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It gives us great pleasure to watch your little munchkin grow up. And many laughs too. Love to you both - see you on hols.
Barbara, John and Sarah <pamas@bigpond.com>
Forest Hill, QLD Australia - Friday, December 22, 2006 3:47 AM CST

Hey - Desleigh - what an awesome effort you do each and everyday. Josh is doing so well and we all know why. Just wanted to share my great respect and love for YOU. Mark is 4EVER in our hearts and he IS watching over you and Josh! Just like my Mum is watching over me....
Janice. North Shore. Little New Zealand.
Jan Moylan. <symeez@xtra.co.nz >
Auckland., New Zealand. - Saturday, April 15, 2006 0:36 AM CDT

I'm really proud of you and Josh.
Luv

Lee
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Monday, January 16, 2006 9:31 PM CST

Hey Des, another year has passed, You have got through it really well, I know there has been the good with the bad, You have made some major decisions and achievements this year I think Mark would be proud. Hang in there and keep up with the Good.

Michelle <brengunn@tpg.com.au>
Brisbane, Q - Sunday, November 20, 2005 3:49 AM CST

Hello Guys,
It seems like ages since I have seen you and given you both a hug. I will be happy when all the winter bugs are long gone and our social life can resume normality. How are the chooks? Are you sick of 'scrambled' eggs yet??!!!! Will talk to you soon ....love Ker
Kerrie Corcoran <corkysmob@yahoo.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Thursday, September 15, 2005 4:44 AM CDT

Thinking of you and Josh

Hugs
Jen
Jenny B <jenny@qct.com.au>
- Thursday, August 4, 2005 0:26 AM CDT

Hi Des and Josh, It's great to hear your doing so well and josh is becoming a little boy:), you can soon throw those nappies away Des!!,LOL. Mark would be proud of you both Des, as I am to call you a friend?:)).

Mark <marcas62@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, June 11, 2005 12:53 AM CDT

hey des and josh,

think of you always

col, al and the girls.

x

Ballarat St folk... <col@qct.com.au>
- Thursday, June 9, 2005 7:47 AM CDT

here I am, After spending the day at your place I have spent the nite at Donna's, had a few toooooooo many, should have been here??????
Next time.
No More U2 for a while..
luv ya as usual

Shelley
Me <brengunn@tpg.com.au>
- Saturday, April 2, 2005 5:35 AM CST

Hello Des and Josh,
I missed not having a dose of you two this fortnight. You continually amaze me with your strength and effort especially when it comes to the disciplining Josh. You are very consistent and that is very important for the child to get the same continuity so they don't get confused and soon learn that you can only get away with so much. You are doing this at times when it would be easy to give in, especially as your very smart little lad knows which buttons to push to get your reactions. Well done !!! The strength you show is that of two people, in fact I think I have seen some 2 parent families take the easier option so pat yourself on the back Des, you are doing a great job!!!!!
Kerrie Corcoran <corkysmob@yahoo.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Thursday, March 24, 2005 3:58 AM CST

hey des and josh,
think of you always, thanks for the update in the journal

all our love

col, al and the girls.

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
col and al <col@qct.com.au>
- Friday, February 4, 2005 6:01 AM CST

Lots of thoughts for you and Josh.

Jen <jenny@qct.com.au>
- Tuesday, November 23, 2004 8:42 PM CST

Hi Des and Josh,
Love to you both.
You will never forget the sad, painful times when you and Mark fought so hard a fight.
But in time the good, fun, noisy, naughty, happy, exciting, fantastic, fabulous memories will push away the blue ones.
You and Josh should be proud of how you have faced the first year of life without Mark. I'm sure he is!!!
Love from Kerrie
Kerrie Corcoran <corkysmob@yahoo.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Saturday, November 20, 2004 4:07 AM CST

Hey Des & Josh,
He may no longer be on your bench, but he will be with you werever you go,
So pleased you had a nice day, & dien't over do it.
My thoughts were with you all day. Luv ya
Michelle <brengunn@tpg.com.au>
- Friday, November 19, 2004 7:59 PM CST

Hi Des and Josh,
My thoughts will be with you on Friday. I hope you spend it together and with others who care for you. My only advice is don't plan anything. Go with the flow and do what feels right. A visit to Mark's chair and time to sit there is probably a must. He will be watching over you both.
Julie Mother of Andrew forever 22 <julieb@tsn.cc>
Port Macquarie, NSW Australia - Wednesday, November 17, 2004 2:38 AM CST

Luv U

Lee <lkmcleod@optusnet.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Wednesday, October 20, 2004 7:02 AM CDT

Des do me a favour & be honest with yourself you know what I am talking about !!!!! you know we are here & come over any time I will take charge of the wild child, (make him sit in my hallway) You can be my computer wife any time you feel the urge my house is your house & I know you know that, If it all gets too much by yourself cross the road It is always easier to cry with someone who cares than by your self, & I have plenty of tissues & good shoulders, Plus nice food, wine etc. Please don't sit there by your self & be unhappy, You don't have to talk to me if you don't want just so you arn't sad by yourself as then it makes me feel that I am not there for you when you know that isn't true, You also know if you need time out Just ship Josh over here He can put up with me for a few hours, even the night if need be..
You know we all love you & you are part of the family, so come & be part of that family when ever you need it..

Luv ya heaps
Michelle xxx <brengunn@tpg.com.au>
- Monday, October 18, 2004 4:44 AM CDT

Hi Des and Josh,
Just checking up on you.
So sorry to hear about Ian's passing. I didn't know him but remember him from Mark's 'celebration of life' as his alien buddy....those bloody aliens and their probes, hey! Nice for Mark to get a 'buddy' as a present on his birthday.
Must go as our latest addition is getting restless.
Love Kerrie
Kerrie Corcoran <corkysmob@yahoo.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Sunday, September 12, 2004 6:00 AM CDT

Thanks for a great day yesterday, Had a ball..
Luv ya
michelle <brengunn@tpg.com.au>
brissy, - Tuesday, August 24, 2004 4:36 AM CDT

Luv U

Lee <lkmcleod@optusnet.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Tuesday, July 20, 2004 6:35 PM CDT

Hi Des,
Checked in and loved the photos of Mark's chair. It looks great and I am sure will give comfort to many. I am really looking forward to meeting you in person one day. It looks like we could down a few champers together....was that strawberries in your glass!!!! Andrew used to say the strawberries in champagne turned the ladies eyes red in any photos taken with glass in hand.
love to you.
Julie Mother of Andrew forever 22 <julieb@tsn.cc>
Port Macquarie, - Sunday, June 27, 2004 3:44 AM CDT

Not a day goes by that I don't think of Mark. I keep in contact with the lovely Desleigh, and know he is so proud of her. I am glad Mark is finally able to talk with my Mum, someone he used to have a good laugh with. Memories are precious and Mark is forever in our hearts.
Janice, North Shore, NZ..
Janice Moylan <symeez@xtra.co.nz >
Auckland, New Zealand - Thursday, June 24, 2004 2:55 PM CDT

dear des:
i came across your guestbook site whilst doing some research on the web.

wanted to say how touching your life events have been over the last 11 and a bit months.

i wish you all the future happiness with the memory of mark. i am so happy that you have photos and videos of mark for little josh to know just how much his dad adored him.

keep the site going, please!

best wishes
stas:)
stas
brisbane, QLD - Thursday, June 10, 2004 4:42 AM CDT

Hello Guest Speaker of the year. Did they know how dangerous it was to give you a microphone!!!! Well done on getting up in front of a group, public speaking is not an easy task no matter how much you love to talk......
I would be honoured to attend the unvailing/christening of Mark's chair and look forward to raising my glass to him and to the wonderful people who have donated the chair and to you and Josh for being survivors. Take care until then..Love Kerriexxx
Kerrie Corcoran <corkysmob@yahoo.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Friday, May 28, 2004 6:35 AM CDT

Nice to here that things are going well for you and Josh.
Will talk later, hope to see you soon.

Leicester & Rosalie
Leicester <lngawaka@optusnet.com.au>
wishart, Qld Austalia - Saturday, May 15, 2004 5:10 AM CDT

Hello Des and Josh,
I just want to say Hi and to let you know that every day you guys are in my thoughts. I may not talk to you often but know that I can't log on without checking out Mark's site, for news on you guys and to read other guestbook comments. Lunch was lovely the other day or should I say week, and you look great. Sometimes I know that looks can be deceiving as to how things really are. But know that you have lots of friends and family that care for you both no matter how far away they are.
Talk to you soon and do your best to avoid the winter chills
Love Kerrie
Kerrie Corcoran <corkysmob@yahoo.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Friday, May 14, 2004 4:29 AM CDT

Hi Des,
Finally, I am back online, after two months without my computer. I didn't realise how much I depend on it. Sorry to hear that you have both been so unwell. And poor little Joshie. It's awful when they are sick and they don't really understand yet. Des, don't feel guily about work - they will survive without you for one day and Joshie needs you more than they do.

The chair looks fantastic. I am looking forward to going up there but at the same time have mixed feelings about it. I know it will be very emotional. It's a poignant reminder of those precious and treasured memories you made with Mark when he was in hospital. Those weeks seemed at the time to go on forever. Mark kept his chin up and didn't complain and Des you did the best job to make him as comfortable and happy as possible. I'm so proud of you. I'd better stop rambling on. I don't want to get you upset.

On a lighter note, there is an ad on the telly that reminds me of Mark. That mechanic who gets the sack because his overalls are too clean. Not that Mark ever got the sack but I can remember whenever we visited on a weekend his overalls were always soaking in the laundry tub to get the stains out. He was very fussy about his overalls being spotlessly clean.

That's enough waffling on for one night.
Love to Joshie.
Take care & keep your chin up - you are doing a really good job.
Love
Lee
XXX

Lee, Harry, Max & Rachel <lkmcleod@optusnet.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Thursday, April 22, 2004 8:08 AM CDT

Hello Des and georgeous Josh,
Its been such a long time since i've written in the journal, its very emotional, almost like stepping back in time, although sad i'd go back just to hold Marks hand. Sorry, i haven't been to the journal as i knew i would be hard but somehow comforting to know i can read your feelings Des and i can express mine. This was always a place for some very profound words and a place of learning so much. Im missing you Des, We've all been so sick and im sorry to hear you a dn Josh have been so unwell. I hope we can all get better and spend some time together. I love the photos Des,( Bunnings has rolls of grass for $3.40 a roll) Any excuse to go to Bunnings. The chair is so beautiful, i cant wait to sit and watch the river, i think we will all feel very close to mark when we visit the chair. I love ya Des and Josh. I will see you both very soon.
alex riches <col@qct.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Monday, April 19, 2004 7:06 AM CDT

Des, the seat looks fantastic.
Hugs,
Jen
Jenny <jenny@qct.com.au>
Brisvegas, - Tuesday, April 13, 2004 7:34 PM CDT

Hi Des- I just wanted to say how great it was to catch up with you and Josh at Mt. Olivet today. Josh is just so cute and you are still as strong as ever. I have read through the story of your journey and found it so moving
Kaylene <kbaglee@bigpond.net.au>
- Thursday, April 8, 2004 2:49 AM CDT

Hi Des and Josh, been looking at all the emails, your so lucky to have so many freinds and im proud to be one of them.Happy birthday by the way you kept that quit:),Try and catch up with you one of these days for a coffee.I often think about mark and what he would be up to besides from anoying the shit out of meow meow!:)),But then again I can see mark flying around in his UFO with the cat on the dash board head bobbing up and down,(the cats head that is)sorry sounds a bit silly hey,See thats what i get from living in that unit with mark.(A true mate dearly miss).Take care Des and josh.
Mark Whelan <marcas62@hotmail.com>
Ipswich, Qld Australia - Saturday, April 3, 2004 4:59 PM CST

Hi Des, thinking of you often and how you are going. You write of Mark's ashes so I will tell you what we have done. We kept some of Andrew's ashes when we spread the rest at sea. Kenn and I had already decided that whoever had to deal with the death of the other would keep some ashes and when the other died the executor would be asked to mix them together and then scatter them. We have this romatic idea that we would still be together in some way then. So when Andrew died I kept some of his ashes to add to our mix. They are in a bright blue metalic drink bottle from the camping shop.......I found it hard to find something appropriate to store them and this seemed to be like his character. I also have a small amount in a salt shaker that his girlfriend will be taking to Ireland to scatter there. He had always wanted to visit our relatives there. Some might find all this weird but it gives us comfort. Andrew's birthday is on the 7th April and that is our next great hurdle.
Love to you and your son and it's great to hear that you have returned to work. Life does go on.

Julie Mother of Andrew forever 22 <julieb@tsn.cc>
Port Macquarie, nsw Australia - Wednesday, March 24, 2004 3:15 AM CST

Des you really are sneaky, so your 40th birthday aye. HAPPY BIRTHDAY you old duck welcome to the age of the big 4's.
I will see you real soon.
So pleased you have had a great time I bet Josh has had a Ball,

Michelle <brengunn@tpg.com.au>
- Friday, March 19, 2004 4:58 PM CST

Des you really are sneaky, so your 40th birthday aye. HAPPY BIRTDAT you old duck elcome to the age of the big 4's.
I will see you real soon.
So pleased you have had a great time I bet Josh has had a Ball,

Michelle <brengunn@tpg.com.au>
- Friday, March 19, 2004 4:56 PM CST

Dear Des
I'm glad you and Josh had a lovely Christmas. The stone looks lovely. I also want to thank you for the photo you sent, Very much appreciated.
Hope Sandy and I can catch up with you soon!!.
Take care
Love and Light
Joanne XXXXXX
Joanne <jo_briarwood @yahoo.com.au>
Brisbane, qld australia - Saturday, March 6, 2004 0:37 AM CST

Hey Desmond Tutu,
Read your entry today, and all I can say is "YOU GO GIRL". Looking forward to reports of the successful toilet training of Josh and the getting rid of the dummy project. Had such a lovely weekend with you both - will do it again when you get back.
Love,
Emma
Emma Swenson <eswenson@macrossans.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld - Tuesday, February 17, 2004 0:48 AM CST

Hi Des, I'm really looking forward to seeing you and the pocket rocket this weekend. The time seems to have flown by. I bet Joshy is a big boy now. It sounds like you've turned the corner on things. Well done, you've been so strong. We love you heaps and miss you even more!
Luv Mon
Mon
Mexico, VIC Oz - Monday, February 16, 2004 0:02 AM CST

hey there Des (& Cybil) I knoow she is there Des & that is fine, If Cybil needs to be with you for a while that is fine to as she needs to be there, Just hang on to the good times & eventually Cybill will get pissed off with everything nice in your life & leave but don't be in a hurry to push her out, as I believe she will leave when she & you are ready. I can cope with both you & Cybil...
& josh So hang in there, & keep up the counselling,
Love ya Michelle xxx
Michelle <brengunn@tpg.com.au>
Orange st, - Sunday, February 8, 2004 3:48 AM CST

Hi Des.
Enjoyed our chat today and from what you were saying I hope I personally don't get to meet Cybil!!!!
Thanks for making me laugh and see you soon.
xxxKerrie
Kerrie Corcoran <corkysmob@yahoo.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Tuesday, February 3, 2004 5:03 AM CST

Hey there Des & Josh, The stone looks really great !!!!!!

See ya tomorrow.

Luv Ya,s
Michelle <brengunn@tpg.com.au>
- Friday, January 23, 2004 4:18 AM CST

Hi Dessy and Josh, hope you're doing well. Not long to go now at all until we see you both. Only 1 month and two days...not that I'm counting or anything! I found out yesterday that I got in to uni studying Multimedia design. Not sure if I get to skip first year or if I can do it part time or not. The wedding plans seem to be going well, we're all looking forward to it. Having all the relatives around, especially our number 1 pocket rocket!
Miss you guys! Take care and big hugs and kisses. Sorry to hear about old Meow Meow (number 1 flea bag). I know she'll be sorely missed. At least Joshy can't eat her food anymore!

For everyone who remembers young Liam (Cherie's son) here's a link to some photos we took of him on Sunday. He thinks he's off to the Oktoberfest I think!
http://www.exa.com.au/~monika/ufe/liam

Mon

Life is good when Li Li is wearing a pair of lederhosen (German leather pants)
Monika
Melbourne, VIC Oz - Monday, January 19, 2004 5:10 PM CST

Desleigh, I have been reading your journal entries every week since I found out your darling man was ill. Will be sad not to read your entries but understand that you need to move on. You are truly an inspiration. When you start working again I bags a coffee one lunch hour with you to catch up since I haven't seen you since I left Corrs Chambers some years ago. Keep smiling!

Del Hardy <delly@ihug.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Tuesday, January 13, 2004 1:06 AM CST

Hi Des & Josh

I recently sent a message to your personal email address, not sure if you got it. Anyway just wanted to wish you all the best & know that I can be reached anytime at my email address that I check everyday.
I live on the south side brisbane and would love to catch up over a cup of coffee with our little ones (my Ryan turns 3 this May). My 35 year old husband has gbm and its going to be one year since surgery and diagnosis.

