Earl ’s Story

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I’m saddened to be sharing my husband Earl Strait story of cancer with you all being many of you know this amazing man but do not share FB friends with him.

As a career mechanic, I've learned that aches and pains were just part of the job. Especially in my back and legs. Shortly before Thanksgiving, something in my abdomen into my back just felt different. As most people do, I wrote it off to stress or sleeping in a weird position.

When the pain not only didn't go away, but actually got worse that's when I decided to go to the doctor.

It's easy to let things like this get into your head and think the worst. What my son-in-law thought was a bladder infection turned out to be terminal cancer. Other loved ones have similar stories that I've experienced through their eyes.

Sadly, my fears have come true. I'm now one of those sick people - in the club that no one wants to be in, but everyone has to join some day. My body has decided to turn on itself in to pancreatic cancer.

I started an intensive, 8-week, 4-treatment cycle of chemotherapy last week. The hope is that the tumor will shrink enough that I can get surgery to have my pancreas removed, which could prolong my life.

In the meantime, my focus is on managing the extraordinary physical and mental pain that this cancer is causing. The physical is treated with medication.

The mental pain, however, is much harder. Sharing this story with all my loved ones is so difficult, I don't want to cause sadness to those that I love. At the same time, I have to confront my reality, which means telling this story and sharing it with all of you.

Please don't be afraid of not knowing what to say or how to react. At times, there are no words. But I need all of you. Feel free to send a note, a virtual hug.

Newest Update

Journal entry by Tina Strait

Earl S. Strait, 65, of Eden Prairie, Minnesota, passed away on September 16, 2023. Earl was born on February 5, 1958, in St. Louis Park & graduated from Benilde St. Margaret in the class of 1976. He was a beloved husband of 43 years to Tina (Michaelson) and a devoted father to Krista Bradley, Vincent (Meghan), and Montana (Melissa). Earl was also a proud grandfather to Carter, Elliot, Quintin, Eve, Felix, Lachlynn, Leif, and Sloane. He is preceded in death by his father, Frank, his mother, Marion, son-in-law, Joel and his brother, Gary. Earl is survived by his siblings Joyce Beissel (Jerry), Carol, Mark (Mary), and Paul (Reiden).

 

Earl was an accomplished mechanic, dedicating his career to his passion for understanding how things work and fixing them.  This curiosity came from watching his dad repair appliances and spend time in the garage tinkering.  Earl was known to use these skills to help many people in the town he grew up in and included everything from fixing cars, clearing trees after a storm, building garages, the list goes on forever.  He was always there to lend a hand when needed to anyone who asked and all he needed in return was a thank you. 

 

In his free time, Earl enjoyed pheasant hunting, fishing, and spending quality time with his friends. Earl also adored his grandchildren and spent countless hours chasing them around and playing with them. Earl was kind, smart, and had a great sense of humor. He was loved and respected by everyone who had the pleasure of knowing him.

 

A memorial service to celebrate Earl's life will be held on Monday, October 9th, at Excelsior Covenant Church located at 19955 Excelsior Blvd, Excelsior, MN 55331. Visitation will begin at 10am, followed by the service at 11am. The service will be followed by a light lunch and burial at Gethsemane Cemetery, located at 8151 42nd Ave. N. New Hope, MN 55427.

 

Earl S. Strait will be deeply missed by his family, friends, and all those whose lives he touched. His kindness, generosity, and warm spirit will be remembered forever.

 

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