Lester’s Story

Site created on June 5, 2018

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Our story goes back to March 29th of last year when Lester composed this email:

First of all—thank you so much for your concern and prayers.  And for bringing our friendships into focus again.  I am truly bouyed up thinking of each of you thinking about me and mine!  Thank you.

You've all gotten on this ride at differing points.  So, just a bit of history for a frame.  In the spring of 2014 a regular 'Well Visit" included a chest xray that revealed my diaphrams pushing up (eventration, not cancer) into the lower reaches of my lungs. (This is related because it was a insult to having 'Tuba lungs' that were not up to their reputation!) Pulminology watched a small spot that came up on a CT.  "...really small, not a tumor, & prudent to watch." Spring of 2015 asked a surgeon and he can look with video and act if need be.  Came out of that minus the left upper lobe with clean nodules and margins. Stage 1b, gone, no need for more action and we'll check 3-4 times a year. February 2017 revealed "effusion" (750ml of fluid removed) showing cancer cells not going by the rules of "being gone."  March 9, removal of 3 liters more fluid and "irratating lung plura to stick to chest plura" (pleurodesis) thus reducing space for fluid and near normal breathing restored.  Can you see me walking around with a chest drainage arrangement for a week?  Seems to continue to work so I walk, eat, breathe and do things like this running off at the brain.   

Turns out to be easy compared to days 3-5 of first chemo drip (4 hours of stuff to kill the little buggers once every 21 days).  So - day 8 now and the gut, body and head are acting 'normal' again.  4-7 21 day cycles and we'll see what the results show.  Hair loss coming up I'm told. Just have to see if days 3-5 are 'super flu-like' days as this first time.  That's really it up-to-date.

Now to brag about being cared for - 1) being dependent is not my strong suit; 2) got a great support team: Daughters Emily, Cedar Rapids, IA (with Laura a Coe College sophmore, instrumental music major [clarinet], HS Sr., Libby, 2 time Allstate Euphonium and Ben, 9th grade-wrestler, gymnast, horn player, swing choir and musical theater enthusiast), Caryn, RN here in Monona and Alyssa, lawyer here in Monona are all taking first rate care of Dad and Mom.  Lots of support from church community and all of you.  Doing pretty well all-in-all.

So, maybe more than you needed to know, but really wanted to 'talk' to you all.  A former pastor's wife said years ago she wanted the rocker next to mine on the retirement porch. "You'll keep my ears busy!" 

We moved here to Monona (Madison), WI in August of 2011 following Cheryl's stoke in October 2009 after 38 years in Luverne, MN.  Good years all and this move has been excellent. 

Respond as you are able/wish.  I promise to skip the 'medical scars' stories next time!  Back to the 'other' real world!

Thanks again for coming back into our lives.      The best of Peace to You!    Les      

There was no need for either of us to write about this again until April 8th of this year when I wrote:
Subject: Les’ renewed treatment
Date: April 8, 2018 at 11:46:10 PM CDT
Dear friends,
You  have noticed that Les hasn’t felt up to par these last months. We saw some of his cancer doctors last week and had some tests. He has further involvement with spread to soft tissues and bones. More testing will reveal what to do next, perhaps radiation and immunotherapy. He has been very tired and felt more pain. New meds taken every 12 hours seem to help with that. We ask for your prayers. Our faith helps us so much. We are so thankful to be here in Monona with our family so close, fine medical care and our spiritual life so meaningful and each one of you involved with our life. We will continue to enjoy our times together in our involvement with the education of our Palestine friends. We know we can reach out to you anytime we need help. Thank you for your wonderful friendship,
In Christ’s love,
Cheryl & Les

Subject: Les
Date: May  3, 2018 at 6:45:10 PM CDT
Les has started his immunotherapy, Optiva, at Carbone Center Center. Please keep us in your prayers.
Thank you so much. 

We sent a text alert to our dear Pastor Elisa before church on Sunday, May 20:
Les went to UW hospital by ambulance at 2 am. Nurse daughter Caryn is with him. Emily Gibson stayed with me. He needs to have fluids drained from lungs again. None of us will be in church today. 
Prayers are sought. Please spread the word if anyone inquires. 
Sent with love & prayers,
Cheryl

Date: May 31, 2018 at 6:11:43 PM CDT
Finally I know what is happening with Les. He was tired out when he got to Meriter Hospital. After X-rays he elected not to do fluid drainage. He was advised that the dangers outweigh the benefits. Both local daughters saw the oncologist. Order are: keep on with immunotherapy, don’t obsess over numbers & readings. If he needs to sleep for 24 hours, go ahead but take pain meds.
Cheryl

That brings us to last Sunday, June 3, 2018.
Lester went by ambulance to UW hospital around seven this morning. Alyssa is with him. Emily is on her way now from Cedar Rapids. I was at church today. A friend of Caryn’s and ours gave me a ride to church. We don’t know what will happen with Les yet but he is now in a room. Emily and Alyssa will be with their dad when hospice and doctors will talk with them about options.


Newest Update

Journal entry by Chery Mahaffay

Another step was made in saying goodbye to Lester. September twenty third was a date that worked out for our family to meet at Henrytown Lutheran Church, the home church of our Erickson family. This is where we, Lester and Cheryl, were married 55 years ago. 
Harris Hostager presided at the graveside services. Harris was our pastor in Belmond,IA and he baptized our daughter Caryn in 1970.It was meaningful for us to have such a long time friend doing this.  We shared memories of Lester, we heard Scriptures read, Alyssa’s husband Eric placed the cremains alongside of those of our infant Lara, B/D September 27,1966, we  prayed the Lord’s prayer and scattered dust to dust ashes to ashes and Harris blessed us with the benediction.
My father James Erickson,  enjoyed a bit of carpentry and woodworking after he retired from his work as a farmer and we used one of his boxes as a container for Lester’s ashes. I am sure he never knew what that box would be used for but he made two of them and someday my ashes will join those Lester’s and Lara’s remains at Henrytown.
Our daughter Emily brought a gorgeous arrangement of a dozen red roses (for Lester) along with baby’s breath (for baby Lara.)
 We are fortunate that my brother Greg Erickson still lives on his Erickson farm so close to Henrytown and he stops at the cemetery often to water the flowers and visit our Erickson/Mahaffay families there.
As after the graveside service was finished we drove to nearby Harmony and enjoyed food and fellowship there before we headed off to Decorah, Cedar Rapids, Minneapolis, Monona & West Salem.
We are confident we will meet again in Heaven, Lara and Lester Mahaffay.
Blessed be your memories.

”They whom we love and lose are no longer where they were before. They are now where ever we are.”*

*St John Chrystostom (349-407), Bishop of 
Constantinople, was called “golden mouth”
(chrysostom) because of his eloquent speaking.
Thank you, Tom Martin Erickson

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