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Lannette and Ted...thinking of you both and sending tons of love and hugs. Thinking always of Dakota and his beautiful face. Praying for new doors to open and for your plans to unfold as invision them to be. Cannot imagine all the emotions running through you Lannette...as January 9th approaches. I know words just don't hold enough to ward off the tremendous pain. You are being thought of with love.
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@comcast.net>
boynton beach, fl usa - Monday, December 31, 2007 9:10 PM CST

Sending love and BIG hugs to you.

Love,
Michelle
Alec's mom from PBT
www.caringbridge.org/visit/alecgoldstein

Michelle Goldstein <mich2boys@yahoo.com>
Los Angeles, CA - Monday, December 31, 2007 0:21 AM CST

Thinking of you and your family - I'm sure you are all having a tough time right now - but lots of people are praying for you!
Valerie and Quentin <mpocgn@yahoo.com>
- Friday, December 28, 2007 2:15 PM CST

I'm always a day late and we wont mention that dollar short but wanted you to know that I thought of you Christmas Day and your last Christmas with Dakota. I hope you were able to have a day with some peace in your heart. Looks like you may be out of town?

Jalena Bowling <jalenabowling@comcast.net>
Arlington, Tn - Thursday, December 27, 2007 0:45 AM CST

What a blessing to know that the Holy Spirit is praying perfectly whatever the need!
Romans 8:26-27 Likewise the Spirit also helpeth our infirmities: for we know not what we should pray for as we ought: but the Spirit itself maketh intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered. And he that searcheth the hearts knoweth what is the mind of the Spirit, because he maketh intercession for the saints according to the will of God.
Prayer Bears
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Wednesday, December 26, 2007 11:13 PM CST

Thinking of you as you celebrate your first holiday without Dakota. Wanted to share this poem that brought peace to us:

I see the countless Christmas trees,
Around the world below.
With tiny lights, like heaven's stars,
Reflecting on the snow.

The sight is so spectacular,
Please wipe away that tear.
For I'm spending Christmas,
With Jesus Christ this year.

I hear the many Christmas songs,
That people hold so dear.
But the sounds of music can't compare,
With the Christmas choir up here.

For I have no words to tell you,
The joy their voices bring.
For it is beyond description,
To hear the angels sing.

I can't tell you of the splendor,
Or the peace here in this place.
Can you just imagine Christmas,
With our Savior, face to face?

I'll ask Him to light your spirit,
As I tell Him of your love.
So then pray for one another,
As I lift you above.

Please let your hearts be joyful,
And let your spirit sing.
For I'm Spending Christmas in Heaven,
And I'm walking with the King.

Charlene & Becky/Ones Who Care <gcbbunny@sympatico.ca>
- Wednesday, December 26, 2007 6:13 PM CST

Thinking of you and Dakota today, we love you ALOT!
Angel Asa's Father <Asa's sight @www.caringbridge.org/sc/asa>
Tega Cay, SC - Tuesday, December 25, 2007 12:57 AM CST

I hope you have a peace-filled holiday and that you find some joy in the season. Always thinking of you.
Valerie and Quentin O'Brien <mpocgn@yahoo.com>
- Monday, December 24, 2007 9:57 AM CST

Merry Christmas Lannette...

Just wanted you to know I have not forgotten you or your precious son Dakota.

He will always be a hero to me! I'm praying you feel God's loving arms wrapped tightly around you now.

I can't imagine how much you are missing your precious son.

Sending much love and many prayers,

Susan
Jordan's Site <Susan2956@yahoo.com>
Baton Rouge, - Sunday, December 23, 2007 6:45 PM CST

Drive safe..I want you guys her in one piece so I can hug ya to pieces! Dakota I know you'll be coming too....you know you are forever in my heart. Love 2 All
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@comcast.net>
boynton beach, fl usa - Friday, December 21, 2007 10:10 AM CST

Quentin and I sent you a little something. Hope you find peace this holiday season.
Valerie and Quentin O'Brien <mpocgn@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, December 20, 2007 12:37 AM CST

No matter what the future holds, the Lord knows the "whys"...praying!
Isaiah 55:8-9 For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, saith the LORD. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts.
Prayer Bears
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Wednesday, December 19, 2007 11:31 PM CST

Stopping by to let you know how much I care and that I'm always praying.
Psalms 18:6 In my distress I called upon the LORD, and cried unto my God: he heard my voice out of his temple, and my cry came before him, even into his ears.
Prayer Bears
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Wednesday, December 12, 2007 8:22 PM CST

Thinking of you and your family today and everyday. Hoping to send you something soon from Quentin.
Valerie and Quentin O'Brien <mpocgn@accnorwalk.com>
- Monday, December 10, 2007 7:56 AM CST

Thinking of you today.
Hugs & prayers from Candy - Audrey's Umbrella <zacheric02-umbrella@yahoo.com>
Livonia, MI - Friday, December 7, 2007 1:05 PM CST

Good afternoon, Lannette. Thinking of you and Dakota today. Hope all is well with you. I will light a candle for Dakota on Sunday, during the Global Candle Lighting.

~Heide
m/o ^Jessica^
http://caringbridge.org/visit/jessicarandall

Worldwide Candle Lighting:
Sun., Dec. 9, 2007, 7PM around the globe
... That their light may always shine ...
Heide
Marshall, VA - Friday, December 7, 2007 11:52 AM CST

Lannette,
Saying a special prayer for you today. God bless you.
Jeane Moore <jeanehornemoore@yahoo.com>
Gastonia, NC - Thursday, December 6, 2007 7:04 AM CST

Still here praying for your family.
Psalms 84:5 Blessed is the man whose strength is in thee; in whose heart are the ways of them.
Prayer Bears
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Wednesday, December 5, 2007 11:27 PM CST

We have a refuge, whatever happens. Praying!
Psalms 9:9-10 The LORD also will be a refuge for the oppressed, a refuge in times of trouble. And they that know thy name will put their trust in thee: for thou, LORD, hast not forsaken them that seek thee.
Prayer Bears
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Wednesday, November 28, 2007 10:15 PM CST

lanette,we are still out here praying for you and yours every day.please know that you are not forgotten.neither is dakota.hope to see you around.we love you.laurie,kim,julie
laurie mcdonald <leigh1961@hotmail.com>
york, sc - Wednesday, November 28, 2007 4:55 PM CST

Thinking of you,Sam and Ted..

I have a pretty crystal snowflake on my tree this year .. When I saw it sparkle, it reminded me of Dakota.. I think he finds ways to let us know his spirit is still here..

Love you!
Nicole and Kira!
Nicole Berkhout <ndberkhout@yahoo.com>
Davidson, nc - Tuesday, November 27, 2007 6:42 PM CST

Always thinking of the both of you. I love you both dearly. Miss you Dak! My thoughts are with you LaLa, always. Love--klegg
Kate Legg <Jessicakate107@aol.com>
clover, sc usa - Monday, November 26, 2007 9:21 AM CST

Thinking of you my friend***************
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@comcast.net>
boynton beach, fl usa - Sunday, November 25, 2007 3:36 PM CST

Good morning, Lannette. Wow. I read your latest journal entry through buckets-full of tears. I share so many of your same sentiments, and I wish there was something we could do to make it all better. I think of you and Dakota often. I can remember when he passed away, thinking "not at ALL possible" ... "not dakota" ... couldn't be. To think that 5 months later I'd be losing my daughter; it's unfathomable, really.

I can **see** your pain through your words. I admire your honesty and I'm glad you are able to share on this site. I'm bad about remembering to visit these legacy sites, but I will try and be better about it.

I wish you strength as the **BIG** holiday approaches. I just wish we could jump in a time machine and skip it all, personally.

Anyway, didn't mean to start rambling. I hope you enjoy the remainder of your weekend.

~Heide
m/o ^Jessica^
http://caringbridge.org/visit/jessicarandall
Heide
- Saturday, November 24, 2007 9:26 AM CST

LaLa, you are always in our thoughts and prayers! Thinking of you during the holidays and hoping that you are doing well! We love you!
Joyce and Shannon Gardner <shannon518@yahoo.com>
Clover, sc - Friday, November 23, 2007 6:21 PM CST

Giving THANKS for Dakota and the many blessings he brought in his earthly life. Peace and love to your during this time...

Nicole
Nicole Bekrhout <kiradoodle@yahoo.com>
Davidson, nc - Thursday, November 22, 2007 4:47 PM CST

Sharing a special psalm of thanksgiving. Saying extra prayers are you face Thanksgiving without Dakota.
Psalms 100:1-5 Make a joyful noise unto the LORD, all ye lands. Serve the LORD with gladness: come before his presence with singing. Know ye that the LORD he is God: it is he that hath made us, and not we ourselves; we are his people, and the sheep of his pasture. Enter into his gates with thanksgiving, and into his courts with praise: be thankful unto him, and bless his name. For the LORD is good; his mercy is everlasting; and his truth endureth to all generations.
Prayer Bears
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Thursday, November 22, 2007 0:18 AM CST

Dear Caring Bridge friends,

The holidays are here. I trust that God is guiding you through days that may be filled with a vast array of emotions. For some, the time will be spent in a hospital. For others, you may be at home waiting on test results. There will be those who have received good news and perhaps a physical healing that will undoubtedly cause rejoicing and celebration. And for those who may have an empty chair at your holiday gatherings, may the love of God fill the hole that is in your heart.

It's possible that I will once again sound like a broken record as I tell you that I do not know what you are facing. No, I have not been down that road. I remember a movie-I think it was "Twister", where one actor commented about a tornado taking one house and leaving the next. I suppose there are some who feel like God 'takes' individuals and to them it seems so unfair. My Christian belief tells me that God doesn't take anyone. God is in control and nothing happens without his direction or his approval. But to say that God sits on his throne and dishes out circumstances is beyond my belief of the nature of God. Bad things happen to good people because we don't live in a perfect world. One person gets cancer and the next doesn't. One child gets Fanconi Anemia and the next doesn't. Even though I don't know where you are, I could see where one might question that happening. I don't know and I'm not going to try to explain it either.

The child of God believes there is more than just what we have here and now. I believe the bible tells us that Jesus has gone to prepare a place and when he returns, he will take the faithful to that place to live eternally with no pain, no fear, nothing negative in any way whatsoever!

The coming days may be very difficult for you. None of 'us' can understand the how and why of it all. But, I hope you will surround yourself with family and friends during this time and that you all will draw strength from each other. I also hope that you will open up your heart and allow God to fill you with his love, comfort, and care.

"Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword? As it is written: 'For your sake we face death all day long; we are considered as sheep to be slaughtered.' No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord." Romans 8:35-39(NIV)

Happy Thanksgiving to each of you. I count it a blessing to have you as a part of my life!

In Christian love,
Wayne / Mr. Wayne

Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Wednesday, November 21, 2007 7:42 AM CST

Praying that you find peace. Will be thinking of all the special angels and will be thankful that they know no pain and are filled with the Lord's love.
Valerie and Quentin OBrien
- Tuesday, November 20, 2007 2:38 PM CST

Just checking in.... I hope you have a great thanksgiving
chris mills <cpstrucking@carolina.rr.com>
monroe, nc usa - Monday, November 19, 2007 8:54 PM CST

Hello Friend...thinking of you and Ted and sending love and prayers..I know the holidays are even tougher then how tough each day is for you...Dakota- sending love and hugs to you Angel....all of you are in my heart.
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@comcast.net>
boynton beach, fl usa - Sunday, November 18, 2007 3:38 PM CST

Lannette,
I said a special prayer for you and Dakota today.
jeane moore <jeanehornemoore@yahoo.com>
gastonia, nc - Saturday, November 17, 2007 8:58 AM CST

Thinking of Dakota and your family today.
Valerie O'Brien <mpocgn@yahoo.com>
- Friday, November 16, 2007 3:08 PM CST

Lifting your family up in prayer right now!
Psalms 3:2-5 Many there be which say of my soul, There is no help for him in God. Selah. But thou, O LORD, art a shield for me; my glory, and the lifter up of mine head. I cried unto the LORD with my voice, and he heard me out of his holy hill. Selah. I laid me down and slept; I awaked; for the LORD sustained me.
Prayer Bears

Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Wednesday, November 14, 2007 11:32 PM CST

Lannette,
I know today was a tuff one for you. Your first birthday without Dakota and Tuesday. The day that comes so fast everyweek. I know I talked to you today, but I want you to know I'm still thinking about you.
Love ya,
Anita

Anita Elam <selam46@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Wednesday, November 14, 2007 0:33 AM CST

Lannette, I was just crying and crying reading your post. You are so honest and I admire that about you. I want you to know I think of you often and worry too about how you are doing. I will always be praying for you and your family. Prayers and (((hugs)))CArolyn
carolynlilly <carolynlilly1@hotmail.com>
angus, on canada - Tuesday, November 13, 2007 8:10 PM CST

Hey! Thinking of you sweet one. Glad we could chat...keep me posted....hugs and love,
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@comcast.net>
boynton beach, florida usa - Tuesday, November 13, 2007 6:37 PM CST

Someone is thinking of you...I hope you have a great day.
chris mills <cpstrucking@carolina.rr.com>
monroe, nc usa - Saturday, November 10, 2007 7:55 AM CST

Lanette,
I can't even begin to imagine the pain you face each day. But, please take comfort in knowing that you give so many people a HOPE to continue in life's journey. I know you grieve, but through your grief you're helping me (and so many more people). I always look forward to your updates because they're so inspiring. What seems like an eternity for you to finish your race here on earth will only seem like a blink of an eye to Dakota when he meets you in Heaven. I just hope you'll let him take a break to welcome me also!!!
I continue to pray for each of you daily.
Mr. Knight - Dak's "FAVORITE" teacher :-) <knightt1990@netzero.com>
Clover, SC USA - Thursday, November 8, 2007 7:03 PM CST

If there were no test, there would be no testimony. Be a testimony for your son. He'll be waiting for you when your journey on earth is finished. All in God's good timing. I'll pray for you.
Donna Burkdoll
- Thursday, November 8, 2007 4:44 PM CST

Praying right now.
Deuteronomy 31:8 And the LORD, he it is that doth go before thee; he will be with thee, he will not fail thee, neither forsake thee: fear not, neither be dismayed.
Prayer Bears
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Wednesday, November 7, 2007 11:12 PM CST

I LOVE YOU LA LA!

Annie <ac64702@appstate.edu>
Boone, NC - Monday, November 5, 2007 8:21 AM CST

If only for a moment, it was so gooooood to hear your voice. And I just read your update and my heart aches so much. Many times I have felt my chest tighten and ache at even the thought...just the thought...of losing David. We've said this before you and I...Dakota is your soul mate..I know David is mine. That beautiful wonderful child of yours. You are the best mama, the kindest, most giving person..ever. Whatever our journey, like you, I believe there is a plan. I only wish your suffering - which is a measure of how very much you love Dakota...was directed to find peace in all this sorrow. I truly do not know if I could. I still believe you should write a book...just wish I was closer so I could give you a big hug. I'm so sorry about the way things are with Sam and your son....what a gift they have in their mother. Talk to ya tomorrow girly xoxoxoxoxoxoxox
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@comcast.net>
boynton beach, fl usa - Friday, November 2, 2007 8:21 PM CDT

Thought about you guys on Halloween - it was the inspiration to do all that I could to make it fun for Quentin.
Valerie and Quentin O'Brien <mpocgn@yahoo.com>
- Friday, November 2, 2007 10:55 AM CDT

Lannette,
My heart is breaking for you. I ask the same questions of God all the time. I don't know why you and Anita and so many others had to lose your babies. I so wish I could say or do something to ease your pain. You are the sweetest, kindest, most loving person I have ever known. You are selfless and you deserve to have as much love as you give to everyone else. If there is anything I can do, please don't hesitate to call anytime day or night. I am always thinking about and praying for you.
Sending love and hugs, Brigette
brigette deville <brigedev@yahoo.com>
- Friday, November 2, 2007 10:00 AM CDT

Lannette, My heart breaks for you. I have a 13 year old son and I can't even begin to imagine. I think of you daily and say prayers often for you. Hang in there, you have done so much good for so many. Both you and Dakota have touched so many lives and had such a great impact on many. I know we don't undertand these things, I wouldn't either if I were you.

Sonya
- Friday, November 2, 2007 8:24 AM CDT

I know your pain...we love you ...
angel Asa's dad <kessc@yahoo.com>
tega, sc - Friday, November 2, 2007 0:05 AM CDT

Lannette,
As much as my heart was hurting and still is hurting when I wrote Brandon's update to him last night. my heart is hurting just as much for you when i read your update to Dakota tonight. I sure do not question that Dakota and Brandon are having fun in heaven and keeping the place going. I told Brandon over and over at the end when he was so sad to know he was going to die and leave us. He would never be sad in heaven we would be sad here on earth and wish for the day to be with him again. It is so true. I can't imagine how hard it is for you after 10 months of Dakota being gone. Brandon has only been gone for 1 month and it seems like forever. I just wish we could have them back here with us and healthy. I agree with you about god's plan and wanting to know what was the purpose for this. People tell you all the time god has a plan and always has, but for us it is not easy waiting on the plan. I sure don't understand why it takes so long to know. I hope you get some more signs from Dakota. If you do please ask him about Brandon, because I have not got anything and I'm wondering if i ever will. It just seems like all I have is memories and I sure do want more. You are always in my prayers and i sure am glad that we met and can be here for each other. I know it does not always make it better, but I at least feel you understand and dont think I'm crazy. Maybe this was part of the plan for us to have each other and for our boys to have each other in heaven. I think all of were made for each other and im very proud to call you my friend. Lets get together soon. I'm here if you need to talk. I love you very much.
Love Anita mom to ^Brandon^
www.caringbridge.org/nc/brandonelam

Anita Elam <selam46@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 10:58 PM CDT

Lanette, just wanted to tell you that last night at the KH was so decorated in Dakota style. All your hard work was so thought of to Dakota and showed everywhere. There the were aches for him, and there were also joys of remembeing last year. You did a wonderful job and I know Dakota appreciated it too! You are in my prayers and I am here if you need me.
Jane E. Medler <medlerj@bellsouth.net>
LW, SC - Thursday, November 1, 2007 10:51 PM CDT

Continuing to pray so very hard!
Psalms 46:1-5 God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Therefore will not we fear, though the earth be removed, and though the mountains be carried into the midst of the sea; Though the waters thereof roar and be troubled, though the mountains shake with the swelling thereof. Selah. There is a river, the streams whereof shall make glad the city of God, the holy place of the tabernacles of the most High. God is in the midst of her; she shall not be moved: God shall help her, and that right early.
Prayer Bears
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 11:05 PM CDT

Happy Halloween Dakota! We miss you so very much!
Julie Long
Georgetown, SC - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 10:38 PM CDT

Hey guys. Well, I know this time of year is hard for you. That's another thing Dakota and Asa had in common--their love for Halloween. I think of Dakota so much. I was looking at some pictures I have of him at Lisa's pool party that year. Dakota chilling in the hammock. He knew how handsome he was. LaLa, I hear you on the friend thing. Sometimes I feel like closing Asa's website, cause I don't think anyone looks at it anymore. But it gives me some sort of comfort, so. I think of you all so much. Call me and let me know a good time to come over. Zoe talks about Dakota, too. She asks what I think the 2 boys are doing now. Up to no good, I'm sure. Love you.
Donna (angel Asa's mama) <aandzmama@yahoo.com>
Tega Cay, SC USA - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 11:37 AM CDT

I just wanted to let you know that I do think of you and of course Dakota, daily. You are still in my prayers and I've added Brandon's family to my prayers also. I constantly remind my prayer warriors about both your families. I know that I never get to see you but I haven't forgotten you or your precious Dak. He made such an impact on my life even before the cancer. He was a great student and always made me laugh. Please let me know if I can ever do anything for you. Just give me a call any time day or night. 704-460-1909. You are an inspiration to me. I appreciate the updates, I'm always concerned how you are doing. I'll stop rambling; just remember you are in my prayers and if you need anything specific to be prayed for please let me know so that I can pass it on through my prayer chains.
Jenna Dye (Dakota's Bible School Teacher) <jenna_dye2001@yahoo.com>
clover, sc usa - Friday, October 26, 2007 10:10 PM CDT

Praying!
Romans 8:26-27 Likewise the Spirit also helpeth our infirmities: for we know not what we should pray for as we ought: but the Spirit itself maketh intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered. And he that searcheth the hearts knoweth what is the mind of the Spirit, because he maketh intercession for the saints according to the will of God.
Prayer Bears
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Thursday, October 25, 2007 11:07 PM CDT

Lannette,
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Kim
Kim Bellinghausen <kbellinghausen@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Wednesday, October 24, 2007 9:17 AM CDT

Lannette,
thanks so much for sharing the pictures of Dakota with us - they were wonderful.
remembering you in my prayers each day ...
jeane moore <jeanehornemoore@yahoo.com>
gastonia, nc - Monday, October 22, 2007 2:59 PM CDT

Dakota pops in my head so often, I was driving around thinking about Haloween and Dakota popped in my head. I came by your site and before I even read your picture descriptions, I had the SAME feeling about him on the couch.. there is something when you look at Dakota that strikes at you.. moreso then any other photo , or , him in person.. it was like you said.. Looking at and Angel. Dakota and Brandon both are looking over their Momma's I am sure.. because while you guys couldn't have asked for better boys.. they have the most Amazing Moms..
Love ya!
Nicole and Kira
Nicole B <kiradoodle@yahoo.com>
Davidson, NC - Friday, October 19, 2007 2:32 PM CDT

Continuing to pray for your family!
Ps.46:10a, 11: Be still, and know that I am God...The LORD of hosts is with us; the God of Jacob is our refuge.
Prayer Bears
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Wednesday, October 17, 2007 10:42 PM CDT

Hey LaLa!

Just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you. Was great to see the new pictures on the site! They made me smile and cry at the same time.

I love you lots and I have not forgotten.

Love ya, mean it!

Annie <ac64702@appstate.edu>
Boone, NC - Wednesday, October 17, 2007 4:33 PM CDT

La La,
I don't know if you'll remember me. But I used to work at the knothole. I only knew Dak for a few years but he definitely made an impression... I love that little boy! the best damn pool shark I ever met. I am so very sorry to hear that he has passed. He was a very strong little boy and he has an even stronger mother. I know you will carry his spirit with you and help others like yourself. I'm sorry i can't be there but if i was i give you the biggest hug ever. I love you guys so much and miss you... Please take care of that beautiful little girl of yours and tell Ted I said hello.
Missing and Loving you,
Rachel Schultz

Rachel Schultz <Rachel.Schultz@pardeehomes.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Wednesday, October 17, 2007 3:33 PM CDT

Lannette, Ted and Samantha,
Still praying daily for you to receive peace through your memories. Dakota was a great kid, and we were all better off that he was here for at least a while.
Jeane Moore <jeanehornemoore@yahoo.com>
gastonia, nc - Wednesday, October 17, 2007 7:08 AM CDT

I hope you are having a wonderful day and I hope tomorrow is better.
chris mills <cpstrucking@carolina.rr.com>
monroe, nc usa - Tuesday, October 16, 2007 9:22 PM CDT

Lannette,
God has blessed you many times over with your passionate ways of caring for and loving people. Your smile, your sense of humor, and your genuine compassion is a treasured gift for all who have the privilege of knowing you. Thank you for sharing your beloved Dakota with us. I wish I could have known him and could have seen the two of you together! You are very special to me because of how much you love my friends, Anita, Scott, Brooke, and Brandon. You have so much to offer and you always do. Your selfless action is a powerful testimony of your faith. I am blessed to have you as my friend and I am forever changed by your compassion. You are an amazing woman. I do not know your grief and I pray that I never experience it, however, I do promise you that I will always have ears that listen, hands willing to help, and a mother's heart that loves your Precious Dakota. You are making a difference by sharing your journey and your pain. I pray that you never lose your laughter and that your sweet Dakota continues to fill your mind with wonderful thoughts. Lannette, thank you for "You" !
Love and Prayers,
Kim
Kim Bellinghausen <kbellinghausen@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Tuesday, October 16, 2007 10:28 AM CDT

My Dear Friend...this made me think of you and Dakota. Of all the families who have lost a child. I catch myself more often than not, thinking of that beautiful child of yours. The nine month anniversary fell on David's birthday. I cannot believe it has been 9 months.....you have done amazing things through your pain Lannette. I know without a flicker you would change it all to have that baby back. I really thought this was really well written....thinking of you always and sending love to you Ted, Dakota and Sam.
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david

The Gap by Michael Crenlinsten

The gap between those who have lost children and those who have not, is profoundly difficult to bridge. No one, whose children are well and intact can be expected to understand what parents who have lost children have absorbed and what they bear. Our children come to us through every blade of grass, every crack in the sidewalk, every bowl of breakfast cereal. We seek contact with their atoms, their hairbrush, their toothbrush, their clothing. We reach for what was integrally woven into the fabric of our lives, now torn and shredded.

A black hole has been blown through our souls and, indeed, it often does not allow the light to escape. It is a difficult place. To enter there is to be cut deeply, and torn anew each time we go there, by the jagged edges of our loss. Yet we return, again and again, for that is where our children now reside. This will be so for years to come and it will change us profoundly. At some point in the distant future, the edges of that hole will have tempered and softened but the empty space will remain - a life sentence.

Our friends will change through this. There is no avoiding it. We grieve for our children, in part, through talking about them and our feelings in having lost them. Some go there with us, others cannot and through their denial - a further measure, however unwittingly, is added to an already heavy burden. Assuming that we may be feeling "better" in six months is simply "to not get it."

The excruciating and isolating reality that bereaved parents feel is hermetically sealed from the nature of any other human experience. Thus it is a trap � those, whose compassion and insight we need most, are those for whom we abhor the experience that would allow them that sensitivity and capacity. And yet, somehow there are those, each in their own fashion, who have found a way to reach us and stay, to our comfort. They have understood, again each in their own way, that our children remain our children through our memory of them. Their memory is sustained through speaking about them and our feelings about their death. Deny this and you deny their life. Deny their life and you no longer have a place in ours.

We recognize that we have moved to an emotional place where it is often very difficult to reach us. Our attempts to be normal are painful and the day to day carries a silent, screaming anguish that accompanies us; sometimes from moment to moment. Were we to give it its own voice we fear we would become truly unreachable, and so we remain "strong" for a host of reasons, even as the strength saps our energy and drains our will. Were we to act out our true feelings we would be impossible to be with. We resent having to act normal, yet we dare not do otherwise. People who understand this dynamic are our gold standard. Working our way through this over the years will change us as does every experience - and extreme experience changes one extremely. We know we will have recovered when, as we have read, it is no longer so painful to be normal. We do not know who we will be at that point or who will still be with us.

We have read that the gap is so difficult that, often, bereaved parents must attempt to reach out to friends and relatives or risk losing them. This is our attempt. For those untarnished by such events, who wish to know in some way what they, thankfully, do not know, read this. It may provide a window that is helpful for both sides of the gap

kathy <joy2jak@comcast.net>
boynton beach, fl usa - Monday, October 15, 2007 5:28 PM CDT

hi lanette and ted,
i just wanted to let ya'll know i think about you all the time. today especially. i was at work at lupies and a little girl named madison robinson and her family came to my restaurant, she had the same sweet round face as dakota's, i told her about you and the caring bridge sight she has her own site under madisonrobinson, you are such a wonderful woman with all that you do and keeping dakotas memory alive. i'm not one to pray to often but i found myself praying to dakota and michael to watch over madison. i love you guys
danielle
danielle maurer <dnllmaurer@yahoo.com>
charlotte, nc usa - Monday, October 15, 2007 2:11 PM CDT

Lannette, I view the site often - we have not forgotten. We know you are busy and still trying to adjust. You have been an inspiration to me. Thank you.
Valerie and Quentin O'Brien <mpocgn@yahoo.com>
Norwalk, OH - Friday, October 12, 2007 2:50 PM CDT

Dear Lannette & Ted: I found your web site following another child Melissa from NJ and send you a message once or twice. I can not even put into words the admiration I have for you and your family. You are one of God's chosen children to go forth and speak to other families and give comfort and strength. You inner strength and beauty shines through in all of your pictures. Please know you have touch so many people all over the world and most people have not forgotten you but respect your alone time. You just have to write in the journal and you will get the support you need from here. But the real support is already inside of you.
Linda - A friend from NJ
Linda Stepanian <adnil007@verizon.net>
Hackensack, NJ USA - Thursday, October 11, 2007 2:46 PM CDT

My thoughts and prayers are with you baby always! I love the new pictures. I feel very blessed to be in one. I love you
Katie Bug <Jessicakate107@aol.com>
Lake Wylie, sc usa - Thursday, October 11, 2007 9:58 AM CDT

Well now my heart is aching again so much for you. You know I think that people just forget about what happened. They're so wrapped up in their lives that they just forget what you've gone through and are going through.
These next few months are going to be so very hard with all the last "firsts" to go through, ending with the biggest "first" of all, the first anniversary of Dakota going Home. Entering a new year will be hard because it will be the first new year without Dakota in it.
As for the book, I'm sure the words will come when the time is right. I don't think that's something that can ever be pushed. So just take your time.
Was thinking that you could still buy the gifts and donate them to a hospital or to kids who won't have much of a Christmas.
And I'll always be coming back. If I ever stop then something has happened like my computer totally crashing.
Praying right now for your family!
Psalms 17:6-7 I have called upon thee, for thou wilt hear me, O God: incline thine ear unto me, and hear my speech. Shew thy marvellous lovingkindness, O thou that savest by thy right hand them which put their trust in thee from those that rise up against them.
Prayer Bears

Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Wednesday, October 10, 2007 10:06 PM CDT

Lanette, You are the strongest person I know and truly an angel. Keep the faith.
Karin Bennett <karinb@muzak.com>
Tega Cay, SC USA - Wednesday, October 10, 2007 9:46 AM CDT

Ms.Lanette~
You are a Bright Ray of Sunshine. You are truly a gift from God. To go out and help others and let them know that someone else has walked in their shoes, just that alone will help others & means so much. I pray for you everyday, that things will get a little easier. Just because time has passed, doesn't mean that things have gotten any easier for you. This will take time, a lot of time. You will always be in my Prayers and I hope in the upcoming months you will find happiness doing some of Dakota's favorite things. Although you will have sad times as well. Take care Ms. Lanette.
Melisa <Melisa28467@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Wednesday, October 10, 2007 7:15 AM CDT

Wanted you to know I still think of you guys just about every day! Hope things continue to go well. You are constantly in my prayers.
Love,
Mr. Knight - Dak's "FAVORITE" teacher :-) <knightt1990@netzero.com>
Clover, SC USA - Tuesday, October 9, 2007 9:07 PM CDT

Wow what a wonderful lady you are Lannette. I count it a great privledge to have met you and now call you my friend. I hope to see again soon. I know that Dakota and Brandon are having a ball in heaven. Chris Mills (Hometown Heroes)
chris mills <cpstrucking@carolina.rr.com>
monroe, nc usa - Tuesday, October 9, 2007 8:20 PM CDT

Lanette, I just wanted to say it was an honor to meet you even during a very rough time. You are the medicine that everyone needs, even though you have had such a tremendous loss.
Your Dakota is totally ADORABLE! And yep....he and sweet Brandon do look like brothers!
Thank you for your sense of humor, you zest for life..and just for being you!
I am honored to have met you!
You are in my prayers as well......much love and many hugs!
Shirley Bennett <shirley.bennett@ucps.k12.nc.us>
Matthews, NC - Monday, October 8, 2007 1:45 PM CDT

Lanette, I just wanted you to know I am thinking of you during yet again another loss in your life. I know Brandon and his family are very special to you. I am so glad you have been able to be there for them. They are lucky. My prayers are with you and them.
Jane E. Medler <medlerj@bellsouth.net>
Lake Wylie, SC - Friday, October 5, 2007 2:29 PM CDT

Miss u :-(
I think about all of you often. Life becomes so hectic and entangled at times. I hope you are doing well. Please call me or email me when you are up to it. I would love to hear from you. All of you have a special place in my heart. I still hold Dakota's voice in my thoughts. Such a beautiful child.
xoxo
Patty <p_ragusa@comcast.net>
Loveland, Co USA - Thursday, October 4, 2007 9:30 PM CDT

This has to hit you so very, very hard but what a blessing that these families have you there for them!
Reading John and these words always touch my heart so much. Still here praying!
John 14:1-3 Let not your heart be troubled: ye believe in God, believe also in me. In my Father's house are many mansions: if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again, and receive you unto myself; that where I am, there ye may be also.
Prayer Bears
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Wednesday, October 3, 2007 11:06 PM CDT

Lanette,
You are an amazing, special lady. Your selflessness and desire to see the Elam family through these last days is simply beautiful. I thank you from the bottom of my heart for being there for them and keeping me posted. I am so proud to know you, and Dakota is beaming even brighter seeing his mama doing what she does best - giving of herself. Every time I think about Brandon and Dakota sitting around in heaven talking about the Panthers and Steelers, swapping jokes and being the mischievious teenagers they were meant to be, my heart feels lighter and I can't help but smile. I love you, sweetheart.

Brigette

brigette deville <brigedev@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, October 3, 2007 9:35 PM CDT

Hi Lannette,
I just wanted to share an English paper my 14 year old (Freshman) son wrote about his Daddy who went home 4 years ago this past June (the day before Father's Day) due to cancer -or as you refer to as the beast. My son also refers to it the same... I hope this can help to explain to folks what this does to families.. kids included. We all need to remember to do as much as possible to help families who are going thru this. Or support your local Hospice, send a note to a stranger you see going thru it, something! It's a horrible disease. I love you and pray for you all the time!
Karin Bennett (formerly Dubay)
"My Rite of Passage"
Many children of modern and even past times have had to undergo some sort of rite of passage. This rite could possibly be a hardship in life such as leaving friends behind to move to a new home. Sometimes, on the other hand, it can be a positive experience such as the first time your parents allow you to drive the family car to dinner. The rite of passage that seems to have affected my life the most is the death of my father. It was a snap to the reality of the adult world that brought me from the child�s perspective into a new world, undiscovered, mysterious, and bewildering.
I remember the day it all happened, I was only nine years old when I had heard the news. My mom came in with my aunt with the obvious red-eyed evidence of the burn of a series of melancholy tears. The air was still, and hung in my lungs like the thick fog before an oncoming storm. They both sat and had me wait until my brother had been summoned. I sat and reveled in the thought of the looming news to come. My mother and aunt entered the room, sat my brother and I down revealing slowly the news that had burdened my consciousness for the seconds that lasted hours. My father had been in an accident and was in the hospital, he had crashed his chopper motorcycle.
The hospital felt too surreal to be anything but a dream. Silently I pondered what I would say to him, I felt the question burn my chest. Over and over it repeated in a fearful, timid voice that I see now was my own, it said, �What now? How will I manage to see him injured in such a state?� I walked into the room my dad was occupying and saw him smile at me. Just the relief of his happiness gave me overwhelming joy and hope, if he had the strength to be happy than so too, can I. A man walked in and obviously presented himself a doctor. He said to us in a confident voice that seemed to mock the fear I held only minutes before, �It�s a miracle that he made it, someone must be watching him upstairs.� casually laughing lightening the air and giving us a sense of security.
Months had gone by and only a cast and a few bruises remained to remind us of that unexpected shift in daily life. Strangely, even as months past, the cast did not disappear, my father�s leg would not heal. He went to the hospital for an X-ray of the crash evidence. He reported fatigue and weakness, even more than originally expected for his injuries. The man returned with the confidence gone replaced with a countenance of sympathy. In a more somber tone, he reported the result. They explained everything, the fatigue, the bruises, the way the broken leg never seemed to improve. He informed us of the cancer residing in my father�s body, feeding on him like a beast.

The new hospital (Duke) was different in every way. It seemed to emit a sense of hope even as its true face hid under the mask. The chemo-therapy caused his hair to slowly evaporate into thin air. So, as a show of concern and loyalty to his fight with the disease, my brother and I shaved our heads. We wanted him to know we were not going to give up and that anything that we could do to help would be attained without even a second of regret. The chemo did what it could but every time he went back for more treatment, we discovered the beast inside of him took more of him to itself. Eventually it reached the point of terminal classification. I kept looking for some excuse not to give up but the miracle I had hoped for never came.
I was standing next to the bed, with my father laying on it, he cold not speak, everyone was crying. I sobbed for him, I had every word I had ever known taken from me. What does a 10 year old kid say to his dad when he is dying in front of his very own eyes? It seemed that even saying the simplest goodbye was a sign of giving up and I couldn�t even muster that. I went to a family friend�s house for the night pulling everyone around closer. A few hours after leaving the bed, the phone rang; I knew the reason for the call before I was told. My father passed away that night, only one night from father�s day.
This forced me to grow up; it made me see the beauty in simple things like enjoying my family and the value of time. I grew more in one year than most kids that age would ever be able to imagine. I know that I will see him again and I can even feel his presence when I face a particularly hard time. I will just have to spend my time with my family to the best of my ability. I think that is one of the most important lessons in the extent of my life so far, and it shows true progression and growth to accept it and live by it. That is the rite of passage I endured, it isn�t a happy one, but it is a part of me now.
David Trey Bennett
English 2
Fort Mill High School
Karin Bennett <karinb@muzak.com>
Fort Mill, SC USA - Friday, September 28, 2007 4:05 PM CDT

Thinking of you Sweetheart. I updated for you too....miss talkin to ya...will have to catch up real soon. Loving you and sending hugs and prayers. Dakota, I know you're looking over your wonderful Mom, sending love to you Dakota and you know you are always remembered.
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@comcast.net>
boynton beach, florida usa - Thursday, September 27, 2007 8:42 PM CDT

Continuing to pray!
Jude 24-25: Now unto him that is able to keep you from falling, and to present you faultless before the presence of his glory with exceeding joy, To the only wise God our Saviour, be glory and majesty, dominion and power, both now and ever. Amen.
Prayer Bears
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Wednesday, September 26, 2007 10:11 PM CDT

I am always thinking of you guys.. Dakota and Brandon both have heavy handprints on my heart and I often think of Dakota when I see a golf course and him making me laugh with the 'silly swing' he taught me...

Just thought I stop by to send my love!
Nicole and Kira
Nicole and Kira <ndberkhout@yahoo.com>
Davidson, NC - Friday, September 21, 2007 9:56 PM CDT

Know that I'm continuing to pray!
2 Samuel 22:31-34 As for God, his way is perfect; the word of the LORD is tried: he is a buckler to all them that trust in him. For who is God, save the LORD? and who is a rock, save our God? God is my strength and power: and he maketh my way perfect. He maketh my feet like hinds' feet: and setteth me upon my high places.
Prayer Bears
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Wednesday, September 19, 2007 8:30 PM CDT

Dakota was sure with us on the safe flight to Jamaica. How cool that our plane was a STEELERS plane. I thought that was very cool, and made us feel safe. Thanks DAKOTA!! WE love you and miss you. LaLa, my prayers are with you and Brandon's family. I know you are also having a rough time with this. I love you.
Mrs. Legg <Jessicakate107@aol.com>
clover, sc usa - Wednesday, September 19, 2007 1:26 PM CDT

Praying!
Romans 8:18 For I reckon that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us.
Prayer Bears
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Friday, September 14, 2007 0:03 AM CDT

Just wanted to say hello and that I love you.
Donna (angel Asa's mama) <aandzmama@yahoo.com>
Tega Cay, SC USA - Thursday, September 13, 2007 6:01 AM CDT

stay strong <3 even if I do not get on here as much as I would like please know your always in my prayers ! b+ =]
Sammy
- Wednesday, September 12, 2007 4:56 PM CDT

Lannette,
What can I say except THANK YOU!! It was so great to see you yesterday. I know Brandon and Brooke both had a lot of fun with you. All the goodies you brought to them and myself were to much and dinner for an army also. I really enjoyed the time we had together just being able to talk with someone that really understands what I'm going thru. You do not know how it makes me feel to know the way you are helping Brandon with all the secrets he wants done for us later. You are just an awsome person and friend. It has not been long since you went thru all this with Dakota and he has not been gone long at all. I know it has to take a lot out of you to be able to do this and I truly Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Also thank you for the kind words and special prayers you put on Dakotas site.
I love you very much,
Anita mom to Brandon
www.caringbridge.org/nc/brandonelam

Anita Elam <selam46@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Wednesday, September 12, 2007 11:10 AM CDT

Thinking of you. Sending love. Do you have pictures from that wonderful day you and Ted gave the children?
Dakota, I thought of you today and remembered you reading apoem to me over the phone...but what I remember most was that beautiful laugh of yours. Hugs and prayers.
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@comcast.net>
boynton beach, florida usa - Monday, September 10, 2007 12:33 AM CDT

B+ <3 Always look up ! God bless you
Samantha <xolivey0urlife@aim.com>
- Saturday, September 8, 2007 4:56 PM CDT

Hi I found your story off Brandon Elam's site.I was looking for a new update and I was flipping through the journal and in the back it said Dakota had lost his battle and gave this sit e adress.I'm very sorry about Dakota he fought a long good battle.FROG>FULLY RELY ON GOD!!!!!!!!~*MoRgAn*~!
Morgan Taylor:) <nagrom12345678@yahoo.com>
Douglasville, GA USA - Saturday, September 8, 2007 2:28 PM CDT

lanette and ted,please know that we are still out here thinking of you often and praying for you.you are a joy.hope to see you around.maybe at t-bones toward the end of the month.love,laurie and kim.
laurie mcdonald <leigh1961@hotmail.com>
york, sc york - Thursday, September 6, 2007 5:08 PM CDT

Because of Christ we can boldly bring our petitions to the very throne of God! Praying on your family's behalf right now!
Hebrews 10:19-22 Having therefore, brethren, boldness to enter into the holiest by the blood of Jesus, By a new and living way, which he hath consecrated for us, through the veil, that is to say, his flesh; And having an high priest over the house of God; Let us draw near with a true heart in full assurance of faith, having our hearts sprinkled from an evil conscience, and our bodies washed with pure water.
Prayer Bears
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Wednesday, September 5, 2007 9:14 PM CDT

Lannette and Ted, I know you two left today for your mini vacation together, and I just wanted you to know you are both in my thoughts and prayers. Wishing you peace, sunshine and a cool breeze, a beautiful sunset together and the reaffirmation of your love and how amazing the two of you are through the tears and heartache. Remembering Dakota every single day. Sending love and lots of it!
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@comcast.net>
boynton beach, florida usa - Saturday, September 1, 2007 1:25 PM CDT

Stopping by tonight to let you know I'm praying!
2 Thessalonians 2:16-17 Now our Lord Jesus Christ himself, and God, even our Father, which hath loved us, and hath given us everlasting consolation and good hope through grace, Comfort your hearts, and stablish you in every good word and work.
Prayer Bears
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Wednesday, August 29, 2007 11:37 PM CDT

I always have Dakota on my mind, but extra today because of Carla's sister. Good thing is we know Dakota is helping her get adjusted. Saw the article in the LW Living about him and made me realize how much he is missed. Linds told me the other day that someone at school asked about "his Mom". People care about you and Ted and people love and miss him alot. You have done such a good job!
Jane E. Medler <medlerj@bellsouth.net>
Lake Wylie, SC 29710 - Wednesday, August 29, 2007 8:57 PM CDT

You are one of the best people I have ever met. I know exactly where Dakota got that wonderful heart. I love you so much and thank you for everything you do for me. I miss you Dakota. Your presence will surely be with us on our big day.
Katie Bug <Jessicakate107@aol.com>
Clover, sc USA - Thursday, August 23, 2007 8:05 PM CDT

Lannette,
Your heart is so big...
thinking of you today, and often.
hang in there,
peace,
Kristin, Genna's mom <thecams@earthlink.net>
Warren, NJ USA - Thursday, August 23, 2007 2:58 PM CDT

Thanks so much for the update! Glad you didn't lose this one!
These verses are always so comforting to me! Know I'm praying as always!
John 14:1-3 Let not your heart be troubled: ye believe in God, believe also in me. In my Father's house are many mansions: if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again, and receive you unto myself; that where I am, there ye may be also.
Prayer Bears
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Wednesday, August 22, 2007 11:34 PM CDT

Lannette,
I know your office must look great!Cant wait to get by and see it!! Dakota is proud of his mama!! So are we!
Stay strong, and follow your heart.
Hugs,
Allen & Steffney Jakab <steffney.jakab@metso.com>
Lake Wylie, SC - Tuesday, August 21, 2007 11:26 AM CDT

Where is the best place to find a family to adopt? This sounds like a wonderful opportunity that I would like my family to take part in. Can you give me any contacts. Thanks for your update; I'm still praying for you and your family.
Jenna Dye <jenna_dye2001@yahoo.com>
Clover, sc usa - Monday, August 20, 2007 10:37 PM CDT

it was so good to talk to you the other night. Thank you. Let me know when we can get together. Love you.
donna (Angel Asa's Mama) caringbridge.org/sc/asa <aandzmama@yahoo.com>
Tega Cay, SC USA - Friday, August 17, 2007 7:33 AM CDT

I so need to call you. I love you. I think of you so much...I have been going 1 million miles and hour...just took Ashlei back to college and have had so much going on. I love your update. I'm so happy you and Ted are taking this time to make some memories together. I really miss talking and we so need to catch up. I believe your book will honor not only Dakota, but so many others. You are my amazing friend. Love You.
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@comcast.net>
boynton beach, fl usa - Thursday, August 16, 2007 9:28 PM CDT

So great to see an update. I know I talk to ya but love reading a new writing. He is so missed everyday of my life and very proud of you and all you have accomplished. Your a remarkable woman!
Jane E. Medler <medlerj@bellsouth.net>
Lake Wylie, SC - Thursday, August 16, 2007 1:24 PM CDT

What an amazing promise from God's Word! Am here praying!
Joshua 1:9 Have not I commanded thee? Be strong and of a good courage; be not afraid, neither be thou dismayed: for the LORD thy God is with thee whithersoever thou goest.
Prayer Bears
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Wednesday, August 15, 2007 8:37 PM CDT

I was just thinking about sweet Dakota tonight and I needed to come by to see his handsome face. I also wanted to let you know that you guys are still very much in my thoughts and prayers.
Hugs & love from Candy - Audrey's Umbrella
Livonia, MI www.braintrust.org/audrey - Wednesday, August 15, 2007 7:20 PM CDT

I was just stopping by and dropping a note to let you know that I was thinking of Dakota and you all.
Doug Setzer <dsetzer@27seconds.com>
Columbia, MD USA - Wednesday, August 15, 2007 6:19 AM CDT

Lannette,
I hope things are going ok for you. I think about you all the time and pray that the days are getting easier for you. I will give you a call soon when I get a minute. I know you understand how time just slips by with this cancer. Tell Ted hello also.
Love ya lots,
Anita mom to Brandon
www.caringbridge.org/nc/brandonelam
Anita Elam <selam46@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Sunday, August 12, 2007 11:04 PM CDT

Know that I care and am praying so hard for your family!
Proverbs 3:5 Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.
Prayer Bears
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Wednesday, August 8, 2007 11:37 PM CDT

Hi Lannette & Ted,
Just thinking of you today.
Lots of love, Steffney & Allen
Steffney & Allen Jakab <steffney.jakab@metso.com>
Lake Wylie, SC - Monday, August 6, 2007 4:15 PM CDT

still thinking aboutcha, not a day goes by that i dont!
Landon Forbes <lblue92@aol.com>
- Monday, August 6, 2007 9:17 AM CDT

thinking of you tonight...
peace,
Kristin, G's mom <thecams@earthlink.net>
Warren, NJ USA - Sunday, August 5, 2007 9:28 PM CDT

what a better place this old world is in because of people! like you. Great job
patti
ky - Saturday, August 4, 2007 2:53 AM CDT

What a blessing to know that the Lord is there to lift up our head! What a beautiful picture! Know that I'm praying!
Psalms 3:2-3 Many there be which say of my soul, There is no help for him in God. Selah. But thou, O LORD, art a shield for me; my glory, and the lifter up of mine head.
Prayer Bears

Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Thursday, August 2, 2007 11:37 PM CDT

At work listening to the radio and everyday without fail, they play Louis Armstrong "What a Wonderful World". And I think of Dakota and smile. Love to his family.
Donna (Angel Asa's Mama) <aandzmama@yahoo.com>
Tega Cay, SC USA - Thursday, August 2, 2007 10:01 AM CDT

I am so glad the day went so well for the kids and especially for your family. We had no doubt you would pull it off perfectly!!
And projects are going on, how wonderful!! I am so glad that you are able to look toward the future and to be involved with other children after your loss. That takes a strong person but as you said, Dakota knew you are that and so do we!!
I think of you often.

