Joe’s Story

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So, I just discovered that Joe's backstory did not make it onto his Caring Bridge site when I first posted; my bad, I must not have hit a save button.  Given the circumstances, I'm guessing I'll be allowed this ONE little blunder. This explains why there were so many questions about what happened to him.  I think everyone is mostly up to speed now, but I'll give the rundown for any newcomers.  


On April 17th, at approximately 1:20p, Joe was on a job site using a dolly to lift a heavy cast iron farmhouse sink. As soon as he kind of heaved the dolly to get it moving, he got dizzy, and almost fell over.  A couple of coworkers (Phil and "one of the tin guys") were able to catch him before he fell and sat him down; then he started vomiting.  Phil called me immediately to let me know what was going on and I told him I would meet them at the ER; Phil loaded him up and headed to the ER.  


When I entered Joe's ER room, he was pale, sweating, and did not really respond to my arrival (NOT typical); he looked miserable and I fully expected Joe was having a cardiac event. But with a normal EKG and the sudden onset of symptoms, the ER doc said they were going to run Joe thru the stroke protocol to fast-track all of his imaging to find out what was happening.  After the CT scan, I was shocked to find out he was having a stroke and the location of the stroke was causing the dizziness, imbalance, nausea, and vomiting (not your classic stroke symptoms). TPA, a med to break up the clot was started via IV, the University of Utah was consulted, and plans for transport to Salt Lake City were put underway. 


As soon as Joe was picked up for transport, I raced home, packed a bag full of random things (seriously, it's like I'd never packed before), scribbled pet care and remote instructions for my dad, and headed out for the longest, loneliest, darkest car trip of my life.  


I arrived in Salt Lake at about 2:30a and was allowed to sneak in to see Joe for a few minutes before heading to my hotel.  I got a couple of hours of sleep, regrouped a little, and headed back to the hospital to find that Joe had experienced complete numbness and weakness on his left side about 90 min after I left for the hotel.  Originally, the assumption was that this was related to the original event, but it turns out it was a 2nd stroke.  


Okay,  now I think the journal entries take over from here.  


Danna

Newest Update

Journal entry by Danna Micech

JOE IS OFFICIALLY DISCHARGED FROM ALL UNITS OF THE UNIVERSITY OF UTAH MEDICAL CENTER!!!!!

It didn't hit me until we got to the parking garage that I was taking him with me this time and I got a little choked up. Then we got to the car, drove the short distance to our hotel, brought his things to our room, we turned and looked at each other, then hugged hard and cried. I think we've both just been in survival mode and doing what needed to be done to get Joe better and home, we have taken very little time to let it sink in, until we were "in the clear."

We KNOW how lucky we are, we KNOW how much worse this outcome could've been, we KNOW he had/has an easier road than a lot of people. But, we know this was the scariest experience we have faced together and we do not want to do it again. 

Recovery is not over, there is still work to be done, but he gets to do it at home, surrounded by his people and his things, he gets to sleep in his own bed, he gets to move about freely, he gets to go to the bathroom without pushing the nurse call button (no, I'm NOT installing one at home, no matter how many times he asks), and he gets all the fine motor skill challenging toddler toys he wants (we will be well equipped for babysitting or grandkids some day). And he is still improving DAILY... no more crushing my hand during hand holding!

I'll continue to update on his progress occasionally, but hopefully he will be back to his baseline within 6 months, if not a lot sooner. He's hoping to go back to work relatively soon (in a couple weeks) for partial days in the office (a few hours in the morning and a few hours in the afternoon), but nobody, even Joe, is expecting him to go back to working 50 hours a week. Those days are done. Right now, he gets both mentally and physically fatigued after a few hours of activity, but he's working toward full recovery with adjustments for self-care. We'll get him all right again before you know it. 

As suspected, he had a horrible night of sleep last night, so he is currently napping in our hotel room. We might venture out for dinner tonight, or we might put Door Dash to work. Either way, I will get the car all packed and ready to bolt at about 0600 tomorrow morning. Homeward bound! 

We cannot thank you enough for all your love and support over the last 2 weeks. We were in a place we never thought we would be, but the love that surrounded Joe, myself, Justis, and Brighton was phenomenal and gave us all hope and strength when we may have floundered. So much love sent out to you all! ❤️❤️❤️

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