Jay was the most constant, most caring friend I have had in seventy years of life. He regularly pulled me out of my self-absorption and connected me, through his genial presence, his conversation, and his superb writing, to what matters. Thank you, JW.

Life is unfair, but what a life he had! Grieving with you, Julie and Soren

In memory of Jay Walljasper with thanks for being able to give support and share memories through Caring Bridge.

Thank you to Caring Bridge for creating and maintaining this site so friends and family can stay connected during these challenging times.

Jay, thinking of all those Christmas seasons long ago during college and young adulthood when we laughed to your father's Italy war stories, prowled Urbana's snowy streets, and talked about our hopes and dreams. Miss your voice, my dear friend.

Much appreciation for this thoughtful way to stay in touch with our beloveds.

Jay Walljasper - a wonderfully talented human. A gentle soul and a thoughtful colleague who vibrates with curiosity. So glad you got a beautiful family.