Jalena Bowling <jalenabowling@comcast.net>
Arlington, tn - Sunday, July 29, 2007 7:40 AM CDT

What comforting words from the Redeemer! Praying!
Psalms 34:22 The LORD redeemeth the soul of his servants: and none of them that trust in him shall be desolate.
Prayer Bears
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Wednesday, July 25, 2007 10:53 PM CDT

Dear Lannette,
I can only think that Dakota was poking angels up in heaven and saying "hey, that's my momma!" as you spread love to all those kids...

You make me want to be a better person...thank you.
hugs & prayers always,
Kristin, Genna's mom <thecams@earthlink.net>
Warren, NJ USA - Sunday, July 22, 2007 7:51 PM CDT

These are the most comforting verses and some of my very favorites. Praying!!!!!!!!!!!
Romans 8:26-27 Likewise the Spirit also helpeth our infirmities: for we know not what we should pray for as we ought: but the Spirit itself maketh intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered. And he that searcheth the hearts knoweth what is the mind of the Spirit, because he maketh intercession for the saints according to the will of God.
Prayer Bears
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Thursday, July 19, 2007 0:16 AM CDT

Thinking of you xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Sending lots of love...
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@comcast.net>
boynton beach, fl usa - Tuesday, July 17, 2007 7:29 PM CDT

Hey, Lanette...

Just wanted to let you know you guys are in my thoughts...

Mimi
www.carepages.com juliansworld
mimi <myriamtx@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, July 14, 2007 11:59 PM CDT

Some of the passages in Isaiah sound like they came from the N.T. This is one of them. Still here praying for your family!
Isaiah 63:9 In all their affliction he was afflicted, and the angel of his presence saved them: in his love and in his pity he redeemed them; and he bare them, and carried them all the days of old.
Prayer Bears
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Wednesday, July 11, 2007 9:32 PM CDT

AWESOME NEWS! I wanted to let you know that Gabby is off the respirator and.....in remission after only 2 weeks!!! The doctors are very surprised, but we couldn't be happier! Unfortunately, she is going through pretty bad withdrawals from the morphine now- she also pulled her central line out today =( These are all things that can be worked through though- this is just another example of the power of our prayers. Love ya LaLa!
Missy Byrd
Lake Wylie, SC 29710 - Tuesday, July 10, 2007 5:18 PM CDT

Hey Lala! I wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you today and always. I am still praying for you, and I know God is right there beside you giving you strength (Dakota too!) Thank you so much for using your gifts to help others through these hards times- you are an amazing woman! Love ya!
Missy Byrd <ravrkitty@aol.com>
Lake Wylie, SC 29710 - Monday, July 9, 2007 8:42 AM CDT

I continue to keep you and your family in my prayers. I'm so glad that the lake day went great and I'm very sorry that I wasn't able to help; hopefully next time. I know that Dakota is very proud of his mom and everything that you are doing; keep up the good work. I hope you had fun picking out your colors. Thanks for continuing the updates for those of us that continue to love you and pray for you.
jenna dye <jenna_dye2001@yahoo.com>
clover, sc usa - Monday, July 9, 2007 0:07 AM CDT

You guys did such an amazing job with the benefit. I had so much fun. Dakota's present was defintly there. He was very proud with Jake's show of fireworks Im sure. I'm thinking of you and love you. --Kate Alomost Legg
Katie Bug <Jessicakate107@aol.com>
Clover, sc USA - Thursday, July 5, 2007 11:46 AM CDT

Couldn't help but to think of DAK last night while sitting and watching the fireworks over Lake Wylie. I could just see his face lighting up with each "BOOM"

What do you mean when you say you "think" Dakota would be proud. I would like to tell you I KNOW (without a doubt) that Dakota would be proud of you - THE BEST MOM IN THE WORLD! You are such a BLESSING to many people! Keep up the work with the "kids" and I know you'll be REWARDED!!!

I think about you guys often, and say a prayer for you DAILY! Thanks for the updates.
Love, Mr. Knight <knightt1990@netzero.com>
Clover, SC USA - Thursday, July 5, 2007 7:52 AM CDT

Lanette,
You are doing a great thing. Hang on and keep doing what you are doing a day at a time. Praying for strength for you.
jeane moore <jeanehornemoore@yahoo.com>
gastonia, nc - Wednesday, July 4, 2007 8:17 AM CDT

Lannette and Ted,
You are in our prayers always. You did such a great job on the party. I'm glad Brandon was able to come and enjoy. We had a great time.
Love,
Anita
www.caringbridge.org/nc/brandonelam

Anita Elam <selam46@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Monday, July 2, 2007 10:07 PM CDT

Lannette, I am very proud of you. I can imagine the strength it takes to keep moving. You are doing it and doing a great job. And what a wonderful thing you did for all those children. I know that your beautiful son is beaming down from heaven watching all the events that took place. What courage it takes to tackle the task of moving the rooms around. I know how hard that must be. I pray for you to have comfort and peace and happiness...Carolyn Lilly
carolyn lilly <carolynlilly1@hotmail.com>
angus, on canada - Monday, July 2, 2007 2:48 PM CDT

I'm so proud of you Lannette. You are the most giving, loving, compassionate, caring person. You do more than just honor Dakota's memory. You bring awareness to many and happiness to all those children and their families. Your gift is within you. Dakota and God have plans for you. You ever need me from Florida...I'm there. There are so many facets in the cancer journey, form drs to hospitals to education deficits due to treatment and as we both know..the endocrinology situation..and so much more that extends to family members as well...you are my hero Lannette. I love you. Talk with you soon. Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@comcast.net>
boynton beach, fl usa - Saturday, June 30, 2007 7:23 PM CDT

I was so thankful, and happy when Skyla came into the kitchen Tuesday wearing a new shirt. I looked at it, and commented about how wonderful it was that you guys had the t-shirts made in honor of last week. Then she turned around..... Needless to say I started crying while standing in my kitchen. I was not prepared to see those beautiful eyes looking back at me at that very moment. Wonderful touch! Wonderfully touching!!
Julie Martin Long
Georgetown, SC USA - Friday, June 29, 2007 10:01 PM CDT

Hello. I am a resident of Lake Wylie and have followed your story thru carringbridge and the Lake Wylie Pilot. I just read your story about courageous kidz and the party-how awesome! I have a friend whose daughter was just diagnosed with AML (leukemia) on Saturday and began chemo on Sunday. She is at Presby in P.I.C.U. on a respirator and has a feeding tube. She now has pneumonia. I can only imagine what she is going thru. I want to help as much as possible but I am not sure how to help. I hope someone will read this on your website and at least send her an email. She is a single mother of two with no family near and the father is in California. She needs alot of support! She is at www.caringbride.com site name is GabrielleVillareal. Thank you to anyone that can send her some kind words. She is checking this site many times during the day-she is amazed by how many people care. Thank you again to everyone and thank you to the Conders who are continuing to honor Dakota's memory thru their work-I know any child would be proud of such supportive parents.
Ashley Walkowiak <joeashwak@yahoo.com>
Lake Wylie , SC USA - Thursday, June 28, 2007 6:00 PM CDT

Have always loved these verses. Lifting your family up in prayer!
Philippians 4:6-7 Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God. And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.
Prayer Bears
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA U.S.A. - Thursday, June 28, 2007 1:16 AM CDT

Skyla had a BLAST at your house this past weekend! She said you were "awesome" and too fun! Thank you for opening your home to so many of our special children! Dakota is so very proud of you (as we all are!) I cannot wait to get the photos developed!
Julie Martin Long
Georgetown, SC - Tuesday, June 26, 2007 7:27 AM CDT

Dear Lannette and Ted,

God has been truly praised at your house! You have given so much joy to many young people who don't have much in their life. While many in your situation might just sit down and bury themselves into a deep pit, you are working to see that others receive happiness. I bet Dakota was sitting up in heaven on the front row shouting to all the other heavenly host, "THAT'S MY MOM AND DAD DOWN THERE HAVING A PARTY FOR KIDS WHO ARE FACING SOME OF THE SAME STUFF I DID!!! WAY TO GO MOM AND DAD!"

I trust that God is blessing all of you each and every day with the assurance that he loves you and that your son has blessed, and continues, to bless others by a brave and enduring spirit. I believe young children have an ability to reach even into an old person's heart. I know that my heart is full of the positive attributes of many young people. Dakota will always be in my thoughts and you in my prayers.

In Christian love,
Mr. Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Tuesday, June 26, 2007 7:26 AM CDT

After reading what your friend Jane wrote it's clear, and no surprise that you and Ted put on the best party EVER!! I agree with Jane, Dakota was there in spirit, guiding and just making sure it was the best time for all. Can't wait to see pictures!!! Thinking of you Lannette.....sending much LOVE...leaving for UCF tomorrow morning early to get my not so little girl settled into her dorm! Bundles of hugs and Love to two amazing people!
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@comcast.net>
boynton beach, fl usa - Friday, June 22, 2007 8:07 PM CDT

Lanette & Ted, What a WONDERFUL DAY! I was so proud to be a part of it. You sure do put on a production! The kids were all great and had so much fun! Linds was fell asleep talking about Ted's tubing ride! I am so thankful to be a part of your wonderful work. Dakota is smiling so big right now. You did a wonderful job! Anyone that missed it, please know it couldn't have been any better!
Jane E. Medler <medlerj@bellsouth.net>
Lake Wylie, SC 29710 - Thursday, June 21, 2007 10:13 PM CDT

What an amazing list of things the Lord is! Know I'm praying as always! Adding prayers that TOMORROW is an amazing day!
Psalms 18:2 The LORD is my rock, and my fortress, and my deliverer; my God, my strength, in whom I will trust; my buckler, and the horn of my salvation, and my high tower.
Prayer Bears
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA - Wednesday, June 20, 2007 10:51 PM CDT

sounds great! I had a friend pass mon so I'm sorry we will not be there. we send our love.

Allen Family <keyssc@yahoo.com>
tega cay, sc - Wednesday, June 20, 2007 4:29 PM CDT

You wont need luck for tomorrow Lannette! So, I wont say "good luck". Luck has nothing to do with it, does it? I hope you have so much fun tomorrow! Its going to be a great day! I will be working, but thinking of you ALL day tomorrow! Dakota is watching over you tomorrow, and always :)

Steffney <steffney.jakab@metso.com>
Lake Wylie, SC - Wednesday, June 20, 2007 4:10 PM CDT

Good luck with the party tomorrow! I am sure everyone will have a GREAT time and that it will be a tremendous success!
Valerie O'Brien <mpocgn@yahoo.com>
Norwalk, OH - Wednesday, June 20, 2007 11:15 AM CDT

Hey girl! I was going to call you but I know how horribly busy you must be right now! So, thought i'd drop you a line instead to let you know how proud I am of you! You are an awesome, special spirit with such a huge heart! You have touched so many lives in so many positive ways! Know I will be thinking of you, Dakota and all of the other children on this very special day! Have fun! Wish I could be there! Lots of love!!!
Dana Zarcone <home4bizness@yahoo.com>
Chardon, OH - Wednesday, June 20, 2007 9:53 AM CDT

Just a few more days!!!! Thinking of you guys as I'm sure you are super busy with preparing for this wonderful 'Dakota' event!!!!! Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers and sending just tons of love!!! On my way to take Ashlei to college very early Saturday morning! We've been busy just getting the necessary 'stuff' together....she bought herself a small refrigerator yesterday...(keep in mind...I have a little old honda accord....)Dave's surgery for the port removal went well...his soreness is gone now so we're just waiting for it to heal. Love you so much.
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@comcast.net>
boynton beach, fl usa - Monday, June 18, 2007 4:05 PM CDT

Lannette and Ted,
What a wonderful way to honor Dakota's memory! Cupcakes are on the way! Have a great day ...
jeane moore <jeanehornemoore@yahoo.com>
gastonia, nc - Monday, June 18, 2007 3:54 PM CDT

The Cord~
We are connected,
My child and I, by
An invisible cord
Not seen by the eye.

It's not like the cord
That connects us 'til birth
This cord can't been seen
By any on Earth.

This cord does it's work
Right from the start.
It binds us together
Attached to my heart.

I know that it's there
Though no one can see
The invisible cord
From my child to me.

The strength of this cord
Is hard to describe.
It can't be destroyed
It can't be denied.

It's stronger than any cord
Man could create
It withstands the test
Can hold any weight.

And though you are gone,
Though you're not here with me,
The cord is still there
But no one can see.

It pulls at my heart
I am bruised...I am sore,
But this cord is my lifeline
As never before.

I am thankful that God
Connects us this way
A mother and child
Death can't take it away!

Author Unknown

Lannette, I just saw this and thought of you and Dakota :)
Hugs!!!
Steffney <steffney.jakab@metso.com>
Lake Wylie, SC - Wednesday, June 13, 2007 4:06 PM CDT

Can't wait for the day! It is becuase of Dakota this is all happening, but you and Ted are the ones sharing his life and love to help others. That is a huge blessing. Can't wait to be there with you and all those great children with Dakota backing us up.
Jane Medler <medlerj@bellsouth.net>
Lake Wylie, SC - Tuesday, June 12, 2007 7:49 PM CDT

That is so awesome Lannette! What a great mother you are! Its great that we can all still celebrate his life, now and always. Now others can get the chance to meet & love you like we all do!! You have so much to give to others, and Im glad your getting the support you need, to do exactally that!!
Steffney & Allen Jakab <steffney.jakab@metso.com>
Lake Wylie, SC - Monday, June 11, 2007 2:36 PM CDT

I so wish I could've been there for this wonderful event. You continue to make Dakota proud. You know he'll be supervising this! Lannette, you and Ted, opening up your home, your hearts- what a beautiful way to honor such an incredible young man. Loving you...sending prayers...always great to talk to you. Hugsxoxoxoxoxox
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@comcast.net>
boynton beach, fl usa - Sunday, June 10, 2007 12:20 AM CDT

SOUNDS LIKE A WONDERFUL DAY. WE KNOW DAKOTA WILL DEFINTLY BE THERE HELPING US IN SPIRITS. COUNT ME IN TO HELP. I LOVE YOU VERY MUCH! I THANK THE LORD EVERY DAY TO HAVE SUCH A WONDERFUL SPIRIT LIKE DAKOTA WITH ME. I MISS HIM VERY MUCH! HE WOULD BE SO PROUD OF WHAT YOU ARE DOING TO HELP THESE KIDS. TALK TO YOU SOON!-KATIE BUG
Katie Bug <Jessicakate107@aol.com>
Clover, SC USA - Saturday, June 9, 2007 10:01 AM CDT

Hi Lannette,
what wonderful news to hear. I wish you all luck and success with your event. I just wish I could be there and join the fun.
Today at 12:00 GMT i'll have a new page with a 'special' in my blog. I hope you will find the time to check and hopefully like it. You can find it here: http://www.justkickzazz.com/wordpress/

Love and prayers fot you all
Carsten

P.S. Oh how I hate those spambots :(
Carsten Molle <management@justkickzazz.com>
Estepona, Espa�a - Friday, June 8, 2007 9:11 PM CDT

Hooray for a wonderful plan/day/idea/gift to all those families...what an awesome way to celebrate Dakota's legacy of joy & time shared with folks he loved...

so glad to hear of this, if I lived closer I'd bake for you! : )

peace,
Kristin, Genna's mom <thecams@earthlink.net>
Warren, NJ USA - Friday, June 8, 2007 8:49 PM CDT

Hey,This is Carolyn Lilly. I am so happy you are able to do this in honour of your beautiful son Dakota. I was worried, I was checking your journal everyday, to see if you had updated. Oh, the kids will be so happy to tube and boat on Lake Wylie. And to go to Carowinds!!! Have fun and God Bless!! Praying for you always, Carolyn
carolyn lilly <carolynlilly1@hotmail.com>
angus, on canada - Friday, June 8, 2007 4:58 PM CDT

Just thinking about you and Dakota. Love you
Donna (Angel Asa's Mama) <aandzmama@yahoo.com>
Tega Cay, SC USA - Thursday, June 7, 2007 7:04 AM CDT

It gives my heart peace to think of him and Asa together.. Hope you are well. we send our love.
Allen's <keyssc@yahoo.com>
tega cay, sc - Wednesday, June 6, 2007 11:45 PM CDT

May the Lord give you the peace that only He can give! Know that I'm here praying so very hard!
Philippians 4:6-7 Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God. And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.
Prayer Bears
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA - Wednesday, June 6, 2007 8:40 PM CDT

Dear Lanette,

I stumbled upon a song and I found the lyrics to be so beautiful. I immediately had to think about Dakota.
I hope they will do for you what they did for me.
All the best to you and the yours
Carsten

Ne partez pas sans moi
(Don't leave without me)
Song perfomed by C�line Dion

Don't leave without me
You, who look for the star
You, who live a dream
You, heroes of space
With a heart bigger than earth
You, give me my chance
Take me far away from here...

Don't leave without me
Let me follow you
You, who fly to other existences
Let me live

The most beautiful adventure
The most beautiful voyage
Which will lead one day
To suns, to planets
Of love

You, the new poets
You, the magic birds
You, maybe you will
Find new music
You, give me my chance
I want to sing too...

Don't leave without me
Let me follow you
You, who fly to other existences
Let me live

The blue of infinity
The joy of being free
On rays, on suns
On songs, on wonders
And in a sky
Of love
...

(Nella Martinetti)
Carsten Molle <management@justkickzazz.com>
Estepona, Espa�a - Wednesday, June 6, 2007 4:04 PM CDT

Hey Lannette...thinking of you and sending warm thoughts and lots of love and hugs. Keeping you and Ted and Sam in my prayers...sending tons of love to heaven for Dakota. xoxoxoxo
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@comcast.net>
boynton beach, fl usa - Tuesday, June 5, 2007 6:00 PM CDT

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Lannette and Ted and Samantha,
thinking of you and saying a prayer for you all.
God bless.
jeane moore <jeanehornemoore@yahoo.com>
gastonia, nc - Tuesday, June 5, 2007 6:43 AM CDT

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Just wanted to let you know I've been thinking of you a LOT lately and continue to pray for you!

Mr. Knight <knightt1990@netzero.com>
Clover, SC USA - Monday, June 4, 2007 6:15 PM CDT

LaLa, Just wanted to say I am praying for you. I will do anything I can to help you through this time. I love you and miss that wonderful little Dakota. love--Kate
Kate (almost Legg) <Jessicakate107@aol.com>
clover, s usa - Monday, June 4, 2007 3:00 PM CDT

Dear Lanette,
you are so right in having thoughts about Dakota running your life as he is still so very near to you and will always be. You have just entered a new phase and are starting to learn a new way of speaking to him. It is no longer by words or gestures but rather by thoughts and feelings that you two will communicate. It's new to both of you, as much for Dakota - as he wants a proud and happy mum and is not yet heard clearly - as it is for you.
We both have a common enemy - cancer. I had ALL as a kid and my parents must have suffered incredibly then. When the beast took my father a few years later and recently my mother, I decided that it hit too close to home TOO many times. You must feel hit even deeper inside than me. I hope you can turn this hate into positive energy when the time is right. Right now you need to gain some strength back to join us in this furious battle. I know you can continue to send all the positive signals that Dakota was sending out to the world and that still give hope for so many. By you telling other people about your son and the way he lived and fought, he will speak through you and continue to touch peoples lifes. His light will continue to shine through you and stronger than ever.
I am so proud of you and Dakota.

You are and will be in my prayers.

Best personal regards
Carsten
Carsten Molle <management@justkickzazz.com>
Estepona, Spain - Saturday, June 2, 2007 8:25 PM CDT

Hi Lannette,

Just stopping by tonight to let you know you were on my mind and in my prayers.

Remembering your sweet Dakota. Although I never had the HONOR of meeting him here, I felt like I loved him through you.

One day I will get to meet your handsome son, a day I will treasure.

Keep holding on to hope...we miss you Lannette.

Susan (PBT mom)
Jordan <Susan2956@yahoo.com>
Baton Rouge, LA - Friday, June 1, 2007 10:42 PM CDT

You are a kindred spirit Lannette. Love you girlfriend.
On Memorial Day, as we honor those soldiers that have fought for our freedom and those that have given their lives, I also can't help but to remember another group of warriors. Those who have fought courageously with childhood cancer. The ones still fighting and those who have earned their wings. They too will be honored for their bravery and their spirit. For leaving their legacy's to those of us who have been touched by these brave souls. Remembering Dakota and his gorgeous smile. His laugh. His loving heart. Holding him in my heart and never letting go. Blessings to you. Love to you. So very glad we spoke. You are loved.
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@comcast.net>
boynton beach, fl usa - Monday, May 28, 2007 6:08 PM CDT

Bo Legg and myself would like to say thank you for including us in such a wonderful celebration. A celebration of such a beautiful life, and a great mother. LaLa he couldn't have asked for anyone better. He would tell you or anyone the same thing over and over again. We love you deeply, and miss our little DAK. love-KatieBug & BoLegg
Katie Bug <Jessicakate107@aol.com>
Clover, SC USA - Thursday, May 24, 2007 11:30 AM CDT

Am here praying for your family as always!
Isaiah 48:17 Thus saith the LORD, thy Redeemer, the Holy One of Israel; I am the LORD thy God which teacheth thee to profit, which leadeth thee by the way that thou shouldest go.
Prayer Bears

Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Wednesday, May 23, 2007 11:22 PM CDT

Hello, Just wanted to pop in to let you know I think and pray for you often. Carolyn Lilly
carolyn
angus, On canada - Tuesday, May 22, 2007 1:16 PM CDT

Thinking of you...I hope that you had a great trip to Mexico.
Chari Warner <millymango40@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, May 17, 2007 2:25 PM CDT

Know that I'm still here praying!
Job 19:25-27 For I know that my redeemer liveth, and that he shall stand at the latter day upon the earth: And though after my skin worms destroy this body, yet in my flesh shall I see God: Whom I shall see for myself, and mine eyes shall behold, and not another; though my reins be consumed within me.
Prayer Bears

Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Thursday, May 17, 2007 0:52 AM CDT

Lannette & Ted,
Allen, myself and the boys would like to say thank you for letting us share Dakota's 16th birthday & Mothers Day with you. I can only imagine how wonderful it must had been to see the fireworks at the same time Dakota was watching them. You did a wonderful job with everything as usual. You are the strongest woman I have ever met, and I admire you. You and Ted are extremly blessed to have family and friends that really love you. Never think that you cant call any of us because you are on your own road to recovery and we are here for you. :)
Steffney & Allen <steffney.jakab@metso.com>
Lake Wylie, SC USA - Tuesday, May 15, 2007 3:19 PM CDT

Just sending you some love...xxxoooxxxooo and letting you know you're in my heart forever.
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@comcast.net>
boynton beach, f usa - Monday, May 14, 2007 3:39 PM CDT

Lanette, Lindsay and I just wanted to tell you thank you for being a part of the greatest celebration of Dakota life, his birthday. It was the sweetest and loving night. Fireworks were awesome, food and the stories and memories were as they always are at your house, great! He is such a loved young man and so missed. His birthday and Mother's Day being on the same day was so hard yet endearing. You did so good and I know your heart is aching. I am so glad you got to spend some time with Sam too. Your a special lady and I love and respect you so much. I am so glad to be a part of your life and will always be there if you need me.
Jane E. Medler <medlerj@bellsouth.net>
Lake Wylie, SC - Sunday, May 13, 2007 11:20 PM CDT

Happy Mother's Day to you. It may be somewhat cracked but you are still Dakota's mother and with it comes all the love that exists. And Happy Birthday to Dakota, none of us can forget that today is a special day for him. Hope your latest trip went well and that you were able to have a wonderful time.I think of you daily.
Jalena Bowling <jalenabowling@comcast.net>
Arlington, Tn - Sunday, May 13, 2007 10:12 PM CDT

Hey Lala, you've been in my thoughts and prayers today. Sat down at the dock and watched the sun set and wondered if I'd see a beautiful light show for Dakota tonight. I was reading this little "God's Instruction Book for Mom" that a dear friend gave me many years ago and one blurb stuck out to me and reminded me of you. It reads: "A little boy, age 8, gave a profound definition of parenthood: 'Parents are just baby-sitters for God.' Then the verse it refers to is: I prayed for this child, and the Lord has granted me what I asked of him. So now I give him to the Lord. For his whole life he will be given over to the Lord... 1 Samuel 1:27, 28. What an incredible boy you raised, loved, taught and gave your all to. He lived so fully and what such an example! What a fighter! What a hero in so many eyes! You did your job and you did it well. Don't you know heaven's just loving having that spirit and spunk?! Just think, Eternity... he'll live forever not only in our hearts but in Heaven! Healthy! Happy! Praise God for his promise! He is so good!
I hope you were able to spend time with Sam today. I hope you were able to work in your yard and enjoy the sunshine. I love you, Lanette and pray you're finding peace and getting rest.
Dina <lakeboozer@bellsouth.net>
Charlotte, NC USA - Sunday, May 13, 2007 9:48 PM CDT

Lanette,

Thinking of you and wishing for a peaceful Mother's Day. I hope you felt Dakota's love surround you. Happy Birthday to dear sweet Dakota. Sixteen year olds are supposed to be full of life and hope. They drive crazy and push their curfew and even talk back a bit. I'm so sorry he's not here to do that. But I know Dakota is finding something fun and exciting to do in Heaven today.

Thinking of you and lighting my candle for Dakota...
Love, Lisa....mother of sweet baby boy Jacob...forever 10
Lisa Field <efield5@yahoo.com>
West Covina, CA - Sunday, May 13, 2007 7:54 PM CDT

Lannette, I know that today must be a bittersweet one for you. I hope it helps a little to know that you're in the thoughts of many people who care about you. How fitting that Mother's Day should fall on the same day that such a sweet soul came into our world 16 years ago.

Dakota, the angels must've sounded so beautiful when they sang Happy Birthday to you today. I'm sending big birthday hugs up to Heaven, buddy!
Hugs & love from Candy Belanger <zacheric02@msn.com (Audrey's Umbrella)>
Livonia, MI www.braintrust.org/audrey - Sunday, May 13, 2007 5:31 PM CDT

Happy Mother's Day to one of the most phonomenal ladies I have ever met! You deserve MOTHER OF THE YEAR!!! And what better way to celebrate Mother's Day than on your child's SWEET 16!!! I hope you can feel Dak's loving arms wrapped around you today!!! I'm sure he's telling everyone around "LOOK THERE! THAT'S MY MOMMY!!! I LOVE HER!!!"
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU, DAKOTA!!! WE LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU!!!
Mr. Knight <knightt1990@netzero.com>
Clover, SC USA - Sunday, May 13, 2007 12:49 AM CDT

Happy Birthday, sweet Dakota...
happy Mother's Day, supermom Lannette...
love to you all--
Kristin,Genna's mom <thecams@earthlink.net>
Warren, NJ USA - Sunday, May 13, 2007 12:38 AM CDT

Happy birthday to you, Happy birthday to you, Happy birthday dear Dakota, Happy birthday to you. We know you are having a great day and you are watching over your mom and making sure she has a great day also. Can't wait for the BIG firework show tonight, we know you will love it. We miss you beyond words and will be thinking of you all day as you celebrate this birthday in a way we could not even imagine. We love you Dak.

Lannette - Happy Mother's Day. Can't wait to give you a big hug later. You are in our thoughts and prayers. It will not be easy, but you KNOW Dak wants you to celebrate with him today. We love you very much.
The Cullon family, Carla, John, Jake and Annie
Carla <Carolina4c@aol.com>
- Sunday, May 13, 2007 11:41 AM CDT

Lannett,
hello Beautiful. Happy Mothers Day! Happy 16th Birthday to our sweet Dakota.I have been thinking of himso much this week. I know this day is going to be difficult ,but know Dakota is with you and celebating you and your never ending love for him. Dakota was loved more than many people i know. I miss you Dakota, and i know he is having a great birthday with his dad in heaven. You are in my thoughts and prayers always. I love ya. Love, Kristen
Kristen Brandwood <Nurspeds@aol.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Sunday, May 13, 2007 10:58 AM CDT

A heavenly happy 16th birthday to Dakota. I know he is lovingly watching over you.

�Love...It bears all things, believes all things,
hopes all things, endures all things.�
(1 Corinthians 13:7)

A Mother's love is something
that no on can explain,
It is made of deep devotion
and of sacrifice and pain,
It is endless and unselfish
and enduring come what may
For nothing can destroy it
or take that love away . . .
It is patient and forgiving
when all others are forsaking,
And it never fails or falters
even though the heart is breaking . . .
It believes beyond believing
when the world around condemns,
And it glows with all the beauty
of the rarest, brightest gems . . .
It is far beyond defining,
it defies all explanation,
And it still remains a secret
like the mysteries of creation . . .
A many splendoured miracle
man cannot understand
And another wondrous evidence
of God's tender guiding hand.

~Helen Steiner Rice~

Have a blessed Mother's Day!

Praying for you,
Barb, John, Shawn,
Shannon, & Colleen
www.caringbridge.org/page/shannon
The Prayer Bears

Prayer Bear Barb
- Saturday, May 12, 2007 5:08 PM CDT

Lanette,
I hope you had a nice time on your trip. I just wanted to let you know I was thinking of you and Dakota. I hope you have a wonderful Mother's Day, no matter what way you decide to remember Dakota on his 16th birthday. My prayers are with you.
Love and hugs from CA,
Karen, Isaac's Mom(from PBT group)
www.caringbridge.org/visit/isaachatfield
Karen Hatfield <wkhatfield812@yahoo.com>
Coarsegold, CA - Saturday, May 12, 2007 4:35 PM CDT

Dear Lannette,

Hope you have a wonderful trip, you sure deserve it. Wanted to wish you a "Happy Mother's Day"...

Sending many hugs and so much love your way,

Susan
Jordan <Susan2956@yahoo.com>
Baton Rouge, LA - Friday, May 11, 2007 10:10 PM CDT

Oh Lannette, just sending you tons and tons of love and prayers...I know your Dakota will be right there with you, not a doubt in my mind...remembring that dear child on his 16th birthday and everyday in between...sending you Mother's Day wishes because you are nothing short of amazing...I hope you get to spend some time with Sam too...please tell Ted he's in my heart and prayers too...you all are. XXXXOOOOO
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@comcast.net>
boynton beach, fl usa - Friday, May 11, 2007 8:43 PM CDT

Dear Lannette,
This weekend is going to be a bit crazy here, but I want you to know that I will carry you in my heart...your beautiful boy will be in my thoughts, and your whole family will be in my prayers.

praying for peace & strength & rainbows & eagles this weekend...
peace,
Kristin, Genna's mom <thecams@earthlink.net>
Warren, NJ USA - Thursday, May 10, 2007 8:12 PM CDT

Thinking of you and Dakota. I know this weekend will be hard. Love you.
Donna (Angel Asa's mama) <aandzmama@yahoo.com>
Tega Cay, SC USA - Thursday, May 10, 2007 11:55 AM CDT

Keep your eyes on the Lord! Still praying!!!!!!
1 Chronicles 16:11 Seek the LORD and his strength, seek his face continually.
Prayer Bears
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Wednesday, May 9, 2007 10:20 PM CDT

You are in my prayers. I will be thinking about you on Dakotas BD and Mothers day. Try to remember all the good times and the great things you did for him and be very proud of yourself. You were and still are a great mom.
Love ya,
Anita mom to Brandon
www.caringbridge.org/nc/brandonelam

Anita Elam <selam46@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Tuesday, May 8, 2007 1:22 AM CDT

Sending you soooooo much love and tons of prayers. Hoping you find peace and comfort on your trip.....each milestone that passes just reaffirms how utterly incredible Dakota IS. His birthday will be a celebration, however you chose to spend it,
because this child is definetely something to celebrate. I have told you this before Lannette, I cannot imagine your pain and how much you miss your baby every second of every day....that is how very much love he brought to you and any of us that had the privlidge to get to know this beautiful spirit. Love to you always...so glad you and Sam have reconnected...so very happy about that.
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@comcast.net>
Boynton Beach, FL USA - Sunday, May 6, 2007 6:02 PM CDT

You are constantly in our thoughts and prayers, especially today! We love you!
Joyce and Shannon Gardner <princessbsms@yahoo.com>
Clover, SC USA - Sunday, May 6, 2007 4:16 PM CDT

It never gets easy, but we learn to deal. you have been such an inspiration to us all. I feel your pain , as I have lost my child also. I do know how you feel. there is not a single day that goes by that I do not think of Josh. I know that him and Dakota are probably telling each other that their moms will be ok. Just keep your head up high. You have no clue how many people you touch. Always in my prayers,
kathy <kpopoca2@aol.com>
Brooksville, Florida USA - Friday, May 4, 2007 7:46 PM CDT

Lanette, you constantly amaze me. You are an inspiration. Your love of humanity and your willingness to continue loving and living, to see the beauty and joy that comes in big and small packages--these are priceless gifts that you are sharing with the world. I stand in awe of you,
Love,
Teresa
(Hannah's mom on PBT list)
Teresa Genauer
- Thursday, May 3, 2007 11:10 AM CDT

Thinking of you always, sending a hug ...

and we have spoken much in our house recently about how Jesus makes a birthday cake as big as the sky when someone has a birthday in heaven, so everyone in heaven can have a big party (it was grandma in heaven's birthday)...we pray for you especially coming up to Dakota's birthday...

peace,

Kristin, Genna's mom <thecams@earthlink.net>
Warren, NJ USA - Thursday, May 3, 2007 10:16 AM CDT

Continuing to lift your family up in prayer!
Psalms 123:1-2 Unto thee lift I up mine eyes, O thou that dwellest in the heavens. Behold, as the eyes of servants look unto the hand of their masters, and as the eyes of a maiden unto the hand of her mistress; so our eyes wait upon the LORD our God, until that he have mercy upon us.
Prayer Bears
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Wednesday, May 2, 2007 11:34 PM CDT

Lanette and Ted,
Just a note to let you know you are still in my prayers daily. may God be with you.
Jeane Moore <jeanehornemoore@yahoo.com>
gastonia, nc - Wednesday, May 2, 2007 4:20 PM CDT

I wish there was something that someone could say to ease your pain. Please know that you have helped me so much -
Valerie O'Brien <mpocgn@yahoo.com>
Norwalk, OH - Wednesday, May 2, 2007 3:18 PM CDT

To my dearest Lanette,

Just stopping by tonight to let you know you were on my heart.

Please don't be so HARD on yourself! Grief is so much WORK. It takes time. There is no "limit" on when you should be doing anything.

Just keep taking it one breath, one hour and day at a time. You gave so much to your precious son Dak, and you also gave to all of us on the PBT list as well.

Sit back now, and let others be there FOR YOU. I'll continue to keep you in prayer sweetie.

Keep holding on, even if it's by a thread!

Susan
Jordan <Susan2956@yahoo.com>
Missing Dak.........................................., - Tuesday, May 1, 2007 8:52 PM CDT

thinking of you today, sending a hug...
peace,
Kristin, G's mom <thecams@earthlink.net>
Warren, Nj USA - Monday, April 30, 2007 9:01 PM CDT

hey me again, Landon.

been thinking aboutcha alot lately.

hope your doing well.
Landon Forbes <lblue92@aol.com>
- Sunday, April 29, 2007 10:33 AM CDT

Thinking of you today and everyday.
Jalena Bowling <jalenabowling@comcast.net>
Arlington, Tn - Friday, April 27, 2007 12:12 AM CDT

Oh Lord give us those still waters! You know I'm still here praying!
Psalms 23:2 He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters.Prayer Bears
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Wednesday, April 25, 2007 10:04 PM CDT

Just a Hello~
to let you know I am thinking of you.
Know that all you feel is OKAY! All of it,
so ride the roller coaster with all the ups and
downs and know God is there right beside you
holding you tightly.
My prayers for you always,
Cherie Bacha and Family

Cherie Bacha <Cherie712@comcast.net>
Mckeesport, Pa. U.S.A. - Tuesday, April 24, 2007 7:32 PM CDT

Just wanted to say that I am thinking of you everyday! I keep you and your family in my prayers. We miss seeing you here at the clinic, but we understand. I want you to know that I think you are such a strong and wonderful woman/mother. I just pray that I can be as wonderful and caring with my children as you were with SWEET DAKOTA. We love him and miss him so much. Love You, Christy Byrum
Christy Byrum
Monroe, NC US - Tuesday, April 24, 2007 3:59 PM CDT

Thinking of you!
Annie <ac64702@appstate.edu>
Boone, NC - Monday, April 23, 2007 11:51 PM CDT

Lanette,
Be kind to yourself - you are a woman who cares and loves so much. Please try not to forget that.
Love and hugs,
Michelle
Alec's mom
www.caringbridge.org/visit/alecgoldstein
Michelle Goldstein <jeff.mich@att.net>
Los Angeles, CA - Monday, April 23, 2007 11:38 PM CDT

GUILT. The cross all mothers must bear. You have more than a fair share of it, my friend, but know that each and every parent that endures this nightmare, must do it in his or her own way. You are so strong and brave. I don't think I can put into words just how much I admire you. Please know that you are never far from my thoughts and prayers. Sending hugs and love your way, Brigette and KatieBug
brigette deville <brigedev@yahoo.com>
- Monday, April 23, 2007 12:40 AM CDT

Dear Lannette.
You and your family and Dakota are in my thoughts and prayers. I wish I could comfort you. My warmest, good thoughts, hugs, are going to you. I can feel your pain. You need to take care of yourself. Time will help
Please, be strong. Dakota is with Jesus. He is watching you. He is with you everyday.
Love you
Marzena
marzena <moryc@comcast.net>
wilmington, de usa - Sunday, April 22, 2007 9:35 PM CDT

Lannette,
Try not to be to hard on yourself. Dakota has not been gone long and you still have a lot of healing to do. I think about you daily and wish this was all a dream for all of us and we would wake up and our babies would be happy normal kids without cancer.
Love yya,
Anita
Anita Elam <selam46@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, nc usa - Friday, April 20, 2007 10:38 PM CDT

Oh, Lannette,
Dakota did SO very much in his time here...Genna and I were talking the other day about how rotten it is to be sick, but then we thought about all the wonderful people we "know" online or in person because of G's suffering...beautiful souls like Dakota. We decided that's a good thing in the middle of the bad stuff.

be gentle with yourself, supermom, no guilt....we love you & we're pulling for you each day...
peace,
Kristin, Genna's mom <thecams@earthlink.net>
Warren, NJ USA - Friday, April 20, 2007 9:27 PM CDT

Jsut wanted to say.. Love you, just as you are!!!

