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Hi Pam,
Thanks for updating, we can only imagine how difficult it must be for you. Don't worry Jason knows you were proud of him and loved him and still do!
Prayers continue for you and your family.
Jason will watch over Justin and he will be fine.
God Bless,
love and hugs,

Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Friday, January 27, 2006 5:16 PM CST

Dear Pam,

Today is another Friday. Please scroll down the page and pray the collect for Fridays, by William Reed Huntington, which I left there last Friday. That collect was shown to me on retreat many years ago, by David Ball, who was, at the time, Dean of the Cathedral of All Saints, in Albany. Dean Ball went on to be our diocesan bishop, and is now retired, but the collect will never be retired. It has done me a great deal of good, and I hope it will be of similar help to you.

I remembered Jason at Eucharist last night, at St. George's. I have just now paused to pray for you and for all of your family. Additionally, I have prayed for Katie and her parents. May God bless you all!

The saint of the day is John Chrysostom, Bishop of Antioch and of Constantinople. His Easter sermon used to be read at the end of the Great Vigil of Easter, at the Cathedral of All Saints, when Gary Kriss was the dean. I wish I could share it with you in person. It is powerful! I will add the collect for the day beneath my signature.

God bless you always! Please feel free to call at any time.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

O God, who gave to your servant John Chrysostom grace eloquently to proclaim your righteousness in the great congregation, and fearlessly to bear reproach for the honor of your Name: Mercifully grant to all bishops and pastors such excellency in preaching, and fidelity in ministering your Word, that your people shall be partakers with them of the glory that shall be revealed; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Friday, January 27, 2006 8:24 AM CST

Dear Pam,
I'm continuing to pray for you and your family, and I will add Justin to my list.
Kristin
Franklin, TN USA - Thursday, January 26, 2006 4:35 PM CST

Dear Pam,

Thank you for updating Jason's Guest Book. I have read every word with concern and compassion. Truly Jason is safe and at peace, in the nearer presence of God.

I have felt for a long time a closeness to Jason and to you all. It was interesting to read that Jason loved fruit salad, as my boys and I love it, too. In the winter, when citrus is readily available, and in the summer when berries are plentiful, I make a fruit salad just about every day. We are also taco fans.

I have just paused to pray for you and for all of Jason's loved ones, with a special emphasis on his brother, Justin. Throughout late elementary school and all of high school, my older son's best friend was a Justin. He is an amazing person and has forever made the name special to me.

If you would ever like to talk on the phone, I am here. You know the number.

God bless you, and God bless all of Jason's loved ones!

Grace, peace, love, and all good, on this the Feast of St. Paul, the Apostle,

~Colette~

O God, who by the preaching of your apostle Paul have caused the light of the Gospel to shine throughout the world: Grant, we pray, that we, having his wonderful conversion in remembrance, may show ourselves thankful to you by following his holy teaching; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Wednesday, January 25, 2006 11:53 AM CST

David & Pam, I haven't written in awhile, but you and your family never leave my thoughts and prayers. I have been attending "The Living Room" on Sunday evenings, and always spend the prayer time lifting your family up to God asking for His comfort, His strength, and His love to envelope you and hold you close to Him. I will add a specific prayer for Justin. My son, although a bit older, has drifted away from God and attending church is not a priority. I am trying to trust that God will draw Him back, but I do worry so about him. God Bless you all every day.
Kim Uldrich
Hendersonville, TN USA - Wednesday, January 25, 2006 9:26 AM CST

Dear Pam, David, Family, and Katie,

I am thinking of you all on yet another Friday morning. Last night, we celebrated Andrew's girl friend's birthday. How very much I wish the Archers and the Aldridges could be celebrating some shared time in the lives of Jason and Katie this week, as well! God bless you all, and God bless the memories of sweet Jason.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect that has been with me during so many difficult days for over twenty years. Please pray it with me today.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

A Collect For Fridays:

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, January 20, 2006 6:19 AM CST

Dear Pam,
I am blown away by your ability (and willingness!!) to articulate such touching, honest, raw emotions. Thank you for trusting us with what is in your heart.

I must say.. when I read what you wrote about the dog sniffing away at Jason's foot in that summer of 2001, my blood drained. I just saw something on TV about dogs being trained to detect cancer. In the study I saw, the dogs had a 99% success rate in detecting lung cancer from the *breath* of cancer patients. Pretty incredible!!! I hope in the near future technology can match what those dogs are capable of to allow for earlier detection.

Anyways, again, I thank you for your honesty. I check here often.
Karin's caringbridge site
vancouver, bc, Canada - Wednesday, January 18, 2006 0:37 AM CST

Dear Pam,

I am unable to sleep, so, I am here, at my keyboard, thinking of folks and praying. May God bless all of the Archers and Katie, too!

Over the last few weeks, I have been hit by a number of thoughts, verses, and sayings about being thankful. It is likely that you know this lesson in a deeper way than I do, but I will add one of the recent quotations beneath my name. I hope it will be an encouragement to you all!

God bless each one of you!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.

~Melody Beattie
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, January 17, 2006 4:30 AM CST

It has been quite a while since I checked the website on Jason. Our children's minister had told me a little about Jason and gave me the website to go on. I immediately went on it and read Jason's story. My heart was moved and I lifted Jason and your family to the Lord in prayer. I had so hoped that maybe God had brought physically healing here to him on earth. So I was heartbroken for you and your family to find that he had left this earth. I am so sorry for your hurt and loss of his presence. But knowing that Jason is in heaven and that you will be reunited again brings a flood of joy to wash over the sadness. May God continue to bless and comfort you and your family, Katie and all the rest of those who know and love Jason.
Vickie Hardy
Mt. Juliet, TN USA - Monday, January 16, 2006 1:09 PM CST

Dear Pam,

I have just scanned your words about dreading this past Christmas again. You said you dreaded it because it was your first Christmas without Jason. As I read, it came to me that perhaps next December, you will want to place Jason in your celebration in some special way.

A way that came to mind is called "The Blessing Cup." Our rector, Father Bill, uses the blessing cup in his family. One Lent, he offered to purchase a book of blessing cup prayers for every parish family, that would like to try.

We were one of those families. I purchased a white pottery cup, somewhat similar to a chalice. The cup had a simple gold cross on its side. (Some others chose to make their own cups or to buy something in pewter or glass.) We began using the cup occasionally, on special occasions, such as birthdays, graduations, firsts, and even in times of sadness.

If you like this idea, you do not really need the book, as it is only a jumping off place to start one's own blessing ceremonies.

A Christmas remembrance of Jason could involve everyone standing in a circle, or sitting at the table. Each could tell of some blessing that Jason gave them, or could recall an interesting or funny story about Jason. When done, the person could raise the blessing cup, toast Jason, take a sip, and pass the cup to the next person. Also, the stories could all be told, and then the cup could circulate.

You have eleven months to think about how you might do a blessing cup Christmas ceremony for Jason, or to find another way, to make Jason a part of your next Christmas.

I hope these thoughts have helped.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, January 15, 2006 0:33 AM CST

LOVE ALWAYS BRENDA MY LOVING DAD FOREVER MY CHRISTMAS ANGEL <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Friday, January 13, 2006 7:25 PM CST

Dear Pam,

Thank you for updating Jason's journal. You write of many family members, and I am glad that you have so many. God bless you, David, your children, and Jason's grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins! Also, God bless dear Katie.

I wish I had comforting words to say to you tonight, but except to say that I read the journal prayerfully and also remembered Jason at Eucharist tonight, I guess I don't have anything. We do, however, know who has the words of life and peace. It is, of course, our Lord Jesus Christ. Keep trusting him.

I am sure that Jason is well and happy in his heavenly home and that someday, you will see him again.

If there is anything I can do for you, you know how to reach me.

Beneath my signature I am adding the collect for today. It struck me, as I read it this morning, that it contains a good definition of the work we, as Christians, are to do. (Aelred was born in Durham, England, educated at the Scottish court, and became an abbot in France. His writings are still read.)

God bless you always!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Pour into our hearts, O God, the Holy Spirit's gift of love, that we, clasping each the other's hand, may share the joy of friendship, human and divine, and with your servant Aelred draw many to your community of love; through Jesus Christ the Righteous, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and forever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, January 12, 2006 11:10 PM CST

Pam,
You are still in my thoughts and prayers. Jason was so blessed to have a mother like you. I pray God will get you through these most painful times and will help you get to a place where all your precious memories will be what your mind can focus on. I pray your pain will lessen.
Kristin
Franklin, TN USA - Thursday, January 12, 2006 4:25 PM CST

Dear Archers,
Sorry I haven't signed in for so long. You do continue to be in our thoughts and our prayers and Jason will NEVER be forgotten.
God Bless,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Thursday, January 12, 2006 3:21 PM CST

Pam,
We are from Kingsport too! I have followed Jason for a long time. He and Haley flew to Heaven just weeks apart.
I wonder if some of your family here knows of her? My husband is a family practice doctor, and although Haley recieved most of her treatment in Atlanta, she was a patient many times at Holston Valley Med Center. In fact, she dies there. They are building a new childrens center there, and are planting a tree for Haley on the grounds.
Anyway, small world Huh?? I would love to meet you next time you are in our area. Please don't hesitate to email me if you are coming.
Hugs!
Cheryl and Angel Haley <bandcvincent@aol.com>
Kingsport, Tn - Tuesday, January 10, 2006 8:54 AM CST

Dear Pam,

I see that someone just posted from the Utica area. I have taken my boys up to the Utica Zoo a few times. Andrew and I have also visited the museum up there.

There's not much to say this morning. I just want you to know that I am thinking of you, of your family, and of Katie. God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, January 10, 2006 4:47 AM CST

Hi Pam, thinking of you in this New Year and hoping that the lord will be good to us this year...We have had a tough road with our sons, and I hope I can find Peace....I think that if Sean had to continue his life with pain and not being able to be as energetic as he always was, it just wouldn't of ever been the same for him...I wonder I believe he knew when his time was at the end but just wanted to show me he was a fighter to the end.....I miss him and cry daily myself I hope we can be strong as each day passes....I am here always I am so glad I got to meet you through the internet and the Rhado-serve list.....You and your family are in my thought always....I will keep in touch..God Bless you and your family this New Year.....Always, Karen Wrate (Sean's mom Forever).....
Karen Wrate <Karenwrate@yahoo.com>
New Hartford,, Ny USA - Monday, January 9, 2006 5:55 PM CST

Dear Pam and David and Family and Katie,

I just want to let you know that I have paused to pray for you, here at my keyboard. May God be with you in all of your thoughts of Jason and in all of your activities!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, January 9, 2006 12:25 AM CST

Dear Archer Family and Katie,

Below is a familiar quote from Fra Giovanni, which I offer you in the love of God. I hope it may be of some help.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

There is nothing I can give you
which you do not have;
But there is much, very much, that
while I cannot give it, you can take.

No heaven can come to us unless our hearts
find rest in today. Take heaven!
No peace lies in the future which is not hidden
in the present instant. Take peace!

The gloom of the world is but a shadow.
Behind it, yet within reach, is joy.
There is radiance and glory in the darkness, could we but see,
and to see, we have only to look. I beseech you to look.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, January 8, 2006 10:43 AM CST

Hi Pam. We don't know each other; we are sisters in the Lord though, and also, we share the devastation of rhabo. When I came to your site I didn't know that Jason had passed away. I am so very sorry. My daughter Sarah was dx at age 17, in October of 1999: stage 4a. Sarah is still alive. We attend an onc appt. on Monday to find out MRI results that will tell us why she's been suffering lately from a variety of symptoms. I don't expect good news. I just want to thank you for faithfully writing Jason's journal. I wish I could have known him.. but in a sense and in a very small way, I was able to see who he was, and still is, to you. Thank you for allowing me to see that. May the Lord help you breathe and remind you of His grace. Sarah's Mom, Johanne. Ontario, Canada.
Johanne
- Saturday, January 7, 2006 11:55 PM CST

Sorry to get so far behind in posting... I do think you your family and pray for you. I know how hard it is to loose your son. the hurt is there in the back of your mind no matter what you do.
I am the one that wrote you about my foot awhile back... finally saw the Dr. he asked when I fractured my foot. (I have no idea when) said it had been broken in at least 4 places really bad and several more bad spots as he put it, the pain is cause by arthritis and not much he can do about the build up of all that. so there we have it. He said it probably was years ago by the looks of it all... and may not have all happened at once either could have been hairline.... any how so now I know what it is...
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, January 7, 2006 6:31 PM CST

Dear Pam,

I am not sure what to say. But please do know that you are not alone and that we are here for you if you want someone to listen. We are going through the same pain and its not easy to accept that our kids are not here with us anymore.

i think of you and Jason all the time. He has been my inspiration when we were fighting Rhabdo with Sriya.

Pam, I am sorry that we have to start this year without our kids. But I really hope that this year will bring a little bit more closure to all of us.

Happy New Year and with lots of love,
Vandana
www.caringbridge.com/ca/sriya
Vandana Durga <vandana_durga@yahoo.com>
San Ramon, CA USA - Wednesday, January 4, 2006 6:25 PM CST

~Remembering handsome Jason and thinking of all of his loved ones!
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, January 4, 2006 4:44 AM CST

Dear Pam,

Sometimes words just fail me, but I hope it helps you to know there are those of us who understand more than you know. I hold you in my heart and prayers daily.

Jen's favorite verse was Phil 4:13 - "I can do all things thru Christ who strengthens me" Since the day she met our Maker face to face I have discovered the truth in these words. May God strengthen you and fill your heart with hope and peace.
Love and hugs
Judy
Catch An Angel
Judy Crawford <tnderheart@yahoo.com>
- Monday, January 2, 2006 10:23 PM CST

Just checking in.

What a blessing for Jason to spend this Christmas in the arms of his Savior. Isn't it amazing to think Jason isn't sad about the events of the last year, and that God is taking perfect care of him!

(((Hugs)))) to you all.
Kristen Thomsen www.caringbridge.com/wi/pthomsen0111
Wisconsin, - Monday, January 2, 2006 10:15 AM CST

Hoping for strength and peace for you in 2006.
Cheryl and Angel Haley <bandcvincent@aol.com>
- Sunday, January 1, 2006 7:21 PM CST

Thinking of you...
alyssa <sabiemc@aol.com>
orlando, fl usa - Sunday, January 1, 2006 7:05 PM CST

Dear Archer Family and Katie,

I am thinking of you all on this first day of 2006. May the days ahead be rich and full for you, as you love, honor, and serve, our Lord Jesus Christ.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, January 1, 2006 5:20 PM CST

Wishing you a happy and peaceful new year!

Gabby
Europe, - Sunday, January 1, 2006 6:49 AM CST

Dear Archer Family:
I pray for you all that this new year will bring peace and healing to you!

Cindy
Lebanon, TN - Sunday, January 1, 2006 2:02 AM CST

I will pray for you today, as a new year is about to begin. I know God will carry you through the coming days.
Kristin
Franklin, TN USA - Sunday, January 1, 2006 0:06 AM CST

Dear Archer Family and Katie,

God bless you on this, the Feast of the Holy Name of Jesus, and the beginning of a new calendar year!

Jason was remembered at church on Saturday afternoon, as I served as a lay reader. I am also praying for your neighbor, Kevin Martin, and for all of the Martin family.

May this new year of 2006 be rich in the good things of the Spirit for all of us!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Eternal Father, you gave to your incarnate Son the holy name of Jesus to be the sign of our salvation: Plant in every heart, we pray, the love of him who is the Savior of the world, our Lord Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.

~The Book of Common Prayer, Page 162
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, December 31, 2005 11:42 PM CST

Dear Archer Family and Katie,

I am thinking of Jason, and of you all, on the last day of the calendar year. I will be serving as lector this afternoon, and I will pray for you, in the beauty of holiness. God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Prayer for the Coming Year:

Oh Thou, who art ever the same,
Grant us so to pass through
the coming year with faithful hearts,
that we may be able in all things
to please Thy loving eyes. Amen.

~Mozarabic, 700 A.D.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, December 31, 2005 5:24 AM CST

Dear Archer Family and Katie,

Yesterday was the Feast of the Holy Innocents, the young children, martyred in the search to harm Baby Jesus. It is always a day when I remember children and teens, who die of cancer.

I will place the collect below my signature.

May your memories of Jason be sweet today, and may God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

We remember today, O God, the slaughter of the holy innocents of Bethlehem by King Herod. Receive, we pray, into the arms of your mercy all innocent victims; and by your great might frustrate the designs of evil tyrants and establish your rule of justice, love, and peace; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, December 29, 2005 7:53 AM CST

Dear Pam,

I am so sorry that I didnt leave a message in the last few weeks. I do come here very often to check how you are doing. You are always in our thoughts. I cant imagine starting a brean New year without our kids. Please dont hesitate to email me or call me if you want to talk.

Lots of love,
Vandana
Always Sriya's mom
www.caringbridge.com/ca/sriya
Phone: 925-556-3524
Vandana Durga <vandana_durga@yahoo.com>
San Ramon, CA USA - Wednesday, December 28, 2005 9:33 AM CST

Dear Pam, David, and Family,

Andrew and I were out to hear the Trans-Siberian Orchestra Christmas Concert, at the Pepsi Area, in Albany on Monday night. The music was good, and the special effects were fantastic!

On our way home, Andrew and I enjoyed viewing people's Christmas decorations. We especially enjoy the multi-colored lights, Nativity scenes, and Christmas trees. Some of the homemade crosses and stars are almost breath-taking, and of course, some of the penguins, snowmen, and Santas make everyone smile.

I hope you are continuing to enjoy the sounds, sights, smells, and flavors of the season. I will remember Jason, in my prayers, at Eucharist, later in the week.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for today, the Feast of St. John, the Apostle and Evangelist.

May God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Shed upon your Church, O Lord, the brightness of your light; that we, being illumined by the teaching of your apostle and evangelist John, may so walk in the light of your truth, that at length we may attain to the fullness of eternal life, through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, December 27, 2005 11:41 PM CST

I hope you made it through the weekend okay.

A friend of mine included her son the Christmas after he died in their Christmas picture.....she held a beautiful portrait of Adam on her lap and her husband held Erik who was also battling the disease that took Adam. I thought it was a great way to include Adam and she said it had a healing affect on her.

Hugs and prayers to you,
Connie Frisby-Griffin <cdlfg@adelphia.net>
Colorado Springs, CO - Tuesday, December 27, 2005 9:57 AM CST

Debbie Fields Murphy, NC Tuberous Sclerosis Assn., Chat Room: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/debbifmurphy/ <tuberoussclerosis@earthlink.net>
Snow Hill, NC USA - Tuesday, December 27, 2005 1:13 AM CST

Dear Archers,

Blessings to you on this Second Day of Christmas, the Feast of St. Stephen, the Deacon and Protomartyr! May you enjoy quality time together today.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

We give you thanks, O Lord of glory, for the example of the first martyr Stephen, who looked up to heaven and prayed for his persecutors to your Son Jesus Christ, who stands at your right hand: where he lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.

See Acts 6&7.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, December 26, 2005 8:28 AM CST

Flea.... Andrew's Aunt (www.caringbridge.org/ny/andrewsmom) <sdrawkcabmi@hotmail.com>
- Monday, December 26, 2005 2:40 AM CST

Just want you to know we are thinking about you. We pray that God will wrap his arms around you and your family during this Christmas holiday and comfort each of you. I know that you'll be remembering the beautiful memories of Jason and all the amazing things he did in his life here. Richie did enjoy meeting Jason that day when he was in Tennessee.
Peace & Blessings, The Shannon Family <ntwojesus@hotmail.com www.caringbridge.org/nv/richie>
Sparks, NV - Sunday, December 25, 2005 11:54 PM CST

Dear Archer Family,

I am thinking of you both on this Christmas night. May God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, December 25, 2005 10:26 PM CST

Dear Archer's and Katie,
Thinking of you and praying for you. We can't imagine the pain you are feeling but hope it helps to know we care.
Christmas Blessings to you,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, December 25, 2005 8:18 PM CST

Dear Pam, David, Joshua, Justin, Jenny, & Katie,
Just stopped by to let you know that I am thinking about you this Christmas. My heart goes out to you as I think about this wonderful Christmas Day that I was able to spend with both my children and my husband. May God hold you tightly, carefully and tenderly in his arms and bless each of you in His special way this Christmas.

I was shocked again this year as I saw the word, Rhabdomyosarcoma, in a Christmas letter from a friend. This year, I knew much more about that cancer than when I received your letter last Christmas. This year, I learned that my friend's husband, age 51, was diagnosed in April with Rhabdomyosarcoma in his left leg. After two rounds of chemotherapy, his lower leg was amputated. The margins were all free of cancer so they are very hopeful. In November, he was fitted for 2 new legs (he had lost the other leg years ago). At the close of her letter, my friend states, "Really though, it's been a struggle for both of us this year. There may be more to come, but thanks to family, friends, church family and the Lord above -- we will survive. Romans 12:12 "Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, and faithful in prayer.""

I'm certain that you can relate to my friend's struggles much better than I.
Anne
Kingsport, TN 37663 - Sunday, December 25, 2005 7:26 PM CST

Pam, I couldn't let the day go by without telling you how much I think of you these days. I thought of you on the 16th and again today most of all. It is unbearable - but we have Jesus to carry us when we can not walk on our own. Jason is not forgotten and each day that passes is a day closer to the time that you will see him again. Once again, you can never loose someone when you know where to find them. You definitely know where Jason is! God bless

Linda Martin <jrbtk90289@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN - Sunday, December 25, 2005 6:55 PM CST

Christmas Without You

The lights are blinking merrily
The tinsel�s on the tree
It sits there in the window
For all the world to see.

The house is filled with holly
And pinecone scents the air
The Christmas cards keep coming
Each one is hung with care.

The gifts are tied with ribbons red
And topped with pretty bows
I�m done with all the details
As far as Christmas goes.

The fire is softly glowing
I think about your touch
But Christmas isn�t Christmas
I miss you oh, so much.

If I could have just anything
My Christmas wish would be
To wake up in the morning
And find you here with me.

Staring at your picture
I long to be set free
Tonight the tears are streaming
As I hold it next to me.

Flakes of snow swirl through the air
I�m braced for stormy weather
I wait for brighter days ahead
When we can be together.

So hold a place in heaven
Someday when life is through
I�ll be the Christmas angel
Who shares this day with you.

MY CHRISTMAS ANGEL
LOVE ALWAYS BRENDA <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Sunday, December 25, 2005 5:06 PM CST

alyssa <sabiemc@aol.com>
orlando, fl usa - Sunday, December 25, 2005 10:57 AM CST

Hi Pam,

You did my calculation. I have never told anyone about my thoughts on the number of days we are around because it seems so small. Ten years 3650 days. Ugh....

Thinking of you in Minnesota. Hang in there. Give your kids a hug from me.
Deb Battah <djbattah1@mmm.com>
Lake Elmo, MN USA - Sunday, December 25, 2005 9:03 AM CST

Hodie Christus natus est
hodie Salvator apparuit:
hodie in terra canunt Angeli,
laetantur Archangeli:
hodie exsultant justi, dicentes:
Gloria in excelsis Deo, alleluja.

Today is Christ born;
today the Savior has appeared;
today the Angels sing,
the Archangels rejoice;
today the righteous rejoice, saying:
Glory to God in the highest. Alleluia!

God bless you all on this blessed Christmas morning! I remembered Jason at Holy Eucharist on Christmas Eve and thought of you all. God bless you always!

Pam, if you ever would like to talk, you know my number.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, December 25, 2005 1:44 AM CST

My heart is with you Pam and David, I just want to let you know that I know your pain. God bless you during this difficult time. Paigee's Father, Chris
Chris <ct.sixty.six@gmail.com>
CA USA - Saturday, December 24, 2005 7:03 PM CST

Pam and family, I am thinking of you as you must face this Christmas without Jason. I am so sorry for your loss and my heart just aches for you. Patty, Jessica's mom, www.caringbridge.org/mo/jessica
Patty Roth <Menmypiano1@sbcglobal.net>
Arnold, MO US - Saturday, December 24, 2005 12:48 AM CST

Dear Pam, David, Justin, Joshua, Jenny, and Katie,

I have just paused to say a short prayer for all of you, by individual names. This must be a difficult time, but remember, it is a graced time, too. Rejoice in the birth of our Lord Jesus Christ, in all that he gave us in becoming man, and in his personal coming into the hearts of all believers.

God bless you all! You and Jason are in my thoughts, day by day.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, December 23, 2005 11:59 AM CST

Dear Archer Family and Katie,

Thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, December 23, 2005 1:41 AM CST

Pam,
I come to you through Linda Martin. I have followed Jason's story and wanted you to know that I am praying hard for you during this Christmas season. You are a strong Godly woman and your children are blessed to have you as a mom. I pray that God wraps you in comfort and that you can feel His peace.
Joanne Lane <joanne1238@sbcglobal.net>
Cedar Park, TX - Thursday, December 22, 2005 9:20 PM CST

Dear Archer Family and Katie,

I am thinking of all of you often this week.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and the hope of Heaven,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, December 22, 2005 9:14 PM CST

I pray that your family enjoys special time together this Christmas. I can't even imagine what a heavenly Christmas celebration must be like...but what an amazing and blessed time it will surely be for Jason this year. I'm still praying for your family and think of you often.
Kristin
Kristin
Franklin , TN USA - Thursday, December 22, 2005 9:07 AM CST

I was reading your journal and I kept it together
until I read that Jason asked if he was dying.
Vanessa said the same thing seconds before she
passed. Her last words were "Kimmie, Kimmie you
are such a good nurse help me!", I am haunted by
these words and things don't seem to be better. I
hope that the pain lessens somehow for the both
of us.
Deborah Martinez www.caringbridge.org/ca/vanessamartinez <debra126@comcast.net>
Madera, CA United States - Thursday, December 22, 2005 0:59 AM CST

Dear Pam, David, Justin, Joshua, Jenny, Katie, and All,

I just want to remind you that I am remembering Jason this week and thinking of you all. I have just paused ot pray for each of you, by name. Remember this week, that Love, the Rose, our Lord Jesus Christ, is on the way. Rejoice in all that means to each one of us, and rejoice that Jason is safe in His eternal kingdom. He truly lightens every load entrusted to Him.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Furrows, be glad. Though earth is bare,
One more seed is planted there:
Give up your strength the seed to nourish,
That in course the flower may flourish.
People, look East and sing today:
Love, the rose, is on the way.

~Eleanor Farjeon

Lo, how a Rose e'er blooming
from tender stem hath sprung!
of Jesse's lineage coming,
as those of old have sung.
It came, a floweret bright,
amid the cold of winter,
when half spent was the night.

Isaiah 'twas foretold it,
the Rose I have in mind;
with Mary we behold it,
the Virgin Mother kind.
To show God's love aright,
she bore to us a Savior,
when half spent was the night.

The shepherds heard the story
proclaimed by angels bright,
how Christ, the Lord of glory
was born on earth this night.
To Bethlehem they sped
and in the manger they found him,
as angel heralds said.

This Flower, whose fragrance tender
with sweetness fills the air,
dispels with glorious splendor
the darkness everywhere;
true man, yet very God,
from sin and death he saves us,
and lightens every load.

Words: stanzas 1-2: German, fifteenth century carol;
trans. Theodore Baker, 1894.
stanzas 3-4: Friedrich Layritz (1808-1859);
trans. Harriet Reynolds Krauth (1845-1925).

Music: Es ist ein Ros

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/l/l189.html

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, December 20, 2005 6:20 AM CST

Dear Archer Family and Katie,

I am thinking of you all, with love, and with prayers, this Advent morning. God bless you all!

Yesterday, some of us lit the fourth Advent candle, in our church Advent wreaths, and some lit this LOVE candle, in our homes. (Those with little children just display these candles, but focus on the LOVE candle this week.) I am sending you an Advent carol, which focuses on love. May you enjoy it, and may you know that Love, the Rose, is on His way.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

People, Look East
Text By Eleanor Farjeon

People, look East. The time is near
Of the crowning of the year.
Make your house fair as you are able,
Trim the hearth and set the table.
People, look East and sing today:
Love, the guest, is on the way.

Furrows, be glad. Though earth is bare,
One more seed is planted there:
Give up your strength the seed to nourish,
That in course the flower may flourish.
People, look East and sing today:
Love, the rose, is on the way.

Birds, though you long have ceased to build,
Guard the nest that must be filled.
Even the hour when wings are frozen
God for fledging time has chosen.
People, look East and sing today:
Love, the bird, is on the way.

Stars, keep the watch. When night is dim
One more light the bowl shall brim,
Shining beyond the frosty weather,
Bright as sun and moon together.
People, look East and sing today:
Love, the star, is on the way.

Angels, announce with shouts of mirth
Christ who brings new life to earth.
Set every peak and valley humming
With the word, the Lord is coming.
People, look East and sing today:
Love, the Lord, is on the way.

(Eleanor Farjeon also wrote Morning Has Broken.)

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, December 19, 2005 8:46 AM CST

Pam
You continue to amaze me. You have more strengh than you know. I truly am appreciative of all the e-mails you send with the amazing information you find. Happy Birthday to Jason and you. You are a wonderful mother! Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!
Michelle - Emily's mom - www.caringbridge.org/tx/emilysfight & Rhabdo Kids ACOR
Mission, TX USA - Monday, December 19, 2005 8:21 AM CST

Dear Pam and David,
I'm so sorry about hearing of your son Jason losing his battle with Cancer. I did light that candle Friday night in memory of his birth, and knowing all along that the brightest light shines down on him everyday, that of Jesus Christ. You mentioned in one of your journal entries that you wondered what Heaven would be like. One of my very most favorite songs is by an artist called MercyMe. The song is entitled "I can only imagine". Are you familiar with it? The video I run constantly on my computer as it gives me a sense of peace. I hope this Christmas Season, you and your family find that peace, and know that the "SON" always shines down on you, even in the darkest of times. Our unanswered prays are not always GOD's denials!

Sincerely,
Cheryl (a friend of "Karen and Sean")
Cheryl Peters <CPsPlace30@adelphia.net>
New Hartford, NY - Sunday, December 18, 2005 8:38 PM CST

Dear Pam, David, Justin, Josh and Jenny,

I remembered Jason, at Holy Eucharist both yesterday and today. I am thinking of all of you. God bless you!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, December 18, 2005 7:10 PM CST

Dear Carolyn Aldridge and Katie,

You are both remarkable women. You are shining examples to all of us, who are moving on after difficult times, and you are kind people. God bless you both, and may you have the joyous Christmas you are wishing the Archers.

In Christ's love,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, December 18, 2005 7:08 PM CST

Just want you to know we are thinking of you during the holidays.

Jodi and McKayla

Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com>
Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Saturday, December 17, 2005 10:49 PM CST

Happy Belated Birthday to angel Jason. What a celebration he must be having in Heaven this year with Jesus at his party.
Thinking of all of you as you Celebrate your precious son and all he did while here on earth and now as he watches over you from Heaven.
God Bless,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Saturday, December 17, 2005 8:54 PM CST

HAPPY belated BIRTHDAY JASON!
Pam, David, Justin, Josh and Jenny, please know I'm thinking of you and praying during this difficult time and also with Christmas approaching.
Love,
Gabby
Europe, - Saturday, December 17, 2005 2:00 PM CST

Dear Pam,

I am continuing to remember Jason and to celebrate his nineteen and a half years with you and David. I am sure his birthday, yesterday, was a very hard day for you and for all of Jason's loved ones. God knows your pain. The Father gave his own son, so that we might have eternal life. May that thought comfort you.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Saturday, December 17, 2005 6:18 AM CST

I have been thinking of you all today.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, December 16, 2005 11:16 PM CST

Dear Pam,

My prayers are with you every day, but my heart and prayers are especially with you on this special day - Jason's birthday. Oh Pam, my heart breaks for you and I truly understand your pain and deep loss. May God draw closer to you and your precious family today than He has ever been and shower you with peace, comfort, love and hope in His promises.

Happy Birthday in Heaven Jason! You are loved and your are missed!
Love and many hugs,
Judy
catch An Angel ~ Jennifer's Place
Judy Crawford <teresavath@charter.net>
- Friday, December 16, 2005 4:17 PM CST

Dear Pam and David, My prayers and love are with you today- Jason's Birthday. And since birthdays are about gifts, I want everyone to know about the special gift your son gave my daughter-- the gift of life. Jason could have been selfish and bitter and wanted Katie to feel guilty about going on with her life but he didn't. Somehow in emails, letters and conversations he prepared her for life without him and encouraged her to have the best life she could have. People ask me all the time about her and I tell them that she is my hero and how proud I am of her--I have learned from her example. And I am so very thankful to Jason for giving her the strength to move on and being her special angel that is watching over her. Thank you for raising such a thoughtful, loving, caring and amazing son. May God bless you during the holiday season.
Love to all, Carolyn Aldridge
Carolyn Aldridge
Hendersonville, TN USA - Friday, December 16, 2005 11:50 AM CST

Happy Birthday to Jason--you will never be forgotten.
God bless Jason's family today
kd
minneapolis, mn usa - Friday, December 16, 2005 10:08 AM CST

Happy Birthday, Jason!

I'm thinking of you all today! Know you are being lifted up in prayer!
Suzanne <iamjsrc@gmail.com>
Nicholson, GA United States - Friday, December 16, 2005 9:47 AM CST

I just said a prayer for the Archer family. I know today will be so tough for you but prayers are being sent up for you. Happy Bday Jason!!!
Love and tears,
Lori P.
Lori P. <hayden01@tds.net>
Mt Juliet, TN - Friday, December 16, 2005 8:50 AM CST

I know the pain that you feel and I amazed by your grace. Please have a wonderful holiday. www.caringbridge.org/va/maxie/
Christy (mom to superstar Maxie Rhabdo Stage III) <imaqt430@aol.com>
Amelia, VA - Friday, December 16, 2005 0:04 AM CST

HI I am writing to tell you that I will be lighting a candle for your son Jason on his birthday and say prayers too, as you know I just lost my son Sean in November and I know how saddened and how your heart is broken at this time. I hope our hearts can heal in some way maybe our sons can help us through that some way...my prayers are with you and Happy Birthday to Jason....Always, Karen Wrate (Sean Reilly's Mom)
Karen Wrate <Karenwrate@yahoo.com>
New Hartford, , NY USA - Thursday, December 15, 2005 9:19 PM CST

I saw David's site from Katrina's site. Anyway, I don't think there is a greater pain that can be endured. I guess it's because as parent's you feel so helpless. My prayer's are with you. It as been 11 months since my daughter has passed. ON her birthday we released 6 pink balloons because she would have been 6 at 7:46 pm(The time she was born). Take Care www.caringbridge.org/md/qualyn

Dedra " Princess Qualyn's Mom"
GA - Thursday, December 15, 2005 8:48 PM CST

Dear Archer Family,
I found Jason's CB site through another's and wanted to thank you for sharing Jason's Brave, Courageous and Inspiring journey with everyone. I will be lighting a candle @ 6:21pm and sending him a very Happy Birthday wish all the way to Heaven. May God continue to hold you ever so close.
God bless you all.
In Christ,
Kris Danny's Mom
www2.caringbridge.org/ca/dannymunster
Kris <ccougarfan@aol.com>
Clovis, Ca - Thursday, December 15, 2005 6:38 PM CST

I promise I will have you and your family in my heart and prayers this weekend as December 16 rapidly approaches. I know it will be hard for you as this is his first birthday without him here with you. Just please know that I will be praying for you, David, Joshua, Jenny, and Justin. God bless you all and know that God is hearing all the prayers being lifted up for you all.
Kim Uldrich
Hendersonville, TN USA - Thursday, December 15, 2005 8:36 AM CST

Thinking of the Archer family and saying many prayers.
Lori P. <hayden01@tds.net>
Mt Juliet, TN - Wednesday, December 14, 2005 11:49 AM CST

Dear Pam,

My heart bleeds for you each time I come to visit Jason's site. Know that everything you are feeling is normal (ask anyone of us who has been there). This path we call grief is a seemingly endless, winding, overwhelming road. They say time is a great healer but I'm not sure we can ever recover from the loss of our precious children. My heart and prayers are with you.

Love and hugs
Judy
Catch An Angel ~ Jennifer's Place
Judy Crawford <tnderheart@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, December 14, 2005 11:30 AM CST

A PRAYER FOR TODAY
From Forward Day By Day

Advent Expectancy

In the darkness we can see the tiniest glimmer of light.
We're in a tunnel, a long, dark tunnel,
but at the end there is the light of Christmas.
As we journey towards the light,
keep us unafraid of the darkness.
Give us courage and honesty
in facing the truths of our world,
so that we may come to the Christ child
with our lives full of hope.

God bless you all. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Wednesday, December 14, 2005 5:20 AM CST

Dear Pam,
I am still praying for you and stopping by to visit Jason's website. Although I have never met you, I have such a tender place in my heart for you...the way you write in the journal reminds me of my own mother. I pray it brings you some comfort to know that so many people continue to think about your precious Jason, and continue to ask for God to wrap His loving and comforting arms around you.
Kristin
Franklin, TN USA - Tuesday, December 13, 2005 1:30 PM CST

Dear Archer Family and Katie,

I am thinking of you. We are having a Blue Christmas service, here in Clifton Park, sponsored by the area council of churches. Hospice also puts on these services. I hope, if you have a similar service near you, this month, that you will try to attend. They are especially for people in bereavement, but most of the services are also helpful to people with any loss, such as loss of health, home, family, or career.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and hope,

~Colette~

HOPE IS willing to leave unanswered questions unanswered and unknown futures unknown. Hope makes you see God's guiding hand not only in the gentle and pleasant moments but also in the shadows of disappointment and darkness.

~Henri Nouwen in Secrets of a Good Life
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, December 13, 2005 12:43 AM CST

Dear Pam,

Of course you've heard these words before, but let me tell you again. You did nothing wrong to cause Jason to develop cancer. Nor could you have known microscopic cells were growing in his foot. As mothers, I think we always feel guilty when our chidren get sick, whether it's a cold when they are 3, or a broken arm or anything else. Accidents happen. Mommys can't stop the randomness of the universe. I don't know why our children get cancer. But I want you to stop putting any blame on yourself. I know you know there is a greater plan. Some day we will see it clearly. Right now our mirrors are still dim. Jason and our other angels have gone to help Jesus prepare the mansion in heaven. I will see you there. Until then, you continue to be an inspiration to me here on earth. Sincerely,
Sara Coulson <scoulson@sonnenschein.com>
Greater St. Louis Area, MO/IL - Tuesday, December 13, 2005 9:38 AM CST

Dear Pam,

Merry Christmas and Best wishes !

dustin peng <dustin282@hotmail.com>
chengdu, china - Tuesday, December 13, 2005 2:22 AM CST

I of course will light a candle for Jason on his birthday. I hope it's full of good memories, rather than overwhelming sorrow.
~Love Leah www.caringbridge.org/va/katrina
Leah Nelson <ScorchingTundra@msn.com>
Raynham, MA US - Monday, December 12, 2005 11:13 PM CST

Pam, I sent you an email this after noon and just thinking about it now I know I forgot to sign it. I think of you and say a prayer for you often,
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, December 10, 2005 7:42 PM CST

Dear Archer Family,

What joy came into your lives at 6:21 p.m. on December 16, 1985! My oldest cousin, also had a baby boy on December 16, but it was in 1977. Also, December 16 is the birthday of one of my best friends. I certainly will think of Jason, as I think of these other two dear ones.

When you were expecting Jason, did you keep a journal? If so, it would be wonderful to re-read that journal this week.

I send you all, and this includes Katie, good wishes, as you remember, reflect, and pray.

God bless you!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, December 10, 2005 2:05 AM CST

I just want you to know that I am thinking about you. I stop by this page at least once a week. My prayers are with you, as you go through this holiday season without Jason.
In Him,
Melissa <two_canes@hotmail.com>
IL - Friday, December 9, 2005 2:15 PM CST

I continue to check Jason's site and lift you in prayer each time that I do. However, it's been some time since I've posted in your guestbook and I apologize for that. Sometimes it's a matter of not having the words and others it's just being in a rush.

I read your most recent post yesterday and thought about you all yesterday and throughout the night. I'm no counselor but I am a mom and I think that your grief is so understandable and justifiable. We don't all grieve the same, that's for sure. I'm sure your husband didn't mean to push you away and, yes, the headache probably did play a role in his response. Don't be ashamed of your grief or your thoughts. You must work through this YOUR way (and he must work through it his). However, there is absolutely no shame in seeing a counselor...none at all. My father-in-law (age 59) passed away suddenly last January and my mother-in-law has benefitted by talking with a Christian Counselor. I will continue to pray for you.
Kelley Williams <kelleywms@hotmail.com>
Franklin, TN USA - Friday, December 9, 2005 11:47 AM CST

We are praying for the Lord's sustaining peace and comfort as you face Jason's birthday and Christmas without him. I will pray that the Lord will make heaven a reality to you in a way that comforts you as you picture Jason and his healed body celebrating his first Christmas at his Savior's feet. May the Lord bless you and your family!
The Martin Family <angiermartin@charter.net>
Helena, AL - Thursday, December 8, 2005 6:50 PM CST

I know it's been like forever since I've visited you.
I have just been so busy.
But I think of you always.

My First Christmas in Heaven

I see the countless Christmas trees,
Around the world below,
With tiny lights like Heaven�s stars
Reflecting on the snow.
The sight is so spectacular,
Please wipe away that tear,
For I�m spending Christmas,
With Jesus Christ this year.
I hear the many Christmas songs,
That people hold so dear,
But the sounds of music don�t compare,
With the Christmas choir up here.
I have no words to tell you,
The joy their voices bring,
For it is beyond description,
To hear the angels sing.
I know how much you miss me,
I see the pain inside your heart,
But I am not so far away,
We really aren�t apart.
So be happy for me, dear ones,
You know I hold you dear
And be glad I�m spending Christmas,
With Jesus Christ this year.
I send you each a special gift,
From the heavenly home above,
I send you each a memory,
Of my undying love.
After all �Love� is a gift,
More precious than pure gold,
It was always most important,
In the stories Jesus told.
Please love and keep each other,
As my heavenly father said to do,
For I can�t count the blessings of love,
He has for each of you.
So have a Merry Christmas,
And wipe away that tear,
Remember, I�m spending Christmas,
With Jesus Christ this year.

LOVE ALWAYS BRENDA MY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Wednesday, December 7, 2005 2:13 AM CST

I just read all the diary. You are really an amazing mother! Your son is an amazing and brave son. I believe that Jason is with you all the time, prtecting you and waiting until he will be reunited with you.
I pray that God bring you some comfort to your heart.
OlgaM <omoreno2@houston.rr.com>
houston, TX USA - Tuesday, December 6, 2005 8:06 PM CST

Pam et al,
Thank you for continuing to tell your story, even in the darkness of these days. You are an inspiration to us all, and I know you can't wait to see Jason again.
Kristen Thomsen www.caringbridge.com/wi/pthomsen0111
- Sunday, December 4, 2005 1:56 PM CST

Pam,
This is Nancy Levin from Rhabdo Kids. I want you to know that I so admire your capacity to continue in the Rhabdo world - with such grace, generosity, and compassion. I don't know that I am big enough for that. As you know, my son Miles is 17 years old. His birthday is the day that Jason passed: August 25. He will be 18 on his next birthday, and I pray that he continues to be willing to fight; it will be his decision then, as you know. When I realized that Miles birthday is the same day that Jason passed, I imagined passing a torch. I read your website often, from beginning to end. Jason was such a dear not boy but young man, capable of such love. Just wanted you to know of these thoughts that I've had for months.

Warmly,

Nancy (mother of Miles - stage 4 ARMS)
Nancy Levin <nanc11@comcast.net>
Bloomfield Hills, MI USA - Sunday, December 4, 2005 8:55 AM CST

Thank you all for your continued prayers. They mean so much to me especially with the holidays coming up. I just wanted to request, if its not too much to ask of you, to pray for another little girl. My friend from school Amy, who met Jason only the couple of times he came to visit me, told me of a prayer request she had and I wanted to pass it along to people I know are committed to their prayer time. Amy's little sisters, Emily, has a friend who just passed away after struggling w/ a brain tumor for 5 years. The young girl was only 12 years old at the time of her death. I know how difficult this will be for all involved and my heart goes out to all of them. I just hope that you will pray for them as you have prayed for me over the past year and a half.
Thank you all for your presence in my life.
With Love and God Bless,
Katie
Katie (Proud to have loved Jason) <Kealdrid@samford.edu>
Birmingham, AL USA - Friday, December 2, 2005 10:55 AM CST

~Thinking of you all!

Grace, peace, love, and hope,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, December 2, 2005 2:49 AM CST

Still praying for you and your family.
Kristin
Franklin, TN USA - Tuesday, November 29, 2005 1:50 PM CST

Know we are thinking of you.

