Parker’s Story

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“Parker has a condition called pulmonary hypertension. That means the blood pressure in his lungs is too high. His heart has to work really hard to get the blood to his lungs and that’s why his heart is enlarged. Now, there’s all sorts of tests we will need to do to see if we can find a cause for the pulmonary hypertension and he’s going to need to stay on oxygen, so you’ll be here for a few days while we figure everything out. And, stay away from the internet because if you read some of the stuff that’s out there it will scare the H-E- double hockey-sticks out of you…” On February 29, 2008, Parker was diagnosed with pulmonary hypertension (PH), a rare lung disease. As the doctor at Brenner Children’s Hospital explained his new diagnosis to us, we actually felt a bit of relief to finally know what was going on with him, but we had no idea how our life would be turned upside down as we began this journey with Parker.

Parker was born on April 30, 2007 after a long day of waiting. He weighed 8 pounds, 9 ounces and measured 21 inches long. He was healthy and beautiful. We were overjoyed to be blessed with this sweet baby boy. As the weeks passed, Parker seemed to be fine. He wasn’t a very good eater and he wasn’t as big as our other two babies had been, but he was happy, easy going and content. By the time Parker was 8 months old, he still couldn’t sit up by himself, he wasn’t gaining weight like he should, he had a random cough and wheeze. We had a nagging feeling deep inside that something just wasn’t right.

On February 26, 2008, after a month of high calorie formula, Parker had only gained 5 ounces. During this follow-up appointment, our pediatrician finally heard Parker cough and wheeze. With a look of concern on his face, he discussed a few common things that could cause Parker’s symptoms. He recommended treating Parker for asthma and reflux and he also agreed to order a chest x-ray at our request, even though he really felt that it would be normal. It wasn’t normal--it showed an enlarged heart, something none of us were expecting. That led to an EKG, which was also abnormal, and that led to a hospital admission and an echocardiogram that diagnosed Parker with pulmonary hypertension. Parker had every test you can imagine while he was in the hospital, as his cardiology team tried to find a reason for his PH. All the tests came back normal. He was scheduled several weeks later to have a right heart catheterization, the only test available to accurately measure the blood pressure in the lungs.

On April 8, 2008 we took Parker to Brenner Children’s Hospital for the right heart catheterization, expecting to only be there overnight, and to come home with some answers. Instead, Parker ended up in the pediatric ICU, after having what the doctors called a pulmonary hypertensive crisis. We left our sweet baby boy that morning smiling and playing and saw him at the end of the day lifeless and white with countless tubes and IV’s hooked up to him. He was on a ventilator and he was completely sedated. It was hard to comprehend how this had happened. Because of complications with the breathing tube, Parker remained on a ventilator for 18 days. We stayed with Parker constantly. We prayed for him to pull through this terrible ordeal and come home with us, but we also tried to prepare for the worst. Finally, 4 days before his first birthday, Parker came off the ventilator and he celebrated his birthday in the ICU. 13 days later, we brought him home--this time with oxygen, a permanent IV in his chest and several oral medications.

Now, here we are 13 years later. Parker has endured countless blood draws, surgeries, and hospital stays, but despite all he has been through, Parker is still as happy, easy going and content as he was when he was a baby. He tries really hard not to let PH slow him down or get in the way of living his life to the fullest.  We may never know why Parker has this terrible disease and we may never find a cure for him, but there’s always hope and we can never give up on that.

For more information about pulmonary hypertension, got to www.phassociation.org (http://www.phassociation.org).

Newest Update

Journal entry by Jennifer Romney

1 year ago today, Parker underwent open heart surgery for a Potts shunt. It is so hard to believe that a whole year has passed. We are definitely glad that we are here and not there--that was a very difficult, scary and overwhelming experience. His recovery and the progress he has made in the 365 days since the surgery is nothing short of a miracle! We are grateful every day that he is doing so well.

Shortly after the last post in February, he had the broviac catheter removed and was finally truly free of the pump and line that had been part of his life for nearly 14 years. Literally overnight his life changed--no more covering the site in the shower, no more dressing changes, no more worries about line infections. All of the sudden there was a lot less to worry about!! It was kind of a weird feeling for us.

Parker has continued to do great on the new medicine, Uptravi, with minimal side effects. He has been on Uptravi for 6 months now and we  have noticed improvement in his energy and a greater ability to do some things that were hard before the Potts shunt. His echocardiograms have all been stable and his BNP continues to be very low. We always hope for improvement, but having his condition continue to be stable without having a permanent IV is a win in our book! His quality of life has improved so much and he now has the freedom to do things that he was never able to do before. Last month, he went to camp for the first time in his life.  He slept in a tent, hiked, fished, zip-lined and did a very challenging ropes course. He still had to manage all of his oral medications morning and evening and use oxygen at night, but he did great with it and really enjoyed the experience. He also has finally learned how to swim! Jason has spent the last 2 weeks teaching both Parker and Spencer how to swim. Our neighbors graciously offered their pool for the task which was incredibly nice. Both boys have made a lot of progress in a short amount of time. It is so fun to watch Parker enjoying the water! He also finished middle school last month and will move on to high school at the end of August (How is that possible?!?), he just finished taking Driver's Ed (Yikes!) and he will be playing in the drumline in marching band. We hope and pray that he continues to feel good and we are so grateful that he is living his best life and doing so well!!

As we reflect on this 1 year milestone, the same thoughts keep coming. Did we make the right choice to have the surgery? Was it worth it? We believe the answer to both questions is a resounding "Yes!". Although we'll never know exactly what would have happened if we had decided to wait or chosen not to do the surgery, we feel extreme gratitude to Heavenly Father for providing an insightful, caring team of doctors and for guiding us in the right direction at the right time to benefit Parker in the best way.

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