Late update, my pathology report shows no Cancer! YAY I will still need to be checked every 6 months though as there is a risk of Perineum Cancer or Stomach Cancer after having the procedure I had. 
I have had a hectic last couple of weeks my oldest daughter has been in the ER a couple of times the last time she was admitted for a week for severe dehydration and tachycardia I have never been more afraid in my life than I was when than informed us if they couldn't get her to heart rate to come down she could have a stroke or stop breathing. At that point I told her she needed to make her siblings aware of the fact that she was pregnant and severe morning sickness was what was causing her illness because I couldn't keep fighting with them over her health. Needless to say it all worked out she finally told people other than me and I'm no longer as stressed out. The plus to the horrible year is I'm going to have another grandbaby I can't wait!!
I GOT THIS! 🤩