Jodi and McKayla

Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com>
Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Tuesday, November 29, 2005 12:17 AM CST

Just wanted you to know I am thinking of you. And I am praying for your friends!
Kathy H. <firecap.wife@verizon.net>
T.O., CA - Monday, November 28, 2005 0:49 AM CST

Dear Pam, David, and Family, and Katie,

I continue to remember Jason during Holy Eucharist, and at other times. He was a beautiful young man, and I miss him. How much more your grief must be!

I hope you can all set aside some time this Advent to center on what the original coming into the world of Christ means and what his second coming means. I am trying to do the same with participation at an Advent Quiet Day planned for later in this week. Try to reflect upon God and not think about Jason or any other personal matters, just be still and be quiet in His presence.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and hope,

~Colette~

The greatest thing is to give thanks for everything. He who has learned this knows what it means to live. He has penetrated the whole mystery of life: giving thanks for everything.

� Albert Schweitzer

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, November 28, 2005 0:34 AM CST

I was praying for your family on this Thanksgiving. Praying that blessings will come your way.

A prayer warrior from Texas
- Sunday, November 27, 2005 10:07 PM CST

Dear Pam, David, and Family, and Katie,

Greetings on the first Sunday of Advent. May the hope that is celebrated during this first week of Advent be with you in new and satisfying ways.

Saturday I remembered Jason at Eucharist, at St. George's. We lit the first candle in the parish Advent wreath and we had our Advent frontal on the altar. Advent is one of my favorite times.

Please pause and sing/pray with me the words of one of the oldest Advent hymns (Latin sixth century), "O Come, O Come, Emmanuel." Sing it often this year. The Lord is waiting to come to you in a deeper, new way. He truly wants to close the paths of misery in your lives and fill you with himself.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

O come, O come, Emmanuel,
and ransom captive Israel,
that mourns in lonely exile here
until the Son of God appear.
Refrain:
Rejoice! Rejoice!
Emmanuel shall come to thee, O Israel.

O come, thou Wisdom from on high,
who orderest all things mightily;
to us the path of knowledge show,
and teach us in her ways to go. Refrain

O come, thou Rod of Jesse, free
thine own from Satan's tyranny;
from depths of hell thy people save,
and give them victory over the grave. Refrain

O come, thou Dayspring, come and cheer
our spirits by thine advent here;
disperse the gloomy clouds of night,
and death's dark shadows put to flight. Refrain

O come, thou Key of David, come,
and open wide our heavenly home;
make safe the way that leads on high,
and close the path to misery. Refrain

O come, O come, great Lord of might,
who to thy tribes on Sinai's height
in ancient times once gave the law
in cloud and majesty and awe. Refrain

O come, thou Root of Jesse's tree,
an ensign of thy people be;
before thee rulers silent fall;
all peoples on thy mercy call. Refrain

O come, Desire of nations, bind
in one the hearts of all mankind;
bid thou our sad divisions cease,
and be thyself our King of Peace. Refrain

O come, O come, Emmanuel,
and ransom captive Israel,
that mourns in lonely exile here
until the Son of God appear.

Refrain Words: Latin, twelfth century;
trans. John Mason Neale (1818-1866), 1851

Music: Veni Emmanuel (fifteenth century plainsong)

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/o/o084.html

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.

~About that mentioned of sixth century, that is what my Latin teacher told me many years ago. My personal hymnal says ninth century. The Oremus Hymnal says twelfth century, but they all agree that it is an old Latin hymn. Do pray it with me this December.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Sunday, November 27, 2005 0:17 AM CST

Pam-
Still thinking of all of you and praying for you and your family.
Your friend in Ohio
- Friday, November 25, 2005 8:04 AM CST

My heart continues to break for you and your family, David and Pam. My prayers are with you in a special way with the holidays here. I hope you were able to enjoy the day just a bit with fond memories of Jason and your family in happier times. I hope thinking of what he would say to you today--really thinking of what he would say to you today if he could--will bring a smile to your face.

You are always close in thought and prayers. We hit a little bump in the road in my family, so I am "off" a bit in posting to CB sites. But the prayers are still on schedule, with the Archer's being a part of them!

Feel a hug from me to you...

Kriste Lanius
Leave Some Love for My Big Brother -Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USA - Thursday, November 24, 2005 11:50 PM CST

alyssa <sabiemc@aol.com>
orlando, fl usa - Thursday, November 24, 2005 10:10 AM CST

Hi,we are thinking about you all and praying for you today.
Love,
Kathy Randolph and family <randolph@interl.net>
Ft. Madison, Iowa - Thursday, November 24, 2005 8:08 AM CST

Dear Archer Family and Katie,
We will be remembering Jason and your whole family tomorrow morning at Thanksgiving Mass. May you have a blessed Thanksgiving, we know it will be a difficult one for you, but know we are praying for you.
God Bless,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Wednesday, November 23, 2005 9:23 PM CST

Hi Pam,
I have been back to this site several times but just could not find the words to sign but now i wanted to share something with you.We lost our daughter suddenly a few months ago and i know so well the huge hole that losing a
child leaves in your heart there are days when i think of our daughter and i smile and there are days when i just can't stop the tears from flowing.
I know in my heart the Lord doesn't give us us loved ones to keep "He" only loans them to us for awhile and i thank God for the time that both you and i shared with our children here on earth and for the miracle that "He" gave us in being their mothers for even a short time.
God bless and be with you through this Holiday season.
Trish/Angel_Wings(Angel_Wings@yahoogroups.com) <Kngboyer@aol.com>
Kingston, TN USA - Wednesday, November 23, 2005 2:41 PM CST

Dear Archer Family and Katie,

I am thinking of you all this Thanksgiving. May you know and feel the love of God and the kindness of friends.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, November 23, 2005 11:34 AM CST

Praying for you in a special way. I remember how hard the first holidays were after my father passed away and I am sure it is even harder with the loss of a child. Praying for peace and comfort for all of you.
Mary Myers <loveabounds@wchbc.org>
Kingsport, TN USA - Tuesday, November 22, 2005 2:04 PM CST

You don't know me, I came to your site through Richie Shannon and Kevin Martin so I am one of those people checking in, praying, but not leaving a message.
Although I do not know Jason or your family personally I came to know your hearts through your journals. I pray that God will hold you in these awful times and give you the peace of knowing your child is just over the horizon and you will see him again. This is a peace that so many people still don't know.
God has used your lives and your story to touch so many lives and he will continue to do so.
I will pray that as you take your walk in the woods this Thanksgiving God will speak to you and help you to find comfort in His arms.
God Bless you and your family, you will always be a family of 6.
Tricia Bishop <tj3862@charter.net>
Sparks, NV - Tuesday, November 22, 2005 11:20 AM CST

Hi Pam,
I am still checking in on you. Although I have not lossed a child to cancer nor have had a child with cancer, it is all so sad to me. Thinking of you in Minnesota!

Deb Battah <djbattah1@mmm.com>
Lake Elmo, MN USA - Monday, November 21, 2005 7:40 PM CST

Dear Pam and family,Katie too,
Jason's love for you and his heavenly father shine brightly in the stories you have shared with all of us on the web who may not have been fortunate enough to have met him. It is through your journaling that his faith will continue to touch others lives in ways unbeknownst to you. May God bless and keep you all until you are reunited once again in Heaven.
Kim O-C <canicare4u@comcast.net>
Vancouver, WA - Monday, November 21, 2005 2:11 AM CST

Dear Archer Family and Katie,

As the previous writer, I will be thinking of you during the first Thanksgiving with Jason in Heaven. These firsts are difficult, but with God's grace, you will go through and beyond each one.

Today, I remembered Jason at Eucharist.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, November 21, 2005 0:42 AM CST

Thinking about you today. And will be on Thanksgiving too, these "firsts" are so very difficult.
Hugs!!
Cheryl and Angel Haley <bandcvincent@aol.com>
- Sunday, November 20, 2005 10:51 AM CST

Pam, I found Jason via Jill's guestbook. All my love and prayers to the Archer family - especially as the holiday season quickly approaches. Jason was just a few months younger than my oldest son. My heart aches for your loss. But is joyous in your faith and love of our Lord God. Fly free Jason! Take care of all our little ones that the Beast has taken from earth.
Kathy & Laurel <kathy_urban@hotmail.com>
Myrtle Beach, - Saturday, November 19, 2005 8:55 AM CST

Dear Pam and David,

I have seen recent notes from both of you in Kevin Martin's guest book. God bless you both for thinking of others, only two and a half months after Jason's passing! It speaks volumes about the type of people you are.

I remembered Jason on Thursday night, beneath the Jesus and the Children window, where I remember Connor, Ian, Cheyenne, Justin, and many others. God bless them all!

I will think of you, your children, Katie, and others close to Jason, in church on Thanksgiving and as I enjoy my family time. Please let me know if I can help you in any way.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, November 19, 2005 5:26 AM CST

Dear Archers,
I am guilty of checking often but not signing in every time. You are and always will be in our thoughts and our prayers. Have a Blessed Thanksgiving, we will be remembering you and your family and definitely Jason at our Thanksgiving liturgy. Take gentle care and know we are still "here"
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Friday, November 18, 2005 7:15 PM CST

May you have a peaceful Thanksgiving holiday. I will give thanks for the guidance you've provided me during our last year.
Sara Coulson <scoulson@sonnenchein.com>
Greater St. Louis Area, IL - Friday, November 18, 2005 4:21 PM CST

Dear Pam and family,

Thank you so much for such a moving entry. Jason was very lucky to have a mom like you. I'm glad you stay in touch via Rhabdokids, I read everything and post occasionally. Know that Leah and I keep you in our thoughts and prayers. She is 14 months post tx, and still her scans are clear!!

All the best wishes for you and your family.

Bill, dad to Leah, 16, Relapsed ARMS, 10/03, OT since 9/04.
Bill Rapp <wildbill164@aol.com>
Pawtucket, RI USA - Friday, November 18, 2005 4:03 PM CST

I'm sorry I don't sign in more often. I have Jason's website bookmarked and check it often. You are in my prayers daily. You're a wonderful mom.
Reva Kinnally <kinnallymr@msn.com>
Schenectady, NY USA - Friday, November 18, 2005 3:04 PM CST

Hey just wanted you know I am reader of your site often. When I need a reality check or a pick me up or a wake up call, I know I can get that from reading your words. I am sorry I dont sign the guest book more often, I really should and will attempt to do so.

Good luck with your flower planting!
wendy <wapeters@cox.net>
mesa, az usa - Friday, November 18, 2005 2:36 PM CST

Pam,
I do check Jason's site. although I've never signed in. I cried when I read the part about daddies building playhouses and taking more time with their children. Jason's work on earth was done, but the effects of his life and death still ripple out to all who knew him and many who never did.
God bless your wonderful family as you walk this road of grief. May uou be comforted by the peace of knowing that Jason is with Our Lord and you will be reunited when your journey is complete
Sally
Phila, PA - Friday, November 18, 2005 11:11 AM CST

Dear Pam,

I just stopped by to let you know you are in my heart and prayers. No one can imagine how deep your sorrow is unless they have been in your shoes. I know the holidays are going to be very difficult without precious Jason in your house. But he will be all around you Pam. He is the gentle breeze that tousles your hair, the sun that breaks through winter's clouds to warm your face, each drop of rain that beads on your window, and the stars at night.

And because Christ died, one day we will all be going home. Pam how I wish we could all join hands and go now. Jason, my Jennifer and all our angels are helping Christ prepare our banquet table. They are making plans for our reunion and what a reunion it will be. I long for the day I can look at you and all I have met on this journey and see only tears of joy.

May God be near to comfort you and fill your heart with hope and peace.
Love and hugs
Judy
Catch An Angel ~ Jennifer's Memorial Site
Judy <tnderheart@yahoo.com>
Cookeville, TN - Friday, November 18, 2005 8:47 AM CST

Dear Pam,
I just wanted to let you know that I'm one of those who check your site regularly but don't sign. I'm not sure if I have ever signed the guestbook. It's not because I wouldn't care, it's just because I fail to find the right words. I also thought nothing I would write could ease your pain. I realize though that a few encouraging words might help and also the thought that your family is thought of especially with the approaching holidays. I also wanted to tell you that I admire your strength and the way you talk about your family so fondly. (((HUGS)))
Love,
Gabby
Europe, - Friday, November 18, 2005 3:23 AM CST

I am one of those who check on you often and don't sign. I'll change that.

I love your comment about kids getting dirty. I told our 9 year old not to stress out over stains and dirt, it's why she wears hand-me-downs and nice stuff I get on sale. She's a kid, she's suppose to get dirty. She always smiles and off she goes...but she's getting to the age where she doesn't like to be dirty. It's not cool.

I can't imagine how difficult this holiday season is going to be. Please know that your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Hugs,
Connie Frisby-Griffin <cdlfg@adelphia.net>
Colorado Springs, CO - Thursday, November 17, 2005 10:17 PM CST

Living without your loved one is so hard. You learn that heartache and waves of grief are accurate descriptions not just words. My thoughts and prayers are with you still.
Kathryn
- Thursday, November 17, 2005 6:00 PM CST

I always check Jason's site. I don't always sign. I am praying for you.
Lori <Hayden01@tds.net>
Mt Juliet, TN - Thursday, November 17, 2005 4:37 PM CST

Pam, my heart goes out to you and your family. Your strong faith is an inspiration to me. I keep your family in my prayers for healing, comfort, and strength. God bless you!
Cindy Biebighauser
Woodbury, MN US - Wednesday, November 16, 2005 11:38 PM CST

Know that although I've never met any of you, when I came across Jason's site after my cousin died and saw that he had Rhabdo like she did, my heart kind of latched onto this website and your family. When Jason died it hit me extra hard because Rhabdo took another beautiful soul. I stop by often and I sign as much as I can. I wish you all peace.
~Love Leah www.caringbridge.org/va/katrina
Leah Nelson <ScorchingTundra@msn.com>
Raynham, MA US - Wednesday, November 16, 2005 10:44 PM CST

I came across Jason's site through "share the love". I did actually read through to the bottom of your entry and enjoyed in tremendously. You see, I am the mom of 3 little boyz (my youngest is an AML survivor, 21 months post-transplant doing great). In fact, I am the mom of Jacob, Joshua & James and ironically enough had Jimmy been a girl he would have been named Jennafer. The smile on my face was huge as you spoke of your little ones going off to bed, as I just put my little gigglers down minutes before reading your entry. And once again, I've experienced "happy tears" through the eyes of another wonderful mother. It is so obvious how much you love your Jason. What a truly beautiful family you have. You will remain in my thoughts & prayers. God Bless.
Sharon Marczuk (carepages.com - care page name: JamesStevenMarczuk) <squeeks6896@msn.com>
Sugar Grove, IL 60554 - Wednesday, November 16, 2005 8:42 PM CST

Hi Pam, I just want you to know that, though I don't sign often, I still stop by regularly. *prayers*
Karin's caringbridge site
vancouver, bc, Canada - Wednesday, November 16, 2005 8:34 PM CST

Ms. Pam, this is Andrea, Chris Russell's girlfriend. I just wanted to say that I am praying for your family everyday. I love Justin and Jenny is so sweet. You are the most amazing mom I have ever met. I hope you have a good day.
Andrea Nunaley <anunaley@comcast.net>
Hendersonville, TN USA - Wednesday, November 16, 2005 7:05 PM CST

Praying for your family at this time.
Jodi and McKayla

Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com>
Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Wednesday, November 16, 2005 0:56 AM CST

Dear Archer Family. You are living us cancer parent's worst nightmare. Living without your precious child. I will say an extra prayer for you during the upcoming holidays.

Even tho our daughter, Jill, has been NED since 8/04, we are all walking on egg shells. We return to Memphis for her quarterly scans in Dec. Pray for our strength and sanity. You know the stress involved with tests and waiting for the results.
Joyce Zulovich www.caringbridge.org/mo/jillsjourney <stjudemom@tranquility.net>
Columbia, MO - Tuesday, November 15, 2005 7:42 PM CST

Dear Archer Family - Although we have never met, I have prayed with you and for you for a long time now. I want you to know that I do stop in to check on you all from time to time. Eventhough I do not always leave a message, I am praying for you all! God bless you!
Cindy
Lebanon, TN - Tuesday, November 15, 2005 2:46 PM CST

Shame on me for not leaving more messages. I try to check the site once a week. I am still praying every single day for you, David, and your children. It is good for you to write down your thoughts - not only do they help you but they touch each of our hearts who read them. Your honesty and heartwarming notes remind each of us to love our friends and family to the fullest. Thank you for continuing to share.
Mary Myers <loveabounds@wchbc.org>
Kingsport, TN USA - Tuesday, November 15, 2005 1:19 PM CST

Still stopping by...I have followed Jason's site for some time but have never left a message. More often than not, I am moved to tears by your words. Praying for your family.
Karen
St. Paul, MN USA - Tuesday, November 15, 2005 9:52 AM CST

I have followed Jasons site for over a year, and never signed in. Today I felt like I could have been the one writing your words, I so related to everything you said. I am glad you are continuing to journal. I know, for me, it has been like therapy since we lost our daughter.
Continue to lean on God, He is all we have at times like these.
Cheryl and Angel Haley <bandcvincent@aol.com>
- Tuesday, November 15, 2005 7:48 AM CST

Pam, just a short note to let you know that I check for your updates almost every week even thought I don't leave messages. Looks like the one I left in early November was among those that disappeared. I shared your story with a friend at work a few weeks ago and tears came to her eyes just thinking about your sadness and loss. I care about you, Dave, Justin, Josh, Jenny and Katie and pray that as you experience many new "firsts" over the next year that these sad memories will gradually be blended with all the great memories for healing peace. I cannot imagine that you will ever lose the hurt and loss of Jason's death and sincerely appreciate your witness of faith sharing your feelings and thoughts here.
Anne McClelland <mcc1999@hotmail.com>
Kingsport, TN USA - Monday, November 14, 2005 9:13 PM CST

Dear Pam,

I remembered Jason beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window again this past weekend. I continue to think of your family often.

I am glad you are talking things through in Jason's journal. It is important to air your feeling, not to bury them. May I suggest, if you are not already doing it, that you acknowledge the Lord, just before you type? He knows your feelings, but, by addressing him, as you begin, you make the journaling into a prayer.

God bless you, David, Justin, Joshua, Jenny, your mother, and all of your family!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Monday, November 14, 2005 6:50 PM CST

Hi Pam, I still stop in to check on you and your family...though I don't always leave a note. I just got finished planting bulbs at the cemetery, it has been so nice here the past few days, with colder weather due by the end of the week so it may be my last chance. Just want you to know that you are in my thoughts....
Kellie Davideit, Angel Ian's mommy forever <kelbri27@optonline.net>
Metuchen, nj usa - Monday, November 14, 2005 2:43 PM CST

I just wanted you to know that I am still visiting and reading your updates. I came to your site through Connor Hunley's site (which I stumbled upon several months ago). I'm so sorry for your loss and I pray that you will allow Jesus to restore your happiness. Jason is now pain free and in heaven celebrating and waiting for your arrival. You and your family are in my prayers daily.
Erin <erinmfoster@hotmail.com>
Grapevine, TX - Monday, November 14, 2005 1:44 PM CST

Praying for you and your family today and the days that lie ahead.From one Mother to another with an Angel and a broken heart
May God Be with you and Hold you as the days go by.
He will give you the strength to smile again and remeber all the Good and Happy Memories.
Gods Love and Blessings
www.geocities.com/angelmomfriends5/kayla1.html
www.caringbridge.com/kayla
www.caringbridge.org/tn/mimmie

You gave them the gift of life and they gave you the gift of love in return, Nothing can deney that gift exchange.
TCF
April "Angel" Mikayla Mimmie and Hunter Noah and Zach <babymsmom04@yahoo.com>
TN USA - Friday, November 11, 2005 10:59 PM CST

Hi, Pam..thinking of you and your family tonight and in the days ahead. You will be experiencing many firsts, and I pray for friends, family, memories....the love of our God--Jason's God--to surround you and give you peace.

You and David and your family are loved. My sympathy continues to be with you in the loss of your beautiful Jason.

Much love,
Kriste Lanius
Leave Some Love for My Big Brother -Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USA - Friday, November 11, 2005 6:16 PM CST

Dear Pam,

I have just looked though Jason's pictures once again. He was so handsome, and he also had a good sense of humor. I know you miss him, although I can not fathom the depth of your grief.

I am thinking of you, your family, and Katie. God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, November 11, 2005 9:11 AM CST

You are one of the few people who I know understand exactly how much I hurt right now because we are both in the same horrible place. I know what what we would both give for just a hug from our babies, everything. Know that I check on you and that I understand the depth of your pain. May God grant us peace.
Deborah Forever Vanessa's Mommy
Deborah Martinez www.caringbridge.org/ca/vanessamartinez <debra126@comcast.net>
Madera, CA United States - Friday, November 11, 2005 1:21 AM CST

What an amazing young man Jason was! You must be so very proud. Praying for Gods peace to encompass you at this time of great sorrow. Jason has touched so many lives, his legacy and memory will live on forever in the hearts of all that new (new of) him! God bless you sweet family!
the Widmers
Racine, WI USA - Thursday, November 10, 2005 9:50 PM CST

Hi Everyone,
I am just checking to see if I can post to the guestbook. I am sorry that the last weeks entries have somehow been deleted. I don't know what happened, but I didn't delete them. Katie left a message saying that the 8th would have been their 1 year anniversary and that it was always hard for her and thanking you for praying. Thank you for praying for all of us.
Pam
Pam Archer <davidandpam.archer@comcast.net>
Hendersonville, TN USA - Thursday, November 10, 2005 11:05 AM CST

Dear Pam,

I just heard the Rascal Flatts song yesterday on the way to work. Thank God I was close to the office. I was crying so hard I don't know how I made it back.

Pam I don't think our kids wanted us to see their fear and I believe their strong faith gave them courage. I know Jen tried to shield and protect me and I imagine the same was true for Jason.

Jen's birthday is this Friday November 11 and I have been struggling all week. It has been 11 years since God drew her home. I have had several anniversary dates, birthdays, and holidays without her and I still struggle. I know how hard it is for you.

Please know my heart and my prayers are with you and your precious family. If I can help Pam, I am just a click away.
Love and hugs
Judy

I can promise you it will get easier and God's grace is sufficient but that will do little to comfort you right now. That's why I am so thankful you are still able to write here. We love hearing stories of your beautiful and wonderful Jason, we share your heartache and your tears and I am holding you in my heart and my prayers.

May God hold you!
Love and hugs
Judy
Catch An Angel
Judy Crawford <tnderheart@yahoo.com>
Cookeville, TN - Tuesday, November 1, 2005 11:07 PM CST

Dear Archer Family and Katie,

Blessings on the Feast of All Saints! In my faith tradition, this is the fourth most holy day of the year. Perhaps you would like to try this. Take a minute and think of at least three Biblical Saints that have impacted your life. Then pause and thank God for them. Next, think of at least three Saints from all the years past Biblical times up until 1900. Reflect on how they have influenced your life. Finally, think of at least three modern day Saints (capital letter, meaning well-known people, tomorrow is All Souls' Day, so you can look at your parents and grandparents, your Sunday School teachers, your pastors and youth group leaders, and so on, then). Ponder how these have affected you and our society, and then, thank God for them.

Beneath my signature, I will add a song we always sing on All Saints' Day. It is considered a children's song, but it is a favorite of Episcopalians of all ages. Mrs. Scott wrote it, and several others, for her own three children. In most of our churches, all of the children march in on All Saints' Sunday, dressed as a Saint, or carrying the shield of a Saint, while this hymn is sung.

At the end of this song, my older son always used to add, "Me, too!" Isn't that what all of the Christian life is all about? Let's all say, "Me too!" to the last sentence of the hymn today.

God bless you always!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

I sing a song of the saints of God,
Patient and brave and true,
Who toiled and fought and lived and died
For the Lord they loved and knew.
And one was a doctor,
And one was a queen,
And one was a shepherdess on the green:
They were all of them saints of God�and I mean,
God helping, to be one too.

They loved their Lord so dear, so dear,
And his love made them strong;
And they followed the right, for Jesus� sake,
The whole of their good lives long.
And one was a soldier,
And one was a priest,
And one was slain by a fierce wild beast:
And there�s not any reason�no, not the least,
Why I shouldn�t be one too.

They lived not only in ages past,
There are hundreds of thousands still,
The world is bright with the joyous saints
Who love to do Jesus� will.
You can meet them in school, or
In lanes, or at sea,
In church, or in trains, or in shops, or at tea,
For the saints of God are just folk like me,
And I mean to be one too.

Lyrics: L.L. Scott (1898-1986)
Music: Grand Isle, by John Henry Hopkins, Jr. (died 1945)

Who are the saints mentioned in the song? I have heard that these are the ones Mrs. Scott was thinking about.

doctor: Luke
queen: Margaret of Scotland
shepherdess on the green: Joan of Arc

soldier: Martin of Tours
priest: John Donne
killed by a fierce wild beast: Ignatius

JASON WILL BE REMEMBERED WHEN I RECEIVE EUCHARIST TODAY!

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, November 1, 2005 4:17 AM CST

Praying for God to carry you through.
June Humphrey <junehumphrey@yahoo.com>
Goodlettsville, TN, God Bless The USA! - Monday, October 31, 2005 10:31 PM CST

LOVE ALWAYS BRENDA My Loving Dad's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Monday, October 31, 2005 10:08 PM CST

Dear Archer Family and Katie,

I am thinking of you all tonight.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, October 31, 2005 5:12 PM CST

alyssa <sabiemc@aol.com>
orlando, fl usa - Monday, October 31, 2005 7:30 AM CST

Dear Archer Family and Katie,

I am continuing to think of all of you. These days of increasing darkness must be difficult, as we await the annual celebration of the birth of Jesus and the lenghtening of days that follows. I am praying for all of you.

Tonight, the Valaam Singers, from Russia, will be at St. George's. I will remember Jason and pray for his loved ones, while seated in the nave.

Gode bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Sunday, October 30, 2005 1:10 PM CST

Pam,David,Justin,Jenny,Josh, just a note to let you know that we are praying for all of you. I know words can�t possibly ease the pain, but please know that we love you. I too believe Jason is looking down and smiling at all of us and that is at peace with our Lord.
Judy Jones <jonesjudyb@comcast.net>
Hendersonville, - Friday, October 28, 2005 8:13 PM CDT

Dear Archer Family and Katie,

I am continuing to have difficulty using the CaringBridge sites, so this will be short. I do want you to know that I am remembering Jason and thinking about you all, with loving prayers.

Pam, thank you for updating Jason's journal and for being so honest. God, who looks upon the heart, will comfort and sustain you.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, October 27, 2005 3:15 AM CDT

Thinking of your family.
Jodi and McKayla

Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com>
Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Wednesday, October 26, 2005 4:39 PM CDT

To Jason's family,

My name is Shannon and I lost my daughter to Ewing's sarcoma at just 5 years of age. Emily passed away August 18 2005 at 2:12 am. She was only diagnosed in January of this year. I just want to say I am so very sorry for Jason's passing. I think I first found his page on the Candlelighters website. He was a very brave young man. I know that he is in a better place just like my Emily. I hope they meet up there. She loves to make others smile. Please feel free to e-mail me at bes727800@adelphia.net. I am sorry we have the passing of a child in common. I don't have anyone around me who has lost a child.

Sincerely Shannon
Shannon <bes727800@adelphia.net>
Dunmore , PA USA - Monday, October 24, 2005 1:58 AM CDT

What a beautiful and painful entry. A beautiful tribute to Jason and so obvious the pain you are feeling.

I had to smile when you mentioned a song making you cry. I find that happens a lot in church, both happy and sad tears.

Thanks for continuing to update and let us know how you are. May you find comfort in God's loving arms and each other.

Hugs,
Connie Frisby-Griffin <cdlfg@adelphia.net>
Colorado Springs, CO - Saturday, October 22, 2005 5:41 PM CDT

David and Pam: Praying for you as always, and especially thinking of you for the weekend, for the upcoming cool weather, the holidays--as I'm sure all will trigger more things you love and miss about Jason--sights, sounds, smells, tastes. So many triggers. It just means he was and is so very loved.

I wish I could do or say something magical to help with your broken hearts. I only offer my love and prayers and support for your comfort, strength, and peace.

May God continue to guide your footsteps on this journey,

Kriste Lanius
Leave Some Love for My Big Brother -Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, t\ USA - Friday, October 21, 2005 11:01 PM CDT

Dear Pam,

You and Jason have always been my inspiration while we go through this painful journey ourselves. I always talked about Jason and I still do to my family. I really really wished for a miracle for Jason and now I am wishing the same for my daughter Sriya.

I always wanted to email you but never knew what to say. I still keep wondering how one can go through this pain. It hurts like hell. I am so sorry that Jason is not with you. And its not silly to cry when you see his favorite foods. I dont think I will ever be able to buy any fruit in my life after Sriya leaves us. Thank you for praying for us. YOu are always in our thoughts.
--Vandana
www.caringbridge.com/ca/sriya
Vandana Durga <vandana_durga@yahoo.com>
San Ramon, CA USA - Friday, October 21, 2005 11:39 AM CDT

Dear Pam,
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers daily even though it's been a while since I've signed. Although I cannot imagine what you've been through, I do know the pain and sorrow of losing a much-loved child and my heart goes out to you.
Take care,
Kathryn (Linda Martin's friend)
- Thursday, October 20, 2005 6:50 AM CDT

Pam~
I have been following your son's story for about 6 mos. I am so sorry that he is gone now. I praise the Lord that he knew His Savior and he is now in eternity with Him! I just had to write tonight after reading your entry. The song Blessed Be Your Name has also been very special to me. That song is what got me through many of my trials this summer, yet nothing in comparison to Jason's. Thank you for reminding me to bless His name, even on the road of suffering. You are in my prayers.
Michele
www.caringbridge/org/or/michele
Michele
Salem, Oregon USA - Wednesday, October 19, 2005 11:22 PM CDT

Just wanted to let you know that you all are in our thoughts and prayers!
Kathy Randolph and family <randolph@interl.net>
Ft. Madison, Iowa - Wednesday, October 19, 2005 9:31 PM CDT

Your family is still in our thoughts and prayers. I sure do wish that there was no such thing as cancer.

www.caringbridge.org/visit/annawedel
************ <denisew@uidaho.edu>
Aberdeen, ID USA - Tuesday, October 18, 2005 4:48 PM CDT

Praying for you all.
Jennifer Kaas <princess_power34@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Tuesday, October 18, 2005 12:25 AM CDT

Pam-I continue to pray for you and your family-your son was an incredble young man with a very strong faith. I know that you are all so proud of him, and I am sure that he is proud of each one of you. May God be with you and give you strength and peace.
your friend in Ohio
- Monday, October 17, 2005 9:32 AM CDT

Dear archer family, I cant even see the computer screen trhough the tears. Wow katie and her moms letters and your unconditional Love for the Lord. I dont know how you all stay strong and not angry when you Loose a child. I know we arent suppose to question God. I am a christian but I have trouble when children die. Im so sorry for you loss. jason sounds just so so special! your in my prayers. katie your a wonderful girl!
Kim <dakk2222@netnitco.net>
IN - Sunday, October 16, 2005 11:31 PM CDT

Dear David, Pam and family-
Looking in on you tonight and offering prayers for all of you, the Martins, the Shannons and the Hunleys. We wish you Peace . Jim and Lisa in CT
Jim and Lisa
- Sunday, October 16, 2005 9:23 PM CDT

Thinking of the Archers and Katie with love tonight. My prayers and heart continue to be with you all.

Warmly,

Kriste Lanius
Leave Some Love for My Big Brother -Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville\, TN USA - Saturday, October 15, 2005 9:14 PM CDT

Dear Pam, David, Family, and Katie,

I continue to think of Jason and of you all. I have been having additional trouble signing CaringBridge guest books, but I am here, I read Jason's homepage, and I am praying. God bless you all!

I, too, remember seeing pictures of Jason with Ryan Martin and Richie Shannon. It is very sad that all three teens have been so severely touched by cancer at such young ages.

A couple, at St. George's, has been having us pray for her nephew, for a few years. JP (James Philip) had cancer. His chemo took care of it, but left him with heart damage. About a year and a half ago, JP had a heart transplant, but it failed, and he, a local lad, died at Columbia Presbyterian Hospital in New York, this past Sunday, at age 19. Like Jason, JP was a handsome young man, with a wonderful future.

Please hold onto your faith in God and to the love you have for each other. It will get you through, and it will get JP's family through.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

The Collect For Proper 24, The Collect For This Weekend:

Almighty and everlasting God, in Christ you have revealed your glory among the nations: Preserve the works of your mercy, that your Church throughout the world may persevere with steadfast faith in the confession of your Name; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book of Common Prayer
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, October 15, 2005 0:57 AM CDT

Thank you Pam, so much, for asking for prayers for us and for Richie. So often I think of the picture of Jason, Richie and Ryan. All 3 kids dealing with cancer. Looking at them that day was just looking at 3 teens - playing video games as if nothing else mattered. Why couldn't life be that simple? I think and pray for you and for God to carry you through this time. Take care!

Linda Martin <jrbtk90289@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, Tn - Thursday, October 13, 2005 6:54 AM CDT

Always here for you
LOVE ALWAYS BRENDA My Loving Dad's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Thursday, October 13, 2005 0:24 AM CDT

Archer Family:
You've been on my mind and I thought I'd let you know. Jason touched so many lives, even those of us he never met.
Please know you are in my prayers.
Connie- Mom to Jeff(21)
www.caringbridge.org/oh/jeffreyscott
Connie Guy <conguy2801@aol.com>
Twinsburg, OH USA - Tuesday, October 11, 2005 11:41 AM CDT

Pam, David and Family, and Katie:

Thinking of you all tonight and praying that your love of Jason, each other and our Lord will sustain you.

Words of comfort are hard to come by, but please know that you are loved, cared for, and thought about often.

You are a faithful friend, Pam, to mention so many others who need prayers at this time while you and your own need them, too. I am following Kevin and Richie, and have known Connor's family since I was a teenager. Your prayers are mine, too.

May God bless you all, and give you strength and peace as each day passes and you continue to miss Jason's smile. He is not forgotten.

Much love and peace,

Kriste Lanius

Leave Some Love for My Brother - Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USA - Monday, October 10, 2005 10:57 PM CDT

Dear Pam and Family,

Thank you for updating Jason's journal. I do think of all of the Archers, and of the other CaringBridge families I know, in Tennessee, often. I also have Richie Shannon on my prayer list.

I wish you good memories of Jason and quiet joy this week.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Monday, October 10, 2005 7:39 AM CDT

Dear Katie,

How I wish Jason could be with you to celebrate eleven months of friendship and love! If there is anything at all I can do to help you, now, or at any time, please email. You have my address, and if you have lost it, Jason's mom, and other CaringBridge families, from Tennessee, have it.

You are moving on, but take time to grieve, or it will hurt you later.

God bless you always!

Grace and peace,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, October 10, 2005 7:35 AM CDT

Dear Archer Family and Katie,
I have been praying for the families you mentioned daily, Connor was the very first Carringbridge site I ever visited and through his site I have found many new friends around the world. (many of them in TN.:) The Martin's asked for prayers for Jason and for Richie and therefore I "met" you and the Shannon's. God Bless you for sharing your feelings with all of us. We can only imagine where as those who have been through the heartache of losing a child know the pain you are in losing your precious Jason, remember he is always with you in your heart.
Take gentle care,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, October 9, 2005 9:34 PM CDT

Today would've been 11 months for Jason and I... I'm so grateful that it was parents weekend and my parents were around to keep me occupied. Though in certain aspects of my life I have moved on, there's still apart me that hurts on this day.

--Katie
Katie <Kealdrid@samford.edu>
Birmingham, AL - Sunday, October 9, 2005 0:57 AM CDT

praying for you .i wish i could wave a wand and make all you feel better .iam sending lots of prayers and hugs your way from the fammily of tyler tucker
www.caringbridge.org/sc/tylertucker
DARLENE COX ,TYLER TUCKER <turpin10648@bellsouth.net >
greenville, SC - Friday, October 7, 2005 9:11 AM CDT

I really enjoyed reading about your trip with the kids. Even through Jason wasn't with you, it was his way of saying....remember the good times Mom. It's so good to have the healthy memories - and there are more of them than the cancer ones. It's just that now, it is all so fresh that it takes a while for the good ones to replace the sick ones. I think of Kevin and look back a pictures as recent as June and see the difference in the fullness of his face. He has lost over 40 pounds since then and he looks so different now. I think of you daily and I need to take time to come by sometime. With Kevin, my day to day routine is never the same and I have a hard time planning anything. We are devistated to learn about Richies Rhabdo returning. We are trying to comfort each other - and it's hard when we are so far from their family. We pray for you and will continue to do so. With Christian Love....
Linda Martin <jrbtk90289@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN - Friday, October 7, 2005 7:26 AM CDT

Dear Archer Family and Katie,

I continue to think of Jason, and of you all. If I can be of any help, please contact me.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, October 7, 2005 0:46 AM CDT

Pam,

I saw Jason frontpage picture at your website. What a peaceful picture. You know that I also miss Jason very much.

Please, keep up.
Francisco <elena_pagola@yahoo.es>
Madrid, - Thursday, October 6, 2005 1:56 AM CDT

Pam, I'm glad you got to go on the trip, even though it must have been difficult with all the memories of Jason swirling around you - but what beautiful memories of a vibrant, happy young man. Thinking of you often, I check in, even though I don't always sign the book...with love,
Kellie Davideit - Ian's mom forever <kelbri27@optonline.net>
Metuchen, nj usa - Wednesday, October 5, 2005 7:20 PM CDT

Pam: I received and responded to your email this morning, before I saw the web page. It is beautiful, and of course answers some of the questions I asked you. I did not have a computer available to me at the time of my son's death; I think "caringbridge" is wonderful and would have been a great outlet for me. I have had experience with it in the past year as a former student's baby sister had major surgery and their mother used it while she was hospitalized. Your family sounds so close and dear; I have only my daughter Nell who is beautiful and dear, and who has missed her brother in different ways as she has grown from a little girl to an adult. I, too, lost a brother, though he was an adult, and it is a terrible blow though in a different way from losing a child. I do hope I will hear from you. My son had embryonal rhabdomyosarcome; who would imagine there would be different varieties of it. He had a fantastic doctor at Children's Hospital in Boston who was so good to all of us, and who still is involved in research at Harvard University with Dr. Judah Folkman, a fairly well known name in cancer research.
Lucy Ketchum <lucynk@massed.net>
Pittsfield, MA - Wednesday, October 5, 2005 5:57 PM CDT

Pam: I always love reading about Jason, and how you and the family are holding up. You remain in many thoughts and prayers for your peace and comfort.

You are loved, Pam. Your entire family is loved. I am local, so please call me if you want to grab a bite some night and chat with someone about Jason, or just cry. My email is below.

His blessings,

Kriste Lanius
Leave Some Love for My Brother - Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USAk - Tuesday, October 4, 2005 10:26 PM CDT

Dear Pam: I love reading more about Jason and what a fine young man he was...so full of life and fun. I feel like I know him better through your memories and reflections. Thank you for being so open about your loss and pain and grief. I will keep you and your dear family in my thoughts and prayers.
Jane <neal-jane_peterson@sil.org>
Duncanville, TX USA - Tuesday, October 4, 2005 9:46 PM CDT

Dear Pam,

Thank you for updating Jason's journal. I really enjoyed reading about Jason at the camp. He was such an athletic and intelligent young man.

I remembered Jason at Eucharist on Thursday night and on the weekend, as I always do, when I am in the nave, at St. George's. I also continue to pray for all of Jason's family and for Katie. God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and the hope of Heaven,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, October 3, 2005 4:40 AM CDT

Hi! I just wanted to say that I loved your post on your memories of camp w/ Jason. I have been following Jason's story for a while now and to be taken back to when he was healthy and carefree was very special. Thank you for letting us see him healthy too. Your words are beautiful and I thank you for sharing them. I wish you many opportunities to look back and remember... Thank you for sharing Jason w/ me and the world...
Love in Christ,
Amy
ChemoAngel to Brian
Amy Sopoti <sea_angel73@gobigwest.com>
Meridian, ID USA - Sunday, October 2, 2005 11:33 PM CDT

Dear Archer's and Katie,
Thank you so much for sharing your feelings with us Pam about your trip. Reading your journal entry we can feel the pain in your heart, but thank God you have those beautiful memories of Jason tucked forever in your heart.
We continue to pray for you and your family daily.
God Bless,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, October 2, 2005 8:22 PM CDT

My prayers continue for your family.
Stephanie & RachelJoy <mom2rj@comcast.net>
- Friday, September 30, 2005 10:10 PM CDT

He counts the number of the stars*
and calls them all by their names.

~Psalm 147:4

Dear Archer Family and Katie,

If God can count all the stars and calls them all by their names, think of how much more he is doing for his dear son, Jason.

Jason was remembered at Eucharist on Thursday night, at the celebration of the Feast of St. Michael and All Angels, and he is in my thoughts often.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Friday, September 30, 2005 5:02 AM CDT

Dear Pam, David, Justin, Joshua, Jenny, Grandparents, and Katie,

I am thinking of you all, once again today. May Jesus, gentle shepherd, savior, and friend, draw you closer to each other and to himself. May he assure you of his love and care for Jason, and for each one of you.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and hope,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, September 29, 2005 12:09 AM CDT

Dear Archer Family and Katie,

I continue to remember Jason and to pray for all of you. You were remembered in Eucharist this morning, at St. George's.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Wednesday, September 28, 2005 10:39 PM CDT

Dear Archer family and Katie..
I want to tell you that I am thinking of you and can only imagine what it is like. The Drs. have given my Nikie only a few more weeks maybe, and I have been "preparing" myself for the worst just in case, for 3 years. I'm still not prepared.
I also wanted to tell Katie and her mom what courageous people they are. Nikie has a close friend that knew she was sick and what it could mean and 1 yr ago he decided to get closer to her and to be there for her even tho he knew what it meant. Well just the other day, before homecoming and everything, his parents took the decision out of his hands as to whether they could be friends or not because hes not been sleeping and doing worse in school. It devasted Nikie. I wish his parents would feel the same as Katies mom. His dad told me that J.. would be just fine if he backed away now. I don't believe that. If I have your permission, can I print the letter Katies mom wrote to show to them? I can totally understand Katies moms worry and also J's parents worry, but why stop now. that can do more harm to both kids!
Thank you for listening to me at this time. I'm praying for you.
Cindy Nikies mom www.caringbridge.org/tn/nikiegriffin
Cindy <nikiesheart@yahoo.com>
Livingston, Tn - Wednesday, September 28, 2005 8:32 AM CDT

Dear Archer Family and Katie,

I have been thinking of all of you on a regular basis, but I have had difficulty posting to some of the CaringBridge sites again. My prayers are with you all.

Beneath my signature, I will add a poem by Robert Louis Stevenson, which I hope will be of comfort.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Eternity

The stars shine over the mountains,
the stars shine over the sea.
The stars look up to the mighty God,
the stars look down on me;
The stars shall last for a million years,
a million years and a day.
But God and I will live and love
when the stars have passed away.

Robert Louis Stevenson (1850-1894)

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, September 27, 2005 8:37 AM CDT

Hi Pam,
I got the site, my error, forgot to put es at the end of witness!
love,
Kathy
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Monday, September 26, 2005 8:39 AM CDT

Dear Pam,
For some reason I can't access the site of Mark Schulz' but will keep trying as I really want to see Jason's pictures. I am going to Mark Schulz' concert on Oct. 8th (Oct. 8th is the 8th anniversary of my 1st cancer surgery)
I am excited about seeing him as I have a few of his cd's
We continue to keep you and your family in our prayers.
Take gentle care
Love and hugs,

Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Monday, September 26, 2005 8:10 AM CDT

Pam, David, and Family...Thinking of you all more than you know. I have that book you mentioned, too, but have not read it yet. I was afraid it would drag me down, but from what you've said and what Linda said, I suppose I should get up from here and crack it open!

I am local, so if you ever want to meet for dinner sometime and talk with someone "new", please feel free to contact me at my email address below. I have not lost a child--don't even have any--but I care about you and what you are going through. (I am friends with Eddie and Rhonda Hunley--Connor's parents)

Just wanted you to know my thoughts and prayers are still with you as you face each new day without Jason on earth with you. He was a remarkable young man, so I'm sure you and David must be pretty great, too.

My love is with you and your family. I mean it...email me and we'll get together and talk about Jason. Or we'll talk about nothing. Whatever you're in the mood for.

Much love to you all...

