Timothy’s Story

Site created on September 13, 2022

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On Wednesday, September 7th, 2022, my father, Tim,  fell off a ladder while trimming tree branches.  He could tell he hurt his wrist and knew he better get things checked out.  While in the Oconomowoc ER he started to develop a slight headache.  The doctors ordered a CT scan, where they then discovered a small bleed in his brain.  He was then taken by ambulance to Waukesha Memorial where there is a neurology staff.  Once in the ICU, he started to decline quickly.  We made the decision for him to have surgery to stop the brain bleed and the swelling.  I am beyond happy to report that he made it through surgery and has since been taken off sedation and has been extubated.   On August 26th, he also suffered a heart attack, which required two stents to be put in.  As you can imagine, this severely complicates his recovery.
Over the weekend, we had some really promising experiences occur with his recovery.  He waved goodbye without being asked, gave a few "thumbs up", shook his head yes and no, and did a lot of smiling.  We also experienced a few setbacks such as a few small seizures, sleepiness, fever, and inattentiveness.  
As you can imagine, my father has a very long road to recovery.  If you're the praying kind, my father, Tim, could surely use all he can get!
If you are able to send "good vibes" we are taking those as well!  
I'll be sharing his journey on this site to keep you all updated on the latest and greatest.  If you know my dad well, you KNOW without a doubt that he's a fighter.  Dad, YOU GOT THIS!~Melissa

Newest Update

Journal entry by Melissa Spellman

Today, Kerrigan and I spent most of the day hangin' out with Dad at his rehab hospital.  When we walked in, Dad was in the bathroom cleaning up for the day; shaving, using deodorant, brushing his teeth, etc.  He even put his shirt on all by himself.  He twirled around in his wheelchair and joined us back in his room!  What!!!!!!!  I couldn't believe my eyes!  I asked him how his wrist felt, and he stated that he pretty much had no pain in his wrist today.  We spent the entire day talking, catching up, and shedding tears.  I was able to ask Dad questions that I didn't think I'd be able to for a very long time.....if ever.  I am amazed at what Dad remembers from his past and about his accident.  I think the last few days, Dad has really started to understand the severity of his accident and how critical he really was.  PLEASE send Dad strength to get through the emotional part of this accident that is beginning to set in.  Dad has a busy week of therapy ahead, about 4 hours a day of PT, OT, and Speech.  He grew leaps and bounds in his two days of therapy there so far.  I cannot even begin to fathom what will happen this week.  He has been walking the halls, using the stairs, bending over and picking things up, working on self-care, and a whole lot more that I am unable to speak to at this time!  I sure wish I could be a fly on the wall and watch him kick this TBI's ass!!!!!

Dad, we could not be any prouder of you!  You are a force to be reckoned with!  My heart is so full after our visit today.  My daddy is back.  I knew you would pull through.  YOU GOT THIS!!!

~Melissa

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