I do not mean to intrude but can understand the need to step away from the gbm world to try to get back to a normal life for yourself and your little Josh.

May God Bless both of you and be your guide and strength.
Love & Light
Pevinder
Pevinder <pevinder@yahoo.com>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Monday, January 12, 2004 7:23 PM CST

Hi Des,
Ditto what Kerrie said. It took a lot of courage to share your feelings and emotions with all of us through such a painful journey. Thanks for showing us what true strength of character means.

It will take a bit of getting used to - not logging on for our regular updates however I think it is a good sign that you feel strong enough to move on to the next phase in yours and Joshie's lives.

See you soon.
Love and kisses
Lee, Harry, Max & Rachel
Lee <lkmcleod@optusnet.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Sunday, January 11, 2004 5:37 AM CST

Dear Des,
Thank you for sharing your's and Mark's painful experience with us. Not only did it make us understand a small part of what you guys were and what you still are going through, it made us aware of what is most important in life... love, committment, reality and strength, to cope with all of it -the good and the bad.
I will personally miss not logging on for your Life is good thought... you Des are an inspiration and I am so proud to be your friend. I wonder what our two goosebump inducing angles are up to today?????
See you soon
love Kerrie Mick Clancy Flynn & Tully xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Kerrie Corcoran <corkysmob@yahoo.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Friday, January 9, 2004 4:30 PM CST

Hi Des & Josh
Wishing you a great new year! pray that all will work out well for the future. So sorry that it has taken me while to write from out here in bush Thailand. This the best Internet connection I have got since early Dec. We have been thinking of you guys. Still think of tha KIWI the day I picked him up from the that cockroach infested caravan almost 15 y ago! Cannot forget those memories! we are keeping fine, will be in OZ in late Feb for 4 weeks & will catch up. I don't think I have met Ian. I did know a Ian at Col & Alex's place years ago. Is it him? Best of Luck keep proding to the things ahead! Bless you guys Rudy & Lara
Rudy Rudresh <rudyrudresh@operamail.com>
Muang Phrae, Phrae Thailand - Tuesday, January 6, 2004 8:26 PM CST

Wishing Des, Josh, Cherie and all family and friends a very happy and healthy 2004.
Love from Kerrie Mick Clancy Flynn and Tullyxxxxxxxxx
Kerrie Corcoran <corkysmob@yahoo.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Monday, January 5, 2004 5:58 PM CST

Hello beautiful girl

Thanks so much for the boogie last Friday night. I had a ball, but maybe I drank a little too much.... not sure, might have to steal your digital camera though, I am sure there is something incriminating on there!!!! I have been praying for Ian. hope 2 see you again real soon. Will pop over for a visit (ie drink)!!!

Love Des
Desrae Eddington <desrae.eddington@phillipsfox.com>
- Sunday, December 28, 2003 11:40 PM CST

Hi Des and Josh

Watch out that you don't step in that "high horse poo-poo" which must be piling up in your back yard. I think everyone needs a high horse at some time or other in their lives. It is because of high horses alot of things are achieved in life.

Hope the jolly fat man is kind to you and all your friends.
Extra special christmas prayers for your friend Ian.

Love Kerrie, Mick, Clancy, Flynn and Tullyxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Kerrie Corcoran <corkysmob@yahoo.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Tuesday, December 23, 2003 1:42 AM CST

Dear Des & Josh

I was so pleased to see that the donation to floor 2 was so much!!!
Where I work there is a lady who is currently on leave from nursing on floor two. She explained as you did that the floor 2 people have to raise their own funds, that it isn't easy and that the staff put alot of time and effort into this. They are an amazingly dedicated and caring group of people, and I have made a promise that each year on the 8th of November I will not only dance with you, but I will also be donating to floor 2.
The chair is lovely and looks very comfy, a very good choice.
I will see Sandy and try to find out when we might be able to catch up in the New Year.
Greg says to make sure I say hi to you and Josh for him and to wish you both a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.
Take care and catch up with you soon.
Love and light
Joanne
Joanne <morningsidereal@froggy.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Sunday, December 21, 2003 10:48 PM CST

I saw this on a bill board once I think we all have all gain a lot of courage in the last year or so.

COURAGE, IS THE ABILITY TO FACE WHAT CANNOT BE IMAGINED....
Rhonda <danron@optusnet.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Friday, December 19, 2003 3:24 PM CST

I popped up to see Ian at the PA Hospital today. He is doing ok. He is scared because of what happened to Mark but he knows there are lots of different types of tumour and that we will just have to wait and see what happens. He is confused about who the doctors are (he can't remember their names), he is not sure, other than Dexamethasone, what drugs he is on and he knows they mentioned "cyst-something" but he can't be sure. I am a bit disappointed in the doctors for talking to Ian without someone else being there.

They are going to operate on Monday to remove it. Then they will send it away to be tested. We won't know the outcome for a couple of days.

I will keep everyone posted.
Desleigh <sorensen@powerup.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Thursday, December 18, 2003 10:08 PM CST

This quote was loaned to me from a good friend. I hope I can muster some strength for Ian.

"Life is good when we can muster the strength to use our painful experiences to help ease the pain of friends who are confronting difficult times.

Life is good when we can express our fears and know that our friends will listen and comfort."

Thanks Lynda, its beautiful

Desleigh <sorensen@powerup.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Thursday, December 18, 2003 5:31 PM CST

This message came from Roni this morning.

Ian is in the PA Floor 2, Ward C, Room 35, Bed 1.
He has the MRI done today and Lynn will let us know what happens from there . Will keep you posted.

I am going to pop up to see him today.

Desleigh <sorensen@powerup.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Thursday, December 18, 2003 5:28 PM CST

Dear Des, Josh & Friends
Great to see the site is up and running again, to catch up on what you have all been doing/experiencing (Kerrie, thank you so much for sharing your cousins message, I wonder who the old gentleman was? Perhaps Poppy,Mick loved him, maybe Elwyn? Im just so happy that he had someone to help him on his way, that he is no longer suffering).
I have found the past couple of days difficult at times, Mick is forever in my thoughts, I miss him so much.....
Des, sounds like the BBQ went well despite our chatting so long on the phone! Will phone you tomorrow.Love you, sweet dreams and lots of hugs to you and Josh.....nite L/C xxxx
Cherie Gage <sniffy@alphalink.com.au>
Melbourne, Vic - Wednesday, December 17, 2003 5:17 AM CST

hello all

Did someone say champagne???? I'm there!

Des
Desrae Eddington <desrae.eddington@phillipsfox.com>
Brisvegas, - Thursday, December 11, 2003 5:57 PM CST

Hey there you two, I think the bench is beautiful, I reckon Kerries Idea of the unveiling of the bench is a great idea,
Maybe you could do the bench dance (work on that one),
Pleased to see that you are busy & hanging in there, Holidays start tomorrow so will be able to go to the park with the kids, Will be great.
Take care, Luv ya heaps as always...

Michelle xxxxxx <brengunn@tpg.com.au>
Orange st, - Thursday, December 11, 2003 3:23 AM CST

Hello Des and Josh
Thanks for the lecture Des, nag, nag, nag..........
Love the chair, I think an offical unveiling of the plaques will be in order when the chair is secured in its place. Maybe a bottle of champagne or two and compulsary scotch and drys??? Not necessarily on the day it is put there but on a Sunday when a few of your mates can be there.
Keep smiling
Love Kerrie
Kerrie Corcoran <corkysmob@yahoo.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Thursday, December 11, 2003 3:09 AM CST

Thank you Kerrie and Soraya for sharing those special stories with all of us. Of course, I cried!

As long as we want to believe Markey's spirit is all around us I believe it will be so.

I do believe in Guardian Angels and Markey had all the right qualifications.

Des, you are doing a great job getting everything organised. I can't keep up with you!! I'm looking forward to seeing you on Wednesday.

Love
Lee

P.S. I have a couple of rooms that need organising if you still have any energy left!?!?

Lee, Harry, Max & Rachel <lkmcleod@optusnet.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Monday, December 8, 2003 6:43 AM CST

hey Des,
We just got back on line. sorry we have been out of touch for so long. Work has been intense and the kids committments also. So sorry you have been so unwell, im so glad you and Josh are feeling better. Its so good to be in touch with the site again, ive missed it so much as it has always been a connection with our Mark. Thanks kfor keeping it going i know it must be difficult as it is a very strong connection with all and everything you and Mark went through.

I just read the story of the clairvoyant and it sent an amazing feeling of sadness through me. I so want it to be real and i so want it to be my dad who came to him as i prayed that he would take care of Mark. I hope it was.I wouldl love to say it was comforting to know he was ok, but wounds are still healing and it all still hurts. I still do not know how you keep so strong but i will always admire you and respect the way you deal with all you have been through. Love you lots Des

Alex
XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Alex <al@qct.com.au>
brisbane, qld Australia - Monday, December 8, 2003 3:51 AM CST

Kerrie, I am so glad you shared that story, it was so beautiful � and of course I cried!

Des has asked that I post my story about Mark. I call it �My Butterfly Story�.

This was before Mark got really sick and was still at home. I had gone over to visit Dessy and Mark along with my boyfriend Donald for the day and also joining us were our good friends Ray and Joe. Mark was standing in the kitchen saying to the boys that he was going to �come back and haunt them�. Mark was laughing his head off � he thought he was quite amusing. I then walked out of the other room and said to him, �Mark, you come back as a beautiful bird or a beautiful butterfly just to let us know everything is okay�. He stopped laughing and looked at me and gave me one of his beautiful smiles. Words weren�t necessary.

On the morning that Mark passed away I walked to the bus stop as normal, at the time I didn�t know that Mark had left us and didn�t find out until I got to work. Where I catch my bus is over a little creek, I was looking down at the creek and then I noticed the most beautiful butterfly near the bank of the creek. It had a black outer edge and had the most electric blue colouring on the inside. I kept looking at it as it continued to flutter around, I thought to myself and don�t laugh when I say this, but I thought to myself it was trying to tell me something. Then I realised and said to myself, Mark is gone.

It wasn�t until I got to work that morning that Ray came around and broke the news to me. Through my tears I said to Ray that I saw the butterfly this morning � it came to let me know that Mark is going to be okay.

Love
Soraya

Soraya <Soraya.Nadeem@phillipsfox.com>
Brisbane, - Monday, December 8, 2003 0:43 AM CST

Dear Des & Josh

I am glad to hear you are feeling better. (That bug seems to be doing the rounds).
It is nice that the site is still going and I have been cathing up as often as possible. It made me go all goose bumpy when I read Kerri's tale, but then I knew Mark would find a way to let you know he was ok. It was comforting to know.
Hope Sandy and I can catch up with you soon. If not before Christmas then after.
Take care
lots of love and light
Jo
Joanne <morningsidereal@froggy.com.au>
Brisbane , Qld Australia - Sunday, December 7, 2003 5:45 PM CST

Hi Des!
Just wanted you to know that you & Josh are always in our thoughts. Sorry you've been so sick, but guess it's to be expected the strain you've been under. Contact you on our return from Melbourne 12/12/03. It's gear that we still have access to Caringbridge. Lotsa love from Anne & Christine.
Christine Tilley
Brisbene, Qld - Friday, December 5, 2003 6:28 PM CST

Hi Des and Josh,
It was great having a chat on the phone tonight and as requested by you I am here to let everyone in on our conversation. At this point I need to add that I believe in angels and the goosebumps that come with them!!!!

First, some background information.
I told Mark the last time we spoke to say hi to my mum (Jan)for me when he got to heaven, and then said that she would come looking for him so as to party with all the other riff-raff(at which he laughed).
My mum's sister (Annette) has this September had successful heart surgery after a 6 week stay in hospital.

Our Chat:
The day of Mark's farewell, in the afternoon, a close cousin of mine, Melissa,(Annette's daughter) went to see a clairvoyant, Betty at Mitchelton. She 'sees' the people she is talking about and names them by name a lot of the time. Anyway, first came Bill and Eric and at first Melissa was confused, until Betty asked had she been a nurse. The penny dropped. Bill and Eric where two old men Melissa looked after at the nursing home she worked at a few years ago. They both thanked her for the kindness she showed them. Then Betty said 'You have a Joan or a Jan here' Melissa said she knew a Jan. The message was that your mum has been very sick but she is going to be ok and that she has been with her during her illness. Then she said you also have a younger man, who is not known to you, but to someone you are close to and who has only very recently passed, in the last week or so. Betty then said that she was feeling dizzy which indicated that he died from a brain tumour. Melissa said that her cousin was at a funeral that morning of a friend who had died this way. Betty continued that he wants a message to his family - and here it is:

"He was met by an elderly gentleman. He's in no pain and feels better. He was a little lost at first but will be ok and wants his family to know he's fine and to tell them this"

After I stopped crying when I was told this I felt a real push to deliver the message. I now feel as though a huge responsibility has been lifted from my shoulders. I am also very honoured and proud to have been entrusted with this message. Thanks Markie, Thanks Melissa, Thanks Betty, Thanks Des for encourgaging me to share it with everyone else and for those of you who don't believe me to be a complete wacko, Thanks also.

Kerrie Corcoran <corkysmob@yahoo.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Friday, December 5, 2003 5:24 AM CST

Hi Des,
Just letting you know that I am thinking of you and Josh every day. I'm so glad you can come to the wedding, you will have a great time, and seeing you and the lad again will make it an even better day for us. Miss you Des. Take care.
Steve
Steve Herrmann <stonka77@hotmail.com>
Melbourne, Vic Australia - Thursday, December 4, 2003 2:15 PM CST

Hey Des

Can't wait to see you tonight.... Rest up today!! I hope that wine is cooling. love ya babe.

Des
Desrae Eddington <desrae.eddington@phillipsfox.com>
Brisvegas, - Wednesday, December 3, 2003 5:35 PM CST

Hey Des,
Thanks for dinner, was a real treat. Felt Marky with us all the time.We have to do that often, promise me. Have a lovely stay a Lee's.

Michelle, Thanks for dinner, you are a great cook, love to have a curry with you any time.

Lee, You write like your sister, full of feeling and like a real poet, i loved it, you are a beautiful person, ytou and your sister alike. stay well, see you soon, have fun with Des and Josh,

Bye

Alex
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Alex riches <al@qct.com.au>
brisbane, qld Austria - Saturday, November 29, 2003 4:10 AM CST

Hello everyone
I only have one question.
WHERE DO YOU GET ONE OF THOSE CUPPA'S???!!!!
Love Kerriexxx
Kerrie <corkysmob@yahoo.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Friday, November 28, 2003 4:42 PM CST

Lee that poem was beautiful, Brought tears to my eyes..
Des was nice catching up with you (& Mark) today. Thanks for the cuppa I really needed that (better than sex)
Hope dinner was nice with Alex & Colin, Not toooooooo much wine & strawbs I hope.
Luv ya

Michelle
Michelle <brengunn@tpg.com.au>
- Friday, November 28, 2003 3:55 AM CST

Lee Lee

What a beautiful poem!!

I cried.....

Love
Soraya

Soraya <Soraya_Nadeem@phillipsfox.com>
Brisbane, - Thursday, November 27, 2003 11:23 PM CST

Hey Des, Al here, i know ill see you tonight but it is comforting to write to you on the site as it has been a very big part of our lives for so long. Im sure there are many that feel the same. I love the entry today (friday), you are such a card, you need to be dealt with.

I hope that when i make the next cuppa for you you dont think im coming on to you, Ha Ha Ha you are funny.

love you lots, Mark is never far from our minds, memories , hearts or plans he will always have a space in our lives as we will never ever forget him.

see you for dinner

Alex
Alex <al@qct.com.au>
brisbane, qld Australia - Thursday, November 27, 2003 11:05 PM CST

Hi Des,
Julie from Wangaratta here and catching up. Glad to read that you are doing OK. We are busy packing up the house and having people coming to look at it. We hope to have it sold within the next week or two. I am also busy packing up my classroom. It seems strange not being part of the planning for next year.
We are still having our moments. Packing up brings new finds; things that meant something to Andrew or things that he has written. Last year's Mother's Day card really brought on the tears.....
Anyway enjoy the sunshine and look forward to new memories.
love Julie.
Julie mother of Andrew forever 22 <brown.julie.j@edumail.vic.gov.au>
Wangaratta, vi Australia - Thursday, November 27, 2003 7:16 PM CST

Markey's Patch

Markey has left a patch attached to Dessy's heart.
It won't ever go away as it's been there since the start.
The start was when they first met as neighbours over the back fence.
They developed a friendship that grew and grew and have been together ever since.

Mark's passing of this earth won't change much - the Patch will still be there,
As it has been sewn with love and kindness - stitch by stitch every year.
This indelible imprint on Dessy's heart will never fade away.
Darling Josh will make sure of that as he grows more like Mark everyday.

But if the pain of Markey's Patch seems too much to bear,
Des, you can turn to us - your family and friends who care.
For (in his own words!) he was not of this earth - you could tell,
He was really just in training for his role as (Des & Josh's) Guardian Angel.

Des, the pain will soften as the Patch will slowly heal,
But it won't ever go away and now and then you will feel,
A little pull, a tug, a twinge - especially after dark,
And it will be a reminder of your beautiful life with Mark.