Kriste Lanius
Leave Some Love for My Brother - Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USA - Saturday, September 24, 2005 9:32 PM CDT

Pam, I just finished that same book. It is a great book. His description of Heaven, what small part he experienced, was undescribable. It sounded amazing. The Book is more about the lessons he learned while going through his recovery. He is the one that said "You can't loose someone if you know where they are". I learned alot from his recovery. How to accept people's help etc. It's a great book!

I think of you often.
Linda Martin <jrbtk90289@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN - Saturday, September 24, 2005 2:01 PM CDT

Dear Pam,

I have just viewed the pictures of Jason on his new website. There were several there that I have not seen previously, and they all are beautiful. I especially love the one of Jason and Katie standing and the one of them seated. She is an extraordinary young woman. Please be sure she knows that she has my highest regard, and that many of us, who visit this guest book, have her in our prayers.

I have just read the most recent message from Linda Martin. She is absolutely right. You have not lost Jason, as you know exactly where he is. Bless her for sharing that! However, it is still hard not having Jason with you on earth, day by day. It is hard for your husband, Justin, Joshua, Jenny, Jason's grandparents, and Katie, too. Stay close to God and to each other, and God bless you all!

I have not signed for several days, as I have had difficulty posting to CaringBridge sites again this week, but I am thinking of you and your family. Jason was remembered in the Chapel of All Angels, at St. George's, on Wednesday morning. It was the Feast of St. Matthew, so I will add the collect for that morning below.

Grace, peace, love, and the hope of Heaven,

~Colette~

We thank thee, heavenly Father, for the witness of your apostle and evangelist Matthew to the Gospel of your Son our Savior; and we pray that, after his example, we may with ready wills and hearts obey the calling of our Lord to follow him; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 244
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, September 24, 2005 7:36 AM CDT

Pam and David,
My heart aches for you ! You loss is to fresh for me to say much, for fear I will say something wrong. I hope you will help me in asking Jason to guide Paigee as she makes her journey from this world. God bless you !

Paigee's Dad
Paigee's dad <poodlepaige@gmail.com>
CA USA - Friday, September 23, 2005 3:36 PM CDT

David, Pam, and Family, my thoughts and prayers are with you during these trying times.
Ed Minor <minoref@msha.com>
Piney Flats, TN USA - Friday, September 23, 2005 10:55 AM CDT

Praying for you all.
Candice Behm <larcanril@comcast.net>
Portland, OR USA - Thursday, September 22, 2005 1:10 PM CDT

My prayers continue for your family. May the Lord be your strength and grace.
Stephanie & RachelJoy <mom2rj@comcast.net>
- Wednesday, September 21, 2005 8:48 PM CDT

Pam i am holing you close in prayers right now. I know you miss Jason very much but he is free from pain now. God bless you!

Just checking in on your family and seeing how everyone is doing. Will be back.
Love & Hugs,
Jessica from We Care 4 Kids, Angel Wings, and Sunshine on Eagles Wings
We Care 4 Kids
Jessica <wecare4_kids@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, September 21, 2005 8:36 PM CDT

Pam, I haven't signed in lately, but I think of you several times a day. My neighbor Ann told me about meeting you at church. She is grieving the loss of her son also. How God must have put you two in that room at the same time for a reason. I enjoy coming to your web page to see that beautiful picture of Happy Jason and his sweet Katie. That picture warms my heart. I just read a book about heaven and in it it said "You haven't lost your child, if you know where he is" You know where Jason is, and there's no doubt that he is in paradise with our Lord and Saviour. He isn't here with you, and that is horrible, but you do know where he is!
Linda Martin <jrbtk90289@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN - Wednesday, September 21, 2005 5:38 AM CDT

Hi, I just wanted to let you know that you all are in my thoughts and prayers. That is such a good picture of Jason and Katie. I think about you a lot. Stay strong.
Love,hugs and prayers,
Kathy Randolph and family <randolph@interl.net>
Ft. Madison, Iowa - Tuesday, September 20, 2005 8:50 PM CDT

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My Loving Dad's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Tuesday, September 20, 2005 7:26 PM CDT

Dear Pam, David and family,
I will keep you in my prayers. What beautiful memories you have of Jason. Sandy
Sandy Reed <sandy.reed@hcahealthcare.com>
Brentwood, TN USA - Tuesday, September 20, 2005 7:18 PM CDT

As I sit here this morning, reading your journal, know that I have cried with you today.
What a handsome young man!!!
God's love and blessings always,
Angel Jen
Sunshine on Eagles Wings

[My son's name is Jason and is also a Christian]
Angel Jen <angel.jen@mymacs.org>
Burns (Nashville), TN USA - Tuesday, September 20, 2005 7:37 AM CDT

I check the site everyday. Decided to leave a note saying I think about all of you quite often. Wishing you peace.
~Love Leah www.caringbridge.org/va/katrina
www.freewebs.com/tacatac
Leah Nelson <ScorchingTundra@msn.com>
Raynham, MA US - Monday, September 19, 2005 9:16 PM CDT

Dear Archer family and Katie,
Thanks for the update, Pam. We know you are all hurting but glad that you can share with us your feelings.
We are:
Still here,
Still praying...
We will always have Jason in our hearts.
Thinking of you always,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Monday, September 19, 2005 5:01 PM CDT

Dear Pam, David, and All,

The daily quotation from the Henri Nouwen Society, on the day Jason died, spoke of death, and was very appropriate to Jason's situation. I had intended to send it on to you, but, as often is the case, I forgot to do so. Here is another quote from Nouwen, sent out in late Agust, which I just opened today. I hope it will help in your bereavement, and I hope it reminds us all to live each day for our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

The Quality of Life

It is very hard to accept an early death. When friends die who are seventy, eighty, or ninety years old, we may be in deep grief and miss them very much, but we are grateful that they had long lives. But when a teenager, a young adult, or a person at the height of his or her career dies, we feel a protest rising from our hearts: "Why? Why so soon? Why so young? It is unfair."

But far more important than our quantity of years is the quality of our lives. Jesus died young. St. Francis died young. St. Th�r�se of Lisieux died young, Martin Luther King, Jr., died young. We do not know how long we will live, but this not knowing calls us to live every day, every week, every year of our lives to its fullest potential.

~Henri Nouwen
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Monday, September 19, 2005 12:04 AM CDT

Realizing that the grieving process is a long and difficult road, I just wanted to let you know that we think of you daily and pray for your family.
David and Mary Myers <loveabounds@wchbc.org>
Kingsport, TN USA - Monday, September 19, 2005 11:36 AM CDT

Dear Archer Family and Katie,

I am thinking of Jason, and of all of his loved ones. I remembered him, in the beauty of holiness, at Eucharist, this past weekend, as I always do in our nave. I also remembered Jason, while sitting in the nave, before, during, and in holy silence, after, a presentation on the Gospel of Jesus, by Frank Runyeon, yesterday afternoon.

As you grieve, try to seek a deeper relationship with God, through his Son, Jesus, day by day. God does not afflict us, but God can use every disappointment and sorrow to deepen us and make us more into the image of Jesus.

Beneath my signature, I am adding a prayer by Thomas Merton, which says more about focusing on God and on seeking God deeply in our lives.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

MY LORD GOD, I have no idea where I am going. I do not see the road ahead of me. I cannot know for certain where it will end. Nor do I really know myself, and the fact that I think that I am following your will does not mean that I am actually doing so. But I believe that the desire to please you does in fact please you. And I hope I have that desire in all that I am doing. I hope that I will never do anything apart from that desire. And I know that if I do this you will lead me by the right road though I may know nothing about it. Therefore will I trust you always though I may seem to be lost and in the shadow of death. I will not fear, for you are ever with me, and you will never leave me to face my perils alone.

~Thomas Merton in Thoughts in Solitude
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Monday, September 19, 2005 10:52 AM CDT

Dear Pam,
Nothing I can write will ease your pain, but please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family.
Kathryn
Sparks, NV - Monday, September 19, 2005 6:39 AM CDT

Dear Archer Family and Katie,

I continue to remember Jason and to think of you all. May God ease your hearts.

I will remember Jason, in the beauty of holiness, when I am at St. George's for Eucharist, this weekend. We are also having a presentation of the Gospel of John, at church, on Sunday afternoon. I will remember Jason, while I am seated in the nave for that.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

The security we crave would teach us to rest our hearts in this world and pose an obstacle to our return to God. Our Father refreshes us on the journey with some pleasant inns, but will not encourage us to mistake them for home.
- C. S. Lewis
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Saturday, September 17, 2005 8:25 AM CDT

Thoughts & prayers are with you all.
Candice Behm <larcanril@comcast.net>
Portland, OR USA - Friday, September 16, 2005 3:23 PM CDT

Dear Archer Family and Katie,

I tired to post last night at about mid-night, but it would not take. I tired to post at Kevin Martin's site as well, so I guess CaringBridge was working on their sites. I had nothing new to say, but I wanted you all to know that I was thinking of Jason and of all of you.

Beneath my signature, I will add the collect for this weekend. It is one of my favorites.

God bless each and every one of you!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Grant us, Lord, not to be anxious about earthly things, but to love things heavenly; and even now, while we are placed among things that are passing away, to hold fast to those that shall endure; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Friday, September 16, 2005 8:00 AM CDT

My prayers are that you would truly experience God as your God of all comfort (2 Cor. 1), your wonderful Counselor, Prince of Peace, shelter, strength, rock, fortress, refuge. On the other side of a blink, Jason was in the presence of the Lord. That's not just a nice thought to help us cope - it is truth that we can count on, cling to. May you know this to be true and may Jason's witness live on as we all move towards that day to being with him in the presence of Jesus. May God bless you all.
Lucy <lucy@studio949.com>
Castle Rock, CO USA - Thursday, September 15, 2005 8:57 PM CDT

I just wanted you to know I was thinking about you today. Having been where you are, I know the days are long and the nights are sometimes longer. I know you al lhave wonderful memories of Jason. He sounds like he was a good son and a good boy which is most important. I pray for all your family
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, September 15, 2005 2:36 PM CDT

Thinking of you and praying for peace and comfort.
June <junehumphrey@yahoo.com>
Goodlettsville, TN, "I'm Proud to be an American where at least I know I'm FREE...God Bless the USA!" - Thursday, September 15, 2005 12:29 AM CDT

Dear Archer Family and Katie,

I have just discovered the black and white picture of Jason and Katie. Like the one on the home page, it is beautiful. I am so sorry Jason and Katie have been separated by death and for the grief and pain you are all experiencing. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, September 15, 2005 9:26 AM CDT

Dear Archer Family and Katie,

I remembered Jason and all of his loved ones at Holy Eucharist this morning. God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Father Bill preached on this reading this morning, one of the lessons appointed for today, and one we all should consider, when life is hard.

Philippians 2: 5-11 (RSV)

Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus,
who, though he was in the form of God, did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped,
but emptied himself, taking the form of a servant, being born in the likeness of men.
And being found in human form he humbled himself and became obedient unto death, even death on a cross.
Therefore God has highly exalted him and bestowed on him the name which is above every name,
that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth,
and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, September 14, 2005 6:59 PM CDT

thinking about all of you.
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, September 14, 2005 8:56 AM CDT

Dear Pam, Katie, and Jenny,

Yes, Jason had very special ladies in his life - all three of you. I am remembering Jason this morning and thinking of all three of you.

I will be going to church soon to celebrate Holy Cross Day. While there, I will remember Jason, in the beauty of holiness, and I will pray for all three of you, Jason's special women.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Philippians 2: 5-11 (RSV)

Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus,
who, though he was in the form of God, did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped,
but emptied himself, taking the form of a servant, being born in the likeness of men.
And being found in human form he humbled himself and became obedient unto death, even death on a cross.
Therefore God has highly exalted him and bestowed on him the name which is above every name,
that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth,
and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.

John 12: 31-36a (RSV)

Now is the judgment of this world, now shall the ruler of this world be cast out;
and I, when I am lifted up from the earth, will draw all men to myself."
He said this to show by what death he was to die.
The crowd answered him, "We have heard from the law that the Christ remains for ever. How can you say that the Son of man must be lifted up? Who is this Son of man?"
Jesus said to them, "The light is with you for a little longer. Walk while you have the light, lest the darkness overtake you; he who walks in the darkness does not know where he goes.
While you have the light, believe in the light, that you may become sons of light."

The Collect Of The Day:

Almighty God, whose Son our Savior Jesus Christ was lifted high upon the cross that he might draw the whole world to himself: Mercifully grant that we, who glory in the mystery of our redemption, may have grace to take up our cross and follow him; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Wednesday, September 14, 2005 5:21 AM CDT

Pam and Katie,
I could tell by the way Jason talked that he
had to very wonderful Ladies in his life!! Pam I know how much Jason loves you and how he loved and cared for Katie.
Just the time that I have followed Jason, he has shown how to live and love. More than most of us know!! Thank you for letting us know Jason!! God Bless..
Prayers and Hugs,
LeAnn
LeAnn Mooneyham/Angel_Wings <angel4God352000@yahoo.com>
Baxley, GA United States - Tuesday, September 13, 2005 11:24 AM CDT

Dear Jenny,

About fifteen days ago, I left you a note, here in Jason's guest book. I am a mom and a teacher who lives about half way between Albany and Saratoga Springs, in upstate New York. I have been thinking A LOT about YOU again today.

The last weeks of Jason's illness, and the weeks since his passing, must be very difficult for you. Maybe sometimes you feel you are being overlooked, since you are the youngest in the family, since you are the only girl, or since most of the guest book messages and mail are addressed to your parents. You are important, too, so take good care of yourself and talk to your parents, grandparents, and/or pastor, when you need to share about Jason.

God bless you! I am thinking about you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, September 13, 2005 0:18 AM CDT

Dear Archer's and Katie,
Jason will NEVER be forgotten. We keep him in our hearts and we contiune to keep you in our thoughts and our prayers. I am glad the insurance problem was solved.
God Bless,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, September 11, 2005 6:20 PM CDT

Dear Archer Family and Katie,

I am here at my computer, praying for many CaringBridge friends. I am praying for each one of you, and for all who mourn the loss of Jason. Pam has my information, so email, or phone, if you ever want to talk, or if you need anything that I may be able to provide.

Since you live near the Martins, perhaps you will be able to attend the baptism for five members of that family later this morning. They, and you, are certainly in prayers from many places.

Beneath my name, I will add the collect for this weekend.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

O God, because without you we are not able to please you, merciful grant that your Holy Spirit may in all things direct and rule our hearts; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, September 11, 2005 2:04 AM CDT

Sending love to the Archer family....thinking of and praying for you all.

May Christ's loving arms surround you and bring you comfort,

Kriste Lanius
My Big Brother -Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USA - Sunday, September 11, 2005 0:14 AM CDT

Dear Archer Family and Katie,

I am thinking of you all on a regular basis. You are in my heart and in my prayers.

I am sure today was difficult for you, as little Eric died a few days before his tenth birthday. May this bittersweet occasion challenge all of us to pray ever harder for a cure.

God bless Eric's parents and sister, and God bless all of Jason's many loved ones!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, September 10, 2005 10:53 PM CDT

Hi, my name is Carlin Dean. I live in Burke Virginia, i'm so sorry for you're loss. In December we lost our friend Katrina Nelson, to this same horrible disease. So if it helps at all, we know, at least in part, to what you're going through. Her family is amazing and if you havent gotten in contact with them already you really should. www.caringbring.com/va/katrina I know that nothing i can say can that the pain away from the loss of you're loved one, except to say you're not alone. Please e-mail me sometime. And seriously, get in contact with the Nelsons, they're great people.
Carlin Dean <artist3@cox.net>
Burke, Va usa - Friday, September 9, 2005 6:49 PM CDT

What a beautiful picture of Jason and Katie. Thank you for sharing it with all of us. Your family continues to be in my prayers.
Jane <neal-jane_peterson@sil.org>
Duncanville, TX 75137 - Friday, September 9, 2005 3:37 PM CDT

Hi Pam
What wonderful pictures of Jason and Katy - thank you for sharing them with us. I check on you almost daily to see if you have updated this site and to see how you are doing. I think of you all the time and prayers are with your whole family.
Michelle - Emily's mom - www.caringbridge.org/tx/emilysfight & Rhabdo Kids ACOR
Mission, TX USA - Thursday, September 8, 2005 1:51 PM CDT

I was not privileged to know Jason personally, but he has really touched my life and the lives of many others. May God comfort you as only He can and give you strength in the days, months, and years ahead.
Mary Butler Sumrall
Sumrall, MS USA - Thursday, September 8, 2005 11:14 AM CDT

I love this picture of Jason and Katie and am so thankful that he was able to spend his last months knowing this kind of love.

I continue to ache for each of you as I know learning to live life without him is so very difficult. Remember though, that he just arrived a little before you and he's checking things out so he can take you on a tour when you get there.
Kelley Williams <kelleywms@hotmail.com>
Franklin, TN USA - Thursday, September 8, 2005 9:31 AM CDT

September 8th, 2005.
Today would've been Jason and I's 10 month anniversary. It has also been 2 weeks since he was taken from me. I have so many different emotions going on right now that it's not even possible for me to fully explain, but I must march on and take my 2 tests that await me in class today.

I miss him a little more each day.
Katie
Katie <Kealdrid@samford.edu>
Hendersonville, TN - Wednesday, September 7, 2005 11:04 PM CDT

~Continuing to think of all the Archers and of Katie.

May God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and the hope of Heaven,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, September 7, 2005 5:41 PM CDT

How I cried when I saw this precious picture of Jason and Katie today. Dear Lord how I hate this monster. Pam my heart breaks for all of you and I know only too well how difficult your days and nights have become. I am holding you in my heart and my prayers every day. If I can do anything I am just a click or phone call away. If you need to talk to another grieving mother (God has brought me far my friend and He will you too in time) please email me and I will send you my phone number.

May God hold you and strengthen you in His loving arms.
Love and hugs
Judy Crawford
http://www.catchanangel.com
Judy <tnderheart@yahoo.com>
Cookeville, TN - Wednesday, September 7, 2005 12:50 AM CDT

Still praying for you David, Pam, Josh, Justin, and Jenny...God is still there and He loves you so very much. I will "pray without ceasing" for your strength to get through each hour, and each day. Love in Christ,
Kim Uldrich <kimjo75@netzero.com>
Hendersonville, TN USA - Wednesday, September 7, 2005 11:03 AM CDT

I cant help but giggle when I remember the day that we came over and the boys playe video games. Katie gave Karissa that lifesize Barbie that scared her. On our way home we went through the drive through at McDonalds and the boys put the money in the barbie's hand and pushed it out the window to pay the guy in the drive through window. We had more laughs with that Barbie. The picture of Jason and Katie is the first thing I noticed at the church the day of Jason's funeral. It radiates the love between those two. The smile on Jason's face is one that I know he wears today in Heaven. Your pain must be unbearable without him in the house - I know your days must be so lonely knowing he isn't there. I pray for you all.

Linda Martin <jrbtk90289@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN - Wednesday, September 7, 2005 7:28 AM CDT

Still caring...Still praying...
May God continue to give you strength and comfort during these days.
Mary & David Myers <loveabounds@wchbc.org>
Kingsport, TN USA - Wednesday, September 7, 2005 7:15 AM CDT

Thank you for reminding us of four great H's: HEAVEN, HEALED, HEALTHY, and HAPPY. Jason and Connor are enjoying these now, and all of God's children have these as our future.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, September 7, 2005 6:47 AM CDT

We loved the photo of Jason and Katie. Our hearts and prayers continue to be with you all each day.
Tim and Robin Clouse <abn4ever@hotmail.com>
Pebble Beach, CA USA - Tuesday, September 6, 2005 11:10 PM CDT

Thinking of you and your family and saying prayers for your comfort. My brother has cancer and I think of you all and the courageous battle Jason fought, and how my brother is fighting...and how hard it is for a mother to see her child in pain. Your story - Jason's story - has touched so many hearts and lives. I would have loved to have known him.

May God bless you all as you travel this road of grief. God IS with you each step of the way and will not leave you...

Kriste Lanius
My Big Brother -Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USA - Tuesday, September 6, 2005 10:59 PM CDT

What a beautiful picture of Jason and Katie! He looked so happy with her in his arms. I am glad she brought him so much happiness in his last days. ((((((((((Hugs)))))))))))

www.caringbridge.org/oh/paigehaney
Tina Haney <lilgirlie43920@yahoo.com>
East Liverpool, Oh USA - Tuesday, September 6, 2005 8:41 PM CDT

Dear Pam,
I am back home now and still thinking of you and your family. I was glad I was visiting my brother Earl when Jason passed. It was good to be able to give you a hug and talk to you. You have such strenght. I will pray that each day gets better for you and your family. You have a beautiful family.
Alma T Huber <almathuber@aol.com>
Reading, Pa USA - Tuesday, September 6, 2005 7:37 PM CDT

I never knew Jason. I only followed the last few months of his life through Doug Thurman's updates. And yet when I read of his passing, I cried...uncontrollably, for quite some time. I don't know why. Jason taught me so much about faith and strength and courage, and he never spoke a single word to me. God indeed works in mysterious ways, and I thank Him for acquainting me with Jason. My prayers are with each of you.

Dave Taylor <davetaylor77ret@aol.com>
Castle Rock, CO USA - Tuesday, September 6, 2005 7:00 PM CDT

Loved the picture of Jason and Katie,
Thinking of you all,
Lots of love,
Debbie chloe's mum ( Rhabdo list)
Debbie Wright <deb.wright1 @btopenworld .com>
Herne Bay, Kent UK - Tuesday, September 6, 2005 5:27 PM CDT

What a beautiful picture of Jason and Katie. I am glad you have videos to watch and although I know they are painful they are good memories too, I am sure. As far as I know no one has videos of my son to watch, however we do have lots of pictures and lots of memories. I know these days are so hard for all of your family and for Katie too. I keep you in my prayers. What a blessing to know your son is with Jesus and waiting for you!!!! What a glorious day that will be when we all get to heaven.....
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, September 6, 2005 1:33 PM CDT

Dear Pam,
Thank you for the update and for sharing the beautiful picture of Jason and Katie. You and your family continiue to be in our thoughts and our prayers daily.
Love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Tuesday, September 6, 2005 12:10 AM CDT

Thinking of you
Angel Winks
Simply Enchanting Angels
www.seangels.org
Suzanne <neitmouser@aol.com>
KY - Tuesday, September 6, 2005 7:11 AM CDT

What a beautiful picture and such a wonderful update. Jason looks so healthy and lively in that front picture. I was so thrilled to see it because a lot of pictures in someone's final days, you see a frail, sickly person...But not this one. Thank you.
~Love Leah www.caringbridge.org/va/katrina
www.freewebs.com/tacatac
Leah Nelson <ScorchingTundra@msn.com>
Raynham, MA US - Tuesday, September 6, 2005 5:13 AM CDT

Dear Pam,

Thank you for posting the beautiful picture of Jason and Katie in the rope hammock. They were beautiful together, and God has both of them in the palm of his hand.

God bless you all!

In the sure and certain hope, and with my love,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, September 6, 2005 3:40 AM CDT

Hello,
I am so sorry to hear about Jason's passing. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Simply Enchanting Angels
http://seangels.org
Angel Dollyjess
Adelaide , S.A. Australia - Tuesday, September 6, 2005 2:19 AM CDT

I'm sure the days are difficult and the nights not any better but please know there are so many that are praying for you.
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Monday, September 5, 2005 11:40 PM CDT

Dear Archers and Katie,
STILL HERE...
STILL CARING...
STILL PRAYING AND PRAYING FOR EACH OF YOU.
GOD BLESS,
LOVE AND HUGS,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Monday, September 5, 2005 2:38 PM CDT

Angel lacey/and or Angel Debbie <latialacey@verizon.net>
Osceola Mills, pa U.S.A - Monday, September 5, 2005 2:21 PM CDT

Hello,
I am so sorry to hear about Jason's passing. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

With love,
Mystical Angel
Simply Enchanting Angels
http://seangels.org
Mystical Angel <mystical_shadow_mistress@yahoo.com>
- Monday, September 5, 2005 1:37 PM CDT

I'm so sorry for your loss! It seems heaven is filling up with our wonderful children. I too lost my son Travis at 17 to AML! My heart goes out to you!

Love, Jodi www.caringbridge.org/mi/trav
Jodi <jodilind@sbcglobal.net>
Spring Lake, MI USA - Monday, September 5, 2005 12:51 AM CDT

I am so sorry for your loss.
I've been reading Jason's website for a long time now and I'm saddened to hear of his passing.
I will light a candle for your continued strength and peace and comfort.
Dina
- Monday, September 5, 2005 10:11 AM CDT

Dear Pam and family, just wanted you to know that we continue to think of you daily in our thoughts and we will continue to pray that God will comfort you.

Rhonda and family
Buladean, nc

Rhonda Valls <rlvlpn@yahoo.com>
Bakersville, NC usa - Monday, September 5, 2005 9:19 AM CDT

Continuing to check on you all and lift you in prayer each day.
Kelley Williams <kelleywms@hotmail.com>
Franklin, TN USA - Monday, September 5, 2005 8:57 AM CDT

I am so very sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my
thoughts and prayers.
Simply Enchanting Angels
Angel Angela <mystic30@bellsouth.net>
NC USA - Monday, September 5, 2005 4:36 AM CDT

I am so sorry!
Thinking of you.
Angel Edith
Simply Enchanting Angels
http://seangels.org

Angel Edith <edith19@t-online.de>
Germany - Monday, September 5, 2005 3:22 AM CDT

My heart and prayers go out to you
God Bless you

Simply Enchanting Angels
http://seangels.org
Angel Dreams

Angel Dreams <windstorm_73@yahoo.com>
- Monday, September 5, 2005 2:10 AM CDT

~Continuing to remember Jason and to think of you all.

Grace, peace, love, and the hope of Heaven,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY - Monday, September 5, 2005 1:20 AM CDT

Sorry about your lost, God bless ya.

Simply Enchanting Angels
Angel Jezzy <Cateyez_jez@yahoo.com>
IN USA - Monday, September 5, 2005 0:37 AM CDT

Praying for your broken heart.
June <junehumphrey@yahoo.com>
- Monday, September 5, 2005 0:32 AM CDT

So sorry for your loss.
Angel Cathryn <Alexisgracejohnson@yahoo.com>
Bay City, MI USA - Sunday, September 4, 2005 10:14 PM CDT

Hello Pam, David, Justin, Josh and Jenny,
Thinking of you a lot.
Colleen.
Colleen Clift <cliftcj@mlc.vic.edu.au>
Melbourne, Australia - Sunday, September 4, 2005 7:51 PM CDT

I am just stopping by to let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. God bless and *warm hugs* ><>�<><

Angel Whispering Simply Enchanting Angels http://seangels.org <reesecup32003@yahoo.com>
Tampa, Fl - Sunday, September 4, 2005 7:46 PM CDT

"...We Often think in our short-sightedness that gifts are only those things that make us feel good. We can sometimes wish to ignore the Cross, which is far from pleasant, but which is nevertheless God's love for us spilling out and enveloping us all. What a gift."

~Alaric Lewis, O.S.B.

Dear Pam, David, and Family, and Katie, Too,

I am thinking of you all, as you experience bereavement. I am glad you are all trying to be honest with your feelings. The passage that Pam quoted is a good one.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, September 4, 2005 11:41 AM CDT

Not a day goes by that I dont think about you all and say a prayer for you. Having been where you are, I know it is a very very hard journey.. The only thing that makes it easier is knowing that some day you will be with Jason again in heaven, where we will know no more tears. May you continue to feel the love and compasion that is all around you...
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, September 4, 2005 9:37 AM CDT

Pam, I am amazed but you. I didn't think it was possible
to put into words what I am searching for. How you describe
a seeker is exactly who and what I am right now. When my
family asks why I continue to read what they about children
faced with cancer I try and explain that I need to know how
parents who believe in God reconcile the horrible pain they
and their children are going through. I instantly "disconnect" from people who quote at me, I want someone real to show me not tell me how I can go on with life as a
believer. I appreciate you and feel your loss more than I could ever express. Thank you, and God Bless you and your
family.

Deborah Forever Vanessa's Mommy
Deborah Martinez www.caringbridge.org/ca/vanessamartinez <debra126@comcast.net>
Madera, c United States - Sunday, September 4, 2005 2:30 AM CDT

This is an excerpt from the book �Contagious Christianity� by Bill Hybels.

�Another powerful magnet that draws people to God is an authentic emotional life. Tragically, many Christians have gotten confused about how to express their feelings. Some well-meaning but misguided pastors and leaders have taught that dedicated Christians should never get angry, and that expressing sadness or hurt of grief are signs of low faith or shallow character. Untold numbers of believers have tried to smile and say, �Praise God� in the midst of any and all circumstances, thinking this is an indicator of spiritual maturity. But in their valiant attempts, two negative consequences have emerged. The first is what I call �emotional vertigo.� That�s when a person outlaws certain feelings for so long that he eventually enters a state of total emotional confusion. In fact, he loses the ability to experience feelings altogether. He doesn�t recognize them when they try to break through, or know how to express them to somebody else. You see, in his desperate attempt to �Christianize� his feelings, he�s manipulated them for so long that he�s left in a helpless state of emotional apathy and disorientation. It takes a lot of work�and, often, some Christian counseling�to get out of that condition. The second consequence is that seekers are quickly repelled by emotional inauthenticity. They see red flags all over the place when, for example, a young couple delivers a stillborn baby and then responds to the heart-rending disappointment with dry eyes and a nonstop string of clich�d phrases like, �Thank God anyway.� Seekers just shake their heads and think, �You know, there really should be some serious grieving going on here. Something is dreadfully wrong. Call me a pagan, but losses like this one ought to be mourned, regardless of your religion.�

Contrast this to the example of Jesus. Remember what He did when His friend Lazarus died? He wept, right out in public. He just broke down and cried openly. And I�m sure that His emotional genuineness further endeared seekers to Him.
Recently I heard a father describe the night he learned that his eighteen-year-old son had been killed in a car accident. As this dedicated Christian recounted the awful story to me, his eyes filled with tears. For a moment he stopped. Finally he said, �You know, I still feel a hole in my heart almost every hour of every day.� When he finished the story, I felt spiritually drawn to him. And I was attracted to the God who gave him the power to be so vulnerable and real. I thought, this is a liberated man, someone in touch with who he is and with what�s going on inside of himself.

Do you know what seekers need to see in you more than dry eyes and pasted-on smiles? They need to see you grapple with fear and sadness and anger and jealousy and loss. They need to hear you talk openly about it. They need to watch you work out your faith without discounting the everyday emotional realities of your life.

So don�t hide the struggle that�s going on inside you. Don�t try to sanitize it or Christianize it, because your feelings are important. God built them into you. In fact, He has those feelings, too! And if you�ll address them in a healthy and open fashion, your emotional authenticity will point those around you to the God at work within you.�

Pam Archer
Hendersonville, TN USA - Sunday, September 4, 2005 1:23 AM CDT

Thinking and praying for all of you.
Linda Martin <jrbtk90289@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN - Saturday, September 3, 2005 10:06 AM CDT

Thanks for sharing those messages from Katie and her mom. What a beautiful love story. God bless you all!
Love,
Amy
ChemoAngel to Brian
Amy <sea_angel73@gobigwest.com>
Meridian, ID USA - Saturday, September 3, 2005 9:07 AM CDT

I wanted to come
by when I read
about your loss
from another site...

so sorry for your
family!!!

sending you lots of love

Craig, Lauren, and Helen

CRAIGGY
helen <trula1@comcast.net>
- Saturday, September 3, 2005 8:00 AM CDT

Dear Pam, David, Justin, Joshua, Jenny, and Katie,

I have just paused to pray for each one of you, by name. May you know, without a shadow of doubt, that Jason is alive, with his Lord and Savior, in a better place, and may you know and feel the power of God's love.

Below my signature, I will include the collect for this weekend.

Grace, peace, love, and the hope of Heaven,

~Colette~

Grant us, O Lord, to trust in you with all our hearts; for you always resist the proud who confide in their own strength, so you never forsake those who make their boast in your mercy; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit; one god, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, September 3, 2005 2:13 AM CDT

To the Archer Family and Katie,
Thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad time. I am tears reading your site. What a wonderful young man that you were blessed with. Take Care of yourselves.
Debbie
www.caringbridge.org/ca/taryn
Debbie Fogel <ejfdrf@sbcglobal.net>
Corona, CA USA - Friday, September 2, 2005 4:46 PM CDT

Dear Archer Family and Katie,

Nothing fresh, or unique, comes to mind today, but I do wish you to know that I am thinking of Jason, and of you all, once again today.

Those who joined Jason's team, while he was ill, will continue to love and support Jason's dear ones.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, September 2, 2005 12:47 AM CDT

dear Jason's family
I found your page through JC's
My heart is breaking for your loss may you find the strength to get through the days ahead one day at a time
with Love Jacob's mum Angel Jake
Deanne McLeod-Steinmetz
Alex Hills Brisbane, Queensland Australia - Friday, September 2, 2005 10:04 AM CDT

Dear Archer Family And Katie,

I have been to St. George's ths night, and I have remembered Jason beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass. May God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

A Prayer For All the Faithful Departed:

Merciful God, your Son is the resurrection and the life of all the faithful; raise us from the death of sin to the life of righteousness, that at the last, with all your faithful servants, we may come to your eternal joy; through our Savior Jesus Christ. Amen.

~The New Zealand Prayer Book
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, September 2, 2005 0:09 AM CDT

Thinking about you all.

tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, September 1, 2005 10:39 PM CDT

Dear Archer Family:

I keep being drawn back here each night, hoping for the right words to say to help you along this journey. I fall far short, but had to stop and say you all continue to be on my heart and in my prayers.

In the midst of these dark hours, may you find some comfort and peace in your many loving friends, and in the heartfelt wishes of strangers like me.

My love and tears for you all,

Kriste Lanius
My Big Brother - Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USA - Thursday, September 1, 2005 10:33 PM CDT

To everyone, I have yet to decide if knowing someone is going to die and being able to say "I love you" is something to be thankful for. But to be optomistic, try to pretend it is, even though he suffered so. Pain Free and Flying Again.
~Love Leah www.caringbridge.org/va/katrina
www.freewebs.com/tacatac
Leah Nelson <ScorchingTundra@msn.com>
Raynham, MA US - Thursday, September 1, 2005 10:04 PM CDT

Dearest Katie,

This message is for you and one that has been very difficult for me to write. My heart goes out to not only Jason's family but to you and your family as well. My daughter died two months before her 17th birthday and I know how painful it was for all her friends who loved her as you loved Jason, and for her sisters and brothers as well. No young person should ever have to endure this pain and sadness. Katie I hope you know what a blessing you were to Jason and how blessed you are to have been loved by Jason. I know how your heart is breaking but know this sweetie, one day you will see him again. What a joyous reunion that will be.

Cancer can rob us of so much but it cannot destroy our love and our memories. May God draw near to each of you to hold you and strengthen you during this terribly difficult time.
Love and hugs
Judy Crawford
http://www.catchanangel.com/
Judy <tnderheart@yahoo.com>
Cookeville, TN - Thursday, September 1, 2005 8:48 PM CDT

I have followed Jason's progress through my former church Hickory Grove PCA in Mt. Juliet. I have prayed for Jason and for you. I wish to extend my deepest sympathy for your loss. It is comforting to know that you will meet again and I praise the Lord for the comfort you have in the knowledge of his faith in the Lord Jesus Christ.
Jean Murphy <jeanomurphy@yahoo.com>
Knoxville, TN USA - Thursday, September 1, 2005 8:39 PM CDT

Thank you for sharing your heartfelt story with us. My neice was diagnosed with a brain tumor and we have been battling it for a few years now. Your son was so courageous and I know he is smiling down on you all. God bless you and your family through this tough time.
Terri
Coeburn, VA USA - Thursday, September 1, 2005 2:21 PM CDT

I am so sorry. God bless you.
Colleen
Deptford, NJ - Thursday, September 1, 2005 1:44 PM CDT

Dear Archer Family and Katie,

I really love coming here to see Jason's senior picture. He was truly beautiful, outside, where the world sees, and inside, where it really counts.

My thoughts are with you all today.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Be strong and take heart all you who hope in the Lord.

~Psalm 31:24
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, September 1, 2005 11:11 AM CDT

Just wanted to send a quick note to let you know that your family is still in our daily prayers. I can't even remotely understand your level of grief, but I know that our Savior understands and will see you through each day. Sending you our love.
David and Mary Myers <loveabounds@wchbc.org>
Kingsport, TN USA - Thursday, September 1, 2005 7:03 AM CDT

Continuing to pray for you as you learn to live life without Jason.
Kelley Williams <kelleywms@hotmail.com>
Franklin, TN USA - Thursday, September 1, 2005 6:50 AM CDT

Dear Pam,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you make your way minute by minute through this terrible time.
Linda Martin's friend Kathryn
- Thursday, September 1, 2005 6:44 AM CDT

Dear Archer Family and Katie,

I continue to remember Jason and to think of you all. One of the things I have used for years, during diifficult times, is the Psalms. Her is a list of helpful Psalms to pray during bereavement.

16:5-11, 23, 27, 42:1-7, 46, 90:1-12, 106:1-5, 116, 121, 130, and 139:1-11

May God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, September 1, 2005 3:12 AM CDT

Pam-I am just heartbroken for you and your family. My thoughts are with all of you-and I'll continue to pray for you and your family.
Thinking of you in Ohio
- Wednesday, August 31, 2005 10:38 PM CDT

Dear Archers,
Our prayers continue for you.
Carolyn, what a beautiful message you wrote about Jason. Katie continues to be in our prayers too.
God Bless,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Wednesday, August 31, 2005 9:58 PM CDT

Dear Archer Family:

Holding you close in my heart, lifting you up in prayer.

"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted." (Psalm 34:18)

May His love be ever present to you now through the love of friends and strangers. May it give you strength to face each new day.

You are loved and cared for more than you know,

Kriste Lanius
My Brother Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USA - Wednesday, August 31, 2005 9:18 PM CDT

You are all in my prayers. I do not have the words to express my sorrow and grief on your behalf and mine. I am so sorry for your loss. God bless you.
Tanya
Nashville, TN USA - Wednesday, August 31, 2005 7:06 PM CDT

Dear Archer Family and Katie,

I had an opportunity to thank God for Jason's life and to remember him at Eucharist this morning.

Today is the Feast of St. Aidan of Lindisfarne, and a short biography of Aidan was shared. The last paragraph struck me. Here is what it said.

Aidan died at the royal town of Bamborough, 31 August, 651. The historian Bede said of him: "He neither sought nor loved anything of this world, but delighted in distributing immediately to the poor whatever was given him by kings or rich men of the world. He traversed both town and country on foot, never on horseback, unless compelled by some urgent necessity. Wherever on his way he saw any, either rich or poor, he invited them, if pagans, to embrace the mystery of the faith; or if they were believers, he sought to strengthen them in their faith and stir them up by words and actions to alms and good works."

Let us live like St. Aidan, encouraging others to embrace the mystery of faith in Christ Jesus and strengthening other Christians in their faith and good works.

A while ago, I was trying to locate the obituary of a friend, who died on Monday. While looking, I found these sentences in the obituary of a man, from her village.

An avid reader, he especially enjoyed science fiction books and magazines and horror novels. His belief was in the extraterrestrial.

How wonderful that Jason's faith was in the Lord Jesus Christ!

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and the hope of Heaven,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, August 31, 2005 5:48 PM CDT

I did not have the honor of knowing Jason, but from all accounts, it seems he was a remarkable young man. I first learned about Jason through his mom's postings on the TC Support Forum website and I wish I could have known him. My family and I send our deepest condolences to Jason's family and hope that they may find peace in knowing that Jason is now whole and healthy in the company of angels.
Louise Carpenter
Atlantic Beach, FL USA - Wednesday, August 31, 2005 3:22 PM CDT

Katie,
Your words were very heartfelt. I was honored to have met you at Jason's Memorial Service in Hendersonville. I mentioned to you that I was happy that Jason had you in his life and that you were there for him. I was touched beyond words that your response to me was "I am Happy to have Jason in my life." At that moment I knew why Jason loved you so much! You are a very sweet and kind young lady, just as Pam had told us you are. My Prayers are with you! I Thank God that He brought You and Jason together to share the special moments together and to make memories to last a lifetime.
Shaunda (Faith)
Cleveland, TN - Wednesday, August 31, 2005 11:30 AM CDT

Pam, David, Justin, Josh, & Jenny,
Thank You so much for sharing Jason with us during this journey. I am glad I was able to attended the Memorial Service in Hendersonville. It was a very uplifting service in which Jason's life and Love for God was celebrated. It was an honor to share a few moments with you, and to let you and your family know that Jason's life touched so many others who did not know him personally. Your love for God and your faith in Him was overpowering and evident in the life that you and your family lives! You are in my prayers!
Shaunda (Faith)
Cleveland, TN USA - Wednesday, August 31, 2005 11:18 AM CDT

Dear Archer Family and Katie,

I am thinking of Jason, and of you all, this morning, as I always do. I am on my way to Eucharist, so I will remember Jason in the Chapel of All Angels, at St. George's.

I have just signed Hayden's book. This sharing of information about other sick children is one of the good things you are doing in having Jason's guest book up and going.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

The saint for today is Aidan of Lindisfarne, one of my favorites. Here is the collect for the day.

Collect For Feast Of St. Aidan Of Lindisfarne,
Missionary, Abbot, and Bishop, 31 August 651

O loving God, who called your servant Aidan from the peace of a cloister to re-establish the Christian mission in northern England, and gave him the gifts of gentleness, simplicity, and strength: Grant that we, following his example, may use what you have given us for the relief of human need, and may persevere in commending the saving Gospel of our Redeemer Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever.

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Wednesday, August 31, 2005 7:34 AM CDT

I'm so saddened by this news. I'll think about him constantly and I'm tearing up writing this. I just can't believe he's gone. I know I never knew him, but this hits so close to home for me. I truly broken hearted and wish you all the healing in the world.
~Love Leah www.caringbridge.org/va/katrina
Leah Nelson <ScorchingTundra@msn.com>
Raynham, MA US - Wednesday, August 31, 2005 5:10 AM CDT

To Jasons Family/Friends/Girlfriend:

I only knew Jason from an online game we played together. A few months ago my mother went in for a check up *she has breast cancer* and it was back for the second time. He was so helpful and opened my eyes to things I really didn't understand my mom was going through. He helped me more than he knew and was always so fun to talk to and made me laugh. He had such a good sense of humor. Thank you for allowing me to meet him, even it was just through an online silly game.
He never said anything negative about life and was talking to me about college and seeing his girlfriend off not too long ago. She seems like a really sweet girl from what he told me :) Thank you.

My heart and prayers are with you.
Carmelita <Carmelbuny@yahoo.com>
Omaha, NE USA - Wednesday, August 31, 2005 1:18 AM CDT

Dear Archer family and Katie,
Now that the activity has settled down,I pray that you rely on those good memories to keep Jason alive in your hearts and souls. Sure there will be some really sad moments but there will also be smiles and laughs too. He was so courageous.
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, August 30, 2005 11:07 PM CDT

Pam, I have been keeping up with Jason. My son Hayden has the same cancer Jason did. I want to thank you and Jason for your never ending faith. You both have been an inspiration to me in my walk with God. I hope you do not mind but I took your entry about Jason's faith and put it on Hayden's web-site. I want everyone to see the strength, faith and salvation Jesus can bring to us, and I could never have said it so eloquently. Please know your family is in my prayers-Amanda Phipps www.caringbridge.org/tx/hayden
Amanda Phipps for Hayden Phipps <amanda.phipps@comcast.net>
- Tuesday, August 30, 2005 10:12 PM CDT

You have all been on my mind and in my heart and in my prayers. I see where Linda said to let your friends and family carry you through... Please do. With out all my friends I would have never made it when I lost my son. and without all the prayer I would not have made it either. I know that you all miss him and want him with you but at the same time How wonderful for you to have the blessed assurance that your son is waiting for you in heaven... so many people do not have that knowledge....
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com,>
dardanelle, ar - Tuesday, August 30, 2005 8:27 PM CDT

Dear Archer Family And Katie,

I am continuing to think of Jason, and of you all. I have just stopped to name you all to our heavenly Father. God bless you, one and all!

What a beautiful note from Katie's mother, Carolyn Archer. It is such a tribute to Jason and to Katie, too. It speaks volumes of those young adults and also of the parents who raised them. I wish I had had a chance to rent a little cottage in Hendersonville during the summer of 2004, so I could have met Jason and Connor, while they were on this earth and so I could have met their parents, other relatives, and close friends.

Today is the Commemoration of the author John Bunyan. I will add an excerpt from his Pilgrim's Progress, the collect for the day, and a hymn, based upon his writing, below my signature. The words from Pilgrim's Progress speak of Heaven.

God bless you all!

