Lynne’s Story

Site created on November 11, 2018

Earlier this week, Lynne was heading back to the hospital following further complications in her journey with cancer.  She was walking down the stairs from the camper she and David had been living in the past few weeks in Phoenix, where she was seeking non-traditional treatment for her cancer. She paused at the bottom of the steps and took a deep ‘recovery breath’.  She started for the car that Brooke had waiting to take her to the hospital, paused and said, “Wait!” as she turned and walked back up the steps. She reached up to the empty hummingbird feeder that was hanging on a branch of the lone tree by their temporary home, took another recovery breath and said, “The birds need food too.”


That is our Lynne. Whether it’s the people in her life or the birds eating at her feeder; ‘others’ always find their way into her care. 
When she and David arrived in Phoenix, prepared to live out of the camper they towed behind them from their home in Montana, Lynne went out and bought a hummingbird feeder.  Their camper is set up among other campers surrounded by concrete slabs and city sounds.  The stark difference between their new temporary home and the beautiful home they created in Montana and had to leave, was not lost on her.  So she did what Lynne does - has done her whole life, not matter the circumstances - she brings beauty to her. She filled that new hummingbird feeder with sweetness and the birds came. 


Following a hysterectomy in November of last year, a large tumor was discovered in her uterus, which initiated chemotherapy at the end of December through April 2018.  It appeared the cancer was in remission.  However, a follow-up CT scan revealed spots on her lungs.  At that point, Immunotherapy was started in July, going into September.  The cancer continued to grow at a rapid rate and she was told all conventional forms of treatment were no longer available to her.  She plowed through each new step and challenge without a complaint; taking each with strength and grace.


She decided to seek a non-traditional approach to treatment at the Envita Cancer Center in Phoenix where she was to receive Genetically-Targeted Fractionated Chemotherapy [GTFC] which is a new treatment involving low-dose chemotherapy targeted to hit up to 7-10 genetic markers; something that traditional chemotherapy cannot do.  Genetic information is collected in real-time through a blood test, not simply from a biopsy; giving Doctors information regarding what each individual patient’s genetics are most likely going to respond to today - not six months previous when the biopsy was originally performed.


Soon after Lynne arrived in Arizona, she was hospitalized with fluid in her lungs, again demonstrating the extremely rapid growth of the tumors, which were now pressing agains her airway.  Soon after her short stay at the hospital, she began Tomo Radiation Therapy.  However, another complication has Lynne back in the hospital due to declining pulmonary status from tumors and infection.  She is currently receiving high levels of oxygen and her goal and hope is to regain strength and lung capacity to initiate the new chemotherapy version and radiation to the tumors in her lungs. 


WE WOULD LOVE to hear your Lynne stories and messages that we can share with her as she continues to have hope and fight with the grit and grace she has always lived.  We want to remind her how she is, even miles from home, loved and held by each of you. Your love, your prayers, your friendship sustains us these days. 


We have linked a GoFundMe site for any of you who would like to help ease some of the financial burden medical expenses bring with this level of care. Most of her expenses will not be covered by her insurance and that is not a burden we want to add to the very real challenges she will face in the coming days. Thank you for your love and friendship. 

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Journal entry by Brooke White

Lynne Beauclair

6/30/54 – 2/25/19

 

Lynette Marie Beauclair-Gray, a longtime resident of the Flathead Valley, passed away enveloped by the enduring love of her family. Knowing the grace and dignity with which she lived her life, it was not surprising to see this continue in full expression following her stage 4 cancer diagnosis approximately a year prior.  

 

Lynne’s lively spirit brought boundless compassion and genuine love into this world.  Each encounter she had was infused with her desire to make authentic connection with every person she met.  She walked through this world with an openness to all of life that created experiences and encounters that reflected her inquisitive, adventure-seeking nature.

 

Gratitude guided her journey through life, making even the smallest of details a delight. She was buoyant in a way that lifted us all. Lynne loved the world around her with a passion that left all nurtured in her path. She fed the birds, watered the earth, and tended her garden with an indelible commitment to its beauty and worth. 

 

Lynne was born in Bonners Ferry, Idaho, and grew up in Moyie Springs, later moving to Coeur d’Alene where she graduated from high school.  She continued her education at the University of Colorado, Greely, where she obtained her Master’s Degree in Speech-Language Pathology.  She began her career in Florida, establishing a successful private practice clinic, which also set the foundation for a lifetime of mentorship for new graduates.  Florida brought many important life changes, the best of which was giving birth to her only daughter, Brooke, and meeting her husband, David. 

 

Lynne’s love of the ocean and exploration of its deep mysteries lead her on countless diving adventures where she captured its beauty and complexity through underwater photography. But it was her lifetime love of the mountains that called her and her new family back to the Northwest in 1993.

 

She continued her career at Kalispell Regional Medical Center for the next 25 years, touching the lives of her patients, co-workers, and students, and retiring in 2018.  To this day, countless students continue to benefit from her legacy as a Speech—Language Pathologist. She brought her unique blend of knowledge, compassion, and humor to each patient encounter so that people left her care feeling supported and empowered to continue on their healing journey.

 

Lynne’s adventurous spirit shined in her many passions that extended beyond her career into the community and the international world. She was a hiker a traveler and a gardener. She found her way back to the water she loved, kayaking the many lakes and rivers around her. There was never a shortage of canned goods she gathered and prepared from her garden. And at the end of her very full days, there could always be found a book in her hands, for Lynne was a seeker and literature was her love. 

 

In the last years of her life, Lynne’s deep joy lay in her grandchildren who had the short/brief gift of getting to know their Mimi. She laughed and held and taught them with unabashed joy. Love flowed out of her and while her physical self has left us, her love remains.

 

Lynne is survived by David Gray, her devoted husband of 30 adventuresome years; her daughter Brooke (White) [husband Aaron Ober], children Beau and Quinn; step-daughter Michele [husband Mark Petersen], and grandchildren Logan and Darcy; step-daughter Angela [husband Michael Artuso], and grandson Jack. She is also survived by her mother Veryl Nystrom, sister Cheryl Brock, brother Tom Beauclair, and brother Michael Billingsly. The Beauclair family is large with many aunts, uncles, and cousins throughout the United States.

 

A Celebration of Life will be held on her birthday, June 30 at the Blaine Creek Grill in Kalispell from 2:00-5:00 pm.  All are welcome.

 

You have left us a beautiful, forever legacy in the ways you loved and lived and cared for us in your unique Lynne Beauclair way. You have left us missing you in all the tangible ways you moved through our lives. But Lynne, your light continues to shine so brightly. 

 

 

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