All my love
Lee

Lee <lkmcleod@optusnet.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Wednesday, November 26, 2003 5:45 AM CST

Hi Des & Josh
Just catching up with the site, love those photos we took on Sunday morning, wasn't it a special time to spend together? Billy's Mum is going to love having Mick next to her, looking out at that beautiful view and having a good laugh. I feel so flat and empty today, miss you all, miss Mick. Need to thank all the wonderful people that helped Des, Josh and I through the past four weeks, Your love and support has been tremendous, without you guys we really couldn't have done what we did. Thank you, I love you all.
Des,will phone again tomorrow. Sleep peacefully, Lots of hugs and kisses to you and the "pocket rocket".
Love Cherie & Liam
xxx
Cherie Gage <sniffy@alphalink.com.au>
Melbourne, Vic Australia - Monday, November 24, 2003 6:33 AM CST

hello des

Friday was beautiful wasn't it. I know I was sad but I had a good feeling too that Mark was in such a better place and he was there with us all.

I am going to come and visit you in the next couple of week ends. So watch out!!! I know where you live.

Love heaps and heaps, you know the number!

xxx des
desrae <desrae.eddington@phillipsfox.com>
Brisvegas, - Sunday, November 23, 2003 6:48 PM CST

All Is Well

Death is nothing at all,
I have only slipped into the next room
I am I and you are you
Whatever we were to each other, that we are still.
Call me by my old familiar name,
Speak to me in the easy way which you always used
Put no difference in your tone,
Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow
Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we enjoyed together.
Play, smile, think of me, pray for me.
Let my name be ever the household word that it always was,
Let it be spoken without effect, without the trace of shadow on it.
Life means all that it ever meant.
It it the same as it ever was, there is unbroken continuity.
Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight?
I am waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near,
Just around the corner.
All is well.

Henry Scott Holland
1847-1918
Canon of St Paul's Cathedral
Jen Nixon
- Sunday, November 23, 2003 11:31 AM CST

Hey Des,
Al here, well, what an amazing day it was! Did we give Mark a send off or what. It seems like no time at all when we would talk with Mark and he would be telling us how it would be, just have a party he said, so we did.

I know Des that it is going to be very hard to adjust now that Cherie has returned home, dont fret, please, allow us to be there for you, I have keys remember, so ive got cart blanc visiting rights. I mean it really Des, Col and I will be with you every day to help you , a new life is not necessarily a bad life, you have so much to do, your tasks on this earth are not done and you must strive to do them.You have all our love and support, we love you Des.

hang in there Des, we cry because we can, see you tomorrow.

Love
Al
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Alex <al@qct.com.au>
Brisvegas, Qld Australia - Saturday, November 22, 2003 7:55 AM CST

Dearest Desleigh,Josh,Cherie & family, you must all be exhausted and deep in dreamland as we write this letter. We have photos of you & Mark & baby(!) Josh in several rooms - so you are & have been in our thoughts so much. How we wish we could have been with you to pay tribute to Mark the Beloved. I guess there were enough words to make up for all those we always wanted him to speak! I(Wendy))have a lovely memory of us all on the train to Kuranda. Mark had his earphones on - tired of our chatter? - and I caught his eye and without a smile he said," They send their greetings". It was our private joke and it still delights me. Rest well now, Friend, and catch up with yourself and Josh. We love you lots 'n lots! Wendy, Relle & Bea
Wendy de waal, Lorelle Fulcher, Bea Wilms <wenbea@telkomsa.net>
Harrismith, F.S. South Africa - Friday, November 21, 2003 2:28 PM CST

Dear Desleigh,

I feel as though I know you because I have been silently tracking Mark and your family. I say silently although really it has been with much prayer and admiration as to how you handle everything with such beautiful spririt and love. Mark was very lucky to have you by his side. My condolences to you for your great loss and may God bless and comfort you now.
Vonda Evans <vevans@darkwing.uoregon.edu>
Springfield, OR USA - Friday, November 21, 2003 11:37 AM CST

Dear Des,
Today at Mark's farewell and just before the balloons were released I had major goosebumps, which as you know, to me means I was hugged by an Angel. How beautiful!! Hmmmm! I wonder who that Angel was????
Be proud Des of who you are and what you have achieved, because that is what we, your friends feel towards you.
Let's have that cuppa next week or wheneva........
Love to our little screamer Josh, Tully and him in a room together will be deafening...can't wait!!!!
Sleep well tonight
Love Kerrie Mick and kids
Kerrie Corcoran <corkysmob@yahoo.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Friday, November 21, 2003 4:34 AM CST

Hey Des, Cherie, & all of you other rellies, I just want to say that today wasa beautiful day & I am so proud to say that I am friends with a great bunch of people you all continually amaze me..
The funeral today was so beautiful, You all did so well.
Stay brave & strong, But keep up the moments they are great for the soul..
Des when I left you were asleep on the chair with Jack & you both looked beautiful..
Love ya heaps & in your words
LIFE IS GOOD
when you can say goodbye to your partner with all your family & friends... It was special & great & I will never forget such a beautiful day....

MICHELLE <brengunn@tpg.com.au>
Orange St, Runcorn - Friday, November 21, 2003 4:29 AM CST

Dear Des & Cherie & the whole house full of rellies,
Today was such a beautiful day. We said goodbye to Markey just the way he would have wanted. The Service was so wonderful - beautiful words and poems and each of you that spoke of Markey did so in a lovely way.

I especially loved Markey's own speech that Cherie read so well. That was so special to hear his own words.

Everyone who came back to your house did as Markey requested and checked in their tears at the door and laughed and celebrated Markey's life. It was so nice.

And Markey ordered perfect weather too. A perfect day.

You have done such a wonderful job, Des, you and Cherie - looking after Markey and now laying him to rest peacefully.

Des, now it's time to enjoy being Joshie's Mum and spend time looking after yourself and not feeling guilty about that. That's what Markey would have wanted.

Stay strong and all your family and friends are here for you whenever you need us.

We love you.

Lots of Love

Lee
Lee, Harry, Max & Rachel <lkmcleod@optusnet.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Friday, November 21, 2003 3:04 AM CST

Dear Des and family, one more bright shining star in the heavens now - God bless you all.
Bill de Waal <bdewaal@iafrica.com>
Pretoria, Gauteng South Africa - Thursday, November 20, 2003 7:24 AM CST

Hi Desley good to see you are all well and coping as for Josh if he is hungry give him a watermelon that should do till tea time if not give him two (laugh) all our love.
maureen and graham jefferies <graniegrey@ozemail.com.au>
Gold coast , - Wednesday, November 19, 2003 11:10 PM CST

Dear Des
The plants are a beautiful idea.
Greg and I can bring 5 chairs in the back of our wagon. Take care
lots of light,Love and hugs
Joanne
Joanne <morningsidereal@froggy.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Wednesday, November 19, 2003 9:47 PM CST

Dear Des
All my love to you, Josh and your families at this sad time.
Mark was a special person to so many people and the world was richer place for his presence and he will be missed greatly. I am proud to have known him.
You are a beautiful lady and too are loved by so many, so don't be afraid to ask for help and don't be afraid to laugh and cry and heal.
He will be with you always, in your heart, in your memories, and in the hearts and memories of those around you.
A bright star in the heavens now shines especially for you and little Josh.
Take care lovely lady.
Love and light always

Joanne <morningsidereal@froggy.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Wednesday, November 19, 2003 5:37 PM CST

Des, Josh & Cherie

Expressing heartfelt sympathy
In the loss that you must bear
And may you find some comfort
In the thought that I care

Beaming out loads of hugs.

Love Teena
Teena Speedy <Teena@clear.net.nz>
Auckland, NZ - Wednesday, November 19, 2003 4:52 PM CST

Des & Josh

Sincerely thinking of you both and know Mark walks beside you.

A rose once grew where all could see,
Sheltered beside a garden wall,
And, as the days passed swiftly by,
It spread its branches, straight and tall...

One day, a beam of light shone through
a crevice that had opened wide -
The rose bent gently towards its warmth
then passed beyond to the other side ...

Now, you who deeply feel its loss,
be comforted - the rose blooms there -
its beauty even greater now,
nurtured by God's own loving care.

from Auntie Cath, Uncle Sonny and Mark's cousins (Brian, Maleta, Teena and Tracy) from NZ.
Auntie Cath & Uncle Son <s.stephen@clear.net.nz>
Auckland, NZ - Wednesday, November 19, 2003 4:49 PM CST

Darling Cherie

Very very much in our thoughts. Chin up sweetie. 'Right now' he'll be having a good old chat with Lance.

I want so much to help you and to be there for you now.
To comfort you through all of this, if only I knew how,
And though I know you have so much to go through on your own.
My hands and heart reach out to say you'll never be alone.

Love & thoughts from Auntie Cath, Uncle Son and the rest of our clan xxxxxxx

Auntie Cath & Uncle Son <s.stephen@clear.net.nz>
Auckland, NZ - Wednesday, November 19, 2003 4:45 PM CST

Hey Des and Cherie
I have been reading the entries from your (and Mark's) worldwide support network, and all I can do is echo the thoughts of your many admirers. Des, speaking to you yesterday I could still hear the strength and courage in your voice. You, Cherie, and of course Mark have been through an amazing journey, and Mark is now (finally)able to rest. Looking forward to delivering hundreds of hugs tomorrow, and helping you to start the next part of the journey.
Lots of love from all of us, to all of you (and a long distance hug to the biggest sparkly star, Mark),
Emma, Curt and Jasper xxxooooooooooooooo
Emma Swenson <eswenson@macrossans.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Wednesday, November 19, 2003 4:43 PM CST

To my dear Mark, Till we meet again my friend.
Barb <bamills@ozemail.com.au>
Forest Lake, QLD Australia - Wednesday, November 19, 2003 3:59 PM CST

Hi Des,Josh,Cherie and Liam,

What can we say at this time?
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

"Some people come into our lives and quickly go
Some stay for a while and leave footprints on our hearts
And we are never the same" - author unknown (to me)

(I'm am so glad to have Mark and your footprints on mine.)

Love Kerrie, Mick and family xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Kerrie Corcoran <corkysmob@yahoo.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Wednesday, November 19, 2003 5:23 AM CST

Dearest Desleigh, Peace at last for Mark, and Divine healing! typing this through my tears. Relle doesn't, or can't write and Bea is away. You know that we long to be with you and help carry the load. We can't and so we're SO GRATEFUL to all the wonderful folk who have supported you & Markus Aurelius all this time. We will be with you in thoughts and prayers on Friday your time, and will have a drink for Mark afterwards. Des dear, if there is any way we can help, let us know, please. Any time you can get over for a holiday - we're your African family. We'll keep in touch through the webpage and your email. May you know the comfort of God through His Holy Spirit. With love, Wendy, Relle & Bea
Wendy de Waal, Bea Wilms & Lorelle Fulcher <wenbea@telkomsa.net>
Harrismith, Fs South africa - Wednesday, November 19, 2003 5:14 AM CST

Dear Des,
I'm so sorry for your loss.
My father (64 y/o) was diagnosed on july.
I will pray for Mark, for my father and for all who fought or are still fightin this terrible desease.
I'm with you.
Stefano, from Ravenna (ITALY)
Stefano <stey@email.it>
Ravenna, Italy - Wednesday, November 19, 2003 5:04 AM CST

This will be one of many.
Happy Mark will be seeing my Mum.
They had great conversations before and can do again.
Thanks Mark for all the great memories, looking forward to seeing you again, one day......
LOVE JANICE AND LEROY. XX XX XX XX XX XX XX XX XX XX XX XX.
Janice Moylan <symeez@xtra.co.nz >
- Wednesday, November 19, 2003 2:08 AM CST

Dear Dessy, Josh and family

My deepest sympathy. I am very sorry to hear about the passing of Mark. You are all wonderful people
who have been so strong during this difficult time.

Love Hugs & Kisses
Tracey
Tracey Cox <Tracey_Cox@corrs.com.au>
Brisbane, QLD Australia - Wednesday, November 19, 2003 0:47 AM CST

To my beautiful friends Dessy and Cherie

Remember Dessy what I wrote in my letter to you and Mark.

It's not good bye forever - just goodbye for now - for we will meet again.

Thinking of you all
Love
Soraya

Soraya Nadeem <Soraya_Nadeem@phillipsfox.com>
Brisbane, - Tuesday, November 18, 2003 11:32 PM CST

Dear Des and family
Thankyou for your journal and contribution to the OZBT List. Your contribution has helped me immensely in dealing with my dad's current journey. I wish you and your children every health, happiness and good fortune in the future. I will be saluting Angel Mark Sorensen above for his amazing journey. Regards, Tina (from the OZ BT List)
Tina
Adelaide, SA Australia - Tuesday, November 18, 2003 9:38 PM CST

Des, Josh and the rest of the family

I'm so sorry to hear that Mark left us this morning, but as everyone has been saying, he is in a wonderful place free from pain.

�Perhaps they are not the stars,
but rather openings in Heaven
where the love of our lost ones
pours through and shines down upon us
to let us know they are happy.�

Eskimo Legend

Mark, may you fill the night skys with galaxies of stars....

Love to you all and see you Friday.

Julie and Bruce

Julie <julie@mostlyunderwater.com>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Tuesday, November 18, 2003 9:30 PM CST

Des
I am so sorry. Mark was a shooting star lighting up everything in a beautiful trail of light behind him.
I will miss him a lot,
Jen
Jen B <jenny@qct.com.au>
Brisvegas, - Tuesday, November 18, 2003 8:58 PM CST

Dear family and friends of Mark,
I was saddened to read of Mark's death. His valiant struggle is over and he is now free from pain. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time.
God Bless, Mary Clare
Mary Clare Hurt <QMB28@aol.com>
Parma , Oh USA - Tuesday, November 18, 2003 8:13 PM CST

Des & Josh

We are truely sorry for the loss of Mark. Our thoughts and prays are with you always and forever.

Love always
Terry Fran and Tianna

Fran Gaskon <frangaskon@optusnet.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Tuesday, November 18, 2003 8:13 PM CST

Desleigh

I'm so sorry!! Mark is in heaven watching over you and little Josh now - so everything will be o.k. You are the most amazing person I know and it makes me feel good knowing that you have so much wonderful support from such wonderful people. Everyone is here for you Dessy! We love you very much and from everyone at work - we are thinking of you today (and everyday).

See you on Friday! Can't wait to give you a big hug.

love des
Desrae Eddington <desrae.eddington@phillipsfox.com>
- Tuesday, November 18, 2003 7:11 PM CST

Dear Des & Cherie,
I can't even find the words to express my sorrow for your (our) loss. Markey is with the Angels now where he will feel no more pain. May he be at peace now and may we see him in that better place someday.

We are sending all our love to you and we are here whenever you need us.

See you soon when I bring your precious Josh home to his darling Mum to re-start your lives together again as a family.

Love you heaps

Lots of Love
Lee, Harry, Max & Rachel

Lee, Harry, Max & Rachel <lkmcleod@optusnet.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Tuesday, November 18, 2003 6:25 PM CST

Dear Des
I saw Josh with his Daddy tonight and he gave him big kisses on Markey's face and gave Markey hugs and sighs. The image brings tears to my eyes and I can't help wondering why? Why? It's so unfair. I can't imagine the torment you have been through over the last 16 months. You have been so brave and strong. I admire you for that. And through all this gorgeous little Josh has Mark's beautiful spirit. I know that when I watch Josh.

It is my privilege and honour to look after Markey and your most precious asset while you tend to Markey when he needs you most. Thank you for letting me look after Josh.

I'm still praying for a miracle.

You and Cherie are doing a wonderful job looking after Markey before you hand him over to the Angels. I can't imagine how hard that will be for you.

I love you and I'm so proud to have you as my sister.
Lots of Love
Lee

Michelle,
Thank you for updating. We are all hoping there is more news each time we log on. Maybe we are all quietly hoping for a miracle! And thanks for looking after Josh on Sunday and Monday nights. I'm glad you live so close to Des. I appreciate the help and love you have given to Des during these hard times.

Love
Lee

Lee, Harry, Max & Rachel <lkmcleod@optusnet.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Tuesday, November 18, 2003 7:46 AM CST

Hi Desleigh and Cherie

It was nice to visit both of you and Mark the other day. You are all in the best of care at Mt Olivet. As I think I said to your two Dr friends - the staff are are there because they see their job as a vocation and the Dr joked and said I probably meant "vAcation" not "vOcation".
I know it is very difficult but you will get through it and Mark will be in a better place to be met by all the other brain tumour warriors who have fought this fight with strength and courage.

Prayers and best wishes.
Denis Strangman, h/o Marg 1946-2001 gbm iv. <string@hotkey.net.au>
Canberra, ACT Australia - Tuesday, November 18, 2003 5:43 AM CST

We have had great thoughts and talks of you all today. We love the relationship to Pharlap too.. We send our love and thoughts and hope Mark is sleeping peacefully. Des & Cherie you are very amazing ladies and I think of you that every moment allows
jennifer lindsay and Casey
jennifer ingham <caseyjr@optusnet.com.au>
- Tuesday, November 18, 2003 4:45 AM CST

Des,
You just amaze me. Your strength and your love shine like a beacon into this world. You are such a special person and your and Mark's experiences have helped me understand about what is important in life. Thank you.

