Marilyn’s Story

Site created on February 5, 2022

We all know our Mom/Marilyn as a fighter, and invite your encouraging words and prayers as she faces her biggest battle yet.  

Our Mom was admitted to Baltimore-Washington Medical Center for a suspected blood clot on January 24.  This came as a surprise as she had just had a wonderful visit to the west coast to see her brother and Ward family the prior week.  They diagnosed her as having had a heart attack and she was being evaluated for a blood clot.  Unfortunately, she was not able to get a heart catheterization.  At BWMC Stacey and Susie were able to have alternating visits and we facilitated Facetime calls with family, friends, and her Woods Church community.  

After suffering a stroke, she was transferred to the Acute Stroke Rehabilitation Unit at Johns Hopkins Bay View.  Bay View, due to COVID, only allowed one person to visit over a 7 day period.  Daughter Susie has remained by Mom's side every day.  In addition to paralysis on her right side, an MRI confirmed osteomyelitis in the fingers of both her left and right hand.  After a big push of antibiotics 24/7, doctors have concluded that amputation is immanent.  Her most serious issue at the moment is heart failure, with her ejection fraction "EF" at 15.  Doctor's explained that her arterial disease (in the arteries of the brain) could "throw" another clot at any time.  With an under functioning heart, fluid is building up in her limbs and lungs, which brought on a persistent cough.  Due to Mom's kidney disease, Doctors are not able to do the catheterization procedure that uses a contrast dye.   Thanks to Covid numbers dropping in the State of Maryland, Stacey and Susie are now allowed alternating visits, and able to facilitate more Facetime calls.

Despite colon cancer, a head on collision that broke Mom's neck, 2 simultaneously broken shoulders, decades of diabetic issues, kidney disease, and overcoming breast cancer just last year, Cousin Martie reminds us to have faith in Marilyn's INDOMITABLE SPIRIT to deal with adversity!  

Please share your thoughts and well wishes.  We read them to her daily.  Cards may be mailed to 65 Baldwin Hill Road South, Great Barrington, MA 01230.  

-- Susie and Stacey (Marilyn's daughters)

Newest Update

Journal entry by Susie Dyer

Thinking of my mom, Marilyn Sickels, who died a year ago today.  I summarized her life at sea for a "message in a bottle", launched in Dingle bay (County Kerry, west coast of Ireland).  Sprinkled some ashes at Tobernalt Holy Well (predates the advent of Christianity to Ireland, and seen as a place which sustains life for ancestors), and on the Island beaches of Blasket, Achill & Innishbofin.  As done last year in Africa, I packed Mom's shoes and sunglasses, so I could feel her with me in every step, and I could see the beauty of Ireland thru her eyes.  

I remain so very grateful for Mom's incredible circle of family and friends, medical providers, hospice nurses, sailors, gardeners & members of Woods Memorial Church.  Thank you for the many ways you extended love and care to Marilyn over the years.  I think of your contributions often, as I reflect upon the highlights of Mom's life on earth.

I miss you, Mom.  I'm keeping every promise made at your bedside...



Patients and caregivers love hearing from you; add a comment to show your support.
Help Marilyn Stay Connected to Family and Friends

A $25 donation to CaringBridge powers a site like Marilyn's for two weeks. Will you make a gift to help ensure that this site stays online for them and for you?

Comments Hide comments

Show Your Support

See the Ways to Help page to get even more involved.

SVG_Icons_Back_To_Top
Top