Nolan’s Story

Site created on November 9, 2019

This horrible journey started the week of October 21st.  Nolan started complaining that he wasn't feeling well.  His head and stomach was hurting him, so we thought maybe he had strep throat since those are similar symptoms for him.  We brought him to urgent care on Thursday, October 24th, and he had a strep test and stomach X-ray completed.  The strep test came back negative and the X-ray showed that he was very constipated.  We brought him home only to find out his symptoms were getting worse.  He started vomiting, had sever headaches, and stomach aches.  We then brought him to the Dr. on Tuesday, October 29th.  His Dr. completed many different labs to figure out what was going on.  The blood work all came back normal, except the white blood count came back elevated, but nothing too alarming with those results.  At that point, we thought for sure some type of Lyme or tick disease.  As we waited for those results, we started him on antibiotics.   In the meantime, his symptoms got worse.  After talking with his nurse a few times, they told us to follow our parenting instincts and to possibly check him into the ER at Children's for complete scans.  Thank God they gave us that advice! 

We headed over to Children's Hospital in St. Paul the evening of October 31st, in which this terrible story begins.  After we got checked into the ER, they completed a CT scan and found a mass in his sinus area, so they told us we would be staying overnight for more test to figure out what the mass is.  On Friday, November 1st they completed an MRI and told us it was a tumor in his Sphenoid sinus area, and we would be admitted to the Oncology department at Children's in Minneapolis to figure out more information about the tumor (malignant or benign).  We were devastated and so scared!   That evening he was transported by ambulance (because he was so sick) to the other Children's hospital.   

Once we were checked in at the Oncology department, they completed many other test.  On Saturday, November 2nd they completed another CT scan of his head and entire body.  The scan didn't show any other signs of mass/tumors in his little body.  Thank God for that!!  We then had to wait and wait until we could get him scheduled for surgery and figure out what we are dealing with. 

The surgery/biopsy took place on Monday, November 4th.  We found out those results on Tuesday, November 5th.  The biopsy revealed the worse results!!  We were told our little boy has cancer!!! Devastating news for everyone.  He has Rhabdomyosarcoma in the Sphenoid sinus.  The mass ate away some of his bone area that separates that sinus area from his brain.  Thank God this is a slow growing mass and it isn't in his brain yet!  He also had a PET scan completed on Wednesday, November 6th, which didn't show any other signs of cancer in his body.  Thank God for that as well!   We were also told that he has the better type which is Embryonal.

We learned about our treatment plans and what to expect in the coming days.  We are so overwhelmed.  Nolan will need Radiation and Chemo to fight this cancer.  He will also need a fertility preservation completed at Mayo clinic, in the hopes that he can have children someday!   Please pray for our sweet Nolan!  Pray for complete healing, minimal side effects, speedy recovery, his fertility, strength, peace, and love through this horrible journey we are facing.   We know that God has a plan for our Nolan and we will trust in HIS plan. 

Thank you all so much for your love, support, prayers and thoughts.  They mean the world to us! 

Newest Update

Journal entry by J Milton

6 Month Post-Treatment Scans

It’s been a while since I last updated, so thought I would share some good news and give an update.

Nolan had his brain MRI last week, and I’m HAPPY to report awesome results once again! His images are showing stable results with no changes or evidence of tumor recurrence.  Praise the Lord for these results and many answered prayers! 🙌 We are filled with JOY and have so much to be thankful for. What a relief for all of us.

These last few months have been a breath of fresh air for our family. Nolan is getting stronger and healthier every day, and we’ve been enjoying the normalcy and blessings of this season of life that we are in. With our oldest son’s senior year upon us, we are enjoying this special time together following his hockey games/activities and preparing for his next chapter of life. We have also been able to participate and watch our daughter’s dance team/activities and be there for her during her junior year.  Life has been busy, but we are taking it all in and enjoying this time.     

Nolan is also back into the swing of things with daily routines and challenges of 5th grade.  He’s keeping up with school, weekly appointments for physical therapy and speech, and he loves being in sports (currently hockey) again.  It’s been great exercise for him, fun, and it keeps him off his video games!!  Double bonus. 😉 We are also trying not to do everything for him now days and get him back on track with 11-year-old responsibilities.  We’ve had to help him for such a long time with day-to-day tasks, that it can be challenging to tell him, “No, you can do this on your own now – You can do it Nolan!”  Not his favorite thing, but we like to get him going.

Going forward, he still has many challenges to work through. His mouth opening is still very restricted, so he will continue physical therapy, Botox injections, and daily exercises to hopefully improve that over time and keep the pain away.  We are also meeting with Mayo this week (Dental specialist and Otorhinolaryngology department) to get their input on his current condition and what next with his lock jaw/mouth restrictions and issues around that. 

We are also keeping in touch with his Nephrologists regarding his Kidney functions. Thankfully his abnormal labs have been improving in that area, but he continues to have blood in his urine with some pain. It sounds like that will clear-up over time though, which can also be a side effect from the chemo. 

We are also meeting with his Endocrinologist regarding his next steps for growth hormone treatments.  His current height is 4’7” and we were told he won’t grow much more than that without treatments (another side effect of radiation.) They have a certain time frame to start this process to get the best outcome, but we also run into the fact that hormone therapy can also cause tumors to grow, which is not what we want either!!  Typically, they wait 3-4 years after chemo to start this process (per his oncologist), but we were told he should start around June timeframe.  Praying it all works out with perfect timing and he can grow, grow, grow in height, but NOT in tumors. 🙏 

He still has many obstacles to overcome, but we are so thankful for the point we are at and celebrating his latest results. His next MRI will be in May and praying all will stay stable there, and he’ll have a lot healthier, fun-filled days ahead.

Thank you again for all the prayers and support. We are surrounded by amazing family, friends, and community.

Much love,
The Milton’s
   

Chronicles 16:34 “Oh, give thanks to the Lord, for He is good! His mercy endures forever.”

 

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