Please know that you are all in my heart as you continue along this most difficult journey.

Your courage, love and humour have kept you strong and have worked to keep others around you strong as well.

Every journal entry that you have shared along the way is just amazing. Thank you for allowing us the opportunity to be there with both you and Mark.

Jen xx

Jen B <jenny@qct.com.au>
BrisVegas, - Tuesday, November 18, 2003 3:28 AM CST

Hi Des & Cherie
I wish I could say something to brighten your moments. I wish I could comfort you both. I wish I could make this all go away. My heartfelt thoughts are with you both and with Mark. Loads and loads of love - Teena
Teena Speedy <Teena@clear.net.nz>
Auckland, NZ - Tuesday, November 18, 2003 1:04 AM CST

A memory of Mark -
Des&Josh (Oct. 1995) 'I'm an alien,' you said. I guess my mouth hung open - this was our first chat in your marriage preparation counselling! Des was watching Bea make her wedding caftan (8pm - 5am!)and we had a chance to talk.

You sat across from me -
relaxed
quiet
waiting
for the girl you were soon to marry. You told me slowly, strangely to my ear, that you were not from this world.

and though I laughed, I listened -
and as I listened, watched you and
through time and on two continents
came to know you alien to
this loud, and noisy, crazy, hurting world -
For you were and are so different -
quiet
relaxed
and gentle. (wendy)
My dearest friends, So many wonderful memories come flooding back : teasing and fun, health and strength, raucous times and those of long silences, just sitting and watching the bush (on both continents)fly by. Remember how Mark turned around without really explaining, knowing our passion for birds, when he spotted the three wedge-tailed eagles between Alice and Uluru ? Pictures caught in film but more precious, in our memories. We are praying that you, our dear dear friend will go gently and quickly to be with the Lord. Desleigh and all with you - may you know God's peace and comfort. We'll be away on leave in different parts of RSA but will do our best to go to Internet cafes to get updates. Wendy's cell number is 0826532475 without code. Lots and lots of love Bea (and Wendy)

Wendy and Bea <wenbea@telkomsa.net>
Harrismith, FS RSA - Monday, November 17, 2003 5:17 PM CST

Dear Girls and little fellas, just a quick note to say hello and I'm thinking of you all. You've become like a Kylie song these days "I just can't get you outta my head"! Finally made it back to work today after 4 days in bed, still coughing up a lung though. But that's nothing compared to what you guys are going through. You're so strong, so brave and so funny. It's such a pleasure to be related to you both. Give a big kiss to Mark, Joshie, Liam and "the guys" and of course each other. Phew that's a lot of kisses! XXXXXXOOOOOOOOOOOOXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXOOOOOOXX
Mon
Melbourne, VIC Oz - Monday, November 17, 2003 4:11 PM CST

My heart feels for you!
Raymonde Tays <lenray76@aol.com>
Niagara Falls , ON Canada - Monday, November 17, 2003 4:06 PM CST

Dear Dessy, Mark and Josh

As always I am thinking of you all and hope that Mark is continuing to be pain free. Dessy I am always a phone call away if you need anything at all. Stay strong and heres a big huge hug.... Muah

Des
Desrae Eddington <desrae.eddington@phillipsfox.com>
Brisvegas, - Monday, November 17, 2003 0:56 AM CST

A late night check-in. How are you Des, Cherie & Mark? We gave the folk at church an update and many people in Harrismith are praying for you all. Relle arrives tomorrow (17/11). How we wish you were all on the plane and we could go find those korhaans with the funny mating display. Have you done it for Mark recently, Des? you fill our thoughts and our prayers are said for your peace& strenghth. God is answering - you are hanging in there!. Take care of yourselves - you are doing an incredible job. This is what love is all about! Lots of hugs and love - Bea & Wendy
Bea Wilms & Wendy de waal <wenbea@telkomsa.net>
Harrismith, FS South Africa - Sunday, November 16, 2003 2:52 PM CST

To (... my sister-in-laws) Desleigh and Cherie and of course my nephews Joshie and Liam.
Stacey and I appreciate you finding the time to let us know news as it comes. We are so far away and so many years have past but I shall not forget the times that Mark and Lance put (not sure if it was yours Cherie, or your mums)cuddly toy in the freezer. Sometimes they would roll that poor stuffed dog in breadcrumbs and put him in the fridge on a plate ready for mum to find it. They would roar with laughter when Helen discovered it. What are brothers for aye.
Anyway we do very much appreciate all of your news and one word of advice, PLEASE REMEMBER TO EAT LADIES, after all you are the CEO's of the household at the moment and need to take care of yourselves too.

Love Suzy and Stacey Taylor XXX.
Suzy Taylor <suzytaylor@ihug.co.nz>
Auckland, New Zealand - Sunday, November 16, 2003 2:40 AM CST

Hello,
Just to let you know we are thinking of you all.
Glad to hear Mark is not in any pain.
Sending you all a huge hug.
Love Kerrie, Mick, Clancy, Flynn and Tully xxxx
Kerrie Corcoran <corkysmob@yahoo.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Saturday, November 15, 2003 10:11 PM CST

Hi Desleigh & Mark & Josh & Cherie, our thoughts and prayers and our love are with you all in these bad times for Mark. Mark has been on my mind every day while i have been at work this week i new he wasn't good. We will catch up soon so our family can hug your family. Love Geoff & Liz & Cc
Geoff Clarkson <dr_evil@powerup.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Land Of OZ - Saturday, November 15, 2003 9:25 PM CST

Dearest Desleigh,

I have not the absolute pleasure of meeting the family (like Wendy and Bea have,) but I remember your visit to South Africa. All the family, and especially Mark, are in my thoughts and prayers!

Bill (Wendy's bro)

Bill de Waal <bdewaal@iafrica.com>
Pretoria, Gauteng South Africa - Saturday, November 15, 2003 9:43 AM CST

Dear Desleigh,

I have not had the absolute pleasure of meeting all the family (Wendy and Bea have!)- but I do remember your first visit to South Africa. My thoughts and prayers are with Mark, you and the family. May God bless you all and may He watch over all of you!

God Bless,

Bill (Wendy's bro!)
Bill de Waal <bdewaal@iafrica.com>
Pretoria, Gauteng South Africa - Saturday, November 15, 2003 9:33 AM CST

Dearest.dearest Desleigh, We have been looking at the photos and saying our goodbyes to Mark. We have laughed and wept with you, not only when we opened the web-site, but every time we spoke of you and shared our wonderful memories of this precious friendship. How we long to know your beautiful Josh and wish for him to know us - the two funny (liddle) and almost old ladies in darkest Africa. One day.... we shall share with him the excitement of spotting a "cat", holding our breath at the size of a close-up elefantefus ,laugh with the hyena, gape at the giraffe.....We love you three so much. In spirit we share with you right now and carry you in our prayers, and you too Cherie. Love from Wendy and Bea.
Wendy de Waal and Bea Wilms <wenbea@telkomsa.net>
Harrismith, FS South Africa - Friday, November 14, 2003 3:40 PM CST

Dear Des, Mark, Josh and Cherie
I've just read your journal from today and want to wish you all a good night and for Mark to achieve peace. It's nice to be able to check on his progress at this difficult time. I'm so proud of you Des, you are a shinning light for Mark and an inspiration for your strength and humour. During the day I frequently reflect on you both and pray you are having a good day. Keep you chin up Des and we send you all our love and best wishes.
Andrea, Eddie, Matthew & William Jost <eagle_1605@bigpond.com>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Friday, November 14, 2003 5:43 AM CST

Dear Desleigh, wee Josh and family,
I am thinking of you all at such a difficult time. My prayers are with you and your family.

Delwyn Hardy <delly@ihug.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Friday, November 14, 2003 5:26 AM CST

To laugh often and much,
to win the respect of intelligent people and affection of children,
to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends;
to appreciate beauty,
to find the best in others,
to leave the world a bit better,
whether by a healthy child,
a garden patch,
or a redeemed social condition;
to know even if one life has breathed easier
because you have lived,
this is to have succeeded.

Ralph Waldo Emerson

Wow Mark what a success you are.....
Deb and Glenn Masters <raphaeld61@hotmail.com>
Logan , QLD Australia - Thursday, November 13, 2003 9:42 PM CST

Dear Des
Havent had this site address until now but my thoughts have been with you at this time. I recently went through the same thing with my brother and know that while this is a painful time it is also a priviledge to be with someone at the junction between this life and the next. Each event in our lives shapes and moulds us to be the people that we need to be and while reading through your journal it is easy to see that you have already made many courageous and life changing decisions. Take heart in the fact that this has happened because someone beautiful in your life caused it to. Life is truly good to us in ways that we often dont recognise. Our hearts are with yours.
Deborah Krause, Glenn Masters and our rowdy bunch of kids <raphaeld61@hotmail.com>
Logan, QLD Australia - Thursday, November 13, 2003 9:32 PM CST

This may be a bit long, but the words are very profound and worth reading it to the end....

Go placidly amid the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence.

As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons.

Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and ignorant; they too have their story.

Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexations to the spirit.

If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter, for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.

Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.

Keep interested in your own career, however humble, it's a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.

Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery.

But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism.

Be yourself.

Especially do not feign affection.

Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment, it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth.

Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.

But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.

Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.

Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.

You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here.

And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive him to be.

And whatever your labours and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul.

With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world.

Be cheerful.

Strive to be happy.

Desiderata, Max Ehrmann 1927

Thinking of you all constantly!

Julie <julie@mostlyunderwater.com>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Thursday, November 13, 2003 6:55 PM CST

I forgot to give you my husband's website...if you'd care to visit it...
www.caringbridge.com/oh/bobhurt
Mary Clare Hurt <QMB28@aol.com>
Parma , Oh USA - Thursday, November 13, 2003 7:47 AM CST

I have been following your website for a few weeks. I lost my husband on July 4, 2002, after a 13mo. battle with a GBM.I know firsthand what you are going through and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I still maintain my husband's site in the hopes that it may offer information or comfort to others.
My daughter recently passed a site on to me that was quite interesting...I offer it to you FYI.
www.elonnamckibben.com
I still research...hoping that somewhere out there is a cure for this awful disease.
God Bless, Mary Clare
Mary Clare Hurt <QMB28@aol.com>
Parma, Oh USA - Thursday, November 13, 2003 7:44 AM CST

You are all constantly in my thoughts.

Jen
Jen B <jen@qct.com.au>
- Wednesday, November 12, 2003 5:51 PM CST

Hi Des, Cherie, Josh and Liam
I loved your anniversary photos Des. You looked gorgeous, Mark looked very proud (was that a twinkle in his eye?) The garden seat is such a beautiful idea. A real tear jerker. I'm sorry to hear about Mark's seizures yesterday. It's good to hear he is no pain. I think about you all everyday and am sending you lots of love and support.
Sandy <sandyfinnem@yahoo.com>
Brisbane, Qld - Wednesday, November 12, 2003 6:36 AM CST

Thinking of the three of you all the time.!!!
Tanya Wernowski
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Tuesday, November 11, 2003 11:51 PM CST

Hi Des, I dont know if you remember me, but I'm Sorayas little sister Fareedah. Just thought I would drop you a line to let you know I'm thinking of you, little Josh is a ray of sunshine, with such beautiful dedicated parents, what else could you expect.
I dont know what else to say except

The ideals which have lighted my way, and time after time have given me new courage to face life cheerfully, have been Kindness, Beauty and Truth.
Albert Einstein quoted that, smart man he was......
My deepest thoughts are with you, Mark and Little Joshy.
Fareedah Nadeem <crazyfreedy@yahoo.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Tuesday, November 11, 2003 11:07 PM CST

Hello. Thinking of you all constantly. We are here if you need us for anything, please ring if we can be of some assistance. Love to Mark, the kids, and the two strong, smiling ladies.
from Kerrie, Mick, Clancy, Flynn and Tully
Kerrie Corcoran <corkysmob@yahoo.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Tuesday, November 11, 2003 6:27 PM CST

My beautiful friends

I am always thinking of you.

Lots of love
Soraya
Soraya <Soraya_Nadeem@phillipsfox.com>
Brisbane, - Tuesday, November 11, 2003 4:47 PM CST

Hi Des & Cherie,
You guys (and I know that word belongs to Liam!), well you are doing a fantastic job for Markey. So sad to hear he had one of those awful seizures. I hope he has a restful night and no pain or seizures in the morning. Sending over lots of positive energy and love and hugs & kisses to you guys. Love seeing the photos - it somehow makes you feel closer when we can't be there everyday. So proud of you. Look forward to seeing you tomorrow. Love to Markey, Josh and Liam.
Lots of Love
Lee

Lee, Harry, Max & Rachel <lkmcleod@optusnet.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Tuesday, November 11, 2003 6:06 AM CST

Hey Des, Cherie and the beautiful fellas (x3)
Am still reading the website fanatically throughout the day and thinking of you all constantly. Des, you keep me laughing with all your funny comments, and (like everyone else) I have an image of you dancing on your wedding day. How wonderful that you were able to enjoy such a beautiful day together. I hope Mark continues to rest today after such an awful morning and that the seizures are no more. We are around on the weekend if there is anything we can do (eg occupy small people x2 - just sing out).
Love to all of you and lots of hugs from all of us,
Emma, Curt and Jasper xxxooo
Emma Swenson <eswenson@macrossans.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Tuesday, November 11, 2003 0:31 AM CST

Hi all.
Cousin Teena here from NZ. Mark, I'm thinking of you heaps and sending as many hugs and warm fuzzies as I can telepathically - can you feel them :-) It's fantastic to be able to see the photo's of you, Des and your gorgeous little boy. (Its been 20 years since we saw each other - you visited me with Cherie in Rothesay Bay). I'll try to find some photo's from this end and send them to you.
Big hugs and lots of love to you all.
Teena xx
Teena <Teena@clear.net.nz>
Auckland, NZ - Monday, November 10, 2003 11:23 PM CST

Hi Des, Mark & wee Josh

I read the brain tumour website daily and don't contribute too much but always read about you and your little family. My husband was diagnosed with gbm in March this year and we have a little 2& half year old Ryan. I truly understand what you and your family are going through. I know the feeling of joy of being with the family and making the most of each day and each moment. Seeing the photographs of Mark & you renewing your vows touched my heart. Words can't express how beautiful it is. May God guide you and your family.
We are in Brisbane QLD too....anytime you feel like a chat please email and I will give you my number
Pevinder <pevinder@yahoo.com>
Brisbane, QLD Australia - Monday, November 10, 2003 8:31 PM CST

Dear Mark Des & Josh
When I look at the beautiful photos and read the entries in the journal, I am inspired by your love, strength and humour. What a wonderful idea to renew your vows and such beautiful photos and memories to cherish.
Des my two left feet will join you in your dance each November. No matter where I am, I will dance with you. Take care sending all my love and prayers
Joanne XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX :0)
Joanne <morningsidereal@froggy.com.au>
Brisbane, - Monday, November 10, 2003 7:38 PM CST

Hi guys, lovely lovely photos, what special memories and I can see in Marks eyes there is is happiness and peace. Yes those eyebrows do talk a thousand words.
My love to you both.
RHONDA
Rhonda Hastie <green_gates@hotmail.com>
Macksville, nsw Australia - Monday, November 10, 2003 6:55 PM CST

Hello again Mark and Des, we loved the photo's of your special day . It really is a lovely setting in the gardens there. Hope that you can maybe have another trip into the garden again soon. All of our love to you all.
Mauren and Graham Jefferies <graniegrey@ozemail.com.au>
Gold Coast, - Monday, November 10, 2003 6:03 PM CST

Hello Des,
The verse below was kind of nice, thought i would share it with you. I love the photos, what a special day.You look absolutely radiant, and mark looks proud and happy to be in love with you. you are an inspiring couple and yes, we will all dance in the garden each year here after to celebrate your and Marks anniversary, you will be a special couple in the hearts of everyone forever. Love you lots

ALEX
XXXXXXXXXXXX
Alex riches <al @qct.com.au>
brisbane, q Australia - Monday, November 10, 2003 3:31 PM CST

>
>Hello! God
>
> > Hello God, I called tonight
> > To talk a little while.
> > I need a friend who'll listen
> > To my anxiety and trial.
>
> > You see, I can't quite make it
> > Through a day just on my own...
> > I need your love to guide me,
> > So I'll never feel alone.
>
> > I want to ask you please to keep,
> > My family safe and sound.
> > Come and fill their lives with confidence
> > For whatever fate they're bound.
>
> > Give me faith, dear God, to face
> > Each hour throughout the day,
> > And not to worry over things
> > I can't change in any way.
>
> > I thank you God, for being home
> > And listening to my call,
> > For giving me such good advice
> > When I stumble and fall.
> >
> > Your number, God, is the only one
> > That answers every time.
> > I never get a busy signal,
> > Never had to pay a dime.
>
> > So thank you, God, for listening
> > To my troubles and my sorrow.
> > Good night, God, I love You, too,
> > And I'll call again tomorrow!
>
> > Send this to all your friends and family. Including
> > the person who sent it to you. Anyone that you love
> > and care about. Let them know God is there for them always, even
>when
> > everyone else has betrayed and left them.
> > God loves you and so do I.
>
>
>
>
>
>MR. DARRYL W. BATISTE
>
>---------------------------------
>Do you Yahoo!?
>Protect your identity with Yahoo! Mail AddressGuard
Alex riches <al @qct.com.au>
brisbane, qld Australia - Monday, November 10, 2003 3:23 PM CST

It was so beautiful to see the photos of your service and to see both of you looking so happy. Photos to cherish indeed! Wish I could have been there to throw confetti!!

