Dale’s Story

Site created on October 16, 2018

Most people hardly remember Dale when he DIDN'T have ankle issues!  From Jr. High basketball days to the present, there has always been something going on with his ankle.  (Even a break just 2 weeks before one of our sons was born--playing church basketball!)  About 15 years ago it was recommended that he have his ankle joint replaced.  It was not a success.  That began a journey of pain and more surgeries that have continued to this day.  Finally, in October of 2016, an orthopedic surgeon here at Mayo Clinic recommended that it was time to just remove the ankle joint completely.  He then packed the space with bone from Dale's hip, cadaver bone, and bone marrow in the hopes that new bone would grow that could then be fused.  Sadly, no new bone grew.  Having dealt with chronic pain and reduced mobility for almost 20 years, Dale has  made the ultimate decision to have his leg amputated below the knee.  Surgery is scheduled for November 9--just 3 weeks away.  This was a gut-wrenching decision and one that was not made lightly.  Would you pray for Dale in the next three weeks in 2 specific ways?  One--that he would have courage.  This is a scary thing!  And two--that he would have peace--the peace that only God can give.  We appreciate so much the love of our friends and family.  He has lots of appointments over the next three weeks to get ready for this.  We'll keep you updated!  

Newest Update

Journal entry by Connie Edwards

Remember that (sappy) old quote?  I think that's kind of how Dale and I feel right now.  Barring any unforeseen circumstances (and you never know!) I think we have arrived at how things will be for the "rest of our lives."  There have been and will continue to be, I'm sure, a few bumps in the road, but for the most part things are going well.  The prosthetic fits well and he can wear it for a quite a few hours at a time, the more he does--the better it is, he's becoming a pretty good left foot driver, and we continue to find new ways to make things easier and safer around the house.  The only thing that hasn't worked out like we had hoped was going back to work.  Getting around the clinic just proved to be too much.  The doctors will make a final decision in September, but it's looking like he will be declared permanently disabled.  Social Security has already made that determination, and he'll be 65 in February so he's not far from retirement anyway.  It wasn't what we planned--but it's ok.  I have commented to more than one friend recently, that we don't always see what God's overall, big plan is, but for now we feel content and blessed with the many ways we've seen Him work in our lives through our circumstances--both good and bad.  You can pray for Dale in 2 ways:  1) that he continue to grow stronger and 2) that he will be able to fill his days with meaningful tasks. We probably won't post on Caring Bridge again, so thank you all for going on this journey with us--we feel so blessed to call you friends! 
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