Mary Crockett’s Story

Site created on January 16, 2023

Welcome to our CaringBridge website. We are using it to keep family and friends updated in one place. 

On Tuesday, Jan. 3 our dear friend and family member, Mary, was diagnosed with stage IV colon cancer that is also present in her liver. Because the cancer is so pervasive, the doctors’ main goal is to help her control it and live as full a life as possible with it. 

In the next few weeks she is going to start a 6-months round of chemo. Mary will simultaneously be able to take part in a clinical trial at UVA—for which she qualified on Jan. 18.  Please pray that she will be in whatever group gives her the best outcome (which will most likely be the treatment group rather than the control group).   For her chemo, she’ll be at the Salem branch of Blue Ridge Cancer Care, so she’ll be closer to family. 

Once they’re done with initial chemo, she’ll be in something called “maintenance,” which means they continue a background level of meds and they’ll just check on her a lot and start full chemo again if things get out of hand.

Mary remains hopeful that treatment will be effective and grateful for the wonderful community support she has already received from friends and family via thoughtful cards in the mail and meals.  Mary is in the process of relocating to her homeplace on Union Street in Salem where her sister lives. There she will be closer to treatment and support services. At that time, we will be able to coordinate meals and services at that location.

Although she is fatigued, she continues to be as positive as possible. We understand that many are looking for ways to help and we will be organizing a meal train starting in the coming days, so more on that later. In the meantime, we appreciate your prayers, support, words of hope and encouragement. 

Please check here for updates so that we don’t overwhelm Mary with too many texts and phone calls and emails.  Thank you for visiting. 

Newest Update

Journal entry by Isabelle Hill

Poet, teacher, mother, and all-around beautiful 
human Mary Crockett Hill died in the early morning on September 23, 2023. Born in the summer of 1969, Mary had struggled valiantly with health challenges since receiving a stage 4 colon cancer diagnosis last December. 
 
Mary’s bravery, humility, and singular wit were matched only by her boundless capacity for love. These were the qualities that sustained Mary throughout the entirety of her life. The ones that made her such a dutiful friend, valuable educator, unsurpassed sister, daughter, wife, and—most importantly—mother. These too were the qualities that made the hard days of Mary’s illness bearable for her family. 
 
Mary loved life with a voracious, inquisitive tenacity capable of inspiring those around her. She delighted in both the exquisite and the ordinary with an adaptability that informed both the tenor of her life and her writing. 
 
Throughout her life, Mary channeled her gifts broadly. She was a museum director, toilet-seat hand model, freelance writer, literary magazine editor, fundraising spy, physics award winner, Easter Seals grant writer, and most recently, Associate Professor of Creative Writing at Roanoke College. 
 
In each of these capacities Mary’s directness, intelligence, unassuming good sense, and kindness cut to the heart of the matter at hand, enriching the workplaces and projects to which she lent her talents. Her multi-faceted abilities also defined her creative life as she wrote across genres: not only in her first love: poetry, but in children’s and young adult literature, verse memoir, and local history.
 
It is impossible to wholly map the complex, radiant contours of Mary’s soul. How can one person be both so tender and so fierce? So funny and so earnest? Mary defied categories. She embodied all these qualities and so, so many more.
 
From her first breath to her last, Mary was a miracle. Her strength of spirit, let alone her strength of character, were forces to be reckoned with. 
 
Mary knew how to live in the present, with peace, dignity, and grace. No one could out-spunk her. Who else would be giving high-fives on their deathbed? Mary will be sorely missed, but even more joyously loved. 
 
Mary is survived by her Husband Stewart, daughter Isabelle, sons Samson, Crockett, and Gabe, puppy Lily, and weird cat Boots. She has gone to be with her beloved mother Nedra May Wade and her nut of a first dog-baby Spice. 
 
Her family welcomes you to a 3 p.m. funeral service at College Lutheran Church in Salem, Virginia on Sunday, October 1. Pastor David Drebes will officiate. A reception will follow at the Salem Museum from 5-8 p.m. In lieu of flowers, the family asks you make donations to Help Save The Next Girl. The Hill family is served by John M. Oakey & Son Funeral Home in Salem, 540-389-5441.
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