Nicole and Kira
www.caringbridge.org/visit/kiraberkhout
N. Berkhout <ndberkhout@yahoo.com>
NC - Friday, April 20, 2007 11:07 AM CDT

Hi
I've been following your story for a very long time and although I don't sign the guestbook often Please know that I check up on you all the time. I can only imagine your pain after losing your precious boy and I pray that you will find some peace here on earth without him.
With much love from Michigan
angela <anji@comcast.net>
brighton, mi usa - Thursday, April 19, 2007 6:26 PM CDT

Lynette,
I check the website every few days to see how yall are doing. I am a mother also and can only imagine the sorrow you are feeling. I wish there were some great words of comfort I could say but only the Lord is that Shepherd Who can restore your soul. I KNOW He'll give you what you need. (We go to church with your grandmother in Murray and keep up with you that way too.) You and your family continue to be in our thoughts and prayers.
Rhonda Frederick <my63squire@hotmail.com>
Hazel, KY USA - Thursday, April 19, 2007 3:55 AM CDT

Continuing to pray! May the Lord of peace grant you peace to face whatever lies ahead!
2 Thessalonians 3:16 Now the Lord of peace himself give you peace always by all means. The Lord be with you all.
Prayer Bears
Emma <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Wednesday, April 18, 2007 11:17 PM CDT

Lannette,

Hello, Im Landon, I visit the page alot, and although i didnt get to know Dakota as much as I would of liked, I get all tore up. He was in my homeroom class, and when he walked in, he was always happy, smiling, he enlightened my days spend in that 10 minutes of seeing him. Sometimes during the day I think about him, and he doesnt leave my mind till i go to bed at night. I was very lucky to meet somebody so wonderful. He was such an inspiration to me and always will be. You were blessed with such a wonderful person, and i miss him terribly, but it just doesnt all seem real. Ive lost loved ones, but not as close as you have. I really hope things get better. From what I can see you were also a wonderful mother, who couldnt be to such a sweetheart?

I use to ride the bus with Samantha, and some mornings I would get on, and Samantha would be crying, I always knew why, so I didnt ask. I was just as miserable and worried as she was. I havent spoken to her in a long time, i hope she is doing well.

Thanks for all the updates. Your in my prayers.

God Bless.

-Landon.
Landon Forbes <lblue92@aol.com>
- Wednesday, April 18, 2007 6:20 PM CDT

HELLO. I JUST WANTED YOU TO KNOW THAT I WAS THINKING ABOUT YOU. I THINK OF YOU GUYS QUITE A LOT.
I LOVE YOU ALL.
FOREVER IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS, NEVER FAR FROM MY HEART -- JEN
JENNI <JLEE4209@BELLSOUTH.NET>
YORK, SC - Wednesday, April 18, 2007 5:57 PM CDT

Lannette,

I just wanted to let you know that you and your family continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.
Ralph Shore <RDShore@NationalGypsum.com>
Charlotte, NC - Wednesday, April 18, 2007 2:02 PM CDT

Hello, It's Carolyn (Melissa's mom), my heart is aching for you. I wish I could hop a plane and come see you even though I only know you through this site. I am praying hard for you and your family. I just realized where I found your site, it was through Steven Bell's site. Both you and Kathy are on my mind all the time. Please take care, thinking of you always, Carolyn
carolyn
angus, on canada - Wednesday, April 18, 2007 12:41 AM CDT

Lanette, getting back from vacation I was so eager to check the website. So glad to see an update. Dakota is in my heart and mind everyday, I wore the jacket on the trip. That was such a good feeling. You and your family are so thought of everyday by so many people. His memory does live on and very strong. I will always be here if you need me and just wanted you to know I am thinking of you.
Jane E. Medler <medlerj@bellsouth.net>
Lake Wylie, SC - Tuesday, April 17, 2007 9:31 AM CDT

Hey Lala, wish I could look across the lake and see if you're up. So many nights late I think of you...figuring you're probably up as well. I know how your sleep schedule's still off. I think of you so often and pray that each day gets easier and if not easier then each day is blessed with Dakota's sweet spirit. I know how much you love that kid and just can't even imagine. I hope tomorrow is a good day. I know you'll be glad to finally get some warm weather so you can do your magic out in your yard. The pond will be beautiful. And I know how special it'll be to you as well. Welp, I love you girl. Thinking of you and praying for you always.
Dina <lakeboozer@bellsouth.net>
- Monday, April 16, 2007 11:19 PM CDT

I have been thinking of you so much over the past few months. Wondering how you're doing. Thinking how difficult it must be to go on with your life when you don't have the one thing that mattered the most to you. But I know how strong you are and how determined you are, and have always been, to live life to the fullest. To feel your heart (even if its sad), to give back to those around you.

I think about you, Dakota and Mike often. I pray for all of you and I send loving energy your way. I wish so much I was there in person to give you a HUGE hug. To tell you everything is going to be okay. One day, I will get to do this in person. But, until then, know that I love you so much and I know that you will find light in the midst of all of this darkness. You are a very special soul! Know that, inspite of the miles between us, I am with you.

Dana Zarcone
Chardon, OH - Saturday, April 14, 2007 9:36 AM CDT

Just sending love and hugs. Thinking of Dakota, saying his name and sending you prayers.
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@adelphia.net>
Boynton Beach, FL USA - Saturday, April 14, 2007 6:32 AM CDT

Lannette & Ted,
Im just thinking of you today--I have not been on the web-site for a while now--I have a picture of myself, Dakota & Bobbie in my kitchen (you gave me) . I keep it in my kitchen because I seem to spend lots of time there when I get off work in the evenings...so, I want to make sure I see him everyday & thats a guarantee I will :) I think of you and your family all the time & what you must be thinking and feeling. I just know in my heart that one special day you will be with him again. Stay as strong as God will allow you, express yourself, as only you can do--- & know that you have friends that really care. Im here anytime----Love, Steffney
Steffney Jakab <steffney.jakab@metso.com>
Lake Wylie, SC 29710 - Friday, April 13, 2007 3:49 PM CDT

Hi Lannette:
I think of you and your precious Dakota, often. I came across these 2 songs that I have in my collection. Although they make me cry, they also give me comfort, so I am offering them to you, in hopes they can provide even a small amount of comfort. One of the songs are Precious Child by Karen Taylor Good, you can listen to it here http://www.orear.com/ashley/preciouschild.html. The other one, is by Eric Anthony called Playing with the Angels at http://ericanthonymusic.tripod.com/PlayingW.html. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

caringbridge.org/va/drewb
geocities.com/oneangelsmom
Gina (Drew's Mom) <OneAngelsMommy@aol.com>
VA USA - Friday, April 13, 2007 6:43 AM CDT

Thinking and praying you, and all the families that are facing this evil beast! I pray everyday they will find a cure! Let me know if you need me! I love you very much.
PS- WAITING FOR MY SIGN! HE HAS REALLY THROWN SOME NEAT ONE'S TO DIFFERENT PEOPLE! SOME THAT HAS MADE US LAUGH!
Kate (almost Legg) <Jessicakate107@aol.com>
Clover, Sc usa - Thursday, April 12, 2007 3:30 PM CDT

Lannette,
How often I think of you! The sadness we feel as moms is overwhelming. Yet, we know our babies are safe in GODs hands. All the little things we think of can tend to overwhelm us.
Keeping you in my prayers,
Renee - pbt angels
Sad mommy of Abbey
Renee Rodkey <rodkeyrenee@yahoo.com>
West Chester, PA USA - Thursday, April 12, 2007 10:46 AM CDT

The first observance of each holiday without our babies is sad. Leading up to it is scary. But as time passes you will find that the memories of past holidays are treasures that will make you smile, and even laugh, more than reminders of things that will never be again.

Of all the holidays, Easter reminds us that the time will come when we can all be together again. Then no Easter egg hunt will be canceled because of snow or rain, no Thanksgiving dinner will be scaled down for a low-bacterial diet, no Christmas party will be missed because of fever.

Our children now experience more excitement and joy each day than we can imagine on the best holidays on Earth.

www.caringbridge.org/al/mamieadams
Mamie's Daddy <george.f.adams@us.army.mil>
Huntsville, AL USA - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 10:04 PM CDT

Just a note to say I love you. Not a day goes by without thoughts of you or Dakota. Talk to you soon
Donna (Angel Asa's mama) <aandzmama@yahoo.com>
Tega Cay, SC USA - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 1:25 PM CDT

You know I was thinking along the same lines about an Easter egg hunt for cancer kids. Last year Isaac was in the ICU at Easter because he had just had an operation. He got a basket (so did his sisters). But a basket isn't as much fun as a hunt. I am thinking that I might ask the hospital what can be done for the kids - a hunt outside, in the playroom, in the idividual rooms for those that are neutropenic. There has to be something that can be done for those kids battling this horrible disease!
Anyhow now that I am off my soapbox, my thoughts and prayers are with you. I loved hearing about Dakota on the pbt group and I was so saddened when he passed on. I think about you guys often. Thanks for signing Isaac's guestbook.
Karen, Isaac's Mom
www.caringbridge.org/visit/isaachatfield
Karen Hatfield <wkhatfield812@yahoo.com>
Coarsegold, CA - Tuesday, April 10, 2007 5:09 PM CDT

Thinking of you all and sending love and peace for your hearts. Thank-you for sharing those precious memories Lannette....Dakota was just one of a kind and so verrrrrrry special. He continues to live on in our hearts. My heartaches for you guys. Love you
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@adelphia.net>
Boynton Beach, FL USA - Tuesday, April 10, 2007 6:54 AM CDT

Lannette,
You are in my thoughts and prayers. I wish you did not have to go thru this pain and that Dakota and all the children never ever had to have cancer. I'm here if you need anything. We love you guys and miss Dakota.
Love,
Anita
Anita Elam <selam46@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Monday, April 9, 2007 3:42 PM CDT

Lanette & Ted, I think of you so often and say constant prayers for you. I just can't count the number of times you have crossed my mind. My heart has ached for your pain many times over the past weeks... know that there's so many people who pray for you daily to give you strength to live in the present keeping the past so alive in your heart. You hold tight to those precious memories.
Karin Bennett (formerly Dubay) <karind@comporium.net>
Tega Cay, sc USA - Monday, April 9, 2007 3:02 PM CDT

so sorry for you loss. my prayers are with you and your family. love and prayers Sarah
sarah <mustang_lady1962@yahoo.com>
toledo, ohio usa - Monday, April 9, 2007 1:45 PM CDT

Yes, we have angels among us...we talk to our Miss Kate daily.
Praying for your new normal, our first without our babies.

Pat Angel/Wings www.caringbridge.org/visit/katehrischuk <denimlover@yahoo.com>
- Monday, April 9, 2007 1:37 PM CDT

To the precious family of Dakota,
I am new to the Angel_Wings and was not blessed to know his story until now. What a valiant child he was. The pictures revealed a lot about his personality. I can look in the eyes and see the compassion and love that Dakota had. I know you must miss him so but I hope it helps a little at least to know we are praying for you and we love you. I admire families and their love and tremendous strength when they go through things like cancer or any other terminal disease. You all are an inspirational family and I pray that God's peace that passes all understanding will fill your hearts and your home. God bless you. We all love you and our thoughts and prayers will be with you and for you.
Marsha
Angel_Wings
Marsha Robinson <marshar@dcwin.org>
Birchleaf, Va USA - Monday, April 9, 2007 1:22 PM CDT

Thinking of you today and praying for you.
Chari Warner <millymango40@yahoo.com>
Alpharetta, GA USA - Monday, April 9, 2007 1:11 PM CDT

Praying for you.
David Melton <DMelton321@yahoo.com>
Wichita, KS - Monday, April 9, 2007 12:50 AM CDT

He will stay in so many peoples hearts for a lifetime, including mine. I hope you and the family had a good Easter. I love you LaLa, and I say an extra prayer for you everyday. I will always be here.
Kate (almost Legg) <Jessicakate107@aol.com>
Clover, Sc usa - Monday, April 9, 2007 7:46 AM CDT

Hey Lala, precious memories, how they linger! How they ever flood my soul! As the old song goes.... you are so in my thoughts and prayers. I know it's been so tough for you. Thank God for all the beautiful memories that you have. Your family has ALWAYS been the most important thing to you and it's evident in the love that you have. I hope and pray things with Sam are getting better. There are so many emotions there; that as a child that's been through as much loss as she has, I just hope that there is healing, forgiveness and true love working in your relationship. For both of your sakes. That's my prayer for you! Love you, girl!
Dina
- Monday, April 9, 2007 7:43 AM CDT

Hi Lannette- I think of you and Dak often. Check here for updates but hadnt been one in a while. Saw you posted on PBT and came here hoping and there it was. Just wanted you to know that none of us have forgotten.
Jalena Bowling <jalenabowling@comcat.net>
Arlington, Tn - Sunday, April 8, 2007 11:40 PM CDT

Vivit! He lives! Know that you're in my thoughts and prayers especially today as we celebrate our risen Savior! Extra prayers as you miss Dakota!
Job 19:25-27 For I know that my redeemer liveth, and that he shall stand at the latter day upon the earth: And though after my skin worms destroy this body, yet in my flesh shall I see God: Whom I shall see for myself, and mine eyes shall behold, and not another; though my reins be consumed within me.
The Prayer Bears
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Sunday, April 8, 2007 10:40 PM CDT

happy Easter...
I bet Dakota got to have the biggest egg hunt in Heaven, with eggs full of rainbows and shooting stars...

thinking of you today, wishing you peace,
Kristin, G's mom <thecams@earthlink.net>
Warren, NJ USA - Sunday, April 8, 2007 9:46 PM CDT

Glad to see the update but know you must still be grieving. Please know that you are thought of OFTEN!!! I pray for you daily!!! I still check the site just about every day for your updates. Love you guys!!!
Mr. Knight - Dak's "FAVORITE" teacher :-) <knightt1990@netzero.com>
Clover, SC USA - Sunday, April 8, 2007 9:22 PM CDT

Dear Lannette,
Thinking of you tonight, hoping you are getting some rest and sweet dreams of your lovely Dakota.

sending a hug,
peace,
Kristin, G's mom <thecams@earthlink.net>
Warren, NJ USA - Friday, April 6, 2007 9:31 PM CDT

Hello, My name is Carolyn. My daughter is in her third round of chemo for medulloblastoma. I am writing this from her room. I live in Ontario but we moved from York, S.C. I found your site and had to sign your guest book. You prayed to God, that you might be able to help someone who is doing the same journey that you did with Dakota. I believe your prayers have been answered because you reached me all the way up here in Canada and it turns out we basically use to be neighbours. My thoughts and prayers are with you. We are at caringbridge.org/visit/lillycarolyn
carolyn
angus, ont. canada - Friday, April 6, 2007 2:45 PM CDT

Continuing to pray!
Psalms 118:4-5 Let them now that fear the LORD say, that his mercy endureth for ever. I called upon the LORD in distress: the LORD answered me, and set me in a large place.
The Prayer Bears
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Wednesday, April 4, 2007 11:07 PM CDT

Hey girl..

I was just sitting here watching Happy Feet with Kira (who is not well right now) and as I sat here watching Happy Feet Dakota kept coming to my mind so I wanted to send you some love.. and let you know that often your are in my thoughts ... Love ya!
Nicole and Kira (www.caringbridge.org/visit/kiraberkhout
Nicole <kiradoodle@yahoo.com>
NC - Wednesday, April 4, 2007 3:42 PM CDT

Sending you love and letting you know you are being thought of this very moment. Not a day goes by Lannette where I don't think of Dakota. Not a day. Sending you and Ted hugs and love and letting you both know how very much I care.
Blessings...will talk with you soon...
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@adelphia.net>
Boynton Beach, FL USA - Wednesday, April 4, 2007 2:08 PM CDT

Hi Lanette- I check on the board often to see if you have updated. I am hoping no update is a good thing and that you are ok. I miss Dak so cant imagine what it is like there. But with love, you will make it through. You know you have tons of that coming your way.
Jalena Bowling <jalenabowling@comcast.net>
Arlington, Tn - Wednesday, April 4, 2007 6:00 AM CDT

Hi Lanette,
I think about and hope that you are doing as well as can be expected. I wanted to get permission to do something. On June 3, 2007 at Wingate they are going to have somekind of Cancer Day there and I wanted to get your permission to put Dakota's story on my Memory Board along with my oldest brother who died last year of pancreatic cancer and Sam Keziah's story in which his mom has already consented to. I will also have a board of my 15 current kids in honor of as well. I truly love all of these kids and wish they never had to go through this monster. I will have my e-mail posted and I would appreciate hearing yes you can or no not this time. God continue to be with you and bless you!
Carol Faulkenberry <CRFaulkenberry@savasc.com>
Kershaw, SC - Monday, April 2, 2007 1:42 PM CDT

Hi Lanetta,

I just stopped by to check on you. I think of you and Dak often. Just wanted to let you know we are still here.
Angela Medley, M/O Cayla <okiemedley@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, April 1, 2007 8:02 AM CDT

Lanette,Ted,Samatha,
We are still praying for you everyday.Hope that you are finding some peace in the beautiful memory of Dakota.Let us know if there is anything we can do for you.Love,Laurie and Kim
Laurie Mcdonald <leigh1961@hotmail.com>
York, SC USA - Friday, March 30, 2007 9:57 PM CDT

Hi Lannette,
I am praying for Dakota everyday since I found his/your website. You are in my prayers and thoughts.
I am asking Jesus everyday to take care of your precious son
Love and lots of good thoughts to you
Marzena
MARZENA MORYC <moryc@comcast.net>
wilmington, De usa - Thursday, March 29, 2007 11:18 PM CDT

Lanette and Ted: Just wanted to let you know that you continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. The love between the two of you and Dakota remain an inspiration to me.
Carol DuCharme (Audrey's Umbrella) <carolducahrme7@hotmail.com>
Livonia, MI USA - Thursday, March 29, 2007 1:59 PM CDT

Thinking of you tonight, hoping that spring is coming and that you find sweet hellos from Dakota as you go through your day...

You are much in my heart--
peace,
Kristin, G's mom <thecams@earthlink.net>
Warren, NJ USA - Wednesday, March 28, 2007 10:31 PM CDT

Today's passage is longer because I wanted to include the whole sentence. Know that I'm here continuing to pray for your family!
Ephesians 3:14-19 For this cause I bow my knees unto the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, Of whom the whole family in heaven and earth is named, That he would grant you, according to the riches of his glory, to be strengthened with might by his Spirit in the inner man; That Christ may dwell in your hearts by faith; that ye, being rooted and grounded in love, May be able to comprehend with all saints what is the breadth, and length, and depth, and height; And to know the love of Christ, which passeth knowledge, that ye might be filled with all the fulness of God.
The Prayer Bears
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Wednesday, March 28, 2007 9:58 PM CDT

Lanette, Ted, and Samantha,
Just thinking of you and wanted to let you know. Still keeping you in my prayers daily.
Jeane Moore <jeanehornemoore@yahoo.com>
Gastonia, NC - Wednesday, March 28, 2007 5:18 PM CDT

Just wanted to drop everyone a hi and let you know I am still thinking about you everyday. God bless you guys

http://randy2004.freehomepage.com/
denise m/o randy <ddpayne01@msn.com>
Miamisburg, OH USA - Wednesday, March 28, 2007 8:13 AM CDT

Hi,
Just wanted to check on you and let you know I am thinking about you and Dakota.

Take Care,
Reca
Andrew's mom from PBT
www.caringbridge.org/visit/andrewt
Reca Thomasson <rmthomasson@cableone.net>
- Monday, March 26, 2007 10:51 PM CDT

Just wanted to let you know I'm thinking of you guys today, as always. I miss your updates. Hope to hear from you soon.
Mr. Knight - Dak's "FAVORITE" teacher :-) <knightt1990@netzero.com>
Clover, SC USA - Monday, March 26, 2007 6:05 PM CDT

Lanette,

Thinking of you. Miss you. Love you. Praying for you.
Kathleen, mom to Steven and aunt to angel Kyra
San Diego, CA USA - Friday, March 23, 2007 2:56 PM CDT

Hi Lannette,

You are always in my thoughts and prayers even though I don't always sign the guestbook.. One of our friends Michael age 11 joined Dak in heaven this week and I took comfort in knowing that they will meet and I am sure become great friends...

Just wanted to stop by to let you know that I was thinking about you and sending my love..

Denise and Steven
Steven's website
Long Island, NY - Friday, March 23, 2007 12:12 AM CDT

LOVE YOU. Thinking of you. Will try and call this weekend...we play a mean game of tag!! Remembering Dakota every single day.
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@adelphia.net>
Boynton Beach, fl usa - Friday, March 23, 2007 6:39 AM CDT

Dearest Lannette,

Just wanted to stop to tell you "hi" and let you know how much I miss hearing from you on the list.

I especially miss hearing about Dak... I just can't imagine how difficult this must be for you.

Please know I'll forever remember him, and what valiant battle you both fought together. I learned so much.

Keep holding on to HOPE,

Susan
Jordan <Susan2956@yahoo.com>
Baton Rouge, LA - Thursday, March 22, 2007 10:51 PM CDT

I love you!

Annie "Fellow Short Person" Cullon <ac64702@appstate.edu>
Boone, NC - Thursday, March 22, 2007 3:07 PM CDT

Thinking of you today, remembering your sweet Dakota,
peace,
Kristin, G's mom <thecams@earthlink.net>
Warren, NJ USA - Thursday, March 22, 2007 11:20 AM CDT

When going through trials it may seem that you're all alone and that nobody understands what you're going through. There is One who not always understands perfectly but Who's always with you so that you're never truly alone!!!! Still here praying!
Joh 16:32: Behold, the hour cometh, yea, is now come, that ye shall be scattered, every man to his own, and shall leave me alone: and yet I am not alone, because the Father is with me.
The Prayer Bears
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Thursday, March 22, 2007 0:09 AM CDT

just thinking of you all. I was listening to my wind chimes the other day and remember Dakota saying..."think of me when you hear them, think of Asa when you see them." I don't know if he could have possibly known at the time how special those chimes are to me. Just a little piece of Dakota love. Miss you all and hope to see you soon.
Donna (angel Asa's mama) <aandzmama@yahoo.com>
Tega Cay, SC USA - Tuesday, March 20, 2007 11:10 AM CDT

Hi Lanette & Family~
Just stopping by to let you know you still cross my mind.
I had not checked your journal entries since Feb. and was
glad to see a couple.
Just a hug and a prayer for you and yours.

Cherie Bacha & family <Cherie712@comcast.net>
McKeesport, Pa. U.S.A. - Sunday, March 18, 2007 1:54 PM CDT

Lanette....was just thinking about you and Dak tonight so I stopped by. Just wanted you to know that I was here and think of you so often. I am sending a big huge cyber hug your way tonight. Love, Aimee
Aimee Disney <Briannaashleysmom@yahoo.com>
Aldan, PA USA - Thursday, March 15, 2007 6:40 PM CDT

Dear Lannette,
Just thinking of you and your family today and praying for God's grace and mercy to flow in abundance to you. My oldest,Annabelle, will be 16 yrs on May 12. You can see her on Jesse's caring bridge site. I'll always think of Dakota on her birthday. We'll always remember him with you. Feel free to Email any time you want to talk about him. I know it helps sometimes just to talk about them.
Amber Walters (Jesse's mom) <dow134acfr@yahoo.com>
Gainesville, Fl USA - Thursday, March 15, 2007 4:29 PM CDT

Lanette - I want you to know I am still praying for you and your family - My daughter has decided to do her Girl Scout Bronze award - which is a community service project that requires 16 hours of planning and work - She would like to collect Stuffed animals for all the children at the hospital - and at the end the whole Girl Scout troop would like to deliver them to the children. I know last time we talked we discussed a project of this sort. Please get in contact with me at herbergery@bellsouth.net so I can get some more information from you.
God Bless
Yvette Herberger <herbergery@bellsouth.net>
Lake Wylie, SC 29710 - Thursday, March 15, 2007 2:25 PM CDT

Know that I'm here praying so for your family!!!!!!!!! Still thinking of Dakota....
Psalms 91:1 He that dwelleth in the secret place of the most High shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty.
The Prayer Bears
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Wednesday, March 14, 2007 8:32 PM CDT

Thinking and praying for you and your family
Norma
www.caringbridge.org/nj/erikz
Norma Zimmerman <enzimmerman@comcast.net>
Lambertville, nj usa - Tuesday, March 13, 2007 6:33 PM CDT

thinking of you today, remembering your sweet Dakota--

peace,
Kristin, G's mom <thecams@earthlink.net>
Warren, NJ USA - Tuesday, March 13, 2007 3:16 PM CDT

Thinking of all of you today and everyday!
Valerie O'Brien from PBT
Norwalk, OH - Tuesday, March 13, 2007 2:23 PM CDT

Hey Lanette,
Heather and I wanted to say hi... We hope to come visit some evening if you guys head out to T-bones or something... I hope all is well
God Bless
BJ Bacha <supervintage1980@yahoo.co>
Charlotte, NC USA - Monday, March 12, 2007 6:02 PM CDT

Dear Lannette,

I want to let you know, that I�m thinking of you. xxooxx for Dakota�s wonderful proud mum.
Greetings for Ted too - sounds so warm

Sylvia with Balthasar, Ronja, Jonathan and Franz <sylviahoffmann@t-online.de>
Germany - Monday, March 12, 2007 4:35 AM CDT

Dear Dakota's family
this is my first visit to your Angel's page
my heart breaks for you in your loss
I have just read your diary entry and it is so beautiful
I know how much you miss your Dakota and i also understand
the feeling that he was just a dream there are day's when I feel the same way about My Jacob other days I expect to walk into a room and see him there with his cheeky grin ;-)
I want tell you the days will get easier because they dont
but you seem to make it through each day until one day you will hear yourself laugh again
remember your son with Lots of love and laughter
Love ^i^Jacob's Mum

Jacob's Mum Our Aussie^i^Jacob
Australia - Sunday, March 11, 2007 6:26 PM CDT

I echo what Norma said--

You are a warm, compassionate and special person who has taught me much.

You and all your family are in my prayers.
Love,
Kathleen, mom to Steven and aunt to angel Kyra
San Diego, CA USA - Friday, March 9, 2007 10:19 PM CST

Thinking of you and Ted everyday. Prayers for strength! You are the best. I receive so much from you lanette. I know how hard this has to be for you and yet you have such compassion for others. I/we from the whole PBT list and the medullobastoma list love you so much.
Norma
www.caringbridge.org/n/erikz
Norma Zimmerman <enzimmerman@comcast.net>
Lambertville, Nj usa - Friday, March 9, 2007 5:29 PM CST

Lannette & Ted,
I think about you guys often and hope you are doing well. Dakota is always on my mind. I don't think there is a day that goes by that I don't take a few minutes remember Dakota and what a wonderful you man he was. I wish you all the very best.
Leslie DeArmond` <ldearmond@myhrss.com>
Cramerton, NC 28032 - Friday, March 9, 2007 9:42 AM CST

Ted & Lannette,

Hope today finds you receiving blessings from God, family, and friends. I think about Dakota every day as well as all of his family and friends who are missing his physical presence.

I visited a Caring Bridge site a few days ago of someone I believe all of you know. (Brandon) He had some pictures spinning on his page and there was one of him and Dakota. Such handsome young men!! One doesn't even have to know either of these guys in person to see the goodness in their face!

May God continue to hold you and give you the comfort of knowing how incredible a son you have. Dakota continues to bless others and share the love of God with people from all over the world.

In Christian love,
Mr. Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Friday, March 9, 2007 8:23 AM CST

Always on my mind. Forever in my heart. Dakota you are SUCH AN INSPIRATION AND SUCH AN INCREDIBLE SOUL. You continue to shine.
Love from Florida
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@adelphia.net>
Boynton Beach, fl usa - Friday, March 9, 2007 5:13 AM CST

Late start tonight, but had to let you know that I'm still praying before I went to bed.
Romans 8:18 For I reckon that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us.
The Prayer Bears

Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Thursday, March 8, 2007 0:47 AM CST

You are on my mind today and just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you. Your such an inspiration in your love for Dakota and his life. Keep your head up and know there are alot of people that are here for you.
Jane E. Medler <medlerj@bellsouth.net>
Lake Wylie, SC - Wednesday, March 7, 2007 1:10 PM CST

Thinking of you guys and sending love and prayers of peace, strength and comfort. Love adn Hugs
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@adelphia.net>
Boynton Beach, fl usa - Wednesday, March 7, 2007 6:22 AM CST

Thinking of your family and Dakota today.

Valerie from PBT
Norwalk, OH - Tuesday, March 6, 2007 1:09 PM CST

Just wanted you to know that you were on my mind tonight.
Hugs & love from Candy Belanger <zacheric02@msn.com (Audrey's Umbrella)>
Livonia, MI www.braintrust.org/audrey - Sunday, March 4, 2007 9:43 PM CST

Thinking of you today! Love and Prayers

Mr. Knight - Dak's "FAVORITE" teacher :-) <knightt1990@netzero.com>
Clover, SC USA - Saturday, March 3, 2007 9:31 PM CST

Hi Lannette,

Just stopping by to say hi, and let you know I was thinking of you today.

Hey, Jordan's favorite cologne is the same as Dak's!!! Expensive, but oh, it does smell good! I pray it only brings you the most beautiful memories and comfort.

Keep holding on to you hope, I'm here if you need me!

Susan
Jordan <Susan2956@yahoo.com>
Baton Rouge, LA - Saturday, March 3, 2007 5:40 PM CST

I love you guys...

Annie "Fellow Short Person" Cullon <ac64702@appstate.edu>
Boone, NC - Saturday, March 3, 2007 3:04 PM CST

Loving you..thinking of you all. If words could make it all better I'd write you a book. I'll call you. xoxoxoxoxox
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@adelphia.net>
Boynton Beach, fl usa - Saturday, March 3, 2007 2:51 PM CST

Still thinking about you Lannette, Ted and Samantha. Holding you in prayer and wishing you some peace.
Denise m/o Randy <ddpayne01@msn.com>
Miamisburg, OH USA - Friday, March 2, 2007 7:07 AM CST

Lannette,
You and Ted are always in our prayers. I pray that each day can get easier without so much pain.
Love,
Anita
Anita Elam <selam46@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Thursday, March 1, 2007 10:28 PM CST

thinking of you tonight...
peace, Kristin, Genna' s mom <thecams@earthlink.net>
Warren, NJ USA - Thursday, March 1, 2007 9:01 PM CST

I hope these words give you comfort. I just love to picture what these words mean. Know I'm still here praying!
Psalm 63:7-8: Because thou hast been my help, therefore in the shadow of thy wings will I rejoice. My soul followeth hard after thee: thy right hand upholdeth me.
The Prayer Bears

Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Wednesday, February 28, 2007 11:44 PM CST

Dear Lannette,
Holding you in my heart and in my thoughts always. Stay strong and hold on to your memories!
Amanda Holman <aholman515@gmail.com>
Coopersville, Mi USA - Tuesday, February 27, 2007 10:54 AM CST

Lannette and Ted,
I think of you both, and Dakota, everyday. I saw Samantha at work the other day. She would not know who I was, but I knew her. I noticed her Dakota bracelet. He watches over you all, and he is healthy, happy, and strong once again. Praying for your comfort and peace.

jeane moore <jeanehornemoore@yahoo.com>
gastonia, nc - Monday, February 26, 2007 8:17 AM CST

Hey Guys, Just wanted to say i was thinking of ya'll. I know it's like forever late but Happy Valentine's Day...
I love you guys!

Heather <chickenimgunnaeatyou69@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, February 25, 2007 6:43 PM CST

Hi Lannette,

Just stopping by tonight to let you know I was thinking of you and your precious Dak. I just can't imagine all you are going through.

Keep holding on to your hope, and cling to Jesus like never before. Thank God for the promise you will see your precious son again!

With lots of love,

Susan
Jordan <Susan2956@yahoo.com>
Baton Rouge, LA - Saturday, February 24, 2007 10:11 PM CST

Hello, just got your web page from David's, although we never got to meet while will lived down south, We've kept David in our prayers, daily, he has the same cancer as our son, Jeffery. We will add you to our daily prayers, also. Lannette, unfortunatly, we are now in your part of the boat, this journey has lasted us 5yrs, 2mths, and 9days, thus far, and still rolling, until Jeffery's space is ready in his real HOME. I'm following your updates, and crying my eyes out, too. This is so painful, but it helps to read how others handle things. Praying for your PEACE and COMFORT, may God give your family these things, soon.

grieving with you,
Julie
Julie, Jeffery's mom <jsample2@comcast.net>
www.caringbridge.org/fl/jeffery, fl usa - Saturday, February 24, 2007 1:46 AM CST

I know today is a hard day among all the hard ones, but wanted to let you know I am thinking of you. Your remarkable on how you are doing things, and I just wanted to let you know. Take care of yourself. I am sure Dakota is very proud of his Mom!
Jane E. Medler <medlerj@bellsouth.net>
Lake Wylie, SC - Friday, February 23, 2007 3:05 PM CST

Vince Gill - Go Rest High On That Mountain
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PRAYERS-HOPE <j_baumler@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, February 22, 2007 8:34 PM CST

Lannette, I just wanted to let you know a day never passes that I dont think of you. You are in my prayers everyday! After loosing Abbie I thought if I ever had a day that I didnt cry or think of her that it would be bad on my part but the truth is it was her presence and spirit that surrounded me that helped get through those days. So just know Dakato's spirit is around you ever minute of everyday & he is looking forward to the day you can smile in his memory. Love you, Leslie
Leslie Norris <leslieanorris@aol.com>
Lake Wylie, SC USA - Thursday, February 22, 2007 9:50 AM CST

There's no chance of you ever, ever forgetting Dakota. But praying that the time will come when you can remember the good times you had and it will bring you joy instead of pain.
As we enter the Lenten Season today I thought I'd share a passage from Isaiah that really speaks of what this time of year is all about. Am still here praying!!!!!!!!!
Is 53:3-6: He is despised and rejected of men; a man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief: and we hid as it were our faces from him; he was despised, and we esteemed him not. Surely he hath borne our griefs, and carried our sorrows: yet we did esteem him stricken, smitten of God, and afflicted. But he was wounded for our transgressions, he was bruised for our iniquities: the chastisement of our peace was upon him; and with his stripes we are healed. All we like sheep have gone astray; we have turned every one to his own way; and the LORD hath laid on him the iniquity of us all.
The Prayer Bears

Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Wednesday, February 21, 2007 9:05 PM CST

Ted and Lannette, I just wanted you both to know that I think of you so often and pray that you are growing stronger everyday. Your faith has been a shining example to all of us and I know "that faith" will wrap you safely in his arms. There still are no words... just prayers and thoughts that I can send to you both. Lannette... your words are... Well there is no ONE word to decribe them... but I hope you know what I'm trying to say. I admire you tremendously and hope to see you and Ted soon. Take care, Lisa (Cheryl's sister)
Lisa Borgsteede <borgsteede63@hotmail.com>
Sumter, SC USA - Wednesday, February 21, 2007 6:32 PM CST

Thinking of you!!!
Mr. Knight - Dak's "FAVORITE" teacher :-) <knightt1990@netzero.com>
Clover, SC USA - Wednesday, February 21, 2007 4:20 PM CST

thinking of you, sending a hug--
peace,
Kristin, Genna's mom <thecams@earthlink.net>
Warren, NJ USA - Wednesday, February 21, 2007 4:11 PM CST

Lannette,
We talk about you and Dakota so often. We love and miss you both. (And there is not a chance in the world that we would ever forget your sweet boy). I hope things are continuing to go well with Samantha.
Take care of yourself.
Love,
Kathy
Kathy L
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, February 21, 2007 2:18 PM CST

His memory will always stay very strong with the people that knew him. That was a beautiful poem. So glad you got that phone call. My thoughts and prayers are always with you and Ted. I love you very much.--Kate (almost Legg)
Kate (almost Legg) <Jessicakate107@aol.com>
Clover, Sc usa - Tuesday, February 20, 2007 8:33 AM CST

Thinking of the whole family and praying things with Samantha are still promising. Always praying.....
Denise m/o Randy <ddpayne01@msn.com>
Miamisburg, OH USA - Tuesday, February 20, 2007 7:00 AM CST

Thinking of you all...praying and sending love. I cannot imagine how very badly you miss your baby Lannette....only that what you two had was an amazing relationship...one that will span time and never be broken...but for now...knowing Dakota is always present in spirit, doesn't rleive you of your pain in missing his physical being..I love you my friend and think of you and Dakota every single day. Sending warm hugs your way. And always remembering a very dear, sweet, brave boy...your darling Dakota.
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@adelphia.net>
Boynton Beach, fl usa - Monday, February 19, 2007 7:50 PM CST

My heart continues to go out to you and your hubby and the rest of your family... We know you wont forget about Dakota, the lack of tears in your eyes dont mean there arent tears in your heart.. just take it one day at a time.. I am happy that through all this, Samantha looks like shes going to mature a bit.. tough love does work
Thinking of you..
jenn d/o Martha
www.caringbridge.org/visit/marthaquintero
Jennifer <jenina23@comcast.net>
- Monday, February 19, 2007 4:51 AM CST

Dearest Lannette...I think about you every day. My heart aches for you. Anytime you want to talk, you can call me. If you want to email me, please do...I know the time difference is sometimes not the best, but I want you to know that you can call me if you need me. You and your family are with me in my thoughts and prayers. xo
With Love Hugs and Prayers,
Patty
Patty Ragusa <p_ragusa@comcast.net>
Longmont, CO USA - Saturday, February 17, 2007 1:15 PM CST

Hope you and Ted had a great anniversary!!! I think it goes without saying that Dakota was sitting right there with you as he always will. Glad that Samantha called. I know you've never wanted to hear it but she will mature enough one day to see who and what is truly important and who truly loves and supports her,just as she is. The timing is terrible, for you need her now and she isnt really there as she should be, but one day, I promise, she will be. Sometimes they just have to really find themselves and they can worry and scare us in the process. You are one of the best at hanging in there so I know you will with her also. Its ok to get mad at her too. Getting mad and not loving her are not the same things and only a mother would know that so deeply in her heart!!!
Jalena Bowling <jalenabowling@comcast.net>
Arlington, Tn - Saturday, February 17, 2007 12:22 AM CST

Thinking of you...

Annie Cullon <ac64702@appstate.edu>
Boone, NC - Friday, February 16, 2007 4:05 PM CST

Hey Lannette. Just wanted to let you know that we miss seeing you and sweet Dakota, but you both are always in our thoughts. We love you!!
Melissa (Peds Hem/Onc) <melissa.coan@carolinashealthcare.org>
Monroe, NC - Friday, February 16, 2007 1:43 PM CST

He Became An Angel
By Elizabeth DiBenedetto
(Written in Refrain Quatrain, created by Elizabeth DiBenedetto)

Dakota fought his enemy
and lived each day, though painfully,
in godly ways - after he caught
his enemy. Dakota fought.

An angel's near, when close to death
to capture soul's consoling breath
that soothes a broken heart in fear;
when close to death, an angel's near.

He earned his wings, as cherubs do;
to heaven's hearth, away he flew.
Now painlessly he laughs and sings,
as cherubs do. He earned his wings.

Copyright Ejd 1/2007

Elizabeth <poetprncess@yahoo.com>
Boca Raton , FL US - Friday, February 16, 2007 9:27 AM CST

Happy Belated Anniversary and Valentine's Day!!! So happy that Sam has reached out to you guys!! You deserve some sense of peace and happiness, I pray she continues to move forward and overcome the rest. I believe with all my heart that Dakota would never miss the anniversary dinner he has shared with you and Ted, Lannette- that child's spirit is amazing. Sending LOVE and lots of it. Hugs..Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@adelphia.net>
Boynton Beach, fl usa - Thursday, February 15, 2007 10:45 AM CST

Ted & Lannette,

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY! I bet Dakota is up there elbowing everyone and saying, "That's my mom and dad down there celebrating their anniversary. Help me throw a star their way!"

GREAT NEWS also in other ways too! I'll be praying that all will work out and everyone can be where they want and need to be!!

Samantha, you are a sweet young lady. God has some BIG plans for you. They might not coming blaring down out of Heaven or sitting in your mailbox, but they are coming. Hold on and get ready.

Love to all.

Hey Dakota, Did you have anything to do with the snow we had this morning? Huh, Huh, Huh??? It looked like something you might have had a hand in.

I don't have to tell you to "keep lookin' up" anymore. You are there!

I love you lots,
Mr. Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Thursday, February 15, 2007 8:28 AM CST

Lannette and Ted,
I hope you had a great anniversary and Valentines Day! It must be very hard with every event that comes along and have to face them without Dakota. Just remember he is still there with you. Just in a new way now. We have had the same thing with Brandon and it would be very hard without him there. I sure do hope things keep getting better with Samantha. Kathy and I were just tlaking about you today. I think about you all the time and wish for you heart to heal.
Love,
Anita
Anita Elam <selam46@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Wednesday, February 14, 2007 11:27 PM CST

Happy Valentine's! and Happy Anniversary

www.caringbridge.org/visit/nicholascarter
Amy Carter <amycarter18@comcast.net>
Arlington, TN - Wednesday, February 14, 2007 7:55 PM CST

Dear Ted and Lannette, I hope you had a wonderful anniversary and Happy Valentines day.
love & prayers,
Grandma
Vannetta Bullard <hgbullard@peoplepc.net>
Murray, ky USA - Wednesday, February 14, 2007 5:41 PM CST

Happy Anniversary Lanette & Ted~
God Bless you both.
With much love & prayers~
Cherie Bacha & family
Cherie Bacha <Cherie712@comcast.net>
McKeesport, Pa. U.S.A. - Wednesday, February 14, 2007 5:09 PM CST

Dear Lannette,
Sending a Valentine hug and a pile of love your way...
thinking of you so much, hoping each day brings a speck of peace.

Kristin, Genna's mom <thecams@earthlink.net>
Warren, NJ USA - Wednesday, February 14, 2007 10:56 AM CST

Keeping you in thought and prayers. Sending warm valentine hugs and blessings your way!!
Jeaners/One's Who Care
- Wednesday, February 14, 2007 10:38 AM CST

Thinking of you all & praying for comfort.

Charlene & Becky/Ones Who Care
.. <gcbbunny@sympatico.ca>
- Tuesday, February 13, 2007 11:15 AM CST

I keep checking for updates to see how you are doing. I hope the lack of one means that you are taking care of yourself. Sending hugs your way everyday.
http://randy2004.freehomepage.com/
Denise m/o Randy <ddpayne01@msn.com>
Miamisburg, OH USA - Monday, February 12, 2007 9:40 PM CST

Lannete,
My name is Kate and I was diagnosed with a stage 4 GBM 3 years ago in 2004. I have stopped by through the years and Kathy just let me know about your loss. My heart aches for you. I am praying for peace and your ability to feel Jesus' arms wrapped around you. I found myself catching up on the journal since it had been a while since I had stopped by. Your entry about talking to him around Thanksgiving touched my heart so much I burst into tears. No Mother should ever have to do that and yet you did it so lovingly and articulately. It was clear that God was your mouthpiece and enabled you to do it. Dakota was SOOO fortunate to have you as his Mother. You are an AMAZING testimony to so many in how you deal with every day. Your trust in our Lord God is so refreshing and moving. Thank you for planting seeds that you have no idea you are planting. So many check your website that you will never know because they might not leave a message.
On Thursday I am speaking at a movie premiere in San Fransisco for the new brain tumor movie that we are in that Schering-Plough (Temodar maker)and NBTF made this past year. I will be mentioning you and Dakota and some other dear dear people that have gone Home way too early. It has made me all the more determined to press on for a cure for all of us still here with this awful thing. In dedication to those that cannot.
Know that there are so many thinking and praying for you.
Sending love from the wine country.
www.caringbridge.org/ca/kate
Kate Burke
Kate Burke <KBLIFTCH@aol.com>
Santa Rosa, Ca - Monday, February 12, 2007 9:50 AM CST

Hello

I have been drawn to your website for some time. I don't know why and I don't feel I have to. I love to look at Dakota's face and it always makes me smile.

I have a set of "Healing with the fairies" cards and today I felt I had to pull one for you. This is what came out

Trust your Intuition

Card Meaning: It is safe for you to follow your heart's guidance. You know, deep down, what to do. This card asks you to trust and follow this inner intelligence.

