Kris’s Story

Site created on August 7, 2020

Welcome to our CaringBridge website, for Kris Vandehey.  We (Jackie and Sarah) are using it to keep family and friends updated in one place.  We appreciate your support and words of hope and encouragement. Thank you for visiting. A few short weeks ago, Kris was diagnosed with a very rare form of cancer called Adenoid Cystic Carcinoma.  How did this all begin?  Kris began noticing a tiny annoying cough a few years ago, every time she laid on her back.  Since November of this past year, she had a consistent, very mild, sore throat.  Then in March, Kris began having difficulty inhaling upon waking up every morning,  her voice was sounding off and on "rattly", and it consistently became more difficult to breathe from her throat.  This cancer cannot be cured by radiation or chemotherapy, only with surgery just below her right vocal chord.  Kris had PET and CT scans done last week that showed the cancer has NOT spread anywhere else in her body.  Praise God!  We are so grateful for this happy report! Kris will be having surgery to remove the tumor in her throat on Monday, August 10th, at OHSU in Portland.  She will be there for approximately 4-5 days, or longer if needed, based on the results of the surgery.  Depending on how far the tumor has progressed around her larynx, she may or may not end up with a tracheostomy. Kris will awaken from surgery with a feeding tube through her nose, which she'll have for 2-3 weeks.  Pray for her...she won't be able to taste chocolate!!  Additionally, she also won't be able to talk for 2-3 weeks.  Yes, keep praying for her! ;)  Best long term case from the surgery, she will be able to talk, taste, and eat through her mouth.   Her voice might only be raspy and slightly lower in pitch.  She will be able to breathe through her nose and her mouth.  The worst case from the surgery, is she would have no voice and would be using an artificial larynx, while breathing through her neck.  Thank you for your prayers, your words of encouragement, your support, and your love for our Mom and Dad, and our family.  We know that God has our entire family in His mighty hands, and our Mom is being well cared for by Him.  

Newest Update

Journal entry by Jackie Himes

We wanted to give another update on Mom's progress, as she is now 11 days out from when she left the hospital and quite a bit of transition has taken place!

Mom went home with 2 large bags full of supplies, a suction machine, and a mist machine. The very next morning, UPS arrived with 7 boxes packed with more supplies! It was an eye-opening reality check for both Mom and Dad, and they instantly went to work organizing the supplies into new storage spaces, which included some handy work from Dad's wood shop!  This whole adventure has put both of them on a steep learning curve. Each day presents new insights and challenges about what it means to breathe...and all that goes into it. Mom is so thankful for each breath she continues to experience.

The mist machine is used every night, as well as the suction machine, which helps clean out the trach a few times a day. She learned the hard way to never tip her head back to wash her hair in the shower. It just takes one tiny drop coming down from her hair to face to neck, to enter the trach and cause instantaneous gasping for air. The suction machine came to her rescue the first 3 times she showered. We are so grateful for modern machinery! Since then, Mom tucks her chin down and wears a nylon bib, and has my Dad within earshot when she showers.  The strap that wraps around her neck to keep the trach tube in, requires 4 hands to replace when it gets wet. Two of those hands have to hold the tube so it doesn't fall out (and Mom makes sure those hands are only hers)! This will hopefully all change when she gets a smaller, and less obtrusive-looking, trach in a few months.

Mom has the option of wearing 1 of 2 vents, which are the pieces at the end of the trach. One is small (and only comes in the color purple), and allows her to talk much louder and easier that she has in the past 2 years. She can even sing a little with it! However, after a few minutes, it causes coughing. So, at this time, she prefers a tube-looking one that "protrudes an obnoxious 4.5 inches" from her neck. But not only is it much trickier to hide under a neck scarf, she cannot talk more that 2-3 fast words with it on before needing to stop to take a breath, prior to continuing her sentence. The coughing is caused by a number of factors: breeze, any scent at all, flowers, wood, spices...pretty much anything airborne. Mom is confident this will all get better over the next couple of weeks, let alone when she gets the small "button" trach. 

We continue to be so grateful for the outpouring of love, prayers, encouragement and support from so many near and far. Mom is amazing, as we all know, and her journey of recovering and transitioning into this new normal of life, is made so much easier because of each of you! Thank you!!

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