Jim’s Story

Site created on March 21, 2019

Welcome to my dad's CaringBridge page - this is Jim's daughter, Elizabeth.  My dad is the kind of person known by many and loved by everyone, with an incredible network of friends, family, and colleagues.    I'm setting up this page so  we can update everyone on my dad's illness.

In March 2019, after experiencing extreme fatigue and a chronic cough, Dad was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer (initially thought to be pneumonia) that spread to his liver.  Given the advanced nature of the cancer, his oncologist, Dr. Kumar, recommended he begin chemotherapy, and on Thursday, March 14, he received his first (double dose) of chemo.  While this was a devastating diagnosis, Dr. Kumar suggested that this type of chemo has typically been effective in slowing or stopping the progression of his cancer (adenocarcinoma), but he would have days to weeks to live if he didn't begin treatment immediately.   Being the fighter Dad is, he decided to go ahead with the chemo, which will be administered every three weeks.  

The following Monday, Dad experienced shortness of breath.  When my mom brought him to the hospital, the doctors discovered clots in his legs and lungs.  Thankfully, he survived the pulmonary embolism (his oncologist told us that blood clots can be amore likely with advanced cancers) and spent the next few days in the hospital on intravenous blood thinners to break up the clots.  During that time, family members flew into town to be by his side, and we spent a few days visiting with him and recounting some of our favorite memories, surrounding him with love and support. 

Upon Jim's discharge from the hospital on Thursday, March 21, he was extremely weak and still recovering from the clots (my sister Lindsay, a trained nurse, showed my mom Cheryl and I learned how to administer his Lovenox shots, another blood thinner that should ensure the clots continue to be broken up).  Since then, we've been with him at home helping him recover from both the clots and the effects of the chemo (he's set up in the living room with a reclining chair and a hospital bed since he doesn't have the strength to climb stairs yet).  A home care nurse is coming in twice a week, and we're setting up appointments with a physical therapist so he can get his strength back.  My sister Lindsay, who flew in from Portland and is staying a couple weeks, has been a Godsend, as she's a registered nurse and has some knowledge of these things (always great to have one in the family!). 

As of now, Dad can walk with a walker very short distances and is very exhausted afterwards.  Because chemo attacks fast-growing cells (not just cancer), it caused painful sores in his mouth, so we're getting him whatever he asks for so long as he's eating (ice chips, popsicles, smoothies, etc).  Today (March 25), he ate his first solid meal since he's been out of the hospital, which is encouraging, and he's motivated to walk across the kitchen and back every couple hours.  

His oncologist wants him to come in tomorrow to see whether the chemo is working.  We'll keep everyone updated on his progress. 

Thank you, from the bottom of our hearts, to the family who flew into town at the drop of a hat - Jim, Ted, Dan, Lindsay, and the rest of the family that has surrounded dad with the love and support through visits, calls, texts, etc.  Thank you to Tim Hart-Andersen, Senior Pastor at Westminster Church, as well as the Westminster staff and congregation for prayers and comforting words - they mean so much.  Thank you to those who have sent meals to my parents' house, and offered to help in any way they can.  And thank you to all Dad's amazing friends and family who are supporting him with love and prayer and offering to fly in - at this point he said he's too weak for company, but we'll keep everyone posted as he regains his strength for visitors.  We appreciate the wonderful community Dad has built, which is a testament to the kind of person he is.  Please continue to pray for him, and please feel free to leave a note of support on this page - we'll be sure to read them to him. 

Newest Update

Journal entry by Elizabeth Ullyot

Friends and family of Dad: 

Thank you so much for your support, especially over these past few weeks.  While we've felt as if we'll never adjust to this new normal without Dad, we're spending a lot of time as a family and that's helping somewhat.  

Dad's obituary was published in the Minneapolis Star Tribune and the Pioneer Press today, and can be found here: http://m.startribune.com/obituaries/detail/0000315418/?fullname=james-richard-jim-ullyot

Because Dad lived such an incredible life, it was hard to sum everything up in a short blurb, so I've added his long-form obituary that we wrote as well (written by my uncle Dan, edited by my sister Lindsay and me):

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James Richard “Jim” Ullyot, long-time resident of Minneapolis, businessman, author, world traveler, teacher, and beloved community leader passed away peacefully from lung cancer, surrounded by family, age 79 on June 20, 2019.  

