Carol’s Story

Site created on June 4, 2010



On March 25 2010,  I heard the diagnosis of multiple myeloma sitting at my desk after school.  This resulted from finally pursuing the cause of back pain that I had been experiencing for nine months.  The long range plan is several rounds of chemotherapy followed by a stem cell transplant.  The goal is remission and a different perspective on life.

After 7 years of remission the protein marker (m-spike) began to show in my blood work in early 2017. After carefully watching the slow rise of the m-spike for a year and a half my doctor and I made the decision in late 2018 to do several rounds of chemotherapy followed by a second stem cell transplant in May 2019. The plan is that I will be taking a small dose of daily maintenance chemo following the stem cell transplant, and I hope to stay in remission for even longer than the 7-8 years of remission that I previously experienced.

Newest Update

Journal entry by Carol Southern

Since my last post, I called one of the bone marrow transplant coordinators and told her that my insurance company was only deeming the first week of my hospital stay to be medically necessary. She suspected that someone at the hospital had not sent in the proper information requested and said she'd look into it. I let about 5 days go by before I called the insurance company, and, sure enough, everything had been taken care of and my entire stay had been approved. YAY!

I've had some good and bad days since the last post. It's been a surprise that my energy level hasn't increased as fast as I thought it would. Maybe I don't remember 2010 that well, but I thought improvement happened faster. Fred says he doesn't think so, so maybe not. It's easy to block things out that you didn't enjoy. At my followup visit on the 22nd, Dr. Yuen acknowledged that I had done well, got home faster than usual, and everything looked pretty good. Unfortunately, I still have to wear a mask, (very annoying), for a few more weeks when I'm around large groups of people. I DO get to cut back to only 1.5 Liters of water per day from 2 Liters a day! The eating issues are still present, but I try to eat something at each meal. Adding that much water to my stomach was certainly not helping, but I did my best to comply. Apparently, dehydration can be a big issue. I have to wait several more weeks before I can wear contact lenses, but CAN drive to Braman this weekend, to see Mom and my brothers! No flying until the first part of July. No yard work this summer (darn) and no messing with flowerbeds. It looks like pots of flowers will have to be the way to go this summer.

Today I saw Dr. Reitz, my oncologist, for the first time since the transplant. He repeated pretty much what Dr. Yuen at OU Bone Marrow Group said: I was doing about as well as could possibly be expected. It will just take some time to get over the eating issues and regain my energy/strength. I probably won't start maintenance Revlimid (a chemo drug) until at least the first part of July. It's still too early to know if I'm in remission. Dr. Reitz will probably do the blood work to determine that in about a month. It turns out that there is more involved in determining remission than just the m-spike (which was undetectable in mid April). I'm planning on being in complete remissions but will just have to wait for confirmation. I AM BLESSED!
Patients and caregivers love hearing from you; add a comment to show your support.
Help Carol Stay Connected to Family and Friends

A $25 donation to CaringBridge powers a site like Carol's for two weeks. Will you make a gift to help ensure that this site stays online for them and for you?

Comments Hide comments

Show Your Support

See the Ways to Help page to get even more involved.

SVG_Icons_Back_To_Top
Top