In the sure and certain hope and with my love,

~Colette~

An Excerpt From Pilgrim's Progress (A Vision Of Heaven)

Now I saw in my dream, that these two men [Christian and Hopeful] went in at the Gate; and lo, as these entered they were transfigured, and they had raiment put on that shone like gold. There was also that met them, with harps and crowns, and gave them to them, the harp to praise withal, and the crowns in token of honour. Then I heard in my dream, that all the bells in the City rang again for joy; and that it was said unto them, "ENTER YE INTO THE JOY OF YOUR LORD." I also heard the men themselves, that they sang with a loud voice, saying, "BLESSING, HONOUR, GLORY, AND POWER, BE TO HIM THAT SITTETH UPON THE THRONE AND TO THE LAMB FOR EVER AND EVER."
Now just as the Gates were opened to let in the men, I looked in after them; and behold, the City shone like the sun, the streets also were paved with gold, and in them walked many men with crowns on their heads, palms in their hands, and golden harps to sing praises withal.

There were also of them that had wings, and they answered one another without intermission, saying, HOLY, HOLY, HOLY, IS THE LORD. And after that, they shut up the Gates: which when I had seen, I wished myself among them.

The Collect For The Feast Of John Bunyan:

Almighty God, who by your Holy Spirit give to some the word of wisdom, to others the word of knowledge, and to others the word of faith: We praise your name for the gifts of grace displayed in your servant John Bunyan, and we pray that by his teaching we may be led to a fuller knowledge of the truth which you have revealed in your Son our Saviour Jesus Christ, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever.

He Who Would Valiant Be

He who would valiant be
'gainst all disaster,
let him in constancy
follow the Master.
There's no discouragement
shall make him once relent
his first avowed intent
to be a pilgrim.

Who so beset him round
with dismal stories
do but themselves confound
his strength the more is.
No foes shall stay his might;
though he with giants fight,
he will make good his right
to be a pilgrim.

Since, Lord, thou dost defend
us with thy Spirit,
We know we at the end,
shall life inherit.
Then fancies flee away!
I'll fear not what men say,
I'll labor night and day
to be a pilgrim.

Words: John Bunyan, 1684;
as modified by Percy Dearmer, 1906

Music: St. Dunstan's, Monk's Gate, Bunyan

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/h/h155a.html

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, August 30, 2005 5:45 PM CDT

I just can't get you off my mind . My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Melissa <two_canes@hotmail.com>
Chatsworth, IL USA - Tuesday, August 30, 2005 3:04 PM CDT

Dear Pam, David, Family and Katie,
Just to let you knwow we are thinking of you and keeping you in our prayers.
love and hugs
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Tuesday, August 30, 2005 2:31 PM CDT

Praying for you daily.
June <junehumphrey@yahoo.com>
Goodlettsville, TN, God Bless The USA! - Tuesday, August 30, 2005 1:17 PM CDT

Dear Archer Family and Katie,
Hi. We are praying and thinking of
all of you.. Praying for peace, comfort,
strength and the love of family.
God Bless!!!!!
Prayers and Hugs,
LeAnn
LeAnn Mooneyham/Angel_Wings <angel4God352000@yahoo.com>
Baxley, GA United States - Tuesday, August 30, 2005 1:03 PM CDT

Wow, what a wonderful entry from Katie, and, prior to mine, from her Mom. Jason has touched so, so many lives, and will continue to do so, through all of you. I want to share this with you, it helps me to read, and re-read it....

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

I'M AN ANGEL NOW

One night I cried to Jesus
As I sat beneath the tree;
I looked into the open sky
And hoped He'd answer me.

"I'm lost dear Lord ...
I've traveled far but still I seem to roam;
Please light the way and lead me, Lord,
I need to get back home."

I told him of my burdens
And of the sadness in my heart;
That from His gracious love
I'd never felt so far apart.

"Why did you take my child, Lord?
I cannot understand!
No longer can I touch his face
Or hold his precious hand."

"I'm angry, Lord ... I'm missing him,
I'm drowning in my sorrow;
Please help to heal my yesterday
And face each new tomorrow."

It was then I heard his gentle voice
And felt his presence near;
How I wanted so to hold him
As I cried another tear.

He said "Mom, I'm an angel now,
My spirit will be free;
I'm an angel now in heaven,
So please don't cry for me."

"I was chosen by our Lord above
And now I'm in His care;
Whenever you need me,
Just look inside your heart;
I promise to be there."

"No one can ever take away
Our bond with one another;
For I'll always be your precious child,
As you will always be my mother."

"So if you cannot find your way
Or the road to home seems far;
Just look up to the Heavens
And I'll be your guiding star."

He said, "Mom, I'm an angel now,
My spirit will be free;
I'm an angel now in Heaven ...
There's no need to cry for me."
~ Author Unknown ~

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Always remember that Jason is with you in your heart, nothing can take that from you.

Love and hugs,

Rhonda Hunley, Forever Connor's Mommy

<rshunley@comcast.net>
Hendersonville, TN God Bless America! - Tuesday, August 30, 2005 12:48 AM CDT

Dear Pam and David, the entire Archer Family and everyone that has been signing this page,
I am Katie's mom and a very proud mom. I want to thank all of you for thinking about and loving my Katie. I know that Katie meant so much to Jason and was an important part of his life. But I want you to all know that it was not a one way street. Jason meant just as much to Katie and gave her as much as she gave him. He accepted her unconditionally--no makeup, hair a mess, bad mood-- he gave her uncondtional love. He even went shopping for clothes at the mall with her!! (all guys just love that!) He brought so many smiles to her face and I know that those smiles will continue as she remembers him in the days,weeks and years to come. I'll be honest.. I did worry about her when she entered into this relationship because I did not want her hurt. I soon realized that even though the outcome, without a miracle, would just break my child's heart ...the journey, the love, the laughs and the knowledge that someone as wonderful as Jason would chose her to spend the little time he had left on this earth with was worth it. She is a better person for knowing and loving Jason and for that I will always be greatful to him. And to Jason, thank you for all you did for my Katie and I know that you are one of the guardian angels that God has given her to help her through the years to come! May God Bless us all!

Much Love,
Carolyn Aldridge

Carolyn Aldridge <caaldridge@comcast.net>
hendersonville, tn - Tuesday, August 30, 2005 11:24 AM CDT

The Archer Family
You all are very much in my thoughts & Prayers at this very sad time.
Sending love hugs & prayers to all.

The Prayer Bears <psturgill@bellsouth.net>
- Tuesday, August 30, 2005 10:30 AM CDT

To All of Jason's family: May you rest in God's loving care as you give Jason over to Him, knowing that his leaving is but a temporary separation & that you will be reunited in eternity. I pray for your divine comfort from the Holy Spirit--comfort as only He can supply. In Jesus' name, Susan Malone
Susan Malone <suzie838@msn.com>
Castle Rock, CO USA - Tuesday, August 30, 2005 10:11 AM CDT

Hello Archer Family

I know these past few days must have been so hard for all of you. There is not a moment that I don't think about you and how wonderful it was to know Jason even though we never met personally. Your journey will forever be etched into my memory! My prayers and thoughts go out to all of you.
Michelle - Emily's mom - www.caringbridge.org/tx/emilysfight & Rhabdo Kids ACOR
Mission, TX USA - Tuesday, August 30, 2005 8:51 AM CDT

Oh Pam,
I have no words to express how deeply I grieve for you and your family. What a blessing to know how loved he was by Katie, and how much joy she brought to his life. What a thoughtful caring young woman, her words touched me deeply.

Lu (Gabe's Mum) <gabesmyheart@yahoo.com>
Spring Hill, TN USA - Tuesday, August 30, 2005 7:08 AM CDT

Dear Pam, David, Justin, Joshua, Jenny, and Katie,

I am thinking about Jason, and about each one of you, this morning. You are in my prayers daily. God bless you all!

Below is a prayer that some one shared with me recently. The author was, or is, a facilty member at the Vanderbilt Divinity School.

Grace, peace, love, and the hope of Heaven,

~Colette~

Almighty God, your child Jesus died on a cross,
and by his dying turned death into a doorway full of light.
Welcome your servant, Jason, who has died.
May pain be lifted.
May flesh be glorified.
May new life be filled with childlike laughter.
Please give us who walk away sweet tears,
a tender concern for neighbors,
and a sure sense of your unfailing love for us all;
through Jesus Christ the Lord.
Amen.

David Buttrick
Professor of Homiletics and Liturgics
Vanderbilt Divinity School

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, August 30, 2005 5:44 AM CDT

Dear Archer Family,

I have thought about you all, and about Katie, may times during the past few days.

Our parish runs a six week bereavement program about four times a year. We call it Comfort for Those Who Mourn. It is an ecumenical group coordinated by one of our priests and by one of our deacons, who also happens to be a social worker at hospice. I hope, if you feel comfortable with such a group, that you can find one in your area.

God bless the memory of sweet Jason and keep you all safe during the hurricane.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Be strong and take heart all you who hope in the Lord.

~Psalm 31:24
Colette
Clifton Park, NY - Tuesday, August 30, 2005 3:19 AM CDT

Dear Archer family,

I am sorry to hear of your loss. I did not know of Jason personally but was asked to pray for him by a very dear friend of mine Chris Rhodes, who did now you all very well. May GOD continue to protect you and give you comfort in the upcoming days. May you find comfort in knowing that Jason is walking the streets of gold with his savior. Even though the loss is so very hard, may you find comfort in knowing that you will see him again. My deepest sympathy is with you and your family.
Cheryl Nance <lovemybasketcase@yahoo.com>
Murfreesboro, TN USA - Monday, August 29, 2005 9:18 PM CDT

As the rain fell softly here in middle Tennessee, I thought of you - with tears as you said you last goodbyes to Jason today. What a difficult day for all of you and Katie as well. Know that you are loved - cared for and we all continue to pray for peace. Jason is whole again and never again to feel pain. This we can celebrate! It doesn't ease your pain, but it makes it bearable to know he is well again.
Linda Martin <jrbtk90289@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN - Monday, August 29, 2005 7:13 PM CDT

You and your family are in my prayers.
God Bless,
Molly
Molly
Mankato, MN - Monday, August 29, 2005 5:12 PM CDT

Our deepest sympathies go out to Jason's family and friends. We know the pain and loss of losing a loved one to cancer. May God wrap his loving arms around you and comfort you in this time of sorrow.
The Coblentz Family
Sarasota, FL - Monday, August 29, 2005 1:36 PM CDT

David, Pam & family,

My prayers & sympathy are with you and your family during this difficult time. Jason was a hero that everyone could look up to. God Bless all of you.
Kathy Rich <Kathryn.Rich@hcahealthcare.com>
Greenbrier, TN USA - Monday, August 29, 2005 12:51 AM CDT

Dear Pam, David, and family, Although I've never met any of you, I have come to care for you deeply as I've prayed for you these last months. I am grateful that Jason's suffering is ended, but I am broken-hearted for you as I think of your loss. You will remain in my prayers as our Lord guides you through the necessary months of grief. Hold on to Him as He is holding on to you.
gayle parker <gayle@compellingcommunication.com>
phoenix, az usa - Monday, August 29, 2005 12:34 AM CDT

We send our most heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. Your faith and courage continue to be an example, and your steadfast praise of our Lord and Father in the midst of such circumstance is the model of Christ's love.
Our prayers are with you.
Romans 8:28
Kiley, Lisa, Jordan, and Hunter Murphy <kiley@ekiley.com>
- Monday, August 29, 2005 12:30 AM CDT

To Pam, David and Family:
This poem came to mind. I hope it will help!!!!!

i received this am. had to share

When tomorrow starts without me,
And I'm not there to see;
If the sun should rise and find your eyes
All filled with tears for me;

I wish so much you wouldn't cry
The way you did today,
While thinking of the many things,
We didn't get to say.

I know how much you love me,
As much as I love you,
And each time that you think of me,
I know you'll miss me too;

But when tomorrow starts without me,
Please try to understand,
That an angel came and called my name,
And took me by the hand,
And said my place was ready,
In heaven far above,
And that I'd have to leave behind
All those I dearly love.

But as I turned to walk away,
A tear fell from my eye, for all my life,
I'd always thought, I didn't want to die.

I had so much to live for,
So much yet to do,
It seemed almost impossible,
That I was leaving you.

I thought of all the yesterdays,
The good ones and the bad,
I thought of all the love we shared,
And all the fun we had.

If I could relive yesterday,
Just even for awhile,
I'd say good-bye and kiss you
And maybe see you smile.

But then I fully realized,
That this could never be,
For emptiness and memories,
Would take the place of me.

And when I thought of worldly things,
I might miss come tomorrow,
I thought of you, and when i did,
My heart was filled with sorrow.

But when I walked through heaven's gates,
I felt so much at home.
When God looked down and smiled at me,
From His great golden throne,

He said "This is eternity,
And all I've promised you."
Today for life on earth is past,
But here it starts anew.

I promise no tomorrow,
But today will always last ,
And since each day's the same way
There's no longing for the past.

But you have been so faithful,
So trusting and so true.
Though there were times
you did some things,
You knew you shouldn't do,

But you have been forgiven
And now at last you're free.
So won't you take my hand
And share my life with me?

So when tomorrow starts without me,
Don't think we're far apart,
For every time you think of me,
I'm right here, in your heart.

Prayers and Hugs,
LeAnn
LeAnn Mooneyham/Angel_Wings <angel4God352000@yahoo.com>
Baxley, GA United States - Monday, August 29, 2005 11:53 AM CDT

Dear Pam and David, Josh, Justin, Jenny, and Katie, I am lifting you up in prayer today. Praying that the peace of God will surround you all. I never got the chance to meet Jason but came to love him dearly through the stories I heard about him. As Brady said at the Memorial service, Jason's life was a success. Even so, I know your pain must be tremendous. Please take some comfort in knowing many people care and love you all.
"May God bless you and keep you: may the Lord make his face to shine upon you and be gracious to you." Numbers 6:24-26.
Gwyn R. Welch, FBC, Hendersonville <gwyn.welch@vanderbilt.edu>
Hendersonville, tn 37075 - Monday, August 29, 2005 9:43 AM CDT

Dear Parents of Jason,

We won't stop praying. Even as we have prayed for all of you over these past several months, we will continue to pray for you as you travel down the Valley of Bereavement. I know from personal experience that it takes several years to recover from the loss of a child. Recover--what a word! You never quite get over it, but by God's grace, you learn to accept a new kind of normality, one known especially by those who have drawn closer to the Lord in the midst of great sorrow. For the same grief that breaks our hearts also molds us into the kind of people God wants us to be and equips us for reaching out to others. Meanwhile, all we can do is trust Him--that He knows best.

May the God who gives us the faith to believe sustain and strengthen your faith in the days ahead.

Your brother in grief and hope,
Greg Wright
Fighting the Good Fight of Faith in the Valley of Bereavement
http://www.agapeindia.com/steve/goodfight.htm

Greg Wright <gbchartsville@aol.com>
Hartsville, TN USA - Monday, August 29, 2005 9:38 AM CDT

Thank you so very much for including the message from Jason's sweet Katie. So many of us have been thinking of her during this time as well. She certainly brought Jason much happiness over the last months.

Yesterday in my Sunday School class we talked about Heaven....what IS going to be there and what's NOT. I find so very much comfort in knowing that cancer is NOT going to be there, no handicaps, no illness, no pain, no sadness. Just Jesus and He is all we will need. Jason is experiencing that as we speak; worshipping at the feet of Jesus and healthy once again.

God bless each of you as you go through this difficult time,
Kelley Williams <kelleywms@hotmail.com>
Franklin, TN USA - Monday, August 29, 2005 9:06 AM CDT

Your battle was both brave and courageous. I take comfort in knowing that you are no longer in pain, and are in the arms of the lord. We all look forward to seeing you again in heaven!
Kent Snyder <culliganguru@aol.com>
Hendersonville, TN USA - Monday, August 29, 2005 8:58 AM CDT

Jason,

You beat us to the 'finish line' man! Knowing what a brave
and courageous young man you are, I can see you standing
there and cheering your family and friends to come on and
finish the race. God's reward is something we read about,
we think about from time to time, and hopefully have the
faith to realize will be ours one day. You have beat death.
Cancer was just a small road block along the way. All of us
can only imagine the glory that you now call home.

There is sadness among the many people who love you. There
is an emptiness and void that will hurt forever in this
life. You on the otherhand are excited about your new life
and are experiencing a joy that no one on this side of the
finish line can comprehend.

Mom, Dad, brothers, and sister, You have an amazing son and
brother who has taught lessons well beyond his age. Jason
will not soon be forgotten because he lived a life full of
God. God has been glorified greatly because His mighty
warrior Jason has been an example of His power and love.

Thank you so much for sharing your son, your hopes, and even
your fears with us. God ALWAYS answers prayer. It may not
be the answer we would choose. I have to have enough faith
to believe that God is in control of everything and that He
is working everything out for my good. Somewhere out there
is someone who will be influenced by Jason's life to be a
better person than they may have been. Somewhere there is a
person who will come to depend upon God because they saw a
young man put his life into God's hands and totally give
themself to Him.

May God surround you with His loving arms and give you a
comfort and peace knowing that your son was one of His!

In Christian love,
Wayne / Mr. Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Monday, August 29, 2005 8:43 AM CDT

I am so sorry about jason�s passing.

My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

May time heal your sorrow.
May friends ease your pain.
May peace replace heartache
and may warmest memories of jason remain.

Flea - Andrew�s Aunt ...Andrew�s Caringbridge Page <sdrawkcabmi@hotmail.com>
- Monday, August 29, 2005 7:33 AM CDT

Dear Archer Family,

I am praying for you, early on the day of Jason's burial. Jason loved you all, and he is safe in God's care, but I know today will be hard.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and hope,

~Colette~

The Choice Is Ours

Let us make the remembrance of sorrow as beautiful as we can, let us stitch our pain into the fabric of our lives and make a design. Let beauty be a warning of how much we have to lose, and let us not shrink from remembering the beauty we have already lost. We will have pain in life anyway, beauty or no: how we will wear it is largely our choice.

~Barbara C. Crafton,
Author and Episcopal Priest
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, August 29, 2005 2:42 AM CDT

Pam,
I'm praying, Sweetie. Now, as much as ever. May God provide strength and hold you a little tighter tonight. With love,
Helenmary <Helenmary59@aol.com>
Gallatin, TN - Monday, August 29, 2005 0:27 AM CDT

Dear Pam, David, and Family: My name is Susan Cornelius. I am Emily Hinsley's "Nana." Over the last year, your family has been an strong source of support to my daughter Michelle and her family as we have all supported little Emily in her fight with Rahbdo. After reading your website, I know that through the pain and loss over the next few weeks, your faith will help you speak to the Lord and to Jason. But if it also helps, please know that there are those you do not even know who will be thinking of you and praying for you and your family. In the words of the 145 Psalm, which I have called upon many times in the last year "...The Lord is close to all who call Him." Bless you and thank you for being my daughter's friend.
Susan R. Cornelius <scornelius@ssolutions.cc>
San Diego, CA USA - Sunday, August 28, 2005 11:31 PM CDT

You have all been on my mind all day. I prayed for you in church today. Lean on your faith and your friends. That is what we are all here for. I love you Pam, and no parent should ever feel the pain that you and David are feeling. We rejoice in the fact that Jason no longer feels pain. He never has to face Cancer again! I will be checking on you later this week. Take care of yourself. The kids need you.
Linda Martin <jrbtk90289@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN - Sunday, August 28, 2005 9:10 PM CDT

Dear Jenny,

We have never met. I live in New York, about fifteen miles north of Albany. I have been visiting Jason's website and signing his guest book for about 15-16 months.

I want you to know that I am thinking of YOU deeply tonight and that I have thought of you a lot this weekend. I never had any brothers, but I always wanted them, and I especially wanted an older brother, as my mom was blessed with a wonderful, protective, big brother seven years older, my dear Uncle Sheldon. Having seen their relationship and other big brother/little sister ones, I know there is something awesome in them. Jason was such a great young man, and I am sure that you miss him a lot and will continue to miss him.

I wish that there was some way I could comfort and help you. Please talk about Jason with your parents and with other adults that you trust. It is important that you do this, even if, at times, you seem to say the same things over and over.

Maybe there are some of Jason's things that you can have. Also, maybe you can get a piece of jewelry, to wear every day, to honor Jason. Some ideas may be an identification bracelet with his name or with his name and yours, a ring with Jason's birthstone, or a locket with his picture inside. Talk with your parents and grandparents about this. I am sure they will have ideas and that they all know how special you and Jason were as sister and brother.

I am praying for you. It is not easy having anyone you love die, even when you are sure the person is with the Lord. It is also normal to have questions, longings, regrets, and even doubts, at a time like this. God loves you and understands.

God bless you, Jenny! I am praying for you and for all of your family.

In the sure and certain hope of the resurrection and with my love,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, August 28, 2005 8:44 PM CDT

It was heartbreaking to read Jason's story in the Tennessean a few months ago. I just felt so much sadness for you and could almost feel your pain. Yet I was struck by what a courageous young man he was. Although I don't know your family personally I just felt I had to tell you how sorry I am that Jason had to endure all he did. But I rejoice that he is walking with Jesus now and no more pain.
Brenda Tate <tutates@cafes.net>
Winchester, TN - Sunday, August 28, 2005 8:02 PM CDT

Dear David and Pam and Family,
How sad I am to hear of Jason's passing, yet I rejoice his suffering is behind him and he is now with our Lord.
We have prayed so long for his recovery, but for some reason it was not to be. In the big picture, I am sure Jason has impacted more people for the Kingdom than if he had lived to be old. You now have a great investment in heaven and the wonderful news is we will all see him again and all those who gone before us.
Please know I am praying for you and have been for sometime. I know this has been a very long journey for you. So many love you and have loved Jason and we will all still be here for you.
May our Father in Heaven bring you comfort beyond what you could ever imagine and keep you very close to Him.
Sincerely,
Diane Anglin Hamilton
Diane Anglin Hamilton <We2hamiltons@charter.net>
Piney Flats, TN USA - Sunday, August 28, 2005 7:08 PM CDT

Dear Pam and David and family (and Katie). I am so sorry that you have lost your beloved Jason here on earth. I almost lost my daughter several years ago in an auto accident. I can only begin to know your pain.

What a wonderful feeling it must be to KNOW that Jason is now in the loving arms of our Lord. That is an assurance I do not have with my children.

Susan Daydif <susan@susandaydif.com>
Antioch, IL - Sunday, August 28, 2005 5:18 PM CDT

Dear Pam & David,

I am so sorry to hear about Jason. During the last year, he became very dear to my heart although I never met him. He will always be remembered and he will be missed a lot.

--Vandana
Mom to Sriya (Rhabdo List)
www.caringbridge.com/ca/sriya
Vandana <vandana_durga@yahoo.com>
San Ramon, CA USA - Sunday, August 28, 2005 4:46 PM CDT

The people of La Vergne First United Methodist Church lifted you all up to the Lord today. None of us knew Jason personally...but all of us have been touched by his courage, his faith, and his life. Thank you for sharing Jason through this wonderful website.
Rev. Thomas Ward <lavergnefumc@tds.net>
La Vergne, TN - Sunday, August 28, 2005 4:11 PM CDT

We are heartbroken for you and have you in our thoughts and prayers. His gentle, easy passing was a blessing.
betsy geiger IPMC pharmacy
betsy geiger
- Sunday, August 28, 2005 3:47 PM CDT

I was so sorry to hear about Jason. That was a very nice article in the Tennessean about Jason. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Take care!
God bless you.
Jo Anne Bright-Church (formerly of Kingsport, TN) <joanneandgary@earthlink.net>
Winter Garden, FL USA - Sunday, August 28, 2005 3:12 PM CDT

I have just come home after surgery for bowel cancer, and the first thing I wanted to know was how Jason was doing as I have been following his story from the beginning. I'm so sad to read that he passed away. My heart goes out to all of you, and I pray that you will find comfort at this sad time. Jason was a remarkable young man who was blessed with a wonderful family and girlfriend.God bless you all

June Symons <June.symons@blueyonder.co.uk>
Plymouth, England - Sunday, August 28, 2005 1:06 PM CDT

Praying for peace and comfort in these difficult days and weeks. In Christ...
Sandra & Hayli <mom5150@mac.com>
Modesto, ca - Sunday, August 28, 2005 11:09 AM CDT

Dear Pam, David, Family and Katie,
"DEATH LEAVES A HEARTACHE
NO ONE CAN HEAL~
LOVE LEAVES A MEMORY~
NO ONE CAN STEAL"
You are in our thoughts and our prayers.
Pam, what a selfless act and a tribute to Jason burying him in N.C. so that all his relatives can visit him. I KNOW Rhonda won't mind you grieving at Connor's. Thank you again for sharing your precious son with all of us at Caringbridge. Jason touched lives around the world.
God Bless,
Kathy and Dave <kmdm@new.rr.com>
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, August 28, 2005 9:43 AM CDT

Dear Pam, David, Justin, Joshua, Jenny, Katie, and All,

I have just read the wonderful article about Jason. He was an intelligent, wise, loving, and caring young man. He will certainly be missed!

Because of the weather getting increasingly stormy here, I went to early Eucharist this morning. I sat up front, where I could view the Jesus and the Children stained glass in the west transept and the Resuurection/New Creation window in the east transept. As I gazed upon these beautiful pieces of sacred art, I held you all up to the Lord. May God truly bless you all!

I am here, whenever I can do anything to help. Pam has my information.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY - Sunday, August 28, 2005 9:43 AM CDT

I would like to send my most sincere sympathy upon the loss of your son. Although I do not know you, it brought tears to my eyes. May God comfort you in every way.
Elaine Slay
Jacksboro, TN Campbell - Sunday, August 28, 2005 8:28 AM CDT

May your beautiful son and his soul rest in peace and be smiling forever. I have followed your personal triumps with your son Jason since the beginning..He had completed his job here and I am sure he is in a wonderful playground now.. Annette
annette klein <ritzywoo@aol.com>
bellmore, ny usa - Sunday, August 28, 2005 6:04 AM CDT

I'm so sorry for you loss.

BRENDA My Loving Dad's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Sunday, August 28, 2005 3:03 AM CDT

Brother David,

Mom just called me from Kingsport about Jason. Becky and I just wanted to write to let you know we are lifting you up in our prayers. It was great seeing you at the ASHP Mid-Year Clinical in December. I realized then the seriousness of Jason's disease. I am so happy that Jason gave his life to our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ when he was young. He had one mighty powerful testimony for the Lord. Even though you have family and friends spread throughout Tennessee (from Kingsport to Memphis), you have Christian brothers and sisters pretty much throughout the nation. I miss the great times we had in Colonial Heights and at school in Memphis. David, we're praying that Holy God will give you and your family peace and strength at this time and in weeks to come and that people will come to have a saving knowledge of Jesus through your love for Jesus at this time.

We love you, brother,

Terry and Becky Taylor
Terry Taylor <terryltaylor@hotmail.com>
Chillicothe, Ohio - Sunday, August 28, 2005 3:02 AM CDT

The Nashville Tennessean had a sweet front page article about Jason in today's paper. I think you can get there by copying and pasting address below.

http://tennessean.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20050827/OBITS/508270349/1090/news
Helenmary <Helenmary59@aol.com>
Gallatin, TN - Saturday, August 27, 2005 11:57 PM CDT

Dear Pam, David, and family,
Just as the previous writer, I also have just spent time on this site after having read the article about Jason in the Tennessean. My heart grieves with you at this very difficult time. I am so sincerely sorry for your loss. Pam and David, I believe that we attended college together. I attended UT Memphis, graduating from nursing school in 1978. I believe that the both of you were there in pharmacy school. I think that Pam and I lived on the same dorm floor at least one of the years, and we were involved in the BSU. My heart truly breaks for you, and you are all in my thoughts and prayers. May God bless you with strength, comfort, and peace, and fill your minds and hearts with precious memories of your beloved Jason. Love in Christ, Vicki Davis Layne Isaiah 41:13
Vicki Layne <vlayne@bellsouth.net>
Murfreesboro, TN - Saturday, August 27, 2005 11:39 PM CDT

Pam, David and family (including Katie) I have just spent the past 2 hours reading your journal entries. I did this after reading the article in this morning's Tennessean and your dear son's obituary. God bless you. You are so fortunate to have God in your lives. You are strong people and God will help you through these hard times. Continue to love and care for one another. And know that people who haven't even met you care about and will continue to pray for you. In His name, Cindy. Franklin, TN
Cindy M
Franklin, TN USA - Saturday, August 27, 2005 10:46 PM CDT

Beautiful service today. You've touched my heart and soul with sharing Jason with me via caringbridge. Brady and Pastor Weekly were right....you did EVERYTHING you could have done for him...the most important being leading him to our Lord, Jesus Christ! God bless you all.
Becky Bustin <GABustin@aol.com>
Gallatin, TN - Saturday, August 27, 2005 9:42 PM CDT

Dear Pam and family, I am a friend of WanaLee from Baton Rouge.She had been keeping me up to date with Jason's progress. There are no words in the English language that can comfort, heal, or help you through this ordeal,nor can you ever begin to understand why a child as this was taken from you. Please find solace in that Jason doesn't hurt anymore and he doesn't have to be strong for you,family and friends anymore. Try to imagine that you are on vacation here on Earth, and when it's time to come home, you will be with Jason once again. I think that a loss as this, a young person,has such an impact and out of Jason's death, we, the ones that know him or know of him, somehow, need this in our lives to progress. He is like a lamb that was given up so the rest of us could learn what is courage, what is hope, what is tomorrow. How I wish I could do something to take the pain away, dry your tears, and make you believe tomorrow will be better. Please know that you,your family, and Jason's friends and girlfriend will be in my thoughts today and when I go to bed, I will say an extra prayer for all of you. God bless you.

Donna <atthejim@aol.com>
Baton Rouge, La - Saturday, August 27, 2005 9:21 PM CDT

Hi Jason's Family, I'm so sorry for your loss. I will continue to keep you in my prayers. May God Bless you.
Della Piercy <Luckygreeneyes74@yahoo.com>
morganton, N.C. United States - Saturday, August 27, 2005 9:03 PM CDT

Dear Pam and Family,
Sending prayers, thoughts, hugs
and Love. God Bless!!!
Prayers and Hugs,
LeAnn
LeAnn Mooneyham/Angel_Wings <angel4God352000@yahoo.com>
Baxley, GA United States - Saturday, August 27, 2005 8:58 PM CDT

We pray that God's comfort and peace will overwhelm your hearts this week. This has been such a hard journey for your family and Jason was so truly blessed to be surrounded by such a wonderful family and so many friends. Your faith has been and continues to be truly inspiring. We will keep you close in our prayers.
Tim and Robin Clouse <abn4ever@hotmail.com>
Pebble Beach, CA USA - Saturday, August 27, 2005 8:54 PM CDT

i just wanted to say that im so sorry for ur sons loss and i lost a very special friend to this diease he died june 17,2005 he was 13 i miss him alot and he had like 7 tumors removed and then its spread to both of his lungs and his brain and then he couldnt fight nomore he lost i was so devasted so now if their is anyway i could help just please tell me thanks my thoughts and prayers goes out to ur guys thanks
Kendra <cheer_chick12@hotmail.com>
Clarkrange, Tn U.S.A - Saturday, August 27, 2005 8:46 PM CDT

Pam, David, Justin, Joshua, Jenny, and Katie, We are so sorry to hear of Jason's passing. Please try to bring the fond memories to the forefront. Know that he is without pain, and he is smiling as he looks down at all of you with his love. Know that we are here for you. God bless you all!
Becky and Tom <bbishop@k12k.com>
Kingsport, TN - Saturday, August 27, 2005 8:41 PM CDT

Pam, David, kids and Katie - It touched my heart to see the pictures of Jason with that wonderful smile on his face in the pictures with Katie that you had today at the church. Katie, you gave him something that was so precious - your unconditional love. just as his family always did. Jason was happy when he was with you. I know his family is so greatful for you being in his life. I will pray for all of you as you go through the next 2 days of good byes to Jason. I hope you find peace in knowing what a wonderful young man Jason became.
Linda Martin <jrbtk90289@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN - Saturday, August 27, 2005 8:41 PM CDT

He will remove all of their sorrows, and there will be no more death or sorrow or crying or pain. Revelation 21:4
Even though God may not take away your pain in this life, he does promise the end of pain in heaven. By faith, claim the reality of this hope--and may it fill you with sweet joy.

My heart goes out to you in the loss of your precious son, Jason.
But..he is now in heaven and he is well and he knows no sorrow.
I lost my son Daniel at 18 years, in December 2001. I know what you are going through and how it will be from this day until you are with your son again.
I pray that you feel God's everlasting love and that you will find peace and comfort knowing that others care and share in your grief.
God be with you

Marsha Vick <nashtenn@yahoo.com>
Nashville (Ridgetop), Tn USA - Saturday, August 27, 2005 7:52 PM CDT

Our Deepest Sympathy ,we are deeply saddened to hear of Jasons passing , please know we are thinking of your family all the way from Australia , I will check in on you soon .
Maria , Joe , Sammy-Joe and Christian Liistro
http://www.caringbridge.org/ok/sammyjoe
http://www.vp-it.com.au/sammyjoe
Maria Liistro <sammyjo2@bigpond.com.au>
Craigieburn ,Melbourne, Vic Australia - Saturday, August 27, 2005 7:42 PM CDT

Dear Archer Family,
I was so saddened to hear about Jason's passing. My heart aches for all of you...Katie too and Jason's extended family and friends also. Thank you for sharing Jason with us and Pam for posting his obituary. What an inspiration Jason was. We learned of his Caringbridge site from Linda Martin. We will be thinking of you and praying for you during the difficult days ahead. Cherish the memories and remember we are here for you. God Bless,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Saturday, August 27, 2005 7:19 PM CDT

Archer Family:

I have just recently learned of Jason and his struggle with cancer. What a courageous and spirit filled young man. I am lifting you and your family in my prayers. I know your hearts are heavy with the sorrow of being without him for now, but are full of peace in knowing you will be reunited for an eternity with him. He is now whole and healthy and the angels rejoice. May the Lord bless and keep you all.

My deepest sympathy,
Regina Barnett, FBC Hendersonville
Regina Barnett <05barnett@comcast.net>
Hendersonville, TN USA - Saturday, August 27, 2005 7:08 PM CDT

Dear Archer Family and Katie,

While in the Chapel of All Angels, at St. George's, this morning, praying for all of you, I found a book of thoughts from St. Teresa of Avila. Here are two I wish to share with you.

"Remember our Lord invited 'all'. He is truth itself; his word cannot be doubted. His mercy is so great that he prevents no one from coming to the fountain of life to drink from it."

How blessed are you all to KNOW that Jason came to the living water, which is our Lord Jesus Christ, and that you will know Jason again, in our Father's eternal kingdom.

"The soul that truly loves God loves all good, seeks all good, protects all good, praises all good, joins itself to all good men, helps and defends them, and embraces all the virtues; it only loves what is true and worth loving."

By all accounts, this is the way Jason lived. God bless the sweet spirit of this courageous and loving young man!

Because of the Hunleys, I have had the privilege to read about Jason and to pray for him, and for his family, for about 15-16 months. I will continue to visit Jason's site and to hold you all in prayer.

In the sure and certain hope and with my love,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, August 27, 2005 7:07 PM CDT

On behalf of everyone on the Mark Schultz message boards, we offer our condolences to the Archer family and to Katie. It has been an honor to walk this journey with you. We have been blessed to see the love that never failed, the friends who never left his side, and the family who humbles us all by their never-ending faith in God above. May you all find comfort in the loving arms of family and friends, and may the dear Lord bless you all for the ways in which you have touched so many lives.
JoEllen Coney (ardentlonging on the boards)
St.Charles, IL U.S.A. - Saturday, August 27, 2005 6:35 PM CDT

Thank you all that have been praying for Jason over the past year and a half. Your thoughts and prayers have meant the world to both myself and Jason's family. This has not been an easy time for any of us, but your knowledge of our situation and continued prayers bring comfort to even our darkest days.

I loved Jason from the moment I met him and I know he's smiling down on each of us thanking each of us for getting us to the place he belongs.

God Bless,
Katie (Proud to have loved Jason)
Katie <Kealdrid@samford.edu>
Hendersonville, TN - Saturday, August 27, 2005 5:31 PM CDT

Pam what a beautiful obit. I'm so sad Jason has left your side but I know he will always be with you. My only wish is that the wonderful doctors like Dr. Barr find a cure for this Rhabdo beast! I wish I could give you a hug but know that I'm here for any moral support you need.
Michelle - Emily's mom - www.caringbridge.org/tx/emilysfight & Rhabdo Kids ACOR
Mission, TX USA - Saturday, August 27, 2005 5:12 PM CDT

my thoughts and prayers are with you today and tomorrow and for a long time to come. Not just for mom and Dad and brothers and sister but also Katie, and aunts and uncles and friends and everyone that loved Jason so much. Having been in the same place you are in today I know that the prayers and love surrounding you (and knowing that Jason loved Jesus) are what will help you.
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com,>
- Saturday, August 27, 2005 4:45 PM CDT

I'm praying for your broken hearts.
June <junehumphrey@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, August 27, 2005 4:23 PM CDT

Dear Archer family,
I am so sorry to hear of Jason's passing. I have been reading Jason's website and praying for him ever since I found out about him thru Connor Hunley and Kevin Martin's website. I was glad to see the article in the Tennessean today on Jason--he is still touching lives. I am praying for your family to cope thru this difficult time.

Lori Pierce <Hayden01@tds.net>
Mt Juliet, Tn - Saturday, August 27, 2005 3:32 PM CDT

Dear Pam, David and family -
In only a few short months of reading your site and learning of Jason's strength, your lessons are so many.

If there were only one thing I could take from Jason's courage, it is of a young man that looks forward to an entry to Heaven and knowledge that those he loved will join him. In addition, we send our kindest wishes to Katie, another source of Jason's strength.

May you all know Peace and some rest following the services.
Jim and Lisa in CT
Jim and Lisa
- Saturday, August 27, 2005 1:19 PM CDT

Just wanted you to know that we're praying for you. We are friends of Richie Shannon. We'll continue to pray for each of you.
Shelly and Jason VanBinsbergen <jayandshel@msn.com>
Sparks, NV - Saturday, August 27, 2005 12:55 AM CDT

I rejoice with you in that precious Jason dances and sings today without pain! God knew it was time. HE sent death to release Jason from further pain. I also rejoice with you in the wonderful memories of that sweet young man. And I weep with a heavy heart for the sadness and the emptiness you must endure in letting him go.

I thank you for your wonderful testimony. God has made you so much stronger in your faith, if that is possible. You have truly witnessed and spread God's glory and grace to hundreds. How powerful you have been during this difficult time.

Mother (Virginia) asked me to express her deepest sympathy and regrets. Please know we are lifting you all in prayer. May you feel His presence and strength in the days and months ahead. Love in Christ, Sue & Virginia
Sue Rhea <srhea@chartertn.net>
Kingsport, TN USA - Saturday, August 27, 2005 12:39 AM CDT

Dear Archer Family
I am so sorry for your loss. God bless and keep you. Sincerely.
Steve Newman <steve3603@cs.com>
Smyrna, TN U>S> - Saturday, August 27, 2005 11:53 AM CDT

Dear Pam, Dad and Family
I am so sorry for your loss. I have seen you at Vanderbilt, but we never got to meet. My son Oakley Reed has been fighting a rare cancer called Ewing's Sarcoma since he was diagnosed in March 2003. Our stories are very similar in that our son is 18 yrs old and he too loves to play video games and has shown the same kind of courage and strength that your son displayed. As one mother to another, my heart is breaking for you and I want you to know that I will be praying for you because I know that the days ahead will be hard. I am so glad to know that your faith is strong and you love the Lord as much as I do. I feel that God has used the things that our sons have gone through to show so many other people how to really live in the short time we are given on this earth. I understand how you feel Dad because I see how close my son and husband have grown and how deeply a Dad's love is for his son. Oakley is our only son together, but he is blessed to have a half-sister and brother-in-law, a niece and nephew and half-brother who love him dearly so I also understand the pain Jason's brothers and sister are going through. I encourage you all to keep looking the One who can give us a peace that passes all understanding. God Bless you all.
www.caringbridge.org/tn/oakleyreed3
Sheryl Reed <sreed30563@aol.com>
Nashville, TN Davidson - Saturday, August 27, 2005 11:45 AM CDT

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Jenn Hartley <ronjenn696@prodigy.net>
Bensalem, PA USA - Saturday, August 27, 2005 10:56 AM CDT

Pam, David, Justin, Josh and Jenny, Katie and Friends of Jason
I thank you for sharing Jason with all of us. Thank you for allowing us to walk this road with you and allowing us to pray for you and for Jason. I pray now that God would wrap you all in his arms and hold you tight. I pray that you all would find peace and comfort in knowing that your son, brother, friend is in Heaven in the presence of The Father, his Savior. May you feel him always with you and know that you now have someone whom you love very much keeping watch over you from Heaven. Please know that you will never slip from my prayers. May He bless you richly for the faith you have kept and continue to keep!
God Bless You All,
I pray you find comfort in the words of this song written by a lady from my church (Cindy Beier)

I know you�re with Jesus
I know you have the comfort that was lacking here on earth
I know that you�re singing with your hands raised to a God
You can reach out and touch

I know that you�re happy
I know that your eyes will never shed another tear
I know that I�ll miss you�
So goodbye for now

(((HUGS))) to you all.
Julia <jujubean_03@yahoo.com>
Sycamore, IL - Saturday, August 27, 2005 10:45 AM CDT

My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Carol
Brentwood, TN - Saturday, August 27, 2005 10:42 AM CDT

Dear Archer Family, I do not know you and I did not know Jason; I'm only a Tennessean subscriber and remember his story in December and was so sad to see the news this morning. Please know that you are even in the thoughts and prayers of strangers. May God comfort you and give you peace during this time of complete sorrow. May God bless and keep you all.
Elizabeth <elua00@yahoo.com>
Franklin, TN - Saturday, August 27, 2005 10:35 AM CDT

Dear Archer family,
I read about Jason this morning in the Tennessean. I remember reading about him before. I am so very sorry for your loss. I can't even begin to imagine how you feel. I just want you to remember, Jesus never said that we wouldn't have trouble, he just said that we would never walk alone. Know that there are people out here in the world who never knew Jason, but who pray for you, and cry with you. You are not alone. Jesus and His love are right beside you at all times. Jason is basking in the glow of that love right now. Praying for you still.
Caren Teichmann <clteich@yahoo.com>
Brentwood, tn usa - Saturday, August 27, 2005 10:30 AM CDT

Sending my love and support your way for this difficult weekend. I pray everyone sees what an awesome young man Jason was and that we have all gained a lot by being able to walk on this journey with all of you....
Till you meet him again in Heaven remember he is now an angel there for you...
Marjie <jmr@mahaska.org>
Oskaloosa, ia usa - Saturday, August 27, 2005 9:57 AM CDT

Pam,
I put Jason's link on Suryan web page under Rhabdo angels.
My heart is breaking for you, but know Jason will be looking over you and your family. I hope you feel his wonderful love in your heart. Call me anytime!!!!
Laurie mom to Suryan www.caringbridge.org/fl/suryan
Laurie <casadewhippets@yahoo.com>
SGI, Fl - Saturday, August 27, 2005 9:56 AM CDT

Dear entire Archer family,Katie,and friends of Jason,
On Friday, I stumbled across your story while visiting a Lake Cumberland bulletin board site. I am so very sorry for your loss. I am saddened for the 18 months of torment that you all have been through. It sounds like Jason was one courageous individual! I can now only pray for all of you, that God may make you stronger for having gone through this. And to Pam, God bless you for having the ability to put into the journal,a powerful account of what no parent should have to experience. Rest in peace, Jason Archer.
Doug <iceman85@aol.com>
Columbus, Ohio - Saturday, August 27, 2005 9:38 AM CDT

I am praying for you. May God carry you through this journey.
Caroline Coon <ckcoon@comcast.net>
Nashville, TN - Saturday, August 27, 2005 9:08 AM CDT

May God bless your family at this difficult time. You all are in our thoughts and prayers. Please be comforted by the fact that Jason is with his Lord in Heaven.

John, Dara, Jim, Jessica, Madison, Jonathan Dallas
Arlington, TX USA - Saturday, August 27, 2005 8:20 AM CDT

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our entire family is praying for you, and wishing you peace and comfort.
Colbey, Sibyl, Grace, and Sadie Reagan
Nashville, TN USA - Saturday, August 27, 2005 8:09 AM CDT

Dear Archer Family,

At this time, I am sure you are up and preparing to go to church for the bittersweet task of receiving visitors, coming to honor and remember Jason. Knowing this, I am on my way to St. George's, where I will kneel in prayer, for a while, in the Chapel of All Angels, to support you.

