Riley’s Story

Site created on February 19, 2019

Welcome to Riley Pearl's CaringBridge website. We are using it to keep family and friends updated in one place. We appreciate your support and words of hope and encouragement. Thank you for visiting & please leave a message - they help Riley!


On January 11, 2019, Riley's doctor found a small tumor in her chest following a check up over Christmas break. The source was a birthmark she has had her entire life. It’s called superficial spreading melanoma. A month later, on Valentine’s Day, Riley underwent surgery to remove the small mass as well as 6 lymph nodes to biopsy as a precaution.

Unfortunately following her first surgery, we received more bad news the biopsy was positive and an official diagnosis of middle-late Stage 3 Advanced Melanoma Cancer that has spread into her lymphatic system. CT and MRI confirmed it has not spread to any other major organs.

On March 15, surgeons took 18 more lymph nodes. The biopsy was clear on the 18 lymph nodes removed- so the main cancerous cells are gone!This is the first good news we have received during this process.

On March 28, Riley had her drains removed and returned to her junior year at Grand Valley State University (GVSU). As many of you know, Riley is president of her sorority, Sigma Kappa and works in the President’s office.

In the meantime, Riley participated in Relay for Life at GVU which raised more than $100,000 for the The American Cancer society. Riley was able to award her friend A.j. Warner the “Relayer of the Year” title.

On May 8, Dr. Fletcher, the gene team and oncologists at U Michigan Health will start Riley on immunotherapy so she can finish her semester at GVSU.

Immunotherapy means 2 medications will be taken 3x a day – it’s unknown if she’ll experience any side effects:For now, no chemo, radiation - the usual suspects when people hear "cancer treatment".

She’ll continue with doctor appointments 1x a month for a year and scans every few months for the next 5 years. The goal is to stop the cancer in its tracks before it returns.




Riley says: “It’s so easy to put on a face, but the reality of this situation comes in waves knowing that it is a long road ahead still. I have struggled with returning back to class and learning how much stress/movement my body can handle now (I feel 80) even when I do not physically look sick, it’s been a hard pill to swallow. I am able to be strong by allowing others to hold me up when I feel weak— but asking for help is hard, and will continue to be against my nature. Sometimes the hardest lessons are the most important and I am so blessed by every person helping me fight back.”


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Newest Update

Journal entry by Lisabeth Sarin

Sorry for the delay in updates!

Riley started her internship in Ann Arbor at Denison consulting about a month ago, and all is going well.  

Her treatment plan put her on the path to learning a new routine, a new diet, new (more frequent) appointments, more doctors, new therapies (adding OT to the list), a new schedule for medicine/food/sleep.  She had a brief arm swelling - medically known as lymphedema:  swelling that generally occurs in arms or legs most commonly caused by the removal of or damage to your lymph nodes as a part of cancer treatment) It's fairly normal for a person who has missing lymph nodes - and because she was doing a little too much.  New compression sleeves and of course she was advised to taking it a bit easier.  Stephen needs to learn lymphatic massage! LOL

 

As Riley said, her "new ”normal” that’s vastly different than anyone else around me. It’s been overwhelming and challenging but easier each day. Our new goal is to add more days in between trips to the hospital, urgent care & appointments. Thanks for the continued prayers and love, I can’t express how much it helps. It’s been difficult— I wish I could tell cancer “not today, I’m busy” ! "

 

Week 3 was a rough one for Riley.

After a fun weekend at a cottage with friends, Riley found herself in urgent care with a 102 degree fever. Her weakened immune system caught a nasty case of Influenza A and she was down a full 5 days with fever, chills, nausea- each day more sick than the one before.

A trip back to U of M cancer center for her 2 week checkup left her team unsure if the high fevers were from the flu or a side effect of the medication.

Even after a nasty bout of the flu coupled with pain, ever resilient Riley was able to go up to GVSU for a weekend with her sorority sisters at a retreat and spend time with people she loves.  Always good for the soul.

Monday started week 5, and please send good thoughts Riley's way - the dose of her medication will double and may bring more and new side effects. 


Colleen says "We continue to ask for prayers of comfort and healing and positive vibes to continue us THROUGH THIS...we know there is NO way around it but only through. Thanks for your love and support and please know how much we appreciate and are grateful as we struggle on hard days to bask in gratitude."

Keep posting your good thoughts, prayers, quotes, links, etc. to keep Riley going through this journey and with any luck, it will be an uneventful week for Riley.

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