Steve’s Story

Site created on July 23, 2018

Welcome to our CaringBridge website for Steve Silverman. We are using it to keep family and friends updated in one place. We appreciate your support and words of hope and encouragement.  Steve of course appreciates your visits and emails, though he may not be able to answer all the emails at this point.  This website is a way to send your well wishes and stay updated.

Steve has become a friend to many in the Woodstock neighborhood-  he is known for taking walks with his loving dog Fida and bringing laughter wherever he goes.

Over the past several months, Steve's health has been declining and he has been increasingly fatigued and uncomfortable.   Steve is now receiving support from hospice and has opted to work with the Oregon's Death with Dignity program.  It is likely that Steve will be soon going through the dying process.  Per Steve, he will kick the bucket on Sunday July 29th at 4pm.  You can come by to say your goodbyes.

This of course is a shock to many of us who know and love Steve.  Please share this page with anyone else you think would like to stay informed about Steve's journey.  You may also email Alisha at alishamusicant@gmail.com or Marina Kaminsky at kaminsmari@gmail.com.  Please add your thoughts and well wishes in the journal.   Thank you!

Newest Update

Journal entry by Alisha Musicant

Dear friends,

Steve passed away this afternoon at 5:15, July 28.  He died peacefully, painlessly, while surrounded by a group of people who loved him.  The Death with Dignity process was deeply compassionate and moving.

Though Steve was extremely fatigued in these last few days, he managed to make jokes until he was unable to talk anymore.  When we asked him for some last words, he said "So long, suckers!"  Classic Steve, til the very end.

One by one, each person said their goodbyes, and shortly after he went into a deep sleep.  We sat with him quietly during this last hour.  The room was very peaceful.  Steve's breathing was quiet and regular, and then eventually his breathing became shorter, and finally stopped after just a few gasps.  Fida lay next to Steve during this entire time.  After a number of minutes, there was a change in the room, a feeling that he was leaving his body.  It was very touching to see Fida lick his hand.  Several people later commented that they felt a powerful and very big energy all around us.

Steve was brilliant, kind, and a unique unforgettable presence.  He also lived with some deep pain, and never forgave himself for some of the things that happened in the past. He was a good friend to many, the best neighbor anyone could ever ask for, and had a heart of gold. He will be deeply missed.

Many blessings,

Alisha
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