Has your inner guidance been trying to get your attention lately? Prehaps a gut feeling is tugging at you like a seeing-eye dog an inner voice has been screaming at you, or you,ve had dreams charged with profound emotions and symbolism lately.

By drawing this card, you,re being urged to pay careful attention to these various forms of intuition. Now is not the time to ignore these messages or procrastinate. Trust this inner wisdom, just as you would if it came from a respected teacher. Know that you aren't imagining the guidance. Its powerful and repetitve voice is a sign that you are truly getting clear and trustworthy messages that are worth following.

affirmation I trust and follow my feelings and thoughts without question or delay.

I sat on my sofa and with the cards in my had asked for one for Dakota's Mum. I feel a bit afraid of sending this, as it sounds like you are in a very vunrable place. I hope that it means something to you, but if it does not its OK. While taking this card another kind of fell ( I think) and it was entitled "Peace of Mind" I don't get the feeling I need to give you the full explanation but if you would like it then I can do that.

I do hope you find a way of living without Dakota, ( that does not sound right, because I have the feeling you are not really without him)

Take care
Jan Beasley
Hong Kong
Jan Beasley <Janbeaslsey@mac.com>
Hong Kong - Sunday, February 11, 2007 11:03 PM CST

Love talking to yo...always here for you. Dakota, did anyone evr tell you...you have the best Mama ever? I know, you already know that. Kisses little man.
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@adelphia.net>
Boynton Beach, fl usa - Saturday, February 10, 2007 6:31 PM CST

I don't know you but I do want you to know you are in my prayers every day. My grand nephew Randy, liked to see your son and enjoyed his time with him. Thank you for sharing your son with my nephew Randy, he will miss him. You truely are a great mother and parent. God Bless You.
Peggy Papin <plpapin@sbcglobal.net>
Ann Arbor, MI - Friday, February 9, 2007 11:36 PM CST

I can't believe it's been a month. And for you, it must feel like eternity. Sending you warm hugs and love..prayers for peace and just letting you know that you are being thought of every day. Dakota baby, I picture you smiling and laughing, running and being active...knowing you are healed....I know you're with your Mom and Ted....you are so missed buddy....so loved by so many people. Lots of love.
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@adelphia.net>
Boynton Beach, fl usa - Friday, February 9, 2007 6:52 PM CST

lynette and ted, just wanted ya'll to know that we are thinking of you on this one month anniversary of dakota's homegoing. I know its been a challenging day. I pray for peace that passes our understanding. Gil, Melanie and Jacob
melanie cash <melcash@earthlink.net>
york, sc 29745 - Friday, February 9, 2007 6:00 PM CST

Hi Lannette. Just stopping by to see Dakota's bright smile and to check in on you and let you know that you cross my mind daily.
Heide (m/o Jessica)
Marshall, VA - Friday, February 9, 2007 3:28 PM CST

Thinking of your family today and everyday. Bless you all.
Valerie from pbt list
Norwalk, OH - Friday, February 9, 2007 1:37 PM CST

Lannette,
Sending lots of love and hugs today to let you know we're all thinking of you.
Take good care of yourself.
Love ya,
Kathy
Kathy L
Charlotte, NC USA - Friday, February 9, 2007 12:16 AM CST

Just wanted you to know that I am thinking of you! I hope today you will have some thoughts that bring a smile to your face. Dakota remains such a wonderful inspiration for us all and we have played our snow globe several times today thinking of him! Love to you
Latane Grove <lataneh@bellsouth.net>
charlotte, nc - Friday, February 9, 2007 12:15 AM CST

Thinking of you and sending you a hug.
Many blessings from Candy Belanger <zacheric02@msn.com (Audrey's Umbrella)>
Livonia, MI www.braintrust.org/audrey - Friday, February 9, 2007 9:11 AM CST

Know that I'm here praying and care about your family so very much!
Ps 38:15, 21-22 For in thee, O LORD, do I hope: thou wilt hear, O Lord my God...Forsake me not, O LORD: O my God, be not far from me. Make haste to help me, O Lord my salvation.
The Prayer Bears Website
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Wednesday, February 7, 2007 11:49 PM CST

Hi Lannette,
Have been thinking about you and Dakota today. When we recieved our snow last week, I looked at it in a different way. It brought a smile to my face because I know that Dakota would have enjoyed it. After learning about Dakota, I can never look at snow again except in a postive way because of your beautiful son. We still pray for you and your family. I feel really bad that your daughter is giving you a hard time. She should realize that she only has one mother and she should love you. Sometimes I find it hard to understand why some family members think more of money than they do about the people they hurt. Be strong and keep praying. Maybe the light will shine and she will look at the situation differently. Thank you for keeping us informed about Dakota and you as well. We care about you too. God bless you!!!!!!!!!
Carol Faulkenberry <CRFaulkenberry@savasc.com>
Kershaw, SC - Wednesday, February 7, 2007 3:43 PM CST

Lanette..
.. I visited this site time and time and I was so very Sad to hear that Dakota passed away, although i know he is in Heaven, he left an incredible void in your lives..Not your heart because he is always in there!!.. Grieving is a process and can be a long process and I am so sorry for you having to go through it.. I encourage you to reach out to other moms that have an Angel.. there is this wonderful site of a Little blue eyed Angel named TIMMY who earned his wings last year and His mother Susan is a wonderful lady.. www.caringbridge.org/nj/timmyp
I hope that it helps, especially for someone that went through what your family went through..
I pray that God helps you come closer and closer to healing your broken heart..
God Bless.. take care..
jenn
www.caringbridge.org/visit/marthaquintero
Jenn <jenina23@comcast.net>
Sarasota, FL - Wednesday, February 7, 2007 1:50 PM CST

Just sending you LOVE and HUGS for whatever today brings you. I also know that Dakota sent us that most amazing snow. I haven't lived in the south very long (5) years and I can't recall a more 'perfect' snow then that we had last week.

Love ya!
Nicole and Kira!
Nicole and Kira Berkhout <ndberkhout@yahoo.com>
Davidson, NC - Wednesday, February 7, 2007 10:10 AM CST

Lanette,
I know days like today (Tuesdays) are especially hard for you. Please know that you still have a band of prayer warriors lifting you and the family up in our prayers! I think of you often, and send up a prayer each time. May GOD give you peace and comfort!
Love, Mr. Knight <knightt1990@netzero.com>
Clover, SC USA - Tuesday, February 6, 2007 8:16 PM CST

I just want you to know that I am thinking about you and sending love and prayers your way. There are so many things that you say that have happened that show Dakota is watching over you and sending you signs. I am so sorry about Sam, I hope things work out with her some day.
Take care and keep updating, we are thinking about you always.
Love, Reca
Andrew's Mom from pbt
Reca Thomasson <rmthomasson@cableone.net>
Lewiston, ID - Tuesday, February 6, 2007 5:13 PM CST

Dear Lannette,
Sending love and a hug and many prayers...I wish I had words of comfort or anything to ease your pain a speck, but all I can send is a heartfelt prayer for peace.

love,
Kristin, Genna's mom <thecams@earthlink.net>
Warren, NJ USA - Tuesday, February 6, 2007 2:53 PM CST

Lannette,
I will always remember the poem "The Dash" that you introduced many of us to via this website. It is the most touching sentiment. Dakota, in his short time, put quite a bit of life and love in that "dash". As I wake each morning around 5 am, I think that you may be finally drifting off for a bit of rest. Your family is in my prayers daily.
jeane moore <jeanehornemoore@yahoo.com>
gastonia, nc - Tuesday, February 6, 2007 7:01 AM CST

It is suppose to snow today and it reminded me to check in on how you are doing. I lit another candle today in hopes of bringing a little extra peace to your life today. Let is snow Dak, let it snow
Denise m/o Randy <ddpayne01@msn.com>
Miamisburg, OH USA - Tuesday, February 6, 2007 6:53 AM CST

Lannette,
I'm sorry I have not got to call you back so we can talk. I hope you understand how crazy it is. Please know you and your family our in my prayers always. We are all doing ok. We are back in the hospital trying to do another round of chemo, but Brandon has a really bad infection again in his feeding tube. This started last Thurs and we just finished antibiotics on Monday. We might start chemo tomorrow.
Talk to you soon,
Love,
Anita
Anita Elam <selam46@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Monday, February 5, 2007 10:22 PM CST

Lannette,

Wanted to let you know you are always on my mind. Also, yesterday in church Maggie leaned over to me and asked if I had said a prayer for Dakota as she had. I told her yes, always. Please know we are praying for your healing and wish we could help in any way.

Kathi, Maggie, Eric and Joe
www.caringbridge.org/va/maggie
Kathi Reca <kjreca@verizon.net>
Springfield, VA USA - Monday, February 5, 2007 10:41 AM CST

Dearest Dakota- Thinking of your beautiful soul each and everyday. Knowing you are free of pain and reunited with your father. Lannette, I have no idea how painful your days and nights are...I know your faith is extraordinary, but that it can't take away the pain and void of missing your baby boy. Sending love and prayers to you and Ted...and prayers for Samantha to make peace and be there for you. Just sending you so much LOVE and hugs. I will try and call you again...xoxoxoxox
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@adelphia.net>
Boynton Beach, fl usa - Sunday, February 4, 2007 12:36 AM CST

Lanette,

I hope you can feel the hugs I am sending you now and always.

Love,
Michelle
Alec's mom
www.caringbridge.org/visit/alecgoldstein
Michelle Goldstein <mich2boys@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, February 3, 2007 11:11 PM CST

lanette- we are thinking of you and praying for you to find your peace, in time, and to have dakota's memory bring you more joy and less pain over time-
i left your name in a basket in sag harbor, long island after i was on retreat and prayed very hard for you and others- the nuns are going to continue to pray for you to have peace- they're really good praying people- i'm not catholic, but they are pros- so you have some good stuff coming your way- i hope you can feel it-
love, alice williams, mother of lexie
alice williams <awilgent@comcast.net>
lakeville, ma. - Saturday, February 3, 2007 8:14 PM CST

Lanette,

Thinking of you and Dakota tonight. Fridays are my 'remembering' days of sending off my Jacob. I have lots of candles lit tonight for all our babies. Sleep is such an elusive thing these days. Having trouble with it myelf. Here's to a few moments of peaceful sleep tonight and a day tomorrow filled with strength.

Love, Lisa
mother of sweet baby boy Jacob
Lisa Field <efield5@yahoo.com>
West Covina, CA - Friday, February 2, 2007 9:39 PM CST

Dear Lanette and family,
Just to let you know you are very close in my thoughts and
prayers. I do think of you especially on Tuesdays.....
but since tonight it is Friday then there is a reason for that too. My prayers are also for Sam~never give up Hope there. Trust God with her and He will work within.
He works inside of all of us even in those darkest times
~when we don't always see how very close at hand He is.
Sending you a huge HUG and if only for this day a gentle
peace.
In His Love,
Cherie Bacha
Cherie Bacha <Cherie712@comcast.net>
McKeesport, Pa. 15133 - Friday, February 2, 2007 5:54 PM CST

Hi Lannette and Ted,

Just a thought... Perhaps Samantha is grieving in her own way-a way that doesn't seem to make sense. She has also lost someone very dear to her. I remember the pictures of her and Dakota a few months back. I think it was her prom picture but you could see the love that the two of them have for each other. Don't give up on her. Let God help guide your words and actions.

Samantha, I don't know if you read these messages or not. It was a blessing to be able to meet all of you last April at the Nashville airport. I could tell the closeness you and Dakota had then and I believe it is still there. Please don't give up on your family and friends. Above all, don't give up on God. He hasn't given up on you and never will.

In Christian love,
Mr. Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Friday, February 2, 2007 4:44 PM CST

Lannette and Ted-

Thinking and praying for you today.

May God grant you peace.

Love and Hugs,

Michele, Dwain, Kyle, Kevin and Kaden
Michele Kester <txpacwinegirl@aol.com>
Plano, tx usa - Friday, February 2, 2007 3:32 PM CST

Lannette,
I thought of Dakota and you when it was snowing yesterday. I hope the next snowfall will be one that you can enjoy--where you lie on your back and feel and sense all of the snowflakes falling down around you...and knowing Dakota is with you enjoying two of his favorite things.
We all miss him so much and talk about how the two of you always brightened our days! We love you and will always be here for you.
Love you,
Kathy
Kathy Lamm <Kathy.lamm@carolinashealthcare.org>
Charlotte, NC USA - Friday, February 2, 2007 3:30 PM CST

Lannette,
I think of you and Dakota everyday, but most especially today as I watched the beautiful snow falling. I closed my eyes and saw your beautiful boy with snow on his long eyelashes, lying in the snow making snow angels. It made me smile and cry at the same time. I ache for you. May God hold you close and bring you comfort, may he bring wisdom and compassion to Samantha and Bless Ted for just being plain wonderful.
Love you, Brigette
Brigette and Katie Deville <brigedev@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, February 1, 2007 10:05 PM CST

Hey Girl,
I just wanted you to know I am thinking of you and Dakota this morning,the snow was so beautiful. I am praying for you every day, for God to give you comfort and guidance. I pray Samantha will realize what a wonderful mom and friend she has. I am always here for you. Thanks for having me over the other night, I really enjoyed it. I love Ya,
Love, Kristen
Kristen Brandwood <Nurspeds@aol.com>
Charlotte, NC - Thursday, February 1, 2007 5:03 PM CST

Hi Lanette, I think have only signed Dakota's book one other time. But you are on my CB list, so I do stop in often to see how things are going and to pray for all of you. Just when we think things can't get worse, that darn satan finds another way to try to pull us down farther. Wow, I'm praying for you and Ted and for Sam too. My favorite verse is Deut 31:6 BE STRONG AND COURAGEIOUS. dO NOT BE AFREAID OR TERRIFIED BECAUSE OF THEM, FOR THE LORD YOUR GOD GOES WITH YOU;HE WILL NEVER LEAVE YOU NOR FORSAKE YOU. He also promises us this again in Heb 13:5b. I am so thankful for His promises. And for all who are praying for you!!! Much love and prayers,
Dorine McNary
Williston, ND - Thursday, February 1, 2007 1:38 PM CST

Wow... I don't quite know what to say, Lannette. I will pray for Samantha to stop hurting herself, and stop hurting you. I think that you are doing the right thing in removing her for right now. You should not have to deal with that, on top of everything else. I'm sure that was a hard choice, but I pray that it will make a difference.

I'm glad to hear you are moving forward, the best that you can. I hope that the book gives you some insight and some much needed help for dealing with this. Dakota would be proud of you for trying to live.

Holding you in my heart and with my prayers,
Amanda Holman <aholman515@gmail.com>
Coopersville, Mi USA - Thursday, February 1, 2007 11:03 AM CST

Thinking of and praying for you, dear one.

Hang in there, it's a long road but hold on to your faith and grab on to your friends when you need them, you've got lots of folks who care.
Kathleen, mom to Steven and aunt to angel Kyra
San Diego, CA USA - Thursday, February 1, 2007 10:55 AM CST

Lanette,
The SNOW this morning was BEAUTIFUL!!! Dak must be smiling from ear to ear! I couldn't look at it without thinking of him. STAY STRONG - you have done a beautiful job of being a "MOM!" Samantha will continue to be in our prayers, and so will YOU!!! Love,
Mr. Knight <knightt1990@netzero.com>
Clover, SC USA - Thursday, February 1, 2007 9:41 AM CST

Hi Lannette--it's Brandon Elam's friend, Leslie Southerland. I couldn't help but think of Dakota this morning when we all awoke to snow. I hope it's beautiful down your way too. I know he's enjoying this from his very special vantage point. You are in my prayers.

Leslie Southerland <leslie.southerland@cms.k12.nc.us>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, February 1, 2007 9:20 AM CST

Dear Lannette,
I am Jesse's mom, Amber. He was diagosed the medulloblastoma in 2003. We are so sorry for your loss. My favorite verse that comforted me and still does is from II Cori 4:16-18 "THEREFORE WE DO NOT LOSE HEART. EVEN THOUGH OUR OUTWARD MAN IS PERISHING, YET THE INWARD MAN IS BEING RENEWED DAY BY DAY. FOR OUR LIGHT AFFLICTION , WHICH IS BUT FOR A MOMENT, IS WORKING FOR US A FAR MORE EXCEEDING AND ETERNAL WEIGHT OF GLORY, WHILE WE DO NOT LOOK AT THE THINGS WHICH ARE SEEN, BUT AT THE THINGS WHICH ARE NOT SEEN. FOR THE THINGS WHICH ARE SEEN ARE TEMPORARY, BUT THE THINGS WHICH ARE NOT SEEN ARE ETERNAL.
Amber Walters <dow134acfr@yahoo.com>
Gainesville, FL USA - Thursday, February 1, 2007 8:44 AM CST

Still praying so for your family.

Ps 31:1-5: In thee, O LORD, do I put my trust; let me never be ashamed: deliver me in thy righteousness. Bow down thine ear to me; deliver me speedily: be thou my strong rock, for an house of defence to save me. For thou art my rock and my fortress; therefore for thy name's sake lead me, and guide me. Pull me out of the net that they have laid privily for me: for thou art my strength. Into thine hand I commit my spirit: thou hast redeemed me, O LORD God of truth.
The Prayer Bears Website
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Wednesday, January 31, 2007 11:52 PM CST

thinking of Dakota....Smile! I hope you are well and hope we can get together all of us.. soon!
Allen's <keyssc@comporium.net>
tega cay, sc - Wednesday, January 31, 2007 9:58 PM CST

Dear Lannette,
Thinking of you, and holding you in my heart, today and always. I pray that you are managing, one day at a time.
Amanda Holman <aholman515@gmail.com>
Coopersville, Mi USA - Wednesday, January 31, 2007 3:56 PM CST

Just letin' you know we are still here, thinking and praying for you.
-Angela
m/o Cayla
Angela Medley <angela.medley@sbcglobal.net>
- Wednesday, January 31, 2007 10:45 AM CST

I'm so sorry for the loss of your precious son Dakota. He's such a handsome young man. I hope the memories of Dakota's love and laughter and the joy he brought into your life helps guide you through your days.
Hugs Lisa, mommy of Angel Shad, June 16, 1995-Sept 5, 2000
www.geocities.com/shadmckell
Lisa McKell <lmckell@sympatico.ca>
Toronto, On Canada - Wednesday, January 31, 2007 9:03 AM CST

Native American proverbs ...
"We will be known forever by the tracks we leave." Dakota
He has left many tracks...
Judy <j.favata@verizon.net>
NY - Tuesday, January 30, 2007 8:29 PM CST

You don't know me, but I am Asher Carlson's cousin (well, second cousin, actually.) I wanted to extend to you my most sincere condolences and love as you go through each day. Our Father is obviously very close to you and your family and I know that He will comfort you and guide you through this difficult time. Dakota was a very, very lucky little boy to have a mother who loved him and charished him as much as you do. I am so sorry for your loss and please accept my condolences as I pray for you during your time of saddness. Most sincerely, Cynthia Wold.
Cynthia Wold
Bonaire, GA USA - Tuesday, January 30, 2007 7:31 PM CST

Light A Candle For Dakota's Family
http://dakotacandle.notlong.com

Be careful for nothing;
but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving
let your requests be made known unto God.

And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding,
shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.

Praying for your family.

Kathleen, mom to Steven and aunt to angel Kyra
San Diego, CA USA - Tuesday, January 30, 2007 10:54 AM CST

Hi Lynette, Tracy and Jay here. Just want you to know we are thinking of you. You and your family are in our prayers. It was a wonderful Celebration of Life. I'm so glad we were there to share it with you. I have Dakota's picture on my table at home that I got at the silent auction. I say hi to it everyday. God loves you and so do WE!!
Tracy Ireland <tireland@agvp.com>
Clover, SC USA - Tuesday, January 30, 2007 10:31 AM CST

Just checking in to see how you are doing. My prayers and thoughts are with your family everyday.
http://randy2004.freehomepage.com/
Denise m/o Randy <ddpayne01@msn.com>
Miamisburg, OH USA - Tuesday, January 30, 2007 6:50 AM CST

Lannette,
Just wanted you to know I'm thinking about you. We are hanging in there. Thinkgs are just busy. I will try to call you this week.
Love,
Anita
Anita Elam <selam46@carolina.rr.com>
matthews, nc usa - Monday, January 29, 2007 11:37 PM CST

thinking of you so much, carrying you in my heart--

peace,
Kristin, G's mom <thecams@earthlink.net>
Warren, NJ USA - Monday, January 29, 2007 8:58 AM CST

Thank you so much for my BEAUTIFUL picture. I am very honored that I was a part of that, and in all got to meet DAKOTA MICHAEL GAY!! He touched my heart. I love him and miss him dearly! He would be so proud of you and the things you are preparing for.. I love you LaLa!!1--Kate
Kate (all most Legg) Thompson <Jessicakate107@aol.com>
Clover, SC USA - Sunday, January 28, 2007 2:00 PM CST

To Dakotas Family, My thoughts and prayers go out to you for what sounds like a splendid young man. May god be with you all in your time of loss, I know a fellow like him is with God and smiling down on you , knowing the love you all had for him.Live like he would want you to.
Jim Maxwell <Jsaldive@hotmail.com>
Walterboro, SC United States - Saturday, January 27, 2007 7:43 PM CST

Samatha & Lynette,
Paw Paw and I learned of Dakota's passing just today. Our deepest prayers are sent to lift you up at this time of loss. Sam, we are here for you ANY time you need. Lynette, we are as close as a phone call away for any way we can help you too. Dakota was a special young man. He touched a lot of lives and is at peace now.
Your family in Georgia.
Paw Paw & Maw Maw <becky.bridwell@gmail.com>
Morganton, GA USA - Friday, January 26, 2007 6:07 PM CST

Lanette, Ted and Samantha - Just a note to say we are praying for you. You all and Dakota are still very much in our thoughts and conversations.
Nola & Don Schutz
Clover, SC - Friday, January 26, 2007 11:20 AM CST

Lala, I know Tuesdays and Fridays are extra hard for you and I just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you today. The good thing about Fridays are that I remember so much that great celebration of his life. It was so fitting for you and him. Love ya girl. I am here if you need me.
Jane E. Medler <medlerj@bellsouth.net>
Lake WYlie, SC - Friday, January 26, 2007 9:15 AM CST

Lannette,
We all miss seeing you and sweet Dakota. You are most certainly in all of our thoughts and we will continue to pray for you. I feel certain that Dakota is very near to you and can hear your words to him. You know how I feel about angels, and I love to think of what he might be doing right now. Sweet boy. (Sweet, hilarious Dakota!)
I hope to see you soon. Take care of yourself and know that we all love you very much!
Kathy
P.S. Secrets will always remain secrets! ;o)
Kathy Lamm <Kathy.Lamm@carolinashealthcare.org>
Charlotte, NC USA - Friday, January 26, 2007 8:49 AM CST

Ted, Lannette, & Samantha,

I have started so many times to write and the words just did not seem to come. I don't know that today will be any different, but I'm going to make an attempt.

If it's OK with you, I will spend this time letting you know how much of an influence Dakota has been on me. I don't have a good remembrance of just when I 'met' Dakota and started visiting his web site. It seems like about 2 years ago. Like most Caring Bridge sites, you find one through a link from another or because of an email. I don't remember exactly how I came across Dakota's, but I do remember why I kept coming back. Dakota has a magnetic smile that just kept me coming back time after time. Having been involved with church youth for over 30 years also gave me a little incentive to return. Perhaps God has worked through me to some degree in instilling a desire to encourage kids who are facing tough obstacles. Sometimes those obstacles are in the form of illness or disease. Sometimes they are just a normal part of growing and maturing. For whatever reason, being a part of kid's lives has been important to me for a long time. Since our children have grown up, I have even more time to spend encouraging others. Getting to meet Dakota and the rest of you at the Nashville airport last April was such a blessing!

Often I hear someone use the statement that a person's work here is done when that individual has finished his life's race. I would like to think rather that it will never be finished. Dakota, Connor, Cheyenne, Matthew, Mikki, and countless others, have been and will continue to be a positive influence for a long time. I believe they will have an impact on people that no preacher could ever hope to attain. I believe they will reach more people than some in the public spotlight ever will. I believe they have taught, and will teach, lessons that can't be learned from a book, seminar, or classroom. I believe God has used some of the most innocent and young in age to spread messages of love, bravery, determination, positive attitude, and a list far too big for this space.

Let me also say this. I DO NOT believe God gives children illness or disease so they can do his bidding. We have problems because we don't live in a perfect world. Could God heal a child with cancer. Absolutely. Why doesn't he? That is perhaps the toughest question one could ask and one I don't believe has an answer. We have never been promised a life free of pain, sickness, or any other obstacle. We have been promised that we can have all spiritual blessings through Christ. We have been promised an eternal home with God if we follow his will for us.

Ted and Lannette, thank you for giving your son such a positive outlook. He is the very essence of all that is good. His attitude, spirit, determination, and yes-even his humor, all serve to help me be a better person.

Dakota, how is the view? Is it all that you could have imagined? Or, is it more? Thank you for blessing my life in so many positive and incredible ways! I love you!!

In Christian love,
Mr. Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Friday, January 26, 2007 8:42 AM CST

Dearest Lannette,

Just stopping by this morning to let you know I'm over here praying for you. I can NOT begin to imagine how much your heart is aching now, and missing your precious Dak.

Grief is such hard WORK. I will pray for the Lord to give you His grace, His mercy and His comfort for each moment of your day, I know you will need it.

You have been such a blessing and source of encouragement to so many people, it's now time to let others "BE THERE" for you.

I'm here,

Susan (from the BT list)
Jordan <Susan2956@yahoo.com>
Sending so much love you way....................., - Friday, January 26, 2007 6:31 AM CST

Thinking of you everyday Lannette. Praying and sending you love. I cannot imagine the void in your heart. Missing Dakota and cherishing his love and memories and knowing you are the best Mommy ever. I will call you. Love...
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@adelphia.net>
Boynton Beach, fl usa - Friday, January 26, 2007 5:18 AM CST

Lanette,
I have been checking on you and Dakota since I read about you on Brandon Elam's website. You are in my prayers daily--I know there is nothing I can say to ease your pain. I am so very sorry for your loss--I can't imagine what you are feeling right now. May the Lord comfort you with the thought that Dakota is no longer in pain.
I know your pain will ease in time, and I know that itself is a painful thought because it means more time has passed since he was here with you. I am so sorry for that. Please know that so many pray for you and cry with you now.
Leslie Southerland <leslie.southerland@cms.k12.nc.us>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, January 25, 2007 9:22 PM CST

I am so very sorrry.. and with a lack of words but with true sentiment .. so very sorry..
Jenn <jenina23@comcast.net>
Sarasota, fl - Thursday, January 25, 2007 2:01 PM CST

I will never have the right words to say, just know that you are in my thoughts a prayers.

Marilyn
(Ben Sherlocks' grandma)
Marilyn Gallagher <gallagher_marilyn@yahoo.ca>
Pefferlaw, On Canada - Thursday, January 25, 2007 9:54 AM CST

Lanette, I just wanted you to know that I continue to pray for you daily. I was thinking the other day about how lucky Dakota is and one of the many many reasons is that, since the Bible tells us that in heaven there are no end of days Dakota won't know how long he he's apart from you, it will seem as though you arrived the same day. Although that doesn't help those of us who are still on earth since it seems so long already, but at least we know that he is very very happy (lucky boy). Dakota sure is blessed to have such a loving mom. Thank you for keeping us updated on how you are doing. Remember that you are loved by so many people. You are an inspiration to us all.
Praying for you daily and more.
jenna
Jenna Dye (Dakota's bible teacher) <jenna_dye2001@yahoo.com>
clover, SC usa - Thursday, January 25, 2007 8:05 AM CST

Lanette....just thinking about you this morning and wanted to stop by and check in on you. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Love, Aimee
Aimee Disney <Briannaashleysmom@yahoo.com>
Aldan, PA USA - Thursday, January 25, 2007 7:21 AM CST

Dear Lanette & Family~
Just to let you know not a day goes by that I don't think of you and lift you up in prayer.
We have had snow here as is normal for this time of year~but last night it was a gentle peaceful snow coming
down and I can't help but think of Dakota everytime it
snows now.
Praying for you that that same gentle peaceful presence
is with you each day.
Love & Prayers Always,
Cherie Bacha and family
Cherie Bacha <Cherie712@comcast.net>
Mckeesport, Pa. U.S.A. - Thursday, January 25, 2007 4:58 AM CST

Continuing to pray for you! What a blessing it is that we can call upon the Lord in times of trouble!
Ps 91:15: He shall call upon me, and I will answer him: I will be with him in trouble; I will deliver him, and honour him.
The Prayer Bears Website
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Thursday, January 25, 2007 0:56 AM CST

Lannette,
Sending you a big hug and wanting you to know I'm thinking about you.
Love,
Anita
Anita Elam <selam46@carolina.rr.ocm>
matthews, nc usa - Wednesday, January 24, 2007 11:55 PM CST

Funny thing, I was in the mall yesterday shopping for my son when I passed a sports shop with Steelers apparel in it. I was in there checking out some stuff and looked at the little shop across the walk, it was appropriately named Dakotas shop. How ironic but fitting. Thinking of you always.
Denise m/o Randy <ddpayne01@msn.com>
Miamisburg, OH USA - Wednesday, January 24, 2007 12:30 AM CST

Dear Lannette,
I pull up Dakota's website almost every day, sometimes a few times a day since Dakota left us. And even though I talk you almost everyday, it comforts me see all the love and prayers Dakota has inspired. I have never signed the guest book before, but felt I needed to put into words how much I miss Dakota. The way he made me feel "special" as he did with everyone that crossed his path. Dakota loved unconditionally and I will always hold our relationship with great honor. I will forever feel priviledged to have known him and love him. The bond the two of you shared, as you said, was something some people will never know in a lifetime. Again, I would like to say that knowing both of you and having you as a friend, I will forever be grateful.
Cheryl <ccarnes@ford.com>
York, SC USA - Wednesday, January 24, 2007 10:41 AM CST

What a comfort to know that the Holy Spirit Himself is praying for us perfectly according to His Will.
Rom 8:27: And he that searcheth the hearts knoweth what is the mind of the Spirit, because he maketh intercession for the saints according to the will of God.
The Prayer Bears Website
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Wednesday, January 24, 2007 1:21 AM CST

Dak,It's hard to believe it's been two weeks since you traveled HOME! I MISS YOU!!! I'll miss that smile. I'll miss that question "Why didn't we do the maze?" (I'm glad I got to share the secret with you!!!) I told Jake I shared the secret with you, but I DID NOT share the secret with him!!! His time will come - until then IT'S STILL A SECRET!!! Thank you again for allowing me to be a part of your life! I enjoyed every minute I got to spend with you (especially over the past few years.) I'll FOREVER cherish and hold dear that last day I came over, even if you did almost talk my ears off!!! I think I could have sat there FOREVER listening to you - cause you cracked me up!!! What a WONDERFUL memory I'll always have - especially of that day!!! PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE send a few extra angels to take care of your mom. She is a STRONG person, but misses you dearly (as do a LOT of people!!!) Take care and don't run those streets of GOLD too much before we catch up with ya!!! I can't wait to meet up with ya! I'm sure you'll have a GRAND TOUR scheduled!!! LOVE YA MAN!!! Your "FAVORITE" teacher!!! Did you really mean it??? Ha Ha!!!
Mr. Knight <knightt1990@netzero.com>
Clover, SC USA - Tuesday, January 23, 2007 9:49 PM CST

Lannette,

Thinking of you today and every day. Sending big hugs and kisses and a shoulder to lean on whenever you need it.

Love,
Melina and Levi www3.caringbridge.org/va/levi <melina_mayo@yahoo.com>
New Castle, VA - Tuesday, January 23, 2007 7:22 PM CST

Praying for your heart to begin some healing,
Barb, John, Shawn,
Shannon, & Colleen
www.caringbridge.org/page/shannon

Prayer Bear Barb
- Tuesday, January 23, 2007 5:25 PM CST

I came across your site and have read the story of Dakota. My heart goes out to you in your grief. This just does not make any sense and feels so very unfair. Your life will never be the same and I know that you will spend every day of the rest of your life keeping the memory of Dakota alive. You will be thinking about him just about every minute of everyday. I believe that we will someday be together again with our loved ones. I lost my son Matt, age 30 in Oct. last year to a brain tumor. Matt was older than your son Dakota but of course he was my little boy. Take care for yourself and may God bless you.
http://www3.caringbridge.org/oh/mattdowney/

Dave Downey <downeyd1@yahoo.com>
Gahanna, OH USA - Tuesday, January 23, 2007 12:36 AM CST

Lannette and family,
Just checking in to let you know you are being prayed for everyday. Hoping you will soon feel the peace your beloved Dakota now has. God bless you.
jeane moore <jeanehornemoore@yahoo.com>
gastonia, n.c. - Tuesday, January 23, 2007 10:11 AM CST

Lanette, thank you so much for the picture of us with Dakota last night. That was so touching and I will cherish it always. Your strength is so remarkable to be around. You amaze me on how you are handling your life. Your are in my thoughts and prayers every day.
Jane E. Medler <medlerj@bellsouth.net>
Lake Wylie, SC - Tuesday, January 23, 2007 9:44 AM CST

Thinking of you and loving you. Knowing there is no way to take away your pain.....you continue to be the best Mom ever, honoring Dakota in so many ways by just being who you are Lannette...Dakotoa I know you are healed and out of pain, I know you are watching over your Mommy and all of those people who love and miss you. Heaven certainly has a beautiful Angel Boy....hugs and kisses...many prayers.
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@adelphia.net>
Boynton Beach, fl usa - Tuesday, January 23, 2007 6:35 AM CST

This is one of my all time favorite verses when it comes to getting through hard times.
Rom 8:26 Likewise the Spirit also helpeth our infirmities: for we know not what we should pray for as we ought: but the Spirit itself maketh intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered.
The Prayer Bears Website
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Tuesday, January 23, 2007 0:10 AM CST

Sweet Lannette, you are in my prayers along with Ted and Samantha. I'm thinking of you so often.
Aleis <kevinandaleis@yahoo.com>
Sandy, UT - Monday, January 22, 2007 10:24 PM CST

Dear Lannette,
Thinking of you today, praying for solace in every moment...
sending love,
Kristin, Genna's mom <thecams@earthlink.net>
Warren, NJ USA - Monday, January 22, 2007 8:36 PM CST

Lanette,

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family. I'll share with you a Native American prayer that a friend sent me when I lost my brother to cancer. It touched me and helped me a through a tough time. I hope that it helps bring peace to you.

NATIVE AMERICAN PRAYER

I give you this one thought to keep �
I am with you still � I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sunlight on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning�s hush,
I am the swift, uplifting rush
of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not think of me as gone �
I am with you still � in each new dawn.

P.S. It's snowing in NW Indiana today :)
Be strong,
Wendy Athens
Wendy Athens <wathens@allstate.com>
Chesterton, IN - Monday, January 22, 2007 5:11 PM CST

Hey honey! Those are very beautiful words you speak to sweet Dakota! I know he is listening always, and says dito on just one more kiss from his mommy . I know he is very worried about you. (the number one in his life)I know you are strong and I will be there if there is anything I can do. I love you and Ted!--Kate
Kate (almost Legg) <Jessicakate107@aol.com>
Clover, SC usa - Monday, January 22, 2007 3:11 PM CST

Lannette,
I just wanted to let you know that I am thinking about you today. I thought we would get to see some snow flakes but we didn't. Everytime I see snow on t.v. now I think about Dakota. He was just a cute sweetheart. Just know that we pray for you daily.
Carol Faulkenberry <CRFaulkenberry@savasc.com>
Monroe, NC - Monday, January 22, 2007 10:59 AM CST

Hi Lannette and family. We got our very first snow yesterday here in Virginia. I thought of Dakota and how he can now see all the snow he wants, all over the world. Hope all is well with you ... as well as it can be.

~Heide
m/o Jessica
Heide
Marshall, VA USA - Monday, January 22, 2007 10:25 AM CST

Read this today at church and wanted to pass it on.
Ps 61:1-4: Hear my cry, O God; attend unto my prayer. From the end of the earth will I cry unto thee, when my heart is overwhelmed: lead me to the rock that is higher than I. For thou hast been a shelter for me, and a strong tower from the enemy. I will abide in thy tabernacle for ever: I will trust in the covert of thy wings. Selah.
The Prayer Bears Website
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Monday, January 22, 2007 1:41 AM CST

Dear Lannette, I am so very sorry to hear about Dakota. I will pray for peace, strength and comfort. When a gentle breeze blows across your face, may you feel Dakota's presence.

Fly high Angel ^i^ Dakota
Love and prayers,

Bridge Of Dreams
Debbie and the Dream team <debbie@bridgeofdreams.org>
VA USA - Sunday, January 21, 2007 10:17 PM CST

Just checking in on how you are doing. I am so glad you have Ted there with you. My best wishes for long fond memories. It snowed here today and all I could think of was Dakota. What a blessing.
Denise m/o Randy <ddpayne01@msn.com>
Miamisburg, OH USA - Sunday, January 21, 2007 8:47 PM CST

Dear Ted, Lannette, and Samantha, My precious grandchildren, I am so thankful, Lannette that you have had Ted to lean on during these trying times. Dakota was like a son to Ted and I know it must be very hard for him as well as you Lannette. The comfort we now have is knowing there is no more pain for Dakota and the precious little fellow had more than his share during his short life span. I am so sorry grandpa and I were not able to be there for the funeral. I will always treasure the time spent with him at Aunt Jackie's last April. He was such a handsome young man. Samantha if you read this, please know we love you very much and Jesus does too. Much love and prayers, grandma. P.s. Does Valerie from Valpo, IN know that you, Lisa, Dwain, and Aunt Jackie were born at Porter Memorial Hospital in Valpo when we lived in Chesterton?
Homer and Vannetta Bullard <hgbullard@peoplepc.com>
Murray, KY - Sunday, January 21, 2007 6:22 PM CST

Hi Lannette,

I just wanted to stop by and let you know you are on my mind..It snowed here yesterday and any one who knows me knows I hate snow...But because of sweet DAK I will never look at snow the same way again.. Fly Free Sweet Dakota...

He is truely a SNOW ANGEL

Denise and Steven

Steven's website
Long Island, NY - Sunday, January 21, 2007 9:40 AM CST

What an amazing promise from Jesus! To be with us always!
Mt 28:20b ...lo, I am with you alway, even unto the end of the world. Amen.
The Prayer Bears Website
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Sunday, January 21, 2007 1:18 AM CST

Hi Lanette- Just wanted to check in on you today. You know my heart is with you.
Jalena Bowling <ffmj26b@midsouth.rr.com>
Arlington, Tn - Saturday, January 20, 2007 8:49 PM CST

Hey Lanette. Just wanted to let you know that we are thinking about you. I just lit another candle for Dakota and it made me smile. I smiled because I know he saw. I smiled because I know he is safe and sound. I smiled because I know that in our hearts, especially yours, he will live forever!

I love you guys and I am praying that you find the peace that you all so deeply deserve -- the kind of peace that Dakota wants you to have.

Jenni and family
JENNI HAIZLIP <jlee4209@bellsouth.net>
york, sc usa - Saturday, January 20, 2007 8:20 PM CST

Lannette,
My heart is filled with such sadness for you. I wish everyone around you could make you feel better. I wish you have more time with Dakota and not to have this pain. I'm here for you if I can do anything.
Love,
Anita
Anita Elam <selam46@carolina.rr.com>
matthews, nc 28104 - Saturday, January 20, 2007 7:40 PM CST

Lannette: The service sounds like a true memory of Dakota's life ~~ wish we could have been there. We are missing Dakota also but your words paint a picture & the peace you radiate shows the faith you have knowing Dakota is with God in Heaven.

Charlene & Becky/Ones Who Care Angel_Wings
Hugs & Hope & Dabbles & Doodles.
... <gcbbunny@sympatico.ca>
- Saturday, January 20, 2007 10:20 AM CST

I love the picture these words paint. Still here praying!
Ps 17:8: Keep me as the apple of the eye, hide me under the shadow of thy wings
The Prayer Bears Website
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Saturday, January 20, 2007 2:03 AM CST

Lannette,
You are in our prayers. God Bless..
Prayers n Hugs,
LeAnn/SOEW/AngelsofHope
LeAnn Mooneyham <angel4God352000@yahoo.com>
Baxley, Georgia United States - Friday, January 19, 2007 11:17 PM CST

Lannette, when I read the Chesterton paper,I was so sad to hear about your son Dakota. I read your web site and I just want you to know how proud of Dakotas mommy I am you are so strong and full of Gods love. I often think of you and Lisa, please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family .
Valerie Wroblewski <valwrob@aol.com>
Valparaiso, In Porter - Friday, January 19, 2007 11:13 PM CST

Lannette, thank you for sharing so much of your heart with us. What a lucky boy Dakota was to have you for a mommy. I'm so happy that you received the sign you so desperately needed and that it brought you some measure of peace. When I read about the eagle, I instantly thought of one of my favorite hymns....

"And He will raise you up on eagles' wings,
bear you on the breath of dawn,
make you to shine like the sun,
and hold you in the palm of His hand."

I noticed that you left a message in sweet Catie's guestbook. You are such a strong woman - I'm sure your words brought comfort to Jenny and Tre'. I can just imagine Dakota holding Catie's hand as they walk the streets of Heaven:)

Hugs and many prayers from Candy Belanger <zacheric02@msn.com (Audrey's Umbrella)>
Livonia, MI www.braintrust.org/audrey - Friday, January 19, 2007 11:01 PM CST

Hi Lannette,
I am so sorry for your loss of Dakota. What a handsome boy! I got your name from the PBT angels. My daughter Kortney (9) died April 27, 2006 of a brainstem glioma. I know your loss has been very recent and you are numb, but if you need an email buddy, I'm here.
Kiristen Gillette www.caringbridge.org/visit/kgillette <soccrmom3@aol.com>
Oceanport, Nj - Friday, January 19, 2007 3:20 PM CST

Lanette: I am so happy you received your sign from Dakota. He is at peace now. I am looking through my window, watching the snow falling and saying a prayer for you, Ted, Sam and your two angels -- Dakota and Michael.

Carol DuCharme (Audrey's Umbrella) <carolducharme7@hotmail.com>
Livonia, MI USA - Friday, January 19, 2007 1:17 PM CST

My prayer's are with you.
Denise Stevens <mamaneecy2001@yahoo.com>
Kershaw, SC USA - Friday, January 19, 2007 11:52 AM CST

Lannette your words exude LOVE and the sign God sent you was truly a blessing notonly from God, but I know Dakota wanted to send comfort and peace to his wonderful Mommy. You are right, unless you have gone through what you have nobody can understand your pain and confusion....I know you to be a truly faithful person which has given you peace on some level that Dakota is free of pain and is restored. Yet he still is not with you...and that is the part that I ache so very much for you. Love You, your beautiful words...
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@adelphia.net>
Boynton Beach, fl usa - Friday, January 19, 2007 5:25 AM CST

Dear Lanette,
What a beautiful sign you have received in deed!
God is so good!!! He will continue to hold you up
on wings of a eagle~
You remain in my thoughts & prayers daily.
Cherie Bacha
Cherie Bacha <Cherie712@comcast.net>
Mckeesport, Pa. U.S.A. - Friday, January 19, 2007 4:54 AM CST

Lannette,

That is a beautiful story, and a meaningful sign from dear Dakota.

