all things are being brought to their perfection by him through whom all things were made, your Son Jesus Christ our Lord; who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 280
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 7, 2007 5:49 PM CDT
Dear Pam and David,
I have been thinking of Jason on this Good Friday. May God grant him, and you, his forever parents, all of the blessings of the Passion.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, April 6, 2007 11:54 PM CDT
Want to inquire about Eleanor Nelson's entries
rebecca Berry <rberry@vf.k12.mo.us>
Mexico, Mo US - Wednesday, April 4, 2007 8:11 AM CDT
Blessings On Palm Sunday and During Holy Week, Archer Family!
Dear Pam, David, and All,
I just want you to know that I am thinking of sweet Jason on Passion Sunday. When I was a child, this used to be an afternoon/early evening, to visit the greenhouses and see the spring designs of the florists. My Mom always ran me around to at least three places, but the most I ever took my boys to was one a year. I am not even sure if greenhouses are open for those spring tours at this time anymore.
Jason remains in my thoughts and in my prayers. God bless his loving and gentle spirit.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Palm Sunday:
Almighty and everliving God, in your tender love for the human race you sent your Son our Savior Jesus Christ to take upon him our nature, and to suffer death upon the cross, giving us the example of his great humility: Mercifully grant that we may walk in the way of his suffering, and also share in his resurrection; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 220
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 1, 2007 6:31 PM CDT
Dear Pam and David,
I have just viewed the Christmas picture of Jason, Ryan Martin, and Richie. Yesterday was Richie's sixteenth birthday, and I image Richie had quite a celebration in heaven. I think Jason was probably with him, eating ice cream, listening to music, and laughing. May God bless their sweet spirits.
I have also read the story of Greg, who lost his leg to cancer. The support of his girl friend, reminds me of the support Katie gave to Jason. May God bless both of these young women.
I have just paused, here, at my keyboard, to pray for all of you beautiful Archers.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, March 28, 2007 1:21 AM CDT
Just stopping by to say hi Pam. I think of you often and Jason too. You were such a great source of strengh and information for me during Emily's treatment. I will never forget that.
MIchelle & Emily Rhabdo Kids - www.caringbridge.org/tx/emilysfight
Mission, TX USA - Friday, March 23, 2007 4:46 PM CDT
I sat down at the computer tonight to view Sage's carepage and also with plans to visit Jason's page. Thank you for posting your thoughts for our family. I think of yours often too. We miss Sage very much, as I know you miss Jason.
Tommy Gibson
- Wednesday, March 21, 2007 10:17 PM CDT
Hey Pam and David:
Just wanted to let you know you are in my thoughts in a special way tonight. You and your family, including Jason, are not forgotten.
With love,
Kriste Lanius
My Big Brother - Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USA - Monday, March 19, 2007 6:51 PM CDT
Dear Pam and David,
I see I made a mistake this morning and left a message intended for the Hunleys here in Jason's book. I think of both Jason and Connor a lot, and my prayers are for both you, and your family, and the Hunleys.
I receive a daily thought from the Nouwen Society. Today's thought, from the writings of the late Henri Nouwen, spoke to me of Jeffery Sample, age 20, who died of a brain tumor on Saturday, of Richie Shannon, and of Jason. Perhaps it will say something of value to you, as you reflect on Jason's life.
Please email me, if there is anything I can do to help.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Infinite Value of Life
Some people live long lives, some die very young. Is a long life better than a short life? What truly counts is not the length of our lives but their quality. Jesus was in his early thirties when he was killed. Thérése de Lisieux was in her twenties when she died. Anne Frank was a teenager when she lost her life. But their short lives continue to bear fruit long after their deaths.
A long life is a blessing when it is well lived and leads to gratitude, wisdom, and sanctity. But some people can live truly full lives even when their years are few. As we see so many young people die of cancer and AIDS let us do everything possible to show our friends that, though their lives may be short, they are of infinite value.
~Henri Nouwen (1932-1996)
Jason knew he was loved and that his life mattered to God and to his family. Some people never realize that, so Jason was blessed.
Jason's life bore fruit, while he was on earth, and it will continue to bear fruit in the days and years to come.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, March 19, 2007 6:05 PM CDT
Dear Rhonda and Eddie,
I will remember Connor when I am in church, later today, for the Feast of St. Joseph. I will also think of Connor's paternal grandfather, who had this name.
God bless you both, and of course, God bless Connor.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect Of The Day:
O God, who from the family of your servant David raised up Joseph to be the guardian of your incarnate Son and the spouse of his virgin mother: Give us grace to imitate his uprightness of life and his obedience to your commands; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, March 19, 2007 1:43 AM CDT
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- Sunday, March 18, 2007 12:30 AM CDT
Happy St. Patrick's Day, Archers!
Dear Pam, David, Justin, Joshua, and Jenny,
I am thinking of Jason, and of you all, on a snowy March day. I hope you are well.
Since it is St. Patrick's Day, I am including a copy of the long poem, attributed to St. Patrick, known as the Lorica, and also as St. Patrick's Breastplate. The translation given here is by Cecil Frances Alexander, whose husband was Archbishop of Armagh, and thus the direct successor of Patrick. She published nearly 400 poems and hymns of her own, including There is a Green Hill Far Away, Once in Royal David's City, and All Things Bright and Beautiful.
God bless you all, and of course, God bless Jason.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Lorica, or, St. Patrick's Breastplate:
I bind unto myself today
the strong Name of the Trinity,
by invocation of the same,
the Three in One, and One in Three.
I bind this day to me forever,
by power of faith, Christ's Incarnation;
his baptism in the Jordan river;
his death on cross for my salvation;
his bursting from the spiced tomb;
his riding up he heavenly way;
his coming at the day of doom:
I bind unto myself today.
I bind unto myself the power
of the great love of cherubim;
the sweet "Well done" in judgement hour;
the service of the seraphim;
confessors' faith, apostles' word,
the patriarchs' prayers, the prophets' scrolls;
all good deeds done unto the Lord,
and purity of virgin souls.
I bind unto myself today
the virtues of the starlit heaven,
the glorious sun's life-giving ray,
the whiteness of the moon at even,
the flashing of the lightning free,
the whirling wind's tempestuous shocks,
the stable earth, the deep salt sea,
around the old eternal rocks.
I bind unto myself today
the power of God to hold and lead,
his eye to watch, his might to stay,
his ear to hearken to my need;
the wisdom of my God to teach,
his hand to guide, his shield to ward;
the word of God to give me speech,
his heavenly host to be my guard.
[Against the demon snares of sin,
the vice that gives temptation force,
the natural lusts that war within,
the hostile men that mar my course;
of few or many, far or nigh,
in every place, and in all hours
against their fierce hostility,
I bind to me these holy powers.
Against all Satan's spells and wiles,
against false words of heresy,
against the knowledge that defiles
against the heart's idolatry,
against the wizard's evil craft,
against the death-wound and the burning
the choking wave and poisoned shaft,
protect me, Christ, till thy returning.]
Christ be with me, Christ within me,
Christ behind me, Christ before me,
Christ beside me, Christ to win me,
Christ to comfort and restore me,
Christ beneath me, Christ above me,
Christ in quiet, Christ in danger,
Christ in hearts of all that love me,
Christ in mouth of friend and stranger.
I bind unto myself the Name,
the strong Name of the Trinity,
by invocation of the same,
the Three in One, and One in Three.
Of whom all nature hath creation,
eternal Father, Spirit, Word:
praise to the Lord of my salvation,
salvation is of Christ the Lord.
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/i/i024.html
Here is the collect of the day:
Almighty God, who in your providence chose your servant Patrick to be the apostle of the Irish people, to bring those who were wandering in darkness and error to the true light and knowledge of you: Grant us so to walk in that light, that we may come at last to the light of everlasting life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and ever. Amen.
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 17, 2007 11:55 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I just want to say that I am remembering Jason and praying for you today.
Since tomorrow is St. Patrick's Day, I will leave you a quotation from the saint, himself.
God bless you, David, and all of your family.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
God in All
He inspires all.
He gives life to all.
He dominates all.
He supports all.
He lights the light of the sun.
He furnishes the light of the night.
He has made springs in dry land.
He is the God of heaven and earth,
of sea and rivers
of sun, moon, and stars,
of the lofty mountain and the lowly valley,
the God above heaven,
and in heaven,
and under heaven.
~St. Patrick, in The Wisdom of the Celts, Compiled by David Adam
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, March 16, 2007 6:44 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I have had a cold that has hung on far too long, and during this time, I have not been using my computer a lot. I do want you to know that I have been thinking of Jason, and of other children and teens, who have died of cancer. May God bless them all.
One of the Lenten hymns I like ends with these words:
And through these days of penitence,
and through thy Passiontide,
yea, evermore, in life and death,
Jesus! with us abide.
Abide with us, that so, this life
of suffering over-past,
an Easter of unending joy
we may attain at last!
Words: Claudia F. Hernaman, 1873
I am sure that Jason has experienced an Easter of unending joy, and that one day, you will as well.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
See the complete hymn, and hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/l/l511.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, March 14, 2007 3:16 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
Andrew does not have day classes on Tuesdays, this semester, but he is at school tonight. We sometimes use the available Tuesday lunchtime to go to the Pizza Hut Buffet. Today was one of those days. I have to tell you that we were pretty stuffed, when we came out, even though our "Fat Tuesday" treat was neither the cleaning out of the home refrigerator before Lent, or the traditional Shrove Tuesday Pancake Supper at church. It always amazes me how much young men enjoy pizza and more pizza. I image Jason could put away several pieces, just as both of my boys always have.
I am thinking of you, David, and all of your family tonight.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, February 20, 2007 5:07 PM CST
Much luck & Love and the Blessing of the Lord be with you! I am a survivor of orbital rhabdo, DX at 8 yrs. old. I pray daily for these children and their families! May your hearts be light until you're with him again!
Leslie <Ltlewonder@aol.com>
Thomasville, NC USA - Tuesday, February 20, 2007 3:01 PM CST
Pam and David, I decided to browse Jason's site tonight and was shocked to see how many people have been on here in the past years. People that don't even know Jason or our family who prayed, shared stories, God bless them. From time to time I have dreams about Jason when we were kids..I wear his blue bracelet everyday. Mom has his picture in the living room along with the poem Mimi wrote. He is constantly in our thoughts and prayers. You have been so incredibly strong. God bless you all. Please remember how lucky you all are to be so close to our family there. Love always! xox
Jessica <crashbutterflytx@yahoo.com>
Parker, Co - Sunday, February 18, 2007 11:08 PM CST
Dear Pam,
I am thinking of you on another Friday morning. This will be quick, as we have a repairman expected in a few minutes.
God bless you always, and God bless your sweet son, Jason David Archer.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Lord Jesus Christ, you stretched out your arms of love on the hard wood of the cross that everyone might come within the reach of your saving embrace: So clothe us in your Spirit that we, reaching forth our hands in love, may bring those who do not know you to the knowledge and love of you; for the honor of your Name. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 101
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, February 16, 2007 8:06 AM CST
Dear Pam,
I found your website through a link on Rhabdomoysarcoma. I was looking up any info I could find on recent treatment advances. I enjoyed reading about "your" Jason and wow , what a handsome young man. I lost "my" Jason too, to this horific disease. When I say "my" Jason, I mean my younger brother Jason Stainback. He lost his life to rhabdo at the age of 18 on Nov. 23rd 1999. It has been 7 years since his passing but it I still a gut wrenching pain that never seems to ease up. I miss him dearly.
I am very sorry for your loss and I know how you feel. Jason is my brother but there is a 10 year difference in our ages so I was like a 2nd mom to him.
I wanted to share a poem that helps me deal with the pain . It is called I'm Free
Don't grieve for me , for now I'm free.
I'm following the path God laid for me.
I took his hand when I heard him call;
I turned my back and left it all.
I could not stay another day.
To laugh, to love , to work or play.
Tasks left undone must stay that way;
I found that place at the close of the day.
If my parting has left a void
Then fill it with remembered joy
A friendship shared, a laugh , a kiss;
Ah yes, these things I too will miss.
Be not burdened with times of sorrow;
I wish you the sunshine of tomorrow.
My life's been full, I savored much;
Good friends, good times, a loved one's touch.
Perhaps my time seemed all too brief;
Don't lenghten it now with undue grief.
Lift up you heart and share with me;
God wanted me now , He set me free.
God Bless you and your family,
Susan <susanstainback@yahoo.com>
Atlanta, GA USA - Wednesday, February 14, 2007 9:11 PM CST
Happy Valentine's Day Archer Family!
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Happy are those who love and cherish one another.
~Anonymous
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, February 14, 2007 5:17 AM CST
Dear Pam,
I believe you may be having a major snowstorm today. We are supposed to be getting one, beginning late in the afternoon, or early in the evening. I will use this opportunity to wish you and your family a very Happy Valentine's Day, just in case our internet service is acting up later. May God bless you all this week, and may you all be safe, well, and at peace.
Beneath my signature, I will add some of my favorite quotations about love.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Love doesn't just sit there like a stone; it has to be made, like bread, remade all the time, made new.
~Ursula K. LeGuin
People who love each other fully and truly are the happiest people in the world. They may have little, they may have nothing, but they are happy people. Everything depends on how we love one another.
~Mother Teresa
Duty calls us to do things well, but love makes us do them beautifully.
~Phillips Brooks
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, February 13, 2007 7:38 AM CST
Dear Pam,
I thought you might be interested in this. I was speaking with my cousin, who lives near Lake Ontario last night, and she has only been to work once in the last four days, as she works in Oswego, NY, which has had 70 inches of snow in the last four days. None of her clients kept their appointments, Wednesday, the day she went in, but she was able to work on her records, while there. She also said that a little town, called North Redfield, there in Oswego County, had 111 inches of snow, and that it was snowing, in Oswego and Lewis Counties as we talked, at a rate of three to five inches per hour. It makes me cold just thinking about it.
I wonder...Did Jason like snow? Did he ever experience really deep snow? What was his favorite snow activity? As a girl, I always liked sledding and building and playing in snow forts. My older son did not like snow much at all, but he did like shoveling out a place to play winter driveway basketball. Young Andrew loved to roll around and get wet in the snow. As he got older, he enjoyed snowball fights and making forts. I am sure Andrew would like snowmobiling, as he likes speed and power, but we don't have the equipment.
I hope you are well and safe.
God bless you always, and may your memories of Jason be sweet. Also, may you be enjoying Justin, Joshua, and Jenny.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
A Collect For Fridays:
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, February 9, 2007 6:53 AM CST
Dear Pam,
I am thinking of you today, during this month of snow, groundhogs, Valentines, humor, and love. I know you have Jason connections to most, or all, of the above, as Jason was a fun-filled and loving son. May your faith be strong today, and may your memories of Jason be sweet.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, February 6, 2007 10:53 AM CST
Dear Pam,
I like the new border you have applied to Jason's guest book. Thank you, also for updating the journal. As a family, we do believe in donating blood, and we help in various ways.
I am sure that Jason's CaringBridge site will never go dormant during your lifetime. As she grows older, perhaps his sister, Jenny, will learn how to help maintain the site. Jason will always be in her heart, and in the hearts of his brothers.
Jason was remembered, at St. George's, at the afternoon Eucharist, on Saturday, and at a special Eucharist for the Feast of the Presentation, on Friday. I will add the collects beneath my signature.
God bless you, David, and all of Jason's loved ones.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Collect For The Feast Of The Presentation (February 2):
Almighty and everliving God, we humbly pray that, as your only-begotten Son was this day presented in the temple, so we may be presented to you with pure and clean hearts by Jesus Christ our Lord; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 239
Collect For This Weekend:
Set us free, O God, from the bondage of our sins, and give us the liberty of that abundant life which you have made known to us in your Son our Savior Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 216
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, February 4, 2007 2:11 PM CST
Dear Pam and Family,
I remembered Jason in Holy Eucharist, early this morning, in the Chapel of All Angels, at St. George's. I also remembered Jason, in the nave, at St. George's, this past weekend. May God bless Jason's sweet spirit.