Barb, John & Sarah <bamills@ozemail.com.au>
Forest Lake, QLD Australia - Monday, November 10, 2003 2:54 PM CST

Des - you look beautiful and radiant and Mark looks very relaxed and serene. The photos are just stunning - thank you for sharing your special day with us.
Jen B <jen@qct.com.au>
- Monday, November 10, 2003 8:53 AM CST

CONGRATULATIONS on 8 years!!!!!

The first thing I do of a morning is log on and find out how everyone is going.

Des, I love the way you write your journal. Just when I'm reading and feeling a little down, I keep reading the next couple of sentences or paragraph, and you throw in a little humour or a special moment to share with everyone, and it makes me *SMILE* and laugh (like the vision I got of you dancing)....

Just know that you are all in our thoughts and hearts. Hang in there, ok??!!
Kiss, kiss......

Julie

Julie <julie@mostlyunderwater.com>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Sunday, November 9, 2003 6:27 PM CST

Hi again Des, I forgot to say before that I think it's special and great that you and Mark renewed your vows :) I bet he loved getting outside into the garden and having you dance to that song for him :) I think the idea of donating the chair and the plaque on it is a brilliant idea :)
Keep smiling ok? hugs
thinking of you all :)

Richard <richardrw30@hotmail.com>
Gympie, QLD Australia - Sunday, November 9, 2003 5:25 AM CST

Hi Des, Mark and Family. I'm sorry i haven't been able to get down to see Mark, but I have been thinking of you all. My Brother Dale sent me the link to the site, and I think it is a Great idea to have this site :) Please tell Mark I said hi please and you all keep smiling ok?
Thinking of you all.... hugs :)
Richard <richardrw30@hotmail.com>
Gympie, QLD Australia - Sunday, November 9, 2003 5:21 AM CST

Hi there Des, Cherie, Josh,& Liam
boy you are hard to catch up with these days,
Happy Anniversary Des & Mark What a special day for you both, Can't wait to see the picys.
Had this sent to me the other Day thought it was nice, Brings tears to the eyes...

When you are sad................I will dry your tears
When you are scared ...........I will comfort your fears
When you are worried ...........I will give you hope
When you are confused ...........I will help you cope
And when you are lost ...........& can't see the light
I shall be you beacon ...........Shining ever so bright
This is my oath ...............I will pledge till the end
Why may you ask ................Because you are my friend

Hang in there guys I think of you both & admire you more than you will ever know.
You are both travelling down a terrible road, not knowing when this journey is going to end.
Stay as strong as you are both able & support each other as much as you can I will come over & pick up what is left over if you need me.
Don't be afraid to cry sob or scream it is a release & will help you carry on!!!!
stay safe & don't forget the important things in life like sleeping, eating & breathing, & one more is YOURSELVES.
Because if you don't look after yourselves you are no good to anybody..
Take care luv ya's
MICHELLE <brengunn@tpg.com.au>
Orange st, - Sunday, November 9, 2003 4:24 AM CST

Des and Mark - What a wonderful idea to renew your vows. So happy 8th wedding anniversary!! :) (chink chink - you know I am never far away from a champagne glass)!!

I absolutely love the garden seat idea.

Love to all,
Jen B

Jen B <jen@qct.com.au>
- Sunday, November 9, 2003 0:55 AM CST

Wow !!!! how fantastic, wonderful and so very special. You guys are unreal!!! "Love is in the air." (John Paul Young eat your heart out.) We have "Desleigh"- singing/dancing extraordinare. Running Bear could never be the same. Congratulations on your eighth wedding anniversary Mark and Des. I have this picture in my head of the "Honeymoon Dance" and have 2 questions - 1.Were you nude????!!! and 2. is that why we had a showerer of rain on Friday? Love to you both, to your families and your friends. Just knowing you makes me proud.
Love Kerrie Mick Clancy Flynn and Tully xxx
Kerrie Corcoran <corkysmob@yahoo.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Saturday, November 8, 2003 6:22 PM CST

Hi! Des and Mark. I would have loved to see you dancing in the garden for Mark, it is wonderful how you manage to cope sooooo! well I don't know if I would be able to in your position. I know how Mark must have loved getting out into the garden and fresh air.We send our love to you, both keep smiling.
Maureen and Graham Jefferies <graniegrey@ozemail.com.au>
Gold Coast, - Saturday, November 8, 2003 5:24 PM CST

WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I cried, what a beautiful day. Congratulations on your renewal of your vows. I am so happy for you and Mark.(i was doin fine until you mentioned the chair), what a great idea, all the memories of Mark we can lay our hands on are super.I have visions of you dancing for Mark in the garden and i smile,I know Mark would have secretly loved it too, he just likes to make it look as though hes embarased, but he loves it really,(he's just hanging on to his "Angel" status). you are amazing and never cease to make me smile. Your love for Mark and your care in his sickest days leaves all with a need to re evaluate lifes priorities. I love You Des, you are a special person in my life. (i am really really sick at the moment,would never forgive myself if you caught it, but my heart is with yours.)

Alex
XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Alex <al @qct.com.au>
Brisvegas, qld Australia - Saturday, November 8, 2003 3:33 PM CST

Our thoughts are with you all. Love, Anne & Christine.
Christine Tilley
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Saturday, November 8, 2003 0:39 AM CST

Hi Des & Cherie,
Sounds like you had a beautiful day today with more special moments but I won't give it away until you have a chance to update your journal. Josh is having a busy time as usual and keeping me on my toes. Max & Rachel are enjoying fussing over their little cousin and I'm sure he is picking up one or two habits from them that he shouldn't be. Sorry about that!! And what an appetite!! Boy, does he like his tucker!! We're having lots of fun with him and really enjoying his cheeky laugh - he has a wicked sense of humour - just like Markey!!!
Hopefully will see you in the morning. Hugs & kisses to Liam & Markey.
Lots of Love
Lee
Lee, Harry, Max & Rachel <lkmcleod@optusnet.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Friday, November 7, 2003 7:12 AM CST

Hello Mark,Des,Cherie,and the boys.
You are in our thoughts, and we are sending our happy ones your way. Hope Liam had a happy day. Big squeeze to you all, especially Mark.
Love from Kerrie, Mick and the Kidsxxxxx

Kerrie Corcoran <corkysmob@yahoo.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Thursday, November 6, 2003 3:52 AM CST

Just wanted to say hello and send some hugs to you all.
Squeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeezzzzzzeeeeeeeeee!!
I hope you guys felt that :)

Love Jen
Jen <jenny@qct.com.au>
Brisbane, - Thursday, November 6, 2003 2:20 AM CST

Hi Dessie, Cherie, Joshy and the birthday boy Liam. A big 3 today huh?? Happy Birthday! Stay strong girls. I've just talked to Cherie and she told me Mark's not doing well today. You've both been so remarkable and strong. Just remember that we're here for you. Thinking of you always and sending love up north to you all. Take care.
Luv Mon
Monika
Melbourne, VIC Oz - Wednesday, November 5, 2003 11:18 PM CST

Hi Des,
Checking daily to see how you are travelling. Great to see you keep up your sense of humor amongst all the sadness. I know how you feel and where you are heading and a good time with a laugh or two is something not to be denined to anyone.
Stay strong.
Julie mother of Andrew forever 22 <brown.julie.j@edumail.vic.gov.au>
Wangaratta, vic Australia - Wednesday, November 5, 2003 9:55 PM CST

Most definately thinking of you with lots and lots of good wishes and prayers. We are great friends of the Corcorans' and hear of your family through them. All good feelings and thoughts from the Meagher Family.
The Meagher Family <meagher@caboolture.hotkey.net.au>
Caboolture, Qld. Australia - Wednesday, November 5, 2003 4:26 AM CST

Dear Dessy & Cherie,
Hope you are going okay. How are the two little "angels"?? Keeping you both busy I know. Give my love to Markey. I can't visit at the moment with this cough. Sending over lots of hugs and kisses to you all and thinking about you every minute.
Lots of Love
Lee
Lee, Harry, Max & Rachel <lkmcleod@optusnet.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Tuesday, November 4, 2003 4:17 AM CST

What great photos. The photo of Mark reaching out to Josh was a tear jerker. I only had to scroll back up to see the message about the "sizes" of the boys in the bath to make me laugh though....LOL
Was one of them bigger or just pointing in the wrong direction?
Keep updating the photos. It is a great window into Mark's & your world.
Love ya work. Stay strong.

Ross
Ross Hargreaves <hairyassbandit@hotmail.com>
Gold Coast, QLD The Lucky Country - Monday, November 3, 2003 8:58 AM CST

Hello to you all.
Love, prayers and happy thoughts are coming your way from us in the Corcoran household.
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
Kerrie Corcoran <corkysmob@yahoo.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Monday, November 3, 2003 6:50 AM CST

Dear Dessie, Mark and Josh

Think of you all every single day. love and kisses coming your way. Stay strong Dessy, you are an inspiration to me... love you heaps.

love Dessie
Desrae Eddington <desrae.eddington@phillipsfox.com>
Brisvegas, - Monday, November 3, 2003 1:03 AM CST

I really enjoy looking at the photos.
Back here in little NZ, you are thought of everyday, and lots of love is sent each and everyday.
Keep the swapping up, the changing of "guards" and don't behave, we are all so proud of you, Des and Cherie.
A little friend from Nile Road, days.xx xx xx.
Janice Moylan <symeez@xtra.co.nz >
- Sunday, November 2, 2003 11:34 PM CST

Mark, Des & Josh
Love, kisses and big warm hugs to you all.
Love this site- Sandy told me about it the other day and I've finally got to visit it. The photo's are so cute- of you two, and of the wee ones! and the journal is inspiring!
What a fabulous idea! I am heading now to see about making a donantion. Take care guys. Much love and light - you are in our prayers and thoughts.
Love Jo & Greg. XXXXXXXXXXXXX :0)

Jo <morningsidereal@froggy.com.au>
Brisbane , Qld Australia - Sunday, November 2, 2003 5:50 PM CST

Hey Des,
Just left the hospital and tag teamed Cherie, (9.15pm). Mark is doing really well. He had a big cup of coffee, stayed awake for quite a while, was very chatty. He was a bit uncomfortable in his lower back, which is probpbly to be expected,(Tiarna told him that she knew how he felt because she thinks she has arthritis in her butt, mark had a chuckle) but we moved him around until he was comfy and all was ok. Sleeping like a baby now.love you all to pieces, hugs all round.

Alex
Alex <al@qct.com.au>
Brisvegas, qld Australia - Sunday, November 2, 2003 5:21 AM CST

Hi Dessy, Markie, Josh, Cherie and Liam

Hi Guys,

Well it is Sunday night and I have been to visit you all today and I must say Markie is looking great. Markie, Jack really enjoyed playing with you today although you are the only one that has managed not to be christened with his beautiful fragrance, Puk....

Markie I will never forget Friday night when you and I teased Dessy about me snuggling into bed with you, with the thought of Dessy being jealous. Just like old times...

You are my inspiration and my guardian angel.. Love you heaps.....

Karen, Neil and Jack
Karen Waldock <karen@hughes-castell.com.au>
Brisbane, qld Australia - Sunday, November 2, 2003 3:45 AM CST

Hi Dessy, Mark, Josh, Cherie and Liam,

Hi its Nana Jo Jo here just having a look for the first time at the website. Wow what am amazing tool..

Love the photo of Markie, Dessy and Josh....

Good to see you are looking as well as can be expected. Hang in there.... I will be chasing you down the corridor tomorrow.... I'll need a head start though!!!!!

Love always

your Nana Jo Jo
Joan Higgs <nwaldock@bigpond.com.au>
Bribsane, Qld Australia - Sunday, November 2, 2003 3:41 AM CST

We're reading your entries & send all our love & thoughts & prayers to Des, Mark & Josh. Love from Anne & Christine.
Christine Tilley
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Saturday, November 1, 2003 11:27 PM CST

Dear Mark,Desleigh,Josh,Cherie, thinking of you all.Our thoughts and prayers are with you always.

Geoff & Liz & Chelsea <dr_evil@powerup.com.au>
Brisvegas, QLD OZ - Saturday, November 1, 2003 10:40 PM CST

Hello Des, Cherie,Joshy and Liam,
Thinking of you all as soon as i woke up. Hope you all got some sleep, ready for another beautiful day with Mark. Weather is hot, bring the boys and yourselves for a swim when you have a moment.Girls your routine for today should include.....BREATH, EAT, REST, HUG MARK EVERY CHANCE YOU GET,but please......BREATH, EAT AND REST AGAIN. Thinking of you every moment, please take care of yourselves.love you girls lots, you are an inspiration, stay strong, love each other.(give Markie a big hug for me)

all mt love
Alex
Alex <Maadal22@hotmail.com>
Brisvegas, q Australia - Saturday, November 1, 2003 4:52 PM CST

Good on ya guys. Keep up the visits, they all end up being memories that you will need.
Sounds like a few sickness bugs kickimg around. Kids will catch a cold before they will catch a school bus.

Keep up the good work.
Love to all
Ross
Ross Hargreaves <hairyassbandit@hotmail.com>
Gold Coast, QLD The Lucky Country - Saturday, November 1, 2003 10:03 AM CST

Hey Guys
Its Jen again. I just wanted to let you know that we are all constantly thinking of you. Mark has made a special place in our hearts and we are so grateful to have had the opportunity to have him as our wise and kind friend. Des, you too are such are special and wonderful person you have enriched our lives and taught us so much. As for Josh - What can I say? He is just an absolute bundle of joy and love!!

With love,
jen
Jen <jenny@qct.com.au>
- Saturday, November 1, 2003 5:30 AM CST

Our hearts and minds, emotions and prayers are with you all. Des, your family has become an integral part of us! we are not too computer literate, sorry. Josh looks great and we're sure you don't need to worry about size just yet! Give Mark a kiss from us and tell him we love him. Wish we could be with you. LOVE, BEA & WENDY
Wendy de Waal & Bea Wilms <wenbea@telkomsa.net>
Harrismith, FS South Africa - Saturday, November 1, 2003 0:49 AM CST

Hey Des,
I love the photos, they are very special indeed. It was really good to see your face this morning, my mind has visions of you so sad and sorrowful, but you are a tower of strength and an inspiration to all around you. i was teary and i saw your face and you smiled at me and all was right in the world. you are amazing through all you pain. God gave you to the world so we could learn.

