Christy’s Story

Site created on July 25, 2022

I wanted to let everyone know that I was diagnosed on July 20, 2022 with Invasive Ductal Carcinoma, breast cancer has spread to my lymph nodes. Since it’s Inflammatory Breast Cancer, it’s more aggressive so we are moving fast.

I start dose dense chemo on August 4th and should finish around Christmas. My hair will be gone before students come back to school. After that a mastectomy that includes all skin removal of my breast and then radiation.

Right now I’m going through the stages of grief: grieving the future I expected that is suddenly uncertain, grieving what this might mean for my body, my hair, my family, my husband.

I’m sad and angry and scared, but I have a plan and a to do list (and if you know me at all, you know I love a good plan and to do list!). The first thing on the list is to survive this, so I can be there for my kids and all the people I love!

Newest Update

Journal entry by Stephanie Gurley-Thomas

Hello! No news is good news, right? Christy is moving along in her journey to live with and eventually beat her cancer! Being in this journey with Christy has truly been one of the most special things in my life. Difficult, fascinating, heart-breaking, up and down, but special. So color me shocked when I found out I had a malignant melanoma, and the tables were turned. I found it during Labor Day weekend, and just 12 days later I was in surgery. 19 days after finding it, I got the great news that I had "the kind of tumor you want to have, if you have to have one." It had not spread, was not too deep, and the surgery to remove it left me with some nice scars (7.5" for the tumor, much smaller for the lymph nodes).  Christy and I both laughed at the advice she tried to give to me about cancer. Advice that she, herself, never took. 😂 

 

I ended up blogging about my experience and wrote one about Christy, as well. It is a much more in-depth look at her daily life. You might find it jarring. I did, in writing it. When I asked if I could link it to this page, she said, "I feel like you could read my mind in that post. And my heart and my body and my brain. I also feel like you know what I’m feeling even better than I do!" So jarring, yes, but accurate, straight from horses mouth (sheesh, horrible expression).  

Hope you all are well!

Stephanie

 

Link to my blog post: https://factsandfluckles.wordpress.com/2023/10/26/her-hair-is-growing-back-but-she-is-not-fine/?fbclid=IwAR0zJ3a9Gjpp22MHlF3nGsHSkjvpxwChBGds-vNFI2y4fdpSYEhk-XFd7Vw

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