Another teen I remember, is Justin Rhodes. If I recall correctly, you know his mother, Chris. If you see, or talk with, either Chris, Bill, or Christina Rhodes, will you please tell them, that I continue to think of their son/brother. His website is apparently closed, and I do not have their email address. May God bless them and all who mourn for Justin.
Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for today, the Feast of the Presentation of Our Lord Jesus Christ in the Temple. Now that the Christmas/Epiphany cycle is over, I have decorations to put away.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Collect For The Feast Of The Presentation (February 2):
Almighty and everliving God, we humbly pray that, as your only-begotten Son was this day presented in the temple, so we may be presented to you with pure and clean hearts by Jesus Christ our Lord; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 239
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, February 2, 2007 12:55 AM CST
I am honored to have read about Jason and the people that loved him so much. Thank you for sharing.
Cheryl Cerbone <thebones@uwmail.com>
Aledo, tx usa - Sunday, January 21, 2007 4:26 PM CST
God bless you always,
Angel Jen, SOEW
Lite a candle for your angels = Click
Angel Jen, SOEW <eaglet@mymacs.org>
Nashville Area, TN USA - Thursday, January 18, 2007 3:01 AM CST
Dear Pam,
Jason was remembered, at St. George's on Saturday afternoon. I am praying for you and your family tonight.
God bless you all.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, January 15, 2007 11:23 PM CST
Dear Archers,
Thinking of you and daily praying for you.
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, January 14, 2007 8:15 PM CST
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Comfort of Jesus Ministries is an indigenous and non denominational ministry. It is started in the year 1997 as Faith. Pastor: K.Paul Jabaraj who has been in the Lord’s ministry for the past 35 years. Our ministry focused on
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Comfort of Jesus Church has 300 Congregation from different linguistic groups. Since the church building is small in size we are conducting 2 service every Sunday, 8 am & 10 am ,to accommodate everyone. If God leads you, please come and visit us and bless our congregation through your God given Gifts & Talents. Please feel free to contact us:
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Post Box: 4527,
BANGALORE-560 045,
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Paul Davidraj <comfortindia@hotmail.com>
Bangalore, Karnataka India - Sunday, January 14, 2007 1:56 AM CST
We are healed of a suffering only by expressing it to the full.
~Marcel Proust, novelist (1871-1922)
Dear Pam and David,
I thought of you, and others in bereavement, when I read this quotation. May God bless you, and all of Jason's loved ones, and of course, may God bless sweet Jason himself.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, January 12, 2007 3:33 AM CST
Dear Pam,
Today is my mother's birthday. Even thought she died many years ago, I always think of her on this day. If loss of a middle age parent is difficult for a young woman, now a middle ager herself, the loss of a child has to be extremely difficult. My thoughts and prayers are with you each and every day.
Jason was remembered at the Epiphany service, at St. George's, yesterday. Beneath my signature, I will add today's collect.
God bless you always, and, of course, God bless your handsome son.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Father in heaven, who at the baptism of Jesus in the River Jordan proclaimed him your beloved Son and anointed him with the Holy Spirit: Grant that all who are baptized into his Name may keep the covenant they have made, and boldly confess him as Lord and Savior; who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 214
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, January 7, 2007 10:46 AM CST
Dear Pam,
It is very bittersweet thinking about you coming upon Jason's empty paint ball container, near your mother's house. I pray for the day when seeing that container, which your mother left right where it fell, or something similar, will make you laugh, instead of sob.
God bless you, David, your mother, and all who mourn for Jason.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, January 3, 2007 11:05 PM CST
Dear Archer's,
Thinking of you and stopping in to wish you a Blessed New Year.
Daily you are in our prayers.
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Monday, January 1, 2007 12:12 AM CST
Psalm 147:3
He heals the brokenhearted *
and binds up their wounds.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 804
Dear Pam,
The above is part of the Psalm we will be reading in our church today. May God continue to bind up you and David, to comfort you, and to be near you. May God bless both of you, Jason's siblings, Jason's grandparents, and Katie.
I view Jason's webpage every day. He is not forgotten.
Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for the day.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Almighty God, you have poured upon us the new light of your incarnate Word: Grant that this light, enkindled in our hearts, may shine forth in our lives; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 213
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, December 31, 2006 6:10 AM CST
Dear Pam,
I just read your most recent posting, and I have to tell you how proud I am of you, David, Justin, and your church family, for making Jason's birthday special by organizing and holding a blood drive, in his honor. You will never know where those forty-five pints of blood went, but it is safe to assume that at least one life was saved by them and that several others recovered more quickly, due to that live giving fluid. I know Jason is aware of your efforts, and your generosity, and that he is smiling his wonderful grin, from ear to ear. May God bless you all!
I am sorry I did not have an opportunity to sign guest books yesterday, so today, I am wishing you holiness and happiness during the remaining eleven days of Christmas.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, December 26, 2006 8:31 AM CST
Dear Archers,
Thinking of you and sending you Christmas Blessings.
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Monday, December 25, 2006 5:22 PM CST
Dear Pam,
Jason was remembered, at Holy Eucharist, on Thursday and Saturday nights of this past week, at St. George's. I will be remembering him this morning, as we light the final violet candle in our Advent wreath. This candle stands for LOVE.
You, David, Justin, Joshua, Jenny, and Jason's grandparents, are in my thoughts and prayers.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Here is the collect for this morning. I awoke this morning thinking the last verse of the hymn quoted.
Purify our conscience, Almighty God, by your daily visitation, that your Son Jesus Christ, at his coming, may find in us a mansion prepared for himself; who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 212
Hark! the glad sound! the Savior comes,
the Savior promised long:
let every heart prepare a throne,
and every voice a song.
He comes the prisoners to release
in Satan's bondage held;
the gates of brass before him burst,
the iron fetters yield.
He comes, the broken heart to bind,
the bleeding soul to cure;
and with the treasures of his grace
to enrich the humble poor.
Our glad hosannas, Prince of Peace,
thy welcome shall proclaim;
and heaven's eternal arches ring
with thy beloved Name.
Words: Philip Doddridge (1702-1751), 1735
Music: Richmond (Thomas Haweis, 1734-1820)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/h/h077b.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, December 24, 2006 7:09 AM CST
More cool stuff at YourCoolProfile.com!
Praying for you this Christmas and asking God to comfort your hearts once again.
Kristen, mother of Per www.caringbridge.com/wi/pthomsen0111
- Friday, December 22, 2006 6:41 PM CST
Hi there..I wandered onto your website from Share the Love and I just wanted to let you know I was here, gazing at your handsome son and thinking about his life and his journey. My son Joseph is on a ventilator in ICU here in Dallas after a stem cell transplant for relapsed AML. It too is kind of a forgotten childhood cancer without enough kids getting it to warrant the kind of research ALL gets.
God bless you all at this holy time of year and thank you for keeping this page alive for other families to find.
www.caringbridge.org/visit/josephmorrison
Sheri Morrison
Plano, TX - Tuesday, December 19, 2006 11:46 AM CST
Dear Pam, David, and All,
I did remember Jason, at Holy Eucharist, at St. George's, on Saturday, and at the Christmas Lessons and Carols, at the Cathedral of All Saints, Sunday afternoon. I prayed for all of you, each by individual names. One of my best friend in college, also has a December 16 birthday, so I wrote to her about Jason, when I sent her birthday card. Jason will not be forgotten in your lifetimes, and after that, you will be reunited with him, so it will no longer be a concern.
Today we lit the third candle in our Advent wreaths. This one is rose, and it represents joy. May you think of joy this week, and may you have the hope and the courage to receive whatever measure of joy the Lord has for you.
God bless you all.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, December 18, 2006 3:04 AM CST
Happy Birthday to Jason in Heaven! I can only imagine the celebration that he is experiencing. I am certain that Connor, Felicia, and Richie are right there with him. If only we could see the joy in their faces to be pain free and healthy! Just know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. Hopefully the blood drive will be a huge success! I clipped your letter from the newspaper, you did a great job!
Love and hugs,
Rhonda Hunley, Forever Connor's Mommy
<rshunley@comcast.net>
Hendersonville, TN USA - Saturday, December 16, 2006 9:38 AM CST
Hello from Canada. I will pray long and hard. I was just looking for info on this very disease as my 23yr old nephew was just diagnosed with it. We are at a loss as where to go. Seems so hopeless. I hope evryone continues to pray for you , your loss , and maybe a cure. God bless.
Johnny <yaahoos@yahoo.com>
Canada - Friday, December 15, 2006 3:07 PM CST
Hi,
Just signing in to let you know that I still read your journal entries. God Bless your entire family during this holiday season.
Joyce www.caringbridge.org/mo/jillsjourney <stjudemom@tranquility.net>
Columbia, MO - Wednesday, December 13, 2006 7:31 PM CST
Dear Pam,
I have been to a funeral, a faith-based human rights celebration, and Eucharist this past week. While at St. George's, and elsewhere, I have remembered your handsome son, who loved you so much.
Tomorrow morning, we light (either physically or imaginatively) the first of four Advent candles. This one is the HOPE candle and its color is violet. May we reflect upon Jesus, the HOPE of the World, as we light this flame.
God bless you, David, and all of Jason's many friends and loved ones.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
The Collect For The First Sunday In Advent:
Almighty God, give us grace to cast away the works of darkness, and put on the armor of light, now in the time of this mortal life in which your Son Jesus Christ came to visit us in great humility; that in the last day, when he shall come again in his glorious majesty to judge both the living and the dead, we may rise to the life immortal; through him who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 211
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, December 2, 2006 11:24 PM CST
Dear Pam,
I just want to remind you that I am thinking of you and of your family, as we near the Advent and Christmas seasons. I know the blood drive, in Jason's memory, on his birthday, will be a fitting tribute to your beautiful son.
God bless you, David, and all of Jason's siblings and other loved ones. This, of course, includes Katie.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, November 27, 2006 11:09 AM CST
Dear Pam,
Jason was remembered at Wednesday morning Eucharist, in the Chapel of All Angels, at St. George's, and at the Clifton Park Community Thanksgiving, Wednesday night, also at St. George's. Jason will also be remembered at Thanksgiving Day Eucharist, on Thursday morning.
Today has been the feast of C.S. Lewis, who entered the nearer presence of God, on November 22, 1963. I will place the collect of the day, beneath my signature.
God bless you, David, and all of Jason's siblings.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Almighty God, whose servant C.S.Lewis received of your grace singular gifts of insight in understanding the truth in Christ Jesus, and of eloquence and clarity in presenting that truth to his readers: Raise up in our day faithful interpreters of your Word, that we, being set free from all error and unbelief, may come to the knowledge that makes us wise unto salvation: through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY - Wednesday, November 22, 2006 11:53 PM CST
Dear Pam,
Collette was kind enough to send me the information I needed to sign in on Jason's guestbook. You have not been forgotten nor has Jason. Daily you are in my prayers. I wish you a Blessed Thanksgiving and will be thinking of you as the holidays and Jason's birthday approach.
Love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Tuesday, November 21, 2006 11:14 AM CST
Dear Pam,
Jason was remembered at Holy Eucharist, on Saturday afternoon, and I will also remember him at the Community Thanksgiving Service, at St. George's, on Wednesday night, and again at the Thanksgiving Eucharist on Thursday morning.
I know all holidays are changed for you, and David, and your family, but I hope you will find some joy in this Thanksgiving.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, November 20, 2006 0:36 AM CST
You have no idea how much your family means to me. You are all just precious. The Lord certainly blessed HCA and the Hagertys by sending your sweet family to us. My prayer is for your continued strength and vivid memories of your happy times with your family. I love you, Katrina
Katrina Hagerty <Busytrina@comcast.net>
Mt. Juliet, TN USA - Thursday, November 16, 2006 9:14 AM CST
Hi Pam,
I definitely still check this website and check for updates. Sorry you've been having trouble spamming, that's horrible that they have penetrated to the caringbridge community.
Thinking of you, especially as Jason's birthday approaches.
Karin's caringbridge site
vancouver, bc, Canada - Thursday, November 16, 2006 1:31 AM CST
Dear Pam,
I continue to think of Jason, especially when I am beneath the Jesus and the Children Window, at St. George's. I think of you and David and wonder how you and Jason's siblings are.
God bless you all, and God bless Katie, as well.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, November 14, 2006 9:49 PM CST
Thinking of you, your family and Jason. I always find myself in a reflective mood as fall moves in. I seem to have a need to stop, slow down and just remember. While doing this the Archer's came to mind. Just wanted you to know I was thinking of you all!
Julia Proctor <neenees@bellsouth.net (caringbridge.org/tn/taylorlynn)>
Goodlettsville, TN - Friday, November 3, 2006 7:56 AM CST
Checking on the status of Richie Shannon
Deborah Del Vecchio <ddelvecchio@washoe.k12.nv.us>
Sparks, NV - Wednesday, November 1, 2006 12:09 AM CST
Dear Pam and David,
I am sure the passing of Jeffrey Scott Newbauer, on Wednesday night, brings grief to you and to the families of Connor Hunley and Ian Davideit. Jason, Jeff, Connor, and Ian will all always have a place in my heart.
My thoughts and prayers are with you today.
If you had not had Jason's site up and running, I would not have heard of Jeff. I have signed his guest book about ten times during the last two months, and I hope that that has been an encouragement to Jeff and his mother, Connie. I, and some of my friends, have been praying for this family. I am sure others, have visited the site, because of you and Jason. Please continue to keep up the work, which always honors God and your son.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Nothing loved is ever lost or perished.
~Madeleine L'Engle, in A Ring Of Endless Light
I feel a strong immortal hope, which bears my mournful spirit up beneath its mountain load; redeemed from death, and grief, and pain, I soon shall find my child again within the arms of God.
~Charles Wesley (1707-1788)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, October 27, 2006 10:36 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I have been visiting Jeff's site, since you mentioned it some time ago. The most recent journal entry speaks of a lot of additional cancer. I really hate cancer of all types, and I am praying for Jeff, and for his mother, Connie. I do this, in part, in memory of Jason.
I hope you can update here soon. It must be very difficult for you to do, but Jason's friends and supporters always love to hear from you, so please try.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
This is my all time favorite Scripture passage. It has gotten me through many difficult times, including those of deep bereavement. Please pray it today, if you can.
Psalm 16: 5-11, The Book of Common Prayer, Page 600
5. O LORD, YOU are my portion and my cup; *
it is you who uphold my lot.
6. My boundaries enclose a pleasant land; *
indeed, I have a goodly heritage.
7. I will bless the LORD who gives me counsel; *
my heart teaches me, night after night.
8. I have set the LORD always before me; *
because he is at my right hand I shall not fall.
9. My heart, therefore, is glad, and my spirit rejoices; *
my body also shall rest in hope.
10. For you will not abandon me to the grave, *
nor let your holy one see the Pit.
11. You will show me the path of life; *
in your presence there is fullness of joy,
and in your right hand are pleasures for evermore.
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, October 16, 2006 9:54 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
After a night and a morning of rain, the sun has come out, and we have a beautiful fall day, here in southern Saratoga County. I hope you are having a good day where you are. May your thoughts of Jason be sweet, today, as mine are.
I know it is difficult for you, but I hope you can update the journal soon.
Today's saint is Wilfrid, who was an Archbishop of York. He died this day in 709. I will place the collect beneath my signature.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Heavenly Father, Shepherd of your people, we thank you for your servant Wilfrid, who was faithful in the care and nurture of your flock; and we pray that, following his example and the teaching of his holy life, we may by your grace grow into the stature of the fulness of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, October 12, 2006 11:50 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I don't have a lot to say today, but I do want to sign in, that in some way I may be an encouragement to you today. May God bless you and all of your loved ones.