Love you lots
Alex
XXXXXXXXXXXXX
Alex <Maadal22@hotmail.com>
brisbane, qld Australia - Saturday, November 1, 2003 0:04 AM CST

Hello Mark, Des, Josh, Cherie and Liam
Just read todays entry and can't help but smile at how beautiful, strong and full of love you all are for each other. I'm glad that nothing will ever be able to take that love from you.
Good photos!!! Is that nostril hair Des???
Our prayers are with you all.
Love from Kerrie, Mick, Clancy, Flynn and Tully xxxxxxx
Kerrie Corcoran <corkysmob@yahoo.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Saturday, November 1, 2003 0:04 AM CST

Hi! Mark, Des and Josh. Sorry that you are not the best Mark but glad to hear that there is no more pain. We think of you all the time and hope that you it is not too hard for you. All of our love to you .
Graham and Maureen Jefferies <graniegrey@ozemail.com.au>
Gold Coast, - Friday, October 31, 2003 0:15 AM CST

Hi Des & Mark!
We're thinking of you both & wishing you peace in your time together.
Much love from Anne & Christine.
Christine Tilley
Brisbane, Qld - Thursday, October 30, 2003 7:36 PM CST

Mark, Des and Josh,
I am sorry I haven't had a chance to meet you yet. I have heard so many wonderful things about you from Steve that when I read your update I could smile with everyone else. You are in my thoughts often. Love, Ashley (Steve's fiance)
Ashley Wallace
Ormond, Vic Australia - Thursday, October 30, 2003 5:04 PM CST

Hi Des and Cherie, thinking of you both all the time, I wish I could be there with you. Give my love to Mark, tell him how much we all care about him, and what an inspiration he has been to us all. He is truely an amazing person, one that I have been so lucky to know and admire my entire life. His wit and sense of humour is unmatched. Take care girls, give the little fellas big hugs and kisses for me.
Love always,
Steve.
OOOOOXXXXX
Steve <stonka77@hotmail.com>
Melbourne, Vic Australia - Thursday, October 30, 2003 2:20 PM CST

Hi Des
Love you. You are always in my thoughts.
Lee
Lee <lkmcleod@optusnet.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Thursday, October 30, 2003 5:49 AM CST

Dear Desleigh, Mark & Josh
I think of you all every day and wish there was more I could do. You have my love and are in my prayers. Remember that you have your sisters to call on and that we will always be there for you.
Diane Young <d_young@bigpond.com>
Brisbane, Qld - Thursday, October 30, 2003 3:34 AM CST

Dear Mark - sitting here thinking of all the good years. We may not have lived in each others pockets but it has been lovely to watch all the milestones in life pass during the last 20 years or so (I lost count - sorry! probably just as well or I might give away how old I am).Thanks for all the good memories, the laughs and the hugs. You are a top guy - never heard you put people down but always forgiving their weaknesses. Desleigh I cherish our friendship (cancel that - I really mean "familyship" but not sure if there is such a word! but you are more than a friend and definately family) and we will always be there for you. And to my Josh - sorry to hear about the "Foot and Mouth" problem but it is better than the "Foot in Mouth" problem I usually have. Sarah & I looked at your photos - you should have heard the OOoooos and Ahhhhhhs. Love from your admirers....
Barb, John & Sarah <bamills@ozemail.com.au>
Forest Lake, QLD Australia - Thursday, October 30, 2003 0:01 AM CST

I am sending you all my strength in my thoughts and prayers. Take all you need to stay strong!
Mark, the picture disc you gave me will always have pride of place in my collection. I will treasure it forever! ;-)
Heaps of love to you all....
Julie
Julie <julie@mostlyunderwater.com>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 11:40 PM CST

To my two beautiful girls, Dessie and Cherie, I'll be up there on Saturday night. Hold out until then. Wish I could get there sooner but there's no flights because of the World Cup thingy that's on. Big hugs and kisses to the Pocket Rocket and Cheeky Monkey and of course special cuddles and love for our number 1 guy, Mark. Des, you are so strong, hang in there girl. Love you soooooooooooooo soooooooooooooo much.
Mon
Old Aunty Monka
Melbourne, VIC Oz - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 9:36 PM CST

Desleigh

My heart goes out to you, I wish I could ease your pain , please continue to do what you are doing and cherish every moment you have left with Mark and love him forever.

You are in my thoughts
Shane
Daughter of Shirley GBM1V Passed into Gods arms 19/5/02
Shane Finch <kamikazeecowgirl@yahoo.com.au>
Newcastle, NSW - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 9:34 PM CST

Hi there you wonderful people. Shaz and I and heaps of others here are thinking of you and our prayers for the strength you need are with you all. There are some nice patterns around for putting on fingernails. Me who bites my fingernails can't put you in the right direction but I bet that would be fun. I'm sure Mark knows what you're doing.

Hey Des if and when you can get around to it, I'd like to know how to donate to this crowd. They do a bloody wonderful job. It just seems to be one of those things that are a silent but very much needed support. Like an angel really. I have gone into the donating scene but it's all American. Just wondering if there's somewhere in Australia we can donate.

Thanks and luv to all
Isobel Kirby <isobel.kirby@phillipsfox.com>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 4:24 PM CST

Hello to you fun-stars,
A sense of humour is an amazing tool in a difficult situation but I am sure secretly Mark likes the red nail polish. Any girl knows this look is not complete without a curly red clown wig and a shiny red handbag. Give me a yell if you need these accessosries to complete Mark's latest look. Keep smiling and be as cheeky as you wish.
I LOVE IT!!! And in time you will look back at this memory of having a bit of fun with Mark and be grateful that all of his last days were not just about dealing with pain. It was also about trying to maintain some sort of sanity in an insane sort of way!!!! Love to you all - Kerrie
Kerrie Corcoran <corkysmob@yahoo.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 3:24 PM CST

Hey hey hey!!!!!!!! its me again,
nice to have lunch with Mark today,( even though he did all the eating). He seemed very sleepy today,but i think that big chair is just a bit too cumfy.Des you looked beautiful today, that is the person you are, never forget that. Through all your tears and heartache i think you forgot that,........so.........i want you to say every day in the morning "I am a beautiful person, surrounded by beautiful people". This will give you a sense of yourself and your day will be bearable. Love you

Alex
Alex <Maadal22@hotmail.com>
brisbane, qld Australia - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 6:20 AM CST

Hi Mark Des and Josh
Sorry we have been unable to get down to see you but Emma has kept us up to date as has the Journal. These are sad times but remember the good ones and keep looking at the flowers.
Peter and Amrey Commins
Doonan, Q - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 1:59 AM CST

Thinking of you each day and hoping you are also getting the rest you need now and for the days ahead. Your family and friends sound like they are all there for you.
www.caringbridge.org/oceania/andrewbrown
Julie mother of Andrew forever 22
Wangaratta, vic Australia - Tuesday, October 28, 2003 11:09 PM CST

Hi Dessy, Markie, Joshy

Just wanted to let you know that I love you guys heaps - perhaps more than words can say. Your love and strenght is inspirational. Markie keep smiling as you have the most beautiful smile. It says it all.

I know you will be the guardian angel smiling over us when Dessy, Neil and I play Uno and us girls whip Neil's butt.

As it says on my fridge, "Mark the King and Neil the Loser".

Take care and if you need anything you know just to give us a call.
Karen Waldock <karen@hughes-castell.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Tuesday, October 28, 2003 5:28 PM CST

Hey Des and Cherie(and the cute cherrubs),

Hope you all had some sleep last night,we think of you constantly, I hope today brings you some smiles from Mark(make sure you are standing on the right side)haha. And that holding his hand today fills you heart with a never fading memory. stand tall and be proud as your family, although feeling so much pain, is teaching others how love and family is the strongest of powers.Draw strength from those around you, we love you lots.
alex <Maadal22@hotmail.com>
brisbane, qld Australia - Tuesday, October 28, 2003 3:03 PM CST

Hi Mark, it was great to see you today
Nuff said,
Jen xx
Jen <jen@qct.com.au>
- Tuesday, October 28, 2003 6:44 AM CST

Hey Mark

It was great to see you tonight Mark. You looked bright and cheery. I left a message in your book so be sure to read that too. Keep enjoying those chocolates. I'll bring you some more tomorrow. Have a good night. Thinking of you.

Heaps of love
Sandy

Sandy <sandyfinnem@yahoo.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Tuesday, October 28, 2003 6:32 AM CST

Desleigh
Hi, I used to work with you in the city & now work with Leonie who informed me about your husband. I've just been reading your story & feel so much for your family. Take care & give my family's love to your husband & family.

Patricia
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Tuesday, October 28, 2003 1:03 AM CST

Hey you guys :)

I've been trying to find a "kicked toe" joke for Mark - I'm gonna keep looking.

Jen

jenB!! <jenny@qct.com.au>
- Monday, October 27, 2003 9:52 PM CST

A new friend from far away sending you my prayers and support.
a friend
- Monday, October 27, 2003 7:48 PM CST

Desley

My thoughts are with you, Mark and Josh. I know what it is like to lose someone to the dreaded cancer. My aunt was in Mt Olivet and she was looked after so well by all the staff there. Love Robyn
Robyn Bottger <robyn_bottger@corrs.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Monday, October 27, 2003 7:33 PM CST

Hello Des,Cherie,Joshy and Liam,
Just wanted to tell you that we love you all so much and that your strength and love for Mark and each other fills our hearts. This is really painful for all, but to see Mark have his dinner and all the people who love him all around him and Mark not in pain is a real bonus. Keep strong, keep loving each other, we will see you all soon. hugs to Josh and Liam and you girls, draw strength from each other and all the wonderful people that love you and surround you.

bye
alex

Alex riches <Maadal22@hotmail.com>
brisbane , qld Australia - Monday, October 27, 2003 6:36 AM CST

Dear Dessy & Mark
Your strength and courage has inspired everyone around you and we all love you very much. Keep strong and savour each precious moment. Harry, Max and Rachel send all their love and hugs and kisses over to you. You are always in our thoughts. We are here for you any time of day or night. Love & kisses to Gorgeous Josh.
Lots of Love
Lee <lkmcleod@optusnet.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Monday, October 27, 2003 5:48 AM CST

Dear Dessy and Mark
Donald, Ray Love and I are glad we went up today to visit Mark. As I sat there holding Mark's hand with tears streaming down my face, I looked at Mark and he gave me a look as if to say, please don't cry. I then glanced over at you Dessy and you had tears in your eyes, but you were being so strong. So I held myself in check and thought I have to be strong for you guys, but sometimes I am not strong, as my heart breaks into a million pieces as I so desperately wish I could do something to ease the pain for you both. You know you are both surrounded with love from so many people and I am just one of many friends that are here for you.
With love Soraya
Soraya <Soraya_Nadeem@phillipsfox.com>
Brisbane, - Monday, October 27, 2003 0:52 AM CST

Recognise and Appreciate the beauty around you in whatever form it may take.
I am a friend from NZ which will always cherish the positivity,unselfishness, and commitment Mark has made since his orginal diagnosis, we all are better people because of having you in our lives, and have learnt so much... THANK YOU MARK. WE ALL LOVE YOU HEAPS.
Janice Moylan <symeez@xtra.co.nz >
- Sunday, October 26, 2003 8:37 PM CST

Dear Des,
I am so sorry to hear that Mark didn't pick up over the weekend, but so relieved to hear that they are able to keep him comfortable. You did (and are still doing) an amazing job, and your love and support must be a great comfort to Mark. He has done an amazing job in keeping the beast at bay for so long, hopefully he can rest now. Lean hard on your friends Des, we are all here for you. Give Mark and the pocket rocket a special hug and kiss from us, and a big one to you too. Mum and Dad also send their special love and thoughts to you.
Love you lots,
Emma, Curt and Jasper xxxooo
Emma Swenson <eswenson@macrossans.com.au>
Brisbane, - Sunday, October 26, 2003 7:48 PM CST

Dear Des, hang in there girl. We're all thinking of you guys constantly. Praying for you and send our love your way. I've sent a special delivery hug to Queensland via Cherie. Make sure you get it! There's also an extra mini hug thrown in for free via Liam. I know things will be a little easier with Cherie by your side. Support each other and do you best. I'll be seeing you soon. Lots of love to Desleigh and her special boys.
Love Mon
Monika
Melbourne, VIC Oz - Sunday, October 26, 2003 7:04 PM CST

Hi Mark and Des,

Please know that I and so many others are thinking of you.

Love you guys,
Jen
jen <jenny@qct.com.au>
Brisbane, - Sunday, October 26, 2003 4:50 PM CST

Hi Des & Mark.
What a sensational job on the webpage with all the journal entries. Keep up the fighting spirit you guys, it sounds like you are adjusting to the life changes reasonably well. Little Josh is a cutie. How about all that curly blonde hair ??
I will speak to you in the OZBT group. Dr Ross says "take 2 smiles & call me in the morning".
Ross Hargreaves
Gold Coast, QLD Australia - Saturday, October 25, 2003 10:11 AM CDT

Dear Joshy,
Hey little man, ain't it great being a kid. I heard mum tell dad about you doing the "let's go to sleep without a bottle or dinner routine" and thought 'yep, priceless!! That one gets them everytime!! You are a bit young to be pulling it off though, so in the words of some fat bloke called Budda, who is on tv alot at the moment 'GO YOU GOOD THING GO". Love you lots. Say gidday to your mum and dad for me. Love Tully Matilda Corcoran (aged 15 months)
Tully Corcoran <corkysmob@yahoo.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Friday, October 24, 2003 6:18 AM CDT

Don't you know Desleigh that it a part of little ones lot to cry and make Mum and Dad feel bad when she let's them off at kindy. He will come to enjoy it as much as playing with his friends, great for you and Mark to have this bit of time with each other as it is very special time now. Sorry to hear it's not going so well like you always say, life is great, every precious minute. Love to you all.
Maureen and Graham Jefferies <graniegrey@ozemail.com.au>
Gold Coast, - Tuesday, October 21, 2003 8:07 PM CDT

To my beautiful friends Dessy, Mark and Joshy
Just a note to let you know I am thinking of all of you and sending you a big hug right now........ ahhhh.... did you get that!
Love to all
Soraya
Soraya <Soraya_Nadeem@phillipsfox.com>
Brissy, - Tuesday, October 21, 2003 7:54 PM CDT

Mark, Des , and Josh
How was your day today. I hope Josh had a great first day at day care. I thought of him all day and sent him thoughts of "all is good, and mum will pick me up soon". So with that done, how did mum go? I hope you were not sad and hope that you and Mark had some good time together.
Always remember you are surrounded by people that love and support you, you are never alone in you happiness or pain and you never have to take a step into a scary place without someone beside you. we love you. goodnight Des ,give your beautiful men a big hug, will see you soon.

Alex <Maadal22@hotmail.com>
Brisbane, qld Australia - Monday, October 20, 2003 7:35 AM CDT

The Day Before Tomorrow
Is a very special day
And I feel that I should live it
In a happy kind of way...

Tomorrow's so mysterious
That I really can't foresee
The things that might be happening
And the way that life might be

But the Day Before Tomorrow
That's quite a different thing...
Those hours are so much closer
I can guess what they might bring...

I'd rather be a sparrow
Or a lily of the field
And just wait til God's will for me
Is finally revealed...

I'll put aside the griefs and cares --
The trouble I won't borrow
And just be glad I'm living in
The Day Before Tomorrow!

Thinking of you all
Lots of love
John & Gayle xx

John & Gayle Mennilli <sookie7@optushome.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Sunday, October 19, 2003 8:21 PM CDT

Just a little something to put a smile on your dial...

"Always remember you are unique. Just like everyone else."

Love you guys!

Julie <julie@mostlyunderwater.com>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Sunday, October 19, 2003 5:04 PM CDT

"This is your life, live it the way you choose it".
"Use your time wisely, make every second count".
"There are 3 types of people: those who make things happen, those who watch things happen, and those who wonder what happened."

Janice Moylan <symeez@xtra.co.nz >
- Sunday, October 19, 2003 4:09 PM CDT

Morning Sorensen family. I remembered a poem and found a web page ( go to http://www.angelfire.com/pa/WithLove/IfIKnew.html ). It says a lot of how I feel.
Have the best day you can my loves.
Lots of love from your friends at Forest Lake.
Barb, John & Sarah <bamills@ozemail.com.au>
- Friday, October 17, 2003 5:01 PM CDT

Hey Des Mark and Joshy,

Sorry to hear you have the sniffles, thats a bummer!!!!! I am excited for Josh, this is a big step in his little life and i am so proud. I will be there for you Des as i know that it is a big step to say "bye" on that first day. Wow, Day care, i can't believe it, time seems to slip away so fast. Just remember Josh is yours forever and he will never love anyone more than he loves you, thats the truth!!!I know you are all getting very tired, this is understandable, all your wonderful friends are right by your sides, so take those friendships and let them help you all to be strong.We love you all and will see you soon. Des, you know Day or Night, my phone is by my bed, ring me if you are in need. love you all
Alex
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Alex
- Friday, October 17, 2003 5:26 AM CDT

Hi! Mark , Desleigh and Josh, Sorry to hear that all is not well, I am glad to hear that you have been able to get Josh into day care it is good for you both to have the time to sped on your own even if only for a short time for a few days a week, you both need that. Our thoughts are constantly on you these days. love to you all and keep the good thoughts. I think that you are both wonderful.
Maureen and Graham Jefferies <graniegrey@ozemail.com.au>
Gold Coast, QLD - Friday, October 17, 2003 1:49 AM CDT

Hello Des, Mark and Josh.
I've thought of you all constantly this week and can't help but smile at the way you handle things. You are incredible - strong and courageous and still able to find it possible to laugh. I enjoyed our quick cuppa Des. Sorry I missed the zzzzzing boys but will catch them this week when I return!!!!! I love your "life is good" quotes and have one for you. This is something my great- grandfather always said to my gran as she was growing up (say it in a Scottish accent as he was and that is how she would say it)
"WHERE ERE YOU BE, LET YOUR WIND BREAK FREE" and I hope you follow that advice and smile when you do. Love Kerrie
Kerrie Corcoran <corkysmob@yahoo.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Friday, October 17, 2003 1:40 AM CDT

Dearest Des, this message is especially for you. Hang in there girl. You are a true champion and inspiration to all. Don't be afraid to have a cry, it's not a sign of weakness, though I think you think that it is. I believe it gets rid of all the built up feelings for a little while and makes you even stronger. I love your sense of humour and optimism, I'm glad to know there's someone out there just as kooky and nutty as me, he, he! I love you like a big sister, and look forward to seeing you again soon. Stay strong, stay positive, keep smiling, give the boys plenty of hugs and kisses, 'cause that's what it's all about. You should be getting my "present" on Monday or Tuesday I'd say. Keep it private (for you and Mark only) for now, please. You'll know what I mean when you get it. Sending lots of warm cuddles up north to you and lots of positive thoughts. Luv ya!
Mon
Monika <monika_designs@hotmail.com>
Mexico (south of the border), VIC Oz - Thursday, October 16, 2003 5:44 PM CDT

