Ray’s Story

Site created on May 11, 2020

On Tuesday, May 5, Ray completed his last undergrad assignment of the spring semester & was set to virtually graduate from Ole Miss on Saturday, May 9th. Shortly after 8 AM on Wednesday, May 6, Ray, his mother Nancy, and his friend Ben were traveling on highway 41 outside Okolona, MS when an oncoming car veered into their lane and hit their car head-on. The crash proved fatal for at least one passenger in the other car, and it caused traumatic injury to everyone, especially Ray and Nancy.  All three were taken by ambulance to North Mississippi Medical Center in Tupelo. Ben had several gashes on his head and face, was bruised, and had minor injuries. Nancy was rushed into emergency surgery to stop internal bleeding from a perforated bowel and has a cracked vertebrae. Ray, the front-seat passenger, took the brunt of the accident. Like his mother, he too had a perforated bowel that was discovered later that night and successfully repaired. In addition, he has many broken bones - back, neck, collarbone, shoulder, left ankle, left fibula, left wrist, all but two ribs on his right side - plus several cuts on his face. The arteries in the front of his neck experienced so much trauma that it caused him to have a stroke and lose feeling on his left side.  Since the accident, Nancy has had much improvement and has been able to walk and eat successfully. Ray is in the ICU recovering from his bowel surgery and is awaiting multiple bone reconstruction surgeries. He is still unable to move his left side. Thanks to everyone who has reached out with concern about my brother. Please continue to keep Ray and my mother in your thoughts and prayers as they both have a long road ahead of them. I will do my best to keep everyone updated on their progress.

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Journal entry by Nancy Stevens

I am in need of your prayers, and I don't do social media, so I am hoping this reaches those that love and know my son, Ray Edward.  I was at church today and the message of prayer was being preached and somehow, I have forgotten how powerful prayer really is! Ray Edward has had several more surgeries, which has really taken a toll on him, since I last journaled.  He has had 2 additional surgeries on his abdominal as recent as December 2023.  He had an 8 day stay in December 2023.  They had to cut him open again and remove another 6" of his intestines (he had a prior obstruction/scar tissue surgery a year and 1/2 ago).  The recovery was really rough in December.  He has been recovering.  Though the last surgery was successful unfortunately after additional 2 MRIs the surgeon discovered he now has a hernia.  They want to open him up again on same incision for the 4th time which is not good to remove this hernia that will continue to grow.  We are getting second opinion.  It has been very difficult for him to lead a normal life as we know it.  Every time he takes 2 steps forward the carpet is pulled from under him.  I am asking for prayers He fell off my health insurance when he turned 26 and no one will provide health coverage all because of this car accident that we were not at fault.  The other party had only $25k in coverage.  We received $9k total.  He has over $244k in medical bills that he had no health coverage for.  The medical bills are not important to us it's the prayers I need for his recovery and continued health in the future!  Please pray for Ray Edward to have health.  We all take our health for granted and have no idea how much we are blessed that we have health.  Thank you for taking the time to read my message!  God Bless! ❤️

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