I'm happy that he's not suffering, but still, my heart hurts.
Kathleen, mom to Steven and aunt to angel Kyra
San Diego, CA USA - Friday, January 19, 2007 1:19 AM CST

Know that I'm here praying for your family so very much!
Jn 16:33 These things I have spoken unto you, that in me ye might have peace. In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world.
The Prayer Bears Website
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Friday, January 19, 2007 0:28 AM CST

Lannette:
I wrote to you the other day and noted Becki, the sister-in-law of my daughter. Becki lost her battle with cancer this evening leaving two little boys. Please pray for peace for her family at this time.
Paul Wold <pcwold@wiktel.com>
VIKING, Mn - Thursday, January 18, 2007 10:46 PM CST

Dear Lannette,

I have never met Brandon Elam, but I have been writing to him for two years now. It is through his journal entries that I learned the sad news about Dakota. When I first started writing to Brandon I only prayed for him, but as I learned more and more about what was going on my prayers expanded. I began to include Brandon's friends (including Dakota), and then all children with cancer, and then all people with cancer, and then all people with pain and illnesses. Young men like you son and Brandon have opened my eyes further to both the good and bad in this world...the suffering that exists and the incredible outpouring of love and support folks freely give in times of need.

My heart breaks for you and your beautiful son. I'm sure there will be times when you feel like you are going to go out of your mind with pain. I will ask God to ease your suffering during those times.

God bless you and your family,
Reggie
Reggie Musolf <reggiem@optonline.net>
Edison, NJ USA - Thursday, January 18, 2007 10:23 PM CST

Lannette,

I read your update over and over...
You have incredible strength!

I LOVE YOU!

Annie <ac64702@appstate.edu>
Boone, NC - Thursday, January 18, 2007 10:00 PM CST

lanette- i'm so glad you got 10,000 snowflakes !!! my girls had such a great time making theirs for him , knowing it was very important work that they were doing !!!!
i cried alot as i read your post- it was just so beautiful and full of your love for your boy !!! i'm so glad you got the sign you needed- i often ask for signs when i get really wobbly with life- i always get a sign and it always makes my heart sing !!!!
we're continuing to light dakota's candle in our home, to keep him in our hearts and minds-
and i'll be praying for you this weekend, as i go away on retreat and will be power praying all weekend !!!
love, alice williams, mother of lexie, age 8, brain tumor kid
alice williams <awilgent@comcast.net>
lakeville, ma. - Thursday, January 18, 2007 8:45 PM CST

Lannette:

I heard of Dakota soon after we moved here 18 months ago and read some things about him in the Lake Wylie Pilot. I wanted to let you know how sorry I was to hear of Dakota's passing. I rejoice that he is free from cancer and home with Jesus and his Dad, but my heart aches for you. We're "neighbors" since I'm in Tega Cay, and my daughter sees Dr. McMahon at Ped Hem/Onc at CMC. I'm sorry I never got to meet Dakota. I can tell from the stories he was an amazing young man! You will be in my prayers for comfort and peace....and I know the Lord will be with you and keep you close in the upcoming days, weeks and years.

Thinking of you...
Nancy Ross
Mom to Kyle 16 and Karly 11
www.caringbridge.com/ca/karlyross
Nancy Ross <ross4@comporium.net>
Tega Cay, SC - Thursday, January 18, 2007 8:19 PM CST

Your update was beautiful. I am thinking of you constantely and praying for your family. You inspire me!
Norma mom to Erik Z

Norma Zimmerman <enzimmerman@comcast.net>
Lambertville, NJ usa - Thursday, January 18, 2007 5:29 PM CST

Lannette,
Your latest update was very inspiring. You have definitely been given a talent (in talking about this nasty beast.) I hope you will continue to encourage other families who may be facing similar situations. I could even envision you writing a book - what a TRIBUTE!!!
Please know that you are constantly in our thoughts and prayers! I know these days must be difficult, but GOD is with you each step of the way! LOVE YOU GUYS!!!
Mr. Knight - Dak's "FAVORITE" teacher :-) <knightt1990@netzero.com>
Clover, SC USA - Thursday, January 18, 2007 4:50 PM CST

Lannette, I am holding you in my heart. I am so happy to hear that you received your "sign" that Dakota is really ok and watching over you from Heaven. Know that you will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers, always.
Amanda Holman <aholman515@gmail.com>
Coopersville, Mi USA - Thursday, January 18, 2007 4:37 PM CST

Lanette,
I've been in shock since I read of Dakota's passing last week! I'm never good with words at times like this. Hopefully a friendly name & memories from the past will cheer you up a little. I'm very sorry to hear that there has been so much going on the past several years, and of Dakota's passing. Although, I think he achieved the bigger prize.
I remember the spritely kid at times at Shark Finns, etc.
My prayers are with you and your family during your physical and emotional healing, which will never end but only diminish. Keep the faith and you'll see'm all again one glorious day! God Bless. Let me know if there is anything I can do for you.
Randy McInnis <rmci@comporium.net>
Fort Mill, SC USA - Thursday, January 18, 2007 12:48 AM CST

Lannette,
I can't tell you how much you and Dakota have inspired my relationship with my own son. I saw the two of you living life to the fullest even staring into the face of death. You my friend, are an amazing woman, with such strength that I think you yourself must be an angel. Thank you for your words, to show us all how very hard, cruel, happy and wonderful life can be. We talk about you and Dakota at the office often and think of you even more. Looking forward to seeing you once again, just for a visit!
With love
Nurse Latane <lataneh@bellsouth.net>
Charlotte, - Thursday, January 18, 2007 12:16 AM CST

Dear lanette,
I just read the update and wow! You have me in tears of sadness and joy. I pray that each day you will find God's peace and comfort. Words cannot say how I feel for you right now. I pray that i will never have to take this journey with my son Elijah. I will be praying for you.

Michelle Rios/ Pediatric Brain Tumor Parent
michelle <mmisha66@aol.com>
sun city, ca usa - Thursday, January 18, 2007 12:09 AM CST

I DO believe that sign was from Dakota to you. You are such a wonderful person with so much love and I admire you. Your entries are so heartfelt and full of so much emotion. Praying for strength for you at this so very difficult time.
XOXO,
Melissa
Burleson, TX - Thursday, January 18, 2007 10:49 AM CST

Hi,
I just wanted to tell you I just read your update note and it touched me very deeply. I think that you are just a special mom with a beautiful child to always remember. I thank you for sharing your thoughts with all of us. May God bless you!
Carol Faulkenberry <CRFaulkenberry@savasc.com>
Monroe, NC - Thursday, January 18, 2007 10:49 AM CST

I am so thankful to God for your peace, and I do believe in my heart that your signs you saw are truly signs sent to us from God. Often God's loudest voice is in the softest whisper. God Bless

Jeaners (One's Who Care)
- Thursday, January 18, 2007 9:52 AM CST

Dear Lannette,
Like Aimee says below, I have tears streaming down my face to read your update...and the ways God has of letting you know that Dakota & Michael are probably having a big snowball fight in heaven! I'm so glad you got (and are still getting) a blizzard of snowflakes for Dakota.

you are so much in my heart--I pray that sleep gets more friendly to you, and that each day continues to hold kisses from Dakota.

peace,
Kristin, Genna's mom <thecams@earthlink.net>
Warren, NJ USA - Thursday, January 18, 2007 8:44 AM CST

Lanette...thinking of you my friend. What a beautiful post. I cried as I am sure many others have as well. Just wanted you to know that I was here and thinking about you. Love, Aimee
Aimee Disney <Briannaashleysmom@yahoo.com>
Aldan, PA USA - Thursday, January 18, 2007 7:35 AM CST

Lanette, Ted and Samantha,
Thank you for letting me get to know Dakota. He is with the Lord now and that is good. We will miss him here, but he touched so many people with his charm and mischievious smile. You have been such a great family for him and now he'll want you to continue that way. He loved you and I have too in my minor journalist way. Hugs to all of you ...
Beth
Beth Bargar <garbarr@aol.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, January 18, 2007 5:32 AM CST

Hey Lala, couldn't sleep...just wanted to hop on and let you know that you are in my prayers. Think of you just about all the time. There's really nothing one can say especially not having been there. Just know that you are thought of, loved so much, and we are here if you need anything at all. Don't forget that massage from Kim! You name the time...
dina
charlote, nc - Thursday, January 18, 2007 1:16 AM CST

Stopping by to let you know I'm still here, still praying!
Rom 8:18 For I reckon that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us.
The Prayer Bears Website
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Thursday, January 18, 2007 0:56 AM CST

Lanette, you have a heart of gold. Even in the midst of your sorrow, you want to serve others. You are absolutely right that parents like us need to talk to those who have already walked the path. That was the first thing I asked the social worker for, right after Alexa's dx. You are so sweet to have the desire to do this. You are in my prayers and thoughts. (((((HUGS)))))
Aleis, m/o Alexa dx medulloblastoma 7/01 <Kevinandlaleis@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, January 17, 2007 10:46 PM CST

Lannette, what a beautiful entry. I think of you often, and pray for you. I know that if you follow your heart, that it will lead you exactly to that place that you need to be to help others. I know that Dakota is rejoicing in Heaven, and I have no doubt that he isn't smiling down on you right now, and telling the other angels, "That's my mom!"
I'm praying for you.
Hugs,
Ann Watts/Angel Wings <bubbasoldlady@cebridge.net>
Jacksonville, AR USA - Wednesday, January 17, 2007 9:57 PM CST

Lanette & Family:
I have watched from afar as you have lived out the last few days of Dakota's time here on the earth. The message for you is to be the support for others going through the same experences you just have. You now have the special insight of been there - done that to come along side of others as a support. You have all the right in the world to hurt,cry, & yell at the top of your lungs, so do it. Right now as I write this, my daughter,s sister-in-law lays close to the end of her life from cancer. 25 years old, 2 young boys, just not right, so it seems. All I can do is be available for the family. This I give to you as your quest in life, be there.
Hugs for NW Minnesota:
Paul Wold, 9 years free of cancer
Paul Wold <pcwold@wiktel.com>
VIKING, Mn USA - Wednesday, January 17, 2007 8:47 PM CST

dear lannette,
keeping you close to my heart tonight. i hope you are able to get some rest, and moments of peace. sometimes, all you can do is breathe. and when all you can do is breathe, that's all the world expects of you. be gentle with yourself...i'm here for you anytime.

angel olivia's mom, wendy
www.caringbridge.org/mi/oliviasgrace <mom2olivia@gmail.com>
- Wednesday, January 17, 2007 7:51 PM CST

Hey Dakota,

Wondering if you have met our girl, Cheyenne, by now. Bet so. You and her are sooooo much alike...... I know how your mom and family are feeling right now, so make sure you stay close to them. They miss you sooooooooooooooo much it actually hurts..... So many people here miss you and love you. Give my baby a hug for me ok...

Cheyenne's Daddy
www.caringbridge.org/tx/cheyenne5
Roy Fiveash <rfiveash@wcc.net>
San Angelo, tx - Wednesday, January 17, 2007 7:49 PM CST

Lannette: I just read that your precious Dakota has passed away, into the arms of Jesus. Though it's been a long time since we've talked (as after my John's death I've taken a long break from the boards), I want you to know I'm thinking of you and marveling at that wonderful, beautiful picture of your precious son. May peace be with you after this long journey. Your Dakota is watching you from his new Home, smiling. My sympathy, empathy, sorrow at your loss and joy at Dakota's rest are all with you. Thank you, friend, for all the encouragement and support you offered during my John's long road...mine is now with you as your life enters a new phase. With prayers, hugs, remembrance and faith.

Jinny, w/o John F. Daley, Jr., 7/19/1961-3/11/2005
dx brainstem glioma 1968

Jinny Daley, wife of Angel John <jinnyhann@yahoo.com>
Rockville, MD USA - Wednesday, January 17, 2007 7:17 PM CST

Lannette, they are forecasting snow tonight. I think Dakota is sending it for you. My admiration, respect and love for you are endless. Your beautiful boy did indeed have a beautiful name. My heart aches for you. Please call if you want to talk, rant or anything. My number is 704-243-2413. I really want to be there for you.
Love, Brigette-mommy to Princess Katie
brigette deville <brigedev@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, January 17, 2007 5:48 PM CST

Still thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers. Dakota is a beautiful name for a beautiful young man. Hoping that you may find some peace and a new path in life.
With much love
angela <anji@comcast.net>
brighton, mi usa - Wednesday, January 17, 2007 5:25 PM CST

I am praying for your strength. I think about you a lot.
Jenni Simsack <simsack1@comcast.net>
Holly, MI USA - Wednesday, January 17, 2007 3:15 PM CST

Hello,

I don't know you personally, but I am long time friends with Nicole Farnsworth, she was telling me about your Son Dakota (yes he has a beautiful name) battling Cancer and passing away :( As I read your letter, my heart broke into a million pieces for you and I cried for your loss, because I know that he had to go thru alot of pain and suffering during this time and I'm very sorry, I understand alittle bit about watching a young boy go thru so much pain, My nephew who has lived with me and my parents since birth, He was born with Cystic Fibrosis, its a fatal ilness that can not be cured or I should say, hasn't been cured yet.. I'm praying that someday that happens!!! But... He has almost died on us several times in his life and has spent months at a time at Carolina's Medical Center through out his life of 18 yrs, The doctors and Nurses know him so well on the 7th floor (childrens ward) that they all know him by name and everything about him. He now only has 1 lung and serious liver damage, its in the last stages now, so they are talking about a liver transplant, so he has serious life threatning health problems. I also have watched someone this young and innocent go thru so much pain and that is why I cried my eyes out reading your entry, my heart and prayers really go out to you and your family! I just had my first child, she is only 10 months old and I couldn't imagine life without her. You sound like a very strong person and I pray that God helps you get thru this, I am so very sorry for your loss. God Bless
Leslie Beal <Lesliebbw2006@aol.com>
Charlotte, NC US - Wednesday, January 17, 2007 2:21 PM CST

Just wanted to write you a quick note to let you know that the whole clinic is thinking about you and we all love you. Keep you head up!
Kelly Cooper <kcooprn@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC - Wednesday, January 17, 2007 1:49 PM CST

Dear Lannette,
You have the biggest heart of anyone I've ever "met".
In my earliest days of being a BT mom, I looked to you and saw courage, love, and a selfless drive to do anything and everything for your precious boy.
You have already helped so many of us...I know you will be a great treasure to many other parents who hear that dreaded diagnosis.
you are so much in my thoughts and prayers, each day I pray you find hope and peace.
love,
Kristin, Genna's mom <thecams@earthlink.net>
Warren, NJ USA - Wednesday, January 17, 2007 11:40 AM CST

Lanette & family,I think of you all often. I was very saddened to hear of your loss. I can't comprehend what your family has endured. I only wish we were closer. My thoughts and prayers are with you. All my love Libby & family
Libby Stout (Reynolds) <bewickdentgrp@aol.com>
Chesterton, In Porter - Wednesday, January 17, 2007 10:32 AM CST

I just wanted to let you know I am thinking about all of you, and how very sad I am to hear of Dakota. He will be so very missed. I read his guestbook and seen how many hearts all of you have touched, I am so blessed to know you. I love you.
love danielle
danielle maurer <dnllmaurer@yahoo.com>
charlotte, nc - Wednesday, January 17, 2007 9:10 AM CST

David, Nathan and I are very sad to hear about Dakota. We pray for you and hope you will find strength in your happy memories of Dakota. We will always remember our visit with you and your courage. Again, we are so sorry for your loss.
Rosanne Litaker <rclitaker@wagnernoble.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Wednesday, January 17, 2007 7:30 AM CST

Praying for your family as always!
Jn 14:27 Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.
The Prayer Bears Website
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Wednesday, January 17, 2007 1:04 AM CST

Lannette,
Wanted to let you know I'm thinking about you. I cannot imagine how hard it must be without holding and kissing Dakota everyday. You two were so close. I hope each day gets easier. I'm hear if I can do anything. We went to the clinic yesterday and it was very strange. I always would ask if you guys were coming in. I love you very much.
Love,
Anita
Anita Elam <selam46@carolina.rr.com>
mathhews, NC usa - Tuesday, January 16, 2007 11:01 PM CST

Sweet Lannette...I love you. I know Dakota is with you. Always. You two had something thats tough to describe...it was definetley a soul mate thing. God hears you. He will direct you Lannette. I know you, you will do whatever it takes to continue to honor Dakota, and You will make a difference, just as he has. Dave dedicated his show tonight to Dakota....he brought the house down. He told me before he went up he spoke to Dakota and let him know that this show was for him. You are in my thoughts and deep in my heart girl. I will talk with you soon...loving you.
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@adelphia.net>
Boynton Beach, fl usa - Tuesday, January 16, 2007 9:43 PM CST

Lanette,
Thank you for keeping all posted on how you are doing.
Your words are very hard to read, but at the same time
there is so much hope in them. God is and willcontinue to use you to make a difference, just as He did with Dakota.
Both of you have touched soooooooooooo many lives, in ways
that will live on. That will make the difference to people
who need that understanding, care and compassion that can
only come from someone who has walked the same path.
You are such a blessing to so many. God will give you streghth and endurance for He has plans for you in all of what you have endured.
Know that you are in His loving care each and every step of the way.
Cherie Bacha
Cherie Bacha <Cherie712@comcast.net>
McKeesport, Pa. U.S.A. - Tuesday, January 16, 2007 7:34 PM CST

Lannette,
My mother told me the terrible news and right away, I logged on to see how you were doing and was in complete awe of how strong your faith was. You as well as Dakota have been such an inspiration. I remember meeting him one summer while visiting the Cullon�s and thinking what a "cool" kid he was and that he was going to go places and do great things with his life. After reading you journal, I am not at all surprised at how strong he was through the struggle. He most certain did touch so many peoples lives including my own in ways that many of us only wish we could. You and your family are in my prayers always. God bless you!
Mary Beth Dreusike
Huntington, NY USA - Tuesday, January 16, 2007 5:12 PM CST

You have shown me to take each day and treasure it. And, I got that just from some visits to Dakota's caringbridge site. I don't know what lies ahead for Asher, for me, but I sure treasure all the little things, the things he says, the glow from his smile, the way he has to hold onto something to jump....you have made me treasure all of this. I live with a fear, knowing that our life completely changed on 5/26/06 when we heard cancer, medulloblastoma, knowing cure is not for sure, knowing nothing, really. When I first found out, I sat, by myself, and needed to. It is just now, 8 months since finding out, that I talk to other people on the cancer floor and search the Internet for other kids/moms to talk to....my hubby wanted someone to talk to immediately....I am sure we are all so different, but it took time. Time. Time. Hate that word, sometimes. I can only imagine the pain you have right now. I cry, with just a slight thought of losing my boy, so I hurt with you....take the time you need. I will continue to check in on you.
Steph, Asher's mom
Phoenix, AZ - Tuesday, January 16, 2007 3:43 PM CST

Lannette,
I do agree that Dakota is a beautiful name. It would be hard to imagine how losing a child would feel because I've never had any but my heart goes out to you. I lost my brother with Pancreatic Cancer April 25, 2006 and I know how bad that felt. I would like to do something to help these kids but do not know what to do. I am interested in helping anyone who has cancer or family member with cancer. It seems that some people can get things started so easily but I haven't been that lucky. I am a cancer survivor but I feel that you never really win against cancer and if you do, you should help other people because that's what God intends for you to do. If there is anything that I can do, you have my e-mail address and I would be glad to do it. Take care of yourself and let's go forward to help these other sick children in Dakota's name.
Carol R. Faulkenberry <CRFaulkenberry@savasc.com>
Kershaw, SC - Tuesday, January 16, 2007 2:59 PM CST

Lanette,

I think you are a force to be reckoned with when you are passionate about something, and I believe you are passionate about making a difference.

You were passionate about trying to save Dakota and for making every minute count with him, and you have inspired me in countless ways with the way you are walking this path.

Grieve as much and however you need to, grief is a lifelong process.

But when you're ready I know you'll make a difference. You already have.

Light a candle for Dakota
Kathleen, mom to Steven and aunt to angel Kyra
San Diego, CA USA - Tuesday, January 16, 2007 2:57 PM CST

Lannette...You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers everyday. Please call me if you need to talk. My heart aches for the pain you are going thru. I can actually say that I do know what you are going thru and you know you can call me anytime you need me. I LOVE YOU. With Love, Hugs and Prayers.
Patty
Patty Ragusa <p_ragusa@comcast.net>
Longmont, CO USA - Tuesday, January 16, 2007 8:11 AM CST

Lannette, your love for Dakota is so plain and wonderful and simple...Thank you for sharing it.
Ellen and Sammi Robertson PBT Yahoo and www.caringbridge.org/mi/sammijean <Scanmom@hotmail.com>
Wyandotte, MI - Tuesday, January 16, 2007 8:01 AM CST

Still praying so for your family!
What a blessing to know that the Lord hears when we cry unto Him.
Ps 22:23-24: Ye that fear the LORD, praise him; all ye the seed of Jacob, glorify him; and fear him, all ye the seed of Israel. For he hath not despised nor abhorred the affliction of the afflicted; neither hath he hid his face from him; but when he cried unto him, he heard.
The Prayer Bears Website
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Tuesday, January 16, 2007 0:28 AM CST

I am sorry about Dakota but I am happy to know that he is feeling no pain anymore. He is in a better place but he will be missed bery much. You will be in my prayers.
Melissa Edwards (Christopher's Bar) <Spunkymel21@yahoo.com>
Gastonia, NC - Monday, January 15, 2007 9:43 PM CST

Lannette,
I have been following dakota for quite some time now... I am sorry to hear of his passing and my thought and prayers are with you and your family for all the strength to go on and heal My daughter Hannah died of Pnet at 5 years old alomost 1 year ago I know how hard the journey is after your baby has gone even though you know they are with jesus and no longer suffering.. my heart breaks for you xoxo
Jennifer <Jenniferxo33@yahoo.com >
- Monday, January 15, 2007 7:34 PM CST

Thinking of you every day...praying for peace.
love,
Kristin, Genna's mom <thecams@earthlink.net>
Warren, NJ USA - Monday, January 15, 2007 3:58 PM CST

Thinking of you, Lanette.
Aleis m/o Alexa <kevinandlaleis@yahoo.com>
- Monday, January 15, 2007 3:49 PM CST

Not a day goes by that I don't think about you, about Dakota, about life, about after-life....hoping you are OK today.
Steph, Asher's mom
Phoenix, AZ - Monday, January 15, 2007 3:43 PM CST

Hi Lannette
Justs checking in to see how you are. We all care about you so much.
Norma mom to Erik Z
www.caringbrige.org/nj/erikz
Norma Zimmerman <enzimmerman@comcast.net>
Lambertville, NJ usa - Monday, January 15, 2007 1:29 PM CST

I have lit a candle for Dakota. It reminded me how precious life is. Thinking of you today and always as you and your family celebrate a wonderful life that has passed. God bless you.

Denise m/o Randy <ddpayne01@msn.com>
Miamisburg, OH 45342 - Monday, January 15, 2007 11:40 AM CST

Praying for all of you and worrying a bit too, I'm really good at worrying.

Hang in there.
Kathleen, mom to Steven and aunt to angel Kyra
San Diego, CA USA - Monday, January 15, 2007 10:29 AM CST

Lannette,
Thinking of you always and I hope that you're hanging in there. May you find peace to ease the pain in your heart, even if only a little bit.
Amanda Holman <aholman515@gmail.com>
Coopersville, Mi USA - Monday, January 15, 2007 10:22 AM CST

Lanette & Family,
Just to let you know I am thinking of you all.
That you are daily in my thoughts and prayers.
Lifting you all on a wing and a prayer.
God Bless,
Cherie Bacha
Cherie Bacha <Cherie712@comcast.net>
Mckeesport, Pa. U.S.A. - Monday, January 15, 2007 4:50 AM CST

Lanette....just sitting her thinking about you tonight. I hope that everything went just as you wanted it to on Friday. Just wanted you to know that I am thinking about you. Love, Aimee
Aimee Disney <Briannaashleysmom@yahoo.com>
Aldan, PA USA - Sunday, January 14, 2007 8:56 PM CST

LALA & TED, I FEEL SO LUCKY TO HAVE MET AND EXPERIENCED DAKOTA IN OUR LIVES. LIFE IS SO VERY PRECIOUS! WE WILL MISS HIM. WE SEND YOU ALL OUR LOVE AND SUPPORT.
TINA & DAVE LOTT <CTVINCI@AOL.COM>
DEERFIELD BEACH, FL USA - Sunday, January 14, 2007 8:03 PM CST

DEAR "MOM"-WE TOO WILL MISS DAKOTA VERY MUCH.WHAT A WONDERFUL CHILD-HE BRAVELY ENDURED HIS RADIATION TREATMENTS AS EVRYTHING ELSE HE HAD TO GO THROUGH IN HIS SHORT LIFE-WE LOVE YOU-LOVE,TERESA
TERESA EDMISTEN <TEDMISTEN@CAROLINA.RR.COM>
Matthews, NC usa - Sunday, January 14, 2007 7:02 PM CST

Praying today for your family. God bless you

Bethany (Audrey's Umbrella)
TX - Sunday, January 14, 2007 3:44 PM CST

Thinking of your family today and holding
you ever so close in our hearts and our prayers.
Trish/Angel_Wings <Kngboyer@aol.com>
Kingston, TN USA - Sunday, January 14, 2007 3:21 PM CST

II Timothy 4:7
I have fought a good fight, I have finished my course, I have kept the faith.

Dakota, My Inspiration, you taught us a lot, love you forever
Grandma Nancy <missgg16@netnitco.net>
Porter, IN USA - Sunday, January 14, 2007 1:17 PM CST

sweet dreams no more pain
sweet release god bless you
annie <annegallagher@hotmail.co.uk>
england - Sunday, January 14, 2007 4:27 AM CST

Still here praying so hard for your family!!!!!!!!!!!!
Always trust that the Lord does have a plan and that whatever He allows to happen, He has a reason. His Will be done.
Is 55:8-9: For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, saith the LORD. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts.
The Prayer Bears Website
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Sunday, January 14, 2007 2:51 AM CST

Lannette,
Dakota's service was so nice. You did a great job. I cannot imagine how you are feeling, but try to remember with everything Dakota and your family had to go thru you made the best out of it and did such a great job of making everyday count with great memories. You are such a great mom and should be very proud.
Love,
Anita

Anita Elam <selam46@carolina.rr.ocm>
Matthews, NC USA - Saturday, January 13, 2007 8:39 PM CST

Lala, Ted, and Sam and family, we love you and are keeping you in our prayers.
Joyce and Shannon Gardner <princessbsms@yahoo.com>
clover, SC USA - Saturday, January 13, 2007 8:04 PM CST

Lanette,

Thinking of you and your family, and praying, and hoping to hear from you when you're ready.

Know that you are loved.

Light a candle for Dakota
Kathleen, mom to Steven and aunt to angel Kyra
San Diego, CA USA - Saturday, January 13, 2007 7:20 PM CST

Dear Lanette,

Holding you in my heart today. This journey is so hard. I hope your day today is filled with rest and peace. Treat yourself well. You will get through day by day.
I'm so sorry.
Love, Lisa
mother of sweet baby boy Jacob....foever 10
Lisa Field <efield5@yahoo.com>
West Covina, CA - Saturday, January 13, 2007 10:16 AM CST

A beautiful, touching service yesterday. Exactly fitting for such a vibrant young man.
Dakota's mission on earth seems to have been to touch many lives, and share with all what is important in life, and he succeeded!
God bless your family as you go through the coming weeks.
jeane moore <jeanehornemoore@yahoo.com>
gastonia, nc - Saturday, January 13, 2007 9:17 AM CST

Lannette and Ted,

I am a long time ago friend of Ted's and saw in the paper where Dakota passed. I am very sorry for your loss. I wanted to let you know you are in my thoughts and prayers. I can not even imagine what you are going through. 3 years ago this month I discovered I had breast cancer. So I can relate to some of the pains and tough times that Dakota has gone through. The Lord will help you through this. Keep all the wonderful memories in your heart.

Susan Allen
Shelby, NC
Susan Allen <skallen@carolina.rr.com>
Shelby, NC USA - Saturday, January 13, 2007 7:57 AM CST

My name is Patty Miller and I work with Rick Devault. I have heard so many stories about Dakota's valiant fight with his illness. I could only wish, that I would have his courage in dealing with pain , such as he had. My prayers are with the family and I wish with all my heart, that more people will hear of Dakota's bravery, and support Caringbridge and other places like this, that will help children and young people, in situations like this.
I know he will be missed greatly and again my prayers to all of his family. My thoughts will be with you all. Patty
Patty Miller <luvcarpathia@comporium.net>
Fort Mill, SC USA - Saturday, January 13, 2007 7:30 AM CST

This psalm is such a special one. I pray that it gives you comfort and peace!
Ps 121: I will lift up mine eyes unto the hills, from whence cometh my help. My help cometh from the LORD, which made heaven and earth. He will not suffer thy foot to be moved: he that keepeth thee will not slumber. Behold, he that keepeth Israel shall neither slumber nor sleep. The LORD is thy keeper: the LORD is thy shade upon thy right hand. The sun shall not smite thee by day, nor the moon by night. The LORD shall preserve thee from all evil: he shall preserve thy soul. The LORD shall preserve thy going out and thy coming in from this time forth, and even for evermore.
The Prayer Bears Website
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Saturday, January 13, 2007 2:13 AM CST

Lanette- I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family. I have watched Dakota's story for over a year. You have truely been an inspiration with your strength and faith in the Lord. I know the Lord is with you in this difficult time. Many prayers, Robin Balogh PBT group
Robin Balogh <trocarqueen@yahoo.net>
Long Beach, CA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 10:59 PM CST

Lanette and Family,
We are so very sorry for your loss. I guess the Lord needed another precious flower for His garden. How wonderful to know that absence from these 'ole earthly bodies is to be in the presence of the One who died for us. One thing for sure-- Dak will suffer no more ever again. Our thoughts and prayers go out for you and your family. Stay strong and keep your faith. Love and prayers.
Jesse and Miriam Moore <Jesse(or Miriam)28269@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Friday, January 12, 2007 10:45 PM CST

My Condolences Lannette,May he finally rest in peace,I know Dads with him, God Bless you and your Family.Bill@Hope
Bill Heavens <Hope4Kids2@aol.com>
Mesa, AZ - Friday, January 12, 2007 10:26 PM CST

Lannette, What a beautiful service today. You did Dakota proud. I found it so touching that his friends would want to be a part of it. I've said it before, but I must say it again "YOU ARE ONE AMAZING LADY". I feel honored to be a part of something so special. You and your family are in my prayers. Much love, Brigette and Katie
brigette deville <brigedev@yahoo.com >
- Friday, January 12, 2007 9:40 PM CST

Lanette & Family:
Holding you close in my heart. Sending you heartfelt prayers for strength and courage in the journey ahead without your precious son. It has been an honor to be a part of Dakota's journey.
Romelle Lysenko, Scott's Mom from PBT Angels <romellelysenko@yahoo.com>
Somerset, NJ USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 9:38 PM CST

Your family is in my prayers. I have been following Dakota's story since I became a member of this group. Dakota reminded me so much of my Josh. Now they are together. It will be hard,but never giveup. You will see your precious son again one day.
Kathy <kpopoca2@aol.com>
Brooksville, Fla USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 8:42 PM CST

Dear Lannette,
I hope today's service was a Celebration and a Half for your awesome Dakota--you are so in my heart and prayers throughout each day...

peace,
Kristin, Genna's mom <thecams@earthlink.net>
Warren, NJ USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 8:15 PM CST

Ted, Lanette, and Samantha
The service today was just what I expected - a CELEBRATION! As I was sitting there listening to you talk, Lanette, I had a thought come to my mind. There is a familiar teacher's quote -
"2 teach + 2 touch a life = 4 ever" The opposite was true with Dak. To teach him has TRULY touched MY life forever! Thank you for sharing him with me! I will always hold dear all of the fond memories I have of him. I will miss him a LOT!!!
Please know that you will be in my thoughts and prayers in the coming weeks. Let me know if there is anything you need! LOVE YOU ALL!!!

Mr. Knight <knightt1990@netzero.com>
Clover, SC USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 6:36 PM CST

So sorry for you loss! Dakota's story touched so many lives. Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.
Love and Prayers
Chris and Trista

Chris and Trista Long <Chris-Trista@att.net>
Fairmont, Wv 26554 - Friday, January 12, 2007 5:21 PM CST

My prayers are with you and your family for your terrible loss. I cannot imagine what it is like to lose a child. Now he is looking down on us and he is waiting for us.
Roger Young
Rincon, GA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 4:49 PM CST

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Brenda <wduffy6633@aol.com>
Boca Raton, FL - Friday, January 12, 2007 1:08 PM CST

Dakota was an inspiration to us all!! We will all here at Clover High miss him very much!! You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
God Bless
Skylar McMackin
Skylar McMackin <sklar90210@aol.com>
Clover, SC US - Friday, January 12, 2007 12:01 AM CST

Lanette & Family,

I wish I had something prophetic to write or even something that would help, but we both know there are no words of wisdom. You are one of the main reasons I have been following the PBT list. I am so very sorry and heart broken for you. You all have become such a part of my heart. Thank you for being a bright, shining example of a dedicated, loving mother and wonderful woman of faith. If you ever need a shoulder, I have two open with no waiting.
The book of John:
Truly, truly, I say to you, he who hears my word and believes Him who sent me, has eternal life, he does not come into judgment, but has passed from death to life.

Much love, Chris Weese (PBT Group) <chris.weese@larox.com>
Glen Burnie, MD USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 11:20 AM CST

Dear Lannette, I saw the announcement in the paper last night of Dakota's flight to heaven. You probably don't remember me but you helped me with a patient forum at CMC where you spoke for parents about what was good and could be improved at the hospital. I always have held you in high regard and so awed by your openness, strength, sassyness, and true love for your child. I teared up reading your journal entry today but am so comforted that you have the love and tenderness and faith of Jesus. You know that Dakota is running and playing and feeling so wonderful now. You will be shepareded by him forever. God bless you and your husband and the rest of your family. I pray for you to have strength in the days to come.
Mary Webster <mrw22864@msn.com>
Charlotte, nc usa - Friday, January 12, 2007 10:29 AM CST

Together in sadness. Love, Prayers and Hugs
Deneen
www.caringbridge.org/page/tiffanie
Deneen Gethouas <dgethouas@state.pa.us>
Enola, PA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 10:19 AM CST

Dear lanette and family, I read your web page with tears in my eyes, i couldn't even begin to think what you are all going through, it's every parents night mare to have to see there children go. God bless you all, they say in time the pain gets easier but the memories stay forever. x
Kevin Murphy <ksmashy@aol.com>
Manchester, England - Friday, January 12, 2007 10:18 AM CST

Keep Dakota's candles burning:
http://dakotacandle.notlong.com

Don't think of him as gone away
His journey's just begun
Life holds so many facets
This earth is only one.

Just think of him as resting
from the sorrows and the tears
in a place of warmth and comfort
where there are no days and years.

Think how he must be wishing
That we could know today
How nothing but our sadness
Can really pass away.

And think of him as living
In the hearts of those he touched...
For nothing loved is ever lost--
And he was loved so much.

Kathleen, mom to Steven and aunt to angel Kyra
San Diego, CA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 10:14 AM CST

Lanetta, my prayers are with you today as you celebrate Dak's life here on earth. I received the following poem today in my groups and wanted to share it with you..... love, hugs and prayers, .............Jackie (Vanetta's neighbor)

NO GOODBYES
I lost my most precious gift from God today.
A gift that, God gave oh so special to me.
Yes, I lost a most precious and loving gift today.
But I know that someday, my gift I�ll see.

As they left, they took a part of my heart with them.
You see my baby went home to be with God today.
And I miss them when I wake up and when I go to bed.
I miss all the wonderful love they always gave away!

I know that some day we will all be together once again.
I hold that promise because God said that it would be.
I will hold you my baby once more in my loving arms.
And your loving smile and laughter once again I will see.

Things here are not the same with out you my little one.
There is an empty place in my heart I can�t seem to fill.
You are not lost my sweet little one for you are with God.
I will see you again my baby for I promise to stay in Gods will!

So little one this is not goodbye for goodbye means the end.
There is no end to Gods child�s love of my heart and soul.
I will see you each day as I walk on here with our Lord.
I know that when God will call me home and I will be whole.

I love you my little one. I will hold you always in my heart.
Forever and always you�re Mother.
Written for those who have lost a child no matter what the age they might
have been.
Written by Barbara J. Williams January 12, 2007

Jackie Smith <sami4jesus@bellsouth.net>
Murray, Ky USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 9:52 AM CST

Dearest Lannete,

I am so saddened to hear of Dakota's passing. You have always been an inspiration to me. You ARE an amazing mother who HAS an amazing bond with your son. Thank you for sharing Dakota with us. You and Dakota will forever be in my prayers.

May God be with you.
Kelley McCarthy PBT list <kelley3mccarthy@yahoo.com>
Bellport, NY - Friday, January 12, 2007 9:13 AM CST

I was sorry to hear of Dakota's passing. I know Maggie will miss his friendship and notes. My prayers are with you to get you through this difficult time.

Heaven is richer today with another beautiful angel.

Marcia Wheatley (Maggie's Aunt)
Marcia Wheatley <mlwheatley@yahoo.com>
Woodbridge, VA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 8:56 AM CST

Lannette,
I am so sorry to hear the news. I know that Dakota is in a better place. He will be pain free and a kid again. My thoughts are with you. He was a cute little guy. Just know that there are people out here you don't know that cares about you. God bless you and your family.
Carol R. Faulkenberry <CRFaulkenberry@savasc.com>
Monroe, NC - Friday, January 12, 2007 8:49 AM CST

Dear Lannette and family, praying for you today! Love, Linda
linda champa <lachampa@mintz.com (Audrey's Umbrella, www.braintrust.org/Audrey)>
boston, ma usa - Friday, January 12, 2007 8:45 AM CST

Lannette,

Thinking of you today. I hope the service is beautiful with all the snowflakes and I am sure Dakota will be looking down and loving them. You are a wonderful mother.

www.caringbridge.org/va/maggie
Kathi & Maggie <Kjreca@verizon.net>
Springfield, VA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 8:41 AM CST

Dear Lanette- I'll be thinking about you this afternoon, praying that this day is full of blessings. You may not see them now, but later will realize they were there. I cannot believe this day has to come for so many mothers. My heart cares beyond words.
Jalena Bowling <ffmj26b@midsouth.rr.com>
Arlington, Tn - Friday, January 12, 2007 8:33 AM CST

I'm holding you all close in prayer today.
Hugs & blessings from Candy Belanger <zacheric02@msn.com (Audrey's Umbrella)>
Livonia, MI www.braintrust.org/audrey - Friday, January 12, 2007 7:51 AM CST

God bless you. I can see his Holy Spirit alive in you by your postings. What a blessing for Dakota to have you as his mom. I don't know you but I'm praying for you today. Just do the next thing.
Rita from NJ
Rita Brown <auntrita7@aol.com>
Stirling, NJ 07980 - Friday, January 12, 2007 5:52 AM CST

Thinking of all of you and sending prayers of strength and peace. Wish I was with you today to celebrate Dakota's life.
Sending love and keeping Dakota in my heart, forever.
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@adelphia.net>
Boynton Beach, fl usa - Friday, January 12, 2007 4:55 AM CST

dear Lanette and family...I just heard from Sherrie that dakota has finally gone to be with God the father Son And Holy Ghost..........Our Prayers are with you all...Prayers for your strength and guidance...courage aaand healing...Dakota is in a much better place now with no pain being beside his father and grandmom and with God...We were all truely blessed with just knowing him........We are here for you 100% God Bless...Love Mark and Rae
rachel and Mark <Littlebeerguru@aol.com>
valley center, ca usa - Friday, January 12, 2007 0:13 AM CST

Still here praying so for your family!!!!
May the Lord always be there to comfort you each day.
Ps 119:50 This is my comfort in my affliction: for thy word hath quickened me.
The Prayer Bears Website
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Friday, January 12, 2007 0:09 AM CST

My prayers are with your family. I am so sorry for your loss. My name is Beth Underwood, I am Ashley Campbell's (Dakota's friend) cousin. I had learned about Dakota through Ashley and have been praying for him for awhile. I hope allthe people that knew him take comfort in knowing that he is with Jesus now. And how awesome it is up there. And if you live by the great book you will be able to see him again one day. What an awesome thought to know that little Dakota has given Jesus a hug!! I know it is sad to see him go but you will see him again one day. You will continue to be in my prayers.
Beth Underwood <beth_underwood2003@yahoo.com>
LaGrange, IN USA - Thursday, January 11, 2007 11:41 PM CST

i am so terribly sorry for your loss. you and your family are and always will be in my thoughts and prayers.
ashley terry <aeterry@clemson.edu>
- Thursday, January 11, 2007 10:40 PM CST

We know Dakota is in God's arms and is happy and well again. God bless you and we will continue to keep you in our prayers.
Louise Winstead and Mike Winstead <fishinmike39565@bellsouth.net>
Vancleave, MS USA - Thursday, January 11, 2007 9:41 PM CST

We are so sorry for your loss but know Dakota is well and happy walking those streets of gold with our precious Savior. He was blessed to have such a wonderful Mother with so much faith. God bless and know you are in our prayers.
Gene and Vicki Winstead <mawmawbik@bellsouth.net>
Lucedale, MS USA - Thursday, January 11, 2007 9:37 PM CST

lanette- we are loving you and lighting a candle in dakota's honor here in ma. -i'll be praying for you as another brain tumor mom can only pray !!!! (his candle is lavendar)
love, alice williams, mother of lexie, age 8
alice williams <awilgent@comcast.net>
lakeville, ma. - Thursday, January 11, 2007 9:05 PM CST

Lanette,

I'm so sorry for your loss. I truly feel your pain as I lost my 13-yr old son, Nick, to leukemia last January 24th. As Moms, we don't want our children in pain, and know that if they can't be here with us, that heaven is the next best place for them. But now is the hard part for you. I never really thought about what my life would be like without my son, I was only worried about trying to either get him better or make sure his last days were peaceful. It's really tough after they're gone. I read about Dakota through another website and have only been following his journey for about a week. Your postings have truly moved me. Dakota was a beautiful boy! And you were and are quite a Mom!! Keep the faith and know that we'll be united with our beautiful boys when it's our time to leave this earthly plane.

My thoughts and prayers are with you. I've asked Nick to try to meet up with Dakota. I think they'd be good friends.

Liz Daniels
Chandler AZ
http://www.caringbridge.org/cb/inputSiteName.do?method=search&siteName=nickdaniels
Liz Daniels, very proud mother of Nick <eadaniels@cox.net>
Chandler, AZ USA - Thursday, January 11, 2007 7:31 PM CST

Hi,

I've been to Dakota's page a couple of times because when I was younger I was close with Melissa Ragusa, so through seeing Patty's request for prayers I've visited a couple times here and there. I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine how hard it is but I know it must be a sence of peace also that your son is no longer suffering with cancer here. I send you all my love & I'll be sure to throw in some extra prayers for you and your family.

Your truly,
Jillian
Jillian Oliff <grnvwbug@aol.com>
NJ U.S.A - Thursday, January 11, 2007 7:21 PM CST

Lanette and family, I'm so sorry for your lost. That doesn't seem like much. You truely having 2 angels watching over you all now.
Don't grieve for me, for now I'm free.
I follow the plan God laid for me.
I saw His face, I heard His call,
I took His hand and left it all..
I could not stay another day,
To love, to laugh, to work or play;
Tasks left undone must stay that way.
And if my parting has left a void,
Then fill it with remembered joy.
A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss...
Ah yes, these things I, too, shall miss.
My life's been full, I've savored much:
Good times, good friends, a loved-one's touch.
Perhaps my time seemed all to brief--
Don't shorten yours with undue grief.
Be not burdened with tears of sorrow,
Enjoy the sunshine of the morrow.
My prayers are still with you and your family.

