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Hi Everyone
The biggest hurdle is finding my way through this site. Sometimes I was on the outside looking in where I could post something to myself but not write to all of you.  Well I found my way back inside to make additions. It took longer than Walker transfers and wheelchair cooking to figure out.  :)

I have been home 12 days and most of the in house navigation has gotten pretty regular. The drywall is suffering where backing up in the wheelchair is necessary to get into places. I need a back up camera. That is a joke.
If past experience is any indicator, 3 people upon reading that line opened a tab with Amazon to search wheelchair backup cameras!

Which is the segue to How wonderful so many people are and the readiness to step in and help or cheer or push me along. Literally and figuratively. I have a small email list of neighbors on my street, sometimes I get three responses to a small request with a short period. I am amazed, reassured, and gratified to experience the generous goodness of the people I find myself in and around.

I want to apologize to all of you kind people that want to help and don't know how. I don't know how to ask. I am much better at figuring out someone else's needs than my own. Now here I am unable to do for others (both at work and the rest of life) and needing to recognize and articulate my own wishes and needs.
Another F-ing Growth Opportunity!

That said, For those who are able and comfortable being in contact; visits and trips for errands or "get of the house refreshment" are welcome.

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