Mary’s Story

Site created on July 1, 2019

It all started on a Tuesday...
On November 21st, 2000 we all heard those 3 scary words for the first time. I. have. cancer. It is a day much like Tuesday, June 25th, 2019 that I will never forget.

I was in the eighth grade then and it was two short days away from Thanksgiving and a four day weekend. I was the first one home. Helped myself to the usual afternoon snack then turned on the TV to avoid homework when the garage began to open. It seemed early but one of my parents must have gotten off of work early. I then heard one car and the other pull into the garage. My heart immediately sank. Something must be wrong my parents never are home this early and they never arrive home at the same time. They walked in the door together and something seemed off, they seemed sad. I immediately asked what was wrong and after a deep breath my mom said I have cancer. A fifth grader at the time, Christina arrived home from school not too long after my parents and came storming into the house as excited as could be because she got all of the spelling words right on her test that week and didn't have to take it again. Her excitement quickly faded as she noticed the tear cried eyes and asked what was going on. My mom then told her she had cancer. Her excitement turned to sadness and she looked up at me and asked is mom going to die?

A few short weeks later mom had a mastectomy and lymph-nods removed and was diagnosed with stage 3 breast cancer. In January 2001 she began chemo and we celebrated the last chemo treatment in May. Chemo followed 6 weeks of radiation. And in August we celebrated cancer free!

Anyone who has ever been diagnosed with or has a close friend or family member knows that cancer free is never the end to the story. There began, 3 month, 6 month, then 1 year appointment check-ups. Every August in our house was one week of anticipated tests followed by waiting and finally relief that the scans were clear. Everyone said making it to five years was big. We celebrated when we hit five years. Then ten. Eleven. Twelve. Thirteen. And fourteen. Five more years, we were at year fifteen and the results came back. Her doctor said I think we need another scan in a few months. The next scan was followed up with a biopsy and we all knew. This was December 2015.  

We then began a new cancer journey. Chemo until that chemo didn't work anymore. There was chemo that worked for months and some for years. Some that had side effects of nephropathy, others lack of appetite, or hair loss. They all seem to make her tired. Scans, blood work and doctor visits range from weekly to quarterly.   


Newest Update

Journal entry by Brittany Prokott

Mary Prokott, age 64, died at her home in Brooklyn Park, MN on September 21, 2019. Mass of Christian Burial will be 11 am Wednesday, September 25, 2019, at St. Alphonsus Catholic Church, 7025 Halifax Ave N, Brooklyn Center, MN with visitation from 9:30-11 am at church. Interment at Gethsemane Cemetery New Hope, MN.

After a nearly 20-year battle, cancer took her life but never defined her life.

Born October 26, 1954, the middle daughter to Mike and Clara Zupko of Flensburg, MN.

A brave and determined 18-year-old, Mary moved down to the city and began her career after high school graduation. She spent many years working in the advertising industry. The majority of her career was working in the cookbook division at Pillsbury/General Mills and after 24 years, she retired in 2011. Most recently she spent the last 5 years working as a special education para for a local school.

In 1976 at a bar in Elmdale Mary met the love of her life, Dave. They married on May 13, 1978 in Flensburg. In 1979 they built a home in Brooklyn Park where they raised their two daughters.

Mary loved to sew and cook and was one of the best bakers around. She loved spending time with family and enjoyed traveling, visiting 30 of the 50 states.

Mary is survived by her husband David, two daughters Brittany and Christina, and sisters, Rose Ann Kopp and Carol (Donald) Reis. And many bothers & sisters-in-law, cousins, nieces, nephews and friends.

She is preceded in death by her parents, Mike & Clara Zupko and in-laws Thomas & Cordelia Prokott. Brother-in-laws Aloysius Prokott, Duane Prokott, and Larry Kopp.

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