Patti Roberts <elder528@tds.net>
Lewisport, Ky - Thursday, January 11, 2007 7:17 PM CST

DAKOTA IS A VERY SPECIAL PERSON. HE TOUCHES EVERY ONES HEART HE MEETS. I HAVE VERY SPECIAL MEMORIES OF DAKOTA AND WILL ALWAYS TREASURE THEM CLOSE TO MY HEART. I AM GLAD HE ISNT SUFFERING ANYMORE BUT I AM SO SORRY HIS FAMILY HAS TO SUFFER THE LOST OF HIM. I HOPE FOR THE BEST FOR THE FAMILY AND HOPE THEY CAN BE A STRONGER FAMILY. I LOVE EACH AND EVERY ONE OF YOU. TAKE CARE!!!

LISA JACKSON AND FAMILY <ZOEYJESSIE1@BELLSOUTH.NET>
CLOVER, SC USA - Thursday, January 11, 2007 7:16 PM CST

Lanette,

You do not know me but I have been following your posts for over a year. My son, Elijah died from Medulloblastoma on January 12, 2005. I believe watching your son die is the hardest thing a person has to do. I could tell just from reading your posts that you were/are a great Mom to Dakota which made his journey through cancer more bearable. If you need anything, you can e-mail me.
Beth gress <dgress91@hotmail.com>
West Chester, ohio usa - Thursday, January 11, 2007 7:13 PM CST

Oh Lanette,

I just never know what to say...so I'll just say that you will be in my thoughts and prayers, as will Dakota. If I am sure of anything it is that he is in good company up in Heaven. I know that he will be sorely missed...your love for him continues to shine...thank you for being such an amazing example of love and peace...and even in the scary times strength and hope.

Love ya,

Angela

www.HadleyFox.com
Angela <FoxiFamily@yahoo.com>
Portland, Oregon USA - Thursday, January 11, 2007 6:24 PM CST

Hi Ms. Lanetta,
I can't begin what it's like to lose a child or a spouse, I just want it you to know that your family are in my prayers and thoughts. Hold on to all the memories that you have, because it will help to to get through the lost. Continue to keep God the first and the head of your life. He has promise to be there for you and he will.

Take care,
Shirley

shirley collins <bless@408.verizon.net>
Andrews, sc Georgetown - Thursday, January 11, 2007 5:41 PM CST

To Dakota's Family from fellow Steelers fans. Dakota has been on our church's prayer list for some time and even though we didn't know him, we felt a bond to him and your family after seeing the newspaper and reading your thoughts on this web site. Our hearts go out to all of you as do our prayers. We, too, lost our biggest Steelers fan on Thanksgiving 2003 (our 23 year old son, Chad, was killed). We had his ashes spread on Heinz Field the following month as a tribute to his memory. Please know that there are people you don't even know praying for you and feeling your pain. Dakota and Chad will cheer for the Steelers from heaven to another Super Bowl victory. No words can fill the void you are feeling - just keep praying for strength and God will see you through.
Dawn & Glenn <gwelshans@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC - Thursday, January 11, 2007 5:06 PM CST

thinking of you so much today, we are all so very sorry. You are in our thoughts and prayers so much...
peace,
Kristin, G's mom (PBT list) <thecams@earthlink.net>
Warren, NJ USA - Thursday, January 11, 2007 4:54 PM CST

Lannette, Lisa and family...My heart aches for all of you. My prayers are for your peace and comfort during this most painful time. And, yes, Lannette along with you, I'm thanking our Lord, Jesus, for Dakota's peaceful passing...
Jennifer Douse <jennifer.douse@atcmail.com>
York, SC USA - Thursday, January 11, 2007 4:25 PM CST

Lannette,
We are so sorry to hear about Dakota's passing. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family at this difficult time. God speed.
Melissa Chambers and Dena Herlick <Melissaflyaw@aol.com>
Monroe, NC - Thursday, January 11, 2007 4:20 PM CST

Many prayers for everyone who has been touched by Dakota, for those who are lucky enough that they had him in their lives. May you all find comfort in knowing that he us looking down upon you with love in his eyes....free, smiling, and happy to be with his Dad...
Love & Prayers from all of us at,
Bridge of Dreams
Prayer Bears & SOEW
Jennifer <TaggedJenn@gmail.com>
FANCY GAP, VA USA - Thursday, January 11, 2007 3:42 PM CST

Lannette,
I am so sorry for your loss and pray that God comfort you at this time. I lost my son, Joey Adams, to brain cancer last August. Just think our boys are in heaven with "No Pain" and "No Cancer" - just awaiting our arrival. You are in my prayers!
Judy AdamsDavidson <judy@iolky.com>
Mayfield, KY USA - Thursday, January 11, 2007 3:34 PM CST

Just wanted to drop by and let you both know I am thinking about you and praying for strength for you daily.

XOXO,
Melissa
Melissa H
Burleson, TX - Thursday, January 11, 2007 3:32 PM CST

Dear Lanette,
I am so sorry to hear about Dakota, but so glad that he had peace at the end. You have been such a wonderful mom in spite of your own heartbreak. You're in my prayers.
Anne Dauphin (mom to Mara, 16, off treatment since 10/02) <annedauphin@hotmail.com>
Vernon, CT - Thursday, January 11, 2007 3:15 PM CST

Dear Lanette, Lots of hugs to you & your family and prayers for Dakota. I have been following Dakota through the PBT board and received a lot of inspiration from you. This news saddens me immensely, but I believe that he will always be with you and you will meet him again. Please take care of yourself and your family.
Noriko Okahara <kunboypink@yahoo.com>
Leawood, KS USA - Thursday, January 11, 2007 3:14 PM CST

Lanette, Ted and Samantha,
I have had you in my heart since I heard the news. Dakota is finally pain free and walking with the Lord. What a beautiful angel he must be and what an inspiration he has been to people of all ages. He showed strength and courage during tough times. My sons were so proud to watch him as a teenager facing the struggles before him. What courage he had. Dakota was such an inspiration for me to see the two of you and the bond you shared going thru this together. Samantha is such a wonderful sister being so supportive and loving. You have been truly blessed with such beautiful memories.
Remember the last time I saw you� and what we talked about�.celebrate his life. I know that Heaven is rejoicing to have him in the presence of the Lord.
Dakota meant more to everyone than any of us can put into words. Now he's with his Daddy and his Father.
We�ll see him again�welcoming us home with that beautiful smile and spirit.
I love you all and will continue to remember you in my prayers

Karin Bennett (formerly Dubay) <karind@comporium.net>
Tega Cay, SC USA - Thursday, January 11, 2007 2:50 PM CST

Lannette & Ted,
Heaven is so very blessed to have Dakota , as we were blessed to have him on earth. You are an inspiration to so many people and the strongest woman I have ever met. Dakota has traveled on a journey that continues in a wonderful place....We will all miss him sooo much. I will continue to pray for you, and others in the same situation. I love you bunches and, will always be here for you. With all our thoughts and cares....
Allen & Steffney Jakab <steffney.jakab@metso.com>
Lake Wylie , SC 29710 - Thursday, January 11, 2007 2:42 PM CST

Dear Lannette and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss but so glad to know that you realize that your loss is Heaven's Gain! There must be much rejoicing there right now! NO CANCER...NO PAIN...just PEACE and LOVE. I will continue to pray for you and your family as you deal with such an incredible loss. May God keep you all wrapped tightly in His loving arms!
Love and Hugs,
Jan Wilder
(Chemo Angels)
Jan Wilder
Townsend, DE - Thursday, January 11, 2007 2:33 PM CST

To Dakota's family. Our prayers are with you. Remember, we can do all things through christ who strengthens us. We Love and will continue to pray for you. GOD'S LOVE IS THE GREATEST. Continue to be Blessed. Love The Heath Family.
Luecreasey & Phillip Heath <lu_heath@muzak.com>
York , sc - Thursday, January 11, 2007 1:41 PM CST

Lannette,

I am so sorry to learn of Dakota's passing. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Ralph Shore <RDShore@NationalGypsum.com>
Charlotte, NC - Thursday, January 11, 2007 1:33 PM CST

Dear Lannette, Ted and Samantha,
I do not know how to express my heartfelt sympathy to all of you. Dakota was a wonderful child, you are a wonderful mother. Dakota is now with the Lord and his Daddy. I pray you find peace and comfort. I will remember you in my prayers. Fly free Angel Dakota.
Love, Esther(Brandon's Proud Grandmother)
Esther Miele <esther.miele@hewitt.com>
Matthews, NC Union - Thursday, January 11, 2007 1:25 PM CST

My heart is saddened by Dakota's passing but I know that he is celebrating with God in heaven. I know that God will give you the strength and peace that you need during this time. My prayers will continue.
Cyndee Rees <cyndee_rees@comcast.net>
Jonesborough, TN USA - Thursday, January 11, 2007 1:20 PM CST

Praying for you today.
Hugs,
Ann Watts/Angel Wings <bubbasoldlady@cebridge.net>
Jacksonville, AR USA - Thursday, January 11, 2007 12:18 AM CST

I am so very sad to hear about Dakota. I can not imagine ever being as tough or as brave as Dakota. He is truly an Angel that was here from Heaven. Dakota will always be in my heart and memories. What an outstanding young man. I will always remember his beaming smile and witty personality. Lynnette, the strength, dedication, love and charisma that you possess is amazing. I have never known anyone as strong as you are. You are truly a blessing and inspirations to hundreds of people many of whom you may not even realize. I will continue to pray for you and your family. With all of my love and prayers.

Leslie DeArmond <ldearmond@myhrss.com>
Cramerton, NC USA - Thursday, January 11, 2007 12:17 AM CST

IN LOVING MEMORY CANDLE FOR DAKOTA OR ANY LOVED ONES CLICK

Angel Jen - SOEW <eaglet@mymacs.org>
Nashville Area, TN USA - Thursday, January 11, 2007 12:07 AM CST

Dear Lannette (proud momma to Dakota),
On behalf of the whole Camp CARE family, we extend our heartfelt sympathy to all of you. It is comforting to know that he is with all the others who are now at peace and free of pain. Even though Dakota was unable to attend camp last year, he will be remembered in a very special way.
With a Camp CARE Smile,
Carrie Keuten

Carrie Keuten <ckeute@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, January 11, 2007 11:52 AM CST

Dear Lannette,
We wanted to say that we are very sorry for your loss. Your son was a great inspiration for all of us. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Michael and Lisa Miele <mdmiele10@netscape.com>
- Thursday, January 11, 2007 11:47 AM CST

Lannette:
Once again God has gleaned the fields and returned one of his best yields unto himself. While I don't know you or your family personally, my heart extends the greatest compassion toward your journey. As Dakota celebrates with the Savior, I pray you find peace and rest in the comfort that only Christ Jesus can provide. I see you are already pouring out your pain by helping others in requesting donations for the Hemotology Center. May the Lord's strong love guide you and your family through this. I am a co-worker and sister in the Lord of Dak's uncle, Paul Gay.
Sally Perry <sally.c.perry@lmco.com>
Powder Springs , GA USA - Thursday, January 11, 2007 11:43 AM CST

I am so sorry to hear of your loss, i have no words, as a mother who lost her boy to the same diesase 10 months ago...medulloblastoma is a name that will haunt me forever. Your strength in itself is a miracle, I will continue to pray that this strength sees you through the rest of your journey.
Susan McLellan <simbady@sympatico.ca>
Chatham, Canada - Thursday, January 11, 2007 11:41 AM CST

Just a note to say it is really heart warming to hear of the strength and comfort that you get from our LORD. HE will truly give you all that you need if you will just ask HIM. Please continue to serve HIM. You will be in my prayers.
Pete Sessions <wwpeteaf@comcast.net>
Vero Beach, FL USA - Thursday, January 11, 2007 11:18 AM CST

Dakota was a very good friend of mine!! I really don't know what to say except that I am sorry and I hope the best for you and your family!! Yall are in my prayers!!
Skylar McMackin <sklar90210@aol.com>
Clover, SC US - Thursday, January 11, 2007 10:54 AM CST

We are all going to miss Dakota very much --- it is so hard to say goodbye, so I will say until we meet again. I remember that sweet little boy that I use to babysit once in a while (you, Sammy, Brandy, and Krystle were the best kids that I ever baby sat for --- Lisa, Crissy and I loved spending time with you guys). I remember his laughter and his sweet, sweet smile. He is finally at peace and for that I am so greatful. Please know that all of you are in my thoughts and prayers, just as Dakota is and always will be. I don't see you guys as often as I use to growing up, but I still think of each of you everyday --- I think of all the good times and the not so good times. But mostly I remember Brandy, Krystle, Sammy, and Dakota as those little ones that no one could ever get enough of --- that is how I choose to remember Dakota. He was always so happy and full of love.

You are at peace now and I will always love you and miss you deeply.

All my love --- Jenni and family
Jennifer Jackson Haizlip <jlee4209@bellsouth.net>
york, sc york - Thursday, January 11, 2007 10:46 AM CST

Tis But The Dawn

On Tuesday Night about half past eight
St Peter opened the Pearly Gate
When God looked down and saw his pain
He said �This child will never hurt again�

A gentle wind blew cross the land
Reaching out to take his hand
For on the winds the angels came
Calling out Dakota�s name.

Leaving behind, Lannette in tears
with loving memories of 15 years
The joy and love this child has given
Now lives with our Father in Heaven.

On angel's wings, a heavenly flight
The journey home, towards the light
To those who weep, a life is gone
But in God's love, 'tis but the dawn.

Laura McElrath <lmcelrath@gordoncounty.org>
Calhoun, Ga Gordon - Thursday, January 11, 2007 10:20 AM CST

Thank you so much for sharing with us through your struggles, when it was so difficult. It shared with us a wonderful child. It wrenched my heart to read about Dakota being scared, I would think along with pain, that is the hardest thing. You did the most important thing, to address that with him and reassure him. I can't begin to see how much pain you're in and the feeling of having part of you gone, just gone. Yes, it does make people appreciate their kids more. Thank you.

Please try to get some rest, and do whatever you need to do to get by each minute, each second. Dakota is definitely with friends and relatives who are relaxing and showing him how life without illness feels. There's no passage of time in heaven, you'll be together some day in just a blink of an eye to him. Sending long distance hugs from Pensacola.
Cathe L haldagobay.com/Dabbles and Doodles/OWC <haldagobay1@bellsouth.net>
Pensacola, Florida - Thursday, January 11, 2007 10:14 AM CST

My dear Lannette, we know the comfort of God is with you as you celebrate a life well lived by Dak. He has been an inspiration to thousands of people that he never knew and thousands more that he did. I know you are comforted by the Holy Spirit and the Word, 'to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord'. What a celebration in heaven as our Lord recieves another of His own. What a long journey and battle for both yourself and Dak. But through it all you have kept the faith. I only wish that i could have had enough faith to have changed the mind of God and allowed for Dak to have been healed and lived out his life with you and his family. You and your family are always on our hearts and prayers. God has positioned you to be His instrument in touching other lives with the experience you now have, use it to lead others to the only one that can make a difference in eternity. As anyone can tell from the huge outpouring of encouragement from this website, Dak and yourself have already touched many lives for God. God Bless You and Keep You.
Paul (Dak's Uncle) <robert.p.gay@lmco.com>
- Thursday, January 11, 2007 10:07 AM CST

Thank you Jesus for taking Dakota home where he should be. Thank you Jesus for the privilege of knowing Dakota. We have learned from his strength, sense of humor and sarcasm! If he can smile in the face of life's hardest challenges, we can too.
You asked, "who am i if i am not dakota's momma?" we say, you will always be Dakota's momma. you are the one who brought him into this world. Also, you are our friend, an inspiration. you are the one who introduced us to Dakota and gave us the opportunity to enjoy him and learn from him. If not for you and Dakota, we would be less, much less, than we are today. Dakota lives in all he touched. for that we thank Dakota. For that we thank you. For that we thank Jesus.

We will celebrate his life with you. We wouldn't miss it!!

Nola & Don Schutz
Nola & Don Schutz
Clover, sc - Thursday, January 11, 2007 10:05 AM CST

Lannette - We were saddened to learn about Dakota, but we're so glad we got to know him. I hope that the time he spent painting pottery gave him some small respite from the fear & uncertainty. You are in our thoughts.
Mike & Marti <clayescape@comporium.net>
Fort Mill, SC USA - Thursday, January 11, 2007 9:49 AM CST

Lannette
May God continue to sustain you
with His peace that passes all
understanding knowing that
Dakota and his Dad are joyfully reunited.

prayers and love from Missouri
Mrs. Pam
via Kathy and Dave
- Thursday, January 11, 2007 9:48 AM CST

Praying for strength and comfort
for each of you now and in the days ahead.
Trish/Angel_Wings <Kngboyer@aol.com>
Kingston, TN USA - Thursday, January 11, 2007 9:44 AM CST

Lannette,
All of us PBT-ers are thinking of you and sending you our strength, love and prayers. I hope you feel it coming from us.

Love,
Amanda Holman <aholman515@gmail.com>
Coopersville, Mi USA - Thursday, January 11, 2007 9:37 AM CST

You don't know me, but I am a member at Christ the King Church, and wanted to extend my sympathies to your family. As a mother, I cry for your loss, and can't imagine. Please know that we are there for you, and may God give you grace.
Amanda Hueneke
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, January 11, 2007 9:28 AM CST

You were such an inspiraton for us and you will be missed. I feel comfort knowing that there has been one more angel added to the heavens who will be watching over us all each and every day.
Terry & Donna James <donna_jackson10@hotmail.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, January 11, 2007 9:16 AM CST

Dear Lannette and Ted,

My most sincere condolences to you for the loss of Dakota. He and you all certainly are special.

People say it all the time, but since I live so close to you, if there is anything I can do, please let me know. I haven't seen Noel in a while, is she okay?

I'll see you all Friday at the church.

Sincerely,
David Stoner

David Stoner <DStoner@ShieldEngineering.com>
Lake Wylie, SC USA - Thursday, January 11, 2007 9:08 AM CST

Lannette and Sam,

Dad called me last night and told me about Dakota's passing. How very sad this makes me. I recall the last time I had the opportunity to see beautiful Dak...it was so very long ago and how I had wished I would get to see him again. I can not begin to imagine the amount of pain you all are going through. Please know that I am here for anything you may need or want. I am simply a phone call or an email away. I am sure that Uncle Michael is taking very good care of his little boy...I remember what a great person my Uncle Mike was. Lannette, I am not sure if Sam reads the guestbook entries, so if she does not, please let her know that I am here for her. I know we have not seen each other in such a long time, but I still love her and miss her. If you or Sam ever need to talk please do not hesitate to call.

I am so sorry and wish I was there to say goodbye. Please give Dak a kiss goodbye for me and give Sam a kiss of hope for me. You are such a great mom and I am sure Dak will watch over you. He has always been your angel and I am sure God has many plans for Dak. I will keep you in my prayers and I hope to speak with you soon. Love Ya!

Love,
Andrea
Andrea Gay <LovingThisLife@hotmail.com>
Boca Raton, FL USA - Thursday, January 11, 2007 8:50 AM CST

LANETTE AND FAMILY
MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. I KNOW GOD TOOK DAKOTA WITH OPEN ARMS, AND HE IS A ANGEL LOOKING DOWN ON HIS FAMILY NOW. WHAT A STRONG YOUNG MAN HE WAS TO GO THRU SO MUCH.

TERRY JOYNER, CHASE AND CHELSEA JOYNER

TERRY JOYNER
CHASE AND CHELSEA JOYNER
TERRY JOYNER <TJOYNER@RSGCHARLOTTE.COM>
LAKE WYLIE, SC YORK - Thursday, January 11, 2007 8:26 AM CST

Lanette, Samantha, & family,

Dakota was an inspriation to us all and will be missed terribly. Please know that you are in my heart, thoughts, & prayers.

Soar high with your angel wings sweet Dakota!

Karen Kemmerer
Lake Wylie, SC USA - Thursday, January 11, 2007 8:02 AM CST

Lanette-I will miss that special young man. He gave me far more than I ever gave him. Dakota taught me so much about love, giving and living. Every visit from Dakota left us with a glow that lasted all day. The bond between you was beautiful to see. He was lucky to have you. You made the end of his life meaningful for him. I am so grateful to have been a small part of his life. He was the bravest person I've ever known. He truly lived and made a difference in this world. I'll remember him always. I pray you and your family find comfort and peace. Dee
Dee Kridel <deekridel@carolina.rr.com>
Marvin, NC USA - Thursday, January 11, 2007 7:09 AM CST

I am so so sorry for your loss. He was your angel and always will be. We had a bit of snow here yesterday - just light soft flurries. May memories comfort you, and God surround you in all his healing light and love. Dakota was and is a beautiful soul...

God bless you all,
Laurie - Angel Wings
Belford, NJ USA - Thursday, January 11, 2007 6:38 AM CST

Lannette,

I know there isn't anything to say that can make it better but I want you to know that I will never forget Dakota and his journey. It has been my pleasure to get to "know" you and Dakota via the internet. You are an amazing mother.

With love,
Jennifer Pochy, m/o Angel Sarah <jpochy@cfl.rr.com>
Merritt Island, FL - Thursday, January 11, 2007 6:04 AM CST

Dear Lannette and family

We are so sorry for your loss of Dakota, our hearts are crying with you.
Love from Marina and Teijo
Marina Gunell <marina.gunell@netikka.fi>
Vasa, Finland - Thursday, January 11, 2007 5:17 AM CST

I'm so very sorry for your loss. What a beautiful boy. Please know you're all in my prayers.
Terry Snyder (Angel Jalen's "Am-Maw") http://www.caringbridge.org/fl/jalen <vix207@aol.com>
West Palm Beach, FL - Thursday, January 11, 2007 5:06 AM CST

I am so sorry for your loss. Your fmily is in my prayers. Dakota was a true hero.
Jennifer Iljazi Angel_Wings <jzee1664@optonline.net>
- Thursday, January 11, 2007 4:12 AM CST

Lannette,
I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful boy. As always your family is in my prayers. I thank God that Dakota's passing was peaceful and that he has such a wonderful strong mother.
Mira, mother to Dominic
Limerick, Ireland - Thursday, January 11, 2007 3:51 AM CST

Praying right now for your family!
Rom.8:16-18: The Spirit itself beareth witness with our spirit, that we are the children of God: And if children, then heirs; heirs of God, and joint-heirs with Christ; if so be that we suffer with him, that we may be also glorified together. For I reckon that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us.
The Prayer Bears Website
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Thursday, January 11, 2007 1:42 AM CST

Thank you Jesus for taking Dakota home where he should be!

Jeaners (one's who care)
- Thursday, January 11, 2007 0:56 AM CST

My thoughts and prayers are with you Lannette. I feel very blessed to have known Dakota.
Amy <amycvp@comcast.net>
Charleston, SC - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 11:37 PM CST

Lannette, I just read your email and I am so sorry. Dakota was such a special kid and he will forever be in my heart. How blessed you all were to have such an amazing boy in your lives - I'm just sorry that it was for far too short a time. He was so brave and I know you must be so very proud of him. May God hold you tightly in His grasp and send His angels to bring you comfort.

Fly free, sweet Dakota...thank you for touching my life, buddy.
With sympathy and prayers, Candy Belanger <zacheric02@msn.com (Audrey's Umbrella)>
Livonia, MI www.braintrust.org/audrey - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 11:11 PM CST

Lannette, I found your site through a friends caringbridge site. You and your family are in my prayers, so sorry to hear of your loss. We will continue to pray for all of our little warriours out there just trying to be kids. Chris
www.carlysteam.com
Chris <christinemckay@gmail.com>
temecula, ca usa - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 10:38 PM CST

My heart in broken for you and your family and happy that Dakota is now pain free. My prayers are with you all.
Angela <campbell042001@msn.com>
- Wednesday, January 10, 2007 10:18 PM CST

Dear Lannette,
The love remains forever- like a timeless gift.
Thinking of you and your family,
Brenda and Lauren

Brenda and Lauren
Charlotte, NC - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 10:07 PM CST

Lanette, Ted, and Samantha,
I would first like to extend my deepest sympathies to you during this time of grief. I am saddened by the loss of Dakota, but I think the fact that he fought this horrible disease for so long can be taken as inspiration to us all. I remember about a year ago, my brother Chris and I took Dakota and Sam bowling because we knew he was ready to get out of the house and have some fun. We arrived at Liberty Lanes in Gastonia just to realize that they were overpacked and we'd have to wait two hours, and Dakota, even with all he had been through, was understanding and didn't have a problem with not being able to bowl there. We were so moved by his understanding that we took him out to AMF at Franklin Square, just so he could still have his fun night out. We knew he was tired, but he tried to hide it and never complained while we were out. I think this is something I'll have to hold on to and can use to remember him by, just as we all have memories of his remarkable character. He'll be missed down here and welcomed into Heaven.
With much love and sympathy,
Adam Strickland
Adam Strickland <earlsgreenacre@bellsouth.net>
Clover, SC - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 9:48 PM CST

please know I am with you in spirit since I can't be their and hug you in person. Can't wait to see you in Vegas BABY. Love you mean it sandy
Sandy
richland, wa - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 9:39 PM CST

Lanette,
On a lighter note, WHEN the STEELERS win the SUPER BOWL in 2008 we will know why!!!
I hope that made you smile..

BJ BAcha <supervintage1980@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 9:37 PM CST

Lannette,
I am so sorry for the loss of Dakota. I will keep you in my prayers. It seems so unfair that you have to go through this. You are a very strong woman - I don't know how you do it. May you have God's peace,
Stephanie Hickey from the PBT list
Stephanie Hickey <thorboy49@verizon.net>
IN - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 9:22 PM CST

Our prayers are for peace and strength for all of you. You don't know us, but we are friends of Jackie Hill's in KY. Dakota and your family are an inspiration to everyone. We are so sorry for your loss...
Susan and 11 y.o. daughter Rachel <sueleesnews@hotmail.com>
Murray, KY - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 9:09 PM CST

You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Dennis, Donna, & Lacy Bowers <lacyb@comporium.net>
Lancaster, SC USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 9:02 PM CST

Dearest Lannette,

There are just not enough words to express my deepest sympathy to you. I know you knew this was coming, and oh, I've never witnessed such a great bond of love between you and Dak.

Thanks so much for sharing your journey of HOPE with us all on the PBT list. You have the biggest heart, and I feel like I know and love Dak from all you have written so beautifully.

Yes, He is now in the presence of Jesus, receiving all his rewards!! Heaven rejoices!!

I'll keep you in prayers for the days, weeks, and months to come.

I hope Dak got to have fun with the snow I sent him!! My kids thought it was pretty "cool". Now, he'll experience all the joys his heart has ever desired.

Keep holding on Lannette, and let us be here for you,

Susan
Jordan <Susan2956@yahoo.com>
With many prayers and tears tonight................................, - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 8:51 PM CST

Lannette and Family:
Thank you for allowing us at PBT Angels to share Dakota's journey. The peace who have Lannette is a peace that only God can give you, may it sustain in these next days. Dakota was so lucky to have you as his mother, and I know that you feel even luckier to have had Dakota as your son.

I will keep you, and the other families still struggling this tough road, in my prayers.
Romelle Lysenko, Mom to Scott, www.caringbridge.org/nj/scottlysenko
Somerset, NJ USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 8:49 PM CST

Lynnette, Our prayers are with you and your family, Trust in God and he will walk you through this path. We love you Leon and Angela
Angela Langford <leon@emfcharlotte.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 8:47 PM CST

Lannette,

Sending love and prayers your way. My mom and I have been in tears all day. Dakota had such a special place in our hearts, along with you.

Praying for you,
Melina, Levi's mom <melina_mayo@yahoo.com>
New Castle, VA USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 8:34 PM CST

I just found your website for the first time today. What a special son you were blessed with! I read about your date and I cried because it was so special! Wonderful memories for you. It has to be the most amazing feeling knowing just how much your precious son loved you. What a gift you have been given. He's now truly an angel looking after you forever! Sending you all my love and prayers.
Misty caringbridge.org/nc/ivymeredith <Schiffner4NC@ao.com>
Charlotte, NC - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 8:14 PM CST

Lanette,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We know that Dakota is looking down upon you all and giving you the strength he has shown through the years. He remains and inspiration to Bryson and our whole family. May God bless you all.
Rich, Beth, Bryson and Bailey Bottini <rbottini1@bellsouth.net>
lake wylie, sc usa - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 7:55 PM CST

To the family of Dakota, May the light of each new day lessen your pain and bring you peace. With loving sympathy, Barb
Barb <babogner@earthlink.net>
Mansfield, OHIO USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 7:54 PM CST

God's peace for you at this time of your loss. Blessings on you for being so strong through tough times.

Paul Wold
VIKING, Mn USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 7:45 PM CST

Well,
The entire world thought it would be a girl. All except my husband and Dakota.....Remember he told me if it was a girl, I should just get rid of it! He was convinced I was having a boy, and he was right! We had the ultrasound today and Nurse Jennifer is convinced that Dakota had something to do with this last night. Thought I would let you know! Love,
amy-childlife <adw7374@aol.com>
- Wednesday, January 10, 2007 7:35 PM CST

We are sadden by your loss, may God comfort you during your time of grief. We will continue to pray for your family.
Rick, Robin, Ty & Holly <wmrick@yahoo.com>
Upstate, SC - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 7:29 PM CST

Lanette, I can barely see to type this for the tears streaming down my face. Feeling the pain in my heart for you and your sweet, sweet boy, I can't imagine what you are feeling. No words are adequate now. I am at a loss. No mother should have to go through this. I so admire your strength and faith. I know that Dakota is playing in the snow with the angels laughing and smiling that beautiful smile of his. All my love and prayers, Brigette
Brigette and Katie Deville <brigedev@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, January 10, 2007 7:24 PM CST

Lannette - there are no words for a mother at this time, just know we are very sorry, yet happy he can rest in peace. Sending thoughts and prayers your way.

Barbara, Ed and Erik Simao (www.caringbridge.org/sc/eriksimao) <bsimao@bellsouth.net>
Summerville, sc - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 7:11 PM CST

I'm soo sorry guys..i know this is a hard time and all!
just wanted to let ya'll know i love ya'll all!
i love you guys!!
Heather Coulter <chickenimgunnaeatyou69@yahoo.com>
clover, sc us - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 6:35 PM CST

We are so sorry for your loss.
Robert, Lynn, Kennedy, and Dylan
Clover, sc usa - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 6:32 PM CST

I'm so sorry for the loss of Dakota. We'll be praying for peace for you and your family.
The Setzers <dsetzer@27seconds.com>
Columbia, MD USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 6:16 PM CST

I am very sorry to hear about your loss. i knew samantha i had a class with her last year. i met dakota at prom and instantly fell in love with him he is so kind hearted and a very nice person. your family is in our prayers.
lauren <cntrybumkin07@aol.com>
clover, sc us - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 6:09 PM CST

I am crying as I read your journal. I know I'm a stranger to your family and situation, but my prayers are for you. May the Lord's grace and peace keep you.

Grace to You,

Stephanie
TX - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 6:00 PM CST

I just wanted you to know how touched I have been by your relationship with Dakota. I have been and will continue to pray for you and your family.
chris Kummer <dccb@bex.net>
toledo, oh - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 5:41 PM CST

Lannette and family
Just wanted you to know that we have you in our thoughts and prayers. My heart goes out to you Lannette. Dakota's story has touched so many lives. He was an absolute angel.
Sending lots of Love and Prayers
Chris and Trista

Chris and Trista Long <Chris-Trista@att.net>
Fairmont, Wv 26554 - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 5:34 PM CST

Thank you for sharing your son with me. What a wonderful mother you are. You are so strong. He is such a wonderful young man.

Melissa
http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/taryngrodhaus
Melissa Grodhaus <mgrodhaus@neo.rr.com>
Winona, oh united states - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 5:32 PM CST

Lannette and family,
I pray that you will allow God to carry you through this time and that he wil mend your broken hearts.
You have given all of us on the PBT list such inspiration and hope, hope of a better day with our Lord. You have taught me as I await our MRI next week that know matter how things turn out for my baby that he will be okay-thank you for that gift.
God Bless-

Jennifer Darlington <jenniferdarlington@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, January 10, 2007 5:30 PM CST

Lannette and family, there are no words to say except that I'm keeping you in my prayers. I heard a preacher say that "the peace that God gives is in the inside when there is turmoil on the outside" I pray that you continue to experience this peace that He gives. Dakota was a wonderful young man and impacted so many lives; he will NEVER be forgotten, but will truly be missed. Please know that many people are holding you in there prayers.
Jenna Dye <jenna_dye2001@yahoo.com>
clover , sc usa - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 5:22 PM CST

We are keeping you in our prayers.So sorry.with love,laurie,kim,julie
laurie mcdonald <leigh1961@hotmail.com>
york, sc usa - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 5:02 PM CST

I LOVE YOU!

Annie <ac64702@appstate.edu>
Boone, NC - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 4:14 PM CST

lannette im prayingm for you and your family i havent posted on here till today i have been reading your journals everyday though iam so sorry for your loss i cant imagine what you are going thru just know im here for you iam on this goups that angel jen hasm called sunshineoneagelswings we all are praying for you and your family
with deepest sympathy
connie

http://www2.caringbridge.org/ga/connie/ <cti25635@charter.net>
flowery branch, Ga usa - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 4:04 PM CST

I came to say that you are being prayed for - but I find that your strength, courage and faith uplift me and make me want to get closer to Jesus. Those who suffer the most give the most help to others. Prayers for the journey to be bearable.
Diane
- Wednesday, January 10, 2007 3:54 PM CST

Please know that even people that have never met you are praying for your family. We are very good friends of Erik Zimmerman's family and they told us about Dakota. We are very sorry about your loss.
The Hepburn Family <kdhep@verizon.net>
Ringoes, NJ USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 3:47 PM CST

Dear Lanette,
I have followed your journaling of your beautiful son now for several years. Thank you for sharing him with me. What a blessing he was and is! Please know that you are loved and we are praying for you!

"God blesses those people who grieve. They will find comfort!"
Matthew 5:4
Bebe Troppoli
Charlotte, - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 3:42 PM CST

Lannette,

I'm sorry to hear that your precious boy is no longer with you. I've followed along on PBT and my girls made snowflakes that were to go in the mail tomorrow . . . Dakota will now have all the snow he wants and the joy of playing in it. You have been such an inspiration as you have shared your journey with us.
Susan, m/o Katie & Kelly <btschools@comcast.net>
Glen Allen, VA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 3:41 PM CST

Please know our prayers are with you at this time. I am so sorry to hear of Dakota's passing.
Love, Tracy and
Katia (a.k.a. "The Ladybug")
Fighting leukemia AML with a vengence!
Sharing Hope on the Wings of a Ladybug

Tracy and Katia <tmsol87@aol.com>
- Wednesday, January 10, 2007 3:29 PM CST

Soar sweet Angel Dakota. Praying for you and your family.
Kathi (Angel Wings) <klscroggins2000@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, January 10, 2007 3:22 PM CST

Lannette and Family, So sorry for your loss. Dakota's candle of light will always be in your eyes and heart.
God Bless You
Patty's Mom and Melissa's gamma
Patti Hughes <Villagespatti@aol.com>
The Villages, Fl usa - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 3:17 PM CST

Never has there been anyone so courageous as Dakota Gay.
We Love and miss you.

Justin Mychals and Family
Justin Mychals <justmychal@aol.com>
- Wednesday, January 10, 2007 3:10 PM CST

lanette and family,
words alone can not express how sad i was when i heard the news this morning. i had the honor of having dakota in my class at clover jr high a few years ago, right around the time my wife was going through her breast cancer radiation and chemo. i can not begin to tell you how much of an impact he had on me and the students that were also in the class. his ability to discuss his condition and to educate the students about the the journey he had been through to that point touched us all. i know he will be missed but i also hope you find grest pleasure in knowing that you raised a very strong and courageous young man that will forever be remembered by all who had the opportunity to get to know him.
Chris Curtis-coach/shop teacher <curtis@clover.k12.sc.us>
clover, sc usa - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 3:00 PM CST

Dear Lannette, Ted and Samantha,

Michele, the boys and I are all sadened by the loss of our beautiful, loving Dakota. He was such a sweet boy and was always a joy to be around. Our loss is now God's gain, for He has a new sweet and joyful little angel in heaven who will be there waiting to greet us someday. We love you all very, very much!
The Kester family <TxMarine8412@aol.com>
Parker , TX USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 2:48 PM CST

Lanette,
As I read all the beautiful entries people have written to you and Ted it makes me feel good to know there are caring people in the world. Prayer is the best thing. I pray that god helps you through this difficult time and can assure you that he has Dakota wrapped in his loving arms. Peace be with you. Nicole

Nicole Yandle <colebean29@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 2:44 PM CST

Lannette, Ted and Samantha

Please accept our deepest sympathy in your loss. We will miss Dakota very much. Please take comfort in the fact that he is truly with God and not hurting anymore. Lynette you are a remarkable person and a wonderful mother. God Bless you and your family.
Greg, Toni, Tiffany, Joshua and Justin Barnes <tbarnes@dot.state.nc.us>
Clover, SC USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 2:40 PM CST

Lannette and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. The world has lost an amazing young boy who, in 15 years, by just be being who he was, brought more people together and taught them life lessons, than some of us will do in many years. God be with you during this time, and give you strength and peace.
jeane moore <jeanehornemoore@yahoo.com>
gastonia, nc - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 1:52 PM CST

Light a candle for Dakota:
http://dakotacandle.notlong.com

Prayers and love for all of you.
Kathleen, mom to Steven and aunt to angel Kyra
San Diego, CA USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 1:46 PM CST

I am so sorry to hear of Dakota's passing. I am praying for your family.
Hugs,
Ann Watts/Angel Wings <bubbasoldlady@cebridge.net>
Jacksonville, AR USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 1:28 PM CST

Lanette -- I am so sorry to hear of Dakota's passing. Your entries on the PBT website have been inspiring as you write of your love for this special boy and even in your pain you never fail to ask for prayer for all those who are fighting this brain tumor monster. Dakota and you were blessed by each other. Now he is free of pain and in the arms of his Savior, who has been saving a special place for him. God entrusts these children to us for the time that He decides, and no one could have fulfilled that trust better than you with precious Dakota. I could go on and on but just wanted you to know that you are thought of.

Carol Moore, m/o Caroline
optic/hypothalamic glioma
Carol Moore <carol_moore@hna.honda.com>
Huntington Beach, CA USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 1:24 PM CST

Dear Lannette,
I have never lost a child, but I have lost people close to
me. I know it will be hard, but try to remember the good memories that Dakota left with u. Maybe it will be a little
easier as the days go by. I want u to know that Dakota and yourself will always be in my thoughts and prayers.

If u ever need to talk, I want u to know that I will always be here. I will always remember Dakota's smile.
((((((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))))))))))))
LoveEileen OnesWhoCare, Angel_Wings
Eileen
USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 1:22 PM CST

I wish to express my condolences to the family of Dakota. I know that the death of a child is very grievious. However, I know that God will give the family and friends a great peace and a great comfort that can not be taken away.
Beejay(SOEW).
beejay
Tulsa, Ok - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 1:18 PM CST

My classes at Crowders Creek and I were saddened by the news we heard this morning. We had a moment of silence for Dakota. His courage and fight will remain as an inspiration for each of us. Our class sent laminated snowflakes to him last week. I'm so thankful we were able to share in even a small way a part of his life. Thank you for sharing all that you have been through with us. God be will you all.
Penny McClure <pmcclure@clover.k12.sc.us>
Lake Wylie, SC USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 1:14 PM CST

To the Family of Sweet Dakota,
Praying for peace and comfort for you all. Lifting you up in prayer. Fly high sweet Dakota! Heaven has gained a most amazing Angel. Praying for you all.
Chrissy/Angel_Wings <cvanberkum@yahoo.com>
Vermillion, SD - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 1:00 PM CST

We are so sorry for your loss....your family is in our prayers.
Pat A_W www.caringbridge.org/visit/katehrischuk <denimlover@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, January 10, 2007 12:49 AM CST

Thank you so much for sharing your son's life and journey with us. I believe I speak for many parents who have children that are severely ill -- we need lessons on how to deal with potential loss and unimagineable pain. I have learned so much from you and am grateful that I was notified of your son's website. Please find strength in the knowledge that you are not alone, and that you have many people in your fan club that you are not even aware of. Your son must have been an incredible person, and you are an unbelievable mom!
Marta Blumberg <knitintune@hotmail.com>
Watchung, NJ USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 12:38 AM CST

You are in the thoughts and prayers of my family and my church. I have no words to express how sorry I am for your loss. I'm so sorry your baby is no longer on this earth with you, but I know he is with you always.
Leslie Southerland <leslie.southerland@cms.k12.nc.us>
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 12:34 AM CST

Dear Lannette,

I am so deeply sorry for your loss of Dakota. But, you said it right. He is with His Creator now and is complete in Him! We who are left on this earth are the ones who grieve, but it is a celebration for Dakota, having reached his final destination, to be held in the arms of Jesus Christ! You are an inspiration for us all! God's blessings to you.
Patti <PatriciaOB@msn.com>
- Wednesday, January 10, 2007 12:31 AM CST

You are in my prayers just like
everyday, but today is different.
I love Dakota. I was touched
by his lively spirit. He is in
heaven now-no more suffering.
The little angel has gone home.
He will always be in my thoughts.
Samantha I am thinking of you too.
You have so many beautiful memories.
Hold on to them forever. What a love
you all had for one another. Some families
live together for a looooong time and never
become as close as you all were.

See you soon.

Mrs. Gail West-Keyboarding Instructor CJHS <gailgowest@yahoo.com>
Clover, SC USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 12:28 AM CST

im so sorry please know im thinking of you an your family
Jay Angel_Wings <lovebabysnugles@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, January 10, 2007 12:27 AM CST

Thank You Jesus for loving Dakota and for bringing him home to be with You. Take care of his sweet family. Give them strength and peace and comfort. Amen!

I am very sorry to read of your terrible loss. I am praying for you!
Lis Geoghegan/angel Wings <liveinspirit@aol.com>
Cabot, AR - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 12:22 AM CST

Lannette,
Oh honey i am so,so sorry for your loss!Dakota was such
a special young man and so,so loved it's been a huge honor
to visit his site and pray for him and your family and from
the bottom of my heart i thank you for sharing Dakota with
us and giving us all the chance to love him..
Fly high with the angels sweet Dakota fly high with the
angels..
Trish/ Angel_Wings <Kngboyer@aol.com>
Kingston, TN USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 12:17 AM CST

you know I love you and, loved your dakota..will never forget him, or how much you love him forever. sending all the strength that the air can carry..