Today's saint is Philip the deacon. I will add the collect beneath my signature.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Almighty and everlasting God, we thank you for your servant Philip the Deacon, whom you called to preach the Gospel to the peoples of Samaria and Ethiopia. Raise up in this and every land heralds and evangelists of your kingdom, that your Church may make known the immeasurable riches of our Saviour Jesus Christ, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, October 11, 2006 7:28 AM CDT
Happy Columbus Day!
Dear Pam, David, and Family,
I am thinking of all of you and of sweet Jason today. I hope you have a good day.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, October 9, 2006 10:27 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I hope you, David, and family are doing well. It seems like it has been a long time, since you have updated.
I continue to remember Jason and other young people from your area, including Connor Hunley and Justin Rhodes. May God bless their sweet spirits, and may God bless all who mourn.
I have been humming a hymn based on the writings of St. Francis of Assisi, so I will leave the lyrics below and a link to the tune. Perhaps you know it, as it is in may books.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
All creatures of our God and King,
lift up your voices, let us sing:
Alleluia, alleluia!
Thou burning sun with golden beams,
thou silver moon that gently gleams,
Refrain:
O praise him, O praise him,
Alleluia, alleluia, alleluia!
Thou rushing wind that art so strong,
ye clouds that sail in heaven along,
O praise him, Alleluia!
Thou rising morn, in praise rejoice,
ye lights of evening, find a voice, (R)
Thou flowing water, pure and clear,
make music for thy Lord to hear,
Alleluia, alleluia!
Thou fire so masterful and bright,
that givest man both warmth and light, (R)
Dear mother earth, who day by day
unfoldest blessings on our way,
O praise him, Alleluia!
The flowers and fruits that in thee grow,
let them his glory also show: (R)
And all ye men of tender heart,
forgiving others, take your part,
O sing ye Alleluia!
Ye who long pain and sorrow bear,
praise God and on him cast your care: (R)
And thou, most kind and gentle death,
waiting to hush our latest breath,
O praise him, Alleluia!
Thou leadest home the child of God,
and Christ our Lord the way hath trod: (R)
Let all things their Creator bless,
and worship him in humbleness,
O praise him, Alleluia!
Praise, praise the Father, praise the Son,
and praise the Spirit, Three in One: (R)
Words: after Francis of Assisi (1182-1226);
paraphrase of "Canticle of the Sun" by Francis of Assisi.
Music: Lasst uns erfreuen
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/a/a100.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, October 5, 2006 12:38 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I continue to think of Jason and to remember him, beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window. I also pray for you, David, and your family, and for Katie, too.
Today is the Feast of St. Francis of Assisi. Beneath my signature, I will add one of his prayers.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Most High, Glorious God, enlighten the darkness of our minds. Give us a right faith, a firm hope and a perfect charity, so that we may always and in all things act according to Your Holy Will. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, October 4, 2006 5:06 PM CDT
LOVE ALWAYS BRENDAMY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON ,ALBERTA
, - Sunday, October 1, 2006 4:22 PM CDT
~Just thinking of you.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, September 21, 2006 0:10 AM CDT
The challenge of Jesus is not to solve all the world's problems before the end of time but to remain faithful at any cost. ~Henri Nouwen
Dear Pam,
I read that quote, from Henri Nouwen, earlier today, and I immediately thought of you. Let us work to stay faithful, each and every day.
Today is the Feast of the Holy Cross. It is, in part, a more joyful celebration of the cross than the one celebrate on Good Friday. The feast goes back to the dedication, on September 14, 335, of the Church of the Holy Sepulchre, a church I have visited, in Jerusalem. The church was built by Saint Helena, on the site she believed to be the site of the Crucifixion.
Beneath my signature, I will add a hymn associated with this celebratory aspect of the cross.
God bless you always, and God bless the memory of Jason.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Refrain:
Lift high the cross,
the love of Christ proclaim
till all the world adore
his sacred Name.
Led on their way by this triumphant sign,
the hosts of God in conquering ranks combine. Refrain
Each newborn servant of the Crucified
bears on the brow the seal of him who died. Refrain
O Lord, once lifted on the glorious tree,
as thou hast promised, draw the world to thee. Refrain
So shall our song of triumph ever be:
praise to the Crucified for victory.
Words: George William Kitchen and Michael Robert Newbolt, 1916
Music: Crucifer, Sydney Hugo Nicholson (1875-1947)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/l/l118.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, September 14, 2006 11:32 AM CDT
Dear Pam, David, and All,
I continue to think of Jason, and of all of you. Jason will be remembered, in Eucharist, this weekend, at St. George's.
God bless you all.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, September 9, 2006 8:17 AM CDT
Pam and Archer Family,
I appreciate your concern for our family that you expressed in your posting on Sage's carepage. It really meant a lot knowing that you truly understand and can relate to the feelings and emotions that we are experiencing. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family also.
Tommy Gibson
Big Spring, TX USA - Friday, September 8, 2006 5:11 PM CDT
In everyone's life, at some time, our inner fire goes out. It is then burst into flame by an encounter with another human being. We should all be thankful for those people who rekindle the inner spirit.
~Albert Schweitzer, theologian, philosopher, Lutheran minister, organist, authority on J.S. Bach, physician, and missionary, Noble Prize Laureate 1952 (1875-1965)
Dear Pam,
One of the purposes of these CaringBridge pages is to help revive the lives of others. May the words in Jason's guest book, energize and sustain you, David, Jason's siblings, and Katie, today and every day.
You are often in my thoughts and prayers.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, September 8, 2006 10:19 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I continue to think of Jason, and of you, his sweet mother, and of all of his loved ones, including David, his siblings, and Katie, each and every day. May God bless you all.
Today is the ninth anniversary of Mother Teresa's entrance into heaven. In honor of her, and with respect for you, I will place some of her sayings beneath my signature. As you read them, remember that she, although a Nobel Prize laureate, thought of herself, simply as a pencil, in the hand of a writing God.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
"You who have received so much love, share it with others. Love others the way that God has loved you, with tenderness."
"Communion with Christ gives us our strength, our joy, and our love."
"All of us must be saints in this world. Holiness is a duty for you and me. So let's be saints and so give glory to the Father."
"My prayer for you is that you come to understand and have the courage to answer Jesus' call to you with the simple word 'yes'."
"Love does not measure; it just gives."
~Mother Teresa Of Calcutta, Born Agnese Gonxhe Bojaxhiu, In Albania August 27, 1910, Died In India September 5, 1997
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, September 5, 2006 9:43 PM CDT
Dear Archer Family,
Just stopping by with a hi and a hug.
Sending prayers your way each day.
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Tuesday, September 5, 2006 8:19 PM CDT
Dear Pam, David, and Family,
As I read today's thought from Barbara Crafton, who is an Episcopal priest, I thought of Jason, and of your pain in not having him with you. Perhaps, there is a response to some of your questions in her mediation. I offer it to you, with love and respect.
I will visit the websites you mentioned, and I will pray for those two individuals, and for their families.
God bless you always, and God bless all of your memories of Jason.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
THE SERMON OF THE FRUIT FLY
This is war: I will have a lovely three-tiered display of fresh fruit in the kitchen and a cloud of fruit flies will form around it within five minutes of my putting it out. Washing the fruit doesn't prevent it, and neither does anything else. I maintain homeland security at the moment only by the measure of hanging a length of flypaper above the fruit.
This is less than satisfactory in many ways, principal among them being the long strip of insect corpses one must reach carefully past in order to snag a peach. And something more: a tendency I have developed to watch the fly paper too intently for inadvertent fatal landings, and to be far too exultant when somebody sticks. This is unseemly in a member of the clergy. The fruit flies are living things, matter all, close enough cousins to me that their DNA structure is an important part of the Human Genome Study.
Where do they come from? Their immediate presence when fruit is brought into a house was an important bit of evidence in support of the ancient theory of spontaneous generation, which held that simple living organisms are brought into being from other substances (rotting meat gives rise to maggots, for example, and mud causes frogs). Many people believed this well into the 19th century, and most parents of teenagers hold to some version of it to this day: unpartnered socks and an infinite number of drinking glasses come into being if a teenager is placed in a closed room overnight.
But fruit flies aren't spontaneously generated. Nothing is. Everything comes from somewhere. Things don't happen for no reason; a thread of causality runs through history, and human beings can trace it if we pay close attention. Note that "cause" and "plan" aren't synonyms: everything has a cause, but not every hangnail means that God is sending you a message.
Here's the cause: the larvae of the prolific fruit fly are tiny. They lay them on the surface of the fruit and in the safe recesses of a stem. They mature quickly -- their whole lives are quick, over in a few weeks. They are attracted by the smell of ripening, which is really a process of fermentation. We are like our winged cousins in this preference: we, too, like to eat fruit just as it begins to rot, a preference Italians recognize in their word for fruit at just the proper peak of ripeness. A perfect peach is "morbida," they say in Rome -- "about to die."
I suppose we die at a proper time ourselves. I suppose there is a peak of human ripeness, a moment when we, too, are morbida, when we have done what needed to be done and can leave without much in the way of regret. We understand this time to come to us at a great old age, and mourn bitterly when death takes one of our number too soon. He was not ready. She was too young. It was the wrong time.
At such times, no cause seems sufficient to the ones left behind. No reason for such a death ever satisfies. And the idea of a plan enrages the bereaved: God couldn't think of any better way to work out his purpose than to take my ten-year-old? No. No. Sorry, but No.
Until we remember that cause and plan aren't the same. That the plan, marrying goodness and existence and love and possibility, transcends the events of life and death, with all their proximate and indirect causes. That existence is more than history, with its linear one-thing-after-another arrangement of the events it contains.
So the cause is of the earth. And the plan partakes of heaven. And the fruit is sweetest just before it dies.
~Barbara C. Crafton
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, September 4, 2006 9:22 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I continue to think of Jason, and of other people from your area, who have passed during the past two years, starting with Connor Hunley. Each one was precious, here on earth, and each one is precious to our heavenly Father. God bless them, and God bless all who mourn.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, September 2, 2006 9:30 PM CDT
You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Take care and God Bless,
Angel Brynn
Bree Wlodyka <adt0123@hotmail.com>
Drexel Hill, PA - Tuesday, August 29, 2006 2:23 PM CDT
Keeping you in my thougths and in my prayer's always.
Love Brenda MY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca>
Edmonton,Alberta
, - Tuesday, August 29, 2006 1:57 PM CDT
I know how hard those 'anniversary' days are some how we have to keep on going for the rest of the family but I know its hard and lots of tears are shed. I keep all you mamas and daddys in my prayers and along ith you pray for the soon coming of our LORD when we can see oour loved ons again
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, August 27, 2006 3:47 PM CDT
I am so sorry I missed posting on Jason's first Homegoing anniversary. A mother cannot adequately describe what we feel upon the knowledge of our child's conception. . .upon feeling their life within us, the first little flutter, the subsequent squirmings and kicks. . .upon hearing the sound of their first cry and feeling their soft flesh on ours upon their birth. Neither can we adequately describe what we feel when they die. I can say, it hurts so much sometimes I can't breathe. Our Lord told us in His Word to "weep with them that weep". Today, I weep. Praise God that our sorrow is touched by His Blessed Hope. I lift you in prayer and ask for your peace. I also thank our God because our beloved children are in Heaven and lift my voice in praise. "There is none like our God, There is none like our Lord. . ."
In His Love,
Yolanda Rogers
http://www.galatians5.com
Mom to Anna
Alt Springs, FL USA - Saturday, August 26, 2006 9:18 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I absolutely remember Jason, and I absolutely am praying.
Thank you for sharing about your day and about how you honored your precious son.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, August 26, 2006 0:58 AM CDT
Remembering Jason's angel date and hoping for strength for the Archer family. His courage and strength touched many lives worldwide.
Lauren Gamache <lauren.gamache@gmail.com>
High Wycombe, England - Friday, August 25, 2006 2:34 PM CDT
Thinking of you and praying for your family.
Cindy Wright
Tennessee, - Friday, August 25, 2006 1:56 PM CDT
Dear Pam, David, Justin, Joshua, Jenny, Grandparents, and Katie,
I am thinking of all of you, and remembering Jason, on the first anniversary of his arrival in heaven. Jason was remembered in Holy Eucharist, last night, at St. George's. I always think of Jason, when I am in the nave.
May your memories of Jason be sweet and full of peace, as you are assured, through Scripture, of his eternal life.
Pam, if there is anything that I may be able to do, for any of you, please feel free to contact me.
God bless you all!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, August 25, 2006 12:27 AM CDT
Dear Pam, David, family, and friends,
Just thinking of you today, and praying that you will be able to celebrate the life of your wonderful son/brother/friend Jason, even in the midst of your tears. His life was a gift to so many people, even to people like me who never met him in person. Perhaps today all of our children are celebrating the anniversary of the day that he was finally healed.
Love, Lila, honored to be Katrina's Mom (11/17/89-12/7/04)
Lila Nelson <nelsonme@cox.net>
Burke, Va USA - Friday, August 25, 2006 10:17 AM CDT
I was posting this picture on Cassie's site, and thought I would swing by your page to say "hello", I can see why you stop by this page daily, even if its just to see that gorgous photo of Jason and Katie.
Lots of love
Viks
viks <viks@postpals.co.uk>
- Friday, August 25, 2006 9:25 AM CDT
Dear Archer Family,
I am praying extra hard for your family today. Can't imagine what you are going thru. Hang in there. God Bless your entire family.
Joyce Z. www.caringbridge.org/mo/jilljsjourney <stjudemom@tranquility.net>
Columbia, MO - Friday, August 25, 2006 8:59 AM CDT
Dear Pam, David, Justin, Josh, Jenny & Katie,
Just stopped by to say you are all in my prayers today as you remember Jason along with many others who knew him. Along with your pain of missing Jason, may you feel God's love and comfort in knowing that Jason is free of all the earthly pain and suffering. I pray that God will wrap His arms around you especially today and give you peace.
Anne McClelland <mcc1999@hotmail.com>
Kingsport, TN - Friday, August 25, 2006 7:38 AM CDT
Thinking of you all today and praying God's comfort and peace for you.
Jason, happy Heavenly birthday.
Suzanne <iamjsrc@gmail.com>
Nicholson, GA United States - Friday, August 25, 2006 7:06 AM CDT
Dear Pam, David and family,
You are in our thoughts and prayers as we remember with you the 1st anniversary of Jason's GRAND entrance into the loving arms of God. May precious memeories help comfort you this day.
God Bless,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Friday, August 25, 2006 6:28 AM CDT
Hi Pam and family you are in my thoughts and prayers I know this day the 25th will be a rather difficult day. Just remember you have many friends that our thinking of you all and knowing how you must be feeling and knowning that you have that hole in your hearts always for dear Jason...I know if you ever need to talk Pam you can Instant message me also I feel your pain I hurt just like you. We can go into each others buckets and they will both be filled with the loss of our sons BUT we will always have those wonderful memories of them...Hopefully they have connected some where in heaven there. Happy and peaceful and in no more pain....The only pain now is ours missing them each minute of every day..May god guide and get you through this day to come.....Always on my mind...Karen Wrate
Karen Wrate <Karenwrate@yahoo.com>
NEW HARTFORD, NY 13413 - Thursday, August 24, 2006 10:30 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers this week.
Kristin
Franklin, TN USA - Thursday, August 24, 2006 9:44 PM CDT
I have had you and Jason on my heart today.
((Hugs))
Cheryl and Angel Haley <bandcvincent@aol.com>
- Thursday, August 24, 2006 8:53 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
I'm thinking of you tonight knowing all the memories of a year ago are heavily on your mind and heart. There are no words that can take away the pain and loss you feel. No family should have to go through this. Please know how many people care for you and your family and how many people are thinking of Jason. He seemed like a very wonderful person.
