Charty’s Story

Site created on March 18, 2010

Welcome to our Caring Bridge website -- my hope is to keep family and friends posted as we travel this journey battling multiple myeloma.  Still I long to communicate individually with you as much as I can, but I've been warned that my energy may flag during parts of this treatment.  Thank you for visiting us!



This website is being launched March 18,2010, exactly three weeks since the startling diagnosis. What we had assumed to be another annoying age-related pain in the hip would not respond to physical therapy, so an MRI was done.  It turns out I have multiple myeloma -- a cancer of the plasma cells, and one which is very treatable.   A little research shows that the median myeloma patient is over 65, male, African-American, obese and employed in the petroleum industry  .... hmmmm.  Not sure how I missed on all five counts, but in any case the diagnosis is sure, and treatment has begun.  Radiation to my hip was begun last week, chemo started this week, and a long course of treatment stretches well into the summer.  Both Brant and I are feeling optimistic -- and very thankful...not for the disease per se, but for our amazing circle of family and friends who have reached out to us and are pulling and praying for us; for a wonderful medical team that is doing all in its power to beat this illness; for the deep assurance that however things shake out, the end of the story is good; and for each lovely day that is given to us.
Thank you for your warm words of love and support; I don't think I ever took my family and friends for granted, but our current circumstances make the sweetness jump out all the more.

Newest Update

Journal entry by Charty Bassett

Our dear friends and family!

Nearly another half year has zoomed (sorry) by since I last piped up on this site; lest my silence be misconstrued I wanted to send out greetings to our friends who kept us going over these last twelve years.  Twelve years it has been since that dread diagnosis came down, and after all the chaos and procedures and confusion and distress things have calmed down.  I am happy and thankful to report that Mr. M slumbers on, and the issues I deal with on the health front are too minor to warrant mention.  I feel very fortunate - blessed, really.

Other than frequent checkups and tests, my only medical involvement is in a clinical trial at UCSD - having to do not with myeloma, but with a little-known, nefarious small-particle lipid (lipoprotein(a)) that quietly wreaks havoc on vascular systems, but is not affected either by statins or lifestyle changes.  I suspect it is what caused my mother to die of a massive heart attack at age 56 (when no one had heard of this factor), and might well be involved in the two heart attacks I have had, since my lp(a) levels are triple the maximum safe level.  Finally a medication is under development that has shown great promise in reducing lp(a) levels, and the trial is in its final stages.  I don't know whether the monthly shots to the stomach are the actual med or a placebo, but either way I am more than willing to be involved in a trial that could bring an effective treatment to market.  Once it comes to market, if you have any heart disease in your family, you might want to have your lipoprotein(a) checked - supposedly (per the Lipoprotein(a) Foundation) one in five Americans has an elevated lp(a) level.

Here things are quiet; spring is bursting forth, with citrus trees laden with white blossoms filling the air with their bewitching fragrance.  Bird life has picked up -  mockingbirds are tuning up their repertoires and house finches are setting up a nonstop chatter as they search out nooks and crannies to build their nests.  We have a handsome spotted towhee who perches on a branch by our window and keeps peering longingly in.  Hooded orioles, we hear, are back from their winter migration, so I have set out some grape jelly in hopes of luring these stunning creatures to our yard. The promise of new life is in the air.

Love and thanks to you -

Charty



 
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