Charlie’s Story

Site created on January 5, 2019

In August, Kenny and I found out we were expecting. In September, we had our first ultrasound to confirm our pregnancy. In October, we found out we were expecting a baby girl. In early December, our 20 week appointment, we had another sonogram showing a healthy baby girl. She was measuring two days earlier than my April 24th due date. We left the office thrilled that we actually got to see our baby’s sweet face. On December 24th, I started spotting. After calling my doctor, I was advised to go to the hospital to labor and delivery to get examined. After a sonogram, we found out that I was dilated to a 2.5. I was admitted to the hospital and put on strict bed rest and a strong dose of magnesium to stop me from going into labor. On December 27th at 3:30 am, my water broke. Kenny and I were devastated as we thought this was it. However, thanks to the magnesium, I didn’t go into labor. After cramping, I was moved back to the labor and delivery floor. Kenny and I made some tough decisions regarding our baby girl. My nursing staff were our angels, making sure we knew all of our options, making arrangements, and trying to keep me as comfortable as possible. On December 30th, I started having irregular contractions. I felt like something had changed as the baby was moving differently. In the morning of December 31st, one of the doctors gave me another sonogram to see how far dilated I currently was. It was then that they noticed the baby had dropped into my birth canal, breach. They could see her legs. Even though we were only 23 weeks and 5 days along in our pregnancy, Kenny and I had decided to give our baby girl a chance. I was taken in to have a c section. It quickly became emergent as she had dropped further. At 10:52 am, Kenny and I welcomed Charlotte Bristol Kuehn into the world. Kenny followed her and the NICU team as my doctors finished my surgery.
Even though we have a lot of ups and downs ahead of us, Charlie is worth the climb. She has shown us so much strength, not only now but the week leading up to her birth. Her nurses constantly use the word “feisty” to describe her. She never stops amazing us. She loves to set off her alarms and scare us, but she continues to push through when she’s tired.
Kenny and I love her so much. Thank you for all of your thoughts and prayers. We need every one for our brave little girl!

Newest Update

Journal entry by Tatia Kuehn

I know, I know. It's about time for a Charlie update!

It has been very busy in the Kuehn household. I know it's expected for sleep deprivation when you have a newborn, but dang! She's not even home yet!

We are officially a week past Charlie's due date. She is 4 months old actual, 1 week adjusted. Until Charlie is two years old, she will have 2 ages. The adjusted age will be what we go off of for all milestones. Well, she already lifts her head and smiles (she has a HUGE dimple in her left cheek when she smiles).

She still hasn't decided what color her eyes are going to be yet. They're either going to be green or brown. She's indecisive.

We're currently sitting on 2 liters of oxygen, but very consistantly at 21%. They do not want to switch her to home oxygen yet (even though they think she can hande it) because of her eyes. Oxygen feeds the ROP diagnosis. Just last week, we found out that even though she is Stage 3 in both eyes, they have started to see some improvement, which is AMAZING! According to our nurse, very rarely do they see the disease worsen once it has started to improve. Her eyes may stablize and may NEVER need surgery. Woohoo!

She was diagnosed with a VUR which pretty much means that the uriters that connects her left kidney to her bladder is refluxing urine back up into the kidney. It's a Grade 3 which means that it has a 50/50 change of needing surgery to correct it OR it correcting itself. We wait and see. In a few months, they will do a repeat scan to see if there is any improvement. Until then, Charlie takes a small dose of amoxicillin each day to prevent a UTI. This could also explain why there is protein in her urine. They will continue to monitor her for that as well.

The hardest part lately is that we are in a stand off with Charlie and her bottle. She has been having some fast breathing. They did a brain MRI to see if there was anything that could be causing her fast breathing. Her scan came back and there wasn't a concern there (thank goodness)! However, because she hasn't been taking a bottle, there has been some talk of having surgery to get a G-Tube placed for food. While it would get her home sooner, I'm not quite ready of talk for a surgery. I'm not ready to give up on her yet.

This last week, we also talked to the doctors about her formula. Both my sister and I were on soy formula when we were little as we couldn't handle regular. We were noticing that every moment of every day, Charlie was pushing so hard to poop. She was also having around 8 large stools each day. Ouch. No wonder her little booty was so sore! We switched to Elecare which is a hypoallergenic formula which is more broken down. It was a fight to get the doctor to switch, but after a few phone calls and an okay by the nutritionist, we were switched. It has been night and day for her! She seems soooo much more relaxed and happy. Also she has been stooling less. Her bottom is really sore right now, so hopefully with less stool, it'll clear up faster.

On Thursday, I had my gallbladder out. Yep, had to follow in Kenny's footsteps. I'm recovering nicely and moving around much better than I was. Still sore. Still tired. But have not missed one day with my little girl. I was even able to hold her on Sunday! Going to actually try to sleep in my own bed tonight. I've been on the recliner since Thursday. My wonderful husband has been sleeping on the couch next to me in case I need anything in the middle of the night. He's been great helping me lower the foot rest and getting the chair to sit back up, a few things that I'm struggling to do with the pain.

Anywho, right now were in a waiting game with Charlie. Not sure who she gets her stubborness from, but she'll realize at some point how enjoyable eating really is! Until then, we wait and continue to get ready for her to come home! 

No offense, Peoria, but I'm beyond ready to not to have to drive to you EVERY day. 

Kenny and I have also started a Facebook group for quick, daily Charlie updates. The CaringBridge will be up until Charlie goes home. Then all updates will switch to Facebook. The group is called "Charlie Kuehn". We have posted tons of Charlie videos and pictures! It's a lot easier/quicker to post on there with our limited time!

Hope all is well! Keep our prayers coming! She is definitely showing us her strength every day!

Tatia
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