Sherry’s Story

Site created on February 10, 2020

Thank you for visiting Mom's CaringBridge site.  We are using this platform as a way of keeping family and friends updated in one place. While I (Andrea) will be making most of the posts, I'm doing so on behalf of Mom, Dad, and Ashley. They may even add from time to time!

As defined by Webster, gracious is a mark of kindness, courtesy, and charm. Also, it is noted as good taste, generosity of spirit, merciful and compassionate. While Mom started her store Gracious Me! with the intention of sharing good taste for home & gifts through courteous service & charm, the pure definition of gracious couldn't describe Mom any better. She is kind, generous, merciful & compassionate all rolled into one person.  She is the unwavering rock in the family who never spends unnecessary time worrying about things out of her control. While being a Mimi is likely her most favorite "job," being a Mom has definitely been the job with the most impact.  

We appreciate your support and words of hope and encouragement.  Most importantly, keep Mom in your prayers as our family embarks on this journey.  Dad, Ash, Lee Jay & I have no doubts that Mom's story will be filled with gracious fighting and success. 

Newest Update

Journal entry by Andrea Calhoun

Tomorrow begins the 13th mile. If you read our last post, the 13th mile represents so much accomplishment yet so much ahead. 

 


Tomorrow represents the removal of what remains of the words that tore out our hearts on the evening of Friday, January 31st when the doctor called to confirm Mom’s diagnosis. Mom will be having a partial mastectomy with reconstruction tomorrow at Vanderbilt. The surgical oncologist feels confident in the surgery & the surgery choice. While this is the least invasive of the 3 options, she feels confident that Mom’s chances of “local” reoccurrence (reoccurrence in the breast) are still very minimal. Since they will be leave part of Mom’s breast, to decrease the chances of local reoccurrence, she will have to undergo 6 weeks of radiation, Monday through Friday. While this won’t be pleasant, if all goes as planned, she will be done with this marathon by Thanksgiving!


 


Please keep Mom in your prayers & thoughts tomorrow & the days following. And for the surgical oncologist & the plastic surgeon who will be performing the surgery. Specifically, and possibly what is so important about after surgery, pray that the percentage of dead cancer cells are greater than live cells when they remove the tumors. Why is this important? Since Mom has an aggressive type of breast cancer-triple negative-the chances of her cancer coming back systemically (somewhere else in the body) are greater than locally (in the breast). They won’t know what this percentage is until they remove the tumor, test the cells, and determine the number of dead cells vs live cells. 


 


Tomorrow is a big day. As we enter the 13th mile, we have so much to be thankful for in this terribly hard year. We also know that we have a hard mile left but, as a family, we believe the ending of this particular story is already written. We believe the battle has been won & Mom just has to push through to the finish line. 


 


Wins: negative COVID test so surgery won’t be delayed


 


Specific prayer requests: lots of dead cancer cells, no nausea, surgeons’ hands, no nausea, dead cancer cells, no nausea. 
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