Gary’s Story

Site created on January 10, 2022

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Our world turned upside down on December 22nd when Gary was diagnosed with pancreatic adenocarcinoma.  My heart shattered when my amazing husband, the love of my life, my best friend and prince charming was diagnosed with cancer, but I knew I had to entrust him to God, the Great Physician. 


The Lord your God is in your midst, a mighty one who will save; he will rejoice over you with gladness; he will quiet you by his love; he will exult over you with loud singing.  Zephaniah 3:17 
A precious friend reminded me of this scripture, and it will be one of our verses for this journey. 


We have been working daily since Gary’s diagnosis consulting with medical teams to select the best treatment plan for Gary. We are thankful for the knowledge, wisdom and expertise of these pancreatic oncologist surgeons, medical oncologist and their teams. 


As Gary prepares for treatment, one consistent message has been to think like an athlete and be at his physical best for chemotherapy and ultimately surgery. Gary is young, fit and healthy, and for better or worse he married a dietitian who loves to exercise.  We are officially training for the most importance race of our lives. 


Gary, Anna, Ava and I are blessed by an awesome community of family and friends. We are grateful for the outpouring of love, support, encouragement and especially prayer for Gary and our family. 


Prayer Warriors, Please join us in prayer as we declare 2022 the year Gary Beats Cancer! 
The journey begins…

Newest Update

Journal entry by Monica Penkilo

Gallbladder update...Gary hasn't gotten sick since his gallbladder surgery!! 👏🏻

Gary and I spent a couple of days at MD Anderson this week. Gary's CA 19-9 pancreatic cancer tumor marker jumped from 173 to 664. We are thankful the scans showed no metastasis, but the pancreatic tumor showed growth above the celiac trunk.
Gary's oncologist explained that inoperable pancreatic cancer will either metastasize or grow locally and encroach on important territory. Symptoms of disease progression are fatigue, pain, and poor appetite. Gary has all of them. It's time for a new treatment plan, and we praise God that there are options! 🙌🏻

Treatment Plan: 
Gary will have 5 days of SBRT radiation at MD Anderson the 1st week of May.
He will restart chemo in June. The treatment will be an IV drug, Gemcitabine and Erlotinib, a targeted therapy pill. The pill is for lung cancer and also approved for pancreatic cancer with EGFR mutation which was discovered on Gary's NGS testing. The NGS testing findings were limited, but we are thankful for the possibilities of this drug.

Prayer requests:
For Gary's radiation and chemo side effects to be minimal, for the treatment to be successful and stop the tumor growth, and for Gary to have the energy to enjoy the beautiful weather and golf.  

Our oldest daughter selected the scripture for this update. She said we are filled with HOPE! We truly are! 💜 "May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in Him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit." Romans 15:13

Blessings,
Monica 
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