Hey luv - Sharon and I have read your latest update. Our prayers and thoughts are with you. I just wished there was something we could do to ease the situation for you. Good on Josh - yeah I reckon he'll be boss of the kindy in 3 days don't you. It is great for him to expend his over supply of energy. He'll love it.
Isobel Kirby
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Thursday, October 16, 2003 5:14 PM CDT

Mark, Des and Josh
With all the love and support that you're being sent globally (can't you feel it in the air??!!), it's no wonder you are the strongest, most inspirational people I have ever had the privilege to know and love.
Hang in there, guys!
You are in our hearts and thoughts constantly!
Love heaps and BIG HUGS!
Julie and Bruce (and the "kids" Jack and Shadow)

Julie <julie@mostlyunderwater.com>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Thursday, October 16, 2003 5:02 PM CDT

OMG! i actually spelt my own name wrong! haha, o well, everyone knoews its me....its TIARNA....if you didnt...well, wouldnt THAT be weird! hehe
tIarna <tjgreenstar@hotmail.com>
Brisbane, QLD Australia - Tuesday, October 14, 2003 5:13 PM CDT

hey Mark,Des and Josh!
how art thou all doing? hehehe, i hope you guys are all having a good day. mum said something about a movie????? right? well, if you want to see one, come to the MOVIE MIESTER! (that would be me..) becoz i know all the latest movies....almost....i HAVE to see tomb raider! haha, i cant believe i havent! im supposed to be obsessed with that one!And if you're not up to going out, you can still see me about the rentals! MOOOHAHAHA! but if you want my opinion now, you have to see either "Pirates of the Carribean" or "Finding Nemo"! hehe...
hey, isn't it nice how there are people from even America, who dont know you, that care for you and stuff? that is the coolest thing hay! hehe...
So,hows Josh? still getting outta his cot? hehe, dont worry, he'll get over it, it'll get boring..trust me, im a kid too!
well, i better go now, i have to go to school! haha, its 8:10am! oops! oh, well, what can you do...it DOES start at 8:45, but i like getting there early...hehe
okies, cyas all round,
lots and lots and lots of love,
Tarna
Tj!!!! <tjgreenstar@hotmail.com>
Brisbane, QLD Australia - Tuesday, October 14, 2003 5:11 PM CDT

Hi! Mark, Desleigh and Josh, Hope you are not missing your sister and family to much, glad to hear that you are gettint a brace for your foot let's hope that it makes it a bit easier for you Mark, might give you a new sexy walk, do you think. Take care our thoughts are with you all the time. All of our love
Maureen and Graham Jefferies <graniegrey@ozemail.com.au>
Gold Coast, QLD - Tuesday, October 14, 2003 4:54 PM CDT

Mark Des and beautiful Joshy,
Hello, How it all going. Thankyou you all so much for the barby, it was great to be able to say goodbye to Cherie Larry and the boys. I know you will miss them terribly. We will just have to keep you busy so it soesn't get too quiet.HA HA I hope the foot mould (ooh, is it that kind of mould) i'm not sure. well i hope it all goes well. hang in ther Des you are amazing, take those quiet "boys are sleeping moments" and have some Des time, or you will forget how to. You know if there is anything you would like to see at the movies, Col can visit and we could lose ourselves in a fantasy world for just a short while. Just say the word. We love you all so much and our hearts break with yours at the sad moments, be strong, love each other and touch each other often, one touch can last a lifetime. now im gettin misty, gotta go,

all our love
Col al and clan.
XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Col and Al and the Girls <Maadal22@hotmail.com>
Brisbane, qld Australia - Tuesday, October 14, 2003 4:48 PM CDT

Stopping by again to send you prayers and good wishes.
I am only one of many you have never met who care and think about you often.
Kay
USA - Monday, October 13, 2003 0:49 AM CDT

Hi Mark, Des and Joshie, just letting you know I'm thinking of you guys all the time and checking the website multiple times a day to see what the latest news is. I've got a pressie I'm sending up to you this week. You'll just have to wait a see what it is! Dessie, give all the spunks (both Sorenson and Gage's) a big hug and kiss from their Aunt Monka. Miss you all! Luv Mons
Monika
Melbourne, VIC Oz - Sunday, October 12, 2003 7:16 PM CDT

Hello from South Carolina, USA!!!! Jen, our mutual friend, sent me the link to this site. Just wanted you to know that you have lots of cyber friends here, who are thinking of you and wish you the best!!!!

Nora K.
Nora K. <lunarlooker@netscape.net>
- Sunday, October 12, 2003 9:33 AM CDT

Hello you georgeous people!!! Tis Annie here .... The young and beautiful Soraya has just let me know - what a great idea... I just love modern technology! Love all the photos.... what else can I say that hasn't already been said by all your dear and true friends! You are truly the luckiest people of all! I pray for you all daily and often think of you - Dessie you are a STAR no actually a shining STAR and you Mark - well - you are the Milky Way! Will talk to you soon .....all my love and kisses ANNIE XXXXX
Ann Wilson <robert.wilson15@bigpond.com.au>
Manly West, Qld 4179 - Thursday, October 9, 2003 4:52 AM CDT

Des, I love looking at the constantly changing photos! It's great to see you all surrounded by so many family and friends!!
Jen <jenny@qct.com.au>
Brisbane, OZ - Monday, October 6, 2003 7:21 PM CDT

Hey Guys, How are we doing, Has the rat bag made a cuppa yet.. Des you have done well I am so proud of you hang in there mate & take the good with the bad. I don't ever want to hear the word weak again as you are one of the strongest people that I know, Even when you are feeling sorry for yourself,You can & are doing it!!!
Mark hang in there,I take my hat of to you, You are so accepting of all that goes on around you, I admire you more than you will ever know..
& as for Josh well what can I say!!!!!
We love him anyway!!
Stay strong & keep loving each other it is the most important thing that you all have going for you,Look at each other & when things are bad remember the feelings of faith & love that you have for each other & it will help you through the bad times, Other wise Des there is always the wine..
Love you all heaps.. remember most of all.

"KEEP THE STRENGTH & BE HONEST TO EACH OTHER".

Michelle, Bill, Jorja & Connor xxxxxx
Orange st, Runcorn - Monday, October 6, 2003 5:14 AM CDT

Hi Dez Mark & Josh,

Have some great news to share with you ! Yesterday morning I woke up at about 3.30am took Mitzea outside to find Beau crying out at the back fence. I quickly got Ray out of bed to come to his rescue. Gallantly he scaled the fence to poor waiting Beau. After five days he doesn't look too bad no scars or anything he had a good feed a bath and slept for most of the day.

I thought this little tale might put a smile on everyones face. Take care guys talk to you soon,

Love Ray, Joe, Heidi, Mitzea & Beau
Joseph Stephens <joe061@hotmail.com>
Loganholme, Qld. Australia - Sunday, October 5, 2003 5:26 PM CDT

Dear Dessy, Mark & Adorable Josh
Really great to see you guys last night. Thanks for putting up with us, I know we're a noisy bunch. So proud of you Des & Mark - you're an inspiration to us. Really luuuv Josh's dancing "move over Elvis!!!" Look forward to seeing you on Tuesday. Lots of Love
Lee, Harry, Max & Rachel
Manly, Qld Australia - Sunday, October 5, 2003 8:29 AM CDT

Hey Mark, Hey Desleigh & little Josh!!!
How are you all? Hope your doing ok. I really enjoy coming to see you and little joshy, he is sush a sweat-heart! Well thought I would just have a look at your page and see how everyone is. Well Ok then Cya soon. Love always -Sarah & Baby Beau
Sarah <hello_kitty_201@hotmail.com>
Brisbane, qld Australia - Friday, October 3, 2003 5:09 PM CDT

DESLEIGH.....
HOW IS LIFE?????
HAD A GREAT TIME LAST NITE..... HOPE YOU ENJOYED THE WINE???
LUV YA'S ALL HEAPS
MICHELLE
ORANGE ST, 19 FRUITGROVE - Thursday, October 2, 2003 4:15 PM CDT

What an absolutely gorgeous site!! it is truly beautiful the way you are sharing with everyone Des. Even tho I am not in your life a great deal I am thankful for the time that I spend with you both.

I Asked the Lord to Bless You
Author Unknown

I asked the Lord to bless you,
as I prayed for you today,
to guide you and protect you
as you go along your way.
His love is always with you.
His promises are true.
And when we give Him all our cares,
you know He'll see you through.

So when the road you're traveling on
seems difficult at best.
Just remember I am praying,
and God will do the rest.

Love
Julie
xx's
Julie <julier@pacific.net.au>
Runcorn, Qld Australia - Wednesday, October 1, 2003 5:45 AM CDT

Hi Dessy, Mark & Josh, Ray and myself had agreat day Saturday it was great to catch up with you. You are constantly in our thoughts. Have to tell you Beau ran away yesterday we have not seen him since Ray had the day off Yesterday he had a bad headache, he looked out for him all day. Take care will talk to you soon Love Joe
Joseph Stephens <joe061@hotmail.com>
Loganholme, Qld Australia - Tuesday, September 30, 2003 3:35 PM CDT

Hi Dessy, Mark and baby Josh. I am thinking of you every day. Soraya is keeping me intouch with all. I would love to catch up with you real soon. All is well from this end, still crazy as ever!!!! luv and kisses young pete
Peta Lawlor <petalawlor@aol.com>
- Monday, September 29, 2003 9:49 PM CDT

Hi, Absolutely love your web page. Will be travelling up Friday. Will ring to see when I came come and visit. Joshy is just so gorgeous Desley, what a cheeky smile he has. Went to church Sunday and said a prayer for you all. Love Rhonda xxxxxxxx
Rhonda Hastie <green_gates@hotmail.com>
Macksville, NSW Australia - Monday, September 29, 2003 7:16 PM CDT

Hi Dessy, Mark and that little cheeky boy, Joshy,
Donald and I had a lovely day visiting you on Saturday, along with Ray Love and Joe Love! A lovely afternoon spent with good friends, enjoying each others company.
You are always in our thoughts
Love Soraya and Donald
XXXX
Soraya <Soraya_Nadeem@phillipsfox.com>
Brisbane, - Monday, September 29, 2003 6:36 PM CDT

Hi D & M - Having no luck getting through by phone. I managed to get that showerhead today (30% off! our gaurdian angel must have been watching out for us!!). Please give me a call to let me know if it is okay to drop by Tuesday about 5pm so that John can install. Luv Barb
Barb & John <bamills@ozemail.com.au>
Forest Lake, QLD Australia - Monday, September 29, 2003 4:05 AM CDT

This is from a little angel and a good friend in NZ. Hopefully Mark got his little "package" from me, and will be using his ingredients for a "BETTER" life and health. He is like a brother to me, and all I can say from across the miles, is " LOVE YOU, USE THE PRESENT" because its from the heart. (Life is full of shall I or won't I, I say life is all about giving it a go.) Sometimes alternative means CAN work out for the best.... This is a golden opportunity for a man who has a heart of gold.....and a chance for a better life.....
Janice Moylan <symeez@xtra.co.nz >
Auckland, New Zealand - Monday, September 29, 2003 1:23 AM CDT

Hi Guys!
Lovely to see you all again. We really enjoyed coming up and spending time with you. I'm sure the house has never been so clean thanks to the super cleaner (mum). Joshy, don't eat anymore cat food! Miss you already. Big hugs and kisses all 'round.
P.S. Saw Li Li yesterday and he's looking forward to seeing his cousin Josh. I want photos of those two together!!!
Aunty Monka and Granny Di <monika_designs@hotmail.com>
Chilly Melbourne, VIC Oz - Monday, September 29, 2003 1:20 AM CDT

Hellooo,
Mark , Des and Joshua, how are you all.Was so good to see you last night, Thankyou Des for sharing the powerpoint and you feelings, and yes i do want to sit and read with you. You are amazing and your strength radiates to others. I always feel stronger when im around you. I will phone you monday and see when you would like to shop and i will come and sit with the boys,i would love to do this.
The photos are wonderful, i love marks smile. you guys hang in there, stay strong,keep loving each other, andwe will see you very soon

we love you

Col and Al
XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Alex Riches <Al@qct.com.au>
Brisbane, qld Australia - Sunday, September 28, 2003 4:19 PM CDT

Hey Des you know you can come & play any day you like, Don't ask just do it when you want, Still up for Dinner?
Luv ya's all
xxxxx
Michelle
Orange st, where else - Sunday, September 28, 2003 4:45 AM CDT

Was great to spend a little time with you yesterday and to watch all the little ones playing together - makes you smile. Josh looks cool with his haircut - will check out Mark's on Sunday as I will probably pop in when picking up Sarah. I will give you a tinkle!
Barb & Sarah <bamills@ozemail.com.au>
Brisbane, QLD Australia - Friday, September 26, 2003 5:56 PM CDT

Hi there, Desleigh, Mark and sweet Josh,
Just to let you know that my thoughts are with you even though I don't see you around much.
Sharyn <bellies@bigpond.net.au>
Brisbane, Qld Aust - Friday, September 26, 2003 1:47 AM CDT

it was great to visit you yesterday and i will be ensure to 'drop in' again next week
jennifer ingham <jennifer.i@optusnet.com.au>
tarragindi, qld australia - Thursday, September 25, 2003 9:32 PM CDT

Hi! Des and Mark, sorry to hear that all is not the best. We check your site each day but I don't writeall the time. We are thinking of you all the time, great to hear that you had such a great holiday nothing like a change of environ to give you a lift. we hope to get up there on monday, will ring and check if that suits you all. Love Maureen and graham
Maureen Jefferies <graniegrey@ozemail.com.au>
Gold Coast, Qld Aust - Thursday, September 25, 2003 7:29 PM CDT

Hi Mark and Desley,
Been thinking of you allot today. A few tears were shed. Glad you came out for our card game Mark. I will try to drop in a bacon and egg pie for you soon. If there is anything you need, or want to do, please let me know.
Desley - you can put me on the roster list (to shower Mark) This will give him a laugh if nothing else!! Ha Ha
Irene <bhastie@gil.com.au>
Peak Crossing, QLD Australia - Thursday, September 25, 2003 4:37 AM CDT

Hi Guys

Des, I just wanted to say how awesome your journal is. I know that sometimes it must be so hard to put your feelings out there. In the midst of it all you manage to find a bright note to finish on.

Please know that we are here anytime for assistance. Let's get that roster happening!!

Hugs,
Jen xxx
Jen <jenny@qct.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Austra;ia - Thursday, September 25, 2003 0:07 AM CDT

Hi ho Des, Mark and Jasper's partner in crime
I don't know what to say, having read your journal this morning. It was so good to see you guys on the weekend and we continue to think of you all and what you are going through. I will talk to you soon, just want to give you a bit of time to deal with it. You all continue to inspire us every day - your strength is incredible and we are all here for you. And please please let us know if there is anything big or small that we can do.
Talk soon,
Love and hugs and drooly kisses,
Emma, Curt and Jasper xxxooo
Emma Swenson <eswenson@macrossans.com.au>
Brisbane, - Tuesday, September 23, 2003 9:33 PM CDT

Hi recent visitors to the Doonan retreat. Sorry to hear that Mark is not travelling as well as we all had hoped.
But we continue to think of you and are reminded of the pleasures you brought to us on your visits. Lots of love and a special hug for the pocket rocket.
Amrey and Peter
Amrey and Peter Commins <pcommins@bigpond.net.au>
Doonan, Q Oz - Tuesday, September 23, 2003 7:21 PM CDT

Hey you guys,
Thanks for dinner tonite. We love so much spending time with you. Life seems so much better after a Joshy hug, what a groover, he is sooooo cute. Keep positive and if you need support in any way dont hesitate to ask for it. We love you guys and are here 24/7 for you always. I love thhis site, and i loive the hairy mark photos. See you soon all our love
Col and Al
XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Alex/anniAl <al @qct.com.au>
brisbane, qld australia - Tuesday, September 23, 2003 5:51 AM CDT

hey hey ma good looking neighbours!!!!!Hope ur looking after my lil boyfriend hehe! Well it's good to hear that you guys had an awsome time and lil joshie went exploring. It's good to have u back so I can hear josh screaming and pushing his toys and making a heap of noise so we know that he's there:PLove you heaps...MWAH!
Nicola(Nic Nic) <lil_surfin_angel_16@hotmail.com>
Brisbane, QLD Australia - Friday, September 19, 2003 1:27 AM CDT

Hey neighbour, great site, wheres josh in his swimmers, or boxers? hahahaha.:)
Hayley <skichick_84@hotmail.com>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Thursday, September 18, 2003 4:33 PM CDT

Hi Mark, Des and the little spunk-rat. Looking forward to seeing you all again next Monday night! I arrive at 10:10pm on Monday 22nd. I hope Josh is ready for plenty of hugs and cuddles!
Monika Herrmann <monika_designs@hotmail.com>
Melbourne, VIC Australia - Wednesday, September 17, 2003 5:52 PM CDT

Hi guys. I love the photos and that son of yours....georgeous. Des and Mark you are both an inspiration. Keep positive. It is the best treatment I think. Anytime I am low I just tell myself "I am luckier than most". Wish you all the best.