Love,
Alisa
"Grief is not a sign of weakness, nor a lack of faith.......it is the price of love.
Alisa <Thudin15@msn.com>
Proctor, MN USA - Thursday, August 24, 2006 8:42 PM CDT
We're thinking of you and praying for you and your family this week.
www.caringbridge.org/visit/annawedel
Denise Wedel <denisew@uidaho.edu>
Aberdeen, ID USA - Wednesday, August 23, 2006 4:38 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
I'm thinking of you during this very difficult time.
Sincerely,
Sara
Sara <scoulson@sonnenschein.com>
Metropolitan St. Louis, MO - Tuesday, August 22, 2006 9:22 AM CDT
we lost our son to alveolar rhabdomyosarcoma only 4 months ago and the pain never seems to get better jack was 5 when he passed the only thing that keeps us going is our other children and seeing him again when we pass ,he also had a tumour in his right foot and did really well on treatment and we thought the worst was over untill he relapsed our hearts go out to you and we pray you get peace of mind one day .my wife has started a charity in memory of jack and it seems to help her carry on if u want to take a look it is www.jacks-little-stars-appeal.co.uk/
peter starowojtow <sharon.starowojtow@ntlworld.com>
manchester, united kingdom - Monday, August 21, 2006 4:04 PM CDT
Hi, Pam...checking in from south of you on this Saturday evening. I cannot believe in just days it will be a year since Jason's passing. I am almost into month 6 of my brother's passing and even when the phone rings, I think at times it might be him. Reality then hits me square in the face.
I loved your journal entry and all the musings you did while going through Jason's things. Thank you for sharing your heart here like that. Although my brother was 43, he was still his mother's son and our mom's heart is breaking as yours is..for a life that still had some living to do.
It was good to read of your family vacation. My brother loved the ocean and the beach, and collected sea shells and some sand on his last trip there. He'd never done that before, and we think he did it then, knowing it would be his last opportunity. His wife has a video of a heart he drew in the sand for her, only to have it wash away soon after. I think your writing to Jason in the sand was a beautiful gesture, and I'm sure Jason was smiling from above to receive your note!
You remain in my heart and in my prayers. I have not visited and supported you as I should have, but I have a feeling you understand where my head is now. My intentions are a lot better than my actions.
My love goes out to you and David, and your family on this night, and on many others.
Kriste Lanius
My Big Brother - Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USA - Saturday, August 19, 2006 10:50 PM CDT
Just to let you know that I am praying for you in a special way. I know this must be a difficult time for you as you grow close to the anniversary of Jason's death. Praying that God will comfort your heart.
Mary <loveabounds@wchbc.org>
Kingsport, TN USA - Thursday, August 17, 2006 9:54 AM CDT
We just popped by to check on you today.
Jodi and McKayla
Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com>
Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Monday, August 14, 2006 10:24 PM CDT
I will probably be away from my computer as the time of the sad anniversary comes ... I have been there I know how hard it will be. just as every day is hard. My sons birthday was the end of NOV and he died the end of DEC and I still have a bad month of dec every year.. isn't been 14 years now and I have to say I get through the month a little better every year though. my thoughts and prayers are with you PAM and your family... we all grieve in so many different ways......
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, August 12, 2006 8:35 AM CDT
Dear Pam, a note to let you know that you, Dave, Justin, Joshua, Jenny and Katie are in my prayers as you continue to live and deal with the loss of Jason. May God continue to hold you and provide for each of your needs in that most personal way that only He knows.
Anne
Kingsport, TN - Monday, August 7, 2006 9:18 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
As Holly says, you have people from many places, supporting you, as you approach Jason's one year anniversary. I continue to remember him beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window.
Beneath my signature, I am adding a new prayer from my bishop, Daniel William Herzog.
God bless you all!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Lord Jesus, we ask you to refresh us with the warmth of your Holy Spirit, that our hearts and heads may be fully disposed to accomplish your holy will. Give us a confidence in the truth and power of the Scriptures, in the Communion of Saints, and the call to life everlasting. Amen.
~Daniel William Herzog, Bishop Of Albany, August 7, 2006
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, August 7, 2006 7:19 PM CDT
Pam:
Thinking of you so much -- I can't even imagine how it is to relive the days leading up to 8/25, just know you've got folks everywhere supporting you as you walk this path.
Love, Holly
Holly <hhoxeng@att.net>
Denver, - Thursday, August 3, 2006 11:51 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
Thinking of you and praying for you daily.
God Bless,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Wednesday, August 2, 2006 7:36 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
I just want to remind you that I am remembering Jason and thinking of you, David, and all of your family.
God bless you always!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, August 1, 2006 0:12 AM CDT
Dear Archer family - I was browsing the caringbridge site because a friend also has rhabdo, and I came across your family page. It jumped out at me - I also have a son named Jason, in fact, our family has four kids, all Js too. My son Jordan is an 8 year survivor of rhabdo, dx at age 7, now 16 years old. Your son will be remembered in my thoughts often, what a special young man, and I will keep you all in my prayers as you live with missing him so. God bless you all,
Joni Sichting <jsichting7@aol.com>
Minnetonka, mn usa - Monday, July 31, 2006 0:32 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I have been out tonight for a hymn sing that was held in an auditorium, a few miles north of us, built originally as the center of camp meetings and revival services. I had never been there previously, although I have attended various things at the little Methodist church a few blocks away and the even smaller Episcopal church in that town. The opening hymn was "Blessed Assurance," which the song leader thinks was written for use in that auditorium, as Fanny Cosby attended the meetings up there on several occasions. Singing all of those traditional hymns made me think of the many people in my family, and among my friends, who sang those songs, as youngsters, years ago, and who have passed on. They made me also think of Jason, and other young people, who have succumbed to cancer. May God bless their sweet spirits!
My thoughts are with you, David, and all of your family. I have just paused, here at the keyboard, to pray for each one of you, and for Katie.
God bless you all!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, July 26, 2006 0:28 AM CDT
I have never met Jason or anyone in your family and came to your site because a friend of ours Richie Shannon has Rhabdo. When I read about how families think about how their son or daughter will be forgotten, I wanted you to know that someone you never met will never forget your son.
Through your website and postings we caught a glimpse inside an incredible family and an amazing young man. He lived and loved more than many of us will in an entire lifetime.
Thank you for sharing your heartache, your smiles, your tears and most of all your son who will never, ever be forgotten!!
Tricia Bishop <tj3862@charter.net>
Sparks, NV - Monday, July 24, 2006 11:25 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
During these very hot summer days, I have not been visiting CaringBridge sites very much. Tonight, it is cool, comfortable, and not raining, so I am visiting my favorite sites.
I have just paused, here at the keyboard, to remember Jason and to pray for you, David, Justin, Joshua, Jenny, Jason's grandparents, and Katie. May God bless you all!
In the sure and certain hope, and with grace and peace,
~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, July 24, 2006 2:00 AM CDT
I am so sorry for your loss. What a very handsome young man.I know that you miss him terribly and I pray Gods Strength for you. Please Visit my sons caringbridge page jaredburke....God Bless you all
Mechille Burke <Mechille@msn.com>
Tazewell, TN USA - Friday, July 21, 2006 9:04 AM CDT
Hi Pam,
Just checking in on you. I think of Jason every day. Hope you are doing well.
Lots of love,
Vandana
Sriya's mom
www.caringbridge.com/ca/sriya
Vandana Durga <vandana_durga@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, July 20, 2006 10:50 PM CDT
Pam, this is Robbie Gibson I read your message on Sage's, our son's, carepage. I read many of your thoughts that you wrote in May when you were looking at the items on Ben's tray. It reminded me of Sage; he collected everything.
Imust go now, but I will be back sometime later. We are going on vacation to the beach where my family has gone for four generations. Sage was with us last year, so this year will be so hard. It was right when we got home last year that Sage began having seizures. Then we found out the rhabdo' cells had spread to his spinal fluid. We are leaving in the morning.
Robbie Gibson <robarooskie@yahoo.com>
Big Spring, Texas United States - Thursday, July 20, 2006 10:36 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
I just wanted to remind you that I am remembering Jason and thinking of you, of David, and of all of Jason's loved ones.
Beneath my signature, I will add the collect of the day.
God bless you always!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
O Lord, mercifully receive the prayers of your people who call upon you, and grant that they may know and understand what things they ought to do, and also may have grace and power faithfully to accomplish them; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 231
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, July 16, 2006 12:14 AM CDT
Dear Pam.
Just stopping in to say hi and to let you know we are thinking of you and praying for you and your family each day.
Love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Tuesday, July 11, 2006 9:22 PM CDT
I am ashamed of myself.... I do think about you often and the grief you have over loosing Jason... I know how hard it is sometimes to get through the day. I am going to spend some time sunday with a long time friend who lost a daughter in a sensless car accident several years ago, we each still have 3 other children as you do too. we have not seen each other for over 20 or more years... she will be pssing through my area I do think about you often Pam and your family. and say a prayer every time I do
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Friday, July 7, 2006 7:20 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
I am sorry to learn that your cousin passed away. My thoughts and prayers are often with your family. I have paused here, at my keyboard, to offer a brief prayer related to that news.
I have been thinking a lot about my cousin, Leona, as her daughter, Jessica's, four month old baby, Alyssa, died earlier this week. She was a preemie, so before her final illness, with a brain tumor, and surgery last weekend, at Albany Medical Center, Alyssa had spent a lot of time in the hospital. One of Alyssa's cousin's, Keagan, son of Leona's son, Patrick, is also a preemie, and he, at five months, continues to receive constant oxygen at home. (Keagan's twin sister died a few weeks before he was born, so it has been a very rough and sad time for that division of my family.)
A 21 year old family friend, broke her leg this week. She was transferred to University Hospital, in Syracuse, as it is believed that cancer, in her thigh, caused the break.
Last Saturday, a 21 and a half year old girl in our larger family was married, as she has MS, and she wanted to marry her very caring friend, while she was still able to walk down the aisle, aided heavily by both of her parents.
The above young lady, had to drop out of cancer last fall, in her junior year, as she could not keep up with the demands of study, due to fatigue and losing much of her eyesight. Andrew has a friend younger than she, who he has known for several years, who also dropped out of school recently, due to MS.
There is a lot of sadness and pain in this world. How much sadder it would be, if we did not have faith in our holy, merciful, and loving Creator and in the redemptive work his Son did on the cross. He is the way, he is the truth, and he is the life. Jason, Alyssa, and Lefty (Patrick's daughter, as she was named on her official paperwork) are with him. That gives us all hope.
God bless you Pam, as you remember your handsome son and as you trust God, day by day, in the big things and in the small things, of everyday life.
In the sure and certain hope of the resurrection, and with grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, July 7, 2006 5:48 PM CDT
I was sorry to read that your cousin passed away. Your family is still in our thoughts and prayers.
www.caringbridge.org/visit/annawedel
Denise Wedel <denisew@uidaho.edu>
Aberdeen, ID 83210 - Wednesday, July 5, 2006 4:57 PM CDT
Dear Archers,
Thinking of you and praying for you daily.
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Wednesday, July 5, 2006 3:02 PM CDT
We are thinking of you.
Jodi and McKayla
Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com>
Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Tuesday, July 4, 2006 11:37 PM CDT
Dear Archer Family and Katie,
I am thinking of you all on this Independence Day evening. I am sure it has been a different type of Fourth of July with Jason not present. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
God bless you all, and God bless America!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Lord God Almighty, in whose Name the founders of this country won liberty for themselves and for us, and lit the torch of freedom for nations then unborn: Grant that we and all the people of this land may have grace to maintain our liberties in righteousness and peace; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book of Common Prayer, Page 242
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, July 4, 2006 7:12 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
I imagine that this weekend many be a hard one for you, as you are apt to be thinking of how ill Jason was at this time last year. Hopefully, as the months go by, you will think more of Jason's well days than of his sick ones.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all for a good Fourth of July.
God bless you always!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
A Collect For Fridays:
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, June 30, 2006 9:44 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I am thinking about you today. May God bless you and all of Jason's many loved ones.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
While grief at the loss of a loved one is great, the joy in receiving them back in the resurrection will be greater.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, June 28, 2006 8:53 AM CDT
A blood drive for Jason's birthday is a great idea - there is no better tribute than a gift of life. Maybe when it gets close to that time you could put a reminder in other CaringBridge guestbooks for people all over the country to honor him with a trip to their local Red Cross offices. No one understands the need for blood and platelets better than cancer families.
www.caringbridge.org/al/mamieadams
Mamie's Daddy <george.f.adams@us.army.mil>
Huntsville, AL USA - Tuesday, June 27, 2006 10:19 PM CDT
Pam,
Just stopped by to say hi! I know how hard it is as I miss Suryan so much. The grief seems to come in waves and then you go along with life. I think of you often.
Suryan's homepage
Laurie (forever suryan's mom) <casadewhippets@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, June 25, 2006 4:22 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I remembered Jason in Eucharist this afternoon, as I always do. I am scheduled to read, in church, tomorrow, so I will think of him then, as well.
If there is anything, at all, that I may be able to do to help you in your bereavement, do not hesitate to be in touch.
Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for this weekend.
God bless you and all of your family.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
O Lord, make us have perpetual love and reverence for your holy Name, for you never fail to help and govern those whom you have set upon the sure foundation of your lovingkindness; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 230
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, June 24, 2006 8:49 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
I am thinking of Jason, and of you, and of all of Jason's loved ones. May God bless you all!
I have followed the story of Jacob Duckworth for several months, and I try to sign his guest book often. It was good of you to mention Jacob, here in Jason's guest book, for others to learn of him and to support his parents and his sibs in their bereavement.
Beneath my signature, I will add a quotation which may be helpful.
God bless all of you beautiful Archers, and God bless Katie, too!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Jesus did not come to explain away suffering or to remove it. He came to fill it with his presence.
~Paul Claudel
Let us be open to God that his Son, our Lord, Jesus Christ, may fill us with his life-giving presence!
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, June 20, 2006 12:15 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I just want you to know that I am thinking of you and of your family. I love the picture of Jason and Katie you keep on the homepage. Please assure her of my love and prayers for her, as well as for you, David, and the rest of Jason's family.
God bless you all!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, June 20, 2006 4:03 AM CDT
Hi Pam,
Although I don't sign in often I pray each day for your family and I will never forget Jason!
Thanks for the update and please wish David a Happy Father's Day from us.
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Saturday, June 17, 2006 1:47 PM CDT
Hi just wanted you to know I stopped by today. Its always great to hear what you are doing!
wendy <wapeters2000@yahoo.com>
chandler, az - Friday, June 16, 2006 11:21 AM CDT
Hi Pam and family, you are always in mind thoughts each day and wondering how you are? I think of myself living this hell without my son and you and I know the feeling of that and known that we will never see them in this lifetime on earth again. I am always here for you, I feel we need the support of others that walk this awful path with us....I hope our sons our healed up in heaven....But I know and I know for you too we will be brokenhearted forever....You write so well the words are so true my dear friend you are always in my prayers and thoughts each day....Take care of you and your family.....Keep in touch.....Always,,,Karen Wrate ( Sean's mama forever) 11/25/05
Karen Wrate <Karenwrate@yahoo.com>
New Hartford,, NY USA - Thursday, June 15, 2006 9:51 PM CDT
Pam, I check your site almost everyday. You are in my prayers. We are in need of prayers for Cody. He had his 1st after chemo test completed today and waiting is something I do not do good at. Email me anytime you like.
www.caringbridge.org/visit/codytrivette
Robin & Cody <RobinRNBSN@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, June 15, 2006 9:31 PM CDT
A quick note to let you know I still drop by at least once a week and think of you more often than that. I can't believe it is the middle of June. As I watch my boys, I think about you and your loss of seeing Jason mature to manhood at 21 and beyond. Praying that you always feel God's love and strength each day as you deal with life's issues.