God bless you all, and God bless Katie, too!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Nothing loved is ever lost or perished.

~Madeleine L'Engle, In Her Newberry Honor Book, A Ring Of Endless Light
Colette
Clifton Park, NY - Saturday, August 27, 2005 7:59 AM CDT

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss of Jason. Cheri Spears has kept us updated through our church email group. He seemed like a great young man and I wish I had known him. Thanks for having the pictures on the website. They're all great looking kids.
Dotty Dotson <dottydotson@comcast.net>
Madison, TN - Saturday, August 27, 2005 7:13 AM CDT

Pam and David,

I cried for you this morning. My tears for your loss mingled with those for our beloved Katrina. How strange it is to me still that God could make us so, to experience such anguish and sense of loss just when we know our children are finally safe at home. May joy return to your hearts with remembrance of Jason's time with you.
Mark Nelson (Katrina's Dad) <nelsonme@cox.net>
Burke, VA - Saturday, August 27, 2005 7:13 AM CDT

Dear Archer Family,

I am a friend of Paige Taylor's family and have been following Paige's journey with cancer. This is how I found Jason. I am very sorry to hear of his passing as he seems to have been a wonderful person. Please know that I will keep your family in my thoughts and prayers; and I thank you for letting others facing this cancer read about Jason and his journey here.

Tammy Schlesser <t.schlesser@comcast.net>
Dublin, CA USA - Saturday, August 27, 2005 7:07 AM CDT

It is a privilege to join you in your courageous battle. May the God of peace reign in your hearts and minds. God bless you.
Leanne Shelby
Madison, TN Davidson - Saturday, August 27, 2005 6:54 AM CDT

Dear Archer Family,

I have just looked thorugh the photo album again. Jason certainly was a handsome and intelligent looking young man. I know he will be greatly missed.

I am praying for you all this morning, and I will be praying throughout the day, including at Eucharist this afternoon.

God bless you all and Katie, too!

In the sure and certain hope, and with my love,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, August 27, 2005 6:08 AM CDT

Dear Pam and David and Justin, Joshua and Jenny:

"Grace and peace be multiplied (bundle after bundle after bundle) to you in the knowledge of God and of Jesus our Lord." II Peter 1:2

We can't help but rejoice for Jason. Yet, we pray for those left to grieve. May this truly be a healthy time of grieving as it was for Joseph when Jacob died.
Mary Ann Stout <nana041@comcast.net>
Kingsport, TN USA - Saturday, August 27, 2005 5:50 AM CDT

Dear Pam, David, and Family,

Thank you for posting some of the things Jason said about his illness. He truly was a very wise young man.

Also, thank you for posting the arrangements. I will be praying for all of you, by name, on Saturday, Sunday, and Monday. May your pastors have kind and helpful things to say, and may you feel the love of your local friends and your CaringBridge companions. Most of all, may you know and believe the love of God, for Jason, and for each one of you.

If there is anything at all I can do, please phone, or email me. You have my information.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, August 27, 2005 4:14 AM CDT

I found Jason's site from Connor's site. I have not posted on either site until now, but I feel great sadness about the loss of these children and just wish to tell your family that my prayers have been and will continue to be with all of you. God puts many challenges before us during our life time. The greatest one is the loss of a child. I am sad for you all, and all the pain you have endured over the past year. I pray that the years ahead will bring some relief of pain, acceptance, and a final renewal of this fragile life as we know it. There is a purpose to all this. In time, God will let us know that purpose.
My prayers and love to your family

Nancy <nschuetze@sbcglobal.net>
StLouis, Mo - Saturday, August 27, 2005 2:23 AM CDT

I am so saddened to hear about Jason. I have checked up on you all from time to time through Connor's site. Rhonda is always so good to inform Connor's followers who need prayer and encouragement.

May you find comfort from those around you and from our Heavenly Father at this most difficult time. Jason sounded like an incredible young man and I know you are proud of the son you raised. Your family will remain in my thoughts and prayers as you grieve for your son and continue your lives without him on earth. What a blessing to know you will see him again.

God Bless you-
Mandy LeMay
Mandy LeMay
Hendersonville, TN USA - Saturday, August 27, 2005 0:55 AM CDT

Dear Family:

Thinking of you with love tonight and in the difficult days ahead. Even in your pain and sadness, you find a way to think of others. Jason surely came by his own strength honestly!

The following was written by a grieving parent. I think it could have been written by any grieving parent who will always see and feel their brave "boy" or "girl"...

I'm So Glad You Came
by: Jane Peterson (In memory of her daughter)

I'm so glad you came
For I will always know your light
In my hands;
Always.

And the power of your leaving
Was exquisite.
A kind of profound silence.
I will always be able to recall it
In a moment;
Always.

But I am so glad you came.
So incredibly honored
To have known you at all.
I will always know your light
In my hands,
And in a blink, I will see it;
Always.

Sending warm hugs your way, and prayers for you to feel all the others, too. You are loved, Jason is loved.

Blessings on you all,

Kriste Lanius

My Big Brother's Site -Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USA - Saturday, August 27, 2005 0:46 AM CDT

Dear Archer Family,

What a celebration there must have been at Jason's homecoming. I am so sad for your family that you did not receive an earthly healing, but how grateful I am for a Heavenly Father who allowed Jason a peaceful end to his pain. Thank you for the privilege of being touched by your family. I won't send a page tonight because I know Jason is busy greeting so many who went before him. I will continue to pray for your family.
Dahlia Landers <dahlialeelanders@bellsouth.net>
Purvis, MS USA - Saturday, August 27, 2005 0:40 AM CDT

Praying for your broken hearts. You do what Jason would have wanted and especially what's best for YOU! Don't worry about friends and relatives, they will understand. You have to take care of yourselves and put your needs and wants first this time. Think about what will comfort you and what will be best for your future plans.
June Humphrey <junehumphrey@yahoo.com>
Goodlettsville, TN, God Bless The USA! - Saturday, August 27, 2005 0:37 AM CDT

Godspeed, Jason. Our thoughts, our prayers, our hearts are with you and your family.
Helenmary <Helenmary59@aol.com>
Gallatin, TN - Saturday, August 27, 2005 0:04 AM CDT

May God Bless your family. Jason is without pain and suffering in the AWESOME Kingdom of God. To know that some day we shall share that same Peace. May the days to come bring joy and comfort in remembering such a strong young man. GOD BLESS YOU ALL!!
Jason Brown <iceboat@comcast.net>
Mahtomedi, MN USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 11:39 PM CDT

I am so sorry for the loss of such a wonderful young man. My prayers are with you.
Pam Morris <pammorris@peoplepc.com>
Roswell, Ga - Friday, August 26, 2005 10:36 PM CDT

Dear Archer Family,
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. Jason is watching over us all in Heaven. He's no longer suffering. Everything happens for a reason and God will take care of you all. I'm praying for your family and I know things are hard, but god will be with you the whole way through and he won't let you down.
Olivia Miller <goldengirlzrock@hotmail.com>
Brentwood, TN - Friday, August 26, 2005 10:21 PM CDT

Dear Pam and David,
I want to let you know how much my heart is broken over your sweet Jason. My prayers and thoughts will continue to be with you and your family.
Sandra Wiggs <jbzaunt02@yahoo.com>
hattiesburg, MS USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 8:50 PM CDT

I don't know you or your family, but I want you to know that I am praying for you. God will give you the strength to endure your pain. Keep the faith and you will see your son in heaven. God bless you!
Amanda <momof2sons30@aol.com>
Tn - Friday, August 26, 2005 8:39 PM CDT

I just wanted to share a poem that a friend shared with us a few days before our Haley passed away from rhabdo. It brought me much comfort and I hope it does the same for you.
Gone from my Sight
I am standing upon the seashore. A ship at my side
spreads her white sails to the morning breeze and
starts for the blue ocean. She is an object of beauty
and strength. I stand and watch her until at length
she hangs like a speck of white cloud just where
the sea and sky come to mingle with each other.

Then someone at my side says: "There, she is gone!"

"Gone where?"

Gone from my sight. That is all. She is just as large in
mast and hull and spar as she was when she left my side and
she is just as able to bear her load of living freight to her destined port.

Her diminished size is in me, not in her. And just at the moment when someone at my side says: "There, she is gone!" there are other eyes watching her coming, and other voices ready to take up the glad shout: "Here she comes!"

And that is dying.

Jean Brady (mom to Angel Haley) www.caringbridge.org/de/haley <bni21@comcast.net>
Newark, DE - Friday, August 26, 2005 8:37 PM CDT

Dear Pam & family, I am so saddened to hear of Jason's passing. I have been following his progress for months and had prayed for a miracle. I know that he is pain free and glorying in the warmth of God's love. I hope you find some comfort in the fact that he no longer has cancer. My thoughts and prayers continue to be with you.
Debi Moore <madizie@cox.net>
Glendale, AZ USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 6:33 PM CDT

Our hearts are so heavy for you in the loss of your son. What a beautiful valiant young man he seemed to be. I am thankful he had you as a loving family and that he knew his Savior. I pray you can rest in HIs love for you even amidst terrible pain. May His Spirit hold you close. Our prayers are with you.
Shannon Ede <shannon@edefamily.net www.caringbridge.org/tx/patrickede>
Round Rock, TX - Friday, August 26, 2005 6:29 PM CDT

Pam and family..I am so sorry to hear about the passing of Jason. My friend Doug Thurman kept us all informed of his condition the past months. I can't even imagine how hard it has been for all of you. We prayed everyday for his recovery but as you know God had other plans for such a fine young man. I so happy for your faith in the Lord and the fact we know Jason is in a better place and pain free
Murphy Huston <wlhuston@hotmail.com>
Englewood, Co. USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 6:00 PM CDT

Pam I was so shocked and surprised to learn of Jason's passing when I checked the website today. I am so very sorry. I know the path you are walking and I want you to know that you will endure with the help of God, family and friends. If I can ever be of any help please feel free to contact me. I hope Jason and my son Vann are getting acquainted today in heaven. Love, Nancy Webb
Nancy Webb <ngwebb@comcast.net>
Nashville, Tn. USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 5:40 PM CDT

Pam,

I sat and read your entry with huge tears streaming down my face. I would be HONORED for you to grieve your precious son at Connor's resting place. I'm there every day myself, so go as often as you would like. Take a picture of Jason to leave there so it is there to greet you when you walk in. Connor is inside the mausoleum. You can't possibly miss his spot, just look for the flickering (battery operated) candles and all of the stuffed animals and notes from friends. Bring what ever you like. Reading my different inspirational books and just talking to Connor while there always makes me feel better.

I will see you tomorrow, my friend. Call on me for anything. If you can't find my number, just email me and I'll send it right away.

Love, hugs, prayers, and tears,
Rhonda Hunley, Forever Connor's Mommy
<rshunley@comcast.net >
Hendersonville, TN God Bless America! - Friday, August 26, 2005 5:31 PM CDT

Pam and family,
I too know the loss of a son to illness (type 1 diabetes) and I want to reassure you that resting in the Lord's arms is the right thing to do now. He will provide you His strength to endure and go on. He will hold you up and help you take that next step that is required for we know He blesses "the lifted foot" of those who believe in Him. Thank you for sharing your testimony, but most of all, thank you for sharing HIS testimony. There really is no other way to live in grace, is there? You are a true example of the Proverbs 31 woman! I will be praying for you and yours.
Alice Larkin <starsnrose@yahoo.com>
Dallas, TX USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 4:03 PM CDT

All I can think to say is....WOW!!!

Mom, you are remaining so selfless in your most recent post. Both through your choosing of his final resting place and your reaching out to others, in what, I'm certain is your own greatest time of need...to take the time to be a witness of God's love and hope for eternal life.

I know the decision to bury him away must have been very difficult. Part of me thinks you should have just done it "your way" but the other admires you so very much for your choice and knows that you can visit Jason anytime, anywhere and I rejoice with you in that.

I continue to lift you in prayer. I know that Rhonda Hunley would be/will be honored to have Connor's resting place to serve as a place for you to love Jason through him. I hope that you will give Katie my deepest condolences as well.
Kelley Williams <kelleywms@hotmail.com>
Franklin, TN USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 3:57 PM CDT

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Jason was an inspiration to us all. I will never forget him.
Laura <ELCgrey1216@aol.com>
Richmond, Va USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 3:32 PM CDT

Hi,
I'm sooooooo sorry for your loss. I will be keeping you-all in my prayers,and thoughts. May God Bless you and keep you strong in his love.
Della Piercy <Luckygreeneyes74@yahoo.com>
morganton, N.C. United States - Friday, August 26, 2005 3:06 PM CDT

Lives have been touched and lives have been changed through Jason and his family. Words are inadequate. Prayers are lifted to the One who knows your deepest pain. May you walk in the valley with Christ and receive His comfort.
Louis Suttle <lsuttle@pathgroup.com>
Brentwood, TN USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 3:06 PM CDT

Dear Pam,
People who have grown to love your sweet Jason are mourning throughout the world. I am so very sorry for your heartache. You are earned the love and admiration of everyone in this guestbook. Thank you for the honor of sharing your extraordinary son with us.
Mary <mmm9@aol.com>
Dallas, TX USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 3:05 PM CDT

Dear Pam and family,
My heart goes out to you. You have made a very special sacrifice to have Jason buried away. Your family should be so honored. I want to suggest that you build a small memorial garden in your yard, where you can sit and grieve. If you choose a statue or something to represent Jason it could be taken with you if you move. I am praying for your strength. You seem to be doing so well but I am sure there are and will be ups and downs. I wish you peace as I am sure Jason has peace at this time.
Jean Johnson <jrjohnson11111@aol.com>
Jeffersonville, IN - Friday, August 26, 2005 2:59 PM CDT

dear Pam an dfamily my heart is heavy as tears flow no words come just know we all are praying for u and your family at this time.For peace and strenght..He is right one day we will rejoice in heaven with him an dall Gods children my prayers are with u brenda /Angel Wings
brenda ball <brball12003@yahoo.com>
whitley city, ky usa - Friday, August 26, 2005 2:07 PM CDT

I am so sorry for your loss. God has welcomed another amazing angel. I will pray for strength for you and your family in this difficult journey.
Rebecca <sonnibrook@sbcglobal.net>
Prairie Village, KS USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 1:58 PM CDT

Sending many prayers to your family. Take care!
Dustin peng <dustin282@hotmail.com>
chengdu, china - Friday, August 26, 2005 1:55 PM CDT

Dearest Pam,

How I wish I could just hug you and let you cry. How proud our Lord was to welcome Jason home yesterday and this same Lord loves us all so much and longs for the day He can welcome us all into His arms. I KNOW Rhonda will allow you to grieve Jason and Connor at his resting place.

Dearest Pam, know this - only our children's earthly bodies are in their resting places - they are already with God. It doesn't matter where you lie him to rest. Jason will be with you every moment of every day. Cancer can rob us of much sweetie but it CANNOT rob us of the love in our hearts and souls, it can't take away our memories and it cannot take away our souls for they belong to God. And in every promise that He has made (and God cannot lie) we know one day He will wipe every tear away from our eyes and all the grief from our hearts. Until then, lean on the Lord Jason loved and your family loved and all of us.
Love and prayers,
Judy
http://www.catchanangel.com
Judy <tnderheart@yahoo.com>
- Friday, August 26, 2005 1:44 PM CDT

I'm so sorry to hear of your son's passing. I have been reading updates and first came to your site through Eric Dakota and Jessie Jeanatta. My daughter is a good friend of Jessies from school. I've followed the pain of many of the families on carinbridge and even though I say I can share your pain I can only imagine how you feel. Please know that your son is at peace with the Lord and finally without pain. My thoughts and my prayers are with all of you.
Patty Kirtland <kirtlandinc@msn.com>
Oakdale, MN USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 1:00 PM CDT

Sending many prayers to your family. Take care!
Kacie <twinboysmom@gmail.com>
Kenosha, WI - Friday, August 26, 2005 12:36 AM CDT

I wanted to express my deepest heartfelt sympathy to all of Jason's family and friends. He was such a handsome young man. I was so hoping he would receive his healing this side of glory. I know that you guys have never been more "Homesick" than now. I pray that the Lord will softly wrap his loving arms around you and gently tenderly pull you to his breast in a loving embrace. May His loving kindness never be more evident in your life than now. I know that there is rejoicing in the presence of angels today. That the Lord is rejoicing and those that have gone on before Jason are rejoicing at his homecoming. You are in my prayers.
In Christ Love,
With Prayers,
Darlene
Darlene (angel_wings@yahoogroups.com) <apalofmine@yahoo.com>
Lenoir, NC USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 12:17 AM CDT

Dear Archer Family,

I come from Eric R's site. I am sorry to hear of the loss of your son. Peace be with you during these hard times.

Take care,
Ms. Anupama Ramachandran
Anupama Ramachandran
San Jose, CA USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 12:14 AM CDT

John 16:22.

"So now is your time of grief, but I will see you again and you will rejoice, and no one will take away your joy."

Dear friends, I am just so, so sorry and so heartbroken for your painful loss. I too am always just a phone call away and my fervent prayers are with you.
Love and hugs
Judy Crawford
http://www.catchanangel.com/heroes.html

Judy <tnderheart@yahoo.com>
Cookeville, TN - Friday, August 26, 2005 12:13 AM CDT

fly high jason.............

angel olivia' mom, wendy
oliviasgrace
www.caringbridge.org/mi/oliviasgrace <wethomps@aol.com>
shelby, mi - Friday, August 26, 2005 12:03 AM CDT

Im so sorry to hear the passing of dear Jason. Please know that you & your family are in my thoughts & prayers always. Sending loads of hugs, prayers, and strength.
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Christie, mom to Sonia & Angel Mason <christie95992001@yahoo.com www.caringbridge.org/ky/mason_d. >
KY - Friday, August 26, 2005 11:58 AM CDT

My heart is heavy thinking of the empty place in your home and life today; may the knowledge that Jason is in the very presence of His great and glorious Lord Jesus Christ bring you comfort and peace through His Holy Spirit and the ministry of God's people to you. Love in Him,
Jane <neal-jane_peterson@sil.org>
Duncanville, TX USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 11:50 AM CDT

I am praying for all of you. I heard about your website from the Martins. Sounds like Jason was a great young adult and surrounded by a loving family.
Vickie Whicker
Mocksville, NC - Friday, August 26, 2005 11:47 AM CDT

Dear Family--
We are friends of the Martins and just wanted you to know how sorry we are for Jason's passing. Love and prayers to you all at this most difficult time. Mark and Julie
DeWeese Family <FiveDeWeeses@aol.com>
Reno, NV USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 11:42 AM CDT

Dear Archers,
We are friends of the Martin Family and heard of your loss. We send our love and prayers to you for comfort during such a difficult time. We heard that your Jason was a wonderful person. May the Lord keep his arms around you as you mourn his passing.
Robbi White <dwhthouse@sbcglobal.net>
Sparks, NV USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 11:27 AM CDT

I'm praying that the Lord will carry you through this season of intense sorrow.
Stephanie & RachelJoy <mom2rj@comcast.net>
- Friday, August 26, 2005 11:16 AM CDT

I am sorry for the loss of your beautiful son and brother. I will be praying for you all.
Cathy <catw70@netzero.com>
St Louis, MO USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 11:01 AM CDT

David, Pam, Justin, Josh, Jenny,
I know that God can give you strength and care for each of your needs during this time of extreme grief and loss. Each of you are in my prayers.
Anne McClelland <mcc1999@hotmail.com>
Kingsport, TN - Friday, August 26, 2005 11:01 AM CDT

My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Your son is truly an angel!
Pamela Dean <deanp@moss-barnett.com>
Blaine, MN USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 11:00 AM CDT

I have been following your journey for some time now, thank you for sharing your precious son. No words can ease your pain, I just wanted you to know that someone in NJ is praying for your family. God Blessed you all with the life of Jason, may He continue to bless you in this time of sorrow.
Liz
Millburn, NJ - Friday, August 26, 2005 10:50 AM CDT

praying for you in your time of need
sherri & angel bradley <redneckmom1177@hotmail.com>
alderson, wv - Friday, August 26, 2005 10:45 AM CDT

Pam, David & family:
There are no words that can express what I feel on hearing of Jason's passing. I always felt a special connection with you and your family because Jeff and Jason were similiar in age and diagnosis. I wish so badly that I could physically wrap my arms around you and comfort all of you.
Forever in my prayers.
Connie - mom to Jeff(21)
www.caringbridge.org/oh/jeffreyscott
Connie Guy <conguy2801@aol.com>
Twinsburg, OH USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 10:35 AM CDT

You know that words can't help the feelings that you are experiencing. Our entire family is praying and thinking about you to ease some of the deep saddness. Knowing my baby, Cheyenne, I bet Jason and her have already met. There are soooo many wonderful children, our friends, that are there to show Jason around. Someday, they will be showing us the ropes, and Boy, what a day that will be!!!!!

God Bless

Roy
Cheyenne's Proud Daddy, Forever
www.caringbridge.org/tx/cheyenne5

Roy Fiveash <rfiveash@wcc.net>
San Angelo, tx - Friday, August 26, 2005 10:26 AM CDT

David & Pam,
Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. I can't imagine what a difficult time this is, since I have not experienced such a loss, but you have tremendous faith and I know God will see you through this. Jason is healed now and we know he is not suffering anymore.
David & Judy Winton <ladybug4@comcast.net>
Franklin, TN - Friday, August 26, 2005 10:03 AM CDT

David, Pam, Justin, Josh, Jenny,
My Prayers are with you all during this time of loss. My heart broke for you all yesterday when I got the news. Thank You for allowing us to get to know your family and for allowing us to pray for and with you. May you feel God holding you and carrying you. {{{Archer Family}}}
Katie & Friends, May you be comforted knowing that you made Jason happy with your friendships. Pam, continually told how you all walked this journey with him and spent time with him and shared the "good" times over the past year and especially the summer. May God bless you and keep you in His arms during this time.
Shaunda (faith)
Cleveland, TN 37312 - Friday, August 26, 2005 10:00 AM CDT

Please know that your family will be in my prayers as you face the difficult days ahead.
Briana Roehling
Pflugerville, TX - Friday, August 26, 2005 9:49 AM CDT

As a youngster I was taught: "It is well to plan and build and imagine. But always in the midst of these remember that death may come. It lays it hand on the flower and the tree. It takes the babe and the mother. Death, with all its solemnity may come to you." Struggling down this cancer path has been full of lessons, most of which I wish I never had to learn. But it has brought me closer to those of you I consider the parents of angels. Parents that I consider saints here on earth. May you continue to feel Jason's love for you during your time on earth, until you all meet again someday.
Sara Coulson <scoulson@sonnenschein.com>
Troy, IL - Friday, August 26, 2005 9:49 AM CDT

Debbie Fields Murphy, NC Tuberous Sclerosis Assn. (Olivia's Grace http://groups.msn.com/OliviasGrace) http://www3.caringbridge.org/nc/catherine_nicole/ (Tuberous Sclerosis Chat Room) http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/debbifmurphy/) <TuberousSclerosis@earthlink.net>
Snow Hill, NC USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 9:42 AM CDT

May God be with you during this difficult time. Your family will be in our prayers.

www.caringbridge.org/visit/annawedel
Denise Wedel <denisew@uidaho.edu>
Aberdeen, ID USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 9:41 AM CDT

I pray that with each day that passes you are able to find peace. It is amazing to see the impact Jason's story has had on me and others who never knew him. Hearing updates on Jason through Doug's emails have made sure that I stay focused on what is really important in life. I am really touched by this guestbook and the number of lives everywhere Jason has touched and will continue to touch despite not being here with us. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Amy , Baxter, and Connor Fain <amyfain@yahoo.com>
Littleton, CO USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 9:35 AM CDT

My wife & I are extremely saddened to learn of Jason's passing. We've been praying daily and our congregation at Mt. Juliet church of Christ has been praying continuously for Jason.
I certainly can not fully know your pain--no one can, however we lost our son about 7 years ago and Jason's passing brought back all those deep emotions.
Please know that we are with you in spirit and continue to pray for you're family in this time of grief.
Jack & Nanette Cronk <jackdcronk@Comcast.net>
Old Hickory, TN USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 9:31 AM CDT

Dear Pam and family, Just wanted you to know you are in my thoughts and prayers at this time. While knowing Jason is pain free his physical prescense is missed. May you feel comfort and support from all of us out here.
Marjie <jmr@mahaska.org>
Oskaloosa, IA USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 9:26 AM CDT

Pam,
My heart just broke when i read this news.I am
so,so sorry my friend.I have followed Jason from the beginning of his nightmare battle with cancer and my
heart just aches for you and your family.Heaven is a
more beautiful place because Jason is there.Thank
you for sharing Jason with us thank you for giving us the chance to love this very special young man he touched
my heart so,so much..May the Lord comfort your hearts
and grant you that much needed strength that you need
in the days ahead..
Trish/Angel_Wings <Rrntbyr@aol.com>
Kingston, TN USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 9:25 AM CDT

Dear David Pam, Justin, Josh and Jenny,
I just want you to know that my thoughts and prayers are and have been with you. I have been checking this web page often and I pray that you will find comfort in the Lord knowing that Jason is fee from pain. Your family is an insperatin. Hold on to Jesus he is holding on to you.
with a heavy heart of prayer.
Melissa <two_canes@hotmail.com>
Chatsworth, IL 60921 - Friday, August 26, 2005 9:21 AM CDT

I'm heartbroken for your family. I will say a prayer for you and your family. I hope Jason visits you all in your dreams every night.

God Bless,
Amy <amynjake01@aol.com>
PA - Friday, August 26, 2005 9:15 AM CDT

Been a faithful follwer, may God put his comforting arms around your family.
Connie <cjturnquist@mmm.com>
Coon Rapids, MN USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 9:15 AM CDT

Dear Archer Family,

I am so sorry for your loss. As a parent I can only imagine the sorrow you are experiencing at this time. We are praying for your precious family and asking God to keep his hand of peace and comfort over you all. God bless.
Kim S.
Kingsport, TN - Friday, August 26, 2005 9:12 AM CDT

So sad to hear the news. May Jason rest in Peace and that God will lead the family to peace.

Karen
Karen S. Perdue
Plano, TX USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 9:11 AM CDT

Heartbroken for your family. Your son had a truly wonderful spirit which shone through this website.
In prayer,
Kristen Brannock <kristenb@rfsnc.com>
Raleigh, NC - Friday, August 26, 2005 9:09 AM CDT

My heart aches for your family. Rest in Jesus' arms let him be your comforter now and in the future. Much love and prayers.
Terra Cusack Meyer <cusackmeyer@cua.edu>
Washington, DC USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 8:59 AM CDT

Just wanted to let you know that i am so very sorry for your loss.

Many hugs, and tears.
Kimberly & Angel Emerald <emislema@yahoo.com>
- Friday, August 26, 2005 8:57 AM CDT

Dear Archers,
I was genuninely in awe of Jason'e immovable courage. Jason was a heavy lifter and carried a cross for alot of us. I feel good that he is at peace and only hope you can feel same and know that you truly sired the bravest of them all.
Jimmy Risk <jimmy@loyalears.com>
Romeo, mi usa - Friday, August 26, 2005 8:47 AM CDT

I am so sorry to read your post -- but as you said, Jason is resting in the hands of Jesus. My prayers are with you all.
Susan Terry-Wilhelm
Houston, TX USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 8:35 AM CDT

Praying for you.

Love and Prayers,
Andrea Brown-Ryan's mommy forever
Andrea Brown Ryans Story <andrea_brown03@yahoo.com>
Fort Campbell, KY USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 8:25 AM CDT

Pam and David,
I am deeply sorry for your loss. Deb and I grieve with you as you go through this. Our prayers are with you and your family.
Scott Williams <scott.w.williams@wellsfargo.com>
Brentwood, TN USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 8:11 AM CDT

Dear Pam, David, Justin, Josh and Jenny,
So, so sorry to hear of Jason's passing. I have been reading all the messages of love on this page and hope they bring some small comfort. Jason has had the prayers of people all around the world. We will continue to think of you and hope that you find the strength to bear the coming days.
Lots of love,
Colleen.
Colleen Clift <cliftcj@mlc.vic.edu.au>
Melbourne, Australia - Friday, August 26, 2005 8:08 AM CDT

Pam and family, My heart is aching for you this morning. I am so sorry for your loss. Patty, Jessica's mom, www.caringbridge.org/mo/jessica
Patty Roth <Menmypiano1@sbcglobal.net>
arnold, MO US - Friday, August 26, 2005 8:01 AM CDT

Dear Archer Family,
My heart is heavy as I write this. I am so sorry for your loss of Jason but know that he is now free from pain. He fought a brave battle against this beast and it was with the love and support of his family that he was able to endure it. I pray that you all feel God's healing hand on you.
Joan Boyle <jbcb@videotron.ca>
Montreal, Quebec Canada - Friday, August 26, 2005 7:58 AM CDT

Pam and family,
We are so sorry for your loss. We continue to pray for your strength and find comfort in the fact that Jason is free of pain and suffering. Thank you for sharing this journey with us and touching so many lives. Peace.

Jean Johnson <jrjohnson11111@aol.com>
Jeffersonville, IN - Friday, August 26, 2005 7:45 AM CDT

Please accept my sincerest prayers and sympathy with regards to the passing of your precious son and brother. May he always be healthy and happy in the hands of our Heavenly Father. I am so sorry for your loss.
Carol Fee <feec@aol.com>
Colonial Heights, VA USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 7:45 AM CDT

I never met Jason. I received consistent updates from Doug Thurman. I prayed and called the pager. I have shared in your journey, praying for the will of God -- an agenda that was different than ours. I want you to know that I care and am somewhat dazed by the news of Jason's passing. I read the other's inspirational words of encouragement. I hope that they give you comfort and speed your healing. I believe he has moved on, to a job that he was clearly called to hold. I pray now for you, that you will get the lessons that have been slated for your family. Jason, and your family, did not go at this alone. Please know that we are here for you.
Eddy Wittry
Denver, CO USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 7:44 AM CDT

There are no words adequate enough at this time. I am so very, very sorry for your loss.
Alise <figueroaA1@aetna.com>
Simsbury, ct usa - Friday, August 26, 2005 7:36 AM CDT

Praying for your comfort I am so sorry for your loss. I have been reading updates for several months now and can't imagine what you are going through. May God spread His comforting blessings all over you and your family.
Jill
al - Friday, August 26, 2005 7:30 AM CDT

Dear Pam,
I read the news of Jason's passing on Kevin Martin's site this morning. I have been checking Jason's site for quite some time. My heart goes out to you, to your husband, your other children and to his girlfriend Katie (my daughter is Katie too) this morning. Your faith will see you through this and carry you through this dark time. We know Jason is so happy now but as a mother, I can't imagine the pain in your heart. So I just pray for you to feel God's arms cradling you in the days ahead. May God bless all of you and thank you for sharing Jason's story.
Friends in Christ,
Leslie Ellenburg
Leslie - Mom to Jared and Katie <leslieellenburg@wmconnect.com>
Greeneville, TN - Friday, August 26, 2005 7:30 AM CDT

To the Archer family,
I am so sorry for your loss! May the grace of God and your memories of Jason help you through this sorrowful time.
In sympathy
Renee Seiler <rlseiler@comcast.net>
Maplewood, MN 55109 - Friday, August 26, 2005 7:27 AM CDT

Hi Pam,

I am a friend of the Ruegsegger's and through Eric's site had learned about Jason. I am so sorry Jason has passed away. Cancer iw just wrong. I can only imagine the pain you feel as I have four daughters 19, 17, 12, and 8. We as a society need to do more to fund cancer research. Thinking of you in Minnesota. Take Care and give your kids a hug from me.
Deb Battah <djbattah1@mmm.com>
Lake Elmo, MN USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 7:09 AM CDT

I am so very, very sorry for your loss. You will all be in my prayers at this incredibly diffifult time.

Marcia, Stephen, Nicole, Meghan, Kayla, Chrissy, Emily and Angels Sonja and Tanner, hug a bug http://fivegoofs.tripod.com <marciat@sympatico.ca>
Bradford, ON Canada - Friday, August 26, 2005 7:08 AM CDT

Why? Why? Why? Cancer sucks and I can't believe it has claimed another life. I had just discovered Jason's caringbridge page not too long ago and was so saddened to read of his passing. His pain is gone and he is truly healed and in the arms of our savior, Jesus Christ. Bless him and hugs to the family as they have to cope with his loss.
Carissa <cwoleslagl@state.pa.us>
Annville, PA - Friday, August 26, 2005 6:57 AM CDT

How hard it is to understand God's plan when those left behind are in so very much pain. We know that He knows best and someday we'll understand. For now, I offer my deepest sympathies to you, Jason's family and friends (especially Katie), as you learn to live life without him. I hope that you find comfort in knowing that he is cancer and pain free, that he's living the life he's missed these past years as he struggled to fight his horrible disease.
Kelley Williams <kelleywms@hotmail.com>
Franklin, TN USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 6:50 AM CDT

We have prayed for Jason and your family and are sorry to hear of your great loss. We rejoice Jason's suffering has ended, and he's now whole and complete. May the Great Comforter sustain you through such a difficult time. Love and Prayers,
Andy & Janice McLeod and Family <aemcleod@chartertn.net>
Kingsport, TN USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 6:41 AM CDT

We all share your indescribable joy at knowing that Jason is free from pain, in the loving arms of His Savior, and your intense grief that he is no longer walking here on earth with us. How we pray that God has wrapped His loving arms around you, and is comforting each of you at this very hard time.
Berta, Greg , and the kids
- Friday, August 26, 2005 6:21 AM CDT

Pam and family,
I am so sorry to hear Jason has passed. Fly free Jason. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. God Bless.
Michelle Zammat <whisperpur@yahoo.com>
Belcamp, MD USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 6:10 AM CDT

To the Archer Family -
We are very sorry for your loss and have our deepest sympathies. I wish I could help.

Jason -
I'm very glad you are beyond pain now, and I'm sorry you had to leave to be so. I hope heaven is as wonderful as they say. You surely have had a heck of a time - all of you rhabdo kids have - and deserve everything wonderful you can get. Make sure you keep an eye out of Eric. I don't know when he'll get there, but I'm sure he could use a friend. Well, it is time for your to begin the next great adventure.

In deepest sympathies,
The Ruegsegger Family (Kasey, Mike, Katy & Eric)
www.caringbridge.org/mn/ericdakota
Kasey Ruegsegger <kcrueg@comcst.net>
Mahtomedi, MN 55115 - Friday, August 26, 2005 5:35 AM CDT

Thinking of you all this morning, as a new day is dawning outside. I know that doesn't seem possible to you right now, I had those same feelings and thoughts. The following has a special place in my heart, as we played it at Connor's service. You have probably heard it, but I will share the words:

WITH HOPE

1 Thess. 4:13-14; Heb. 6:9, 10:23

That is not at all how
We thought it was supposed to be
We had so many plans for you
We had so many dreams
And now you've gone away
And left us with the memories of your smile
And nothing we can say
And nothing we can do
Can take away the pain
The pain of losing you

We can cry with hope
We can say goodbye with hope
'Cause we know our goodbye is not the end
We can grieve with hope
Because we believe with hope
There's a place where we'll see your face again
We'll see your face again

Never have I known
Anything so hard to understand
Never have I questioned more
The wisdom of God's plan
But through the cloud of tears
I see the Father smile and say well done
And I imagine you
Where you wanted most to be
Seeing all your dreams come true
'Cause now you're home and now you're free

We can cry with hope
We can say goodbye with hope
'Cause we know our goodbye is not the end
We can grieve with hope
Because we believe with hope
There's a place where we'll see your face again
We'll see your face again

We have this hope like an anchor
'Cause we believe that everything God promised us is true

We can cry with hope
We can say goodbye with hope
'Cause we know our goodbye is not the end
We can grieve with hope
Because we believe with hope
There's a place
By God's grace
There's a place where we'll see your face again