Mary alice dorschel pbt list, mom of Lizzie, age 14, germ cell BT <jay.dorschel@verizon.net>
suffolk, VA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 12:17 AM CST

Dear sweet Mommy of Dakota ALWAYS! Your words bring such heartache and I hurt so badly for you. This is just the hardest time ever. You prayed for the right things; you mommied him the very best way. Dakota is free now and will always be with you; when you love, you have everything. While Dakota took a part of you with him, he left a part of himself with you; when you reunite some day, you will make each other whole again. So very sorry for this loss yet so thankful that it was peaceful for everyone. Hugs,
Cheryl/Angel_Wings
MD - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 12:17 AM CST

I never had the chance to formally meet dakota, but i know he touched so many lives. Lanette, you are such an inspiration to me. You are a stong woman! I know you will find a way to honor dakota that will continue to touch others lives. Thank you for sharing your life with everyone else. We have shared in your joy and in your pain. I will continue to pray for you. God Bless You.
ashley walkowiak <joeashwak@yahoo.com>
clover, sc - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 12:16 AM CST

Lannette, I will keep you in my prayers and I am happy that you are at peace. Dakota is an inspiration.
Juneta redman m/o Justice age 7 dx 7/21/06 <itsrealbiz@yahoo.com>
moorefield, wv usa - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 12:15 AM CST

Oh My God...you precious people. I am so sorry for your loss. There are no words to make you feel better, but only God can give you the peace you need now. I just recently lost my mother to this evil disease (at 55yrs) so I feel your pain. Even though I didn't know you personally, my heart aches for you. My prayers and deepest sympathy, Carla Parton (sis-n-law to Todd Knight Crowders Creek Elem)
Billy and Carla Parton and family <billysdoll04@yahoo.com>
Kings Mtn, NC USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 12:14 AM CST

Lannette: we are sorry for your loss. After following Dakota's story for so long we are going to miss hearing about him. Like you we take comfort knowing he is about to live a life free of pain & hospital visits. Dakota will cont to live on in the hearts & minds of aso many he has touched.
Charlene & Becky/Ones Who Care Angel_Wings H&H and Dabbles & Doodles
Ont. Canada <gcbbunny@sympatico.ca>
- Wednesday, January 10, 2007 12:01 AM CST

I am so proud of Dakota for the fight that he put up. He allowed himself time to touch so many peoples hearts. There is no one that ever met him that will forget him. He will forever be with us. We miss him very much already. Our thoughts and prayers are with you baby. This will be a wonderful celebration of such a wonderful person, that will forever be valued in our lives. We love you! Kate& Bo Legg
Kate Thompson <Jessicakate107@aol.com>
Clover, SC USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 11:49 AM CST

Lannette,
I am so sorry. I got on the site to get your address to send you more snowflakes. I had my second grade class make a bunch so that you could have snow....I so did not think this would happen so soon. (so soon, yet I know he has been suffering so long. It is still too soon.) I have no words, I am just so sorry. I am going to go ahead and send them because you said you might do something with them at his service. I hope that is o.k.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love,
Reca
Reca Thomasson <rmthomasson@cableone.net>
- Wednesday, January 10, 2007 11:42 AM CST

i am so sad 4 u right now i know how ur feeling, from someone who also lost a child to jesus lots of love & prayers from angle brittany graves daddy!Im sure angle britt is with DAK talking and having a blast prayers be with u always "in CHRIST"with love
Timothy Graves <sgraves5@csc.com>
Warrenton , VA 20187 - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 11:29 AM CST

Just wanted you to know how i loved working w/Dakota when he was in 4th grade, he was such a good kid. And i want you to know i am praying for your family.
Beth German
Clover, SC USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 11:29 AM CST

Lannette,
I know exactly how you feel. I did not want my Abbey to suffer in any way, shape, or form. However, it has now been 6weeks and all I can think of, is if I could just hold her, and hear her say mommy one more time. I do not anticipate this feeling going away ever. That is what a mommy is for. My love and prayers to all of your family. If you need to talk, everything is so fresh now. Please call me 610 633 6523
Renee
Renee Rodkey <rodkeyrenee@yahoo.com>
West Chester , Pa USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 11:19 AM CST

My heart goes out to you and I wish I could carry your pain for you. I'm praying God's comfort and peace for you and that you just hang on to God's promises. He never breaks a promise and He has promised we will all be together again with Him and I know that Dakota will be there waiting for you with a big smile on his face.
Rev. Tamara I. Knebel
Hoquiam, Wa USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 11:13 AM CST

Praying that God will surround you with his love and give you some peace. Know he is in a better place and with the angels.
Paula Hamman <phamman27@hotmail.com>
Gastonia, NC - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 11:08 AM CST

Lannette,

I sit here crying with you. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Dak will always be standing by you as your special angel.
Valerie O'Brien from PBT list <mpocgn@yahoo.com>
Norwalk, OH - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 11:05 AM CST

Lannette,
I'm so very sorry for your loss. I just found Dakota's site from Sammi Jean's. Dakota is an amazing young man! You and your family, and all families fighting, are in my prayers.
Vickie Buchanan <vjbuchanan@phillipsmcfall.com>
Edmond, OK - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 11:05 AM CST

I'm sorry for your loss, but am trying to celebrate with you on Dakota's new begining in the house of God.

Lannette, I pray that God gives you strength and direction through all this. A quote I heard once that always got me through tough times was that with Job facing all the loss and pain he did, there was still "Hope for Job like a cut down tree". That even though the tree isn't being used the same way, the things it can be turned into hold just as much hope.

A pray that you find the same hope, that even though you will never be the same that you find hope, strength and peace in this new life.

I'll be praying for you.
Erik Zimmerman's friend,
Kevin Ireland
Ringoes, NJ USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 10:59 AM CST

I am so so sorry for your loss. You don't know me but I know you through another family (ahser's family). I have prayed for akota and prayed that he would go peacefully and with dignity. For that I feel blessed and reassured that the lord himself is in control. Take time to heal. Be good to yourself. I will light a candle in his honor today.
Elaina <elaina@stanfordfam.com>
Fullerton, CA USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 10:49 AM CST

Dearest Lannette...I know this a extremely difficult time for you. For that I am sorry. I am praying for your strength during this difficult time. Just remember ALWAYS..YOU ARE DAKOTAS MOMMA FOREVER. I love you and wish I could help ease this pain...time does help and right now, time drags. Please call me if you need to talk. I LOVE YOU.
With Love, Hugs and Prayers.
Patty
Patty Ragusa <p_ragusa@comcast.net>
Longmont, CO USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 10:47 AM CST

Lannette,
I'm so sorry for your loss, but I'm glad that Dakota is finally at peace and free of pain.
Prayers for Dakota, you and your family...
Margaret (Antonio's mum) from the PBT list
Australia - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 10:46 AM CST

Lannette,
I am so sorry to hear about this, but so happy that Dakota went peacefully. Know that we will think of you often, and your family will always be in our prayers. May you feel God's presence all around you.

With so much love,
Amanda Holman <aholman515@gmail.com>
Coopersville, Mi USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 10:43 AM CST

Lannette, I am so sorry for all you have been through, but know that he is comfortable now and with God.Dakota was lucky to have such a caring and loving mom as it is obvious you are. When I lost my daughter, I started a memorial scholarship in her name and memory through my church.So far we have awarded over $38,000 in her memory. What a great and fulfilling way it has been for us to honor her name and maybe you might just want to do that too in Dakota's name. . We mourned the loss of our child as you are yours, but now she is still reaching out helping other kids go on to collage and the memories of her go on for ever. If, after you have a chance to think, decide that you may want to do this, please feel free to contact me and I would be happy to help you get started. A friend of Erik Zimmerman and Norma Zimmerman.
Barry Davison <Firepolice52@aol.com>
Princeton, NJ USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 10:40 AM CST

Lanette and Ted,
I am so sorry to hear about Dakota. I am happy he is no longer in pain and is now at peace in Heaven. You are in my prayers.
Love,
Karen Hatfield
www.caringbridge.org/visit/isaachatfield
Karen Hatfield <wkhatfield812@yahoo.com>
Coarsegold, CA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 10:37 AM CST

Lanette,
Prayers and thoughts are with your family at this time. What a very amazing child you raised.
Abby Brown (from the brain tumor website) <abby02_84@yahoo.com>
Clyde, Oh - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 10:30 AM CST

Lanette,

I am so deeply sorry to learn of Dakota's passing. He was such a very special boy - I feel so lucky to have known him through your words. You are an inspiration to all of us in the brain tumor world.

So many tears today....

Love and many hugs,
Michelle
Alec's mom
www.caringbridge.org/visit/alecgoldstein
Michelle Goldstein <mich2boys@yahoo.com>
Los Angeles, CA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 10:30 AM CST

Lannette my friend,

I am so sorry to hear of Dak's passing...To know that he is now pain free is the greatest gift of all..Your are an amazing mother and lady..You have taught me so much.. I admire you..Please know I am a phone call away if you need to talk...

Denise
Steven's website
Long Island, NY - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 10:24 AM CST

Lannette,
I'm thinking about you and your family. I cannot imagine the loss you are feeling. Just remember Dakota is happy and cancer free running around like a 15 yr should he is with his daddy. As a mom of a child with cancer I know it has to be so hard to go from your day was all based on him, to now he is not here and what do you do now with time. I just hope in time it gets easier. I'm a phone call away. Dakota was such a special kid. You should be very proud the way you raised him. I love you very much.
Love,
Anita
Anita
Anita Elam <selam46@carolina.rr.com>
matthews, NC usa - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 10:20 AM CST

Lanette & Family,
My prayers are that you find peace in the Lord. It is so reasurring to know that Dakota went peacefully. What a great angel he'll be! Dakota has been an inspiration to me over the past few years. I will always remember Dakota as a sweet and caring 5th grader with a great personality and sparkle in his eye.
Kim Hart <hartk@fort-mill.k12.sc.us>
Tega Cay, SC - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 10:19 AM CST

Dearest Lannette,
I am so sorry, I've been checking and checking and dreading seeing this post, and all I have for you right now is tears and tears. I am so sorry, so very sorry. You have so beautifully shared your heart and your love for your beautiful Dakota with so many of us, I've often said you were one of the very first people I "met" on the PBT list 2 years ago, and I am so grateful for all the ways you've shown me how to be a better mom to my BT kid.

I am so sorry...

I bet Dakota's dad had a big fest all ready for him, a huge gigantic fest.

much love, many tears...
peace,
Kristin, Genna's mom <thecams@earthlink.net>
Warren, NJ USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 10:19 AM CST

Lannette, I am soooo sorry for the loss of your wonderful and magnificent, loving child Dakota. I know that he is now resting, at peace, and very happy in the loving arms of Jesus. He has not left you and he never will. Know that he will always be very happy, and that the Angels are all around him to lovingly care for him. And even better, HE IS HEALTHY!
I said a prayer for God to give you courage and strength, but also for the families of the other children going through this, as you requested. I pray that you will find peace in your heart and hear Dakota's loving whispers in your soul. God Bless you Lannette. Take care of yourself.
COLETTE BERGSMA <colettebergsma1@cogeco.ca>
ST. CATHARINES, ONTARIO CANADA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 10:07 AM CST

I am so very sorry fo your loss. you will all be in my thoughts & prayers....fly free sweet Dakota
michele(nurse in ny)
- Wednesday, January 10, 2007 10:01 AM CST

Lannette,
Your entire family is in my thoughts and prayers this evening. Heaven has gained a beautiful angel who will always be watching over you. People all around the world share in your sadness, and uplift your family in prayers.

Tatiana R.
Kadena Air Base, Okinawa, Japan - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 9:49 AM CST

Lannette and Ted, I am so sad for you, yet so relieved. I can't tell Sam yet, she's having surgery today. I will tell her when we get home. Our prayers and love are with you, my heart is broken....
Ellen and Sammi Robertson PBT Yahoo and www.caringbridge.org/mi/sammijean <Scanmom@hotmail.com>
Wyandotte, MI - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 9:46 AM CST

You dont know me but I am steph Carson's sister. Her son Asher has the same illness so I have been reading up on Dakota's page too. I'm so sorry to hear. I wish I could give you a hug. Im just so not good with saying the right thing. But sending all of your family love.
Melissa Hogan <missi_krush33@yahoo.com>
west allis, wi usa - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 9:41 AM CST

I didn't have the privilege of knowing Dakota, but I taught Samantha Spanish. Please tell her that Mrs. Opperman is thinking of her and praying for her and her family in this difficult time.

Kathryn Opperman <opperman@clover.k12.sc.us>
- Wednesday, January 10, 2007 9:28 AM CST

Lanette,

Dakota's relapse and other recent trials have hit me hard, really hard.

Dakota has always had a really special place in my heart, and that is because of you, thank you for sharing him with us.

And he's the only other kid I know that's Steven's age that loves raw fish, that's gotta be special.

Today my heart has a Dakota-sized hole.

I'm so sorry sweetie, Dakota has the best mother in the world, you are so much in my prayers right now.

Love you,
Kathleen, mom to Steven and aunt to angel Kyra
San Diego, CA USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 9:25 AM CST

My thoughts and prayers are with you. I remember when I taught him in 4th grade- what a wonderful young man!
Sharon Mayo <mayo_rhsc@msn.com>
Rock Hill, SC York - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 9:18 AM CST

My Thought and Prayers are with you and your Family

Nancy Rhinehart (Ashley Nana)
Nancy Rhinehart <bcampbell@petroexpress.com>
Lake Wylie, SC york - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 9:14 AM CST

Dakota will live on, pain-free, in the hearts and memories of those he touched. He did earn those wings, every fraction of them he earned with his strength.

I wish I would have had the pleasure of knowing him through more than a website but I am grateful for having a glimpse into his unique life.

with love,

Sky and Nicole
Sky Fiske <Shefem@aol.com>
Belen, NM USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 9:06 AM CST

My heart is just breaking for you. I will continue to pray for your entire family as well as all the other fmailies that are having to go through their lives fighting this horrible disease. We love you.
Melissa
Burleson, TX - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 9:06 AM CST

dear lannette,

at times such as these, words seem so trite. they certainly can not convey the feeling in my heart....as i would imagine yours too.

i am keeping you close to my heart in the days and weeks ahead. noah just made dakota's snowflakes last night. they are sitting on my desk to be mailed. we are here for you lannette....knowing this day was coming and having it come are two totally different things, i know this. onlist, or offlist.....i will do my best to be here for you.

angel olivia's mother, wendy
www.caringbridge.org/mi/oliviasgrace <mom2olivia@gmail.com>
- Wednesday, January 10, 2007 9:06 AM CST

Lannette and Ted--

I am so sorry for your loss. Dakota was a very special boy and will live long in the hearts of many.
Kathi (Maggie's Mom <kjreca@verizon.net>
Springfield, VA USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 8:55 AM CST

Lanette,
There's no way to imagine how pain you're feeling right now but know that your precious son is no longer feeling any pain.That amazing young man touched so many lives and his courage was an inspiration to us all.The pictures that are posted show so much love and that love will keep you strong.You are a wonderful person and a remarkable mother. God be with you and your family.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Love and Peace,
Ed & Debbie Sullivan
Debbie Sullivan <debbiesullivan@bellsouth.net>
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 8:51 AM CST

LaLa and family, God bless that child and thank God that he is not in anymore pain. I'll be praying for your family as I have through your whole journey!!!
Joyce and Shannon Gardner <princessbsms@yahoo.com>
Clover, SC USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 8:37 AM CST

Lanette..
Dakota has been such an inpiration to us and his presence will be terribly missed. He has left everlasting handprints on my heart. We love you and know that Dakota is a peace ..

Love, Nicole and Kira
Nicole Berkhout <ndberkhout@yahoo.com>
Davidsn, NC - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 8:30 AM CST

LaLa, I met you one time at a cookout at Glenn's house. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Mark and Jennifer Dolive, Emilee and Ashley Parsons
Jennifer Dolive <jenniferjparsons@hotmail.com>
Lake Wylie, SC USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 8:30 AM CST

Lannette, Ted, & Samantha,

I'm so very sorry that Dakota's life has crossed the finish line to life's race. He is so young and it doesn't seem right that he should have finished his race so early. Earth's loss is truly Heaven's gain!

What can a person say? Are there words that are meaningful? How do you express your love in a way that can help a parent's broken heart? All tough questions for which I do not have an answer. I certainly will not say that I know what you are feeling. I do not! Most of 'us' out here do not know that feeling. Is there any way that we can express our love so that it does not offend? I don't know.

Perhaps the best way I can offer encouraging words is to let you know about the influence Dakota has on my life. THAT I do know about! Since becoming involved with Caring Bridge web sites about 3 years ago, I've been constantly amazed at the courage of these young people who face such horrid diseases, illnesses, and a tough path. Young people who are facing more in their young lives than most of us ever will. Tests, scans, needle sticks, ports, surgeries, medicine, chemo, radiation, and the list seems to go on forever. I've not been there during those tests. I would venture a guess that a lot of children, and parents, have faced these circumstances being scared and have shed a lot of tears. But the resounding statement of bravery, determination, and positive attitude, has been the crown that many have worn and do so daily. Yes, Dakota has taught me lessons about living. He has influenced an old man's life. I AM a better person today because a young teen lived his life with all those positive attributes.

I pray that the love of God will surround you today and continue to for every day you live without your son's physical presence. I trust the memories will flood your heart and help fill the emptiness.

May our God comfort you and may we offer our love and support.

In Christian love,
Mr. Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 8:26 AM CST

My thoughts are with you now and for the tough days to come. Dakota will now be telling his angel friends and his dad what a wonderful mom you are...
Be strong
Tasos, father of Lydia, Athens Greece <tasos_p@ilsp.gr>
- Wednesday, January 10, 2007 8:26 AM CST

Bless you and your family for your loss! Although I have not added many comments, I keep up with Dakota's website daily. I first found out about Dakota through my church, Kings Mountain Chapel in York. Then, through my neice and nephew, Holli and Jeremy Sutherland. My sister had a malignant brain tumor removed a few years ago and now she is doing well. I just want you to know that even that I don't personally know you, I know that you are a great Mom! Through your caring words, I have been touched by your situation and amazed at your strength in having to go through such a terrible time in your life! Anything is possible when you have God! I will pray for you and your family and want thank you for your words on this website.
They have helped others in similar situations in more ways than you may ever know!
orenda parker <orenda.parker@yorkcountygov.com>
york, sc - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 8:24 AM CST

I'm so sorry, Lanette, for the loss of your wonderful and much beloved son. I'm glad it was peaceful for him. You are a strong woman and have helped so many. You're the most giving person, and you and Dakota gave so much joy and love to each other, I've found it inspiring and profoundly moving to witness this. My prayers are with you.

Cathy Papayannopoulos (Thanos' mom from PBT) <cathy_p@comcast.net>
Ashland, MA USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 8:23 AM CST

My heart goes out to you....praying....
Steph, Asher's mom
Phoenix, AZ USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 8:10 AM CST

Lala, oh how my heart just aches for you and all the families out there. You my friend, have been such a remarkable woman through this journey. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Anything you need, I'm here. All my love...
Dina Boozer <lakeboozer@bellsouth.net>
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 8:07 AM CST

Lannette,
My heart breaks, rejoices, and is in awe of you! Someone told me when Carly was first dx that God knew the path that she would travel someday, and that is why he chose us to be her parents. He did the same for Dakota! Yes, you are missing him so much, but we rejoice with you in the knowledge that he was welcomed in to heavenly arms of love. Praise the Lord! Please know that your friends are lifting you up in prayer.
Blessings, Val
www.caringbridge.org\visit\carlyhiers

Valerie Hiers <vhiers1@yahoo.com>
Peru, IN US - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 8:07 AM CST

Lannette and family, please accept my condolences. Dakota will NEVER EVER EVER be forgotten and your love for him and his for you will forever be an inspiration to me. God certainly has a SPECIAL new angel, indeed, and something tells me Dakota will never be far from your side.

~Heide
m/o Jessica; 16; aa3

Heide R
Marshall, VA USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 8:06 AM CST

To Lannette and all of Dakota's family,
Dakota was a shining light for so many people and will continue to offer inspiration and hope for others. I knew Dakota for such a short time, and will cherish each moment, each conversation, with him. You are so blessed to have him as a son. We will always remember the beautiful star on top of the Christmas tree, knowing that Dakota is the real star and the real angel! My prayers are with you now and always.

Jennifer and Jay Forrest <forrestj@clover.k12.sc.us>
Clover, SC USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 8:00 AM CST

Dear Lannette, my heart is full with sadness, and I send you my deepest condolences. Dakota is now free of all earthly cares, and I picture him smiling in the most beautiful snow shower. You and your family will be in my constant thoughts and prayers. Love, Linda
linda champa <lachampa@mintz.com (Audrey's Umbrella, www.braintrust.org/Audrey)>
boston, ma usa - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 7:56 AM CST

My heart goes out to you and your family.
May you find peace... Sending you hugs and a whole lot of love from Canada.
Fannie
fannie larouche <flarouche34@yahoo.ca>
Montreal, QC Canada - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 7:55 AM CST

I don't even know where to begin. Lanette, you and your family have been and will remain in my prayers. I was truly blessed to have gotten to know Dakota over the years. I will always remember his sweet smiling face and his talent of telling us his stories. He was the best story teller that I have known. I will never forget when Dakota wrapped himself up as a present for Christmas,the famous Steelers duo and then the day you two dressed up as clowns!! Those are just a few of many great memories that I have of sweet Dakota. You are an amazing woman and I have always admired the courage and strength that you and Dakota have shown. Again, I will continue to pray for your family and rejoice that Dakota is getting his wings!!! We love you!!!
Melissa (Peds Hem/Onc) <melissa.coan@carolinashealthcare.org>
Monroe, NC - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 7:53 AM CST

Lannette, Please know that you are in the thoughts and prayers of the Crowders Creek Family. We are thankful that Dakota is now at peace resting in the arms of Jesus.
We know that you will miss Dakota terribly. We are praying that you will have the strength to get through the coming days.
Millicent Dickey
Clover, SC USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 7:46 AM CST

Prayers from another grieving Mom.

Andrea Breaux, Mom to ^Brayden^- 5 years old

www.caringbridge.org/visit/braydenbreaux
Andrea <ambreaux@yahoo.com>
Larose, LA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 7:45 AM CST

Dear Lannette,Ted,and Sam,
Just wanted to send my condolences to your family. I had the honor of meeting Dakota and your family this past November. I had heard so much about him. He seemed like a pretty remarkable young man. I know how much you love him. Please gather strength in knowing that you have great friends to lean on. My sister Lynn will be there for you, for she truly loved Dakota. I know that she will always cherish the time that she got to spend with him on Monday night. I know that he loved her also. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family....
Teresa Cicala (Glenn) <PDCdancemom@aol.com>
Livonia, MI - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 7:34 AM CST

Surely it is snowing where Dakota is right now, and he can now solve the worlds most difficult Sudoku puzzles. Thinking of you guys and what a true inspiration you have been to us from the beginning. We love you!

Amy-Child Life <adw7374@aol.com>
- Wednesday, January 10, 2007 7:11 AM CST

Some people come into our lives and quickly go.
Some people move our souls to dance.
They awaken us to new understanding
with the passing whisper of their wisdom.
Some people make the sky more beautiful to gaze upon.
They stay in our lives for awhile,
leave footprints on our hearts
And we are never, ever the same.

Lanette & Ted: I hope that you find some comfort knowing that Dakota left footprints on many, many hearts and because of that many of us will never, ever be the same. I will always remember Dakota as one of the biggest Steelers fans in the world. Fly high and proud Dakota - You have fought and won a valiant fight - You have earned those Angel Wings and I'm sure they are Black & Gold!!!

Mary A. Taylor
Love Quilts

Mary A. Taylor <butsie13@aol.com>
Essex, MD USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 7:04 AM CST

To those of us who got to know Dakota whether it may have been brief or long where truly touched by something special... A young man with such a fiery personalty.. I consider my short time a blessing and will always treasure it...
Lanette, God Bless you and your family at this time of sorrow and the celebration of Dakota's life...
Please feel free to call if there is anything I can do..
With all his Love,
BJ BAcha
BJ Bacha <supervintage1980@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, nc USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 7:04 AM CST

Lannette, I am so sorry for Dakota's passing, but so grateful he is happy and pain-free now, and hanging out with his dad - we are so grateful he was waiting for him and welcomed him to his eternal home. Please feel the power of our prayers as you begin to take your new steps in this earthly life, steps that Dakota will be with you in always as you build a new focus on what plan is that God now has for you. God Bless you, and Ted, and hold you very tight today, tomorrow and always. That is His promise. He is with you. Your strong faith WILL carry you through the next days, months and years that lie ahead and those steps that feel so very hard to take right now and we will pray for your strength each and every day.
Terri & Bailey - www.caringbridge.org/mn/baileygrace <terri4design@mac.com>
Ramsey, MN usa - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 6:58 AM CST

Lanette, My heart goes out to you. I will be keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult journey without Dakota..Prayers and Bearhugs Love, Marci The Prayer Bears
http://www.freewebs.com/prayerbears
http://www.freewebs.com/caringcreators

Marci Connell <mac093@bellsouth.net>
Valdosta, GA US - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 6:51 AM CST

Lannette I cant think of words to help you, but thankyou so much for sharing your son with us on this site and the medullo-pnet site. God bless you all.
Jan mum to Emily medulloblastoma 12/02
Jan Phoenix <phoenixjan@hotmail.com>
Wigan, UK - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 6:27 AM CST

My heart goes out to you at this time.I will keep you in my prayers.
Angel Hugs,
Lois Holley (chemo-angels & prayerbears)
Lois Holley <LAHolley@tampabay.rr.com>
Winter Haven, Fl USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 6:21 AM CST

So very sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers.
Floyd
- Wednesday, January 10, 2007 6:09 AM CST

R.I.P. Young MATE. I didnt know you but I wish I had.
Barry Holt <BAZZA1942@BORDERNET.COM.AU>
Bendigo , Vic Australia - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 6:07 AM CST

Fly you sweet boy, fly, fly, fly
Diana Yaggie <yaggie@fmtc.net>
Fort Mill, SC - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 6:06 AM CST

Our Thoughts any Prayers are with you and your Family.
Ashley loved Dakota so much. She is having a
hard time right now but I told her he is not in anymore
pain and he is up there having fun with his Daddy and
Jesus. We have such fun memories of him one I remember
was when him and Ashley was in the 6th grade Ashley
had invinted him to her birthday party at the Bowling
Alley he call and said he want to come but he couldn't
afford a gift so would it be ok if he gave her one of
his cats. Still to this day we laugh about this.

Love and Prayers

Betty Jo, Ashley and Whitney Campbell

Betty Jo Campbell <bcampbell@petroexpress.com>
Lake Wylie, SC 29710 - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 5:58 AM CST

I love you
Donna (Angel Asa's Mama) <aandzmama@yahoo.com>
Tega Cay, SC USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 5:51 AM CST

Lannette - My heart goes out to you and will continue to do so for all the "one more" wishes that you will have. I cannot begin to imagine how you must feel at this time, but I know that Dakota and his Dad will watch over you always! I admire you lady for being all that you are and have been to everyone in your life. Knowing that Dakota is whole again, in his Daddys arms, and getting his wings to continue being "your" angel... My only prayer is that you find peace during this time. God bless you for the amazing example that you, Dakota and Ted are to all the lives that you have touched!
Lisa Borgsteede (Cheryls Sister) <borgsteede63@hotmail.com>
Sumter, SC - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 5:32 AM CST

I have lit a candle for Angel Dakota. Please everyone feel free to go and lite candles for your loved ones.

Click to lite a candle

Angel Jen
SOEW
Angel Jen - SOEW <eaglet@mymacs.org>
Nashville Area, TN USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 5:23 AM CST

Lannette and Family,

So, so sorry for what I have just read. You hold a special place in my heart, you are a great mommy, you will always have that Lannette. May you have peace knowing there is no more pain. I do know how you are missing Dakota already, you are in my prayers!

Lisa, mom of Matthew, forever five
www.caringbridge.org/visit/matthewc1

Lisa Cirincione <Lisacirincione@optonline.net>
- Wednesday, January 10, 2007 5:23 AM CST

Dearest Lannette, Ted and Samantha,
I'am honored that Dakota is in my life, my heart and right down into my soul. His warmth and compassion, his love and wit will forever be branded on my heart. Lannette, my dear sweet friend, you have shown the most unconditional love for your family...and Dakota knows this and will forever be right next to you. I cannot imagine your pain as mine runs so deep for you I know you are at peace because he is now with God and pain free, and cancer free....I know his memories have brought you a lifetime of love...I only wish I was with you to hug you and just hold you. Talk with you soon. I love You.
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@adelphia.net>
Boynton Beach, fl usa - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 5:20 AM CST

Please know that you are still in my prayers. Always remember how many lives Dakota impacted. He sure inspired me in MANY ways! Love ya!
Mr. Knight <knightt1990@netzero.com>
Clover, SC USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 5:20 AM CST

A little snow tag for Angel Dakota.

I wished we could have gotten the snowflakes we made for Dakota to him in time. They were made with love by my sister, Seal and myself.

God bless you,
Angel Jen, SOEW
Angel Jen - SOEW <eaglet@mymacs.org>
Nashville Area, TN USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 5:18 AM CST

I will join with you in being happy that Dak has gone home and is with our Lord. What a beautiful place to be. Lannette is you should need anything from afar Please don't hesitate to call me or e-mail me. I only wish I could be there for you.
Much love to you my friend.
Norma mom to Erik Z
www.caringbridge.org/nj/erikz
Norma Zimmerman <enzimmerman@comcast.net>
Lambertville, nj usa - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 5:05 AM CST

Dearest Lanette & Family,
My heart goes out to you all.
I shared Dakota's story with a group of
Sisters I work with twice a month, and yesterday
they made snowflake ornaments in hope of my
getting them to him to be hung in a window as suncatchers.
I am going to send them to you in his honor and memory.
My heart is with you this morning, as I woke to a light
dusting of snow. Please know Dakota's life made a impression and impact on my life and on my families life,
as I am sure it did with all these folks here also.
I am praying for God's peace and His presence in you
and for all of your family. Know His loving arms are
cradling your child. He is safe, He is loved.
You are a very special woman, and His love will carry you
through. He will give you strength.
In His love always,
Cherie Bacha & family and The Glamour Gals, The Loving Hearts Unit , and Sister of St. Frances we all extend our
most Heartfelt sympathies
Cherie Bacha <Cherie712@comcast.net>
Mckeesport, Pa. U.S.A. - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 4:29 AM CST

Dear Lanette and Family, Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult of times. Now, Dakota is playing in the streets of Heaven.
The Watsons <jwatson1253@nc.rr.com>
Clayton, NC USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 1:58 AM CST

I know that words are inadequate at a time like this, but I hope that knowing that prayers are being said for you and all those that were lucky enough to know and love Dakota will bring you some small amount of comfort. I will also keep everyone fighting serious illness in my prayers, today and every day. Heaven has an amazing little angel and I am sure that he is up there testing out those new wings. Thank you for sharing your precious son with your Caringbridge family.
Lisa
Lynnwood, WA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 1:39 AM CST

Am seeing a lot of posts in the guestbook that are breaking my heart. KNow that your family is in my prayers so very much right now!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Wanted to share a passage from the psalms! These words are so very comforting.
Ps 9:9-10: The LORD also will be a refuge for the oppressed, a refuge in times of trouble. And they that know thy name will put their trust in thee: for thou, LORD, hast not forsaken them that seek thee.
The Prayer Bears Website
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 0:29 AM CST

I JUST CAME ACROSS YOUR SON,S WEB SITE. I AM SO SORRY TO HEAR OF HIS PASSING.I KNOW SOME OF WHAT YOU HAVE GONE THROUGH AND SOME OF WHAT IS STILL TO COME. MY HUSBAND HAS A TERMINAL ILLNESS. OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOURS. FEEL FREE TO CONTACT US ANYTIME.

CHARLINE MULLINAX WITH THE LARRY MULLINAX MINISTRIES <charline@ptsi.net>
PERRYTON, TX USA - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 10:34 PM CST

Lanette, your the strongest woman I have ever met. I am so glad I got to see Dakota last night. He is the bravest young man I know. You, Ted and your family and friends are the most loving and special people. I am so blessed to have all of you in my life and to have met Dakota. I am here for you and your in my prayers. Lindsay and I will miss him dearly.
Jane E. Medler <medlerj@bellsouth.net>
Lake Wylie, SC - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 10:34 PM CST

I have been following Dakota's story and was just thinking of him tonight...I gather from the latest entries that he got his wings tonight. You are all in my prayers...my dear friend's son is dealing with this disease right now and it hurts me so to see so many children hurting.
Much love to your family,

Carrie Smith <cbsmith@lstc.edu>
Chicago, IL USA - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 10:09 PM CST

Lanette & Family, The journey has been long and my heart and thoughts and prayers go out to you tonight. May God surround you with peace and love and hold you strong to deal with his passing tonight and forever. Dakota you will forever be remembered and missed!
Leslie Norris and Girls <leslie.norris@century21.com>
Lake Wylie, SC USA - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 9:52 PM CST

Dakota, i hope you know i love you alot. And as much as this hurts everyone. and as much as everyone misses you, weve all gotta realize youre in a better place. youre not hurting anymore. i wish things could have been different, you were such a strong teenager. You were/are loved by everyone. Youve got a big heart, and we all love you. And know youre looking down on al of us, watching us from the heavens above. You have a special place my heart, and you always will.
With all my love and prayer.
Tiffany Rae Peddy.
Tiffany Peddy
Clover, SC US - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 9:47 PM CST

Dakota is so free right now. No pain, no drugs, no worries at all. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. With all my love
Diana Yaggie <Yaggie@fmtc.net>
Fort Mill, SC - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 9:42 PM CST

I am writing for Vanetta, Dakota's great grandmother. I am her neighbor. Her grandaughter,Lanette, called her & she has asked me to post that Dakota has gone home with Jesus earlier this evening. Her deepest prayers are with her grandaughter and family. Thank you all for the prayers for our little Dakota.
Vanetta Bullard

My prayers are also with Lanette and the rest of the family. I cannot even begin to imagine your pain at the loss of your precious son. My heart goes out to you. Love and prayers,
Jackie Smith

Jackie Smith (for Vanetta Bullard) <sami4jesus@bellsouth.net>
Murray, Ky USA - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 9:41 PM CST

We are so sorry to learn of Dakota's passing. You remain in our prayers.
The Borg Family
Amy Borg <MotherBorg@msn.com>
Valparaiso, IN USA - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 8:57 PM CST

Tuesday at 8pm and we just heard of Dakota's passing.We are so sorry and we will say a prayer.You know that he is in God's hands and he doesn't hurt anymore.May God Bless You and your family. Mike and Louise in Mississippi.
The Winsteads <fishinmike39565@bellsouth.net>
Vancleave, Ms. - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 8:17 PM CST

Please know that our prayers and thoughts have been with you. We pray everyday for you and Dakota. Your strength simply amazes me.
Kathie Hohman
Kathie Hohman <jkcoach98@aol.com>
Spotswood, NJ USA - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 7:28 PM CST

I am a friend of Norma Zimmermans and she asked me to pray for you. My heart is breaking at the thought of what you are facing right now! I can only imagine! You are in my prayers for peace and comfort in the days ahead. Your faith is amazing and a wonderful witness to others. God bless you.
Tracy McClelland <glennmcclelland@comcast.net>
Lambertville, NJ USA - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 7:22 PM CST

Came across from Genna's site -
Prayers for your strength
Diane
Australia, - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 4:59 PM CST

Dakota and family,
I am a friend of Brandon's, and I check on you because I heard about you on his website. We lift you up in prayer tonight.
As a mom of two boys, I cry for all of you. I know God is with you and carrying you all right now.
Leslie Southerland <leslie.southerland@cms.k12.nc.us>
Charlotte, NC 28227 - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 4:47 PM CST

Holding you in prayer today,
sending hugs,
peace,
Kristin, Genna's mom <thecams@earthlink.net>
Warren, NJ uSA - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 4:14 PM CST

Thinking of you.
Aleis Merrill <kevinandaleis@yahoo.com>
Salt Lake City, UT - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 3:50 PM CST

We are thinking of all of you during this time.I saw the rainbows too on Friday afternoon.It was raining and stormy on my way home from work then all of a sudden it cleared up,the sun came out and there they were!Please take care of each other and call if you need anything.Love,Laurie&Kim
laurie mcdonald <leigh1961@hotmail.com>
york, sc usa - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 3:41 PM CST

Dear Dakota, I am praying for you and will light a candle tonight for you, so I can keep you in prayer throughout the night. May God bless you and keep you, as well as your family. Love, Linda
linda champa <lachampa@mintz.com (Audrey's Umbrella, www.braintrust.org/Audrey)>
boston, ma usa - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 3:39 PM CST

Dear Lannette & Dakota,
I wish I could do more for u, but u and Dakota are always in my thoughts and prayers. I can't remember the words that
u used with Dakota but up in heaven he would have no pain.

I hope this snowflake will help u smile a bit.Please feel free to email me any time if u would like to.
(((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
LoveEileen OnesWhoCare, Angel_Wings
Eileen
USA - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 2:36 PM CST

My love and prayers for you Dakota. May God's arms enfold you and may you feel the love of others on your journey home.

You have been a blessing to all of us who have known you. I remember you on when you were in CCElementary - you were always so courteous and fun to be around. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family and friends.
Sherrie Williams - Crowders Creek Elementary <swilliams@clover.k12.sc.us>
Clover , SC USA - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 1:53 PM CST

Dakota,
You have touched more lives than you know! My class at Crowders Creek made snowflakes for you and now feel like they know you too! So few people get the chance to touch as many people as you have! I remember you from my time at the junior high as well-- you are still such a cutie! My husband and I are praying for you and sending you happy thoughts! God Bless your family! You all are miraculously strong and truly an inspiration! May the peace of the Lord be with you! Dakota, LET YOUR LIFE SPEAK. Many have learned and been inspired by you~ be very proud.

Sandi Weaver <weavers@clover.k12.sc.us>
Clover, SC USA - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 1:17 PM CST

Dakota:
& let you know you are in our thoughts & prayers.
Charlene & BECKY/Ones Who Care & Angel_Wings
.,.,.,.,.,.,.,. <cb_withowcandaw@yahoo.ca>
- Tuesday, January 9, 2007 1:00 PM CST

Dakota: Thinking and praying for you sweetheart!

Hugs, Mary A. Taylor
Love Quilts
Mary A. Taylor <butsie13@aol.com>
Essex, MD - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 12:50 AM CST

Thinking of and praying for you today!
Lis Geoghegan <liveinspirit@aol.com>
Cabot, AR - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 12:14 AM CST

I just wanted to leave a note letting you know that I've been praying for you and your family today. I found your site from my friend Erik Zimmerman and have been reading all the back journals, taking time to pray for Dakota and everyone in his life. You are all in my prayers.

Kevin Ireland
Ringoes, NJ USA - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 10:51 AM CST

I just wanted to let you know that I have been keeping you and Dakota in my thoughts and prayers. I met you and Dakota on 7B last year and I will never forget sitting with Dakota and watching Charlie and the Chocolate Factory with him, we had a really good conversation while while we were watching the movie. Dakota is very special. I love that you saw a rainbow outside the window, how amazing, because a rainbow is a sign of God's convenant with us. Sending Love and Prayers,
Amy <amycvp@comcast.net>
Charleston, SC - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 10:23 AM CST

Sending more love and prayers your way...
Tracy Stiff <tracystiff@bellsouth.net>
Lake Wylie, SC - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 9:41 AM CST

May God bring you all peace and love through this time with Dakota. Love remains eternal and nothing can take this away. I am a friend of Erik Zimmerman's whose mom asked us all to pray for Dakota and his family. God be with you.
Adele Lewis <alewis@hcrhs.k12.nj.us>
Blakeslee, PA USA - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 8:50 AM CST

Dakota and family,
I have just recently come across Dakota's story, and cry whenever I read your entries. I have two sons that I love, and as a mom, I feel your pain. Dakota is a beautiful boy, and your are an extremely lucky mom. You obviously did a wonderful job raising him, and he loves you so much.
My sons, 11 and 13, know of Dakota, and they, too, cry over his illness. They know that they are blessed, and they see the blessings in your son's life, too.
Please know that even strangers care.
Sending, love, strength and prayers,

Linda ZP
Orland Park, IL - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 7:57 AM CST

Hi Dakota and family, Thinking of you today. God Bless you all.
Mrs. Grana
- Tuesday, January 9, 2007 7:34 AM CST

Hi Dakota & Lanette,
I read your most recent entry~how awesome a bald eagle
and 2 rainbows.....God is very near.It is my prayer
you keep that peace within your heart to carry you
through these days.
You are close at hand in my thoughts & Prayers,
Cherie Bacha & family
Cherie Bacha <Cherie712@comcast.net>
McKeesport, Pa. U.S.A> - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 4:20 AM CST

I just wanted you to know that you and Dakota are in my thoughts and prayers.
Melanie Whitesell <reidml@hotmail.com>
Rock Hill, SC - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 1:52 AM CST

I just wanted to let you know that you and your family are in my prayers.
Leah (SOEW) <star4ever16@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, January 9, 2007 1:19 AM CST

No matter what happens in this life, the victory is already won!
I Jn 5:4-5: For whatsoever is born of God overcometh the world: and this is the victory that overcometh the world, even our faith. Who is he that overcometh the world, but he that believeth that Jesus is the Son of God?
The Prayer Bears Website
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 0:13 AM CST

I'm glad you're being showered with snowflakes to remind you that you're surrounded by loving thoughts from all over the country. I know my boys and I had fun making the ones we sent and you were definitely on our minds the entire time we were working on them. I bet Dakota's room looks amazing...I hope he's able to feel the love that came along with each and every flake.

I'm sending warm, comforting hugs to you tonight and praying for you without ceasing.
Hugs & love from Candy Belanger <zacheric02@msn.com (Audrey's Umbrella)>
Livonia, MI www.braintrust.org/audrey - Monday, January 8, 2007 11:46 PM CST

Hi,
I just want you to know I am thinking about you and praying for you. I am on the pbt board, I just don't post very often.
What a lucky boy to have such a wonderful mom!
Take Care,
Reca
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- Monday, January 8, 2007 10:34 PM CST

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- Monday, January 8, 2007 8:09 PM CST

Hey everybody,Want you to know that you are in our prayers and deep in our hearts 24-7.I love the snowflake idea!Please take care of yourselves and call if you need anything.I mean it-ANYTHING.you too Lisa and Rick.I wish I had the strength that comes through your journal,Lanette.Hold on to it.We love you.Laurie&Kim
lLaurie Mcdonald <leigh1961@hotmail.com>
york, sc york - Monday, January 8, 2007 7:57 PM CST

I learned of Dakota from my grandson Asher Carlson's website and put a few snowflakes in the mail today. May God hold you all close each day and continue to send proof of his awesome love.
Eunice Nygard <nygarde@cox.net>
Alexandria, VA USA - Monday, January 8, 2007 7:21 PM CST

I got your link from Brandon's website (I work w/ his Dad). My daugther, Abby and I are praying for you all.

Martha & Abby Sikora
Martha
Charlotte, NC USA - Monday, January 8, 2007 6:47 PM CST

Dak, Sorry that I didn't get to see you today. You were asleep when I stopped by and I didn't want to disturb your beauty rest!!! HA HA You are a BEAUTIFUL young man no matter what! Thank you for inspiring me throughout the course of the years I've known you.
I pray that GOD will wrap you in his LOVING arms and embrace you tightly! Keeping you in my constant thoughts and prayers! LOVE YOU!!!
Mr. Knight <knightt1990@netzero.com>
Clover, SC USA - Monday, January 8, 2007 6:34 PM CST

Sending lots of love and prayers from England. Lanette, I'm thinking of you and Dakota all the time. I hope you are getting some rest yourself.
Sarah <sarahchacko@blueyonder.co.uk>
UK - Monday, January 8, 2007 5:14 PM CST

Thinking of you today, praying a lot...
Genna was sick yesterday, and wanted to pray for Dakota--
you are so much in our hearts.
peace,
Kristin, Genna's mom <thecams@earthlink.net>
Warren, NJ USA - Monday, January 8, 2007 3:29 PM CST

You are in our prayers and thoughts.We are kin.My mother is Homer's sister.
Mike & Louise Winstead <fishinmike39565@bellsouth.net>
Vancleave, Ms. USA - Monday, January 8, 2007 3:09 PM CST

Your strength is amazing! You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers, God bless you.
Ashley Walkowiak <joeashwak@yahoo.com>
clover, sc usa - Monday, January 8, 2007 2:17 PM CST

My friend's two-year old son was just diagnosed with brain cancer, which brought me to your blog. I am absolutely amazed at the strength and never ending faith you have throughout this most difficult time. I really don't know what to say other than I am SO sorry that you are going through this and that I will make sure to add you to my prayer list.
Marci <marcibranderhorst@yahoo.com>
Zeeland, MI USA - Monday, January 8, 2007 2:03 PM CST

We love you. Lanette, Zoe and I would love to come visit, but also know how hectic your lives are. Please, please call me when it would be OK to come over. I'm off this weekend so, even at a moments notice....let me know. Give Dakota a great big hug for me. Zoe and I will have to try our hand at Snowflakes this evening, (usually mine suck). Love and wots and wots of hugs.