Anne <amcclell@eastman.com>
Kingsport, TN - Thursday, June 15, 2006 8:06 PM CDT
Hello,
I just wanted to let you know that I still stop by this page. I had followed Jason's story from Mark Schult's website over to this page.
Keep walking by faith may the strength of the Lord be yours daily.
In Him,
Melissa Melvin
Melissa <two_canes@hotmail.com>
Illinois - Wednesday, June 14, 2006 9:15 PM CDT
Hi Pam:
I check your site every day, although I don't stop and sign. Sorry. Colette is so faithful in offering words of encouragement.
I'm glad you got to the beach. Sounds wonderful.
I also honor you for doing some cleaning. I've been doing that -- had to get my office cleared out so I could move the desk -- new windows going in today. It was amazing the stuff I found when I was cleaning, some of it priceless and most of it junk that could be thrown away. For me, it was a freeing experience to put stuff in the trash.
Hang in there.
Holly <hhoxeng@att.net>
Denver, - Wednesday, June 14, 2006 9:47 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
Even when I do not sign Jason's guest book, I am thinking of him and of your entire family.
Thanks for updating the journal. I am glad your VBS was so successful. I hope proper follow up and prayer support is given to all those who have chosen to live with Christ in their hearts. Perhaps, since you mentioned things you would like to do in Jason's memory, there may be something there to do.
Please do not hesitate to contact me, whenever you think I may be able to help. If you would like to phone, I am almost always free to listen, to talk, and/or to pray with you.
God bless you always!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, June 13, 2006 7:17 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
I have been here several times in the last few days, but I haven't had anything specific to say. I do hope you and your loved ones had a good Pentecost.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, June 7, 2006 12:32 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I hope this has been a good day for you and for your family. I am sure this weekend is a bittersweet one for you, as it is the first Memorial Day, with Jason absent.
In my family, we always visited several cemeteries at this time. We planted geraniums and marigolds around the bases of the headstones, after washing them with Clorox water. My dad always told stories of those at rest, as we did this. Yes, it was a time for us to remember those who had died in service to our country, but it was also, as my mother called it, "Decoration Day," and we decorated family graves and remembered our loved ones and those buried nearby.
God bless you, as you remember Jason, and as you do whatever you will do tomorrow.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 28, 2006 10:06 PM CDT
Dear Pam and Family,
I am thinking of Jason, of all of you, and of Katie, each by name, this morning. I remembered Jason, within the prayers of the Eucharist, Thursday night, as I always do, beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window. May God bless his sweet spirit!
After much rain, including again yesterday, and a lot of cold weather, we appear to be having a great weekend. It is sunny, and how the birds are singing!
As I know you are, I am remembering the courage, service, and sacrifice of our World War ll veterans. Andrew and I are making plans to visit one, in his 80s, who has war stories he wants to tell. Father John has been ministering to several including one, who died recently. This gentleman needed to know he was forgiven for things he had done in war. May we all include these aspects of the lives of veterans in our Memorial Day prayers.
I am also thinking of women and men currently serving in difficult situations, and of those from other wars, including Korea and Vietnam.
Beneath my signature, I will add a hymn we sang at Eucharist, at St. George's, on Thursday night, which is appropriate to read, or sing, this weekend.
God bless you all!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Almighty Father, strong to save,
Whose arm hath bound the restless wave,
Who bidd'st the mighty ocean deep
Its own appointed limits keep:
O hear us when we cry to thee
For those in peril on the sea.
O Christ, the Lord of hill and plain
O'er which our traffic runs amain
By mountain pass or valley low;
Wherever, Lord, thy people go,
Protect them by thy guarding hand
From every peril on the land.
O Spirit, whom the Father sent
To spread abroad the firmament:
O Wind of heaven, by thy might
Save all who dare the eagle's flight,
And keep them by thy watchful care
From every peril in the air.
O Trinity of love and power,
Our people shield in danger's hour;
From rock and tempest, fire and foe,
Protect them wheresoe'er they go;
Thus evermore shall rise to thee
Glad praise from space, air, land, and sea.
Words: Stanzas 1 and 4, William Whiting (1825-1878), alt. Stanzas 2-3, Robert Nelson Spencer (1877-19610), alt.
Music: Melita, John Bacchus Dykes (1823-1876)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/e/e038.html
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, May 27, 2006 10:43 AM CDT
Dear Pam and David,
I remembered Jason, beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass, at Eucharist, for Ascension Day last night. I do remember Jason, Connor, Kevin, Tracy, Justin, and Karen, all from your area, when I am in our nave.
Today is the Feast of St. Augustine of Canterbury. I will add the collect beneath my signature.
May God bless you, your children, your parents, Katie, and all of Jason's many loved ones!
I know it will be bittersweet, but for the sake of Jesus, and in honor of Jason, try to enjoy the Memorial Day Weekend.
God bless you always!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
O Lord our God, who by your Son Jesus Christ called your apostles and sent them forth to preach the Gospel to the nations: We bless your holy name for your servant Augustine, first Archbishop of Canterbury, whose labors in propagating your Church among the English people we commemorate today; and we pray that all whom you call and send may do your will, and bide your time, and see your glory; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, May 26, 2006 11:53 AM CDT
Pam and Family, just sending hugs and prayers your way. I hope that you are feeling God's presence in your life on these warm spring days.
Kristen
www.caringbridge.com/wi/pthomsen0111
- Thursday, May 25, 2006 12:59 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I heard that about $72,000 was raised for cancer research, at the Rally for Life, in Goodlettsville. A couple of weeks ago, about $720 was raised in a bottle drive in our neighborhood. Of course, I continue to pray for preventions, cures, and better care for all of the patients and continue to remember Jason, and others, who have lost their earthly lives.
God bless you, and God bless all of Jason's loved ones, including Katie.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 22, 2006 12:29 AM CDT
oh my I didnt realize how long its been since I signed your book... I think of you a lot Pam and how much I know you are hurting. It does get better (a little) after a long time, but you will alwways miss Jason and think of the what might have beens. I keep you in my prayers... may you feel the comfort of every ones prayers....
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Monday, May 22, 2006 11:09 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
While at church on Saturday afternoon, I remembered Jason beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window. I also prayed for each of Jason's loved ones, including Katie, by individual names. May God bless you all!
Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for this weekend. It is another of my favorites.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
The Collect For The Sixth Sunday In Easter:
O God, you have prepared for those who love you such good things as surpass our understanding: Pour into our hearts such love towards you, that we, loving you in all things and above all things, may obtain your promises, which exceed all that we can desire; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 225
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 21, 2006 2:02 AM CDT
Dear Pam and David,
Not much is happening here this week, as we have had lots and lots of rain, but I do wish to greet you and to remind you that I am praying for you. Perhaps the quotation below will help.
God bless you, and God bless all of Jason's loved ones!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Joy is not a feeling in us. Joy does not enter into us. We enter into joy: “Enter into the joy of your Lord” (Mt 25:21).
~Peter Kreeft in Making Sense Out of Suffering
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, May 18, 2006 9:32 AM CDT
Hey, Pam...I haven't visited this site in a while...my mind doesn't always work as it should lately. I just wanted to stop in and let you know you're on my heart tonight and in my prayers.
My mother just experienced her first Mother's Day without a son, so yet another person has joined your "club", where no one wants to be a member. There were many prayers being said for her by our Caring Bridge family, as I'm sure there were prayers being said for you and your family.
God bless you, Pam, as you continue to miss your Jason.
Kriste Lanius
My Big Brother - Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USA - Tuesday, May 16, 2006 11:37 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
I am thinking of you and of your family today. I thought I would share a prayer from the South African author, Alan Paton, who wrote Cry, The Beloved Country and Ah, But Your Land Is Beautiful, with you. I'll post it beneath my signature.
God bless you always!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
O Lord,
open my eyes that I may see the needs of others;
open my ears that I may hear their cries;
open my heart so they need not be without succor.
let me not be afraid to defend the weak because of the anger of the strong,
nor be afraid to defend the poor because of the anger of the rich.
Show me where love and hope and faith are needed,
and use me to bring them to those places.
And so open my eyes and my ears that I may this coming day be able to do some work of peace for thee.
Amen.
~Alan Paton, (1903-1988)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, May 16, 2006 10:29 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I have been thinking of you a lot the last weekend. I didnt want to stay at home and miss Sriya terribly so, we went on weekend trip. It was extremely hard for me to wake up to Mother's day without Sriya.
I thought of you so much that day. Jason is very fortunate to have a mother like you. You have been a continuous inspiration to all of us that lost our kids to this dreadful disease. Inspite of all your pain, you still keep checking up on us. You are a great woman.
Happy Mother's Day Pam. Hope you had a good time, Jason would want you to have a lot of good times.
--Vandy
Sriya's Mom
www.caringbridge.com/ca/sriya
Vandana durga <vandana_durga@yahoo.com>
- Monday, May 15, 2006 12:29 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I was thinking of you this past weekend. I know this Mother's Day had to be bittersweet for you. I was praying for several mothers, who have lost children. I hope that you were comforted knowing that Jason is safe in God's hands and enjoying Justin, Joshua, and Jenny.
Today's saint is Pachomius of Egypt, who died in 346. He is the founder of Christian Community Monasticism. Beneath my signature, I will add the collect.
God bless you all!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
O God, whose blessed Son became poor that we through his poverty might be rich: Deliver us from an inordinate love of this world, that we, inspired by the devotion of your servant Pachomius, may serve you with singleness of heart, and attain to the riches of the age to come; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 15, 2006 7:28 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
Thinking of you today and wishing you a blessed Mother's Day.
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, May 14, 2006 4:28 PM CDT
Happy Mother's Day ! I know how bittersweet it is , missing your sweet boy.
Suryan's homepage
Laurie (suryan's Mom) <casadewhippets@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, May 14, 2006 7:39 AM CDT
LETTING YOU KNOW THAT YOUR THOUGHT OF ON MOTHER'S DAY.KEEPING YOU IN MY THOUGHTS AND IN MY PRAYER'S ALWAYS.
A Mother's Day Wish From Heaven
Dear Mr. Hallmark,
I am writing to you from heaven, and though it must appear
A rather strange idea, I see everything from here.
I just popped in to visit, your stores to find a card
A card of love for my mother, as this day for her is hard.
There must be some mistake I thought, every card you could imagine
Except I could not find a card, from a child who lives in heaven.
She is still a mother too, no matter where I reside
I had to leave, she understands, but oh the tears she’s cried.
I thought that if I wrote you, that you would come to know
That though I live in heaven now, I still love my mother so.
She talks with me, and dreams with me; we still share laughter too,
Memories our way of speaking now, would you see what you could do?
My mother carries me in her heart, her tears she hides from sight.
She writes poems to honor me, sometimes far into the night
She plants flowers in my garden, there my living memory dwells
She writes to other grieving parents, trying to ease their pain as well.
So you see Mr. Hallmark, though I no longer live on earth
I must find a way, to remind her of her wondrous worth
She needs to be honored, and remembered too
Just as the children of earth will do.
Thank you Mr. Hallmark, I know you’ll do your best
I have done all I can do; to you I’ll leave the rest.
Find a way to tell her, how much she means to me
Until I can do it for myself, when she joins me in eternity.a
LOVE ALWAYS BRENDAMY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca~~THE PRAYER BEARS~~>
EDMONTON ,ALBERTA
, - Sunday, May 14, 2006 1:55 AM CDT
~Pam Jason's Mom forever~
I came across Jason's page through another's and
I'm deeply touched by Jason's story shared on his CB site.
He lives on in every heart he touched, and I'm so blessed and honored to get to know such a Brave and Amazing young man. I wanted to leave a beautiful poem I found with you........
Wishing every Beautiful Memory of Jason your Heart can hold this Mother's Day.....
Kris Danny's Mom
www2.caringbridge.org/ca/dannymunster
Mother's day is coming... and I wanted to send you a sign.
Something you can tell others.. "Is from an angel of mine"
So I searched the Heavens high and low for that perfect thing
And low and behold I found it...and a smile I hope it will bring.
So when you look to the Heavens... and see the yellow stars in the sky
Just think of me.. your angel.. in the Heavens way up high
And just imagine those stars... are dandelions up above.........
Yes! Dandelions are also in Heaven.. .which you know much I love
So on this Mother's day... when you awake and feel blue.....
You will notice those yellow stars... are no longer in view...
So just look to the meadows and the dandelions you see...
Are the ones I've tossed down this Mother's Day from me!
And when you find a dandelion that.....turned from yellow to white...
You're supposed to make a wish.. and then blow with all your might...
For you will be blowing kisses.....to me in Heaven above...
And I will be catching them and blowing them back... sent with all my love...
Please know that I am with you... on this Mother's Day......
And also in the days ahead.... God and I will never stray...
We will be with you in the morning.... when you wake and see the sun...
We will be with you when you say your prayers.... when the day is done...
For God and I will never be.... very far from your side...
For I can now be everywhere and God will be your guide
So... remember when you see dandelions... it's your guarantee...
that I am always' close to you...
For dandelions are free to roam... now just like me.
I will always' be with you Mom...
Happy Mother's Day
Love, Your in Heaven
Author Unknown
Kris <ccougarfan@aol.com>
Ca - Wednesday, May 10, 2006 11:55 AM CDT
I am sorry for your loss, I am a St. Jude cancer survivor
of Medulloblastoma (Brain Tumor.) I crossed your story by looking up information on surgery for bilateral testicle removal, because (of Course) of cancer I am having to face loosing my testicales. Because of your story I have nothing to worry about, you always think you are worse off than any body else, but when you read these stories you realize you are actually just going through minor issues! I admire you for sharing your story it is very inspiring to me. I had a very special friend when i was at st. jude. She also Like you, she went through rhabdo. She went into remission, then relapsed twice before she ended up passing.In a small way I know what you have been through.
Brook Dupuis <country-boy@netzero.net>
Breaux Bridge, La United States - Tuesday, May 9, 2006 1:36 PM CDT
Thinking of you today and praying for God's peace to surround you. As the familiar poem reminds us, our Savior is carrying you through these difficult days. I know you think you will never stop crying, but tears are healing and in God's timing, your joy will be restored.
Mary <loveabounds@wchbc.org>
Kingsport, TN USA - Tuesday, May 9, 2006 7:08 AM CDT
Dear Friends,
Today's saint, Julian of Norwich, is one of my favorites. She is called "the first English woman of letters." She was an anchoress, living in a hut, attached to an English church, in the fourteenth century. There was a hole in the wall of the hut, so that she could look into the church, to watch the celebration of the Eucharist.
Dame Julian was sought out for her wise counseling and spiritual insights. One of her best known sayings is, "And all shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of thing shall be well." We would do well to remember that, when our worlds seem to be caving in.
Julian often referred to Jesus as "our courteous Lord." That begs the question, "What do I call him, and why? I hope all of you will join me in thinking about that on the Feast of Julian of Norwich, or sometime this week.
Pam, if there is anything I can do, at any time, you have my contact information. Please share it with Jason's grandparents, and with Katie, as the offer to listen and to share, is for all of Jason's loved ones.
Beneath my signature, I will add the collect of the day.
God bless you all!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Lord God, who in your compassion granted to the Lady Julian many revelations of your nurturing and sustaining love: Move our hearts, like hers, to seek you above all things, for in giving us yourself you give us all; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 8, 2006 7:54 AM CDT
Blessings To You, On Good Shepherd Sunday!
