Kevin’s Story

Site created on June 25, 2020

Hello wonderful family friends - thank you ALL for your love, for your healing thoughts, energy, and prayers sent towards dad, and for all your support - it means so very very much to him.

Dad has been incredibly reluctant to have me create this page because ultimately we have all been hoping his current medical stay will be brief and he doesn't want to draw attention to himself. But given it's now been almost three weeks since his original entry into care and that many folks have been curious where Kevin went away to, it's clear the benefits of CaringBridge are a wonderful opportunity to be efficient and centralized in keeping everyone in the loop as we journey together.

We are anticipating Kevin will be at the Fargo Sanford Hospital through at least the 8th of July. He arrived in Fargo on the afternoon of Tuesday, June 23rd after spending a week at Sanford Bemidji. 

Backstory:
He drove himself to the Bemidji hospital early in the morning on June 16th after the abdominal pain he had been experiencing all weekend became too much. He stayed home that weekend of June 13-14 thinking what he had was potential food poisoning or pulled muscles in his back. Turns out dad's appendix end had a posterior curl rather than the traditional anterior position, further complicating his ability to diagnose what was going on. Lesson #1: remind all our loved ones if you have persistent pain in your abdomen for more than 24 hours make sure to go in and have it checked out.  

Turns out he had ruptured his appendix, most likely over the weekend, so that by Tuesday morning he needed serious care. The initial surgery was laparoscopic and there was a lot of clean-up to do given the rupture.  After coming out of his initial surgery on June 16th his condition began to stabilize and improve throughout last week, but the distention in his abdomen was not reducing in size at the rate his Bemidji medical team desired. After a week of monitoring it was decided that dad needed the next level of care to improve his health and address his abdominal swelling and cellulitis. 

Catching up to today:
His second surgery (first in Fargo) was on Tuesday June 23rd took out the rest of his appendix and installed a drain.
Third was on 6/25 installed another drain, and addressed other infection sites including his right upper leg. 
Fourth on Saturday 6/27 expanded the current and added another incision to help continue to target the areas of infection and bring them out.
His fifth on Monday 6/29 saw enough progress with his infection reducing to sew the interior walls of his abdomen back up and remove the drains.

His medical team here in Fargo has been incredibly on the ball in managing his care. His lab levels continue to look normal for the most part, his vitals remain stable, and on the good news side of things his ultrasounds have been very positive - confirming that his kidneys do not look damaged and that there is no sign of clotting going on in his body that they can see. Amidst the impressive cocktail of pain meds, and antibiotics that dad is on to manage his care, he is also on a blood thinner out of an abundance of caution as well.

How you can help:

Because Kevin currently has an open abdomen and now will have an open leg wound pack his medical care team is asking for no visitation outside of immediate next of kin throughout his stay here in Fargo to minimize any chance of exposure to outside pathogens.  In the mean time, please feel free to post a little comment below sharing your love and prayers - he loves hearing us read the texts he's getting from you. Allison, mom, and I will try to keep everyone updated with posts here until he heads back home and know that you are all in our hearts, we are so thankful for your support, and that dad loves you all so much. 😀 


In lieu of flowers and cards, 
One of Kevin’s passions is community involvement, and some dear friends helped us set up this site in honor of him. We appreciate all gifts and thoughtfulness, but we have been blessed so much already. https://www.unitedwaybemidji.org/kevincease

Newest Update

Journal entry by Brett Cease

So... my friends, this is Kevin writing again with an update we've all been waiting for :)

My journey through formal healthcare will joyously end as I go home on Monday July 20th!  When I do get home for the next several weeks, given managing pathogens, etc. I probably won't be able to have visitors beyond my personal health attendants and care team looking out for me while my wounds self-heal, so I won't be back at my old-self for a while still.

Nevertheless, I can’t tell you how much hope and excitement I am expecting as I will smell pine trees and flowers in outside air and feel the sunlight on my skin as I’ve been inside a hospital since June 16th.

All of your support over this past month has meant the world to me, I am blessed with the greatest friends in the whole world.  Seeing each of your comments and the ways you've shared your love, prayers, and steadfast support has kept me going, it truly has.

Earlier this week I had one really sad day that I called my pity party, I was so so sick and tired of being sick and tired and being in constant pain. I cried most of the afternoon and called up family and friends who were gracious enough just let me process my tears and pain.

The next morning I woke up refreshed and positive again ready for whatever challenges were ahead of me. And that seems to be the best way to go about life. But we need those dark times to regroup and appreciate what we have and what we’ve been through. 

My doctor just told me that I’m about 70% healed. I still have four open wounds that have to slowly heal together in what they call a wet-to-dry dressing that needs to be changed twice a day. I also need to take my physical body and slowly transform it back to normal with good exercise, nutrition, sleep, and lots of love from my friends, family, and Molly my puppy.

While we probably won't post again here on the CaringBridge site, know that we'll be sure to reach out and follow-up with everyone's generous offers to help in all the ways you have. Feel free to send me an email or text in all ahead and know that simply the experience of knowing you are sending me your love and prayers has carried me through this past month's ordeal. Who would’ve thunk this stubborn Norwegian would land himself here finally after all this time.

Also, as this is probably my last post, I just want to say, as you know, one of my passions is community involvement. And some dear friends have helped us set up this site in honor of my recovery: https://www.unitedwaybemidji.org/kevincease. Given how much we have been blessed already, please know that in lieu of flowers, cards, or any other care packages that you'd like to send, I'd be honored if you donated instead to the Bemidji United Way.

Thank you all so very very much again, and know I love ❤️ you all!
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