Born in St. Paul to Lloyd and Agnes Ullyot, Jim grew up in St. Paul and attended Murray High School, graduating in 1958.  An accomplished athlete, Jim was a T-formation quarterback at Murray in the late 1950s and was dubbed “the magician” by local sports writers.  He was recruited by a number of college football powerhouses, including Oklahoma, Nebraska, Notre Dame, and Michigan, among others.  He opted to attend Harvard College, and played as a quarterback his freshman year.  After sustaining a career-ending football injury, he became the sports editor for The Harvard Crimson, his student newspaper, putting his writing talents to good use as an English major.

Jim excelled in academics, and upon graduating from Harvard College in 1962 with a Bachelor of Arts, Jim was awarded a travel scholarship sponsored by the Corning Glass Company, through which he visited 40 countries in a year representing the United States and documenting his experiences.  During his travels, he carried letters of introduction to U.S. Embassies from President John F. Kennedy.  Jim had countless fascinating stories of his year abroad, including a one-on-one meeting with Prime Minister Jawaharlal Nehru of India.

Jim then attended Harvard Business School, graduating in 1966.  As beloved class historian for his the HBS class of ’66, Jim wrote and published Something More Than Money-Makers: The Harvard Business School Class of 1966 in for his HBS 50th reunion.

After Business School, Jim served in the US Marine Corps, attaining rank of Sergeant and serving a number of years in the Navy Reserve.  In 1972, he published Moneymaking In The Twin Cities, the story of the Twin Cities’ over-the-counter marketplace in the late 1950s and1960s.  He made a career as an entrepreneur in the computer electronics and technology services business, founding two Minnesota-based companies: Exchange Data, where he served as President from 1985-1991, and Creative Communications, Inc., where he was Chair from 1992-2012.  In his later years, he taught college-level classes in economics, global business, and management at the College of St. Catherine, St. Mary’s, and The Art Institutes International Minnesota.

Ever faithful to his alma mater, Jim served as President of the Harvard Club of Minnesota and eventually President of the Harvard Alumni Association (HAA) in 2004, representing all Harvard alumni and presiding over Commencement exercises.  He received the HAA Award in 1999 for initiating the HAA’s transition online during the early days of the internet (Source: “HAA Leader Seeks Global Outreach” Harvard Magazine, Sep-Oct 2004; URL: https://harvardmagazine.com/2004/09/haa-leader-seeks-global.html). 

Jim was a kind-hearted leader who gave back to his community generously and relentlessly.  In addition to his contributions to Harvard, he was President of the Minneapolis Rotary Club, receiving the Merle Else Heart of Rotary Award in 1996 for his leadership.  He served on the Board of Directors for the Minnesota Council on Economic Education.  He was an elder at Westminster Presbyterian Church, and led and contributed to many other local organizations. 

Jim was a family man and was known among his extended family as the glue that held everyone together, helping organize family reunions and having an uncanny ability to remember everyone’s names.  He is survived by his wife Cheryl, brother Dan, son Jim, daughters Elizabeth (Michael Borneke) and Lindsay, and grandchildren Ashley, Annie, and Reece.  

Jim was the kind of person who treated everyone with kindness and respect no matter who they were.  When he talked to you, he had the ability to make you feel like you were the most important person in the room. He loved his family, friends, colleagues, and students, and was, in turn, beloved by all who knew him.

Memorial service will be Saturday, July 13 at Westminster Presbyterian Church (1200 S. Marquette Ave., Minneapolis, MN 55403) at 10:00 AM, followed by a light lunch reception.  In lieu of flowers, donations to Westminster Presbyterian Church or Harvard University are appreciated.
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While his accomplishments are many, it's his character that made him special, as you all know. 

Thanks again for posting all your anecdotes about Dad - he continues to live on through those wonderful stories, and through the many people he's influenced. 

Love,
Elizabeth Ullyot & Family

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