written by Steven Curtis Chapman
�1999 Sparrow Song / Peach Hill Songs (BMI) (admin. EMI Christian Music Publishing
~~~~~~~~~~

Please know that you are not alone. We are all out here, praying for you. Pam, remember, I am a phone call away. Don't hesitate to call on me for anything.

Love to you all, and continued prayers through the tears,
Rhonda Hunley, Forever Connor's Mommy

<rshunley@comcast.net>
Hendersonville, TN God Bless America! - Friday, August 26, 2005 5:33 AM CDT

May you feel covered in prayer at this time.
With Sympathy, Reva Kinnally
Reva Kinnally <kinnallymr@msn.com>
Schenectady, NY USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 5:05 AM CDT

I am so very sorry.
Laura Hudlow <lnhudlow@yahoo.com >
Lilburn, GA - Friday, August 26, 2005 5:00 AM CDT

I am so deeply sorry to hear of the loss of your precious son, Jason. Thinking of you all at this very sad time.
Love Sally (Chloe's Auntie)
Sally Bowman <sally.bowman@btopenworld.com>
Stone Cross, East Sussex UK - Friday, August 26, 2005 4:48 AM CDT

Words seem so inadequate - all I know to do is pray for your family that God will comfort you and give you the strength you need in these most difficult days.
David and Mary Myers <dmyers@chartertn.net>
Kingsport, TN USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 4:34 AM CDT

No words can comfort you at this time, please know you are all in my thoughts.
Love
Debbie Chloe's mum (Rhabdo List).
Debbie Wright <debwright1@yahoo.com>
Herne Bay, Kent UK - Friday, August 26, 2005 4:09 AM CDT

My heart goes out to you and your family.We are many many miles away but have experianced exactly the same. We lost our son Christopher from this horific illnes.
We have some beautiful poems on his web site maybe one day when you are read please have a read I think you may find a little comfort.
www.chrislucastrust.com
Lynn Lucas <lynn_lucas@hotmail.com>
tyne and Wear, Uk - Friday, August 26, 2005 3:30 AM CDT

We are so deeply sorry to learn of the loss of your wonderful son, Jason. We will keep your family in our prayers, for peace, comfort and strength.
Blessings,
Tracey and family xoxo HAB <traceyhewison@shaw.ca>
Calgary, Ab, Canada, - Friday, August 26, 2005 2:41 AM CDT

I'll always remember your Jason. Praying for God's comfort and peace for your family.
June Humphrey <junehumphrey@yahoo.com>
Goodlettsville, TN God Bless The USA! - Friday, August 26, 2005 2:25 AM CDT

My deepest sympathies to your family. You're in my thoughts and heart at this time.
Hillari
Glasgow, Scotland - Friday, August 26, 2005 2:14 AM CDT

Dear Archer Family,

I have no words to say to you tonight. I feel almost like I have been punched and have had the wind knocked out of me. I cannot presume to know how you feel. I send you all love and prayers, and I will continue ot check in on you through Jason's website. He is alive, in the nearer presence of our Lord, but oh, how it hurts to see him leave our world.

God bless you all, and God bless Katy and all of Jason's friends!

Someone left four verses of Be Thou My Vision in this guest book a few hours ago. The tune and an additional verse may be found at http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/b/b021.html. The words are from an ancient Irish hymn. They were translated by Mary Byrne in 1905 and later versified by Eleanor Hull. The tune is called Slane.

Below is another hymn I have been thinking of tonight.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Christ the victorious, give to your servants
rest with your saints in the regions of light.
Grief and pain ended, and sighing no longer,
there may they find everlasting life.

Only immortal one, mighty Creator!
We are your creatures and children of earth.
From earth you formed us, both glorious and mortal,
and to the earth shall we all return.

God-spoken prophecy, word at creation:
"You came from dust and to dust shall return."
Yet at the grave shall we raise up our glad song,
"Alleluia, alleluia!"

Christ the victorious, give to your servants
rest with your saints in the regions of light.
Grief and pain ended, and sighing no longer,
there may they find everlasting life.

Words: Carl P. Daw, Jr.

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/c/c104.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, August 26, 2005 1:57 AM CDT

Dear Archer Family: My sincerest and deepest condolences. I will never, ever forget Jason! He is truly my hero!!

Wana Lee Mills <WanaLee@Netzero.net>
Baton Rouge, LA East Baton Rouge - Friday, August 26, 2005 1:49 AM CDT

I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Denise Ward <deniward@shaw.ca>
Winnipeg, Canada - Friday, August 26, 2005 0:44 AM CDT

I am so sorry. There are no words right now to comfort; only that you feel the Lord's arm wrapped around you in your grief...and know that you are sharing a hug w/ Jason who is now in His Presence. Peace and Comfort in the days to come.
Love,
Amy
ChemoAngel to Brian
Amy Sopoti <sea_angel73@gobigwest.com>
Meridian, ID USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 0:20 AM CDT

Dear Archer Family, I have been keeping up with Jason and your family through our church prayer list. I am so sorry for your loss. I pray you will be comforted by the closeness of famiy members and friends and the prayers of many who don't even know you. I'll meet you in heaven.
Kaye
Kingsport, TN - Thursday, August 25, 2005 11:46 PM CDT

I am praying for your family...there are no words...
Kelley Edler
Flower Mound, TX USA - Thursday, August 25, 2005 11:38 PM CDT

We are p[raying and asking God to
grant your prayer requests and to be
with you each second and minute of
each day! God is with Jason and
right by his side!! God Bless!!!
Prayers and Hugs,
LeAnn
LeAnn Mooneyham/Angel_Wings <angel4God352000@yahoo.com>
Baxley, GA United States - Thursday, August 25, 2005 11:17 PM CDT

God Bless you and your family during this very difficult time. I found Jason's page through Kevin Martin's website. Jason was only a few years younger than me and it breaks my heart, but now he is free from pain, free from cancer, and with the lord. God Bless.

Kristen <dela0194@umn.edu>
Minneapolis, MN USA - Thursday, August 25, 2005 11:05 PM CDT

Be Thou my Vision, O Lord of my heart;
Naught be all else to me, save that Thou art
Thou my best Thought, by day or by night,
Waking or sleeping, Thy presence my light.

Be Thou my Wisdom, and Thou my true Word;
I ever with Thee and Thou with me, Lord;
Thou my great Father, I Thy true son;
Thou in me dwelling, and I with Thee one.

Riches I heed not, nor man�s empty praise,
Thou mine Inheritance, now and always:
Thou and Thou only, first in my heart,
High King of Heaven, my Treasure Thou art.

High King of Heaven, my victory won,
May I reach Heaven�s joys, O bright Heaven�s Sun!
Heart of my own heart, whatever befall,
Still be my Vision, O Ruler of all.

----------------------------

Pam and family,

The words of this hymn, "Be Thou My Vision", express what my heart wants to say to yours in the loss of your sweet son Jason. I pray that as you have released Jason to "Heaven's joys", you will find strength in knowing God is still your treasure and your vision for life. Reading all the entries in your guestbook, I joy in seeing how God is loving you through so many friends and prayer partners.

Love and prayers,

Cheryl Sharpley
Los Altos, CA - Thursday, August 25, 2005 10:17 PM CDT

To Jason's family and to Katie,

I'm deeply sorry for your loss. Jason's spirit will always live on thru each one of you. Your memories will eventually bring you loving comfort but for now your pain might make that seem impossible. I'm praying for all of you to have the strength to get thru these difficult times.- sent from Kevin Martin's site.
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, August 25, 2005 9:46 PM CDT

I have checked on Jason since I found his site through "Our Heros". I am so sorry for your loss and know that Jason is now completely healed. Your family will always be in my thoughts and prayers. I found out about Jason's passing from Kevin Martin's site. Again, I am sorry for your loss and pray from strength and comfort for you and your family.
Paige Miller <pmiller@cmaaccess.com>
Vivian, LA - Thursday, August 25, 2005 9:13 PM CDT

I am so sorry for your loss. My heart aches for your family and for Katie. May your memories help sustain you and may you all find moments of peace in this terrible time.
Kathryn
Sparks, NV - Thursday, August 25, 2005 9:12 PM CDT

Dear Pam and family, we want you to know that we have you in our thoughts and prayers, we love you all!

David, Rhonda, DJ, Anthony,
Ralph, Ethel and Myrtle
Buladean, NC
Rhonda Valls <rlvlpn@yahoo.com>
Bakersville, NC USA - Thursday, August 25, 2005 9:02 PM CDT

Archer family,
I am so sorry for the loss of Jason. I stumbled on Jason's website through Connor's website and have been following your story. Connor's grandmother works at my church. Also, We had a good friend that was 10 years old that went to my church named Tyler Doughtie that passed away in March with cancer. I am so sorry that your family is going through this nightmare of losing a child. I have 4 children and I can't imagine what you are going through. I have been praying for your family and will continue to do so in the next days, weeks, and years to come. I pray that God will give you peace that passes all understanding.
Love & Prayers, The Dalton Family
The Dalton Family <jtdalt@yahoo.com>
Greenbrier, TN USA - Thursday, August 25, 2005 9:01 PM CDT

God bless you Jason, you and your family.
JB
- Thursday, August 25, 2005 8:37 PM CDT

Dear Pam, David and family, and Katie,
I'm really sorry to hear about Jason. I wish that I lived closer so that I could give you all a hug. My heart is breaking for all of you. I know how much you love Jason. You all are in my thoughts and prayers. I'm so sorry.

Kathy Randolph <randolph@interl.net>
Ft. Madison, Iowa - Thursday, August 25, 2005 8:35 PM CDT

My heart is breaking for you all..... The death of a child is the single worst pain any parent can ever feel.... I know... Please know I am praying for your entire family. Hold on to each other and know how much Jason loved you all...

Many Hugs!
Kimberly~ <jadscg@mchsi.com>
Ardmore, TN USA - Thursday, August 25, 2005 8:30 PM CDT

My thoughts and prayers are with Jason and your family.
Rachel
Dallas, TX - Thursday, August 25, 2005 8:30 PM CDT

Dear Pam, David and Family,

My heart is so heavy after hearing about your precious Jason..... May God surround you with his angels! I CANNOT imagine what you are going through and I can only pray for you. I am so very, very sorry. I wish I lived close and could just hug all of you. May you find comfort in God's word.

Praise God that Jason will have a brand new body!!

Our hope is in Christ Jesus,

Vindetta Potter Fleming <vindettafleming@verizon.net>
Pound, VA - Thursday, August 25, 2005 8:22 PM CDT

I am so so sorry....may you find strength from faith, family and friends......so sorry.
Dee
- Thursday, August 25, 2005 8:20 PM CDT

Dear Archer family,

I am so very sorry for your loss. Jason was a true inspiration and one I will not forget. I was honored to spend time with him, to smile with him and talk with him. The Myers family sends their prayers to you in this very difficult time.
Sanford
Spring Hill, TN USA - Thursday, August 25, 2005 8:19 PM CDT

I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. Praying for you all...
alyssa <sabiemc@aol.com>
orlando, fl usa - Thursday, August 25, 2005 8:16 PM CDT

I am so sorry for your loss, You are in our prayers.
Nancy MacDonald <nsm5813@aol.com>
Olmsted Township, Oh - Thursday, August 25, 2005 8:14 PM CDT

Keeping your family in my prayers.
Diane
MI - Thursday, August 25, 2005 8:09 PM CDT

Dear Archer family & Katie we are very sorry for your loss.We are thankful that Jason is no longer in pain.
We will continue to pray for all of you.

Nicie and Mary Bailey
Hendersonville, Tn - Thursday, August 25, 2005 7:58 PM CDT

Jason
I heard about you through Paigee's blog, I'm one of her many cousins.
I am so glad to hear that you have a relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ and in that is the power. This may sound funny at first but take note because in this is the power, you are not a sinner saved by grace instead you are the redeemed, bought by the King of Kings and made a child of God, a prince, you now along with your family can stand in a position of strenght to come against this cancer. When we say that we are (present tense)sinners, we are in a position of weekness , when we say" I am a child of God you then are in a position of strenght and authority.
I will pray from that position of strenght on your behalf
In the name of Jesus
Donna Burrows <dbrace@pld.com>
Hugoton , KS USA - Thursday, August 25, 2005 7:52 PM CDT

My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Becky Burns
Findlay, Oh USA - Thursday, August 25, 2005 7:48 PM CDT

To Jason's most loving family:

I am so sorry that Jason is no longer here with you. You know that I KNOW this pain, and I want you to know that I am here for you, day or night, PLEASE, PLEASE call on me if you want to talk with someome who truly understands. I do know that Connor, Jennifer, Ian, Cheyenne, Suryan, Adam, and so many others were right there at Heaven's gate, ready to greet Jason and show him around to all of the coolest places. You WILL make it through this. Right now, it probably doesn't feel like you will, BUT YOU WILL. God will give you the strength you need, just as He has been doing. He will never leave your side. You have so many people out here praying for you all, I hope you take some comfort in that.

I'm a phone call away.....

Love, hugs, prayers and tears,
Rhonda Hunley, Forever Connor's Mommy
<rshunley@comcast.net>
Hendersonville, TN USA
- Thursday, August 25, 2005 7:48 PM CDT

Dear Archer family,

I read of Jason's passing today on the Martin website. I am so very sorry for your loss. I have been praying for Jason's healing here on earth. May God comfort you and hold you during these difficult days ahead.
Sherri
Concord, NC - Thursday, August 25, 2005 7:44 PM CDT

keeping you close to my heart and my thoughts this evening. godspeed.................

i know, i've been there, although every journey is unique.

breathe in the light, blow out the darkness and know that you are being thought of.

with love,
angel olivia's mother, wendy
www.caringbridge.org/mi/oliviasgrace <wethomps@aol.com>
shelby, mi - Thursday, August 25, 2005 7:44 PM CDT

Words can't even begin to say how I feel for your family and your loss. My heart hurts for you right now. I have read of Jason's journey here on earth for a while now. He courage was tremendous. His story and your family's story has made me think twice about how lucky I am. I have kept you all close in prayer. What a beautiful thought that he is in Heaven painful free.
Joanne
- Thursday, August 25, 2005 7:36 PM CDT

I am so very sorry. You are in my thoughts and prayers for comfort, peace, and strength.
Cindy Biebighauser <cindy@pbs.com>
Woodbury, MN US - Thursday, August 25, 2005 7:23 PM CDT

We have prayed faithfully for Jason and will continue to pray for all of you.
May God continue to bless and comfort all of you.
In Christ's love.
Claude and Edna Crawford <claudeedna@comcast.net>
Fall Branch, TN USA - Thursday, August 25, 2005 7:23 PM CDT

Shedding tears for you here in Atlanta. I've followed Jason's story for several months and am just weeping over the earthly loss of his life.
Amy Whitlark
Atlanta, GA - Thursday, August 25, 2005 7:02 PM CDT

Pam, David and Family:

My heart aches for you. We will all continue to be here with you on this journey, sending lots of hugs and prayers your way. I hope you can find some comfort knowing so many people care for your family and that Jason's life touched so many. His courage and spirit continue to be inspirational as to how we should all live each day.

"...The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart..." He hears you and sees you and He loves you.

Much love from me, too...

Kriste Lanius
My Big Brother - Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USA - Thursday, August 25, 2005 6:51 PM CDT

I'm so very sorry.....my prayers and thoughts are with your family.... Richie said he was so sorry too, he remembers meeting Jason and enjoyed playing video games with him that day....I know there are no words to even come close to expressing the sadness we feel. It is a devastating loss here on earth....I can't even imagine the pain you and your family are going through..we will continue to pray for you. That God will comfort you at this time... All our love, from Nevada.
The Shannon Family <ntwojesus@hotmail.com>
Sparks, NV - Thursday, August 25, 2005 6:47 PM CDT

Hi. I found Jason's site from Emily's mom and I just wanted to let you know that my thoughts are with your whole family.
Laine (Angels on Earth) <hmc110301@yahoo.com>
Manchester, ct - Thursday, August 25, 2005 6:31 PM CDT

Pam and Family, my heart and prayers are with you all right now, and in the coming months. From your updates, you said Jason did not seem to be in pain, which was something we all had been praying for. Jason went to sleep and never woke, no pain meds, nothing. That was God showing us he answered our prayers on earth....for a short time, just to show how glorious and almighty He is and that he does answer prayer. I love you guys, you are in my prayers!! In Christ,
Melissa (meljustice115) <meljustice115@yahoo.com>
Lansing, MI USA - Thursday, August 25, 2005 6:29 PM CDT

Dearest Pam and David,

I am in tears as I post this entry and I know only too well there are no words that can possibly comfort you right now. My heart breaks for you - dear Lord how I hate this monster!!!!

I want you to know your precious Jason touched my heart in a profound way and he truly made our often crummy world a better place. He is so fortunate to have parents like you and your love and strength is amazing. I know Connor and so many of our angels were on hand to welcome Jason home today. I know for sure one of them was a beautiful 17 year old angel named Jennifer Lyn.

I know the knowledge that Jason is home with our Lord tonight does little to ease your pain. Dear friends one day we WILL hold our children in our arms again but next time it will be forever.

My prayers are with you. May God hold you and strengthen you for the dark days ahead.
Love and hugs
Judy Crawford
http://www.catchanangel.com/
Judy <tnderheart@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, August 25, 2005 6:11 PM CDT

My love and prayers are with you today and always.
Kiersten
Nashville, TN - Thursday, August 25, 2005 6:09 PM CDT

My heart is breaking for your family tonight... I didnot sign often but I keep up with you and prayed for all of you. I lost a son and I know it is truly one of the hardest times you have in your life. and on Daddy's birthday too. It is harder that way too I know so many times it is on or near a birthday, we buried my son a couple of days before mine. I pray for comfort and courage for your family....
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, August 25, 2005 5:24 PM CDT

Rhonda called me a few hours ago to tell me that Jason had left us. I thank God for the weekend that you had with your family. My prayers go out to the kids and to both you and David. I heard that today was David's 50th birthday. May God be with you as you travle down this road!
We love you
Linda Martin <jrbtk90289@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN - Thursday, August 25, 2005 5:11 PM CDT

I am at a loss for words as the last few guestbook entries seem to reveal something that I don't find indicated anywhere on the site. In any event, I continue to pray for Jason and the entire family. May peace be his (and yours)
Kelley Williams <kelleywms@hotmail.com>
Franklin, TN USA - Thursday, August 25, 2005 5:03 PM CDT

There are no words that can ease the pain in your hearts today. What a priviledge is has been that you have shared Jason with us. He has been an inspiration to people who have known him, and to people like me who have never met him. We rejoice that he is at last healed and free of pain, and pray that our Lord will bring you comfort. "I am He who comforts you." Isaiah 51:12. My heart breaks for you on this day. May our children sing and rejoice together. Love, Lila
Lila Nelson <nelsonme@cox.net>
Burke, Va USA - Thursday, August 25, 2005 4:54 PM CDT

As I went back to check up on Jason and see if you had written anything I looked at the guestbook enteries. Words cannot express my sadness for you Pam. I feel like over the last year I have gotten to know you and your beautiful Jason. I've said it before but I will say it again you are truly an inspiration to me. You supported me in our journey. My heart truly does break for you and your family.
Your Rhabdo Friend Michelle and daughter Emily
Mission, TX USA - Thursday, August 25, 2005 4:39 PM CDT

My sincere condolences on Jason's passing. His life may have been brief, but he taught us so much about courage. May light perpetual shine upon him. And may our Lord give his family comfort and peace.
Linda Kinsey <lkinsey2020@yahoo.com>
Berea, OH USA - Thursday, August 25, 2005 4:13 PM CDT

Who could have known that a boy we never met could teach us so much about love and life, faith and courage?

He's finally home.

And we are still praying for God's comfort for you. May He be closer than ever as you grieve.

Doug , Shannon and Chad Thurman <emcpres@cs.com>
Centennial, CO USA - Thursday, August 25, 2005 4:05 PM CDT

I am so sorry to hear of Jason's passing this afternoon. Please know that I will continue to lift you and your family up to the Lord at this difficult time. I can't begin to imagine how hurt you are, but I will "pray without ceasing" that you and your family will feel the love and comfort of the Lord.
Kimberly Uldrich
Hendersonville, TN USA - Thursday, August 25, 2005 3:57 PM CDT

Keeping Jason in my thoughts and prayers
Cheryl (Rhabdo-list)
http://www.caringbridge.com/ct/lilshane/
ct - Thursday, August 25, 2005 3:56 PM CDT

Praying for Jason.
Angela *angels on earth* -HEATHER GRACE

<alisonheathersmama@gmail.com>
natick, ma - Thursday, August 25, 2005 3:45 PM CDT

Praying for you.
Erika
Houston, TX - Thursday, August 25, 2005 3:42 PM CDT

Dear Archer Family,

I am on my way to our Thursday night healing service, at St. George's. I have just signed onto the computer, and I have guests attending with me tonight, but I did want to put a quick note in the guest book.

The birds have been singing here all day. I hope you have some visible, or audio, signs of God's love there with you.

Below is a collect that I love. Please pray it with me today.

God bless Jason, and God bless all of you! Also, God bless the Martin 7, who are also having a difficult week.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Almighty God, by your Holy Spirit you have made us one with
your saints in heaven and on earth: Grant that in our earthly pilgrimage we may always be supported by this fellowship of love and prayer, and know ourselves to be surrounded by their witness to your power and mercy. We ask this for the sake of Jesus Christ, in whom all our intercessions are acceptable through the Spirit, and who lives and reigns for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY - Thursday, August 25, 2005 3:38 PM CDT

Praying for Jason and your family.

Jennifer
Jennifer <ingmankidsmom@gmail.com>
Warren, Mi USA - Thursday, August 25, 2005 3:29 PM CDT

Thinking of you.
Deborah Silver <silverde@magiclink.com>
- Thursday, August 25, 2005 3:10 PM CDT

David, Pam, and family - We are praying for you during this difficult time. We love all of you and pray God will comfort and give peace and understanding.
David & Nancy Robinson
Hendersonville, TN USA - Thursday, August 25, 2005 2:40 PM CDT

Dear Pam and family, We are praying for and thinking about you all.

Jean johnson (kameron johnson's mom)caringbridge/in/kameronjohnson <jrjohnson11111@aol.com>
Jeffersonville, IN - Thursday, August 25, 2005 2:39 PM CDT

Dear Pam, David and family
Thinking of you all.
Love,
Debbie Chloe's mum (Rhabdo list)
Debbie Wright <debwright1@yahoo.com>
Herne Bay , Kent UK - Thursday, August 25, 2005 2:31 PM CDT

David and family, I am so sorry for your loss, I prayed for you all when I heard of Jason's illness. God rest his soul.
Bill Mullins RN <wmullins@wmed.org>
Nashville, Tn US - Thursday, August 25, 2005 2:27 PM CDT

I have been keeping up with Jason and your family for almost a year. You are in my prayers - all of you. Such a heavy burden. There is no way to fathom the feelings that you are experiencing - just the hope that all of the prayers for you will sustain you in the time to come.
Tricia Garmon
Loganville, GA - Thursday, August 25, 2005 2:17 PM CDT

Dear David and Pam, Our prayers and sympathy are with you both and your family at this time. God bless you all.
Linda Roberge <linda.roberge@hcahealthcare.com>
- Thursday, August 25, 2005 2:00 PM CDT

I have been following Jason's story for awhile now but not signed in. Having been in your shoes, one would think we would know what to say, but there are no words. About a week before Haley passed she started "resting" about 23 hours a day and making a humming noise. Its like she was going through some kind of process that was beyond what we were able to comprehend. Know that all of you are in our prayers; for Jason to awaken refreshed and for your continued strength. Everyone is different, only God knows what is next for all of us. Thinking of you,
Jean Brady (mom to Angel Haley) www.caringbridge.org/de/haley <bni21@comcast.net>
Newark, DE - Thursday, August 25, 2005 1:24 PM CDT

Pam, David and family:
My prayers are with you and Jason. My heart is heavy as you experience this setback.
You are forever in my thoughts.
Connie - mom to Jeff(21)
www.caringbridge.org/oh/jeffreyscott
Connie Guy <conguy2801@aol.com>
Twinsburg, OH USA - Thursday, August 25, 2005 1:04 PM CDT

All the best to you all, and prayers for Jason
Robin Brunet (Angels on Earth) <robinb@neptune.on.ca>
Bradford, Ontario Canada - Thursday, August 25, 2005 12:58 AM CDT

I heard about Jason from Emily's mom. Jason is in my prayers.
Tina & Lance <lancejrmommy@comcast.net>
- Thursday, August 25, 2005 12:49 AM CDT

Hi,
I saw Jason's site on the Angels on Earth board. I admire your strength so much and will be praying very hard for Jason and Family. Much love and deepest respect.
Hillari
Glasgow, Scotland - Thursday, August 25, 2005 12:41 AM CDT

Emily's mom sent me your way! Praying for you and Jason to be covered in peace and comfort. May you find continued encouragement in the Lord. God bless!
Jenn B. *Angels on Earth* <pr@friendsofallie.org>
CA - Thursday, August 25, 2005 12:23 AM CDT

Dear Pam and David,
Praying, Praying, Praying. Tears spilled down my cheeks reading your latest update. Thank you for taking the time to let us know how Jason is. We are thankful he isn't in pain. We feel your pain in our hearts. God Bless,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Thursday, August 25, 2005 12:21 AM CDT

Pam you are in my thoughts as of course is Jason. I've always felt so good with your words of encouragement when Emily was diagnosed you are such a wonderful mother. Jason is lucky to have you. I hope that this time you have a miracle does happen.
Michelle - Emily's mom - www.caringbridge.org/tx/emilysfight & Rhabdo Kids ACOR
Mission, TX USA - Thursday, August 25, 2005 12:07 AM CDT

Hey guys- We are praying and praying with you. Wanted you to know that the Spirit keeps prompting us to check for updates and pray accordingly. We love you.
Berta, Greg etc
Berta Myers
Henderrsonville, TN USA - Thursday, August 25, 2005 11:44 AM CDT

I am so sorry! I know only to well the pure hell
you are feeling right now. Not having the power
to help our own children is incredibly painful.
Vanessa's last words were "Am I going to die?"
I have always felt close to Jason as he is a young
adult dealing with this monster disease, his words
which echoed Vanessa's brings him even closer to my
heart.I wish I could help you, please know that I am here
for you to talk to if you need me.

Deborah Forever Vanessa's Mommy
Deborah Martinez www.caringbridge.org/ca/vanessamartinez <debra126@comcast.net>
Madera, CA United States - Thursday, August 25, 2005 11:40 AM CDT

May the Lord be very, very close to each of you.
Stephanie & RachelJoy <mom2rj@comcast.net>
- Thursday, August 25, 2005 11:25 AM CDT

Our hearts are with you - with love, hugs and prayers
Kellie Davideit <kelbri27@optonline.net>
Metuchen, nj usa - Thursday, August 25, 2005 11:08 AM CDT

I know that God is watching you at this time and has his arms around you. So many people are praying and weeping with your family. I wish there was "more" we could do. Our hearts are with you
Kristen Thomsen www.caringbridge.com/wi/pthomsen0111 <kthoms0319@new.rr.com>
Neenah, wi - Thursday, August 25, 2005 10:16 AM CDT

My deepest prayers are with your family.
Jeremiah 30:17 "I will restore health unto thee, and I will heal thee of thy wounds."

Matthew 8:17 "Himself took our infirmities, and bare our sicknesses."

Romans 8:26 "The Spirit also helpeth our infirmities."
God Bless, Reva Kinnally
Reva Kinnally <kinnallymr@msn.com>
Schenectady, NY USA - Thursday, August 25, 2005 10:03 AM CDT

My prayers and thoughts are with you at this time!! Hang in there.
Joanne
- Thursday, August 25, 2005 9:44 AM CDT

My prayers are with Jason and your family. Take care.
(((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))

www.caringbridge.org/oh/paigehaney
Tina Haney <lilgirlie43920@yahoo.com>
East Liverpool, OH USA - Thursday, August 25, 2005 9:04 AM CDT

I am praying for Jason with you, lifting all of you up to our dear heavenly Father, asking that all of you be granted strength and peace.
In His love,
Rose Leeburn
- Thursday, August 25, 2005 8:54 AM CDT

Jason and family,

Know you are in the thoughts and prayers of so many. I read Kasey's entry for you on Eric's caringbridge page. Peace and blessings to all of you that share Jason's life journey. God bless!
Vicki Lund <vlund@csom.umn.edu>
Stillwater, MN USA - Thursday, August 25, 2005 8:28 AM CDT

May God bring each of you great peace --
Susan Terry-Wilhelm
Houston, TX USA - Thursday, August 25, 2005 8:27 AM CDT

May all of you know the presence and peace of God the Father in your hearts and home today, through our Lord Jesus Christ and the ministry of the Holy Spirit. You are constantly in my thoughts. Love in Him,
Jane <neal-jane_peterson@sil.org>
Duncanville, TX USA - Thursday, August 25, 2005 8:23 AM CDT

I am storming Heaven with prayers for Jason and your family.
Take care,
Bree www.caringbridge.org/pa/brynnwlodyka <adt0123@hotmail.com>
Drexel Hill, PA - Thursday, August 25, 2005 8:21 AM CDT

My prayers are w/ Jason and your whole family. Praying God's complete healing of Jason and comfort for his family in this time of uncertainty.
In Him,
Amy
ChemoAngel to Brian
Amy Sopoti <sea_angel73@gobigwest.com>
Meridian, ID USA - Thursday, August 25, 2005 8:11 AM CDT

Dearest Pam,

I too am at a loss for words but know my heart is breaking for you and your precious family. I am storming Heaven with prayers for your wonderful son and pray God will show His power and heal Jason of this dreaded disease.

We are holding you close in our hearts.
Love and hugs
Judy
http://www.catchanangel.com/heroes.html
Judy <tnderheart@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, August 25, 2005 7:46 AM CDT

It is so hard to know the right words to say, but I am praying for all of you. I pray specifically that Jason will wake up today with a rested body and a renewed spirit. Pam & David, we pray for strength for both of you and peace that only comes from our Father. As you walk these difficult days, trust the Lord to see you through. We will continue to pray.
Mary & David Myers <loveabounds@wchbc.org>
Kingsport, TN USA - Thursday, August 25, 2005 7:05 AM CDT

Dear Pam,
Prayers will storm Heaven for Jason and your entire family. I can only imagine the pain you are in watching him suffer. I havent' signed in in awhile but Jason is daily in my prayers. I found your site through Kevin Martin's Caringbridge site some time ago. Kevin needs prayers, his family too (for all those reading this.)
God Bless and know we are here for you.
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Thursday, August 25, 2005 6:21 AM CDT

I am praying for good news today...
Laura Hudlow <lnhudlow@yahoo.com>
Lilburn, GA - Thursday, August 25, 2005 5:40 AM CDT

Pam,

I am so sorry that this is happening. I pray for Jason's pain to be COMPLETELY under control, and for the medication to be at the right level to allow him time to sleep, and time to be awake, as well. I pray for him to improve, so that he may attend the concert with Katie that he so wants to go to. I pray for you all, as his family, as you are all going through this together. I also pray for peace for all of you. You know that I know the feelings you are having, and I am here, anytime you need me, don't be afraid to ask.

Continued prayers and love,
Rhonda Hunley, Forever Connor's Mommy

<rshunley@comcast.net>
Hendersonville, TN , TN God Bless America! - Thursday, August 25, 2005 3:37 AM CDT

Dear Jason, Pam, David, and All,

I am continuing to pray for all of you. Pam, if you can, read some Psalms aloud, while you are with Jason. They will do you both some good.

Below my signature, I will place a collect that has been with me in many difficult times. I learned it from the Dean of the Cathedral of All Saints, here in Albany, many years ago, when my mother was very ill. The same priest later baptized my younger son, while he served as Seventh Bishop of Albany. (His name is David Ball, and he is now retired, but continuing his ministry.) May it help you, as you live in the way of the cross.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer
Used Each Friday And On The Monday In Holy Week
Written By William Reed Huntington
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, August 25, 2005 3:25 AM CDT

hello, I am actually a Samford friend of Katie Aldridge's, but I have met Jason once, and I recieve updates about him through Katie every now and then. I just wanted to let you all know that I am praying for your family. I pray that God will give Jason strength and peace and especially some comfort. I pray that your family will be strong as well, and that you will never take a single day for granted. God has a plan. Although we don't know what it is, God does, and we just have to trust in Him to take care of our needs. Jason, you are in my prayers!
Amy Graves
Birmingham, AL - Thursday, August 25, 2005 0:05 AM CDT

Hey Pam & David & Jason and everyone,
I can only guess how long and tiring this night is going to be. As you watch the clock, may you remember that as the sun went down, Jesus did not yawn. He continues to intercede as no other intercessor can. He hears every tear fall and knows every pain that Jason experiences. He knows your mental and emotional pain. I, like people around the globe, would love to hug you and make all the suffering go away. My prayer is that you as a family would experience Jesus in a fresh and powerful way and be satisfied by His unfailing love as the sun comes up in the morning. Know that God is faithful and true. Jason is so blest to have your tender care. He is in good hands as he sleeps.

Mary Ann Stout <headinhome111@juno.com>
Kingsport, TN USA - Wednesday, August 24, 2005 11:12 PM CDT

Wishing you all peace, strength and healing during this difficult time.
Lori Wasserman (dx CML 5/02) <loriwass@comcast.net>
Derwood, MD - Wednesday, August 24, 2005 10:26 PM CDT

I check on Jason every day, but haven't signed the book before. I am praying for healing for Jason, and praying that he will awaken refreshed, no pain, and all the cancer gone from his body. You all are also in my prayers.
Sincerely,

Tracy Jones <tracypaigejones@yahoo.com>
Kingsport, TN USA - Wednesday, August 24, 2005 10:17 PM CDT

Prayers for healing on his earth for Jason.
Joanne
- Wednesday, August 24, 2005 10:15 PM CDT

Even though I have not signed in for quite a long time, I check in and pray for Jason EVERY day. I feel your pain as a mother watching her son suffer. I am with you and your family,like so many others who pray for Jason. GOD IS LISTENING. God speed
God speed
Christina caringbridge.org/ny/andrewsmom <cmartz106@aol.com>
Croton-on-Hudson, NY - Wednesday, August 24, 2005 9:57 PM CDT

I'm praying and praying, and then praying some more.
Stephanie & RachelJoy <mom2rj@comcast.net>
- Wednesday, August 24, 2005 9:45 PM CDT

I am keeping you all in prayer! Please know how many are thinking of you and sending you strength!!
Kimberly~ <jadscg@mchsi.com>
Ardmore, Tn USA - Wednesday, August 24, 2005 8:56 PM CDT

My prayers and thoughts are with Jason. I have been reading and praying for Jason for several months now, but this is the first time I have posted.
Martha <handmup@aol.com>
Simpsonville , SC - Wednesday, August 24, 2005 8:47 PM CDT

I stop in and check on Jason regularly and say a prayer for him. Today I am praying that he will wake up soon and be pain free and have more happy days ahead of him. May God hold you in His arms and comfort you during this difficult time.
Sherri
Concord, NC - Wednesday, August 24, 2005 8:43 PM CDT

Jason, Pam & all of the Archer family: We are sitting here tonight very saddened to hear what you all are enduring. I can't even imagine at this moment how you feel for your son Pam & David, but just know there are many people thinking of you all right now & sending up prayers. God be with you & I pray that Jason will wake up feeling refreshed & pain free.
Nicie & Mary Bailey
Hendersonville, Tn - Wednesday, August 24, 2005 8:18 PM CDT

I am a friend of Linda Martin's and have been praying for Jason for several month but never signed in. I am continuing to pray for him and your family.
Susan Daydif <susan@susandaydif.com>
Antioch, IL - Wednesday, August 24, 2005 8:16 PM CDT

Jason and Pam, Even though I don't know either of you personally, I pray for you daily. As a mother I can not een begin to understand what you are going thru. I just pray for pain relief and comfort for Jason and peace and strength for you Pam. Your faith in God is tremendous, and You've been and are being so strong. Please know that there are many from Cheri Spears church praying for you as you are going thru what most parents never have to even imagine. Thank you for being the inspiration that you are to so many.
Love in HIM
Joyce Hodges
Joyce Hodges <jhod5788@bellsouth.net>
- Wednesday, August 24, 2005 5:04 PM CDT

I hope that you can all find comfort in the fact that people you don't even know are faithfully lifting you up to the Lord in prayer. May God's peace, presence, and power be especially real to you all today.
Rev. Thomas Ward <lavergnefumc@tds.net>
La Vergne, TN USA - Wednesday, August 24, 2005 3:13 PM CDT

Like sweet Cheyenne's daddy, I have no excuse for not signing in as regularly as I stop by to check on Jason. I normally check his site at least every other day though I know that you typically update once a week. I have felt compelled lately to check everyday and I am so glad that I did so that I am able to remind you of the prayers that I am sending up in Jason's name. God bless each of you.
Kelley Williams <kelleywms@hotmail.com>
Franklin, TN USA - Wednesday, August 24, 2005 1:41 PM CDT

Hi Jason.

Didn't want you to think that we had forgotten about you here in West Texas.. Sorry I don't sign as often as I should, really no excuse. Sorry to hear about the pain, we are praying extra hard for it to go away completely and you start having some good days.

God Bless
Roy
Cheyenne's Proud Daddy, Forever
www.caringbridge.org/tx/cheyenne5
Roy Fiveash <rfiveash@wcc.net>
San Angelo, tx - Wednesday, August 24, 2005 10:25 AM CDT

Praying for all of you today and every day.
a friend in Ohio
- Wednesday, August 24, 2005 8:23 AM CDT

Hey Pam, David, JAson and everyone-
I check everyday to see if there are updates and how you need us to pray. I don't usually write, because I think you know we are there and praying. But during this especially trying time, I want you to know that we are praying fervently and often. Becky will be at Vol State too and if she can help in ANY way, she would be honored. We are with you in the struggle, and we will rejoice when this pain crisis is over and there are better days!
Love in Christ, Berta, Greg and everyone
Berta and Greg Myers
- Wednesday, August 24, 2005 7:40 AM CDT

Dear Pam and Jason,

I too am praying for the pain to subside and for you to have much better days. May God wrap His loving arms around you to comfort and heal you.
Love and hugs
Judy

Catch An Angel
Judy Crawford <tnderheart@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, August 24, 2005 7:39 AM CDT

Hoping and praying that this crisis will pass and Jason will have good, painfree days.
Kathy
Sparks, NV - Wednesday, August 24, 2005 6:43 AM CDT

Dear Jason, Pam, David, and All,

I had hoped to read that Jason was feeling more comfortable. I really hate cancer and all the negative things that often come with it.

I do hope Jason gets some relief by using the increased pain medication and that perhaps, as Pam mentioned, Jason can have a blood transfusion.

I pray for Jason every day, and I will try to increase my prayers for him. God is with Jason, as surely as he was with the people of the Scripture. Rest in that thought.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and hope,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, August 24, 2005 3:41 AM CDT

I want you to know we are praying for Jason.
Jodi and McKayla

Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com>
Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Tuesday, August 23, 2005 10:50 PM CDT

Dear Pam, Jason & Family, I just want you to know that even tho I don't sign the guestbook, I check on Jason every day. Every day that I check I say a prayer for him, that he'll be healed on this earth, that the pain and cancer will disappear and he'll have a long life with his family. I always keep you all in my prayers, especially Jason!
With Much Love,
Miss Judy <taejme@aol.com>
Naples, FL - Tuesday, August 23, 2005 7:05 PM CDT

Just want you to know that someone in NY is praying for you. I pray that the Lord eases your pain and heals you.
Reva Kinnally <kinnallymr@msn.com>
Schenectady, NY USA - Tuesday, August 23, 2005 5:29 PM CDT

Praying for relief of the intense pain and that Jason's counts will improve so that he can continue his treatments. And, everyday we pray for a miracle of complete healing for Jason! Sending our love and prayers to you from Kingsport!!
David and Mary Myers <loveabounds@wchbc.org>
Kingsport, TN USA - Tuesday, August 23, 2005 8:42 AM CDT

Dear Pam,
Just a note to let you and your family know that thoughts and prayers are still coming to you from Nevada.
Kathy
- Tuesday, August 23, 2005 6:40 AM CDT

Dear Jason, Pam, David, and All,

I hope all three of the boys get good reports from their doctors. Truly God is the source of all healing, and, as Scripture tells us, many doctors pray to the Lord for wisdom and insight.

I hope Jason is able to go to the concert, with Katie, in mid-September. They have a beautiful friendship. May God bless them both!

I have been having difficulty getting into this, and some of the other CaringBridge guest books, but I am reading the homepages, and I am praying.

Stay strong in the Lord, and God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and hope,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, August 23, 2005 3:33 AM CDT

Praying that Jason will get some pain relief and some sleep.
((((((((((((Hugs))))))))))))
Tina Haney <lilgirlie43920@yahoo.com>
East Liverpool, Oh. USA - Monday, August 22, 2005 3:21 PM CDT

Pam, I hope your family had a great trip and that you
Jason is healed by God so that you can make many more
trips in the future. I think of you daily!

Deborah Forever Vanessa's Mommy
Deborah Martinez <debra126@comcast.net>
Madera, CA United States - Sunday, August 21, 2005 11:45 PM CDT

Hi Jason,
I'm praying that you have a wonderful visit with
your grand parents and that it will be a pain free
trip..God Bless you..
Trish/Angel_Wings <Rrntbyr@aol.com>
Kingston, TN USA - Saturday, August 20, 2005 8:17 PM CDT

BRENDA My Loving Dad's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Saturday, August 20, 2005 0:28 AM CDT

I hope the weekend trip with the grandparents is wonderful and memorable! Hopefully this week off chemo will NOT be like the others, and he will bypass the side effects! I really pray this weekend trip is enjoyable and that you are able to have moments where cancer escapes your mind.
Karin's caringbridge site
Vancouver, BC, Canada - Friday, August 19, 2005 11:58 PM CDT

Sending a Tinkerbell kiss your way,

Love Viks

viks <viks@postpals.co.uk>
- Friday, August 19, 2005 5:18 PM CDT

Dear Jason, Pam, David, and All,

Tonight, I remembered Jason beneath the Jesus and the Children window, at St. George's, as I always do when I am in the nave. I also prayed for your neighbor, Kevin Martin. I am having difficulty getting into his book tonight, so I am mentioning it here, as Kevin is having a tough week, and I know Linda often reads Jason's guest book and Connor's.

I hope Jason has a good weekend. God bless him, Katie, and you all!

Grace, peace, love, and hope,

~Colette~

This hymn was played during communion at St. George's today. I have been humming it, since coming home, so I thought I would share it with you.

Take my life, and let it be
consecrated, Lord, to thee;
take my moments and my days,
let them flow in ceaseless praise.
Take my hands, and let them move
at the impulse of thy love;
take my feet, and let them be
swift and beautiful for thee.

Take my voice, and let me sing
always, only, for my King;
take my lips, and let them be
filled with messages from thee.
Take my silver and my gold,
not a mite would I withhold;
take my intellect, and use
every power as thou shalt choose.

Take my will and make it thine;
it shall be no longer mine.
take my heart, it is thine own;
it shall be thy royal throne.
Take my love; my Lord, I pour
at thy feet its treasure store;
take my self, and I will be
ever, only, all for thee.

Words: Frances Ridley Havergal (1836-1879), 1874

Music: Hollingside, John Bacchus Dykes (1823-1876)

Hear It At: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/t/t007a.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, August 19, 2005 1:25 AM CDT

jason we are still praying for you. you shoudlnt have to deal with cancer no one should, But your fighting it so bravely! your such a neat young man. I pray for complete healing and that your able to feel well enough to start college!
Kim <dakk2222@netnitco.net>
IN - Friday, August 19, 2005 0:59 AM CDT

I just wanted to take the opportunity and thank each of you for your thoughts and prayers. I know it means a lot to me, my family, and Jason's. You all have blessed my life so much and just knowing you care about Jason (a young man most of you have never even met!) means the world to me. Thanks again! :)
Katie <Kealdrid@samford.edu>
Birmingham, AL USA - Thursday, August 18, 2005 9:32 PM CDT

Hello, Jason & Pam and all the Archers: Just a note to say that people are praying even when you are not posting. :-) Love & prayers from Texas.
Jane <neal-jane_peterson@sil.org>
Duncanville, TX USA - Thursday, August 18, 2005 2:15 PM CDT

Still thinking of you and praying for all of you. Jason-I hope you enjoy your college classes. Hope you have a good day today.
A friend in Ohio
- Thursday, August 18, 2005 8:57 AM CDT

Dear Jason, Pam, David, and All,

I think it's great that Jason can take a few classes at Volunteer State Community College. I hope he is getting excited, even if the classes are not his first choices. I am sure he will find friends in the student union and in other places on the campus.

I continue to pray for Jason that he may be healed. I am also praying for Katie and for all of Jason's family.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, August 18, 2005 3:45 AM CDT

It is always good to read your updates and see your wonderful faith. I too have faith in the LORD that he is capable of healing your son. I have Jason in my daily prayers. God Bless you all...
Reva Kinnally <kinnallymr@msn.com>
Schenectady, NY USA - Wednesday, August 17, 2005 9:23 PM CDT

Hi Jason and family,

I am sorry for not checking in on you recently, but we have been trying to get packed to move on the 27th, and it has been utter chaos around here... boxes EVERYWHERE! I will be SO glad when that day comes and goes. I have a friend who is going to keep track of you and let me know how you are doing. Please know that my prayers will be with you during this time.

Hugs,
Sharon / Angel Wings / Legacy of Hope / Ones Who Care <thronberrys@bellsouth.net>
Memphis, TN USA - Wednesday, August 17, 2005 8:20 AM CDT

Dear Archer family,

We're friends of the Martins (and the Hunleys through the Martins) and are signing in to send many loving prayers your way for Jason's complete earthly healing. Dear God, please hold Jason in Your loving arms and cure his cancer for good. Please hold his family in Your arms and help them all through this struggle. It's difficult enough dealing with day-to-day issues when everyone's healthy but this is a different story. Please send your healing Love to all. Amen.

Jason is being prayed for here in New Hampshire, as he is all over the world. Good luck to him as he starts college.

Debbie <endyke@speakeasy.net>
Litchfield, NH - Tuesday, August 16, 2005 8:07 PM CDT

BRENDA My Loving Dad's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Tuesday, August 16, 2005 7:50 PM CDT

Dear Archer family,
I'm still praying and believing for a miracle for Jason. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,hugs,and prayers,
Kathy Randolph <randolph@interl.net>
Ft. Madison, Iowa - Tuesday, August 16, 2005 11:01 AM CDT

Just a quick note to say we continue to pray for you. LOTS of people here remember you in prayer also. May the Prince of Peace be evident in your hearts, minds and body. May He put the cancer at peace - at rest - for good.

We love you all!
The McFaddin Family (Tony, Tammy, Micah, Zachary, Seth & Noah)
Kingsport, TN USA - Tuesday, August 16, 2005 5:50 AM CDT

Dear Jason, Pam, David, and All,

I have not been on the computer much recently, so I am popping in tonight to say, "Hello!" It looks like Jason has some new people signing his guest book. What a blessing that is!

I did remember Jason at Holy Eucharist on Thursday night and on Saturday afternoon. I always try to pray for the CaringBridge kids and teens, when I am in our nave.

Tonight, Andrew, his girl friend, another friend, and I went to the drive-in theater. We saw The Dukes of Hazzard and The Island. We, of course, thought of Connor Hunley during the first, as the old TV show was one of his favorites.

I hope Jason is having a good week. He is in my prayers.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, August 16, 2005 1:44 AM CDT

Pam, I just wanted to say Hi. I hope that all is well and you all are in our prayers. {{{hugs}}}

Faith from the Mark Schultz board
TN - Monday, August 15, 2005 4:40 PM CDT

Jason, We are keeping you and your family close to our hearts and in our prayers today. God Bless!
Tim and Robin Clouse <abn4ever@hotmail.com>
