It's been six years to the day that Jud completed conditioning(chemo and radiation) for BMT.  On March 8, 2018 he had matched, unrelated donor marrow sluiced into his fourteen year-old body to begin its work, enabling his survival.  
It worked, Jud's twenty now!  
I'm working at writing about it, still, or again.  
What are the big lessons and truths?  I'm still working on that.
All I can really say for now is "Thanks everybody, and keep on!"
Anna