Dayton’s Story

Site created on December 3, 2008

Welcome to our CaringBridge site. It has been created to keep friends and family updated.

Dayton's cancer, multiple myeloma (a cancer of the bone marrow) was detected during a routine physical in June 2008 (thank you, Dr. Murrey). Following a biopsy at our regional cancer center, we were referred to the UNC Lineberger Cancer Center in Chapel Hill to discuss a stem cell transplant.









We are thankful that our eldest daughter Erin came with us, spending her last day before taking the state nursing board exams helping us begin to navigate this complicated path. (We are glad to report that she passed the boards and is now a critical care nurse at Duke University Hospital in Durham, NC.)

Dayton is now, in early December, nearing the end of his 4th month of chemotherapy, in preparation for a stem cell transplant in early 2009. His side effects have been relatively minor so far, and he continues to work at ASU and at home as we attempt to complete some home improvement projects we began last spring. Those who know Dayton will be not be surprised to hear that he remains very positive and optimistic, enjoying every minute of every day.

If you are interested in reading more details about Dayton's treatment, Erin's email to her siblings, written on our way home from Chapel Hill in June, is posted as our first journal entry.

We will make other journal entries as things progress, and I will get some photos posted soon. Thanks for the many cards and emails and words of encouragement and support...and for your prayers.

Cathy

Newest Update

Journal entry by Cathy Cole

Hello all.

It’s been a tough year of constant ups and downs; so regularly that I knew anything I posted would likely not be the case for long. Hence the silence. 

Today we are at UNC Hillsborough Cancer Center for Dayton’s weekly infusion of Teclistamab. He’s been on this newest cancer drug for 12 months. It has kept his myeloma numbers stable, but he’s remained sick since he began it - upper respiratory infections, sinus infections, eye infections, ear infections, GI infections, blood infections, and most recently rotavirus (he lost 13 lbs in 10 days). Today he is good.

This morning we visited with Dayton’s oncologist, who has recommended moving treatment from weekly to every other week. Knowing that the main side effect of Teclistamab is reduced immunity, the hope is that he can regain some immunity and strength. That sounds great to us. His myeloma numbers have started creeping up ever so slightly, so they will continue to check those each visit and make adjustments as needed. It’s the first time our oncologist has mentioned the possibility of changing treatments, but we hope that is far off. The median duration of response with Teclistamab is 18 months, but we hope Dayton is able to push beyond expectations as he has for 16 years. 

Dayton continues to enjoy and benefit from his work at Campbell University. (To those who say he should retire, I’ll remind you that he tried that once and was not happy. He has a job he loves, for an institution he believes in, with people he respects and admires. I miss our free time to travel and rest and visit family and friends…but I love seeing Dayton fulfilled and happy.)

We wish you all the best. 

Cathy


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