Marley’s Story

Site created on May 3, 2019

Marley has lived  89 magnificent, authentically alive years. 


On May 1 Doctor recommended she go to the ER .  After  assessment as well as diagnosing pneumonia, doctor recommended hospice.  This sudden change in health status is a shock.  Her symptoms were vague, obscure. No one near her suspected she had pneumonia. 


While end of life is a very intimate, emotional process for family and very close friends, there may be things to share that  allow all who have known and loved her to stay connected in this journey and transition. 

We appreciate your holding this process with light, love, and mystery. Your  tenderness and expression of appreciation for some of the ways Marley has impacted you are welcome. 

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Journal entry by Amma Thanasanti

Thursday morning Marley died. We moved her to UUCSR and laid her out in honor. Thursday night the regular meditation group met while the Dhammadharini Bhikkhuni’s chanted the traditional funeral chanting. They got word Marley died and showed up that evening.


Friday morning the meditation group that I started when I lived in Santa Rosa and has been ongoing met with me and mom’s body. The poem that was read was perfect.


Again The Dhammadharini Bhikkhuni gathered a second time in the evening and again we did the traditional funeral chanting: The sound recording is here:https://youtu.be/E8J8lNnb2FU. They came laden with Dhamma books to give as gifts.


Saturday City Zen met and a chanted. The link for that chanting is here:

https://youtu.be/OO9Myt3bKDw.


Saturday afternoon 15 different Threshold choir song sisters representing 4,Threshold Choirs and including Kate Munger, the founder gathered (with 2 days notice). the link for that is here: https://youtu.be/pQUzMeUisAg.


It’s hard with a few words and even these sound recordings to convey the flow of blessings that come as community gather, honor a beloved Elder, my dear Mother who has passed, and be present with me in my grief, exhaustion and relief – bringing food for guests and meals for me, giving space, and being present; decorating the casket with messages.It’s also hard t o describe the perfection being here in the middle of this deeply loving congregation and have all of this happening.


to say goodbye and to move through this Threshold with Grace, beauty, community; tell and hear stories, laugh, cry, Feel, humbled by others kindness generosity, see friends who have known Marley many decades, and my friends who drove hours to have some time with me, feel joy, and feel exhausted. Yes- all of it right now.

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