Rob’s Story

Site created on December 3, 2023

Hey.  It’s Laura, on Rob’s behalf.  I’ve been trying to keep everyone up to date the best I can, so figured this avenue would be the best option of keeping everyone informed, going forward.  I’m not even sure what I’m going to write, or how to write it, so I figured I would just start with what HAS happened, what IS happening, and what WILL happen.  So here goes……. Over Thanksgiving break Rob began to experience severe back pain, spending most of the week on a heating pad, foam roller, and being rubbed down with castor oil. We were convinced he had pulled a muscle from picking up the girls, taking down Halloween decorations, or running around the softball field.  Last Monday evening, 11/27, we noticed his left leg was swollen and discolored.  I booked him a 90-minute massage Tuesday, but after, he started experiencing shortness of breath along with a still swollen and discolored leg.  Fearing DVT, Rob went to the ER (a life-saving decision!) here at the Beaches where they did some x-rays and scans.  Turns out he wasn’t right, but he wasn’t wrong.  Seeing what they saw, Rob got an ambulance ride to the Baptist downtown.  And that’s when our world came crashing down. Rob has a 10cm x 12cm x 14cm tumor in his abdomen that is wound around his organs and veins (hence the back pain and swollen leg), blood clots in his lungs, and the left ventricle of his heart only functioning at 35%.  Thursday they were able to put a nephrostomy tube into his right kidney (thank goodness I’m not squeamish!) to help drain and prevent further build up.  We’re hopeful that kidney is still viable as the preference would be to have both kidneys going into chemo.  Rob was able to come home Friday night so he could spend the weekend as comfortable as possible, here at home (despite the outcome of the Georgia game).  We report back bright and early Tuesday morning to MD Anderson to discuss the results of all the tests and to lay out our plan of action.  I will report back here with all the findings, next steps, and a better picture of what our journey will look like over the next few months.  In the meantime, we appreciate all the love and support from everyone.  I have no idea how I’m going to make it through all this but know that I will be leaning in on all of you for support.  Rob has not shown much emotion this past week (it’s so sudden and we’re still trying to process the shock of it all), but Frank said it best: Rob is “the hallmark of a dad.  Of an athlete.  Stay Strong.  Show little emotion and fight like hell.”  That is exactly what he is and exactly what he will do.  Rob is a child of God, a husband, dad, son, brother, uncle, coach, friend, neighbor, athlete.  He is everything.  And we will be his everything.

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Journal entry by Lindsay Friedrich

Happiest of birthdays to the lady that is an absolute ROCK to so many people! She loves hard, serves hard and is the living, breathing definition of a faithful servant.  I see the contentment in her eyes when she knows Rob is home from the hospital and comfortable in his own bed, the contentment when Anneliese, Merritt and Holland are happy, living large and giggling at their top of their lungs while playing with their barbie dream house on the patio absolutely oblivious to the fact that their Daddy is bravely fighting this beast that is cancer.

Laura would pass over any bucket list trip or first class experience (in an absolute heartbeat) in order to be with her husband on the 9th floor at MD Anderson as he gets liters of chemo pumped into his body day after day! She would pass over any diamond ring or 14 carrot gold necklace if accepting that gift would be at the expense of a day spent with her beautiful blond brigade (a.k.a. spicy pack of peppers)! 

Laura has boldly and fearlessly attacked this painful yet beautiful chapter of life with aggression fueled by love, determination fueled by attitude and perseverance fueled by Gods unwavering presence in her life and that of Rob, Anneliese, Merritt and sweet Holland. 

Laura and Rob did not ask for this, they certainly do not deserve this but I'll be damned if they both don't acknowledge the fact that they will rise above this and come out bigger and better than  before, become better parents because of this journey, better spouses, better friends, better co-workers.....you name it.

My sister has kept us ALL afloat during some pretty rough times in life. The list is pretty damn long of who she has helped and how but I personally have been the recipient more times that I can count.

Our girl is tired, VERY tired, but she would never tell you that. She and Rob together have been fighting a very valiant fight not just to get Rob over that finish line so he can have his turn to ring the "remission" bell but to keep their beautiful babies happy, healthy and thriving. While the 3 blond mice are catching on more and more each day to the reality of what's going on, especially our sweet Annie, Laura and Rob have not only chosen to be incredibly honest with the girls about cancer, chemo and hair loss but they have also chosen to fiercely protect their girls at all costs. 

I hope on this extra ordinary January 25th, you all take a second to reach out to Laura who could truly use the love, encouragement and daily reminder that every little thing....is gonna be alright!

Much love to each of you for the unwavering love and support!

Laura, WE LOVE YOU! - Aunt Say

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