Yesterday, Andrew, his girl friend, and I went to Cooperstown and Oneonta for the day. We really enjoyed time at the Fenimore House, which is an art gallery on Otsego Lake. We also had dinner at the Ponderosa Steakhouse, which is one of Andrew's favorite places. (Unfortunately, all of the Ponderosa restaurants have closed down here in the Capital District, with the final one, in Saratoga, ceasing operations about five years ago.)
Pam, I think of Jason many times each week. I pray for your family, and I am here, an email away, if I can be of any assistance to you.
Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for the day.
God bless you all!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
The Collect For The Fourth Sunday In Easter:
O God, whose Son Jesus is the good shepherd of your people: Grant that when we hear his voice we may know him who calls us each by name, and follow where he leads; who, with you and the Holy Spirit, lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 225
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 7, 2006 12:56 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I have been here many times but never know what to say. I say a prayer for your family daily and all families that have this dreadful word "rhabdomyosarcoma" come into their home. You post on the rhabdo list are always helpful to me. God Bless you and your family.
www.caringbridge.org/visit/codytrivette
Robin Trivette <RobinRNBSN@hotmail.com>
Sugar Grove, NC - Saturday, May 6, 2006 8:45 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I have visited Jason's website several times this week, although I have not signed every time. I am struggling some yet with coughing from bronchitis. In fact, it has prevented me from sleeping tonight.
Pam, I cannot possibly know how you feel, losing your handsome oldest son, but it is normal for many, who have lost a son, to live at the edge of tears. I have gone through times of similar reaction over other deep, personal losses. My thoughts and prayers are with you today. You, David, Justin, Joshua, Jenny, Jason's grandparents, and Katie will be raised to the Lord for many weeks to come.
God bless you always!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, May 6, 2006 4:15 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I just noticed the references to Eric on Jason's website. I have read the newspaper account of Eric's passing, and I have visited Eric's CaringBridge site and signed his guest book. Boy, how I hate cancer!
I continue to remember Jason and to think of you, David, Justin, Joshua, Jenny, Jason's grandparents, and Katie. May God bless you all.
Beneath my signature is the collect for the day. Let it inspire us to share the God News of Jesus, whenever, and wherever we can.
God bless you always!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
O Lord, who through spiritual discipline strengthened your servant Monnica to persevere in offering her love and prayers and tears for the conversion of her husband and of Augustine their son: Deepen our devotion, we pray, and use us in accordance with your will to bring others, even our own kindred, to acknowledge Jesus Christ as Savior and Lord; who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, May 4, 2006 5:13 PM CDT
Pam:
Thanks for updating, both with how you are and the news about Eric and Kainen. The more I know about rhabdo the more I HATE it. Prayers for you as you walk through each day.
Love, Holly
Holly <hhoxeng@att.net>
Denver, - Wednesday, May 3, 2006 8:15 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
I still check your website regularly. I think of you often and know that God will remove your tears when it is right for you in your life journey following Him. You have the knowledge and insight to understand some of the impact you have on others so my prayer is that God will continue to use you and guide you in the path that gives the greatest witness for Him. I will especially remember you on Mother's Day. My prayers also include David, Josh, Justin, Jenny & Katie.
Anne <amcclell@eastman.com>
Kingsport, TN - Wednesday, May 3, 2006 8:07 PM CDT
Thank you for mentioning Eric Layer on your site. I attended his viewing tonight and it was very uplifting. Much like you all, his parents are so inspiring! We too are a cancer family - but it is so much harder to accept with children! We do humbly ask for your prayers for our family - please spread our web site for prayers if you will - we are a testament to the awesome power of prayer as "our" disease is currently under control. We will keep Jason and all of your family in our constant prayers. We look forward to meeting Jason in Heaven one day. Thank you for sharing your journey with others so we may gain strength and courage for the fear ahead.
May the arms of the angels surround you with grace and God's peace.
www.caringbridge.com/sc/stevetucker
In His name,
Jeaneen Tucker <jtucker@rte.richland2.org>
Blythewood, SC USA - Monday, May 1, 2006 10:57 PM CDT
Dear David, Pam and family...I am not sure I have written before but I know I have been to Jason's page. I too lost my son last summer. In honor of Gage, I started a project called Bear Hugs Bear. I take clothing of the loved one and sew it into a bear. I make a free one for all the cancer families as that is what my son passed away from. I would be honored to make your family one as well as Katie. They looked so sweet together. I am sorry you lost your son and have had to go down this hard path too. Angel mom hugs to you all.
Heather
Gage's Page,
BEAR HUGS BEARS
the Edwards <hinteriors@yahoo.com>
Alliance, NE - Monday, May 1, 2006 8:15 PM CDT
Dear Friends,
I remembered Jason, and others, this morning in early Eucharist, on this, the Feast of St. Philip and St. James (the Less), Apostles. In some ways that sounds strange, as we are used to thinking of feast days as honoring a specific follower of our Lord, or a specific Biblical event, such as the Annunciation, or the Transfiguration. In this case, it seems that these two are honored on the same day, as we simply do not know a lot about them. The same is true for Simon and Jude, who are honored on October 28. I will add the collect beneath my signature.
I, for one, have always enjoyed the red letter days of the church. It is marvelous to have an occasion to celebrate Eucharist on a week day and a joy always to receive the sacrament of Christ's body and blood. These major holy days are also great occasions for teaching the children through special foods, songs, and family arts and crafts. However, today's feast doesn't feel very festive.
The reason for this, is that one of the other attendees was on his way to an adjoining state, to a funeral. The deceased was the daughter of his wife's cousin. She was 26, a life long honor student, and well on her way to becoming a physician. Her death was a suicide.
I have just sent out a prayer request for my fellow St. Georgians, Wayne, and his wife, Sue, and for all of the other loved ones of the deceased young woman. I have asked people to also pause and pray for the young people in their family and in their close acquaintance. There is a lot of pressure on youth today. I hope that all of those, reading these words, will pause, as well.
For Pam, David, Justin, Joshua, Jenny, Jason's grandparents, and Katie, the loss of Jason is still very hard after eight months, but think of how much more difficult it would be, if his death was not due to natural causes. Scripture says, "Precious in his [the Lord's) sight is the death of his saints." Jason's death is in that realm. Thanks be to God!
God bless you all!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
The Collect For The Feast Of St. Philip And St. James, Apostles:
Almighty God, who gave to your apostles Philip and James grace and strength to bear witness to the truth: Grant that we, being mindful of their victory of faith, may glorify in life and death the Name of our Lord Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 240
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 1, 2006 8:21 AM CDT
Dear Pam and Family,
I have been struggling with some allergies and with bronchitis this week, so I have not been signing many guest books. I am thinking of you all, and of Katie, tonight. As I came to the site, I was praying for Katie's student teaching and for the young lady she mentioned here.
God bless you all!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, April 28, 2006 11:27 PM CDT
Dear Pam and Family,
Today's saint is George, patron of England and Portugal and model for soldiers and Boy Scouts. Since he died in 303, little is known of his life, but he was a soldier and, like Jason, a Christian gentleman.
Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for the day.
God bless you all!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Almighty God, who gave to your servant George boldness to confess the Name of our Savior Jesus Christ before the rulers of this world, and courage to die for this faith: Grant that we may always be ready to give a reason for the hope that is in us, and to suffer gladly for the sake of our Lord Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, April 24, 2006 7:20 PM CDT
Dear Archer Family and Katie,
I have been here a few other times this week, when I have not signed. I certainly do want you to know that I am remembering Jason and thinking of you all, but I have really not had any new way of saying it, or anything else to say to you. I am continuing to pray for Katie in her student teaching and for the young lady she has mentioned, who is a cancer patient.
Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for the day. If there is anything I may be able to do for any of you, Pam has my contact information.
God bless you all!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
The Collect For The Saturday In Holy Week:
We thank you, heavenly Father, that you have delivered us from the dominion of sin and death and brought us into the Kingdom of your Son; and we pray that, as by his death he has recalled us to life, so by his love he may raise us to eternal joys; who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and forever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 224
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 22, 2006 10:46 AM CDT
Dear Archer Family,
I prayed, once again, at church, during Easter Eucharist, for breakthroughs in cancer knowledge and patient treatment. Let us all continue to pray for cures and better therapies, in honor of Jason, and to the praise and glory of God.
I am remembering the young woman Katie mentioned in the journal, and I am thinking of you all.
Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for today. It is one of my favorites.
God bless you all!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Collect For The Wednesday In Easter Week:
O God, whose blessed Son made himself known to his disciples in the breaking of bread: Open the eyes of our faith, that we may behold him in all his redeeming work, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 223
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, April 19, 2006 12:38 AM CDT
Dear Pam and All,
I continue to remember Jason and to think of you all. May God bless you!
I am also praying for the girl that Katie mentioned and for her family and medical team.
Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for today, the Tuesday in Easter Week.
God bless you all!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
O God, who by the glorious resurrection of your Son Jesus Christ destroyed death and brought life and immortality to light: Grant that we, who have been raised with him, may abide in his presence and rejoice in the hope of eternal glory; through Jesus Christ our Lord, to whom, with you and the Holy Spirit, be dominion and praise for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 223
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, April 18, 2006 6:14 PM CDT
Dear Archer Family,
I read something earlier today, which I would like to share with you. It is a quote from Fra Giovanni, architect who designed the Paris Bridges, Pont Notre-Dame and Petit Pont. He was also a teacher, a classical scholar, and a priest.
Life is so generous a giver, but we, judging its gifts by their covering, cast them away as ugly or heavy, or hard. Remove the covering, and you will find beneath it a living splendor, woven of love, by wisdom with power.
Welcome it, grasp it, and touch the angel's hand that brings it to you. Everything we call a trial, a sorrow, or a duty, believe me, that angel's hand is there; the gift is there, and the wonder of an overshadowing presence. Our joys too: be not content with them as joys. They too conceal diviner gifts.
And so, at this time, I greet you. Not quite as the world sends greetings, but with profound esteem and with the prayer that for you now and forever, the day breaks, and the shadows flee.
~Fra Giovanni Giocondo (c.1435-1515)
God bless you all!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
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Dear Katie,
I have read your note about the girl with cancer, and I have begun praying for her. I cannot imagine how you must feel, learning about another young person, with the same form of the disease as Jason had. I also cannot imagine how Pam, and the other Archers, must feel learning about the girl, knowing that you are student teaching in her community, and knowing your generous heart. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, April 18, 2006 9:27 AM CDT
I thought I would post this message on the one place I thought it would receive the most prayers. I recently have began my first round of student teaching *we do a collective 5 rounds at my school* at an inner city school near my college. On my first day of teaching I was in the school's main office to check in and see what was needed of me. There I was greeted by a little girl's picture staring back at me. The principal's secretary noticed my interest in her picture and said to me "Sad isn't it?" I asked why her picture was sitting around and the lady informed me that the little girl had to drop out of school at the beginning of the semester due to the fact they discovered she was a victim of Rhabo. Naturally, the girl's picture has laid heavily on my heart since the moment I saw it and now I'm asking you all to keep her all in your prayers. I don't know much about her... not even her name... all I know is she's one of 3 children to a single working mother. I can't imagine what this family is going through and I know they could all use our prayers.
With Love,
Katie
Katie <Kealdrid@samford.edu>
Birmingham, AL United States - Monday, April 17, 2006 6:39 PM CDT
Dear Archer Family,
Without saying something that sounds trite, or worse yet could hurt you, I am at a loss for what to write tonight. I have been thinking of you all, and of Jason, during this holy weekend.
God bless you all!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 16, 2006 7:54 PM CDT
Dear Archer Family,
God bless you all on Easter! My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
O God, who for our redemption gave your only-begotten Son to the death of the cross, and by his glorious resurrection delivered us from the power of our enemy: Grant us so to die daily to sin, that we may evermore live with him in the joy of his resurrection; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 222
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 15, 2006 10:33 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
I have thought of Jason many times this past week. I have also prayed for you and your family and for Jason's friends. God bless you all!
I received this poem by Barbara C. Crafton, an Episcopal priest, and one of my favorite authors, in today's email. It is a part of a longer thought for Holy Saturday, a day of holy waiting, which Crafton sent to her online subscribers.
As always, this sharing comes with God's love and my own.
God bless you always!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Mother, this is your son
This is not my son.
You are my son.
This is my son's friend.
He is about your age.
He is strong and vital, as you were.
just this morning.
before they began to do
what they are doing to you now,
Before they drove nails into your hands
as if they were blocks of wood,
before this happened to my baby.
Now, we stand and watch,
your best friend and I.
I cannot bear to see,
but neither can I bear to leave.
And neither can he. And so, I do love him.
I love him for staying.
So I will not argue with you now
about this.
I won't allow our last talk
to be an argument.
I want so much to help you get through
this it tastes like blood in my mouth.
And there isn't anything else I can do
to help you since they won't let me come
near you, let alone touch you.
They won't even let me give you a drink.
I can't even brush your hair
out of your eyes.
You are going quickly now.
This cannot last much longer.
So all right. When this is over,
it will be John and I.
I will love him,
because he will remember you.
And you will be
all I'll want to talk about,
for a long time after this is over,
long after most people think
it's time I got over it.
But there was a time you lived in me:
I held you safe right here,
under my heart,
in the place
where you have an open wound.
You were part of my body then.
I would be part of yours now.
I would leap
to take your place up there.
I would laugh
if they drove nails into my hands
instead of yours.
I would look down at you
looking up and I would see
your chest heave with your crying
and mine would heave
with my failing breathing
and I would shout, "He lives!"
and send my last breath to the sky,
Thanksgiving.
Yesterday and today, this is what we have wanted. This is the bargain we have imagined: My life for his, okay? Do we have a deal?
We have no deal. There are no deals. We wait for Resurrrection, and we do not understand.
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Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 15, 2006 11:50 AM CDT
Keeping you in my thoughts and in my prayer's always.I KNOW THE HOLIDAYS ARE HARD.SENDING ALL MY LOVE YOUR WAY
LOVE ALWAYS BRENDAMY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca~~THE PRAYER BEARS~~>
EDMONTON
, - Thursday, April 13, 2006 0:46 AM CDT
I was just thinking about you all, and I hope you're all doing well. I saw Fro at Arby's last month I think, but I'm sorry I haven't been by to visit. My prayers are with you all.
Alycia Waters <watersa@pop.belmont.edu>
Hendersonville, Tn - Wednesday, April 12, 2006 6:39 PM CDT
glad to know that you are ok I can not even imagine the terror people feel as one of those hits.... I feel so teribble for al lthat lost homes and family members. All are in my prayers as your family continues to be too.
sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, April 11, 2006 5:41 PM CDT
Glad you're ok. Thinking of you...
Gabby
Europe, - Tuesday, April 11, 2006 4:25 PM CDT
Just wanted to let you know that I think about you all a lot and I'm still praying for all of you.
Love,hugs,and prayers,
Kathy Randolph <randolph@interl.net>
Fort Madison, Iowa - Tuesday, April 11, 2006 5:37 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I was glad to read, late Sunday night, that you and your family are safe. I was just too tired to post.
Sunday was a busy day. Andrew was out of town with friends, but I attended the Palm Sunday Eucharist, at the Cathedral of All Saints. When it was over, I walked the Stations of the Cross there, before having some lunch. Then, I returned to the cathedral for an afternoon organ concert, followed by a service about the passion, which was followed by a reception. I saw many people I had not seen in quite some time, and met some new ones. It was a long, but glorious day!
Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for the day.
God bless you always!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Collect For Tuesday In Holy Week:
O God, by the passion of your blessed Son you made an instrument of shameful death to be for us the means of life: Grant us so to glory in the cross of Christ, that we may gladly suffer shame and loss for the sake of your Son our Savior Jesus Christ, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, April 11, 2006 3:32 AM CDT
Hi Pam:
Thanks for the update and letting us know you are all OK. Yes, I can't imagine the devastation, the more I read and hear about it.
I think of you daily, just holding you up to the Lord.
