Once again, Steph’s surgeon knew just what we needed to hear following surgery. Mom was trying so hard to hold it together and Dr. Bower reminded us it was okay feel whatever it is we are feeling. It’s a hard lesson to learn when you are used to holding it all together for the sake of those around you. She reminded us that by showing how hard it is when things are bad things it also let’s us celebrate how strong we were when we get beyond the hard parts. I told her how much we and Steph needed to hear those words. Steph is too good at not showing how hard it can be. Dr. Bower really connected with our little family, probably because she has sisters. 

Steph was in a considerable amount of pain following surgery. She didn’t expect to feel quite so much pain. We are praying they are able to keep her pain under control tonight, that she is able to get some rest and that she is able to go home bright and early tomorrow. 

Thank you for all of the prayers, kind words and good wishes. My big sister has always taken care of me, it’s nice to be able to repay her a little bit and take care of her for a change.