Jas & MJ’s Story

Site created on January 11, 2024

Thanks for visiting!  Please click on the “Journal” for the latest update on BOTH of my parents.


Also newly added meal train info here:


https://mealtrain.com/y8786e

Here’s how this all got started:

My dad, Jas, fell about 15-20 feet off a ladder on January 10 while trimming some limbs from a tree in his yard. Thankfully, he was able to maneuver his body so that he didn’t fall on his head, but he did fall on his back. My partner Aryan and I were with him when this fluke accident happened.

BIFD was beyond amazing and got to him in under 10 minutes. He was airlifted to Harborview Medical Center shortly after. The good and lucky news is that there were no internal injuries, and at first it looked like there were no broken bones. But the bad news is they discovered he fractured his T12 vertebrae in his back. A subsequent fall in the hospital worsened an injury in his cervical spine (neck) as well. Dad had surgery on his back and neck to fuse vertebrae as well as install some screws and rods.

While this was unfolding with my dad, my mom, MJ, was doing her best at home. However, a chronic health issue with her legs flared up, and unrelated to that, she fell.  The BIFD helped my mom up, but her discomfort and pain subsequently got worse, and eventually we went to the ER. While taking her vitals, it became apparent that my mom was having a heart issue. She was admitted to St. Joseph’s Medical Center in Tacoma.

Both parents are improving, but it’s tricky and scary to have them in two different hospitals in two different cities. The help and love we have received from everyone has kept us going. We really couldn’t have gotten this far without the incredible support of family and friends.  Thank you so much for surrounding us with your care and concern!

My parents are seeing the messages you leave here in the comments. Please keep them coming – it means so much!

When we know more about what specific help we will need we will let you know. Again, please check the “Journal” for the latest update.

Thank you, thank you!

Mary


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Newest Update

Journal entry by Mary Linford

Heya!  Sorry the updates are slow… sort of a “no news is good news” situation. 

Mom is home… She’s been home for a week now and settling in nicely.  the social worker, and physical and occupational therapist appointments have started, and she’s feeling much better!  Yay!!

Dad had his staples removed last Friday, all 43 of them!  his doctors are very pleased with his progress, and there’s only a little bit of an issue with his shoulder which may be caused by a rotator cuff injury, hopefully not neurological… So physical therapy will be starting next week.

Dad will remain in the collar for another two months, and walking is his main method of taking care of his back and neck. Hopefully soon he’ll be up for longer walks, and could probably use some company :-)

Both mom and dad have been really appreciative of the meals that people have been providing through the meal train… I’ve extended it one more week, but after that, I think they’re going to be in pretty good shape.

We are so grateful to everybody who has brought a meal and sent well wishes, flowers, cards, as well as those who’ve added Mom and dad and our family to their prayer circles.  We’ve also received prayer shawls from Dad’s sister's’ church which was lovely.

Knowing there’s so many people in the community that care about both of my parents is a balm for my soul. As I return to a modified normal work schedule, I really appreciate all the offers of rides, help,and (again) meals!  

here’s the meal train link:  we’ve got a few gaps this week if anyone is up for it!!  

https://mealtrain.com/y8786e

 

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