Love, Holly
Holly <hhoxeng@att.net>
Denver, - Sunday, April 9, 2006 11:38 PM CDT
Dear Pam,
Please let us know, in some way, the status of your family. Apparently, the Martin family is without power, but someone has been posting about their welfare in Kevin's guest book. If you cannot post to Jason's book, perhaps you, or a family friend, can post to Kevin's guest book, or to one of the other CaringBridge guest books, so we will know how you are, and how to pray for you all.
Kriste Lanius does have power and is keeping Tracy's book updated. Maybe you, a neighbor, or a pastor, can be in touch with her, to let us know your status.
Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for today.
God bless you all!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Almighty and everliving God, in your tender love for the human race you sent your Son our Savior Jesus Christ to take upon him our nature, and to suffer death upon the cross, giving us the example of his great humility: Mercifully grant that we may walk in the way of his suffering, and also share in his resurrection; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Collect For Palm Sunday (Passion Sunday)
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 219
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 9, 2006 1:31 AM CDT
Dear Archer Family,
In the light of the severe storms yesterday, I am checking up on my Tennessee CaringBridge families. Lauren Legge, a teen living with leukemia, was the first. (A Legge friend, Russ, left a message on the Mission St. Clare Prayer Request Page, also known as The Daily Office.) From Laruen's site, I learned about Connor Hunley. From Connor's site, I learned about several, including Jason. I now have about eight that I visit in your state alone!
I have remembered Jason in Stations of the Cross on Thursday afternoon and on Friday night this week. I expect to be thinking of him, and of all of you, during several Holy Week services next week. This praying will include Katie, as well.
God bless you all, as we enter Holy Week tomorrow.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
O Lord, in your goodness you bestow abundant graces on your elect: Look with favor, we entreat you, upon those who in these Lenten days are being prepared for Holy Baptism, and grant them the help of your protection; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Collect For The Saturday In The Fifth Week Of Lent
The Book Of Occasional Services, Page 61
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 8, 2006 12:13 AM CDT
I am hoping and praying that your family is safe after all those terrible storms.. I dont post often but I do think of you a lot and know that every day is hard for you.
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, April 8, 2006 8:19 AM CDT
Dear Pam,
I am continuing to remember Jason, and to think of his family, and of Katie. Today, I thought of Jason, while I was at St. George's, for Stations of the Cross. I arrived early, so I could remember young people, who have passed to Heaven, while praying, beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window.
Father John asked me to help read the passages and the prayers that are a part of walking the Stations. One of the stations I led was thirteen. The name of this station is, "The Body of Jesus Is Placed in the Arms of His Mother." The tears streamed down my face.
Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for that station.
God bless you always!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Lord Jesus Christ, by your death you took away the sting of death: Grant to us your servants so to follow in faith where you have lead the way, that we may at length fall asleep peacefully in you and wake up in your likeness; for your tender mercies' sake. Amen.
~The Collect For Station Thirteen, The Book Of Occasional Services
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, April 6, 2006 7:50 PM CDT
Dear Pam, David, and Family,
On another Friday morning in Lent, I am thinking of Jason, and of all his loved ones. May God bless him, and may God bless you.
Yesterday, I remembered several from your area, beneath the Jesus and the Children window, just before Stations of the Cross. Stations is a lovely devotion based upon the last hours of the life of Jesus. I wish you could participate in it with me, here in Clifton Park, sometime.
Today's saint is John Donne, whose name rhymes with "sun." He was an English priest, poet, and preacher. For the last nine years of his life, Donne was Dean of St. Paul's Cathedral, in London. He drew large crowds to hear him at the cathedral and at St. Paul's Cross, an outdoor pulpit nearby.
One aspect of Donne's teachings is that whatever has being is a mirror in which we can behold our Creator. May we, too, be graced to find God in all that surrounds us, even today, even now.
Beneath my signature, I will add a paragraph from one of Donne's most famous sermons.
God bless all of you beautiful Archers!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
All mankind is one volume. When one man dies, one chapter is torn out of the book and translated into a better language. And every chapter must be so translated. God employs several translators. Some pieces are translated by age, some by sickness, some by war, some by justice. But God's hand shall bind up all our scattered leaves again for that library where every book shall lie open to another.
~John Donne (1573-1631)
KATIE: I continue to think of you. If there is anything I can do to help you, please send me an email.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, March 31, 2006 10:25 AM CST
Dear Pam,
I just want you to know that I continue to remember Jason and to think of all of you several times each week, often several times a day.
God bless you always!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, March 30, 2006 3:58 PM CST
Keeping you in my thoughts and in my prayer's always.
LOVE ALWAYS BRENDAMY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca ~THE PRAYER BEARS~>
EDMONTON
, - Tuesday, March 28, 2006 5:23 PM CST
Dear Pam,
I just read again your last posting, February 18. Your words at the end cause me to remember scripture from, I think Corinthians, "Now we see in a mirror dimly. Later we shall see face to face." Heaven will come to you, I have no doubt. Jason will wait patiently for you. You have much to do here before you see him again. As a mother of a young adult with cancer, I can't thank you enough for your guidance through a most difficult journey.
Sara Coulson <scoulson@sonnenschein.com>
Troy (Greater St. Louis, Missouri), IL - Monday, March 27, 2006 12:08 AM CST
Dear Pam,
I am thinking of you today. It is the fourth Sunday in Lent, the day that the apprentice boys of England were sent home to mother, and to mother church. I wish, on this Mothering Sunday, that God had a similar day, so Jason could be with you.
I remembered Jason, yesterday, at Holy Eucharist, beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window, as I always do, when in the nave. He is not forgotten.
Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for the day. It is one of my favorites.
God bless you always, and God bless your entire family and Katie, too!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Gracious Father, whose blessed Son Jesus Christ came down from heaven to be the true bread which gives life to the world: Evermore give us this bread, that he may live in us, and we in him; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 219
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 26, 2006 11:05 AM CST
Dear Pam and All,
Over two thousand years ago, the archangel, Gabriel, appeared to Mary, a young woman, probably between Jenny and Katie's ages, on the other side of the world from Tennessee, with a strange announcement. The holy child of God would be born, to her, to provide the way for Jason, and for all those who believe, to not perish, but to have eternal life. It is this event that the church remembers today.
Beneath my signature, I will add the words to an annunciation carol that is in my thoughts.
My thoughts of Jason continue. He will not be forgotten.
God bless you all!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
The angel Gabriel from heaven came,
his wings as drifted snow, his eyes as flame;
"All hail," said he, "thou lowly maiden Mary,
most highly favored lady," Gloria!
"For know a blessed Mother thou shalt be,
all generations laud and honor thee,
thy Son shall be Emmanuel, by seers foretold,
most highly favored lady," Gloria!
Then gentle Mary meekly bowed her head,
"To me be as it pleaseth God," she said,
"my soul shall laud and magnify his holy Name."
Most highly favored lady, Gloria!
Of her, Emmanuel, the Christ, was born
in Bethlehem, all on a Christmas morn,
and Christian folk throughout the world will ever say--
"Most highly favored lady," Gloria!
Words: Basque carol,
Translated by Sabine Baring-Gould (1834-1924), who wrote the lyrics To Onward Christian Soldiers
Music: Gabriel's Message, Basque carol
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/t/t071.html
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 25, 2006 11:33 AM CST
SO SAD TO READ OF THE YOUTH AND DISEASE THAT TOOK HIS LIFE
HOPE FOR THE FAMILIES AND ENCOURAGEMENT TO BE ABLE TO
CONTINUE ONWARD WITH HIS MEMORIES.
J WEST <judy_w83@msn.com>
CINCINNATI, OH USA - Saturday, March 25, 2006 0:24 AM CST
Dear Pam,
I am thinking of you and your family today. May God bless you all!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, March 22, 2006 6:07 AM CST
Dear Pam, David, and Family,
I have just paused to say a short prayer for all of you and for Katie. May spring be a time of new life and blessings for all of you, and for all of Jason's grandparents.
Beneath my signature, I am adding a prayer poem, which I hope you will enjoy.
God bless you all!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
March 20
Vernal Equinox
Everywhere is the green of new growth,
The amazing sight of the renewal of the earth.
We watch the grass once again emerging from the ground.
We notice the bright green atop the dark green on the pines,
the fir, the hemlock, the spruce, the cedar.
The alder is already in leaf.
The old plum trees still blossom, leaf, and give forth fruit.
The locust is late as always.
Everywhere and always the song of birds...bees
raiding the orchard, raccoon prowling at
nightfall, the earthworm tunneling the garden,
chickens and rabbits pecking and nibbling, the
goats tugging to reach new delights...all are the
ubiquitous energies of life.
O Lord,
May we today be touched by grace, fascinated and
moved by this your creation, energized by the
power of new growth at work in your world.
May we move beyond viewing this life only through a
frame, but
touch it and be touched by it,
know it and be known by it,
love it and be loved by it.
May our bodies, our minds, and our spirits, learn a new
rhythm paced by the rhythmic pulse of the
whole created order.
May spring come to us, be in us, and recreate life in us.
May we forge a new friendship with the natural
world and discover a new affinity with beauty,
with life, and with the Cosmic Christ in whom
all things were created in heaven and on earth,
visible or invisible, whether thrones or
dominions or principalities or authorities...for
all things were created through him and for him.
In his name.
Amen.
~Chinook Psalter
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, March 20, 2006 10:06 PM CST
Dear Pam,
My friend, Gert, sent me some Irish prayers and thoughts this morning. Several of them made me think of you, and of other bereaved people, I know. I will add one beneath my signature. Please note the last line.
God bless you always!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
In Times of Sorrow...
May you see God's light on the path ahead
When the road you walk is dark.
May you always hear,
Even in your hour of sorrow,
The gentle singing of the lark.
When times are hard may hardness
Never turn your heart to stone,
May you always remember
when the shadows fall—
You do not walk alone.
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, March 17, 2006 10:40 AM CST
Pam,
I found your story on the Rare Cancer website. I am weeping now as I have been touched so deeply by your story. Please, never feel that you didn't do enough. It is in God's hands and that is something we all have to accept. My niece was diagnosed with Ewings Sarcoma last week and I am desperately trying to find good news and hope searching the internet. She is 31 years old and has 2 beautiful children and a wonderful husband who would do anything for her. We would all do anything for her. We have a large supportive family and there is no shortage of love here.
Please accept my sincere sympathy for your wonderful, strong son. He sounds much like my own son. Heaven is a better place because of him.
Diane <dluli1@neo.rr.com>
Randolph, OH USA - Friday, March 17, 2006 9:27 AM CST
When you go to NE TN, do you go to Kingsport? If so, I would love to meet you sometime. I would love to hear more about jason, and to tell you more about Haley.
Thinking of you all,
Cheryl and Angel Haley <bandcvincent@aol.com>
Kingsport, Tn - Thursday, March 16, 2006 10:12 PM CST
Dear Pam,
I just went downstairs for batteries for the cordless computer mouse, but Andrew had used all of them up. I am running now on an old set, with limited life in them. I know you would love to have this problem. Everything must still be filled with thoughts of Jason and a longing to have him create some minor problems for you. God bless his sweet spirit!
Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for the day.
God bless you always!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
The Collect For The Wednesday In the Second Week Of Lent:
O God, you so loved the world that you gave your only-begotten Son to reconcile earth with heaven: Grant that we, loving you above all things, may love our friends in you, and our enemies for your sake; through Jesus Christ our Lord who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Occasional Services, Page 40
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, March 15, 2006 3:03 AM CST
Hello
Firslty, I just want to say 'Hello' and I admire your courage, This website is a great way of showing Jason and his life. I am 23 years old and I am a bit concerend about my testical area but I am going to go to the doctor's tomorrow to see what they say,
Be strong.. I admire your family alot,
Kind regards
from Scotland
Kevin
Kevin McGillies <kevingillies@hotmail.com>
Carnoustie, Scotland - Tuesday, March 14, 2006 8:14 PM CST
Just wanted you to know we are thinking of you today.
Jodi and McKayla
Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com>
Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Tuesday, March 14, 2006 5:03 PM CST
Dear Pam,
Greetings on another sunny morning in Lent. The birds are singing in Clifton Park, as I type.
I am thinking of four precious Tennessee families today: Archer, Lanius, Hunley, and Martin. May God bless each one of you on Tracy's visitation day.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, March 13, 2006 6:27 AM CST
Pam:
I just ache when I read your posting and the struggle you are going through. I agree with the posts before mine -- the what ifs torture you but don't bring Jason back. You did the best job you knew how to do raising Jason. And, no, I don't understand any of it.
Lord, behold this family, aching in loss. Please flood them with the peace that you alone can give, enable them to place this pain in your hands.
Holly
Holly
Denver, - Saturday, March 11, 2006 8:03 AM CST
Dear Pam,
I am here, in Jason's guest book, once again. Like so many others, I don't always sign, when I come to look at his pictures, or to check for an update. I do, however, pray for you, and for your family, each time I am at church and at other times. Some recent times of remembering Jason, and praying for all the Archers, were at Meditation Mass on Tuesday night and at Eucharist yesterday morning.
Anne, who wrote directly before me, has written some very wise things. I hope you will reread them, when you can. It is very important for all in bereavement, and for all in any form of trouble, or distress, to focus their attention on God. Whenever we love God and seek God, we find, as a result healing and peace.
Pam, I absolutely know that you did not cause Jason's cancer, and that you did not prevent Jason from having an earthly cure. Things happen in this sinful and broken world every day, that are beyond our imagination and beyond our control. It's very obvious that you are a good mother. Allow God's peace to come into your mind about this. If you are having trouble doing so, perhaps your pastor, or some other Godly person, can assist you. You do not need to carry a burden of guilt for something you did not do.
Even if you did cause Jason to become so ill that he could not be healed, and you did not, remember that the purpose of Jesus coming into the world was to forgive sinners. God does not want you bogged down in either real guilt, or false guilt. Put all negative and harmful thoughts into God's ample hands and allow them to stay with God.
I continue to pray for you to have the courage and grace to give all to our merciful and lovely Lord.
God bless you always!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, March 9, 2006 7:58 AM CST
Dear Pam,
I love the yellow butterflies - what a beautiful spring color. As I started reading about Justin and your comments about Justin's senior superlatives, pleasant memories from recent graduations for my boys surfaced. I felt from your descriptions that you are enjoying this time with Justin and I pray this is true. Give him a great send-off as he closes this chapter in his life and opens the next one.
I believe spending a week with parents is significantly more important to women than men. From my perspective, when it takes 3-5 hours one way to get there, I want to stay several days just to make the trip worthwhile. My husband and boys never want to stay more than a day or two. After my boys were both gone last fall, it was wonderful to go by myself to visit with my parents for 5 days. I think that was a first since I got married 29 years ago.
Your pain and regrets for not being able to keep Jason safe from harm are very understandable. I believe all parents have situations that generate these feelings. I know one mother who is in the midst of a slightly different struggle than you experienced about 18 months ago. Her son who is 19 has been battling severe depression for almost a year now and has just recently taken a leave from college because the struggle has become to hard for him to continue. I'm sure that she has many of your feelings about what to do and how to help her son. A co-worker took his brother to Nashville last week-end to bury the brother's 26 year old son who shot himself. The 26 year-old man left behind a wife, a 4 year old daugher and twin 7 month old boys. According to my co-worker, his brother is blaming himself for not being able to prevent this horrible tragedy.
Only with God's love and forgiveness can we accept our human weaknesses and once again accept that we really don't have control. I know there are times that I did not do what I knew was the best -- I was busy or distracted -- and this just feeds that feeling of inadequacy and those what ifs. I pray for you to feel God's power lift you above your self doubts and misgivings once again and refocus your thoughts and memories on all the wonderful, loving, caring and RIGHT things you did for Jason. May these feelings make you stronger and more sensitive for the future situations you will face. You are in my prayers. I also pray for David and for his parents as they deal with the issues of aging.
