Tom’s Story

Site created on February 22, 2019

 If you have been directed to this site for Tom Farmer, he has in some manner touched your life. Whether it has been as a lover of the arts and music, a spiritual adventure, a previous coworker, a playful companion, or simply as a friend both old and new. This message and active site is written and managed by his friends. And if you've received a CaringBridge message before you probably know that the news isn't all good. Tom has been diagnosed with an aggressive form of pancreatic cancer which has spread to his lower intestine and therefore affecting his physical and mental well-being. While the odds of him beating this condition are not in his favor, there is still some hope for recovery. 

The expectations are that without radical and invasive treatment, the length and quality of his life are severely affected. Tom will have major surgery on March 6th, followed by two weeks in the hospital, another two weeks in a nursing facility, and then six months of chemotherapy. This will mean uprooting his life and relocating somewhere nearer his treatment at the University of California, Irvine Medical Center.

His immediate need is your loving support. We will continue to update this site with news and updates about his surgery and post op care. Feel free to send him your love through this site.

His long-term needs will be much more involved. The remainder of 2019 Tom will be engaged with this arduous and expensive series of procedures.

With this in mind, we have started a GoFundMe (https://www.gofundme.com/medical-expenses-for-tom-farmer) (click this link) page that will help financially support Tom throughout this long journey. Any funds given will be used for modest living expenses, transportation to and from medical appointments, and any uncovered medical expenses. 

Please click on the WAYS TO HELP icon.

If this message has touched you in any way, your kind words and loving support, personal time you can spend with him, and any financial contributions will greatly help Tom make it through this life challenge.

And of course, will be so very much appreciated.

Thank you,

Friends of Tom Farmer.

Newest Update

Journal entry by Steve Loop

Thomas William Farmer, Jr. 10/14/1951-2/24/21
Tom, from St. Paul, MN, passed away on Feb. 24, after success-fully holding pancreatic cancer at bay for two years. Preceded in death by his parents, Thomas Sr. and Mary Helen (Tierney), and son Quinn Thomas. Survived by daughter Juliet, brother John (Kimberly), nieces Maria Holm and Kathryn, nephew John, and many great-nephews. Tom grew up in Bloomington, MN, spending summers in Cross Lake, attending St. Thomas Academy, and the University of Minnesota for his college years. Tom loved to travel; Inverness, Cape Cod and California sat at the top of his list. He had a dry and unforgettable wit that resulted in many people calling him the funniest person they knew. Tom enjoyed a fruitful career in TV, video and media production and was a true film connoisseur. The only art of equal importance to him was music. A natural storyteller with an incredible ear for music, Tom wrote songs on both guitar and keys - often recording late into the night, when inspiration struck - and the excitement of songwriting remained fully alive in him until his final days. His greatest loves in his life, however, were his kids, Juliet and Quinn. Anyone who knew Tom, knew about his kids. In his wake he left endless memories, music, and love. A small gathering of family and friends will be held this summer.

 

 
 
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