Cheryl,  Brad- a friend of Crystal's,  and I finally made it to Oklahoma to bury the folks and Crystal in November. We had planned on going this past spring until Cheryl needed open heart surgery, and then rehab. Crystal  had told me she wanted to be buried, rather have her ashes scattered, at the lake but I  wanted some of her in the family cemetery in Oklahoma  so she was split.  We managed to get to the lake in September.  Tom and Cheryl were putting up a flag post and we put her at the base, facing the lake.  She had said the lake was her sanctuary.  May she, and all of us who knew and cared about Crystal,  find peace and happiness.