Anne
Kingport, TN - Wednesday, March 8, 2006 10:42 PM CST
Hi Pam, the what ifs are so easy but in the end you did all you could. we dont know the end from the begining and please donot let the what ifs keep you down. I have thought of them so often in my own case with my son but the big picture is there was nothing more I could have done and I am sure the same with you. my prayers are with you I know how your heart aches I still have two sons and a daughter too.... but one is missing
Sharon
- Wednesday, March 8, 2006 3:31 PM CST
Your friend is right. Guilt is not of God. But, just knowing that doesn't take the hurt away.
I read this today, and I thought it was for me, but maybe it was for you.
"I weep with grief,Encourage me by Your word. Keep me from lying to myself.Give me the privelege of knowing your law. I have chosen to be faithful" From Psalm 119
Cheryl and Angel Haley <bandcvincent@aol.com>
- Wednesday, March 8, 2006 11:34 AM CST
Dear Pam,
I read your journal entry with sadness, I felt the pain in your heart in mine.
PLEASE don't blame yourself for Jason's cancer. You did all the right things, you loved him like only a mom could do. I know it must be hard, I can't even imagine what you are going through, but remember we are here for you and praying, praying, praying each and every day (even the days we don't sign in) God Bless,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Wednesday, March 8, 2006 7:21 AM CST
Dear Pam,
I have read your journal update with care and concern. Try not to ask yourself the "what ifs." Doing so, only hurts you, and can affect your marriage and other aspects of your life and of the lives of those you love. Try to cultivate the habit of giving all useless and negative thoughts directly to God, as soon as you realize that you are having them. I will be praying for you to be given the strength and the grace to do so.
I attended a Meditation (Contemplative) Mass, at St. George's tonight. I arrived early, as I wanted to remember all the children who have passed, since I began praying for CaringBridge families. I held Jason, there, in the beauty of holiness, in my heart, and I prayed for you, David, Justin, Joshua, Jenny, Jason's grandparents, and Katie. God bless you all!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, March 8, 2006 1:04 AM CST
Dear Pam,
Greetings on a sunny Lenten morning. I hope you are doing as well as can be expected. With a loss like you have suffered, I am sure it is difficult just to do the "normal" things of life. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
I remembered Jason, during Eucharist, at St. George's, yesterday. I also remembered him in two World Day of Prayer services on the weekend and in various Lenten services, at St. George's, during last week. When I think of him, there is always a prayer in my heart for you, and for David, his siblings, and Katie.
There is a Lenten hymn that I especially like, so I will add it below. Your bereavement is a bit like walking through a holy Lenten season. When both are done, there is, as the song says, "an Easter of unending joy."
God bless you, dear Pam!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Lord, who throughout these forty days
for us didst fast and pray,
teach us with thee to mourn our sins,
and close by thee to stay.
As thou with Satan didst contend
and didst the victory win,
O give us strength in thee to fight,
in thee to conquer sin.
As thou didst hunger bear and thirst,
so teach us, gracious Lord,
to die to self, and chiefly live
by thy most holy word.
And through these days of penitence,
and through thy Passiontide,
yea, evermore, in life and death,
Jesus! with us abide.
Abide with us, that so, this life
of suffering over-past,
an Easter of unending joy
we may attain at last!
Words: Claudia Frances Hernaman, 1873
Music: St. Flavian, Melody From Day's Psalter, 1562
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/l/l511.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, March 6, 2006 8:10 AM CST
Dear Archer's,
Stopping in to check on you and to let you know you are daily in my prayers. Pam, your journal entry was so heartfelt. I am glad you are able to express your true feelings with us who feel we knew Jason through you. Thank you for sharing him and your family with us.
God Bless,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, March 5, 2006 9:12 PM CST
Dear Archer Family,
I remembered Jason in the World Day of Prayer Celebration, in nearby Mechanicville, on Friday afternoon, and in Clifton Park, on Saturday morning. I also remembered Jason in Eucharist at St. George's this morning. I have prayed for Katie and for each member of Jason's family.
God bless you all!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 5, 2006 4:10 PM CST
Dear Pam, David, and All,
You are all in my thoughts and prayers on this first Friday in Lent. I had an opportunity to attend the Stations of the Cross, at St. George's, yesterday. I came in just as they were starting, as I had a dental appointment, however, I stayed late to remember Jason, and several others, beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window. Jason will always be a part of my prayer life. I hope you find a little comfort in that.
I hope you know that I am here, if you ever need to talk, or if there are other things that I may be able to do for you.
Beneath my signature, I will add a collect used in the form of Stations generally used at St. George's. It is a suitable prayer for use on any Friday.
God bless you always, and God bless Jason!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Almighty and everliving God, in your tender love for the human race you sent your Son our Savior Jesus Christ to take upon him our nature, and to suffer death upon the cross, giving us the example of his great humility: Mercifully grant that we may walk in the way of his suffering, and also share in his resurrection, who lives and reigns for ever and ever. Amen.
~From Stations of the Cross, The Book of Occasional Services
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Friday, March 3, 2006 5:14 AM CST
Pam,
Your journaling breaks my heart, because I am right there with you.
I think of all the very simple things in life Haley loved..and in the last year were one by one taken from her.
She, too, had a trampoline that she loved, but like Jason, as she became sicker, she could enjoy it less and less.
There were many places I would have loved to take Haley. She never got to go anywhere in her short life, except to the Beach and to Disney. I wanted to take her out west to see "real" mountains.
She always said she wanted to live on the coast of Maine. She had never even seen it, how I would have loved to have taken her there.
We had our children here for such a short time. Too much to do, too few years.
I am praying for you,
Cheryl and Angel Haley <bandcvincent@aol.com>
Kingsport, Tn - Thursday, March 2, 2006 10:36 AM CST
I'm glad you can think of some good memories like the trampoline story. It is memories of the special times with Jason that will continue to help you survive this season of grief. But, most of all, it is the love & prayers of friends and family AND the grace of our Savior that will continue to sustain you. Unfortunately, the grief process is long and painful but slowly you recover and joy will return. I am still praying for you - a mother's love for her children is something we can't explain. Your love for Jason is an inspiration for us all!
mary <loveabounds@wchbc.org>
kingsport, tn usa - Wednesday, March 1, 2006 7:29 AM CST
Blessings To All On Shrove Tuesday!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, February 28, 2006 2:49 PM CST
I think of you often and should sign the book so you know I have been here.... I pray for you a lot too I know how hard it is to loose your son even when you have three others. I still have two sons and one daughter too
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, February 28, 2006 2:05 PM CST
We have been thinking about getting a trampoline for our 3 children to play on, and your recollection of Jason and Katie, and the many friends using it as a place to "hang out" is something I would never have even thought of! What a great idea. Pam, I still continue to pray for you. When I read your entries about how much you miss Jason, I try to imagine what it would be like if one of my own sons was no longer with me here on earth. While I can not possibly know what you must feel, I am inspired so much by you to not waste a precious moment of my time with my children. (I do not always succeed at this, but I continue to try.) Thank you for sharing your feelings and for being an encouragement to other moms.
Kristin
Franklin, TN USA - Sunday, February 26, 2006 7:16 PM CST
Dear Pam,
I enjoyed reading all the things you had to say about Jason and his trampolines. I am sure it was a blessing to overhear Jason and Katie talking on the trampoline last year. How sweet they were together!
I remembered Jason on Saturday afternoon, at Holy Eucharist. May God bless him!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, February 25, 2006 11:43 PM CST
Hi Pam and Family thinking of you in my thoughts and prayers and remembering especially today knowing that Jason has been gone 6 months and Sean 3 months...I know you are saddened as I am today just knowing the months just keep going on and we are holding onto every memory we can think of and enjoying every moment of it. I hope when spring come and the days get warmer I can feel a warmth around us.... Take care and God Bless you and your family.....Karen Wrate (Sean Mom Forever)
Karen Wrate <Karenwrate@yahoo.com>
New Hartford,, NY USA - Saturday, February 25, 2006 9:25 PM CST
I believe in You,
O Holy One,
although at times
there no longer seems
any reason for believing.
When evil stalks
my dwelling place
and loneliness leaves
indelible traces of doubt
on my childhood faith,
I light a lamp
in the secret room
where my heart hides
its tradition
and quietly hugs
Your promises
as I sing to You.
I believe in You.
Believe in me.
May we believe forever.
Amen.
~Miriam Therese Winter
Dear Pam and David,
This prayer is from one of my prayer books. I am sure there are many days, when you pray like that, or at least could. Many of the Psalms have a similar tone, so know that you are not alone.
I continue to remember Jason, and to think of you both, each and every day.
God bless you always!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, February 24, 2006 9:04 AM CST
Dear Pam,
I am remembering Jason and thinking of you today.
God bless you!
Grace and peace,
~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, February 19, 2006 1:04 PM CST
Dear Pam and All,
I hope you have been spared the windy weather we have had in southern Saratoga County this weekend. Many homes have lost power, because of downed lines, which is not cool, when the temperatures are so low.
I am thinking of you, and of your family. May God bless you all!
I will be remembering Jason when I am at Eucharist this afternoon. I will be serving as the lay reader.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
The Collect For This Weekend:
O Lord, you have taught us that without love whatever we do is worth nothing: Send your Holy Spirit and pour into our hearts your greatest gift, which is love, the true bond of peace and of all virtue, without which whoever lives is accounted dead before you. Grant this for the sake of your only Son Jesus Christ, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 216
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, February 18, 2006 7:14 AM CST
I know I'm a day late but want you to know that I was thinking of you.
LOVE ALWAYS BRENDA MY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA/CANADA, - Wednesday, February 15, 2006 2:09 PM CST
Dear Pam,
I had many thoughts of Jason, at Eucharist, this past Sunday, and I was thinking of you often yesterday. May your memories of Jason be sweet and uninterrupted by regrets.
God bless you always!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, February 15, 2006 6:55 AM CST
Happy Valentine's Day, Pam, David, Justin, Joshua, Jenny, and Katie!
I am thinking of you all, and I have just paused to pray.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Take time today to pause every now and then, take a deep breath of that moment, and know that God loves you. He will whisper “I love you” in a 1000 different ways.
~Mark Woodward
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, February 14, 2006 11:39 AM CST
thinking of you
Take care
Robyn mom to Nicole and angel PJ
www.caringbridge.org/visit/nicole
RW
Petawawa, Ontario (Canada), - Sunday, February 12, 2006 1:43 PM CST
Thinking of you...
Gabby
Europe, - Saturday, February 11, 2006 12:17 AM CST
Dear Pam,
I am here often, even when I do not write. I think of you, of Jason, and of all of your family. I pause to pray, and I wish I could do more.
I will be remembering Jason, beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window tonight.
God bless you always!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Thursday, February 9, 2006 1:58 PM CST
Dear Pam,
I pray that you will soon be feeling better. Just stopped by to let you know that I am thinking about you, David, Justin, Jenny and Katie.
Anne McClelland
Kingsport, TN - Wednesday, February 8, 2006 9:11 PM CST
Thinking of you. I enjoy reading your journal entries. Keep them up if it's good for you to write. By letting us know what kinds of days you are having, helps us know what to pray for. I feel like I know you by having read your journal entries. Keep your faith. God Bless your entire family. Cancer affects the entire family. You are living us cancer parents worst nightmare.
Joyce Zulovich www.caringbridge.org/mo/jillsjourney <stjudemom@tranquility.net>
Columbia, MO - Wednesday, February 8, 2006 4:48 PM CST
Pam, I think about you a lot and your family too. There are just no words to express how a mama feels every day after she looses a child of any age. I keep you in my prayers...
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, February 8, 2006 1:59 PM CST
Pam,
I am still thinking about you and remembering your family in my prayers.
Kristin
Franklin, TN USA - Tuesday, February 7, 2006 1:51 PM CST
Dear Pam,
I am continuing to read Jason's journal, with prayer and concern. This is a very hard time for you. I wish I could do more, from this distance, than I can.
We have four ecumenical bereavement groups, here, at St. George's, each year. I hope that if there is something like that in your community that you try to attend. I think it would really help.
Whenever you can, consciously change your sad and bitter thoughts to those that honor and point to our Lord Jesus Christ. That would glorify God, help you, and honor Jason.
Beneath my signature, I am adding a collect from Morning Prayer. It is one that I believe Jason would have loved, as I do.
God bless you!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Lord Jesus Christ, you stretched out your arms of love on the hard wood of the cross that everyone might come within the reach of your saving embrace; So clothe us in your Spirit that we, reaching forth our hands in love, may bring those who do not know you to the knowledge and love of you; for the honor of your Name. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 101
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, February 7, 2006 8:26 AM CST
Pam, David and family:
Thinking of you, and pausing to pray here tonight for peace and strength for you. For memories of Jason to bring warm smiles instead of hot tears. For your son and the decisions he's making in his life. For your family to love one another and honor Jason's memory by living life to the fullest and being prepared to join him some day.
All my love and heartfelt wishes to you tonight, Pam.
Kriste Lanius
Leave Some Love for My Big Brother -Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USA - Monday, February 6, 2006 10:50 PM CST
Dear Pam, David, and Family,
This morning, at Eucharist, I served as lector. When you get a minute, please look over the Old Testament reading I presented. It was 2 Kings 4: 8-37. It is a familiar passage to most Christians, but it speaks volumes in hope. A lady sitting directly in from of the lectern, about five rows back, just beamed, as I read. (She "lost" her daughter last spring.)
As I always do, I remembered Jason beneath the Jesus and the Children window this morning. God bless his sweet spirit!
I send my love also to Katie and to her family.
God bless you all!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Collect For The Fifth Sunday After Epiphany:
Set us free, O God, from the bondage of our sins, and give us the liberty of that abundant life which you have made known to us in your Son our Savior Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 216
Gratefully. Thankfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, February 5, 2006 1:46 PM CST
Dear Pam,
I remembered Jason Thursday, at Eucharist, at St. George's, as I do regularly. May God bless his sweet spirit! I continue to pray for you and for all of Jason's loved ones.
In Jason's honor, I have just sent out a copy of the information on childhood cancer to over 80 people in my personal address book. I have asked those receiving the information to pause and pray for a cure. As we approach the season of Lent, wouldn't it be wonderful if several of those people, and several reading Jason's guest book, would make prayer for the cure their Lenten prayer project. I intend to make it one of my person prayer areas this season.
God bless you always!
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, February 4, 2006 4:08 AM CST
Pam,
I can see how much music speaks to you. It is the same with me. Sometimes I think Haley sends me certain songs to tell me she is okay.
There is a song by Point of Grace called "Waiting in the Wings" that always reminded me of making sense of the senseless. I think you would like it.
I read some of your past journal entries and marveled at how hard it must have been for you to watch Jason struggle with decisions that were his to make.
Haley was 11 and just had to do what we told her. And, although she suffered alot of physical symptoms, she never had a "terminal" diagnosis. She died unexpectedly, and in many ways that was easier for us.
I have written too much, but you are on my heart today.
Cheryl and Angel Haley <bandcvincent@aol.com>
Kingsport, Tn - Wednesday, February 1, 2006 2:19 PM CST
Hi Pam,
I was just checking in to see how you are, and your feeling like me, so I guess we are normal missing our sons who are running around heaven together pain free.
Colleen Faulkner <Fleebis@aol.com>
Linwood, pa usa - Tuesday, January 31, 2006 8:46 PM CST
Oh wow.. I wondered what happened to your guestbook! I think you've had so many entries that they've had to archive it. That certainly says something about all the support and prayers surrounding your family :)
Karin's caringbridge site
- Sunday, January 29, 2006 9:10 PM CST
We are always thinking about you.
Jodi and McKayla
Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com>
Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Saturday, January 28, 2006 0:31 AM CST
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