Journal entry by Cassie Bonstrom —
Hi Everyone,
Many of you have asked how to help us during this difficult time, and while we have taken some of you up on grocery runs or food deliveries when we need them, I finally have a request for ALL of you (who feel comfortable doing it).
We'd love to compile some memories you have of my mom. She knew so many people in different "circles," and we'd love to hear how she impacted your life. Or, if you didn't know her personally but only read/heard/learned about her through me or Jennie or Kim, let us know how she inspired you or affected your life.
I know some of you reading this might be having heart palpitations just thinking about doing this, so if it raises your blood pressure in any way, do not feel obligated to participate. But we thought it would be fun to put something together for the service, in a PowerPoint perhaps, and then afterward I can make it into a book for our family. Then, when we need a good laugh or a good cry (or both), we can open it up and feel the love.
You can send me something handwritten or by email. It doesn't need to be novel length. Even a simple word or phrase will do, if that's all you are comfortable doing. If you have a photo that you like, we'd love to see that too! You can send me a copy (let me know if you want it scanned and returned) or you can just scan it and send via email.
Cassie Bonstrom
5036 Bedford Avenue
Edina, MN 55436
My email is cassie.bonstrom@gmail.com
At the risk of sounding like an English teacher, here are some prompts:
What is your favorite memory of my mom?
What activity/hobby/memory did you share with my mom? What did you guys do together?
Share a funny story about my mom
How did she inspire you?
What did you learn from her?
What did your friendship with her mean to you?
What about her made you smile? Or laugh?
What piece of advice or wisdom did she share with you?
What will you miss most about her?
If you didn't know my mom personally, in what way did you feel connected to her and/or her story?
Hearing answers from you all will give us so much comfort (and hopefully some good laughs) and remind us over and over again the impact she had not just on our family, but in the lives of countless others.
There is no "deadline" per se as we won't be having the service for several months, but I wanted to ask everyone now while she is on everyone's minds, and perhaps while the memories are so fresh. Thank you in advance. Love to all.
Cassie
Many of you have asked how to help us during this difficult time, and while we have taken some of you up on grocery runs or food deliveries when we need them, I finally have a request for ALL of you (who feel comfortable doing it).
We'd love to compile some memories you have of my mom. She knew so many people in different "circles," and we'd love to hear how she impacted your life. Or, if you didn't know her personally but only read/heard/learned about her through me or Jennie or Kim, let us know how she inspired you or affected your life.
I know some of you reading this might be having heart palpitations just thinking about doing this, so if it raises your blood pressure in any way, do not feel obligated to participate. But we thought it would be fun to put something together for the service, in a PowerPoint perhaps, and then afterward I can make it into a book for our family. Then, when we need a good laugh or a good cry (or both), we can open it up and feel the love.
You can send me something handwritten or by email. It doesn't need to be novel length. Even a simple word or phrase will do, if that's all you are comfortable doing. If you have a photo that you like, we'd love to see that too! You can send me a copy (let me know if you want it scanned and returned) or you can just scan it and send via email.
Cassie Bonstrom
5036 Bedford Avenue
Edina, MN 55436
My email is cassie.bonstrom@gmail.com
At the risk of sounding like an English teacher, here are some prompts:
What is your favorite memory of my mom?
What activity/hobby/memory did you share with my mom? What did you guys do together?
Share a funny story about my mom
How did she inspire you?
What did you learn from her?
What did your friendship with her mean to you?
What about her made you smile? Or laugh?
What piece of advice or wisdom did she share with you?
What will you miss most about her?
If you didn't know my mom personally, in what way did you feel connected to her and/or her story?
Hearing answers from you all will give us so much comfort (and hopefully some good laughs) and remind us over and over again the impact she had not just on our family, but in the lives of countless others.
There is no "deadline" per se as we won't be having the service for several months, but I wanted to ask everyone now while she is on everyone's minds, and perhaps while the memories are so fresh. Thank you in advance. Love to all.
Cassie
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