Pebble Beach, CA USA - Sunday, August 14, 2005 9:01 PM CDT

Jason and Archer Family:

You have been in my thoughts and prayers ever since I came across Jason's site. I certainly do pray that everything is going fine. As I stated in my earlier post I give back to the community at a camp nearby for children with chronic or life threatening illness. This Fall we are having a Young Adult Weekend the first weekend in November ages 16 through about 22. It was a great success last year. If Jason would be interested you may read about the Camp in North Carolina here at this link: http://www.spapoops.com/cheerios/vjgcintr.html You will have top "open" a new window to look at any picture you choose.

The actual web link to the Camp's web site is: http://www.victoryjunction.org/vj/index/home

God Bless and look forward to an update soon.
Paul <stpracing@yahoo.com>
Greensboro, NC USA - Sunday, August 14, 2005 8:19 PM CDT

Dear Jason and Family, I just wanted to say hi and let you know that I visited your page today. I have a daughter your age Jason, she graduated Class of 2004 also. You guys hang in there. I am praying for you today.
In Christ Love, With Prayers, Darlene (Angel_wings)
Darlene
Lenoir, NC USA - Sunday, August 14, 2005 8:09 PM CDT

Hi Jason . I am brenda and i am one of the angel_wings warriors.. Just wanted to say hello and to tell you that you are being thought of and prayed for.Keep your eyes on jesus he is our strenght our rock we cant stand on.When we are weary he carrys us ..hope you have a great day..With God all things are possiable . Brenda / Angel_Wings
Brenda Ball <brball12003@yahoo.com>
whitley city, Ky USA - Sunday, August 14, 2005 5:17 PM CDT

Hi Jason,
I wanted to stop by and check on ya!!
Keeping all in prayers and thoughts
always!! Hope you had a great weekend!!
God Bless!!!
Prayers and Hugs,
LeAnn
LeAnn Mooneyham/Angel_Wings <angel4God352000@yahoo.com>
Baxley, GA United States - Sunday, August 14, 2005 1:51 PM CDT

Hi Jason,
My Names Della, and I'm with The Angel-Wings Group. Wanted to say hi, and tell you to keep your chin up, i pray for all my long- distance friends and their Familys.Believe that God is Holding you in His loving Hands. God Bless you and your Family and I will also be keeping you in my prayers.
Della Piercy <Luckygreeneyes74@yahoo.com>
morganton, N.C. United States - Sunday, August 14, 2005 1:23 PM CDT

Hi Jason,
I just came by to check on you my friend.
I hope you are having a good weekend free
of pain..Holding you always in our prayers..
Trish/Angel_Wings <Rrntbyr@aol.com>
Kingston, TN USA - Sunday, August 14, 2005 12:55 AM CDT

Keeping the Archer family in my thoughts and prayers. Hope all is peaceful there today.
Rose
Kingsport, TN - Friday, August 12, 2005 2:01 PM CDT

Prayers up on high...sending love from California
Sandra Lackey <mom5150@mac.com>
Modesto, ca - Friday, August 12, 2005 10:02 AM CDT

Hello, Archer family: I'm just dropping in to say I am thinking about all of you this evening. For me it is the end of the day,but the video games are probably still going strong in your house. :-) I know God is continuing to hold you close to Him. Love & prayers,
Jane <neal-jane_peterson@sil.org>
Duncanville, TX USA - Thursday, August 11, 2005 10:19 PM CDT

Dear Jason,

Praying, praying, praying:

Just stopping by to let you know you are in my heart and prayers May God draw near and fill your heart with strength and grace, but most of all, hope.

There is constant joy abiding
In Christ my Lord and King;
Of His love that passeth knowledge
My heart and tongue shall sing.

He is all in all to me,
And my song of songs shall be,
Hallelujah, O my Savior,
I am trusting only Thee.

When my path is veiled in shadows,
And clouds above me roll,
I can smile amid the tempest,
His glory fills my soul.

I can see his bow of promise
Through tears and trials deep;
I can hear His voice like music,
That lulls my care to sleep.

I shall yet behold the praise Him,
And dwell in perfect peace
In the golden land of beauty,
Where cloud and wave shall cease.

Sending a ton of prayers your way.
Love and hugs
Judy

Catch An Angel
Judy <tnderheart@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, August 11, 2005 8:41 AM CDT

Dear Jason,
Just stopping by to let you know we are still storming Heaven on your behalf and we hold you in our heart daily.
Love and hugs
Judy

Catch An Angel
Judy <tnderheart@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, August 10, 2005 12:13 AM CDT

Hi Jason. Just sending you positive energy, prayers and letting your know we're here for you in California. We've added you to our prayer list and hope you feel them coming through loud and clear.
caringbridge.org/ca/hayli
Sandra Lackey <mom5150@mac.com>
Modesto, ca - Wednesday, August 10, 2005 12:11 AM CDT

Jason,

Are you ever amazed at the number of people signing here or
where they all are from? Maybe it doesn't do anything for
you, but I assure you it does something for me! It tells of
how important you are to a lot of people-most who have never
met you and probably never will. It tells of a loving God
whose influence and power has worked in the lives of many
individuals so that they want to offer words of hope and
encouragement to you.

I guess the hardest part for me is feeling so inadequate and
not being able to give you the thing you want most. I have
trouble finding the correct words. How can I possibly know
what to say and how can I encourage you?

I suppose that's where my faith and belief in God come in.
I HAVE to believe that God loves us and wants the very best
for us. I HAVE to trust Him to work all things together for
good. I MUST understand that this life is only temporary
and that God has planned a better place for me if I will
trust and obey His will for me.

You would be correct if you thought I didn't have a clue and
no possible idea of what you were experiencing or thinking.
You would be right to say, "You don't understand". You have
every right to be frustrated, angry, and even mad. But, you
know what? God understands those emotions. After all, He
did create us and Genesis says we are created in the image
of God. I guess the thing I hope you won't do is shut God
out of your life. If you are mad at God, tell him so! If
you don't like the way things are going, tell Him! Some
might question the idea of 'confronting' God. I think God
loves us very much and that He wants us to talk to Him about
anything and everything we face in our life. As a father, I
always enjoy talking to my children. I want them to come to
me and I try to make them know the door is always open. I
believe our heavenly father is the same way-only better!

Sorry if this turned into a sermon. I just know how God has
helped my life and I know He is going to help you too. But,
God doesn't intrude in our life unless we invite Him in.

Love,
Mr. Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Wednesday, August 10, 2005 8:38 AM CDT

We continue to pray and trust God for Jason's miracle. God is good... all the time.
Greg Oliphant <gaoliphant@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, August 9, 2005 6:40 AM CDT

Dear Archer Family,

What a beautiful note from Mary Jennings! I agree with every part of it.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Collect For The Feast Of St. Dominic: (August 8)

O God of the prophets, who opened the eyes of your servant Dominic to perceive a famine of hearing the word of the Lord, and moved him, and those he drew about him, to satisfy that hunger with sound preaching and fervent devotion: Make your Church, dear Lord, in this and every age, attentive to the hungers of the world, and quick to respond in love to those who are perishing; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever.

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, August 9, 2005 1:16 AM CDT

I check the website and my e-mails almost daily for your updates, Pam, always anxious to hear how Jason is doing. I had not read the journal entries in a while, but did so this afternoon - what a great story from Paul. My prayer is that Jason will be writing a similar entry when he is 40 years old! I know he has the desire to live and to me that is half the battle. It is so easy to get down and give up. I am grateful to Katie for giving him that will to live. All of you continue to be in our prayers daily.
Mary Jennings
- Sunday, August 7, 2005 3:33 PM CDT

Hi Jason,
I am happy to hear that your counts are up and you
are doing better..We continue to hold you close
in our thoughts and our prayers..
Trish/Angel_Wings <Rrntbyr@aol.com>
Kingston, TN USA - Sunday, August 7, 2005 11:55 AM CDT

Good to know the counts are a little better. I hope a good week is had be all.
~Love Leah www.caringbridge.org/va/katrina
Stay Strong
Leah Nelson <ScorchingTundra@msn.com>
Raynham, MA US - Sunday, August 7, 2005 9:37 AM CDT

Lots of love from the Clift family in Australia.
Colleen, David, Tom and James.
Colleen Clift <cliftcj@mlc.vic.edu.au>
Melbourne, Australia - Sunday, August 7, 2005 6:52 AM CDT

Dear Jason, Pam, David, and All,

I am continuing to think of Jason and to pray for him, and for you all. I hope you are having as nice a weekend as we are having.

Hang onto hope, and God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Collect For The Feast Of The Transfiguration, August 6:

O God, who on the holy mount revealed to chosen witnesses
your well-beloved Son, wonderfully transfigured, in raiment
white and glistening: Mercifully grant that we, being
delivered from the disquietude of this world, may by faith
behold the King in his beauty; who with you, O Father, and
you, O Holy Spirit, lives and reigns, one God, for ever and
ever. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer
Colette
Clifton Park, NY - Sunday, August 7, 2005 3:15 AM CDT

Jason,
Hi there!! Lifting you up in Prayers and thoughts always!!
God's Blessings to you and your family!!!
Prayers and Hugs,
LeAnn
LeAnn Mooneyham/Angel_Wings/www.caringbridge.org/ga/jcthetractorboy <angel4God352000@yahoo.com>
Baxley, GA United States - Saturday, August 6, 2005 2:55 PM CDT

May you feel covered in prayer..God Bless, Reva
Reva Kinnally <kinnallymr@msn.com>
schenectady, NY USA - Saturday, August 6, 2005 5:48 AM CDT

Hi Jason, my name is Jenn and my son(Justin) was dx with Paratesticular Rhabdomyo the month after he turned 2. He is now 7, and the doctors told us the same things, that it was very unusual for a boy this young to have Rhabdo. We also suffered through 45 weeks of chemo. I pray everyday that it will not come back. I wish you the best and will remember you in my prayers. Jenn and Justin
Jenn Radtke <radpack4@comcast.net>
Plainfield, Illinois USA - Friday, August 5, 2005 9:56 PM CDT

Pam,
You have been in my thoughts and prayers. Call me anytime!
Laurie Mom to Suryan www.caringbridge.org/fl/suryan <casadewhippets@yahoo.com>
- Friday, August 5, 2005 8:04 PM CDT

Hello, Pam & David, Jason, Justin, Josh & Jenny, Katie & assorted friends: Just a note to say I am thinking of you and praying for you throughout the day from here in Texas. Your schedule exhausts me to even read about, so I'm praying for physical strength for eveyone too! I am grateful for the blood counts being higher than previously reported. I know God is carrying you all; He is faithful and trustworthy.
Jane <neal-jane_peterson@sil.org>
Duncanville, TX USA - Friday, August 5, 2005 11:23 AM CDT

Pam,
Tonight I'm sending a few extra your way 'cause it sure sounds like you could use them. Remember, there are a LOT of us out here praying for you and offering hope (Paul, what a Beautiful entry...). We're here, Sweetie.
Helenmary <Helenmary59@aol.com>
Gallatin, TN - Friday, August 5, 2005 2:44 AM CDT

I'm praying for your family every day.
Stephanie & RachelJoy <mom2rj@comcast.net>
- Thursday, August 4, 2005 9:48 PM CDT

You all are so brave.... I pray that GOD continue to give you the strenght to make it through each day... May GOD use you and bless you in only ways that he could... Stay strong and keep praying...
Sheila (www.caringbridge.org/va/shawntae <shesorangerose@aol.com>
Amelia, VA 23002 - Thursday, August 4, 2005 6:42 PM CDT

Dear Jason, Pam, David, and All,

What a wonderful entry from Paul! One thing it seems to say to me is to never give in to fear and negative expectations. Paul's words must be encouraging to you all, as he has lived it, with a different set of circumstances, but with many of the same unknowns that you face. And, he is here, at age 40.

Keep praying, and keep hoping. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

He was wounded for our transgressions, he was bruised for our iniquities; upon him was the chastisement that made us whole, and with his stripes we are healed.

~Isaiah 53:5
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, August 3, 2005 11:46 PM CDT

To the Archer Family:

I have sat here tonight reading Jason's history from the beginning. I look at the rhabdo kids web pages for new ones every now and then.

I am posting from NC and want to tell you when I was 18 I was diagnosed 3 months before high school graduation with an Embryonal Rhabdomyosarcoma in 1983 when I lived up North. My hospital was Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center in New York City. Back then there was not much on statistics, let alone, any defined sub-types, etc. and all we were told was I was too old, and its occurrence [below left knee] was not in the expected area. If I was 6 years old or younger and the occurrence was in the trunk of my body they would have statistical history to guide them. It was tough for my parents because I was legal [18] and they could make no decisions essentially just taking care of insurance papers. It was reiterated the diagnosis was rare, aggressive, and deadly.

It was tough, no doubt, with no expected outcome to rely on from historical data. Chemotherapy was 10 months with initial surgeries and biopsies and countless scans. The Adriamyacin made me more sick than the Cytoxan. Vincristine and low dose Methotrexate were part of the protocol also. The big surgery was just shy of halfway through chemotherapy. I had to postpone college for one year because the surgery ended up being more intrusive than expected. Not much of my leg was left. I managed to get back on my feet [and I still wonder how] and managed to attend college a year later. Halfway through college what little I had left of my leg from surgery years back was taking its toll and my leg was starting to self destruct structurally. I was given options. All surgeries led to pulling out of college due to at least a year recovery period. Doing nothing was an option also. My initial surgery a few years back had removed 2 out of the 3 arteries from below the knee leaving only the smallest artery left. No matter what option....amputation was always a possibility initially after surgery or down the road during old age with the uncertainty of that smallest remaining artery. I had had enough after 4 years of hospital life and voluntarily elected for amputation immediately. I couldn't equate 2 surgeries [one now and an impending one when I got much older] making sense. Amputation up front would be one less hospital visit and one less surgery and it was the best decision I have ever made. The only condition was I would return to college missing no time. That couldn't be guaranteed. I was admitted the first Monday I was home after final exams, crutch-walked [with my first prosthetic fitted legged] out of the hospital 5 days later and returned back to college on time.

My main question throughout that time [among many others] was, "What do we do next?" I always had to know what was next.

Now I am 40 and still relfect on that part of my life. I give back to the community now by volunteering at a camp nearby for children with chornic or life-threatening illnesses ages 7 through 15. They can be recently diagnosed or in remission.

Always be positive. Keep your feet on the ground and keep reaching for the stars.

Paul

Paul <stpracing@yahoo.com>
Greensboro, NC USA - Wednesday, August 3, 2005 11:17 PM CDT

Dear jason & family. I just found your website. I am so sorry to hear that you are fighting such a battle. I knew maxie that had the same type of cancer. Kids shouldnt have to deal with cancer. I know it must be scary! But it sounds like your family has prepared you for whatever lies ahead. Either your earthyly or heavenly healing. and your facing it so bravely. You know that God is in control and the outcome either way will bring healing. ALthough we pray for your earthly healing of course. God has healed many before. It all has to do with his will for your life.
I am so impressed with your moms faith. It is amazing actually. How do you stay so strong facing this??? What is the secret??? I am a christian but this is more than one should have to bare. I am praying for you all! You are an awesome Young man! God will hold you close!
Kim <dakk2222@netnitco.net>
IN - Wednesday, August 3, 2005 9:30 PM CDT

Dear Jason, Pam, David, and All,

I am glad to read that Jason was able to go out with his friends late last night. It is good that places like McDonald's and Wal-Mart are open late, when kids enjoy being out.

I just read encouraging news about the Guitars Under the Stars Cancer Research Fundraiser, hosted by the Martins, in the journal on Kevin's webpage. God bless Kevin, Linda, and their five children, and God bless all of you beautiful Archers!

My thoughts and prayers are with both families!

Grace, peace, love, and hope,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, August 3, 2005 9:39 AM CDT

Dear Jason, Pam, David, and All,

I am thinking of you all on another hot, humid summer night. I hope Jason is staying comfortable, if you are having similar heatwaves.

My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

The LORD shall give strength to his people; *
the LORD shall give his people the blessing of peace.

~Psalm 29:11
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, August 3, 2005 0:52 AM CDT

Hi Jason,

I think I survived church camp. It was awfully hot and
humid, but we had a great time praising God, getting wet,
and acting goofy. It was such an enjoyable time to be with
others in that setting. Young people have blessed my life
for many years. Even though you and I have not officially
'met', you too have blessed me with an incredible attitude.

I thought about you during the week at camp and hoped that
you were doing good. Not having computer access to check on
CB families was the worst part of the week! I'm glad to be
back home so I can get back into the routine of checking on
you and others.

At our camp, we had a theme of "The Amazing Race". It was
based on I Cor. 9:24, where Paul talks about competing in
a race and going for the prize. As God's children, we are
in the greatest race of our life. We are competing for the
prize of an eternal life with God. We had all kinds of
activities during the week where teams competed for points.
It was so neat to watch the kids really get into the events
and try to earn points. I believe everyone really worked
together and developed a bond that will enable them to be
better people for our Lord. I guess I said all of that to
say this to you. You too are in a race. It might be a
different sort of race, but you have people pulling for you
and cheering you on to win the race. I hope that you will
not only win the race, but finish with a great time! God
is certainly pleased to have an amazing young man like you
running on His team.

Take care of yourself! Keep your positive attitude going
strong.

Love,
Mr. Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Tuesday, August 2, 2005 4:35 PM CDT

Sending you all the love I can give.

Debbie Chloe's mum (rhabdo list)
Debbie Wright <deb.wright1@btopenworld.com>
Herne Bay, Kent Uk - Tuesday, August 2, 2005 12:39 AM CDT

Sometimes the path of life seems so tiresome and it is then that our Precious Savior picks us up and carries us through the journey. I pray for Jason on this journey of life that he will feel his Savior's presence and peace. I pray for continued good times with his friends and family and I pray for relief of pain. God is the greatest of all physicians and I pray for a miracle. Keep on keeping on!
Mary Myers <loveabounds@wchbc.org>
Kingsport, TN USA - Tuesday, August 2, 2005 7:46 AM CDT

Dear Pam, Jason and All,
Please know that your family is always in my thoughts and prayers. I wish your family did not have to go through this. Take care and God Bless.
Angel Brynn
Bree Wlodyka <adt0123@hotmail.com>
Drexel Hill, PA USA - Tuesday, August 2, 2005 7:41 AM CDT

Dear Jason, Pam, David, and All,

After reading the journal update, I am reminded of a story of one of the saints, Brother Laurence, I think. While tending his garden, he was asked, by a younger brother, what he would do if he had only one more day to live. His reply was that he would keep tending his garden.

Let us all have the grace and faith to keep on doing the things the Lord has given us to do.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

P.S. Maybe some of you can attend the fundraiser Guitars Under the Stars, which Linda and Kevin Martin are hosting tonight, Tuesday, August 2, at the Twelve Stones Club House.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY - Tuesday, August 2, 2005 2:05 AM CDT

Archers:
Please know that I continue to keep Jason and your family in my prayers. I'm sorry he has to experience the pain. I hope the lab results from Friday were wrong and that his counts will be good tomorrow. Please keep us posted.
Take care.
Connie - mom to Jeff(21)
www.caringbridge.org/oh/jeffreyscott
Connie Guy <conguy2801@aol.com>
Twinsburg, OH USA - Monday, August 1, 2005 2:20 PM CDT

Pam,
I am so sorry to hear about little Sadie Grace and
her family are all very close in my prayers.Please
tell Jason we are storming Heaven with special prayers for
him ..
Trish/Angel_Wings <Rrntbyr@aol.com>
Kingston, TN USA - Monday, August 1, 2005 1:11 PM CDT

Pam, It's been a while since I've signed Jason's book, but I check on you daily. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Linda Martin's friend Kathy
- Monday, August 1, 2005 6:52 AM CDT

Pam, I can honestly say I have walked in your shoes. And Maxie, like Jason, wasn't a complainer. So, when he felt pain I knew it must be bad because he was the type not to say unless its serious. I felt connected when I read that. I learned of your web site from Connor's. I wish Maxie would have had longer of a fight with his Rhabdo monster. I hate this awful disease and can't wait for the time I can say that there is a cure. God bless your family. (www.caringbridge.org/va/maxie/)
Christy (mom to superstar Maxie) <imaqt430@aol.com>
Amelia, VA - Monday, August 1, 2005 0:54 AM CDT

Jason,
We are praying for all your needs
and that God does a miracle for you!!
God Bless!!!
Prayers and Hugs,
LeAnn
LeAnn Mooneyham/Angel_Wings <angel4God352000@yahoo.com>
Baxley, GA United States - Monday, August 1, 2005 0:14 AM CDT

Jason and Family:

My heart is with you and my prayers will surround you, along with all the others who have you on their minds.

May peace be yours for the asking...and I know that you have.

Feel a hug...and know you are loved by so many.

Kriste Lanius
Leave Some Love for My Brother -Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USA - Sunday, July 31, 2005 10:36 PM CDT

Jason,
I am so sorry that you weren't excepted into
MTSU but the Lord has other plans for your
life and "He" knows best.We are holding you
very close in our prayers..
Trish/Angel_Wings <Rrntbyr@aol.com>
Kingston, TN USA - Saturday, July 30, 2005 4:50 PM CDT

Jason-Still thinking of you and praying for you. Hope you have a good day today.
A friend in Ohio
- Saturday, July 30, 2005 9:49 AM CDT

Dear Jason, Pam, David, and All,

I just want you to know that I am thinking of you all on another summery Friday night. I hope Jason is feeling as well as he can and that he will enjoy the week off of chemo.

Andrew and his girl friend were given two front section tickets to a rock concert in Albany for tonight, so they are out, but my older son is home with me. I hope Jason and Katie are enjoying some of the things they love this weekend.

God bless you all!

Grace and peace,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, July 29, 2005 10:24 PM CDT

Praying for healing.
June <junehumphrey@yahoo.com>
- Friday, July 29, 2005 7:28 PM CDT

Jason,
Hi there! We are praying and thinking of you always!!! Sorry it has been awhile since I checked on you but you are always in our prayers!!!!!! God Bless you and your family!!!
Prayers and Hugs,
LeAnn
http://www.caringbridge.org/ga/annettelee
http://caringbridge.org/ga/jcthetractorboy
LeAnn Mooneyham/Angel_Wings <angel4God352000@yahoo.com>
Baxley, GA United States - Friday, July 29, 2005 0:16 AM CDT

Pam, you must sleep as much as I do, I always see your list postings in the middle of the night!!! Hope all is quiet and uneventful! (Get some rest)
Kelllie Davideit (Ian's mom) <kelbri27@optonline.net>
Metuchen, nj usa - Thursday, July 28, 2005 2:06 PM CDT

Dear Jason, Pam, David, and All,

I love seeing Jason's smiling face and the yellow smileys on the home page. I hope Jason can feel just as happy inside as he looks in that picture.

Volunteer State Community College sounds like a great place to begin college. Several of my friends, with doctorates, began their education in the community colleges here in New York, so the sky is the limit, for any capable student, who attends most community schools. One course, in an area Jason enjoys, might be just the way to start. Even if it is getting late for regular admission now, Jason could plan to begin in January, or could enroll in the evening division.

I am so glad you had the vacation to Kentucky.

God bless you all!

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, July 27, 2005 4:59 PM CDT

Praying for you daily.
June <junehumphrey@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, July 27, 2005 9:58 AM CDT

May God bless you and be with you and your family. I hope that everything works out for all of you. Rhabdo really makes life quite difficult sometimes!

www.caringbridge.org/visit/annawedel
Denise Wedel <denisew@uidaho.edu>
Aberdeen, ID USA - Tuesday, July 26, 2005 4:34 PM CDT

Vol State is an excellent choice. And there Jason can take as many or as few courses as he wants. God gave Jason wisdom and direction in this, and we are grateful....thankful indeed for all your dear family. Love in Him,
Jane <neal-jane_peterson@sil.org>
Duncanville, TX USA - Tuesday, July 26, 2005 10:42 AM CDT

My family is praying for your family. Jesus loves you!
Wendy Poston <wendy.poston@rposton.net>
Nashville, TN USA - Monday, July 25, 2005 9:56 AM CDT

Jason, You don't know me, but I worked with your Dad @ Centennial for a little while. I'm so sorry about the housing situation @ MTSU, but I can say with complete confidence that God is still in control and has great plans for you. Just keep trusting in Him, then stand back and watch Him work. He takes what we see as heartbreak and disappointment and makes them in to something better for us to glorify Him. He loves you so much. Jer 29:11
Kim Uldrich <kimjo75@netzero.com>
Hendersonville, TN USA!! - Monday, July 25, 2005 8:51 AM CDT

Pam, I'm sorry that Jason's college plans didn't work out but I am glad that you'll have him closer to check on him. Praying for you all.

Deborah Forever Vanessa's Mommy
Deborah Martinez <debra126@comcast.net>
Madera, CA United States - Sunday, July 24, 2005 9:19 PM CDT

I'm so sorry about the housing. I know you were looking forward to it all. I'm glad everyone had fun on your trip. Praying always.
~Love Leah www.caringbridge.org/va/katrina
Leah Nelson <ScorchingTundra@msn.com>
Raynham, MA US - Sunday, July 24, 2005 3:39 PM CDT

Praying for Jason.....and praying for a special Mom too....I can't imagine what it is like walking in your shoes...many, many are praying....don't be hard on yourself...you're doing the very best you can and more...

In His Name,
Dee
- Saturday, July 23, 2005 10:25 PM CDT

Dear Pam, I know how much it hurts to see your child's plans get thwarted. On Friday, I experienced a very simple situation where I quickly realized that God was definitely in control. He arranged for the church secretary to "not have time on Friday" to get a letter written that I had requested. I went by the church to pick up the letter and after learning that she had been too busy to get it written, I discovered that my son had already received a letter from one of the church chairmen so what I requested was not needed -- Mom also learned that she just needs to turn loose of some things and let son handle them; especially when he says he will take care of it. God helped avoid the duplicate work and gently demonstrated his control of this very small situation. I know that He has a plan for Jason and I pray that Jason can see part of the plan, as I did on Friday, to give him strength and courage to continue to rely on God and seek to understand God's purpose for his life and the steps to take to embrace that purpose with excitement. I am thankful for the opportunity to read your updates and share this part of your life. I thank God that you and your family are surviving the summer accidents and injuries and having time to relax and enjoy life with each other. I pray for Jason's healing. I pray that God will give you the right words and actions to guide and direct your children in the path that is right for them as God's children. You have great strength and faith -- I pray that God rewards your diligence and faith in a Mighty Way.
Anne McClelland <mcc1999@hotmail.com>
Kingsport, TN - Saturday, July 23, 2005 8:06 PM CDT

Hi, so glad you had a nice vacation - although I admit to having no idea what a moonbow is?!! It is too bad about the housing, you never no, maybe something will work out and will be an even better situation. We are praying with you in NJ...
Kellie Davideit www.caringbridge.org/nj/ian <kelbri27@optonline.net>
Metuchen, nj usa - Saturday, July 23, 2005 6:30 PM CDT

Tough break on the college, Jason. It hardly seems fair. Here's hoping that leaves you free for an even better opportunity soon.
Hang in there, I know how tough all this is, but I know you can make it.
Tim Casey <tcreg001@xearthlink.net>
Chandler, AZ - Saturday, July 23, 2005 5:01 PM CDT

I'm so glad you got in your vacation to Cumberland and that Katie went with you. Sorry you missed the moonbow at the falls, but water and lightning don't sound like a good combination... Glad Justin's injury has healed; he has probably been back on the skateboard already! I'll pray for the things you mentioned concerning Jason. Warmest regards from Texas,
Jane <neal-jane_peterson@sil.org>
Duncanville, TX USA - Saturday, July 23, 2005 4:55 PM CDT

Amen.
Community college is a great place to start. Many choose that option. Go with it.
Johnna (FOA) <thornton2003@juno.com>
Springfield, IL - Saturday, July 23, 2005 3:17 PM CDT

Dear Jason,

Holding you in my heart and prayers!!!
Love and hugs
Judy
Catch An Angel
Judy Crawford <tnderheart@yahoo.com>
Cookeville, TN - Friday, July 22, 2005 10:43 AM CDT

Love and hugs
Judy
Catch An Angel
Judy Crawford <tnderheart@yahoo.com>
Cookeville, TN - Friday, July 22, 2005 10:39 AM CDT

Dear Jason and Family,

I am thinking of you all with prayer this morning. I hope Jason and Justin are recovered from their accidents and that Jason and Katie are enjoying these mid-July days.

God bless you all!

Grace and peace,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, July 22, 2005 3:00 AM CDT

Jason,
Hi there!!! wanted to stop by and see how things were going!!!! Keeping you and your family in prayers!!! God Bless!!!!!!!!!
Prayers and Hugs,
LeAnn
LeAnn Mooneyham/Angel_Wings <angel4God352000@yahoo.com>
Baxley, GA United States - Thursday, July 21, 2005 10:32 PM CDT

BRENDA My Loving Dad's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Thursday, July 21, 2005 11:50 AM CDT

Thinking of you and hoping that Jason is in good spirits.
Deborah Forever Vanessa's Mommy
Deborah Martinez www.caringbride/ca/vanessamartinez <debra126@comcast.net>
Madera, CA United States - Thursday, July 21, 2005 1:19 AM CDT

Hi Jason,
I just came by to check on you honey..
I hope you are having a good week we
continue to hold you very close in our
prayers..
Trish/Angel_Wings <Rrntbyr@aol.com>
Kingston, TN USA - Wednesday, July 20, 2005 6:32 PM CDT

Praying for Jason.
June <junehumphrey@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, July 19, 2005 2:39 AM CDT

Dear Jason, Pam, David, and All,

I hope Jason and Justin are both recovering well from their accidents. I also hope Jason is having happy, pain-free days. May God bless them both!

I am also thinking of your neighbors, the Hunleys and the Martins, with many prayers for all three families.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, July 19, 2005 2:06 AM CDT

Dear Jason,

You surely must be surrounded by angels sweetie to have so many accidents and walk away. I am praying those same angels will wrap their loving arms around you Jason and heal you of this dreaded disease. Have fun dear Jason and know our hearts and prayers are with you every day.
Love and hugs
Judy
http://www.catchanangel.com
Judy Crawford <tnderheart@yahoo.com>
Cookeville, TN - Monday, July 18, 2005 5:09 PM CDT

Jason,

I'm getting ready to head to church camp next week and I
wanted to let you know that I would be taking some Caring
Bridge names for my cabin to pray for. We'll be just up the
road from you in Ridgetop. I've been blessed to be the
counselor for a great group of guys in the 7th - 12th grade.
I know they are going to lift your name up to God in a way
that will bless you tremendously.

I'll visit again around the first of August. Until then,
you take care of yourself. Keep looking up and reaching out
to God who gives us all spiritual blessings.

In Christian love,
Mr. Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Monday, July 18, 2005 4:32 PM CDT

Dear Archer Family,

I am continuing to pray for a miracle of healing for Jason. I saw an elderly man on the ABC news Sunday night in a story about his town. He had cancer in 1967 and was not expected to survive, but he was a determined person, and he has outlived all of his doctors. Keep aware of the power of God, the power of determination, and the power of love. These three are a dynamite combination that can lead to full remission.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and hope,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, July 18, 2005 4:02 AM CDT

Thinking about ya'll and praying for that miracle too. Hope today is a great day for you!
Helenmary <Helenmary59@aol.com>
Gallatin, TN - Sunday, July 17, 2005 0:25 AM CDT

Jason,
Hi there!!!
Wanted to stop by and
check on you!!!! Hope
you are having a good
weekend!! God Bless!!!
Prayers and Hugs,
LeAnn
LeAnn Mooneyham/Angel_Wings <angel4God352000@yahoo.com>
Baxley, GA United States - Saturday, July 16, 2005 9:08 PM CDT

I know how worried you must be. I'm praying for a miracle....we all are..
~Love Leah www.caringbridge.org/va/katrina
Leah Nelson <ScorchingTundra@msn.com>
Raynham, MA US - Friday, July 15, 2005 8:21 PM CDT

Continuing to keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers, lifting you up to our wonderful Lord.
Rose Leeburn <goodwords@att.net>
- Friday, July 15, 2005 11:21 AM CDT

Hello Archer Family:
Just a note to let you know you're in my thoughts today. I'm sorry to hear of Jason's mishaps, but glad to know everyone is doing ok. You would think the poor kid has suffered enough and doesn't need anymore problems thrown his way. He's a tough kid and he seems to have managed the situations well.
My thoughts and prayers continue your way.
Take care
Connie - mom to Jeff(21)- www.caringbridge.org/oh/jeffreyscott
Connie Guy <conguy2801@aol.com>
Twinsburg, OH USA - Friday, July 15, 2005 7:24 AM CDT

We found a link to your site from another CB page and thought we'd drop in to say hello. We wish you all the best and will send positive thoughts your way.
Travis and Brenda <fsgsmom@gmail.com>
Niceville, FL - Friday, July 15, 2005 6:52 AM CDT

Dear Pam and Jason
Just to let you know we are thinking of you both
Stay strong and positive,
lots of prayers heading your way
love Debbie(Chloes mum)and family
Debbie Wright <deb.wright1 @btopenworld .com>
London, U.K - Friday, July 15, 2005 1:25 AM CDT

Pam, I may not sign often but I do check on you everyday. Things are crazy here as you well know. I keep you all in my prayers. Ryan is flying out to spend 2 weeks with Richie and they are going to two church camps. One of them is in CA where they have Christian Rock concerts on the beach for 4 days. His parents are taking them. AFter they return to NV from there, then they go to the lake for another church camp where Ryan will see some of his friends from his old school.

Praying for you all!
Linda Martin <jrbtk90289@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN - Thursday, July 14, 2005 5:37 PM CDT

Dear Jason, Pam, David, and All,

I am sorry to read that Jason and Katie were in an auto accident. However, it is wonderful that no one was hurt seriously. My son and I were in a similar accident two years ago. People were waving us through, and someone came out of nowhere driving very fast. Nobody was hurt, but the impact was noisy, and he left skid marks about sixty feet long. Our car was expertly repaired, and nothing else came of the collision. I hope the same for Jason and Katie.

Katie seems to be a very special young lady. I am glad she is there for Jason. May God bless them both!

I hope Justin recovers quickly from his skateboard incident. It is wonderful when young people can be involved in sports.

I have not gone over to church tonight, as it has been pouring rain, but I will remember Jason beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window, when I am in the nave again. I have just paused to pray for Jason, Katie, and you all.

God bless you!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, July 14, 2005 5:33 PM CDT

We are praying for you.
Jodi and McKayla

Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com>
Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Thursday, July 14, 2005 3:29 PM CDT

Hello...
Just leaving you with warm wishes and lots of prayers.
God Bless
Island Princess

Butterfly Island

Island Princess <mooks@bellsouth.net>
- Thursday, July 14, 2005 11:27 AM CDT

I saw this today and thought of you. My prayers are with you.
Much love,
Judy
Catch An Angel

God's Promises:
Judy Crawford <tnderheart@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, July 14, 2005 11:24 AM CDT

Jason you are all in our family prayers.
dustin peng <dustin282@hotmail.com>
chengdu, china - Wednesday, July 13, 2005 11:05 AM CDT

Hi Jason,

So sorry to hear that you and Katie were involved in such a serious car accident, but am thankful that nobody was seriously injured. Also wanted to let you know that I was praying for the firefighter, Randy, and for Katie!

I continue to pray each and every day that you will be cured of all cancer. I am praying that the chemo will work and keep the cancer from growing, or at least slow it down. Please also let Katie know that I am praying for her... she is an exceptional young lady, and I know that God has special plans for you both!

Hugs,
Sharon / Angel Wings <thronberrys@bellsouth.net>
Memphis, TN USA - Wednesday, July 13, 2005 5:42 AM CDT

Jason,
Wanted to stop by and say Hi!! Sorry to hear about the accident and that you and your sister wre not hurt. We are praying for you always!!! God Bless!!!!
Prayers and Hugs,
LeAnn
LeAnn Mooneyham/Angel_Wings <angel4God352000@yahoo.com>
Baxley, GA United States - Tuesday, July 12, 2005 7:12 PM CDT

Hi Jason,
I came by to check on you and learned you
had another accident..I'm so glad it wasn't serious
and you are doing ok..I'm sure that's been enough
excitement for your Momma so how about we just let
you have a nice calm maybe a little boring week this
week?Praying for you my friend..
Trish/Angel_Wings <Rrntbyr@aol.com>
Kingston, TN USA - Tuesday, July 12, 2005 6:43 PM CDT

Glad to hear that Jason came through both accidents without serious injury. What a wonderful blessing that Jason feels good enough to get out and participate in these types of activities....ok, maybe without the accidents next time :). We continue to pray for you healing, strenth and happiness each day. God Bless!
Tim and Robin Clouse <abn4ever@hotmail.com>
Pebble Beach, CA - Tuesday, July 12, 2005 1:19 PM CDT

Jason,

Well, I wrote a little too quickly last time. It seems that
the jet ski wasn't enough excitement for your family! I bet
you keep mom on the tips of her toes with all the accidents.
Don't know if it helps or not, but I know another young man
who would compete with you on ER visits. (He is the one who
had the trampoline next to the house. I'll leave the rest
for you to figure out!)

Jason, please know that I am praying for God to give you
whatever He needs you to have to continue being his servant.
We aren't promised anything in the physical presence. But,
we are promised to receive all spiritual blessings in Jesus
if we allow Him to be the Lord and Savior of our life. I
guess we tend to be people of sight rather than faith. It's
easy for me to 'see' what's here now and loose sight of the
promises of God. Those promises are real!

Faith and belief are two of the easiest words to use and yet
can be the hardest to comprehend. I can go to the circus
and watch the performers walk across the tight-wire. I see
and believe that they can do that. Faith would be evident
if I was willing to ride across on their back! So, your
faith in God to give you what you need will be evident when
you turn your belief into action. Can God heal you?
ABSOLUTELY, WITHOUT A DOUBT!!! Will He? That's a question
that I do not have an answer for. Can your faith and belief
be strong enough so that God's healing power will indeed
heal your body. Another tough question. Maybe it's like
Jesus being in the garden. He didn't want to die on the
cross and He prayed that it would not be required of him.
But, he also prayed, "Thy will-not mine".

God will use you, cancer, and all the other aspects of your
life to see that His will is accomplished. We often think
if God will only heal a individual, then his amazing glory
and power will be shown. Sort of like the miracles we
read about in the Bible. But, we don't have the ability to
'see' the big picture as God does. I may not understand why
God chooses a certain path, but hopefully my faith and
obedience will be strong enough to accept that path and know
that God will choose the best for my spiritual well being.

Don't know if any of this makes sense or not. I certainly
don't know what all you are dealing with. But I hope and
pray that you are trusting in God completely to direct your
ways.

In Christian love,
Mr. Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Tuesday, July 12, 2005 8:11 AM CDT

Jason and Family:

(I linked through Angel Connor Hunley's site again...)

Praying for your miracle, and for God's most abundant blessings to surround you each and every day.

You'll continue to be in my prayers...

With love,
Kriste Lanius
Tracy's sister from http://www.caringbridge.org/tn/tracylanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USA - Monday, July 11, 2005 9:53 PM CDT

I'm so sorry to hear about the accidents--Justin's too. I'm glad, though, that Jason is able to enjoy these days, and I will join many in praying regarding the concerns you mention. Thank you for letting us know about Orville. Love in Him,
Jane <neal-jane_peterson@sil.org>
Ducanville, TX USA - Monday, July 11, 2005 2:45 PM CDT

What to say? Be strong, you are. Have faith, you have it.
Share Love, you do.

PLEASE GOD GRANT THIS FAMILY THEIR MIRACLE!
Deborah Forever Vanesssas' Mommy
Deborah Martinez <debra126@comcast.net>
Madera, CA United States - Monday, July 11, 2005 10:50 AM CDT

Jason,

Did you think mom might need a little more excitement around
the house?? Sounds like the jet ski incident might have
filled the bill! Has your mom said anything like this to
you; "I hope you have kids just like you one day!"?
Parents can be funny like that-yes WE can!! I could relate
a lot of stories about some of the exciting times kids have
had at their parent's expense. But, most parents would not
want me relating those stories for fear that their kids
would give some of them a try! Particularly when it
involves a trampoline next to the house!! Oops, I wasn't
supposed to tell that.

I hope you are enjoying your summer, friends, and all the
'fun' stuff you get to do. (Fun is one word that can be
defined differently by different people.)

Enjoy life and face each day with renewed optimism knowing
that our heavenly father is there to lift us up when it
seems like obstacles are in the way. I've always believed
that God wants us to be teachers of His love, mercy, grace,
and abundant love. I certainly feel like I've been taught
many lessons by your outlook on life. You have faced some
tough obstacles and you continue to rely upon God to give
you strength and guidance. Don't ever loose sight of that!
God can and will use you to reach others for Him.

In Christian love,
Mr. Wayne

Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Monday, July 11, 2005 7:50 AM CDT

Dear Jason, Pam, David, and All,

Here is a quotation I included in my current prayer journal. Perhaps it will be of encouragement.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Life can offer one disappointment after another, but God will always uphold us. He has promised.

~Alaric Lewis, OSB, in his book, A Healing Year: Meditations for Living With Loss
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, July 11, 2005 2:55 AM CDT

Dear Jason, Pam, David, and All,

I hope Jason is over, or almost over, his injuries. I hope he has had a good week.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and hope,

~Colette~

The Collect For 8 Pentecost (This Weekend):

O Lord, mercifully receive the prayers of your people who call upon you and grant that they may know and understand what things they ought to do, and also may have grace and power faithfully to accomplish them; though Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Sunday, July 10, 2005 2:03 AM CDT

PAM,
YOU GUYS ARE ALWAYS IN OUR PRAYERS AND DEFINATLY ON MY MIND. I JUST READ YOUR POST ON THE RH LIST AND WOW I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE WITH A KID SO ACCIDENT PRONE.TY-MICHAEL CAN NOT GO THROUGH ONE WEEK WITHOUT GETTING HURT IN ONE FORM OR ANOTHER.
I AM SO SORRY JASON HAS TO GO THROUGH SO MUCH. PRAYING DAILY FOR A CURE!

PRAYING FOR PEACE FOR ALL OF YOU
Audra Tim Alex Sieharra and Ty-Michael Schmidt <grlwndr68@hotmail.com>
HOBE SOUND, FLORIDA www.caringbridge.org/fl/tymichaelschmidt - Friday, July 8, 2005 4:24 PM CDT

Dear Jason, Pam, David, and All,

I continue to think about Jason, and I hold him in my prayers. May the upcoming weekend be a good one for him.

Grace, peace, love, and hope,

~Colette~

The Collect For July 8:

God of grace and might, we praise you for your servants Aquila and Priscilla, to whom you gave gifts to make the good news known. Raise up, we pray, in every country, evangelists and heralds of your kingdom, so that the world may know the immeasurable riches of our Savior, Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, - Friday, July 8, 2005 0:40 AM CDT

Hi Jason,
Send prayers and angel hugs to you and your family!! God Bless!!
Prayers and Hugs,
LeAnn
LeAnn Mooneyham/Angel_Wings <angel4God352000@yahoo.com>
Baxley, GA United States - Thursday, July 7, 2005 10:21 PM CDT

Hi Jason,
I am so sorry to hear about the jet ski
accident..Praying both you and the fireman
are doing much better now..
Trish/Angel_Wings <Rrntbyr@aol.com>
Kingston, TN USA - Thursday, July 7, 2005 10:55 AM CDT

I hope you're feeling tip top Jason. Have a good week.
~Love Leah www.caringbridge.org/va/katrina
Leah Nelson <ScorchingTundra@msn.com>
Raynham, MA US - Wednesday, July 6, 2005 9:46 PM CDT

Just read your courageous story. Thinking of you all.www.caringbridge.org/nj/jennie
Jacquie (Jennie's Aunt) <Qnfisbo@aol.com>
Metuchen, NJ USA - Wednesday, July 6, 2005 10:45 AM CDT

Jason-So glad to hear that you are okay after the jet ski accident! I hope you have a good week this week. Still thinking of you and praying for you and your family-
Your friend in Ohio
- Tuesday, July 5, 2005 8:37 AM CDT

Dear Jason, Pam, David, and All,

I hope you have all had a good Fourth of July. The trip that Justin is on, sounds delightful. I hope he enjoys all of the water activities.

It was good to read, earlier in the week, that Jason's blood tests were so good. (I started to sign the guest book, but had to leave the computer to do things for my family.) May the healing of Christ continue to be at work within him!

I am sorry to learn of the accident, but it is good that Jason's injuries were minor and that the other young man was released from the hospital. It is great that Jason felt well enough to go jet skiing.

God bless all six of you!

Grace, peace, love, and hope,

~Colette~

The Collect For Independence Day:

Lord God, Almighty, in whose Name the founders of this country won liberty for themselves and for us, and lit the torch of freedom for nations then unborn: Grant that we and all the people of this land may have grace to maintain our liberties in righteousness and peace; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Tuesday, July 5, 2005 1:17 AM CDT

Jason,
Sorry to hear about the accident and Thank the Lord that you and the rest are ok!!! Hope you had a good Fourth today and watched a fireworks show. Keeping you and your family in prayers and thoughts!!!!!!! God Bless!!!!
Prayers and Hugs,
LeAnn
LeAnn Mooneyham/Angel_Wings <angel4God352000@yahoo.com>
Baxley, GA United States - Monday, July 4, 2005 9:42 PM CDT

Wow Jason, you sure are a miracle. I hope you had a good Fourth.
~Love Leah www.caringbridge.org/va/katrina
Leah Nelson <ScorchingTundra@msn.com>
Raynham, MA US - Monday, July 4, 2005 8:57 PM CDT

Jason:

I pray for you with a firm belief that God is healing you. Prayer is the most powerful contribution any of us can make. All your prayer warriors are believing in what we ask God for on your behalf, and that will open you up to experiencing a multitude of blessings from the Great Physician.

" 'If you are able to do anything...help us.' Jesus said to him, 'If you are able?---All things can be done for the one who believes.' Immediately the father of the child cried out, 'I believe...'" --Mark 9:22-24

In His name,
Kriste Lanius
Pray for Tracy at http://www.caringbridge.org/tn/tracylanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USA - Sunday, July 3, 2005 11:11 PM CDT

Hi Jason, Pam, David, and all the family, Just a note to say we are praying for you all and rejoice at the recent good news about the hematocrit! Thanks for sharing. I know you are all blessing many people. Have a blessed July 4th!
Love from Beth, Cliff, Audrey and Christopher
Mary Beth Duke <bethduke@yahoo.com>
Smithville, TN USA - Sunday, July 3, 2005 9:41 PM CDT

I wanted to let you know we have been praying for you from Australia and we want you to know that there are many others praying for you also , you are a couragious young man and I believe you can fight this , God Bless you and I will check in on you soon

Sammy Joe
and Family
maria Liistro <sammyjo2@bigpond.com.au>