Milia
Milia Xystros <milia.xystros@phillipsfox.com.au>
- Tuesday, September 16, 2003 8:09 PM CDT

Hi there You Lot!!!
Hope you had a good weekend, Hope you even have a better week, Make the most of it & most of all RELAX..
Make sure the first thing you do when you get there is to open the boot as I will need a stretch & some fresh air after being cramped up for so long.. :-)
ENJOY.. LUV YA'S ALL.. Michellexxxx
Michelle <brengunn@tpg.com.au>
Brisbane, qld aust - Sunday, September 14, 2003 5:00 AM CDT

Happy Birthday for yesterday Mark! You and your wonderful family are often in my thoughts. Tell Josh that I have been practising "Round the Garden" and think I have it down pat now!! I am sure he will set me straight if I haven't next time I pop over. Love you all XX
Barbara Mills <bamills@ozemail.com.au>
Forest Lake, QLD Australia - Tuesday, September 9, 2003 2:56 AM CDT

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MARK! Got the photo of Joshie today. Very good looking bloke. It was great talking to you yesterday, I look forward to catching up with you again soon. Thinking of you always.
Steve Herrmann <stonka77@hotmail.com>
Melb, V Aus - Monday, September 8, 2003 6:51 AM CDT

Hello Mark,Des and Josh!
Diana E-Mailed me the latest news today.Iam thinking of you and wish you all the best.
Love Gunter
Gunter Herrmann <gherrmann75@hotmail.com>
melbourne, vic australia - Sunday, September 7, 2003 2:31 PM CDT

Hi Mark, Des and little fella,
Just letting you know that I miss you all so much and think about you every day. I am hoping to come up as soon as Ashley arrives here. Take care and remember I am always here if you need anything.
Love Steve
OOOXXX
Steve Herrmann <stonka77@hotmail.com>
Melbourne, VIC Australia - Saturday, September 6, 2003 11:40 PM CDT

Mark and Desley, Just read your latest news on this site. Sorry to hear about the "beast" reappearing. I hope you keep well enough to come on Wednesday for that LONG awaited game of cards. Big kiss to Joshua. Love Irene and Graham
Irene Hastie <bhastie@gil.com.au>
Peak Crossing , QLD Australia - Saturday, September 6, 2003 11:17 PM CDT

Thank you so very much for visiting my site. Please always remember that God never gives us more than we can handle and that He gives the greatest lessons to those of us who can handle it. I will definately add you to my prayers. Your son is just beautiful!
Kyla Nagel <knagel@hotmail.com>
Eugene, OR USA - Friday, September 5, 2003 5:26 PM CDT

Although I don't know you pesonally, I am praying for you in your courageous battle against this wicked disease. Just know that many prayers and blessings go out to your family. Mark keep your spirits up and fight this thing....you seem to be handling it with humor which is so important. God bless.

Vonda Evans <vevans@darkwing.uoregon.edu>
Springfield, OR USA - Friday, September 5, 2003 1:39 PM CDT

You'r not the only ones to lose your car at that shopping centre I have done it before. Glad to see that you could laugh about it. Hope that all is well we are thinking of you all.We have been away for three weeks I got Graham to go to Scotland and Ireland. David is living in Ireland with his girlfriend. Had a wonderful time. see ou soon. Maureen
Maureen & Graham Jefferies <graniegrey@ozemail.com.au>
Gold Coast, QLD Australia - Friday, September 5, 2003 2:03 AM CDT

Hi Mark, Des & Ratbag ;)

See you soon guys!

Lots of love,
Jenny <jenny@qct.com.au>
BrisVegas, q Australia - Thursday, September 4, 2003 11:25 PM CDT

What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us. - Ralph Waldo Emerson

Mark, Des and Josh - Keep fighting the good fight!

Our thoughts and prayers are with you everyday.

Love heaps

Julie and Bruce
Julie <julie@mostlyunderwater.com>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Thursday, September 4, 2003 5:27 PM CDT

Dear Des, Mark & Josh
Hi Des - just wanted to say hi and I am thinking of you and 'the boys'. Sorry to hear the latest news this week. You and Mark (and Josh) will be in my prayers. Keep that contagious smiling of yours up, as best you can. I am thinking of you, even though I have been very slack lately and I apologise for that. Love from Sharon
Sharon Lyon <lyon.den@optusnet.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Thursday, September 4, 2003 5:56 AM CDT

A friend of yours told me of the challenges you're facing.
Even though I'm a stranger, I'm praying for you all.
Continue your courageous fight, knowing so many are thinking of and praying for you.
God bless.
Kay
- Thursday, September 4, 2003 0:55 AM CDT

Hi Dessie and Mark, I was just wondering how you were going the other day and hoped that no news was good news. Not quite I see. Dessie has filled me in on your latest set back. I now know where to look for your journal to find out myself. Hang in there guys, I'll be praying for some good news for you. All my love, Paul.
Paul Baxter <paul.baxter@phillipsfox.com>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Wednesday, September 3, 2003 10:57 PM CDT

Hello Des, Mark and Josh
I just found out about this website, love it!!! Great to look at the photos of Josh and Mark - where's all the photos of you dessy??? Sorry to hear about the setback this week. Tomorrow is a new day and don't give up the fight!!! Love you all and praying for you everyday.
Love desrae xxx
Desrae <desrae.eddington@phillipsfox.com>
Brisvegas, Qld Aust - Wednesday, September 3, 2003 7:25 PM CDT

Hi Des, Mark and little?? Josh

Just got your news via Soraya via Sharon. Not good but i reckon there's a lot of fight left by the sound of you Mark. God be with you all and my prayers are with you - you bet. The photos are great.
Luv and heaps of kisses from me and I know from everyone here who knows you.
Isobel Kirby <isobel.kirby@phillipsfox.com>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Tuesday, September 2, 2003 11:47 PM CDT

Hi Mark, Des and Joshy, just a quick note to let you know I'm thinking about you guys everyday. Mum said she talked to you last night and the news isn't good. Stay positive Mark and be strong Desleigh. Maybe this new surgery might be of some benefit (fingers crossed). I've talked to my boss about getting some time off, so I'm happy to come up for a visit if you need me. Will call on the weekend to discuss it. The Gage's are all looking forward to coming up. All the boys have grown so much, especially Mark. Took Li Li and Seany to see Finding Nemo on Sunday. Liam sat there looking stunned the whole time. Very cute! Take care, miss you all. Big hugs and kisses all 'round. Luv Mon
Monika Herrmann <monika_designs@hotmail.com>
Melbourne, VIC Australia - Tuesday, September 2, 2003 5:50 PM CDT

Dear Dessy, Marky and Gorgeous Josh
Not the news we wanted to hear. Harry, Max, Rachel and I are sending all our love over to you. Keep strong and keep thinking positive thoughts. Talk to you soon.
Lots of Love
Lee, Harry, Max & Rachel
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Tuesday, September 2, 2003 7:11 AM CDT

Hi Dessy, Mark and little Joshua

Not sure what to say other than I love you all dearly and I pray every day that a little miracle will come from above.

Neil, Jack and I really enjoyed our trip to Labrador and hope to do it again soon.

Marky, Neil can't want to whip your butt at Uno - Loser!!!!

Only joking - we all love you and our thoughts are prayers are with you daily.

Luv
Karen, Neil and Jack
Neil, Karen and Jack Waldock <nwaldock@bigpond.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Tuesday, September 2, 2003 1:14 AM CDT

Hello Mark, Des and little Josh
Karen has been keeping me up to date on your news. She thinks the world of you all. Keep fighting Marky. Keep strong and positive.
I'm sending you all my positive energy and all my body parts are crossed!
hugs and kisses
Kim
Kim <kim@legal-eagles.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Tuesday, September 2, 2003 1:04 AM CDT

Hello you beautiful people,
how are you all.This is a fabulous site, i love the pictures and the messages that are left. I hope you are all well, how is that angel boy, (not u Mark) Ha Ha. Sorry how are you too? Hope your week is going well,Pls ring me t'morrow Des if you are home ,i'd love a coffee. Miss you guys so much this week, you give the best hugs, well i wont write a novel, hugs and kisses from Al
Alex/anniAl <al@qct.com.au>
brisbane, qld australia - Tuesday, August 19, 2003 6:55 AM CDT

Hello Dessy, Mark and Joshy
I can tell just by reading all the lovely comments from your friends and family that you are very much loved and in everyones thoughts. I love the pictures of Josh, especially the one with his hair in a ponytail! Hey Dessy, put a dress on him next time - he is just too cute for a boy. Mark, I just KNOW that you will be happy with that comment.
Love to you all
Sorayabee
PS Dessy you know how the other day when I was over I said I wasn't feeling well. Well I had a vomitting bug for nearly 10 days after that! And no - I don't think it had anything to do with your beautiful scones that you made.

Soraya <Soraya_Nadeem@phillipsfox.com>
Brisbane, Qld - Monday, August 18, 2003 6:06 PM CDT

Hi Des, Mark and Josh,
Hope everyone is well, I just had a look at the photos and Josh is a real little cutie, I bet he is keeping you on your toes.
Take care, hope to catch up shortly.
Tanya, Darren and Jayden Crowther
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Thursday, August 14, 2003 7:36 PM CDT

Hi Dessy & Mark and little cutie Josh, well finally we are back on-line after all our "computer problems". Thanks Mark for all your help with our computer - couldn't have fixed it without you - it would have been thrown out of the window for sure!! This is a great site - love the photos! Sorry to hear about your scare yesterday - talk about stressful - Des please drive more carefully!! Hope you are all feeling better by the time you read this. You know you are always in our thoughts even though we don't see each other as often as we would like. You know Des - just think about me and I will call!! Take care. Love to all. See you soon.
Lee, Harry, Max & Rachel <lkmcleod@optusnet.com.au>
Manly (by the Bay!), Qld Australia - Wednesday, August 13, 2003 7:40 AM CDT

Hi Mark, Des and my favourite little Sweetpea! Just been looking at all the great photos of you guys. Who's the gorgeous little blonde with all the curls? He's just soooo CUTE! I tried ringing on Saturday but the phone was engaged. So I rang Cherie instead and went down for a visit with my other dear long-lost cousins. Have been working like a maniac lately, even going in to work on most Saturdays as well as doing my music and trying to get to the gym every other day. I heard that the "Old Chook" (won't Grannie Di love me calling her that on the internet!) called last week. Sounds like you're still doing well. Stay positive, we're all thinking of you down here in Antarctica (or Mexico as you like to say). I might be coming up in a few weeks time, not sure, will keep you posted though. Big hugs and kisses all around. Miss you all!
Luv cousin Mon
Monika Herrmann <monika_designs@hotmail.com>
Melbourne, VIC Australia - Monday, August 11, 2003 9:06 PM CDT

Hello Orange St people ! ( not Orange people , thanx for the visit on Sunday ...our turn next time to call in ...can't wait to finish the f#*+& stairs ! but good to see you guys are out and about ...wish we could take time out for some trips ...hey how a bout a short run to Bribie Island one Sat/ Sun morning ..would need to drop your/our Boy off to Annes' on night before but could pick up and hit the sand ! Al could show off her 4 wd skill (only got one {FLAT OUT !! ) and would be home by lunch ..please say yes cos' The Tribute needs to feel the salt ( not water )..anyway CU soon ...
PS Can I attach a foto ?
Colin Riches <col.riches@suncorp.com.au>
Brisvegas, OK Austria - Monday, August 11, 2003 7:45 AM CDT

Will phone tonight
Mark playing his semi finals in the footy this morning.
cherie
- Saturday, August 9, 2003 6:46 PM CDT

Hey there Des, Mark & Josh, Well I really was the first to post a message just don't know what happened to it....I like reading all your gossip in case you forget to tell me anything, But just want to let you know that I am here as always, Just yell if you need me.
I love ya's all, you all have a special place in our hearts.

Michelle, Bill, Jorja, & Connor xxxxxxxxxx <brengunn@tpg.com.au>
across the road, here there - Friday, August 8, 2003 3:22 AM CDT

Hi Des,Mark& Josh
WHat a great idea having this site.
Good to speak to you yesterday, will phone later in the week.
We all
love and miss ya heaps, roll on September!!!
Cherie and Mark, (Larry ,Liam & Sean, not here at mo) <cheriegage@bigpond.com.au>
Melbourne, Vic Australiac - Tuesday, August 5, 2003 2:57 AM CDT

Hay, Mark and Des. This is great. Will let the Lions of Africa know about it.
Lorelle Fulcher <relle@powerup.com.au>
Bardon, Qld Australia - Tuesday, August 5, 2003 0:40 AM CDT

Hi Guys - great idea for the website. Hope Mark is feeling better today - you are all amazing and such an inspiration to us. Love the photo of the terrible twosome (don't they look like they are up to no good!).
Love to you all, Emma, Curt and Jasper xxxooo
Emma Swenson <ceswenson@optusnet.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Monday, August 4, 2003 6:08 PM CDT

Hello!!!!!!!
i loooovvvvvvvvvveeeeeeee this site! hehehe, josh is so cute in all the fotos! as well as in real life too of course! haha, well, not that im advitising my website which is http://tj23.friendpages.com , but you should really keep checking it and leaving messages in it because it changes almost everyday! hehehe
hope you have a wonderful day....or night..or...dusk, or morning.....whenever you're reading this.....cya round! lots and lots and lots of love (one for each! no hogging! hehe)
love, tiarna
xxxxxxxx ooooooooo
Tiarna Riches!!! call me teege....or tj....either one.. <tjgreenstar@hotmail.com>
Brisbane, QLD Australia! im an aussi mate! - Saturday, August 2, 2003 11:32 PM CDT

Hi Desleigh, Mark & Josh
Nice to see the website, it helps to keep everyone in contact. Make sure those Dilantin levels are maintained, it can be very tricky because it can be affected by a number of things.

I see you have a lot of New Zealand friends. I have been entertaining an American visitor today, who just came in from Auckland. The trouble was he left his second shirt in Auckland where he had been staying, so we went shopping. Would you believe it, the shop owner took pity on him and because we couldn't get the right combination of collar and sleeve length he actually re-sewed the neck button just a few cms further out - for free! That all happened in the national capital - Canberra - that blood-sucking place where we tax the daylights out of you hard working colonials in Qld and elsewhere!!!

Best wishes
Denis Strangman <string@hotkey.net.au>
Canberra, ACT Australia - Friday, August 1, 2003 5:25 AM CDT

Hi Desleigh, Mark and Josh
I just saw your photos of Josh, can't believe how he has grown since the one time I saw him - I see he is a Bobby!! fan as well.
I'm pleased everything seems to be under control with Mark and hope that the same goes for you too Des.
Luv to you all
Tricia Jones
Tricia Jones <tricia.jones@phillipsfox.com>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Thursday, July 31, 2003 8:29 PM CDT

Hey guys!
Wow , how cools that your own website that is such a good idea. It helps us all alot more with our questions and worries. I hope everything is all going well.
Keep your head up guys and we all luff you lots and lots and lots.... We are always here for you 100% don't be shy to ask for help or favours. I miss you guys sooooooo much still I think Joshie is so lucky to have such down to earth parents. Even though I have only meet you (Desley) once i feel like we have a great connection and i think you should get your ass'z over here so we can see you more and help more. Plus you will always have me to babysit.
Anyway give Joshie a BIG hug and kiss and i wish you guys all the best.

Lufff you heeeeeeeeeeeaps
Stacey Taylor
xxxooo

Stacey Taylor <nah_nah_yeah_nah@hotmail.com>
Auckland, New Zealand - Tuesday, July 29, 2003 3:05 AM CDT

Hi Mark, Desleigh and little Joshy,
We all love the photos you send and this is a fabulous way to keep in touch. I guess by the time Josh is a teenager this will be common practice for all.
By the way, I have DUG UP some old wedding photos of mine. Not many of Lance but some of you Mark and Geoff and Nancy and Geoff's girlfriend at the time (can't remember her name maybe you will once you see them). Give me a little while as I have to give them to my brother Kev so he can scan then email them to me. Bye for now and take it easy.
Love Suzy XXX
PS: Stacey wants to send her own message. She was 16 on the 15th July - I feel very old ..!!
Suzy Taylor <suzytaylor@ihug.co.nz>
Auckland, New Zealand - Tuesday, July 29, 2003 1:49 AM CDT

This is an excellent idea guys, love the pics. Keep well and look forward to the updates. sending lots of energy

Luv Roni
- Monday, July 28, 2003 3:07 PM CDT

Hi Desley, Mark and Josh,
What a great idea! To two wonderful people with a beautiful little boy,you are all constantly in my thoughts.Catch up soon. luv Anne
Anne Higgs <anne06@optus.com.au>
Brisbane, qld Australia - Monday, July 28, 2003 6:45 AM CDT

Nice to see but I am so far away from you.
Glad the chemo is doing what it is meant to do so far.
Keep in TOUCH.
Love JAN.
Jan Moylan <symeez@xtra.co.nz >
Auckland, New Zealand - Monday, July 28, 2003 5:05 AM CDT

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