Victoria’s Story

Site created on May 30, 2021

This past year has been a doozy for everyone. For my mom, a pesky cough and severe back pain have sent her in and out of doctors' offices. She has had several procedures to manage pain and keep that pep in her step. In late April, upper body PET scans indicated what looked like stage IV cancer. But before we could get clear answers, doctors gave her the thumbs up to hop on the plane for her long-awaited trip to Disney with Crista and the Davis krewe! There's no better way to pass the time during the dreadful waiting period than at the most magical place on earth with half of her favorite people in the world! (Her other half was pestering her for hourly photos of all things Mickey.) 


At the end of the trip, she had some difficulty catching her breath. Too much pixie dust in the air, perhaps. Before flying home, she took a magical trip to the hospital near the park. There, she received treatment for pulmonary edema--excessive fluid around her lungs likely caused by pneumonia. The scans at that hospital provided a second opinion which echoed the first. Though the trip to the hospital was unexpected, we are grateful for the care she received and for the unplanned second opinion. 


Going into the biopsy (5/24), we patiently awaited a clearer prognosis and a plan. Biopsy results (5/28) confirmed a diagnosis of adenocarcinoma that has metastasized to her liver, abdomen, lungs, and other places. Where it originated is just a guess at this point, but doctors have an idea (and it's not a place that showed up on the scans). Mom began treatment immediately following the diagnosis. She started with an aggressive cocktail of chemotherapy the day before her 62nd birthday. The doctors will see how she handles her first round of treatments before deciding the next course of action. Her journey has started at Memorial Hospital in Gulfport, MS. 


We are so grateful to everyone who has stepped up to help with her care. She has an incredible team of family and friends surrounding her and we are leaning on each other for support and encouragement. Her daughters, Casey and Crista, will manage this page and add updates on this site. I know Mom would LOVE to hear encouraging messages of hope and prayers. Instead of texting or calling, please leave them here on her wall so she can visit them at any time. Casey and Crista would appreciate the same as it's not always easy to have conversations with the kids around. 


Please pray with us: Father God, We are so grateful for your faithfulness and goodness. You are our courage and our strength. We trust that Mom/Vicki is in Your hands. Please ease her pain and bring her peace. May all her days be filled with joy, laughter, love, and hope. May she feel comforted by Your embrace. Please wipe away our tears, deliver us from our fears, carry us across the valley, and place us at Your feet. May Mom's testimony bring glory and honor to You. In Christ's name we pray. Amen.


"But I trust in you, Lord; I say, 'You are my God.' My times are in your hands." Psalm 31:14-15 

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Journal entry by Casey Hilty

Victoria “Vicki” Dupré Dellinger was born on May 29, 1959, in Houma, Louisiana. She met the love of her life, John Leyson Dellinger III, when she picked him up on the side of the road as he was hitchhiking home. They were married on August 9, 1980, at Kenner Presbyterian Church. John and Vicki became parents in 1983 and raised two daughters, Casey and Crista. She was a devoted mother, grandmother, sister, and friend to all who met her. She loved dance parties with her daughters and grandchildren, picking wildflowers, upbeat music, watching hummingbirds, and dessert at midnight.

When the kids were young, she worked part-time as an office manager for Kelton Video Services, a family-run business, as well as a substitute teacher at Hazel Park Elementary School. She was always at the girls’ schools volunteering for the PTO, school plays, fundraising events, and more. Additionally, she worked as an administrative assistant for cancer research at Ochsner Hospital in New Orleans and the Baton Rouge Crisis Intervention Center and Suicide Prevention Hotline. Most recently, she served others by taking care of homes and furry friends in Bay St. Louis, MS.

Vicki leaves an incredible legacy behind and is survived by her daughters, Casey (Bo) Hilty of Lafayette, LA and Crista (Daniel) Davis of North Tonawanda, NY; her seven grandchildren— James, John Leyson, and Lena Hilty, and Marley, Mila, Lyra, and Lucy Davis and her honorary granddaughter, Ruthny Mathurin who all lovingly called her “Mimi;” her sister, Barbara Kelton of Bay St. Louis, MS; many nieces, nephews, great-nieces, and great-nephews who knew her as “Aunt Vicki;” and her sweet cat, Tilly, who showed up on her doorstep on her late husband’s birthday. She is preceded in death by her husband, John Dellinger; and parents, Jasper and Arlena Dupré. 

A note from her daughters:

Instead of a funeral, Mom requested that we gather around the dinner table for a meal, stories, and laughter. Whether it’s family members, Shady Acres residents, Baton Rouge friends, River Ridge gang, or individuals gathering with their own friends and families, she hoped everyone would enjoy spending time together in celebration of her life. Because flowers were her favorite, we (Casey and Crista) would love for you to plant some in her honor. Please share pictures of your gardens and/or dinner parties with them by tagging them on Facebook or using the hashtag, #MimisGarden. We will be making books for our kids to remember both Mom and Dad, so if you have any stories to contribute, please share them with us.

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