Henry’s Story

Site created on October 10, 2023

Welcome to our CaringBridge website. We are using it to keep family and friends updated about Henry. 

Like many moms in August, I realized the kids needed sports physicals in short order. The doctor they’ve seen for years retired and the provider we were switching to was booked solid. A new nurse practitioner that was just starting had time on her schedule to see the kids. She walked in and I instantly knew her—she was Maggie’s baby nurse when she was born and we have stayed connected.

We got to chatting as she did the 3 physicals and I asked her about a Medscape article I had recently read about EKG’s being done on high school and college athletes. She thought, like the article, there was some merit but on a large scale rather difficult. She had some extra time and said, “I can do them on your kids if you want.” Why not? All initially looked fine out of the machine and we were on our way. They sent them for over-read with cardiology and the next day we received a call that the cardiologist saw something on Henry’s result. He thought it could be a benign variant but wanted to see him to be sure.

On Tuesday, October 3, we walked into Pediatric Cardiology and were optimistic like any parent would be. Maybe it was an error, maybe he had it wrong, maybe the bluetooth with the dexcom threw it off. They did multiple tests while we waited to meet with the cardiologist.

He walked in with models and drawings and in a split second our world turned upside down. “Your son has a large hole in his heart,” is something no parent wants to hear. Time stood still as he continued on and it’s hard to remember what happened next. It’s an Atrial Septal Defect. We’ve learned he was born with it, never detected—how I have no idea. He will need open heart surgery soon to repair a 1+ inch hole. Good news is that it’s fully repairable and after a 3-6 month recovery he is expected to be able to do all the things he wants with no long-term effects or limitations. We have to add in the hurdle of him having Type 1 Diabetes which adds complexity to the mix.

Like any 15 year-old there have been lots of questions but he seems to be handling it well. We are incredibly grateful it was found. I have no doubt the events that led up to doing the EKG that day happened for a reason and while we will never completely understand, we are so glad it can be fixed and he can move on to live a long and healthy life. 

They do not do this surgery in Des Moines, so we are waiting on Iowa City to evaluate his case and call us with the next steps for surgery. In the meantime he is having some further testing done this week the cardiologist wanted done.  As we understand it he will be in the hospital there about a week post surgery. He’s hoping it can be coordinated with the Iowa Football Schedule so he can be part of the Wave—15 year old goals!

Newest Update

Journal entry by Alicia Clevenger

It’s hard to believe it’s been over a week since Henry’s surgery. We arrived home from Iowa City Monday evening and he’s doing great. He’s spent time this week watching movies with Jason, taking walks in the neighborhood (it will be 54 degrees here today), doing his exercises and learning to do things in new ways. He has a 5 pound weight restriction until after the new year which is hard for an active 15 year old. He will go back to school after Christmas break.

I want to take a moment to thank so many people and I know I will miss some but I’ll try my best. The night before we left for Iowa City a group of friends came over and covered our kitchen counter with baskets of gifts. Unbeknownst to us, our Johnston friends and community had rallied to collect letters, gifts, gift cards, snacks, all the things we could need and then some. There was a box of cards and letters for Jason and I to open once he went into surgery—cue the tears. It helped pass the time as we had breakfast and read through them that morning. There was a box to open of handwritten letters from Henry’s friends and classmates with words of encouragement for after the surgery. This was an amazing gift and one we won’t forget. People have surrounded us with so much support. From meals, to visits, to messages, to gift cards, to texts that seem to come at just the moment we need them. Huge thanks to Jason’s brother, Greg, for stepping in to watch the girls last week and his sister and brother in law, Mia and Bill, for letting us stay with them. Big thanks to the Koenigs family for watching LuLu for 2 nights while the girls were with us. Thank you to his teachers who have been phenomenal since we learned of this journey. We have definitely felt the love and we are grateful!

Henry has an appointment next week with the cardiologist and then the cardiothoracic surgeon in Iowa City at the end of the month. It’s starting to feel like this is in the rearview mirror and we are so glad to enjoy the holidays and be moving into 2024 with good health!

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