Craigieburn,Melbourne, Vic Australia - Sunday, July 3, 2005 9:30 AM CDT

Dear Jason,

Am once again stopping by, hoping for an update, and wanting to let you know that I am holding you very close to my heart in prayer.

Hugs,
Sharon / Angel Wings <thronberrys@bellsouth.net>
Memphis, TN USA - Sunday, July 3, 2005 8:40 AM CDT

Hi Jason,
I wanted to stop by and say hi, and let you know that I will be praying for you. I heard about you from Angel_Wings, and wanted you to know that we are covering you with prayers. God is just showing you now the beginning of what I believe He is going to do for you. Not only begin to heal you, but completely heal you!
We'll be back to check on you again soon!
With Christian Love and Prayers,
Michelle & Bethany
Michelle Perry/Angel_Wings & Bethany <VMGLPERRY@wmconnect.com>
Knoxville,, TN - Saturday, July 2, 2005 9:56 PM CDT

Hi Jason,
Just wanted to say that you are in our prayers, and thoughts, and we will keep praying for you and your family.
God Bless You -All
Della Piercy
Della Piercy <Luckygreeneyes74@yahoo.com>
Morganton, N.C. USA - Saturday, July 2, 2005 1:05 PM CDT

Hi Jason,
I hope you have a wonderful fourth of July weekend
my friend..Hang in there my friend..The prayer warriors at Angel Wings are all praying for you..
Trish/Angel_Wings <Rrntbyr@aol.com>
Kingston, TN USA - Saturday, July 2, 2005 9:14 AM CDT

Hi, We hope you have a Happy 4th of July weekend! You all are in our thoughts and prayers!!
Love,hugs and prayers,
Kathy, Kipp, Kevin and Kyle Randolph <randolph@interl.net>
Ft. Madison, Iowa - Saturday, July 2, 2005 7:40 AM CDT

Dear Jason,

Wanted to stop by and wish you the very best 4th of July, complete with fireworks! Hang tough... with God for you, who can be against you? Hugs, Sharon

Sharon / Angel Wings <thronberrys@bellsouth.net>
thromberys@bellsouh.net, TN USA - Saturday, July 2, 2005 5:52 AM CDT

Prayer to Saint Anthony

Almighty and Eternal God, who did glorify thy faithful confessor, Anthony, with the perpetual gift of working miracles, graciously grant what we confidently seek through his merits, that we may receive by his intercession through Christ our Lord the complete healing of Jason here on Earth. Amen.
Terri ^Friends of Allie - San Diego^
- Saturday, July 2, 2005 1:59 AM CDT

Dear Pam, thought I would stop by and check on Jason and WOW! what an encouraging journal update! Sending positive and healing thoughts Jason's way. With Hope, MiMi
MiMi Olsson <mimi-olsson@comcast.net>
Attleboro, MA USA - Friday, July 1, 2005 12:09 AM CDT

Jason,
Hi!! We are praying and thinking of you!!! God's Blessings to you!!!!!
Prayers and Hugs,
LeAnn
LeAnn Mooneyham/Angel_Wings <angel4God352000@yahoo.com>
Baxley, GA United States - Friday, July 1, 2005 0:02 AM CDT

Stopping by this evening (as I do every evening) with love and prayers for peace for you all and healing for Jason.
Jane <neal-jane_peterson@sil.org>
Duncanville, TX 75137 - Thursday, June 30, 2005 10:20 PM CDT

What awesome news Jason! Sending tons of love and prayers your way.
Laura <ELCgrey1216@aol.com>
Richmond, Va USA - Thursday, June 30, 2005 8:39 PM CDT

Dear Jason,

Just wanting to let you know that I am still in there praying for you. May the Lord pour out His blessings in great abundance over you and your family.

Hugs,
Sharon / Angel_Wings <thronberrys@bellsouth.net>
Memphis, TN USA - Thursday, June 30, 2005 0:22 AM CDT

Hi Jason,
What wonderful news Praise The Lord..
Now the prayer warriors at Angel_Wings
are praying for a complete healing our
friend..
Trish/Angel_Wings <Rrntbyr@aol.com>
Kingston, TN USA - Wednesday, June 29, 2005 2:01 PM CDT

What GREAT news! (Thank you, Lord!!!) I will continue to pray for complete healing.
Ya'll will be in my thoughts and prayers as we leave for our baseball trip. Every chance I get, I will say a prayer that the tumors are shrinking. I hope you have a great 4th!!
Helenmary <Helenmary59@aol.com>
Gallatin, TN - Wednesday, June 29, 2005 1:20 AM CDT

Hi Jason,

Just stopping by to check on you. Hey, that is terrific about your counts going up! I hope this is a sign of good news to come. Am praying for your complete and total healing.

Hugs,
Sharon / Angel Wings <thronberrys@bellsouth.net>
Memphis, TN USA - Tuesday, June 28, 2005 11:59 PM CDT

What an amazing miracle and I hope there's many more to come. Goodnight.
~Love Leah www.caringbridge.org/va/katrina
Leah Nelson <ScorchingTundra@msn.com>
Raynham, MA US - Tuesday, June 28, 2005 11:23 PM CDT

All the doctors know is that this kind of cancer was incurable before, that doesn't mean it won't be this time. Praying for a miracle for Jason.
June <junehumphrey@yahoo.com>
Goodlettsville, TN - Tuesday, June 28, 2005 10:54 PM CDT

My Loving Dad's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Tuesday, June 28, 2005 10:16 PM CDT

I know the Lord will continue to be your strength and peace.
Stephanie & RachelJoy <mom2rj@comcast.net>
- Tuesday, June 28, 2005 10:07 PM CDT

Dear Jason,
Hi!! I will continue to ask the Lord for healing and for the miracle only He can give. PTL on your counts!!!! God Bless!!
Prayers, Hugs, & Love,
LeAnn
LeAnn Mooneyham/Angel_Wings <angel4God352000@yahoo.com>
Baxley, GA United States - Tuesday, June 28, 2005 9:58 PM CDT

Jason, I am praying for God's strength and peace for you. You are such an Inspiration and Blessing to me and others.
Pam, I pray that God blesses you and your family with His peace beyond all understanding and comfort.
May God's will be done in Jason's life and may God's Mercy, Grace, and Glory be magnified. With God all things are possible!
Faith (Mark Schultz message boards)
Cleveland, TN - Tuesday, June 28, 2005 9:16 PM CDT

Jason,

I know that your friends and family are going to be praying
for you from the depths of their hearts in a few hours. I
wish I could be there because that is going to be such an
awesome time. I believe you are going to experience some
feelings that you may never have before. Prayer is
something we often take for granted and fail to realize the
real POWER that is available to us if we would simply use
it! I've thought of you often the past days and hope you
are continuing to experience the grace and mercy of our
loving heavenly father. I'll be thinking about you tonight
and offering my own prayer from a few miles southeast.

In Christian love,
Mr. Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Tuesday, June 28, 2005 4:58 PM CDT

~Thinking of you all on another hot, humid evening. I hope Jason has had a good day.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Monday, June 27, 2005 7:52 PM CDT

I love the picture. Prayers to all
~Love Leah
www.caringbridge.org/va/katrina
Leah Nelson <ScorchingTundra@msn.com>
Raynham, MA US - Monday, June 27, 2005 2:31 PM CDT

Great photo of your precious foursome! I will be praying here in TX as you gather in TN tomorrow night. Love in Him,
Jane <neal-jane_peterson@sil.org>
Duncanville, TX 75137 - Monday, June 27, 2005 11:37 AM CDT

Dear Jason,

I wanted to stop by and see how you are doing today. Am hoping that you had a good weekend with not too much pain. I think of you every single day, and worry about how you are doing. Please keep us updated on your condition, as I check your website almost daily, although I might not post every day. Please know that you have people you have never met praying for you. You are a very special young man, and I could not love you more if you were my own flesh-and-blood son.

Hugs,
Sharon / CPCOS <thronberrys@bellsouth.net>
Memphis, TN USA - Monday, June 27, 2005 3:04 AM CDT

Dear Jason, Pam, David, and All,

Thank you for posting the new picture of Jason, Justin, Joshua, and Jenny. It's really beautiful.

I have just visited Andrew's guest book. (See the note just below this one.) I hope many of Jason's friends and supporters will do this, as well.

Both as lector yesterday, and as one seated in the pew this morning, I was struck anew by these familiar words of Scripture. May they be a blessing to you today.

The Epistle For June 25/26, 2005

Romans 6:3-11

Do you not know that all of us who have been baptized into Christ Jesus were baptized into his death? Therefore we have been buried with him by baptism into death, so that, just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, so we too might walk in newness of life. For if we have been united with him in a death like his, we will certainly be united with him in a resurrection like his. We know that our old self was crucified with him so that the body of sin might be destroyed, and we might no longer be enslaved to sin. For whoever has died is freed from sin. But if we have died with Christ, we believe that we will also live with him. We know that Christ, being raised from the dead, will never die again; death no longer has dominion over him. The death he died, he died to sin, once for all; but the life he lives, he lives to God. So you also must consider yourselves dead to sin and alive to God in Christ Jesus.

The Response: Thanks Be To God.

~Thinking of all of you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, June 26, 2005 9:56 PM CDT

Dear Archer family, I hope that today will be a good day for your famly. I pray every day for Jason and all the other rhabdo kids that I come across here at careingbridge. My 19 year old son Andrew has been fighting stage 4 alveolor rhabdo since December. I know how much it means to have the support of others around you and from those who really know what you are going through. Peace, Love and always Hope. God speed.
Christina www.caringbridge.org/ny/andrewsmom <cmartz106@aol.com>
Croton-on-Hudson, NY - Sunday, June 26, 2005 11:55 AM CDT

Dear Jason, Pam, David, and All,

I hope you are gearing up for that proposed trip to Cumberland Falls. I am sure it is beautiful country, so I hope you are able to take lots of pictures. I also hope you will get some of all of you, while there, to post on this website.

I remembered Jason, beneath the Jesus and the Children window, at St. George's, on Saturday afternoon. It was very hot here, but fortunately, our nave is air conditioned.

If there is anything, at all, that I can do for you, please call. You have the number.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Sunday, June 26, 2005 5:30 AM CDT

Jason and Family,
Wanted to stop by and say Hi!!! Keeping you all in prayers and thoughts!! Hope yaw'll have a wonderful trip to KY next month.. God Bless!!!
Prayers and Hugs,
LeAnn
LeAnn Mooneyham <angel4God352000@yahoo.com>
Baxley, GA United States - Saturday, June 25, 2005 5:02 PM CDT

Jason, I am not only a rare cancer survivor, but I am also a Mom to a wonderful son - Damian. I know that if he were diagnosed with cancer, I would do all that I could do to help him find a cure. In that vein, I try to do what I can do to help others. I am hoping that we can work together to get some type of fundraising going for Dr. Barr's research.

Take Care, Sharon
http://www.rare-cancer.org
Sharon <sharon.lane@rare-cancer.org>
AZ USA - Saturday, June 25, 2005 10:42 AM CDT

Just wanted to stop by and say hello and let you know that your family is in my thoughts and prayers. Take care and God bless you all.
Jennifer from the prayer bears <charay913@yahoo.com>
texas - Saturday, June 25, 2005 10:33 AM CDT

Dear Archer Family,

What a wonderful note about David, from Phillip Potter! When someone works with a person for twenty years, they have had many occasions to see the person, in good times, and in bad times. They really know a lot. David is a special father.

I have been trying to sign several other CaringBridge guest books tonight, but the "Add to our Guest Book" page is not showing up on my screen. I am thinking of the Hunleys, the Martins, the Fiveashes, the Davideits, and others. My prayers are with you all!

God bless Jason, his loved ones, and all of his medical team!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Saturday, June 25, 2005 1:21 AM CDT

Hey
Just drop by to say hi an let you all know that your very much in my thoughts & prayers.
Sending lots of love hugs & prayers your way.
Pam Sturgill / The Prayer Bears <psturgill@bellsouth.net>
- Friday, June 24, 2005 3:56 PM CDT

Just found out about this site. There are a number of people who care about you because they know your dad. He is a great guy. I've worked with him for 20 years and respect him very much. God Bless you.
Phillip Potter <phillip_shelly@hotmail.com>
- Friday, June 24, 2005 3:44 PM CDT

Just thought I would check in on you all and say a big hello, hope you have a wonderful holiday break.
Thinking of you all,
with love and best wishes
Debbie (chloe's mum) Rhabdo site.
Debbie Wright <debwright1@yahoo.com>
Herne Bay, Kent UK - Friday, June 24, 2005 3:07 PM CDT

Dear Archer Family,

I just visited Kevin Martin's site, where they have a wonderful Father's Day picture of Kevin and all five of his children. I hope you were able to take pictures of David with his sons and daughter on that day, too. You will definitely have to take pictures on your trip to Cumberland Falls. Even the name sounds wholesome and peaceful!

I remembered Jason on my knees, in the beauty of holiness tonight, as I always do, beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window. I am reading at the Saturday afternoon Eucharist, so I will be there, in the nave, praying for Jason, once again.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

P.S. About missing eyebrows, one summer, Andrew took his camp counselor up on a challenge. If he shaved his eyebrows off, he could have a chocolate bar. He looked very strange for a few weeks, but, as you know, the brows come back.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Friday, June 24, 2005 4:08 AM CDT

Praying for your healing...in Christ all things are possible...

The Prayer Bears
Prayer Bear Heidi <praying_without_ceasing@yahoo.com>
NM USA - Thursday, June 23, 2005 11:18 PM CDT

hello jason,
it's nice to hear that someone that has been through all of which that you have been through is doing fine. this is my first time reading your e-mail and i want you to know that god is on your side as well as me in my prayers kathy.
have a happy and a nice day!

kathy valencia <kmandez12005@yahoo.com>
phx, Az US - Thursday, June 23, 2005 12:56 AM CDT

Just a quick note during my nightly visit to Jason's web site. I have thought about you all a lot today and prayed too...so grateful to know Jason is not needing the breakthrough pain meds right now and especially to read about the great weekend he had. Praying for you to all have and enjoy that very special vacation time together the end of July. Love in our LORD,
Jane <neal-jane_peterson@sil.org>
Duncanville, TX 75137 - Wednesday, June 22, 2005 10:12 PM CDT

Your never far from my thoughts and prayers!
Deborah Martinez <debra126@comcast.net>
Madera, CA United States - Wednesday, June 22, 2005 3:19 AM CDT

Praying for healing.
June <junehumphrey@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, June 22, 2005 0:25 AM CDT

Hi Jason,
I just came by to check on you my friend.The
vacation to Cumberland Falls is a wonderful idea.
You will love it there and i am praying that you
will be able to enjoy your time there..We are
holding you very close in our prayers..
Trish/PrayerBears <Rrntbyr@aol.com>
Kingston, TN USA - Tuesday, June 21, 2005 5:48 PM CDT

Jason-So glad to hear that you had a good week! Still thinking of you and praying for you and your family. Hope you have a good week this week, and I'll check back to see how you're doing.
Your friend in Ohio
- Tuesday, June 21, 2005 12:21 AM CDT

Hi Pam,
I'm glad to hear that Jason has not had as much pain. He is definitely a strong young man and is facing his battle with fight and determination. My thoughts and prayers are with Jason, you and the rest of your family. It will be wonderful to spend the time together on vacation.
Take care and God bless you all,

Joan Boyle <jbcb@videotron.ca>
Montreal, Quebec Canada - Tuesday, June 21, 2005 9:42 AM CDT

Jason
Just drop by to say hi an let you know that you are very much in my prayers.
I hope you have a good time on your family vacation i have been to cumberland falls it is a nice place.
Sending lots of love hugs & prayers your way.
Pam Sturgill / The Prayer Bears <psturgill@bellsouth.net>
Eolia, Ky, - Tuesday, June 21, 2005 8:33 AM CDT

Hi Jason,

I wanted to drop by and leave a few notes that I hope will be encouraging and meaningful to you. I mentioned in an earlier message that I really didn't know what to say. Well, nothing has changed in that department. But I thought perhaps God would somehow guide my words today and there would be something useful for you in them. I have to tell you that my human side doesn't have a clue.

It's so easy to get caught up in the day-to-day routines and forget that some don't have a 'normal' day. I suppose you could set your watch by the actions of some people because of their daily routine. (Mine would be a Mickey Mouse watch!) But, I'm trying to break out of my normal routines to offer encouragement to you and many others who are facing some tough obstacles in their daily walk.

God has promised us that He would never give us more than we could handle. That tells me something about you. God knew that Jason Archer would be able to handle a lot of tough stuff in his life or He would not have put this path before you. I suspect you would choose a different path as would your family and friends. Why then has God allowed your life to travel this path? I don't know, but I do believe that God has a plan for your life that may be bigger than any of us can understand. I believe God uses people, places, events, to accomplish His will. Perhaps the path you are traveling isn't for you. Maybe it's for another? Could it be for someone like me? I really don't know. But, I DO KNOW that I have been trememdously blessed by you and many others who are traveling a similar path. For the 16 or so months that I have been visiting Caring Bridge web sites and signing guest books, my life has taken a different perspective on what's really important. I read about young people who are being brave in the face of adversity. I read about young people apologizing to their family and health care providers because they threw up and made a mess. I read of the courage being shown during some amazing tests and procedures. YOU are the one showing us what living is all about.

What does God have in store for you? Don't know the answer to that one. But I do believe that God's promises are real and true. You are the real evangelist, preacher, teacher. Those people have an important job in helping us become the person God wants us to be. But you are teaching us by example how to live. You are showing us how important it is to depend upon God to sustain us regardless of what may come.

Your mom is so good to pray for you every time she writes a journal entry. That is the prayer of a parent. I want also to offer a prayer that God helps you become an even mightier warrior that He needs so that your life will continue to show us the way.

In Christian love,
Mr. Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Tuesday, June 21, 2005 8:16 AM CDT

It's good to read that Jason has been having better days. Your vacation spot sounds delightful, and I'm praying that your family will enjoy a wonderful time there.
Linda Martin's friend Kathy
Sparks, NV - Tuesday, June 21, 2005 6:37 AM CDT

I'm glad it seems like you were feeling a little bit better last week, Jason. I pray that you'll get to go on your family vacation together. Sounds like a very special place.
~Love Leah www.caringbridge.org/va/katrina
Leah Nelson <ScorchingTundra@msn.com>
Raynham, MA US - Tuesday, June 21, 2005 4:48 AM CDT

I hope you all had a good Father's Day. I'm thinking about you.
~Love Leah
Leah Nelson <ScorchingTundra@msn.com>
Raynham, MA US - Monday, June 20, 2005 5:59 PM CDT

Read about Jason on the Lake Cumberland Website....yes, you are a fine-looking young man, Jason :) If we are down at the lake on the weekend your family is there, we'd all love to meet you and maybe have a short boat ride if you are near our part of the lake :) In the meantime, if you like video games, maybe you could check out World of Warcraft to see if you'd like it? It is an interactive game and a lot of fun. You are in my prayers....enjoy every minute you are given, because nobody ever knows how many they have...nobody. Sounds like you have a lot of people who love you and that is the most precious thing in the world. Keep smiling :D
KR2 Chick (Kris) <k7384@yahoo.com>
Louisville, KY USA - Monday, June 20, 2005 3:37 PM CDT

Just wanted to let you know that I pray for you and your family daily. My son, Josh, has Rhabdo as well. You all are always in my thoughts. God Bless you.
Stacy Grimes <punky62002@yahoo.com>
Lincoln, NE USA - Sunday, June 19, 2005 9:39 PM CDT

HELLO THERE.. A FRIEND THAT I KNOW SENT ME THIS INFO ABOUT YOUR SON AND I JUST WANTED TO SAY THAT YOU ALL MAY NOT KNOW ME BUT I AM PRAYING AND THINKING ABOUT YOUR SON AND FAMILY..MAY GOD TAKE HIS PRECIOUS AND LOVING HANDS AND HEAL YOUR SON IF ITS HIS WILL..WE HOLD YOU AND YOUR FAMILY UP IN PRAYER ..MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL
SUE PELHAM <SPELHAM@DTCCOM.NET>
WOODBURY, TN US - Sunday, June 19, 2005 8:01 AM CDT

Been thinking about you and praying that everthing is going o.k. for you.
Love and hugs,
Kathy Randolph <randolph@interl.net>
Ft. Madison, Iowa - Sunday, June 19, 2005 5:51 AM CDT

Thinking about you and praying for good days. With love,
Helenmary <Helenmary59@aol.com>
Gallatin, TN - Sunday, June 19, 2005 2:08 AM CDT

I thought I would stop by and say

Plus I had to let you know that I'm thinking of you always.
My Loving Dad's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Sunday, June 19, 2005 0:40 AM CDT

Dear Jason,
I hope you settle into your new room quickly and learn to love it as you did your old one. Jesus is wonderful and I pray that you can feel Him working in your life and your body every day. Bless you and love you.

Charisse/ The Prayer Bears
Charisse Howard-Jones <c.hjones@bigpond.com>
Adelaide, SA Australia - Saturday, June 18, 2005 11:53 PM CDT

Just dropping in to wish David and all of you a very blessed and special Father's Day tomorrow.
Jane Peterson <neal-jane_peterson@sil.org>
Duncanville, TX USA - Saturday, June 18, 2005 7:43 PM CDT

jason, i hope you are enjoying your new room...praying that you feel better soon.

hailee
melissa <angels4hailee@aol.com>
cavecreek, az usa - Saturday, June 18, 2005 1:14 PM CDT

Dear Jason and Family,
We are praying for God's blessings on you! Enjoy your new room, and we hope you start to feel better.
Krista, Anika (http://www.carepages.com/ServeCarePage?cpn=AnikaLeigh&seed=296487) and family <JavaSn0b@aol.com>
CA 92886 - Saturday, June 18, 2005 11:41 AM CDT

Dear Jason, Pam, David, and All,

I hope Jason is enjoying his new room, his time with Katie, and his video games. I also hope he is feeling better this week. God bless him!

I hope you family can have a special day on Sunday, from start to finish. David is a good and Godly man, who deserves to be honored this Father's Day. I hope David enjoys his family, his food, and his gifts this year. Please take lots of pictures, and post a few on this site.

I will be remembering Jason, and all of you, in Eucharist. The collect for the weekend is below my signature.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Proper 7, Collect For The Sunday Closest To June 22:

O Lord, make us have perpetual love and reverence for your
holy Name, for you never fail to help and govern those whom
you have set upon the sure foundation of your loving-kindness;
through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you
and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book of Common Prayer, Page 230

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Saturday, June 18, 2005 2:41 AM CDT

Hi Jason and Family,
Keeping all in prayers and thoughts!!! Keep fighting!!!God Bless!!!!
Prayers and Hugs,
LeAnn
LeAnn Mooneyham /the prayer bears/SunshineOnEagleWings/ <angel4God352000@yahoo.com>
Baxley, GA United States - Friday, June 17, 2005 11:55 PM CDT

Praying for healing.
June <junehumphrey@yahoo.com>
- Friday, June 17, 2005 7:48 PM CDT

Dear Jason, Pam, David, and All,

...Just stopping by to say "Hello!"

God bless you all!

Grace and peace,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, June 17, 2005 1:33 AM CDT

Hi, Jason, Pam, David, and all: Just checking in from under the X in Texas to say I'm thinking of and praying for you all. I hope you have a wonderful Father's Day weekend.
Jane Peterson <neal-jane_peterson@sil.org>
Duncanville, TX USA - Thursday, June 16, 2005 8:47 PM CDT

Hello Archers-

I hope this finds you readying for a Fathers Day celebration that feels right for all of you this weekend.

Jason, Justin, I offer this advice as a new Dad. Find some special way to let your Dad know how much he means to you.

I remember your family in prayer and wish you Peace. Happy Fathers Day and a wonderful celebratory weekend of family to all of you.
Jim and Lisa
- Thursday, June 16, 2005 8:03 PM CDT

Dear Jason, Pam, David, and All,

I will be remembering Jason at Eucharist tomorrow night and over the weekend.

I hope all of you can have a pleasant weekend together, celebrating Father's Day and that Jason will feel well, so he can totally enjoy the food, the fun, and the fellowship. Please take a lot of pictures. We would like to see some posted here on Jason's website.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

Psalm 16: 5-11
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, June 16, 2005 2:15 AM CDT

Dear Jason, Pam, David, and All,

I hope Jason has been having a good week. God bless him, and may grace, peace, and healing be with him.

I will be praying for Jason, when I am in church this week. I always remember Jason beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass, which was installed last summer. I also pray for your friends the Martins and the Hunleys from that location.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, June 15, 2005 3:31 AM CDT

Hi Jason,
I am so glad to hear that you are all
settled into your new room.We continue
to hold you very close in our prayers..
Trish/PrayerBears <Rrntbyr@aol.com>
Kingston, TN USA - Tuesday, June 14, 2005 3:52 PM CDT

Dear Pam,

As a mother of two boys, I can relate to your struggles over getting the boys all to church and the other things in your recent post. Try to relax and rest in God, rather than being frustrated over schedules and things, which will not matter in ten years, or probably even in one year. I am thinking of you, and of Jason, every day. God bless you all!

Happy Flag Day! And God bless all of our military personnel.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Tuesday, June 14, 2005 2:06 PM CDT

Hi Pam,
Just checking in on things and glad to hear Jason is settled in his room and Justin in his. Jason is definitely a strong young man and I'm sure he appreciates the love and support you provide him, even when taking the games away. As frustrating as it is to have to get them to go to church, it is one of those things that we reflect on as being lucky to be able to do. We mothers earn every wrinkle and gray hair that appears!!
Wishing you all a great summer and especially Jason to have his health to enable him to live, laugh and love - you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Take care,
Joan Boyle <jbcb@ videotron.ca>
Montreal, Quebec Canada - Tuesday, June 14, 2005 10:24 AM CDT

Jason,
Hi. Was thinking of you and wanted to stop by and check on you!!! Glad to hear you new room is done!!! Keeping you in prayers and thoughts always. God Bless!!!
Prayers, Hugs, & Love in Jesus,
LeAnn of The Prayer Bears
LeAnn Mooneyham /the prayer bears/SunshineOnEagleWings/ <angel4God352000@yahoo.com>
Baxley, GA United States - Tuesday, June 14, 2005 0:56 AM CDT

Dear Jason-More thoughts and prayers for you from Ohio! I keep checking on you and it sounds like you're feeling better which is so good to hear. My boys are 12 and 7 - and I think the 12 year old would stay up on his PS2 all night if I would let him! SOunds like video games are popular in your family, too, huh?! Have a great day today.
A friend in Ohio
- Monday, June 13, 2005 10:33 PM CDT

Reading about your weekend reminded me of my best friend who was blessed with three sons. I thought then (as I do now) that heaven must have a very special place for the mother of three teenage boys! :-) I'm glad Jason is settled in his new room...and it sounds like Justin is having fun in his...!! Love & prayers,
Jane Peterson <neal-jane_peterson@sil.org>
Duncanville, TX 75137 - Monday, June 13, 2005 10:26 PM CDT

My prayers continue for you Jason. It sounds like your new bed is comfy...that's good news.
Stephanie & RachelJoy <mom2rj@comcast.net>
- Monday, June 13, 2005 10:17 PM CDT

Dear Jason, Pam, David, and All,

I am glad to hear that Jason is settled and happy in his new room. It is wonderful that he has a comfortable, new, plush mattress. I hope it helps him to sleep well each and every night.

I am sure that Jason is glad that Katie is home from her family vacation. I hope they have many good times together.

I continue to pray for Jason, and for all of you.

Below my signature, I will add a prayer from St. Anthony, whose feast day is today. May God truly bind all of you together in love.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

~ A Prayer of St. Anthony of Padua:

Lord Jesus, bind us to you and to our neighbor with love.

May our hearts not be turned away from you.

May our souls not be deceived nor our talents or minds enticed by allurements of error, so we may never distance ourselves from your love.

Thus may we love our neighbor as ourselves with strength, wisdom, and gentleness. With your help, you who are blessed throughout all ages.

Feast Day: June 13

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Monday, June 13, 2005 2:07 PM CDT

Dear Jason, Pam, David, and All,

I am continuing to pray for Jason's healing and well being. May God bless Jason, and May God bless all of you, who love him!

Jason was remembered during Holy Eucharist and at a sacred concert at St. George's this week. I do think of him every time I am in our nave.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Monday, June 13, 2005 1:13 AM CDT

Hi Jason,
I just came by to check on you my friend..
I'm holding you very close in my prayers
and praying for a miracle for you..
Trish/PrayerBears <Rrntbyr@aol.com>
Kingston, TN USA - Sunday, June 12, 2005 11:43 AM CDT

Jason, I hope you're having a good time and are able to have time with friends, as well as relax. I hope the pain goes away and that you'll be able to start college.
~Love Leah www.caringbridge.org/va/katrina
www.freewebs.com/tacatac

Leah Nelson <ScorchingTundra@msn.com>
Raynham, MA US - Saturday, June 11, 2005 0:18 AM CDT

Dear Archer Family,
A friend of mine has updated me on Jason and your family. So glad to hear that Jason is doing better.

My brother-in-law was diagnosed with aggressive Hodgkin�s Lymphoma August 2002. He was in remission twice, 3 and 5 months. He�s had many chemo�s, hospitalization, had an auto stem-cell transplant which didn�t remove the lymphoma, had a toxic reaction to one of the chemo�s that put him in ICU for 8 days where we nearly lost him, and he�s been out of work several times, once for 14 months straight.

He returned to work this past February and takes chemo twice a month as the lymphoma is in his lungs. The doctors want him to do an allo-stem-cell transplant (use of donor) later this year which has a mortality rate of 30-40% the first year. They�ll have to move out of state for 8-9 months. He has a wife and two children age nine and six. We don�t know what the remainder of 2005 holds, but faith in God and prayer will get us through.

Several times friends and family questioned his recovery, but we didn�t. We kept praying, and continued to ask for everyone�s prayers and put him on prayer list after prayer list. God�s love and everyone�s prayers was the only thing that has pulled him and the family through these years. (3 years August).

We�ve seen miracles happen in our family and experienced God�s healing and His love.

My prayer for you and your family is for God to reach down His hand and touch your family. I pray that He sends his healing to Jason and to give your family strength during this trying time. I pray that God will give you all peace and understanding throughout Jason�s fight with cancer.

1 Thessalonians 5:17 Pray without ceasing.

Mark 9:23 Jesus said unto him, If thou canst believe, all things are possible to him that believeth.

Matthew 6:6 But you, when you pray, go into your room, and when you have shut your door, pray to your Father who is in the secret place; and your Father who sees in secret will reward you openly.

Luke 18:1Then Jesus spoke a parable to them, that men always ought to pray and not lose heart

Jam 5.16b Pray for one another, that you may be healed.

Matthew 21:22 And all things, whatsoever ye shall ask in prayer, believing, ye shall receive.

Jam 5.13 Is any among you suffering? Let him pray. Is any cheerful? Let him sing praise.

Keep the prayers going for Jason!
Roger

Roger Yates <roger.yates@hcahealthcare.com>
LaVergne, TN 37086 - Friday, June 10, 2005 11:26 AM CDT

Jason, I met you threw your story here on line. A very dear friend of mine her 8 year old son has the same cancer.
I will pray daily for you as I do Ian.
I pray for peace, comfort, & total healing.
Your new friend Linda (52)
Linda Mauk <lindamauk@yahoo.com>
Barstow, California USA - Friday, June 10, 2005 9:45 AM CDT

Dear Jason, Pam, David, and All,

I prayed for Jason beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window Thursday night. I pray for him each time I am in the nave.

I hope you all have a happy weekend.

God bless you!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S,A. - Friday, June 10, 2005 1:06 AM CDT

Just stopping by to check on your special family. Many thoughts are with you and many prayers are going up to the Father for you all.
Jane Peterson <neal-jane_peterson@sil.org>
Duncanville, TX USA - Thursday, June 9, 2005 11:15 PM CDT

Hello Archer Family:
You have been in my thoughts lately and I'd thought I'd let you know. It's great news about Justin. I continue to pray for him. Jason is always in my prayers. I wish some magic potion would appear and heal our children. Maybe someday....For now we leave them to God's healing hand.
Take care.
Connie - Mom to Jeff(21)
www.caringbridge.org/oh/jeffreyscott
Connie Guy <conguy2801@aol.com>
Twinsburg, OH USA - Thursday, June 9, 2005 3:53 PM CDT

You are in my thoughts and prayers!! :)
Kathy Randolph <randolph@interl.net>
Ft. Madison, Iowa - Thursday, June 9, 2005 6:51 AM CDT

Hello to all of you. You are all in my prayers. I was glad to hear the good news. I have found another relative in Ohio. I found her thru looking up the Troutman Genealogy. you will probably be hearing from her. Her name is Brenda Powell. She has given me tons of information about our family, and is sending me a picture of our Grandmother Mary Troutman. We need all the friends and family we can get at difficult times like this.

You are certainly one brave family. I am sure that God has great things ahead for all of you. Much Love and Pryars
Alma

Alma Troutman Huber <almathuber@aol.com>
Reading, Pa USA - Wednesday, June 8, 2005 9:41 PM CDT

WE pray for your family that our Lord Jesus will shine his healing hand over Jason and cure him of his cancer. I am a true believer in the power of prayer!!! Son, Josh, 20, a TC cancer survivor. You have a beautiful family. I love the "J" names. Our blessings to you all,
Jeff,Jane,Josh,Julie,and Jackie.

Jane Dunn <jdunn@peoriaud.k12.az.us>
Peoria, AZ USA - Wednesday, June 8, 2005 6:22 PM CDT

Jason,
I hope you had a good day today my
friend..We are holding you very close
in our prayers..
Trish/PrayerBears <Rrntbyr@aol.com>
Kingston, TN USA - Wednesday, June 8, 2005 4:48 PM CDT

Dear Jason, Pam, David, and All,

I put Jason's name on our Daughters of the King prayer list for June, at our meeting tonight. We have witnessed many healings, as we know you have, too. May God bless you all and give Jason grace and healing.

Jason's new room sounds like it is going to be awesome! May it be a place of rest and recreation for him for months to come.

God bless you all!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Wednesday, June 8, 2005 2:01 AM CDT

So glad to hear the good news about Justin. He is a very special young man, giving up his room for the blessing and benefit of his brother. I know God will bless him as well. What a great family you have! Glad to hear too about Jason's week at the beach and his activities since returning home. (But SORRY to hear about the sink and related plumbing problems! No fun!) Love in our Lord,
Jane Peterson <neal-jane_peterson@sil.org>
Duncanville, TX USA - Tuesday, June 7, 2005 10:17 PM CDT

That is great to hear about Justin. I am so glad Jason has been feeling better(even though he is tired) I keep up with your family on Rhabdo-kids, and I pray for you guys often. I am so glad you seem to have such a strong faith, I am not sure how anyone goes through this without one. www.caringbridge.org/tx/hayden
amanda phipps <amanda.phipps@comcast.net>
tx - Tuesday, June 7, 2005 9:52 PM CDT

Sending lots and lots of prayers your way....

http://www.caringbridge.org/az/hailee

melissa <angels4hailee@aol.com>
cavecreek, az usa - Tuesday, June 7, 2005 3:02 PM CDT

Thinking about and praying for all of you tonight,
Helenmary <Helenmary59@aol.com>
Gallatin, TN - Tuesday, June 7, 2005 2:17 AM CDT

Pam, Jason and Justin

I just read your update and I'm truly happy for Justin I know that is a huge load off your mind. Jason's room sounds very neat and all grown up! I'm sure he'll make some great new memories in that room! Just checking in on you all and know that you are always in my prayers!
Michelle - Emily's mom - www.caringbridge.org/tx/emilysfight & Rhabdo Kids ACOR
Mission, TX USA - Monday, June 6, 2005 7:41 PM CDT

Jason and Pam, I Know I don't know you personally, but I pray for your family daily. Cheri Spears keeps us updated with emails etc on you. I must say how much I admire your strength and faith in our Lord !! I'm strengthened every time I read an email from you. Please continue to trust in God for healing, for he is the GREAT Physician, and can heal. I will continue to lift you both and your entire family up to our Lord and Saviour. Thanks for a wonderful example of ultimate faith !!!!
Joyce Hodges <jhod5788@bellsouth.net>
- Monday, June 6, 2005 7:38 PM CDT

Justin,

I wanted to join you and your family as you celebrate some very good news. I have been in the Dr.'s office with one of my children as we waited for the 'news'. It is a very frightening feeling for the parent and I imagine even more so for the patient. God's blessings were on our child and it turned out to be something minor. I hope that minor will be a good way to describe your situation too.

If I read the latest news correctly, you are giving up your room for your brother. I'm very proud of you for giving up something that has been an important part of your life for several years. God's blessings will surely flow from the sacrifice you have made!

In Christian love,
Mr. Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Monday, June 6, 2005 2:33 PM CDT

Jason,

Been a while since I signed, but I haven't forgotten you. Just be patient and us 'old' people will finally get around to it. Besides, you were out having fun at the beach and I knew you probably weren't spending much time behind the computer!!

My wife and I were hosts to our church youth group last night. I had the opportunity to speak to them and this was the first time I had spoken to teens since becoming involved with Caring Bridge. I chose the subject of life's journey and talked about the obstacles and detours that face us along life's pathway. Some of those obstacles are there by our choice and others we have no control over. It would be great if we had total control over our journey, but rarely-if ever will that occur.

The one thing we do have total control over is our love and dedication to our heavenly father. Nothing and no one can alter our journey in that regard. I think it's comforting to know that God's promises are there for us if we but seek him. I know you have a strong dependence upon God. But, you are also human and as such may find it easy to become discouraged and frustrated when your journey isn't going as you would like. God is always there. He will never leave you to face the uncertainity alone.

I hope your path is full of the people who love you and care about you. I hope you are aware of God's presence in each step. And, I hope your journey will continue to inspire many of us who are amazed at your bravery, positive attitude, and desire to accomplish the will of God.

"All things work together for good...", Romans 8:28.

In Christian love,
Mr. Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Monday, June 6, 2005 2:27 PM CDT

God Bless You Jason. I Pray for You.
Rick Baker
Brentwood, TN USA - Monday, June 6, 2005 12:17 AM CDT

So happy to hear the good news about Justin!

Jason, you are such a fighter! Praying that more dreams of yours will be fulfilled!

Much love to the whole family!

The family at the Mark Schultz message boards continues to offer Jason up in prayer!
JoEllen Coney
St. Charles, IL - Monday, June 6, 2005 11:39 AM CDT

Jason-Still thinking of you and praying for you-I hope you have a great day today!
A friend in Ohio
- Monday, June 6, 2005 10:05 AM CDT

Dear Jason, Pam, David, Justin, Josh, and Jenny,

I am happy to read the good report on Justin and to learn of his continuing generousity toward his brother, Jason. It's easy to tell that the Archer youngsters have been lovingly and well raised.

I am also glad that Jason is doing as well as he is. I continue to pray for his well being and for his healing. Do not lose hope, especially hope in the Lord!

God bless you all! You were remembered before God, during Eucharist, at St. George's, this past weekend, as you have been, since I learned of Jason.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Monday, June 6, 2005 4:24 AM CDT

Abba Father...you said, "Ask" so we ask. By the cleansing power of the blood or our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, we ask that if it be Your will, that Jason would be healed. And we thank you and give all the glory and hononr to You!
The Crane Family
Ft. Myers, Fl US - Sunday, June 5, 2005 1:14 PM CDT

Hi Jason,
I hope you are having a pain free
weekend my friend..Holding you close in
our prayers..
Trish/PrayerBears <Rrntbyr@aol.com>
Kingston, TN USA - Sunday, June 5, 2005 12:34 AM CDT

Hey Pam and DAvid and Justin and Jason and Josh and Jenny-
You remain daily in our prayers. WE are thrilled about Justin, and it sounds like Jason is doing so much better.
Just know we pretty much pray without ceasing!
Love, The Myers
Greg, Berta, etc
- Sunday, June 5, 2005 8:03 AM CDT

Dear Archer family,
Wanted to stop in and say "Hi" and to let you know that I'm still praying and believing for a miracle. I hope you all have a great weekend. Hang in there.
Kathy Randolph <randolph@interl.net>
Fort Madison, Iowa - Friday, June 3, 2005 2:10 PM CDT

Jason, we are so glad that you had a good trip to the beach. We pray for you each and every day. Hope you enjoy your newly redecorated bedroom!
Tim and Robin Clouse <abn4ever@hotmail.com>
Pebble Beach, CA USA - Friday, June 3, 2005 1:34 PM CDT

Hi Jason,
I just stopped by to check on you my
friend..Holding you close in our
thoughts and our prayers..
Trish/PrayerBears <Rrntbyr@aol.com>
Kingston, TN USA - Friday, June 3, 2005 12:37 AM CDT

Jason
Glad to hear you had a good time on your trip an am keeping you very much in my prayers.
Sending love hugs & prayers your way.
Pam Sturgill / The Prayer Bears <psturgill@bellsouth.net>
- Friday, June 3, 2005 8:29 AM CDT

Praying for Jason's miracle.
June <junehumphrey@yahoo.com>
- Friday, June 3, 2005 7:49 AM CDT

Hi Jason,
I just stopped by to check on you
my friend..I pray your pain and nausea
continue to be less and less..Hang in there
Jason..Man's power is limited but the Lord's isn't
and we continue to pray for "Jason's Miracle"
Trish/PrayerBears <Rrntbyr@aol.com>
Kingston, TN USA - Thursday, June 2, 2005 9:49 AM CDT

I'm praying for your pain Jason, and for the good days of no pain to continue. I'm also praying for your family, for strength during this time, and for a miracle for you Jason. God can do great things!

The Prayer Bears
Prayer Bear Heidi <praying_without_ceasing@yahoo.com>
NM USA - Thursday, June 2, 2005 8:44 AM CDT

We are praying for you so much and thinking of you everyday , I wish there was something we could do to help to ease the pain .
thinking of you always

Maria and Sammy-Joe
The Liistro family <sammyjo2@bigpond.com.au>
Craigieburn , Melbourne, Vic Australia - Thursday, June 2, 2005 8:15 AM CDT

The Prayer Bears

Know we are praying for the peace and comfort that only God can give.
Bear Hugs,

Donna Boggs, Papa Bear�s Site <dboggs4newlife@yahoo.com>
Coeburn, Va - Thursday, June 2, 2005 6:56 AM CDT

Thinking about you all and praying for your family.
Linda Martin's friend Kathy
Sparks, NV - Thursday, June 2, 2005 6:52 AM CDT

Dear Jason,

I am glad to hear that you enjoyed your beach trip with your friends.... I know how much you had looked forward to it. I continue to uplift you in prayer, that the Lord will work a healing miracle in your life.

Hugs,
Sharon / The Prayer Bears <thronberrys@bellsouth.net>
Memphis, TN USA - Thursday, June 2, 2005 6:27 AM CDT

just prayed for
the tumors to
be benign...

sending you lots of love

Craig, Lauren, and Helen

CRAIGGY
helen <trula1@comcast.net>
- Wednesday, June 1, 2005 4:47 PM CDT

Dear Archers,
We are happy Jason was able to go on the beach trip. We are praying with you for a miracle.
Pam, what a beautiful prayer on Jason's site.
God Bless,
love, hugs and prayers,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Wednesday, June 1, 2005 3:02 PM CDT

Hi Jason,
I am happy that you were able to make this
beach trip my friend..We continue to pray
for a miracle for you..
Trish/PrayerBears <Rrntbyr@aol.com>
Kingston, TN USA - Wednesday, June 1, 2005 2:04 PM CDT

Dear Jason,
So many of the updates we have written are directed to your entire family that we thought we might add one just for you.
So, God's blessings to the Archers and may you know strength and Peace for all that you have been through and the challenges you face.

Jason, through your story and generously allowing it to be shared you have done so much good. Given strength to those deciding on what treatment(s) are best for them and at what pace to take them. Thank you.

Congratulations on the jet ski ride and photo - I hope that some day you can scan it in on your page.

Peace and good,
Jim and Lisa
Jim and Lisa
- Wednesday, June 1, 2005 10:59 AM CDT

Dear Jason, Pam, David, and All,

I am so pleased to learn that Jason was able to make the beach outing and that he had a wonderful time. God bless him and all of the kids that were there!

It is also good that Jason could spend him with Katie and her family and ride the jet ski. I am sure you treasure the picture of them.

I am continuing to pray for Jason. May he have his miracle!

Below my signature, I will add the collect for May 31, which is the Feast of the Visitation of the Blessed Virgin Mary to Elizabeth. I believe it says something important and encouraging for all Christians.

God bless all of you Archers and all reading these words!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~

FATHER in heaven,
by your grace the Virgin Mother of your incarnate Son
was blessed in bearing Him,
but still more blessed in keeping your word:
grant to us who honor the exaltation of her lowliness
to follow the example of her devotion to your will;
through Jesus Christ your Son, our Lord,
who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit,
one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~Book of Common Prayer
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Wednesday, June 1, 2005 1:56 AM CDT

I've been hearing that people can't get into my guestbook I think I fixed it now I hope.Thinking of you always.

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EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Tuesday, May 31, 2005 11:40 AM CDT

Jason and Family
Will continue to keep all of you in our prayers! The strength you have is amazing. Best of luck to each of you.
Any chance for new pictures? Especially the jet ski adventure? It just sounds like your friends give you alot of happiness right now. :0)Would be great to put a face to them.
Bill and Joanne
- Tuesday, May 31, 2005 10:42 AM CDT

Dear Jason,
It sounds like the beach trip was loads of fun and I'm sure you enjoyed the jet ski adventure. I am so happy for you.

You and your family remain in my heart and prayers. I still believe in miracles.
Love and hugs
Judy
http://www.catchanangel.com/
Judy Crawford <tnderheart@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, May 31, 2005 9:54 AM CDT

I'm so glad you had fun on the Beach trip Jason. You deserve a nice vacatione very once in a while.
Leah Nelson <ScorchingTundra@msn.com>
Raynham, MA US - Tuesday, May 31, 2005 5:00 AM CDT

Dear Jason, Pam, David, and All,

I hope Jason's trip to the beach was a memorable one for him. I also hope the entire Archer family had a blessed and happy Memorial Day Weekend.

I am thinking of you all! God bless each and every one of you, and God bless all of Jason's supporters and medical personnel.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette~
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Tuesday, May 31, 2005 1:24 AM CDT

Sure hope Jason had a GREAT time at the beach! Thinking about you,
Helenmary <Helenmary59@aol.com>
Gallatin, TN - Monday, May 30, 2005 11:07 PM CDT

Dear Jason, Pam, Dave, and family,
Thinking of you today and hoping that you are having a good holiday week-end. You are in my prayers.

Anne McClelland
Kingsport, TN - Monday, May 30, 2005 10:43 AM CDT

Dear Pam and Family This is Alma Troutman Huber. I am Earls
sister. I will keep your sons and the family in my payers and hope Jason enjoys the beach. Enyoyed the photos of your family. Gods blessings and lots of healing
Alma
Alma Troutman Huber <almathuber@aol.com>
Reading, Pa USA - Sunday, May 29, 2005 11:49 PM CDT

PAM WAS GREAT T0 BE WITH YOUR FAMILY AND OURS LAST WEEKIN NORTH CAROLINA HOPE JASON HAD A GREAT TIME AT THE BEACH WE WILL BE PRAYING FOR ALL OF YOU
RALPH AND ETHEL CRAWFORD <roanmtndachshund@wmconnect.com>
BAKERSVILLE, NC USA - Sunday, May 29, 2005 7:33 PM CDT

I hope all is well.
~Love Leah www.caringbridge.org/va/katrina
www.freewebs.com/tacatac
Leah Nelson <ScorchingTundra@msn.com>
Raynham, MA US - Saturday, May 28, 2005 9:18 PM CDT

We are praying for Jason's beach trip and keeping you guys close in our hearts!
Tim and Robin Clouse <abn4ever@hotmail.com>
Pebble Beach, CA USA - Saturday, May 28, 2005 11:17 AM CDT

Dear Archer family,
I hope Jason has fun on his beach trip!! I'm still praying and believing for a miracle. God loves you and so do we!!
Love and hugs,
Kathy Randolph <randolph@interl.net>
Ft. Madison, Iowa - Saturday, May 28, 2005 1:27 AM CDT

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