Donna (Angel Asa's Mama) <aandzmama@yahoo.com>
Tega Cay, SC USA - Monday, January 8, 2007 12:56 AM CST

Dakota and Family - My prayers are with you. I am a friend of Erik Zimmerman and family, that is how I found your beautiful web page.
Susan Gherardi <bycarpet@aol.com>
Ringoes, NJ USA - Monday, January 8, 2007 12:44 AM CST

Dakota and Lanette and family,
My heart and prayers are with you.
Prayers and Hugs,
LeAnn/SOEW
http://www.caringbridge.org/ga/annettelee
LeAnn Mooneyham <angel4God352000@yahoo.com>
Baxley, GA United States - Monday, January 8, 2007 10:48 AM CST

Lanette~ you have such amazing strength. Your faith has given me an increase in faith and I have been keeping you, Dakota,and the whole family in my thoughts and prayers! Hugs and Blessings
Jeaners (One's Who Care)
- Monday, January 8, 2007 9:45 AM CST

Love YOu Guys! A prayer for peaceful rest and dreams of snowflakes. God Love You.
Justin Mychals <justmychal@aol.com>
- Monday, January 8, 2007 9:27 AM CST

I pray that The Good Lord keeps Dakota always in His loving arms, within His reach, so that his family knows that he will be happy and well, and loved for eternity, with God Himself. Nothing could be more of a joyous occasion!
COLETTE BERGSMA <colettebergsma1@cogeco.ca>
ST. CATHARINES, ONTARIO CANADA - Monday, January 8, 2007 8:57 AM CST

Hi. I feel deeply for you and know that you have God in your heart. I too lost a child. My daughter was fifteen when she was riding her bicycle and was struck by a car. There was something that happened that I can relate too with you. The rainbow. I also saw a rainbow after her death. Gods way of saying I love you and I am with you. I remember also sitting outside on that June night and talking to God and telling him that I prayed that he took her in his arms. And guess what? A very bright shooting star flashed across the heavens in front of me. Wow! What a message He sent. We are all with you in Prayer.
Barry Davison <firepolice52@aol.com>
Princeton, NJ USA - Monday, January 8, 2007 8:43 AM CST

Hi Dakota,

I'm not very good at making things so how about I send you a virtual snowflake? This snowflake is just big enough to be seen with the eye, and small enough to show the detail that God put into it. Light just beams from every direction and with incredible colors. If you hold it up to the sky, you can see through it and at the same time see a dazzling light show. The tiny intricate crystals seem to go in every direction. This is a very special snow flake because it doesn't melt lying between your fingers. If you place it among other snow flakes, it seems to make them even more beautiful.

This virtual snow flake reminds me of our Lord. Jesus is magnificient. To look at him would be inspiring. If he is placed around others, he seems to make them even more awesome. And just like this virtual snow flake that never melts, Jesus is a presence that never leaves.

Open up your heart and fill it with a Lord who loves you. Let Jesus shine through you. Allow him to use your life to bless others.

"Lord, thank you for all that you do, all that you are, and all that we can be through you. Bless our lives that we may show others how majestic you are. Bless Dakota by radiating through his heart and reaching the many who are part of his life. Please comfort him and allow him to feel your presence. Through Jesus, Amen."

I love you!
Mr. Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Monday, January 8, 2007 8:29 AM CST

Thinking and praying for you! Wishing you peace in the Lord's name.

Melissa Hults-Mokros
Baltimore, MD
[Friend of Erik Zimmerman & family]
Melissa , Bob, and Hannah (Hults)Mokros
Baltimore, MD - Monday, January 8, 2007 8:16 AM CST

JUST DROPPING IN TO SAY MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU.

HUGS, MARGE

MARGE <margaret-ellen@sympatico.ca>
ST. CATHARINES, ON, CANADA - Monday, January 8, 2007 8:08 AM CST

Lannette and Dakota,
Just dropping in to say hey and what a wonderful sight to see outside of Dakota's window. I know that the LORD is watching over you both. I miss seeing you guys and just want you to know that I love you both soooo much. Dakota is such an inspiration to us all! Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Hope you have a good day. Love, Christy from Peds Hem/Onc
Christy Byrum
Monroe, NC USA - Monday, January 8, 2007 7:32 AM CST

Dear Lanette
Dakota is such a beautiful boy. His picture projects love, kindness and from what was written you are his world as he is yours. I pray God gives you strength and courage to get thru this. I can't pretend to imagine the pain that you feel but have faith and you will be comforted thru our Lord Jesus Christ. He will ease the pain and give you comfort.
Carolann
Tampa, Florida
Carolann Pepe <cmpepe@burns-wilcox.com>
tAMPA, FL USA - Monday, January 8, 2007 7:30 AM CST

Hello,
Jus wanted to stop in and say I am praying for you and your family. You have a lot of people praying for you in this area.
Jennifer, Erik Zimmerman's sister <jjcase99@hotmail.com>
Lambertville, NJ - Monday, January 8, 2007 6:53 AM CST

With you in thoughts and prayers. God continue to be at your side Dakota, and family.
Mrs. Grana
- Monday, January 8, 2007 6:27 AM CST

Lanette and Dakota,
What a beautiful picture painted outside Dakotas window...
I bet he is seeing the same things as he sleeps and asked God to share with you : )

Wishing you peace and strength and sending love and prayers...
Laurie - Angel Wings
Belford, NJ USA - Monday, January 8, 2007 5:46 AM CST

Dear Dakota,
You are in our thoughts today. I hope you got the snowflakes.
www.caringbridge.org/visit/sandy
Renata
- Sunday, January 7, 2007 11:51 PM CST

My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Denise Stevens <mamaneecy2001@yahoo.com>
Kershaw, SC - Sunday, January 7, 2007 11:06 PM CST

Lanette, I am so sorry that Dakota is having to sleep so much to find pain relief. I am praying for him, and for your family too. I think that it is amazing that God sent that eagle for you to see, followed by the rain and a double rainbow. Perhaps He is letting you know that He is there, and that He is in control of the situation.
Hugs,
Ann Watts/Angel Wings <bubbasoldlady@cebridge.net>
Jacksonville, AR USA - Sunday, January 7, 2007 10:26 PM CST

This is the first half of Psalm 86. I know it's a bit long, but it's really special and I pray that it will give you comfort.
Ps 86:1-7: Bow down thine ear, O LORD, hear me: for I am poor and needy. Preserve my soul; for I am holy: O thou my God, save thy servant that trusteth in thee. Be merciful unto me, O Lord: for I cry unto thee daily. Rejoice the soul of thy servant: for unto thee, O Lord, do I lift up my soul. For thou, Lord, art good, and ready to forgive; and plenteous in mercy unto all them that call upon thee. Give ear, O LORD, unto my prayer; and attend to the voice of my supplications. In the day of my trouble I will call upon thee: for thou wilt answer me.
The Prayer Bears Website
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Sunday, January 7, 2007 8:54 PM CST

Dakota,
Your strength and courage through this ugly battle with cancer has been such an inspiration to me. Praying for your peace,

Kim Hart <khart1@comporium.net>
- Sunday, January 7, 2007 8:03 PM CST

You are in my prayers.....
Pat A_W www.caringbridge.org/visit/katehrischuk <denimlover@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, January 7, 2007 7:54 PM CST

hello, have you come across polymer snow? Its fake snow which really feels like snow (but is less cold unless you put it in the freezer)

I hope Dakota is able to enjoy his snowflakes at moments when he is awake

i'm thinking of you all,

Viks
www.postpals.co.uk
viks <viks@postpals.co.uk>
- Sunday, January 7, 2007 7:35 PM CST

Hello Lannette, I hope you are getting some rest. I think about you guys all the time. I hope Dakota is still resting comfortably. Give him a big hug and kiss for me. I'm hear if you need to vent.
Love,
Anita
anita elam <selam46@carolina.rr.com>
matthews, nc usa - Sunday, January 7, 2007 6:00 PM CST

Dear friends of Dakota, Lannette, and Ted, When I read Lannette's letter of Friday, January 5th., my heart was overflowed with tears and I am still very full. I read each letter today from all you precious people and I thank God that there are wonderful people as you all are who has held them up in prayer these past three years. I believe Lannette should be mother of the year after what she has endured with Mike (Dakota's dad) who she nursed as she has Dakota for 2 or 3 years before he died nine years ago at 31 with brain cancer. One time is very hard, the second time is even harder. It seems Dakota has been an inspiration to so many people. I know we have made contact with some and I shall always treasure their friendship. Lannette has such a beautiful outlook on so many things such as the bald eagle and the rainbow. Who else would have thought about snowflakes as most of you know I am a cancer survivor and at 79 my health has not been too good. I wish I lived closer so I could help Lannette in sitting with Dakota or even be there for her to lean on. Since my cancer I cannot ride very long at a time. Again, I want to thank everyone for their prayers I will never forget you folks. In Christian love, grandmother to Lannette. III John 1:4.
Homer & Vannetta Bullard <hgbullard@peoplepc.com>
Murray, KY - Sunday, January 7, 2007 5:57 PM CST

Thinking of you today & praying you get to see all the snowflakes.

Charlene & Becky/Ones Who Care Angel_ Wings & Dabbles & Doodles
Ont Canada
- Sunday, January 7, 2007 4:23 PM CST

Hi Dakota and Lannette! I am a friend of the Elams and a friend directed me to your website. I just wanted you to know you are in my thoughts and prayers. May you continue to feel the warmth and love of all of the lives you have touched and continue to touch! Lannette you are one amazing mom and Dakota is one terrific kid! God Bless You!
Rhonda <rkkirk@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC - Sunday, January 7, 2007 3:54 PM CST

Thinking of Dakota and your family and holding
each of you very close in our hearts and our
prayers.
Trish/Angel_Wings <Kngboyer@aol.com>
Kingston, TN USA - Sunday, January 7, 2007 1:41 PM CST

Dakota and Family,
I just want you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Ralph Shore <RDShore@NationalGypsum.com>
Charlotte, NC - Sunday, January 7, 2007 1:07 PM CST

I LOVE YOU GUYS!!!
Mr. Knight <knightt1990@netzero.com>
Clover, SC USA - Sunday, January 7, 2007 12:19 AM CST

Dearest Father,
Please hold Dakota in your peace and love. Bless his family. Give them the strength and faith they need during this time.
jeane moore <jeanehornemoore@yahoo.com>
gastonia, nc - Sunday, January 7, 2007 11:49 AM CST

thinking of you this morning, praying for strength and peace,

Kristin, Genna's mom <thecams@earthlink.net>
Warren, NJ USA - Sunday, January 7, 2007 10:29 AM CST

Dear Dakota, Lanette and Family,

My heart aches for all that you are going through. I know GOD is your strength and He will make straight your path. The ultimate reward is great!

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

{{{Angel Hugs}}}
Angel Sharon
ChemoAngels
Sharon <SShar16@aol.com>
Tampa, FL - Sunday, January 7, 2007 9:52 AM CST

Hey y'all. we are relatives of Genna and we just received an update on Dakota. We can't begin to imagine what things are like for you all, but your story(ies) have touched us to the core. All i can think is how great our heavenly Father must be, to be able to grant you peace through such a trying time. Our prayers are with you and while we feel helpless to do anything for you, i guess these are the times our faith must rest in the One who is our ever present help in time of need. Blessings on your family and may you never lack to sense the presence of our Lord with you now and always. Love, Bubba & Margie
Bubba and Margie Glover <flamingfire1@netzero.net>
Clover, SC USA - Sunday, January 7, 2007 9:23 AM CST

we love you..........
The Allens <keyssc@comporium.net>
Tega Cay, sc - Sunday, January 7, 2007 8:50 AM CST

I just wanted to take a minute today to thank you for sharing your family and all you're going through with everyone. I know that some have gone through added trials because of it (having to deal with spammers and those who feel the need to pick apart everything that the family is doing, etc). But being able to read the updates, to pray for your family, has given me an insight on life that I wouldn't have otherwise. It is through you and the others who continue to share that I have learned and am learning to the extent that anyone can who's not in your situation, to truly number my days. And what a blessing to be among those who are praying for you!
Ps 90:12 So teach us to number our days, that we may apply our hearts unto wisdom.
The Prayer Bears Website
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Sunday, January 7, 2007 1:35 AM CST

holding you in my heart today...
peace,
Kristin, Genna's mom <thecams@earthlink.net>
Warren, NJ USA - Saturday, January 6, 2007 9:49 PM CST

Lannette and Dakota, I just wanted you to know that I'm keeping you and your family and friends in my prayers. I've missed seeing you since I quit BILo but I think of you everyday when I see the stuffed animal that you(dakota) won me out of the claw/grab machine. I remember one time in Winn Dixie that you had to get a grocery cart because you had won so many toys while your mom was shopping. My heart is heavy to hear of all you've been through and continue to go through but it is jealous at the same time because I know what the bible tells us about heaven and how wonderful it will be with no pain, no crying, and no end of day; just wonderful beauty everywhere. I think that you picked out a great name for your kitten; I would have never thought of it, it is so original. The ring that you got your mom was beautiful. Dakota you have always been one of my favorite bible students and I feel privileged that God granted me the chance to get to know you (and your mom) and to continue to see you even when classes were over. You are a special young man and you make such an impact on everyone that you come into contact with.
Lannette/Ted---thank you for keeping us up-to-date..I know that you are both tired and trying to make the most of every moment so we appreciate that you take a spare moment to keep us in the know.
May God be your strength for every day.

Jenna Dye
Biblical Studies Teacher
Jenna Dye <jenna_dye2001@yahoo.com>
Clover, SC USA - Saturday, January 6, 2007 9:14 PM CST

Lannette, there are snowflakes on the way for Dakota and little something for you from Michigan. Our prayers are on the way too...rest for you and rest for Dakota....We think of you all the time and love you.
Ellen and Sammi Robertson PBT Yahoo and www.caringbridge.org/mi/sammijean <Scanmom@hotmail.com>
Wyandotte, MI - Saturday, January 6, 2007 9:04 PM CST

Dear Lannette,
I just wanted to let you know how much I care and that you are in my thoughts and prayers! May God keep you all wrapped snuggly in His arms!
Love and Blessings,
Jan (Chemo Angels)
Jan Wilder
Townsend, DE - Saturday, January 6, 2007 7:22 PM CST

Just stopping by to check on dakota. WE are sending lots of Prayers. I'll be sending out snowflakes on monday or tuesday.

Love and Prayers
Chris and Trista

Chris and Trista Long <Chris-Trista@att.net>
Fairmont, Wv 26554 - Saturday, January 6, 2007 6:12 PM CST

Hi Dakota,

I don't do much computering on the weekend for a couple of reasons. I do a lot during the week at work and I need a break from it. Plus, I have a dial-up connection at home and boy is it sssslllllllooooooowwwwwwwwwww!

I did need to do a little searching for something today and decided I would 'drop by' for a visit to you. Glad that I did because I always feel so much better after stopping by to see you.

I hope each day is one that brings you so much comfort and joy just knowing how much our heavenly father loves you! Keep the doorway to your heart open wide so He can fill you with his presence, mercy, grace, and bountiful love!!

I appreciate you more than these simple words might show it. And I love you too!

See you next time.

Love,
Mr. Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Saturday, January 6, 2007 4:43 PM CST

I haven't checked Dakota's page for quite a while, I am so heartbroken to be reading this.

Perhaps I'll make a snowflake.

KIDS CANCER CRUSADE
Jennifer <kidscancercrusade@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, January 6, 2007 4:31 PM CST

LIfting you in prayer to the Father Dakota. The rainbow is Gods promise to you.. May God bless you all.
love and prayers,
Jackie
Jackie <sami4jesus@bellsouth.net>
Murray, Ky USA - Saturday, January 6, 2007 3:51 PM CST

You know what...I saw that rainbow and thought about you. Isn't that amazing. The weather was crazy yesterday and it is so beautiful today. All of you are in my thoughts and prayers. I lost my friend Jenna Witherspoon last week to this horrible disease. I take comfort in knowing that she is an angel now and is not in any pain anymore. It must be soooo amazing where she is right now. I am always thinking of you and your family.

Diana Yaggie <Yaggie@fmtc.net>
Fort Mill, SC - Saturday, January 6, 2007 2:52 PM CST

Hi Lannette and Dakota,
I am sure the Eagle and the rainbows were both just beautiful and a sign from God that the Angels are watching over you all.I hope the snow flakes,the children from our church made arrived.The children were very happy to make them for Dakota.
keeping you in our prayers,
Lois Holley & Family (chemo-angels & prayer bears)
Lois Holley <LAHolley@tampabay.rr.com>
Winter Haven, Fl USA - Saturday, January 6, 2007 1:57 PM CST

We love you! Continuing to keep you in our thought and prayers..

Nicole and Kira.

Nicole and Kira Berkhout <ndberkhout@yahoo.com>
Davidson, NCn - Saturday, January 6, 2007 1:24 PM CST

Dakota, Continuing to pray for you. Keeping you close in prayer and praying for your miracle.
Chrissy/Angel_Wings <cvanberkum@yahoo.com>
Vermillion, SD - Saturday, January 6, 2007 1:08 PM CST

God presence continues to be with you and your family. He is so good. I recieved info on you through the Hawkins family in FL as Nikki is fighting this same battle. I am ever grateful that your family is part of God's and will pray for continued comfort for Dakota and you during this difficult time. God Bless.
Julie Rentz <jrentz@tampabay.rr.com>
Tampa, FL USA - Saturday, January 6, 2007 11:56 AM CST

ISN'T TOTALY AMAZING HOW GOD CAN SEND US MESSAGES OR SEND HIS NGLES FOR COMFORT.. THE EAGLE AND THE RAINBOWS.. MAY GOD KEEP YOU ALL CLOSE AND MAY HE ALSO HELP WITH THE PAIN AND DAKTA REMINDS IN NO PAIN AND HE CAN HEAL THE PAIN IN YOUR HEART.. I SEND YOU ALL THE HUGS AND PRAYERS THAT YOU NEED TO SEE YOU THRU.. THE BAUMLER'S
www.caringbridge.org/ia/terrell

KEN,JAN,TERRELL AND EMANUEL (IA/TERRELL) <j_baumler@yahoo.com>
WAUKON, IOWA - Saturday, January 6, 2007 9:50 AM CST

I will never be able to explain how Dakota has affected Morgan's life. He hs been a inspiration to our family. We are praying everyday and trying to understand what we can. We love each of you. Kay and Morgan
Kay Stewart <stewartk@winthrop.edu>
Clover, SC USA - Saturday, January 6, 2007 8:00 AM CST

Oh what beautiful things to witness! My two favorite things, bald eagles and rainbows! No words to express what's in my heart about the rest of the update. My heart just aches so for your family.
Crying to the Lord on your behalf!
Ps.5:1-3: Give ear to my words, O LORD, consider my meditation. Hearken unto the voice of my cry, my King, and my God: for unto thee will I pray. My voice shalt thou hear in the morning, O LORD; in the morning will I direct my prayer unto thee, and will look up.
The Prayer Bears Website
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Saturday, January 6, 2007 1:09 AM CST

Just praying that God brings you strength and peace as you deal with this difficult time.
Paula Hamman <phamman27@hotmail.com>
Gastonia, NC - Saturday, January 6, 2007 0:22 AM CST

Lanette, There are no words. You are one amazing lady. I am so glad the angels are there keeping you and Dakota company. When Katie was at her worst, she saw and felt them and I know they gave her the strength to stay with me. I believe - in love, faith, courage and angels. My love and prayers are with you today and always.
Brigette Deville
Brigette Deville <brigedev@yahoo.com>
- Friday, January 5, 2007 11:36 PM CST

Dear Lannette,

Thinking of you so much. Praying for no pain for Dakota and many more signs from the Angels.

Love, Susan

Susan Pauxtis (Angel Timmy's Mom) <SusanPaux@yahoo.com>
Middletown, NJ USA - Friday, January 5, 2007 10:44 PM CST

Praying for you and your sweet Dakota!
Lis Geoghegan <liveisnpirit@aol.com>
Cabot, AR - Friday, January 5, 2007 7:41 PM CST

Our thoughts are with you at this time.
From another caringbridge family,

www.caringbridge.org/visit/sandy
Renata
- Friday, January 5, 2007 7:27 PM CST

Praying for you Dakota.
Jennifer Iljazi Angel_Wings <jzee1664@optonline.net>
- Friday, January 5, 2007 5:17 PM CST

Dak and Lannette- A very kind and man by the name of Grant Cleveland from a company called DuneCraft has a suprise for you in the mail. Thay sell really cool replica "snow". It feels really neat and should be fun for you. He said he will send you 5 pounds, enough to make 55 gallons of the white stuff for you to play with....He wanted me to let you know they extend their best to you, and they hope you enjoy it.

You are very special, wonderful people and you have really shown all of us what the spirit of life and love is all about!
Colleen Castro <colleen.castro@yahoo.com>
Santa Clara, CA - Friday, January 5, 2007 2:33 PM CST

Hi, guys!!
Hope you got some "snow", and that each day brings a special peace for all of you.
You are much in my heart,
peace,
Kristin, Genna's mom <thecams@earthlink.net>
Warren, NJ USA - Friday, January 5, 2007 1:47 PM CST

You are all so very brave! Dakota sounds like such a wonderful boy, how sweet of him to be so excited about his present for you. You all will be in my prayers, God bless you and help you through this.
Jennifer
Guatemala, Guatemala Guatemala - Friday, January 5, 2007 11:37 AM CST

Love the Christmas pics of all of you guys that were just posted. It looks like you had a lot of good stuff at Chrismas and moms necklace was just beautiful. Good choice Dak.
with prayers, love and hugs
denise m/o randy

Denise <ddpayne01@msn.com>
Miamisburg, OH USA - Friday, January 5, 2007 7:17 AM CST

Thinking of you Dak and your sweet Mom. I only wish I could jump on a plane and bring my son Erik to meet you. He is 15 as well and has a lot of the same interests.
With Love
The Zimmerman family
www.caringbridge.org/nj/erikz
Norma Zimmerman <enzimmerman@comcast.net>
Lambertville, Nj usa - Friday, January 5, 2007 6:19 AM CST

Know that I'm still here praying for your family!!!!!!
Ps.3:4-5: I cried unto the LORD with my voice, and he heard me out of his holy hill. Selah. I laid me down and slept; I awaked; for the LORD sustained me.
The Prayer Bears Website
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Friday, January 5, 2007 1:50 AM CST

Dakota,

You don't know me, but I read about you on Brandon Elam's website. I just wanted you and your family to know that you have one more person praying for you. I hope you get lots of snowflakes!
Leslie Southerland <leslie.southerland@cms.k12.nc.us>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, January 4, 2007 9:01 PM CST

This weather really sucks doesn't it? Here it is January and the weather is up in the 60s! No snow, no rain, just like spring. Here in Ohio that is odd! I had to let you know though that your in my heart and I alwys pray for you. And Dakota, I hope you don't mind but I even sent a snail mail to Ted. I know he is not your bio father, but in your hearts he is your dad!!
Joe Wright <iceteaman44514@yahoo.com>
Heaven, earth America - Thursday, January 4, 2007 8:46 PM CST

Dear Dakota:
We live in Northwestern Minnesota where we should have many feet of snow this time of the year, however, we have had more rain the snow this winter and even today it was 40 degrees outside which is alot warmer then it should be. What little snow we have is melting away. We would just love to send you a big truck load of the white stuff to play in for awhile. Maybe someone close to you has a snowcone machine which could make some snow for you. Mom and Dad, continue to be strong, I am a 9 year cancer surviver, so the beast does not win every battle.
Hugs, thoughts & prayers:
Paul
Paul Wold <pcwold@wiktel.com>
VIKING, Mn USA - Thursday, January 4, 2007 8:40 PM CST

Sending lots of love..xoxoxoxoxo
kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@adelphia.net>
Boynton Beach, fl usa - Thursday, January 4, 2007 7:07 PM CST

Sending snow from AZ soon. We made some with lots of love and prayers for you.

http://www.asherbenjamin.net
Steph & Asher
Phoenix, AZ - Thursday, January 4, 2007 6:43 PM CST

Praying for you!
Lis Geoghegan <liveinspirit@aol.com>
Cabot, AR - Thursday, January 4, 2007 5:54 PM CST

Dear Dakota,
I know u are going through a hard time right now, but I wanted to let u know that u are in my thoughts and prayers.

I'll be back real soon.
((((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))))))))
LoveEileen OnesWhoCare, Angel_Wings
Eileen
USA - Thursday, January 4, 2007 5:19 PM CST

Hey Dakota!!
I haven't seen you since Halloween so I'm just saying hey!! Hope you had a great Christmas!! You're in my prayers constantly!! See ya later!
Emily Mills <emilymills@comporium.net>
- Thursday, January 4, 2007 5:19 PM CST

Hey Dakota,
We miss you...alot..
and the snow flakes..the middle school is making some to be sent out to you. I'm going to try to get the highschool to make some of them for you too!
I miss you a great deal sweetheart..i'm praying for you everynight.
I LOVE YOU DAKOTA
Heather
Heather Coulter <chickenimgunnaeatyou69@yahoo.com>
York, SC US - Thursday, January 4, 2007 4:57 PM CST

Hey Dakota & Lanette,
Just to let you know some "snow" is on it's way to you.
This time a group of folks decorated the snowflakes, all of whom have advanced Alzhiemers.
Hope it doesn't 'melt' before it gets to you .......
Love & Prayers always,
Cherie Bacha & The "Loving Hearts" unit

Cherie Bacha <Cherie712@comcast.net>
McKeesport, Pa. U.S.A. - Thursday, January 4, 2007 4:32 PM CST

I found out about Dakota through a friend who is related to Ted, his stepfather I believe. I wanted to let you know I am praying for your family. I know this is a long painful journey. I just lost my brother to a drunk driver & I really don't know which is harder. I pray that they will find a cure & he will have a 100% recovery. You are in my thoughts & prayers. My mom sent a box of snowflakes for Dakota. You should have received them now. I hope all the snowflaked bring a smile to his face. God bless.
Ronda Geatches Floyd
charlotte, nc 28273 - Thursday, January 4, 2007 3:38 PM CST

Hello Dakota & Family,
I got your address off Brandon's e-mail and just wanted to say hello. I am Brandon's bus driver's girlfriend and think there is no one like Brandon. If it would be O.K. I would like to communicate with you and your family. I presently communicate with Brandon, Katie, Katelyn, and Sam of all whom have cancer. I am a survivor myself of 9 years but I have another growth right now they think is beign. I live in Kershaw South Carolina which is about one from you. You live in a pretty area. I hope that you continue to do well and know that you are included in our prayers as well. God bless you and your family!!!!!!
Carol Faulkenberry & John Paul Hinson <CRFaulkenberry@savasc.com>
Monroe, NC - Thursday, January 4, 2007 10:04 AM CST

I learned of your website from Brandon's and wanted to stop by and offer my prayers. Please know that you and your family are in my prayers. I pray that God gives you the strength you need to cope during this time. God Bless
Paula Hamman <phamman27@hotmail.com>
Gastonia, NC - Thursday, January 4, 2007 8:00 AM CST

Lanette...thinking of you my friend. Just wanted you to know that I was as always today. Love, Aimee
Aimee Disney <Briannaashleysmom@yahoo.com>
Aldan, PA USA - Thursday, January 4, 2007 7:11 AM CST

These words always amaze me, knowing how actively the Lord works in our lives!
And yes, I'm still here praying for you!!!!!!!!
Isa 65:24 And it shall come to pass, that before they call, I will answer; and while they are yet speaking, I will hear.
The Prayer Bears Website
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Thursday, January 4, 2007 0:50 AM CST

Lannette,
You are in my prayers.
Love,
Anita
anita elam <selam46@carolina.rr.com>
matthews, nc usa - Wednesday, January 3, 2007 11:13 PM CST

Happy New Years to you both...
I hope you had a wonderful holiday!!
I'd love to stop down and visit when you guys have time...
God Bless
BJ BAcha <supervintage1980@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, nc - Wednesday, January 3, 2007 10:37 PM CST

Lifting you and your friend in prayers tonite
Cheryl/Angel_Wings
MD - Wednesday, January 3, 2007 10:25 PM CST

Hi Dakota!
My name is Jan and I used to be your month end monitor for Chemo Angels. I check on you all the time even though I don't usually sign your guestbook. I saw this graphic and thought you might enjoy it. Give your Mom hugs from me and she can give you one from me too.

Love and Prayers,
Jan

Jan Wilder <kasenme@yahoo.com>
Townsend, DE - Wednesday, January 3, 2007 5:49 PM CST

Dakota: popping by to say Hello & let you know you are in our thoughts & prayers.

Charlene & Becky/Ones Who Care & Angel_Wings.
......... <gcbbunny@sympatico.ca>
- Wednesday, January 3, 2007 4:47 PM CST

Hello Dakota, Lynette, & Uncle Ted. wishing you guys lots of love, prayers and a happy new year! Snowflakes are on the way!! I have a lot of people sending them so hopefully your house will be flooded with lots of snow!! Talk to you guys soon. Love to you all!! Nicole & Ted Yandle
Nicole <colebean29@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, January 3, 2007 3:38 PM CST

Dakota, Wishing you a Happy New Year! Praying for you always. Love, Marci The Prayer Bears
http://www.freewebs.com/prayerbears

Marci Connell <mac093@bellsouth.net>
Valdosta, GA USA - Wednesday, January 3, 2007 11:53 AM CST

Hello and again Happy New Year! Just wanted to let you know Lindsay is making Dakota some snowflakes, will get to you as soon as I can clean up the mess! Take care and I am thinking and praying for you all.

Jane E. Medler <medlerj@bellsouth.net>
Lake Wylie, SC - Wednesday, January 3, 2007 10:14 AM CST

Hi family,I just wanted to let you know I have had you on our prayer list at our church for some time now and every sunday and wednesday people ask about you all.I pray God looks after you and comforts you.We don't have any snow here in Florida and I am not much on cutting out snow flakes but you can bet if I can find anything that would half way look like snow I will be sending it to you!!!Right now it is about 80 degrees out side!
keeping you in our prayers,
The Holley family
Lois Holley <laholley@tampabay.rr.com>
Winter Haven, Fl USA - Wednesday, January 3, 2007 9:25 AM CST

Hi Dakota!

Nice pictures! Is that your friend Jake wearing the Panthers shirt? You were brave letting him drive the wheelchair!! He didn't try to send you screaming down one of the long ramps did he?? Nah, I know he didn't. From what I've heard, this guy is one of your best friends and even if you support different teams, I know that doesn't come between your friendship.

I hope you had an awesome Christmas. Santa was good to you-yes? When I sat in his lap to tell him what I wanted, I put a bug in his ear and told him he better be really nice to you. He hollered and screamed and begged me to get that bug out of his ear. (It was a Tennessee tick!) You should have seen the reindeer rolling on the floor!!!!! At least they thought it was funny.

Dakota, thank you once again for being an incredible awesome young man! I know it sounds like a broken record but it's one I'm going to play again and again. You ARE that young man and you deserve a lot of credit for being who you are! Your parents and sister are so fortunate to have such a great guy living under the same roof. Keep on keeping on.

Don't forget to look up and praise the God who loves you very much! He's crazy about you. The bible says that God knows the very number of hairs on our head. If he is concerned about the number of hairs on your head, then I suspect he is concerned about other things too. Trust God to be there for you all the time. He's only a prayer away.

I appreciate you. I love you.

Mr. Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Wednesday, January 3, 2007 6:52 AM CST

Know that I'm here praying for you right now.
Am sharing a verse today in honor of a special young man who went into the arms of Jesus this morning.
Rv 21:4 And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away.
The Prayer Bears Website
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Tuesday, January 2, 2007 11:19 PM CST

Ted, Lanette and Dakota - I just wanted to say Happy New Year and I'm so happy you had a special CHRISTmas. Ted and Dakota - great job on the XXXX special present for Lanette. You are in my thoughts and prayers and I'm sending all the strength the Lord will allow to the three of you and your family! God Bless! Lisa & Sean (Cheryl's sister)
Lisa Borgsteede <borgsteede63@hotmail.com>
Sumter, sc usa - Tuesday, January 2, 2007 10:18 AM CST

The first day of a new year. Only the Lord knows what it will bring but what comfort to know that we're under the "shadow of the Almighty."
Ps.91:1-2: He that dwelleth in the secret place of the most High shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty. I will say of the LORD, He is my refuge and my fortress: my God; in him will I trust.
The Prayer Bears Website
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Monday, January 1, 2007 11:36 PM CST

Happy New Year!
Just wanted to let you know that Dave & I are thinking about you .
I will send you some snow this week!
xxxooo
Vicky
Vicky May <vmay10@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Monday, January 1, 2007 5:35 PM CST

Hi Dakota, It's gonna snow soon in your mail....courtesy of Me and my cousins! I'm still praying for you everday and Happy New Year!

Love, Sammi Jean www.caringbridge.org/mi/sammijean
Sammi Jean Robertson <NeuroGirl716@hotmail.com>
Wyandotte, MI United States - Monday, January 1, 2007 5:03 PM CST

HAPPY NEW YEAR FRIENDS!!! Sending out some love and letting you know you're being thought of. xxxxoooo
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@adelphia.net>
Boynton Beach, fl usa - Monday, January 1, 2007 3:57 PM CST

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!! May you have a year filled with LOVE, LOVE, LOVE!!! May you also have lots of GOOD HEALTH and WELL-BEING this year!!! You are a BLESSING to SOOOOOOOOOO many people! With LOTS OF LOVE!!!

Mr. Knight <knightt1990@netzero.com>
Clover , SC USA - Monday, January 1, 2007 11:44 AM CST

A wonderful first day of the new year to you guys!!!!! I had to write this morning! Me, Don and Tyler stayed home last night and hung out enjoying the peace and quiet--the girls both babysat. So as the new year rang in, I thought about you guys as this incredible light show began over the treetops across the lake! I knew that you, Dakota Gay, HAD to have your hands in that one! If so, it was a tremendous show and we appreciated it and thought of you at every burst! I thank God for the love you all have in your hearts and know that love will get you through each day; precious as they are!
Dina <lakeboozer@bellsouth.net>
- Monday, January 1, 2007 10:09 AM CST

May the Lord be with you and your family this brand new year of 2007!
The Lord hears all proper prayers! Praying so on your behalf right now!
Ps 18:6: In my distress I called upon the LORD, and cried unto my God: he heard my voice out of his temple, and my cry came before him, even into his ears.
The Prayer Bears Website
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Monday, January 1, 2007 2:57 AM CST

Praying for you Dakota. Happy New Year.
Jennifer Iljazi Angel_Wings <jzee1664@optonline.net>
- Sunday, December 31, 2006 11:39 PM CST

Dear Lannette, Ted, Dakota and Samantha,
Wishing each of you peace in your heart and soul this new year. Lots of love and beautiful memories from all the years before. You are all in my prayers and thoughts.
Ted it was real nice talking with you today. Lannette I will catch up with you soon sweetie. Love and hugs to you all. Give that baby boy some kisses and hugs from his Florida fan. xxxooo Always here for you.
Kathy
caringbridge.org/fl/david
kathy <joy2jak@adelphia.net>
Boynton Beach, fl usa - Sunday, December 31, 2006 7:16 PM CST

Dear Lannette,
Prayers for a new year full of peace and joy...
you are always in my heart.
peace,

Kristin, Genna's mom <thecams@earthlink.net>
Warren, NJ USA - Sunday, December 31, 2006 6:52 PM CST

THIS
is the graphic meant to leave!! Sorry last one so big

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- Sunday, December 31, 2006 4:11 PM CST

Dakota: Thought we'd slide in to say This is the only snow we can help you with. We just returned from a town in mid Ont & even they had not a flake to be had!!

Charlene & BECKY/Ones Who Care & Angel_Wings
from Ont. Canada - cb_withowcandaw@yahoo.ca
.
- Sunday, December 31, 2006 4:06 PM CST

Hey Dakota & Lanette~
Just wishing you a very, very Blessed & Peaceful
New Year.
Hugs to you both,
Cherie Bacha
Cherie Bacha <Cherie712@comcast.net>
Mckeesport, Pa. U.S.A. - Sunday, December 31, 2006 3:23 PM CST

Just wanted to stop by and tell you Happy New Year! I am thinking of you all. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Jane Medler <medlerj@bellsouth.net>
Lake Wylie, SC - Sunday, December 31, 2006 12:50 AM CST

God bless you Dakota & Family!!!
Laurie - Angel Wings
Belford, NJ USA - Sunday, December 31, 2006 7:15 AM CST

These words have always given me such great comfort. We have eyewitness accounts of Jesus' life and all that He did! This same Jesus who is with us even now, giving us strength and faith to get through whatever happens in our life!
I Jn.1:1-3: That which was from the beginning, which we have heard, which we have seen with our eyes, which we have looked upon, and our hands have handled, of the Word of life; (For the life was manifested, and we have seen it, and bear witness, and shew unto you that eternal life, which was with the Father, and was manifested unto us;) That which we have seen and heard declare we unto you, that ye also may have fellowship with us: and truly our fellowship is with the Father, and with his Son Jesus Christ.
The Prayer Bears Website
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Sunday, December 31, 2006 2:08 AM CST

Hey Dakota, it sounds like you made everyone very happy with your special gifts. You are such an awesome kid!! I've been searching the internet for info about snow machines and I've even sent out a few emails so tell your mom that I'll let her know if/when I hear back from anyone. I'm glad you guys had such a wonderful time celebrating with your special friends.

In the meantime, I'm going to follow Ms Julie and Blake's lead and send some "special snow" your way. Look for it to arrive in the mail this week. And the best part...it'll never melt! :o) Take care and God bless you, buddy. I'm sending big hugs and many prayers your way like always:)
Hugs & love from Candy Belanger <zacheric02@msn.com (Audrey's Umbrella)>
Livonia, MI www.braintrust.org/audrey - Saturday, December 30, 2006 10:33 PM CST

Our prayers continue for Dakota and your family.
Stephanie and RachelJoy <mom2rj@comcast.net>
- Saturday, December 30, 2006 10:33 PM CST

Hey Dakota!!

We stopped by to let ya know that you have been our thoughts & prayers a good bit lately!!
We saw where you want snow??!! Well Blake & I have taken up on mom's suggestion....look for a letter to arrive soon from Blake. He actually sat sown & we made some "snow flakes" for ya!!! Hope you & mom have putting them up.
South Carolina is not known for snow, but you & Blake are teh dreamers. Keep the dream going & I bet, just maybe, there will be snow for both of you boys to see very soon!!!

Lannette....You are wonderful. Your wanting to have eveeey picture of all you do & all tath involves Dakota is wonderful. I wish I lived closer to ya, I would LOVE to help Dakota's memory live on. He is a very sweet & Thoughtful boy & both of you have touched our lives here in Greenwood. Please know taht as I lay at night I pray for you & pray that ALL of your days are the sweetest by far!!! Thank you for the encouragement you have shown. If any mom shoudl get a medal for Bravery & perserverence, it would be you HANDS Down!!! Thank You for sharing Dakota with us!!!
Lots of Love, hugs, prayers, smiles & support form Greenwood South Carolina!!
The Stephens Clan:
John, Julie & Blakester

Ones Who Care
The PrayerBears
Julie & Blake <momtoboywholoveshisgoats@yahoo.com>
Greenwood,, South Carolina USA.............................IN GOD WE TRUST!!!!! - Saturday, December 30, 2006 9:47 PM CST

I am praying for your friend Dave and his family.
So glad that your CHRISTmas was so wonderful! I'll get a snowflake in the mail this week!
Hugs,
Lis Geoghegan <liveinspirit@aol.com>
Cabot, AR - Saturday, December 30, 2006 9:06 PM CST

Hey I just wanted to let you know that we are praying for you and hope everything is going to be ok.
Cissanie Connors 14 and Samara Ugalde 13 <greeneyedcis@yahoo.com(Cissanie) and nanita_chica93@yahoo.com(Samara)>
Seymour and Bluffton, SC and IN United States - Saturday, December 30, 2006 5:47 PM CST

Dakota and Family. Just wanted you to know that I am praying for you and your fsmily.
Sheryl Benton <SHERYL77B@HOTMAIL.COM>
York, SC York - Saturday, December 30, 2006 10:32 AM CST

Stopping by to let you know that I'm still here and still praying!
Adding a prayer for Dave and his family right now!
Ps:16:7-8: I will bless the LORD, who hath given me counsel: my reins also instruct me in the night seasons. I have set the LORD always before me: because he is at my right hand, I shall not be moved.
The Prayer Bears Website
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Saturday, December 30, 2006 2:10 AM CST

dear dakota~
i love you more than the moon and the stars and back a zillion times!!! thank you SOOOO very much for such a wonderful CHRISTmas gift and a beautiful week spent with you. you make my heart smile over and over!!!!! your the best son a mom could ever ask for~~~thank you again Lord for this precious baby you gave to me to care for :)
dakota i pray that we are able to share much more joy in the New Year to come.
with All my heart, ALL my joy, and ALL my soul~~I LOVE YOU!
love mommy XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOX!!!!!!!!
mommy <nutchale@aol.com>
home, - Saturday, December 30, 2006 0:29 AM CST

This passage is a bit longer but I really wanted to get that last phrase in there. What an amazing word picture. Know that you're engraved on the palms of the Savior's Hands, too!
Isaiah 49:13-16a: �Sing, O heavens; and be joyful, O earth; and break forth into singing, O mountains: for the LORD hath comforted his people, and will have mercy upon his afflicted. But Zion said, The LORD hath forsaken me, and my Lord hath forgotten me. Can a woman forget her sucking child, that she should not have compassion on the son of her womb? yea, they may forget, yet will I not forget thee. Behold I have graven thee upon the palms of my hands.�
The Prayer Bears Website
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Friday, December 29, 2006 0:08 AM CST

Lannette,
You guys are in my heart. It sounds like you are making the last bit very special. You are such a great mom. We all need to learn from you. We love you guys. Give Dakota a big hug and kiss from me.
Love,
Anita

Anita ELam <selam46@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Thursday, December 28, 2006 10:30 PM CST

just thinking about you all,
much much love
Lizzie, 14, germinoma bt
mary alice dorschel <jay.dorschel@verizon.net>
suffolk, VA - Thursday, December 28, 2006 9:49 PM CST

Lannette,
Since my snowflake skills are not what they should be and it would probably snow in SC before I could get one done, I will send some other types of "flakes", hope you can use them.
Love and Peace,
Amy
Amy Borg <MotherBorg@msn.com>
Valparaiso, IN USA - Thursday, December 28, 2006 8:19 PM CST

Oh Lanette & Dakota........
I am soooooooooooo happy you had a good mom/son date.
I am off 'till next Tuesday but will get the Glamour
Gals and others to get busy making "SNOW" when I go back.
Let it Snow, Let it Snow, Let it snow!!!!
Hugs & Blessings`
Cherie Bacha
Cherie Bacha <Cherie712@comcast.net>
McKeesport, Pa. U.S.A. - Thursday, December 28, 2006 5:57 PM CST

Dakota, If I could pack up all the snow in my yard, I would gladly ship it straight to you to play in and make a snowman! (Granted, Vermont experienced its first "green" christmas in the 39 years I have lived here, so we only have a couple days worth!) but it's yours if you want it! :)
Please enjoy all your dates with Mom and Dad. I love my 'dates' with my kids too. We are praying for you in Vermont and hope you receive your earthly healing!
Vicki/Angel Wings
mom to Morgan, 13, high risk pre b cell ALL leukemia
Vicki Corson and Family www.caringbridge.org/visit/morganelizabeth
Northfield, vt - Thursday, December 28, 2006 3:01 PM CST

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